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VUSA
                                     BENTLEY
                                      Following Her
                                         Passion

CARISA BUEGLER
Inspired by Example
Wooden Nickel Project
New Ulm’s Own
FAIR TRADE
REACH-ing Out
to Homeless
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                Publisher
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         Chief Operating Officer
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               Jim Hensley

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                 Lisa Miller

     Please direct all editorial inquiries              Lather, Rinse, Repeat Editor’s Column . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6
            and suggestions to:
            Managing Editor                             Vusa Bentley: Don’t Tell Her She Can’t  . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8
              Eileen Madsen
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                                                        Carisa Buegler: Inspired by Example . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14
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      Sales & Marketing Manager
              Natasha Weis                              Gustavus Alumnae Connect Through Dance Performance  . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24
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                                                        Recognizing Niceness: Wooden Nickels Have Impact . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28
                                                        REACH-ing Out to Help the Homeless  . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32
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                Erin Herding                            YWCA Mankato: Inspired to invest… in ourselves . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36
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Eileen Madsen
            Editor
                                                Lather, Rinse, Repeat
              According to                  Thomas Edison,      in my life or work. The saying came from a Bugs Bunny cartoon where
                      genius is one percent inspiration and     he could sense where gold was buried. He’d get a goofy look on his face,
                ninety-nine percent perspiration. I think       declare he had “that funny feeling,” start to tremble—and then hoodwink
                     our cover woman Vusa Bentley would         Yosemite Sam into digging it up. On the other hand Foghorn would sing
              agree with that. Considering her never say        and strut his way through life with an “Oh-Do-Dah-Day” and an endless
                 never attitude and multiple ventures—          capacity for looking on the bright side.
                     including fitness trainer, mediator and
                                                                It’s the bright side that Carisa Buegler looks upon each day when she leads
               fund-raiser—she keeps going even if the
                                                                by example as director of operations, and former foundation director, at
               only cheerleader is herself. Teaming with
                                                                New Ulm Medical Center. When others find inspiration in what you do, well,
                 a friend, they created the Wagomobile,
                                                                you’ve struck gold.
                      which feeds people and raises funds
                                          at the same time.     In this same vein...”Make new friends, but keep the old, one is silver and
                                                                the other gold.” A group of women alumnae at Gustavus College in St.
                        I was lucky enough to be invited to
                                                                Peter know this song, and dance to its tune. These friends connect through
                 Vusa’s home for lunch a while back and
                                                                shared experiences and expressed it through performance.
                      to say that I was inspired by her is an
                 understatement. The lunch itself was a         If Bugs Bunny were to meander the streets in New Ulm he would be sure to
               delicious little feast of exotic homemade        get that funny feeling and reveal what has been called the town’s “best kept
              food and tea, served in a comfortable and         secret”—New Ulm’s Own Fair Trade. Jeanie Hinsman, and a group of like-
                eclectic setting. But it was her story that     minded women, had a desire to the enrich the community and open doors
                                         was most riveting.     to artisans, locally and around the world, culminating in a little shop with a
                                                                lot to love.
                      Inspiration can come from anywhere
                really. It doesn’t have to be lofty to make     What isn’t a secret is that homelessness exists—even in southern

                      an impact. It just has to speak to you.   Minnesota. With the inspiration to turn her own experiences in the foster

               What speaks to me is Bugs Bunny and his          care system into something good, Tasha Moulton and team invested

               Warner Bros. cartoon cohorts. I credit my        their perspiration into developing The REACH Drop In Center in Mankato.

               independence, self-reliance, sarcasm and         At-risk and homeless youth have a safe place to go and build supportive

                 penchant for bucking the norm (former          relationships in the process.

                      bosses might say authority, but what      As the saying goes “Don’t take any Wooden Nickels,” but this is Minnesota
                     do they know?) on countless Saturday       Nice, so go ahead, take them and pay them forward. The impact the
              mornings with Bugs, and my contrastingly          Wooden Nickels project has is no small change. For dozens of nursing
                           positive attitude towards life on    students, this endeavor, which rewards people for acts of kindness,
                                         Foghorn Leghorn.       changed their views of the world around them. Positive fosters positive...
                                                                ”Oh-Do-Dah Day.”
              Whenever I say “I’ve got that funny feeling
                 coming over me...” that’s when I know I        We think this issue is pure gold. I’ve got a funny feeling there’s a ninety-nine
              need a change or to kick things up a notch        percent chance you’ll be inspired to read it in one sitting. No sweat.

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VUSA BENTLEY:

Don’t Tell Her
She Can’t.
By Kelly DeVriendt, Photos by Rhonda Milbrett Photography

It seems that the best way to get Vusa Bentley to       planned to burn the house town rather than be
do something is to tell her that she can’t.             captured by soldiers.”
“I don’t listen to the nay-sayers,” Bentley said, “If   The years that immediately followed included
only one person is saying I can do it, even if that     bread lines and coupons to exchange for bread,
one person is only me, I cling to that. The voice       milk and salt.
inside me says to keep doing.”                          “To this day, I hate wasting food,” she said.
This voice has brought Bentley from her home            Yet, Bentley doesn’t look back on that
in Azerbaijan­—a home where the expectation             experience as a victim, rather chooses to seek
of her was to find a suitable “woman’s” job and         out what strengths came out of it. Strengths
settle down—to Mankato Minnesota where she              like adaptability and the importance of
presently is building two businesses as well as         human connection.
launching a new volunteer venture.
                                                        “Even though we have all had different
Bentley works as an independent consultant              experiences, it is important to find our
at JP Fitness as a personal trainer through her         common denominator,” Bentley said.
business, Vusa Fitness-Fitness for all walks of life.
She also works as a family and civil law mediator       Coming to America
through Bentley Mediation and Drafting, LLC.            Against her family’s wishes, Bentley started
Most recently, she partnered with Jack McGowan          college at the university in Baku in hopes of
of Jack McGowan Farm to start the Bentley-              becoming a translator.
McGowan Wagomobile—a mobile pizza oven                  “This profession was not considered to be a
that will come to fund raising events with wood         woman’s job,” she said, “The expectation was
and two hours of free service to cook pizza for         for me to go to piano school, get married and
attendees.                                              start a family. I was told it was too hard and that
                                                        I wouldn’t pass the required exam.”
A Humble Upbringing
Raised by a single mother in Azerbaijan, Bentley        Two times Bentley applied and two times
was the middle of three children. In her early          she failed. Her mother, and others, said,
childhood, Azerbaijan was still a part of the           “I told you so.”
Soviet Union. When she was 10 years old, she
                                                        On her third attempt, she passed. She received
witnessed its collapse.
                                                        a scholarship to the University of Land and Fire
“We were under martial law for three days,” said        in Baku to become a synchronic translator. This
Bentley, “My mother told me later that she had          degree would allow her to stand in front of
                                                                                                        s

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political figures and do live translating of   Body, Mind and Heart
                         Russian, Turkish and Azerbaijani to English.   Body—Bentley began working as a
                                                                        Certified Personal Trainer at JP Fitness
                         During her sophomore year she was
                                                                        in May of this year. She received her
                         encouraged to take advantage of a
                                                                        credentials through the National Academy
                         program which allowed for students to
                                                                        of Sports Medicine.
                         study abroad in the United States for free.
                         If you pass the English test.                  Previously, Bentley stated that she had
                                                                        been training for five years to be a special
                         Bentley was one of twelve who passed.
                                                                        agent with the FBI. However, after some
                         Based on her interview, they placed her
                                                                        deep soul-searching, she walked away.
                         at Minnesota State University Moorhead
                         on a one year scholarship.                     “I decided it wasn’t for me. It didn’t fill all
                                                                        the aspects of who I am and what I wanted
                         “I came to the United States at age 20
                                                                        to do,” she said.
                         with 200 dollars,” Bentley said.
                                                                                              Her training was very

               “I am my own most violent
                                                                                              physical and after five
                                                                                              years of dedication,

               competitor, I always feel like
                                                                                              she found herself
                                                                                              wondering what she

               there is more that I can do                                                    was going to do with
                                                                                              all of it.
               in this world.”                                                               Vusa Fitness-Fitness
                                                                                             for all walks of Life was
                                                                                             created to honor and
                         While at Morehead, Bentley met her             utilize her experience. She went with the
                         future husband, Ben, which sealed her          tagline: “Don’t go AWOL on your fitness.”
                         fate to a life in Midwestern United States.
                                                                        Bentley hopes to develop a Boot Camp
                         She has continued to follow her own            fitness plan that would target veterans to
                         passions and drives. Bentley has               help fight PTSD.
                         developed three separate ventures
                                                                        “My hope is to be a conduit of strength
                         which—together—are uniting all that
                                                                        and inspiration through fitness training,”
                         is important to her.
                                                                        Bentley said.

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Mind—Bentley Mediation and Drafting also came to             of repeating the task at her home in Mankato.
fruition this past spring.
                                                             An unexpected encounter with Jack McGowan of
“I thought about law school at one point, but decided        McGowan Farm not only put that dream into motion, it
that there are plenty of lawyers and not enough peace        expanded its reach.
makers,” she said.                                           “I wanted a piano and contacted Jack. He was
Bentley had previous experience working in the legal         delivering free used pianos that he got from people
field for nine years. That, combined with her myriad of      who didin’t want them anymore” she said, “I am not
life experiences, positions her nicely to take on the role   used to taking anything for free, so I required that he
of mediator.                                                 and his wife stay for dinner.”

“My hope is to be a conduit of peace through                 During their visit, Bentley told McGowan about the
mediation,” Bentley said.                                    oven she had previously built. McGowan thought it
                                                             would be a good idea to build another one.
Heart—Although the kick off happened only this past
August, the Bentley-McGowan Wagon mobile really              “He’s just as crazy as me, so we started planning right
has been years in the making.                                then and there,” Bentley said.
                                                             They decided that, instead of the oven being stuck in
Bentley can trace her love of preparing and enjoying
                                                             one place, that they would make it mobile and share it
food with others back to her grandmother.
                                                             with as many people as possible.
“My grandmother always opened the door to others.
                                                             The build took six months. McGowan provided the
She basically force fed people,” Bentley said, “I too now
                                                             base of the wagon, built the frame and wood part,
find obnoxious pleasure in seeing people eat and be
                                                             while Bentley purchased the wood, metal and cement
happy.”
                                                             and built up the brick part and decorations, including
Bentley had previously built an outdoor oven in her          the logo. A local company custom made the front of
back yard at a prior residence and always had thoughts       the pizza oven and wagon.
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“I love feeding people. It was fulfilling
to find a way to make pizza for others
while also benefiting the community
and community businesses.”

“I love feeding people,” Bentley said, “It was fulfilling to find   “My hope is to be a conduit of compassion through the pizza
a way to make pizza for others while also benefiting the            wagon,” she said.
community and community businesses.”
                                                                    It is said the good entrepreneur’s don’t only do one thing.
The way it works is first, a business is looking for a way to get   This sentiment appears to hold true for Bentley. She continues
promotion. They ask the Bentley-Wagomobile to come to their         to spark new ideas and to relentlessly pursue her goals. She
event. A fund-raising recipient is identified. The community        aspires to one day have a physical office outside her home to
comes and eats pizza at a reasonable prize to support a local       shelter all her endeavors. She hopes the space will allow her to
agency.                                                             host an annual soup kitchen.
There is no charge for their time, the wood or the use              For more information about Vusa and the Wagomobile call
of the wagon.                                                       715-302-5646 or visit her Facebook Page Bentley McGowan
                                                                    Wagomobile or her personal page vmb Vusala. RV W
“I see the wagon as a way for businesses to promote what they
do by sponsoring a fundraiser,” Bentley said, “And the public       Below: Gary Petersen, the owner of Caretakers is a big
gets cheap, tasty pizza.”                                           community donor and a key supporter of Bentley’s
                                                                    fund-raising efforts.
Their license allows for 10 events per year. Four events have
already been completed.
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In s p i r e d
                                                                            Her dad was also no stranger to giving back—a founding member
                                                                            of a local heritage organization as well as several volunteer gigs
                                                                            throughout his life.
                                                                            Buegler continues to draw inspiration from others and is driven to
                                                                            pass on that inspiration..

                                by Example                                  WHO
                                                                            Beyond her parents, Buegler stated that she has had many mentors
                                                                            and examples of people who have inspired her throughout her life.
                                                                            “There are always people doing amazing things and with amazing
                                                                            skills,” she said, “I think it’s important that we learn from and
 By Kelly DeVriendt                                                         encourage each other.”
 Carisa Buegler’s first inspiring experiences came early in her life. “My   Kathleen Backer is one such person who provided a learning
 parents are definitely an inspiration,” she said.                          opportunity for Buegler. After graduating from the University of
                                                                            Minnesota with a degree in family social services, Buegler got her first
 Her mother was a nurse who worked with high risk clients with
                                                                            job as director of the United Way in New Ulm.
 disabilities. Buegler recalls her working extra shifts, accompanying
 them to emergency room visits and being clearly dedicated to               “There was a fair amount of cold-calling involved asking for donations
 her patients.                                                              and that was intimidating at times,” she said.
 “She was fearless in taking care of them,” Buegler said, “She found joy    Backer had a solid background in fundraising and non-profit work.
 out of giving to others.”                                                  “She brought a lot of encouragement and really helped me grow my
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confidence,” Buegler said.                                                   Some years back, Buegler had the opportunity to write a personal
                                                                             mission statement that has helped shape her career: “To always
Later, after having her first baby, Buegler encountered some struggles
                                                                             advocate and speak up for those who are unable to speak for
when returning to work.
                                                                             themselves.”
“When I came back from my maternity leave, I was facing the biggest
                                                                             This mission continues to motivate her behaviors and choices. In turn,
challenge of my career thus far, and was dealing with the guilt of
                                                                             there are many reasons why others find inspiration from her.
leaving my baby,” she said.
                                                                             WHY
She leaned on her close friend, Susan Ward. Ward, who is also a life
                                                                             “It’s difficult for me to understand why others find me inspiring,”
coach, worked with Buegler to help her find enjoyment in both her job
                                                                             Buegler said, “I am just trying to do my best. I do try hard though.”
and motherhood.
                                                                      She acknowledges that her positivity may be a reason why others
One of Buegler’s biggest supports and inspiration is her husband,
                                                                      see her as inspiring. Always an optimist, Buegler believes that there is
Darrin. When she was encouraged to go back to school for her master’s
                                                                      something positive in every situation.
degree in health care coordination, she was excited, but doubted
she had the time, money and energy to                                                         Jane Steuber has worked at New Ulm Medical
make it happen. When she brought                                                                       Center for 37 years and stated that
this home to her husband, his                  “The best I can see is for women                            in that time there has not been
response was, “You can do                                                                                      another person who inspires
it. We will figure it out.”
                                                to reach out to other women—                                     her more than Buegler.
That was all she needed
                                                ask questions, get ideas and most                                    “She is a leader who inspires
to hear and—in 2016—she                        importantly, encourage each other.”                                  everyone to be the best they
received her degree.                                                                                              can be,” Steuber said, “She faces
                                                                                                             every day with a positive attitude
“All I needed was people around me
                                                                                                      and treats everyone she encounters with
to inspire and support me and convince me
                                                                                         compassion and respect.”
that I could do it,” Buegler said, “That is what I want to do for others.”
                                                                             In her collaborations with others, what is most important to Carisa are
WHERE
                                                                             the relationships she is building. She thrives in problem-solving and
Today, Buegler is the director of operations at New Ulm Medical
                                                                             encouraging others to use their strengths to strive for better.
Center. She oversees supportive services, such as radiology, lab,
housekeeping, Courage Kenny Center, dietary, community health and            “Most people know what they want to do next, or different or better,”
business development.                                                        she said, “However, they don’t think they can do it. I want to be the
                                                                             person who helps them find the confidence to know that they can.”
With this variety of departments, no two days are the same.
                                                                              HOW?
“I love that there are constant challenges being thrown at me every
                                                                             It’s difficult to see how one can manage all the facets of their lives, let
day,” she said, “I love that I have a great supportive team that helps me
                                                                             alone manage them well. This is no different for Buegler. She admits
every day as well.”
                                                                             that some things in her life don’t get the attention she would like them
The team at New Um Medical Center earned a nod when they were                to.
named to the top 20 hospitals in the nation among rural hospitals in
                                                                             “My social life is definitely lacking,” she said.
terms of quality and affordability.
                                                                             Buegler believes that the goal overall is to find balance in all things in
Buegler takes great pride in this and furthermore believes the New
                                                                             your life.
Ulm community as a whole is a very giving one.
                                                                             “At some point, I recognized that I am in charge of my life and my
“We take care of each other within the walls of the hospital and
                                                                             calendar,” she said, “I own it.”
throughout the community as a whole,” she said, “I love that about us.”
                                                                             She feels it is important to decide what is most important in your life
WHAT
                                                                             and prioritize it. For her personally, it means prioritizing family time. “I
Buegler stated that what motivates and inspires her most is making a
                                                                             get rejuvenation from my family,” she said.
difference to others, especially to those within her community.
                                                                             This means that sometimes Buegler has to turn down invitations or not
When she originally started college, her plan was to become a social
                                                                             take on other responsibilities that are asked of her.
worker. Through some introspection and experience, she learned that
although she enjoyed working on a micro level—with people one on             “You have to ask yourself if it aligns with what you have decided is
one—she was more motivated to work on a macro level. “I want to              most important to you. If it doesn’t, you can’t be afraid to say no,” she
make an overall difference to the entire population,” she said.              said.
Her variety of department oversites in her current position definitely       The ability to say no rubs off on others and helps us become more
allows for this—most notably working in community wellness. The              genuine—a trait that Buegler wishes to effectuate.
opportunity to develop outreach programs and engage outside of the
                                                                             “Everyone struggles with the how,” she said, “ I wish I had a magic
walls of the hospital is something she stated is very rewarding.
                                                                             nugget of advice. The best I can see is for women to reach out to other
‘It gives me the opportunity to be a part of serving the whole person,”      women—ask questions, get ideas and most importantly, encourage
she said, “To be in positions where I contribute to making a difference      each other.” RV W
in their lives.”

                                                                                                           RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2017             15
Board members, from left, Bernice Schmitz, Jeanie Hinsman, and Barb Olson showed
            a few of the popular products that New Ulm’s Own offers.

Made by Women, Supporting Women
 New Ulm’s Own...
 “best kept secret”
         By Ruth Klossner
         Not too long ago, a woman stopped by the small shop at 212 North Minnesota
         Street, saying that her niece told her to check it out. She had been told that “New
         Ulm’s Own” was the best-kept secret in town.
         While the volunteers who run the shop love to hear positive comments, they’d
         rather not be a secret. They’re trying to spread the word by encouraging co-
         workers, relatives, friends, and visitors to stop by to check out the offerings
         for themselves.
         New Ulm’s Own—a nonprofit 501(c)(3) Fair Trade shop—is tucked away down a
         long hallway behind NadelKunst in New Ulm’s downtown. For those who prefer
         easier access, there’s a back entrance and parking at the back of the building.

         Photos: Recycled products are popular. Some of these purses are made from recycled
         seat belts, others from the bags that tea is shipped in. In preparation for Christmas, board
         member Barb Olson placed ornaments on the tree.
The shop is a dream-come-true for board               Because most Fair Trade shops buy from Ten
member and retired teacher Jeanie Hinsman.            Thousand Villages and Serrv, Hinsman and
                                                      the board are now looking for smaller
“We shopped at Fair Trade shops when we
                                                      companies, in order to secure different
were out of town on our travels. I kept thinking,
                                                      items. “We’re hunting and seeking
‘Why not New Ulm?’ I had time on my hands,”
                                                      smaller and more unique products,” she
she explained.
                                                      said. “You see the same items in other
A special education teacher, Hinsman retired in       Fair Trade shops if you get everything
2010 after teaching 18 years in St. Peter and 15      from Ten Thousand Villages and Serrv.
in Iowa.                                              We’re now looking at Partners for Just
                                                      Trade in St. Louis,” Hinsman said.
“I felt that a Fair Trade shop could enrich our
community. It took a big effort and it was quite a    “We have products from more than 30
learning process to get going,” Hinsman said. “I      countries. Haves and have-nots are part of
talked to people with similar values and interests    the society in every country. A critical factor
that I knew—and got seven people on board.            for the crafts people is to get money to buy
We met often and visited other Fair Trade shops.      materials. Twenty-five percent is provided up
We looked at locations.”                              front to help them get materials and growers
                                                      get three-year contracts with Fair Trade to
The group did a few test markets in the fall
                                                      get going.”
of 2016—setting up displays at New Ulm’s
Women’s Expo and at five churches. Things went        Items for sale in the New Ulm shop include
well and they received a lot of positive feedback.    those made from throwaway things,
                                                      among them Klikety Klik vases made
Though they would have liked a storefront
                                                      from plastic pop bottles, ketchup bottle
location, the group decided the “down the hall”
                                                      votive candle holders, purses made
space was a good place to start and the rent
                                                      from recycled seat belts, and “Poo
was reasonable. They started fixing the space in
                                                      Paper” products made from…you
March 2017.
                                                      guessed it…elephant droppings.
When Hinsman met with a consultant at a
                                                      Many of the food products offered are
conference in Chicago, she was told that it
                                                      from Eswatini Kitchen, an orphanage
would take $80,000 to $100,000 to open a Fair
                                                      for children who have lost both
Trade shop. “He laughed at me when I told him
                                                      parents to AIDS in Swaziland. Although
our budget was $40,000. I said New Ulm could
                                                      the condiments may be unfamiliar to
do better than that,” she recalled. “We started
                                                      locals, they are popular with shoppers.
with a $20,000 operating loan and hope to pay it
                                                      Samples are sometimes available in
back in four years.”
                                                      the store.
New Ulm’s Own opened in May 2017, a bit earlier
                                                      A “coffee club” featuring a different coffee each
than anticipated. “We found out that the second
                                                      month will begin in January.
Saturday of May is Fair Trade Day…and the
theme was ‘Opening Doors’ so we scurried to           Hinsman encourages people to be
get it done,” Hinsman said.                           conscientious shoppers. “Some products
                                                      may not be cheaper, but there’s a
Like other Fair Trade shops, New Ulm’s Own
                                                      moral purpose—that’s the reason to
features Fair Trade products handcrafted by
                                                      support Fair Trade. Make purchases
artisans in developing countries. The shop offers
                                                      for the greater good. Pick one
chocolates, coffee, tea, scarves, baskets, jewelry,
                                                      item—like chocolates or jam—
pottery, ornaments, wall décor, metal art, and
                                                      and make a personal commitment
other handcrafted gifts. The products are made
                                                      to buy in to things that provide
by artisans who lack access to markets, business
                                                      fair wages.”
skills, and the tools needed to grow. They use
sustainable materials.                                New Ulm’s shop also features
                                                      artwork— photography, note
Local shops access the products through non-
                                                      cards, wall art, and locally made
profit organizations like Ten Thousand Villages
                                                      books—created by a dozen local
and Serrv. The purchasing companies operate
                                                      artisans, with the shop retaining a
on the principles of fair working conditions,
                                                      percentage of the selling price. Current
no discrimination in hiring, no child labor,
                                                      artists include Lanis Curtis, Carolyn
and products made so that they enhance
                                                      “Annie” Earl, Carol Edwards, Ron Kahler,
                                                                                                 s

the environment.

Photos: Eswatini Kitchen products from Swaziland are among the most popular items in the shop,
according to Bernice Schmitz. Note cards made by a local artist have been big sellers. Welcome to
New Ulm’s best-kept secret…New Ulm’s Own at 212 North Minnesota Street.

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Sue Happel, Anne Klinkner, Sue Kral, Geri Leavens, Ruth Lindemann,                                                        063967
John Olson, Elaine Paa, and Pauline Hietala. To sell at New Ulm’s Own,
artisans must be Brown County residents or live within 20 miles of
New Ulm.
The non-profit shop has no paid staff, with a six-member board and
                                                                              Unwrap the magic
                                                                                 this season
five volunteers running the business. Joining Hinsman on the board are
Barb Olson, Bernice Schmitz, Peg Sundell, Vicki Sieve, and Mary Kluge.
Store hours are 10 a.m., to 5 p.m. Thursday through Saturday. During
December, Sunday hours of noon to 3 p.m. have been added.
“It’s inspiring to be in the shop. Those who work here call it ‘Our Happy
Place,’” Hinsman said.
Part of the mission of Fair Trade shops is to support marginalized
women. New Ulm’s shop does that both globally and locally—marketing
products made by low-income women from countries around the world
and supporting local women. Eighty-five percent of Fair Trade products
are made by women—including crops.
For 2017, New Ulm’s Own profits were earmarked to support the
operation of New Ulm’s NUMAS Haus. The house provides emergency
shelter and support services to homeless single mother families with
school age children from the New Ulm area. The program helps families
find permanent housing within 90 days, while addressing the root
causes of homelessness for each family through counseling, educational
programs and case management. The goal is to allow children to remain
enrolled in New Ulm schools while their families become established.
For more information about New Ulm’s Own, or to volunteer to staff               1234 Raintree Rd., Mankato
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          Gustavus alumnae connect through performance
 By Ruth Klossner

 Two decades after they graduated, five women returned to Bjorling              “I had been thinking about this dance for several years—and it was
 Recital Hall at Gustavus Adolphus College to present a special                 perfect for this event,” Rusinko said. “This group of dancers had
 performance as part of “Encore: An Alumni Dance Celebration.”                  overlapped with each other and had stayed connected. They were
                                                                                there for each other in happiness and loss.”
 Although Jennifer Gallus (’97), Nickie Kromminga Hill (’98), Betsy
 Maloney Leaf (’97), Colleen Brady Lindstrom (’99), and Mya (Follansbee)        The concept of Rusinko’s dance is based on the Hebrew word
 Shaftel (’95) each danced four years at Gustavus, over a five-year             “malkosh,” meaning “last rain.” There are clear divisions in Israel
 period of time, they had never all danced together.                            between rainy and dry periods, but it is impossible to know which rain
                                                                                is the “last” of the season until it’s over and the sun returns. Rusinko
 Until Gustavus Adolphus’ homecoming weekend September 23
                                                                                compared it to many losses in life and, after losing her mother and
 When the Gustavus alumni office approached Michel Rusinko,                     learning that one of the dancers had also lost hers, it seemed like this
 professor in theatre and dance, to ask if she could arrange an alumni          group of women were the best group for the dance.
 dance event—as an alternative to football—Rusinko got right to work.
                                                                                “When Nikki Kromminga Hills’ mother died unexpectedly, I sent
 She sent out a large call to all dancers who had graduated—and a
                                                                                condolences and continued to think about this dance. As a group,
 special message to the five.

          “Last Rain” performers, from left: Jennifer Gallus ‘97, Nickie Kromminga Hill ‘98, Mya (Follansbee) Shaftel ‘95, Betsy Maloney Leaf ‘97,
                                                              and Colleen Brady Lindstrom ‘99.

24   RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2017
these five women had dealt with some pretty significant losses,”           “When we were all here, Kresge Dance Studio was home for us. We
Rusinko said. “I knew that I could choreograph this dance with [current]   called it the ‘womb’ because we spent so much time there and it
GAC students, but most have not lived long enough to have that             was warm and welcoming. Now we’ve been away for 20 years, but
collective experience. There’s a comfort with people you’ve known for      to go back it felt like being home again—it smells the same,” Brady
a long time, a history. This was the cast that was in my brain.”           Lindstrom laughed. It was the first time that her husband and daughter
                                                                           had seen her dance.
Even before the alumni event was planned, Rusinko was in contact with
the group. “I sent a Facebook group message, saying that I didn’t know     While the space still seemed the same, the wisdom that developed
when or how, but I felt that this was the cast for the dance I wanted to   since their days on campus was evident. “Things are more complicated
do. All five immediately responded, saying ‘I’m in.’”
With dance celebration planning underway, Rusinko and the
group identified a weekend they could get together and Rusinko
reserved the Gustavus guesthouse for a weekend in August.
“They were very excited to come back and to work together. That
was the start and I turned it over to them. I went to the Cities for
one rehearsal and they rehearsed together after that. They had to
bring it together on their own. I trusted them when they were 22
years old and I trusted them even more now.”
Returning to the stage was a powerful moment for the dancers
and their families, as Rusinko explained. “Three of the five have
small children who had never seen their moms dance. A number
of the husbands hadn’t either—or it had been 20 years.”
Rusinko didn’t want the dance to be about grief, but rather a
realization of life.
“Realizing that we could lose somebody at any time makes the
time spent with people more precious. In reality, it’s not only an
elderly parent, but could be anybody. Because we’ve experienced
loss, we just savor the times we are with people more—that’s
what I wanted to capture,” she said.
“The idea that was conveyed through the dance
is that you just have to keep showing up. There
was a sense that, even in moments of grief, you
just keep putting one foot in front of the other. I
think we really succeeded in visually representing
that. Some things are difficult to give words to.”
In retrospect, Rusinko commented, “I know that
it was a powerful experience for the dancers. It
ended up being a very powerful moment. Many
in the audience were very teary eyed. We’re
looking for other opportunities where we might
perform this piece again.”                             Michele Rusinko, Gustavus
Though they were united in dance, the five             Adolphus College Professor
women followed varying paths after graduation.            in Theatre and Dance.
                                                                                             The dancers did a final run through the morning of the
Jennifer Gallus is currently a small animal                                                                       performance.
veterinarian at Lake Harriet Veterinary Clinic.
Nickie Kromminga Hill is a theater/dance teacher at Anoka Middle
School for the Arts and is a performer at Chanhassen Dinner Theater.        now. There are pets, jobs, kids, husbands. It’s not like it was when we
Betsy Maloney Leaf teaches at the University of Minnesota in Arts in        were in college,” Maloney Leaf stated. “But we are a group of friends
Education and conducts educational research on community-based              and there are things we only share with this group of friends. There’s a
art programs. Colleen Brady Lindstrom is a radio talk show host for         lot of trust here.”
Twin Cities radio station myTalk 107.1. Mya (Follansbee) Shaftel is an ESL
teacher with the Minnesota Literacy Council.                                Kromminga Hill noted that the celebration was truly a homecoming. “It
                                                                            felt good to be home again. Home is so many places now, but it’s like
For the dancers to be back on campus was special because they started when your parent cooks your favorite meal, that’s what it feels like to
to figure out who they were at Gustavus, an ever-evolving process.          be back at Gustavus,” she said. RV W

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            Nic e n e s s
       By Ruth Klossner                                      of the University’s Nursing 101W course        engagement in relation to the nursing
                                                             – “Courage, Caring, and Team Building,”        profession,” Gerdes said. “The assignment’s
       Wooden nickels                                        received a 1.5 inch “wooden nickel,” along
                                                             with directions of how to use it.
                                                                                                            goal was to make students realize how
                                                                                                            kind gestures may often go unnoticed
       have impact                                           The students were asked to step outside
                                                                                                            or unappreciated, and to reflect on and
                                                                                                            acknowledge the gestures.”
                                                             their comfort zone, being told to give the
                                                             wooden coin as a reward to someone they        Each wooden nickel is printed with a picture
       Wooden nickels—small round pieces of
                                                             saw do a kind act. After they had completed    of Minnesota and the phrase “Minnesota
       wood that can have a big impact on how
                                                             the task, the students went online, punched    nickel — Recognizing Niceness” on the
       people think about things. For dozens of
                                                             in the serial number on their coin, and        front. The flip side is stamped with a unique
       introductory nursing students at Minnesota
                                                             documented the act they saw—with hopes         number and the words: “Pass this token to
       State University, Mankato, the small coins
                                                             that the next person would continue the        someone who performs an act of niceness.
       have changed their view of the world
                                                             process.                                       Share your story and track the coin at www.
       around them.
                                                                                                            sulegatt.com.”
                                                                                                            At semester’s end, the students shared
                                                                                                            how they selected recipients and their
                                                                                                            feelings about the project. Just like
                                                                                                            their backgrounds, their experiences
                                                                                                            varied considerably, with some students
                                                                                                            immediately knowing who to pass the coin
                                                                                                            on to, and others debating for weeks—and
                                                                                                            even months—who to select. Many carried
                                                                                                            the nickels in their backpacks, waiting for
                                                                                                            just the right opportunity.
                                                                                                            Just holding the coin caused the students to
                                                                                                            be more observant of the behaviors around
                                                                                                            them, with some being a bit cynical at the
                                                                                                            start—but later realizing that there’s more
                                                                                                            good than bad around them.
                                                                                                            A student’s reflection shares this very well.
                                                                                                            She first wrote:
                                                                                                            “When I first received the instructions for this
                                                                                                            assignment, my immediate thoughts were,
                                                                                                            ‘Oh boy, how am I going to do this?’ It seemed
                                                                                                            like a daunting task that was held over me.
                                                                                                 hel, and
                                                                        Kayla Giering of East Bet
                  dents, fro m left : Na tali e Grogran of Forest Lake,             en nickels.
                                                                                                            Each day I continually thought of what kind of
      Nursing stu                                                                od
                                                      Lonsdale show off the wo                              kindness acts those around me were making
                       Samantha MacDonald of                                                                but, honestly, I did not notice much. It made
                                                                                                            me realize that a majority of people do not
                                                                                                            want to go out of their way to help others, no
       At the direction of Professor Norma                                                                  matter how easy a task it may be. So many are
                                                             “For students, the project was a creative
       Krumwiede and adjunct instructor Becky                                                               stuck in their own minds and do not even pay
                                                             writing assignment that focused on
       Gerdes, about 70 students in three sections                                                          attention to those around them. Not only did
                                                             the concepts of caring and community

28   RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2017
Minnesota Nice
this assignment
make me notice
the people
around me, but
it also made me                                                                                    AND WOODEN NICKELS
pay a lot more
                                                                                              The expression “Minnesota Nice” refers to the
attention to
                                                                                              somewhat passive nature of upper Midwesterners—
how I act and
                                                                                              the tendency to work hard, help a neighbor, or spend
what kind of
                                                                                              a little extra time in conversation. However, as more
behaviors I
                                                                                              and more people leave the region or get caught up
have that could
                                                                                              in modern life—and prefer to communicate via text
be considered
                                                                                              or email—it seems that the mannerism is declining.
‘Minnesota
                                                                                              Freelance artist and community organizer Su Legatt
Nice.’
                       Professor Norma Krumw                                                  designed a project to challenge the “Minnesota Nice”
                                                 iede, left, and adjunct ins
After sharing             Gerdes directed the Minnes                         tructor Becky    mindset by asking participants to share wooden coins
                                                       ota Nickel project with nu
how she                         students at Minnesota Sta                          rsing      when witnessing nice deeds.
                                                          te University, Mankato.
selected a
                                                                                              During the Depression, a local bank in Tenino,
person to pass
                                                                                              Washington, issued emergency currency printed on
her nickel on to, the student added:            kids can start learning how to recognize
                                                                                              thin shingles of wood. In 1933, the Chicago World’s
                                                others when they do something nice.
“This project made me look at the world                                                       Fair issued wooden nickels as souvenirs, and the
                                                When giving out the token, it takes the
around me a little differently. I began to                                                    tradition of wooden nickels as tokens and souvenirs
                                                individual by surprise. Many people
notice the actions of others more closely,                                                    continues today.
                                                don’t get recognized anymore when
whether they were rude or kind. Not only
                                                they go above and beyond for others,          The American adage, “Don’t take any wooden nickels”
was I more observant, but I also became
                                                and especially to strangers. It’s nice that   is considered a lighthearted reminder to be cautious
more aware of my own actions and
                                                the project also has a site where you         in one’s dealings. The adage suggests that its origins
how I come off to others. I make more of
                                                can tell who the nickel was given to and      lie not in the genuine monetary value of nickels, but
an effort to display the Minnesota Nice
                                                why, and then also be able to see if they     rather in their purely commemorative nature.
characteristic, even if it is a simple task
                                                continued with acknowledging others.”
like holding the door open, or picking up                                                     Inspired by those early 20th Century promotional
trash. This project made me want to be          Another student wrote:                        tokens—given to potential customers and promising
a better person who truly does represent                                                      some kind of trade or discount—today’s wooden disks
                                                “The Minnesota Nickel project made
Minnesota Nice, because a lot of times                                                        have no material value. Instead, their value is in the
                                                me actually notice all the good things
this is not necessarily true anymore.”                                                        representation of the acknowledgment and gratitude
                                                people do daily. I wanted to make
                                                                                              of a kind deed. Each coin states simple directions
Another student wrote:                          sure that I selected the right person to
                                                                                              about the project and how to document and share
                                                give the nickel to, so I began to watch
“In the busy lives that many of us live                                                       online. It also has a unique serial number so that each
                                                for good deeds. I saw a lot of people
today, it can be easy to let those acts                                                       coin can be tracked as it passes from person to person.
                                                holding the door open, helping pick
of kindness slip beneath the radar.
                                                up garbage, to someone catching up            The coins provide a moment of acknowledgement, a
However, the Minnesota Nickel Project is
                                                to a person who had dropped some              simple reward to a kind individual while challenging
helping to change that. A person’s mood
                                                money. There were so many good deeds          the holder to seek-out and determine whether or not
or perception regarding their day is very
                                                going on around us that we normally           an act is kind and deserving of a token. The critique
delicate. It can be easily swayed—but
                                                don’t notice. Why? Because we have            varies from person to person, the acts may be large or
more so, easily fixed by the “Minnesota
                                                become accustomed to minding our              small, and the recipient may not believe their act was
Nice” behavior that we each hold inside
                                                own business and keeping our heads            indeed nice.
of us. More than ever, it’s time that we
                                                down—and usually on our phones. We
spread it and recognize it because who                                                        Su Legatt, designer of MN Nickel commented, “In
                                                become oblivious to the world around
knew that something as simple as a                                                            today’s word, I feel we’re so quick to find fault in
                                                us. That is why we don’t notice all the
coffee could make someone’s day?”                                                             people. We get angry at other drivers or constantly
                                                good going on. From this project I can
                                                                                              second-guess someone’s motives or meaning. This
This student would like to see the              see that there are good things going on
                                                                                              project is trying to flip that around and encourage
project expanded to students of all             all the time. We are just too focused on
                                                                                              people to seek out the good instead. The Minnesota
ages:                                           ourselves to notice. I think we all need
                                                                                              nickels recognize niceness and redeem something
                                                to do nice things and, when we notice
“The Minnesota Nice project was an                                                            that can’t be seen and has no monetary value— they
                                                them, we need to say something. The
excellent ‘extra’ added to the class. I had                                                   inspire a feeling that is priceless.”
                                                world can become a better, nicer place if
never heard about it until this class. I feel
                                                we all just do something nice and notice      To make sure that the concept of Minnesota Nickel
this is an excellent thing that should be
                                                all the good!”                                remains in focus, nickels are not sold at a profit to the
taught and performed in all classes, and
                                                                                              artist. All donations made on the gofundme.com/
not just college level. This assignment         This future nurse plans to implement
                                                                                              minnesotanickel website compensate the artist for
can be done at all age levels so younger        what she learned in her future career:
                                                                                          s

                                                                                              material cost, production, and distribution.

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“Even the smallest act of kindness can              sure I help someone in some way, whether it         Minnesota social practice artist Su Legatt
     brighten someone’s day. When I become a             be to open the door for them, ask them about        of Moorhead created and donated the
     nurse, I’ll realize that little things can affect   their day, or even buy them a smoothie.”            wooden coins as part of her Minnesota
     someone in a big way. I want to make sure                                                               Nickel Project, which examines the concept
                                                         After a successful run during spring
     that each day I can make theirs just a little                                                           of the practice of “Minnesota Nice”
                                                         semester 2017, the wooden nickel project
     bit better. Even just talking to someone                                                                throughout the state. (See sidebar) RV W
                                                         will be repeated. Krumwiede and Gerdes
     when they’re feeling lonely can make their
                                                         are now reflecting, summarizing, and                To learn more about Minnesota Nickels and
     day better. I’m glad we got to do this project
                                                         putting plans in place for how to replicate         to track acts of niceness, go to https://www.
     because it can make one more self aware of
                                                         the project.                                        sulegatt.com/m (scroll down below the box).
     our actions. My plan every day now is to make

                             Shared Moments FROM COIN TRACKER
                                                                    sulegatt.com/m
      #1-0007                                                                     he made his dad stop because he wanted to hang out with the other
                                                                                  residents, too. He stayed for an hour and he made their day by doing
      3/21/17- Marilyn, my neighbor, is always there when I need her—
                                                                                  activities with them.
      when ill brings food, when need a ride gives me one, when needs
      someone to visit with she is always there.                                  #1-0359
      #1-0035                                                                     4/25/17- I was in line in Chipotle. When a customer before me was
                                                                                  getting ready to pay, he did not have enough money. All the staff
      3/2/17- I saw a young man help an older woman carry her groceries
                                                                                  decided to chip in and help the customer. I did not know who to give
      out to her car and then put her cart away for her.
                                                                                  the MN nickel to, since all the staff was part of the kindness. I gave the
      #1-0085                                                                     coin to the cashier because she was the one who talked to the other
                                                                                  staff. I hope all good deeds get passed on.
      4/3/17- I watched a college student stop and help a disabled person
      in the handicap spot open their truck and load their groceries. I even      #1-0457
      watched an older lady afterward comment that that was a very nice
                                                                                  4/20/17- I gave this coin to a customer at a coffee shop when I saw he
      thing he did right before I approached him with my nickel.
                                                                                  bought coffee for two strangers because they forgot to bring money
      #1-0098                                                                     with them. Maybe it is a simple act to others, but it warmed my heart.
      4/27/17- My friend and I were on our way home for the weekend               3/27/17- After making my journey home from college I forgot my
      when we realized that she had left her car lights on and the battery        wallet somewhere. That’s when I received a call from Jane who had
      had died. Since it was off campus, we couldn’t call security and didn’t     picked it up at a gas station 40 miles away and got in contact with
      know what to do. A person walking to her car in the apartment               me. It was so generous of her to use her time to return it with nothing
      complex noticed us with our hood up and asked if our battery had            missing. Mankato
      died. She immediately told us that she could jump the car, but first
                                                                                  #1-0671
      had to get her boyfriend’s jumper cables from a few minutes away.
      Within ten minutes, she was back and got our car started back up. We        4/22/17- I was doing homework in the library on campus. I had my
      asked if we could give her a few dollars but she insisted that she didn’t   open water bottle next to my computer and, of course, I knocked it
      want anything. Her name is Tatiana and her dad is a police officer          over onto my laptop. Some nice guy that I have never met came up to
      who had taught her how to jump a car in case she or someone else            me from a few tables away and handed me a huge stack of napkins
      needed it. This is what makes her “Minnesota Nice.”                         and helped me clean up the mess. I gave him my coin because he
                                                                                  helped instead of ignoring what happened. My computer could have
      4/30/17- I was on my way out to run errands when I noticed two
                                                                                  been ruined if he hadn’t rushed over to help, and I can’t thank him
      girls in their car with the hood up. The battery died and I helped
                                                                                  enough for his ‘Minnesota Nice’ act.
      them jump their car and then one of them gave me this coin. I was
      just acting as I was raised by my parents. The girl told me about this      #1-0679
      project and I think its super cool. I am now looking for someone to
                                                                                  3/17/17- I gave my coin to a co-worker when I was home for the
      pass the coin on to.
                                                                                  weekend. I was feeling very ill and just having a hard time staying
      #1-0184                                                                     focused at work. Although she had prior plans, she offered to stay an
                                                                                  extra three hours to cover the end of my shift so that I could go home
      3/27/17- While I was working in a memory care unit, a sixth grade boy
                                                                                  and rest. This is not something she had to do, but it was an act of
      came out with his father to visit a resident. When they were leaving,
                                                                                  kindness that went a long way.

30   RIVER VALLEY WOMAN | december • 2017
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