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The
Wedding Guide
January 2019
2 — January 2019 THE WEDDING GUIDE
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January 2018
Grandparents from page 8
Wedding dress fitting guide
bridesmaid. It’s a loving way to celebrate grandparents who were involved and event like this,” said the bride, 23. “They have set a really great example for
influential in their upbringing. my husband and me on life after 40 years of marriage. They’re all very honest
“It honors the legacy of a family and the extension of a family and how the Because
about thefashion
fact preferences
that there arewere oncedays
some ornate
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want on precise
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family is growing, because that’s fundamentally what marriage is about,” saidto-wear clothing
days you love really didother
each not become widely
and it’s just available
worth it.” until the early 20th century.
San Francisco wedding and event planner Alicia Falango, who estimates that Such attireSchanzer’s
is now available in just about
grandmother any retail
Grongong store.allows that grandparents are
Rutchik
Because ready-to-wear clothing is so
about 30 percent of her couples include grandparents in a unique way. “It’s not sometimes overlooked at weddings, and having such readily available, the aaverage
specialperson
place may
in herbe
the norm per se, but it’s gaining popularity,” she added. unfamiliar with custom-made or tailored items.
granddaughters’ celebrations made her feel loved. In fact, a couples’ wedding may be the
These unexpected, high-profile roles are a departure from what many only instance in their lives when they require the services of a seamstress or tailor.
“It made me feel awful special, and I loved being part of such a happy oc-
brides and grooms have done for years: quietly recognizing grandparents with Fittings are a part of wedding planning, and here’s how brides-to-be can navigate
casion,” she said.
a corsage or boutonniere, and having them walk down the aisle ahead of the the process of finding and being fitted for a dress.
• Try Schanzer
on sample loved
gowns.itThe
too.first step is to make your rounds to various gown shops
bridal party to take front-row seats.
Recent wedding seasons have seen an Indiana groom who tapped and on“I
his tryfeel thefeel like itthey
samples madehavethe available.
ceremony,” shesample
Most said. “Even
sizes though
will notIbe didn’t see you
the size it, I
like that’s the wedding detail that I remember the most.”
wear every day, so expect them to be ill-fitting. Do not be discouraged. Once a gown
90-year-old grandfather as best man, a Minnesota bride who chose her 92-year-
is chosen, the dress shop will take your measurements and order the gown according to
old grandmother as her flower girl, and a Pennsylvania wedding featuring two
Lisa A. Flam
the manufacturer’s is guide.
sizing a newsAgain,
and lifestyles
this can reporter in New
be shocking, sinceYork. Follow
the size willher on
likely
grandmothers in matching gowns as flower girls.
be larger than and
Twitter whatFacebook.
you wear in street clothes. Some shops will also order a little larger
“It resonates with a lot of people,” Falango said. “When you are an adult,
to allow for adequate tailoring.
it’s a blessing to have a living grandparent. It’s so emotional for people. They • Schedule the first fitting. The first fitting should be anywhere from eight to 12
Your Perfect Wedding Cake
go inward and say, ‘Wow, I wish my grandma or grandpa were still here.’”weeks before the wedding date, according to experts at WeddingWire, an online wed-
Beyond including a grandparent in the bridal party, couples can ask oneding
to information provider. This is the time it takes to complete most standard alter-
officiate, like Nadine Gorand did with her grandfather Raymond Oddi. Gorand
A wedding cake is the centerpiece
ations. Complex customizations can take even of anylonger. Brides should
reception. Letalso budget a a
us create min-
and her fiance, Pat, wanted an officiant they loved and respected for their Sept.
imum of $500 for alterations, which maypersonalized or may not be included
delicious wedding the
in the price of
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then 89. • Bring shoes and undergarments. Remember to bring along the exact shoes and un-
dergarments you will wear with your gown. A change in shoes or bra/corset can result
in the alterations fitting poorly the next time. Bring these items along to all subsequent
fittings.
• Speak up. Martha Stewart Weddings suggests speaking up at fittings if anything
is uncomfortable or needs tweaking. Seamstresses are masters at their crafts, but only
if they understand the desires of the bride.
• Check the details. The second fitting is designed to check that all issues from the
first fitting have been addressed, the gown is comfortable and you can move freely.
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Open communication with a seamstress and bridal shop can ensure brides- At the last fitting, ask the maid of honor to come along so that she understands how to
to-be get a dress that fits like a glove. bustle or help you handle complicated straps or closures.
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Did you know? Wedding terminology
Wedding planning can seem over- their seats.
A first dance song at the wedding reception often sets the tone for
the upcoming festivities and can exemplify just how newlyweds feel
whelming and a tad confusing at times, • Fondant: A sweet, plyable prod-
about each other. but a crash course in wedding termi- uct used to decoratively cover layered
Couples may agonize over which song to choose, but there are nology can help couples make more in- cakes. It can be used in lieu of straight
many different resources available that can help couples narrow down formed choices along the way. buttercream.
their options. • Blusher: A short, single-layer veil • Handle wrap: Ribbon or fabric
Spotify, the popular streaming music service, has compiled a list of that covers the bride’s face before the that wraps around the stems of a bou-
the most popular wedding songs for 2018, based on global respon- ceremony. quet the bride and wedding party car-
dents. Their top pick was “Perfect,” by Ed Sheeran, a song that many • Boutonnière: A single flower bud ries.
might suspect was composed with wedding dances in mind. Sheer- worn by the men in the bridal party. • Maid/matron of honor: The title
an’s “Thinking Out Loud,” Etta James’ “At Last,” John Legend’s “All • Canapés: Bite-sized appetizers given to the woman who assists the
of Me,” and Elvis Presley’s “Can’t Help Falling in Love” filled out the served during the cocktail hour of a re- bride and stands closest to her at the al-
remaining top five spots on Spotify’s list.
ception. tar. “Maids” are those who are unmar-
• Civil ceremony: A marriage cere- ried, while “matrons” are women who
mony conducted by a council official or are.
Your Perfect Wedding Cake justice of the peace at a municipal loca-
tion rather than in a house of worship.
• Master of ceremonies: An individ-
ual who will work with the DJ or band
A wedding cake is the centerpiece • Cocktail hour: Typically an hour- to announce the various components of
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personalized delicious wedding ceremony and the main dinner of the • Nosegay: A small bouquet or
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finest, freshest ingredients. • Corkage fee: A fee some estab- fore the ceremony.
lishments charge to allow guests to • Processional/Recessional: Musi-
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cal pieces that mark the entrance and
exit from the wedding ceremony.
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• Dragées: Round, small edible balls and greet guests.
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10 — January 2018 THE WEDDING GUIDE
Wedding thank-you notes are hard.
Available For AllHere’s how toOccasions
Your Special get ‘em done
By BETH J. HARPAZ
Associated Press
The Century Club cards just makes people shut
down.”
of Amsterdam
Other obstacles: bad hand-
NEW YORK — Been to a writing, not knowing what to
wedding recently? How long say, or losing track of who
did it take to get a thank-you gave which gift. (Use a gift
note for your gift — assuming tracker app, spreadsheet, or
you got one at all? just a pen and notepad to re-
Newlyweds say it’s hard member.)
to organize a big task like writ- The biggest problem,
ing 100 or more notes by hand Monson says, is “organization
— especially when they’re fatigue.” Once the wedding’s
exhausted after months of over, newlyweds lack the time
wedding planning. Some even and energy for another chore.
blame their bad penmanship. Punkpost handwrites
But gift-givers blame bad thank-you notes — or any type
manners. of correspondence — for $6 a
Here’s why wedding card, including mailing (first
thank-you notes still matter, one free). Customers pick
along with strategies and ideas
This undated image provided by Bond shows a wedding thank-you note created using the from different handwriting
for getting them done — in- FRPSDQ\·V URERWLF WHFKQRORJ\ ZKLFK PLPLFV KDQGZULWLQJ &XVWRPHUV FDQ FKRRVH IURP GLIIHUHQW styles, but Monson says the
cluding hiring a card-writing KDQGZULWLQJVW\OHVRU%RQGFDQGLJLWL]H\RXUKDQGZULWLQJWRFUHDWHDSHUVRQDOVW\OHIRU\RXUQRWHV “goal is never to mimic some-
service. %RQG*LIWLQJ,QFYLD$3
one’s handwriting. Our goal is
who writes about manners thank-you for knife covers OBSTACLES AND to help people make good on
DO WE NEED THANK with Sarah Davis at Evie- without mentioning the kitch- OUTSOURCING their good intentions.”
YOU NOTES? andSarah.com . en knives she’d sent. Burns, Alexis Monson, cofound- The Punkpost app lets
“Most of us have been in But thank-you notes are CEO of Learnivore.com in er of a note-writing service senders create text for each
the position of not receiving not just a polite tradition. If Boston, tracked down the called Punkpost , says “many card, or they can cut and paste
a thank-you note, but it feels newlyweds don’t say thanks, missing knives, but says the of us aren’t even used to writ- the same message for all. Most
particularly disappointing some guests worry their gift incident shows “thank-you ing one sentence every day gift-givers won’t know the
when your generosity seems was lost. Emily Burns real- notes are not obsolete, be- with a pen in our hands, so
to go unnoticed by a bride and
groom,” said Evie Granville,
www.thecenturyclubofamsterdam.com
ized her gift had gone miss- cause they functionally serve the thought of writing many, 3OHDVHVHH7+$1.
ing when a friend wrote a as receipts.” many thoughtful and beautiful
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Wedding registry tips
THE WEDDING GUIDE August 2015 — 19
Building a wedding registry is a task un- advise registering for two to three gifts
like any other couples may encounter during per guest. That might seem like a lot, but
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• Register with more than one store. It’s a registry may significantly reduce their
important to register with more than one cost for couples who want to buy such
store. Doing so makes things as convenient items themselves after tying the knot.
as possible for guests and increases the • Vary the prices of items on the list.
chances they will be able to shop at stores In addition to including more expensive
they’re familiar with. Unless your guest list items on the registry, make sure to include
is predominantly local, try to register with moderately priced and inexpensive items.
at least one national chain so guests who This gives guests more options and en-
live in different regions can shop for gifts sures guests who might be spending a lot
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Building a wedding registry is a unique task that couples can embrace as
their wedding day draws near. to choose from. Many industry insiders sive ones have already been purchased.
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Wedding insurance can ease
nerves before the big day
Couples spend thousands of dollars on their wedding ceremony and celebrations.
The cost of a wedding varies depending on geographic location, but according to the
business and financial resource Business Insider and The Knot 2017 Real Weddings
Study, the average wedding in the United States costs $31,391.
Insurance policies can help couples protect their wedding investment. Special
event insurance provides coverage for various scenarios, including extreme weather,
damaged gifts, lost jewelry, vendor cancellations or no-shows, venues closing before
the wedding, and canceled weddings, according to Travelers Insurance. Insurance also
may cover other unforseen scenarios, such as unexpected expenses from injuries during
the wedding or spoiled food.
Policies will pay directly for any damage or injuries that occur, or reimburse the
couple if the wedding is postponed or canceled. If weddings occur at home, some peo-
ple’s home insurance or umbrella policies may cover certain wedding liabilities. Most
wedding venues carry their own liability insurance, so couples may not have to overlap
there. However, for those who desire extra protection for vendor mishaps, it is wise to
speak with an insurance professional about special wedding coverage.
Prices for wedding insurance policies can start at around $100 to $200 for min-
imum coverage and reach $1,000 for more expensive ceremonies, according to the
financial advisement website NerdWallet.
Speak with an insurance agent and read policies carefully before purchasing one.
Non-covered issues typically include theft or loss of an engagement ring; rainy days
that do not classify as extreme weather; switching vendors after a deposit is made; and
risky entertainment, such as fireworks or live animals.
Protecting wedding expenditures with insurance policies can provide couples with
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