Keys to Successful Homework Management - Presented by Andrew Foreman Janet Lee Angie Morgan

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Keys to Successful
Homework Management
       Presented by
      Andrew Foreman
         Janet Lee
       Angie Morgan
Do homework assignments really help
        my child learn?

 Review and practice what has been learned

 Get ready for the next day’s lesson

 Learn to use resources, such as libraries, reference
 materials, and encyclopedias

 Explore subjects more fully than time permits in the
 classroom
John Rosemond’s “Seven Hidden
      Values of Homework.”
Responsibility- “The ability to assume ‘ownership’ of that which rightly
belongs to you.”
Autonomy- “To be self-governing, to stand on your own two feet.”
Perseverance – “The Little Engine that Could”
Time Management – “The ability to organize time in an effective,
productive manner, to complete tasks on schedule without compromising quality.”
Initiative- “To be self-motivated and assertive, to be decisive in defining and
pursuing personal goals.”
Self-Reliance – “To have trust and self-confidence in your abilities.”
Resourcefulness – “The capacity to find, invent, or adapt creative
means of solving problems.”
Marzano’s High Yield Strategies

  Robert Marzano, author of Classroom
 Instruction That Works, Research based
 Strategies for Increasing Student Achievement,
 agrees that parent involvement should be kept
 to a minimum.
When is my child supposed to do
        his/her homework?

Know Your Child

          Does your child work best right after school?
          Does your child work best after having a break?
          Does your child work best first thing in the morning?

Whatever you find to be the most productive time
should remain constant.
How involved should I be with my
           child’s homework?
According to John Rosemond in Ending the Homework Hassle, there are
two kinds of parents:
                       Which one are you?
                The Over-Involved      The Consulting
                     Parent                Parent

                     Hovers               Available

                    Assumes         Assigns Responsibility
                  Responsibility
                                         Encourages
                  Encourages           Independence
                  Dependence
                                       Sends Positive
                 Sends Negative          Message
                   Messages
Teachers prefer the consulting type of
parents.

 Consulting parents produce more
independent children.
How does an over-involved parent
         impact a child?
 Many studies show somewhat negative effects when
parents are asked to help students with homework
(Balli, 1998; Balli, Demo, & Wedman, 1998; Balli,
Wedman, & Demo, 1997; Perkins & Milgram 1996)
 Children don’t feel the issue of homework is his/her
problem
 Parents are compensating not correcting the problem
 Children are not being held accountable.
John Rosemond’s
ABC’s of Effective Homework
A – All By Myself
Choose a personal and private place for your child to
study as in a room or study instead of a family place
like the kitchen table.
    This makes the child feel like it is his homework and will lessen a
     parent’s urge to hover.

Create a homework survival kit
    Include all the necessities for completing homework like sharpened
    pencils, paper, ruler, dictionary, thesaurus, markers, colored pencils,
    crayons, a calendar, and math flashcards. Make all the materials
    available so the child does not constantly need to keep run to an
    adult.
Nightly Homework Checklist

                 Monday    Tuesday   Wednesday   Thursday   Friday
Unpack
Backpack

Put notes in
box

Put graded
papers in box

Check timeline
for completion
of homework
Complete
Homework

Put homework
in folder for
the next day
Put backpack
by the door
B – Back Off
Stay out of the child’s way unless you are asked.

Avoid asking these questions:
             “Do you have any homework?”
             “Do you need help with your homework?”

Let the child come to you for help. This will teach
initiative.

Rosemond says, “Remember the value of things learned
‘the hard way.’”
    Make your child come to you for help, don’t run to the rescue at the
    slightest sound of frustration. “Perseverance.”
There are two reasons why a child would need help:
        1. The child is truly stuck and needs help.

        2. The homework is finished and the child would like for you to check
           the homework.

At this time parental involvement should still be restricted to:

        “clarifying or reinterpreting directions;
        demonstrating or giving an example of a particular procedure;
        reviewing or checking work for accuracy, clarity, and adequacy.”

**Please note, most teachers would prefer you spot check an assignment for
   accuracy not grade the entire assignment.
C – Call it Quits at a Reasonable
                   Hour
  Set an upper time limit
      For instance, the child is to have all homework done by 7:00 when it is
      family time from 7:00-8:00. The child must make sure all homework is
      done by this time. This will teach your child time management.

   Do not allow the child to push beyond the time limit. The
child may receive a low grade because work was
incomplete, but sometimes we learn the hard way.

  It may get worse before it gets better, but hang in there.
Implement the ABC’s of effective homework.

Wait it out several weeks. (Three to four weeks.)
   *It will probably get worse before it gets better.

   *The child will be thinking, “Are they really going to follow
   through?,” and, “They won’t let me get a bad grade.”

Set the upper limit and stick with it.
   *The child will decide whether he will sink or swim.

   *Most children decide to swim☺
According to Rosemond, if your child does not chose to
swim . . . It is time to “take the bull by the horns and
manage the child toward making the correct decision.” It
is time to motivate!!

Parents and the teacher must agree on a means to
monitor school performance. Both parties must agree
and follow the plan.

But remember, the child must still be made accountable
for the current problem.
       “In other words, the child – and only the child – must shoulder both the
emotional and practical consequences of the problem. In specific terms, if the
child fails to do his homework, no one should get upset but the child, and no one
should be inconvenienced but the child.”
How can I help my child with his/her
           homework?
 The age of your child will determine the amount
 of help to be given.
 *But remember, what you do in the beginning will set the precedent
  for what happens later. It is always harder to back off the amount
  of help.

 The first of the ABC’s should apply for all
 children regardless of the age.

 The second and third approach should change
 depending on the age.
For younger children (K-1), parents may want to take an
inventory with their child of the homework that must be
completed. Then a time limit can be established from the
amount of work to be completed.

The parent should set a consistent starting and ending
time.

Younger children may need gentle reminders about
getting started on homework.

Once the child is working in the designated area, parents
might check in briefly to see how things are going.
However, the deadline should still be enforced.
For Grades 2-4, parents should follow the ABC’s.

    A – All by Myself
    B - Back Off
    C - Call it Quits at a Reasonable Hour
What is a reasonable amount of time
           for homework?
Each night and week will bring a variety of homework
so the time spent may vary.

The corporation has set the guidelines of 10 minutes
per grade level.
    First grade – 10 minutes
    Second grade – 20 minutes
    Third grade – 30 minutes
    Fourth grade – 40 minutes

Remember to set an upper time limit and to stick to it.
What happens if my child
        comes home and says
      he/she has no homework?
There should still be the designated homework
time. Keeping the scheduled time will make
homework consistent for the child. It won’t be a
battle but an expectation.

If there truly is no homework to be completed
your child should:
   Read
   Practice Math Facts
   Practice Spelling Words
   Write in a Journal
We appreciate your
dedication and willingness
   to make your child a
 successful, independent
         learner.
“It may sound strange to say,
but if you want to help your child
 develop a successful attitude
 toward the challenges of life,
    you must not be afraid to
          frustrate him.”

          John Rosemond
Rosemond, John. Ending the Homework Hassle:
 Understanding, Preventing, and Solving School
 Performance Problems, A Universal Press
 Syndicate Company, Kansas City, MO, 1990.
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