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A Case of Mixed Emotions: Love and Fear of God in Jewish Thought
Marc Ashley’s adult education course between Pesah and Shavuot

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Three Sundays: April 28, May 5 and 19 at 10:00 am
           he very first word of the first           beings can seem immanent, close at hand          a sense of humility, preventing God from
           paragraph of the Shema prayer             and within our reach. The focus of our           becoming merely an imprimatur for our
           instructs—indeed, commands—us             relationship with God may vary depending         decisions. Love of God can create a sense
           to love God, with all our heart, soul     on the vagaries of our perception of God's       of our wondrous human potential, fostering
           and might. Yet Proverbs counsels          interaction with us. As we sing several times    our nearness to the realm of the infinite.
us that the “beginning of wisdom is the fear         during the High Holy Day liturgy in the          Both approaches to God can be viable paths
of God” These visceral emotions, at least            Ki Anu Amekha prayer, we can relate to God       to the divine, but reconciling them can be
at first glance, seem conflicting rather than        variously as our parent, master, shepherd,       challenging and even perplexing.
complementary. So which is the core and              guardian, creator, king, and beloved. Whether        Please join congregant Marc Ashley
foundation of our relationship with God—love         we are more inclined to love or fear God can     on three Sunday mornings for his annual
or fear? Which approach takes priority?              shift with circumstances.                        adult education class between Pesah and
    As it turns out, Judaism demands that                In fact, dictating emotion is notoriously    Shavuot. This year's course, "A Case of Mixed
we experience our relationship with God              difficult, and Jewish theology is prone to       Emotions: Love and Fear of God in Jewish
as encompassing emotions that optimally              interpreting love and fear of God as anchored    Thought," will be held on April 28, May 5 and
reinforce each other but may in practice             in conduct. How we are expected to feel          May 19 at 10 a.m. in the Or Zarua library. No
be competing. God as the creator of the              emotionally about God is often translated        prior knowledge is required. Please come and
universe can seem utterly transcendent,              into practical terms. Love and fear of God are   participate in this important conversation on
above and beyond our understanding. Yet              expressed through deed.                          a crucial theme in Jewish thought through the
God as the divine force that intervenes in               Both love and fear of God are thus crucial   ages. Your relationship with God may even be
history and shows solicitude for human               religious directives. Fear of God generates      clarified in the process.

Their Mother’s Story, Told by Daughters of Textile Artist Esther Nisenthal Krinitz:
Art as Remembrance of a Remarkable Life
Sunday, April 28, 6:30 pm in the OZ Gallery

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         he Fabric of Survival, the unusual                                                           are the co-founders of Art and
         exhibition currently on display in the                                                       Remembrance, a non-profit arts and
         OZ Gallery, packs a deceptive punch.                                                         education organization inspired by the
         The remarkable textile and yarn                                                              art and story of their mother. Recognizing
handwork and colorful designs, tell the story                                                         the power of their mother’s art to change
of a happy Jewish childhood cut short when                                                            hearts and minds, they created Art and
Nazis stormed the village of Esther Nisenthal                                                         Remembrance as a testament to their
Krinitz’s home in Poland. The more than                                                               mother’s legacy and a means to share her
thirty large fabric panels illustrate the dark                                                        work and to inspire others to share their
story of young Esther’s escape from death                                                             experiences as victims of war, oppression,
during World War II. Visitors to the gallery                                                          and injustice. Bernice is the co-author (with
have been amazed by the scope of the                                                                  her mother, posthumously) of Memories of
storytelling, the skill of the self-taught artist,                                                    Survival; she and Helene were producers
and the verisimilitude of the photographic                                                            of the award-winning film, Through the Eye
reproductions on display. Many people                                                                 of the Needle: The Art of Esther Nisenthal
have asked questions about Esther’s life,                                                             Krinitz.
remarkable work, and how the originals were                                                               The evening will begin with a viewing of
produced. On Sunday, April 28th, her two                                                              the exhibition followed by the thirty minute
daughters, Bernice Steinhardt and Helene                                                              film Through the Eye of the Needle: The
McQuade, will be our guests to give us their               Road to Krasnik, one of the                Art of Esther Nisenthal Krinitz. After the
remembrances of their mother and answer                    36 fabric panels created by                screening, Bernice and Helene will talk about
all those questions.                                       Esther Nisenthal Krinitz.                  their mother and answer questions from the
    Bernice Steinhardt and Helene McQuade                                                             audience.
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                                                   President’s     Message
                                                   by Diane Okrent

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                                                                               ne advantage to      Hodesh Elul, Rosh Hodesh Tishrei, and
                                                                               being president      Tu B’Shevat. The Rabbis devised the
                                                                               of Congregation      calendar to ensure that Pesah always occurs
    A C O N S E R V AT I V E S Y N A G O G U E                          Or Zarua again is I         in the spring – the year and life begin anew.
             FOUNDED 1989                                               can revisit and refer           Shabbat Hagadol, the Great Sabbath,
                                                                        to previous writings        immediately precedes Pesah. One
              127 East 82nd Street                                      and speeches! The           explanation for the name Shabbat Hagadol
              New York, NY 10028                                        following is a timely       comes from the verse in the Haftorah, which
    phone: 212-452-2310 fax: 212-452-2103                               adaptation and revision     refers to a day in the future that will be
                                                                        of a newsletter article I   gadol, “great.” Behold, I will send you Elijah
                www.orzarua.org
                                                                                                    the prophet before the coming of the great
            SCOTT N. BOLTON, Rabbi                     Spring Training has begun! Whenever          and awesome day of the Lord.
    DR. HARLAN J. WECHSLER, Rabbi Emeritus         I hear that Major League Baseball teams          (Malachi 3:23).
                                                   have begun Spring Training, I think, “There is       Passover, the holiday of our redemption
            DIANE OKRENT, President
                                                   hope. Winter will, indeed, come to an end.”      from Egypt, also bring hope of future
          DAVID BERKOWITZ, Treasurer               Of course, we are far from the end of this       redemption. Therefore the Talmud teaches:
           KAREN KAPLAN, Secretary                 challenging winter but soon, spring will be in   Rabbi Yehoshua says: “In Nisan the world
        HELENE SANTO, Executive Director           the air.                                         was created ... the bondage of our ancestors
    SIGAL HIRSCH, Director of Youth Education          The Jewish calendar provides us with our     ceased in Egypt; and in Nisan they will be
               and Programming                     own type of Spring Training. We have already     redeemed in time to come.” (Talmud Rosh
                                                   begun the countdown to Purim and Pesah           HaShana 11a).
      CHARLES SPIELHOLZ, Newsletter Editor
                                                   (6 weeks away) with the series of special            So, what do we learn from our Jewish
                                                   maftir and haftorah readings—Shabbat             Spring Training?
                                                   Shekalim (March 2), Shabbat Zachor                   We learn that we are responsible for
  OZ Committee Chair s                             (March 16), Shabbat Parah (March 30),            contributing to the maintenance of our
 ADMINISTRATION           Pamela E. Gold           Shabbat Hahodesh (April 6), and Shabbat          community and its gathering place. At
                                                   Hagadol (April 13).                              Or Zarua, we do this with our membership
 AESTHETICS               Aaron Shelden                I am particularly mindful of Shabbat         dues, our Kol Nidre contributions, and our
 ART GALLERY              Bobbi Coller             Shekalim because on that Shabbat, I usually      ongoing donations to the synagogue for
                                                   read the maftir and chant the Haftorah. It is    all types of occasions, celebrations and
 BOOK DISCUSSION          Reed Schneider           the anniversary of my Bat Mitzvah. Shabbat       commemorations. You may want to make a
                          Nora Yood                Shekalim reminds us of our obligation to         contribution now while it is top of mind!
 BUILDING                 Gerry Solomon            contribute to the maintenance of our place           We learn that we must remember to
                                                   of worship. Each member of the community
 HESED                    Susan Lorin              was asked to contribute the same amount,         protect the weak and vulnerable. At
 HEVRA KADISHA            Roberta Hufnagel         a half-shekel. While the amount has              Or Zarua, we do this with our Hesed projects
                          Gerry Solomon            changed over time, we are still responsible      and Tzedakah. Our annual Ma’ot Hittim
                                                   for supporting of our community and its          contributions go directly to those in the
 LIBRARY                  Barry Feldman            gathering place to the best of our ability.      Jewish community who need our help for a
 MARKETING                Dana Gross                   Shabbat Zachor, immediately preceding        holy and joyous Pesah. (Please use the form
                          Dara Shapiro             Purim, reminds us to remember Amalek, who        on page 11.)
                                                   attacked the Israelites from behind, preying        We learn to purify our homes and
 MEMBERSHIP               Raanan Korinow           on the vulnerable. According to Talmudic         ourselves to be open to the gift of Pesah.
 MINYAN                   Sheldon Adler            tradition, Haman was descended from              “We clean our homes and our psyches,
                                                   Amalek. In Jewish tradition, the Amalekites
 NOMINATING               Jay Palmer               are symbols of the evil that arises and must     with our people and the rhythm of the
 AND LEADERSHIP                                    be fought in every generation. Today, we are     seasons, celebrate life and freedom.” (Ira
 ORAL HISTORY             Mimi Alperin             acutely aware of the rise in Anti-Semitism.      Steingroot, Keeping Passover, 1995.)
                                                                                                        We learn to celebrate new beginnings.
 PROGRAMMING              Marc D. Ashley           strong as a community.                           Nisan begins a new year just as Spring
 PUBLIC RELATIONS         Aaron Shelden               Shabbat Parah includes the ritual of the      shows us that life begins again.
                                                   red heifer, a means of purifying the kohanim         We learn that just as our ancestors
 READERS                  Marc D. Ashley           and the people in preparation for the Pesah      were redeemed from Egypt, we will also
 AND LEADERS              Jay Palmer                                                                be redeemed. Each year at our Seders, we
 STRATEGIC                Arthur H. Rosenbloom     rituals, we do clean our homes and rid our       recall that the Jewish people have survived
 DEVELOPMENT                                       lives of physical and spiritual hametz in        for millennia against all odds. And, we will
                                                   preparation for Pesah.                           prevail. In an article in the January 2012
 WEBMASTER                Jay Palmer                   Shabbat Hahodesh precedes Rosh               issue of The Jewish Week supplement Text/
 YOUTH EDUCATION          Eric Schmutter           Hodesh Nisan, the month in which Pesah is        Context, Barry E. Lichtenberg stated that
                                                                                                    “We Jews invented the future. ‘On that day
 If you are interested in serving on a synagogue   new years in the Jewish calendar. In Tractate    God will be one and his name, one’ we thrice
 committee chair’s email address.
                                                   Rosh Hashanah, the rabbis discussed              daily conclude our prayers.” At the end of the
                                                   when new years occurred: "There are four         Seder, we proclaim “Next Year in Jerusalem!”
                                                                                                        I wish you a very Happy Purim and a
                                                   new year for kings and festivals …” (Rosh        joyous and meaningful Pesah! B’shalom.
                                                   Hashana:1a). The other new years are: Rosh
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Faith: Author Scott Shay
                                                                                                    The New Koren
in Dialogue with Rabbi Bolton
Saturday, March 9, 1:00 pm (after Kiddush)                                                            Passover
                       F                                                                              Haggadah
                             aith (emunah) is a component of Judaism.
                             In modern times faith is challenged by world
                             events, advances in secular knowledge,
                        changes in traditions, movement of cultures,
                                                                                                    Graphic Novel
                        and an adoption of new ways of thinking. Having                                 Book Talk With Artist

                                                                                                      Jordan B.
                        faith requires understanding its history, meaning,

                        provides.
                            Scott Shay, a Congregant at Kehilath Jeshurun                          “Gorf” Gorfinkel
                        (KJ), is the author of In Good Faith: Questioning
                        Religion and Atheism, a very readable book in                                     Monday,
                        which he explores and defends faith in our day. We hope you join us
                        for this post-kiddush experience.                                                 March 4,
Kesher Israel: Connect with Israel                                                                        7:30 pm
Water Solutions, Community Building,
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                                                                                                     oin us for a
                                                                                                     unique book
and Development of the Desert                                                                        talk in memory
with Talia Tzour Avner                                                                           of our beloved
                                                                                                 Harry Gandel z”l.
Chief Israel Emissary, Jewish National Fund, Keren Kayemet L’Yisrael
                                                                                                 Harry loved
Saturday, March 30, 1:00 pm (after Kiddush)                                                      graphic novels

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                                he Arava         what challenges face the Jewish homeland        and helped bring
                                (an area of      in the years ahead As JNF’s Chief Israel        serious cartooning
                                Israeli desert   Emissary, Talia fosters a close connection      of sacred texts
                          that extends from      between the American Jewish community,          and themes to our
                          the Dead Sea to        the Israeli people, Keren Kayemet L’Yisrael     Or L'Atid Hebrew School.
                          Eilat) receives less   (KKL) and JNF-USA. She oversees Jewish             Former DC Comics Batman
                          than one inch of       National Fund Task Forces on water
                          rainfall each year,    solutions and cutting-edge development                             will present his
                          yet provides 60%       of Israel’s Arava region. A Sabra born in                          new Haggadah,
of Israel's vegetables. In a world starved for   Jerusalem, Talia continues the Zionist legacy                      published by
water, Jewish National Fund (JNF) has built      of her family, who made Aliyah from all over                       Koren, the
over 250 reservoirs, raising the amount          the world to play their part in establishing                       renowned Israeli
of recycled water in Israel from 4% to over      the State of Israel.                                               publishing house
85% today—more than any other country                                                                               of sacred texts.
globally. Furthermore, over half of Israel’s      Upcoming Kesher Israel Events                                     The Passover
agricultural water comes from recycled and        Honor Israel Independence Day                  Haggadah Graphic Novel will
reused wastewater thanks to the success           Movie: Above and Beyond                        prove to be engaging in new ways.
of desalination plants. As a result, despite      Wednesday, May 8                               Jordan is a dynamic cartoonist,
consecutive years of drought, which have          In 1948 a group of American World              who continues to publish nationally
                                                                                                 syndicated Jewish cartoons.
Sea of Galilee and groundwater reservoirs,        in the War of Independence. This ragtag           Everyone is invited to attend;
Israel's drinking water supply has not            band of volunteers from abroad not only        RSVP to 212-452-2310, ext 39, or
experienced any major impact.                     turned the tide of the war, preventing         dwenger@orzarua.org
    Cutting-edge research is critical for         the possible annihilation of Israel at the
                                                                                                      Buy the Haggadah for Pesah
                                                  very moment of its birth, it also laid the
                                                                                                  Copies will be available for sale at the
include the Shamir Wells Research, the            groundwork for the Israeli Air Force. Above
                                                                                                 book talk. Orders may be placed through
largest natural underground water resource        and Beyond is their story.
                                                                                                  the artist's website in the near future.
of the past decade in Israel; the Hula
Basin, which is a vital component of Israel’s     55th Annual Celebrate Israel Parade              Additional Programming
natural water economy; the Besor River            Sunday, June 2
Basin Rehabilitation; and the Multi-Year
                                                                                                         for our Youth
                                                  Celebrate Israel’s 71st birthday and all
Water Allocation System (MYWAS) which is a        of her achievements. Join Or Zarua’s                Jewish Cartooning
national water management model designed          contingent and march proudly behind our
                                                  banner along Fifth Avenue among 40,000
                                                                                                         Workshops
management possible.                              other marchers representing various                    Led by Gorf
   Learn from Talia Tzour Avner how Israel        American Jewish organizations.                              See page 6
has made wonders like these possible—and
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  Get Involved Through Or Zarua and Help Those in Need
    “The reward for charity depends entirely upon the extent of the kindness in it.”—Talmud Bavli
 Celebrate Purim Early at Project ORE!             We need four families and adults. Children         Join Monday Night Pasta and Salad at NCS
     OZ will be hosting the Purim service and      must be at least five years old. The program           OZ congregants serve hot food and good
 celebration at Project ORE, 331 East 12th         orientation will begin at 10:30 am at DOROT,       cheer at the Neighborhood Coalition for
 Street, Sunday, March 10, from 11:00 am to        171 West 85th Street. To register or if you        Shelter’s East 81st Street Residence from
 1:00 pm. We will hear part of the Megillah,       have any questions, please contact                 6:00 pm to 6:45 pm on the the third and
 sing, eat (of course), and enjoy spending         Miriam Quart at hesed@orzarua.org.                 fourth Mondays of each month. Contact
 time with some Project ORE participants.                                                             Jeffrey Haberman at jeff32449@verizon.net,
 Purim is the happiest of all Jewish holidays,     Help the Hungry at NY Common Pantry                for information.
 when having fun is not only permitted, but            Did you know that one in five New Yorkers
 commanded. We hope that OZ members and            is food-insecure? We have three ways you           Book Drive
 their families can join us in creating a fun      can help:                                            A book drive for the Neighborhood
 and meaningful celebration with the Project           1) Start your day off right and help serve a   Coalition for Shelter is coming this May!
 ORE community. To volunteer, please contact       hot breakfast at NY Common Pantry,
 Susan Lorin at lorin@sewkis.com.                  8 East 109th Street on Tuesday, March 19,          Help OZ Congregants in Need
     Since 1987, Project ORE has served            April 16, or May 21 from 7:00 to 9:30 am.             Volunteer to visit and bring cheer to ill
 kosher emergency meals and provided               Volunteers plate meals in the kitchen for 150      or homebound OZ Congregants. Contact
 counseling, case management, and other            food-insecure individuals.                         Deborah Wenger: dwenger@orzarua.org
 support services to isolated, poor, homeless,         2) Help with the packing and distribution      or 212-452-2310, ext 12.
 and mentally ill Jews. It is the only program     of nutritious, fresh food packages for families
 of its kind in NYC. Project ORE provides          from 9 am to noon on Wednesday, March 6,           Help South Bronx Residents
 kosher, family-style community meals,             April 3, or May 1.                                    Pre-owned adult, and children’s clothing,
 including a buffet breakfast, hot lunch, and          3) Donate non-perishable packaged food         toys, dolls, games, and related items can
 food packages for Shabbat. It also offers         items in the bins in the OZ Social Hall.           be put to good use by the many transitional
 classes in art, poetry, mental health issues,         Contact Lesley Palmer at hesed@orzarua.org     homeless residents and families in the
 educational trips, and health and wellness.       to sign up or ask questions.                       South Bronx. OZ partners with South Bronx
 They provide a Jewish experience through a                                                           Salvation and Deliverance Church, whose
 weekly Oneg Shabbat                               Pesah Food Drive                                   members include housekeepers caring for
                                                      Please remember to bring in and donate          their own local needy. Contact Richard Stadin
 Visit Seniors with DOROT                          your hamatez (only new, unopened and               at 212-744-6697 or stadin1@aol.com to
     DOROT’s annual Passover Package               unused) when you clean out your shelves for        arrange for donations.
 Delivery is Sunday, April 7. OZ volunteers will   Passover. Boxes are in the social hall.
 visit DOROT seniors with bags of goodies.

 During President’s week members of OZ
 serveed lunch at Project ORE. Pictured are
 Gabby and Samn Quart, Linda and Lindsay
 Greeenblat, and Maddie Posner.
                                                   Or Zarua members participating in the winter food drive with DOROT

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Zayin Adar Dinner                                                                                    Chaburah
Finding Kedusha (Holiness) at the End of Life
With Rabbi Amy Bolton                                                                              OZ Torah Study
                                                                                                 After Kiddush on Select Shabbatot
Thursday, March 14, 6:30 pm

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          hen healing of the body is no          teams of Holy Name Medical Center Hospice
                                                                                                        April 13: Metzora
          longer possible, what is the refuat    and Palliative Care in Teaneck, NJ, and was
          hanefesh—healing of the spirit—that    the founding Chaplain and co-Bereavement
                                                                                                       with Burt Biderman
we can strive for? How can hospice care          Director of the Martin and Edith Stein
facilitate this journey? How can we help         Hospice in central NJ. Rabbi Amy Bolton
                                                                                                    Everyone is invited to attend.
guide others, and ourselves, along               serves on the Board of the Plaza Jewish
this path?                                       Community Chapel.
    Drawing on her experiences as a                  Zayin Adar, observed on the yahrzeit of
longtime hospice chaplain, Rabbi Amy             Moses, is the occasion for the congregation
Bolton will consider these questions when        to join in commemorating and learning
she speaks at this year’s Zayin Adar dinner,     about the work of the Hevra Kadisha. The
Thursday, March 14 at 6:30 pm. She               event is sponsored by Phyllis and Gerry
will explore three key elements of refuat        Solomon in memory of their parents. There
hanefesh: prayer through the Psalms,             is no charge for the dinner and all are
considering the afterlife, and nurturing one’s   welcome. Donations to the Hevra Kadisha
personal relationship with God.                  of Or Zarua are gratefully accepted. Please                           See Page 16
    Rabbi Amy is a Spiritual Care Counselor
with Visiting Nurse Service of New York          dwenger@orzarua.org) by Monday, March 11
Hospice. Previously, she was part of both        to make reservations.                                Or Zarua’s
the Spiritual Counseling and Bereavement
                                                                                                  Young Professionals
Sihot Shabbat: OZ Congregant Sam Klagsbrun                                                                        Purim
                                                                                                 We will be joining the Congregation on
Saturday, March 23                                                                               Wednesday, March 20. See page 16.
1:00 pm (after Kiddush)                                                                                      Shabbat Dinner

W
         hile we say that the month of Adar      drug use, and even suicidal impulses. Paying                  Friday, April 5
         is a period of joy on the Jewish        attention to managing depression as well as               6:00 pm Happy Hour
         calendar, we know that life can         anxious feelings and preventing them from             6:45 pm Shabbat Services
have its ups and downs at any time. Feeling      escalating is crucial.                                 7:30 pm Shabbat Dinner
                                                    OZ Congregant and psychiatrist Dr. Sam           Early Bird Cost., Members: $18
or failures is normal. The danger we face is     Klagsbrun will offer some approaches to try       Early Bird Cost, Nonmembers: $24
                                                 to prevent slipping into despair and provide           Late Cost, Members: $25
depression. When depression takes over,          overall awareness about good mental health           Late Cost, Nonmembers: $29
it may open the door to self-destructive         and what we can do to keep ourselves and        Early Bird RSVP: Wednesday, March 27
decisions. Those can lead to alcoholism,         those we love going strong.                                   RSVP online:
                                                                                                    https://tinyurl.com/YP-04-05-19.

Or Zarua Book Discussions                                                                              OZ’s Young Professionals
                                                                                                    are a group in their 20s and 30s
               Forest Dark by Nicole Krauss                                                        committed to building a welcoming
               Sunday, March 24, 7:30 pm;                                                            and vibrant Jewish community
               To be led by Pat Davidson                                                                     within Or Zarua.

               J
                   ules Epstein, a wealthy retiree, is missing in Tel Aviv. In NYC, novelist        For more details, follow them on
                   Nicole, with a dead-end life, travels to the Hilton Tel Aviv, which she and                  Facebook:
                   her family have visited frequently. What she learns of a man who died             Or Zarua Young Professionals.
               there provides the impetus for her next novel.                                    Contact OZ’s Young Professionals with
                                                                                                     any questions, or suggestions,
               Waking Lions by Ayelet Gundar-Goshen                                                          or just to say hi,
                                                                                                  via email: OZYoungPros@gmail.com.
               Sunday, May 5, 7:30 pm;
               To be led by Dale Stern

              W
                                                                                                      We can use your help for
                        inner of the Jewish Quarterly Wingate Prize, Waking Lions is the story
                        of Eitan Green, a successful neurosurgeon with a wonderful family,
                                                                                                           Daily Minyan
                                                                                                            Just ONE HOUR
                        who accidently hits an African migrant while at the wheel of his SUV.
                                                                                                   ONE MORNING per month for our
                                                                                                 Shaharit minyan will help considerably.
                                                                                                        Contact Sheldon Adler:
       OZ is on Facebook. Find us at https://www.facebook.com/OrZarua/
                                                                                                         sadler@skadden.com
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                                                       Cartooning, Torah, Bam!
                                                     The Power of Jewish Cartoons
                                                          and Graphic Novels
                                                                            Monday, March 4
      Yom Give Back                                         Jewish Cartooning Workshop for Grade 3-5, 5:00 pm

    Sunday, April 7, 11:00 am                                      and create your own Jewish comics.

  T  he entire Or Zarua community
     is invited to Yom Give Back, a
  day of hesed for the Or Zarua and
                                                   Jewish Cartooning Workshop for Middle & High Schoolers, 6:00 pm
                                                     Create comics based on sacred texts and then join Gorf for dinner.

  Camp Ramah communities. No need                   RSVP for the above programs to Sigal Hirsch: shirsch@orzarua.org
                                                             The evening continues with more art and learning:
  People of all ages are welcome                                       Gorf will present a book talk on
  as we perform hesed projects                                The New Koren Passover Haggadah Graphic Novel
  throughout the OZ building. Connect                              7:30 pm, RSVP to Deborah Wenger at:
  with members of the OZ and Ramah                              dwenger@orzarua.org or 212-452-2310, ext 39
  communities over brunch and give                                                See page 3
  back to local organizations. Contact
                                                                 In memory of our beloved Harry Gandel z”l.
  Sigal Hirsch (shirsch@orzarua.org)
  or yomgiveback@gmail.com
  for more information.
                                                 Celebrate Shabbat with Or L’Atid
                                                         Family Shabbat
                                                                     Saturdays, March 2 and April 13
                                                               Youth and family programs begin at 10:30 am
                                                                    Shabbat & Me (Pre-K and younger)
                                                       Family Learning Experience (Elementary School and parents)
                                                            Shabbat Buddies (Middle School and High School)

                                                                       Family Shabbat Lunch
                                                                     Saturday, March 2, after services
                                                                    RSVP to Sigal: shirsch@orzarua.org

                                                      Hametz-Fest Kiddush and Family Hangout
                                                                     Saturday, April 13, after services
                                                      Families are invited to join the community for kiddush, with a special treat!
                                                             After kiddush, hang out and play games with other families.

                                             B’nei Mitzvah Cohort Lunch ‘n Learn
 Photo above: Hebrew School students                       Saturday, March 16, After services

                                             S
 reenact the splitting and crossing of the          ixth graders and their families are invited to our next meeting
 Red Sea in our weekly parashah study
                                                    of the B’nei Mitzvah Cohort. Families are encouraged to join us for Shabbat
                                                    morning services, which begin at 9:00 am. The Torah service begins at about
         For information about               10:00 am, which is a good time to aim to be there. We’ll join the whole community for
   Youth Education and Programming           kiddush, and then head to the library for a light lunch and learning together, including our
     contact Sigal Hirsch, Director,         “Torah Service Workshop.”
        at shirsch@orzarua.org                  Parents, B’nei Mitzvah students (past and future) and siblings are invited! Please RSVP
       or 212-452-2310, ext 15.              to Sigal at at shirsch@orzarua.org

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      Sushi & Study with Rabbi Bolton
                              Monday, April 8
                     5:30-6:30 pm for Middle School
                      6:30-7:30 pm for High School
         Join Rabbi Bolton once each month for an evening of
            rich text study, engaging discussion, and dinner!
      Not signed up? RSVP to Sigal Hirsch to drop in on a session!
                                                                                                Family Shabbat Dinner
         Celebrate Purim with Or L’Atid                                                                 Friday, March 8
                           Sing Song Purim                                                              Minhah and
                      Sunday, March 17, 10:00 am                                                 Kabbalat Shabbat,5:37 pm
                        Sing, dance and play the Purim way!
         Join Bracha, our former Shalom Sing-A-Long leader for a morning of                       Dinner to follow, 6:45 pm

                        Early Childhood. Older children welcome.                                F  amilies with infants to teens, join us
                                                                                                   for a Family Shabbat Dinner! Celebrate
                  Hebrew School Purim Celebration                                               Shabbat with family and friends and a
                                                                                                delicious Shabbat meal.
                  Monday, March 18, 5:00-6:00 pm                                                    Members and non-members are
    Hebrew School families are invited to our Hebrew School Purim Celebration.                  welcome. Please invite friends to join us!
         Learn and enjoy with your kids as we gear up for Purim together!                           For families with children birth through
                        Kids’ Purim Party                                                       age 6. Older siblings welcome. $25/Adult,
                                                                                                $10/child (ages 5-12); $70 max/family.
                   Wednesday, March 20, 5:00 pm                                                 First-year members eat free (but please
             Join us for a magical Purim celebration, featuring Magic Al!                       sign up so we know whom to expect)!
          All are welcome to add to the magic of our Purim celebration by                           Register on Chaverweb by Tuesday,
     dressing up as characters from the Harry Potter universe! Of course, any
     costumes are welcome as we turn everything upside-down, “Purim style.”                     2310 x12, with any questions about
       Superheroes, other magical characters, and of course, Queen Esther,                      dinner sign up. (Please note that
                Mordechai and other Purim characters are welcome!                               children over 12 are considered adults
                                                                                                with regards to payment). If your family
                                                                                                makeup (adults/children) is not listed,

Photos. Above Left: We’re excited to celebrate Purim with kids of all ages at Sing Song Purim
and with Magic Al!
Above (middle): 5th graders make “Bracha Chains” as part of their study of brachot
(blessings).
Right: even our youngest students lead classmates in t’filah, and love participating!
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127 East 82nd Street
                                   New York, NY 10028•212-452-2310
                                                                                                             March 2019•Adar I/Adar II 5779
        SUNDAY                     MONDAY                        TUESDAY                WEDNESDAY                        THURSDAY                    FRIDAY                   SATURDAY
                                                                                                                                              1 •24 Adar I               2 •25 Adar I
                                                                                                                                              7:15a Shaharit             Shabbat Shekalim
                                                                                                                                              5:29p Candlelighting       9:00a Shaharit/Vayakhel
                                                                                                                                               Minhah/Kabbalat Shabbat   10:30a Family Learning
                                                                                                                                                                          Experience
                                                                                                                                                                         10:30a Shabbat & Me
                                                                                                                                                                         10:30a Shabbat Buddies
                                                                                                                                                                         12:30p Family Shabbat
                                                                                                                                                                          Lunch
                                                                                                                                                                         6:24p Shabbat Ends

 3 •26 Adar I               4 •27 Adar I                   5 •28 Adar I             6 •29 Adar I                    7 •30 Adar I              8 •1 Adar II               9 •2 Adar II
 8:45a Shaharit             7:15a Shaharit                 7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit                  Rosh Hodesh               Rosh Hodesh                9:00a Shaharit
 7:30p Bir’nana Rehearsal   10:15a Shalom Sing-A-Long                               9:00a NY Common Pantry          7:00a Shaharit            7:00a Shaharit             Pekude
                            4:00p Hebrew School                                                                                                                          11:00a Torah Tots
                            5:00p Jewish Cartooning                                 4:00p Hebrew School             8:40a Siddur Class        5:37p Candlelighting
                                                                                    7:30p Talmud Class                                         Minhah/Kabbalat Shabbat   11:00a Torah Kids
                             Workshop (Grades 3-5)
                            6:00p Jewish Cartooning                                                                                           6:30p Shabbat Family       1:00p Book Talk In Good
                             Workshop (Middle & High)                                                                                          Dinner (RSVP)              Faith with the author
                            7:30p Book Talk: Passover                                                                                                                     Scott Shay
                             Haggadah Graphic Novel                                                                                                                      6:31p Shabbat Ends
                             with Jordan "Gorf"

 10•3 Adar II               11•4 Adar II                   12•5 Adar II             13•6 Adar II                    14•7 Adar II              15•8 Adar II               16•9 Adar II
 Daylight Saving Time       7:15a Shaharit                 7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit                  7:15a Shaharit            7:15a Shaharit             Aufruf: Avi Hoffman and
 8:45a Shaharit             10:15a Shalom Sing-A-Long                               4:00p Hebrew School             8:40a Siddur Class        6:00p Minhah/Kabbalat       Arinn Amer
 11:00a Purim at Project    4:00p Hebrew School                                     7:30p Talmud Class              6:30p Zayin Adar Dinner    Shabbat                   Shabbat Zakhor
  ORE                       6:00p B’nei Mitzvah Scholars                                                                                      6:44p Candlelighting       9:00 am Shaharit
 7:30p Bir’nana Rehearsal                                                                                                                                                Vayikra
                                                                                                                                                                         11:00a Torah Tots & Kids
                                                                                                                                                                         12:30p B'nei Mitzvah
                                                                                                                                                                          Cohort Lunch 'n Learn
                                                                                                                                                                         7:39p Shabbat Ends

 17•10 Adar II              18•11 Adar II                  19•12 Adar II            20•13 Adar II                   21•14 Adar II             22•15 Adar II              23•16 Adar II
 8:45a Shaharit             7:15a Shaharit                 7:00a NY Common Pantry   Ta'anit Esther/Erev Purim       Purim                     Shushan Purim              9:00a Shaharit
 10:00a Sing Song Purim     10:15a Shalom Sing-A-Long      7:15a Shaharit           5:33a Fast Begins               7:00a Shaharit            7:15a Shaharit             Tzav
 7:30p Bir’nana Rehearsal   4:00p Hebrew School                                     7:15a Shaharit                   Megillat Esther          6:00p Minhah/Kabbalat      11:00a Torah Tots
                            5:00p Hebrew School Purim                               5:00p Kid's Purim Party         No Siddur Class            Shabbat                   11:00a Torah Kids
                             Celebration                                            7:30p Fast Ends                                           6:52p Candlelighting       1:00p Post Kiddush Talk
                            6:00p B’nei Mitzvah Scholar                             7:40p Ma’ariv/Megillat Esther                                                         with Sam Klagsbrun
                                                                                     and the Purim Celebration                                                           5:43p Shabbat Ends
                                                                                    No Hebrew School                                                                     7:47p Shabbat Ends
                                                                                    No Talmud Class

 24•17 Adar II              25•18 Adar II                  26•19 Adar II            27•20 Adar II                   28•21 Adar II             29•22 Adar II              30 •23 Adar II
 8:45a Shaharit             7:15a Shaharit                 7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit                  7:15a Shaharit            7:15a Shaharit             Shabbat Parah
 7:30p Book Discussions:    10:15a Shalom Sing-A-Long      6:30p OZ Perspectives    4:00p Hebrew School             8:40a Siddur Class        6:00p Minhah/Kabbalat      9:00a Shaharit/Shemini
  Forest Dark               4:00p Hebrew School                                     7:30p Talmud Class                                         Shabbat                   11:00a Torah Tots
                                                                                                                                                                         11:00a Torah Kids
  by Nicole Krauss          6:00p B’nei Mitzvah                                                                                               6:59p Candlelighting       1:00p Post-Kiddush Talk:
 No Bir’nana Rehearsal       Scholars                                                                                                                                     Water Solutions, Community
                                                                                                                                                                          Building, & Development
                                                                                                                                                                          of Desert with Talia Tzour
                                                                                                                                                                          Avner, JNF-KKL
                                                                                                                                                                         7:54p Shabbat Ends
Congregation Or Zarua Office Hours: Monday through Thursday 9:00 am-5:00 pm; Friday 9:00 am–1:00 pm. The office is closed Saturday and Sunday, as well as on Jewish and federal holidays.
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                                    New York, NY 10028•212-452-2310                               April 2019•Adar II/Nissan I 5779
        SUNDAY                      MONDAY                      TUESDAY                WEDNESDAY                 THURSDAY                     FRIDAY                     SATURDAY
 31 March•24 Adar II 1•24 Adar II                         2•25 Adar II             3•27 Adar II             4•28 Adar II              5•29 Adar II                  6•1 Nissan
 8:45a Shaharit               7:15a Shaharit              7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit            7:15a Shaharit                Rosh Hodesh
 7:30p Bir’nana Rehearsal     10:15a Shalom Sing-A-Long   6:30p OZ Perspectives    9:00a NY Common Pantry   8:40a Siddur Class        6:00p OZYP Happy Hour,        Shabbat Hahodesh
                              4:00p Hebrew School                                  4:00p Hebrew School                                 Servics & Dinner             9:00 am Shaharit
                              6:00p B’nei Mitzvah                                  7:30p Talmud Class                                 6:15p Minhah/Kabbalat         Tazria
                               Scholars                                                                                                Shabbat                      11:00a Torah Tots
                                                                                                                                      7:07p Candlelighting          11:00a Torah Kids
                                                                                                                                                                    8:02p Shabbat Ends

 7•2 Nissan                   8•3 Nissan                  9•4 Nissan               10•5 Nissan              11•6 Nissan               12•7 Nissan                   13•8 Nissan
 8:45a Shaharit               7:15a Shaharit              7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit            7:15a Shaharit                Shabbat Hagadol
                              10:15a Shalom Sing-A-Long   6:30p OZ Perspectives                                                                                     9:00a Shaharit/Metzora
 10:00a Dorot Delivery                                                             4:00p Hebrew School      8:40a Siddur Class        6:15p Minhah/Kabbalat         10:30a Family Learning
 11:00a Yom Give Back         4:00p Hebrew School                                  7:30p Talmud Class                                  Shabbat                       Experience
 7:30p Bir’nana Rehearsal     5:30p Sushi & Study,                                                                                    7:14p Candlelighting          10:30a Shabbat & Me
                               Middle School                                                                                                                        10:30a Shabbat Buddies
                              6:00p B’nei Mitzvah                                                                                                                   12:30p Hametz-Fest
                               Scholars                                                                                                                              Kiddush & Family Hangout
                                                                                                                                                                    1:00p Chaburah: Post-
                              6:30p Sushi & Study, High                                                                                                              Kiddush Torah Study
                               School                                                                                                                               8:10p Shabbat Ends

 14•9 Nissan                  15•10 Nissan                16•11 Nissan             17•12 Nissan             18•13 Nissan              19•14 Nissan                  20•15 Nissan
 8:45a Shaharit               7:15a Shaharit              7:00a NY Common Pantry   7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit            Erev Pesah/Ta’anit            First Day of Pesah
 7:30p Bir’nana Rehearsal     10:15a Shalom Sing-A-Long   7:15a Shaharit           4:00p Hebrew School      8:40a Siddur Class        Bechorot (Fast First Born)    9:00a Shaharit
                              4:00p Hebrew School         6:30p OZ Perspectives    7:30p Talmud Class       Bedikat Hametz            Siyum                         No Shabbat Youth Programs
                              5:00p Hebrew School                                                                                     7:15a Shaharit                Light Candles After 8:18pm
                               Pesah Celebration                                                                                      10:39a Finish eating Hametz   Second Seder
                              6:00p B’nei Mitzvah                                                                                     11:47a Sell & Burn Hametz     8:30p OZ Congregational
                               Scholars                                                                                               7:21p Candlelighting            Seder: A Talmudic Seder
                                                                                                                                      First Seder                     led by Rabbi Bolton

 21•16 Nissan                 22•17 Nissan                23•18 Nissan             24•19 Nissan             25•20 Nissan              26•21 Nissan                  27•22 Nissan
 Second Day of Pesah          Hol Hamoed                  Hol Hamoed               Hol Hamoed               Hol Hamoed                Seventh Day of Pesah          Last Day of Pesah
 9:00a Shaharit               Third Day of Pesah          Fourth Day of Pesah      Fifth Day of Pesah       Sixth Day of Pesah        7:00a Shaharit                8:45a Shaharit
 8:20p Yom Tov Ends           7:00a Shaharit              7:00a Shaharit           7:00a Shaharit           9:00a Shaharit            6:15p Minhah/Ma'ariv           Song of Songs/Yizkor
 No Bir’nana Rehearsal        No Hebrew School                                     No Hebrew School         Erev Day 7 Pesah          7:29p Candlelighting          No Shabbat Youth Programs
                                                                                   No Talmud Class          7:28p Candlelighting                                    6:15p Minhah/Seudah
                                                                                                            8:40a Siddur Class                                       Shlishit & Learning with
                                                                                                            No Siddur Class                                          Rabbi Bolton/Ma'ariv
                                                                                                                                                                    8:27p Shabbat & Festival
                                                                                                                                                                     Ends

 28•23 Nissan                 29• 24 Nissan               30 25 Nissan             1 May•26 Nissan          2 May•27 Nissan           3 May•28 Nissan               4 May•29 Nissan
 8:45a Shaharit               7:15a Shaharit              7:15a Shaharit           7:15a Shaharit           Yom HaShoah               7:15a Shaharit                Bar Mitzvah: Ethan Lader
 10:00a Marc Ashley's Class   10:15a Shalom Sing-A-Long   6:30p OZ Perspectives    9:00a NY Common Pantry   7:15a Shaharit            6:30p Minhah/Kabbalat         9:00a Shaharit
  Love and Fear of God        4:00p Hebrew School                                  4:00p Hebrew School      8:40a Siddur Class         Shabbat                      Aharei Mot
 6:30p OZ Gallery Guest       6:00p B’nei Mitzvah                                  7:00p Yom HaShoah                                  7:36p Candlelighting          11:00a Torah Tots
  Speakers                     Scholars                                             Memorial Service                                                                11:00a Torah Kids
 7:30p Bir’nana Rehearsal                                                          No Talmud Class                                                                  8:35p Shabbat Ends

Congregation Or Zarua Office Hours: Monday through Thursday 9:00 am-5:00 pm; Friday 9:00 am–1:00 pm. The office is closed Saturday and Sunday, as well as on Jewish and federal holidays.
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            Siyum
       Friday, April 19                                    Seudah Shlishit Lecture
        Immediately                                    In Memory of Stewart Bolton z”l
     Following Shaharit                                   Saturday, April 27, 6:15 pm
     (morning service)                                       Led by Rabbi Bolton
      Rabbi Bolton will lead a siyum on
           Friday morning, April 19,
     after the completion of the Shaharit
                                                     Big Gifts In All Kinds of Packages
     service (which begins at 7:15 am).        When it comes to gift Rabbinic literature gives packaging details. From the very concrete to
                                                more conceptual approach we will explore the way packages are presented for presents.
       Everyone who attends the siyum                                  This learning is dedicated to the memory of
           will join in a festive meal.                  Stewart L. Bolton, Rabbi Bolton's father, as well as packaging engineer.
      All are invited to attend the siyum.
                                                    Note the full schedule of Shabbat services for April 27 in the column on page 11.

     Ta’anit Behorot
   Fast of the Firstborn                       Pesah Meal Match
                                               First Seder, Friday night, April 19

                                               P
     Friday, April 19                                 esah is the time to invite guests       or if you would like to join other Or Zarua
                                                      into our homes to read the              Congregants in their home, please contact
 What is the Fast of the Firstborn?
                                                      Haggadah during a Seder. If you
 Ta’anit behorot, the Fast of the Firstborn,
                                                      would like to host a guest or guests    with Helene Santo (ext 14) or Deborah
 is a custom observed on the day before
                                                                                              Wenger (ext 12) by Thursday, April 11.
 Pesah to commemorate our gratitude for
 surviving the pre-Exodus tenth plague,
                                                Congregational Second Seder
 dawn-to-dusk fast, which this year falls on
 Friday, April 19.
                                                        Saturday night, April 20, 8:30 pm
 Who is considered a firstborn?                               Led by Rabbi Bolton
                                                                Congregation Or Zarua invites you and your
 his mother or to his father. Having an
 older brother or sister, by either parent,
                                                                family and friends to share the Second Seder
                                                                with us on Saturday night, April 20. Our
                                                                Congregational Seder, led by Rabbi Bolton,
 Why only the male firstborn?                                   begins at 8:30 pm.
 subject to Temple service. It was this             Please make reservations by Monday, April 15 at 212-452-2310, ext. 39,
 hierarchy that was the target of the
                                                              or email Deborah Wenger at dwenger@orzarua.org
                                                               or at Chaverweb or at tinyurl.com/OZSeder2019.
 tenth plague.
                                                   OZ Members and Guests: $75 per adult; $50 per child aged 8 and under.
 How can a firstborn avoid fasting?                    Nonmembers: $125 per adult; $50 per child aged 8 and under.
 The mitzvah of attending a siyum—a
 completion of the reading of a tractate                        Watch for more details and reservation information.
 of Talmud—overrides the mitzvah of
 observing this fast. Firstborns can opt                                    Pre-Pesah Book Talk
 to attend a siyum, which is followed by                            in memory of our beloved Harry Gandel z”l
 a festive meal. The meal is part of the
 deal, so the fast is legitimately broken.             with Graphic Artist Jordan B. “Gorf” Gorfinkel
 Synagogues facilitate this choice for             The New Koren Passover Haggadah Graphic Novel
 morning before Pesah.
                                                                Monday, March 4, 7:30 pm
                                                                                      See Page 3
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Sell Your Hametz                                                                                   PESAH SCHEDULE
                                                                                                     5779/2019
Rabbi Bolton will arrange the transaction

B
          efore Passover, we are required                                                       Thursday, April 18
          to “sell” any hametz in our            April 18, or email a scan of the signed form   Bedikat Hametz
          possession to a non-Jew. The           to dwenger@orzarua.org. Please be sure to
          transaction is arranged by the         sign the form. It is customary to enclose a
          rabbi, to ensure compliance with       contribution to Or Zarua’s Ma’ot Hittim Fund
                                                                                                Friday, April 19
                                                                                                Ta’anit Bechorot (Fast of the Firstborn),
the requirements of halakhah. Send the           with your authorization.
                                                                                                Shaharit, Siyum                  7:15 am
completed form, below, to the synagogue
                                                                                                Finish Eating Hametz    before 10:39 am

  Authorization for the Sale of Hametz                                                          Sell and Burn Hametz before 11:47 am
                                                                                                Erev Pesah/First Seder
                                                                                                 Candlelighting                  7:21 pm
 In accordance with Jewish law, I/we authorize Rabbi Bolton to sell all hametz
 in my/our possession at the locations listed below. Enclosed is my/our                         Saturday, April 20
 contribution to Or Zarua’s Ma’ot Hittim Fund. Note that this authorization                     Shabbat & First Day of Pesah
 must be signed; this authorization is NOT valid without your signature.                         Shaharit                        9:00 am
                                                                                                Erev Second Day of Pesah/Second Seder
 Name(s) ____________________________________________________________                            Light Candles             after 8:18 pm
                                                                                                 OZ Congregational Seder         8:30 pm
 Street Address _____________________________________________ Apt # ____
                                                                                                Sunday, April 21
                                                                                                Second Day of Pesah
 City/State/Zip _______________________________________________________                          Shaharit                       9:00 am
                                                                                                 Yom Tov ends                   8:20 pm
 Other Locations (vacation home, office, etc):
                                                                                                Monday, April 22-Wednesday, April 24
 Address ____________________________________________________________                           Third-Fifth Days of Pesah, Hol Hamoed
                                                                                                 Shaharit each morning           7:00 am
 Address ____________________________________________________________
                                                                                                Thursday, April 25
 Address ____________________________________________________________                           Sixth Day of Pesah, Hol Hamoed
                                                                                                 Shaharit                      7:00 am
                                                                                                 Candlelighting                7:28 pm
 Signature __________________________________________________________
 Please note that this authorization must be signed.
                                                                                                Friday, April 26
     Send this completed form to the OZ office no later than, Thursday, April 18:               Seventh Day of Pesah
                                                                                                 Shaharit                       9:00 am
                      By scan and email to: dwenger@orzarua.org                                  Minhah/Ma‘ariv                 6:15 pm
                                                                                                 Candlelighting                 7:29 pm
                                  By fax: 212-452-2103
         By US Postal Service mail so that it arrives by Thursday, April 18 to:                 Saturday, April 27
                   Rabbi Scott N. Bolton, Congregation Or Zarua                                 Shabbat & Last Day of Pesah
                                                                                                 Shaharit                        8:45 am
                    127 East 82nd Street, New York, NY 10028
                                                                                                 Song of Songs

Ma’ot Hittim Fund
                                                                                                 Yizkor
                                                                                                 Minhah, Seudah Shlishit Lecture with
                                                                                                    Rabbi Bolton, Ma’ariv        6:15 pm
                                                                                                 Shabbat & Festival ends         8:27 pm
Assist needy Jews to prepare for Passover

T
          he Haggadah tells us that every Jew    money), to two communal organizations
          must experience the Exodus from        — the Joint Passover Appeal in New York
          Egypt, and the Mishnah tells us        and the New York Board of Rabbis — for                 Help Keep Our
          that a Jew should drink four cups of   distribution to needy Jews.                          Daily Minyan Strong
          wine at the Seder, even if funds for      We hope that you will give generously             Please donate ONE HOUR
these come from the public dole.                                                                    ONE MORNING per month to our
   We, therefore, raise such funds each          kindness. Please make your check payable                 Shaharit minyan.
year to assist less fortunate Jews who           to Congregation Or Zarua and write Ma’ot               Contact Sheldon Adler:
cannot afford to prepare for Passover. We        Hittim Fund on the memo line.                          sadler@skadden.com
forward the funds, called ma’ot hittim (wheat
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    Omer Basics                                  Guidelines for Passover
                                                 The guidelines below were prepared for              kitniyot on Pesah.
 WHAT’S AN OMER? An omer is a unit of            the Rabbinical Assembly Committee on                    Permitted foods that DO NOT require
 measure for cut sheaves of a grain crop.        Jewish Law and Standards by Rabbi Mayer             a Kosher le-Pesah label: fresh fruit, fresh
 The 49-day period between the second            Rabinowitz. They were accepted by the               vegetables (for legumes, see above),
 day of Pesah and the day before Shavuot         Committee on December 12, 1984, and have            and eggs.
                                                 been reviewed by Rabbi Bolton. Remember                 Permitted foods that DO require a
 ha’omer—the counting of the omer.               that the kosher for Passover home is a              Kosher le-Pesah label: all baked products
                                                 unique and transcendent experience for
 WHY DO WE COUNT IT? The Torah tells             adults as well as children. Pesah feels             matzah meal, and any other products con-
 us in Parashat Emor (Leviticus 23:15–16)        different to the extent that it is different, and   taining matzah), canned or bottled fruit juice
 that an omer of barley was brought to           special foods and practices are the source of
 the Temple on the second day of Pesah           the special experience.                             listed among the ingredients), canned tuna

                                                 T
 as a “wave offering.” This omer of barley                                                           (often processed in vegetable broth and/or
 consisted of newly harvested grain, and                    he Torah prohibits the ownership         hydrolyzed protein, even when packed in
 new barley could not be eaten until the                    of hametz (leaven) during Pesah.         water), wine, vinegar, liquor, oil, dried fruit,
 omer offering was brought. Starting on                     Therefore, we arrange for the sale of    ice cream, yogurt, and soda.
 the second day of Pesah, 49 days were                      the hametz to a non-Jew. The sale—           The following processed foods (canned,
 counted, at the end of which Shavuot was                   mekhirat hametz—is accomplished          bottled, or frozen) DO require a Kosher
 celebrated and an offering was brought          by appointing an agent, usually the rabbi,          le-Pesah label if PURCHASED DURING
 to the Temple from the early summer’s           to handle the transfer. The transaction is a        PESAH: milk and milk products, butter,
                                                 valid and legal transfer of ownership. At the       juice, vegetables, fruit, spices, coffee, tea,
 ha’omer, is done at nightfall each day          end of the holiday, the agent arranges for the
 during the seven weeks. The counting of         reversion of owner- ship of the now-permitted
 the omer connects the Exodus from Egypt         hametz. If ownership of the hametz was not
 with the giving of the Torah at Mt. Sinai. In
                                                                                                     Non-Food Items
                                                 transferred before the holiday, the use of this         Detergent: If permitted during the year,
 eagerness, we count the days of waiting         hametz is prohibited even after the holiday         powdered and liquid detergents DO NOT
 for the revelation.                             (hametz sheaver alav ha-Pesah).                     require a Kosher le-Pesah label.
                                                     The Torah also prohibits the eating of              Medicine: Because many pills are made
 HOW DO WE OBSERVE IT? For a period              hametz during Pesah. We often need guid-            with hametz binders, follow this guideline: If
 of time during the counting of the omer it      ance when shopping and preparing for the            the medicine is required for life-sustaining
 is traditional to observe certain semi-         holiday because many common foods con-              therapy, it may be used on Pesah; if it is not
 mourning customs, such as postponing            tain some admixture of hametz.                      for life-sustaining therapy, some authorities
 weddings and forgoing haircuts. This                During the eight days of Pesah, hametz          permit, while others prohibit the use of the
 tradition may have an agricultural origin       does not lose its identity, even in an              medicine. Consult Rabbi Bolton.
 in that the period leading up to the            admixture. Therefore, the minutest amount of
 summer harvest is a time of concern for         hametz renders the whole admixture hametz,
 the continuing safety of the crop. But also     and its use on Pesah is prohibited.                 Kashering (of hametz items)
 during this time of year in the second              Following are some general guidelines.             Utensils: The process of kashering
 century CE, some 24,000 of Rabbi Akiva’s        Consult Rabbi Bolton when there is any doubt        utensils depends on how the utensils are
 students perished—they were most likely         about the status of a product. Examine the          used. According to halakhah, leaven can be
 killed by the Romans.                           Kosher le-Pesah label: If it does not bear the      purged from a utensil by the same process
                                                 name of a rabbi, does not contain one of the        through which it was absorbed into the
 WHAT IS LAG B’OMER? Lag B’Omer is               recognized symbols of rabbinic supervision,         utensil (ke-voleo kakh poleto). Therefore,
 the 33rd day of the counting—“lag” is           or is not integral to the package, check with       utensils used in cooking are kashered by
 an acronym made up of lamed (30) and            Rabbi Bolton.                                       boiling, those used in broiling are kashered
 gimel (3). The massive fatalities of Rabbi
 Akiva’s students halted on that day,                                                                food are kashered by rinsing.
 and the customs of semi-mourning are
                                                 Food Items                                             Earthenware: China, pottery, etc. may
                                                    Prohibited food: leavened bread, cake,
 suspended. Lag B’Omer is observed as
                                                 biscuits, crackers, cereal, coffee containing
 the yahrzeit of Rabbi Shimon bar Yohai,                                                             chinaware that has not been used for over a
                                                 cereal derivatives, wheat, barley, oats, spelt,
 the person said to have authored the                                                                year may be used for Pesah if scoured and
                                                 rye, and all liquids containing ingredients or
 mystical book the Zohar. This year Lag                                                              cleaned in hot water.
 B’Omer begins on the night of                                                                          Metal: Utensils made entirely of metal
                                                     According to Ashkenazic custom, the
 Wednesday, May 22.                                                                                  and used in fire (such as a spit or broiler)
                                                 following foods—kitniyot—are added to the
                                                                                                     must first be thoroughly scrubbed, cleaned,
                                                 prohibited list: rice, corn, millet, and legumes
                                                                                                     and then heated to the highest possible
          Or Zarua’s                             (beans and peas; but string beans are
                                                                                                     temperature. Utensils used for cooking or
                                                 permitted). The Committee on Jewish Law
     Tikkun Leyl Shavuot                         and Standards has ruled unanimously that
                                                                                                     eating (such as silverware or pots) must
                                                                                                     be thoroughly scrubbed, cleaned, and then
            will be                              peanuts and peanut oil are permissible.
                                                                                                     completely immersed in boiling water. These
                                                     In contrast to Ashkenazic custom,
    Saturday night, June 8.                      Sephardic authorities permit the use of all           Continued on page 13, column 1, bottom

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  Yom HaShoah Memorial Service                                                                            Talmud & Siddur
                                                                                                            Classes with
                  Wednesday, May 1, 7:00 pm
                                                                                                            Rabbi Bolton
  We will be commemorating Yom HaShoah with our annual Holocaust Memorial Service
     on Wednesday evening, May 1, 7:00 pm. This short, moving service involves the
                                                                                                              Talmud Class for 5779
      participation of adults and teens from our community. If you wish to take part
                                                                                                           Wednesdays, 7:30–9:00 pm
         in this service, please email Ilana Burgess at hebrewteacher@gmail.com.
                                                                                                           as noted in the OZ Calendar
                                                                                                   Fasting, Praying, Planting, and Walking
                                                                                                   Through the Rain: Masekhet Ta’anit
                                                                                                   We will be studying Masekhet Ta’anit.
                                                                                                   In four chapters (30 pages), the Talmud
                                                                                                   explores ancient ideas about individual
                                                                                                   prayers, fasts, and communal practices

                                                                                                   includes: prayers for rain, our relationship
                                                                                                   to the natural world (that is, rain, seasons,
                                                                                                   and agriculture), our power as “pray-ers,”
                                                                                                   and the Koheinic blessings that were
                                                                                                   performed in ancient days. A discussion of
                                                                                                   public fast days allows for a presentation
                                                                                                   and review of Jewish history. The Rabbis
                                                                                                   begin the discussion of which is more
                                                                                                   important: a focus on tragedies or a focus
                                                                                                   on moments of success and triumph? We
Guidelines for Passover continued from page 12                                                     will see some of the earliest material in the
metal objects should not be used for a period    24 hours. Then, complete a full wash cycle        Talmud that deals with communal prayer,
of at least 24 hours between the cleaning        with detergent.                                   which, according to some scholarship,
and the immersion in boiling water. Metal            Electrical appliances: If parts that come     coalesced around public fast days that were
baking utensils cannot be kashered               into contact with hametz are removable,           declared for the purpose of beseeching
for Pesah.                                       they can be kashered in the appropriate way       God for communal needs. Join Rabbi Bolton
    Ovens and ranges: Every part that comes      (if metal, follow the rule for metal utensils).   on Wednesday evenings to explore this
into contact with food must be thoroughly        If the parts are not removable, then the          fascinating tractate.
scrubbed, cleaned, and then heated to the        appliance cannot be kashered. However, all
highest possible temperature for a half hour.    exposed parts should be thoroughly cleaned                   Siddur Class for 5779
For ovens with no self-cleaning feature, use     in either case.                                            Thursdays, 8:40–9:40 am
the broil setting; for self-cleaning ovens,          Tables, closets, and countertops: If                  as noted in the OZ Calendar
                                                                                                   To the Finish Line:
use the self-cleaning feature to achieve the     they have come into contact with hametz,
                                                                                                   Prayers at the End of our Service
highest temperature. Continuous-cleaning         surfaces should be thoroughly cleaned and
                                                                                                   Thursday mornings, the Siddur Class meets
ovens must be kashered in the same manner        covered before use.
                                                                                                   to explore the richness and depth of our
as regular ovens.                                    Kitchen sinks: Metal sinks must be
                                                                                                   liturgy and to consider the meanings we
    Microwave ovens: These do not cook           thoroughly cleaned and then doused with
                                                                                                   give to our Jewish prayers and practices.
food by means of heat. After the interior is     boiling water. Porcelain sinks must be thor-
                                                                                                   Discussions center on the language of
cleaned, place a cup of water inside. Keep       oughly cleaned and outfitted with a sink rack.
                                                                                                   the prayerbook, as well as comparisons to
the oven on until the water disappears. A        Items may be soaked in a basin placed inside
                                                                                                   siddur manuscripts throughout the Jewish
microwave oven that has a browning element       a porcelain sink.
                                                                                                   ages. We also discuss the lived experience
cannot be kashered for Pesah.                        Hametz and non-Passover items: In
                                                                                                   of prayer—how to engage, when it feels
    Glassware: Drinking glasses and              order to prevent accidental use, all non-
                                                                                                   empty, infusing the minyan experience
stemware require only a thorough cleaning,       Passover kitchen items and hametz whose
                                                                                                   with meaning. Those wondering about how
by hand or in a dishwasher, before Pesah.        ownership has been transferred should be
    Glass cookware: There is a difference of     separated from Passover items, marked,
                                                                                                   a place around the table, as those whose
opinion as to whether glass cookware should      covered, and placed in a locked area.
                                                                                                   interests lie in the Hebrew of the siddur and
be kashered. One opinion is that it must be

                                                 A
                                                                                                   a historical look at our liturgy. Our focus
kashered—after a thorough cleaning, boil
                                                                                                   this coming year will be the prayers at the
water in the cookware so that it overflows the             n ever-increasing variety of Kosher
                                                                                                   end of our services. We will look again at
rim. The other opinion is that only a thorough             le-Pesah products is available in
                                                                                                   Ashrei, and talk about psalms that have
cleaning is required.                                      local markets as well as in the
                                                                                                   been included; the selection “U'va L’Tzion,”
    Glass bakeware: Like metal bakeware,                   specially dedicated Pesah stores
                                                                                                   with ideas of holiness and redemption at its
glass bakeware may not be kashered for                     that appear each year. Patronize
                                                                                                   core; and, Aleinu and Mourner's Kaddish.
Pesah.                                           these special Pesah stores, for they provide
                                                                                                   When are we ever done praying?! Come join
    Dishwashers: Clean any food trap or filter   an important service to the
                                                                                                   the Siddur Class on Thursday mornings.
and leave the dishwasher unused for              Jewish community.

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 The Or Zarua Community
 Fund contributions received between December 1, 2018 and January 31, 2019
 Condolences                             Barbara Lutzky Packer and Stuart Packer in                          Valerie and Allen Hyman in honor of Allen's 85th
 Our deepest sympathies to:                               memory of Barbara's mother, Ruth Lutzky, and           Birthday
 Mona Dreier on the death of her mother, Carol            in memory of Archie Packer                         Allyn Maultasch, with thanks to Tammy Jasper
    Preminger                                          Jerry Marcus                                          Ronni Myers
 Pearl Schmutter and Eric Schmutter, on the death      Thelma Plesser in memory of Louis Okrent,             Pearl and Owen Pell in memory of Owen's parents,
    of Pearl’s husband and Eric’s father, Aaron           Thelma's father and Diane Okrent's grandfather;        Beatrice Lynnette Pell and Leonard Pell
    Schmutter.                                            Hyman Cleon, Thelma's uncle and Diane's great-     John Philipp in memory of his wife Rachel Philipp
 Fred Seid, on the death of his father, Sheldon           uncle; and Pauline Okrent Boord, Thelma's aunt     Amy and Jonathan Saks in honor of the naming of
    Jerome Seid.                                          and Diane's great-aunt                                 Abigail Rey
 Alan Yaillen, on the death of his mother, Janet       Linda Pomper in memory of her father, Arthur S.       Anne and Reed Schneider in memory of Martin
    Yaillen                                               Rosenfeld                                              Schneider on his yahrtzeit
 May they and their loved ones be comforted            Marilyn Povodator in memory of her mother, Anna       Liora and Jeremy Seltzer in honor of their marriage
    among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.             Povodator                                          Jill Shapiro in memory of her mother, Lorraine
                                                       Howard Pressman in memory of his father, William          Shapiro
 Mazel Tov                                                Pressman                                           Judy Taylor, in honor of Elle's becoming Bat Mitzvah
 Bobbi and Barry Coller on their granddaughter,        Barbara Sassoon in memory of her father,
    Natalie Kruglyak, becoming Bat Mitzvah                Abraham E. Freedman                                Kol Nidre Appeal
 Randi Dubno and Adam Gardner, on Callie               Anne and Reed Schneider in honor of Barry             Marcel and Sheldon Adler
    becoming Bat Mitzvah                                  Feldman for his teaching on NY Jewish history      Mimi and Barry Alperin
 Hillary and Natan Nussbaum on the birth of their         and in honor of Mark Somerstein for sharing his    Anna and Abraham Ascher
    first child, Baby Boy Nussbaum                        music                                              Joanne and Marc Ashley
 Reena and Artie Seltzer on the birth of their first   Charlie Spielholz in honor of Milton and Marilyn's    Elaine Blum
    grandchild                                            70th wedding anniversary                           Emily Braun and Andrew Frackman
 Ronit Setton and Benjamin Hershkowitz, on Chloe       Charlotte Schwartz                                    Julie Copeland and Robert Beller
    becoming Bat Mitzvah                               Lynda Wertheim and Toby Wertheim in honor of          Ellen Wetter-Brenner and Mark Brenner
 Judy Taylor, on Elle becoming Bat Mitzvah                Barry Feldman                                      Lori and Donald Citak
                                                       Sherry and Gene Zuriff in memory of Gene's            Laurie Dien and Alan Yaillen
 Caring Community Fund                                    mother, Rhoda Zuriff                               Betsy and Ira Dizengoff
 Laurie Dien and Alan Yaillen                                                                                Mona Dreier
                                                       Hesed Fund                                            Beth Fisher and Harvey Himel
 Gallery Fund                                          Shelley Binder, in memory of Shelley’s mother, Riva   Emily Braun and Andrew Frackman
 Bobbi and Barry Coller                                   Binder                                             Felice and Darrell Friedman
                                                       Linda and Jeff Haberman in memory of Linda's          Natalie Friedman and Chris Miller
 General Fund                                             mother, Miriam Waldman and Jeff's father,          Karen and Henry Glanternik
 Rachel and Daniel Anziska in memory of Harry             Marvin Haberman                                    Pam and Mark Gold
    Gandel                                             Anne and Reed Schneider, for the New York             Joel and Michelle Gorenstein
 Nancy and David Berkowitz                                Common Pantry                                      Joan and Stuart Gross
 Laurie and Bob Cooper in memory of Laurie's           Judith and Barry Schneider in memory of Barry’s       Julie Hausen and Scott Hausen
    mother, Bertha Tenzer                                 mother Ellen Schneider                             Ruth Horowitz and Michael Nachman
 Elaine Danzig                                         Ethel Bass-Weintraub and Barry Weintraub in           Roz Goldberg and Alan Bandler
 Laurie Dien and Alan Yaillen in honor of the             memory of Ethel’s mother, Anita Bass               Caroline Golden Ilberman and Alan Ilberman
    marriage of Rebecca Mack and Raphael Nissan        Claire and Peter Wolf Smith, for the New York         Karen and Jonathan Kaplan
    and in honor of the engagement of Victor              Common Pantry                                      Meredith and Michael Katz
    Shelden and Emily Nhaissi                                                                                Phillip and Nancy Katz
 Betsy and Ira Dizengoff in memory of Betsy's          Hevra Kadisha                                         Vivian and Fred Kenvin
    grandfather, Benjamin Weir                         Betsy and Ira Dizengoff in memory of Betsy's          Irina and Alex Knaster
 Mona Dreier in honor of Diane Okrent and Aaron           grandmother, Mollye Jassen                         Benjamin Marcus
    Shelden                                            Aliza Kaplan in memory of Brian Sahn’s mother,        Marla and Michael Marin
 Joanne Feierman in honor of the Bat Mitzvah              Thelma Ward Spanbock                               Barbara Lutzky Packer and Stuart Packer
    of Barry and Bobbi's granddaughter, Natalie        The OZ and greater community in memory of Harry       Lesley and Jay Palmer
    Kruglyak and for Arlene and Shelly Simon, on          Gandel                                             Miriam Lieberson-Pollack and Stuart Pollack
    the loss of Shelly's cousin, Irving Katz           Glauber Family and Laura Sebi with thanks to          Helene Ruddy in memory of her father, Harry
 Laura Fisher and Adi Raviv in memory of Laura's          Gerry and Phyllis Solomon for all they have done       Bardin
    sister, Andrea Fisher                                 to help others                                     Lisa and Eric Schmutter
 Emily and Jonathan Gibbons                            Nora and Barry Yood in memory of Barry’s parents,     Charlotte Schwartz
 Judy and Robert Golub in memory of Judy's                Leonore and Morris Yood                            Evelyn and Morton Schwartz
    mother, Chana Rubin                                                                                      Barbara Scott and Jonathan Bromberg
 Stanley Goodman                                       Kiddush Fund                                          Laure Sebi and Ira Glauber
 Julie Hausen and Scott Hausen in memory of            Willi Aeder in memory of her husband, Arthur          Arthur and Reena Seltzer
    Scott's mother, Nina Hausen                          Aeder, on the occasion of his second yahrzeit       Herb Shapiro
 Aliza Kaplan in honor of Betsy and Ira Dizengoff      Dore Hollander in celebration of the first Shabbat    Robert Skolnick
    and in honor of Raanan Korinow and Shira             of her retirement                                   Russell Squire
    Novack                                             Benjamin and Ilona Charkow in honor of Micah's        Richard and Audrey Stadin
 Francine and Samuel Klagsbrun                           Torah reading on the first anniversary of his Bar   Naomi Friedland-Wechsler and Rabbi Harlan
 Terry Krulwich and Paul Posner in honor of the          Mitzvah                                                 Wechsler
    birthday and Bar Mitzvah of their grandson,        Bobbi and Barry Coller in honor of Terry Ann          Sarah Klagsbrun and Eric Weinstein
    Harry Leon Posner                                    Krulwich to celebrate the symposium at Mount        Elaine and James Wolfensohn
 Rachel and Roy Levit in memory of Roy’s sister,         Sinai in her honor and in memory of Barry's         Alice and Milton Wolson
    Anita Yambra                                         father, Arthur Coller                               Alex and Malorie Warents
 Diane Okrent and Aaron Shelden in honor of            Betsy and Ira Dizengoff for sponsoring the            Susan Zilberman
    Marilyn and Milton Kalin's 70th wedding              “Together with Pittsburgh Solidarity Shabbat        Heather Zion
    anniversary and in memory of Diane's uncle,          Luncheon”                                           Nancy and Jay Zises
    Edward Rieff, on his fifth yahrzeit                Natalie Friedman and Chris Miller                             Continued on Page 15, top, left column
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