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Chai Society Honors - רו קמה THE SOURCE - United Hebrew Congregation
‫המקֹור‬
                                                  THE SOURCE
 Congregation Achdut Yisroel
                                                              October
Established in St. Louis in 1837
                                                            2018/5779
    First Jewish Congregation
                                                    Volume XCVIII No. 2
  West of the Mississippi River

                                   Chai Society Honors
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United Hebrew Annual Event
                   Shabbat at UH                       We’re excited to begin planning our
Friday, October 5 - 27 Tishrei 5779               Cuatro De Mayo celebration and fundraiser
5:45 p.m. – Shabbat Nosh
6:30 p.m. – Rock Shabbat Service
Children’s Birthday Blessings
                                                  (similar to last year’s Derby-themed event).
Saturday, October 6
                                                In order to make this a success, we need your
9:00 a.m. – Torah Study
10:30 a.m. – Shabbat Morning Service             help! There will be many opportunities to get
Friday, October 12 - 4 Cheshvan 5779                 involved, big and small. Please contact
5:45 p.m. – Shabbat Nosh
6:30 p.m. – Shabbat Service                      Judy Babitz (judybabitz@aol.com) if you are
   and Installation of Rabbi Adam Bellows
7:30 p.m.— Dessert Reception                       interested in being a part of our committee
Saturday, October 13                                        or participating in any way.
9:00 a.m. – Torah Study
9:00 a.m. – Bat Mitzvah of Zoe Snitzer
Daughter of Brad and Amy Snitzer
11:00 a.m. – Bar Mitzvah of Zachary Skolnick
Son of Andrew and Shanda Skolnick

Friday, October 19 - 11 Cheshvan 5779
5:45 p.m. – Shabbat Nosh
6:30 p.m. – Shabbat Service
7:30 p.m.— “Baker’s Delight” Oneg
Adult Birthday & Anniversary Blessings

Saturday, October 20
9:00 a.m. – Torah Study
10:30 a.m. – Bat Mitzvah of Katie Wallace
Daughter of David and Melissa Wallace

Friday, October 26– 18 Cheshvan 5779
5:45 p.m. – Shabbat Nosh
6:30 p.m. – Shabbat Service

Saturday, October 27
9:00 a.m. – Tot Shabbat
9:00 a.m. – Torah Study
10:30 a.m. – Shabbat Morning Service

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Clergy Reflections
Rabbi Adam Bellows
                      As we near the end of the Torah           We Jews are told to help the foreigner because we were
                      before immediately restarting it on       foreigners in the Land of Egypt. Over and over again, God
                      Simchat Torah, we come across an          reminds us of this fact. Over and over again, we are urged
                      important Jewish message: “My father      to help immigrants and refugees in the Torah. And toward
                      was a [wandering] fugitive Aramean.       the end of the Torah, God goes so far as to command us to
                      He went down to Egypt with meager         recite that our ancestors were wandering Arameans every
                      numbers and sojourned there; but          time offer we our first fruits of the season to the priests.
                      there he became a great and very
                      populous nation. The Egyptians dealt      I pray our community will continue to find ways to help
                      harshly with us and oppressed us;         struggling immigrant populations seeking the same
they imposed heavy labor upon us. We cried to the               opportunities our ancestors sought. May we embrace each
Eternal, the God of our fathers, and the Eternal heard our      person-in-need with open arms. May we remember God’s
plea and saw our plight, our misery, and our oppression.        charge for Jews to be a light unto the nations. And may
The Eternal freed us from Egypt by a mighty hand, by an         people like Graciela continue to find hope and, indeed,
outstretched arm and awesome power, and by signs and            help from our community.
portents. God brought us to this place and gave us this
land, a land flowing with milk and honey. Wherefore I now
bring the first fruits of the soil which You, O Eternal, have
given me” (Deut 26:5-10).

The following is not found in the Torah, yet carries the
same message: “My father was a bracero [a Mexican
                                                                Shabbat Lunch ‘n’ Learn: The Jewish
immigrant admitted to the US, especially for labor work].       Experience in Ancient Alexandria, Egypt –
He suffered a lot. He was far from his family in Mexico but     A Historical Reboot.
convinced a good religious man to build a home for his          Saturdays, October 20-November 10
family and brought his family home to the United States.               12:00 p.m. Bring your own lunch
Years later, my mother cleaned others people’s homes and               12:30 p.m. Class begins
ironed other people’s clothes: neighbors’ homes and
clothes, in a middle class neighborhood in a home my            There was a four-hundred-year span when the Jews of
father purchased. I stand proud every day because of            ancient Alexandria, Egypt enjoyed relative security and
them. I am proud to be an immigrant” (Graciela, Los Angeles,    autonomy. During this time, Alexandria hosted the
myimmigrantstory.com)                                           world’s deepest and most dynamic thinkers, scientists and
                                                                inventors. Arguably the center of the literary and scientific
Today, most American Jews were born and raised in this          world (outpacing Athens, Greece) Alexandria also rose to
country, but how quickly we forget that only a generation       become the business mecca of the Mediterranean, and by
or so ago, Jews were the Other in the US. Even 50 years         extension, the hub for culture, entertainment and
ago, in some areas, it was common to see signs on               diversity – the likes of which the world had not seen
businesses that read, “No Jews, no dogs allowed.”               before. Cantor Eichaker will present a four-week mini-
                                                                course tracing the Jewish life and living in Alexandria,
At the end of the Torah, we read the passage from               Egypt (the first recorded city that “never slept”)
Deuteronomy to remind ourselves that we were once
wanderers. In fact, in almost every generation, our people      RSVP to Esther Olson at eolson@unitedhebrew.org or
were nomadic wanderers, often expelled from the countries       314-469-0700 so that we may prepare the appropriate
in which we dwelt.                                              materials.
There are so many other peoples today who do not feel
welcome. How quickly we forget that, excluding those
descended from Native tribes, every one of us is descended
from immigrants. How quickly racism, bigotry, and hate
has been allowed to gain prominence in the public sphere.
How quickly immigrant populations-in-need have become
the Other.

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President’s Message
David G. Rosenstock
                    Remarks from Rosh Hashanah                  universities and concert venues. What we have at United
                                                                Hebrew is as good as what we have seen in many US and
                    Hello, my name is David Rosenstock
                                                                world capitals.
                    and I am president of United Hebrew
                    Congregation.                               This is the first truth I wanted to emphasize: The current
                                                                offerings at United Hebrew are outstanding. Those of you
                    I have been advised by many that my
                                                                who attend and participate, I am sure would agree.
                    primary metric today is brevity, so I do
                    intend to be brief.                         The second truth is this: We live in the age of Facebook,
                                                                Apple, Amazon, Netflix, and Google. Technology and societal
                   Starting with a little St. Louis history…    forces are causing virtually all organizations to adapt, to
One hundred years ago, in 1918, as WWI was winding
                                                                do things differently.
down, senior Rabbi Samuel Sale was leading Rosh Hashanah
services for the 32nd and final time at a St Louis reform       We should not take for granted what we have or assume it
synagogue. (I did have to look that up by the way.)             will always be here. For example, if any of you had chosen
                                                                to, you could have stayed at home last night, tuned in to
Fun fact, Rabbi Sale was my maternal great-great
                                                                our streaming service online, and also kept an eye on the
grandfather. He was my mother’s mother’s mother’s
                                                                Bears and the Packers football game at the same time. Not
father, to be more precise. And 61 years ago this month,
                                                                that I myself have ever done anything like that, but it
in 1957, my own father on Rosh Hashanah was on the
                                                                could be done. Scores or hundreds of people very well
bimah at the beginning of his rabbinic career as a student
                                                                could be watching this service now, online, streaming or
rabbi for another St. Louis Reform congregation. These
                                                                later, on demand. As the generations continue to age and
two, my great-great grandfather and my father each              technologies improve, what will Rosh Hashanah and Yom
worked much harder, or at least in different ways, to earn
                                                                Kippur observance look like 15-20 years from now?
the right to address a St. Louis congregation on a Rosh
Hashanah morning.                                               The first truth I mentioned is that our offerings at United
                                                                Hebrew are world class. We have rock stars in our midst,
Few who knew me as a teenager or as a young man would
                                                                literally and figuratively, and I encourage you as members
have predicted I would someday be a synagogue president,
                                                                to enjoy them. The second truth is that in the age of
but here I am. I will say I am honored to have been selected
                                                                Facebook, Apple, Amazon, Netflix, and Google, things will
to serve United Hebrew in this way, and would like to
                                                                almost certainly change. “What we do and how we do it”
thank my family for their support, my United Hebrew
                                                                must evolve as well.
predecessors for their example and ongoing advice, the
current board and officers for their guidance and               At United Hebrew, our past is legendary, our present is
commitment, and clergy and staff for their ongoing work,        excellent, and largely because of the forces I mention, and
inspiration, and professionalism.                               similar to many other organizations, for-profit and non-
                                                                profit, the future is… uncertain.
A quick promotional announcement… I have been asked
by the Babitz family to ask that you to save the date of        In the coming year I encourage you to join us in thinking
May 4, 2019. May 4 next year will be the night where we         about how United Hebrew can and will continue to adapt
gather to celebrate many facets of United Hebrew. The           in our changing world. Your officers, board, clergy, and
Babitz family has agreed to chair the event and they are        staff discuss these matters—every day. If you have ideas,
starting quite early and covering many bases. This              feel free to reach out to me or any other staff or board
celebration will be here at United Hebrew. May 4, 2019…         member.
make a note. Yes, “May the fourth” was discussed (the
Star Wars angle), but the group I have been told has settled    All this I offer in the spirit of Pirkei Avot, The Ethics of the
on a “Cuatro de Mayo” theme. So many good options.              Fathers which I suggest should be the affirmation of all
                                                                temple lay leaders and temple members for that matter…
I would like to close with two items I believe to be true.      It says, “We are not required to finish the work, and
                                                                neither are we free to desist from it.”
The first is this… Much of what we have in 2018 at United
Hebrew is world class. Our clergy, our speakers, the music,     L’shana tovah. A good year to all of you. Thank you.
the administrative staff, the programming, the community,
the catering and the food, our building and property… all
of these are excellent.
My family and I have enjoyed music and dialogue all
across the country including at various prestigious
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Thank You for a Successful Shabbarbeque!

Our 2018 Welcome Home Shabbarbeque & 180th Birthday                       With Gratitude to the 79 Bakers, Decorators,
Celebration was a huge success, thanks to you!! We treated                   Dessert Platers and Event Volunteers*
more than 300 members and guests to a delicious picnic
                                                                 Alyce Alter             Arlene Goodman           Alan Raymond
dinner, followed by a birthday cake oneg and more yummy          Carolyn Altman          Alan Gorman              Charlotte Rosenblum
dessert treats. Many thanks to Debra Grund, our kitchen &        Harvey Altman           Shirley Gorman           David Rosenstock
event-guru, her wonderful volunteer staff of chefs and kitchen   Eva Ashner              Ted Gottlieb             Lisa Rosenstock
helpers, Cori Neidenberg and the UH office staff, our event      Judy Babitz             Elayne Grossberg         Gloria Ruben
sponsors, all of the bakers who contributed a tasty array of     Naomi Barasch           David Halpern            Eilene Schneiderman
                                                                 Sheryl Bauer            Myron Holtzman           Dale Schwartz
desserts and ALL of our volunteers who decorated, plated         Judy Berger             Patti Hunt               Sharon Silverman
desserts, served dinner and cleaned up afterward. We also        Les Berger              Bernie Kahn              Teri Steinberg
appreciate all of the wonderful birthday gifts!                  Jan Boraz               Ivy Klein                Nancy Jo Sterneck
                                                                 Stan Boraz              Debra Klevens            Abby Susman
Everyone had a great time at this annual event, hosted by        Barry Brimer            Zoe Klevens              Jim Susman
the UH Membership Committee, chaired by Stan Bunsick and         Bobbi Brimer            Gail Kramer              Deane Thompson
                                                                 Stan Bunsick            Phil Kramer              Fancine Thompson
Myron Holtzman. Special thanks to Volunteer Coordinator,         Sherri Daniel           Sherilyn Krell           Mike Ukman
Naomi Barasch. It was truly a terrific dinner, followed by a     Yoni Danieli            Fran Kunitz              Richard Veden
great Shabbat service, and fun birthday celebration!             Laura DeWoskin          Ronnie Kunitz            Linda Wallace
                                                                 Dianne Elfenbein        Linda Kusmer             Barry Wallis
       With Thanks to Our Generous Event Sponsors                Regina Frederick        Cheryl Lamprecht         Mark Weber
               UH Membership Committee                           Helene Frischer         Mark Lebedun             Suzy Weber
                                                                 Phil Frischer           Eileen Lesevoy           Sara Weiss
                     UH Brotherhood                              David Glazer            Barbara Melnik           Barbara Williams
                      Women of UH                                Myra Glazer             Myra Ozersky             Mike Williams
                   The Cornfeld Family                           Fran Goldberg           Thelma Peskind           Leslie Yoffie
                  The Goldsmith Family                           Jerry Goldberg          Robin Pevnick            Candy Zemon
                    The “Shabbaters”                             Lexie Goldsmith         Alan Prelutsky
                                                                 Jamie Goldstein         Stacey Prelutsky
And special thanks to all who generously provided “Birthday      * Our apologies if you served in a volunteer capacity and your name
Gifts”: Shabbat Candles, Kiddush Wine and new chairs for         does not appear on this list. It was an unintentional oversight. Please
the Spielberg Chapel. (See p. 16 for the complete list.)         contact Lexie Goldsmith at lgoldsmit@aol.com, and your name will be
                                                                 listed in the next issue.

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What’s Happening

UH Book Club: Pachinko by Min Jin Lee                                  Matinee Film Series: Unfinished Song
Join us on Thursday, October 4 for a                                   Join us on Wednesday, October 10 at
discussion of the book Pachinko by Min Jin                             12 noon in the Messing Auditorium for
Lee. In this gorgeous, page-turning saga,                              the next program in our Wednesday
four generations of a poor Korean                                      Matinee Film Series for the film
immigrant family fight to control their                                Unfinished Song starring Terence Stamp,
destiny in 20th-century Japan, exiled from                             Vanessa Redgrave and Gemma Arterton.
a home they never knew. In the early                                   The film is about shy, grumpy Arthur
1900s, teenaged Sunja, the adored daughter                             who is reluctantly inspired by his
of a crippled fisherman, falls for a wealthy                           beloved wife Marion to join a highly
stranger at the seashore near her home in                              unconventional local choir. At odds with
Korea. He promises her the world, but when she discovers               his son James, it is left to charismatic choir director Elizabeth
she is pregnant--and that her lover is married--she refuses            to try and persuade Arthur that he can learn to embrace
to be bought. Instead, she accepts an offer of marriage from           life. Arthur must confront the undercurrents of his own
a gentle, sickly minister passing through on his way to                grumbling persona as he embarks on a hilarious, life-
Japan. But her decision to abandon her home, and to reject             affirming journey of musical self-discovery.
her son's powerful father, sets off a dramatic saga that will
echo down through the generations. (Synopsis from                      Lunch, preceding the film will include a chicken drummies
Amazon.com)                                                            bar with a variety of sauces, roasted vegetable medley,
                                                                       salad, rolls, dessert and popcorn. Cost is $10 for everyone
Upcoming Books:                                                        (members & non-members).
November 1: Orphan Train by Christina Baker Kline
December 6: Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng                      To RSVP, send a check payable to United Hebrew Congregation,
January 3: Eligible by Curtis Sittenfeld                               Attn: Senior Programs, 13788 Conway Road, St. Louis, MO
                                                                       63141, by Friday, October 5. For more information, call
You can join us for just one session if you like a specific            Angie Klenke at 314-434-3404.
book or come to all of the sessions. There is no long-term
commitment necessary. RSVP to Angie Klenke at 314-434-3404
so we know how many people to expect.                                  Chair Exercise Class with Joyce Hochberg
                                                                       Join us on Mondays, November 5 and 19 at 2:30 p.m. in
                                                                       the Spielberg Chapel for an exciting and fun 50-minute
Senior Program: Know Before You Vote                                   movement class with Joyce Hochberg, who will lead an
Please join United Hebrew, Shaare Emeth, Temple Israel                 EASY and safe chair exercise routine to upbeat music.
and Temple Emanuel for a Senior Lunch program at                       Chair exercises will include arm movements, marching in
Temple Israel on Monday, October 22 at 12 noon. We                     place and relaxing stretching. No experience is necessary,
will learn about the current issues that will be on the                just come in comfortable, easy moving clothes and closed-
November ballot.                                                       toe shoes. There will be light snacks and refreshments
                                                                       following the exercise. As always, please check with your
Lunch prior to the program will be “Breakfast for Lunch”               physician before exercising. You are strongly encouraged
and include spinach and feta or artichoke and parmesan                 to bring one or two-pound free weights to increase
quiche, hash browns, waffles, fruit salad and assorted pastries        resistance. RSVP to Angie Klenke at to 314-434-3404.
for dessert. Please let us know which quiche you would
like when registering.
                                                                       UH Brotherhood Upcoming Events
The cost to attend is $10 per person. To RSVP, send a
                                                                       SAVE THE DATE
check made payable to Temple Israel by Friday, October
                                                                       St. Louis Metro Brotherhood Poker Night
12 to Temple Israel, Attn: Lisa Hirshberg, #1 Rabbi Alvan
                                                                       Sunday, October 21 at 7:30 p.m. Location TBD. For more
D. Rubin Drive, St. Louis, MO 63141. You may also pay at
                                                                       information and to RSVP contact Ted Gottlieb at
the door if you have called in advance. Check or Cash only.
                                                                       tedgottlieb@gmail.com
Call Lisa Hirshberg at Temple Israel 314-432-8050 ext.
204. Complimentary valet parking.
                                                                       Brotherhood Fundraiser: Mouse Races
This program is made possible through a grant from The Nathan          Saturday, December 1 at 7:00 p.m. Look for more details
Kahn-Ernestine Kahn-Charles Kahn Foundation of Congregation Tem-       coming soon!
ple Israel and the Women’s Auxiliary Foundation for the Jewish Aged.

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What’s Happening

Backpack Buddies: Back to School                                          Adult Education Opportunities
Thank you so much to everyone who made food and
                                                              Shabbat Morning Torah Study                         Cantor and Rabbis
monetary donations to Backpack Buddies during the
                                                              Saturday mornings (Spielberg Chapel)                9:00 a.m. – 10:00 a.m.
month of September and for your donations during our          Sustenance for the mind and body are ever-present at our Shabbat morning
High Holy Day Food Drive. We appreciate your continued        Torah study sessions. No prior knowledge of the Torah portion or ability to
support for this wonderful program. This month we are in      read Hebrew is necessary. Each week we will explore the portion for that
                                                              Shabbat and discover intricacies of the text, discuss lessons for our lives today,
need of canned fruit and vegetables. Please bring your        and wrestle with questions. Breakfast is served at 8:45 a.m.
donations to UH and put in one of the large red bins in the
                                                                Date                 Torah Portion                Triennial Cycle Verses
chapel lobby or in the school wing. If you would like to        October 6            Beresheit                    Genesis 2:4 - 4:26
make a monetary donation you may do so on the UH                October 13           Noach                        Genesis 8:15 - 10:32
website, www.unitedhebrew.org, or by mailing in a check         October 20           Lech Lecha                   Genesis 14:1 - 15:21
                                                                October 27           Vayeira                      Genesis 19:1 - 20:18
made payable to United Hebrew and mark that it is for
Backpack Buddies. For more information, please contact        Amateurs of the Great Assembly                      Cantor Eichaker
Cori Neidenberg at cneidenberg@unitedhebrew.org or            Thursdays (Library)                                 11:30 a.m.—1:00 p.m.
314-434-3404.                                                 Discuss topics of Jewish content with Cantor Eichaker at this dynamic round
                                                              table. Currently we are using the 2nd Jewish Book of Why.

Jews Walking For a Cure                                       Jewish Book of Why Learning Session Rabbi Rosenberg
                                                              2nd Wednesday of Every Month        10:30 a.m. & 7:00 p.m.
Join the St. Louis Jewish                                     Rabbi Rosenberg will teach these sessions that explore many different aspects
Community as we walk                                          of Judaism based on the book of the same title.
together in the 2018 Walk
to End Alzheimer’s on                                         Talmud Study Group                                  Rabbi Bellows
Sunday, October 28.                                           3rd Tuesday of Every Month                          10:30 a.m. & 7:00 p.m.
                                                              NEW! Beginning October 16. Rabbi Bellows leads a study group exploring
   Registration at 1 p.m.                                     many aspects of the Talmud.
   Pre-Ceremony Entertainment at 1:30 p.m.
   Ceremony at 2:00 p.m.                                      Women’s Study Group                                 Rabbi Rosenberg
   Walk at 2:30 p.m.                                          4th Tuesday of Every Month                          10:30 a.m. & 7:00 p.m.
                                                              Rabbi Rosenberg leads a monthly study group exploring more than 100 women
For additional information and to register to walk with us    of the Bible.
visit: http://bit.ly/Jewswalkingforacure.
                                                              Shabbat Lunch ‘N’ Learn                             Cantor Eichaker
                                                              Saturdays, October 20 - November 10                 12:30 p.m.
Civil Discourse: Current Issues Discussion Group              Cantor Eichaker teaches The Jewish Experience in Ancient Alexandria, Egypt—
Save the date for our first Civil Discourse Session of the    A Historical Reboot (See description on page 3)
year. Sunday, November 11 from 9:30-10:30 a.m. in the         Beginning Adult Hebrew                              Rabbi Bellows
Spielberg Chapel. Additional information coming in            Sundays beginning November 4                        10:00 - 11:00 a.m.
November’s issue of HaMakor.                                  Rabbi Bellows begins a new Adult Hebrew course. All ages are welcome.
                                                              Cost is $25 for the textbook. Register by October 25 to Esther Olson
                                                              at eolson@unitedhebrew.org or 314-469-0700.

                                                              Intermediate Adult Hebrew                           Rabbi Bellows
                                    Join us for our first     Thursdays beginning October 11                      1:30 - 2:30 p.m.
                                 Women’s program of the       Rabbi Bellows will continue the Intermediate Adult Hebrew course.
                                  year for an evening of      Class will continue with the books they previously used.
                                  Bunko. No experience
                                  necessary. Bring your
                                   girlfriends and come       Beginning Adult Hebrew
                                          have fun!           with Rabbi Bellows
                                                              Sundays from 10:00-11:00 a.m.
                Thursday, October 11th                        Beginning November 4
                       7 :00 p.m.
              In the Jablon Youth Lounge                      Rabbi Bellows begins a new Adult
                                                              Hebrew course. All ages are welcome.
     Cost is $18, includes game, prizes and snacks!           Cost is $25 for the textbook. RSVP by
    RSVP by Monday, October 8th to Angie Klenke at            October 25 to Esther Olson at eolson@unitedhebrew.org
     314-434-3404 or aklenke@unitedhebrew.org

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What’s Happening

Volunteer of the Month                                                      Jewish Seniors on the Move
United Hebrew Congregation's top                                            Missouri State Penitentiary Tour
notch volunteer for the month is Dale                                       and Museum
Schwartz. Dale volunteers in the kitchen,                                   Tuesday, October 16, 2018
is the Building Committee Chair and is a
member of the UH Board of Trustees,
                                                                            Join local Jewish Seniors on the Move
but his commitment to UH goes so
                                                                            to tour the Missouri State Penitentiary
much further beyond these roles.
                                                                            and Museum in Jefferson City, MO, which operated as a
As a third generation member of our                                         prison from 1836 to 2004. Guests are guided through
congregation, it is natural for Dale to be totally involved                 Housing Unit 1 (Control Center) and A-Hall, the dungeon
and his recent retirement is a definite plus. He began                      cells, the Upper Yard, Housing Unit 3 and the gas chamber.
helping in the kitchen by plating cookies, moved to following               Our guide will shed light on the history of both the prison
Debra’s recipes and now, she trusts him with almost any                     and the U.S. penal eras, including the prison’s famous
task knowing that he will make it perfect. His position as                  inmates, the Riot of 1954 and escape attempts.
Building Committee chair keeps him almost as busy as a
full time job ensuring that our facility is looking its finest.             PLEASE NOTE: THIS TOUR IS NOT FOR EVERYONE. Due to
Dale took charge of renovations in the school wing, getting                 the size, historic nature and character of the Missouri
new carpet and paint, a source of pride for our staff and                   State Penitentiary site, this tour involves significant
school families.                                                            amounts of walking and standing. There is a waiver that
                                                                            needs to be signed prior to departure. You should have
Dale gauges volunteering by three categories, need,                         received it in the mailing. You may also download it on our
appreciation and fun.         Dale has many connections                     website.
throughout the St. Louis community and relationships
with people across generations. All of these combined,                      Following our tour, we will proceed to Avenue HQ for a
makes Dale happy and eager to keep volunteering. United                     lunch buffet catered by Oscar’s Diner. Everyone will enjoy
Hebrew is thankful for all that Dale does for our congregation.             green beans, mashed potatoes, salad, homemade rolls,
                                                                            cobbler and sweet or unsweetened tea and lemonade.
         Brought to you by the Volunteer Recognition Committee
     Suggestions for future volunteers to be recognized can be sent to
                                                                            There are three entrée choices:
                   Leslie Yoffie at busylab@gmail.com                            1. Turkey
                                                                                 2. Gluten free turkey
                                                                                 3. Three-cheese tortellini (vegetarian)
                                                                            Meeting: Congregation Temple Israel
                                                                            #1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Drive, 63141
                                                                            Check-in at 7:45 a.m., Busses depart at 8:15 a.m. and
                                                                            return around 4:15 p.m.
                                                                            Cost: $18.00 includes museum, lunch and round-trip
                                                                            transportation. SPACE IS LIMITED TO 150 PARTICIPANTS
                                                                            RSVP: To Angie Klenke at 314-434-3404 or online
                                                                            www.unitedhebrew.org/seniorsonthemove.
                                                                            Payment must be received with advance registration by
                                                                            October 10, 2018. (Checks should be made payable to
                                                                            United Hebrew.)

                                                                            Jewish Seniors on the Move is a program where active St. Louis Jewish seniors
                                                                            can enjoy day trips, tours, food and friends while exploring St. Louis! This
                                                                            program is presented in partnership with Congregation Shaare Emeth,
                                                                            Congregation Temple Israel and United Hebrew Congregation. This program
                                                                            is made possible through a grant from the Nathan Kahn - Ernestine Kahn -
                                                                            Charles Kahn Foundation of Congregation Temple Israel and the Women’s
                                                                            Auxiliary Foundation for the Jewish Aged.

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Chai Society Honors

In 2015, United Hebrew Congregation created the Chai Society to honor those members who have made important
contributions to the life of our UH family. As we think about what it means to dedicate ourselves to working towards
the betterment of our community and world, at United Hebrew, we celebrate those who have dedicated themselves to
making our congregation a wonderful home and Jewish center.

Do you or someone you know fit this description?

We are accepting nominations for the 2019 Chai Society Honors. The criteria are simple. Tell us about someone, in
250 words or less, who best personifies what it means to contribute to the life of UH and/or the St. Louis Jewish
community, and would be a worthy role model to be emulated by others.

Please give consideration to:
        • Longevity (long-term commitment to UH)
        • Leadership (held leadership positions)
        • Generosity (financial and time commitment to UH)
        • Involvement (inside and outside of UH community)

There are two ways to nominate an individual or a couple:
        1. Fill out the nomination form on the UH website, www.unitedhebrew.org (link found on our home page)
        2. Mail in a nomination with the following information: Your name, the nominee(s)’ name and your written summary,
            of 250 words or less, explaining why you think you or your nominee should be recognized to:
                United Hebrew Congregation
                Attn: Cori Neidenberg
                13788 Conway Road
                St. Louis, MO 63141

What characteristics and accomplishments are you looking for in a Chai Society recipient?
Chai Society recipients are role models who exemplify an extraordinary commitment to United Hebrew Congregation.
Past recipients come from all walks of life, but are united in their deep concern and love for the life (chai) of United
Hebrew. We seek to honor those who have demonstrated selflessness, exhibited a long-term commitment to service
and the betterment of UH and the St. Louis community.
What is the Chai Society nomination process?
All of the nominations we receive are reviewed. The nominations are voted on and honorees selected by a committee of
UH Members and previous Chai Society recipients. The proposed honorees are then put forth to the Board of Trustees for
approval. They will be announced in February.
How are Chai Society recipients honored?
At UH’s Annual Fundraiser, we recognize each recipient and present them with a special gift. The 2019 event will be
held on Saturday, May 4.
                                            United Hebrew Congregation                                                  9
Chai Society Honors - רו קמה THE SOURCE - United Hebrew Congregation
Early Childhood Engagement
Lauren Lourie

                Look at what fun things all of our                                   MishpUHCha
                classes have done in the first 6 weeks
                of school.                                                        Even S’more Havdalah
                                                                                  Saturday, October 20
                                                                                  5:30-7:00 p.m.
                                                                                  Gather at Rabbi Adam Bellows’s
                                                                                  home for a backyard campfire
                                                                                  and havalah. Bring a camp chair
                                                                                  and if you choose, a nut-free
                                                         dessert. S’mores ingredients will be provided. Email
                                                         Rabbi Bellows at abellows@unitedhebrew.org to RSVP
                                                         and the address will be provided.

                                                           Join us for a 30-minute Shabbat experience complete
                                                                with singing, prayer, dancing with the Torah
                                                                               and community.
                                                          Led by the UH Clergy, SSECC Director Lauren Lourie and
                                                                       Music Specialist Suzy Weber.
                                                            Fridays sessions will be at 6:00 p.m. in the Spielberg Chapel
                                                             Saturday sessions will be held in the Jablon Youth Lounge
                                                                at 9:00 a.m. followed by a fun activity and playtime

                                                                          Saturday, October 27
                                                                           Friday, November 9
                                                                          Saturday, December 8
                                                                            Friday, January 11
                                                                          Saturday February 9
                                                                              Friday, April 12

10                                               October 2018
Youth Education and Engagement
K-5 Religious School & Hebrew School                                       Louis & Mary Millstone Religious School,
I am very excited to announce that our Hebrew school and           Rabbi Jerome W. Grollman Hebrew School & Chai School
religious school year started off with a bang! Between our
learning in Tefillah, the exciting chugim, and much more,                           October Calendar
we’re all very excited to learn s’more this year. We want
all of our parents to feel welcome into our community and             2     Tuesday Hebrew
engaged. We would like to invite all parents to join us for           5     Chai School
tefillah or minyon every week, and you are welcome to
volunteer in your child’s classroom whenever an opportunity           7     Religious School, Sunday Hebrew
arises. We have also created private Facebook groups for              9     Tuesday Hebrew
each of our classes in which parents and teachers can engage
                                                                      14 Sababa—Arts and Culture Fest at WashU
and connect. Stay tuned to see the exciting things we have
                                                                           Students are encouraged to attend
planned for this year!
                                                                         Chai School - Tikkun Olam activity
                                                                      16 Tuesday Hebrew
                                                                      21 Religious School, Sunday Hebrew
     Contact Director of Elementary Education and Engagement,
              Laura Rosenberg at 314.434.3404 x125                    23 Tuesday Hebrew
                laura.rosenberg@unitedhebrew.org
                                                                      28 Religious School, Sunday Hebrew, Chai School

Chai School                                                           30 Tuesday Hebrew
Hello UH Chai Schoolers! How will you do Jewish this month?
•You can come to services for Chai school on October 5.
Parents, we love having you there at services and during
the hang out after!                                                                               The Box of Awesome
•You can head over to Sababa, the Jewish Art Festival this                                            Jewish Stuff
October 14. More information is at http://sababastl.com.                                         A subscription service from
From food to art to music . . . you don’t want to miss this.                                    United Hebrew Congregation
                                                                                                      for young adults

Youth Groups and Engagement                                               The United Hebrew Connection BOX
High Schoolers are having youth group fun, every                    Parents of young adults, you can nudge your children
Wednesday 7pm – 9pm in the Jablon Youth Lounge Duck                  with friendly and amazing treats from the UHC Box.
Rooms; the other groups kick off with the start of religious
school.                                                            Details
                                                                   Age - Young adults aged 18– to mid 20s
Also, sign-ups are still open for the NFTY-MV Fall Convention.
We are taking a bus to the wilds of Kansas City November 9-11.     Delivery - Three times per year (fall, winter and summer)
More information is at http://nfty.org/mv or by contacting         sent directly to the young adult
H. Lee. Transportation sign up is at http://bit.ly/uhpay           Cost - $54 for all 3 boxes
                                                                   Sign up - Online at http://bit.ly/uhthebox
Middle Schoolers have a subs and Spider event October 4th
at Firehouse Subs and Flying Spider. Sign up at
http://nfty.org/mv to bounce, fly, joust and zip line on a
Thursday!

       Check out the website – www.unitedhebrew.org/tyg
 or contact the Director of Secondary Education Engagement and
             Youth Groups Advisor, H. Lee Rosenberg
         by phone, e-mail, Facebook, Instagram or tweet:
      314.469.0700 x265 h.leerosenberg@unitedhebrew.org
 Facebook Nfty Uhtyg Instagram @NFTY_UH Twitter @NFTY_UH

                                                   United Hebrew Congregation                                              11
Mazel Tov To Our B’nai Mitzvah

                     Zoe Snitzer                                                            The Jewish Food Pantry
                     October 13, 2018                                                         Needs Your Help!
                     9:00 a.m.
                                                                                    For the month of September, the Harvey
                                                                                    Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry is looking
                         Zachary Skolnick                                           for these specific items in order to
                                                                                    provide well-balanced nourishment for
                         October 13, 2018                              the community in need: canned beef stew, chili, pasta
                               11:00 a.m.                              with meat, Kosher foods, canned fruit, rice, dry beans,
                                                                       canned vegetables, healthy snacks, personal care items
Zoe Snitzer                                                            (shampoo, toothpaste, laundry soap)
For my Mitzvah project I wanted to do something that
would be both meaningful and have a personal connection.               Currently, the Jewish Food Pantry is feeding over 6,000
I have been a competitive dancer for 7 years and dance                 individuals per month. The need is great, so please help
                                                                       in any way you can.
is a big part of my life. I found a non-profit organization
that collects no longer needed dance costumes and attire               Items should be brought to the collection bins at UH. Thank you!
and sends them to organizations in 23 countries to help                 For further information, please contact Louise Levine, 636-227-1259
children all over the world experience the joy of dance.
With the help of my dance team, family and friends, I
collected costumes, shoes and leotards. I also did a
fundraiser to help offset the cost of shipping the costumes
to those organizations that benefit from the donations.                                                United Hebrew Catering
                                                                                                           is ready to provide
                                                                                                     delicious food for your event
                                                                                                            at the synagogue.

                                   Katie Wallace                                    Kiddush • Naming Ceremony
                                   October 20, 2018
                                                                                   Anniversary Party • Shiva Trays
                                   10:30 a.m.                                           Debra Grund • 314-469-0700
                                                                                         dgrund@unitedhebrew.org

 Katie Wallace                                                                      Sponsor a Shabbat Nosh!
 I chose to do a mitzvah project to raise money for Nothing          Sponsoring a Shabbat Nosh on Friday evenings is not just for
 But Nets, a grassroots organization dedicated to                    b’nai mitzvah families! It is a lovely way to celebrate an
 fighting malaria worldwide. Monetary donations provide              upcoming simcha such as an anniversary, birthday, wedding or
 insecticide-treated bed nets to protect families from               just to say “thank you” to someone. It is also a wonderful way
 malaria-carrying mosquitos, in addition to funding                  to honor or remember a loved one. When you sponsor a nosh
 treatment and additional training for healthcare workers.           you help us welcome Shabbat with the warmth and community
                                                                     that are characteristic of our congregation. For more details
 I have been raising money by having lemonade stands
                                                                     please contact 314-469-0700.
 throughout the Spring and Summer and am determined to
 raise $500 to help families affected by this preventable
 disease.
                                                                     Shabbat “Nosh Pot”
                                                                     We understand that sponsoring a Shabbat
Support our Advertiser of the Month:                                 Nosh may not be possible for some or you
Insurance Advisors                                                   may just want to contribute a smaller
                                                                     amount to show your appreciation.
Please patronize our advertisers and tell them                       You may now donate $25 or more to the “Nosh Pot.”
where you saw their ads. Their support makes it                      When the pot is “full” with $225, the cost for a full sponsorship,
possible to publish this bulletin at a significant savings           the names of those who donated to the pot will be listed at
to our congregation.
                                                                     the next Nosh that does not already have a sponsor.
Our thanks to Insurance Advisors and all of our advertisers.            Contact Jackie at 314-469-0700 for information and to
Additional advertisers are always welcome.                                    make your contribution to the “Nosh Pot.”
12                                                           October 2018
Perpetual Memorials
September 30 - October 6
   Ethel E. Abrams                   Annetta Fishman Gallop           Fannie Kosky                      Ben Oglander                 David M. Stein
   Anna Berger                       Jennie Gers                      Louis Lander                      Max Richman                  Herman Steinberg
   Sylvia Tyner Bloom                Melvin Harris Glick              I. Jack Levy                      Milton M. Schneider          Dorothy E. Steinman
   Anna Carl                         Florence Gottlieb                William B. Levy                   Julia Schreiber              Edward Sterneck
   Joe Cohen                         Herman L. Green                  Ben Luks                          Allen Schulman               Sidney Svarin
   Robert A. Cohn                    Jerome Hofstein                  Ernst J. Malpe                    Dr. Meyer Seligman           Nat Veden
   Corinne B. Edelstein              Edith Jacques                    Eva Margulis                      Dolores Shaftal              Jacob E. Warner
   David S. Feinberg                 Clara Joachim                    Rose Celeste Mayer                Joseph Shapiro               Bertha Werner
   Leon Feldman                      Sylvia Rosen Kahn                Elsie Merinbaum                   Sam Siegelman                Pauline Zepin
   Esther Friedman                   Lillie A. Kawin                  Robert P. Muchnick                Max Silverstein              Albert I. Zwibelman
   Ruby Friedman                     Milton Kessler                   Mary Needles                      Dolly Spiegel
   Isador D. Gad                     James K. Kopf                    Ellen Nissenbaum                  Walter Stark

October 7 - 13
   Leona Kravitz Altman              Florence Goldenhersh             Simon G. Lasky                    Philip Rosenblum             Octavia Simon
   Herman Batavia                    Min Goldman                      Robert Levitt                     Harry N. Rosenstroch         Anne Slein
   David Binder                      Morris Greenberg                 Minnie Linsky                     Sol Ross                     Philip Smith
   Ann B. Cohen                      Robert I. Grossman               Leo G. Minner                     Floyd John Rothman           Lillian Pocras Starr
   Ruben Cohen                       Louis Hiken                      Myron Moss                        Rebecca Rubin                Isaac Stockman
   David M. Crown                    Barbara Goodman Hill             Richard H. Paley                  Bertha Bee Safron            Abraham Strauss
   Irvin Fox                         Marcia R. Jaffe                  Leo Pearlstone                    Goldie Weisman Scallet       Ralph F. Tripp
   Celia Frank                       Harry B. Katz                    Jack Polinsky                     Harry Schnurr                Julia Weiss Warner
   Emanuel Fuhrer                    Allen Ross Kleban                Abe Portnoy                       Goldie Schrier               Gene E. Winterman
   Esther L. Ginsburg                Beryl E. Kohn                    David L. Quicksilver              Ida Shriber                  Robert J. Wohl
   Louis F. Glaser                   Frances Kornblum                 Manuel M. Reynolds                Bert D. Silverman
   Anna Edith Gliner                 Jacob Lamberg                    Julia Robbins                     Seymour Silverman

October 14 - 20
   Harry Alter                       Isidore Fischlowitz              Joseph Iskiwitch                  Abe B. Pactor                Jack J. Stone
   Goldie Berger                     Jessie Levy Goldberg             Isadore Katz                      Norman A. Peskind            Sarah Shapiro Stone
   Julia Biederman                   Paul Goldberg                    Sarah Katz                        Robert Potashnick, M.D.      Sol Charles Strauss
   Alfred Bromet                     George L. Golden                 Barney Klein                      Rose K. Raines               Isaac H. Symons
   Harriet J. Bronfin                Gloria Elins Goldstein           Lena Fisher Ladimsky              Hannah Reynolds              Ben F. Turner
   Isadore Dolgin                    Leonard B. Grosz                 Yetta Mathes                      Minnie Salomon               Gustav A. Vittert
   Kenneth Samuel Fadem              Frances Newman Handelman         Edward C. Meyer                   Ben R. Schneider             Max Wagner
   David M. Faintich                 David Harris                     Henrietta L. Meyer                Paul Schneider               Lori Beth Weintrop
   Erwin Field                       Lillian Heifetz                  Abraham G. Minner                 Ruth Schwartz                Gertrude Weisman
   William Fink                      Rose Hilton                      Dan David Morgan                  James Douglas Smith          Michael B. Yedlin
   Anna Fischer                      Sarah Horowitz                   Emma Ouzan                        Esther Solar

October 21 - 27
   Gottlieb B. Barken                Gordon Fixman                     Reva Jaffe                       Isaac H. Niss                Frances Spiegelman
   Max Barnholtz                     Jack M. Gentle                    Stanley Katz                     Samuel Rain                  Nathan N. Stein
   Dr. Arnold S. Block               Irma R. Gersmann                  Sol Kranzberg                    Nathan S. Raymond            Noni Symons
   Louis M. Blumenthal               Dewey G. Getzlow                  Marilyn Kreisman                 Abraham Rothstein            Myron (Wally) Waldman
   Maurice S. Brasch                 Sonia Gilberth                    Max Landau                       Eva Salomon                  Irwin Walpert
   Reuben L. Brilliant               Karlyn E. Gitlin                  Arnold Lehrman                   Ben Satz                     Rosa Weil
   Meyer Bronson                     Etta Glazer                       Freda Serkes Lewis               Evelyn Seligman              Ida Weiss
   Jessie Bronstein                  Janet Goldblum                    Harry Lipschitz                  Mary Seslen                  Malcolm G. Weiss
   Rose Cherry                       Emil Green                        Dr. Stanley F. Maer              Jerome Shainman              Bessie Weitzman
   Jack Claris                       Bertha Greenberg                  Albert Mayer                     Lois Klayman Shear           Samuel Wiley
   Dorothy Cohen                     Annie Haffner                     Mitchell Melnik                  Ethel Hutkin Sherman
   Isadore Cohen                     Alfred Hirsh                      Wilma Jean Messing               Clara S. Simon
   Kate Cohn                         Ruth K. Hymes                     Elaine Newman Moranz             Abraham Slupsky
   Lillian DeWoskin                  Bertha Jacobs                     Louis Muchnick                   Simon S. Sohn

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    located with easy access to most city and nearby suburban population centers.
 Jewish and non-Jewish family members may be buried next to one another                        (When Hebrew school is in session)
    in all areas of the cemetery.                                                             Friday after Shabbat Service
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    remains.                                                                                  And by Special Appointment
 Burial plots are available to both members and non-members of United                         - Call Iris at 314-469-1556
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                                                                United Hebrew Congregation                                                                   13
Contributions
Honor & Celebrate Your Family, Your Friends, Your Synagogue                          Tributes made during the month of August

        Brasch Building                  General Fund                    IN MEMORY OF:                 *Eleanor R. Kaiser
      Maintenance Fund               IN APPRECIATION OF:          *Carol Pratzel                       Elise Cassel & Juan Hoveg
        IN HONOR OF:             *Joyce Hochberg for her          Susie & Shelly Beck                  Nancy Wiviott
*Rabbi Ron Eichaker              wonderful chair exercise class   Ryann & Julie Beck                   *Libby Katz
Jerry & Rosalie Brasch           Michele Ambach                                                        Beth Katz
                                                                       Lew & Cheryl Levey              *Jesse Wagmen Kramer
         Building Fund                   IN HONOR OF:             Volunteer Appreciation Fund          Helene & Carl Sherman
        IN HONOR OF:             *Cantor Eichaker’s Rabbinic              IN HONOR OF:                 *Milton Kravitz
*The Speedy Recovery of          Ordination                       *Sherilyn Krell’s Special Birthday   Dale & Barry Sharon
Denise Bunsick                   Suzanne & Jerry Sincoff          Arlene Caplan & Joe Tripodi          *Vittia Lewin
*Sue & Lonnie Grosman’s          *The Special Birthday of Ruth                                         Ruth L. Lewin
First Grandchild                 Shanker                                   Memorial Fund               *Saul Lichtenfeld
Ivy & Michael Klein              Arleen & Stan Dobkin                     IN MEMORY OF:                Steven & Ruth-Ellen Lichtenfeld
                                 *Barry Sharon’s continued        *Daniel Averbuch                     *David Lipman
       IN MEMORY OF:             good health                      Ryna Hart                            Marilyn Lipman
*Annette Liebman                 Stuart & Betsy Zimbalist         *Arthur Avirom                       *Martin March
Alan & Shirley Gorman            *Annette Sklar’s recovery        *Bertha Avirom                       Joe & Elissa Marchbein
                                 *Melissa Wallace receiving       Babette & Sandford Miller            *Sam Needles
  Clergy Discretionary Funds     her Doctorate of Nursing         *Gertrude Balen                      Jack Needles
     IN APPRECIATION OF:         Practice                         Eleanor Berra                        *Helen Plotka
*Rabbi Brigitte Rosenberg for    Toby Keane                       *Shelley Bain                        Sadie Cohn
the Baby Naming of Mabel                                          Jeffrey S. Sirkin                    *Lester M. Richman
Evelyn Roberts                           IN MEMORY OF:            *Bob Balk                            Andrea Richman
Larry & Elaine Amitin & Family   *Harvey Feldman                  Susan & Kenneth Balk                 *Dorothy Friedman Rosenblatt
Janet & Jayden Roberts           Charlie & Sheryl Feldman         Marilyn Lipman                       Beverly Friedman
*Rabbi Brigitte Rosenberg for    *Rabbi Jerome W. Grollman        *Fannie Barnholtz                    *Hugo Schamest
Shae’s Baby Naming Ceremony      Dolores Grollman                 Elaine & Sandy Melnick               Linda & Peter Mule
Gail & Phil Kramer               James Moss                       *Eugene Baron                        *Stanley Schindler
                                 *Eleanor Kaiser                  Sheldon & Jan Baron                  Ivy & Michael Klein
        IN HONOR OF:             Jeffrey & Sharon Moulton         *Morris Beck                         *Michael Schnurman
*Cantor Eichaker’s Rabbinic      *Cindy Kransberg                 Ruth L. Lewin                        Barry & Ilene Schnurman
Ordination                       Elliot & Mitzi Leon              *Oscar Beldner                       *Aaron Shriber
Joy Millner                      *Kathy Lebedun                   Karen Beldner                        Larry Shriber
                                 Mark Lebedun                     *Karen M. Bernhardt                  *Daniel Spielberg
      IN MEMORY OF:              *Sohaia Litz                     Irv & Linda Bernhardt                *Michael Spielberg
*Bob Balk                        Lucy Goffstein & Sanford         *Ben Davis                           Edward Spielberg
Marlene & Harvey Sachs           Weissman                         *Sam Davis                           *Saul Spielberg
*Diane Stone                     *Julian Mathes                   Joyce Davis                          Susan & Alan Flom
The Family of Diane Stone        Suzanne & Jerry Sincoff          *Irving Diamant                      *Diane Stone
                                                                  Henry & Marlene Diamant              Earls
Ada & Frank Friedman Youth            Jablon Youth Fund           *Melvin Gad                          Pollie Lammert Hughes, Michael J.
          Group Fund                   IN MEMORY OF:              Lori & Gary Levine                   Hughes, Jr., & Ted T.L. Hughes
       IN MEMORY OF:             *Milton Walzer                   *Doretta Goldenberg                  Jennifer & Craig Rosenthal
*Majorie Thurman Cohen           Mady & Arthur Jablon             Joanie & Howard Goldenberg           *Selma Thea
*Jon Grund’s parents                                              *Morton Golder                       Renee & Alan Fredman
Alan & Iris DeWoskin                Stanley Laiderman Fund        Bev Golder                           *Mae Walpert
*Sol W. Thurman                           IN HONOR OF:            *Sara G. Goldstein                   Sally J. Sportsman
Ken & Marcia Thurman             *Steve Laiderman’s 60th          Christopher & Deborah Gaal           *Joseph Weiss
*Lorraine Zemon                  Birthday                         *Jerome Grollman                     Sara Weiss
Alan & Iris DeWoskin             Laurie & Stu Cohen               Lisa Grollman & Family               *Audrey Wolkowitz
                                 Julie & Don Eisenberg            *Harvey Guller                       Chester & Pam Wolkowitz
                                 Gwen & Gary Lerner               Lois Guller
                                 Vicki & Fred Sussman             *Selma Hearst
                                 Michael & Barbie Towerman        Michael & Susan Hearst

14                                                       October 2018
Contributions

      Helen C. Millstone      *Stan & Denise Bunsick’s             *Paula J. Weintrub               Additional Donations:
         Music Fund           daughter’s wedding                   Susan & Al Kutner
                                                                                                       United Hebrew Kitchen
        IN HONOR OF:          Sharon & Barry Iken
                                                                                                           IN MEMORY OF:
*Denise & Stan Bunsick’s      *Frank & Veronica                         Betty & Eugene Wolff
                                                                                                    *Jon Grund’s Parents
daughter’s wedding            Spielberg’s Marriage                       Transportation Fund
                                                                                                    Sheryl Bauer
Teri & Mike Rosenblum         Lauren & Tony Spielberg                       IN HONOR OF:
Bob & Nancy Jo Sterneck       Skip & Elaine Spielberg              *Al Appelbaum’s 90th Birthday
                                                                                                            IN HONOR OF:
*Cantor Ron Eichaker’s                                             Jordan & Elaine Rudolph
                                                                                                    *Marsha & Joel Barasch’s
Rabbinic Ordination                   IN MEMORY OF:                *Mr. & Mrs. Ron Kunitz’s
                                                                                                    Retirement
Roz Gad                       *Bob Balk                            granddaughter’s wedding
                                                                                                    Sheryl Bauer
       IN MEMORY OF:          Cindy, Jake & Aliyah Becker          Beverly Silverman
                                                                                                    Jim & Abby Susman
*Barbara Scheinberg           Bob & Barbara Cohn                   *The Speedy Recovery of
                                                                                                    *The Speedy Recovery of
Bob & Nancy Jo Sterneck       Louise Mass                          Betty Lehrman
                                                                                                    Sheryl Bauer
                              Robin & Mark Shulman                 Jordan & Elaine Rudolph
                                                                                                    *Paul & Fran Kravitz’s Special
      Prayer Book Fund        The Stone Family                     *Alan Wolff’s speedy recovery
                                                                                                    Birthdays
    IN APPRECIATION OF:       *Eugene Goldstein                    Jan & Stan Boraz
                                                                                                    *Amy & John LeDeaux’s New
*Cantor Eichaker              Eric, Michelle, & Lauren Goldstein   Elliot & Mitzi Leon
                                                                                                    Home
*Rabbi Kaplansky              *Jim Koltun                          *Engagement of Grandson,
                                                                                                    *Mark Witzling’s Special
*Rabbi Rosenberg              Eric, Michelle & Lauren Goldstein    Tyler
                                                                                                    Birthday
Cindy, Mark, Jacob            *Saul Spielberg                      Jordan & Elaine Rudolph
                                                                                                    Jim & Abby Susman
& Johnathan Nettles           Skip & Elaine Spielberg
                              *Diane Stone                                 IN MEMORY OF:
                                                                                                     Backpack Buddies Program
        IN HONOR OF:          Linda & Michael Wolfson              *Betty Adler
                                                                                                    Anonymous
*Welcoming Rabbi Bellows to                                        Jason, Melissa & Brinley Adler
                                                                                                    Eleanor & Myron Holtzman
United Hebrew Congregation      Henrietta and Eli Spielberg        *George Alberstat
                                                                                                    Barry & Sherilyn Krell
Cindy, Mark, Jacob            Israel Scholarship Foundation        Shirley Alberstat
                                                                                                    Ellyn Rosenblum & Tom Self
& Johnathan Nettles                        Fund                    Allan, Susan & Michael Cohen
                                                                                                    Deane & Fancine Thompson
                                       IN HONOR OF:                *Nathan Fleishman
       IN MEMORY OF:          *Marcia & Joel Barasch’s             Shirley Alberstat
                                                                                                        IN APPRECIATION OF:
*Alberta (Bert) Cohen         retirement                           Allan, Susan & Michael Cohen
                                                                                                    *Shabbarbeque
Joy Millner                   Marcy & Rick Cornfeld
                                                                                                    Jim & Abby Susman
*Dorothy Mayer                *Future Scholarship Recipients
Karen Yoffie                  Judy & Pete Naclerio
                                                                                                        Temple Tots Program
                              *Marriage of Veronica Steck
                                                                                                        IN APPRECIATION OF:
  Raskas Technology Fund      & Frank Spielberg
                                                                                                    *Lauren Lourie
    IN APPRECIATION OF:       Arnold & Roz Levin
                                                                                                    Lauren & Tony Spielberg
*High Holiday Tickets
Michelle Marcus                    THINKING OF YOU:
                              *Sheryl Bauer & wishing you
      Saul Spielberg Early    a speedy recovery!
    Childhood Center Fund     Marcy & Rick Cornfeld
         IN HONOR OF:
*A Happy, Healthy & Sweet       United Hebrew Cemetery
New Year—Mark & Penny              Perpetual Care Fund
Alper; Ron & Bette Abeles;           IN MEMORY OF:
Larry & Bobbi Potashnick      *Regina Berk
Skip & Elaine Spielberg       Howard C. Berk
*A Happy beginning to a new   *Mamie Rose Kornblatt
preschool year!               Malka Z. Kornblatt
Wednesday Mah Jongg Group     *Sarah Krout
– Helene, Joan, Arlene,       Seymour & Janet Krout
Shirley, Regina, Elinore, &   *Belle Kuenstler
Charlotte                     Diane Kuenstler

                                              United Hebrew Congregation                                                      15
Announcements

Condolences                                                                          Thank you to everyone who generously
  The congregation extends its sincere condolences to the families of               donated gifts in honor of United Hebrew’s
                          ANNE COHN                                                              180th birthday!
                 Mother of Jay,z”l, (Marilyn) Cohn
                                                                                *3 Chapel Chairs                  *Shabbat Candles
                           JAY COHN                                             Sheryl Bauer                      Jason, Melissa, & Brinley Adler
                     Husband of Marilyn Cohn                                    Stan & Denise Bunsick             Leslie & Judy Berger
                                                                                Barry & Sherilyn Krell            Reva Davis & Friends
                       GLORIA CRAHAN                                            Cindy, Mark, Jacob                Alan & Iris DeWoskin
                 Mother of Tim (Deborah) Crahan                                   & Johnathan Nettles             David & Myra Glazer
                                                                                Barry & Leslie Yoffie             Arlene Goodman
                  SANDRA “SANDY” GINSBERG                                                                         Sanford, Dipali, Andrew,
                    Wife of Marvin Ginsberg                                     *2 Chapel Chairs                    & Abby House
                                                                                Bob & Nancy Jo Sterneck           Phil & Gail Kramer
                      SEYMOUR LEVITT                                                                              Betty Lehrman
           Father of Cheryl (the late Larry) Bierman                            *1 Chapel Chair                   Cindy, Mark, Jacob
                                                                                Jason, Melissa, & Brinley Adler     & Johnathan Nettles
                         CAROL PRATZEL                                          Sandy & Susan Becker              Rachael Pevnick
                  Sister of Rob (Deborah) Becker
                                                                                Tim, Sheila, Hannah, Phoebe,      Charlotte Rosenblum
                                                                                  & Harrison Dubman               Jordan & Elaine Rudolph
                            HALLE STEIN
                                                                                Gerald & Dianne Elfenbein         Andrew, Shanda, Zoey,
                    Sister of Ruth (Jim) Halpern
                                                                                Jerry & Carla Rosen                 & Zach Skolnick
 Because of space limitations, condolences are listed for members and their     David & Bridget Spewak            Jim & Abby Susman
  immediate relatives. In addition, only immediate relatives of the deceased
                         who are members are listed.
                                                                                Teri Steinberg                    Joe Tripodi & Arlene Caplan
                                                                                Julie, Lola, & Taylor Stern       Linda Wallace
                                                                                                                  Mark & Suzy Weber
                                                                                *Kiddush Wine
Nosh Sponsors                                                                   Yoni, Jamie, Judah,            *Other Donations
August 3                                                                          & Asher Danieli              Gloria Ruben
Nosh Pot Sponsors: Bernadine Kahn, Debra Grund, Elayne                          Paul & Elaine Friedman         Women of UH
Grossberg, Jackie Carper, Myra Glazer and Women of UH                           Phil, Helene, & Marni Frischer
                                                                                Linda Kusmer
August 10
                                                                                Don & Barbara Rubin
Saul Spielberg Early Childhood center in honor of the new
                                                                                Al & Adrienne Sher
school year
                                                                                Carl & Helene Sherman
August 24                                                                       Willard Vaughan &
Allan, Susan & Michael Cohen in honor of Shirley Alberstat’s                      Margaret Friedman-Vaughan
95th birthday
Amateur’s of the Great Assembly, Cantor’s Thursday
                                                                                Welcome New Members
morning class, in honor of Cantor Ron Eichaker’s Rabbinical                        Jennifer and Cory Culp and their daughter Ainsley
ordination                                                                         Eric and Brandy Frank and their son Leo
                                                                                   Dr. Michelle Hastings and her daughters
Allen Fox & Judy Sadoff, Brett & Jada Fox, Steve & Lori
                                                                                        Harlow and Josephine
Lander and John & Cindy Wallach in honor of the Bar
                                                                                   Abbie Harsh
Mitzvah of Connor Lander
                                                                                   Scott Lentin
                                                                                   Jason and Jenny Lew and their children,
Food Baskets                                                                            Noah and Molly
August 24
                                                                                   Patrick and Kelsey McLoughlin
Ryan, Jordan and Emily Lander in honor of the Bar Mitzvah
of Connor Lander                                                                   Eryka Pyszka and her daughter Savanna
                                                                                   Arnie and Kara Sair and their children,
                                                                                        Jonathan and Lori

16                                                                      October 2018
Announcements

Notification of Illness, Surgery & Hospital Visits
Due to HIPAA laws, United Hebrew is unable to gain access
to patient information from local hospitals. We rely solely
on word-of-mouth from family members and other
congregants to make clergy visits. If you know someone in
the hospital or desiring a visit from a clergy member,
please contact us at 314-469-0700. Once received, the
                                                                              Scroll of Honor
                                                                                      Thank you to the following generous donors.
information will be entered into our system and shared with
the clergy.
                                                                              Shomrei Torah                       Kotoret
                                                                              Anonymous                           Anonymous (2)
Need a ride to United Hebrew?                                                 Rick & Marcy Cornfeld
                                                                              David & Stacy Rolfe
                                                                                                                  Naomi Barasch
                                                                                                                  David Bass & Megan Matheny
                                                                              Barry & Leslie Yoffie               Michael & Sheryl Bauer
Unable to drive for any reason…                                                                                   Gregory & Tracy Berg
Injured? Don’t drive? Don’t drive at night?                                   Or HaTorah                          Dr. Kevin & Carol Blinder
We are here to help - at no cost to you!                                      Lois Guller                         Ted & Evelyn Cohen
                                                                              Jerry & Suzanne Sincoff             Dave L. Cornfeld
Thanks to the Betty & Eugene Wolff Transportation Fund                        Deane & Fancine Thompson            Benjamin & Jill Crane
we are able to offer all of our members taxi rides to and                                                         Charles & Sheryl Feldman
from United Hebrew’s programs and worship services. This                      Atzei Chaim                         Michael & Barbara Ferman
fund was created to provide transportation for those members                  Bob (z”l) & Fran Balk               Paul & Terry Flotken
who, without the assistance provided by the fund, would be                    Stan & Denise Bunsick               Phil & Helene Frischer
unable to get to UH.                                                          Irene Fox & Floyd Emert             Richard & Isabel Goldstein
                                                                              Daniel & Debra Raskas               Robert & Susan Goldstein
If you would like to reserve a taxi using the Wolff Transportation            Robert Rosenthal                    Steve & Gay Guller
    Fund, please contact United Hebrew at 314-469-0700.                       Michael & Alicia Tessler            Matthew & Rebecca Holt
If you would like to make a tribute to this or any fund, please               Michael & Barbara Towerman          Sanford Jaffe
                                                                              Stan Towerman                       Gary & Betsy Koenig
                do so at www.unitedhebrew.org.                                Barry & Barbara Wolkowitz           Paul & Fran Kravitz
                                                                                                                  Steven & Tamara Laiderman
                                                                              Rimmonim                            Lewis & Cheryl Levey
                                                                              Steve & Lexie Goldsmith             Jason & Lauren Lourie
                                                                              Mark & Jeniffer Rubenstein          Sandford & Babette Miller
                                                                              Skip & Elaine Spielberg             Lawrence & Carolyn Satz
                                                                              Michael & Nanette Suffian           Dale Schwartz
                                                                                                                  Michael & Stephanie Sigmond
                                                                              Tziz                                Nathan & Barbara Simon
                                                                              Daniel & Emily Cohen                David Smith
                                                                              Ronald & Jeanne Gieseke             Herbert & Adrienne Sobelman
                                                                              Cheryl Lamprecht & Family           Edward Spielberg
                                                                              Hannah & Larry Langsam              Frank Spielberg
                                                                              David & Lisa Rosenstock             Richard & Linda Stein
                                                                              Gloria Ruben                        Art & Lisa Weiss
                                                                                                                  Richard & Catherine Wieder
                                                                                                                  Lee & Laurie Wielansky
                                                                                                                  Alan & Eleanor Wolff
                                                                                                                  Norman Wolff

                     Wednesday, October 3rd                                   The United Hebrew Scroll of Honor was established to honor and
                             7:00 p.m.                                        recognize individuals and families who voluntarily increase their annual
                                                                              commitment above and beyond the Basic Annual Commitment Level.
                    Congregation Shaare Emeth                                 This strengthens our ability to meet the needs of our congregants while
                        11648 Ladue Road                                      preserving the financial health of the congregation. We invite you to
                                                                              consider becoming a Scroll of Honor participant or renewing your
                       St. Louis, MO 63141                                    pledge by contacting Margaret Friedman-Vaughan, Interim Executive
                                                                              Director at mfriedman@unitedhebrew.org or 314-469-0700. Thank you
   Cosponsored by: Center for Jewish Learning, Central Reform Congregation,   for your generous support.
Congregation B’nai Amoona, Congregation Shaare Emeth, Congregation Temple
 Israel, Kol Rinah, Shir Hadash Reconstructionist Community, Temple Emanuel
                         and United Hebrew Congregation

      RSVP: email Abigail@nif.org or call (212) 613-4417

                                                          United Hebrew Congregation                                                                 17
October 2018
    Sunday                     Monday                    Tuesday             Wednesday               Thursday                 Friday                Saturday

                           1                         2                       3                     4                     5                       6
                           9:00 AM                                                                 11:30 AM              5:45 PM                 9:00 AM
                           Simchat Torah Service &                                                 AGA                   Shabbat Nosh            Torah Study
                           Nosh
                                                                                                   1:30 PM               6:30 PM                 10:30 AM
                                                                                                   UH Book Club          Rock Shabbat Service    Shabbat Morning Service

                                                                                                   7:00 PM               6:30 PM
                                                                                                   UH Music Circle       Chai School

                                                     Hebrew School
                                                     B’nai Mitzvah Session                                                                       Beresheit

7                          8                         9                       10                    11                    12                      13
Religious School                                     10:00 AM                10:30 AM              11:30 AM              5:45 PM                 9:00 AM
Hebrew School                                        Temple Tots             & 7:00 PM             AGA                   Shabbat Nosh            Torah Study
                                                                             Jewish Book of Why
7:30 PM                                                                                            7:00 PM               6:30 PM                 9:00 AM
Nar-Anon Meeting                                                             12:00 PM              UH Music Circle       Shabbat Service—        Bat Mitzvah of Zoe Snitzer
                                                                             Matinee Film Series                         Installation of Rabbi
                                                                                                   7:00 PM               Bellows                 11:00 Am
                                                                                                   Women of UH Bunko                             Bar Mitzvah of Zachary
                                                                                                                         7:30 PM                 Skolnick
                                                                                                                         Dessert Reception
                                                     Hebrew School
                                                     B’nai Mitzvah Session                                                                       Noach

14                         15                        16                      17                    18                    19                      20
10:00 AM                                             7:45 AM                 7:00 PM               11:30 AM              5:45 PM                 9:00 AM
Sababa-Arts & Culture                                Seniors on the Move     Board of Trustees     AGA                   Shabbat Nosh            Torah Study
Fest @ WashU                                                                 Meeting                                                             10:30 AM
                                                     10:00 AM                                      1:30 PM               6:30 PM                 Bat Mitzvah of Katie
11:15 AM                                             Temple Tots                                   Intermediate Hebrew   Shabbat Service         Wallace
Chai School-Tikkkun Olam                                                                                                                         12:00 PM
                                                     10:30 AM                                      7:00 PM               7:30 PM                 Lunch N Learn: The
7:30 PM                                              & 7:00 PM                                     UH Music Circle       Baker’s Delight Oneg    Jewish Experience
Nar-Anon Meeting                                     Talmud Class                                                                                5:30 PM
                                                                                                                                                 MishpUHCha Event
                                                     Hebrew School
                                                     B’nai Mitzvah Session                                                                       Lech Lecha

21                         22                        23                      24                    25                    26                      27
Religious School           12:00 PM                  10:00 AM                                      11:30 AM              5:45 PM                 9:00 AM
Hebrew School              Senior Program—Temple     Temple Tots                                   AGA                   Shabbat Nosh            Tot Shabbat
                           Israel                                                                                                                9:00 AM
7:30 PM                                              10:30 AM                                      1:30 PM               6:30 PM                 Torah Study
Nar-Anon Meeting                                     & 7:00 PM                                     Intermediate Hebrew   Shabbat Service         10:30 AM
                                                     Women’s Study Group                                                                         Shabbat Morning Service
                                                                                                   7:00 PM
                                                                                                   UH Music Circle                               12:00 PM
                                                                                                                                                 Lunch N Learn: The
                                                                                                                                                 Jewish Experience
                                                     Hebrew School
                                                     B’nai Mitzvah Session                                                                       Vayeira

28                         29                        30                      31
Religious School                                     10:00 AM
Hebrew School                                        Temple Tots
Chai School
30
 7:30Heb.,
       PM & Chai School
Rel.,
 Nar-Anon
5:30  PM Meeting
Simchat Torah and
Consecration
6:15 PM
Festival of Torah & Nosh                             Hebrew School
7:30 PM                                              B’nai Mitzvah Session
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Nar-Anon Meeting                                                             October 2018
Administrative Offices - Clergy: (314) 469-0700                                                           NON-PROFIT ORG.
                     Fax: (314) 434-7821                                                                            US POSTAGE
         Education & Program Offices: (314) 434-3404                                                                    PAID
              Email: temple@unitedhebrew.org                                                                       ST. LOUIS, MO
Senior Rabbi                                 Brigitte S. Rosenberg                                                PERMIT NO. 3319
Assistant Rabbi                              Adam Bellows
Cantor                                       Ronald D. Eichaker
Rabbi Emeritus                               Howard G. Kaplansky                  One Gudder Campus
Cantor Emeritus                              Murray W. Hochberg        13788 Conway Road, St. Louis, Missouri 63141

Interim Executive Director                 Margaret Friedman-Vaughan
Director of Early Childhood Engagement     Lauren Lourie
Director of Programming & Communication Cori Neidenberg
Director of Youth Engagement               H. Lee Rosenberg
Director Elementary Education & Engagement Laura Rosenberg
Events/Kitchen Manager                     Debra Grund
Communications & Marketing Manager         Jessy Nelson
Assistant Musical Director                 David Cohen
Gift Shop Manager                          Iris DeWoskin
Artist-in-Residence                        Rick Recht

                               Officers
             President                    David Rosenstock
             Vice President               Andrew Babitz
             Vice President               Phil Frischer
             Vice President               Jenifer Newmark
             Treasurer                    Bob Sterneck
             Assistant Treasurer          Michael Klein
             Secretary                    Naomi Barasch
                                                                           United Hebrew Congregation serves the Jewish
                                                                           community of St. Louis as a place of worship and
   Our thanks to the Laiderman Family for their generous donation
     to the United Hebrew Endowment Fund to help support our             learning with a welcoming community united in the
                         Synagogue Bulletin.                                  common Judaic spirit of Reform Judaism.
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