In our story A new chapter - Bury St. Edmunds Guildhall

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In our story A new chapter - Bury St. Edmunds Guildhall
The Guildhall was perfect for a socially distanced wedding

                                       A new chapter
                                         in our story
                             For Carolyn (nee Kirkpatrick) and Phillip Heslop, 2020 will
                            be a year to remember for something happier than a pandemic
                              – they tied the knot at The Guildhall in Bury St Edmunds
                                              Words: Carolyn Heslop u photos: Ellie Gillard Photography

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In our story A new chapter - Bury St. Edmunds Guildhall
SUFFOLK WEDDING

                       The wedding bubble captured in the perfect photo setting in the sensory garden

                      I
                             knew as soon as we stepped             would mean for their business,         for us, whatever the season.
                             into The Guildhall it was              so we were up in the air on pretty     We asked when the soonest
                             where we should have our               much every aspect of planning,         date was that we could say
                             wedding. High ceilings,                from catering to decorations.          “I do”, having already given
                       rustic wooden floorboards, a                    Then, other things began to         notice (something Phillip
                       balcony entwined with ivy and                impact our wedding plans. Phillip      thought I was mad for doing
                       a stage to stand on as we said               runs a cinema, which had to be         so early, but ultimately paid
                       our vows (the amateur dramatist              closed, then put into hibernation      dividends). December 12
                       in me was delighted). It had                 until March 2021, meaning              was free, and I will admit
                       everything we needed.                        finances got a little tricky. His      that imagining 12.12.20
                          Phillip and I originally planned          mum isn’t well, then my mum            monogrammed onto anything
                       a 2021 wedding, choosing July for            got sick too. To top it off, I had     that would stand still in my life
                       the warm weather. We sent out                                                       helped with our decision.
                       save the dates, inviting around 58             “We plan to come back                   It is no mean feat to plan a
                       guests across both our family and             to The Guildhall in 2021              wedding for any number of
                       friendship groups. However, as                 for a party to celebrate             guests. Don’t be fooled by those
                       things with Covid-19 progressed,                  our wedding and                   that tell you it’s easier with a
                       it became harder to plan and                  Phillip’s 40th birthday”              smaller guest list, because if
                       arrange suppliers. No one could                                                     you’re anything like me, you’ll
                       be sure what the restrictions                sold my house in February, but         just give yourself more work by
                                                                    the buyer pulled out in August,        crafting personalised items for
                                                                    so our move to Bury St Edmunds         everyone. Our theme was ‘stories’
                                                                    had to be put on hold. It all felt a   because I am obsessed with
                                                                    bit doom and gloom. A wedding          books, and Phillip plays video
                                                                    looked like a bridge too far.          games but loves the character
                                                                       Both Phillip and I are quick        and world-building aspects
                                                                    decision makers, if a little           most. This meant each guest
                                                                    different in our approach. I am all    got a Penguin Classic book
                                                                    about ‘going with your gut’, while     with a dedication inside.
                                                                    Phillip is the logical brains behind      Timing was tight, so calling
                                                                    our schemes. We were so keen           in favours was necessary. Luckily,
                                                                    to be married and do something         I have many disgustingly talented
                                                                    joyous in this year of everything      friends who are also the kindest
                                                                    not going quite to plan that we        people, so we had custom masks,
                                                                    decided to pull it all forward, to     cakes for each guest to take
                                                                    December 2020.                         home with them, and even
Carolyn chose a story theme for the day, this quote from               I called Jill at The Guildhall,     a stunning flower arch to say
Jane Eyre embroidered into her veil                                 because we knew it was the venue       our vows under, all provided       4

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      Carolyn and Phillip said their vows under a stunning flower arch

                                                                                                 “The venue will
      well within our deadline.                      recently come out of shielding,
         With the restrictions changing              so she felt more comfortable.

                                                                                                  always have a
      rather regularly, we decided                      Decorating the venue with
      pretty soon after our initial choice           books and dried flowers made it

                                                                                                 special place in
      for a December wedding to only                 feel truly magical and so many
      have family at our reception. The              of our guests said how beautiful

                                                                                                   our hearts”
      limit on guests was 15 (including              the building is. There are gardens
      bride and groom), but we had                   for outdoor photos, and we had
      only seven of us for a meal at                 some taken in the walled sensory
      The Weeping Willow in Barrow.                  garden, which smells divine all
         The Guildhall was perfect                   year round.
      for a socially distanced wedding.                 We plan to come back to The
      The Georgian Courtroom is                      Guildhall in 2021 for a party
      large enough to spread out chairs              to celebrate our wedding and
      and we even used the balcony                   Phillip’s 40th birthday. We loved
      to place a friend who had only                 everything about the venue and
                                                     it will always have a special place
                                                     in our hearts as it’s where we
                                                     promised to spend the rest of
                                                     our lives together.
                                                        I spied a grand piano in
                                                     the Regency Banqueting Hall,
                                                     opposite The Courtroom, which
                                                     we could certainly put to use.
                                                     Hopefully, this time around we
                                                     can make the most of the kitchens
                                                     for storing drinks and party food,
                                                     not to mention those beautiful
                                                     wooden floors for some dancing. u
                                                     For more information about
      Guests received Penguin                        weddings at The Guildhall, visit      Carolyn and Phillip can look back on 2020 for
      Classics as favours                            burystedmundsguildhall.org.uk         something other than a pandemic

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