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Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780
SULAM Beth El - Seek. Understand. Learn. Act. Marvel.
Our primary grades learned about the Festival of
Lights in a round-robin created by our awesome
educators. Learners traveled from station to station,
coloring chanukiot, learning the music and blessings
for lighting the candles, playing dreidel and hearing
the Chanukah story.
December was all about Chanukah
for our SULAM learners!
Sixth and seventh graders learned about
Hillel and Shammai’s candle debate and
constructed torn paper midrashim to
reflect their understanding and
preference. Most opted for Hillel’s take,
lighting one candle on the first night Singing along to our
(and increasing through the holiday), as favorite Chanukah songs
opposed to Shammai’s position that we with music educator
Sawyer Harrington-Verb
should start with eight candles the first night (and decrease each night).
Upcoming Programs and Events NOTE:
The mitzvah
JANUARY continues in
Sun 5 9:00AM Gr. 6 – Bar/Bat Mitzvah & 2020! SULAM
Beyond Workshop #2 is collecting
canned fish
Sun 12 9:00AM Gan – Family Challah in January
Baking and laundry
Sun 26 9:00AM Gr. 7 – ADL Program detergent in
Special thanks to our family Chanukah February.
10:00AM PALS – Tu BiShevat
Program partygoers who donated cereal and pasta
to create a giant chanukiah! The donations then headed
Fri 31 5:30PM Gan – Family Shabbat
Dinner to JFS’s Kosher Food Pantry ahead of the holidays.
FEBRUARY
Sun 2 9:00AM Gr. 3 – Siddur
Presentation
Sun 9 9:00AM Gr. 7 – Torah Celebration
Sun 23 10:00AM PALS – Purim Program
Sun January 19
No SULAM Sun February 16
Tu-Th February 18-20
Show off your own siddur! Share a photo of it on
Instagram with #MyChildhoodSiddur
and tag us so we can share them with our learners!
We’re online at @beth.el.temple.wh!
2 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696
Enjoying Beth El
Mah Jongg Night This is
Wednesday, February 5 JEOPARDY!
7:30 – 9:30 PM Saturday,
February 22
Get your team of 4 and come play
with us! No team – we’ll set you up! 7:45 PM
COST: $10/BET Members, $15/non-members Another social evening just to be together!
REFRESHMENTS: wine and snacks Teams of up to 6 people will play Jeopardy!
REGISTER: by 1/31, tinyurl.com/BETMahjongg
QUESTIONS: Beth, womensnetworkbethel@gmail.com
Prizes will be awarded to 1st and 2nd place
NOTE: bring your set if you have one teams!
SPONSOR: Women’s Network
Grab your friends (members and non-
members) and make a team, or ask us to assign
Shabbat Across America you a team! Please select and send us the name
Friday, February 28 and a picture of your team captain.
6:00 PM Services Bring your fully charged smartphone to be your
7:00 PM Dinner buzzer (don’t have one? We’ll put you on a
Join in as hundreds of synagogues team with someone who does!).
across the continent will take part COST: $25/person; $30/person after 2/10
in this historic national Jewish event to celebrate what REFRESHMENTS: beer, wine, coffee, tea, soda,
seltzers, snacks, and desserts
unifies all Jews – Shabbat! REGISTER: tinyurl.com/BETJeopardy
COST FOR DINNER: $12/adult, $8/child (ages 5-12) QUESTIONS: Marci Alter, 860-655-2935,
REGISTRATION: required for dinner by noon, 2/25, mbajba1@gmail.com, Sheila Diamond,
tinyurl.com/SAA2020BET 860-965-6564, stdiamond@comcast.net
NOTE: there is no snow date
Scholar-in-Residence - Personal Connection
Many of us have moments. Many of you were backgrounds in crafting loving
been fortunate to given a glimpse of his wisdom messages that are ordinarily so
have had the and compassion. Sadly, he died hard to create in our busy lives.
guidance of this past August. I was honored to
Her very presence is a gift and we
mentors for our co-officiate at his funeral.
are so delighted that she will be
lives. People who In our years in Baltimore, we joining us February 7-9 for a
have kindly and graciously shown
were privileged to know all of the Scholar-in-Residence weekend.
us a way to succeed in life and to
members of the Zaiman family. Please come and join us as we
help us make a difference in
One of them, Elana Zaiman, learn from her dynamic yet
everything we do. became a rabbi herself and has sensitive presentations.
In my life that role was played brilliantly made her mark as a
I know she will give us tools to
graciously by my teacher Rabbi deep, caring, compassionate understand ourselves better and
Joel Zaiman. As his assistant teacher who connects the lessons
how in a loving Jewish way, we
rabbi, he taught me what it meant of Torah with our personal lives.
can share that wisdom with those
to be a learning and giving Through her work and her book,
we hold dear.
presence as a representative of The Forever Letter, she has helped ~ Rabbi Jim Rosen
Torah and tradition. thousands to find the ways of
At the time of my installation, at reflecting, writing, and providing
for loved ones the major lessons See the back cover for
Dani’s Bar Mitzvah and other information about, and
times he kindly appeared at Beth of their own personal lives. She registration links for, this
El as a teacher for these special helps people of many different Scholar-in-Residence weekend.
Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780 3
From the Rabbi’s Desk
We’ve all heard the rumors of #metoo in Jewish spaces, mental health, addiction,
Conservative Judaism’s impending and immigration!
demise. It’s hard to be in the middle I was honored to teach at the convention about
and to maintain our ground, especially SULAM, our innovative educational program, and
when the pulls to the left (Reform) and about Chai Mitzvah, a very successful adult education
the right (Orthodox) seem so strong. component. I learned so much, too. But what I also
Conservative Judaism can be noticed was that we are a vital, vibrant, and strong
confusing. Not actually “conservative” as the name Conservative movement, and we are facing forward
implies but rather our name comes from a history of fearlessly into a fabulous future. I am no longer
preserving tradition while embracing change. In Israel worried about shrinking numbers or the pressures to
we are called Masorti, meaning traditional, which may move right or left. Now, I just want to sing our
seem an odd description both here, and frankly, in movement’s praises!
Israel, but that’s what we are. I think it all comes down
to this: defining the middle is challenging, and Most of us don’t even realize all that has come out of –
understanding who we are – as opposed to what we and continues to strengthen – our Conservative
are not – has never been more difficult. movement: Solomon Schechter Day Schools, Camp
Ramah, United Synagogue Youth (USY), our beautiful
It is because of this that so many feel the shrinking siddur and High Holiday machzor, Lev Shalem (as
numbers of affiliated Conservative Jews means our well as previous siddurim and machzorim over the
movement is over. last 100 years). Seminaries, rabbis, cantors, educators,
But in December 2019, I had an experience that knowledgeable lay leaders...the list goes on and on.
proves just the opposite. We stand strong in the middle, with so much to offer
the world around us.
Over 1,300 Conservative Jews – rabbis, lay leaders,
educators, synagogue directors, and interested friends So the question I will leave you with as we enter 2020:
– joined together in Boston for “2020 Judaism: A what is YOUR “2020 Vision” for your Jewish
Collaborative Convention of United Synagogue and experience and expression? How might you shape the
the Rabbinical Assembly.” The days were packed with future of our synagogue, our Jewish community, and
sessions about innovation, inclusion, spirituality, the our Jewish people? And how might you take a step
Jewish family, and Israel. We heard from experts on toward more deeply understanding who we are and
anti-Semitism. We learned about the future of our what we stand for, so that you, too, can feel deeply
synagogues, our Jewish communities, and our Jewish rooted in our vibrant center?
people. Imagine a program that offers sessions on Wishing you a Happy 2020!
climate change, LGBTQ rituals, interfaith ~ Rabbi Ilana Garber
opportunities for grandparents, guns in synagogues,
Mitzvah Day 2019 ReJEWvenate Membership Campaign
In the next Temple Topics there will Help grow Beth El
be a complete list of participants and Do you know we have a membership referral benefit (to you, the
activities on Mitzvah Day. referring member) as well as a new member promotion? If you
know someone who might enjoy being part of our incredible
community – a Community You Can Believe In – or if you are
looking for a warm, supportive, engaging, and spiritual Jewish
community – please be in touch.
New Member Promotion – January 2020!
Join in January at our already discounted new member rate AND
you are set through June 2021! It’s 18 months for the price of 12!
And the member making a referral will get a credit on their dues
Bingo with bill!
residents at the This is the perfect time to join Beth El!
Hebrew Home CONTACT: Rabbi Ilana Garber, igarber@bethelwh.org, 860-233-9696
4 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696
Reflections from the President
Was Mr. Rogers a Torah Scholar?
Okay, I admit it. I Shabbat sermons from our rabbis. Please join us as a much-needed
have been a Mr. The Torah, our rabbis, and Mr. volunteer and help give others,
Rogers fan for so Rogers speak of the importance of especially those who could use a
many years and for listening, looking for safe places, touch of kindness, a “Beautiful
so many reasons. caring for others, communicating Day” in our Beth El neighborhood.
Watching the clearly, and anticipating the ways That’s what makes us a Community
movie A Beautiful Day in the listeners will hear what we say. You Can Believe In. Just email me
Neighborhood reminded me of the at president@bethelwh.org, or leave
Such values and lessons remind us
importance of the many life lessons of the good in the world, even your name for me at the office,
that Mr. Rogers passed along to 860-233-9696.
during the most challenging times.
children, and adults as well. As members, I hope we all hold Wishing you and your family a
In fact, many of those life lessons these practices dear to our hearts, wonderful New Year as, together,
represent some of the most basic and that, as a community, we we create new memories and
human values: respect, kindness, continue to reach out to those who possibilities in 2020.
compassion, integrity, humility, could use a little TLC: offering
~ Judy Rosenthal
and forgiveness. These are the same meals, rides, visits, Shiva calls, and
values we learn from our weekly even a mazel tov when celebrating a
Torah passages and the thoughtful simcha.
Cantor’s Corner - A Winter’s Psalm
The landscape for as far as the eye can see, is covered
with white powdery snow resembling eternity. BEMA
Standing just at the edge, looking to cross that open Beth El Music & Arts
and bleak landscape, the snowflakes still lightly fall – 2019-2020 Season
blanketing trees and earth, touching them so very quietly,
as if to engage in a soft embrace.
Concerts Sundays, 7PM
Silence…
March 22 Jerusalem of Gold,
The stillness is filled with a gentility that brings with it a
certain clarity. The snow falls like stardust – a cascade of with music by Bach,
precious gems, each crystal of the infinity that caresses the Handel, Rossi, and Ness
earth is its own masterpiece of creation, never to be repeated. June 7 Opera+
An origination of the finite, in that it is fleeting, receding by
melting from nature’s pulsating energy, is part of its essence.
And so the compulsion for us to gaze, to hold, to touch Lectures Sundays, 1PM
with wonderment… and experience the oneness of each February 16 Liturgical Chat
crystal in complement to the vastness and quiet majesty of
the topography that is before our eyes – A gift from God… May 17 Operas of the Jewish
Experience
There is a suggestion that You and I are woven into a
story of the singular, uncopiable and irreplaceable “one”
to the immensity of humanity – all with the finiteness
that is our lives. Music Appreciation Trip to
The realization of the quietude that comes from gazing first
Israel with Cantor Ness
at the singular crystal and then across the snow-covered August, 2020
landscape can now inspire us to cherish who we are and
embrace the immensity of our aspirations. led by Sharon Efron
Details coming soon!
~ Cantor Joseph Ness
Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780 5
Worshipping Together - Shabbat
Fridays
Shababa
MONTHLY: JANUARY 17, FEBRUARY 21 Challah Baking Workshop
5:45 – 6:45 PM THURSDAY, JANUARY 30
QUESTIONS: Rabbi Garber, igarber@bethelwh.org 9:30 AM – 12:30 PM
REGISTRATION: tinyurl.com/ShababaJan;
tinyurl.com/ShababaFeb REGISTER: tinyurl.com/ChallahJan
TARGET AGE: children 8 & younger (and siblings, parents, SPACE: limited, may be cancelled if
and grandparents) not enough sign up
RSVP: encouraged, not required, to enable us to better
NOTE: open to all, no cost
plan for dinner. Come to Rabbi Garber’s workshop to bake
A fun, engaging “service” for our youngest challah for members of our community – and
generation. Experience the joy of Shabbat with participants will get to take one home for their
dancing, singing, stories, prayers, and a free chicken own family. Volunteers may be asked to deliver
nugget dinner. challah as well.
Saturdays
Mazel Tots Topics in Tefillah: an In-Depth
(birth – K, with parents) Exploration of Prayer (adults)
WEEKLY JANUARY 18
11:00 AM – NOON 11:00 AM – NOON
Mazel Tots is the spot for kiddos NOTE: this is a class, not an actual service; all are welcome
on Shabbat mornings! Parent volunteers Designed for adults who wish to explore elements of
lead songs, prayers and stories. Shabbat services with our rabbis.
Shabbat Club (K – 5, with parents) JCL* Service (all ages)
WEEKLY JANUARY 25
11:00 AM – NOON 10:30 AM – NOON
LEADER: volunteer parents * Jewish Association of Community Living
Games, puzzles, and more, plus occasional LEADERS: Nancy Rosen with Susan Fried and Bonnie
programming with our parent educators; in Eisenberg-Greene, Judaic Coordinators of JCL
NOTE: a light Kiddush lunch follows
our redesigned Youth Lounge.
This joyous and exuberant service is open to adults who
have special needs as well as other worshippers who enjoy
Birthday Aliyah (all ages) an abbreviated, meaningful service filled with ruach (spirit
MONTHLY: JANUARY 4, and energy). The service typically includes the singing of
FEBRUARY 1, MARCH 7 prayers, storytelling by Sara deBeer, a Torah parade, and
DURING THE MORNING TORAH SERVICE Shabbat-appropriate activities based on the Parshah.
On the first Shabbat of the month, we
celebrate that month's congregational Family Service & Lunch (families)
birthdays with a special aliyah! FEBRUARY 22
11:00 AM – 1:00 PM
Shabbat Yoga (all ages) NOTE: concludes with lunch and games
JANUARY 4 RSVP: by noon 2/20, tinyurl.com/FamilyFeb
SPONSOR: The Kest Family Fund, a named fund within
10:30 AM – NOON The Endowment Fund of Beth El Temple
LEADERS: Rabbi Garber and Adriana
Matozzo from West Hartford Yoga We come together as a “family” for a combined service,
An all-levels yoga class with Hebrew bringing the best from Mazel Tots, Shabbat Club, and
prayer, chanting and Jewish meditation. Beth El’s Community You Can Believe In to build our
Shabbat family community.
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Celebrating - Tu BiShevat
A Historical Refresher The New Year of Trees begins
This minor holiday wasn’t always a festival. Sunday evening , February 9.
Instead, it was a key farming date that Jews
marked in ancient times.
“When you enter the land [of Israel] and plant Our Celebration of Nature
any tree for food, you shall regard its fruit as An increasingly popular way to celebrate is
forbidden. Three years it shall be forbidden for with a Tu BiShevat seder (yes, Passover
you, not to be eaten” (Leviticus 19:23). doesn’t have a lock on the seder). The menu
The fruit a tree bore in year four was offered to includes the traditional four cups of wine
the priests in the Temple, but the fruit of the fifth along with foods celebrating the Seven
year (and all the ones after!) was for the farmers. Species traditionally grown in Israel.
The rabbis established the 15th of the month of
Shevat as the “birthday” for trees, regardless of The seder is a great, tangible way to connect
when they were planted during the year. with Israel. We eat fruits that symbolize the
life-sustaining power brought forth from the
The Seven Species earth, the spiritual strength within each of
as rendered by Israeli artist Ahuva Elany in a us, the mystery of our world, and our study
copper tile wall hanging.. of Torah. Find details on how to lead the
pomegranate seder and where to find a Haggadah on our
wheat grapes
olive branch Pinterest board.
barley fig
date palm
PreSchool PALS Play And Learn @ Synagogue
Parents and Preschoolers (up to age 5)
SUNDAYS: JANUARY 26 Tu BiShevat
FEBRUARY 23 Purim
10:00 – 11:30 AM
QUESTIONS: Rabbi Garber,
igarber@bethelwh.org
COST: no charge
RSVP: for supplies and snacks:
tinyurl.com/PALS-Jan
tinyurl.com/PALS-February
This holiday-focused exploration
provides a “Taste of SULAM” with
songs, stories, art, creative play, and more…
Worshipping Together - Daily Services
Daily Minyan Shabbat – Friday Candle Lighting &
Shacharit Kabbalat Shabbat 6:00 PM Havdalah Times
7:00 AM Mon–Fri Shabbat Friday Saturday
Shabbat – Saturday
8:45 AM Sun Jan 3-4 4:15 PM 5:14 PM
Pirkei Avot Study 8:30 AM Jan 10-11
Ma’ariv 4:23 PM 5:21 PM
Shacharit, Torah & 9:30 AM Jan 17-18 4:30 PM 5:29 PM
7:30 PM Sun–Thu Musaf Services Jan 24-25 4:38 PM 5:37 PM
Children’s Playroom 9:30 AM Jan 31– Feb 1 4:47 PM 5:46 PM
Mazel Tots & Shabbat Club 11:00 AM Feb 7-8 4:56 PM 5:55 PM
Note: Special Minyan Time Mincha Service 12:30 PM Feb 14-15 5:05 PM 6:04 PM
Wed, January 1 There are no regular services (Ma’ariv & Feb 21-22 5:14 PM 6:13 PM
9:00 AM Havdalah) on Saturday evenings. Feb 28-29 5:22 PM 6:21 PM
Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780 7
Celebrating - Purim
Purim Faire Extravaganza:
A Purim Carnival with a Mitzvah Twist It’s Purim!
SUNDAY, MARCH 1 11:30 AM – 1:00 PM MONDAY, MARCH 9
SUGGESTED DONATION: $5/person
VOLUNTEERS: needed to run booths, contact Liz 5:30 PM Purim Pasta Bar Dinner
LUNCH: items available for purchase COST: $5/person, ages 3+
ADULT-ONLY AREA: Pour’em Pub RSVP: tinyurl.com/PurimDinner2020, by
QUESTIONS: Liz DePalma, 860-233-9696, edepalma@bethelwh.org 3/5, noon
6:15 PM Gantza Megillah Reading
Mishloach Manot Bring boxes of pasta to shake and
VOLUNTEER help package AND/OR deliver drown out Haman's name, and then
PACKAGE: week of March 1 to donate to the JFS kosher food
DELIVER: Sunday, March 8 pantry. Wear your costumes!
REGISTER: tinyurl.com/BETPurimHelp
7:30 PM Evening Minyan
It's time to package and deliver hundreds of gifts.
This is a fun chance to spread Purim cheer. TUESDAY, MARCH 10
(Experienced with creating and using routes in Google Maps? 7:00 AM Morning Minyan, with
We could especially use your help!) Megillah Reading
Engaging Generations
Mazal Tov! and Appreciation for Sponsoring a Kiddush or Bar and Bat Mitzvah Celebrations
Lunch Jeremy Noah Eisen
The Brown family, in honor of Ilana's Bat Mitzvah January 11, 2020
Chai Society, in honor of our Veterans
The Berey family, in honor of Evan's Bar Mitzvah Information on Bar
Nancy & Rabbi Jim Rosen and Phyllis & Joe Zwarick, in honor and Bat Mitzvah
of mother & mother-in-law Elsie Farber’s 100th birthday celebrations is
available from the
Stephanie & Justin Landrie and Lynn & Marc Estra, in honor of
Temple Office.
baby naming of daughter/granddaughter, Taylor Ava Landrie
Klau & Cohen families, in honor of the 85th birthdays of David
Klau and Michael Cohen
The Krulewitz Family, in honor of Joelson's Bar Mitzvah
Taste of Shabbat
New Members
Jami & Travis Bish, with Mila Ari Jacob Schuyler
William Glucksman & Wendy Amblo, with Rachel, Henry February 29, 2020
Congratulations
Elina & Daniel Tannenbaum, on baby naming of daughter,
Evetta Tannenbaum
Of Blessed Memory
Charlotte Bazer
Randy Bobrow, stepfather of Mindy Jason, and Kimberly DiBella
Michael DeRosa, husband of Marlene DeRosa
Arnold Eisenfeld, brother of Len Eisenfeld
Marcia Goldberg, mother of Len Goldberg
Irma Golfin, mother of Gary Rubin
Shirley Garten Reif, mother of Deborah Shoflick
Geraldine Sack
Wendy Schulman, wife of Hon. Jed Schulman If you would like to share your Simchas and Sorrows with
the Beth El Community, please send your Life Cycle
Shirley Seltzer, grandmother of Julie Winick
announcements to Laurea in the Office: LEsau@bethelwh.org.
Jean Weil, mother of Michele Kostin
8 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696
Making Connections
College Connection
Every year, Beth El sends Mishloach
Manot to the children of our
members away at school. Let us
send a Purim gift to your college SUNDAY, JANUARY 12
student; provide name and college 4:00 PM
address. All are invited to help Meet Asst. Director Josh
assemble the packages. Edelglass at a local home
RSVP: by 2/2 with college mailing addresses
PACKING: the week of 2/23
CONTACT: Mina Nemirow, betcollegeconnections@gmail.com
SPONSOR: the generosity of the Gavens Family College Youth
Fund makes this project possible
Men’s Club
Hosting Israeli High School Students Walk Around the Reservoir
for the Annual Robotics Competition at Trinity College
TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS 9:15 AM
FRIDAY-SUNDAY, APRIL 3-5: Competition
LOCATION: Reservoir #6 on Route 44,
CONTACT: Sharon Efron, 860-559-4010, sgredancer@yahoo.com meet in parking lot
Once again, our community will support the Israeli robot CONTACT: Stu Bernstein, 860-232-2012,
engineers coming to compete. Host families are needed for scbernste@aol.com
both students and teachers for about 6 days. Responsibilities
To help sponsor a breakfast/dessert program:
include lodging, meals, transportation, etc. MINIMUM CONTRIBUTION: $36
CONTACT: bruceshein@comcast.net
West Hartford United Synagogue Youth
HaNer USY Regional Winter Kallah Teens at Summerwood
FRIDAY-SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 7-9 SUNDAY, JANUARY 12
LOCATION: The Emanuel Synagogue 1:00 – 2:00 PM
Adult volunteers are needed as West Hartford is LOCATION: Hoffman Summerwood,
again hosting this annual weekend: 160 Simsbuy Rd, West Hartford
RSVP: by 1/7, Jason, whusy18@gmail.com
Host USYers or staff. The online host form has all NOTE: rides available, just ask
of the details: tinyurl.com/usyhosting
It’s a mitzvah, and it will be fun as we get to know
Help at meal times with prep, setup, and service.
Please contact Jason if you are able to help on some of the Summerwood residents.
Friday evening, Saturday late afternoon, Saturday
night, or Sunday morning. Jr. USY Wednesdays
Thank you very much in advance. MONTHLY: JANUARY 15, FEBRUARY 19, MARCH 18,
APRIL 22, MAY 13
Shabbat Through the Decades Series 2:45 – 3:45 PM
FRIDAYS: JANUARY 24 1970s LOCATION: The Emanuel Synagogue
MARCH 6 1920s 6-8 graders are invited for fun, engaging programs –
APRIL 3 1980s always with a side of social action and food.
MAY 15 Future!
LOCATIONS: TBA Membership
COST: $13/student/dinner, (inc. with Premier $25 Jr. USY
membership)
$40 USY
This year, we are celebrating six amazing decades $90 USY Premier, inc. Shabbat Series
with delicious food from the Crown Market and ADVISORS: Jason Kay, 609-651-0891, whusy18@gmail.com;
themes to make each a fun night. Tamar Mor, whusyadvisor@gmail.com
JOIN: tinyurl.com/whusymembership
Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780 9
Lifelong Learning
Mitzvah, Munchies, and Israel Library Corner
THURSDAY, APRIL 2 Joel Samberg, Avon Author Roberta J. Buland
7:30 PM
DETAILS: to follow Our Men’s Club welcomed Avon author
REFRESHMENTS: Israeli wines and kosher cheeses and journalist Joel Samberg to present his
SPONSOR: Israel Engagement Committee two recent novels. He has written on many
An informational presentation to learn about topics for books and magazines; some
two organizations making a difference in Israel include Jewish themes. His new novel,
and for all people: Israel Cancer Research Fund Blowin' in the Wind, a sweeping Jewish-
and the Jewish National Fund. American suburban saga, is filled with
comedy, drama, and music. It centers
2023 Bar/Bat Mitzvah Meeting around the life of nine-year-old Daniel
WEDNESDAY, JANUARY 15 Hillman, a musical prodigy, as he and his family navigate
the turbulent 1960s. He knows he’ll be the first preteen in
10:00 AM OR 6:30 PM
history to write, arrange, and perform his own hit album,
RSVP: Liz , edepalma@bethelwh.org
even though there are many other things he’d like to do. He
Parents of children born in 2010 are invited as knows that his older brother, Steven, will become the first
we officially kick-off your journey to your teenager to circumnavigate the globe, his terrible school
child’s Bar/Bat Mitzvah & Beyond! grades notwithstanding. He also knows that his sister, Lori,
is destined to become something great, even though she
cries almost every day in school and is an emotional wreck.
Ongoing Weekly Adult Classes What Daniel does not know is that life can get in the way:
parents, cheaters, Vietnam, jealousy, and desire. Daniel's
New participants welcome!
No registration, no charge. journey proves that life can be as hard and painful as
having one’s insides kicked out by circumstances beyond
Writing Workshop control, or as simple and carefree as looking up and making
TUESDAYS a wish, or maybe both.
10:30 – NOON Some Kind of Lonely Clown: The Music,
CONTACT: Betty Hoffman, Memory, and Melancholy Lives of Karen
860-233-4853, bhoffman3@comcast.net Carpenter “brings back so many lovely and
amusing memories of a sadly missed
Lunch & Learn friend. She was unique and irreplaceable,”
TUESDAYS according to singer Petula Clark. “Joel has
12:00 – 1:00 PM been thorough in his research, and his love
BYOL: bring your own dairy lunch, optional and respect for Karen shine through.” Neil
Sadaka praised the book as "an insightful
Talmud Study look at the life of Karen Carpenter, a singing hero.” He
WEDNESDAYS noted, “I had the pleasure of opening for the Carpenters in
1975, but it was more exciting that they recorded several of
10:15 – 11:15 AM
CONTACT: Steve Stier, steven.stier@gmail.com
my songs, particularly 'Solitaire,' which featured a
breathtaking Karen vocal.” As Goodreads comments,
“Beyond the giftedness of Karen was also a love-starved
Bible & Breakfast romantic, conflicted sister, obedient daughter,
THURSDAYS unpredictable jester, modest millionaire, optimistic
8:00 – 9:00 AM dreamer, wannabe mother, emotional wreck, generous
friend, and melancholy clown.”
Pirkei Avot Study
SATURDAYS The Beth El Library thanks the David Diamond family
8:30 – 9:30 AM for donating Joel Samberg’s books to its collection.
No prior knowledge necessary.
Library Corner provides information about books housed in our
library. Books are reviewed rather than critiqued. To request
that a book be reviewed, please contact rjbuland@comcast.net.
10 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696Doing Mitzvot
Your Presence is the Gift of Community
One of the keystones of Judaism nights. In order to say the seem odd?” Those who have
teaches us: Mourner’s Kaddish during shiva, a attended these shiva minyans have
You are not obligated to complete minyan of 10 adults is required. experienced immense gratitude
the work, but neither are you free Contrary to popular belief, many from the family. The family knows
to desist from it. (2:21) members of our community don’t that you have gone out of your way
know enough people to “make” the to help them in a time of need.
It is an oft-cited quote from Ethics
10-person minyan. That’s where
of our Ancestors, a concept our As we learn from the Talmud, “the
you come in.
children learn early on. It is also highest form of wisdom is
the basis for Beth El’s key value: We are looking for volunteers from kindness.” We hope you will
Community You Can Believe In. West Hartford (all zip codes!), consider adding your kindness to
Avon, Farmington, Hartford, and our community.
Underpinning everything we
Bloomfield to serve as “Shiva
stand for at Beth El is this idea of
Captains.” Each captain will receive
supportive community: we lift each We are looking for about 20
a short list of email addresses for
other up and in turn are, ourselves, volunteer Shiva Captains. And we
people in their zip code. Should are hoping for many, many more
lifted up. Right now, we are looking
there be a need for a shiva minyan to be on each list. If you are
for help in an area where just an
hour of your time can make a real
in that zip code, we’ll send the interested in either role, please
information for the captain to connect with Ritual Committee
difference in our community: shiva Chair Diane Lieberfarb at
email to their list. For those of you
minyans. diane.lieberfarb@gmail.com.
who receive the email and can
When a member of our attend, simply let your Shiva Thank you to the members of
congregation experiences the death Captain know and then show up at the Ritual Committee who have
helped develop this concept:
of a loved one, it is customary to sit the house. Sharon Gorelick, Abbey Kreinik,
shiva. Some people observe this Jill Jones, Russ Selzer, and Bruce
Your first instinct may be, “But I
custom for a week, others for a few Sussman.
don’t know the person. Won’t it
Monthly Programs 3-Season
Opportunities
KNITzvah Group Charter Oak Project
(on break for Winter)
SUNDAYS: JANUARY 5, FEBRUARY 2, MARCH 15 JANUARY 12/15, FEBRUARY 16/19,
10:00 – 11:30 AM MARCH 8/11 Both of these outdoor
CONTACTS: Annette Gavens, 9:00 – 11:00 AM SUNDAYS activities make great
sygavens@aol.com, Cook at Beth El bar/t mitzvah projects.
Norma Jean Sternschein,
jnsternschein@comcast.net 5:00 – 7:00 PM WEDNESDAYS Volunteers are invited to
If you knit or crochet, this is a fun way to Serve at Burr Elementary School come with friends, as a
spend 90 minutes. We chat and 400 Wethersfield Ave, Hartford family, or solo.
CONTACT: Plantings and
schmooze while creating something Cook: Adam Schuyler,
useful to be donated to local charities for adam.d.schuyler@gmail.com; Flower Beds
people who need a little “extra love.” Serve: Myra & Bill Kleinman, CONTACT: Sheila Fox,
860-508-3672, 860-828-3939,
mwkleinman@outlook.com, Alison Demarest,
Loaves & Fishes Soup Kitchen wnkleinman@gmail.com alisonsupermom
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FEBRUARY 3, MARCH 2 with an adult.
10:00 AM – 12:45 PM We provide meals for children Jessie’s Garden
LOCATION: Immanuel Church, participating in a special after- VOLUNTEERING/SCHEDULING:
Woodland St, Hartford school music program, and their Betty Hoffman,
CONTACT: Ellen Solomon, families. 860-233-4853,
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Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780 11The EveryOne Annual Appeal
2018-2019/5779
We did it!! Thank you once again to all of our members The EveryOne Appeal is a unified effort to
who participated in the EveryOne Annual Appeal! raise funds that began with the High
Whether your generosity was through our High Holiday Holiday Appeal in 2018 and ended with
Appeal and/or our 65th Anniversary Event, or if you our fiscal year on June 30, 2019. The
made a contribution to one of our Beth El funds, we Appeal is cumulative, recognizing all of
surpassed our fundraising goals for the year! your tax-deductible contributions to Beth
Thank you for continuing to make this endeavor a great El, including your annual gift.
success. At Beth El, we believe every member and every These Circles of Honor represent the
gift matters! various cumulative giving opportunities.
Pillar of Patrons Circle Loren & Joel Gelber
Righteousness Myra & William Kleinman Suzanne & David Goldberg
Robin & David Gelles Barbara Louis Claudia & Joel Goodman
Kest Family Leigh Newman & Gary Starr Beverly & Arnold Greenberg
Zachs Family Foundation Dorine & Martin Toyen Lisa Levin & Thomas
Greenebaum
Lori & David Wetsman
Betty & Herbert Hoffman
Pillar of Wisdom
Double Chai Circle Jeanne & Daniel Kleinman
Temkin Family &
Bonnie Weiner Michele & Dane Kostin
Anonymous
Judie & Coleman Levy
Ellen Blumberg
Pillar of Mitzvot Marilyn Steinmetz &
Annette & Seymour Gavens Stephen Lieberman
Emmy & Steven Fast
Amy & James Goldman Julie & Robert Malkin
Hoffman Family
Barbara & Robert Green Linda & Joel Malkoff
Abbey Miller Kreinik
Doris Konover Janet & Harold Moskowitz
Joyce & Richard Leibert
Nancy & Rabbi Jim Rosen Ellen & Jeffry Nestler
Leshem Family
Deborah & Glen Rosenfeld Beth & Daniel Papermaster
Mandell-Braunstein Family
Carolyn & Jeffrey Weiser Deborah & Richard Polivy
Honey Sue Springut
Jennifer & Steven Wolfberg Susan Rabinowe &
Pillar of Strength Daniel Rapoport
Chai Circle Linda & Jonathan Rosen
Deborah & Steven Kleinman
Marci & Jonathan Alter Judith & David Rosenthal
Sharon & Neil Kochen
Vida & Eliot Barron Ellen K. & Stuart Roth
Lois & Chuck Koteen
Lee Ann & Claudio Benadiva Marilyn & Alan Rothstein
Arthur & Zadelle Krasow
Greenblatt Karen & Gordon Binkhorst Sandra & Marshall Rulnick
Tamara Kagan Levine Shery & Stewart Bober Susan & Jesse Samuels
Oremland Family Melissa & Adam Borgida Robin & Rafael Santiago
Stephen Rabb Judith Borus Susan & Michael Schenker
Stacy Nerenstone & Barbara & David Brown Shari Roth & Russell Selzer
Morton Weinstein Shelley & Alan Cetel Laurie & Marshall Shakun
Alisha & Ronald Cipriano Debra & James Shmerling
Naomi & Michael Cohen Susan & Alan Solinsky
Sheila & David Diamond Regan & Barry Stein
Sharon & Robert Efron Francine & Steven Stier
12 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696Mitzvah Circle Joan & Paul Shapiro Wanda Schulman &
Ruth Shulansky Harold Blinderman
Carrie Berman & Ronald Apter
Dora & Rabbi Howard Sowalsky Allison & Michael Bloom
Shelley & Michael Barker
Linda & Bruce Stanger Arlene Talcove Blum &
Estelle & Abraham Bernstein Jerold Blum
Carolyn & Stuart Bernstein Haiyan & Gary Stein
Leslie & Harold Blumberg
Carin Buckman Lisa & J. Bruce Sussman
Sapora & Michael Bogatz
Jackie & Daniel Cohen Marc Sussman
Pamela & Steven Borer
Jamie & Isaac Cohen Marge & Ricky Swaye
Joan Bortman
Georgianne & Jonathan Cohen Patti & Howard Weiner
Lisa & Jeffrey Bourke
Samuel Cohen Judith & Joel Weisman
Ann & David Brandwein
Linda & Henry Cohn Lorraine Wiesen
Meryl & Scott Braunstein
Halley Faust Julie & Mark Wolman
Ronni Breiter
Ruth Anne Faust Shirley K. & David Brody
Sustainers Circle
Camille & Stephen Fish Sandra & Warren Brook
Anonymous
Lisa & Peter Fishman Barbara Rosen &
Anonymous Jeffrey Brown
Rabbi Ilana Garber &
Adam Berkowitz Marjorie & Bruce Abel Sara Goldfarb & Seth Brown
Whitney Whitaker & June Rosen & Marlene & Stephen Brown
Gerald Garfield Benjamin Abrams
Beth Brumberg
Nancy & Jay Gershman Marlene & Jeffrey Alfin
Marilyn & Roy Bubbs
Michelle & Eric Gladstein Eve Alpert
Ronald Buckman
Susan & Robert Gold Esther & Stephen Aronson
Roberta Buland
Sandra & Bruce Goldberg Alyce & Edward Arum
Paul Bush
Caryl & Leonard Goldberg Nancy & David Asnes
Elizabeth Byer
Shanna & Joshua Gottfried Becky & Jeffrey Azia
David & Ellen Carillo
Leonard Guthart Laura & Daniel Barash
Janice Cartin
Herbert Isaacson Nancy & Marty Baron
Ahuva & Anthony Cerritelli
Charlotte & Brook Jason Barbara Barshay
Barbara Checknoff
Jill & Gary Jones Amy & Peter Barzach
Gail & Stephen Chinitz
Eva & Michael Kaplan Barbara Basch
Sally & Harris Chorney
Roberta Woronow & Hope & Jeffrey Bash
Theodore Kaplan Cindy & Adam Cohen
Melissa & Joel Bauman
Dana & Jonathan Keller Jo Cohen
Roz-Lynn Beckenstein
Kimberly & Jeremy Kempner Karen & Lawrence Cohen
Sharon Bercowetz
Alys & Jack Krichavsky Debra & Lewis Cohen
Avram Berger
Judith & Daniel Kulakofsky Marsha & Martin Cohen
Sondra & Benjamin Berger
Diane & Richard Lieberfarb Susan & Stuart Cohen
Patricia & Howard Berke
Randi Piaker Sharon & Stephen Conway
Holly & Alvin Berkon
Rosalind Rachlin Beth Cook
Harriet & Robert Berland
Adine & Thomas Regan Deborah Cooper
Ruth & Bert Berlin
Judith & Frank Resnick Ina Cooper
Emily & Martin Berman
Joanne & Arthur Rome Ann & Bernard Cope
Irene & Martin Berman
Andrea & Lance Rothstein Claudia Coplein &
Nancy Bernstein John Kreinest
Gideon Rutenberg Sonia & Richard Bernstein Courtney & Steven Covici
Judith & David Satlof Joanne & Kenneth Bienstock Marilyn Cremer
Beth & Bernard Schilberg Robert Birnbaum Reeva Cremer
Lonni & Philip Schulz Miriam & Steven Bleich Harriet & Jay Cudrin
Marilyn & Alan Schwedel Jordan Blinder
Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780 13Sandra Cummings Sandra & Mark Gassner Deborah & Richard Gutcheon
Carol & Burton Cunin Clare Gatta Marcia Guzy
Meryl & Mitchell Danitz Allan Geetter Vivian Haas
Harriet & Frederick Ava & Harold Geetter Howard Hahn
Dannhauser Patricia & Stuart Genser Lisa & Peter Harris
Alison & Edward Demarest Adele Gershman Cynthia Heller
Edith Denes Donald Gershman Cheryl & John Hinze
Jacqueline & Christopher Harriet & Jerome Gilson Renee Holden
DeSesa
Carolyn & Jeffrey Gitlin Andrea Hotes
Gail & Barry Deutsch
Nancy & Richard Gitlin Lois & Allan Hutensky
Kimberly & Jason DiBella
Alison & Alan Gittleman Jill & Brad Hutensky
Diane & Scott Dolin
Rona Gainen & Susan Gluck Anna & Seth Huttner
Ellen & Peter Donshik
Beatrice Goldberg Roberta Moss & Michael Isko
Lawrence Dvorin
Deborah Prince & Elke Webb & Noah Jablow
Lauren Eisen David Goldberg Allan Jacobs
Vicki & Leonard Eisenfeld Marilyn & Harry Goldberg Jane Greenspan Jacobs
Jeanne & Marshall Elman Morton Goldberg Robyn Jacobs
Mona Elson Frances Gurtman & Nancy & John Jacobson
Jonathan Elukin Richard Goldberg
Eleanor Jainchill
Cheryl & David Epstein Sybil & H. Donald Golden
Renee Janow
Rita & Martin Epstein Shera & David Golder
Mindy & Jeremy Jason
Mary Epstein Julie & Ethan Goldman
Carol Johnson
Nancy & Spencer Erman Felice Goldman
Jennifer & Randy Kabakoff
Susan & Jeffrey Factor Emelia & Jonathan Goldman
Louise & Ralph Kadden
Tom Falik Shirley Goldman
Bilha & Leo Kaplan
Barbara Falkin Laurie & Bruce Goldsmith
Samantha Kaplan-Mendolia &
Leigh & Gregory Farber Ada Goldstein Dominic Mendolia
Rebecca & Andrew Feingold Fredda & Jonathan Goldstein Barbara & Robert Karasik
Joyce Kamanitz & Judy & Jerrold Goodman Tobye & Edward Karl
Thomas Feldman Nancy & Robert Goodman Debra & Howard Katz
Korine & Ronald Ferraro Pamela & Barry Gordon Michelle Bellinger &
Gayle & Edwin Fierer Sharon Gorlick Jeffrey Katz
Abby Hoffman-Finitsis & Michele & Daniel Gottfried Karen Katz
David Finitsis
Nancy & Dennis Gottfried Leah Katz
Marsha & Warren Fisher
Laura Gottfried Peter Katz
Dory & Jeffrey Fleischman
Rebecca & Martin Gould Charna & John Kaufman
Alexandra Flowers
Phyllis Grable-Esposito Laurie & Joshua Kaufman
Sheila & Theodore Fox
Ruth Ann & Harland Graime Melinda & Alan Kaufmann
Ellen & Ethan Foxman
Phyllis Greenberg Beth & Bernard Kavaler
Felicia Wilion & Jay Frankel
Nicole & Joshua Greenblatt Arielle & Jason Kay
Rivka Dvorin &
Arthur Freedman Diane & Lawrence Greenfield Andrea Ellen & Brian Keigan
Ilana Waynik & Jeremy Fried Elizabeth & Steven Greenspan Wendy Kern
Pamela Friedeberg Judith & Albert Greenspoon Hilda & Arthur Kesten
Marian Friedland Phyllis Grinspan Tracy King
Matthew Friedman Marilyn & Jeffrey Grody Laura & Rick Kinyon
Irene Fromson Susan Grody Joyce & Wallace Kirschner
Marcia & Michael Garfinkel Robert Gruskay Barbara & David Klau
William Gartner Jason Gutcheon Katharine & Scott Kluger
14 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696Gina & Dennis Koppel Stacey & Steven Malitz Jill & Eric Polinsky
Karen & Richard Korris Denese & Norman Mann Karen & Jeffrey Polinsky
Diane & Alan Kosan Fay Manus Eileen & Elliott Pollack
Shari & Jacob Kovel Karen & Larry Marcus Larry Port
Jaime Kramer Ellen & Jerald Margolis Philip Post
David Kravet Dhurata & Ron Margolis Andrew Prince
Cary & Robert Krug Sheila & Howard Mark Teri Bayer &
Riva Lewinter & David Kruger Natalee & Erik Martin Bruce Putterman
Tammy & Joshua Krulewitz Leah Black & Jason Mayo Linda & Steven Putterman
Stephanie & Justin Kudler Eileen McMurrer Lewis Rabinovitz
Nina & Jordan Kunkes Edith Meade-Shiffman Elizabeth & Steven
Rafalowsky
Bonnie Roswig & Beth Melnick
Michael Kurs Keryn & Fernando Rausch
Sheila & Aaron Ment
Sharon Kursman Alvin Reiner
Barbara Messing
Debra Feldman & James Reiner
Barbara & Joel Messing
Lawrence Kushner Lori & Lance Reiser
Jean Meyer
Robin & Jeffrey Landau Julie & George Risisky
Susan & Howard Meyerowitz
Fran & Frederick Landy Bruce Robbin
Lori & Douglas Meyerson
Elaine & Harry Lane Cheryl Rodrick
Christi & Eric Miller
Lauren & Jason Lang Rhona & Joel Roffer
Janet & Joel Miller
Shelley & Robert Langer Lisa Weisinger-Roland &
Constance Mindell Phillip Roland
Miriam Lappen
Arthur Mostel Carol Rosen
Lee Lapuk
Marsha & Lanny Nagler Karen & Michael Rosen
Karen & Morris Later
Nina Narins Carol & Barry Rosenberg
Robin & Adam Lazinsk
Sharon & Brian Neiberg Lillian Rosenberg
Betty Lebedinsky
Leslie & Steven Neiditz Michele Rosenberg
Phyllis & Stewart Lehman
Mina & Barry Nemirow Judy & Howard Rosenfield
Trudy & Andre Lerer
Maura Nemirow Shirley Rosenthal
Robert Lerner
Carmen Ness & Bonnie & Jay Roston
Joan & Melvin Levi Cantor Joseph Ness
Sarah & Daniel Levine Debra & Richard Rostowsky
Brian Newman
Annette & Jack Levine Kim & Brian Roth
Marylin & Arthur Noll
Peter Levine Devorah & Herman Rubin
Lisa & William Nollman
Anita & Dennis Levy Gloria & Mark Rubin
Batsheva Leichtberg &
Lisa & Evan Levy Robert Oberstein Ila & David Sabino
Judith & Harold Levy Denise & Richard Order Lois Saffer
Ruth Levy & Stephen Nardine Diane Biegel & Joel Pachter Susan & Matthew Saidel
Bonnie & Paul Lewis Faith & M. Bruce Parker Diane & Ronald Salm
Gilda Liebowitz Marlene Passman Barbara & Ira Samberg
Andrea & Robert Lindenberg Matthew Pasternak Erika & Ari Santiago
Arlene & Leonard Lippman Ivy & Avinoam Patt Heather & Joshua Satlof
Barbara & Scott Litow Marilyn Pearson Kathryn & Paul Schaeffer
Sherry Lohr Ronald Peikes Marlene & Jerome Scharr
Paulette & James Lotstein Bethany & Gil Peri Jean & Stephen Schensul
Karen & Robert Ludgin Jacquelynne & Marvin Pilo Rosanne Druckman &
Larry Scherzer
Lydia & Howard Lutt Bette & Joel Platt
Barbara & Nathan Schilberg
Wendy Lyon Sherri Pliskin
Sharon & Michael Schloss
Janel & Kevin MacDermott Fay Poles
Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780 15Susan & Mark Schmidek Roberta & Bruce Singer Susan & Stuart Wachtel
Amy & Robert Schoen Judyth & Irwin Singer Marcia & David Waitzman
Rita Schoolnik Theodora Sirota Audrey & Corey Walker
Janet Schrager & Ruth & Gilbert Small Irma Wallin
Steven Arnold Arline & Stuart Small Janice & Leonard
Jed Schulman Roberta & Marvin Smith Wasserman
Martin Schulz Erica & Avi Smith-Rapaport Marvin Weinberg
Toby & Arthur Schuman Ellen & Stephen Solomon Frances & Paul Weinberger
Lauren & Jeff Schuman Jan Glassman & Rachel Leventhal-Weiner &
Nancy Schwartz Joel Sowalsky David Weiner
Melissa Mentzer & Sara Spodick & James Laurie Mandell &
Karyn Schwartzer Boryczewski Richard Weinstein
Natalie Segal Helene & Felix Springer Wendy Habelow &
Robert Weinstein
Lea & Bernie Selig Laurie Wetherbee &
Sandra Stanfield Elisa Wagner &
Mindelle Seltzer Stephen Weinstein
Dana Greenberg & Carol Starr
Melissa & Randall Weinstock
Glenn Shafer Selma Starr
Lenore & Philip Weisinger
Florence Shakun Barbara & Jeffrey Steckler
Lisa Grant &
Harlan Shakun Anne Stein William Weitzer
Lisa Shakun Tamara & Joshua Stein Lilo & Herbert Werner
Beth Farber & Marion Steinberg Susan Widem
Mitchell Shakun Paula D. Steinberg Susan Wiener
Karen & Roy Shakun Allan Stern Sarah Willen &
Edith Shapiro Ruth Stern Sebastian Wogenstein
Gale & Larry Shapiro Norma Jean & Robert Ann & Michael Wolf
Sharon Levine-Shein & Sternschein Julie & Gregory Wolfe
Bruce Shein Marny & Thomas Stevens Rebecca & Jay Wolman
Eveline & Mark Shekhman Reba & Alden Stock Roslyn Yellin
Cyral & Richard Sheldon E. Reuel Stoltz Lori Yontef
Edith Sherman Risa & Kenneth Sugarman Kara & Alexander Zablotsky
Estelle Sherry Beatrice Sussman Theodore Zachs
Elena & Steven Shichman Edythe Sussman Shirley Zelman
Ronit & Scott Shoham Ruth Sweedler Hilary Freedman &
Stacey & Eric Shore Michelle Kunzman & Howard Zern
Phyllis & Gerald Siegal Steven Szafman Michelle Zeuschner
Ethel Siegelbaum Amir Tulchinsky Sandra Zieky
Hilary & David Silver Naomi & Calman Tussin Richard Zimmerman
Leslie & Bruce Silvers Karen Schoenfeld Tuvin & Jill & Jeffrey Ziplow
Eric Silverstein Alan Tuvin
Gwen & Daniel Zittoun
Elizabeth & Adam Simmons Lorraine & Farrel Vogelhut
Marcia Zola
Vera & Eli Simon Shirley Wachtel
Doreen Fundiller-Zweig &
Elliot Zweig
C. Dianne & Richard Zweig
This list is current as of December 31,
2019. We apologize for any inadvertent
errors or omission, and ask that you
please bring such to our attention.
16 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696Israel Engagement Committee
Meet the “Other” Faces of Israel
Jews constitute 75% of the Kurdish Jewish Following independence, as
population of Israel. While grandfather and Arab violence forced them to
we might conflate Israeli child enroute to leave their native countries,
Israel, Tehran,
Jews with Ashkenazic Jews, Iran 1950 Mizrahim began to arrive in
over 50% are Mizrahi or Israel in huge numbers. They
Sephardic. Mizrahi describes came from Turkey, Iraq,
Jews from Arab and/or Yemen, Iran, Afghanistan,
Muslim lands, including India, Pakistan, Syria,
Jews from North Africa, the Lebanon, Tunisia, Algeria,
Middle East, and parts of the Libya, Egypt, Ethiopia, and
Caucasus. Mizrahi is distinct from, but often Uganda, Uzbekistan, Kurdistan, Tajikistan, Dagestan,
overlaps with, Sephardi; the two are sometimes Azerbaijan, Georgia, and Armenia.
used interchangeably.
As Israel shifts from a
While Sephardim literally “melting pot” model to one
means Jews from the Iberian of multiculturalism, Israeli
Peninsula, today it describes Mizrahi Jews are bringing
Jews from Africa or Asia or their unique Mizrahi culture
those who follow Sephardic back to the center of Israeli
religious practice. Following life. Yemenite music entered
the expulsion from Spain, the pop scene with Ofra
Sharren Haskel, many Sephardic Jews Haza, who blends traditional Ofra Haza, Yemenite-
youngest member
of Likud
immigrated to Arab countries, instruments, rhythms, and style performer
blending with the local lyrics with modern flair.
population, making it difficult to distinguish between Micha Biton weaves into his
Sephardim and native Mizrahim. music the haunting melodies of his Moroccan
heritage. Yemenite silversmiths create sacred objects
Today, most Mizrahi Jews live used by Jews of all backgrounds. Mizrahi restaurants
either in Israel or the United – where large platters of skewered meat and breads
States and maintain particularly and bowl upon bowl of salads and condiments are
strong ties with others from shared by a group –
their family’s nation of origin. have become
Each subgroup often maintains fashionable gathering
Dalia Itzik,
its own synagogue as well as its 1st female speaker places in Israel, while
own language. of the Knesset their cuisine and
customs enjoy a
Since the expulsion of Jews from Spain in the late 15th Micha Biton,
resurgence. Moroccan-style
century, Sephardim and Jews from Arab lands (some
performer
who had returned to Israel
from Babylonia, now Iraq,
during the Second Temple
period), were the majority Yekutiel Adam,
of Jews in the land of Israel, Major General COMMITTEE CO-CHAIRS:
in the IDF, Sharon Efron
and Sephardic religious Commander sgredancer@yahoo.com
practice dominated Jewish of Operation Robin Santiago
life. Entebbe drsantiago@drsantiago.net
Temple Topics Vol. LV, No. 3 January-February 2020 Tevet-Shevat-Adar 5780 17Supporting Beth El
We deeply appreciate the following
Thoughtful Contributions.
Cantor’s Music Fund Rabbi Garber’s Discretionary Fund Rabbi Rosen’s Discretionary Fund
in Appreciation of in Appreciation of in Appreciation of
Cantor Ness for bat mitzvah of Ilana Rabbi Garber – Carin Buckman, Shanna Diane Lieberfarb & Sharon Levine-Shein –
Brown – Maria & Eric Brown & Josh Gottfried, Caryl & Leonard Shirley K. & David Brody
Cantor Ness – Caryl & Leonard Goldberg, Goldberg Rabbi Rosen – Marci & Jonathan Alter,
Margolis family, Shakun family, Rabbi Garber for the bat mitzvah of Jordan Rivka Dvorin & Arthur Freedman,
Weisman family Lang – Lauren & Jason Lang Caryl & Leonard Goldberg, Janice
Cantor Ness for the bar mitzvah of Joel Camp Ramah Fund Hechter, Margolis family, Denise &
Harris – Lisa & Peter Harris Richard Order, Susan & Mark
Cantor Ness for the bat mitzvah of Jordan in Memory of Schmedik, Shakun family, Weisman
Lang – Lauren & Jason Lang Charlotte Bazer – Annette & Seymour family, Ruth & Penny Yancovich
Gavens Rabbi Rosen for the bat mitzvah of Ilana
in Honor of
Bat mitzvah of Ilana Brown, daughter of Education Fund Brown – Maria & Eric Brown
Maria & Eric, granddaughter of Barbara in Honor of Rabbi Rosen for the bar mitzvah of Joel
& David – BJ & Leonard Diamond High Holiday chapel service – Helene & Harris – Lisa & Peter Harris
Temple music program – Rivka Dvorin & Felix Springer Rabbi Rosen & the office staff – Estelle
Arthur Freedman in Memory of Sherry
Donald Lehrer, father of Marci Alter – Rabbi Rosen for the marriage of daughter,
in Memory of Bari Sloves to Sam Stein – Elyse & Jay
Donald Lehrer, father of Marci Alter – Barbara & Robert Green
Michael DeRosa, husband of Marlena; Sloves
Bobby & David Klau
Beatrice Margolis, mother of Jerry, sister of Marcia Goldberg, mother of Leonard – in Honor of
Florence Shakun & Joel Weisman – Diane & Ron Salm Kol Nidrei honor – Harriet & Robert
Jeanne & Dan Kleinman for the Yahrzeit of Berland
George Scharmett, grandfather – Jill & Bat mitzvah of Ilana Brown, daughter of
for the Yahrzeit of Maria & Eric, granddaughter of Barbara
J. Kim Buland, husband – Roberta Buland Gary Jones
& David – Joanne & Arthur Rome
Chai Society Taste of Shabbat Fund in Memory of
in Memory of in Honor of Bruce Bank – Michele & Bruce Aronson,
Esther & Stanley Weiner, parents of Judi A wonderful Temple – Rivka Dvorin & Roslyn & Marvin Katz
Greene; Bertha Rosenfield, mother of Arthur Freedman Beatrice Margolis, mother of Jerry, sister of
Howard – Wendy & Jed Schulman Joseph Springut Security Fund Florence Shakun & Joel Weisman –
Wishing a Speedy Recovery to in Memory of Shirley K. & David Brody, Joan &
Marlene Fein – Roz Rachlin Charlotte Bazer – Honey Sue Springut Richard Druckman
Gerald Gelles, father of David – Janice
Friends of Ari Santiago Temple Youth Activities Fund Cartin
Accessibility Fund in Memory of 1st Lt. Herschel Howard Mattes, brother of
for the Yahrzeit of Beatrice Margolis, mother of Jerry, sister of Estelle Sherry – Jeanne & Marshall
Lila Santiago, mother – Robin & Rafi Florence Shakun & Joel Weisman – Elman
Santiago Joanne & Saul Pasternack Donald Lehrer, father of Marci Alter –
Susan & Jeffrey Factor, Felice Goldman
BETH EL TEMPLE Ann Cohen, mother of Lewis – Andrea &
Bob Lindenberg
CRAFT GALLERY Ida Gillman, mother of Felice Goldman –
Ida Ressler
Come browse our collection of hand- Dr. Marvin Levine, husband – Terri
selected items from some of Israel’s Levine
top artists as well as artisans Tsedakah/Chesed Fund
throughout the United States. From in Honor of
menorahs to mezuzahs, jewelry to Judaica, tallit to tzedakah Our wedding – Rivka Dvorin & Arthur
Freedman
boxes, the Craft Gallery is here to support your needs. We also
offer Seder Plates in a wide variety Temple Fund
in Appreciation of
of styles and materials. Rabbis Garber, Rosen, Sowalsky & Cantor
OPEN: Sundays, 9:00 – 11:30AM Ness for the bat mitzvah of Pauline
(when SULAM is in session) Golder – Shera & David Golder
NOTE: proceeds benefit the synagogue Judy & David Rosenthal – Caryl &
and we are staffed through the Leonard Goldberg
generosity of our volunteers Rabbi Rosen – Nancy Gottfried, Erica &
APPOINTMENTS: Neer Hershtig
Shelley Barker, 860-232-6468; Judy & David Rosenthal’s gracious
hospitality during the High Holidays –
Jill Jones, 860-236-7895 Denise & Richard Order
(fund continues)
18 Beth El Temple West Hartford, CT www.bethelwesthartford.org 860.233.9696Temple Fund (cont.) Beatrice Margolis, mother of Jerry, sister
Shop at in Honor of of Florence Shakun & Joel Weisman –
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Goldstein, Satlof family
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Frances Gurtman & Richard Goldberg,
Amazon will Jessica & Eric, great-grandson of Judy
Zachs and Henry Zachs – Lee Ann & Karen & Jeffrey Polinsky
donate a portion of the Claudio Benadiva Ann Cohen, mother of Lewis; Shirley
purchase price to Beth El. Bar Mitzvah of Owen Ludgin, son of Jen Seltzer – Fredda & Jon Goldstein
& Andy, grandson of Karen & Rob – Bruce Bank – Rachel & Mitchell Marcus,
Go to smile.amazon.com, Fredda & Jon Goldstein Mark Nachtigal
type us in, and shop as you Birth of grandson to Andrea & Bob Dr. Irving Rosenthal, husband of Shirley –
Jan & Harold Moskowitz
Lindenberg – Nancy & Dennis
normally would! Gottfried Bertha Rosenfield, mother of Howard –
Lee Ann & Claudio Benadiva, Karen &
It's no charge to you! Patti & Howard Weiner – Debbie & Steve
Jeffrey Polinsky
Kleinman
Judge Henry Cohn receiving the Charlotte Bazer – Judy & David Satlof,
Distinguished Graduate Award from Holly & Jerry Swirsky
Scrip = Gift Cards UConn Law School – Peggy & Alan
Mendelson
for the Yahrzeit of
Leon Abkowicz, father – Marilyn & Leslie
Buy good-as-cash GIFT Bat mitzvah of Pauline Golder, daughter Abkowicz
of Shera & David, granddaughter of Florence & Lester Wasserman, parents –
CARDS from Beth El. Visit Alison & Alan Gittleman – Denise & Shelley Barker
www.shopwithscrip.com Richard Order Anita Beckenstein, grandmother &
for a six-page list of President Judy Rosenthal’s eloquent & mother-in-law – Julie & RozLynn
participating stores, inspiring Yom Kippur message to the
congregation – Eileen & Elliot Pollack
Beckenstein
Seymour Freedman, father – Holly & Al
restaurants, entertainment, in Memory of Berkon
and more. The Office stocks Donald Lehrer, father of Marci Alter – Danica Cupurdija, Holocaust
commonly requested cards, Estelle & Abe Bernstein, Linda & remembrance – Carolyn & Stu
Bernstein
and can order others. Henry Cohn, Bella & Judd Fink, Sherry
family Steven Blinder, brother – Jordan Blinder
1st Lt. Herschel Howard Mattes, brother of Jean Blumberg, mother – Harold
Estelle Sherry – Naomi & Michael Blumberg
Cohen, Judith Kotick Rosalie Borus, mother-in-law; Mimi
Robert Pitegoff – Lila & Gordon Fain Aleng, Holocaust remembrance – Judy
Gerri Sack – Dorothy Brownstein Borus
Gladstone, Kessler family, Rona & Jack Molly Kling, mother & grandmother –
Wenik Shirley K & David Brody & family
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Every dollar contributed can
and does make a difference
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Please be sure to include: for each listing is $10.
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