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                  FOR SAFETY
 Created three business crime watch organizations

                 FOR SENIORS
Helped create a call center network of nonprofits and
closed city amenities like library and recreation staff
to call seniors to check in on them to offer resources
     and to help prevent isolation and loneliness

                  FOR STREETS
      Passed nearly $600 million in bond funds
           to fix roads throughout Dallas

            FOR JOBS & WAGES
  Passed first-ever business district Neighborhood
Empowerment Zone for small and medium businesses

       FOR PARKS & RECREATION
            Constructed a trail around the
            Pavaho Wetlands in Los Altos

                FOR TAX RELIEF
         Voted four years in a row to lower
               the property tax rate

      REGARDING THE PANDEMIC
        Passed eviction moratorium ordinance
          for families affected by COVID-19
         Set up vaccination registration hubs
         with local nonprofits and churches,
        as well as with local elected officials.

                   FOR PRIDE                                                                          2020 Texan of the Year
Helped pass an ordinance to commemorate June as                                                          — Dallas Voice
 Pride Month in Dallas annually in June and fly the
    official City of Dallas Pride Flag at City Hall
    Advocated and added fully comprehensive
   healthcare benefits, including gender-affirming
        surgeries for transgender employees
   Earned a 100% score all four years serving on
   council for the HRC’s Municipal Equality Index

         FOR THE ENVIRONMENT
 Appointed by Mayor Johnson as Chair of the first
Environmental Committee and passed the City’s first                                         EARLY VOTING:
                                                          ENDORSED BY
          Environmental Plan (CECAP)
                                                                                NOW through April 27th
      FOR AFFORDABLE HOUSING                                                                 ELECTION DAY
           Reduced the tax rate four years
            in a row for property owners                                                       May 1st
               RECOGNITIONS                                                       If you would like more information
        “LGBTQ North Texans of the Year”                                          on where and when to vote, go to
                — Dallas Voice 2020
        “Best Dallas City Council Member”                                         dallascountyvotes.org
              — Dallas Observer 2018
     Dallas Pride Parade Grand Marshall 2017
                                                                                   Omarfordallas.com
                                                                                      Pol. Adv. Pd. by Omar Narvaez Campaign.

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                                            IMPROVING PUBLIC SAFETY
                                            Continue to provide leadership and pressure to solve the street racing and
                                            street takeover problem, improve 911 response times, and provide the
            EARLY                          necessary support to our men and women in blue so that they can better

           VOTING:
                                           protect and serve our neighborhoods.
                                          INFRASTRUCTURE IMPROVEMENTS
    Now through                           Commit to adding additional bike lanes, create more and safer sidewalks,
                                          hold contractors accountable for road restoration and alley patches, repair                                             Go to
      April 27th                         roads and potholes in a timely fashion, and improve traffic signalization
                                        throughout our neighborhoods.
                                                                                                                                                                  www.dallascountyvotes.org
                                                                                                                                                                 to find your polling location.
                                        IMPROVING YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE
    ELECTION restaurants,
              Require accountability for nuisance properties to include bars and                                                                               To learn more information

        DAY: numerous
                           direct city staff to develop AirBNB “Party House” regulations,                                                                     about David Blewett,
             allocate funds and support for local parks, aquatic centers, and trails, install                                                                 please visit blewett.com
                        flashing crosswalks near schools, libraries, and parks to ensure that
            May 1st                   we can safely cross streets. Proudly support a vibrant Dallas ISD, where all
                                      seven of my kids have gone to school!
                                      REDUCING YOUR PROPERTY TAX
                                    In 2019, I voted to lower the tax rate followed by passing another tax rate
                                   reduction in 2020. This year, proposed a new tax ceiling for our over 65
                                  and disabled homestead neighbors. This resolution is scheduled for Council
                                  action in May.

                                           Pol. Adv. Pd. For by David Blewett Campaign, 5706 E. Mockingbird Ln., Suite 115-221, Dallas, TX 75206, Brooke Gibbs, Treasurer.

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                                     Clyde ISD adopts gender                                unanimously by the represen-
                                                                                            tatives of all LCR chapters in
                                     neutral dress code                                     Texas.”
                                                                                                The statement reads in
                                                                                            part, “Log Cabin Republicans
                                                                                            of Texas supports House
                                                                                            Bill 4042 and its companion
                                                                                            Bill 29. While we may have
                                                                                            reservations about the bills’
                                                                                            lack of nuance allowing
                                                                                            schools latitude to address
                                                                                            very unique situations, and
                                                                                            about the issues it leaves
                                                                                            unresolved that will certainly
                                                                                            arise if this bill becomes law,
                                                                                            we nonetheless believe this
                                         Clyde ISD adopted a gender neutral dress
                                                                                            law takes a necessary step
                                     code on Monday, April 19, a little more than
                                                                                            in protecting interscholastic
                                     four months after school officials suspended                                                                discriminatory bills working their way through
                                                                                            athletic activities that are currently segregated
                                     student Trevor Wilkinson for wearing nail polish.                                                           the Legislature.
                                                                                            by biological sex for the benefit and safety of
                                         Clyde is along I-20 just east of Abilene.                                                                   The legislation includes bans on trans
                                                                                            both boys and girls.”
                                         On Twitter, Wilkinson wrote, “My high                                                                   athletes participating in sports to bans on
                                                                                                To read the Log Cabin statement in its
                                     school’s dress code is gender neutral forever                                                               providing medically necessary gender-related
                                                                                            entirety and the accompanying FAQs, visit
                                     oh my goodness.”                                                                                            treatment to a number of license to discrimi-
                                                                                            LogCabinTexas.US.
                                         In December, Wilkinson wore nail polish to                                                              nate bills, both specific and broad. Other bills
                                                                                                                              — Tammye Nash
                                     school and was suspended. Female students                                                                   would ban gender marker changes, criminalize
                                     were allowed nail polish and makeup in school,                                                              HIV infection and invalidate local nondiscrimina-
                                     but male students weren’t.                             SDEC opposes voter                                   tion ordinances.
                                         “I went into my class, and immediately my          suppression bills                                        State Rep. Jessica Gonzalez, D-Dallas,
                                     teacher sent me to the office because she                                                                   kicked off the presentation. Gonzalez authored
                                     said I broke dress code,” Wilkinson told Good                                                               an omnibus LGBTQ nondiscrimination bill also
                                     Morning America.                                                                                            working its way through committee.
                                         According to Clyde’s policy, students who                                                                   Among those speaking in opposition to an-
                                     don’t meet the dress code are given a chance                                                                ti-LGBT legislation was an executive from North
                                     to correct the “problem,” and a student will                                                                Texas-based Gearbox.
                                     remain in suspension until the “problem” is                                                                     Gary Sanchez, currently chair of the Texas
                                     corrected. Wilkinson never backed down, and                                                                 LGBT Chambers of Commerce and formerly
                                     it took the school district took four months to                                                             with VisitDallas, asked lawmakers to remember
                                     correct it’s problem.                                                                                       the small businesses of Texas. He said, “When
                                                                         — David Taffet                                                          you attack one of us, you attack all of us,” and
                                                                                                                                                 asked legislators to keep Texas an inclusive
                                     LCR Texas supports                                                                                          and welcoming state to live and work.
                                                                                                                                                     Texas Competes CEO Jessica Shortall said,
                                     anti-trans legislation                                                                                      “Business thrives on certainty and stability,” but
                                        Representatives of Log Cabin Republicans                                                                 right now businesses are faced with the uncer-
                                     of Texas this week went to the Texas Capitol                                                                tainty that discriminatory policies cause.
                                                                                               Voter suppression bills are on the move in
                                     to testify in support of Texas House Bill 4042,                                                                                                 — David Taffet
                                                                                            the Texas House and Senate. The State Dem-
                                     legislation “requiring public school students to
                                                                                            ocratic Executive Committee called this an “all-
                                     participate in interscholastic athletic activities
                                                                                            hands-on-deck moment” to defeat HB6 and              Dallas Voice’s Taffet
                                     based on biological sex.”
                                                                                            SB 7. The House bill has passed committee
                                        HB 4042 and its companion bill in the                                                                    wins SPJ award
                                                                                            and is waiting for a floor vote.
                                     Senate, SB 29, would in essence, if enacted,                                                                   Dallas Voice Senior Staff Writer David Taffet
                                                                                               The bills would make it harder for people
                                     prohibit transgender students from participating                                                            has won first place in the Community Journal-
                                                                                            with disabilities to vote, reduce the amount
                                     in gender-specific school sports. Such efforts                                                              ism category of the Fort Worth Society of Pro-
                                                                                            of time polls are open and create long lines,
                                     here in Texas and in state legislatures around                                                              fessional Journalists’ 2021 First Amendment
                                                                                            especially in minority voting districts. SDEC
                                     the country have been roundly criticized by                                                                 Awards. Taffet was recognized for his article,
                                                                                            has developed tools to contact representatives
                                     most LGBTQ advocacy organizations as well                                                                   “Donald Zarda recognized by medical organiza-
                                                                                            before the vote. They encourage people to call
                                     as many business organizations and a number                                                                 tion,” published Sept. 11, 2020. Judges wrote,
                                                                                            their state representative to oppose HB 6 and
                                     of large companies. The NCAA last week                                                                      “This feature personalizes the compelling story
                                                                                            publicize it on their social media.
                                     announced it will not hold any playoff or title                                                             of some prominent advocates for employment
                                                                                                                                — David Taffet
                                     games in states that pass such legislation, and                                                             rights for the LGBTQ communities.”
                                     the state of Georgia has become the target of                                                                  Entries in the contest were judged in two
                                     boycotts since enacting such a bill earlier this       Business leaders rally                               divisions: print/online and broadcast, Each divi-
                                     month.                                                 to oppose discriminatory                             sion was subdivided by market size, circulation
                                        LCR Texas, however, issued a statement                                                                   (over or under 100,000) and reach (large print/
                                     in support of HB 4042 and SB 29 as well as             legislation                                          online, medium print/online/large broadcast,
                                     testifying in favor of HB 4042.                           Texas Competes, represented by business
                                                                                                                                                 medium broadcast).
                                        In the statement, posted online at LogCabin-        leaders and of chambers of commerce, held a
                                                                                                                                                    Members of the Los Angeles Society for
                                     Texas.US, LCR noted that the “policy position”         press conference at the Capitol in Austin Mon-
                                                                                                                                                 Professional Journalists judged the entries.
                                     regarding the anti-trans bills has been “adopted       day, April 19, to oppose a long list of
                                                                                                                                                                                 — Tammye Nash

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OBITUARIES
                                                Sims, of Hustonville, Ky.
                                                  A memorial will be held at 2:30 p.m.
                                                Sunday, May 2, at TMC in Dallas.

   David Andrew Smith, 65, passed away
March 25, of an aneurysm. Born July 23,
1955, he was a native of Kentucky and
Baltimore and had lived in the Dallas area
for the past 30 years, spending much of that
                                                    William B. “Bill” McGowen III, passed
time working as a bartender in LGBTQ bars,
                                                away Friday, April 2, in Dallas. Bill’s life be-
most recently at TMC. He had also worked
                                                gan in Floresville, Texas, on July 28, 1945,
at Dallas Eagle, Woody’s, Moby Dick’s, the
                                                and ended in Dallas earlier this month. But
Brick, and The Wave. He also worked as a
                                                oh, how eventful were those 75 years in
manager as well as a bartender at Dallas
                                                between, filled with travel and excitement.
Eagle and Moby Dick’s.
                                                    Bill’s work took him from Asia, where he
   David was also an interior designer and
                                                was instrumental in developing computer
a painter, and he was the cover model
                                                programs for opening new banks, to New
for Bear Magazine #29 in 1994 as well as
                                                Mexico where his love of food and cooking
a model for Harley Davidson and other
                                                led him to open his restaurant. He became
magazines.
                                                a connoisseur of art and literature, and he
   During his years as a bartender and
                                                loved to entertain and host dinner parties in
manager in Dallas’ gay bars, he was a friend
                                                his home, where he tastefully displayed his
and mentor to so many others, bar industry
                                                collection of paintings and books. Bill was
employees and customers alike. He was
                                                well known in high society circles of New
known as Daddy David to his coworkers
                                                Mexico.
and loyal customers.
                                                    Upon returning to Dallas, his above
   David was a sweet teddy bear — humble
                                                average intelligence and great work ethic
and loving, loyal and giving. He was always
                                                qualified him to write programs for selecting
helping others but never asked anything in
                                                grand jury members in the court system.
return. He loved animals and was a friend
                                                    An interesting conversationalist with a
to all. He will be dearly missed by everyone
                                                great sense of humor, he always had a story
who knew him.
                                                to tell to his spellbound listeners.
   David is survived by his partner, Kerry
                                                    Proud of his gay orientation, Bill lived his
Shatzer of Dallas; his mother, Juanita
                                                life to the fullest. He will be missed.
Haught of Baltimore; and his father, Leamon

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The Rainbow
connection                                                                                                                                                                                               D
What’s next for America’s favorite
musical-video satirist?
                       andy Rainbow be-
                       came a star with
                                                                                                                                                                                                         s
                       his musical videos
                       sending up Trump
                       and his minions.
                       And     when     the
                       COVID-19 pandem-
                       ic shut everything
down, Rainbow’s hilarious work kept
people entertained since he was, thank-
fully, able to keep turning out new work
from home.
   Still, he says, the isolation of quaran-
tine was a hard burden, and he is happy
to finally start getting back out into the
world — including a live virtual concert
tonight (Friday, April 23) presented by
Dallas Democrats..
   Amid the hustle and bustle of plan-
ning new tour dates while also writing a
book and recording a new album, Rain-
bow took the time this week to answer a
few questions for Dallas Voice.
                            — Tammye Nash

Dallas Voice: 2020 was a really hard year
  for everybody, especially performers              that your videos showing how ridicu-             down? We still have quite the cast of char-           live shows again? And how do you see
  and entertainers, many of whose liveli-           lous he really is played a role in turning       acters lingering around. There remains an             yourself expanding or changing your
  hoods ended up in dire straights when             more people against him and getting              abundance of material, and it’s hard to pick          career? We are planning tour dates right
  everything shut down. What was the                him voted out last November? My inten-           and impossible to predict! I just try to follow       now, and I can’t wait to get back on the
  hardest part of 2020 for you? And what            tion is never to make a political statement,     the bouncing ball of what everyone’s most             road with a brand new show. I’m also
  was it that kept you going? Randy Rain-           believe it or not, but satire does have          heated about or amused by.                            currently writing a book and working on
  bow: The hardest part was the isolation,          a way of exposing the ugly truth. So to        I would think that it would be easy, es-                a new album. I have so much more to tell
  just like everyone else. I’m really fortunate     answer your question, yes, I 100 percent          pecially in politics where everything is             you, but unfortunately, I can’t right now.
  that I was able to keep busy and keep             take full credit for the removal of former        over the top anyway, to go too far. How              Stay tuned!
  creating. That really kept me going!              President Donald Jessica Trump.                   do you determine where the line is be-             And now, for the important question: How
                                                  Other than Trump himself, who do you                tween what is funny and what is going                is Tippi [the cat]? And when will she
At the same time, 2020 provided some                think was the most outrageous charac-             too far? What would you consider to be               begin posting her own Tippi Rainbow
  amazing materials for comedians,                  ter from his four years in office? Who            off limits? I’m a comedian, and these are            videos? Tippi is growing beautifully and
  especially a satirist of your skill. What         gave you the most material to work                jokes. My goal is to lighten and entertain,          is currently an Instagram model. You can
  was your favorite story from 2020, and            with? We got so many outrageous char-             never to hurt or offend. I used to say noth-         all follow her @TippiRainbow. Regarding
  which of your videos from the last year           acters out of that administration, but you        ing was off limits, but in these times, as           videos, she prefers cameos.
  do you think was the best? My favorite            know my girl is Kellyanne Conway. She             our collective sensitivities are changing so       What did I not ask about that you want
  story of 2020 was Trump losing the elec-          gave me so much material. I really owe            rapidly, it is becoming a little trickier to toe    to mention? Dallas Voice was my first
  tion. And my videos are like my children.         her lunch!                                        the line. I wish it were different, because I       cover ever in 2010! Thanks for all the love
  How dare you ask me to pick a favorite!         With Trump gone from the White House,               tend to believe that the less taboos there          through the years!
                                                    who — or what — do you think is going             are in comedy, the better things are going
Despite being such an absolute buffoon,                                                                                                                  The Randy Rainbow Live Virtual Concert
                                                    to be your biggest source for materi-             in reality.
  Donald Trump and his MAGA cult fol-                                                                                                                      begins tonight (Friday, April 23) at 7 p.m.
  lowers were a real danger to our coun-            al now? I mean, there are so many to           What’s next for you? When do you expect                 For information and tickets, visit DCDP.
  try, as we saw on Jan. 6. Do you think            choose from …. how do you narrow it             to get back on the road and start doing                Link/RandyRainbow.

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Different
sides
LGBTQ advocacy groups
come down on different sides
of a case headed to the
Supreme Court

LISA KEEN | Keen News Service
LisaKeen@mac.com

               case to be argued before
                 the U.S. Supreme Court
                   next week on Wednes-
                    day, April 28, pres-
                     ents one of those
                       rare instances in
                        which     different
                          LGBTQ groups
                          are on opposite
sides. The case is Mahanoy v. BL, an ap-
peal which asks the Supreme Court to
take a new look at a long-standing First
Amendment decision from 1969 and say
whether it needs to be re-thought given
today’s new social media and cyber-bul-
lying realities.
   In friend-of-the-court briefs submitted
in the case, different LGBTQ groups and
leaders are taking different sides. Some
argue that schools need the authority         squad. The student, identified in nu-     who saw the post captured the Snap-           Amendment right to free speech.
to discipline students for inappropriate      merous news reports as Brandi Levy, is    chat image and forwarded it to Levy’s            A federal district court agreed, noting
messages, even when those messages are        identified in court documents as B.L.,    JV cheerleading coaches. School officials     Levy’s Snapchat post was done off-cam-
delivered off-campus and after-school.        and she attended Mahanoy Area High        suspended Levy from the JV squad for          pus and had not caused any substantial
Others say students need protection           School. (She has since graduated and is   the year.                                     disruption of school activities. The Third
from school authorities over-reaching         attending college.)                         Mahanoy school officials’ brief to the      Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals also agreed
into the personal views and expressions          On the weekend after learning she      Supreme Court said that “students were        citing the landmark U.S. Supreme Court
of students.                                  would have to stay on the junior varsi-   visibly upset” over Levy’s Snapchat post,     decision Tinker v. Des Moines, which held
   Both sides say the case, which has         ty squad, Levy was out shopping with a    that the post violated school rules against   that students have a right to freedom of
no LGBT-specific elements, could have         friend when she decided to post a photo   “foul language and inappropriate ges-         speech unless a school can prove that the
important implications for LGBTQ              of herself on Snapchat, gesturing with    tures” and that they felt they had to take    students’ actions or speech would “sub-
students.                                     her middle finger with a caption that     disciplinary action to “avoid chaos and       stantially interfere” with school opera-
   The case before the court started in       read, “Fuck school fuck softball fuck     maintain a team-like environment.”            tions.
2017 when a student at a small pub-           cheer fuck everything.”                     Levy’s parents attempted to reverse            The Tinker case involved students
lic high school in central Pennsylvania          The post reached about 250 people,     that decision by talking with school offi-    wearing black armbands at school during
posted an angry message on Snapchat           including other students at her high      cials. When they got nowhere, they sued       school hours in protest of the Vietnam
expressing her anguish at having been         school which had an enrollment of only    in federal court, charging that the school    War. The Mahanoy case involved some-
rejected for the varsity cheerleading         about 280 students. One of the students   had violated their daughter’s First                                       SIDES, Page 14

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‘Lights’
fantastic
‘Tuna’ co-creator Jaston
Williams takes on West Texas in
new virtual show

RICH LOPEZ | Contributing Writer
richlopezwrites@gmail.com

                        his past year has
                        seen little in the way
                        of new productions
                        after the pandem-
                        ic eviscerated live
                        arts, and playwright
                        Jaston        Williams
                        was over it. So, he
stepped up.
   Plus, he had a script that he’d been
holding on to for the right time, and, as it
turned out, this was that time.
   Truth be told, Williams has actually
been very busy working on different
projects during all the COVID-19 mess.
   “I’m working on two shows, so I as-
sume this is ‘Lights,’” he said by phone
as he figured out which show to talk
about. “I could do an interview about
the wrong show, and my agent would
kill me.”
   He may feign confusion, but Williams
is as sharp as they come. As one of the
co-creators of Greater Tuna, alongside Joe
Sears, Williams has become not only a
noted humorist and playwright but eas-
ily an icon among Texas literary figures.
Through the Tuna universe alone (the
Tunaverse?), the eccentricity of Texas
comes through in over-the-top charac-
ters and plucky storytelling, and that
world has spread to theaters nationwide
as well as Broadway.
   This time, Williams mixes that formula
into his one-man virtual show I Saw the
Lights, only he sets it in his childhood
home of Lubbock in West Texas.                     He added that he was surprised that
   “I grew up outside of Lubbock on the          not very many people have written about
high plains, and we always told stories          the area and what it has to offer. “I was
like this,” he said of the stories in I Saw      fascinated by the culture out there.” he
the Lights. “It’s a tradition that’s passed      said. “You know, everyone thinks people
down around the campfires from our an-           out in West Texas are Protestant, white,
cestors out there.”
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MAY 1, 2021
     GENERAL ELECTION

                                                                  √V O T E 2 0 2 1
                                      Council District 7
                                      1 Kevin Felder
                                      2 Donald Parish
                                      3 Calvin D. Johnson

     CITY COUNCIL
                                      4 Tramonica Brown
                                      5 Walter “Changa” Higgins
     CANDIDATES                       6 James “JT” Turknett
                                      7 Israel Varela
     COUNCIL DISTRICTS /              8 Adam Bazaldua
       BALLOT ORDER                   Council District 8                      MAY 1, 2021 SPECIAL ELECTION
                                      1 Tennell Atkins               AMENDMENTS TO THE CHARTER OF THE CITY OF DAL
      Council District 1              2 Subrina Lynn Brenham
      1 Gerardo Sánchez               3 Davante “Shawt” Peters
                                                                   PROPOSITION NO. A
      2 Stephani A. “Skyle” Kyle      4 Lakolya London
                                                                   Eliminating the Requirement That A Member of a Board or Commission Created
      3 Chad West                                                  City Charter be Registered or Qualified to Vote.
      4 Giovanni “Gio” Valderas       Council District 9
                                                                   Shall Chapter IV, Section 5; Chapter XV, Section 3; and Chapter XVII, Section 2 o
                                      1 Paula Blackmon
                                                                   Dallas City Charter be amended to eliminate the requirement that a member of a
      Council District 2              2 Judy Kumar
                                                                   commission created by the city charter be a registered or qualified voter?
      1 Jennifer Cortez               3 John Botefuhr
      2 Jesse Moreno                                               PROPUESTA NO. A
      3 Sana Syed                     Council District 10
                                                                   Eliminar el Requisito de que un Miembro de una Junta o Comisión creada por la
      4 Raha Assadi                   1 B. Adam McGough
                                                                   la Ciudad sea Registrado o Calificado para Votar.
      5 Michael Fetzer                2 Sirrano Keith Baldeo
                                                                   ¿El Capítulo IV, Sección 5; Capítulo XV, Sección 3; y el Capítulo XVII, Sección 2
                                                                   la Carta de la Ciudad de Dallas será enmendado para eliminar el requisito de qu
      Council District 3              Council District 11
                                                                   un miembro de una junta o comisión creada por la carta de la ciudad sea un vota
      1 Casey Thomas, II              1 Jaynie Schultz
                                                                   registrado o calificado?
      2 Irby Foster                   2 Hosanna Yemiru
                                      3 Barry Wernick
                                                                   PROPOSITION NO. B
      Council District 4              4 Candy Evans
                                                                   Eliminating the Requirement That a Member of the Civil Service Board be a Qual
      1 Maxie Johnson                                              Taxpaying Citizen.
      2 Lelani Russell                Council District 12
                                                                   Shall Chapter XVI, Section 1 of the Dallas City Charter be amended to eliminate
      3 Matt Canto                    1 Elva Curl
                                                                   requirement that a member of the civil service board be a qualified taxpaying citiz
      4 Carolyn King Arnold           2 Cara Mendelsohn
      5 Johnny Aguinaga                                            PROPUESTA NO. B
                                      Council District 13
                                                                   Eliminar el Requisito de que un Miembro de la Junta de Servicio Civil sea un Ciu
      Council District 5              1 Ryan M. Moore
                                                                   Calificado.
      1 Jaime Resendez                2 Da’On Boulanger-Chatman
                                                                   ¿Se modificará el Capítulo XVI, Sección 1 de la Carta de la Ciudad de Dallas pa
      2 Ruth Torres                   3 Gay Donnell Willis
                                                                   eliminar el requisito de que un miembro de la junta de servicio civil sea un ciudad
      3 Yolanda “Faye” Williams       4 Leland R. Burk
                                                                   calificado que pague impuestos?”
      4 Terry Perkins                 5 Mac Smith
                                                                   DALLAS COUNTY DATES / TIMES /LOCATIONS
      Council District 6              Council District 14
                                                                   April (abril) 19 – 23 Monday-Friday (lunes a viernes)                  8a.m. to 5p
      1 Earl D. Thomas                1 Paul E. Ridley
                                                                   April (abril) 24      Saturday (sábado)                                8a.m. to 5p
      2 Tony Carrillo                 2 David Blewett
                                                                   April (abril) 25      Sunday (domingo)                                 1p.m. to 6p
      3 Omar Narvaez                  3 Elizabeth Viney
                                                                   April (abril) 26 – 27 Monday – Tuesday (lunes y martes)                7a.m. to 7p
      4 Mόnica R. Alonzo
      5 Wendi Macon

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LOCATION                                               ADDRESS                             CITY                  ZIP CODE
                     (Lugar)                                                (Dirección)                         (Ciudad)              (Código postal)

                     ADDISON FIRE STATION #1                                 4798 AIRPORT PKWY                  ADDISON               75001
                     AUDELIA ROAD BRANCH LIBRARY - AUDITORIUM                10045 AUDELIA RD                   DALLAS                75238
                     BALCH SPRINGS CIVIC CENTER                              12400 ELAM RD                      BALCH SPRINGS         75180
                     BROOKHAVEN COLLEGE “W” BUILDING ROOM W105               3939 VALLEY VIEW LN                FARMERS BRANCH        75244
                     CARROLLTON LIBRARY @ HEBRON & JOSEY                     4220 N JOSEY LANE                  CARROLLTON            75010
                     CEDAR HILL GOVERNMENT CENTER LOBBY                      285 UPTOWN BLVD                    CEDAR HILL            75104
                     COPPELL TOWN CENTER                                     255 E. PARKWAY BLVD                COPPELL               75019

21
                     CROSSWINDS HIGH SCHOOL ROOM 104                         1100 N. CARRIER PKWY               GRAND PRAIRIE         75050
                     DISCIPLE CENTRAL COMMUNITY CHURCH                       901 N. POLK ST                     DESOTO                75115
                     DUNCANVILLE LIBRARY ROOMS 1, 2 & 3                      201 JAMES COLLINS BLVD             DUNCANVILLE           75116
                     EASTFIELLD COLLEGE MAIN CAMPUS “C” BUILDING             3737 MOTLEY DR                     MESQUITE              75150
                     EASTFIELD COLLEGE PLEASANT GROVE CAMPUS
                     COMMUNITY ROOM 108/109                                  802 S. BUCKNER BLVD                DALLAS                75217
                     El CENTRO COLLEGE – MAIN CAMPUS “C” BUILDING LOBBY AREA 801 MAIN ST                        DALLAS                75202
                     EL CENTRO COLLEGE-WEST CAMPUS COMMUNITY ROOM            3330 N. HAMPTON RD                 DALLAS                75212
                     FIRE STATION #10                                        4451 FRANKFORD RD                  DALLAS                75287
                     FLORENCE RECREATION CENTER ROOM 102                     2501 WHITSON WAY                   MESQUITE              75150
                     FRANKFORD TOWNHOMES                                     18110 MARSH LN                     DALLAS                75287
                     FRETZ PARK LIBRARY - BLACK BOX THEATER                  6990 BELT LINE RD                  DALLAS                75254
                     FRIENDSHIP WEST BAPTIST CHURCH
                     BANQUET HALL FOYER                                      2020 W. WHEATLAND RD               DALLAS                75232
OF DALLAS            **GEORGE L ALLEN SR COURTS BLDG.
                     MAIN LOBBY - Main Location**                            600 COMMERCE ST                    DALLAS                75202
                     GRAUWYLER PARK REC CENTER RM A                          7780 HARRY HINES BLVD              DALLAS                75235
Created by the       HARMONY SCHOOL OF INNOVATION DALLAS                     8080 W PRESIDENT GEORGE BUSH HWY   DALLAS                75252
                     HARRY STONE RECREATION CENTER SMALL ACTIVITY ROOM       2403 MILLMAR DR                    DALLAS                75228
                     HIGHLAND HILLS LIBRARY AUDITORIUM                       6200 BONNIE VIEW RD                DALLAS                75241
ection 2 of the      HUTCHINS CITY HALL COUNCIL CHAMBERS                     321 N. MAIN ST                     HUTCHINS              75141
mber of a board or   IRVING ARTS CENTER ART LAB, CLASSROOM 1                 3333 N. MACARTHUR BLVD             IRVING                75062
?                    IRVING CITY HALL MAIN LOBBY                             825 W. IRVING BLVD                 IRVING                75060
                     J. ERIK JONSSON CENTRAL LIBRARY                         1515 YOUNG ST                      DALLAS                75201
                     JAYCEE ZARAGOZA RECREATION CTR                          3114 CLYMER ST                     DALLAS                75212
da por la Carta de   JOSEY RANCH LIBRARY THE MEETING ROOM                    1700 KELLER SPRINGS RD             CARROLLTON            75006
                     LAKESIDE ACTIVITY CENTER LARGE ROOM                     101 HOLLEY PARK DR                 MESQUITE              75149
                     LAKEWOOD BRANCH LIBRARY                                 6121 WORTH ST                      DALLAS                75214
ección 2 de          LANCASTER VETERANS MEMORIAL LIBRARY THE MEETING ROOM 1600 VETERANS MEMORIAL PKWY           LANCASTER             75134
ito de que           LOCHWOOD LIBRARY BLACK BOX ROOM                         11221 LOCHWOOD BLVD                DALLAS                75218
a un votante         MARSH LANE BAPTIST CHURCH FELLOWSHIP HALL               10716 MARSH LN                     DALLAS                75229
                     MARTIN LUTHER KING CORE BLDG MAIN LOBBY                 2922 MLK BLVD                      DALLAS                75215
                     MARTIN WEISS REC CENTER SMALL ROOM                      1111 MARTINDELL AVE                DALLAS                75211
                     MOUNTAIN CREEK LIBRARY AUDITORIUM                       6102 MOUNTAIN CREEK PKWY           DALLAS                75249
                     MOUNTAIN VIEW COLLEGE - “’E” BUILDING MAIN LOBBY        4849 W ILLINOIS AVE                DALLAS                75211
be a Qualified
                     NORTH LAKE COLLEGE “F” BUILDING ROOM F105               5001 N MACARTHUR BLVD              IRVING                75038
                     OAK CLIFF SUB-COURTHOUSE THE MAIN LOBBY                 410 S. BECKLEY AVE                 DALLAS                75203
 liminate the        OAK LAWN BRANCH LIBRARY AUDITORIUM                      4100 CEDAR SPRINGS RD              DALLAS                75219
aying citizen?       OUR REDEEMER LUTHERAN CHURCH THE PARLOR ROOM            7611 PARK LN                       DALLAS                75225
                     OUR REDEEMER LUTHERAN CHURCH - GP FELLOWSHIP HALL       4729 S CARRIER PKWY                GRAND PRAIRIE         75052
                     PAUL L DUNBAR LANCASTER-KIEST LIBRARY CLASS ROOM A & B 2008 EAST KIEST BLVD                DALLAS                75216
 a un Ciudadano      PRESTON ROYAL LIBRARY                                   5626 ROYAL LN                      DALLAS                75229
                     REVERCHON RECREATION CENTER                             3505 MAPLE AVE                     DALLAS                75219
                     RICHARDSON CIVIC CENTER WEST ALCOVE                     411 W. ARAPAHO RD                  RICHARDSON            75080
Dallas para          RICHLAND COLLEGE-GARLAND CAMPUS MAIN LOBBY              675 W. WALNUT ST                   GARLAND               75040
un ciudadano         RICHLAND COLLEGE - MAIN CAMPUS - GUADALUPE “G” BLDG.
                     FOYER AREA                                              12800 ABRAMS RD                    DALLAS                75243
                     ROWLETT CITY HALL ANNEX CONFERENCE ROO                  4004 MAIN ST                       ROWLETT               75088
                     SACHSE COMMUNITY CENTER RESERVATION ROOM A              3815 SACHSE RD, BUILDING E         SACHSE                75048
 .m. to 5p.m.        SKYLINE BRANCH LIBRARY AUDITORIUM                       6006 EVERGLADE RD                  DALLAS                75227
                     SOUTH GARLAND BRANCH LIBRARY THE PROGRAM ROOM           4845 BROADWAY BLVD                 GARLAND               75040
 .m. to 5p.m.
                     UNIVERSITY PARK UNITED METHODIST CHURCH -
 .m. to 6p.m.        CALDWELL ROOM (#120)                                    4024 CARUTH BLVD                   DALLAS                75225
 .m. to 7p.m.        VALLEY RANCH LIBRARY SUITE 150                          401 CIMARRON TRAIL                 IRVING                75063

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SIDES, From Page 9
thing done off-campus after-school.             Joining several other anti-bullying     warranted school discipline” for their       “When student speech occurs off-cam-
  While acknowledging that social me-        organizations, the Garden State Equal-     off-campus speech. At the very least,        pus and does not threaten harm to any-
dia has blurred the lines between what       ity group, the Tyler Clementi Founda-      the groups argue, the Supreme Court          one,” said Taylor, “… students enjoy an
constitutes on and off-campus, the Third     tion and Stomp Out Bullying — which        “should make clear that any restrictions     unfettered right to express themselves
Circuit said Levy’s Snapchat post was        focus on LGBTQ issues — all submit-        to off-campus student speech only ap-        without school interference.”
clearly off-campus and that “the ‘online’    ted a brief on the side of the Mahanoy     ply to prevent invasions of students’           The groups’ brief urged the Supreme
nature of that off-campus speech makes       school district. They noted that a study   rights to safety and access to equal edu-    Court make a very careful ruling —
no constitutional difference.”               found that more than 80 percent of         cational opportunities, and not to regu-     one that enables schools to respond to
  Attorneys for the school appealed the      LGBTQ youth reported being bullied or      late all potential substantial disruptions   off-campus speech that “invades a stu-
Third Circuit decision to the Supreme        harassed at school. “There must,” they     of school activities.”                       dent’s rights to be safe and to access
Court, arguing that other federal appeals    said, “be a clear and unmistakable pro-      That brief was submitted by Lamb-          equal educational opportunities” but
panels have ruled that Tinker can apply to   nouncement that school officials may       da Legal, Equality California, GLBTQ         one that “does not impair a student’s
off-campus speech “that has a close nex-     take reasonable measures to curtail        Legal Advocates & Defenders (GLAD),          off-campus speech that is otherwise
us to the school environment.” The Third     peer bullying that negatively impacts      the Human Rights Campaign, Nation-           protected under the First Amendment.”
Circuit decision, they said, “broke ranks    students’ ability to access their educa-   al Center for Lesbian Rights and more           Acting Solicitor General Elizabeth
with all other circuits” on the matter.      tion, wherever and in whatever form it     than two dozen other groups “commit-         Prelogar submitted the Biden admin-
  The Mahanoy school attorneys noted         takes place.”                              ted to gender, LGBTQ, racial, and dis-       istration’s brief in March and will be
that “schools face hard calls about how         A large number of other LGBTQ           ability justice for students.”               speaking before the court April 28.
to address such off-campus speech,”          groups submitted a brief in support of       “We support B.L. in this case because      Her brief supports the school district,
including instances of where students        the student. “Bestowing schools with       we believe the school was not within its     saying that schools must be able to ad-
use social media to harass other stu-        overly broad authority to regulate         authority to discipline her and violated     dress any speech, including off-campus
dents and teachers. But “schools have        off-campus speech risks school over-       her First Amendment rights to speech         speech, that threatens or targets specif-
exercised authority to discipline speech     reach,” those groups said, pointing to     and expression,” said Camilla Taylor,        ic individuals or groups in the school
that disrupts the campus or harms oth-       studies showing that historically mar-     director of constitutional litigation for    community. 			                           █

er students, whether that speech origi-      ginalized groups — like LGBTQ stu-         Lambda Legal and one of the authors             © 2021 Keen News Service. All rights re-
nates on campus or off.”                     dents — “are more likely to receive un-    of the brief supporting the student.         served.

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FANTASTIC, From Page 10
                                                                                                                                              CITY OF DALLAS
Levis, but I tell you, it’s a hell of a mix.   church and at a beauty parlor.”                 The play was filmed at the State The-                      OFFICE OF FAIR HOUSING

Eccentricity has always had a safe place          Williams described the characters as      atre in Austin with about 14 people                The Fair Housing Ordinance makes it illegal to
                                                                                                                                                 discriminate against a person in regards to:
out there.”                                    composites of real people — except for       involved in the project. Not only did             Race | Color | Religion | Sex | National Origin |
  In 1951, the Lubbock Lights were a           his beautician. She was created from         Williams work to fill a void in theater,          Handicap (Mental or Physical) | Familial Status
formation of unidentifiable lights hov-        scratch.                                     he wanted to fill a void for theater folk.            (Children Under 18) | Source of Income
                                                                                                                                              (social security, spousal support, child support
ering over the city and seen by a wide            “She was transformed by the lights,          “The great thing was that we em-               or veterans with housing assistance vouchers) |
variety of residents. Although it was          and she lost the ability to be a mean        ployed people. There was no work, and                      The actions that are covered by the
concluded the lights were a natural            person, which is tough for a beautician      people were desperate to work,” he ex-                             City Ordinance are:
phenomenon, some speculated that               in West Texas,” he explained.                plained. “When we all got together [to            RENTAL, including leasing, using and keeping a
they were UFOs. Williams puts a pin-              Dean Barley, the gay character in         film the show], it was a revelation. We           unit, and property management;
                                                                                                                                              SALES, including brokers, sales agents, lenders,
point focus on that time in I Saw the          Lights, was sent to the mental hospital      had been away from it for so long.”
                                                                                                                                              mortgage brokers, insurance agents and sellers;
Lights.                                        for charging rhinestone jewelry to his          Even though the show takes place in            ADVERTISEMENT, including brokers, sales
  “I wanted to write a love letter to          daddy’s card. “Being out in West Texas       the past, Williams believes that it can           agents, lenders, mortgage brokers, insurance agents
these people. It is fictional, but I want-     then, they were always so unapologet-        still speak to today “I think we are al-          and sellers;
ed to write about that culture that peo-       ic,” Williams said. “So this character, to   ways hoping for miracles, but really,             For complaints regarding Sexual Orientation and
ple didn’t easily recognize and include        me, he’s so alive and honest and brave.”     you find those in other people,” he said.         Gender Identity;

their frailties and fears and humor,” he          In lieu of incorporating all the cos-     “I love these characters, and they show           HOUSING, including the rental and sale of housing
said. “Once in a while you feel the need       tume changes in the show, Williams           that you’re not alone.                            and all other business practices related to a person’s
                                                                                                                                              housing activities;
to write about something that hasn’t           was photographed in costume as each             “I think that’s the main thing I want
                                                                                                                                              EMPLOYMENT, including brokers, sales agents,
been touched on.”                              character, and those photos are dis-         people to take away [from the show] —             lenders, mortgage brokers, insurance agents
  Williams plays nine characters in the        played in the show. But he performs          finding hope in other people can be a             and sellers;
show, including a preacher, a hippie           all the characters wearing slacks and a      pathway to love and kindness.”               █    PUBLIC ACCOMMODATION, service in
                                                                                                                                              restaurants, theaters, retail store, and
and a beautician.                              shirt.                                          The I Saw the Lights local presentation        non-governmental public services
  “You can’t do a play about West Tex-            “The only costume [changes] we had        will air at 6 p.m. Friday and will be available   (relative to sexual orientation only).
as without a beautician,” he insisted.         were the shoes,” he noted. “I cannot         to view for the 48 hours to follow. Tickets are     If you suspect discrimination in these areas and
“That’s where it all happens — in the          play a woman without some heels.”            $25-$35 at downtowncowtown.com.                               wish to file a complaint call:
                                                                                                                                                          214-670-FAIR (3247)

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Our path to PARENTHOOD                                                                                                                                                                    B
                                                                                                                                                                                          $
                                                                                                                                          nal choice was up to us.
                                                                                                                                             This was the most difficult question
                                                                                                                                          we faced after selecting the sperm donor.
                                                                                                                                             We then waited for the results — a lo-o-
For same-sex couples wanting                                                   to pay for   take hormones to prepare the lining of        o-ng 10 days, especially since most over-
to start a family, there are a lot of                                          the sperm    her uterus to receive the egg; I needed       the-counter pregnancy tests didn’t work
ways to get there. Here is one                                                 ourselves,   hormones to produce many eggs at once         with IVF, and we had to go to the clinic.
                                                                               at about     instead of the usual one per month.              The first time didn’t succeed.
                               y son is                                        $300 per        Helen started with a “test cycle” of          None of our remaining embryos
                               graduating                                      try.         hormone pills to make sure her uterus         had been good enough to freeze, so we
                               from high                                          Next      responded appropriately. Then I went on       started again from scratch. We chose a
                               school this                                     stop was     birth control pills to sync my cycle with     different donor, in case the sperm was
                               year, a fact                                    the law-     hers. I still laugh about the fact that the   the problem. I also took an additional
                               that has me                                     yer     to   first time I ever went on birth control       medication to improve egg quality and
                               reflecting                                      make         was in order to have a child.                 — Success! Helen was pregnant!
                               back       on                                   sure none       I then spent several weeks giving             But this was all before marriage equal-
how our family started. And if my social                                       of the pa-   myself daily injections in my belly. The      ity or civil unions. In New Jersey, where
media feed is anything to go by, a lot of                                      perwork      needles were tiny and nearly painless,        we lived, I would not have been able to
folks are wanting to start their families in                                   we had to    though I did feel a little bloated as my      be on the birth certificate or have any pa-
similar ways today. So I thought I’d share     sign at the clinic would mean either of      ovaries grew. Helen started with a dai-       rental rights, even though the child was
our story in hopes of offering some in-        us were waiving our rights since it was      ly injection, also via small needles, and     genetically mine — except that with the
sight or at least some inspiration (though     set up for egg donors who would not be       then another injection for a week or so       help of our lawyer, we successfully peti-
I’m not a doctor or lawyer; please consult     parenting the child. We also updated our     via a two-inch needle in her backside,        tioned the state for a pre-birth parentage
your own).                                     wills and powers of attorney just in case.   which I had to give her. (It was a bonding    order, making me a legal parent from the
   My now-spouse Helen and I spent our            At the same time, we started looking      experience.)                                  moment of our son’s birth. We thought
first eight years together focused on our      at online catalogs from sperm banks.            We also both went to the clinic every      we were going to be the first RIVF couple
careers before we decided to start a fam-      We wanted an anonymous donor who             other day at 6 a.m. for blood tests and       in the state to get such a parentage order;
ily. Once we began discussing starting         would have no possible legal claim to the    ultrasounds. We had cut out caffeine for      we ended up being the second, and we
a family, we knew almost immediately           child. Looking back, we might have con-      the duration, so that was rough. But we       were happy to be part of a trend.
that we wanted to do reciprocal in vitro       sidered a donor who was “willing to be       figured it was good preparation for par-         RIVF was definitely the extra compli-
fertilization (RIVF), with Helen carry-        known” when the child turned 18, but,        enthood.                                      cated — and needle-filled — route. It’s
ing my eggs so that we could both be           unfortunately, we didn’t know this was          My final injection, to release the eggs,   not for everyone, but we both value the
a part of the process in a physical way.       a possibility.                               had to be exactly 36 hours before my          different connections it has given each of
I’m a few years younger, so we used my            Mostly, we wanted a donor who was         clinic appointment, when I went briefly       us to our son. To those also considering
“fresher” eggs.                                healthy, but that still left us with a lot   under general anesthetic and woke up          RIVF — or any path to parenthood —
   We then juggled the three areas of big-     of choices. We were almost driven to         with the eggs painlessly removed.             I’d say be patient; try to find the humor
gest import: healthcare, insurance and         putting printouts of the finalists’ pro-        The clinic then fertilized the eggs with   in it, and realize it’s just the start of the
law.                                           files on the floor and choosing the one      the sperm we’d had shipped to them.           long but worthwhile adventure of par-
   First we talked with our regular doc-       the cat sat on. (Ultimately, we made the     Five days later they inserted the embryos     enthood.
tor and got physicals; she referred us to      call ourselves without getting the cat       via a tube into Helen’s uterus. They usu-        Good luck! 			                          █

a fertility practice. I approached my em-      involved.)                                   ally inserted more than one; this boosted        Dana Rudolph is the founder and publish-
ployer’s health insurance provider to be          Then began the real attempts. We met      the chances of at least one succeeding but    er of Mombian (mombian.com), a GLAAD
sure that IVF was covered; at $20,000 per      with the fertility doctor and brought        at the risk of multiple births. The doctors   Media Award-winning blog and resource
attempt, we couldn’t have done it other-       home a large paper grocery bag full of       recommended how many, based on how            directory, with a searchable database of 600+
wise. The IVF was covered, but we had          medicines and needles. Helen needed to       the embryos were developing, but the fi-      LGBTQ family books, media, and more.

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Bobrow Trust donates
$250K
                         ver the last two      the Jim Roberts Trust by donating its
                         weeks, the An-        assets and developed a plan to make
                         thony Bobrow          ongoing donations to LGBTQ and
                         Trust has, in its     HIV/AIDS community organizations
                         second round          from the assets of the Bobrow Trust.
                         of    donations          Although the Hidden Door has been
                         this year, do-        shuttered since the beginning of the
                         nated a total         COVID-19 pandemic in March 2020,
                         of $250,000 to        Meissner said this week that the bar
four separate community organizations,         and the trust are “legally separate enti-
according to co-trustee Harvey Meissner.       ties,” and that the trust is “well-funded    Harvey Meissner and Evie Scrivner               Harvey Meissner with Brook Henderson from
   The trust has already made small-           and able to continue its donations with-     from Dallas Hope Charities                      Legacy Counseling Center
er donations this year totalling about         out Hidden Door revenues.”
$10,000.                                          That does not mean, however, that
   Beneficiary organizations in this           Meissner and Hidden Door staff are
round of donations are Legacy Coun-            not working toward re-opening the bar.
seling Center, AIDS Services of Dallas,        They just intend to do so in the safest
Dallas Hope Charities and AIN. Each            possible manner.
agency received a check for $62,500.              “Dallas is still recording 200-plus new
   The Anthony Bobrow Trust owns               [COVID-19] cases and 20 or so deaths
and is funded in part by proceeds from         each day,” Meissner said in a statement.
The Hidden Door, of which Meissner             “Hidden Door doesn’t think it’s safe to
is president and general manager. Jim          re-open, even with precautions, until
“Polock” Roberts opened the bar in             those numbers go down and more of
1979 and owned it until his death in           our community is vaccinated.”
1988. Anthony “Tony” Bobrow, a long-              He said the bar does have a target
time employee, took over as owner              date for re-opening in mind, but that
of the bar then and as manager of the          date is dependent on “the rate of new
Jim Roberts Trust. When Bobrow died            infections and deaths continuing to
in February 2018, the bar and the rest         drop.” And even after the bar re-opens,
of his estate went to the Bobrow Trust,        “The policy of being open every legal
with Meissner as president and gener-          hour will probably be curbed for the
al manager of The Hidden Door and as           time-being.”
co-trustee of the Bobrow Trust.                   Meissner said he hopes to announce
   Following Bobrow’s wishes, Meiss-           specifics soon.                              Harvey Meissner, left, and Christopher Turman   Harvey Meissner, right, with Steven Pace of AIN
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                                        DIY Tutorial: How to build a backyard bar
                                                                   BROOKE CRIBBS | Cribbs Style
                                                                      Courtesy of Homes.com/Blog

                                      M
                                                 ove over, DIY firepits: We’re building a backyard bar! Perfect for entertain-
                                                 ing or even storage, this DIY project works for indoor and outdoor spaces,
                                                 and with the weather starting to warm up, that means more outdoor time is
                                      definitely on the agenda. And while we’re not sure what these next few months may
                                      look like for entertaining, it’s still nice to have some fun outdoor amenities.
                                         If you’ve thought about sprucing up your outdoor entertaining area, what better
                                      way than by making your own backyard bar? Whatever your beverages of choice,
                                      this easy DIY project will give you plenty of options for your outside, or even inside,
                                      lifestyle. Take a look!

                                      The $600 Inspiration
                                         I found the inspiration for this piece floating around the internet, and it got me
                                      thinking how it would be a perfect addition for our own home. But, the $600 price
                                      tag was way too much for my budget; I was confident I could make it for a fraction
                                      of the cost. I wanted to keep it simple, so I’ve kept the steps relatively short, using
                                      straight cuts. Be sure to follow all the guidelines and safety precautions when using
                                      power tools. And be sure to protect your eyes, ears, mouth and nose around power
                                      tools, saw dust and paints or stains.

                                      The Supply List
                                         • Solid wood board, 1-inch x 16-inch x 3-feet (I’m using a teak project panel I found
                                      at Lowe’s, but any wood will do)
                                         • (2) 2-inch x 4-inch x 8-foot studs
                                         • (8) 1-inch x 4-inch x 8-foot boards
                                         • 1.75-inch wood screws (my favorite are Power Pro #8 exterior screws)
                                         • 1.5-inch finish screws
                                         • 4 wheels (these are optional, but adding them can give you an outdoor and in-
                                      door bar)
                                         • 100-grit and 220-grit sand paper
                                         • Exterior paint or stain

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Start building
   To make the legs, I started
out by cutting four 2x4s into
38.5-inch pieces.
   NOTE: To make painting or
staining easier, I would rec-
ommend doing it after you’ve
made all of your cuts. It also
makes it easier to use a paint
sprayer for all the difficult
nooks and crannies that might
pop up. If you wait until it’s
all assembled, it may be diffi-
cult to get paint or stain in all
the areas evenly.
   I then cut six 2x4s into
9-inch pieces for supports
for the legs. Using the wood
screws, I secured these pieces
at the top and bottom of the
two 2x4 pieces to create two
rectangles.
   For the width of the bar, I
cut the 1x4 boards into nine
35-inch pieces. I spaced the
boards using a piece of the 1x4 board. The edges of these boards should line up the
edge of your rectangle pieces you made for the legs.
   I worked one row at a time to secure the side pieces as well, using the same spacing
method as the front. The side pieces fit inside the front piece to give a wrapped look.
   If you want to add a middle shelf inside the bar for storage, measure down from
the top, about 14 inches, and secure the remaining two 9-inch pieces to be the sup-
port of the shelf. This is a personal preference, but a shelf can also add additional
support to your bar.
   At the bottom of the bar, and in the middle where I attached the support piece, I
used two 30-inch pieces of 1x4 for the middle shelf and two 32.75-inch boards for the
bottom shelf.
   Once everything was assembled, I sanded the entire piece, first using 100-grit
sandpaper then finishing with 220-grit sandpaper.
   After I spray painted the bar, I attached the wheels. If you’d like to include wheels,
be sure to space them out evenly on the bottom as the front of the bar may be a bit
heavier and will need proper weight distribution among the wheels.
   Next, I attached the piece of teak board on top, making sure it lined up evenly with
the back of the bar and that there was an overhang on the front. I also made sure
the overhang on the sides was even too. I attached the top using four finish exterior
wood screws.
   I would recommend a couple coats of an exterior waterproof sealer on your wood
bar. If you decide to stain, make sure that it’s protected as well.
   For the final touch, I added a bottle opener, and voila!
   I love how this bar turned out, and the best part is that it cost less than $200 to
build. My favorite feature is the wheels, which allow me to use it inside my home if
the weather is less than ideal.
   I also love that it’s so customizable; you can add other accessories, like a towel bar
or a wire rack to hold wine glasses. The possibilities are endless.
   Maybe drinks aren’t your thing; if that’s the case, this doesn’t have to be a back-
yard bar. You can use it however you see fit. For example, it could be a great plant
stand that you could move inside during the colder months, or handy storage for
bug spray and sunscreen to keep close by during warmer months spent outside.
   It truly is the perfect addition to any backyard.				                                   █

   Brooke Cribbs has a lifestyle blog called Cribbs Style (CribbsStyle.com), and she currently
lives in Charleston, S.C. A wife, mom of two human children and three fur children, she
enjoys all things DIY and organizing, and she loves helping others tackle the chaos of life.

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                                                                         North Haven rises
                                                                           DAVID TAFFET | Senior Staff Writer
                                                                                  taffet@dallasvoice.com

The nursery recovered from the
                                                                                                                A new vision
2019 tornado, then a pandemic, a
                                                                                                                   “The tornado gave us the opportunity to apply a new
freeze and a blocked Suez Canal                                                                                 vision,” Hoya said.
have contributed to a crazy year                                                                                   For years, when a new office was needed, an exten-
                                                                                                                sion was slapped onto one of the existing buildings.
                                                                                                                Now, new buildings are efficiently designed, leaving

W
            hen the 2019 tornado destroyed                                                                      more room for plants. Other amenities — like the cafe
            all of the buildings at North Ha-                                                                   and new retail space — have been built, and the inte-
            ven Gardens, it gave tthe staff                                                                     riors are being finished out now. They’re set to open in
the chance to re-imagine the 70-year-old                                                                        June.
nursery.                                                                                                           But even though North Haven Gardens is open, the
   Genera Manager Cody Hoya said that                                                                           nursery is facing what Hoya called a global shortage of
when the tornado hit northwest Dallas                                                                           plants. While the tornado of 2019 affected the nursery
two years ago, trees were overturned, and                                                                       locally, the global COVID-19 pandemic has wreaked
greenhouses were bent. But underneath                                                                           havoc on the garden industry around the world.
the rubble. North Haven employees found                                                                            Hoya said there are global shipping issues as well as
undisturbed flats of African violets. On top                                                                    supply issues. There’s a cardboard shortage. There’s a
of that, historical photos were saved, and                                                                      shortage of metal used in everything from wind chimes
the art gallery fared pretty well.                                                                              to tomato cages that was caused by a stuck freighter that
   They were able to salvage enough to                                                                          closed the Suez Canal for a week.
hold a clearance sale before the rebuilding                                                                        In addition, demand has increased because of a house-
began.                                                                                                          plant craze Hoya attributes to the pandemic and people
   Today, North Haven is transitioning to                                                                       working at home. People haven’t been able to spend
the third generation of the family that has                                                                     their disposable income on travel or eating out, so peo-
owned the business, which opened on this                                                                        ple have spent more money on improving their homes.
spot in 1951 before Northaven Road was                                                                          That includes adding indoor plants to new home offices
paved and when Central Expressway was                                                                           and spending more time outside in the garden.
still two lanes this far north.                                                                                    And after the historic Winter Storm Uri in February,
   Hoya said he was proud of the diver-                                                                         spring plants are flying off the shelf as people replace
sity of its staff that has always employed                                                                      what was killed by the deep freeze. Fortunately, Hoya
Blacks, even when Dallas was strictly seg-                                                                      said, North Haven didn’t lose too much of its inventory
regated. And today, almost a third of its                                                                       during that nearly unprecedented cold snap.
employees are members of the LGBT com-                                                                             And this whole series of events adds up to a spring
munity. He’s also proud of founder Ralph                                                                        that Hoya described as “bat-shit off-the-wall crazy.”
Pinkus’ role as a founder of the Dallas Ar-                                                                        When the pandemic began, customers turned to
boretum.                                                                                                        North Haven to provide a replacement for fresh pro-
                                                North Haven Gardens General Manager Cody Hoya

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