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100 Club                                           reconfigured to allow for an increase in the
The winner of the draw on Sunday July 3rd          size of the congregation. We are not back to
was Andrea Kaye. Appropriate as she was            a pre-pandemic capacity and there are still
away celebrating a special birthday with her       procedures in place to restrict the likely
Mum Pam Painter. Congratulations to                spread of any virus. The church is also open
Andrea who is one of our regular lucky             on the afternoon of the 4th Sunday in the
winners.                                           month from 2 - 4pm for visitors. We also now
                                                   feel comfortable providing “table service”
We have the big draw for £50 in August to          refreshments on these occasions as well as
complete the year.                                 after the Sunday service.
It has been suggested that some tickets are        In the case of St. Francis we are now
sticky !!! I can assure that is not the case but   offering refreshments at our Wednesday
for a number of other reasons Patricia is          “Community drop-in” after the morning
preparing new tickets. The Pandemic has            service so if you or anyone you know is
seriously reduced Church Funds and It              looking for some company come and join us
would be great if we could sell all 100 tickets    from 10.30am. We are also able to provide
for the new year which starts September. I         refreshments to clients of the foodbank which
hope that all who have supported by buying         is so much more friendly. We are also able
/ selling tickets in the past will support the     to welcome back some of the organisations
Draw in 2021-2022. If the lucky winners want       that previously hired the premises which is
to keep their number please let me know.           great news to all concerned.
Norman
                                                   We have been asked to publicise details of
The Bible study / Fellowship group will not        “Woolmarket Music” that put on events at the
be meeting during August bur will be               Woolmarket in Horndon. There are leaflets
resuming in September. When the plan is to         in church or you can get details form their
meet at St. Francis in the evening of the 2nd      website at:-
and 4th Tuesdays. However circumstances
                                                   https://woolmarketmusic.wordpress.com
may interfere with these dates so please
check the weekly newsletter for confirmation
before setting out. Everyone is welcome so         I have recently been e-mailing Sue
feel free to “just turn up”.                       Fernandez (née Hammond) and she
                                                   wondered how their house In East Tilbury
Elsewhere in this month’s edition Revd.            Village “Nyali” named after a beach in
Michèle writes about the St. James                 Kenya is suddenly displaying a blue plaque
churchyard in West Tilbury. The church itself      mentioning H. G. Wells. I have spoken to
was sold many years ago and is in private          members of our congregation who have
hands. The current owner has created a             lived in East Tilbury since childhood and it
website at: http://stjameswt.co.uk/ which has      remains a mystery . If anyone can help,
some historical notes and pictures.                please let me know for interest and I will
With Covid-19 restrictions being eased the         hope to report progress. Norman.
seating at St. Catherine’s has been
Reflections from The Rectory

                                            ‘Walk softly in the ways of God
                                           Listen gently to the voice of God
                                              Sit quietly in the love of God
                                            Pray humbly to the heart of God
                                           Act boldly in the strength of God
                                                  Go forth in His name’
                           These are the words that appear in the entrance of the Chapel at
                           the Diocesan House of Retreat in Pleshey and which I was
                           fortunate to see every morning whilst on retreat there for a few
days in July. The words are placed close to a spiral tea-light candle stand. And every morning
on my way to Morning Prayer I would pause to light a candle. At the start of the week I felt
myself drawn to candles at the bottom of the spiral, an indication perhaps of how tired and
weary I was feeling. At the end of the week when it was time to go home, a candle nearer
to the top of the spiral was now lit and an indication that I was feeling rested and ready to
re-enter the world.
And finding time for rest and relaxation is important. Traditionally the summer months are
specifically for this purpose and many people head off on a holiday. This year, as with 2020,
there are still challenges attached to travelling abroad so many people will be seeking a
holiday destination closer to home. Some may even choose to have a ‘staycation’ and venture
out to things near our own doorsteps.
After all perhaps it is not the destination that is important but rather that you purposefully
choose to have time set apart from the busyness of everyday life.
In our Sunday bible readings of late we have heard how Jesus often ‘went away to a quiet
place’. These moments often occurred before he had an important decision to make or after
an extremely busy time of ministry and seeing to the needs of others. He also encouraged
his disciples to ‘set time apart’ for this same purpose.
Taking ‘time out’ can often drop to the bottom of our list of priorities. We can all, I’m sure,
always think of things we must, should or could be doing. But, just as a car needs to be
topped up with fuel and oil if it is to run efficiently we also need to be topped up through rest
and refreshment so that we can function as we need to and hopefully with some degree of
efficiency.
So, whatever helps you to stop and relax, find time to do it and allow yourself precious
moments to walk softly in the ways of God, sit quietly in the love of God and then once
refreshed and restored go forth in His name.
Stay safe and keep well, Every Blessing,
Revd Michèle.
St James West Tilbury - Can you help?
As many of you will know St James Church in West Tilbury is now, and
has been for many years, a private residence. The churchyard has also
been closed and the maintenance overseen by the local council.
The owner St James’s Church has made an enquiry to the Diocese
seeking to purchase the remaining land in the churchyard that did not
come with the original sale of the church.
As part of the consultation process, which is being overseen by the Diocese of Chelmsford, we
are required to try and make contact the living relatives of those who have had burials in the
churchyard during the last 50 years.
Please note nothing will change as a result of this regarding public right of way and
access to the churchyard. Burials and interment of ashes into existing graves will still
be allowed.
The list below contains the names of those who have been buried in the last 50 years, the place
where they lived at the time of their death and the year the burial took place.
If you know of any living relatives that we might contact then do please call Revd Michèle
Marshall on 01375 671754 or email on mjmarshall@fastmail.co.uk.
Thank you for your help.
                           St James West Tilbury Burials since 1971
Name of deceased                  Abode of deceased                      Year of death
Francis Bloomfield                The Bakery, West Tilbury                      1971
Florence Fuller                   3, Coles Cottages, West Tilbury               1971
Gertrude Clark                    Chadwell St Mary                              1972
Alice Pease                       10, Muckingford Rd., West Tilbury             1972
William Harriss                   48, Rookery View, Little Thurrock             1972
William Ockendon                  Collingwood Farm, Orsett                      1972
Henry (Harry) Brown               The Nook, East Tilbury                        1972
Daisy Jepson                      Chadwell St Mary                              1973
Jane Bibby                        Sabina Road, Chadwell St Mary                 1974
Amy Lancaster                     St Andrews Hospital, Billericay               1974
                                  Formerly West Tilbury Village
Bertha Bull                       Well House, The Green, West Tilbury           1975
Geoffrey Edwards                  Biggin Farm, Chadwell St Mary                 1975
Cecil Downes                      West Tilbury                                  1975
Louisa Brown                      East Tilbury                                  1975
William Bugg                      Low Street, West Tilbury                      1976
Eric Hunt                         Sunnyside, Low Street, West Tilbury        1977
Norman Frost                      2 Monks Cottages Linford                   1977
Hilda Wright                      217, Southend Rd, Stanford le Hope         1977
John Mead                         1, The Cottages, The Green, West Tilbury   1978
Ellen Ockendon                    Orsett Hospital                            1978
                                  Formerly Collingwood Farm
Leo Coker                         Mill Cottage, West Tilbury                 1979
Elizabeth Clark                   Late of West Tilbury Village               1980
Elizabeth Bloomfield              The Bakery, The Green West Tilbury         1981
Gladys Harriss                    Danefield, Church Lane, Bearstead          1981
Walter Frost                      St. Christopher’s Hospice, Sydenham        1982
Hilda Gothard                     West Tilbury                               1986
Ethel Bugg                        No address in Register                     1987
Beryl Hunt                        Sunnyside, West Tilbury                    1989
Kathleen Downes                   Ghyll Grove Nursing Home, Basildon         1997
                                  Formerly West Tilbury
Dorothy Pease                     41, East Tilbury Rd, Linford               1999
Grace Frost                       127, Corringham Rd, Stanford le Hope       1999
Richard Ockendon                  Weavers, Chelmsford Road, Felstead         2000
Betty Waldon                      No address in register                     2011
Carol Bright                      No address in register                     2016
Lilian Grover                     41, East Tilbury Road, Linford             2017
Iris Pease                        No address in register                     2020

                                        Smile Lines
Quiet
Sad teenager: “Until I was thirteen, I thought my name was ‘shut up’.”

Baby
A three-year-old walked over to a pregnant woman on the beach. “Why is your stomach
so big?” he wondered out loud.
“I’m having a baby,” the woman replied, amused.
The little boy, with a puzzled look, ventured: “Is it a good baby?”
The woman smiled. “Oh, yes. It’s a real good baby.”
With even more surprise the toddler asked: “Then why did you eat him?”
The King’s Staycation Plus

As our Holiday in Brittany was cancelled Sheila looked for an alternative and found a lovely
“cottage” in Wedmore in Somerset.
This had a bonus as we were able to see our Great Niece in Bristol on her Birthday and again
before we drove home. Unfortunately Violet was a bit under the weather.
Before driving to Bristol we went to Wells, the smallest City in England. We parked in Waitrose
very near the Cathedral which was in walking distance. It is a stunning building and I particularly
liked the West Front(c1230).It contains one of the largest galleries of medieval sculptures in
the world. Starting in the lower niches with biblical scenes, it rises through kings, bishops and
an order of angels to the twelve apostles with Christ over all. Due to the pandemic we had to
follow the Pilgrims walk to admire the beautifully kept Cathedral, the Wells Clock installed
about 1390 is one of the oldest medieval clock faces in the world which on the quarter hour
shows jousting knights going round in tournament. There is a fantastic curve of well worn
steps up to the Chapter House and some very beautiful altar frontals ceiling arches and stained
glass windows. To date our best Cathedral visit. Next Door to the Cathedral is the Bishops
Palace a huge most impressive building and an RHS Garden. It was interesting that included
among the Bishops of Bath and Wells was Bishop Laud one of Michele’s predecessors as
Rector of West Tilbury. Norman
We had lunch at The Bishops Table (a café in the grounds!) Sheila

Remembering Sir Walter Scott by Tim Lenton
Sir Walter Scott, the Scottish historical novelist, poet and playwright, was born
250 years ago, on 15th August 1771. His best-known works include Ivanhoe
and Rob Roy.
Often considered to be both the inventor and the greatest writer of historical
novels, he was inspired by a stay with his grandparents in the Scottish borders
during his early childhood, while he recovered from polio. From them he heard
stories and ballads about the area and became fascinated by the history and culture of
Scotland, where all his early work was set – often published anonymously.
On a visit to the Lake District in 1797 he met Charlotte Carpenter, who he married after a
whirlwind romance, much to the disapproval of his parents, who suspected she was a French
Catholic. But she was a British citizen who had been christened in the Church of England:
the couple were happy until her death in 1826.
Scott was widely admired for both novels and poetry and was once offered the post of Poet
Laureate, which he declined. He was plagued during later life by financial problems, largely
brought about by taking on the debts of friends and colleagues, but also by expenses incurred
from his Abbotsford estate, near Galashiels.
Geraldine is out of “lockdown”
       (To set this in context the weekend referred to is the 19th / 20th June………Ed)
After being away for two weekends, I expected to be in church on Sunday, especially be-
cause I will not be there this coming Sunday. Both of my sons had arranged to come and
clear the loft for us as we need access for pipework at some point. They did an amazing
job, but of course we have ‘stuff’ everywhere to get rid of.
My son and his family from Bracknell stayed the night on Saturday, which I was very happy
about as it is very rare. They said they were going to my daughter in law’s sister in Tiptree
the next day, which I thought nothing of. Usually, they would have been up and out the
door, but strangely not this time, which of course was fine with me as I got more time to
spend with my grandchildren. We were supposed to be going to my brothers for lunch, so
all should have worked out well, they would go, I would go to church, then on to my broth-
er’s.
Everyone was dallying, which put paid to coming to church as I didn’t want to come back
and find my family gone. I texted our lunch date to say we will be over as soon as Simon
and Stassa have gone. Eventually they did go, and we got moving too. On the way I texted
to say we were running a bit late, to which the reply was, don’t worry it’s only salad. I
thought Alan is not going to be happy about that when I tell him, but he didn’t react. All
these things did not register with me at all.
I got there, put on my slippers on, then walked through to the lounge, where I had the most
wonderful surprise, there were all my family under a gazebo outside the patio doors shouting
surprise, a table laid with the biggest feast you ever saw, which as it turned out my daugh-
ter in law, Gemma from South Ockendon had done. I was in complete and utter shock and
speechless, and then came the tears. They said as I missed out on my 70th party last year, I
have the Covid restricted 71st family version.
My family from Bracknell were dallying as they were getting messages to delay because
family coming from further away had not arrived. I think they all did such an amazing job,
and I am just so lucky to have such a wonderful family.

                                 The Queen on York Minster
 York Minster is to mark the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee next year with a statue of the monarch,
 placed in a niche high on its medieval west front.
 The figure of the queen will be slightly larger than life, and she will be holding the historic
 symbols of monarchy: the orb and sceptre. She will be the first British monarch to have
 reigned for 70 years.
 The statue will be the centre point of a makeover of the open space in front of
 the Minster, where a new Queen Elizabeth Square is to be created. More details
 are expected in the autumn.
Church Wardens Report July 2021
July has brought with it celebrations and sad reflections
It was with great pleasure that Reverend Michele has officiated over
                  A Wedding for Aaron and Amy. We send you Gods blessings for your future
                  lives together.
But also the funeral of our brother Jason whose untimely passing brought great sorrow to St
Catherines congregation and his friends and family . May he rest in peace and rise in glory.
Colin Strong and I have attended The admission of Churchwardens and Archdeacon’s Charge
at St Peters and St Pauls Church in Grays. The service was led by The Venerable Mike Lodge,
Archdeacon of Southend.
So it is official…….we can now formally undertake the roles required of a church warden.
Do you know what a church warden is responsible for? I know I didn’t until undertaking this role.
First, a little history, Church wardens first emerged into legal recognition in the thirteenth century.
Two centuries later all adult parishioners had a choice in annually choosing their church wardens.
And you still do.
What are our responsibilities?
                  As a lay representative of the parish the role is extremely varied, and generally
                  involves management, maintenance and mission., and the following is not ex-
                  haustive.
                  We assist and support our incumbent Reverend Michele.
                  We represent our congregation and people in the community.
                  We maintain order and decency in the church and church yard, particularly dur-
                  ing services
                  We are responsible for all goods in the church and the church yard.
The list continues and includes safeguarding, risk assessments, dealing with complaints, care
during interregnum, ensuring parish activities are adequately supervised and insured.
 I am happy and very grateful to say that Reverend Michele covers a lot of these responsibilities
as well especially during Lockdown.
Colin and I hope to serve you all to the best of our ability.
We have advertised on Facebook for volunteers to help with churchyard maintenance, we hope
to see you there soon. In the meantime
Give thanks to the Lord for he is good, his love endures forever.
With blessings, Kathy
                        A prayer for all those affected by corona virus
 Keep us, good Lord, under the shadow of your mercy. Sustain and support the anxious, be
 with those who care for the sick, and lift up all who are brought low; that we may find com-
 fort knowing that nothing can separate us from your love in Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.
PARISH DIARY FOR AUGUST
                     Our Sunday services are at St. Catherine’s

As a result of the Church’s response to the COVID-19 pandemic there are
still some restrictions in place. To find the latest information please look at
the weekly newsletter, copies of which can be found on the gate at St.
Francis and St. Catherine or on the church website.
 1 Aug 9th Sunday after Trinity
        “Worshipping together” (Refreshments afterwards)           10.00am
        Holy Communion                                              4.30pm
 4 Aug Holy Communion (St. Francis)                                10.00am
        Then the community support “drop in” at St. Francis        10.30am-noon
        Funeral service and burial of the late William Ballard      2.00pm
 5 Aug Foodbank at St. Francis                                     11.00am - 1.00pm
 7 Aug Church cleaning at St. Catherine’s                          10.00am - noon
         Committal of ashes of Nell Plom                           11.30am
  8 Aug 10th Sunday after Trinity
         Parish Communion (Refreshments afterwards)                10.00am
         Baptism                                                   12noon
10 Aug Funeral service and burial of the late William Hollington    1.00pm
11 Aug Holy Communion (St. Francis)                                10.00am
         Then the community support “drop in” at St. Francis       10.30am-noon
 12 Aug Foodbank at St. Francis                                    11.00am - 1.00pm
 14 Aug Church cleaning at St. Catherine’s                         10.00am - noon
15 Aug 11th Sunday after Trinity The Blessed Virgin Mary
        Parish Communion (Refreshments afterwards)                 10.00am
        Baptism of Beau Dove- Webb                                 12.noon
18 Aug Holy Communion (St. Francis)                                10.00am
        Then the community support “drop in” at St. Francis        10.30am-noon
19 Aug Foodbank at St. Francis                                     11.00am - 1.00pm
21 Aug Church cleaning at St. Catherine’s                          10.00am - noon
22 Aug 12th Sunday after Trinity
        Parish Communion (Refreshments afterwards)                 10.00am
        Baptism                                                    12noon
        St. Catherine’s open afternoon with refreshments            2.00 - 4.00pm
        followed by Evening Prayer                                  4.30pm
23 Aug Wedding rehearsal                                            7.00pm
25 Aug Holy Communion (St. Francis)                                       10.00am
          Then the community support “drop in” at St. Francis               10.30am-noon
  26 Aug Foodbank at St. Francis                                            11.00am - 1.00pm
  27 Aug Wedding                                                             2.00pm
  28 Aug Church cleaning at St. Catherine’s                                 10.00am - noon

  29 Aug 13th Sunday after Trinity
          Parish Communion (Refreshments afterwards)                        10.00am

                 What organists do with their feet -by Ruth Turnnidge
Several years ago I attended an art course and in the introduction the tutor asked us what
we did in life, apart from painting and I said that I liked singing in a choir and was also the
organist at church.
One evening I sat next to a lady at dinner and she said that she was pleased to be near
me as she wanted to know about the pedals on an organ, were they the same as those on
a piano? I was a little taken aback by the question, but then realised that organs in many
churches are well out of sight of the congregation.
So I said “No, an organs pedals make another keyboard which is played
by the feet”! Her face was quite a picture!
I did see the Kelvingrove Museum organ on the T.V. Once with cameras
in the feet, which was interesting to see, so if you are in Glasgow it’s a
lovely place to visit, as they have recitals at lunchtimes - but no cameras when I was there.
The picture is of the Kelvingrove museum’s organ keyboard……………………Ed

                               Occasional Offices during June
  Baptisms
               none
  Weddings
               17     July          Aaron Mulqueen & Amy Taylor
  Committal of ashes
               18     July          William Benyon
  Funerals
               19     July          Jason Barron
               23     July          Gloria Salter
               23     July          John Sach
The Priest in charge
REVD. MICHÈLE MARSHALL
The Rectory
24, Somerset Road, Linford
Stanford-le-Hope
Essex, SS17 0QA.
Telephone: 01375 671754                   email: mjmarshall@fastmail.co.uk

The Services -
Sunday       10.00 a.m. Holy Communion service at St. Catherine’s

Wednesday 10.00 a.m. Holy Communion at St. Francis
For Baptisms, Weddings or Funerals please contact Revd. Michèle Marshall

The Churchwardens                             PEWTALK Editor
COLIN STRONG T: 07591 708955                  Chris Ford
E:- warden.colin.stcatherines@gmail.com       44, Northumberland Road
                                              Linford
KATHY BIRD T: 07920 794716                    Stanford le Hope
E:- warden.kathleenbird@yahoo.com             SS17 0PU
                                              Tel: 01375 675863
                                              e-mail: pewtalk@talktalk.net
St. Francis Centre
The centre is currently not
available for hire for regular events
when not used by the Church. To
check availability please contact:

PATRICIA STRONG
patricia.a.strong@outlook.com
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