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Get Connected. Stay Connected - An Interview with Dana Nessel Sashay This Way: Inside Drag Therapy The Queer History of Saugatuck - Pride Source
Get Connected. Stay Connected - An Interview with Dana Nessel Sashay This Way: Inside Drag Therapy The Queer History of Saugatuck - Pride Source
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transformation from a small lumber town to a Midwestern queer vacation spot. We connect with a therapist
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Dana Nessel
The (Cat) Person Behind the Politics

                                              A scroll through Michigan Attorney            been anything, she’s chosen to be herself.          one thing. She holds many contrasting           state’s very first out LGBTQ+ elected state         proud of her wife and her family and seems
                                           General Dana Nessel’s Facebook feed is           Relentlessly. Joyously.                             roles. She’s a mom (to twin teens, Alex         official, a leadership role she takes quite         to see no reason to downplay that part of
    The Attorney General                   an exercise in contrast. Mostly, Nessel posts       “I’m not shy about who I am,” Nessel             and Zach). She’s a doting wife (to Alanna       seriously. The AG is acutely, personally            her life for the sake of some perceived risk
                                           about issues directly affecting Michigan         tells Pride Source from her kitchen during a        Maguire, president of Fair Michigan). She’s     aware that representation more than                 to her political career. The obvious political
     Just Wants to Make                    residents: important legislative decisions,      recent interview. Amidst the world of politics      an accomplished lawyer and a former All-        “matters.” It’s vitally important.                  double standard — the one where straight
        a Difference, and                  education about emerging financial scams,        in 2021, it’s a bold statement. It takes more       State high school soccer player. Lately,           Growing up, Nessel says, she didn’t              men in politics are practically rewarded for
                                                                                                                                                she’s a birdwatcher.                            have LGBTQ+ role models to look to for              being “honest” about their infidelities while
  Sometimes Watch Birds                    the evolving legal battle over COVID
                                           restrictions.
                                                                                            than bravery to deal with what Nessel has
                                                                                            faced, including a seemingly endless stream            It was their time spent at home              inspiration. “There wasn’t anybody on TV            women are held to puritanical standards
                                              But then, there are the cat videos. And       of acidic criticism from her detractors — not       during the lockdown that led Nessel             or in the movies except for people that             that haven’t evolved much in the past
                                           the one with Nessel curled up on her couch       to mention multiple, literal death threats —        and Maguire to their new, unexpected            were ... made to look foolish, or a mockery,”       200 years — is of little concern for Nessel.
                            BY             in her pajamas, just like the rest of us mid-    but to push forward despite it all.                 interest in ornithology. “I cultivated this     she says. “It was a tough way to grow up            It’s almost laughable to imagine a male
                ELLEN KNOPPOW              lockdown, relating to viewers like a wise           Maybe it’s the thick skin she developed          whole relationship with the animals in my       because there just wasn’t anybody that I            counterpart triggering headlines like “Dana
          & SARAH BRICKER HUNT             aunt who expects more from you because           over her years spent as a trial attorney, or        backyard,” she says. That relationship, in      could look to in life, in any realm, to feel like   Nessel Kissed Wife Upon Winning Election,”
                                           she believes in you: “Remember when you          her participation in highly competitive sports      true Nessel style, led to deeper exploration    it was OK for me to be who I was.                   but here we are.
                     Photos: Tina Miller   used to have to put on pants and even            as a high school student, or her years spent        and self-education. “My wife and I are now         “I didn’t want that to happen to the next            Given her openness now, it’s hard to
                                           shower in order to vote?” she asks her           in the closet — an experience she reflects          experts on Michigan birds, something I          generation,” she adds. “Being the first             believe Nessel is the same person who
                                           Facebook followers. “Not anymore!”               on today as “miserable.” Maybe it’s all of          never expected to have even an interest in,     statewide elected LGBTQ person brings               spent years in the closet, feeling a sense
                                              And, despite all the political turmoil,       these experiences, and more, that have              let alone an expertise in.”                     with it a certain responsibility, and I’m not       of embarrassment and shame about her
                                           including the slowly fading Trump era,           led Nessel to a place where authenticity is            Nessel’s approach to understanding           going to be shy about it. I’m not going to          identity. That’s not who she is today.
                                           Nessel still believes in Michigan — all of it.   always at the forefront, haters be damned.          the world right outside her back door           hide.”                                                  “I talk about the issues that are important
                                           In a world where someone as ambitious               To unravel who Dana Nessel really “is”           reflects her approach to serving the state of      For Nessel, representation is more than          to my constituents, but I also am not shy
                                           and sharp-minded as Nessel could have            is to accept that she, like all of us, isn’t just   Michigan as its top-ranking attorney and the    lip service. It’s part of who she is. She’s         about who I am,” she says. “And honestly,

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                                                                                                  indication, much of her sons’ senior year
                                                                                                  was a far different experience than the
I’m proud of my family. I worked very hard            As for her own kids, Nessel says she        typical focus on prom and graduation. At
to have a legal family. And yeah, sometimes       understands all too well what it has been       the beginning of the lockdown in 2020,
I want to shout it from the mountaintops          like for both parents and the younger           she tweeted, “Distancing from my wife
because I’m just so proud.                        generation during the pandemic.                 who has an immune deficiency means
   “I talk about my wife a lot,” she continues,       “It’s been tough on parents who have to     living in the basement where I spend hours
referring to Maguire, who Nessel married in       work while taking care of their kids,” Nessel   each evening watching my teen sons play
2014, “because she’s also my best friend,         acknowledges. “At the same time, I’d say        Grand Theft Auto while shouting out MCL
and she’s the person who means the most           it’s really tough on the children, to really    (Michigan Compiled Laws) statutes being
to me in the world. And I’m not going to be       not have any semblance of a normal life for     violated. No one seems to appreciate how
ashamed of my marriage.                           a long time.” Even though she recognizes        this might add value to the experience.”
   “I am not going to run away from my            that there are “worse things in the world,”         Nessel’s own high school experience
sexual orientation,” Nessel adds. “And I          her sons didn’t get to make the same kind       included a deep focus on athletics. The
hope it will be impactful to people later         of memories in their senior year of high        former West Bloomfield High School All-
on, and there’ll be kids that grow up being       school that she remembers making, the           State soccer player spent time on the
able to look to me and feel like they can         experiences “you learn from, that make you      Olympic development team, though
accomplish anything they want to in life and      into an adult,” she says.                       she didn’t go all the way to the Games.
not be held back by their LGBTQ status.”              If Nessel’s social media accounts are an    Nessel is the first to aknowledge being
                                                                                                  a stereotypically sports-loving lesbian (“I
                                                                                                  completely fit the mold,” she says). Partly,
                                                                                                  playing sports appeals to Nessel because
                                                                                                  she has “an element of competitiveness,”
      “I talk about the issues that are important to                                              but more importantly, she adds, “Sports
                                                                                                  teaches a lot about life in terms of being
      my constituents, but I also am not shy about                                                able to work as part of a team.”
                                                                                                      Nessel may be a team player, but she’d
      who I am.”                                                                                  really prefer it if that team were always
                                                                                                  winning. “I don’t like to lose,” she admits,
                                                                                                  laughing. “I don’t know anyone who does.”

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                                                                                                  and shutting down the Line 5 pipeline
                                                                                                  project. “I’ve done everything I can to try to
                                                                                                  do that job,” she says.
                                                                                                     Nessel says she’s followed through
                                                                                                  on her commitment to the LGBTQ+
                                                                                                  community, as well. She issued an opinion
   It’s no wonder Nessel’s political             very important message about voting in           that allows transgender people to change
opponents seem hyper-focused not only            Michigan? You be the judge!”                     the gender on their birth certificate without
on Nessel’s tenure as AG, but on her                If you sense a theme — and that theme         undergoing gender reassignment surgery.
uncanny ability to simply relate. This quality   is cats — you’re onto something. Nessel,         She rewrote her predecessor’s policy on
is at the heart of why her social media          Maguire and their boys are basically             defending LGBTQ+ people before the
videos are so popular, including her PSA in      running a cat sanctuary out of their home.       Department of Civil Rights. She wrote an
March focused on imposter scams. In the          “We have maybe a few cats too many, but          amicus brief in support of Kym Worthy’s
short clip, Nessel and her cat companion         we love cats in this household,” she says.       efforts to include gender identity as a class
patiently explain to her “parents” over the      “You’re never alone when you have your           under Michigan’s Ethnic Intimidation Act.
phone that they shouldn’t actually send          four cats... except when you have one               And at the time of print, Nessel said she
the water company Edible Arrangement             who won’t leave your side, which is what         “can’t wait” to argue a case before the
gift cards to take care of an outstanding        I have, although when I do interviews, I         Michigan Supreme Court “where I expect
balance. “Say ‘objection!’” she instructs the    have to shut her out of my office.” Nessel       it to add sexual orientation and gender
cat before answering back with “I object!”       is referring to Facebook-famous “Daisy,” a       identity to Elliott-Larsen through the court
in a spot-on cat-person impression.              constituent favorite.                            system.”
   It’s a lighthearted take on an issue             It’s not all cats and impeccable comedic         Once the Elliott-Larsen Civil Rights
affecting many Michiganders, especially          timing 24/7, however. Nessel is, rightfully,     Act has been amended to include
older populations, delivered in a way that’s     proud of her record as attorney general          sexual orientation and gender identity
wholly relatable on both sides of the call.      so far, and is in a race against time, just in   as protected classes, Nessel said she
“What are you doing?” asks the actor             case. If a Republican succeeds her in office     wants to see LGBTQ+ people protected
playing her mother. “Attorney General            and the cases her office has worked so           wherever other marginalized groups are
stuff,” Nessel replies. Toward the end of        hard on are still pending, Nessel believes       protected.
the video, Nessel’s mother asks, “Where          that person will simply dismiss all of them.        However, Nessel adds, “I’m very aware
do I file a complaint that my daughter              That would include countless hours            of the fact that if I don’t get a second
hasn’t visited in over a month?”                 spent creating new initiatives to combat         term in office, all of my initiatives will just
   Nessel’s descriptions of her videos           hate crimes, elder abuse, and insurance          disappear, and many of the cases that I
are almost as inspired as the videos             and payroll fraud, issues she campaigned         brought that are so important.”
themselves. Take this Twitter introduction       on leading up to her election in 2018.              A second term isn’t a given, but no
from last October, centered on early             “What I’m most proud of is that I am an          matter where Nessel lands next, the
voting: “Is it unfortunate the cat in this       office holder who has largely kept my            people of Michigan are sure to benefit. “I
video spent the entire shoot cleaning            campaign promises,” she says. Among              am addicted to trying to make a difference,”
its nether-regions?” tweets the Attorney         those fulfilled promises is providing            she says. “There’s so many different ways
General. “Yes. Does it distract from the         support to wrongfully convicted prisoners        you can do that.”

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                                                                                                                                                                                        “Drag therapy is an extension
                                                                                                                                                                                        of drama therapy in that drama
                                                                                                                                                                                        therapists understand that our
                                                                                                                                                                                        identity is made up of many different
                                                                                                                                                                                        roles, characters or personas.”

                                                                                                                                                                          internal insecurities through external        tune different parts of myself that make
                                                                                                                                                                          experimentation.” This is what Silvers        up who I am,” St. Clair tells Pride Source.
                                                                                                                                                                          aims to do with his drag therapy clients.        It’s this kind of practice that is at the
                                                                                                                                                                             Silvers’ hybridized theory of drag         center of HBO’s Emmy-nominated reality
                                                                                                                                                                          therapy is primarily derived from the         show “We’re Here.” In the series, former

With Drag Therapy, To Mask
                                                                                                                                                                          Internal Family Systems methodology in        “Drag Race” contestants Bob the Drag
                                                                                                                            can reach in and access the roles that
                                                                                                                                                                          addition to drama therapy practices. An       Queen, Eureka O’Hara and Shangela
                                                                                                                            we need when we need them, like our
                                                                                                                                                                          evidence-based psychotherapy method           arrive in various locations of small-town,
                                                                                                                            internal superheroes, kings or queens.

Is To Unmask
                                                                                                                                                                          developed by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz in       majority-conservative America to teach
                                                                                                                            We call this developing a ‘flexible role
                                                                                                                                                                          the 1980s, IFS is the idea that there are     their “drag daughters” how to step outside
                                                                                                                            repertoire,’ or what drag therapists might
                                                                                                                                                                          multiple sub-personalities, or “parts,” to    of their comfort zones in preparation for a
                                                                                                                            refer to as a ‘drag repertoire.’”
                                                                                                                                                                          the self. Drag therapy is about getting       one-night-only drag show.
                                                                                                                               Though pro queens spend hours
                                                                                                                                                                          to know those parts in order to develop          “Our show really focuses a lot on this
                                                                                                                            crafting head-to-toe looks, Silvers said
                                                                                                                                                                          mental healing.                               inner confidence that everyone has in
    It’s Not Just Costumes           Art can be therapy, and drag is an art.
                                  So why not “drag therapy”?
                                                                               personas,” says Dr. Sajnani, who also
                                                                               spearheads the university’s Theatre
                                                                                                                            that participating in drag therapy doesn’t
                                                                                                                                                                             Silvers emphasizes play, role theory       them and how much power there is in
                                                                                                                            always mean getting into full drag. “[Drag]
           and Wigs, Henny           Leon Silvers, a licensed mental health    and Health Lab, a research hub that          can be as much or as little as you want,”
                                                                                                                                                                          and the IFS approach with his patients        taking control of that confidence,” O’Hara
                                  counselor and psychotherapist based          studies why theater and theater-related                                                    during therapy sessions in order to           shares.
                                                                                                                            Silvers says. “It can be like just wearing
                                  in New York, uses drag as a mixed            processes advance psychological well-                                                      address his client’s shame. “Shame is            “[Drag] is this idea of having this
                                                                                                                            one necklace and what part of yourself
                                  medium psychotherapy method rooted           being.                                                                                     underlying many, if not all, our mental       camouflage on and being protected by
                                                                                                                            you can access while wearing that
                                  in role play and drama therapy. He began        Drama and drag therapies aim to find,                                                   health issues and how we feel about           this costume where you can act or say or
                                                                                                                            necklace.”
                BY ANNA JACOBY    exploring how drag can be harnessed as       identify and apply the different layers                                                    ourselves,” he says. “Being in different      be whatever you think that character will
                                                                                                                               British art therapist and drag queen
                                  a therapeutic tool as a grad student in      of the self in order to achieve healing.                                                   parts can demystify some of the feelings      be. That is what I think is therapeutic. You
                                                                                                                            Abba Cashier explored drag as a
                                  the drama therapy program at New York        During sessions, therapists encourage                                                      that we’re afraid of having that maybe        get stuff out that you’re afraid to get out
                                                                                                                            therapeutic tool during a TEDx event in
                                  University, where Dr. Nisha Sajnani is the   movement, costumes and stories in                                                          we’re ashamed of. When you embody             as your normal self.”
                                                                                                                            Brazil last year where she argued that
                                  associate professor and director of the      a playful atmosphere. These layers,                                                        them, there’s nothing to be ashamed of.”         On “We’re Here,” Eureka (who uses
                                                                                                                            each time one does drag, a new therapy
                                  program.                                     or “roles,” open up a range of means                                                          IFS inadvertently helped “RuPaul’s Drag    they/them pronouns) and their castmates
                                                                                                                            session begins.
                                     “Drag therapy is an extension of          to express oneself, reach goals and                                                        Race” alum Blair St. Clair embody different   form visibly deep connections with the
                                                                                                                               In these sessions, Cashier says, one
                                  drama therapy in that drama therapists       problem solve. Dr. Sajnani explained that                                                  parts of herself when she discovered          locals selected to be drag daughters.
                                                                                                                            works on a new part of themself, “drawing
                                  understand that our identity is made up      this “helps us explore and externalize                                                     theater. “When I stepped onto the stage       Similar to Silvers’ IFS approach, the
                                                                                                                            on different references, emotions and
                                  of many different roles, characters or       our internal cast of characters so that we                                                 in someone else’s shoes I learned more        queens attempt to address their
                                                                                                                            inspirations every time so that you treat
                                                                                                                                                                          about myself. That escape helped me fine      daughter’s shame through the process

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                                               Eureka O’Hara (left) and Blair St. Clair (above)

                                               as much as the student. Eureka views it            Photo on page 18 by Tony Lowe.
                                               as more than just their job: “When I found
                                                                                                  Queen: Sabin
                                               drag it gave me an outlet to feel confident        Representing: Five15 Royal Oak, Pronto Royal Oak,
                                               and powerful that translated into my               GiGi’s Show Bar, Miss Dunes 2021
                                               everyday life.”                                    Makeup and Fashion: Sabin
                                                  Dr. Sajnani emphasizes that whether             Instagram: @sabindetroit
                                               through drag or theater, trying on various
                                                                                                  Therapist: Craig Nichols-Fleming
                                               roles gives us access to our own power.
                                                                                                  Representing: Five15 Royal Oak, Choreographer
                                               Meanwhile, Silvers has already taken the           and Dancer
of getting into drag. Eureka said that         first step toward giving the term “drag            Fashion: Sweater, Shoes, (Barbie) Notebook, and

out of drag “our insecurities really play      therapy” further legitimacy. He recently           Glasses provided by Grayson Vine Pre Loved
                                               became the proud owner of the term                 Clothing Store
into our inner saboteurs. The biggest
thing is learning how to change the inner      “drag therapy,” which he registered as an
                                                                                                  Special thanks to Vogue Vintage in Ferndale for
narrative. That’s what I coach a lot.”         official trademark in 2020. He is currently        providing the space and set.
   The potential of drag as therapy goes       conducting the first research study on
deeper than the physical makeover, as the      the effectiveness of drag therapy with             Styled by Repop
                                               the support of Kansas State University             Instagram: @Det.Repop
daughters featured in the series are visibly
empowered from merely the experience           in the hopes of becoming an evidence-
of doing drag. “Transforming yourself into     based practice. As Silvers does drag
this high-glam creature teaches you how        recreationally under the name “Pink
much you can just love who you are as          Freud,” his research team is aptly dubbed
an individual,” Eureka says. “You’re telling   the “Haus of Freud.”
yourself you’re a queen. And that’s what
                                               Anna Jacoby is a writer and editor based in
you should be telling yourself every day.      Washington, D.C. In addition to drag culture,
Whether you have makeup on or not.”            she loves true crime, Dolly Parton, craft beer,
   Drag as art therapy serves the teacher      and her bully rescue, Jack.

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                                                                                                                                                     could choose from. It’s hard to believe      true partner.                               to be made in these special places —
                                                                                                                                                     what’s happening now — booties, masks           Dobek says she decided to join her       whether it’s your first home, an upgrade
                                                                                                                                                     and gloves, and an unbelievably fast         aunt as a real estate agent in 2019 after   or a downsize, it’s such a big life event.”
                                                                                                                                                     market.”                                     surviving what she calls a “rough” work        For now, Stange and Dobek split some
                                                                                                                                                         Stange has managed to navigate           environment. “I knew it was time for a      duties and share others. “I’ve been able
                                                                                                                                                     these unpredictable waters by applying       change,” she says. “After some back and     to take the reins on the technology side,
                                                                                                                                                     the same consistent, unique approach         forth, I decided to take the plunge, get    while Lynn is a natural at nurturing her
                                                                                                                                                     that has served her (and her clients) well   licensed and join Real Estate One.”         client relationships,” Dobek says.
                                                                                                                                                     throughout her three decades in real            Making a career move right before           Stange says she loves working with
                                                                                                                                                     estate: by tying in her background                                                               clients in the Southeast Michigan
                                                                                                                                                     in education. Stange holds an                                                                    market because the area is
                                                                                                                                                     education degree from Central                                                                    diverse, growing and always
                                                                                                                                                     Michigan University and taught at                                                                changing. Dobek feels a strong
                                                                                                                                                     Kimball High School in Royal Oak                                                                 connection to the area, as well.
                                                                                                                                                     for a few years, experiences that
                                                                                                                                                                                                   “A house is so much                                “It’s been my home for a lot of my
                                                                                                                                                     inform the way she operates in a              more than just living                              life,” she explains. “I adore it here
                                                                                                                                                     wholly different career.                                                                         and found my way back [after
                                                                                                                                                         “Buying and selling a home is             quarters,” she says.                               college].”
                                                                                                                                                     a huge life decision,” she says,                                                                    Dobek says she finds the
                                                                                                                                                     “and teaching taught me to break              “There are stories                                 personality of Southeast Michigan
                                                                                                                                                     down the selling process to ‘A,                                                                  to be unlike anywhere else.
                                                                                                                                                     B, C, D.’ This approach makes it              to be told and new                                 “We are a ‘Get-up-and-go, work
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                                                                                                                                                     the process, complete it, and be
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                                                                                                                                                     satisfied with the results.”                                                                     inspiring.”
                                                                                                                                                         Essentially, she says, real
                                                                                                                                                                                                   in these special places                               When Stange and her romantic
Elisabeth “Eli” Dobek (left) and Lynn Stange (right). Photo: Andrew Potter
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                                                                                                                                                     where all the pieces need to                                                                     manage to secure some free time,
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                                                                                                                                                                                                   downsize, it’s such a big
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      How the Agent’s Love                                  they can talk to openly about communities,   really wonderful person to boot!”           a highly competitive field within an         the COVID pandemic hit has led to an           Often, they bring along their two furry
                                                            schools and housing requirements,” says         The real estate game has changed         unpredictable, roller-coaster market.        experience that she calls a “crash course   female companions, Kotie and Irma IV,
Affair with Michigan Drives                                 Lynn Stange, real estate agent at Real       significantly since Stange sold her first       Maintaining     success     can    be    in flexibility to keep up with changing     small bichon mixes who love long walks
        Her 30-Year Career                                  Estate One. Given the many effusive          home. These days, she says, technology      challenging, especially when the market      expectations, requirements and safety       and boat rides. These getaways happen
                                                            compliments from her clients, Stange is      is front and center. “We went from local    is hot. That’s one reason Stange invited     measures to make our clients happy.”        when the couple can fit them in, but with
                                                            just the person for that job.                paper books displaying homes for sale       her niece, Elisabeth “Eli” Dobek, to join       Despite the unprecedented challenges     retirement in sight, time spent traveling
                                                              “From the very first time we contacted     to a nationwide, online market,” she        her as a real estate agent. “In this fast    the real estate market has faced since      will surely become more frequent. For
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                                                            Lynn, we knew she was going to be a          says. “Our services had to expand to        market, you sometimes need to be in          early 2020, Dobek seems to have found       now, Stange is focusing on doing work
                                                            great realtor and someone who would          accommodate those changes.”                 two places at once,” Stange says, though     an ideal path. She says she feels excited   she still loves, after all this time.
                                                            help us find the home we would love,”           The market itself has experienced        Dobek, who holds a master’s degree in        to be a part of transformational moments       “To this day, I still love and enjoy my
                                                            says one Angie’s List reviewer. “We were     big changes, too, over Stange’s             psychology, is more than just a warm         in clients’ lives.                          clients,” Stange says. “They still seem to
                                                            VERY PICKY about what we wanted,             lengthy career. “I’ve been through two      body. Stange considers her a quick              “A house is so much more than just       appreciate my counsel and service, so I’ll
                                                            and I’m sure it would have driven other      recessions,” she says. “In the 1990s,       study who is great with people and able      living quarters,” she says. “There are      stay in the game. Eventually, Eli will take
                                                            realtors crazy... but not Lynn. She is       there were 30 to 40 houses a buyer          to analyze and handle any situation — a      stories to be told and new memories         over.”

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                                                                                                                                                      love, their expression — it’s tough to pin it soon erected institutions to reflect that.          “It seems pretty clear that she would
                                                                                                                                                      down. And it also changes over time: the             By 1909, the Big Pavilion (since burned   probably identify as a lesbian today,” says
                                                                                                                                                      language, [and] the way people express down) was built as a massive dance hall                 Gollannek, noting that her identity wasn’t
                                                                                                                                                      themselves and choose to identify.”               along the water; in 1910, the Ox-Bow         wholly unique in the local community.
                                                                                                                                                         In a September exhibit at the Saugatuck- School of Art, a still-active wing of the          “We have a number of examples like that,
                                                                                                                                                      Douglas History Center, entitled “A School of the Art Institute of Chicago, was                looking back to the 1920s and ’30s, where
                                                                                                                                                      Century of Progress: 100 Years of LGBTQ established in Saugatuck. There, as in                 we can point to women in relationships
                                                                                                                                                      History in Saugatuck-Douglas,” Gollannek Provincetown, Mass., old industrial spaces            with some pretty strong evidence to say
                                                                                                                                                      and his collaborators point to newspaper and a picturesque setting provided an                 ‘these are same-sex couples.’”
                                                                                                                                                      articles documenting — sometimes with affordable, inspiring setting for practicing                While the area’s gay male history has
                                                                                                                                                      concern — incidents of men sunbathing art while still catering to the tastes and               tended to be more visible, according to
                                                                                                                                                      together on Saugatuck’s beaches as early needs of former and visiting city-dwellers.           Gollannek, queer women vacationed and
                                                                                                                                                      as the 1890s. While it’s uncertain all these At the same time, a sense of seclusion            moved into the area over the same spans
                                                                                                                                                      men would identify as gay today, the and separation from city life allowed                     men have, but tended to live out their
                                                                                                                                                      reports mirror a later history from at least for certain freedoms in expression —              identities in ways that were “more subtle”
                                                                                                                                                      as early as the 1950s to the ‘90s, in which something that may have appealed just              and “less conspicuous” throughout the
                                                                                                                                                      a nearby stretch of private beach                                                                            area’s early history. While
                                                                                                                                                      became a popular bathing and                                                                                 queer women’s activities
                                                                                                                                                      cruising spot. In both instances,                                                                            in the area included the
                                                                                                                                                      the record suggests that the                                                                                 establishment of businesses
                                                                                                                                                      presence of dunes along the                                                                                  like Hunn’s from the 1930s,
                                                                                                                                                      beaches allowed for some                                                                                     they extended, too, to the
                                                                                                                                                      discretion, providing a kind of                                                                              establishment of women-run
                                                                                                                                                      cover.                                                                                                       queer campgrounds in the
                                                                                                                                                         In the time between those                                                                                 area much later, in the 1970s,
                                                                                                                                                      early stirrings of queer activity                                                                            and to ownership of many
                                                                                                                                                      and the mid-20th century,                                                                                    local businesses today.
                                                                                                                                                      Gollannek says the area                                                                                         Throughout the 1950s,
                                                                                                                                                      evolved from an industrial hub                                                                               queer culture found traction
                                                                                                                                                      to an attractive arts and tourist                                                                            not only via Saugatuck’s
                                                                                                                                                      destination, drawing an eclectic                                                                             beaches, which remained
                                                                          Photos courtesy of Saugatuck-Douglas History Center and The Dunes Resort.   mix of middle- and upper-class                                                                               popular,    but    unofficially
                                                                                                                                                      visitors from cities like Chicago                                                                            within business settings,

Refuge in The Dunes
                                                                                                                                                      and Saint Louis by car and,                                                                                  as well. By 1961, the area
                                                                                                                                                      often, steamship. Part of the                                                                                was supporting businesses
                                                                                                                                                      area’s attraction lay in leisure,                                                                            like the Blue Tempo, a bar
                                                                                                                                                      but for many longtime urbanites,                                                                             that hosted a robust queer
                                                                                                                                                      it also lay in art, something he                                                                             clientele, albeit grudgingly,
                                                                                                                                                      suggests made the area more                                                                                  alongside a sizable straight
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   patronage.
How Sagatuck Became an               For    many     queer   Michiganders,
                                  Saugatuck-Douglas is a space they’ve felt
                                                                                   as a shipbuilding and lumber town and a
                                                                                   small port around 1830 before evolving into
                                                                                                                                                      inviting for queer folk.
                                                                                                                                                         “Artists were kind of fanning
                                                                                                                                                                                              One of the earliest advertisements
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      “The owner was clearly
    Unlikely Queer Oasis          free to take for granted, whether they’ve        a farming community and, later, a tourist                          out from Chicago from art
                                                                                                                                                                                              for The Dunes Resort, from 1984.
                                                                                                                                                                                              Courtesy of The Dunes Resort / Mike Jones                            bigoted. He’s definitely not
                                  been or not.                                     destination — became a queer hotspot                               schools in Chicago, seeking out                                                                              a gay ally in the modern
                                     A small, upscale oasis of relaxed and         aren’t nearly as clear as the reasons it’s                         spots where they could paint ‘en plein as much to prominent queer practitioners.               sense of the term,” says Gollannek. “The
              BY GEORGE ELKIND    open queer expression on Michigan’s              remained one. Even for historian Eric                              air’ and be out in nature, really looking            Among these was Florence “Dannie”         Blue Tempo is a place where you [could]
                                  conservative-leaning west coast, the pair        Gollannek, executive director of the                               to the Midwestern landscape as a kind of Ely Hunn, a renowned designer and                     order a drink [as a queer person], and the
                                  of neighboring towns no longer hosts only        Saugatuck-Douglas Historical Society,                              vernacular inspiration,” says Gollannek. architect who took up residence just                  bartender doesn’t pour it out on the bar
                                  Grand Rapidians or Chicagoans looking            researching and understanding the area’s                           “There’s this kind of free-thinking open- south of Saugatuck in the 1930s and                  and tell you to leave after you give him
                                  for a change of pace. With its rolling hills,    queer history has involved reckoning with                          mindedness, this bohemian ideal, a designed many cottages and homes over                       your money. And we have some stories of
                                  picturesque dunes and small, well-kept           serious obstacles.                                                 desire to get away from the constraints of a thriving design career which stretched            places in Saugatuck doing exactly that in
                                  downtown, the area has grown into a well-          “It’s challenging talking about queer                            Victorian society and get closer to nature.” across nearly seven decades, from 1915            the 1960s and 1970s.”
                                  known destination for queer vacationers,         history,” he tells Pride Source. “You’re                              This set of ideals, both an extension and until her death in 1984. For most of her             By 1981, one of Blue Tempo’s
                                  residents and business owners across the         looking at the history of people at the                            retreat from big-city tastes and culture, life, she lived with a partner, Mabel “Jims”         bartenders, Carl Jennings, along with his
                                  Midwest and even beyond.                         margins, and the degree to which people                            helped set Saugatuck apart from other Warren, with whom, historians say, she                   partner, Larry Gammons, sought to create
                                     But the reasons Saugatuck — founded           are out, people are open about who they                            resort towns along Lake Michigan — and enjoyed a romantic relationship.                        a dedicated, openly queer resort space

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in Saugatuck, one actually owned and           gay business right on the Blue Star. I think    people I come into contact with that met at
operated by queer people.                      the town was afraid of what that meant.         the Dunes over the course of time,” says
   After being rebuffed repeatedly by          How that would impact tourism, how              Jones, suggesting that the Dunes’ early
Saugatuck’s leadership, the pair looked        that would impact the overall society of        presence as a queer hub helped clear a
further south, to neighboring Douglas,         Saugatuck and Douglas. [What was on]            path for later queer businesses — spaces
and found a space called the Amity Motel       everybody’s minds in 1981 was that we’d         which today can operate openly as such,
along the Blue Star Highway. Amity had         be bringing a bunch of perverts to town.”       festooned year-round with Pride flags.
a liquor license, a pool, and a modest            Over time, Jones said, this perception          ”We have a big community of people
number of rooms at the time, and it was        lessened in the minds of neighbors.             that live here that originally came [to the
up for sale. Soon, the pair made their         Under Carl and Larry’s stewardship, The         Dunes, and to Saugatuck-Douglas] for
move.                                          Dunes Resort had been marketed as an            the first time back in the ‘80s and ‘90s.
   “Before the [Douglas] city council even     explicitly queer travel destination in queer    And then they decided to buy a second
understood what Carl and Larry were            publications around the country, bringing       home, they ultimately retired here or they
gonna do, they got approval for a liquor       not just queer visibility but a more openly     decided to open shops here.”
license. And so, there was a little bit of a   expressive queer culture to Saugatuck —            The Dunes became such a local
fight in the beginning,” recalls Mike Jones,   a tradition Jones and his partners were         institution by the time Jones and his
who’s now a co-owner of the space,             eager to continue.                              business partners purchased it that their
now known as The Dunes Resort. The                Over the ensuing years, the resort           first changes — aimed at modernizing
opposition was more than theoretical.          drew acts as varied as Eartha Kitt, the         the space (“to make it less Brady Bunch-
Jones remembers finding a bullet hole          Weather Girls and Jack Wagner. The              looking,” quips Jones) and keeping it
in a window shortly after purchasing the       space also played host to cabaret acts,         afloat financially — triggered a new sort
Dunes in 1998.                                 striptease, and all sorts of queer events. It   of pushback, this time from within the
   “There was pushback because [at the         was as though the Big Pavilion had been         queer community. Shifts like a restaurant
time], even though there had always been       queered.                                        closure, new sound systems and more
a gay presence, there’s now a great big           “What I think is interesting is how many     contemporary acts that moved past a

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disco-heavy playlist, all divided certain       “I think COVID actually helped because        the sense of inclusion, of openness, of
diehard, longtime fans. Offerings have        of [Saugatuck being a] drive destination.       progressiveness about the place, and
since evolved, too, to become more            Last summer, there were a lot of younger        several of these people are straight,
inclusive, with the Dunes’ calendar           people that came up for the weekend             cisgendered, or couples.”
featuring leather competitions, trans-        because one, they weren’t afraid of                Like many moving to the area today,
focused celebrations, and more events         COVID, and two, they didn’t want to             Jones recalls being surprised at himself
for queer women.                              get on an airplane,” says Jones. “I think       for undertaking the shift from a big city to
   “Because we were a little younger — I      COVID actually introduced the Dunes to          such a small town.
was 33 when we bought the dunes, which        a new audience again, which is beneficial          “I thought Chicago was the greatest city
is kind of scary,” remembers Jones, “we       because we need to find a new audience          ever,” Jones remembers of his time there.
brought with us a younger clientele. And I    every few years.”                               “So, the idea of living in some town where
think that kind of scared people because        Gollannek, too, noted a shift in the          everyone knows what car I drive and can
all of a sudden, we’re bringing circuit-      makeup of the area since the onset of the       say, ‘Oh, I saw you at the dentist’s office
quality DJs to town, and with that came       pandemic. Even as real estate prices have       the other day,’ is all a little odd and overly
circuit-quality people that the old-timers    skyrocketed, a new audience appears to          familiar. But it’s just peaceful enough.”
and people that had been there [a long        be migrating into the city. And as small a         Though        Jones      foresees    some
time] weren’t used to.”                       population as Saugatuck has, especially         obstacles ahead for the Dunes and for the
   This bumpy transition is a distant         given what Jones describes as a lacking         area on the whole in the form of COVID,
memory for most visitors today, but the       supply of affordable housing (the latest        of labor and housing shortages, he also
COVID pandemic has brought new, unique        census put the population at 964), every        voices a sense of contentment at the
challenges. As an increasingly expensive      new arrival carries weight.                     sense of community in the area’s small
resort town, Saugatuck has over time            “The Saugatuck area is definitely a site of   bubble. And, just like with generations
attracted an older, more financially secure   constant reinvention,” remarks Gollannek,       past, perhaps it’s this sense of refuge and
crowd than it welcomed during its more        acknowledging that the “next chapter” for       intimate community that city-dwellers,
bohemian past. But the pandemic has           the area remains to be determined. “I see       queer and otherwise, continue to find
shaken things up. Saugatuck-Douglas and       people move to Saugatuck who work in            appealing.
the Dunes are welcoming new audiences         Grand Rapids or work in Chicago because
these days.                                   there’s a lot of telecommuting. They love

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919 Razorback Drive
Houghton, MI 49931                       Doubletree by Hilton                                                                   Grand Haven Spring Lake
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                                         Shawna Fleming, Sales and
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      WITH HIV future.
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Hwy M-26                                 Detroit, MI 48228                                       www.behenry.com                888-407-6675
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www.cedarpointcabins.net/                         Shawna.Fleming@hilton.com                           313-441-2000              The Inn on Ferry Street
906-289-4415
                                                               313-982-3990                                                     84 E. Ferry Street
                                                                                                                                Detroit, MI 48202
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 Learn about HIV
Crowne Plaza Lansing West                                                        Holiday Inn Express Houghton -
925 S. Creyts Road                       The Dunes Resort                        Keweenaw
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                                                                                 Houghton, Mi, MI 49931
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                                                                                 Houghton– Keweenaw, remodeled in 2019,         www.irvinghouse.com
Delta Hotels Marriott                    Embassy Suites by Hilton Detroit        provides its guests with great amenities and   stay@irvinghouse.com
Enrique Martinez, Catering Manager       Troy/ Auburn Hills                      convenient travel throughout Houghton &        617-547-4600
31500 Wick Rd.                           850 Tower Drive                         Hancock, MI. Our top-notch guest service
                                                                                 will be sure to make your stay enjoyable.      Comfortable accommodations near the
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                                                  American Indian Health & Family                   CDC National Prevention                Henry Ford Hospital Division of
        AIDS/HIV                                  Services of SE Michigan                           Information Network                    Infectious Diseases
     ORGANIZATIONS                                4880 Lawndale St                                  P. O. Box 6003                         2799 W. Grand Blvd.
                                                  Detroit, MI 48210                                 Rockville, MI 20849-6003               Detroit, MI 48202
AIDS Committee Of Windsor                         www.aihfs.org                                     www.cdcnpin.orginfo@cdcnpin.org        www.henryford.com
Michele Sharp, Executive Director                 313 846-3718                                      800-HIV-0440                           313-876-2556
David Lenz, Director of Resource
                                                                                                    Community Health Outreach              Horizons Project
Development
                                                  Arab Community                                    Workers                                Wayne State University School of
511 Pelissier St
Windsor ONT., N9A 4L2
                                                  Center for Economic                               220 Bagley, Ste 740                    Medicine Childrens Hospital of
www.aidswindsor.com                               and Social Services                               Detroit, MI 48226
                                                                                                    313-963-3352
                                                                                                                                           Michigan
                                                                                                                                           50 East Canfield
admin@aidswindsor.org                             (ACCESS)                                                                                 Detroit, MI 48201
519-973-0222
                                                  6450 Maple                                                                               peds.med.wayne.edu
The AIDS Committee of Windsor provides            Dearborn, MI 48126
                                                                                                    Corktown Health                        313-924-9493
client advocacy, support, harm reduction,                                                           1726 Howard St.
health promotion and education services                 www.accesscommunity.org
                                                     dponsart@accesscommunity.org                   Detroit, MI 48216                      Lansing Area AIDS Network
for people at risk of, living with, or affected
by HIV/AIDS in Windsor-Essex and                                                                                     corktownhealth.org    913 W. Holmes Rd., Ste. 115
                                                                     (313) 216-2200
                                                                                                                                           Lansing, MI 48910

                                                                                                                                                                                         Michigan’s Statewide Hotline
Chatham-Kent.                                                                                                    info@corktownhealth.org
                                                                                                                                           www.laanonline.org
                                                  Cabrini Clinic                                                           313-832-3300
                                                                                                                                           517-394-3719
All Well-Being                                    1234 Porter St.                                   See our ad on page 77

                                                                                                                                                                                         For Sexual Health Resources
                                                  Detroit, MI 48226
Services                                          www.cabriniclinic.org                                                                    Macomb County STD
                                                                                                    The Corner Health Center
1413 Field St.                                    313-961-7863                                                                             Clinic
                                                                                                    Young Adult Health Center
Detroit, MI 48214
                                                  CARES (Community AIDS                             47 N. Huron                            27690 Van Dyke
                          www.awbs.org
                                                  Resource and Education                            Ypsilanti, MI 48197                    Warren, MI 48093
                           313-924-7860                                                             www.cornerhealth.org
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AWBS has four locations in Wayne
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and Macomb counties and a
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                                                  Kalamazoo, MI 49008
                                                                                                    Detroit Hispanic Development                   HIVAIDSCounselingTesting
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resources necessary to enjoy a full and                                                             Corp.
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Hearth Home                                        Matrix Ryan White HIV/                   UNIFIED - HIV Health                        University of Michigan HIV/AIDS
Jimmie Burkhead                                                                                                                         Treatment Program
732 Hoyt St.
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We provide HIV testing and counseling free                        programs/ryanwhite/                            info@miunified.org
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                                                   maintained in medical care through                                                                   info@wellnessaids.org
Ypsilanti, MI 48197                                                                                                  734-572-9355
                                                   medical and community service
www.hfmich.org
                                                   referrals, mental health therapy, in-                                                                       810-232-0888
                                                                                            Multi-service, multicultural organization
734-544-0015                                       home care, case management, and so                                                   Prevention and case management
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                                                                                            management, behavioral health
445 Ledyard St.                                                                                                                         and lube, individual and group level
                                                                                            services and volunteer opportunities.
Detroit, MI 48201                                  Sacred Heart                             Michigan HIV/STD Hotline 800-872-           Mental Health services available for
marinersinn.org                                                                                                                         HIV positives, free needle exchange
mgrusche@aol.com                                   Rehabilitation Center                    2437. Offices in Detroit, Ypsilanti and
                                                                                                                                        program, Safe Space LGBT drop-in
                                                                                            Jackson
313-962-9446                                       1106 S. Washington                                                                   center (HIV screenings available at both
                                                   Bay City, MI 48708                       See our ad on page 31                       locations).
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Matrix MAC Health                                                     810-392-2167
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429 Livernois
Ferndale, MI, MI 48220
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