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Happy New Year - The Carlton Times January 2018 - Carlton Senior Living
January 2018
                         The Carlton Times
                                       Love   Honor   Provide

         Happy
        New Year

380 Branham Lane, San Jose, CA 95136   408.972.1400   License# 435200727   www.carltonseniorliving.com
Happy New Year - The Carlton Times January 2018 - Carlton Senior Living
At age 3, Louis Braille, born in France in 1809, was an inquisitive, perhaps precocious, kid
                         who loved to work in his father's horse tack workshop.
                         One day he was using an awl, a sharp pointed instrument for making holes, to punch through
                         leather. The awl bounced off the hard leather and the point struck him in the eye. The local doctor
                         did everything possible to heal the eye, but without antibiotics, painful infection soon spread to
                         both eyes rendering him blind.
The History of Braille

                         Nonetheless, a diligent child, Braille was a good student and by age 10, he earned the chance to
                         study at the first school for the blind in Paris. There he learned to read by touching raised letters,
                         formed in the shape of ordinary letters. But the few books written in this way were huge and difficult
                         to handle.
                         In 1821, he heard of a system of raised dots developed for the military so that soldiers on the
                         battlefield could read notes without light. Inspired by the system, at age 15, Braille completed a
                         new system that halved the number of dots required for a letter and made the dot cells small enough
                         to be read with one finger.
                         Best yet, the system enabled Braille users to easily write. His system did
                         encounter resistance, but by 1882 blind people throughout the world were
                         using it. Finally, in 1912, it was adopted in North America and a formal
                         English alphabet was formalized by 1932.
                         Braille, whose health was always fragile, died at age 43. Besides being an
                         inventor, he was an accomplished musician and professor of algebra, history
                           and geometry.

Health
 Corner
Many people rely on a daily dose of caffeine to get their day started, but according to the Mayo Clinic, there
are risks associated with drinking too much coffee too often. When used in moderation, caffeine is prized
for its ability to help people stay alert. Once the intake surpasses about 400 milligrams, about four cups of
brewed coffee, however, users might experience more harm than good.

Side effects of excessive use can include headaches, irritability, nervousness, insomnia, irregular heartbeat,
upset stomach, and more depending on the person. Some people can be more sensitive to the effects as well,
and these symptoms might present themselves with even light or moderate consumption. Likewise, a sudden
increase in the amount consumed can cause harmful effects even in people that haven't noticed any problems
in the past. Interactions with certain drugs, like ephedrine or echinacea, can increase the effects of caffeine
and lead to more severe health risks like heart attack, seizure, or stroke.

Despite the fact that caffeine is often used to help wake people up in the morning, it can also work against
a tired individual by disrupting their sleep cycle. Excess consumption, or consuming caffeine late in the
day, can delay sleep or limit its therapeutic value. Repeating this cycle for long enough can result in a
cumulative sleep debt that starts to cause issues with daytime alertness and focus. Limiting consumption
to the morning hours is one of the best ways to help avoid this problem.

Experts say that even the worst side effects of caffeine aren't typically life-threatening, but according to
USA Today, it is possible to have too much. It is estimated that a lethal dose of caffeine could be found in
somewhere between 50 and 100 cups of coffee, depending on weight, so it is unlikely for a coffee drinker
to be in any real danger. If a person is consuming the raw, powdered form of caffeine, however, then as little
as a teaspoon could be fatal.
Happy New Year - The Carlton Times January 2018 - Carlton Senior Living
RESIDENT SPOTLIGHT
Please welcome Bob & Bernie LoFaso!

                            Bernie is the third generation of her
                            family to be born in San Jose and at
                            the San Jose Medical Hospital! Bob is
                            originally from Chicago, Illinois.
                            Bernie had a career in admin & teaching
                            and Bob did a variety of social work
                            including work with the federal
                            government that resulted in him being
                            on the cover of Time Magazine! After
                            retiring he taught classes through Chico’s
                            Continuing Education, mostly relating
                            to history and his classes were always
                             well attended. They both share a
strong passion for music. Together they helped organize folk and
bluegrass festivals and more! Bernie loves to play Piano and is a
wonderful composer. She has published six volumes of her
“ragtime” compositions and composed a TV theme song for a
modeling show!
Happy New Year - The Carlton Times January 2018 - Carlton Senior Living
CRAB FEED!
                 January 25, 2018
                               4:30 - 6:30
                          In the Living Room

            Tickets are $25.00 and seating is limited!
          You must RSVP by noon on January 18, 2018

                                            January 8, 2018

     Elvis                 we will be showing an Elvis Film
                                    In honor of his birthday
u:
     Is                                      January 12, 2018
                                 3:30 PM in the Living Room
                                           Get a seat early for
                           this fantastic Elvis Impersonator!
     In                                     January 18, 2018
s                                            Elvis theme Day
                                                Join us for an
                           Elvis Social and Special Surprise!

     the building!
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TOTAL.

        TRAINING.

 Cross-train your brain in six
essential cognitive domains to
provide a comprehensive brain
      training workout.

   At the end of each month
  we will be raffling off prizes
    for those participating!

     The more you play the
     more chances to win!

Talk to the Personal Expressions
       department today!
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Now Every First Tuesday!
                                               (Except January will be the first Thursday)
                                                     Ken is a CA Licensed
1/1    Donut Social                                 Hearing Aid Specialist,
1/4    Spaghetti Theme Party!                          a member of the
1/5    Mark Watson on Piano w/Cocktails            International Hearing Aid
1/6    Continental Harmony Choir                 Society and National Board
1/9    Drum Circle                             Certified in Hearing Instrument
1/11   The Bold Beauties Pajama Pizza Party!    Sciences. He has 26 years of
1/12   Elvis is In the Building!
                                                experience in the practice of
1/15   Sharks Sports Bar
1/17   Men’s Group Luncheon from Dickey’s
                                                 fitting hearing instruments
1/17   Steven Schwartz Performs                and operated a Hearing Office
1/18   Elvis Social and Special Surprise               for over 24 years.
1/20   Ken Sosa Performs
1/21   Two Violins & a Cello Trio
1/21   Sunday Brunch!
1/25   Crab Feed
1/29   Mary Boutte Performs
1/31   New Residents Luncheon

                 Brunch Is Back!
   Join us every third Sunday for an all you can
         eat buffet and endless Mimosas!

  See you for the first one of the year!
  January 21, 2018
  11:15 - 1:00
  Please RSVP by January 18th
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1/3    Target Shuttles
1/5
1/7
       Lunch Outing to Sizzler
       Scenic Drive
                                  Shopping
1/8
1/10
       CVS Shuttles
       Lunch & The Movies
                                    And
1/14
1/17
       Scenic Drive
       Shopping at Safeway          More!
1/19   S.F. DeYoung Museum
1/21   Scenic Drive
1/22   Safeway Shuttles
1/24   Shopping at Rite Aid
1/28   Scenic Drive
1/29   Walgreens Shuttles

 Do you want to go to a             2017 Slide Show!
     casino resort?               Come and see all the
                                 fun memories of 2017!!
Let’s get the bus packed
   and head out early               January 31, 2018
  for a fun-Filled day!          3:00 in the Living Room
       Trip will be
 scheduled for spring!

   Sign up at the front
desk for further details.
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Sunday, January 1                                 Thursday, June 1

  8:00
 10:30
              and up Club!
         Church Shuttles (LOB)
         Catholic Mass (AR)
                                                    Employee
                                                 9:00
                                                10:00
                                                     Morning Walk (LOB)
                                                                       Birthdays
                                                        Fabulous Fitness (AR)
 11:30   Singing with Fran (LR)                 10:45   Wheel of Fortune (LR)
  1:00   Scenic Drive (LOB)                      1:30   Derby Days (LR)
  1:15   Seahawks vs 49er’s Game (LR)            3:00   Bingo (AR)
  4:00   Balance Bar (AR)                        6:00   Warriors Playoffs Party (AR)
  6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)                     6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)

                                                               Basketball Theme Day
              Monday, May 1                                     Friday, June 2
                                                     Nimo Hassan                     1/1
                                                     Aneet Kaur
                                                 10:00 Live 2B Healthy (AR)
                                                                                     1/1
10:00Ruth   Lund
      Fabulous            Marie Lazaro
               Fitness (AR)                          Hadia
                                                 10:30        Akhbar Worship 1/1
                                                        All Denominational
10:30 Fraud Awareness Presentation (LR)
 1:00 Shopping at Walgreens & Lucky (LOB)            Beleyou     Bogale
                                                       with Patricia (LR)            1/3
  Resident Birthdays
 1:30 All Denominational Bible Study (TV3)
 3:30 Bingo (AR)
                                                 11:00 Banking Hour (LOB)
                                                     Mander
                                                 11:30          Farrell
                                                        Donut Social   (LR)          1/5
 4:15 Balance Bar (AR)                               Asha
                                                  1:30 Edye’sAbdullahi
                                                               Art Class (AR)        1/6
                                                  3:00 Grace & Frankie with Refreshments (AR)
 6:30 Evening Movie (TV3)                            Salvador
                                                  4:00 Balance BarCruz(AR)           1/11
 Arthur McCafferty                    1/1            Alfred
                                                  6:30 EveningLedesma
                                                                Movie (TV3)          1/15
 Shirley
  9:00 WalkHolder
            Tuesday,       May 2 1/2
             on the Trail (LOB)                      VirginiaSaturday,
                                                                 VazquezJuly 1 1/15
 10:00 Stretch and Relax with Ellen (AR)             Paige Woods                     1/17
 Johnnye
 10:30 EarsBush
             Direct Hearing Aid Clinic1/3
                                        (GR3)
                                                     Melody Fuentes                  1/18
 Ina
  3:00Sewell
       Fitness Boot Camp with James1/13
  1:30 Bingo (AR)
                                       (AR)
                                                  9:45 Heads Up (AR)
                                                     Yoliana
                                                 10:45          Sanchez Cruz 1/19
                                                        Bingo (AR)
 Charlotte   Sharples
  4:00 Chance’s   Drum Circle (AR) 1/16
  6:30 Evening Movie (TV3)                           Yaritza
                                                  2:00  Live 2BYanez
                                                                Healthy (AR)         1/28
                                                  3:00 Flower Arrangements with Joshika (AR)
 Sarah   Hill Train Dominos (GR3)1/17
  6:30 Mexican                                       Romero
                                                  4:00  BalanceCruz
                                                                 Bar (AR)            1/29
 Marilyn Meier                        1/20        6:30 Evening Movie (TV3)

 Eshrat Pishevar                      1/24
 Sara Black
          Wednesday, May 3 1/26
 Jim Breseke                          1/27
 9:00    Brain Fitness (AR)                                            Key:
10:00    Fabulous Fitness (AR)
10:45    Lunch at Agave (LOB)
 1:30    Bingo (AR)                              LR: Living Room AR: Activity Room
 3:30    Nail Art (AR)                             LOB: Lobby DR: Dining Room
 4:15    Balance Bar (AR)
 6:30    Skip-Bo (GR3)                                 TV3: TV Room 3rd Floor
 6:30    Evening Movie (LR)
                                                     GR3: Game Room 3rd Floor
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Thursday, January 4

Garden Group!                                  9:30
                                              10:30
                                                       Morning Scoop (LR)
                                                       Hearing Aid Clinic (GR3)
            January 2, 2018                   11:00    Spaghetti Party! (LR)
                                               2:00    Live 2B Healthy (AR)
        In the Activities Room                 3:15    Bingo (AR)
        Its time to plant,                     6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)
      create, and organize!
     There is something for                           Spaghetti Theme Day!
    everyone to participate in!
          Monday, January 1                             Friday, January 5

  8:00    New Years Day TV Special (LR)   10:00   All Denominational Worship (LR)
  9:30    Donut Social (LR)               11:00   Lunch Outing to Sizzler (AR)
  2:00    Bingo (AR)                      11:00   Banking Hour (LOB)
  6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)              3:00   Mark Watson & Champagne Cocktails (LR)
                                           4:30   Balance Bar (AR)

    Happy New Year!                        6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)

          Tuesday, January 2                          Saturday, January 6

10:00   Stretch & Relax with Ellen (AR)    10:00    Brain Games (AR)
10:45   Garden Group (AR)                  10:45    Bingo (AR)
 2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)                1:15    All About Dakim! (AR)
 3:15   Bingo (AR)                          2:00    Live 2B Healthy (AR)
 4:30   Balance Bar (AR)                    3:00    Billiards & Brews (AR)
 6:30   Mexican Train Dominoes (GR3)        4:30    Balance Bar (AR)
 6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)                 6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)

        Wednesday, January 3                        Monday, November 12

              Target Shuttles                8:00    Church Shuttles (LOB)
  9:30    Brain Games (AR)                  10:30    Catholic Mass (AR)
 10:00    Fabulous Fitness (AR)             11:30    Singing with Fran (LR)
 10:45    Helping Hearts Meeting (AR)        1:00    Scenic Drive (LOB)
  1:00    Bridge (GR3)                       3:00    Bingo (AR)
  2:45    Balance Bar (AR)                   6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)
  3:30    Po-ke-no (AR)
  6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)
  6:30    Rummikub (GR3)
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Sunday, January 7                            Thursday, January 11

 8:00    Church Shuttles (LOB)                   9:30   Brain Games (AR)
10:30    Catholic Mass (AR)                     10:30   Mexican Train Dominoes (AR)
11:30    Fran on Piano (LR)                      2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)
 1:00    Scenic Drive (LOB)                      3:15   Bingo (AR)
 3:00    Bingo (AR)                              5:00   The Bold Beauties Pajama Pizza Party!
 6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)                     6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)

                                                           Pajama Theme Day !
            Monday, January 8                              Friday, January 12

              CVS Shuttles (LOB)                10:00   All Denominational Worship (LR)
 10:00   Fabulous Fitness (AR)                  11:00   Banking Hour (LOB)
 10:30   Ceramics (AR)                           1:15   Brain Games (AR)
  1:15   All Denominational Bible Study (TV3)    1:45   Fabulous Fitness (AR)
  3:00   Bingo (AR)                              3:30   Elvis Impersonator (LR)
  6:30   Evening Elvis Movie (TV3)               6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)

           Tuesday, January 9                             Saturday, January 13

 10:00   Stretch & Relax with Ellen (AR)         9:30   Brain Games (AR)
 10:45   Helping Hearts Project (AR)            10:30   Mexican Train Dominoes (AR)
  2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)                    2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)
  4:00   Drum Circle (LR)                        3:15   Bingo (AR)
  6:00   VITAS’s Grief Support Group (AR)        4:30   Balance Bar (AR)
  6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)                     6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)
  6:30   Mexican Train Dominoes (GR3)

         Wednesday, January 10

 9:30   Podiatrist Visit (Salon)
10:00   Fabulous Fitness (AR)
10:30   Bluegrass Band Jam (LR)
11:30   Lunch & The Movies (LOB)
 3:15   Po-ke-no (AR)
 4:30   Balance Bar (AR)
 6:30   Evening Documentary (TV3)
Sunday, January 14                          Thursday, January 18

 8:00    Church Shuttles (LOB)
10:30    Catholic Mass (AR)                    10:00   Current Events (AR)
11:30    Fran on Piano (LR)                    10:45   Bingo (AR)
 2:00    Baking with the Birthday Boy! (AR)     2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)
 4:00    Balance Bar (AR)                       3:15   Elvis Social (LR)
 6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)                    6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)

                                                           Elvis Theme Day
           Monday, January 15                            Friday, January 19

10:00   Fabulous Fitness (AR)                   9:30   SF DeYoung Museum (LOB)
10:30   Garden Group (AR)                      10:00   All Denominational Worship (LR)
12:00   Sharks Sports Bar! (LR)                11:00   Banking Hour (LR)
 1:15   All Denominational Bible Study (TV3)    1:00   Matinee Movie (LR)
 3:00   Bingo (AR)                              4:00   Balance Bar (AR)
 4:15   Balance Bar (AR)                        6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)
 6:30   Martin Luther King Movie (TV3)

           Tuesday, January 16                         Saturday, January 20

10:00   Stretch and Relax with Ellen (AR)         9:30   Brain Games (AR)
10:45   Coffee Corner (AR)                       10:30   Bingo (AR)
 2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)                      1:00   Giant Cross Word Puzzles (AR)
 3:15   Bingo (AR)                                2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)
 6:00   VITAS’s Grief Support Group (AR)          3:00   Ken Sosa (LR)
 6:30   Mexican Train Dominoes (GR3)              4:30   Balance Bar (AR)
 6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)                       6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)

        Wednesday, January 17                             Monday, April 25
                Safeway Shuttles
 10:00    Fabulous Fitness (AR)
 10:45    Bingo (AR)                            8:00 Church Shuttles (LOB)
 12:00    Men’s Group Luncheon(AR)             10:30 Catholic Mass (AR)
  1:00    Bridge (TV3)                         11:30 Singing with Fran (LR)
  1:00    Steven Schwartz (LR)                  1:00 Scenic Drive (LOB)
  4:00    Poker (GR3)                           2:30 Garden Group Meeting (AR)
  6:30    Rummikub (GR3)                        3:30 Crochette & Knitting Group (AR)
  6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)                   6:30 Evening Movie (TV3)
Sunday, January 21                            Thursday, January 25

 8:00    Church Shuttles (LOB)
10:30    Catholic Mass (AR)                       10:00   Brain Games (AR)
11:30    Singing with Fran (LR)                   10:30   Bingo (AR)
11:15    Sunday Brunch (DR)                        2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)
 1:00    Two Violins & a Cello Trio (LR)           4:30   Crab Feed (LR)
 2:30    Making Crab Feed Shirts! (AR)             6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)
 6:30    Evening Movie (TV3)

         Monday, January 22                                Friday, January 26

             Safeway Shuttles (LOB)              9:45   Fabulous Fitness (AR)
10:00   Fabulous Fitness (AR)                   10:30   All Denominational Worship (AR)
10:30   Ceramics (AR)                           11:00   Banking Hour (LOB)
 1:15   All Denominational Bible Study (TV3)     1:30   Balance Bar (AR)
 3:00   Helping Hearts Project & Meeting (AR)    3:00   Bingo (AR)
 6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)                      6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)

         Tuesday, January 23                              Saturday, January 27

10:00   Stretch & Relax with Ellen (AR)            9:30   Brain Games (AR)
10:45   Table Talk & Tea (AR)                     10:30   Bingo (AR)
 2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)                       2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)
 3:15   Bingo (AR)                                 3:00   Holiday Headbands (AR)
 6:00   VITAS’s Grief Support Group (AR)           6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)
 6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)
 6:30   Mexican Train Dominoes (GR3)

        Wednesday, January 24

        Rite Aid Shuttles
  9:30 Podiatrist Visit (AR)
 10:00 Fabulous Fitness (AR)
 10:45 Left Center Right! (AR)
  1:00 Bridge (GR3)
  3:00 Bingo (AR)
  6:30 Evening Movie (TV3)
  6:30 Rummikub (GR3)
Sunday, January 28
                                                   New Residents &
  8:00
 10:30
         Church Shuttles (LOB)
         Catholic Mass (AR)
                                               Helping Hearts Luncheon!
 11:30   Singing with Fran (LR)
  1:00   Scenic Drive (LOB)
  3:00   Garden Group (AR)
                                                       January 31, 2018
  6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)                      11:30 in the Activities Room

                                                   Meet other new residents
          Monday, January 29                      and Friday,
                                                         our resident
                                                                 Decembervolunteers
                                                                                1
                                                       the Helping Hearts!
                                                        We will be enjoying
10:00   Fabulous Fitness (AR)                         catered El Pollo Loco!
10:30   Bingo (AR)                             10:30 All Denominational Worship (LR)
                                               You
                                               10:45 must
                                                     Outing:RSVP
                                                             Outbackby   January
                                                                     Steakhouse      28th!
                                                                                 (LOB)
 1:15   All Denominational Bible Study (TV3)
 2:30   Brain Games (AR)                        11:00 Banking Hour (LOB)
 3:30   Snack Box Club! (AR)                     2:00 - 4:00 Tree Lighting Ceremony
 6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)                            With a new band (LR)
                                                 6:30 Evening Movie (TV3)

         Tuesday, January 30

10:00   Stretch & Relax with Ellen (AR)
10:45   Bingo (AR)
 2:00   Live 2B Healthy (AR)
 3:15   Wheel of Fortune (AR)                             Doctor Shuttles
 5:30   Warriors Game & Pizza Party! (LR)
 6:00   VITAS’s Grief Support Group (AR)             Tuesdays - Los Gatos Area, O’Connor,
 6:30   Evening Movie (TV3)                           Good Samaritan, Santa Clara Kaiser
 6:30   Mexican Train Dominoes (GR3)
                                                Thursdays - East San Jose, Santa Teresa Kaiser,
                                                     San Jose Medical, & Downtown Areas
        Wednesday, January 31                              Sunday, May 31
                                                   Latest Apt. Time for Downtown and
                                                         East Side Areas is 1:30
  9:30   Brain Games (AR)
 10:00   Fabulous Fitness (AR)
 10:30   All Residents Meeting (AR)
                                                          Church Shuttles
 11:30   New Residents Meeting (AR)              Sundays 8:30 - 12:00 to Select Local Churches
  3:00   2017 Photo Slide Show!
  6:30   Rummikub (TV3)                            You must sign up 48 hours in advance.
  6:30   Evening Documentary (LR)                       We also offer limited Valet
                                                         services for a small fee!
Mardi Gras
                                Masquerade!
                                    February 13, 2018
                                       2:30 to 4:00

                                 Enjoy King Cake specially
                                ordered from New Orleans
                                   and Live Music from
                                 The Zinfandel Stompers!

                                   Super Bowl Party!
                                Join us for the big game
        Next Month is              On the big screen!
    Black History Month!        We will have BBQ, beer
     In honor we will be               and more!
  screening Hidden Figures
                                   February 4, 2018
     for our Movie Night
      in the Living Room.
      Please Sign up at
        the front desk
and save room for dessert!
      February 20, 2018
at 6:30 PM in the Living Room
Most of our lives fall into a routine day after day that many call being in a “rut.” This is typically
                                  not conducive to living moments that take our breath away so, today the question is, “How do
                                  measure       life at the beginning of this new year?” How many times last year did something take
                                  your breath away? Or were you so busy counting your breaths that you didn’t see, hear, or feel those
                                  special moments?

                                  Once when I was flying over Baja California on my way to Puerto Vallarta I found myself in a state
                                  of deep contemplation. The flight is over a very rugged range of mountains that reveal so much about
                                  life in general when you study them. Much of it is arid, brown, jagged peaks which only a mountain
                                  goat might attempt to climb. Between the peaks, a few of the lower valleys sweeping downward,
Breathless or simply breathing?

                                  appear to be as silky as a white sand beach as it swoops down into the sea. There the ocean can receive
                                  it with turbulent seas or soothing surfs. There you’ll see an assortment of geographical changes as
                                  you fly across the Sea of Cortez towards the mainland of Mexico and more mountains appear below,
                                  this time the Sierra Madres which also surround the Banderas Bay before they move southward.
                                  These mountains are a mixture of lush green jungle and dry, arid lands – repeating the pattern and
                                  reinforcing for all to see and acknowledge, that this is indeed, the way of life.

                                  Yes, it is the way of our lives, as well. For a while we may have a calm surf and walk serenely on
                                  velvety white beaches and revel in the fact that life is good. Then suddenly, turbulent tides roll in
                                  and we say that life is not so good. Changes come abruptly without warning often. Life is full of
                                  changes not only for the mountains but for us. Sometimes the changes come in such abundance when
                                  we are growing older that they are difficult to handle. Those are the rugged peaks that even our
                                  sure-footed hoofed friends cannot easily climb. It is not easy to handle the rough terrains in our lives
                                  such as losses or seeing loved ones become ill. Or becoming ill ourselves so that we can no longer live
                                  alone or do all the things we used to do and enjoy (and perhaps took too much for granted). Or having
                                  to move from the home we’ve loved and stored all our memories in, another difficult peak. Most of
                                  the time we think we are the only ones who feel the way we do when, in reality, most people going
                                  through those changes are struggling silently also. That’s why it is important to be honest about
                                  your feelings, accept them as soon as you can, talk to others about them, and then move on to the
                                  place where you can again measure life by the moments that take away your breath. Next your must
                                  try your very best to live every day in an attitude of gratitude, even if it is just one tiny thing to
                                  begin with. As you practice the art of gratitude each day it will become easier and your list of reasons
                                  to be grateful will grow. Some find fulfillment in keeping a gratitude journal in which they record
                                  at least five reasons to be grateful each night before retiring to bed. This can be especially helpful
                                  when you are having a difficult day as you can reflect on all of the many reasons you have to be
                                  grateful, some you may have even forgot about over time.

                                  I’ll conclude with a short story about Tom’s Aunt Anne whose life was full of breathless moments.
                                  She used to say that she was so old that she never bought green bananas anymore – however, she was
                                  always the first to leap into any opportunity to experience a new adventure with great enthusiasm
                                  and with an abundance of gratitude.

                                  One might argue that age has nothing to do with true contentment, but that attitude does. This
                                  year, I dare you to part ways with some of your old attitudes and adopt the more challenging ones
                                  so that you can start this year on the highest peak of gratitude.
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