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Tammye Nash Managing Editor l 113                                       ast spring, Texas lawmakers passed           people of faith. …                                  you probably aren’t gonna tell them, now are
Arnold Wayne Jones Executive Editor Life+Style l 129                    — and Gov. Greg Abbott signed — the             “The overwhelm-                                  you?
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National Advertising Representative                             teen looking for a foster home, for example —           Kathy Miller, president of the Texas Freedom     ing to get worse.
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                                                                                                                                                                         don’t get in all this: It seems, for the most part,
                                                                                                                                                                         that the folks driving this discrimination dis-
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Chuck Miller Graphic Designer I 132                             did manage to dodge the bullet of a similar bill     and harm people simply because of who they          guised as religious liberty for the most part call
                                                                that would have allowed those in health care         are or the health care services they need.          themselves Christians. But how — seriously,
multimedia                                                      professions to refuse to treat certain people with      “It’s outrageous and dangerous to make care      HOW — can you possibly refuse to help a per-
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                                                                of bigots to leave no stone unturned in their on-       LGBT people have long been urged to “be          tiful, but within are full of dead people’s bones
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founders                                                        possible.                                            man or a lesbian or a trans woman can have sig-     down to, in the end: Our dead bones and your
Robert Moore | Don Ritz                                            This week, on Thursday, Jan. 18, the Trump        nificant impact on your health risks and on the     bloody hands and filthy souls.                   █

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                                                                                                                                                                              The
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                                                                                                                   Michaels                         We sit down with mellow power couple
                                                                                                                                                 Michael Robinson and Michael Serrecchia

Partners in life and theater: Costume designer Robinson and director Serrecchia on the set of ‘A Minor Case of Murder!’ (Photo courtesy of Pegasus Theatre)

A
          lexa is playing opera over the              wigs, sets and, of course, costumes make             shoot rainbows, as we say,” Serrecchia             the strictures are actually freeing. You
          Echo while The Michaels — the-              living human beings appear to be in a                offers, nothing that over the years, he has        can’t be off-the-wall. If this is your world,
          ater director/choreographer                 black-and-white film from the 1930s. This            learned tons of shorthands, potholes and           you have to be creative within that, but
Michael Serrecchia and costume designer/ is old hat for Serrecchia; Minor Case is his                      tricks to make a B&W show work. One                it’s more challenging. They are comedy
actor Michael Robinson — toil away in                 seventh consecutive Living B&W produc-               pitfall: The black-and-white effect isn’t          characters, but they have [fixed traits]:
the kitchen. Dinner will be served shortly;           tion. But it’s also a unique pairing Robin-          employed until tech week, immediately              Who can carry a gun or wear a hat or say
until then, an asparagus frittata and spar-           son’s first chance to design the costumes            before the opening of the show, so all the         this or that. It’s kind of crazy … but kind
kling wine will tide us over until the sauce for Pegasus.                                                  work is telescoped into an intense few             of exciting.” (In this show, for instance,
is ready, the chicken cooked, the fettuccine             “I had appeared in the final show [Pega-          days (that occurs, as timing would have it,        Det. Foster — who in every previous show
made fresh by their own hands. Robinson               sus founder, playwright and star that Kurt           between Christmas and New Year’s).                 wears a hat and overcoat, doesn’t have
had just gifted Serrecchia with a pasta               Kleinmann] did as Harry Hunsacker, but                  “It’s tricky. You can look at old movies        those because it takes place in a nightclub
maker for Christmas, and they were anx-               this is my first time to costume it,” Robin-         where you know an actor’s true hair color          on the first New Year’s Eve after Prohibi-
ious to try it out. Not that making pasta is          son recounts over a cordial of homemade              and see a film they did in black and white         tion has been lifted.)
new to them; with a name like Serrecchia,             lemoncello. “It was still challenging — I            [to figure out how to do it],” Robinson               Another challenge for Serrecchia is that,
you learn early to appreciate Italian food,           have seen [Pegasus shows] for years” —               says. But even that doesn’t always work:           with a new play like this one, neither the
good wine, the symbol-                                              Pegasus’ theater used to be            Barbara Hale’s makeup for Perry Mason              cast nor even he has the full script when
ic and practical aspects      A MINOR CASE OF MURDER!               across from the Dallas Cos-            required a green base and black lips to            rehearsals begin — he gets them at most a
of cooking… in short, la Eisemann Center, 2351 Performance tume Shoppe on the edge of                      “read” as fleshtones on TV, and the noto-          few days before rehearsal. But the artist in
                              Drive, Richardson. Through Jan. 28.
dolce vita, the good life.            PegasusTheatre.org            Deep Ellum — “but it was               rious red dress Bette Davis wore in Jezebel        him loves it.
   If they weren’t such                                             daunting at first. The wig de-         was actually black. And then there are the            “Sometimes we rehearse and we don’t
mellow fellows, The Michaels might be                 signer, for instance, had to make a blonde           bigger limitations imposed by the Pegasus          even know who has been killed!” Serrec-
considered a power couple in the North                wig [that could not be truly blonde] —               Theatre.                                           chia says. “There are no limits here — you
Texas theater scene — Robinson designing how do you do that? You look at fabrics                              “We’re not allowed to show any blood            have to create. I make [my actors] do their
costumes (he also runs the Dallas Costume and [have to] predict, how will that read                        — it’s one of the rules in the Harrype-            character work and make sure everyone
Shoppe) for numerous companies and                    [onstage]? What color would this be if it            dia,” the compendium of parameters                 of them could have done it. Once we find
directors; Serrecchia in demand bringing              were a color? Texture helps to [suggest]             Kleinmann insists upon so that all shows           out [who the killer is], I make very few ad-
countless shows to life. They often work              color and add a different depth. Satins all          are consistent, Serrecchia says, dunking           justments because they are all playing the
apart, but frequently together, including             look the same, for instance. But this play is        a homemade biscotto into his coffee. “In           truth of their character. That’s exciting!”
the current production of the original mys- set on New Year’s Eve, so we can [add tex-                     fact, the No. 1 question of me, probably              Maybe not as exciting as making fettuc-
tery comedy A Minor Case of Murder!, one              ture] with sequins and beads…” although              because people know directors go scream-           cine, lemoncello and biscotti then relaxing
of Pegasus Theatre’s remarkable Living                those as well can be fraught with risk.              ing into the night [when faced with the            over a fine meal, but the good life has
Black & White shows, where makeup,                       “Sequins can reflect prisms of color —            Harrypedia], is ‘How do you do it?’ But            many aspects. 			                           █

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Tragedy times 2
‘Glengarry’ sells itself;                              One shaft of fleeting bromantic admira-
                                                    tion is apparent in Glengarry Glen Ross,
Hillary loses (again)
                                                    the company-launching debut from the
ARNOLD WAYNE JONES | Executive Editor               new Imprint Theatreworks, operating out
jones@dallasvoice.com                               of the Bath House Cultural Center. One
                                                    uber-salesman, Ricky Roma (Joe Messina),
   Lucy Van Pelt told Charlie Brown you’re          understands the balls and vulnerability
not anybody until you’ve appeared on a              that come with convincing folks with dis-
bubblegum card. Screw that. The… no,                posable income to spend their money with
listen, I … hey, wait, pay atten… I talk-- I        you. He sees in Shelley “The Machine”
said I’m talking to you, asshole! Damn! Pay         Levene (Mark Oristano) a fellow travel-
fricking attention why dontcha.... Now, as          er — one who has been on a cool streak
I was saying …. You’re not anybody until            of late, to be sure, but a man who has             A gang of ruthless real estate salesmen (Joe Messina, Mark Oristano, Shane Beeson) spew bile in the
                                                                                                       Mametian ‘Glengarry Glen Ross.’ (Photo courtesy Kris Ikejiri)
your name becomes an                                                 achieved something special
                                  GLENGARRY GLEN ROSS                in life selling Florida retire-   effects of his downfall. Glengarry catches its      from exposition (you can barely ever trust
adjective.
                                    Bath House Cultural Center,
   And that’s David Mamet. 521 E. Lawther Drive. Through Jan. 27. ment properties to nervous           Willys during their rise, plateau and slide,        the words coming out of a Mamet charac-
   The playwright, who                ImprintTheatreworks.org.       Chicagoans with undes-            and adds on it the acknowledgment of the            ter), but the manner in which they talk —
turned the use of profanity                                          ignated cash. Attention,          cyclical nature of the Lomans in our midst.         the patter, the word choice, the speed. So,
framed by ellipses into something akin to           attention must be paid to such a man.              Even a great era must pass. (Evidence: Our          we know Roma is smooth because of the
high art, luxuriates in language the way a             Since its debut (can it be?!) 35 years          current presidency.)                                oily but unexpected way he sidles up to a
hitman luxuriates in high-calibre ordnance. ago, Glengarry has been the gold standard                    Glengarry Glen Ross is arguably a flawless        mark (pardon — a “client”) in a Chinese
He uses words as both swords and gre-               against which ruthlessness is embraced             play but which, paradoxically, is nearly            restaurant; that Aaronow (Lon Barrera) is a
nades, lobbing invectives across the stage          in the theater, but really, it’s the flip side     impossible to do right. You need actors at-         soft-sell weakling because of how he ad-
as characters reveal themselves through             to Arthur Miller’s Death of a Salesman. In         tuned to the archness of Mamet’s obsessive          dles and fixates; that Moss (Kevin Moore)
manipulative explosions of anger, threat … Miller’s version, we virtually never see                    punctuation and his unyielding sense of the         is bravado masking insecurity; and that
and, I’m sure once or twice, affection.             Willy Loman ply his trade, merely the              sound of a play. His characters emerge less         Levene is the embodiment of sweaty des-

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peration twinged by the memory of former stakes are higher than mere ego. Sales are
greatness. When the real estate office they          life for him, literally. The profane, volatile
all work at is burglarized, the list of premi-       vulgarities of Mamet’s aggression can’t
um “leads” (people likely to invest in land) mask the tragedy at its heart. Glengarry
purloined, we know one or more of them               Glen Ross is a bleak comedy about the fear
did it; it’s seeing how they all cope with           of becoming obsolete. Its message has
the accusations that we learn about them.            rarely felt more pertinent.
(Character, they say, is what you do when
nobody is watching; fuck that, it’s what                 Hillary and Clinton portrays a tragedy
they do when accused of a crime.)                    of different kind. In author Lucas Hnath’s
   Mamet is as ruthless with his story-              construct, the universe is filled with
telling economy — and apparent opin-                 infinite Earths with differences major and
ion about the human animal — as these                minor, including ones where a former First
characters are with other human beings.              Lady named Hillary is black, her husband
They are like manifestations of the writer’s Bill is as much liability as advisor, her
own personality — neuroses made flesh.               opponent in the 2008 primaries is a black
That’s a narrow window to shoot an arrow man, and she never gets to be president.
through, but director Ashley H. White                    Ummm… how is that, really, different
manages it with her tight cast. North                from this universe.                              An alternative-universe Hillary (Stormi Demerson) and Bill (Barry Nash) relive the 2008 Democratic
                                                                                                      primary in ‘Hillary and Clinton.’ (Photo courtesy Karen Almond)
Texas newcomer Messina is more roly-po-                  And thus the conundrum of Hnath’s
ly than other Romas I’ve                                               play, which opened Second      or research the actual events and try to              all seem to acquit themselves of what the
seen, but he makes it work            HILLARY AND CLINTON              Thought Theatre’s 2018         explain them? Hillary and Clinton feels lazy          script requires. But Hnath toggles mean-
with his variation of the        Bryant Hall on the Kalita Humphreys season. He gives himself         — a writer who wanted to opine about                  inglessly between directly addressing the
                                   campus, 3636 Turtle Creek Blvd.
Jedi mindfuck; Ian Meade                Through Feb. 3. 2TT.co.        free rein to rewrite world     recent politics without the requirement to            audience to restoring the fourth wall to
Moore as the milquetoast                                               history to his liking, and     fact-check or get permissions.                        breaking the artifice of the play construct
victim of his pitch is poignantly sympa-             what does he do? Tweak this, nip that,             Simply not enough happens to keep                   itself and does so with virtually nothing
thetic. But Oristano — tall but somehow              spin here, change here and then leave            our interest for 85 uninterrupted minutes             happening onstage. H&C is as stiff as any
not imposing, gray-haired and defeated               everything more or less the same. So the         in uncomfortable chairs. I don’t blame                play I’ve seen, and it doesn’t do anything
but with the fight of a junkyard dog still in question is, why? Why pretend these are                 the cast — Stormi Demerson as Hillary,                to upend its characters in profound ways.
him — gives the show’s best performance. the Clintons-only-not-the-Clintons when                      Jim Kuenzer as her campaign manager,                  Mamet transforms words into actions;
He’s like the high school football star who          you could fictionalize like a “ripped from       Barry Nash as Bill (but not Bill!) and Sam            Hnath can’t even transform them into a
lives in his past glories, but for whom the          the headlines” episode of Law & Order,           Henderson as “The Other Guy” — who                    compelling story. 		                        █

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 largest Gay, Lesbian,                                             ed by white vinyl-covered stools that call        silver dollar slices of roma tomatoes and
 Bisexual and Transgender                                          to mind the decor on Mad Men.                     diced peppers.
 media company is                                                     Yet the weather does not deter me, nor            Chef Fino Rodriguez has developed
                                                                   should it you. Once you order, the server         about a dozen tacos, from lengua to al
 seeking a seasoned Advertising
                                                                   promptly returns with this astonishing            pastor to fish, providing sufficient variety
 Sales Professional to join our                                    taco stand’s version of an amuse bouche:          to let you try out a new duet (I wouldn’t
 team. Candidate must be goal                                      complimentary borracho beans, delivered           order more than two unless you’ve just
 oriented, self-starter who can                                    in an earthenware mug with an oversized,          escaped from a prison work camp) every
 build new business. Candidate                                     colorful antique spoon. The radiant heat          week and not get bored. The pork is spicy
                                                                   warms your hands, and is even warming             and filling; the steak, while a bit tough
 will be responsible for building                                                                                                                                     T
                                                                   going down; the steam from the soupy              (probably owing to the cut of meat), was
 print and digital campaigns for                                   mixture wafts toward your nose, tantaliz-         cooked medium-rare and seasoned well.
 companies focused on the                                          ing and soothing at the same time. Com-              Just as enticing is the torta Chihuahua
 LGBT marketplace.                                                 fort food, a la Mexicana.                         ($8), a hearty Mexican-style panino served
                                                                      Taquero occupies a shady, blink-and-           on a firm-crusted but unexpectedly soft
                                                                   you’ll-miss-it corner along Singleton             roll, with succulent carnitas, balanced with
 Strong work ethic with a
                                                                   Boulevard in West Dallas, marked only             avocado, tomato and slaw… all made
 focus on customer service                                         by a modest sign and far from the hipster         more emphatic by roja and verde salsas
 is essential                                                      hubbub of Trinity Groves just a mile down         that pack punch (though that could be the
                                                                   the road. Parking is tight in its tiny lot, and   chipotles doing overtime).
                                                                   street parking depends on how far you                Irrespective of its humble locale, the vibe
       REQUIREMENTS: Candidate must have at least two years        are willing to walk through this residen-         is distinctly enjoyable. Images of queer
      sales experience combined with strong communication skills   tial barrio of small, A-frame homes. It’s         Mexican artist Frida Kahlo peer down
                                                                   worth a good walk, even in brisk weather,         from multiple perches; the staff (they
              and proven ability to build client relationships.
                                                                   because Taquero offers a unique spin on           speak English, but Spanish is clearly the
     Email resume and cover letter to mantooth@dallasvoice.com     street tacos.                                     preferred method of communication) is
                                                                      Street tacos? More like field tacos: This      solicitous, polite, courteous and largely
                     Voice Publishing Company, Inc.                is masculine, bold food — there’s nothing
                                                                   dainty or meek or demure about these
                                                                                                                     invisible; contemporary Spanish-language
                                                                                                                     music with bossa nova beats wafts out
                                                                   tacos. (The restaurant’s name, Taquero,           of the speakers. Even when it’s cold out,
                                                                   seems intentionally to rhyme with vaquero,        that’s enough, with beans and spicy salsa,
                                                                   the Spanish term for a herding cowboy             to warm you up, body and soul.
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The torta chihuahua at Taquero expands its menu beyond tacos; all items feature spicy salsas. (Photog-
raphy by Arnold Wayne Jones)

   In many ways, Revolver Taco Lounge                  Revolver can boast an actual interior,
couldn’t be more different from Taquero:             and a nice one at that. A long hightop table
It’s in Deep Ellum, the granddaddy of din-           with bench seating dominates the small
ing destinations for adventurous foodies             dining room, where music ranged from the
rather than the up-and-coming West Dallas            funky syncopation of Cake playing on the
scene that didn’t register a blip only four          radio one moment, then immediately mor-
years ago. They are divided by two high-             phing into old-school West Coast hip-hop.
ways, and while Singleton hosts a melange            A colorful mural of Dia de los Muertos
of auto garages, tax-preparation offices             sugar skulls dominates one wall. In short:
and single-family homes, Deep Ellum is an            This is Deep Ellum at its coolest.
established hipster hang of tattoo parlors,            Revolver’s aesthetic also claims more
underground music venues and trendy,                 classical culinary aspirations. Tacos
quirky boutiques and craft beer brewpubs.            here cost twice, even thrice the standard
They also take vastly different approaches           price-point for a standard taco, the result
to the craft of the taco. But both are doing         of labor-intensive creations prepared in
their things defiantly and uniquely. They            the open kitchen a la minute. The menu
stake their claims on reinvention of a               contains more.
familiar, usually pretty cheap bit of pro-             All the tacos are served on a thick,
tein-forward sustenance.                                                             █
                                                                                         TACO Next Page

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                                                             The pulpo taco at Revolver continues the octopus trend. (Photography by Arnold Wayne Jones)

                                                             █
                                                                 TACO From Previous Page

                                                             single housemade corn tortilla (they look          the caramelized onions and roasted po-
                                                             fluffy and white, which might make you             blano fleshed out the mouthfeel.
                                                             think they are flour, but they are not,               A recent addition to the menu is the El
                                                             and impart a sweetness on the proteins).           Degenerado ($7.50), practically a meal
                                                             That’s an impressive foundation on which           in itself: Chorizo — rich, fatty, smoky —
                                                             to construct the architecture of tacos. The        combined with aged wagyu carne asada,
                                                             skill is apparent on the pulpo ($5), which         crowned by a luscious egg makes it ap-
                                                             offers an elegant execution of briny, moist,       pear to be brunchy. It’s arresting to look
                                                             tender (not chewy) octopus “carnitas” un-          at (another diner ordered one for himself
                                                             dergirding fried leeks layered in crunchy          after ogling mine), but even better to eat.
                                                             strips and drizzled in a salsa verde (it’s         (A version of just the carne asada without
                                                             made of jalapeno, not avocado or tomatil-          chorizo or egg is also offered.)
                                                             lo, so be prepared for the heat).                     Beyond tacos, chef Hugo Galvan has
                                                                I shouldn’t have to convince any daring         also concocted a ceviche list, and created
                                                             foodhound to gravitate toward the cabrito          a Mexican hot dog around Luscher’s Red

       Coming Feb. 9!
                                                             ($8), perhaps the signature taco on the            Hots sausages, and the beer list includes
                                                             menu. The Michoacan-style month-old                quite a few Mexican brews. But the tacos
                                                             baby goat was smooth and succulent. (A             are what lingers — not just as one-off bites
                                                             special made of rabbit cabrito was on the          for a quick lunch, but as an overall dining
                                                             menu, but sold out on my last visit.) The          experience, a celebration of the creativity

     Valentine’s Edition
                                                             pato ($7) — a medium seared breast of              that can be achieved within the modest
                                                             duck — may have been the most perfect              circumference of a tortilla. Viva tacos!    █

                                                             preparation of duck in any context I’ve               Taquero, 1601 Singleton Blvd.
                                                             had in year — melted on my tongue, but                Revolver Taco Lounge, 2701 Main St.

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                                                                                                                                     best bets
                                                                                                          Tuesday 01.23 —
                                                                                                          Sunday 02.04
                                                                                                          Push da button! ‘Color Purple’
                                                                                                          returns to Fair Park
                                                                                                          The movie made Oprah Winfrey a star, but the
                                                                                                          stage musical adaptation of Alice Walker’s novel
                                                                                                          The Color Purple, about a beset-upon black
                                                                                                          woman making her way in the segregated South of
                                                                                                          the early 20th century — including coming to terms
                                                                                                          with her own sexuality — stands up in its own right.
                                                                                                          The national tour of the recent revival settles into
                                                                                                          Fair Park Music Hall for a two-week engagement.
                                                                                                          Presented by Dallas Summer Musicals.

                                                                                                          DEETS: Music Hall at Fair Park, 909 First Ave.

                                        Saturday 01.20
                                                                                                          DallasSummerMusicals.org.

                                        Compagnie Hervé Koubi dances into the Arts District
                                        A few years ago, the Dallas debut of the French-Algerian dance company by
                                                                                                                             Friday 01.19 —
                                                                                                                             Sunday 01.21
                                        choreographer Hervé Koubi wowed audiences with its bold modern mix of
                                        hip-hop and street-style dancing from an all-male company of African artists.
                                        It returns this weekend for a one-night-only presentation, certainly one of the
                                        most eagerly awaited dance programs of the year. Presented by TITAS.
                                                                                                                            Theatre 3 unmasks
                                        DEETS: Winspear Opera House, 2403 Flora St. 8 p.m. ATTPAC.org.                      ‘Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde’
                                                                                                                             In a few weeks, the Dallas Theater
                                                                                                                 Center will debut its new take on a 19th century
                                                                                                                 classic of Gothic literature with Frankenstein, but
                                                                                                                 if you want to whet your Victorian appetite, try a
                                                                                                                 taste of Theatre 3’s new version of Dr. Jekyll and
                                                                                                                  Mr. Hyde. One unique conceit of this version:
                                                                                                                  While Jekyll is played by a single actor (Michael
                                                                                                                  Federico), four actors play various identities of Mr.
                                                                                                                  Hyde in this frightening psychological portrait of
                                                                                                                  depravity.

                                                                                                                 DEETS: Theatre 3, 2900 Routh St. in the
                                                                                                                 Quadrangle. In previews through Sunday.
                                                                                                                 Theatre3Dallas.com.

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       STROKING                                                                                                           Wednesday and Eisemann Center on Friday.

     TECHNOLOGY                                                                                                           ARTSWEEK
                                                                                                                          THEATER
                                                                                                                                                                                Glengarry Glen Ross. The new theater company

        IS HERE!                                                                                                          A Minor Case of Murder. A world premiere
                                                                                                                          Living Black-and-White production from Pegasus
                                                                                                                                                                                Imprint Theatreworks opens its inaugural season
                                                                                                                                                                                with this Pulitzer Prize-winner about cutthroat real
                                                                                                                                                                                estate salesmen. The cast includes Kevin Moore

          THE                                                                                                             Theatre, following the antics of inept detective
                                                                                                                          Harry Hunsacker as he solves a crime on New
                                                                                                                          Years’ Eve 1933. Directed by Michael Serrecchia.
                                                                                                                                                                                and Lon Barrera. Reviewed this week.
                                                                                                                                                                                Bath House Cultural Center, 521 E. Lawther Drive.

      AUTO BLOW                                                                                                           See feature story on Page 14. Eisemann Center
                                                                                                                          for Performing Arts, 2351 Performance Drive,
                                                                                                                                                                                Through Jan. 27. ImprintTheatreworks.org.
                                                                                                                                                                                Hillary and Clinton. A woman named Hillary

        2 PLUS!                                                                                                           Richardson. Through Jan. 28.
                                                                                                                          PegasusTheatre.org.
                                                                                                                                                                                with a husband named Bill is running for president
                                                                                                                                                                                of the United States in this fictional work by
                                                                                                                                                                                playwright Lucas Hnath (The Christians,
                                                                                                                          Daddy Long Legs. The stage adaptation of the
                                                                                                                                                                                Red Speedo, A Doll’s House Part 2). Opens
                                                                                                                          classic Fred Astaire movie musical. Presented by
                                                                                                                                                                                Second Thought’s 2018 season. Reviewed this
                                                                                                                          Irving-based Lyric Stage at its new Dallas home
                                                                                                                                                                                week. Bryant Hall on the Kalita Humphreys
                                                                                                                          at The Majestic Theater, 1925 Elm St. Through
                                                                                                                                                                                campus, 3636 Turtle Creek Blvd.
                                                                                                                          Sunday. LyricStage.org.
                                                                                                                                                                                Through Feb. 3. 2TT.co.
                                                                                                                          Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. A new adaptation
                                                                                                                                                                                I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change. The
                                                                                                                          of the psychological horror story. Theatre 3,
                                                                                                                                                                                18th (and final) production from Theatre Too
                                                                                                                          2900 Routh St. in the Quadrangle.
                                                                                                                                                                                of this musical revue about romance. Theatre 3,
                                                                                                                          Through Feb. 11. Theatre3Dallas.com.
                                                                                                                                                                                2900 Routh St. in the Quadrangle.
                                                   1720 W. MOCKINGBIRD LANE                                               The Gazebo. A comedy thriller that tributes           Through March 4. Theatre3Dallas.com.
                                             DALLAS, TX 75235 • 214-630-7071                                              Hitchcock. Directed by Doug Miller.
                                                                                                                                                                                Like a Billion Likes. An unpopular high school
                                              (enter in rear behind New Fine Arts)                                        Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd.
                                                                                                                                                                                girl starts up a relationship with a gender-non-
                                                                                                                          Through Feb. 3. IrvingTheatre.org.

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conforming boy and abuses social media in this                       Theatre in the West Village, 3699 McKinney Ave.
contemporary dark comedy. Stage West,                                Screens at 7:30 p.m. and 10 p.m.
821 W. Vickery Blvd., Fort Worth. Through Feb.
18. Stagewest.org.
Something Rotten. A struggling playwright                            THEATER
keeps getting bested by his rival, William                           The Color Purple. The story of Celie, a black
Shakespeare, and hopes to revolutionize                              woman triply disadvantaged in the early 20th
theater with a new-fangled genre called “a                           century South. Fair Park Music Hall, 909 First
musical.” Hilarious. Bass Performance Hall, 525                      Ave. Jan. 23–Feb. 4. DallasSummerMusicals.org
Commerce St., Fort Worth. Through Sunday.
BassHall.com.

                                                                     WEDNESDAY 01.24
DANCE                                                                THEATER
Shen Yun Performing Arts. The Chinese dance                          A Night with Janis Joplin. A jukebox musical
company performs. Final weekend. Music Hall at                       set to the songs of the great bisexual Texas
Fair Park, 909 First Ave. ShenYun.com/dallas.                        rocker. (Also plays at the Eisemann later in the
                                                                     week.) Bass Performance Hall, 525 Commerce
FINE ART                                                             St., Fort Worth. 7:30 p.m. BassHall.com.
Yayoi Kusama: All the Eternal Love I Have
for the Pumpkins. The DMA features the
only Infinity Mirror Room of its kind in a North
American collection, this tribute to the gourd by                    THURSDAY 01.25
Japanese artist Yayoi Kusama. Dallas Museum                          CABARET
of Art,                                                              Glitterbomb Denton. Weekly queer variety
1717 Harwood St. Through Feb. 25. DMA.org.                           show with a new lineup every Thursday. Mable
                                                                     Peabody’s Beauty Parlor and Chain Saw Repair,
                                                                     1125 E. University Drive, Denton. 9:30 p.m.
FRIDAY 01.19
COMMUNITY
Panoptikon. The weekly retro disco dance                             FRIDAY 01.26
party, presented by Lord Byron. Red Light, 2911                      THEATER
Main St. Doors 9 p.m.                                                A Night with Janis Joplin. A jukebox musical
                                                                     set to the songs of the great bisexual Texas
FILM                                                                 rocker. Eisemann Center for Performing Arts,
CineWilde Presents I’m So Excited.                                   2351 Performance Drive, Richardson. Jan. 26
Almadovar’s candy-colored comedy about an                            only. EisemannCenter.com.
airline. Presented by CineWilde, with a pre-show
                                                                     Elliot, A Soldier’s Fugue. Addison Theatre
discussion and campy karaoke post-show party.
                                                                     Centre, 15650 Addison Road. Jan. 26–
Texas Theatre, 231 W. Jefferson Blvd. 8:30 p.m.
                                                                     Feb. 18 (in previews through Jan. 28).
doors, 9 p.m. show. $10.
                                                                     WaterTowerTheatre.org.

SATURDAY 01.20
COMMUNITY
FrontRunners. Gay jogging/walking group
meets weekly at 9 a.m. in Oak Lawn Park at
Hall Street and Turtle Creek Boulevard for a run
along the Katy Trail.

DANCE
Cie. Hervé Koubi. The company of all male
street dancers from Algeria and Burkina Faso
returns for one night only. Winspear Opera
House, 2403 Flora St. ATTPAC.org.                                     this week’s solution

TUESDAY 01.23
FILM
Kiss Me, Kate. Life imitates arts in this Cole
Porter musical set to the plot of, and backdrop
to a production of, The Taming of the Shrew.
Screens as part of the Tuesday Big Movie
New Classic Series at Landmark’s Magnolia

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L+S scoop

Cassie Nova
Flu, peeing and trusting an ex
   Hey, y’all. When I sit down to write this            I try not to be such a pussy when I am sick,
mess, I tend to write about whatever has been        but I coughed so much that my diaphragm
on my mind that week. This week, my hus-             muscles felt like I had been doing hundreds of
band and I have had the freakin’ flu. That shit      crunches. I almost feel like I should have rock-
has kicked our asses for five solid days. Last       hard abs and a flat stomach by now. When
Sunday was Jamie’s first day off in weeks and        most people get sick they lose a few pounds
he was sick. I was hoping to go see a movie          from not having an appetite. My poor husband
or have a fabulous Sunday Funday, but no.            had zero appetite — I had to force him to eat
Instead of brunch, we took a trip to CareNow         or drink anything. I, on the other hand, stayed
where he received the wonderful news (flu!)          hungry. I couldn’t taste anything, but that didn’t
Dammit!!                                             stop my fat ass from eating.
   The next morning, I woke up feeling like             On a lighter note, let me tell you about
death as well. My doctor gave me Tamiflu             something that happened to me last weekend
saying we might catch it in time to knock it out.    after the show. I parked in the paid parking
I’m not sure if we did; here it is Saturday, and I   area where the Caven employees park before
am just now feeling normalish.                       the show. Fast forward to the end of the night
   The flu is no joke this year. We both had our     I’m fresh out of drag, looking and feeling
flu shots but still got it. I still say always get   haggard. It is probably 2:30 in the morning and
your flu shots. Apparently it could have been a      I just wanna jump in my car and get home. I
lot worse. I will say, thank God for drugs. That     notice this dude standing very close to my car.
Tylenol with codeine helped us sleep even            My first thought was, oh shit, where is my Tas-          I get around to my driver’s side where he         him take the dogs on the weekend or should I
though I couldn’t feel my face or anything else      er? Then I realize the motherfucker is peeing.       was peeing and see that he has pissed all over        be selfish? Thanks, Byron.
for a few hours. Oh, now I get it: That song by      He sees me and zips up and walks to his car          my front right wheel. I love my car; it’s totes          Dear Byron, Child, I do not envy you. First
The Weeknd is about drugs. Duh!                      parked behind mine.                                  adorbs. So I hulked up. I am pissed. I turned         off, trust your gut. If you don’t think that he
                                                                                                          to that asshole screaming, “You pissed on my          can control the dogs out in public then do not
                                                                                                          car!” He had the nerve to smile at me as he           let him take them. Let him know he can come
                                                                                                          slammed his door.                                     over and spend time with them in the safety of
                                                                                                              I didn’t know what to do. I was so angry. I       your yard. Are your animals big or small? How
                                                                                                          thought, find a rock and smash out all of his         do they act in public or when they encounter
                                                                                                          windows, pull him out of his car, whoop his           other dogs? If your dogs are yard dogs and
                                                                                                          ass, jump on top of his car and keep jumping          don’t know how to act on a leash, then you
                                                                                                          till my rage went away. All of that went through      need to train them if you are ever going to let
                                                                                                          my mind quickly, but I settled on a much less         them go to his apartment.
                                                                                                          violent approach. I whipped my dick out and              Honestly, it sounds to me like you want to
                                                                                                          forced out as much pee as I could muster and          get back with your ex. Would y’all still talk if
                                                                                                          soaked the side of his car as he drove away.          you didn’t have dogs? Good lord, could you
                                                                                                          The look on his face was worth it though; he          imagine how hard this would be with actual
                                                                                                          looked like, “What the fuck? This homo is cra-        children. Like I said, trust your gut. If you trust
                                                                                                          zy!” He wasn’t smiling anymore.                       him to keep them safe then let him take them,
                                                                                                              The truth is, I almost pulled a groin muscle      otherwise… you got a yard for a reason. Good
                                                                                                          and ruptured my nuts trying to force pee out          luck to you both, Cassie.
                                                                                                          in time to get it on his car. I didn’t exactly soak      Dearest Cassie, I miss the old Rose Room.
                                                                                                          it, more like an S.O.S. message: Dot dot dash         Drag just doesn’t feel the same as it did back
                                                                                                          dash dot.                                             in the day. That small Rose Room was so
                                                                                                              I stood there, dick in hand, just as pleased      much better than the giant room you have now.
                                                                                                          with myself as I could be. I then realized what       Do you think drag has changed too much?
                                                                                                          it must look like to anyone standing around, so       Signed, Miss Nostalgic.
                                                                                                          I made myself right and looked around. Luckily           Dear Debbie Downer, Yes, drag has
                                                                                                          there was nobody else around that I could             changed. I too miss the old Rose Room. It was
                                                                                                          see. Please God do not let there be a video           awesome. It was so intimate and personal. You
                                                                                                          somewhere of that incident. And to the guy that       were right up on the girls as they performed.
                                                                                                          pissed on my tire? Betcha won’t do it again!          As an entertainer we always complained that
                                                                                                              Now, as if I have the right, let me help out      the room was too small, but when we got the
                                                                                                          some folks.                                           new room, we gave up a lot of that intimacy for
                                                                                                              Dear Cassie, I had a boyfriend for about          a bigger and in some ways better show.
                                                                                                          three years. We recently broke up. While we              Drag feels different for many reasons. First
                                                                                                          were together, we adopted two dogs and a cat.         off, there will never be a time as fun as when
                                                                                                          All rescues and all three became our children.        you first start coming out and being around
                                                                                                          Our break-up was hard, but we have decided            your people. Those first five years of com-
                                                                                                          to remain friends because I know he loves the         ing out to the shows, everything was better.
                                                                                                          animals as much as I do.                              The music, the people, just everything. Drag
                                                                                                              He has asked if he can keep the dogs at his       seemed better because it was fresh and new
                                                                                                          place for the weekends. I live in a house with        to you. Just like to some new kid who will
                                                                                                          a yard. He now has a small apartment in Oak           look back on the “now” times and say the
                                                                                                          Lawn. I hate the idea of them being around            same thing you are saying in the future. It is
                                                                                                          streets and cars so much. One problem we              an evolution. I’m glad you remember the old
                                                                                                          had when we were together was I was the               Rose Room so fondly, so do I. Just accept that
                                                                                                          disciplinarian. He never made them listen or          things change, give the now a chance.
                                                                                                          mind him, so I don’t trust that they will listen         Remember to always love more, bitch less
                                                                                                          to him out in public where they could be put in       and be fabulous! XOXO, Cassie Nova.
                                                                                                          danger. Part of me thinks that the animals are           If you have a question of comment, email it
                                                                                                          going to help us get back together. Should I let      to AskCassieNova@gmail.com.

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                                                                                                    Guys’ night out on The Strip

                                                                                                    Having a blast at The Round-Up Saloon

Working the stage at Marty’s Live

                              Making the SCENE the week of Jan. 19–25:
• Alexandre’s: K-Marie on Friday. Jason Huff on Saturday. Wayne Smith on Sunday. New York
  State of Mind on Monday. K-Marie on Tuesday. Anna Fredericka Popova on Wednesday. Chris
  Chism on Thursday.
• Club Reflection: Empress’ Starlight AIDS Ball and Snowflake Contest with buffet at 6 p.m.
  and ball at 6 p.m. on Saturday. Leathermen chili cookoff from 4-7 p.m. and Court Show at 7 p.m.
  on Sunday. Wall of Food Show at 8 p.m. on Wednesday.
• Dallas Eagle: Boots, Chaps & Cowboy Hats hosted by Onyx Lone Star at 10 p.m. on Saturday.
  Diva Night with DJ C-Rail on Saturday.
• JR.’s Bar & Grill: Cassie’s Freak Show at 11 p.m. on Monday.
• Marty’s Live: Gumbo for a Cause from 4-9 p.m. on Sunday, benefits Resource Center Food Pantry.
  Lardi B – Bodak Jelllo performs at 7 p.m. on Sunday.
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                                                                       Lost Souls Rugby on Saturday, Jan. 13, collected a pool table full of socks for homeless LGBT teens
                                                                       in conjunction with Outlast Youth. The team set up shop at the Round-Up Saloon, and supporters
                                                                       donated socks by the bagful. Team members posed for this picture about halfway through the after-
                                                                       noon’s collection drive. (David Taffet/Dallas Voice)

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                                                                        last week in Borrego Park in Lake Forest, about       amfAR founder
                                                                        50 miles southeast of Los Angeles.                    Mathilde Krim dies
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                                                                            Blaze Bernstein, 19, was reported missing             Mathilde Krim, who began her crusade
                                                                        Jan. 3 by his parents. His body was found after       against a deadly virus and the discrimination
                                                                        a week-long search in a shallow grave along           against people who had contracted it in the
                                                                        the perimeter of the park. He had been stabbed        early 1980s, died at her home on Monday, Jan.
                                                                        repeatedly.                                           15, at the age of 91.
                                                                            Samuel Woodward, 20, a high school                    Krim was a geneticist and virologist who had
                                                                        classmate of Bernstein’s, was charged with one        done work in cancer research. She was the
                                                                        count of felony murder on Monday, Jan. 15,            founding chair of amfAR, the Foundation for
                                                                        with a sentencing enhancement of personal use         AIDS Research.
                                                                        of a knife, according to the Los Angeles Times.           “Dr. Krim was at the forefront of scientific
                                                                            Blaze Bernstein was openly gay, and in an         and philanthropic responses to HIV/AIDS long
                                                                        email to the Times, his parents suggested that        before the world fully understood its catastroph-
                                                                        his sexual orientation may have played a part in      ic global reach,” amfAR wrote of its founding
                                                                        his murder.                                           leader on its website.
                                                                            Gideon Bernstein and Jeanne Pepper Bern-              Krim’s husband was the chairman of United
                                                                        stein wrote, “our son was a beautiful gentle soul     Artists and Orion Pictures. In her fight for money
                                                                        who we loved more than anything. We were              for research and civil rights for people living with
                                                                        proud of everything he did and who he was. He         AIDS, Krim recruited friends from Hollywood to
                                                                        had nothing to hide. We are in solidarity with        join the cause, most notably Elizabeth Taylor,
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                                                                            Prosecutors said Woodward had picked up               Dr. Krim also fought discrimination against
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