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SHEMA HAS BEEN LOVINGLY ENDOWED BY SANDRA ATLAS BASS        VOLUME 5 • NUMBER 2 | SPRING 2021/5781

                                                   Moving
                                                  Forward
                                                                     A Time for Hope
                                                            Restoring Resilience
                                                          What We’ve Learned
                                                                  Reopening Safely

                                                    Plus: Sweet Treats from
                                                       Our Shabbat Bakers

                                                        Each spring, the cherry tree inspires optimism
                                                          as it comes to life in front of the temple.
Moving Forward A Time for Hope Restoring Resilience What We've Learned Reopening Safely Plus: Sweet Treats from Our Shabbat Bakers - Temple ...
WHAT A YEAR!
BY GARY SLOBIN, PRESIDENT
                                                                                                                                                      Contents
This has been a year like no other,
and the theme of our spring Shema
                                                           our Early Childhood Education Center,
                                                           in “Enriching Outdoor Classrooms
                                                                                                        mid 2021 to early 2022, with the help of
                                                                                                        a search subcommittee. As we approach         2    What a Year!
                                                                                                                                                           By Gary Slobin                     18      Moving Past COVID-19
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Compiled by Sheri ArbitalJacoby
magazine focuses on moving forward                         Offer Seasons of Memories.” Find out         June 2022, we will express our thanks
from COVID-19. In this issue, Dr. David                    about our new Netivot program for            to the Rabbis Feldman for their tenure
Podwall, chair of our Medical Advisory                     TBE student and family engagement            at TBE. Opportunities will be available
Committee, shares how our congregant                       by educator David Woolfe, and read           to recognize their generous spirit,           4    What COVID-19 Taught Me
                                                                                                                                                           By Rabbi Meir Feldman              20      Giving Back on Mitzvah Day
                                                                                                                                                                                                      By Jaqui Wadsworth
medical experts are helping us plan to                     about the success of our new joint           keen intellect and inspiring rabbinic
reopen the building safely.                                religious school program with Temple         leadership since 2009. We will welcome
    Two of our High Holy Days speakers                     Israel in “Kulanu: Powerful Educational      our new rabbi in mid 2022.                                                                    Member Profile: Getting to Know
update us with sage advice. Dr. Maurice
Policar, chief of infectious diseases
                                                           Experiences in Person and Online” by
                                                           Rabbi Amy Roth, director of Kulanu
                                                                                                           Several subcommittees will offer
                                                                                                        opportunities for our membership to
                                                                                                                                                      6    Leaning in to the Impossible
                                                                                                                                                           By Rabbi Tara Feldman              22      Gloria and Jerry Landsberg
                                                                                                                                                                                                      By Stuart Botwinick

at NYC Health + Hospitals/Elmhurst,                        Religious School.                            be involved, from helping with focus
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Perennials Provide Native Beauty
discusses how vaccines are offering                           As Rabbis Meir and Tara Feldman           group conversations to planning                    Cantor’s Notes:
hope, and Dr. Victor M. Fornari, director
of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry
                                                           plan to relocate to Israel in June
                                                           2022, we have begun developing our
                                                                                                        farewell events for Rabbi Tara and
                                                                                                        Rabbi Meir to creating welcome and
                                                                                                                                                      8    That Was Quite a Reception
                                                                                                                                                           By Cantor Adam Davis
                                                                                                                                                                                              24      Year After Year
                                                                                                                                                                                                      By Gayle Monaster, Barbara Wexler, Eileen Walk
                                                                                                                                                                                                      and David Sutin
at Northwell Health, shares tips in                        Rabbinic Transition plan. A Transition       introductory opportunities for the
“Restoring and Building Resilience in                      Committee is being formed, chaired by        new rabbi.                                         Enriching Outdoor Classrooms               People of the Book:
Our Youth.” In each of their columns,
our clergy members share the valuable
                                                           Executive Committee members Jordana
                                                           Levine and Ronald M. Epstein.
                                                                                                           If you wish to be involved in the
                                                                                                        transition efforts, please send your
                                                                                                                                                      9    Offer Seasons of Memories
                                                                                                                                                           By Vicki Perler
                                                                                                                                                                                              25      Our TBE Library
                                                                                                                                                                                                      By Stuart Botwinick
lessons they’ve learned, as do several                        During the first half of 2021, our        name and a brief description explaining
congregants in “Moving Past COVID-19.”                     congregation will be engaged in a series     your area of interest to sbotwinick@               Restoring and Building                     Book Review
    Look for the adorable pictures of our
little ones from Vicki Perler, director of
                                                           of discussions about the vision for
                                                           Beth-El. The search will be held from
                                                                                                        tbegreatneck.org. General offers to help
                                                                                                        in any way are most appreciated.              11   Resilience in Our Youth
                                                                                                                                                           By Dr. Victor M. Fornari
                                                                                                                                                                                              25      The Weight of Ink by Rachel Kadish
                                                                                                                                                                                                      By Jennifer Still-Schiff

                                                                                                                                                           Kulanu: Powerful Educational
SE N I OR R A B B I S            OFFICERS 2020-2021                EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE        TRUSTEES EX-OFFICIO          H ONOR A RY
                                                                                                                           V IC E P R E SI DE N T S
                                                                                                                                                      12   Experiences in Person and Online
                                                                                                                                                           By Rabbi Amy Roth
                                                                                                                                                                                              26      Sweet Treats
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Compiled by Sheri ArbitalJacoby
Meir Feldman                                                       MEMBERS-AT-LARGE
Tara Feldman                     P R E SI DE N T                   Leslie Abrams,             P R E SI DE N T OF           Howard J. Herman
                                 Gary Slobin                       Past President             B ROT H E R HO OD            William K. Peirez
                                                                                                                                                           Netivot: Our New Pathway for               Puzzle: Agatha Schvitzy in
                                                                                                                                                      14                                      30
C A N TOR                                                          Franklin S. Abrams,        Matthew Moshen
Adam Davis                       V I C E P R E SI DE N T
                                                                   Past President
                                                                                                                                                           Student and Family Engagement              Fright at the Jewseum!
                                 Sheila Aronson                                               SI ST E R HO OD C HA I R S   HONOR A RY T RU ST E E S        By David Woolfe                            By Len Schiff
                                                                   Ronald M. Epstein,
RABBI EMERITUS                                                                                Sandy Lubert                 David A. Cantor
                                                                   Immediate Past President
Jerome K. Davidson, DD           V I C E P R E SI DE N T                                      Rochelle Rosenbloom          Louise Feldman
                                 Doug Bernstein                                               Judi Rosenzweig              Ann Finkelstein                 Keeping Our Building—
C A N TOR E M E R I TA
Lisa R. Hest                     V I C E P R E SI DE N T
                                 Stuart Lempert
                                                                   BOARD OF TRUSTEES
                                                                   2020-2021
                                                                   Andrew Aaron
                                                                                              Jennifer Still-Schiff

                                                                                              P R E SI DE N T S
                                                                                                                           Cindy Gold
                                                                                                                           Alan Greene
                                                                                                                           Shari Isacowitz
                                                                                                                                                      15   and Our Community—Secure
                                                                                                                                                           By Stuart Botwinick
                                                                                                                                                                                              33      Preplanning at Beth Moses
                                                                                                                                                                                                      Cemetery
E X E C U T I V E DI R E C TOR                                     Sheila Aronson             OF C LU B C HA I
                                                                                                                           Gloria Landsberg
Stuart Botwinick                 V I C E P R E SI DE N T
                                                                   Doug Bernstein             Ann Finkelstein                                              Reopening Safely with Guidance
                                                                                                                           Jerry Landsberg
                                 Jordana Levine                                               Ellen Permut

                                                                                                                                                      16                                      36
                                                                   Joanne Davis                                            Linda Rice                      from the Medical Advisory
DI R E C TOR OF
                                                                   Stuart Lempert                                          Bobbie Rosenzweig                                                          Who We Are
E A R LY C H I L DH O OD         V I C E P R E SI DE N T
                                                                   Jordana Levine             PAST P R E SI DE N T S
                                                                                                                           Amy Spielman
                                                                                                                                                           Committee
E D U C AT I ON                  Barbara Podwall                                              Marjorie B. Kurcias
                                                                   Felisa Myer                                                                             By Dr. David Podwall
Vicki Perler, MS SAS                                                                                                       Michael Zarin
                                                                   Barbara Podwall            Stephen G. Limmer
                                 F I NA NC IA L SE C R E TA RY
                                                                   Philip Ross                Roger Tilles
E D U C ATOR                     Andrew Aaron

                                                                                                                                                      17   Vaccinations: Time for Hope
                                                                   David Schwartz             Shelley M. Limmer
David Woolfe                                                                                                               SH E M A
                                                                   Lawrence Siegel            Franklin S. Abrams                                           By Dr. Maurice Policar
                                 SE C R E TA RY                                                                            Sheri ArbitalJacoby,
DI R E C TOR OF                                                    Danna Sobiecki             Nina Koppelman
                                 Randi Weiler                                                                              Managing Editor
C ON G R E G AT I ONA L                                            Jennifer Still-Schiff      Leslie Abrams
                                                                                                                           Leslie Abrams and
E N G AG E M E N T               T R E ASU R E R                   Gary Slobin                Ronald M. Epstein
                                                                                                                           Howard J. Herman,
Jaqui Wadsworth                  Philip Ross                       David Sutin                                             Proofreaders
                                                                   Grant Toch
                                                                   Peter Tufel
                                                                   Randi Weiler
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WHAT COVID-19 TAUGHT ME

                                               that we could manage on our own. We                Listen again to the song. Hanan ben      coffee, hand us a newspaper or a bus
                                               could outsmart, outmaneuver anything.           Ari reminds us of something else: We’re     pass and those who say hello to us
                                                  Our buildings were so tall—and not           wise. We’re right. We know the answers.     on the streets. This is the lesson
                                               just in space but in time, as well.             We’re so darn certain, self-confident,      of COVID-19.
                                               We built skyscrapers in our calendars.          maybe dangerously arrogant. We were            Try, try harder, to expect less.
                                               Not a single brick of time was open;            fine, great, before COVID-19—and            Our expectations were so high. As
                                               no crack appeared between our
                                               meetings and trips. No windows opened
                                                                                               there was nothing higher than us.
                                                                                                  “Until you came along
                                                                                                                                           Hanan ben Ari sings: “We thought
                                                                                                                                           we’d won it all. We built tall buildings.”
                                                                                                                                                                                        ‫ געגועים לבני אדם‬LONGING FOR
                                               between social commitments and                     And infected us                          We traveled to every vacation spot,                    ‫ ארי בן חנן‬OTHER HUMANS
                                               entertainment opportunities.                       And drove us mad                         ate at every restaurant. But notice, the
                                               Our calendars were strong and solid—               And confined us                          problem wasn’t really the trips, the                                         BY HANAN BEN ARI
                                               completely booked.                                 And confused us                          buildings, the meals, the parties.
BY RABBI                                          We almost forgot about time—to                  And frightened us                        The problem was more subtle—it was
                                                                                                                                                                                                ‫כבר חשבנו ניצחנו הכל‬    We thought we’ve already won it all
MEIR FELDMAN                                                                                                                                                                                     ‫מגדלים בשמיים בנינו‬    Made buildings that reach the sky
                                               be together, to be quiet, to be calm, to           Who are you?”                            our expectations. We thought: I have
                                                                                                                                                                                             ?‫ מי צריך בן אדם‬,‫בן אדם‬    Man, who needs people?
                                               just be. I, for one, was determined that           Hanan ben Ari says that hidden           no choice. I have to go. I deserve this.
                                                                                                                                                                                              ‫לא יבוא עוד מבול בימינו‬   Another flood won’t come nowadays.
                                               I could be everywhere and celebrate             within our madness, confusion and           I need it. But it’s not true. It’s not
                                               everything. I wasn’t worried about doing        terror is hope, even blessing. What have    healthy. We don’t need it all. We do

W
                                                                                                                                                                                                 ‫לעולם לעולם לא ניפול‬   We will never ever fall
              hat has COVID-19 taught          too much. But I was (and we were)               we learned? Are more buildings, in time     have a choice.
                                                                                                                                                                                                ‫ נסתדר בעצמנו‬,‫תעזוב‬     Drop it, we’ll be fine on our own
              me? That’s the theme of this     wrong. The first lesson of COVID-19 is          and space, the answer? Will more things        Expect less, suggests Hanan ben
                                                                                                                                                                                                ‫ נכונים וצודקים‬,‫חכמים‬   Wise, correct and just
              edition of the Shema.            to do a little less and expect a little less.   cure our woes—solve the epidemic of         Ari. And what will happen? We quite
                                                                                                                                                                                                 ‫וכלום לא נמצא מעלינו‬   And nothing is above us.
   I am happy to share what I have                Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel                 fear and frailty, depression and anxiety?   possibly will receive more—more
learned in this last year. But for starters,   suggests that we Jews are unique in                “How you’ve brought back the sanity      goodness and kindness, more warmth
                                                                                                                                                                                                           ‫עד שבאת‬      Until you came along
I have a request—please spend 107              what we build. We Jews build cathedrals            Longing for other humans                 and friendship.
                                                                                                                                                                                                            ‫והדבקת‬      And infected us
seconds and listen to a beautiful song by      in time. Even more important than                  The loneliness aches suddenly               The singer closes with this (maybe
                                                                                                                                                                                                             ‫ושגעת‬      And drove us mad
Hanan ben Ari, one of Israel’s beloved         tall towers, strong structures in space,           We no longer fly from here to there      listen one last time).
                                                                                                                                                                                                            ‫והסגרת‬      And confined us
singer-songwriters. You can find the           we build cathedrals in time. The first             All the parks are closed                    “Soon this would all end
                                                                                                                                                                                                            ‫ובלבלת‬      And confused us
video with Hebrew and English subtitles        time in the Torah when God uses the                Weddings are almost empty                   And I’m asking you, if I may
                                                                                                                                                                                                            ‫והבהלת‬      And frightened us
at www.thejewishinsights.com/wp/               word kadosh, sacred, is in sanctifying             We’ve almost lost ourselves                 That on the morning, after you leave
                                                                                                                                                                                                            ?‫מי את‬      Who are you?
hanan-ben-ari-gaaguim-livnei-adam/.            time—Shabbat, the seventh day. It isn’t            We’ve almost stopped feeling.”              We won’t be the same again.”
   The title of the song is “Ga’agu’im         a building or a person or a place that             COVID-19—and Hanan ben Ari—                 What is he saying? Are you clear?
                                                                                                                                                                                              ‫איך החזרת את השפיות‬       How you’ve brought back the sanity
Livnei Adam—‫—געגועים לבני אדם‬                  the Torah calls sacred. No king or castle,      have taught me, reminded me, about the      I’m not. What is his prayer? That we’re
                                                                                                                                                                                                    ‫געגועים לבני אדם‬    Longing for other humans
Longing for People.” It begins by              no sports stadium or vacation destination       one primary lesson. The best cure is        able to go back to the way things were—
                                                                                                                                                                                              ‫פתאום שורפת הבדידות‬       The loneliness aches suddenly
reminding us how confident we all were         is declared kadosh, holy.                       the human bond, personal connection.        to the good ol’ days? Is he implying
                                                                                                                                                                                              ‫כבר לא טסים מפה לשם‬       We no longer fly from here to there
before COVID-19.                                  What is sacred for us Jews? Time.            Our ga’agu’im, our longing for people,      that we won’t be again as we were
                                                                                                                                                                                                  ‫כל הפארקים נעולים‬     All the parks are closed
   “We thought we’ve already won it all           Cathedrals in time remind me to              is the greatest takeaway for me.            during this wretched year of COVID-19
                                                                                                                                                                                               ‫חתונות כמעט בלי איש‬      Weddings are almost empty
   Made buildings that reach the sky           expect less, to build less, to try to do           It’s time with our children and          or that we won’t be again as we were in
   Man, who needs people?                      less. As the great Jewish spiritualist          spouse or significant other, with parents   the years leading up to COVID-19?
                                                                                                                                                                                               ‫כמעט איבדנו את עצמנו‬     We’ve almost lost ourselves
   Another flood won’t come nowadays.          Sylvia Boorstein put it: “Don’t just do         and siblings and family. It’s time with     The difference is important. What
                                                                                                                                                                                                ‫כמעט הפסקנו להרגיש‬      We’ve almost stopped feeling.
   We will never ever fall                     something, sit there.” And who knows, if        friends who we haven’t seen. It’s the       are we asking for? Hanan ben Ari has
   Drop it, we’ll be fine on our own           we expect less we just might receive more       celebrations—and also the losses—           an opinion, an answer to this question,
                                                                                                                                                                                               ‫עוד מעט זה הכל ייגמר‬     Soon this would all end
   Wise, correct and just                      in return. Our fundamental COVID-19             together, with hugs and coffee cups.        but he wants each of us to decide
                                                                                                                                                                                                ‫ואני מבקש אם אפשר‬       And I’m asking you, if I may
   And nothing is above us.”                   lesson is about simple, soft, quiet,            And it’s also the brief moments of          for ourselves.
                                                                                                                                                                                                ‫שבבוקר אחרי שתלכי‬       That on the morning, after you leave
   Hanan ben Ari is a bit of a prophet.        personal time with loved ones and with          kindness and care with the people who          What are your lessons from this year
                                                                                                                                                                                              ‫לא נהיה שוב אותו הדבר‬     We won’t be the same again.
Before COVID-19, so many of us felt            random helpers and strangers, as well.          cut us a slice of pizza, pour us a cup of   of COVID-19?

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                                                                         THE IMPOSSIBLE
                                                                         are granted the opportunity to let go of    Sleeping outside in a sukkah in Jerusalem
                                                                         preconceived notions and to imagine         pushes Rabbi Tara out of her comfort zone
                                                                         what could be.                              to experience the change of the seasons
                                                                                                                     in new ways, to befriend a few mosquitos          “Wishing Tree” in a field overlooking the
                                                                            This year of living through a global     and to consider the impossible heights           American Embassy holds a message of
                                                                         pandemic has imposed incredible             of the stars above.                              hope for the coming year: “A good year
                                                                         restrictions on us all. As we face the                                                       for all humanity, health and abundance
                                                                         reality of COVID-19, humanity has                                                            without corona.”
                                                                         been humbled. Yet, even with the
                                                                         heartbreaking toll that this virus has
                                                                         inflicted, the loss of human life and so                                                                                                       A rainbow arches over Jerusalem’s skyline.
                                                                         much more, COVID-19 has opened
                                                                         new possibilities.
BY RABBI                                                                    Like our people passing through the
TARA FELDMAN                                                             Sea of Reeds, we are experiencing an
                                                                         utterly new reality: new ways to connect;
                                                                         new ways to move through time; new
  ‫ל־הּיָ ם וַ ּיֹולֶ ְך יְ הוָ ה‬
                              ַ ַ‫וַ ּיֵ ט מ ֶֹׁשה ֶאת־יָ דֹו ע‬
                                                                         ways to think about life, our priorities
‫ל־הּלַ יְ לָ ה וַ ּיָ ֶׂשם‬
                       ַ ָ‫רּוח ָק ִדים עַ ּזָ ה ּכ‬  ַ ‫ת־הּיָ ם ְּב‬
                                                               ַ ‫ֶא‬      and our future. As in ancient times when
           ‫ת־הּיָ ם לֶ ָח ָר ָבה וַ ָּיִּב ְקעּו ַה ָּמיִ ם׃‬
                                                         ַ ‫ֶא‬            we embarked on our freedom journey,
    ‫וַ ּיָ בֹאּו ְבנֵ י־יִ ְׂש ָר ֵאל ְּבתֹוְך ַהּיָ ם ַּב ָּיַּב ָׁשה‬   we face the unknown and “lean in” to
 ‫ּומ ְּׂשמֹאלָ ם׃‬       ִ ‫וְ ַה ַּמיִ ם לָ ֶהם ח ָֹמה ִמ ִימינָ ם‬        the impossible.
                                                                            Personally, the pandemic has
  And Moses stretched out his hand over                                  necessitated my remaining in
   the sea, and God drove back the sea                                   Jerusalem, for an extended period,
                                                                                                                                                                      Thousands of volunteers gather on Israel’s
   with a strong east wind all that night                                working virtually. (Even one year ago,                                                       beaches to clean the devastating results of       Volunteers remove remnants of the
 and turned the sea into dry land and the                                who would have thought this                                                                  a late February oil spill in the Mediterranean.   February oil spill.                          Jerusalem was hit with a spring snowstorm.
             waters were split.                                          was possible?!)
                                                                            As always, I have been amazed by         As Israel leads the word in vaccination rates,
 And the Israelites went into the sea on                                 the ways in which Israelis confront         Rabbi Tara and her son are vaccinated.
dry ground, the waters forming a wall for                                the seas of limitation and seek to
  them on their right and on their left.                                 part impossible waters. The images
                                                                         shared here capture the essence of this
                  —Exodus 14:21–22                                       spirit, which I have experienced in
                                                                         recent months. I share them to offer
                                                                         inspiration, as we continue to move

F
       rom Passover onward,                                              through this challenging time.
       springtime challenges our                                            May each of us find the strength and
       expectations of the possible. If                                  support to live with hope, opening our
our people can walk through a sea on                                     hearts and minds so that we can see
dry ground, then—perhaps—the world                                       the world in new ways, knowing that
is not quite so narrow, not quite as                                     we will travel through this time
limited as it may have appeared to be                                    together and emerge on the other shore      On Kibbutz Ramat Rachel in Jerusalem,                                                                                                           Two weeks after this Jerusalem
in Egypt or in the dark days of winter.                                  with renewed perspective, resilience        olive trees—an ancient symbol emblematic                                                                                                        neighborhood was covered in snow,
As spring awakens into summer, we                                        and gratitude.                              of the Holy Land—are planted atop pillars.       In the Dead Sea, the lowest point on earth, a human body floats upward.                        flowers bloom.

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CANTOR’S NOTES                                                                           ENRICHING OUTDOOR CLASSROOMS
                                              THAT WAS QUITE                                                                           OFFER SEASONS OF MEMORIES
                                              A RECEPTION                                                                              BY VICKI PERLER, DIRECTOR OF EARLY CHILDHOOD EDUCATION

                                              extremely aware of actually, physically      Torah Celebration Project inaugurated
                                              receiving: a vaccine for COVID-19.           in March. This amazing Torah has
                                                 An interesting connection exists          been a force for guiding the lives of
                                              here, as well. We’ve all been overjoyed      Jews for more than 500 years, and we
                                              to see family, friends and members           have received it into our community’s
                                              of our community receiving their             loving arms.
                                              vaccinations. Appropriately, we’ve even         It is incredible that we can connect
                                              seen brachot to recite when receiving a      to it and to Jews who lived hundreds
                                              vaccine. Why not? In Judaism, nothing        of years ago, thousands of miles away,
                                              is more precious than the life we have       by receiving and immersing ourselves
                                              been given! As we hear stories of our        in the words it contains. What does it
BY CANTOR                                     community getting vaccinated, we are         mean, l’kabel divrei Torah, to receive
ADAM DAVIS                                    aware both of the amazing gift of life we    words of Torah? Or better still, l’asok
                                              have received as well as our joy for all     b’divrei Torah, to immerse in words of
                                              the lives being saved.                       Torah? Or even greater, to find one’s own

E
        very week, the Jewish people             There is another, more familiar gift we   word in Torah?
        participate in an amazing ritual:     receive that is both concept and object in      As our Torah Celebration Project
        Kabbalat Shabbat, the receiving       Jewish tradition: the gift of Torah. A       unfolds, we will journey through classes
of Shabbat. What is fascinating is that       Sefer Torah is, of course, a physical        exploring the exciting history of our
we don’t receive a physical object but,       object—ink painstakingly handwritten         ancient Sephardic Torah. At the same
rather, an idea. We welcome Shabbat           on rolls of parchment attached to            time, we will journey into our own souls,
in metaphorical language, of weddings         wooden staves. Torah, however, is also a     with the Torah as our guide, to seek out
and receiving a bride. We take part in        form of received wisdom and the              the words of Torah that give meaning to
this weekly wedding reception, an event       compiled generations of lessons taught       our lives. We can’t receive those words
inherently interwoven with joy.               to our people throughout the ages. It is     into our hearts until we find them.
   Some of us are also aware of the           not by accident that the root word of           We look forward to taking that
similarly named Jewish mystical               Torah is shared with that of the words       journey alongside you and for you to
tradition, Kabbalah. Both share the           for parent, horah, and teacher, morah.       eventually experience this amazing
same Hebrew root word—K-B-L—                  Torah is more than a book. It is             Torah up close and personal, help you
for receiving. It was, after all, the         inherited learning, passed down through      discover your dvar, your word, so you
Kabbalists who created the idea of            the generations.                             can receive it in your heart.
Kabbalat Shabbat from the book of                Torah, then, is not merely our stories,
Jewish mysticism, the Zohar, which            history and laws. It is a compendium of
centers on received wisdom. Thus, we          how to find our way through this world.                                                  W IT H AN ABUNDANCE O F SPACE around the Temple Beth-El campus, the
find another, related and beautiful link      It speaks to us and remains compelling,
                                                                                                                                       Early Childhood Education Center successfully created outdoor classrooms
between conceptual receiving in Jewish
tradition—this time in wisdom.
                                              because in every generation we have
                                              turned it again and again to discover the
                                                                                           “We will journey into
                                                                                                                                       for each class. The opportunities for our young children to engage with nature
   Judaism does not overlook the              relevance of its teachings in our             our own souls to seek out                  were vast, and there were endless possibilities for exploration. The stimulation
importance of receiving physical objects.     own lives.
The idea at the center of reciting brachot,      Temple Beth-El is incredibly blessed       the words of Torah that                    and creativity with friends outside provided all of us with strength and
blessings, is to acknowledge the many         to have in its collection of scrolls one
gifts we receive every day. There’s one       very special ancient Sephardic Torah,         give meaning to our lives.”                resilience, excitement, laughter and happiness—as we immersed ourselves in a
thing of late that we have all been           which we are honoring through the                                                        world of wonder and new discoveries. ▶

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                              RESTORING AND
                              BUILDING RESILIENCE
                              IN OUR YOUTH
                              BY DR. VICTOR M. FORNARI
                              Parents and teachers are faced with the challenging task of discussing
                              COVID-19 with their children and adolescents. As these issues impact
                              everyone, we need to be mindful of how to restore and build resilience in our
                              youth during stressful times. The following tips offer valuable guidance for
                              interacting with our children.
                               1. First and foremost, create an open and supportive environment
                                   where all children know they can ask questions. At the same time, it is
                                   wise not to force kids to ask questions or discuss issues until they are
                                   ready to do so.
                               2. Answer questions honestly. Trust is important now, in order to reassure
                                   your child in the future.
                               3. Gear your explanations to the age and developmental level of your child.
                               4. Help children find out accurate information from the Centers for Disease
                                   Control, so they know where the guidance is coming from.
                               5. Be prepared to repeat information as often as is needed.
                               6. Validate the child’s thoughts, feelings and reactions. You could say, “I
                                   know that it’s really hard not being able to go to your friend’s house.”
                               7. Remember that children will hear what is said, and they may worry about
                                   their own safety as well as the safety of others.
                               8. Be reassuring, but do not make unrealistic statements.
                               9. Children learn by watching their parents and teachers, and they learn
                                   from listening to conversations between adults.
                              10. Do not leave the television or radio on while the news is being broadcast.
                                   This may be frightening and disturbing.
                              11. Youth who have experienced serious illness or losses may be particularly
                                   vulnerable to prolonged reactions and may require additional attention
                                   or support.
                              12. Children who seem overly preoccupied or have significant changes in
                                   their functioning, such as changes in sleep, appetite or mood, may benefit
                                   from an evaluation by a trained mental-health professional. Ask your
                                   child’s pediatrician or family physician for a referral.
                                 Public health emergencies are not easy for anyone to understand or accept.
                              We can help by listening and responding honestly in a supportive fashion.
                              Fortunately, most children will be quite resilient.

                                                    Congregant Victor M. Fornari, MD, MS, is director,
                                                    Division of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, and professor
                                                    of Psychiatry & Pediatrics, Zucker School of Medicine at
                                                    Hofstra/Northwell. These suggestions from the American
                                                    Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry offer a
                                                    follow up to his talk during Temple Beth-El’s High Holy
                                                    Days services.

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KULANU: POWERFUL EDUCATIONAL
                                                                                                                                                      This page, clockwise from top left: Rabbi Meir lights Chanukah candles during a technologically
                                                                                                                                                      engineered multi-location celebration. Cantor Adam leads some Chanukah fun. Sukkot is
                                                                                                                                                      celebrated with the Lulav and Etrog. Gimmel children learn about Israelite slavery, as they

EXPERIENCES IN PERSON AND ONLINE                                                                                                                      reenact making bricks. Games and learning take place in all settings. The school year is kicked
                                                                                                                                                      off with song and prayer. Pupils recite prayers over the Lulav and Etrog during Sukkot.
                                                                                                                                                      Religious school students are welcomed to Kulanu with ice cream treats. Rabbi Tara shares an
                                                                                                                                                      amazing shofar blast during the month of Elul.

                                              each week. They attend Kulanu                  program. These students participate in                      For our Chanukah celebration, we              Engagement. This course of study is
                                              on-site at Temple Israel once a week,          the semi-private Hebrew Zoom classes                     utilized technology. Grades four through         designed to foster connections and
                                              where they learn, pray and gather as           as well as a once-a-week Judaica class                   six gathered in two large locations,             relationships and to inspire continued
                                              a community.                                   on Zoom.                                                 where we were able to see each other on          commitment to the program during
                                                 Both Temple Israel and Temple Beth-            Our Kulanu Education Committee,                       a giant screen, and parents were invited         these crucial adolescent years.
                                              El clergy are a presence as tefilla (prayer)   comprised of lay leaders from both                       to participate in our candle lighting               This new joint venture has proven to
                                              educators for the various classes. Once        synagogues along with David Woolfe                       via Zoom.                                        be an overwhelming success.
                                              a week, Kulanu students do a “deep             and me, was able to meet in person—                         We celebrated Purim in a most                    “Kulanu has provided a safe,
                                              dive” into Hebrew literacy, proficiency        outside, with masks and distanced—                       unusual way, too. We held Maccabiah              nurturing learning environment during
                                              and practice with a semi-private Zoom          in the fall and has now transitioned to                  games (color war) for kindergarten               the pandemic,” says Gabby Verkman,
                                              Hebrew class consisting of two or three        Zoom meetings.                                           through sixth graders with a Purim               a Temple Beth-El member and Kulanu
                                              children per class.                               Festivities foster engagement. Our in-                theme. Prior to the actual event, each           Education Committee member.
                                                 The combination of in-person and            person students celebrate Rosh Hodesh                    child was assigned to blue (Esther) or           “My daughter’s Hebrew has improved
                                              remote learning affords the children the       (each new Hebrew month) together, with                   red (Mordechai) teams. We gathered as            extensively during this time.”
                                              opportunity to connect with their peers        spirit, music and fun. We learn about                    a full community to kick off the event,             Lauren Juceam, a Kulanu
                                              and develop a sense of camaraderie with        the upcoming month and its holidays,                     then we divided up into age cohorts              Education Committee cochair
BY RABBI AMY ROTH,                            their classmates, chemistry with their         reinforce customs and values, and                        for scavenger hunts, trivia contests and         and Temple Israel member, agrees.
DIRECTOR OF                                   teachers and individualized attention in       sing “Yom Huledet Sameach” (“Happy                       art competitions.                                “Kulanu offers the best of both
KULANU RELIGIOUS                              Hebrew reading and prayer-book literacy.       Birthday”) to those celebrating during                      Kulanu also includes our twice-a-             traditions, merging them under one
SCHOOL                                           Kulanu also has 15 children who             that month. Of course, the students love                 week seventh-grade program, which                roof into a Judaism that is vibrant,
                                              are engaged in a fully remote learning         the raffle prizes offered at each gathering.             is run by Avi Siegel, director of Teen           authentic and educational.”

K
         ulanu Religious School, the
         new joint educational venture
         of Temple Beth-El and Temple
Israel, became a reality this past
September. Our aptly named school,
Kulanu (which means “all of us”), fosters
ruach (spirit) and love of Judaism
through powerful learning experiences.
   We kicked off the school year with an
ice cream social in the Temple Israel tent.
The Mister Softee ice cream truck, along
with chalk art and socially distanced
reconnecting, made for a delicious, fun
gathering—the perfect way to start the
sweetness of Jewish learning.
   As part of our current COVID-19
reality, we made the necessary
changes to our learning routines and
environment. Kulanu children in first
through sixth grades participate in               Purim-themed Maccabiah games encourage children to dress and decorate their backgrounds by color.
two days of formal Jewish education

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OUR NEW PATHWAY                                                                           KEEPING OUR BUILDING—
                                             FOR STUDENT AND                                                                           AND OUR COMMUNITY—SECURE
                                             FAMILY ENGAGEMENT                                                                         BY STUART BOTWINICK

                                                                                                                                       S
                                             called Netivot. Meaning “paths” or          SIXTH GRADE                                           afety and security have become             all who enter our temple home. Key                  and limited the sharing of online event
                                             “pathways,” Netivot is designed to foster   Netivot provides monthly family                       an even more formidable                    fobs and door codes are now required                links. Some of our safety protocols
                                             relationships among school-age families,    education for sixth-grade families. The               responsibility of the Temple               for entry. Throughout the years,                    and preparations are less obvious and
                                             TBE clergy and professionals, as they       programming brings together Temple            Beth-El of Great Neck leadership                   security cameras and access-control                 won’t be visible to most TBE members.
                                             journey the pathway to the b’nei mitzvah    Beth-El students and their families for       and staff during the past five years.              systems have been added so that we are              These measures are meant to provide
                                             experience and into Jewish adulthood.       Jewish experiential sessions designed         The physical protection of our members             prepared for emergency situations.                  deterrence and protection.
                                             Netivot are the pathways that we at         to enrich Jewish learning and skills,         and holy building—along with our                                                                          As part of our ongoing plans to
                                             TBE look forward to walking with our        strengthen the bond students and              virtual safety as many of our programs                                                                 secure our building, several visible
                                             students and families.                      families feel toward TBE and hone the         and services have shifted online                                                                       changes will be made to our facility
                                                Netivot, tikkun olam and the Kulanu      practical skills that our students will use   during the pandemic—have required                  “These upgrades will                                this spring. Three sets of exit doors
                                             Religious School are the pillars by which   as they prepare for b’nei mitzvah and a       greater attention.                                                                                     will be replaced: those near the
                                             we educate our students and families,       meaningful, engaged Jewish adulthood.            Fortunately, both federal and state             not only strengthen our                             original Old Mill Road Rudin Chapel
BY DAVID WOOLFE                                                                                                                        governments have recognized the threat                                                                 entrance, the ones on our mezzanine
                                             providing them with the tools for
                                             meaningful lifelong Jewish experience,
                                                                                            Our monthly programs are staffed
                                                                                         by and designed to strengthen the             and have assumed the responsibility to             security but will provide                           level near the Rudin Garden outdoor
                                                                                                                                       provide financial support and guidance                                                                 staircase and the exterior lobby doors
   “Her ways are ways of pleasantness,       engagement and learning at all levels.      relationship between our students, families
                                                                                                                                       to nonprofit and religious institutions
                                                                                                                                                                                          an updated aesthetic                                at the main sanctuary entrance on
  and all her paths (netivot) are whole.”                                                and Temple Beth-El clergy and staff.
             —Proverbs 3:17                  SEVENTH GRADE                                                                             like ours. While these federal and
                                                                                                                                       state dollars are helpful, they are limited.
                                                                                                                                                                                          to our entryways.                                   Old Mill Road.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 These upgrades will not only
                                             The Netivot program brings our seventh      FIFTH GRADE
                                             graders into Temple Beth-El each            Like our sixth-grade programming,             We rely on our members’ annual                                                                         strengthen our security but will provide

W
               hen Temple Beth-El            Tuesday evening from 5:30 to 7 p.m.,        Netivot for our fifth-grade families seeks    commitment to cover new ongoing                                                                        an updated aesthetic to our entryways.
               partnered with Temple         where they are taught about Jewish          to create a learning community between        safety and security costs.                            To ensure that only the right people             Watch for these and other improvements
               Israel to form our            identity, Jewish ritual participation and   clergy, staff and families. With learning        Some of Temple Beth-El’s changes and            can easily access our offerings, we                 as we continue to enhance our building’s
combined Kulanu Religious School,            the skills required for significant text    projects and engagement, our experiential     improvements have been visible to                  recently refreshed our mailing lists                safety measures.
our vision included bringing the power       inquiry by Cantor Adam, Rabbi Meir,         sessions will be meaningful for our fifth
of Beth-El’s unique energy and gifts to      Rabbi Tara and educator David Woolfe.       graders and their families. These programs
that union. Our community’s mission          Our goal is to use these learning           will take place every six to eight weeks.
has remained consistent with the call of     sessions to train our students to become
the prophets—to deliver justice and to       active Jewish leaders in all aspects of     FIRST TO FOURTH GRADE
work continually toward the ongoing          their Jewish lives and experience.          Families of our younger students will
perfection of the world.                        In many ways, the seventh grade is a     be invited to participate in one or two
   Our commitment to tikkun olam is a        culminating time in our students’ lives.    programs each year. These sessions
particularly important contribution to       With bar and bat mitzvah, they stand        will focus on home and family ritual
Kulanu. In addition to bringing social       on a plateau and are able to envision       experiences, making Jewish learning fun
action content and opportunity to the        a meaningful way forward into their         and meaningful for every member of
Kulanu Religious School, we continue to      Jewish adulthood. We look forward to        the family.
fulfill our vision and commitment to our     standing alongside them—and then
Beth-El students and families with the       going forward with them!                    Learning (kulanu), repairing the world
ongoing engagement and embrace of our           We also recognize that for the bar       (tikkun olam) and being embraced by a
temple community.                            and bat mitzvah experience to be            caring, loving community (netivot) are
   To further this commitment, we are        truly valuable and meaningful for our       the commitments Temple Beth-El makes
excited to introduce our program for         students and their families, we must        to our students and families. We share
family and student engagement at Beth-       devote care and attention to the years      an incredible journey together. May all
                                                                                                                                       As part of our ongoing plans to secure our building, three sets of exit doors will be replaced this spring.
El, with Beth-El clergy and professionals,   preceding the seventh grade.                our paths be smooth!

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REOPENING SAFELY                                                                                                                         VACCINATIONS:
WITH GUIDANCE FROM THE                                                                                                                   TIME FOR HOPE
MEDICAL ADVISORY COMMITTEE                                                                                                               BY DR. MAURICE POLICAR

                                                                                                                                         M
BY DAVID PODWALL, MD                                                                                                                                ore than a year after the           variant, or B117 strain. This variant is 60
                                                                                                                                                    explosion of COVID-19 cases         percent more contagious and 67 percent
                                                                                                                                                    hit New York, real hope for         more deadly than the original virus.
                                                                                                                                         some control of this pandemic has finally      That means this strain spreads more easily
                                                                                                                                         arrived. Along with other measures,            and results in more illness and death in

                                                A
                                                          t the height of the pandemic when we were in lockdown, Temple Beth-El          vaccines are the key to reclaiming our         unvaccinated people.
                                                          leadership began asking questions about how to reopen once it was allowed.     right to a more “normal” life.                    Infections in younger, unvaccinated
                                                          This led to the formation of the Medical Advisory Committee, comprised of          The success of a vaccine is measured in    individuals are resulting in more
                                                temple members who are physicians.                                                       various ways. Does it prevent infection?       hospitalizations, even in those
                                                   The medical doctors invited to participate represent various specialties and belong   Does it prevent or reduce spread? Does         without other underlying illnesses. An
                                                to different health systems. I head the committee that includes my wife, Dr. Barbara     it prevent severe illness, hospitalization     increasing number of younger people           beginning of the pandemic is that this
                                                Podwall, as well as Drs. Elizabeth Mirro, David Sutin, Maurice Policar and Paul Levin.   and death? The great news is that all          are being admitted to hospitals with          virus can act in unpredictable ways.
                                                   Using our knowledge, as well as the latest information from the Centers for           vaccines currently used in the United          the coronavirus, more than during any         Factor in new variants, which spread
                                                Disease Control and medical societies (some that I am privy to as a Nassau County        States are essentially 100 percent effective   other time throughout the pandemic.           more easily and may infect those who
                                                Medical Society board member), our goal is to provide the best guidance to the TBE       in preventing serious illness and death        Although the spread of some of these          were previously infected or vaccinated,
                                                Board of Trustees.                                                                       in those who are fully vaccinated.             variants is concerning, the strategy          and the message about continuing the
                                                   Once Governor Andrew Cuomo allowed in-person events, the committee came               Vaccines not only prevent illness and          to vaccinate as many individuals as           proven precautions makes sense—at
                                                up with a safety plan for participants and attendees of the June b’nei mitzvah and       death but also greatly decrease the risk of    possible, as quickly as possible, is still    least for now. The suggestions to use
                                                the temple staff. We reviewed protocols and determined what personal protective          asymptomatic infection and reduce the          the best way out of this pandemic.            caution and be vigilant are well-founded.
                                                equipment would be needed.                                                               infectiousness of the few individuals who         Overall, the news is good, and things         I believe that it is our responsibility to
                                                   The temple was able to significantly upgrade the heating, ventilation and air         do become infected.                            are looking better. We are all missing the    be vaccinated when eligible—not just for
                                                conditioning system with multi-spectrum ultraviolet germicidal irradiation lamps in          The available vaccines are amazingly       connections that give so much meaning         ourselves, but for our family and friends,
                                                the main sanctuary.                                                                      safe. If you are eligible to receive one,      to our lives. Does this mean we can ease      and for all those who are not vaccinated.
                                                   As fall 2020 approached and larger groups were allowed, we implemented detailed       there is almost no reason to decline           up and relax? At what point is it fine to        The concept of pikuach nefesh reminds
                                                safety protocols to allow larger groups to attend both b’nei mitvzah and some general    it. Vaccines cannot cause COVID-19.            say, “Forget the masks and distancing?”       us that saving a human life should take
                                                congregation events. These changes were evident to those who enjoy our services          They do not change our DNA and do                 People often ask me for advice about       priority over everything. Each and every
                                                remotely, as enforced mask wearing, social distancing and the addition of Plexiglas      not cause infertility. Serious allergic        what activities are acceptable once           one of us has a responsibility to preserve
                                                barriers could be clearly seen.                                                          reactions to the Pfizer and Moderna            vaccinated. The call for continued            the sanctity of life, our own and that
                                                   One of our true success stories has been our Early Childhood Education Center.        vaccines are rare and treatable.               precautions seems to defy logic at times.     of others. Please get vaccinated. Please
                                                Under the leadership of Director Vicki Perler, the committee designed a safety plan          The J&J vaccine is associated with a       We talk about how the vaccines can            help to spread positive messages about
                                                that allowed our Early Childhood Education Center to continue in-person learning         risk of serious blood clots in less than       protect people, and at the same time          vaccination. Please continue to mask
Barbara and David Podwall share their
medical expertise as part of Temple Beth-El’s
                                                with minimal distractions.                                                               two persons per million. This reaction         we suggest continuing using masks and         and distance (for now).
Medical Advisory Committee.                        Unfortunately, COVID-19 is not going away anytime soon. Guidelines and best           seems to occur mostly in women younger         avoiding large gatherings. At this point,        In the words of one of the great
                                                practices are constantly changing. By the summer, most of us may be vaccinated,          than 50. Now that the condition is better      getting together with others who are          sages of our time, Dr. Anthony Fauci,
                                                and we anticipate easy access to point of care or home testing. Our committee will       understood, doctors are able to provide        fully vaccinated seems reasonable.            “Now is the time...to care selflessly about
                                                consider these issues in order to help guide what we hope is a modified reopening        appropriate treatment. It is important            However, it is important to                one another.”
“Our committee will help                        of in-person events at TBE in the months ahead.                                          to put this in perspective: The risk of        remember that we have repeatedly
                                                                                                                                         serious blood clots is much higher from        grossly underestimated the severity           Congregant Maurice Policar, MD, is chief
 guide what we hope is                                                                                                                   COVID-19 than from the J&J vaccine.            of this pandemic. Given the                   of infectious diseases at NYC Health
                                                Congregant David Podwall, MD, practices general neurology with a subspecialty                A splash of cold water on the              continuing number of new infections,          + Hospitals/Elmhurst and assistant
 a modified reopening of                        in neuromuscular diseases at Neurological Associates of Long Island. He is a clinical    enthusiasm regarding vaccines comes            hospitalizations and deaths, it is            professor of medicine at Icahn School of
                                                assistant professor of neurology at the Zucker School of Medicine at Hofstra/            from the appearance of virus variants. The     not yet time to abandon precautions.          Medicine at Mount Sinai. He enlightened
 in-person events at TBE.”                      Northwell and an attending physician at North Shore University Hospital and              most common source of new infections              One thing that the medical                 the TBE community about infectious
                                                St. Francis Hospital.                                                                    in the United States right now is the UK       community has learned since the               diseases during the High Holy Days.

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MOVING PAST COVID-19                                                                                                                                                   WHAT REALLY MATTERS
COMPILED BY SHERI ARBITALJACOBY                                                                                                                                        enjoying and supporting each             resume her healthy life. Her difficult
                                                                                                                                                                       other, and acknowledging our talent      experience reminds the rest of us
The coronavirus has changed our lives in many ways. Our time quarantining                                                                                              for the written word. After writing      how lucky we have been to stay well.
has not only taught us some valuable lessons, including what we previously                                                                                             our own responses to each week’s            After both vaccines, we look
took for granted, but will also change how we conduct our lives going forward.                                                                                         prompt, our brains get sharpened         forward to the spontaneous
Congregants share what they’ve learned to appreciate during the past year                                                                                              a bit, as we listen to everyone else’s   encounters and last-minute plans
and how they hope to embrace life after receiving the vaccine.                                                                                                         interpretations and flow of ideas.       we’ve missed, such as dinners at
                                                                                                                                                                       We laugh a lot—and sometimes cry.        friends’ homes, trips to museums
                                                                                                                                                                          COVID-19 has taught us what           and gardens, and feeling safe. One

LESSONS LEARNED                                                                                                                                                        really matters in life. We miss
                                                                                                                                                                       holding and kissing our children and
                                                                                                                                                                                                                member described her first manicure
                                                                                                                                                                                                                and pedicure as “unbelievable!”
                                                                                                                                                                       grandchildren. Some of us are already       Even for some of us who weren’t
During the pandemic, I learned:
                                                                                                                              Throughout the pandemic, the TBE         making plans to see out-of-town          sick, switching gears after all these
⦁ I will never take for granted the smallest joys of life.
                                                                                                                              Writing Group has been meeting           family. We are more aware of the         months and getting back to our
⦁ I am grateful that my beloved mother of blessed memory left us before this
                                                                                                                              weekly on Zoom rather than monthly       need to touch the people we love.        regular lives feels scary. We’re
  hit, as she was in a nursing home for four long years.
                                                                                                                              in person. Our online meetings have      Those of us who live alone have          confused by contradictory advice
⦁ I was able to miraculously reconnect with my very best friend after a period
                                                                                                                              been the next best thing to being        become better at enjoying our own        about what we can do safely. One
  of 60 years, and we can’t wait to see each other.
                                                                                                                              together. Our friendships continue to    company. Some of us have taken up        member of our group expects
⦁ Very, very special people contacted me after years of separation.
                                                                                                                              grow, and our Zoom gatherings feel       new hobbies. Long phone calls have       to continue wearing a mask post
⦁ My students were resilient and brought me joy each and every day—and
                                                                                                                              natural. We appreciate seeing each       reconnected a few of us to relatives     pandemic. Masked or not, we all
  continue to do so. Their daily thank yous made me cry.
⦁ Miracles abound all around if you are vigilant enough to notice them.
                                                                                 MAKING                                       other’s faces without masks!             and friends who we lost touch with       look forward to meeting in person;

                                                           —Linda Goldenberg     CONSCIOUS                                       We feel that we’ve grown both
                                                                                                                              spiritually and in our writing during
                                                                                                                                                                       before the pandemic.
                                                                                                                                                                          Only one of us got the virus. She
                                                                                                                                                                                                                we even chose the brand of ice
                                                                                                                                                                                                                cream with which we’ll celebrate that
                                                                                 CHOICES                                      the pandemic. Our Zoom meetings          was quite sick and later got ill from    happy occasion.
                                                                                                                              allow us to maintain contact, continue   the vaccines. She is still working to                       —TBE Writing Group
                                                                                 As a result of the pandemic, I’ve
                                                                                 become more aware of my ability to
                                                                                 make conscious choices for myself.
                                                                                 With extra time on my hands, I’ve
                                                                                 become more careful about the food
                                                                                 I choose to eat. There’s more time to
                                                                                                                              LEAVING OUR
                                                                                 prepare a shopping list and healthy          NARROW PLACE
                                                                                 meals. With so much more leisure
                                                                                 time, it’s become clear that my default      Barbara and I are blessed to have our children and
                                                                                 activity of watching cable news is not       grandchildren living nearby. Before COVID-19, we
                                                                                 the healthiest. Don’t get me wrong, I        visited at least weekly. However, beginning in March
                                                                                 still watch the news a lot, but I now have   2020, we went months at a time without seeing them
                                                                                 the time to select and read good fiction     in person. Like many others, once vaccines became
                                                                                 and nonfiction books, which I find much      available, we spent hours on the computer vying for
                                                                                 more relaxing. Exercise is another issue.    appointments, and our persistence finally paid off. With
                                                                                 Before the pandemic it was easy to just      all the adults vaccinated, we were able to leave our
                                                                                 go to the gym. Now I have to be more         mitzrayim, our narrow place, and join with our children
                                                                                 creative to choose activities, usually       and grandchildren for a Passover Seder. We are forever
                                                                                 walking outdoors, to stay in good shape.     grateful to those at all stages of the process who brought
                                                                                 Once life returns to something closer        the vaccines to us, and, with humility, we acknowledge
                                                                                 to normal, I hope to continue to act on      the millions of people, including some of our friends, who
                                                                                 the lessons I’ve learned.                    have lost loved ones during this dreadful time.
                                               —Submitted by Dr. Karen Siegel                        —Howard J. Herman                                                —Howard J. Herman

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GIVING BACK ON MITZVAH DAY
BY JAQUI WADSWORTH
DIRECTOR OF CONGREGATIONAL ENGAGEMENT

                                                                                           food, so our Great-Full program offers
                                                                                           much-needed provisions—this time
                                                                                           for the upcoming spring break.
                                                                                              The Whitney Pond Park trail
                                                                                           restoration offered an incredible
                                                                                           morning of physical and rewarding
                                                                                           labor during the first steps in this
                                                                                           cleanup effort.

                                                                                           “We have an obligation
                                                                                           to care for others.”

                                                                                              “Restoring the nature trail has been a
                                                                                           dream for our Parks Department,” said
                                                                                           Veronica Lurvey, councilwoman for the
                                                                                           Town of North Hempstead, as well as for
                                                                                           John Darcy, deputy parks commissioner
                                                                                           for the town.
Volunteers come together to pack 40 reusable bags with snacks and lunch supplies.
                                                                                              Temple Beth-El will continue to
                                                                                           support this ongoing project with more

R
        abbi Hillel says, “If I am not for      of wisdom from Rabbi Meir and              volunteer opportunities in the future.
        myself, who will be for me? But         meaningful songs of joy from Cantor           The blood drive could not have
        if I am only for myself, what am        Adam. Afterward, our enthusiastic          gone better. Held in our oneg room, 32
I? And if not now, when?” These wise            volunteers departed for different          donors, comprised of Temple Beth-El
                                                                                                                                       This page, clockwise from top left: Great-
words teach us that while we have a             locations to begin their projects.         and Great Neck community members,           Full food packing is an ongoing mitzvah
responsibility to care for ourselves, we           Great-Full food packing, an ongoing     saved more than 100 lives.                  opportunity that provides much-needed
also have an obligation to care for others.     mitzvah opportunity that runs                 This was the first blood drive at        provisions to local families during school
                                                                                                                                       breaks. Volunteers prepare to restore the
   Caring for others is exactly what more       throughout the year, brought volunteers    Temple Beth-El since 2013—and it will       trail at Whitney Pond Park. Trail restoration
than 75 Temple Beth-El and Great Neck           together to pack 40 reusable bags with     not be the last. We look forward to our     at Whitney Pond Park offers an incredible
community members did for Mitzvah               snacks and lunch supplies—all of which     next blood drive on Giving Tuesday,         morning of physical and rewarding labor.
                                                                                                                                       Volunteers come together to pack 40 reusable
Day on Sunday, March 14. Individuals            are donated by a generous temple family.   November 30. Plan to join us.
                                                                                                                                       bags with snacks and lunch supplies. Town
and families had the opportunity to                The filled bags are brought to St.         Social action work is an important       of North Hempstead Councilwoman Veronica
give back in three different ways:              Aloysius RC Church in Great Neck           element to Temple Beth-El and our           Lurvey (far right) says that restoring the
through Great-Full food packing,                and distributed to local families who      members. The overwhelming turnout on        nature trail has been a dream for the town’s
                                                                                                                                       Parks Department. Rabbi Meir and Cantor
Whitney Pond Park trail restoration             participate in the free and reduced-cost   Mitzvah Day made this clear. Thank you      Adam welcome the volunteers. The filled
and blood donation.                             lunch program through the Great Neck       to everyone who participated. We look       bags are brought to St. Aloysius Church and
   Mitzvah Day morning began                    Public Schools. However, during school     forward to seeing you all at our future     distributed to local families. More than 100
                                                                                                                                       lives were saved thanks to those who donated
outside the temple with hopeful words           breaks the district does not provide       social action events.                       blood in the oneg room.

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MEMBER PROFILE: GETTING TO KNOW
GLORIA AND JERRY LANDSBERG
                                                                                                                SHEMA: Tell us how you came to join         braillist. As a breast cancer survivor, I   break in—anyone can do it. Volunteer!
                                                                                                                Temple Beth-El.                             have worked with [what is now known         Do what you say you are going to do.
                                                                                                                                                            as] NYU Langone to create a breast          Volunteer again and again—and you are
                                                                                                                Jerry Landsberg: This was the second        cancer prevention shower card. I’ve been    in the clique. It’s about being involved.
                                                                                                                Great Neck synagogue we joined.             involved with Hadassah for many years       People who have chosen to be involved
                                                                                                                We moved here from Texas in 1963 and        and they helped distribute the cards        will become connected.
                                                                                                                we wanted to join TBE, but there            to thousands and thousands of people
                                                                                                                was a waiting list to become a member!      through hospitals and universities          JL: We have been involved in a
                                                                                                                                                            around the world.                           synagogue in every community we’ve
                                                                                                                Gloria Landsberg: When our children                                                     ever been in, since we were dating.
                                                                                                                were older, we finally joined TBE. We are   SHEMA: We’ve seen those cards, we
                                                                                                                still members at Temple Emanuel. We         have some in the temple lobby and           GL: I got involved at Temple Beth-
                                                                                                                also have membership at Congregation        TBE’s executive director even spotted       El when I asked Gale Sena about
                                                                                                                House of Jacob in Wichita Falls, Texas.     one at his parents’ house in Florida.       volunteering. Gale worked in the
                                                                                                                That’s where I was born!                                                                office, and I learned about turning on
                                                                                                                                                            JL: I served on the Board of Trustees       the Yahrzeit lights in the chapel from
                                                                                                                                                            of Temple Emanuel for 20 years, and         her. That was 30 years ago—and I’m
                                                                                                                                                            I’ve been a longtime Brotherhood            still doing it.
                                                                                                                “People who have                            member of both Temple Emanuel and
                                                                                                                                                            Temple Beth-El. I’ve been on the board      JL: She’s been turning them on ever since!
                                                                                                                 chosen to be involved                      of Parker Jewish Institute since 1979,
                                                                                                                                                            including serving as chairperson, and       SHEMA: Wow! What an incredible
                                                                                                                will become connected.”                     I’ve been on the board of the College of    mitzvah and responsibility. Does
                                                                                                                                                            Nursing at Adelphi for 40 years. I was      anyone else know how to do it?
                                                                                                                                    —Gloria Landsberg
                                                                                                                                                            a trustee of the Village of Kensington
                                                                                                                                                            and served as deputy mayor and police       GL: Yes, I taught Elaine Springer.
                                                                                                                                                            commissioner. I’ve also been a trustee      Teaching others is important. She can
                                                                                                                SHEMA: How wonderful to be                  of the Great Neck Water Pollution           reach the higher light bulbs, too. I’ve
                                                                                                                connected to the greater Jewish             Control District since 2007, serving as     volunteered with many other things at
                                                                                                                community. Please share more                both commissioner and chairman of the       the temple: teaching our religious school
                                                                                                                about that.                                 Board of Commissioners. I am currently      students how to bake, proofing the
                                                                                                                                                            the secretary.                              High Holy Days memorial booklet and
                                                                                                                GL: I was the president of the Sisterhood                                               providing general office help.
                                                                                                                at Temple Emanuel at the same time          SHEMA: You’ve been so involved—
                                                                                                                Marge Kurcias was Sisterhood president      what incredible dedication to the           SHEMA: Any last words for our
Jerry and Gloria Landsberg have
belonged to Temple Beth-El for 35 years.
                                           BY STUART BOTWINICK                                                  at Temple Beth-El. The Sisterhood           community and the greater good!             Shema readers? What’s something
                                                                                                                groups were very friendly, and we held      Thank you for all you have done             you didn’t realize you would find
                                                                                                                community-wide Sisterhood meetings          and continue to do. What would              at Temple Beth-El?
                                           GLORIA AND JERRY LANDSBERG have been members of Temple Beth-El
                                                                                                                and luncheon events together. Jerry and     you tell a friend who wanted to get
                                           since 1986. They have been married for 64 years and have four        I have served on the TBE Board              more involved?                              GL: A second home.
                                           children, 12 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. Executive    as honorary trustees for many years,
                                                                                                                too. Outside of the synagogue world,        GL: When the waiting list opened for our    JL: Yes, a second home. We look forward
                                           Director Stuart Botwinick interviewed the couple for Shema           I have been a volunteer with the Helen      membership, I was told that the temple      to being back in person with our temple
                                           magazine to find out about their special connection to our temple.   Keller Center, since I am a certified       was very “cliquey.” But I knew how to       family soon.

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PEOPLE OF THE BOOK:
                                                                                                     OUR TBE LIBRARY
                                                                                                     BY STUART BOTWINICK

                                                                                                     I
                                                                                                         n 1931, S.R. Ranganathan proposed        Is a Growing Organism, that begins
                                                                                                         the Five Laws of Library Science, a      our process. Under this law, we are
                                                                                                         theory of principles on how to best      considering growth, modernization,
                                                                                                                                                                                               Our Temple Beth-El library houses
Clockwise from left: Soft lavender blooms line the Old Mill Road pathway. Vibrant buds welcome       operate a library. These laws remain a       weeding and safeguarding.
                                                                                                                                                                                               an extensive collection of Jewish books,
guests from the back parking lot. Flowering trees brighten the temple landscape each spring.         foundation for public libraries around the      Thanks to the efforts of Arlene           which has served generations of North
Visitors are greeted by this beautiful garden, brimming with texture and color—even in October.
Blossoms frame the entrance to Temple Beth-El. Sweet yellow tulips signal the start of the season.
                                                                                                     world, even today as times have changed.     Nevens, a temple member and a                Shore readers.
                                                                                                         As public libraries evolve, our          recently retired librarian, we have begun
                                                                                                     synagogue library must evolve, too. For      the process. A review of our content has       purchase for their own personal
                                                                                                     generations, Temple Beth-El’s library        started with a culling of our materials.       library during a book sale. New mini

PERENNIALS PROVIDE                                                                                   has served both casual readers of all ages
                                                                                                     as well as those exploring more esoteric
                                                                                                                                                  Outdated books and those that are
                                                                                                                                                  beyond their useful life will be recycled.
                                                                                                                                                                                                 collections will also be accessible in areas
                                                                                                                                                                                                 around the temple, such as in the lobby.

NATIVE BEAUTY                                                                                        Jewish scholarly works.
                                                                                                         While the longer-term plans for the
                                                                                                                                                  Books of interest and value are being
                                                                                                                                                  sorted and saved.
                                                                                                                                                                                                    We invite queries, ideas and
                                                                                                                                                                                                 involvement, as we look for our

YEAR AFTER YEAR                                                                                      library space are to be developed,
                                                                                                     it is Ranganathan’s fifth law, A Library
                                                                                                                                                     As our TBE building reopens,
                                                                                                                                                  congregants may even find books to
                                                                                                                                                                                                 Jewish library to best serve the People
                                                                                                                                                                                                 of the Book.
BY GAYLE MONASTER, BARBARA
WEXLER, EILEEN WALK AND DAVID SUTIN,
VOLUNTEER GARDENING GROUP                                                                             BOOK REVIEW

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        pring is here! The time has come to dig out your gardening tools and get in
        touch with the earth again. What grows in your garden? Do you plant new
        annuals each year, spending money and time weeding, feeding and spraying?
                                                                                                     THE WEIGHT OF INK BY RACHEL KADISH
Maybe you should consider an easier, new vision.                                                     BY JENNIFER STILL-SCHIFF
    Our Temple Beth-El gardens have been evolving into lower-maintenance beds

                                                                                                     A
filled with easy care, hardy perennials that bloom and return year after year.                                discovered artifact in ancient writing; a crippling           When a large trove of letters and papers from the 1600s
    Perennial plants require less water, are perfectly adapted to our native                                  pandemic; a female scribe: It sounds like 2020 here        is found beneath the staircase of an old house, the two are
environment and are irresistible to pollinators like butterflies and bees whose natural                       in Great Neck—but these are the surprising elements        unprepared for the complexity of their find. Not only are
habitat has been threatened by manicured lawns and non-native gardens. Alien to                      woven together by Rachel Kadish in her historical novel             the letters from a Rabbi HaCohen Mendes, living in London
our area, these non-native plants are rejected by butterflies and bees.                              The Weight of Ink, recommended for lovers of language, Jewish       in the 17th century, written in Hebrew, English, an archaic
    Native plantings attract pollinators, which are vital to maintaining healthy                     history and texts, and mystery.                                     Portuguese and Latin, but references to Mendes indicate that
ecosystems, essential for plant reproduction and responsible for bringing us one out                    Readers of academic mysteries, such as A.S. Byatt’s              he was blinded in the Inquisition. Close inspection shows that
of every three bites of our food.                                                                    Possession, will find a familiar trope in the modern-day            his letters are penned by a mysterious scribe who is identified
    The Volunteer Gardening Group has added some beautiful native plants to the                                                 characters—a mismatched pair of          on the bottom of each leaf as “aleph.”
TBE landscape. Look for the sedum, grasses, coneflowers (Echinicea), hostas and                                                 scholars working in London. Aaron,          The revelation of the novel is the rabbi’s helper, Ester; a
Carex. Many of the grasses are evergreen, adding interest in winter.                                                            a young PhD candidate, is trying to      woman who desires learning above marriage and family is
    Our horticulturists aim for a garden that looks lovely in all four seasons.                                                 prove something—anything—new             an oddity, if not a pariah. We are drawn into her life as she
The volunteers hope that we will all soon enjoy our Temple Beth-El gardens in                                                   about Shakespeare and is on the          becomes an unexpected scholar and goes beyond the roles she
person together.                                                                                                                edge of despairing. Helen, on the        was born for. As England suffers from the plague, her existence
    Take a look at your own garden. Maybe this is the year when you plant beautiful                                             verge of retiring, is an impatient       is more and more precarious.
native perennials that are beneficial to the environment—and soothe your soul with                                              specialist, whose worsening hand            If you are intrigued by life in another time, by examination
their beauty.                                                                                                                   tremors make the painstaking             of old documents and interaction of the contentious characters
    You are all are welcome to share your time and expertise to help keep the gardens                                           work of exploring crumbling text         in academia, go find a copy of Kadish’s novel and dig into this
at our temple home beautiful.                                                                                                   a challenge.                             compelling story.

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