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SPECIAL EDITION FEBRUARY 2020

Everything you need to know about
the most important day of your life!

Greek American
Wedding
2020

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Editorial Welcome to TΝΗ’s Annual Wedding Insert!
   2020 has definitely come in with a bang and         thing old (the Greek wedding ceremony traditions),          Nevertheless, always try to keep things in per-   off on your ‘to do’ list and suddenly you’ll feel
the wedding trends of the new decade are no ex-        something new (two specialty stores for our             spective!                                             more and more relief as decisions are made.
ception.                                               grooms to consider for their suits and tuxedos),            Most of us come from (large) Greek families          Always remember to breathe!
   From event spaces to host your bridal shower        and something different (renting luxury handbags        who would like nothing more than to help you             Whenever you’re starting to feel overwhelmed
or wedding (both throughout Greece and the             for the big day).                                       plan your big day.                                    (both while planning as well as on the big day),
United States), to incredible wedding planners,            While it can be the most exciting time for those        Ask questions and ask for help when you need      take a step back for a moment and remember
as well as inspirational ideas to help you make        who are newly engaged (or soon to be engaged!),         it! Ask a cousin, aunt or friend to do small things   how truly blessed you are to have found ‘your
your special day truly unique, this special insert     actually planning a wedding can be very hectic.         – like sending you ideas for bombonieres or doing     person’, the one that you will spend the rest of
will serve as your ‘go-to’ guide for all things wed-       The plethora of information out there can be        some research as to what flowers are in season        your life with.
ding related.                                          overwhelming – so we’ve done a lot of the hard          in the month you are planning your wedding.              From all of us at The National Herald, we wish
   As always, this year’s insert includes some-        part for you: the research.                                 These small tasks can help you check things       you all the best!

                                                                                                                                                               of 2020
The National Herald’s Wedding Trends
                                                                                                                                      By TNH Staff

T
                 hough many brides will still choose      Chopra, brides are taking their veils to the next                                                               them something special – for example: their
                 a more traditional ‘feel’ for their      level with loads of extra length, embellishments                                                                pet’s name, where they met, where they went
                 wedding, it can be fun and memo-         – like pearls, crystals or lace, as well as other                                                               to school, etc.
                 rable to incorporate some of this        personal touches like incorporating meaningful                                                                Specialty Bar: Treat your guests to your favorite
                 decade’s new trends into the ce-         messages or lyrics onto them. Brides are also                                                                   spirit in droves. Many couples are choosing
lebration. The National Herald searched through the       seeing the value of creating an heirloom piece                                                                  specialty bars that show off how much they
top wedding trends for 2020 to compile the follo-         in their veil to pass down to future generations                                                                know about their favorite wines or liquors. For
wing list of ideas you might want to use for your         or to display in their homes as a type of ‘art’ to                                                              example, a tequila bar could feature a blanco,
big day. Happy Planning!                                  remind the couple of their special day.                                                                         anejo, reposado and mezcal – all from different
                                                        Barrettes & Combs: While the veil isn’t going                                                                     brands – that your guests could enjoy on the
           Overall Trends/Themes                          anywhere anytime soon, brides are opting for                                                                    rocks, in shots, or mixed into the perfect mar-
Sustainability: Eco-friendly and sustainable wed-         barrettes and combs as their bridal hair pieces                                                                 garita. A bubbly bar could be featured on bar
  dings are growing in popularity as young cou-           of choice – as opposed to the traditional tiara.                                                                carts rolling through cocktail hour showcasing
  ples become more and more environmentally             Dresses: Two-in-one dresses are becoming a ‘th-                                                                   brut, rose, blanc de blancs and demi-sec
  conscious. Couples are looking for different            ing.’ With brides wanting to show off their per-                                                                options.
  ways to reduce the environmental and ethical            sonality and style, many are opting for dresses                                                               Self-Serve Bar: Couples are choosing to create
  impact of their wedding. Vendors are taking             that are ‘convertible’: think ball gowns with re-                                                               self-service bars, beer taps and 70s style coc-
  notice of this trend and are offering to use re-        movable skirts that hide pants or a more tape-                                                                  ktail bars at their weddings. They are looking
  cycled     or    biodegradable      paper    for        red or short look underneath.                                                                                   to get their guests in on the action and have
  invitations/place cards; are buying local pro-                                                                                                                          them take part in some of the fun. A self-ser-
  duce from organic farms; and are making vari-                          Wedding Decor                                                                                    vice bar can create that kind of moment, giving
  ous other efforts to leave minimal or no waste.       Bold Colors: 2020 is bringing about statement                                                                     guests something to do during the various
Charitable Giving: Although not a new trend, co-           hues that do away with the standard white and                                                                  wedding events. Think of a Bloody Mary bar at
  uples are still opting for making charitable do-         green, all blush, or neutral weddings.                                                                         the post-wedding brunch with a slew of spe-
  nations instead of giving wedding favors to th-       Lights: Many planners are using different types                                                                   cialty garnishes allowing guests to create their
  eir guests. What is gaining traction though, is          of lighting at wedding receptions as more and                                                                  perfect cocktail. Bonus: you’ll need one less
  couples asking for a donation on their gift list         more of their clients are opting for unconven-           multiple tables pushed together to create a uni-      bartender to pull it off. Talk about an ‘Instar-
  alongside a traditional registry. According to           tional venues that don’t necessarily have their          que design in 2020. Opting for non-traditional        worthy’ moment.
  Style Caster, the number of Zola couples who             own lighting. Arguably less expensive than tra-          table configurations is a great (and budget-
  have registered for charity donations since              ditional floral elements, lights can change the          friendly!) way to differentiate your wedding.                        Entertainment
  2016 has increased by 5 times.                           feeling of a space. Expect to see more LED                                                                      Consider hiring magicians, aerialists, harpists,
                                                           and string lights, chandeliers and hanging lan-                           Libations                          sketch artists, tarot card readers, and other per-
                    The Bride                              terns – and don’t forget about candlelight –          Drinks: With health on everyone’s mind (as well        formance artists to increase the fun guests have
Veils: According to Bazaar magazine, one of the            which will forever be ‘on trend’ for those see-          as helping/avoiding a hangover), don’t forget       at your wedding. Many party planners have said
   most traditional wedding accessories, the veil,         king that extra romantic feel.                           about incorporating some delicious mocktails        that this type of immersive entertainment expe-
   is getting a ‘revamp’ in 2020. Thanks to brides      Tables: “Round tables are so passé!” It will be all         to your drink menu. Couples are also creating       riences will excite the guests and serve as am-
   like Hailey Bieber, Megan Markle and Priyanka           about the banquet tables, winding tables, or             signature cocktails for their guests and naming     biance factors.
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Anastasia Baker                                                                                                                                                                                  By Eleni Sakellis

        on Event Planning and RSVP By Anastasia
                                                                   P
                                                                                   lanning events like weddings can be a daunting task
                                                                                   for a bride-to-be, whether the occasion is a grand one
                                                                                   or not, so finding the right person to help design your
                                                                                   special day is key. Anastasia Baker, event planner, flo-
                                                                                   ral designer, and founder of RSVP By Anastasia, spoke
                                                                   to The National Herald about her work.
                                                                       She told TNH that “it was only a matter of time” before she ended
                                                                   up in events. Her childhood home in Tenafly, NJ, was always filled
                                                                   with PTO or Philoptochos ladies. “A nest of worker bees where along-
                                                                   side my mother, Stella (Kontzamanys) Baker, would sit and plan the
                                                                   latest charity event over cups and cups of Greek coffee and piles of
                                                                   koulouria,” Baker said, adding that “boundless resourcefulness and
                                                                   creativity were as readily available as opinions and baked goods.”
                                                                       On weekends her father, John, would take her and her sister, Bella,
                                                                   to Canal Street to learn how to negotiate. “You like that Sailor Moon
                                                                   watch, right? He’s saying 20 dollars? Get it for 10,” he told them.
                                                                       Anastasia’s learned resourcefulness and persistence would help
Flowers and bonbonierre by Anastasia Baker. Photo by Roxy Bukita   when she went on to study film. She found herself building and
                                                                   styling sets for independent films, commercials, and even a show
                                                                   for NBC. Baker designed her first feature film at age 25. Soon enough,
                                                                   her creative eye and work ethic brought her to work with Raul Avila,
                                                                   legendary event designer of the Vogue Met Gala.
                                                                       Baker worked her way up from 400+ production assistants to
                                                                   working directly alongside Avila as his assistant in a matter of two
                                                                   years. She learned how to design floral arrangements, floral walls
                                                                   and structures, and how to manage production teams for live events.
                                                                   Baker told TNH that she “managed teams as large as 40 and helped
                                                                   in the production of floral structures as large as 30 feet tall.”
                                                                       Whilst under Avila’s employ she produced events for Oscar De
                                                                   La Renta, Ian Schrager (of Studio 54, Edition Hotels), and the Inter-
                                                                   national Center of Photography; she also designed arrangements for
                                                                   Anna Wintour, Dolce and Gabbana, Valentino, Balenciaga, Chanel,
                                                                   the Lauder family, and many more. Baker went on to freelance with
                                                                   some of the biggest names in the event and floral world and now,           Anastasia Baker in Patra.                       Photo by Stella Baker
                                                                   having been in business a little over a year as RSVP By Anastasia,
                                                                   she has already acquired a list of clients that includes Emirates Airli-   newly installed icons of Mary Magdalene and Saint Philothea at her
                                                                   nes, Visa, the Cypriot Consulate of New York, Estiatorio Milos, Dream      church, the Metropolitan Cathedral of Saint John the Theologian in
                                                                   Hotel Group, and a host of sophisticated private clients in Manhattan,     Tenafly. She is an active member of the Philoptochos and volunteers
                                                                   Brooklyn, Hoboken, Jersey City, and then some.                             at her church in any capacity needed, be it decorating their annual
                                                                       One of her proudest moments was being asked to decorate the            festival in June or putting what seems like thousands of pieces of
                                                                                                                                              baklava in cupcake liners.
                                                                                                                                                  Baker attributes elements of her success to her Greek heritage.
                                                                                                                                              She noted that she “jokes about a Spartan toughness and a Pontian
                                                                                                                                              business prowess with clients and vendors.”
                                                                                                                                                  Baker told TNH that she is “constantly reminded of stories of how
                                                                                                                                              my maternal grandparents came from a mountain village in Sparta
                                                                                                                                              and built wonderful lives, how my Pontian grandfather, the son of an
                                                                                                                                              Archon, started from scratch then flourished in America, begging
                                                                                                                                              the question, ‘why can’t I?’”
                                                                                                                                                  Her meraki, or the Greek principle of putting your whole self into
                                                                                                                                              what you do, was and is a driving force in Baker’s work.
                                                                                                                                                  As of late, she has begun sharing her passion for what she does
                                                                                                                                              in a different way. Aside from designing events for private and cor-
                                                                                                                                              porate clients, she now offers private classes and workshops in Ma-
                                                                                                                                              nhattan, New Jersey, and the Outer Boroughs.
                                                                                                                                                        More information about RSVP By Anastasia is available online:
Dessert bar by Anastasia Baker.                                    Invitation and centerpiece by Anastasia Baker.                                                                 https://www.rsvpbyanastasia.com

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                                                                          So many moments that make up a life!
                                                                                              Our estate, with a breathtaking view of Aegean sea,
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                                                                                               and around 20km from Parikia (port)
                                                                          and the airport respectively, the estate can be reached either by car or mini bus
                                                                            Our estate can support from classic seating style events up to 200 people to more
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A hidden gem
within Brooklyn
with renowned
cuisine and
superb,
personalized
service

                                        The Main Lobby at the Bay Ridge Manor.                                                                                                               Photo by Bay Ridge Manor

The Bay Ridge Manor Offers                                                                                                                                                                            By Eleni Sakellis

              Elegant Options for Your Special Day
                                  I
                                                  n the heart of one of New York’s Greek en-    1 from 2-5 PM. All those looking to book a wedding, swe-      of our packages include choice of linen colors, balloons,
                                                  claves, the Bay Ridge Manor, located at       et 16, shower, baptism, family, or business event should      or fresh cut flowers for the tables, valet parking, an oc-
                                                  476 76th Street in Brooklyn, offers elegant   set up an appointment with a Banquet Manager and re-          casion cake, coffee and tea service, and gourmet cookies.
                                                  options for weddings throughout the year.     serve their spot for the Showcase (admission is free) to      Each menu and package is customizable to your needs.
                                                  The National Herald spoke with a repre-       see for themselves the variety of options available and to    Our chef specializes in several ethnic cuisines and would
                                  sentative of Bay Ridge Manor who noted that anyone            taste the delicious cuisine at the highly regarded Bay Rid-   be more than happy to help design the menu for the
                                  planning their special event should definitely attend the     ge Manor. As noted on the venue’s website, “the path to       wedding of your dreams.”
                                  2020 Annual Bridal/Event Showcase on Sunday, March            ‘Happily Ever After’ begins at the Bay Ridge Manor.”              The charming Main Lobby offers a warm and welco-
                                                                                                    Family-owned and operated for over 40 years, Bay          ming entrance to the venue for all the guests. Among
                                                                                                Ridge Manor’s experience and dedication to personalized       the ballrooms at the Bay Ridge Manor, the Crystal Ball-
                                                                                                service, attention to detail, and anticipating the needs of   room accommodates 250 guests with 8-12 people per
                                                                                                their guests, makes it an excellent choice as a venue for     table, the Imperial Ballroom 60-100 guests, and the Gold
                                                                                                your special day and will certainly make it a truly memo-     Room up to 48 guests and serves as the Bridal Suite in
                                                                                                rable event.                                                  the evenings.
                                                                                                    The Bay Ridge Manor takes pride in providing the              The Bay Ridge Manor also offers the services of their
                                                                                                ideal setting for all celebrations. Their recently updated    preferred partners in entertainment, music, design, de-
                                                                                                and renovated ballrooms can accommodate events for            corations, flowers, desserts, cakes, and photography for
                                                                                                40-250 guests. From intimate to grand wedding rece-           your wedding. Upgrades on centerpieces and discounts
                                                                                                ptions and ceremonies, anniversary parties, bridal and        are available through the Bay Ridge Manor and its vendors
                                                                                                baby showers, as well as corporate events - all are wel-      and partners.
                                                                                                comed at Bay Ridge Manor.                                         As the representative told TNH, the great location also
                                                                                                    A hidden gem within Brooklyn with renowned cuisine        makes the Bay Ridge Manor a top venue for out-of-state
                                                                                                and superb service, the Bay Ridge Manor is also surpri-       clientele who have family and friends in Brooklyn and
                                                                                                singly affordable. When booking your special event at         the New York tristate area.
                                                                                                the Bay Ridge Manor you will receive the personal atten-          Attending the Bridal/Event Showcase on March 1 is
                                                                                                tion of a member of the Golden Family. They will oversee      also highly recommended to get a true sense of all the
                                                                                                every detail to make your event unforgettable. The Bay        options and the menu items to choose from at the Bay
                                                                                                Ridge Manor would be honored to host your special             Ridge Manor for your wedding and special events.
The Bay Ridge Manor offers a variety of options for your special day.                           event.                                                          More information about the Bay Ridge Manor is available
                                                                Photo by Bay Ridge Manor            As the Bay Ridge Manor representative told TNH, “all      by phone: 718-748-8855 and online: thebayridgemanor.com

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LOVE is in the Air on Staten Island at
                      Above and Nicotra’s Ballroom

                                                                              A
                                                                                                bove, the stunning rooftop wedding and event spa-    nated back bar. An open kitchen and upscale lounge seating,
                                                                                                ce at the Hilton Garden Inn showcases panoramic      with marble tables, are illuminated by fiber-optic bubble lights
                                                                                                views of Staten Island’s four bridges and the Ma-    imported from England. Italian ceramic flooring is underfoot th-
                                                                                                nhattan skyline. The sophisticated, 10 story tower   roughout. A stone wall with an 80-square-foot LED video screen
                                                                                                connected to the Hilton with its custom slate        and a state-of-the-art sound system make Above Rooftop a uni-
                                                                              façade and dramatic architectural exterior elements features a         que and modern event space. The open air terrace has heated
                                                                              separate lobby, a rooftop lounge with an outdoor terrace and                 draped cabanas and corner fire-pit seating, showcasing
                                                                              private dining room, a modern ballroom and more                                       sweeping views of Staten Island, New Jersey and
                                                                              than 50 elegantly appointed rooms and suites.                                              Manhattan. Above’s private dining room, a se-
                                                                                  Above, a 9,600 square-foot, glass-enclo-                                                   parate event space, features a cantilevered
                                                                              sed ballroom features a custom light in-
                                                                              stallation with 4,000 Swarovski crystals
                                                                                                                                      The stunning                             private terrace, private powder room and
                                                                                                                                                                                 a dramatic, fiber-optic lighting installa-
                                                                              each with its own LED light. Twenty-                                                                 tion, with its own spectacular views.
                                                                              foot floor-to-ceiling windows are com-                 rooftop venue                                      The newly renovated Nicotra’s
                                                                              plemented by a single-slab Carrera-                                                                    Ballroom, the Hilton’s elegant gar-
                                                                              marble candle wall, with built in             showcases panoramic                                       den level event space, can be cu-
                                                                              niches; a white Italian-marble dance                                                                    stomized for both intimate wed-
                                                                              floor; and Venetian-glass-infused
                                                                              wallpaper. Other unique features in-
                                                                                                                           views of Staten Island’s                                   dings, or larger events upward of
                                                                                                                                                                                      400 guests. Nicotra’s Ballroom bo-
                                                                              clude three soft seating areas and an
                                                                              illuminated onyx bar with an 18-foot,
                                                                                                                               four bridges and the                                  asts woodland views and gorgeous
                                                                                                                                                                                    gardens and fountains with a great
                                                                              silver-leaf frame. Above accommodates                                                               lawn and Florentine gazebo for out-
                                                                              up to 300 guests in single banquet seating        Manhattan skyline                               door ceremonies and photos. The Tea
                                                                              that services modern, seasonal American                                                         House Garden is a magical Japanese
                                                                              cuisine.                                                                                     décor-infused event space with a glass cei-
                                                                                  The guest rooms and suites were designed in                                         ling, wall of waterfalls, and an outdoor pagoda
                                                                              response to guests seeking upscale amenities and well-                          and koi pond. The silk tented Italian piazza, The Trevi
                                                                              appointed suites for their wedding day. The large suites are per-      Garden, is filled with old-world charm and romance with its cob-
                                                                              fectly suited to host a bride, her attendants and their beauty         blestone flooring and lampposts from Venice. Lois and Richard
                                                                              consultants with plenty of well-lit mirrors and even a mannequin       Nicotra have filled the property with art and flowers: the iconic
                                                                              to hold the bridal gown. Owner Richard Nicotra says, “weddings         40 foot LOVE sculpture, and most recently the 22 foot XOXOX
                                                                              held at Above are high-end; even Manhattan couples come to             sculpture on our great lawn, giving our wedding couples even
                                                                              Above. We ensure that your wedding is memorable and the start          more picture perfect moments and creating the perfect ‘desti-
                                                                              of your honeymoon is unforgettable.”                                   nation wedding’ right here on Staten Island.
                                                                                  Above Rooftop, a 9,600- square-foot, indoor-outdoor event                               For more information, please call Carroll Tavella
                                                                              venue, offers both a modern cocktail hour with a dramatic 50-                    at (718) 477-2400 ext.3410 or visit www.EventAbove.com
                                                                              foot-long Calcatta marble bar, along with an 18-foot-tall, illumi-                                         or www.NicotrasBallroom.com.

                                                                                                            T he Hanover Manor
                 We Offer a Unique Atmosphere of
                 Elegance, Romance and Warmth
                    at a Very Reasonable Prices
                                                                                                                                                                                    Fine Catering Since 1977

                                                                                                                        A TRADITION OF EXCELLENCE SINCE 1977
                                                                                                            Here at the Hanover Manor, we treat every guest like a special friend
                                                                                                                      focusing on service, quality, and professionalism

                                                                                                                                       ABOUT THE HANOVER MANOR
                                                                                                              For over 35 years, The Hanover Manor has been providing catering services
                                                                                                             for celebrations of all kinds. The Hanover Manor has experience coordinating
             We make your Dreams come True!                                                                    events ranging from weddings to private events to corporate conferences.

                         Welcome to the Galloping Hill Inn.
                For over 75 years the Galloping Hill Caterers have exemplified
                        the meaning of fine dining and attention to detail.
              Beautiful halls, exemplary service, world-class cuisine and a caring
          and well trained staff will help you plan and realize the event of your dreams.
                We offer a unique atmosphere of elegance, romance and warmth
                                at a price that is very reasonable.
        At Galloping Hill Catering facility, we offer elegant on-premise banquet facilities
                           and off-premise catering for any size event.                                     WEDDING SPECIALIST: Our professional staff is known for creating
                                                                                                            weddings with unforgettable moments and memories. If you are looking for the
       From weddings to bar mitzvahs, birthdays, anniversaries, showers and conferences,
                                                                                                            perfect wedding venue, look no further. Our experienced and knowledgeable
     the Galloping Hill’s banquet coordinators will help you make any event a memorable one.
                                                                                                            staff will guide you.
            The Galloping Hill offers packages that vary from moderately priced buffets
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         to exquisite sit down affairs. With a reputation for excellence and a commitment                   CORPORATE EVENTS:         If you’re looking to host your corporate event or
              to quality, the Galloping Hill Inn is the right choice for your next event.                   conference here in New Jersey, you’ve found the perfect place. Our facility can
                                                                                                            accommodate small and large parties with customized menus of your choice.
                         We look forward to making your party a success.
                Visit our Banquet Center or call one of our Banquet Coordinators                            PRIVATE EVENT HOSTING: The Hanover Manor is New Jersey’s premier
                                     to schedule your event.
                                                                                                            venue for any event ranging from romantic and breathtaking weddings to fun

                            The Galloping Hill Inn
                                                                                                            and memorable proms, sweet 16’s and bar/bat mitzvah celebrations.

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                          325 Chestnut Street – Union , NJ 07083                                                                            Tel. 973-887-2682
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Pyrgos Melissourgou                                                                                                                                                             By TNH Staff

                                                             For Some, a Castle,
                                                  For Others, a Piece of Paradise
                                               P
                                                               yrgos Melissourgou – the Tower of Melissourgos –            but also the highest ranked Executive Chefs in this field, and
                                                               is a castle located in Southern Attica. At Lagonissi,       very professional service by the dedicated personnel of these
                                                               it is just 15 minutes from the International Airport of     companies. A large variety of types of service Is available, such
                                                               Athens and on the road to the magnificent archaeo-          as buffet style, or set-served dinner, or family style. In terms of
                                                               logical site of Sounion. Just 1,000 meters from the         cooking and presentation, there are multiple options. One of my
                                               sea and offering a gorgeous view and unique sunsets, it is the ideal        favorite is the ‘Antikristos solomos’ (salmon slices on the skewer
                                               setting for a truly special wedding. Couples and their guests enjoy         facing each other).
                                               the special attention of the family that has owned The Castle since
                                               1836, and owner Giorgos Melisourgos was delighted to share its                  What months are best?
                                               story and what it offers with our readers.                                      We mainly operate during the warmer period of the year (April-
                                                                                                                           November) and the reason for this is that we want our guests to
                                                  The views are breathtaking and the setting is wonderful –                profit 100% from the view, the Castle, and all the outdoors facilities
                                                  who designed the existing facilities?                                    in general. This is the real beauty of the venue. On the other hand,
                                                  The beautiful uninterrupted view of the infinite blue of the sea is      we have a permanent tent that can easily host 350 people in case
                                               a gift from nature. The design, however, of all the recent additions,       of sudden changes of weather conditions.
                                               was made by the architectural office of G-P Architects Ltd, in very
                                               close collaboration with my wishes and vision. For example, when               How does your staff help with the planning?
                                               they designed the 30meter pool, their mandate was that I wanted                We collaborate with some very creative event planners, that
                                               “the sea to come to our house.” So a natural lake look, with a natural      can help you organize the event in a very special way. And beca-
                                               sandy beach, was created, to fully integrate with the environment.          use every single event is custom made and no event is similar to
                                                  The same approach was used for everything else, using the                any other, it is with great pleasure that we recommend our event
                                               stone from our own land and earthy colors that fully match the old          planners.
                                               existing buildings.
                                                                                                                               Have there been celebrity or special weddings you would
                                                   Tell us about your family and its connection with the pro-                  like to tell us about?
                                                   perty and the region.                                                       Yes, there have been quite a few celebrity and special weddings,
                                                   This was initially a fortified house from 1680-1690, which later        but one of our differences from other venues is that – unless the
                                               was turned into a Castle with a flair reflecting Italy’s Tuscany region.    couple wishes – is that we do not use any photos or other material
                                               It was bought by my great-great grandparents in 1836 and has                from their events to promote our venue publicly. We protect eve-
                                               been in the family since. At that time, it was probably the largest         ryone’s privacy and we greatly respect their personal and family
                                               private estate in the Attica region. Over 3000 olive trees were plan-       moments.
                                               ted and there were 100 acres of vineyards, producing the area’s                 I can say that at our special events we have had an 18-member
                                               renowned Savatiano wine.                                                    band, a couple arriving by helicopter, and the biggest flower arran-
                                                                                                                           gements created by special florists presented non-stop over the
                                                   What is special about weddings there?                                   24 hours prior to the wedding. We have hired professional Greek
                                                   I get emotional talking about something so close to my heart,           folk dancers to first perform their show and then mingle with the
                                               however, there are a few features that make this venue not just             guests and teach them folk dancing, and many other special events.
                                               special for weddings and other types of functions, but I would dare
                                               to say that it is UNIQUE. The 17th century castle cannot be found                Do you arrange for sightseeing in the region for the guests?
                                               in any other similar venue. And the fact that it was and still is the            Yes, we collaborate with travel offices, tour buses, and spe-
                                               summer residence of our family and not an impersonal business               cialized guides that can organize any kind of sightseeing our
                                               venue constructed for weddings, makes it very special.                      guests desire.
                                                   I personally communicate with each and every one of the inte-                All in all, we pride ourselves in the personalized service we
                                               rested parties and personally greet them at the venue, instead of           can provide, and in sharing our family house on that very special
                                               assigning this task to a third party sales person.                          day for each one of our guests.
                                                   If to all the above, we add the pool that looks like a lake, with its        We aim to create friendships with local guests as well as with
                                               natural sandy beach, the beautiful view of the blue sea and of the          people from all over the world and we always are happy to wel-
                                               surrounding mountains, as well as a number of other facilities in a         come back any of our guests that have used the venue once, to
                                               very spacious area that you cannot find anywhere else, then I think         come back either for a visit with their friends or even for just a
                                               it can be rightfully considered a unique venue in Greece.                   swim in the spacious pool.
                                                                                                                                For us at Pyrgos Melissourgou, every event is unique, as for us
                                                 Is the food service something out of the ordinary?                        it is not a mere business transaction, but a wonderful opportunity
                                                 We collaborate with the top eight catering companies of Ath-              to offer a lifetime experience to people on their very special day.
                                               ens, which guarantee not only excellent quality raw materials,                   We are different, and our guests are our best ambassadors.

                                                                                    Wedgewood Weddings Announces
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                                                                                    Rio Hondo by Wedgewood Weddings, a new
                                                                                    wedding and event center added to their col-
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                                                                                    between Orange County and Los Angeles and
                                                                                    will offer the company's renowned all-inclusive
                                                                                    wedding packages that include all the essential
                                                                                    services needed for an elaborate wedding.
                                                                                        "We are so excited to have been awarded
                                                                                    the contract by the City Council and Staff,
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                                                                                    nership with the City and the community,"
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                                                                                    gewood Weddings. "Rio Hondo Golf Club is
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                                                                                    will enable Wedgewood Weddings to use our
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                                                                                        Features and benefits of Rio Hondo by                    Since 1986, the Zaruka family has operated
                                                                                    Wedgewood Weddings include: Elegant sty-                 Wedgewood Weddings with a specific vision
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                                                                                    ties; Contemporary ballroom with                         all-inclusive wedding packages, couples can
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                                                                                        Venue tours at Rio Hondo started Sunday,             cake, flowers, officiant, photo booth, and
                                                                                    February 2. For more information on wed-                 more. Wedgewood Weddings hosts over
                                                                                    dings and events at this beautiful facility and          3,000 weddings each year and has achieved
                                                                                    the company's other wonderful locations, vi-             over 5,000 five-star reviews and multiple
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Aeolos Bay on Tinos Island:                                                                                                                                                                             By TNH Staff

        The Perfect Spot for the Perfect Wedding
T
                   he National Herald had the pleasure
                   of speaking with the new owner of
                   Aeolos Bay Hotel located on the is-
                   land of Tinos. Elizabeth Foskolos
                   is a Greek-American, who decided
to return to her native island to take over the hotel
her grandfather owned and operated in the 1980s
and 90s. She was thrilled to tell our readers about the
beautiful island of Tinos and her amazing hotel.

   Please tell us about the inspiration behind
   the name of the hotel.
   Our Hotel was named after Aeolos, the Greek
god of the winds, because the summer breezes
are characteristic of Tinos island. The hotel is si-          Tell us your story. Why did you choose to           culture of the hotel and how guests and ne-          get married on!) this summer?
tuated in front of one of the most visited beaches            stop renting out your grandfather’s hotel?          wlyweds are treated?                                 If someone is debating what Greek island to
where the land curves inwards, which is why                   The Hotel was built by my father’s family back      Ever since we took back our hotel, we try to     visit or to celebrate their special day, Tinos is cer-
“Bay” also accompanies the name “Aeolos”.                 in 1982 and his family ran it until 1997 when they   take personal care of all of our guests. As a fa-   tainly the answer! It is only two hours away from
                                                          decided to rent it out. In 2015, after I finished    mily-run business, our mission is to treat our      the port of Rafina in Athens. But most importantly,
    What differentiates Aeolos Bay from other             my graduate studies in psychology at Columbia        guests like they are part of our family, embrace    Tinos is a ‘blessed’ island characterized by the
    hotels in the area?                                   University New York, the economic crisis was at      them, and bring them into what we consider to       Church of Panagia Megalohari which attracts vi-
    Aeolos Bay differentiates itself from the other       its peak in Greece.                                  be the true meaning of ‘philoxenia’.                sitors from all over the world. This church is known
hotels in the area because of its strategic location.         At that time, I decided to go back to the ‘pa-                                                       for its many miracles so people come throughout
Even though it is a few minutes’ walk from the            trida’ and fight for my family business as it was       What are some excursions and activities          the year to offer ‘tamata’ (a form of votive offe-
center and the port, it is situated on a quiet corner     literally on the edge of bankruptcy along with          the hotel can help organize for newlyweds        ring). Tinos is also very artistic; it is the home of
overlooking the Aegean Sea and several Cyclades           most businesses in Greece. So, ever since last          and their guests to enjoy on Tinos island?       the largest school of marble sculpture in Greece
islands. Also, Aeolos, has a stunning pool and            year, the hotel is back in my family’s hands as a       Our most popular excursions include guided       which is why you will see beautiful handmade
pool bar which can accommodate all kinds of en-           healthy, growing business. But as a true Greek-      tours to the graphic villages and the pigeon hou-   marble statues scattered around the island.
tertainment. Our guests have the option to swim           American, I would love to come back to my belo-      ses throughout the island, as well as the hiking
at the beach, which is literally right in front of the    ved New York at some point and start a business      paths and the gastronomic and wine tasting             If a couple decides to get married at Aeolos
Hotel’s entrance, or swim in our pool, which also         there, too. My mother is also a Greek-American.      events held at our local wineries.                     Bay, what should they expect?
contains filtered sea water. Most of the rooms            She grew up in the United States but met the                                                                The couple can expect a beautiful landscape,
have a fantastic sea view, with the Mykonos lights        love of her life in Tinos – where they were even-       What is your pitch for Tinos island and,         beaches, and various gastronomic tastes for them
shining in the distance. Aeolos also offers various       tually married and had a grand reception at – you       more specifically, your hotel, to couples lo-    and their guests. We wish all the couples coming
cuisines suited for all tastes inspired by traditional    guessed it – Aeolos Bay!                                oking for wedding venues in Greece as well       to have their wedding at Aeolos: ‘I ora I kali’ be-
foods and local producers. Of course, live music                                                                  as other tourists who are starting to debate     cause every new start lights the road of the cou-
and dancing accompanies the special events.                  How has the new ownership changed the                which of the Greek islands to visit (or to       ple’s happiness for all their lives.

                                       Pyrgos Melissourgou
                                      Where History... Meets Exclusivity...
     The MELISSOURGOS CASTLE
     (Pyrgos Melissourgou) is located
     at the Southeast Area of Athens,
     five minutes from the 5 star Grand Resort
     Lagonisi Hotel and 15 minutes from
     International Airport and on the way
     to the Temple of Zeus in Cape Sounio.

     This 17th century castle lays on a piece
     of land of 15 acres, having a magnificent
     view to the sea and beautiful sunsets

     The well maintained gardens,
     the perfectly trimmed grass area,
     the large swimming pool in the shape
     of a natural lake with a sandy beach,
     the canal of water with the small
     cascades that surround the dance floor,
     constitute the ideal set up for
     the most successful romantic party.

     The Chapel of St. George
     is the background for a typical Christian
     Orthodox wedding and the large tent
     can provide the necessary safety
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     for all weather conditions.

                                       42nd km Leoforos Anavysou, 19010 Athens ❚ Tel : +30 6944-398383 ❚ Email: info@pyrgosmelissourgou.gr
                                                                                     www.pyrgosmelissourgou.gr
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Out of the Blue                                                                                                                                                                       By TNH Staff

     Capsis Elite Resort Welcomes and Enchants
                                                                                      W
                                                                                                        ith origins in one of the first hotel      What months of the year is Capsis open and
                                                                                                        chains in Greece, Capsis Hotels,           what months do you most recommend for a
                Legacy, innovation and creativity                                                       Out of the Blue, Capsis Elite Re-
                                                                                                        sort, first opened in 1978, named
                                                                                                                                                   wedding?
                                                                                                                                                   The resort is open from early April to late Octo-
                                                                                                        to highlight its intimate connection    ber, when Crete’s amazing climate supplies us with
      are the tools that our wedding team relies on                                   with the Aegean Sea. Marika and Thanos Capsis             an abundance of warm weather and sunshine. The
                                                                                      were the chain’s founders, and it was Marika Capsis’      best time for a wedding would be from the begin-
                  to arrange beautiful weddings                                       pioneering spirit that led the family to build Out of     ning of May to the end of September, while expe-
                                                                                      the Blue. The resort now focuses on VIP guests and        rience tells us that October ceremonies are fre-
                                                                                      their families, destination weddings, honeymoons          quently stunning, as the weather is still very mild
                                                                                      and wellness lovers.                                      and the temperatures are comfortable.

                                                                                          Who created Capsis? Tell us about the people              There are many beautiful places in Greece
                                                                                          involved and their family background?                     for weddings, why is Capsis a special wed-
                                                                                          Representative of Capsis Hotels: The Capsis               ding site? If a couple decides to get married
                                                                                      family has a longstanding position in Greece’s ho-            there, what should they expect?
                                                                                      spitality industry. Starting from Cairo with their            We are committed to provide an amazing wedding
                                                                                      first hotel Capsis House Egypt, the family’s legacy       experience for our guests, hence the location we ch-
                                                                                      progressed with the work of Marika and her hu-            ose and the services we provide. Legacy, innovation
                                                                                      sband Thanos Capsis. Dia Capsis now holds the             and creativity are the tools that our wedding team
                                                                                      reigns of the Out of the Blue, Capsis Elite Resort,       relies on to arrange beautiful weddings, creating a
                                                                                      leading it decisively into the 21st century. Taking       mesmerizing event and making each moment a pre-
                                                                                      after her mother, Mrs. Capsis keeps innovation            cious memory that will have wedding guests gushing
                                                                                      close to her heart, boldly conceiving and developing      about it for years. Everything will be taken care of:
                                                                                      ideas that constantly raise the bar for quality ho-       Our chefs will plan a tailor-made menu according to
                                                                                      spitality.                                                the couple’s wishes, experienced decorators will tend
                                                                                                                                                to the flower arrangements, while our staff will be at
                                                                                          Tell us about the people who are part of Cap-         the ready to provide their services wherever needed.
                                                                                          sis and what they can do for the clients and          The Resort is an exceptional destination for weddings,
                                                                                          their guests.                                         providing a spectacular location on a private peninsula
                                                                                          Our main goal is to help guests feel like they        with lush botanical gardens and a private beach,
                                                                                      are home away from home. The services we pro-             easily accessible from the international airport of He-
                                                                                      vide are complemented by our staff’s care of small        raklion. A large range of guest rooms, suites, maiso-
                                                                                      details. Luxury brings uniqueness: one of a kind          nettes and luxury villas with pools are available to
                                              AGORA PLAZA                             locations, exclusive experiences, rare flavors, and       accommodate the whole wedding party, and cere-
                                              23-18 31ST STREET • ASTORIA, NY 11105   exemplary service, all brought together using the         monies can be hosted at various gorgeous locations,
                                                                                      highest standards.                                        such as the on-site chapel, the private beach or one
                                                                                          An expert team is in charge of planning the per-      of the lawn venues, all equipped with a beautiful blue
                                                                                      fect wedding or event according to our client’s ne-       Aegean Sea backdrop.
                                                                                      eds and wishes. Being a 5-star resort, we offer a             Wedding receptions can be held in one of the
                                                                                      wide range of services, on top of the usual services      ten restaurants that are placed in distinctive loca-
                                        Tel.: 718-728-8484 • Fax: 718-728-0066        expected from a luxury resort. Our two water sports       tions throughout the resort, as well as the beach
                                        www.artopolis.net                             centers are equipped with the latest exciting acti-       and lawn venues. The resort can organize an ama-
                                        e-mail:customerservice@artopolis.net          vities, such as flying board, parascending, inflata-      zing bachelor party, as well as provide the most ro-
                                        FREE PARKING AVAILABLE                        bles, etc. The Minoan Amusement Club is perfect           mantic surroundings for the perfect honeymoon.
                                                                                      for kids aged 4-11, providing fun activities and ani-
                                                                                      mations and allowing parents to take some time                What would you like prospective guests to
                                                                                      off and focus on themselves. We also were the                 know about Crete?
       Artopolis, a bakery with the sweet flavors of Greece,                          first resort to offer three escape rooms as an acti-          Crete is a fantastic mosaic of marvelous bea-
                                                                                      vity, available both for adults and children.             ches, ancient ruins, cosmopolitan cities and brea-
        where each mouthful is an adventure in taste,                                     Our Everlasting Euphoria concept is a holistic        thtaking nature. Its lively cities and picturesque vil-
                                                                                      spa and medical wellness concept aiming to help           lages are inhabited by wonderful people generously
                      quality and freshness                                           guests relax, feel refreshed, and tone up their spirit.   sharing their traditions and proud way of life. The
                                                                                      A skilled team offers safe, non-intrusive and inno-       landscape changes tremendously depending on
                designed to please every customer.                                    vative programs and treatments using state-of-the-        the location, with a distinct contrast between the
                                                                                      art medical equipment. Our in-house clinical nutri-       north side of the island with its long, sandy beaches,
        For Weddings, Bridal Showers, Engagement Parties,                             tionist provides diet and nutrition consultations,        large cities and booming nightlife, and the south
                                                                                      while the medical wellness centre provides non-           coast where the terrain is rougher with a fascinating
           Sweet Sixteens, Anniversaries and other events.                            invasive anti-aging treatments under the supervi-         relief, large cliffs, mountainous roads and small
                                                                                      sion of a plastic surgeon.                                communities. Crete can be cosmopolitan, traditio-
                        All baking done on premises.                                                                                            nal, isolated, bustling, offering diverse experiences
                                                                                         What can the guests expect when they first             depending on the visitor’s needs.
             Let us Be Part of Your Special Day!                                         arrive at Capsis?
                                                                                         Guests can expect to be lavishly pampered from             How does Capsis help guests get the most
                                                                                      the moment they arrive till the time to say goodbye.          out of their trip to Crete?
     WE EXCLUSIVELY IMPORT THE AWARDED                          Cakes                 They will be welcomed in a beautiful place right by           The luxurious destination is placed on the mid-

         KOYFETA HATZIGIANNAKI                                 For All                the sea, set on a private peninsula that also includes
                                                                                      a private beach. Our people work around the clock
                                                                                                                                                point of Crete’s north coast, making it the ideal lo-
                                                                                                                                                cation for holidays, as the whole island is accessible
              THE BEST FROM GREECE
                                                             Occassions               to provide and take care of every detail, offering        for day visits, giving guests the opportunity to ex-
                                                                                      delicious gourmet cuisine, 5-Star accommodation,          plore and discover all the experiences that Crete
     In many flavors: choco, almond,                                                  luxury services and treatments, and impeccable            has to offer. There is an infinite amount of places to
                                                                                      quality of service. The relaxing environment com-         visit in Crete, matching every interest, and the resort
     champagne, strawberry, coconut,
                                                                                      bined with the luxury facilities and services are the     offers a large selection of day trips, while our staff
     lemon, orange.                                                                   perfect getaway, creating an amazing backdrop for         can also provide advice and information to prospec-
                                                                                      a superb destination wedding.                             tive sightseers.
     The best choise for your WEDDING
     and all other occasions.
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                                                Artopolis has been awarded with
                                                 the Excellent & Extraordinary
                                                   Zagat Award continuously
                                                    from 2004 to the present.
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Evangelos Abatzis, Tailor to U.S. Presidents                                                                                                                                                               By Matina Demelis

                       including Trump, Talks to TNH

Geoffrey Lewis Custom Tailors in Washington, DC.                                                                   Evangelos Abatzis, tailor to U.S. presidents.

P
                 residents in the White House may           to America. Within a few years he was able to buy      clude the Washington Opera and the Kennedy Cen-          dent that again had to do with the Macedonian is-
                 come and go, but the Greek-born tai-       the Geoffrey Lewis store, just two blocks away         ter. "We've been doing their costumes for many           sue. “I remember in the' 90s, one day we were
                 lor who makes their suits, remains.        from the White House.                                  years and we also did the costumes for The Pelican       surprised when Greek-American journalist George
                 Evangelos Abatzis, Master Tailor at            "In 1969, I came to America alone. In 1972, I      Brief,” Abatzis added.                                   Stephanopoulos came into the store. He was also
                 Geoffrey Lewis, has been "cutting          married my wife Eleni. There were difficult times          When asked about the presidents he has made          surprised that we are Greeks and we started tal-
and sewing" the suits of American presidents, po-           in Greece at that time, there were no jobs. Fortu-     suits for: "Reagan, Bush, father and son, Clinton,       king.
liticians, diplomats, and other VIPs for more than          nately, relatively soon I was able to buy the shop,    Obama, and today," he said smiling.                          Vangelis began to ask him directly about the
40 years. He spoke to The National Herald about             in 1976. In 1992, we moved a little further, where         "U.S. Presidents have custom-made suits,             Macedonian issue. We scared the man; he didn't
his life and work.                                          we are now. I have no complaints – we have good        usually choosing gray and blue. They also have           know what to say. Of course, he was glad to see
     Born in Serres, Abatzis learned the art of tailoring   customers. When politicians come, we close the         sport jackets made for weekends. They choose the         that we were Greeks.”
from his grandfather in Thessaloniki when he was            whole store for them and there is security outside,"   most conservative styles, English and Italian. Th-           The experiences from his meetings with the U.S.
14 years old. Later, the junta came, things got dif-        he told TNH.                                           roughout the city, the dark suit is worn most of all,”   Presidents have been positive, Abatzis said. “All of
ficult, and in 1969 he decided to make the big trip             But apart from the White House, his clients in-    he added.                                                them are always polite and with a smile. And Trump.
                                                                                                                       One of his favorite stories is when he went to       He's gracious, kind, and in person completely dif-
                                                                                                                   the White House under President Barack                        ferent from what he shows to the public and
                                                                                                                   Obama. Abatzis had prepared a series                                   what he wants to express sometimes.”
                                                                                                                   of questions on issues related to                                             Now, the business has been
                                                                                                                   Greece and mainly Macedonia.                                                   taken over by the son of the
                                                                                                                       "I went through security
                                                                                                                   and was taken to a room
                                                                                                                                                          Born in Serres,                            family, Kostas, who for the
                                                                                                                                                                                                       past 10 years and after a
                                                                                                                   to wait. The security men                                                             career in Wall Street has
                                                                                                                   made me sit in a large                 Abatzis learned                                  taken over his father's
                                                                                                                   room and wait. There                                                                     job. The family also
                                                                                                                   were photos of all the              the art of tailoring                                  has two daughters.
                                                                                                                   Presidents. Then I th-                                                                     One daughter is a te-
                                                                                                                   ought, 'What business
                                                                                                                   do I have here? From
                                                                                                                                                          at age 14 from                                      levision producer and
                                                                                                                                                                                                             lives in New York and
                                                                                                                   Serres to being in the                                                                   the other works at a
                                                                                                                   White House?' It was a                 his grandfather                                 large bank in Washing-
                                                                                                                   great shock for me but                                                               ton.
                                                                                                                   also a great pleasure for a            in Thessaloniki.                                Vangelis and Eleni also
                                                                                                                   Greek to be there. I was well                                                    have three grandchildren,
                                                                                                                   prepared for the questions I wo-                                             and as they say, they go to Gre-
                                                                                                                   uld ask him. Macedonia was a bur-                                        ece every summer.
                                                                                                                   ning issue then and we Macedonians                                     “There is nowhere else like Greece. I
                                                                                                                   were in great pain. I would ask him to find out what     spend at least two months there every summer.
At Geoffrey Lewis Custom Tailors in Washington, DC.                                                                I wanted to know. So they brought me some water,         We are proud of our country. Many Greeks also
                                                                                                                   and I hear a 'hello sir.' I jumped up and forgot eve-    come to the shop. However, we do not see many
                                                                                                                   rything, all the questions I wanted to ask. I forgot     tourists from Greece, as in the previous years,” Aba-
                                                                                                                   them. I took the measurements, we were done              tzis added.
                                                                                                                   and that was it. It's hard, when you lose your words          Geoffrey Lewis Custom Tailors is located at 1433
                                                                                                                   in the moment.”                                              H Street NW in Washington, DC. More information
                                                                                                                       Abatzis's wife, Eleni, remembers another inci-              is available online: http://geoffreylewisltd.com

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By Eleni Sakellis                                Greek Wedding Traditions

T
                   he traditional aspects of the Greek wedding are what make it truly                             of the dressing for the wedding tradition. Meanwhile at the bride’s home, her maid
                   unique and special. There are a great many traditions and from one                             of honor or koumbara leads the bridesmaids in helping the bride dress for the wed-
                   region to the next, there are many variations. The traditional music                           ding. In some regions, the names of the single bridesmaids are written on the soles
                   varies, too, as anyone who has attended several Greek weddings                                 of the bride’s shoes and the names that are worn off by the end of the night are
                   from various parts of the country will attest.                                                 those of the ladies next to be married.
    The traditions actually begin well before the bride and groom have even met.                                      Another shoe-related custom is that the groom is supposed to buy the bride’s
The tradition of the prika, or dowry, begins with the mother of the bride buying                                  shoes for the wedding day. Either he or the koumbaro or best man delivers the
items or making them by hand for her daughter’s future wedding, linens, clothing,                                 shoes and the bride is supposed to pretend that they are too big and don’t fit her.
household items, and usually storing them in a large chest over the course of many                                The koumbaro then places coins in the shoes for good luck and to help them, sup-
years. In the past, young women showed off their skills in embroidery and other                                   posedly, fit better.
crafts in the items they made by hand for their dowry. Today, most of the items a                                     The Cypriot dressing tradition is called stolisma and after the bride is ready, in-
bride needs are purchased.
    In the past, engagement rings in Greece were usually not the diamond
                                                                                            There are a great       cludes wrapping a red sash around the bride’s waist for fertility while music is
                                                                                                                       played and all her relatives give her a blessing. The red sash is also draped
solitaire type we associate with engagement rings today. The Greek en-                                                   around the groom’s waist at his house, and then the kapnistiri takes place
gagement ring was a gold band worn on the left ring finger after the en-                   many Greek wedding              during which a censor is used to bless the bride and groom.
gagement blessing and then the same ring served as the wedding ring,                                                            When the bride is about to exit her parent's home, her parents break a
moved from the left to the right hand during the appropriate moment of                        traditions and                 large wedding pretzel or ‘nifopsomo’ over her head and give all those in at-
the wedding ceremony. In some villages, the engagement is still an im-                                                        tendance a piece so they can wish all the best to the bride for a happy
portant separate ceremony, though it is also how the wedding service               from one region to the next,               marriage, health, and wealth.
begins, but more on that later.                                                                                                   In many regions of Greece, a procession to the church takes place
    Setting the date is another aspect of the traditional Greek wedding
that should not be overlooked if you’re planning a church wedding.
                                                                                             there are many                   with traditional songs performed for the bride and her family and the
                                                                                                                              groom and his family along the way. A band sometimes escorts the bride
There are certain times of the year when weddings are not performed                                                          to the church and everyone in the community follows and dances all the
at all, namely during fasting periods like Great Lent, the two weeks                         variations which               way to the church. Traditionally, the groom waits outside of the church for
before the Dormition of the Theotokos on August 15, August 29 – the                                                        the bride’s arrival and then gives her the bouquet before they walk down the
commemoration of the beheading of St. John the Baptist, September 14                       make the special day          aisle together. The father of the bride or her brother gives the bride away to
– the Elevation of the Holy Cross, and the 40 days leading up to Christmas.                                            the groom outside the church.
In ancient times, January was considered the best month to marry since it
was the month dedicated to the goddess of marriage and fertility, Hera. The
                                                                                                 unique.                The wedding ceremony begins with the blessing of the couple’s engagement
                                                                                                                  and the rings. As noted in Manhattan Bride, “the betrothal service recognizes the
Roman version of Hera is Juno, which made her month of June the preferred                                         engagement of the couple by the church and includes the priest’s blessing of the
month to wed. Sunday is traditionally the preferred day for weddings, but more                                    rings. He also alternately blesses the bride and groom three times.”
and more couples choose Saturday, and some now even choose to marry on                                                As noted on nvphotographers.com, “the stefana, or crowns, are linked with a
weekdays. The Thursday before the Sunday wedding was when the dowry or                                            ribbon that symbolizes the union of two people into a married couple and are placed
prika was delivered to the couple’s soon-to-be home. In the days leading up to                                    on a table in front of the bridegroom, along with the Bible, the wine, and the rings.
the delivery, it was a custom for the dowry to be on display in the bride’s parents’                                  “The koumparos or koumpara exchanges the rings three times and swaps the
home so visitors could admire it wish the bride well in her marriage. The dowry                                   stefana three times, before he places them on the couple's heads. This is a physical
is no longer common, but in many places where Greeks have settled, the parents                                    demonstration of their spiritual bonding (the couple and koumparos).”
of the bride sometimes give the gift of a house or help with buying a house                                           When the priest begins the wedding blessings, he joins the couple’s right
which has, to some extent, come to replace the dowry of the past.                                                 hands. Then the priest blesses the stefana, reads the Gospel of the Wedding in
    Choosing the koumbaro and koumbara who are ‘sponsors’ of the wedding is                                       Cana (Jesus' first miracle), pours wine into a single cup or glass, and gives it to
another Greek tradition. The groom’s godparent is asked first, then the bride’s god-                              the couple to take three sips each from it. The couple drinking from a single glass
parent, if they decline or simply cannot do it, close friends and family are then                                 symbolizes their commitment to sharing their life and experiences for the rest of
asked. The role is a serious one since the koumbaro and koumbara participate in                                   their days.
the wedding ceremony and then are expected to baptize the couple’s first child, a                                     The Greek Orthodox wedding ceremony has remained the same since the 11th
huge responsibility.                                                                                              century. “It is a ‘blessed union’ that implies this must be a permanent union,” said
    Another tradition usually a few days before the wedding is the making of the                                  Father Robert Stephanopoulos, Dean Emeritus Archdiocesan Cathedral of the Holy
marital bed. The family and friends are invited to a party to make the bed at the                                 Trinity, as reported in Manhattan Bride.
soon-to-be husband and wife’s house for good luck and fertility. After the bed is                                     The two parts of the Greek Orthodox wedding service are the betrothal and the
made, flowers, money, and koufeta are thrown on top, and finally a baby is also set                               marriage service. A small table on which a special tray is placed with the wedding
on top of the bed. Whether it’s a baby girl or boy will supposedly determine what                                 crowns, betrothal rings, candles, goblet of sanctified wine, and the book of the
the firstborn child will be. The preference is traditionally for a baby boy. In some re-                          Gospels serves as the “matrimonial altar,” as Manhattan Bride reported.
gions, rice is also thrown on top of the bed.                                                                         After the stefana are in place on the bride and groom’s heads, the dance of
    On the day of the wedding, the koumbaro or best man shaves the groom as part                                  Isaiah takes place. The priest leads the couple for their first walk together as man
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