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Sunday Services St Nicholas’ Church and Parochial Hall 8.30am Said Holy Communion at St Nicholas’ Church, Book of Common Prayer - on first and third Sundays. 10.00am Holy Communion at St Nicholas’ Church, with singing. Family Praise - on the second Sunday These services will also be livestreamed on YouTube Café Sunday on the fourth Sunday of the month at 10.00am in the Parochial Hall. StN Kids on the first and third Sundays at 10.00am in the Parochial Hall. 4.30pm Evening Service, St Nicholas’ Church Choral Evensong on the second and fourth Sundays St Barnabas’ Church 11.00am Morning Worship, with singing at St Barnabas’ Church, Albion Street Online: Sundays at 10.00am - livestreamed our Eucharist Service from St Nicholas’ Church via our YouTube channel, where you can also watch previous services. Visit the church website at www.stnicholaskenilworth.org.uk and find the link for Worship from Home or click here for ways to take part in Sunday services on-line, including an order of service for you to follow, pre-recorded services and Audio acts of worship. Mid-Week Services Morning Prayer Monday to Friday at 7.45am in St Nicholas’ Church Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday for morning prayer online at 8.30am. on Zoom Tuesday 11.00am 'Leavenses at St Barnabas’ Church Wednesday 10.00am Mid-week Eucharist at St Nicholas’ Church Thursday 4.30pm Evening Prayer at St Barnabas’ Church St Nicholas with St Barnabas Kenilworth A Parish in the Church of England Diocese of Coventry and Registered Charity 1126227 e-mail: office@stnicholaskenilworth.org.uk www.stnicholaskenilworth.org.uk 2
The Vicar’s Letter Advent I write this as we start out on the season of Advent together. Advent is all about expectant waiting, knowing that God has, God is and God will bring about his Kingdom on Earth. But this is not a passive waiting. Waiting is a time to look around and recognize that all is not as it should be or could be. Waiting is the time to lean into these feelings of longing. It is a time to lean into those feelings that not all is right, and that there is something better to come. It is a time to dream; it is a time to imagine. When we wait, though it seems that death and suffering run rampant and unrestrained through our world, we dream of being comforted. We dream of being reunited with loved ones. We dream of a time when God is going to make everything alright. To echo the words of Jeremiah, we dream of a time when God’s promise is fulfilled, and all will live in safety and in flourishing. We dream of a day when God will execute justice and righteousness throughout the land. In the coming weeks of Advent, we will hear of the prophets who came to prepare the way for Jesus, especially John the Baptizer. We will hear a message of repentance and of a baptism of fire. And of course, we will hear of Mary and Elizabeth. The task before us is to read and hear these stories in the spirit of Advent. Advent is a time to stop and to hesitate. It is a time to dig into the discomfort and seeming incongruities Scripture presents to us. It is a time to linger with questions rather than rush to answers. These moments of delay or disruption create space to feel. In these coming weeks leading up to Christmas, may we all pause and look around. May we notice those things which are and those things we wish would be. Certainly, we believe in Christmas and the theologies of Incarnation and of God’s presence with us. But we also believe in the not-yet. We hold onto those feelings of discomfort and of doubt. We believe in Christmas, but let us also believe in Advent. What does it mean to believe in Advent? To believe in Advent is to believe in waiting. And may our waiting be full of dreams for a better world, full of God’s justice and love made present to all. Stella Revd Stella Bailey 3
Re-setting the COVID caution In the light of the omicron variant now present in the UK we need to re- set our level of caution around COVID and seek ways that we can create a safer environment for the most vulnerable amongst us. Please wear a mask when attending services and events in our Church buildings. This is mirroring the government advice, where they have introduced mandatory mask wearing in locations where people gather. In line with government guidance, please also consider taking a free NHS Lateral flow test before attending. These are available via mail order or at the pharmacist. To ensure that our building does not become overcrowded, we have made some of our Christmas Services ticket only events. Tickets will be released in batches of 50 so that, if we need to reduce the building occupancy level, we can do this by cancelling the last batch. At this stage you will require a ticket to attend the carol service on 19th December and the crib service on 24th December. We will evaluate the local health situation over the coming weeks and will publicise if any other restrictions need to be put in place. If you wish to book a ticket you can do so by calling the office or following the link on the website. Thank you for your continued support as we navigate the changing winds of COVID. Stella Revd Stella Bailey 44
Christmas Services St Barnabas’ Church Sunday 19th December 4.30pm – Carol Service Saturday 25th December 11am – Eucharist for Christmas Day No service on Sunday 26th December St Nicholas’ Church Sunday 12th December 10.00am Christingle Service at Family Praise Sunday 19th December 6.30pm – Carols by Candlelight Service * Friday 24th December 4pm – Crib Service* Followed by Café Sunday hospitality of Mulled Wine and Hot Chocolate. Friday 24th December 11.30pm – Midnight Mass Saturday 25th December 8.30am – Communion (BCP) Saturday 25th December 10am – Family Eucharist Sunday 26th December 10am – Eucharist No other services on this Sunday. Services marked * are ticket only services – for bookings or more details, please check the church website or your Newsletter. Dear readers … We hope you enjoy this edition of The Grapevine magazine. The Online edition is free. A small number of printed copies of The Grapevine will also be available in church for £1 The online edition has interactive links which were all working at the time of the copy date. Should you find one not working, please contact me so that I can correct it. You will find ‘Print out and Play’ puzzles which you may find easier to complete if printed. If you wish to contribute, my copy date is currently the 25th of the previous month, (see page 37 for details) Keep safe and well. Ed 55
The Curates’ Egg The long period of Ordinary Time has come to an end and we enter into the season of Advent. Advent has to do battle with that other seasonal six letter word beginning with a capital ‘A’ which casts its spell over the nation even more pervasively this time of year – Amazon. The phenomenon which is Black Friday and online shopping from Amazon and other suppliers sets the tone on the countdown to Christmas which is quite at odds with the way Christians should be entering the season. Advent translates from the Latin adventus or coming and is liturgically at least, a season of penitence – a little Lent if you like, and although fasting is no longer a feature, Advent is marked in church with purple vestments and the absence of the Gloria. There is an inherent tension for Christians, theologian Richard Giles writes that Advent conceals the tug of war between human inclinations and the Church’s intentions. We of course have the choice, to follow the herd or to take the path less well trod and use Advent as a time of waiting, waiting both for the celebration of the birth of Christ and contemplating also the Second Coming at the end of times, the Eschaton when, in the words of the Nicene Creed, ‘Christ will come again in glory to Judge the living and the dead.’ To passively wait can be a fruitless exercise, wasteful of time and energy. To enter into the spirit of Advent one has to use the time constructively, prayerfully, charitably. An inner and inward prayer life should focus on the biblical message of Advent, of Mary’s resounding YES to God’s invitation to be the God-bearer; of the humility of the last of the Old Testament prophets, John the Baptist who testified to the light, the true light which would enlighten us all. Both Mary and John chose life, the life that came into being in him who was the life and light of all people. There can however be no absolution for the penitent if we focus solely on looking inwards, Giles again: ‘Immanence needs to be balanced by transcendence.’ The indwelling of God balanced by the power of God over the material world. When reciting the creed all face east, priest included, in anticipation of Christ’s coming in glory, rising in the East as the sun of righteousness. Our outward looking prayer life has good cause to look to the east; for it is from overwhelmingly from the east that those children, women, and men making the perilous cross- Channel journey in rubber inflatables are coming. Against a backdrop of tabloid outrage, it is our voices that should be heard clamouring for a loving response to their plight. continued on page 7 6
Continued from page 6 - The Curates’ Egg For etched on the faces of each human refugee, migrant and asylum seeker we see Mary and Joseph journeying to Bethlehem, we see the plight of the Holy Family fleeing the slaughter of the innocents. Pray that you will never become numb to the news footage, pray that you will forever be stirred and disturbed by such scenes as those unfolding on the beaches of the south coast. And in what might seem to some as an almost parallel universe we gather to celebrate Christmas together, not celebrating as if nothing has happened but a coming together because almost nothing is the same. Unlike the unchanging Christmas repeats on television; the Morecombe and Wise, the Fools and Horses staples of our Christmas TV diet we have all been changed, changed by Covid, changed by the people scrambling ashore in life jackets. In the midst we keep the feast to remember God’s own son who came to Earth in human form, the Word made flesh, who comes into all our untidiness and disorder and loves each one of us unconditionally. Jesus loves you; Jesus loves me. Amen. Happy Christmas, Richard Revd Richard Moore | Curate It Could Be YOU! As we return back to a normal rhythm to church life, we need extra people to join our teams that help lead different aspects of our worship. Could God be stirring within you a calling to use your gifts for Him? We need people to join the rota for reading the bible in the service, for leading intercessions and to join our Serving Team. If you would like to explore further what this might look like, please speak to one of the Worship Leaders. We are also looking for volunteers to serve coffee after the 10.00am service at St Nicholas’ Church on a rota basis. If you would like to help, please contact Janet Cherry, Tel: 01926 857931. Sing with Us As we return back to singing in Church, this is a great opportunity to join the Robed Choir. Choir Practice is on Fridays 7.00 - 8.00pm in St Nicholas Church. Please contact James Hunt, Organist for more information - E- mail: jhuntcovorg@gmail.com 77
St. Nicholas’ Ladies Group Dear All I was away for our meeting in October but the ladies thoroughly enjoyed an entertaining evening hosted by Janet Wroe and a companion who talked about the TV Quiz shows they had been on together, and also breaking out into song. Our ladies said that the whole evening was a delight. We hope to have a return visit in the future (they can do a variety of talks). St. Nicholas’ Ladies Group enjoyed a very informative afternoon about Glass Stained Windows from Aiden MacCrae Thompson at our November Meeting. He was very knowledgeable about this subject which ranged from very early times of glass making to modern glass making and designing. Due to renovations at St. Barnabas’ Church our Tuesday, 7th December meeting will take place in St. Nichola’s Church at 2.00pm. There will be a quiz, festive music and afternoon tea, (which will be bought in having labelled ingredients). Those with specific allergies are recommended to bring their own foods. if required. Our Tuesday, 4th January meeting is to be held at Egos for a lunchtime meal at 1.00pm. Names, numbers plus deposits now with Egos. On Tuesday, 1st February we are to have a talk from Barry Rogers entitled “3 Three Cathedrals.” This meeting will commence at 2.00pm in St. Barnabas’ Church. Kind regards Gill Peppitt, Secretary 01926 512209 Smile Lines … First Communion My three-year-old niece, Kelly, went with a neighbour’s little girl to church for her First Communion practice. The minister had the children cup their hands, and then went solemnly down the line, giving each child a piece of bread, and intoning: “God be with you”. Apparently, this made quite an impression on my niece. She came home and told her mother to cup her hands and bend down. Kelly took a piece of bread from her sandwich, placed it in her mother’s hands, and whispered, in her most angelic voice, “God will get you.” The Parish Pump 8 8
The Flower Guild Greetings everyone, This year our Grand Workshop was early on 6th November. Barbara did a splendid table arrangement. This was quickly followed by the participants of the workshop and I think you will agree that they did beautiful arrangements that would grace any table and be adapted for any time of the year. Thank you to all that attended this event. Sadly, it was an opportunity for us to mark the passing of Jean Truesdale who always supported our endeavours. Wishing You all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year Annie Ralphs Annie Ralphs | Chairperson, Flower Guild 10 10 Continued on page 11
The Flower Guild Workshop 2022 Hello everyone This is very advance notice of our first Workshop of the New Year but I feel sure that you will all have your new diaries so this can be one of your first entries. th We will meet on Saturday 29 January 2022 10.30am in St Nicholas’ Church when we will be able to enjoy a morning of flowers coffee and chat together. I will demonstrate a very simple line arrangement. The basic of all traditional designs start with a focal line so for those of you who may like to join in the Workshop afterwards but perhaps aren’t very confident, this is a good design to start with and for the more experienced ,a chance to show your skill and use your imagination by using accessories. The recipe for the design is below. Everyone is welcome, so please tell your friends and come and join us - we will look forward to welcoming you. May I take this opportunity to say thank you for supporting The Flower Guild Workshop over the past few months, since we opened up after lockdown. When we had the first workshop,we wondered if anyone would turn up but luckily you did and we have grown in numbers since. A big thank you from the whole team. Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy Healthy and Peaceful New Year. Barbara 01926 777367 Recipe for a Line Arrangement A shallow container which will hold water, about the size of a flan dish. This will be an integral part of the design so plain or fancy. 1/3rd block of foam. This will be for sale on the day. 7 - 9 single flowers: Roses Gemini, Iris or Carnations 3- 5 Phormium leaves - not to tall 3 small Fatsia, large Ivy leaves, small Bergenia A few small textured Ivy leaves a different colour or curly, or whatever you find in the garden. A little bun moss Glass stones or pebbles If you have any queries, please ring me. Barbara Sheppard, 01926 777367 11 11
St Nicholas’ Clock is restored I I am delighted to inform Grapevine readers that the church clock at St Nicholas has been restored to full working order. Works completed include overhaul repair and restoration of the clock mechanism, restoration of hourly and quarter chimes and night silencing equipment. Total cost was £7,687.00 + recoverable VAT. This money was paid to us by benefactors, without any cost to church funds. We have several benefactors to thank for this generosity. Firstly, the C of E Church Buildings Council made a contributory award of £1,897.00 towards the cost. The Friends of St Nicholas and St Barnabas made up the difference between the total restoration cost estimate and the Church Council Grant. Chairman Alan Pulham gave £3,000.00 of his own money. Friends agreed to pay £2,790.00. We express our most sincere and hearty thanks to our benefactors, especially Alan Pulham. The photo shows Stella and Alan Parton passing time together by the church clock. We are also indebted to David Crawley who project managed the installation work. He is a senior member of the bell ringers team and has a close and intimate knowledge of the bells and clock mechanism. All restoration work was undertaken by Smiths of Derby. They commenced work on 30th July 2021, and completed work Friday 29 October 2021. We are pleased that we were able to secure Smiths to undertake this work because of their high reputation for quality work. Also having serviced the clock for many years they have an intimate knowledge of the clock mechanisms. Scope of works completed includes the removal, overhaul, and re- installation of the three AW8 autowind units, dismantling, cleaning and lubrication of the clock mechanism; and leaving the clock in good working 12 12 Continued on page 13
Continued from page 12 - St Nicholas’ Clock is restored order. Also, the installation of a Smith of Derby PAR100 Pendulum regulator and Smith of Derby night silencing system. Prior to commencement of work we received a letter of support to undertake this work from Archdeacon Sue Field and also her requisite formal Archdeacon’s Approval to proceed. David Platt, DAC Clock Advisor, also supported this project. The clock is by Alexander Sadler Simmons of West Street, Warwick, and dates from 1865. It is a beautiful example of Victorian clock-making precision engineering. The movement is mounted on an inverted “U” shaped cast iron frame. The only other such clock in the country is found in Bassingham, Lincolnshire. External dials point north and south, while a third face showing minutes only is flat to the ceiling of the ringing chamber. This rare addition, almost certainly was to allow bell ringers to time changing ringing, is inscribed “G B Fraser, 1876”. An auto winding system was installed in 2007, improving accuracy and removing a considerable amount of manual labour. The church overlooks the Abbey Fields, which is a very popular place of recreation for residents and visitors alike. It also overlooks and compliments the appearance of our beautiful and ancient Churchyard, with footpaths that provide a public thoroughfare into the town centre. All set in this quiet Conservation area. Now everyone is able to hear the reassuring sound of the church clock chiming during daytime and get an accurate time check. Night silencing will protect resident’s residents’ sleep! Keith Grierson | Assistant Warden Buildings & Property 13 13
Christingle Service There is a Christingle Service at St Nicholas’ Church on Sunday, 12th December at 10.00 am. Do come and join this lovely Service, suitable for all ages, as a start to Christmas and help the Children’s Society at the same time. The story of the Christingle The word ‘Christingle’ actually means ‘Christ Light’, and celebrates the light of Jesus coming into the world. Stories of how the Christingle began look back to the Moravian Church, which is found in the Czech Republic. The Moravians have held Christingle services for more than 200 years, and according to them, this is how the first Christingle might have been made: Many years ago the children in a village were asked to bring a Christmas gift to put beside the crib in the church. One family was very poor, and had no money for gifts, but the three children were still determined to take something. The only nice thing they had was an orange, so they decided to give the Christ-child that. But then they discovered the top was going green, so the eldest cut it out, and put a candle in the hole. To add some colour, one of the girls took a red ribbon from her hair and tied it around the middle of the orange. It was hard to make the ribbon stay still, so they fastened it in place with toothpicks. The toothpicks looked a bit bare, so the youngest child added some raisins to them. The children took their decorated orange lantern to the church for the Christmas Mass. The other children sneered at their meagre gift, but the priest seized upon it with joy. He held it up as an example of the true understanding of the meaning of Christmas, for the following reasons: the orange is round, like the world; the candle gives us light in the dark, like the love of God; the red ribbon goes round the ‘world’, as a symbol of Christ’s blood, given for everyone; the four sticks point in all directions, and symbolise that God is over all: North, South, East and West; and the fruit and nuts remind us of God’s blessings. The Children’s Society first introduced the Christingle Service to The Church of England in 1968, and it has since become a popular event in the church calendar. This candlelit celebration is an ideal way to share the key messages of the Christian faith, while helping to raise vital funds to help vulnerable children across the country. Visit: www.childrenssociety.org.uk 1414
Ivor Williamson 1948 - 2021 It is with great sadness that that we tell you of the recent death of one of our Ringers, Ivor Williamson. Ivor was in the Merchant Navy during the early 1970’s and then in 1976 attended Teacher Training College in Rotherham where he met his future wife, Anna. They were married in 1979 and lived in Wrexham before moving to Chester in 1987 and then to Westwood Heath, Coventry in 2001. Ivor joined St Nicholas Church, Kenilworth tower in 2015, having learnt to ring while living in Leicester in his earlier years. Ivor had a varied career and was a man of many talents. He was a champion fencer, an accomplished chess, snooker and pool player, a fine clarinettist, trumpeter, and pianist not to mention mouth organist, was a craftsman and had been a member of the Magic Circle, the latter influencing his work as a poet and author. Sadly, Ivor’s wife developed dementia a few years ago and he had been her fulltime carer, dedicating his life to looking after her at home. He was a valued and supportive member of the Tower, being a very able ringer, and had a lovely sense of humour which we all enjoyed. Ivor passed away on the 11th November aged 73 while attending an out-patients appointment and his sudden demise was a tragedy, particularly for his wife Anna and son Thomas. He will be sorely missed by those privileged to have known him. David Crawley (Photo: Ivor and wife Anna at Compton Verney, July 2021) 1515
Mervyn Kimberley retires from Friends On Wednesday 27 October a presentation was made in St Nicholas Church by Alan Pulham, Chairman of the Friends of St Nicholas to mark Mervyn Kimberley’s retirement as a trustee of “Friends”. Mervyn was a founder member of the Friends of St Nicholas and St Barnabas 14 years ago. As a Trustee he inaugurated the “100 Club” which has been and still is raising significant amounts of money for the Friends. Sadly, but understandably, Mervyn has decided to downsize his portfolio of activities. As a result, he has passed on responsibility for the 100 Club and he has retired as a Trustee. He will be missed! Friends recognised Mervyn’s service with a personal presentation. Mervyn had made it clear that he would prefer any presentation to be made to his long-term charity, the Harry Sunley Memorial Project. The project is working to reclaim the Abbey Gatehouse and make this historic building accessible and available to the public. Friends were therefore pleased to donate £100 to the Harry Sunley Memorial Project in recognition of Mervyn Kimberley’s time and talents to their cause. Mervyn played a major part in fund-raising for Friends. All such funds are designated to be spent on the conservation, maintenance and improvement of the fabric and fittings of St Nicholas and St Barnabas Churches. Successful projects include the following: - St Barnabas - new heating installation and replacement windows. St Nicholas – new pew cushions, repairs to tower masonry, organ repairs, repairs to church clock including recent total refurbishment and conservator’s report on restoration of reredos and other internal artefacts. Mervyn’s working career was the Police Force. He joined and rose from “Bobby on the Beat” in Rugby to being a Chief Inspector and the first Warwickshire Constabulary Force Press Officer. This involved him in VIP and Royal visits and promoting the image of Warwickshire Police. 26 years ago, Mervyn retired from the Police but retained a significant involvement as a trustee of the Warwickshire Crime Beat. Over the years his “spare time” has been anything but spare! He has been an active member of St Nicholas Church choir for over 47 years. He plans to go on to 50 years! He was a member of Leamington and Warwick Operatic Society for some 17 years, and formed the Williams Singers, a charity choir which ran for 29 years. He is a proud Freemason and has been active in the sponsorship of the local Air Ambulance and Warwickshire hospices. He has been a leading light in the Harry Sunley Memorial Project for 25 years, originally representing the St Nicholas Church PCC. 1616 continued on page 17
continued from page 16 - Mervyn Kimberley’s retirement Mervyn and his wife Margaret continue to live very full lives of together in service to our churches and the local community. Dear Mervyn and Margaret we pay tribute to you both and thank you. Alan Pulham presents £100 cheque to Mervyn Kimberley in the Lady Chapel Keith Grierson 17 17
Hi everyone! Stay and Play has been very busy over the past few weeks! For those of you who are not familiar with Stay and Play, we run every Thursday in the church Hall from 10 – 11:30. We have had lots of parents/carers and pre-school children coming through our doors to have a fantastic time, playing, chatting, singing, and having a coffee and some cake! Our crafts are always a great hit. We made sparklers ready for bonfire night and made poppies for Remembrance Day. We had a minute silence at 11am too. During the run up to Christmas we are going to be very busy. We are entering our Stay and Play tree into the Christmas tree festival so we will me making lots of decorations to go on it. We are also going to be helping make decorations for Café Sundays Special advent calendar! On December 9th, Stay and Play are going to be in the church, having our own crib service. All the children are going to be dressed up to help tell the nativity story. If anyone can help provide costumes for 0–4- year-olds, we would be very grateful. Then, of course, the last session before the Christmas holidays will be a party which we are excited about. If you would like to know more about what we do or volunteer to help, please do not hesitate to contact me, Clare: kids@stnicholaskenilwoth.org.uk We value your prayers for the families we meet, for the relationships we build, and that we can share the love of the Lord with them. God bless Clare Edwards, Children and Families worker. 18 18
Children's Ministry StN Kids meet in the Parochial Hall on the 1st and 3rd Sundays at 10.00am Please contact Clare for more details. Bumps and Babies A group for expectant and new mums (0 - 8 months) to get together, chat, have a coffee and chill. On Tuesdays between 10.00 - 11.30am (Term Time only) in the Parochial Hall. There are no restrictions on numbers so no need to book, just come along. Clare Edwards - 07862 303317 Services and Worship at St Barnabas’ Church: Sundays, 11.00am - Morning Worship Tuesdays, 11.00am - ' Leavenses (a short service followed by refreshments and chat) Thursdays at 4.30pm - Evening Prayer How do you celebrate Christmas Eve? Christmas Eve has its own customs, the most popular of which is going to Midnight Mass, or the Christ-Mas. This is the only Mass of the year that is allowed to start after sunset. In Catholic countries such as Spain, Italy and Poland, Midnight Mass is in fact the most important church service of the entire Christmas season, and many people traditionally fast beforehand. In other countries, such as Belgium and Denmark, people dine during the evening, and then go on to the Midnight Service. The British are behind some countries when it comes to exchanging presents: in Germany, Sweden and Portugal the custom is to exchange on Christmas Eve. But the British are ahead of Serbia and Slovakia, where the Christmas tree is not even brought into the house and decorated until Christmas Eve. Yule logs are not so popular since the decline of the fireplace, but traditionally it was lit on Christmas Eve from a bit of the previous year’s log, and then would be burned non-stop until 12th Night (6th January). Tradition also decreed that any greenery such as holly, ivy or mistletoe must wait until Christmas Eve until being brought into the house. The Parish Pump 19
Christmas Book Reviews Adorning the Dark – thoughts on community, calling and the mystery of making By Andrew Peterson, 10Publishing, £12.99 There are many books about writing, but none deal first-hand with the intersection of song-writing, storytelling, and vocation, along with nuts- and-bolts exploration of the great mystery of creativity. In Adorning the Dark, Andrew describes six principles for the writing life: serving the work, serving the audience, selectivity, discernment, discipline, and community. Through stories from his own journey, Andrew shows how these principles are not merely helpful for writers and artists, but for anyone interested in imitating way the Creator interacts with His creation. This book is both a memoir of Andrew’s journey and a handbook for artists. Be Still – a simple guide to Quiet Times By Brian Heasley, SPCK, £9.99 In this easy-to-read guide, Brian Heasley explores the multitude of rhythms of Christian prayer and devotion available to every believer. From memorising scripture and prayer, running to noticing beauty everywhere, he demonstrates how we don’t need to be static for our hearts to be still, and how even in the midst of a full, busy life, we can spend quiet times with God. Packed full of ideas for different ways to pray and tips and advice for how to build prayer practices into everyday life, Brian’s book may change the way you think about prayer and devotion and help equip you with all the tools you need to deepen your relationship with God. This book can accompany the 24-7 Prayer’s new Be Still prayer course. It also makes a great resource for youth leaders looking to help teenagers cultivate daily rhythms of prayer. Spiritual Detox – discovering the joy of liberating confession by Howard Satterthwaite & Holly Satterthwaite, SPCK £11.99 The gospels tell us that God wants to offer us forgiveness. So, confessing our sins should be liberating and joyful. Why do we so often feel only shame and guilt? Spiritual Detox invites you to rethink this much-neglected spiritual discipline. Blending biblical teaching with practical advice and application, it will show you how making regular, heart-felt confession will revitalise your spiritual life – whether you are unhappy and discouraged, wrestling with guilt and shame or just longing to drink more deeply of God’s forgiveness and abundant grace. The Parish Pump 20 20
Where did Christmas stockings come from? No one is really sure, but a story is told of St Nicholas, a bishop who lived in the 4th century, who may have started the custom by accident. St Nicholas was of a wealthy family, and of a generous heart. As Christmas approached one year, he wanted to help a poor family whom he knew, but he did not want them to know it was him. So he climbed up on their roof on Christmas Eve and dropped some coins down the chimney. The next morning the coins, to the great surprise of the family, were found in the stockings of the ladies, who had hung them to dry by the fire the night before. Every year after that they put their stockings out, in the hope that some more money would fall into them. They told the story of this amazing appearance to their friends and neighbours, and the custom caught on. The Parish Pump Smile Lines … Office food People at my workplace have started a funny new tradition where they give names to the food in the office fridge. Today I ate a sandwich called Tim, followed by some cake called Janet. The Parish Pump www.stnicholaskenilworth.org.uk 21 21
A strong woman or a woman of strength? I came across this whilst looking through a church magazine in the library in Malvern last month. It talks about a strong woman or a woman of strength, but it could apply to our male readers too! A strong woman works out everyday to keep her body in shape A woman of strength kneels in prayer every day to keep her soul in shape. A strong woman isn’t afraid of anything A woman of strength shows courage in the midst of fear. A strong woman won’t let anyone get the better of her A woman of strength gives the best of herself to everyone. A strong woman makes mistakes & avoids the same in the future A woman of strength realises that life’s mistakes can also be God’s blessing & capitalises on them. A strong woman walks sure footed A woman of strength knows that God will catch her when she falls. A strong woman wears a look of confidence on her face A woman of strength wears grace. A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey A woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong. Lesley O’Connor “Tea 4 All” On the first Saturday of each month, everyone is invited to “Tea 4 All” at St Barnabas’ Church, beginning at 2.00pm. Come along and enjoy tea, coffee, delicious cakes and friendly company. There is no charge for this, any voluntary donations go towards church funds. 22 The next “Tea 4 All” is on Saturday, 4th December 22
Christmas Card Tree For Carriers of Hope Please choose a card, write your message to your friends and hang it on the tree. Please put your donation in an envelope marked “Christmas Card Tree”, put it in the Grey Donations Box or give it to a duty warden. All money will go to Carriers of Hope. Thank you. We wish you a Joyful Christmas www.stnicholaskenilworth.org.uk It was 1500 years ago, on 7th December in 521 This Month that St Columba, the Irish missionary who spread 37 in History - Christianity in Scotland, was born. He was one of 521 the Twelve Apostles of Ireland. The Parish Pump 23 23
St Stephen’s Day - Sunday 26th December St Stephen – the first martyr Have you ever stopped to consider that the very first martyr of the Christian Church (Stephen died c 35 AD) was a deacon? (But no, he wasn’t worked to death by his church.) It was Stephen, one of the first seven deacons of the Christian Church. He’d been appointed by the apostles to look after the distribution of alms to the faithful poor, and to help in the ministry of preaching. Acts 6 and 7 tells us all that we know of his life, and the passages seem to suggest that he was an educated Hellenistic Jew. Certainly Stephen’s famous challenge to the Jews reveals him to have been learned in the Scriptures and the history of Judaism, besides being eloquent and forceful. Stephen’s proclamation on the day of his martyrdom pulled no punches. He told the Jews that God did not depend on the Temple. The Temple was but a temporary institution destined to be fulfilled and superseded by Christ, who was the prophet foreseen by Moses as the Messiah for whom the Jewish race had so long awaited. Stephen then challenged his hearers for resisting the Spirit and for killing the Christ, as their fathers before them had killed the prophets. The Jews were so outraged by this that they stoned Stephen on the spot for blasphemy. As he died, Stephen saw a vision of Christ on God’s right hand. The men who were witness to the stoning placed their clothes at the feet of Saul (afterwards Paul), who (to his deep regret later) consented to Stephen’s death. By the fourth century Stephen had his own feast day in both East and West Churches. When his supposed tomb was discovered in 415, his popularity soared. His (supposed) relics were taken to Constantinople and then Rome, along with some stones (allegedly) used at his martyrdom. Early on the Church made Stephen the patron saint of deacons. In the late Middle Ages he was also invoked against headaches (?!). In England, 46 ancient churches are dedicated to him, most of them built after the Norman Conquest. In art Stephen is usually given a book of the Gospels and a stone, and sometimes the palm of martyrdom. 2424 The Parish Pump
Books for Christmas Adorning the Dark – thoughts on community, calling and the mystery of making By Andrew Peterson, 10Publishing, £12.99 There are many books about writing, but none deal first-hand with the intersection of song-writing, storytelling, and vocation, along with nuts- and-bolts exploration of the great mystery of creativity. In Adorning the Dark, Andrew describes six principles for the writing life: serving the work, serving the audience, selectivity, discernment, discipline, and community. Through stories from his own journey, Andrew shows how these principles are not merely helpful for writers and artists, but for anyone interested in imitating way the Creator interacts with His creation. This book is both a memoir of Andrew’s journey and a handbook for artists. Be Still – a simple guide to Quiet Times By Brian Heasley, SPCK, £9.99 In this easy-to-read guide, Brian Heasley explores the multitude of rhythms of Christian prayer and devotion available to every believer. From memorising scripture and prayer, running to noticing beauty everywhere, he demonstrates how we don’t need to be static for our hearts to be still, and how even in the midst of a full, busy life, we can spend quiet times with God. Packed full of ideas for different ways to pray and tips and advice for how to build prayer practices into everyday life, Brian’s book may change the way you think about prayer and devotion and help equip you with all the tools you need to deepen your relationship with God. This book can accompany the 24-7 Prayer’s new Be Still prayer course. It also makes a great resource for youth leaders looking to help teenagers cultivate daily rhythms of prayer. Spiritual Detox – discovering the joy of liberating confession by Howard Satterthwaite & Holly Satterthwaite, SPCK £11.99 The gospels tell us that God wants to offer us forgiveness. So, confessing our sins should be liberating and joyful. Why do we so often feel only shame and guilt? Spiritual Detox invites you to rethink this much-neglected spiritual discipline. Blending biblical teaching with practical advice and application, it will show you how making regular, heart-felt confession will revitalise your spiritual life – whether you are unhappy and discouraged, wrestling with guilt and shame or just longing to drink more deeply of God’s forgiveness and abundant grace. The Parish Pump 25
God in the Arts - ‘The Annunciation to the Shepherds ’ The Revd Michael Burgess continues his series on God in the Arts with ‘The Annunciation to the Shepherds’ by Sano di Pietro. It now hangs in the Vatican. It can be found at: https://www.wikigallery.org/wiki/painting_232130/Sano-Di-Pietro/ The-Annunciation-to-the-Shepherds. ‘In that region there were shepherds keeping watch over their flock’ In the Old Testament shepherds were greatly valued and treated with respect. Patriarchs, prophets and kings had all tended sheep. Job, a rich man, owned 14,000 sheep. David was tending sheep when he was called by God and anointed by Samuel. But as the Israelites settled in towns and cities and turned to farming, attitudes towards the shepherds changed. As the New Testament opens, shepherding had become a dirty, lonely life, away from civilisation. Shepherds could not observe the daily rituals of their faith, and so they had a low status in society, looked down upon by orthodox Jews. But out in the countryside with just the hills and the plains and the open air, St Luke tells us that it was there that God’s message was proclaimed and heard. Cities and towns had walls and barriers, as Bethlehem has today. But in the fields at night, there were shepherds, watching and alert, ready for any eventuality. And so, they were the first to hear of the birth of a Saviour. ‘The Annunciation to the Shepherds’ is this month’s painting by Sano di Pietro. We know little about this Italian artist apart from some dates. He was born in Siena in 1406 and died there in 1481. But he has left us a legacy of beautiful and sensitive paintings. As we look at this scene, we see the human details: two shepherds huddled by the fireside with their dog, all three looking up to see the angel, and a spear by the side to ward off thieves and predators. The sheep are safely in their pen, black and white fleeces huddled together for warmth. In the sky the angel appears, bearing an olive branch in one hand and with the other pointing to Bethlehem in the distance. Luke has already told us of another annunciation, with Gabriel visiting Mary. Artists loved to portray this scene and often 2626 continued on page 27
Continued from page 26 - God in the Arts showed a lily, the symbol of purity, in their paintings. Here there is the olive sprig, a symbol of peace to reinforce the angelic message of peace in the birth of the Saviour. Luke goes on to tell us how Jesus brought new meaning and peace to all those like the shepherds who were nobody in the eyes of people, but everything to the eyes and heart of God. Jesus in His teaching often turned to the theme of sheep and shepherds, with parables about lost sheep, gates to the fold, and hireling shepherds. Just as the faithful shepherds were prepared to give their lives to protect the flock, so Jesus the Good Shepherd gave His life for the world – a death that would bring the peace and reconciliation shown in that olive branch held by the angel. At this Christmas time we rejoice with the heavenly host to proclaim the birth of this Prince of Peace and we commit ourselves to that work of peace and shepherding. Howard Thurman wrote these words: ‘When the song of the angels is stilled… when the shepherds are back with their flocks, the work of Christmas begins: to find the lost, to heal the broken, to feed the hungry, to release the prisoner, to rebuild the nations, to bring peace among the people, to make music in the heart.’ Revd Michael Burgess - The Parish Pump Some dates for your diary Christmas Market, Talisman Square Saturday, 11th December Free parking for Christmas Saturday, 11th December Lions Carols in the Park, Abbey Fields Saturday, 18th December. 6:00pm (KTC) Kenilworth Mayor at Kenilworth Castle Sunday, 26th December 9:45am -12:30pm Booking required Lions Boxing Day Duck Race, Abbey Fields Sunday, 26th December 12:00 noon from the ford 27 27
Letter from St James the Least of All – On the peril of choosing new kneelers The Rev Dr Gary Bowness continues his tongue-in-cheek letters from ‘Uncle Eustace,’ the vicar of St James the Least of All, to his recently ordained nephew, Darren… The Rectory St James the Least of All My dear Nephew Darren After all these years, I now understand why the non-conformist denominations sit down, rather than kneel, to say their prayers. That way, no decisions have to be taken over the number, size, shape, colour, material and design of kneelers in church. Our present set was donated by a retired Major-General in 1899 to celebrate the Relief of Mafeking, and after more than a century of use by the pious and not-so-devout has taken its toll. Like certain members of our congregation, they now look a little worse for wear. Many have sprung leaks, so that when used, a jet of flocking is emitted all over the clothes of their neighbour, who then leaves Mattins looking like a Yeti. Other kneelers have been occupied by grateful mice, who find them most congenial for nesting and who leave in high umbrage, creating chaos as Miss Mapp chases them down the aisle with her umbrella; that this provides her with the perfect excuse to leave before the sermon is, I am sure, entirely coincidental. The final straw came when my own, by some quirk in its design, now sounds like a whoopee cushion every time I kneel. It may cause the choirboys much amusement, but it lends nothing to the dignity of our worship. So, we have decided to have a completely new set – and therein lies the problem. Who makes them? What will be the designs? Who co-ordinates the whole project? There is enough here to occupy the combined minds of our Church Council for the next Millennium and there will be enough scheming, manoeuvring, signing of non-aggression pacts and formation of tactical truces to make the United Nations look like amateurs. Unfortunately, we do not have the ecclesiastical equivalents of the blue berets to enforce peace. The more patriotic members of the congregation have suggested they all show the Union Jack – presumably so they can be waved at appropriate moments in our services; one belligerent individual wants to see depictions of St Michael slaughtering the dragon, John the Baptist’s head on a platter and other such tasteful scenes; on the other hand, dear Miss Timmins wants them all to depict doves or small fluffy creatures, which would make the church look more like pets corner. Cutting through these vital issues, I have suggested that the entire congregation converts to Roman Catholicism…. and then we could stand for our prayers and do without kneelers entirely. Your loving uncle, Eustace The Parish Pump 28 28
Christmas Books for Children God Gave Us Christmas By Lisa Tawn Bergren and David Hohn, Authentic, £7.99 This sweet story helps young children understand the true meaning of Christmas, and to discover how very much God loves them. As Little Cub and her family prepare to celebrate the most special day of the year, the curious young polar bear begins to wonder… “Who invented Christmas?” So Mama and Little Cub head off on a polar expedition to find God and to see how He gave them Christmas. Along the way, they find signs that God is at work all around them. Through Mama’s gentle guidance, Little Cub learns about the very first Christmas. Christmas Activities By Bethan James, Authentic, £2.50 All the events of the first Christmas are retold and illustrated in this small format paperback book with on-the-page puzzles and activities to complete. Kids will enjoy reading the story and immersing themselves in the related activities. With attractive colour illustrations, age-appropriate text and a variety of puzzles, the book could be useful in church outreach activities with children aged four to seven. A little book for little fingers! It Begins in Bethlehem – a Nativity Rhyme for Christmas time By Bob Hartman and Mark Beech, 10Publishing, £2 This new Christmas children’s booklet offers a fresh perspective on the nativity, with glorious rhymes from Bob Hartman and lively illustrations by Mark Beech. It could be helpful when sharing the message of Christmas with children in your family, church and community. WOW! Christmas – creatively explore stories in the Bible By Martha Shrimpton & Sarah Nolloth, Candle Books. £10.99 This book explores six aspects about the events surrounding the birth of Jesus, including Jesus as the light of the world, the ordinary yet extraordinary shepherds, the journey of the wise men, the giving of gifts, the excitement and anticipation waiting for Christmas and why Christmas is something to celebrate. Each story is explored through activities including engaging prayer, craft and create, acting the scene, time for reflection, ideas for discussion and creative praise. The Parish Pump 29 29
Word Search for December 2021 Print out and Play Puzzle pages Christmas is nearly here! Two thousand years ago the Jews were longing for the coming of their Messiah. The Old Testament had promised that when He came, He would preach good news to the poor, bind up the broken hearted, proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, proclaim the year of the Lord’s favour, comfort all who mourn and to bestow on His people a crown of beauty instead of ashes. Jesus did all those things. He was and is the Son of God, and whoever has seen Him has seen the Father. Whoever believes in Him will have the best gift of all – His Spirit within them, which gives them eternal life. Solution on page 36 30
Print out and Play Puzzle pages Sudoku for December The Easy one The Medium one Solutions on page 35 Sudoku for January The Easy one The Medium one Solutions on page 36 31
Print out and Play Puzzle pages Crossword Clues (for crossword on page 33) Across 1 Provisional meeting place of God and the Jews (Exodus 25:9) (10) 7 David’s third son, killed when his head got caught in a tree during a battle with his father (2 Samuel 18:14ñ15) (7) 8 They ruled much of the west coast of South America in the 15th and early 16th centuries (5) 10 Small deer of European and Asian extraction (4) 11 Seized control of (Numbers 21:25) (8) 13 Terror (Luke 24:5) (6) 15 First World War heroine shot by the Germans in Brussels, Nurse Edith ____ (6) 17 Stormy (8) 18 A bitter variety of this, together with lamb and unleavened bread, was the Passover menu for anyone ‘unclean’ (Numbers 9:11) (4) 21 Arson (anag.) (5) 22 How John Newton described God’s grace in his well-known hymn (7) 23 Habitation (Isaiah 27:10) (10) Down 1 ‘_____ and see that the Lord is good’ (Psalm 34:8) (5) 2 ‘The wicked man flees though no one pursues, but the righteous are as ____ as a lion’ (Proverbs 28:1) (4) 3 One of the exiles, a descendant of Parosh, who married a foreign woman (Ezra 10:25) (6) 4 He escaped from Nob when Saul killed the rest of his family and joined David (1 Samuel 22:19ñ20) (8) 5 City and lake in Central Switzerland (7) 6 ‘Offer your bodies as living ________, holy and pleasing to God’ (Romans 12:1) (10) 9 Pouches carried by horses (Genesis 49:14) (10) 12 One who accepts government by God (8) 14 Aromatic substance commonly used in Jewish ritual (Exodus 30:1) (7) 16 He asked Jesus, ‘What is truth?’ (John 18:38) (6) 19 Are (Romans 13:1) (5) 20 ‘You are to give him the name Jesus, because he will ____ his people from their sins’ (Matthew 1:21) (4) 32
Print out and Play Puzzle pages Crossword for December Solution on page 35 Two M A Z E S 33
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Easy Sudoku December solution Medium Sudoku December solution Crossword solution, from page 33 The Parish Pump 35
Easy Sudoku January solution Medium Sudoku January solution Word Search from page 30 - Answers and solution Messiah Broken Heart Freedom Darkness Favour Prisoners Comfort Mourn Bestow Crown Beauty Ashes Son God Jesus Seen Father Whoever longing thousand 36 The Parish Pump
Contributing to The Grapevine There are 11 monthly editions of the magazine with December and January being a double edition. If you wish to contribute an article for The Grapevine, it would be most welcomed. The deadline for all copy is currently the 25th of the preceding month when all items should be with the editor (Tony Shakespeare) at 7 Rosemary Mews, School Lane or email: The Parish Pump grapevine@stnicholaskenilworth.org.uk Do you have a Church Pew? Anthony Jones, son of the late Molly Jones, is currently renovating his house and would very much like to include a former St Nicholas’ Church pew in the refurbishment, to serve as a reminder of his mother and her long association with our Church. If anyone who recently purchased one of the side pews now finds they no longer have a use for it and would be willing to sell it, could you kindly let me know so that I can endeavour to meet Anthony’s aspiration. Collection/Delivery will be arranged by us. Contact David Crawley - 07789 936512 - Lynvid50@hotmail.com Mention The Grapevine at Kenilworth Books, 12 Talisman Square, to get 10% discount on all full-price books! 37
Prayer Diary for December 2021 Please remember the following people and events in your daily prayers Wednesday 1 All Clergy and Readers Thursday 2 Yvonne Rich, Fiona Riley & Peter Riley Friday 3 Pamela Roberts, Peter Roberts & Margaret Rogers Saturday 4 Barrie Rogers, Maggie Rogers & Sylvia Rook Sunday 5 Church Wardens and Members of the PCC and DCC Monday 6 Residents & Staff of Kenilworth Manor Residential Care Home Tuesday 7 Lynne Roote, Sophie Roote & Patricia Sankey Wednesday 8 Pupils, Staff and Governors of Priors Field Primary School Thursday 9 Nick Schofield, Nicky Schofield & Sue Searle Friday 10 Alison Selwood, Peter Selwood & Sally-Anne Sheard Saturday 11 Lynne Shakespeare, Tony Shakespeare & Mike Shuttleworth Sunday 12 Christingle Service – The Children’s Society Monday 13 Residents & Staff of Kenilworth Grange Care Home Tuesday 14 Malcolm Sharman, Sue Sharman & Margaret Siggers Wednesday 15 Pupils, Staff and Governors of Burton Green Primary School Thursday 16 Barbara Sheppard, Ray Sheppard & Derek Silk Friday 17 Pupils, Staff and Governors of St Nicholas Primary School Saturday 18 Richard Short, Sheila Short & Claire Slade Sunday 19 Organist and Choir Monday 20 Residents & Staff of Castle Brook Residential Care Home Tuesday 21 June Sibbick, Michael Sibbick & Pam Sledger Wednesday 22 Beryl Silcox, Keith Silcox & Alison Smith Thursday 23 All Members of the NHS Friday 24 CHRISTMAS EVE – Crib Service Saturday 25 CHRISTMAS DAY Sunday 26 Brough Skingley, Cynthia Skingley & Avril Smith Monday 27 Ann Smith, Victor Smith & Jeanette Spaanderman Tuesday 28 Peter Spencer, Rosemary Spencer & Paul Stafford Wednesday 29 Mark Stevens, Vedra Stevens & Claire Sturdy Thursday 30 Judy Sutcliffe, Keith Sutcliffe & Val Tallis Friday 31 NEW YEARS’ EVE – The Future 38
Prayer Diary for January 2022 Please remember the following people and events in your daily prayers Saturday 1 All Clergy and Readers Sunday 2 Margaret Taylor, John Taylor-Milton & Mary Taylor-Milton Monday 3 Janet Thomas, Malcolm Thomas & Malcolm Trewick Tuesday 4 Audrey Tulip, James Tulip & Glenys Tunstall Wednesday 5 Linda Twibill, Marion Underwood & Jessie Vincent Thursday 6 Marjorie Walker, Judith Walmesley & Naomi Webb Friday 7 David Welton, Rosemary Went & Jean Whidbourne Saturday 8 Brian Wheller, Constance Wheller & Alison Wiggins Sunday 9 Charlotte Wilkes, Tim Wilkes & Christine Williams Monday 10 Brian Williams, Linda Williams & Shelley Warren Tuesday 11 Maggie Wood, Margaret Wright & Tony Wynn-Evans Wednesday 12 Sandra Young, Hannah Alderson-Fletcher & Heather Alford Thursday 13 Jacky Allsopp, Glennis Atkinson & Katy Baines Friday 14 David Bannister, Stacey Bannister & Audrey Barnby Saturday 15 Vicki Barnes, Maggie Bartmanis & Ojars Bartmanis Sunday 16 Gill Bausor, John Bausor & Lesley Bausor Monday 17 Cecilia Baylis-Stranks, Ruth Beattie & Guy Blacklock Tuesday 18 Anona Bisping, Christopher Bisping & Esme Blackwell Wednesday 19 Letty Blake, Gill Boden & Jane Boxley Thursday 20 Nan Bragg, Andy Brown & Jane Brown Friday 21 Margaret Brown, Stuart Brown & Pam Brown Saturday 22 Samuel Brown, Margaret Bull & Jean Bunce Sunday 23 Rebekah Butterworth, Ruth Casselden & Janet Cherry Monday 24 Andy Cherry, Liz Cherry & Mary Chong Tuesday 25 Emma Clarke, Jane Colby & Margaret Colville Wednesday 26 Josephine Cotterill, Roger Cragg & Doreen Cross Thursday 27 Susanne Curry, Rosie Dalby & Dorothy Daly Friday 28 Ann Darvill, Guy Darvill & Paul Davenall-Cleaver Saturday 29 Doreen Davies, Valerie Dawson & Laurie Deal Sunday 30 Mark Draper, Sue Draper & Norma Dunlop Monday 31 Malcolm Dunlop, Vivien Duncan & Graham Earle 39 39
From the Registers Baptism “We welcome you into the Lord’s Family” 31st October 2021 Emma Elizabeth MILLARD 7th November 2021 Joshua Andrew BEACHAM 14th November 2021 Logan James EDGINGTON & Parker Ray EDGINGTON 21st November 2021 Fraser George WALKER 28th November 2021 Henry James BALCHIN & Amelie Elizabeth BALCHIN Marriages “Those whom God has joined together” 30th October 2021 Beverley and John BURDEN 20th November 2021 Chloe and Alex GODFREY Christian Burial “Entrusted to God’s mercy” 10th November 2021 Irene Alice COX 91 years 17th November 2021 Thelma Ann TWISSELL 79 years 18th November 2021 Jean TRUESDALE 89 years 40
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