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Bridal Guide Wedding planner checklist Top wedding colors for 2021 Pg. B4 Pg. B7 Questions to ask Bridal your photographer Pg. B8 Guide 2021 Planning your perfect outdoor wedding Pg. B3 THE Special Feb. 17, Edition of: 2021
B2 Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 Bridal Guide Courier • Advance Going green for your wedding Trending now - tiny is big Your wedding can be green without tions but RSVP cards, thank-you notes As the pandemic rolls on, couples are Even wedding cakes have been shrinking a single splash of the color. Making and more. Don’t trash your wedding trimming guest lists to accommodate local lately. Full sized cakes have become cup- your big day sustainable and eco— decorations. Find ways to reuse, recy- rules on gatherings and to make their cer- cakes and those are now cake pops and cake friendly gets easier every year as the cle or donate them. Send the flowers emonies safer for their loved ones. It also balls. These can be stacked in layers and ar- wedding industry gets on board with to a local hospital, senior center or plays into a more enduring trend of mini- ranged in way to complement your décor leaving small carbon footprints. shelter. Gift food and favors to your malism and choosing experiences over ex- and theme. You can make sure your engagement family or guests. For larger things pense. One of the biggest trends in weddings Little bottles of local honey or wine, min- and weddings bands are sourced re- like mirrors or lanterns, re-sell them are tiny – miniature foods, drinks, favors and iature chocolate bars with your monogram sponsibly. Use the Kimberly Process at a local consignment or thrift store. even small cakes are all the rage. on them and little bags of candy are great Certification Scheme to track your Find businesses where you can rent Finger sandwiches are a great idea for a favors to give your guests to remember the stones and ask your jeweler if they’re items instead of buying single-use garden wedding but you can take this even day. committed to using conflict-free disposables. You can rent glassware, farther. Mini tacos, sliders, and pigs-in-a- The tiny trend includes clothing as shorter stones. Lab created stones may have linens, decorations and more. If you blanket can all be made smaller. Serve them skirts that bare knees and legs are chosen for a bad rap, but they’ve got a lower im- do have to use disposables, choose as passed dishes or on distanced tables. brides and bridesmaids in warmer weather. pact on the environment. And recy- things, like paper, that you can recy- cling isn’t just of the empty bottles of cle or that will biodegrade. bubbly. Reusing estate jewelry is and And finally, instead of tossing rice environmentally responsible comes or confetti, have your guests throw with great vintage vibes. lavender, rose petals, fresh herbs or Pick wedding stationary that’s micro flowers. They are biodegrad- printed on recycled paper or uses al- able and colorful, giving a pop of col- ternative like upcycled fabrics or even or to your grand exit and you can put wood. Use it for not only the invita- them in paper bags for guest to grab. Perfect for Bridal Showers, Rehearsal Dinners and Small Receptions Mary Cronin, Mgr. 2011 Indorf Ave., Holstein, IA 712-368-6200
Courier • Advance Bridal Guide Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 B3 Planning your perfect outdoor wedding Outdoor weddings are gorgeous and rant or a park. If you don’t have enough want to provide cooling shade and drinks hand sanitizing stations, consider host- romantic but present a special challenge space, try to make an arrangement with a for your guests to keep everyone safe. ing groups in shifts and have guests that when it comes to planning. This easy nearby school or church and include the Plan for the pandemic are able to stand so there’s more dis- checklist can make your outdoor wed- parking info on your wedding website. Outdoor weddings are particularly at- tance between them. Minimize sharing ding day as stress-free as possible. Check on noise rules and regulations tractive to those hoping to gather safely of items such as photo booth props, serv- Have an alternate location Check on local laws and venue rules despite Covid-19. Make sure you have ing utensils and guestbook pens. No one likes to think of it raining on when it comes to volume and times for their wedding day, but it’s a possibility your musicians and DJs. Restrooms - that must be considered. Have a backup plan if you wake up and the weather is out of sync with your plans and include a communication plan for a quick and easy way to communicate those changes with Does your locale have ample restrooms for the number of guests you’ll have? If not, you can rent portable restrooms for your guests. Consider electricity needs LidderdaleCountry Store vendors and guests. Outdoor weddings usually don’t have This can be a note on your wedding convenient power plugs hidden amongst Catering to Perfection website or on social media, or you can the trees and grass. Check with your ven- turn over all the responsibility to your dors to see what their electrical needs wedding planner, family member or are, including the caterer, baker and lo- trusted friend. rist. Then, coordinate their needs with Have a plan for parking your location. This is especially true if you’re get- ting married in a backyard, at a restau- Plan for hydration and shade If you’re in a warmer location, you’ll Our exquisite cuisine speaks for itself. See why the “word of mouth” on us is more than good ... It’s delicious! Several wedding packages are available, in a variety of price ranges to suit every budget. Hours: M-F, 9-5:30; Sat., 9-4 • Financing available Lidderdale, IA • 822-5322 Special Event Rentals available Go to www. lidderdalecountrystore.com 505 W. Main St., Sac City P h: 712-662-7347 to check out our menus, request a quote or Tux Rental • Gifts • Home Decor • Flowers • Plants • Balloons • and more! see our reviews.
B4 Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 Bridal Guide Courier • Advance Wedding planner checklist Start here Three Months Before One Month Before Wedding Announcement Policy for Set your date and venues Reserve your officiant Choose the menu and flowers Transfer RSVPs to guest lists Contact people who haven’t replied. Courier and Begin a wedding Select favors Purchase marriage license Advance binder/folder Browse through fashion, lifestyle, bridal, Order products with his and your name printed on them. Could take up to six days. Send rehearsal dinner invites newspapers design, food and gardening magazines Buy undergarments A wedding announcement is $10 for for ideas. Plan your second fitting. Final dress fittings a photo and short description or $30 for a photo and a complete description. Set your budget Prepare the order of the Make final payments Wedding announcements and photos ceremony and reception must be submitted no later than six Choose your wedding party Arrange seating for reception months after the event. Call 712-364- Order programs Sketch a layout of the room, use sticky Begin a guest list 3131 for more information. notes with guests’ names on them to quickly move them where needed. Search for caterers, bands, florists and photographers Shop for attendant gifts Extra copies of this Hand them out at the rehearsal dinner. 2021 Bridal Guide may be picked up at: Seven to Six Week of Wedding Ida County Courier Months Before Discuss time frame with vendors Holstein Advance Find & purchase invitations Deliver timeline to bridal party 214 Main St., Ida Grove Plan your honeymoon Have contact information of all Check that your passports are up-to-date members. Search for bridesmaids’ dresses Pick up wedding attire To advertise in our Could take six months to be ordered and sized. Two Months Before Prepare for honeymoon Bridal Guide next year, Find a florist Check with all vendors Double check thank-you notes call 712-364-3131. Choose your color palette. Make any changes they may have on your schedule of events. Meet your photographer Five to Four Discuss location and photos you prefer. Romantic. Months Before Book your hair, makeup Elegant. Beautiful. Reserve rehearsal and and vendors rehearsal dinner location Discuss the menu and price range. Mail out invitations and map of directions Let your bouquet be a reflection of your wedding day. Choose your cake to order Set RSVP at three weeks. Go to different tastings to pick which cake you like. Showcase your wedding Flowers & More announcement in the 513 2nd St., (in the Mall) Buy wedding shoes and begin newspaper Ida Grove, IA • 712-364-4459 dress fittings idagroveflowers.com An engagement with a photo is $10.
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B6 Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 Bridal Guide Courier • Advance Small budget wedding ideas vres or individual charcuterie boards to replace crowding around a server or food station, servers taking drink orders can interact with one another before and during the ceremony. The focus on the ceremony at tables, a rise in plated meals and box- This year, we’ve seen a movement away es with ceremony programs, favors and from the accouterments surrounding the other details handed out to each guest. day and a focus turned towards the ac- Not only does this personalized service tual “getting married part.” The spoken make for a more luxe-feeling experience; word has more impact and importance. it’s also a solid safety measure. There are no sweaty dance loors or Couples are getting creative with their lines in a buffet. It has become a stream- guest lists and utilizing technology to lined, elegant celebration for the right include more loved ones. Guest lists are reasons. In the past, religion mostly dic- getting smaller, but a micro wedding isn’t tated the ceremony, leading people to put your only option. it at the bottom of their preparation list. Couples are planning multiple celebra- But today, everything is personal- tions and shift weddings (where guests ized—customized by the bride and arrive at staggered times). A livestream groom by incorporating religious obliga- isn’t just a nice-to-have extra, but an tions, family traditions and new realities. important part of every wedding, and With COVID-19, people can’t party, but guests are having their own “watch par- they can virtually attend your ceremony. Small and intimate weddings are instead of playing matchmaker between ties”. Couples are creating private Face- The ceremony has now become the trending now, and it’s not just because friends. Also, due to COVID-19 rules, ta- book groups and websites where guests most important element of the day. they’re very budget friendly. More and bles are generally looking smaller this more couples are more likely to opting year—think groups of four to six instead for a more intimate celebration to get of 10 to 12. Also, if you’re a fan of the quality face time with each guest, as well sweetheart table, now is your time to as creating a more relaxed, casual vibe, embrace it. especially in this special year. However, Weddings are going restaurant-style small doesn’t have to mean boring and With the rise of plated dinners and there’re so many ways to add a person- live entertainment, weddings may start al touch to your big day. Check out these to feel like dining at a ine restaurant. amazing small wedding ideas we’ve Reception tables will come in a variety rounded up and get inspired. of shapes and sizes, and seating assign- Small wedding reception ideas ments will be based on family or living This year, we are seeing a rise in the situations, rather than disparate groups micro wedding, aka an intimate wedding of people placed together. Table assign- with fewer than 50 guests. There are ments may be discussed and sent to many plus-sides to this new trend, from a guests in advance to minimize confusion focus on who is in attendance to the over- upon arrival. all vibe of the event, which can lend itself Personalized service to being more personal and emotional— will replace crowding especially during such an uncertain time. Waiting in line or clustered togeth- According to a recent American Wed- er, whether to order at the bar, grab a Enjoy a revolving line of credit using the equity in your home as collateral. ding Study, 47 percent of followers are slice of cake or a favor, or ind an escort Get approved for a specific amount of credit and advance as needed for now planning on downsizing their guest card has been a mainstay of weddings major expenses that may arise. lists. While this is a hard task, pollsters pretty much forever. However, with so- Ida Grove • 712-364-3393 are seeing couples prioritize the health cial distancing now irml y ingrained in Alta • 712-200-1234 and safety of loved ones by limiting those the culture, you’ll see a decline in these Arthur • 712-367-2291 in attendance. “crowding moments” in favor of more Aurelia • 712-434-2291 Galva • 712-282-4439 With social distancing still in place, it’s personalized service. Holstein • 712-368-4502 www.unitedbk.bank a smart decision to seat groups by pods Examples include boxes of hors d’oeu-
Courier • Advance Bridal Guide Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 B7 ••• Top wedding colors for 2021 ••• ouples are turning to a lighter, Green tones will be seen everywhere Yellow is coming in hot as one of the Neutrals are minimalistic yet bohe- mood-boosting hues and going from actual greenery to using it as a pri- new wedding colors for couples in search mian in 2021. Many couples are looking back to the basics for their 2021 mary or accent color. Green has become of a palette that doesn’t feel overdone for wedding colors that evoke a calming, wedding colors. extremely popular thanks to the tropical or bland. Vibrant, sunny yellow is the chic vibe, and neutrals it the bill per- Lilac, pinks, corals and even orange will wedding theme, but as one of the top particular shade we have our eye on for fectly. Earth tones like taupe, ivory and be key colors but not in the traditional wedding colors of 2021, green will take 2021 and it doesn’t take much of the dusty rose are especially in-demand for form. Instead you will see them washed on a much more eclectic and almost retro color to make an impact. From summer bridesmaid dresses, but the soft hues out, providing a softer, sophisticated feel. vibe. Mid-range greens such as olive, pis- beach weddings to romantic outdoor will continue to be popular for wedding Texture will also be important, using lay- tachio, avocado, and matcha will bring a fall celebrations, this color will pop up décor, stationery and lor al arrange- ers of blooms and greenery replicated in cool 70’s look to your day. Use green to everywhere and its versatility might sur- ments. With a lack of bright colors, mix- the use of mixed linens, paper goods, and make your other colors pop. Green is one prise you. Energetic yellow is the perfect ing different textures and materials will even serving vessels. of the most universally latt ering colors, accent color if you have a mostly white be extremely important to add visual Blue is always a staple in many wed- (it looks good on fair, olive or dark skin or neutral color palette. Add it to your interest and depth to this color palette. ding palettes and aesthetics. Dark hues, tones) so it’s an easy addition to your tables with taper candles, linens, gold Flowers and greenery are two ways to like navy and sapphire will take a back wedding attire. Jazz up an ensemble with latw are, or colored glass accents. Yel- achieve this. If you use mostly white and seat as accents while lighter blue tones a green jacket or patterned tie, or out- low low ers include sunlow ers, peonies, ivory tones, details like pampas grass, take the stage in 2021. Periwinkle, pow- it your bridesmaids in sleek green slip and heirloom roses, which are gorgeous bleached greenery, metallic pieces and der blue, cornlow er, and French blue are dresses. In your low er arrangements, options for creating a garden-inspired luxurious linens such as velvet, silk, and just a few colors who will claim the spot- use fan palms, plumose ferns and English aesthetic. Feeling more playful? Try the faux fur, will keep the aesthetic from light. The great news is that light blue is ivy if you want something other than eu- citrus-fruit-as-décor trend using fresh falling lat . You can also use black as an one of the easiest wedding color trends calyptus and philodendron leaves. lemons, grapefruits and oranges as cre- accent color to give your weddings a to adapt for any season or style. It looks Fuchsia, yellow, teal, bright red, and ative additions to your centerpieces. more formal, sophisticated look. elegant and whimsical with other pastel cobalt blue are some of the new wed- colors like blush and lilac, and is pretty ding colors you can expect to see in 2021. when paired with burgundy, rust orange Throwback neons are a game changer if and other colors that are typically seen you are looking for something that’s en- at fall or winter weddings. You can incor- tirely unexpected, with a hint of nostal- porate light blue in your 2021 wedding gia. Rather than choosing one of these as palate by using details like serving plates, your wedding color, the trend is to use a silk bouquet ribbons, linens and colored combination of them, resulting a bold and glassware. Flowers of light blue include non-traditional palette. From patterned anemones, hydrangeas, sweet peas, for- dinner plates to rainbow low er arrange- get-me-nots, delphinium and scabiosa. ments, neon signs and statement making Lilac and lavender are pale purple hues, which will be some of the most in-demand backdrops, these colors bring an upbeat tone for the day. Decorate your invita- Venue for: colors this year. Unlike the color trends of years past, these aren’t your average pas- tions with shapes and details like squig- gly lines, triangles and polka dots to sur- Parties • Receptions tels. The goal is to use numerous pastel colors together for maximum impact. Use prise your guests with something unique. Papaya orange is an updated and Showers • Fundraisers lavender alongside colors like pale yel- punchier version of coral or peach. low, bubblegum pink and mint green for Slightly more saturated, it isn’t as bold -Bar and kitchen available- a pastel rainbow effect that is whimsical as rust or tangerine, which makes is eas- and fun. Since lilac and lavender are also ier to use. This color can be bohemian low ers, the easiest way to use them is and artsy or tropical and lively. Pair it in your bouquets, centerpieces or other with other vivid hues like magenta and arrangements. But they are also popping turquoise if you’re having a beach wed- up in some of the biggest wedding décor trends including spray-painted baby’s ding or use it as an accent color on an earthy, neutral palette. Terracotta vases, Jamee Dittmer: 712-261-0350 breath, colorful cakes and pressed low - cymbidium orchids, and lilies are a few ers like violets, cosmos and larkspur, that keep their color even after drying. subtle ways to work this statement color into your décor. Burdette Conover: 712-368-4481
B8 Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 Bridal Guide Courier • Advance Important questions to ask your photographer Couples rely on photographers to cap- eral local wedding venues and places of signiicantl y. Explore all your options to en- includes a inal payment when picking up ture the smiles and moments that helped worship. Ask if they know the venue and sure you are getting the best value. proofs or albums. make their event unique and to ensure the have photographed there in the time of day What is the payment timeline? Many ac- Wedding photography is an essential big day is remembered for years to come. scheduled for your event. cept deposits for their services but expect a part of a wedding and commemorates the Wedding couples spend $2,400 on average Will photos be color balanced and re- different timeline for payments. Some may story of the couple’s special day. Asking key for a wedding photographer, so here are touched? Skilled photographers are capa- require payment in full before the wedding questions can help you ind the right pho- some questions you should ask before you ble of capturing winning photos, but pho- while others may offer a payment plan that tographer will produce the desired results. hire one. tos can be enhanced to bring out speciic What style do you specialize in? Ask to effects. Some photographers will polish see a full gallery of a recent wedding, so all proofs, while others only will work on you know the photographer’s style and at- the images ultimately ordered. Conirm re- tention to detail. touching details before signing a contract. Who will shoot my wedding? Some What’s included in the photo packages? photography studios have several photog- A detailed price list helps you compare raphers working under one roof. Just be- one photographer to another to see what cause you met with one, doesn’t mean that is included. How many hours at the event photographer will be on site, unless it is are included in the price, cost of additional speciied in the contract. prints, having a photographer’s assistant, Have you worked at my venue before? ordering albums for the parents, or or- Photographers may be familiar with sev- dering a large framed print can alter costs What to look for in an outdoor wedding venue The day a couple says “I do” is often the to make sure everything is perfect but culmination of months of planning and no one can control the outdoor elements. much of those efforts is dedicated to cre- Look for sites that have a readily accessi- ating a special ceremony that will create ble indoor option just in case the weather special memories. The choice of venue is is not cooperating. Many reception ven- a signiicant decision and today’s couples ues are capable of hosting indoor and have more options regarding where to get outdoor ceremonies as well as dinners, so married than ever before. Many couples this might be the best option for couples who have set a date are looking to do so in who want to have weddings during times the great outdoors. of the year when the weather can be in- Nature became center stage as many clement or unpredictable. couples moved their ceremonies out- You want to make sure all your guests doors to adhere to government guidelines can be there to witness the ceremony. issued in response to the pandemic. Cou- Before choosing an outdoor site, consid- Why make an already busy week ples who are considering outdoor venues er those guests who may have mobility even busier? for their wedding day can look for certain issues, such as grandparents. 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Check out the sounds at the scene – is worse. there a certain time when natural noises Outdoor weddings are wildly popu- Stop in or call ahead and would make it hard for guests to hear? lar. Couples who ind outdoor ceremony make an appointment. Also, check the lighting at different times sites with certain features may rest easi- of the day to be sure your photographer er knowing they and their guests are safe 508 Lake Avenue can capture the day with the best light. and sound no matter what Mother Nature Storm Lake, IA 50588 • 732-2537 Always have a Plan B. You work hard has in store on the big day.
Courier • Advance Bridal Guide Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 C1 After-marriage checklist Pg. C3 Honeymoon destinations Pg. C6 THE Special Feb. 17, Edition of: 2021
C2 Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 Bridal Guide Courier • Advance Savings strategies for weddings want to splurge. If having a video mem- ory of the wedding is not a top priority, to wedding savings. Do you need a take- out coffee in the morning or can you you can skip videography services. If you brew a pot at home? Might you be able to have a special low er that you like, you scale back on streaming services? Do you may want to budget more for that bloom feel comfortable buying less expensive even if it isn’t in season. store brand groceries over name brands? Set up a dedicated savings account Small cost savings can quickly add up. One of the easiest ways to save for Add up gifts big-ticket items like a wedding, home Factor in deduction of expenses that purchase or other inancial goals is to other people will commit to covering for use an automatic savings account that wedding expenses, but only if you have may be available through your bank or concrete conirmation. A parent may employer. An automatic savings plan host the rehearsal dinner. One’s relative will pull a set amount from a personal may offer to pass down an antique wed- checking account into a savings account ding gown to wear. But rather than sim- through auto-draft. The bride and groom ply removing these gifts from your sav- can link individual checking accounts to ings calculations, keep them as a safety one savings account to contribute jointly. net to put toward unforseen expenses. Avoid overspending Saving for a wedding can be challeng- An analysis of your spending habits ing. But various strategies can help cou- will likely reveal areas where you can ples plan their dream weddings without The question was popped; the engage- York City will be expensive, while a wed- scale back so you can devote more funds breaking the bank. ment ring presented. What’s the next ding in Mississippi will cost a lot less, in- step on the road to the wedding? Saving dicates SuperMoney’s guide to wedding should deinit ely be on couples’ minds. costs. A wedding is likely the most costly par- Conduct some research and ind out Party supplies & rentals for every occasion. ty couples will ever throw. According to what photographers, lorists, transpor- The Knot’s 2019 Real Weddings Study, tation providers, reception halls, and the average cost of a wedding in 2019 wedding wardrobe vendors charge for was $33,900. Various strategies can common services. This will paint a vivid make it easier to save for a wedding and picture of what a wedding may cost in avoid a post-wedding inancial hangover. your area. Get informed Figure out the budget It’s impossible to budget for a wedding Once you have gathered estimates, you and ultimately save without knowledge can then igur e out a inancial goal. This •Weddings of what services and items cost in the re- also is when you can determine where •Birthdays & Graduations •Fundraisers gion where you live. A wedding in New to rein in spending and where you might BRIDAL REGISTRY Register your names & wedding date, so your guests can buy a gift certificate for you at MoJo’s. Come and Find Your “GOTTA HAVE IT.” Antique & Vintage Items • Unique Home Décor Hand-made Accessories 2318 3rd St., Sioux City • Ph. 712- 224-2318 uptownweddingandeventrental.com 900 N. 2nd St., Suite B, Cherokee, IA 51012 • 712-229-9456
Courier • Advance Bridal Guide Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 C3 After-marriage checklist: What to do next If you’re a just-married bride or groom, you may assume the planning is over. But there are lots of registry is as simple as taking the item back to the store or sending it back to the online retailer. Since Be sure to complete your name change before you and your spouse file for tax returns so that your legal post-wedding logistics to help you make a smooth many retailers have different return policies, howev- name matches the Social Security office records. transition to married life. Check out this after-wed- er, make sure you’re aware of their rules. Update marital status ding checklist. Choose wedding photos Once your name is legally changed, update your Pay your wedding vendors You may need to choose which wedding photos you new name and marital status with organizations in- Before the honeymoon, make sure those who pro- want for prints. Meet with your photographer to se- cluding: vided services for your special day are paid, includ- lect your favorites, make edits and choose sizes. • You and your spouse’s employers ing the venue manager, oficiant , caterer, baker, DJ or Change your name • Your insurance company band, beverage provider, lorist and wedding planner. If you choose to change your last name, start the • The Internal Revenue Service (at tax time) Get written conirmation from each that the inal pay- process soon after you’re married. Here’s how: • Credit card companies ment has been processed. 1. Use your original marriage certiicat e (not a pho- • Student loan providers Write thank you’s tocopy) to apply for a new Social Security card. Al- • The passport office Writing thank you notes shows your guests you ap- though your Social Security number will remain the • Medical providers preciate them. Stick to a few short, sincere sentences same, a new card will be issued with your new name. • Utilities thanking them for attending your wedding and giving 2. Bring your new Social Security card to your local • Voter registration a gift. Mail them within a month of the ceremony and Department of Motor Vehicles to apply for a new driv- • Post office make sure you’ve added adequate postage and have er’s license (or state identiication card). current addresses. 3. Once you’re issued your new ID, update your bank In addition to checking off items on the after-mar- Return registry gifts as needed accounts with your new name. Your bank will explain riage checklist, make sure you’re protected as a cou- Returning a wedding gift purchased through your the process of getting new checks and debit cards. ple with the right insurance. Applying for your marriage license Prior to a marriage ceremony in Iowa, pear at a local ofice. a License to Marry needs to be applied Couples are encouraged to apply sev- for at a county recorder’s ofice. You can eral weeks ahead of their wedding date. apply at any county ofice to be married There is a three-day waiting period for in Iowa. Both parties and an individual the license to be valid. A $35 fee is due of legal age who is acquainted with both upon application for the license to marry, parties need to be present when applying and includes a certiied copy of the Certif- for the license. All parties need to present icate of Marriage. The Certiicat e of Mar- their driver’s license or ID when signing riage will be mailed to the couple after the the application. Contact a county record- marriage. If you have any questions about er’s ofice to obtain an application by mail, applying for a marriage license, contact a if it isn’t convenient for all parties to ap- county recorder’s ofice. at: Battle Creek The Inn Celebrate at our Victorian Style BEST SERVICE. BEST PRICES. Bed & Breakfast Inn You don’t have to go to the city for the best buys! Wedding Parties & Private Parties (10-40 ppl) 618 Iowa Ave., Dunlap • 712-643-5922 6 Bed & Breakfast always open. www.bonsalltv.com email: mail@bonsalltv.com OWNERS: Lynne & Neil Bjorholm • 201 Maple St., Battle Creek, IA • 712-365-4499
C4 Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 Bridal Guide Courier • Advance We got married; now what? You were so caught up on the details of the day that you didn’t have a lot of time to think about what came after the ly can make it stronger for future tests. In that spirit, here are a few things that you are likely to experience in the irst In-laws The image of the interfering and dis- approving in-laws has long been a co- can open the door to greater intimacy and satisfaction, but you need to be able to communicate. wedding. Like most couples, your wed- year of marriage, and what research has medic punch line. But the reality is that Your irst big ight ding was a day to remember. But after told us about creating teachable mo- the family you have and the one you Conlict is a natural part of any re- the bouquet was tossed, the toasts were ments in the face of these experiences. are marrying into can make an impact lationship, and almost all couples will done, the guests went home and you Life stress on your marriage. Your social circle can have experienced it before they get got back from your honeymoon, you no- Life has a tendency of getting in the make a relationship much easier by pro- married. Still, the irst major conlict af- ticed that being married was a whole lot way of a marriage, and a lot of the time viding good support, being there to cel- ter marriage can feel very different be- different than being engaged. we fail to recognize that the ig hts can be ebrate the good times and providing the cause you are now oficiall y committed During interviews after couples’ one caused, and made worse, by the stress practical advice necessary for both little and you may wonder if you made the year anniversary marker, many ex- we experience outside of our relation- and big events. right decision. You aren’t alone. pressed their surprise with how chal- ship. Stress tends to eat up mental and It can also make things much harder Conlict can be hard, but learning how lenging that irst year actually was, say- physical energy which leaves us tired, by giving bad advice, failing to provide to manage it well can be a big bene- ing: worn out and less likely to be patient or support when times are hard, and, un- it down the road. Two major warning “I thought the irst year was going to understanding with our partners. That fortunately for some couples, trying to signs to watch for is the display of con- be easy.” little annoying thing your husband does get the couple to break up. Knowing tempt during conlict , which is a pow- “There are more ups and downs than with his fork at dinner suddenly be- where you stand with your in-laws, erful predictor of later divorce, and a I expected.” comes enraging... if you are under a lot where your spouse stands with your demand withdraw cycle, where one “We felt some big stress.” of stress. family and always working to keep spouse demands more interaction and Despite these challenges, most cou- Unfortunately, most people do not those relationships as positive as possi- the other pulls away. This cycle of in- ples were still very satisied with their recognize the toxic effects of stress. In- ble will make your marriage easier. teraction is self-perpetuating and can marriages, believing that their union stead of making an external attribution Sexual challenges be toxic to a relationship over the long was meant to be and the relationship like “my partner and I aren’t getting For some couples, getting married term. would last a lifetime. It showed how along because we are both so stressed means the start of their sexual rela- These aren’t the only things that come well couples could cope with challenges out,” we attribute the behavior to our tionship; for others, sex has been a part up in the irst year of marriage and ev- and still be optimistic about their mar- spouse, “I never knew my partner could of their relationship for a long time. If ery couple is a little different. Some cou- riage. be so annoying; why doesn’t he consider your sexual relationship is just starting, ples will never struggle with sex; others Moreover, challenges in marriage can my feelings?” The irst makes you think it presents new challenges to the rela- are lucky enough to get wonderful in- be a good thing. Couples who face mod- about ways to change your situation; tionship. You will need to become com- laws and still others will ind ways to erate stress when their marriage is rela- the second makes you wonder why you fortable both with your own sexuality manage stress so well, they never seem tively strong can adjust to the stress and got married. And it is easy to see how and how to please your partner (wom- to get anxious. Your marriage will be their relationship will get stronger and quickly things can turn ugly if you keep en, your sexual satisfaction is likely to many things, some good and some not be better prepared for the bigger chal- making internal instead of external at- increase over the years). so good, but your irst year of marriage lenges that all couples eventually face. tributions. Be sure you are aware of the For others, sex may have become a bit is an important milestone to cross, so Think of it like getting inoculated, a lit- stress in your life and how it can impact stale and in need of a reboot (guys, do remember to take time to smell the ros- tle bit of challenge to your marriage ear- your relationship. more housework.) 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C6 Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 Bridal Guide Courier • Advance Best honeymoon destinations in the U.S.A. ow that the wedding is out of volcanic craters and even snow-capped diversity. Newlyweds can get pampered State Recreation Site. More adventurous the way, you and your spouse mountains. Journey to Hawai’i Volcanoes at one of Honolulu’s luxury resorts, pairs should explore the sea caves and can begin your new life togeth- National Park and Akaka Falls State Park watch the North Shore’s massive swells waterfall at Hug Point State Recreation er with a romantic honeymoon. for some of the island’s most idyllic scen- and enjoy high-class shopping, dining Site during low tide or traverse Oswald To help you plan an enjoyable ery. Then, travel to Mauna Kea, a dormant and avant-garde art museums. There are West State Park’s scenic hiking trails. post-wedding trip without the added volcano and the highest point in the Ha- also plenty of adventurous date options There are also many restaurants scat- stress of international travel, U.S. News waiian Islands, for unobstructed views of on Oahu, including snorkeling, sky div- tered throughout the downtown area, so has ranked the best honeymoon desti- the glittering stars above. ing, parasailing and scuba diving. Histo- you’ll have many options when it comes nations in the USA. Vote for your favor- Sanibel, Florida ry-loving couples should also leave time to a date night dinner. ite romantic U.S. getaways below to help This idyllic beach town on the west for visits to the Pearl Harbor National Lake Tahoe, Nevada us determine next year’s ranking. (Note: coast of Florida attracts newlyweds with Memorial and Diamond Head State Mon- Lake Tahoe, which straddles the Cal- Some of the below destinations may be its laid-back vibes and gorgeous coastal ument. For a romantic way to end the ifornia-Nevada border, is known for its affected by the coronavirus outbreak. views. Stay in one of the cozy, romantic day, head to Sunset Beach to stroll hand crystal-clear waters and jagged peaks. Check with the CDC and the U.S. Depart- inns and cottages that dot the coast for a in hand on the sand while the sun goes Couples can spend the day boating on the ment of State before traveling.) bit of privacy. When you’re ready to ven- down. lake or schussing the slopes before turn- Kauai, Hawaii ture outside your digs, visit Bowman’s Charleston, South Carolina ing up the romance with a gourmet meal The Hawaiian island of Kauai is the Beach to comb for seashells – a must-do This South Carolina city pours on the on the lake’s north shore or catching a ideal honeymoon destination for duos in Sanibel – or enjoy a relaxing bike ride Southern charm like gravy on biscuits. sunset at Emerald Bay State Park. Duos who enjoy spending time outdoors. through J.N. Ding Darling National Wild- Cobblestone streets lined with South- who wish to test Lady Luck should vis- Beach lovers can soak up some sun at life Refuge. As the sun sets, savor a ro- ern-style mansions and Spanish moss- it one of the many casinos that sit close Hanalei Bay or swim and boogie board at mantic waterfront meal on neighboring draped trees set the scene for your hon- to the lake. Or, for a more unique experi- Kalapaki Beach. More adventurous cou- Captiva Island. eymoon. Take a horse-drawn carriage ence, cozy up to one another in a gondola ples can explore the winding trails and Lanai, Hawaii ride to see the sights and set the mood. and admire the surrounding mountains gorgeous lookouts of Waimea Canyon The most exclusive of the Hawaiian Is- Then, unwind with a relaxing spa treat- as you drift along. State Park, embark on a zip lining ex- lands, tiny Lanai offers fewer crowds than ment or explore Charleston harbor Carmel, California cursion or bond over one of the island’s its neighbors but just as many breath- during a sunset cruise. Commemorate With its charming inns, white sand many other adrenaline-pumping activi- taking views. Lovebirds can spend their your trip with a photo beneath the Angel beaches, quaint restaurants and laid-back ties. Meanwhile, sports enthusiasts can days hiking to overlooks with jaw-drop- Oak tree on nearby Johns Island. With an wine-tasting rooms, the European-style kayak along the Garden Island’s scenic ping scenery – like ethereal red lava cliffs array of lodging options, from conven- seaside town of Carmel is California’s rivers and – weather permitting – paddle overlooking azure water – or exploring tional hotels to quaint bed-and-breakfast one-stop shop for romance. Stroll hand into the Paciic Ocean. the island on a four-wheel-drive vehicle. accommodations, you’re sure to ind the in hand along picturesque Ocean Avenue Maui, Hawaii Couples can also stretch out on isolated perfect honeymoon suite for your trip. while checking out the street’s boutiques Hundreds of honeymooners venture Polihua Beach or try snorkeling near Hu- Cannon Beach, Oregon before heading to the beach to enjoy a to Maui to take advantage of its pow- lopoe Beach Park. Duos who time their Cannon Beach offers a number of cozy leisurely day of sunbathing, suring and dery sands, tropical foliage and palatial postnuptial getaways between winter inns and lodges to choose from, some of swimming. To dial up the romance, go for resorts. But this Hawaiian island is also and spring should also save time for a which feature romantic perks like ir e- a walk along the beachside Scenic Bluff great for adventure-loving duos: Hike whale watching excursion. places and soaking tubs. Take in the ar- Path and end your day cuddling beside a through Haleakala National Park to get Big Sur, California ea’s stunning scenery at Ecola State Park beach bonir e watching the sun set. your heart racing, or hop aboard a heli- Big Sur’s towering cliffs, serene waters before enjoying a picnic at Arcadia Beach (continued on page C7 ) copter for an exhilarating aerial tour of and secluded location make it a superb the island. After enjoying an adrenaline option for honeymooners seeking peace LET YOUR DREAMS rush, stop at one of Maui’s roadside farm stands to sample fresh pineapple and other tropical fruits. No Maui honey- and quiet. Hike and picnic amid the red- woods at Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, or enjoy each other’s company during a Bloom moon would be complete without eating stroll down tranquil Pfeiffer Beach. For delectable Hawaiian cuisine and watch- incredible views of the California coast ing a hula performance during a tradi- and the chance to spot wild animals like tional luau. humpback whales and California con- Hawaii dors, take a long drive down state Route Maui, Oahu and Kauai may be more 1. Wrap up your day with a couple’s spa traditional choices for a Hawaiian honey- treatment at a nearby inn. moon, but the Big Island offers geograph- Oahu, Hawaii ic diversity in the form of lush jungles, Honeymoons on Oahu offer plenty of Cushing, IA • 712-229-6595
Courier • Advance Bridal Guide Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 C7 more about — (continued from page C6) National Park, Bar Harbor offers easy . . . honeymoon destinations na town makes it the perfect venue for ing isn’t your thing, don’t fret: Aspen is Savannah, Georgia access to scenic hikes and other adren- post-wedding bliss. Honeymooners can also an excellent place to try winter ac- Slow down after your wedding with aline-pumping activities. You and your enjoy spa services, tennis and golf by tivities like ice skating, snowmobiling a honeymoon in Savannah, Georgia, sweetheart can even hike Cadillac Moun- day, followed by live music and romantic and snowshoeing. For an extra dose of where the trees are draped in Spanish tain and be the irst people in the coun- dinners on the water at night. Be sure to romance, go for a ride in a horse-drawn moss and the atmosphere is easygoing. try to see the sun rise. drop by Harbour Town for a daytime date sleigh, then curl up by a ir e in one of As- After a stroll through Forsyth Park or a Amelia Island, Florida of shopping, yacht-spotting and gazing at pen’s luxe lodges. few hours sunbathing on nearby Tybee Honeymooners choose this Florida lo- its iconic red-and-white lighthouse. And, Laguna, California Island, feast on some classic Southern cale for its 13 miles of seashell- and shark of course, the town’s 12 miles of golden Stunning vistas and near-constant sun- comfort foods at one of Savannah’s high- teeth-covered coastline. In addition to sands – including Coligny Beach Park shine make Laguna Beach a newlywed ly regarded eateries. If you share a love swimming, shelling and lounging on the and less-crowded Mitchelville Beach – paradise. Picnic in Heisler Park for lunch of the paranormal, sign up for a ghost sand, lovebirds can enjoy a romantic sea- are not to be missed. with an ocean view, or venture to Crystal tour of some of the city’s most haunted side horseback ride or a round of golf on Nantucket, Massachusetts Cove State Park to spend an afternoon sites. Or, if you’re looking for classic ro- one of Amelia Island’s many courses. Ac- Nantucket features a charming atmo- exploring nature together. This Southern mance, take a horse-drawn carriage ride tive couples will enjoy cycling along the sphere that complements honeymoon- California destination also offers much through the Historic District. Amelia Island Trail or one of the island’s ers’ needs. Couples who want a luxury in the way of culture, including access Jackson Hole, Wyoming many other designated bike paths. When experience should stay in one of the to numerous art galleries, museums and For couples who prefer woodland re- it’s time to eat, venture to Historic Down- island’s hotels, while those who desire independent shops. Don’t leave without treats to beachfront getaways, Jackson town Fernandina Beach to dine at one of something a little cozier can opt for a catching a sunset at Victoria Beach and Hole, Wyoming, is the perfect locale. the charming village’s restaurants. bed-and-breakfast. Amorous duos can sharing a meal at one of the area’s Miche- Spend hours hiking or skiing, then en- Asheville, North Carolina spend their irst few days of marital bliss lin-starred restaurants. joy a relaxing soak at the Granite Hot This North Carolina destination, which lazing on the beach, biking along the wa- Key West, Florida Springs or a glass of wine at a luxury re- is nestled among the Blue Ridge Moun- terfront, riding mopeds around the is- Escape to Key West for a honeymoon sort. Lovebirds can dial up the romance tains, is the ideal getaway for active cou- land or looking for ospreys during a hike full of white sand and turquoise wa- Sav with a scenic horseback riding excursion ples. Asheville offers hiking trails for at Coskata-Coatue Wildlife Refuge. Once ter. This laid-back Florida island seems straight out of a movie. Honeymooners honeymooners of all skill levels that lead it’s time to refuel, grab a bite to eat at a miles away from reality, so it’s the per- Cu should also save time for dinner and a to scenic overlooks, wildlow er ields local eatery before settling in with a beer, fect place to spend some time bonding show at the Jackson Hole Playhouse or and waterfalls. Other outdoor activities glass of wine or cocktail at Cisco Brew- with your new spouse. Take a boat tour splurge on a private hot air balloon ride include kayaking, whitewater rafting ers. to see the area from the water, or venture Mu at sunrise. and horseback riding. After a long day Aspen, Colorado to nearby Dry Tortugas National Park for Bar Harbor, Maine of exploring, say cheers to love at one of This small Colorado town at the base hours of underwater exploration. Make A This charming village in Maine beck- the city’s many breweries. Or, venture of the Rockies is ski-focused, so it’s ideal sure to end your day catching a sunset in ons to couples with outdoor excursions, into a few of downtown’s independent for winter honeymoons and twosomes Mallory Square and checking out down- secluded bed-and-breakfast accommo- boutiques for some retail therapy before who love cold-weather sports. But if ski- town’s waterfront bars and restaurants. dations, ocean views and fresh seafood satiating your appetite at a local restau- restaurants. Stroll hand in hand along rant. the Shore Path, or embark on a boat ride in the harbor. 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C8 Wednesday, Wedne day, February 17, 22021 21 Bridal Guide Courier • Advance Taking the inside out Outdoor weddings, especially in the balmy days of summer, are always a great use. The easiest and most budget friendly way to bring the inside out is placing ta- choice. You can go one of two ways – play bles. Use coffee tables to create gathering up the natural or set it off by bringing tra- places, dining tables for food and drink ditionally inside elements outside. and side tables for drinks, plates and light- Upholstered furniture like swing back ing. Think lamps (if you can plug them in) chairs for the bride and groom are fun at a or battery candles and lanterns. head table. Make conversation areas with This is a fun and visually appealing pretty rugs, love seats and benches. Make idea but it may stretch your budget and sure to put them in spots where they you have to move all the furniture to the won’t be soiled, especially if it’s borrowed. event and back. If you do borrow or rent Choose palettes and designs that accentu- furniture, try to get an insurance policy to ate your venue and theme. Don’t get too cover the pieces in case of an accident or attached to them as this may be their only disaster. Those big moments in life? Rules for wedding headgear One wedding trend making its way your bridal boutique will be able to rec- They have a way of changing everything, back down the aisle is the bridal cha- ommend pieces to perfectly accentuate including your need for life insurance. peau. There are lots of reasons for this, your dress. and here are some tips for picking the One tip – wear your hair up with most perfect hat for your wedding. hats and never put on sunglasses with Together, we can make sure you The irst step is to pick the rest of your a hat. have the right coverage. Let’s chat. outit , as the hat should complement For most venues, avoid a lopp y hat in the look in color, size and proportion. favor of a structured hat, like a pill box. Make sure your hat accentuates the sil- Mothers of the bride and groom should Denise Van Dusen houette of your outit and the shape of make sure their faces are visible under Agent Name 409 2nd St your face. For example, people with a their hats, and the mother of the brides IdaAgent Info Grove round face, should choose an angular always gets to wear the larger hat, un- Agent Info hat. This year’s head accessories aren’t less both bride and groom are hosting (712) 364-2931 your heavy 1990’s tiara. Sleek bandeaus the ceremony. Only guests going to an Agent Photo Agent Cell: Info210-3380 (712) with minimal embellishments are in, as outdoor country wedding may choose a Agent Info are smaller tiaras. It’s more elegant and loppier hat with loose locks. Agent Info Check out our F-A-B-U-L-O-U-S resort wear Logo ® Idaa G Grove rovve ((in in th the he m mall) a Disclosure M & F 3:30-6 pm; Tu. 3:30-6:30 pm; Farm Bureau Life Insurance Company*/West Des Moines, IA. *Company providers of Farm Bureau Financial Services W. & Th. 3:30-7:30 pm; Sat. 9 am-2 pm LI161 (8-19)
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