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    A PUBLICATION OF THRIVE WOMEN’S CLINIC
                               SPRING 2021

The strength
it takes to be

Pro-life
in private
practice          PAGE 10

 Also:
 Pg. 6: Ways
 COVID-19 made
 Thrive BETTER
 Pg. 7: The man-cave
 is open
 Pg. 8: A church
 combats abortion
Pro-life in private practice - The strength - Vinekeepers
Letter from the Executive Director
      YOU upheld us through this pandemic!
        We have a new theme for 2021 at Thrive –                   At year end, YOU gave generously to enable Thrive
      Anchored in Hope. It is our focus of the year as           to finish well so we began 2021 in a good position.
      our staff serves on the frontlines because we know         Thank you!
      God is good all the time. It’s true isn’t it? It is true     Throughout the year many of our volunteers bravely
      even with a COVID-19 year when businesses closed,          continued to serve—in our offices or remotely—
      many worked from home, churches moved to online            mentoring and educating new moms and dads.
                                                                    We completed the process of becoming a paperless
                                                                 clinic, which was no easy feat! All our client files
                                                                 and most of our education programs are now fully
                                                                 electronic. Progress…even in a pandemic!
                                                                    You can read our full 2020 annual report in this
                                                                 magazine, but know 2021 is starting strong with a
                                                                 new online outreach approach with Vitae. This first
                                                                 quarter of 2021 has brought us 43% more abortion-
                                                                 minded clients than the first quarter of 2020.
                                                                    Aren’t we all ready to move into the future? This
                                                                 month, our board and key staff are thoughtfully and
                                                                 prayerfully focused on a new 3-year strategic plan for
                                                                 2021–2023. It will unfold in the months to come.
                                                                    Thank you for your heart of passion for the unborn
                                                                 and their vulnerable parents. Thank you for standing
Mary Jayne with clients De’Vante, Netta, and De’Vante Junior
                                                                 strong with us and giving generously with prayer
                                                                 support and from your pocketbooks. You are true
      gatherings, and friends and families only gathered         heroes saving and equipping the next generation.
      virtually. Some friends and family became ill or even
      died, but God is still God and He is still good.
        His hand of blessing has been upon Thrive and we
      see it in multiple ways. In 2020, we were able to hold
      3 of 5 events, and minister to clients face to face.
                                                                        Mary Jayne Fogerty
      Though we operated at 75% of our normal hours,
                                                                        Executive Director, Thrive Women’s Clinic
      210 babies were saved from abortion and another
      430 whom we deem as at risk were protected. Yes,
      babies continued to be saved!

    Jan-Mar                                  New client                          Babies                       New

    2021
                                               visits:                           saved:                     believers:

2
    Statistics 1,289 55 25
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NEWS

                   Calendar of Events
           May 8 and 22: Volunteer training 9am-1pm                       BOARD OF DIRECTORS
           June 15: Golf Fore Life Tournament                             Cindy Pardue, Chair
           Oct. 5: Celebration & Fundraising Dinner                       Clare Smitham, Vice Chair
           Dec. 4: Cookies with Santa client party                        Peyton Harris, Treasurer
           Jan. 16, 2022: Sanctity of Human Life Sunday                   Kim Meiser, Secretary
                                                                          Patty Cerpa
                   vinekeepers.org/events                                 Lexie Graben
                                                                          Robin Hogan
                                                                          Richard Kerry
        Meet Abigail                                                      Tracy Taylor
        Tiffany chose LIFE
        and sent us a quick                                               THRIVE LEADERSHIP
        photo of little Abigail.                                          Dr. Steven Harris
                                                                          Medical Director
        “I want everyone at                                               Mary Jayne Fogerty
        Thrive to know that                                               Executive Director
        you are making a big                                              Meredith Hall
                                                                          Director of Clinic Services
        impact!”
                                                                          Vicki Keifer
                                                                          Director of Stewardship
                                                                          Kontessa Kiel
                               We’re hiring!
    HELP
                                                                          Director of Client Services
                               Do you want to join our team, or do you
                                                                          Wade Souza
                               know someone who can fill these roles?     Men’s Coordinator
    WANTED                     Nurses (part time and full time)

    NOW                        Nurse Educator for OhKnow.org
                               Administrative Assistant for West
                                                                          Vinekeepers are the supporters
                                                                          of Thrive Women’s Clinic, which

    HIRING                     Dallas Site
                               Controller (part time)
                                                                          has four locations in Dallas
                                                                          County that provide services
                                                                          at no cost for women and their
                               Church Development Officer (part time)     partners experiencing unplanned
                   Learn more at vinekeepers.org/jobs                     pregnancy. Our non-profit
                                                                          outreach ministry extends Christ-
                                                                          like compassion that values the
                                                                          family and empowers them to
                                                                          choose life.
          GET EQUIPPED FOR LIFE
                                                                          For clients:
    You hear: It’s not a real person yet.                                 ThriveWomensClinic.com
                                                                          For supporters:
    Your answer: Your ENTIRE DNA, miles of it, was determined at
:   THE VERY MOMENT the sperm met the egg. THAT MOMENT
    defined your eye color, hair color, gender, physical stature, and
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    even your tendency to be a morning person or a thrill seeker. While            FB.com/thrivewomensclinic
    unseen on a sonogram, all genetic aspects of your appearance and               Instagram:
    personality were intact—and unique from any other human that                   /vinekeepers
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    ever lived. Does that make you a person?
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2020 Highlights                       Zoom brotherhood – Virtual
                                          sessions and meetups proved
                        Thriving          popular with new and expectant
                        through           fathers through the pandemic. The
                        COVID-19 -        men’s ministry held 145% more
                        The pandemic      fatherhood equipping sessions this
                        closed clinics    year, thanks to your support.
                        for six weeks,
    but you ensured our services never    New sonogram machines – Preborn
    stopped. In that time, staff served   life is more vivid than ever on
    800 clients on the phone or                                    two new
    through telehealth appointments,                               sonogram
    including 206 women considering                                machines,
    abortion. Many chose life!                                     funded by
                                                                   Focus on the
    Equipping more families –                                      Family and     Christmas in cars – Volunteers like
                   New online                                      the McCamey    you transformed our annual Cookies
                   curriculum called                               family.        with Santa Christmas party into
                   BrightCourse                                    Wireless       a drive-through experience with
                   provided 23%                                    technology     holiday cheer, treats, and diapers for
                   more parenting                                  provides       a record 76 client families.
                   classes and mentor     much faster physician reviews and
                   sessions this year.    photo sharing.

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FINANCIAL HIGHLIGHTS
T   hrive Women’s Clinic provides all services at no cost and accepts
    no government money. This is only possible with the generosity of
our Vinekeepers, our supporters. We strive to be good stewards with
transparency, integrity, and impact.

    2020 By the numbers *                              How Thrive is funded
                                                        9% CHURCHES
                     BUDGET:

         $2,172,490
                                                        8% BUSINESSES
                                                        59% INDIVIDUALS

                                                        24% FOUNDATIONS

                     INCOME:
                                                       How Thrive uses your
         $2,019,202                                    generosity
                                                        10% ADMINISTRATION

                                                        9% FUNDRAISING
                     EXPENSES:                          81% PROGRAMS

         $1,807,880

Netta and De’Vante were considering          Watch their
abortion in February, but chose LIFE after   video here.
their first appointment at Thrive. The
pandemic brought fear, job loss and much
uncertainty. But thanks to your support,
they stayed strong in their decision to
parent. This baby is 2020 redeemed!

*Unaudited numbers                           02-2021

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MINISTRY UPDATE

    How is the pandemic framing our future?
    We asked three key staff on the frontlines to explain how YOUR support of ongoing innovation is taking us to
    the next level.

    Virtual mentoring                    Masks won’t stop                      Public schools go
    proves popular                       our smiles                            online. So do we!
    Kontessa Kiel                        Meredith Hall                         Monica Sais
    Director of Client Services          Director of Clinic Services           OhKnow Program Director

                                         We are working hard to protect
                                         our pregnant women, who are
    The pandemic has made us
                                         at higher risk for COVID-19. We are
    change a lot of things for the
                                         wearing masks, but all of our
    better! We transitioned our
                                         nurses are wearing pins to show
    Earn While You Learn program                                               COVID-19 hit and teachers
                                         clients our smiling faces. We’ve
    to virtual classes called                                                  in schools everywhere were
                                         also had to prevent clients from
    Brightcourse. We send a link                                               scrambling. Thrive decided
                                         bringing guests, which can be
    so clients can take parenting                                              to make all of our education
                                         hard because we want fathers
    classes on their phones or                                                 available virtually. What does
                                         to be affected by what we do.
    computers, and then their                                                  that mean? You get a nurse
                                         So, in a change of policy, we are
    advocate can mentor with                                                   live on a Zoom or Google Meet
                                         allowing fathers to Facetime
    them over the phone. We                                                    teaching fetal development or
                                         into the sonogram room so they
    started that with COVID-19                                                 sexual risk avoidance. We’ve
                                         can be a part of that moment
    and will probably continue                                                 been teaching this way this
                                         and it makes a difference. We
    it. Our advocates have said                                                entire school year and have
                                         will continue to revisit these
    our clients really enjoy the                                               taught 2,400 students.
                                         policies as things evolve.
    phone calls and seem to open
                                                                               It is very tough to teach online.
    up more than they did in the         Our new sonogram machines
                                                                               Students are not as engaged.
    office visits. That transition       are amazing! The latest
                                                                               We have worked hard to
    has also opened appointment          technology lets us show a client
                                                                               find ways to get the kids
    slots in our physical offices        her baby as early as 5 or 6 weeks.
                                                                               to respond. One thing that
    for us to see more abortion-         It’s their first bonding moment!
                                                                               brought the most attention was
    minded clients, and to see
                                         I had a client the other day who      a microscope video we found
    them quickly.
                                         couldn’t afford an abortion. She      showing a light that sparks at
    We also went paperless this          told me Planned Parenthood is         the moment a sperm meets
    year! Those iPads save us            helping her fund her abortion.        and egg. They are amazed and
    so much time with our client         We are facing new challenges          it definitely ignites conversation.
    intake and processing so we          in this era, which shows how          After Spring Break, some schools
    have more time to spend              important it is for us to continue    invited us back for face-to-face
    visiting with them.                  offering these free services.         education, and we are ready!

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Your work in Uganda: Africa clinic update
Did you know?                                              Lord, and married to the father of her baby. What a
Your support of Thrive Women’s Clinic helps the            story of God’s redemption!
Latter Glory Clinic outside of Kampala, Uganda to
                                                           – Kirstin McCool, Thrive volunteer and Executive
provide counseling, abortion alternatives, and other
                                                             Director of GO Overflow Ministries
medical services.
You helped fund:
• 2020: a baby delivery table and salaries for the
  director and assistant director
                                                                 Zania (left)
                                                                              with
                                                                Latter Glory

• 2021: medical supplies needed to deliver babies               Director Ca
                                                                Birungi
                                                                            thy

What’s new:
Zania came to Latter Glory Clinic in 2019 single and
seeking an abortion. Clinic Director Cathy Birungi
shared the gospel, told her they would help care
for the baby through delivery, and brought her into
their vocational training and discipleship program. A
mission team from the U.S. prayed over Zania and
her home. She is now a seamstress, following the

Man Cave: No girls allowed
Did you know?
Men play an important role in a woman’s
decision to choose life, which is why Thrive
has a team of dedicated men to minister to
these expectant dads. Through counseling,
mentorships, and online courses, they cover
relevant issues, such as parenting, abortion,
adoption, relationships and marriage, sexual
integrity, the Christian faith, finances, interview/     Jaco
                                                              b
career skills, and more. In 2020, our men’s             his d Vermeu
                                                             ad, R    le
program had 145% more mentoring sessions.                         oger n (left)
                                                                      Verm      an
                                                                           eule d
What’s new:                                                                     n
As part of an Eagle Scout project, sophomore
Jacob Vermeulen gathered some friends to
remodel our men’s counseling room into a man
cave where future fathers can feel at home.
“I am thrilled to see a long-time dream become a
reality at Thrive. This room will enable us to better
connect and serve men in crisis pregnancies, while
more clearly communicating to these men, ‘We
see you. We care about you. We are here for you.’”
–Wade Souza, Thrive Men’s Ministry Coordinator

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                hen Thrive Women’s Clinic            “The church is called to uphold the sanctity of life,
                opened a fourth clinic in Irving   care for those in need, and share the Gospel,” said Bob
                                                   Bolander, a pastor at MacArthur Boulevard Baptist.
                two years ago, leadership          “We, as the church, aren’t equipped to meet all those
                prayed for local churches to       needs, but supporting a ministry like Thrive allows us
    come alongside the ministry.                   to be engaged in this issue. Thrive is the boots on the
      MacArthur Boulevard Baptist Church           ground working with those who are struggling and
    answered the call. As official ministry        leading them to make choices for life.”
    partners, the church is joining Thrive
    in its mission to combat abortion in its
    very own community.

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A big THANKS
                                                                   to our Sanctity
                                                                   of Human Life
                                                                   Sunday churches
                                                                   L   ocal churches helped us
                                                                       celebrate Sanctity of Human
                                                                   Life Sunday in January & February
                                                                   by raising funds and sharing
                                                                   God’s heart for the unborn.
                                                                   Nine churches held baby bottle
                                                                   campaigns and raised close to
 How does MacArthur Boulevard Baptist Church                       $19,000 for the life-saving work
engage Thrive and the life issue?                                  at Thrive Women’s Clinic, which is
 • Discussing  abortion and the sanctity of life
   from the pulpit.
                                                                   remarkable considering COVID-
                                                                   19’s affect on in-person church
 • year. This
   Filling baby bottles with funds for Thrive once a
              year, members gave about $5,000.
                                                                   attendance.
                                                                   THANKS to these partners who
 • mission funds.
   Matching   baby bottle donations with church
                                                                   celebrated with us!
 • Hosting   an open house at our clinic so church
   members can tour, understand the needs, and
                                                                   C3 Trinity Dallas
                                                                   Cornerstone Christian Church
     explore involvement opportunities.                            First Baptist Forney
 •   Educating church youth about the LIFE issue with
     Thrive’s OhKnow presentation.
                                                                   Gateway Church
                                                                   Household of Faith
  In turn, Thrive provides a place where the church can            Lake Highlands Baptist Church
send people facing unplanned pregnancy.                            Life Community Church
  “We call these partners Vinekeeper churches because              MacArthur Blvd Baptist Church
they truly keep us grounded in the True Vine—Christ—               Normandy Community Church
and nourish our ministry so we may cultivate LIFE,”                Park Cities Baptist Church
said Mary Jayne Fogerty, Thrive’s Executive Director.              Park Cities Presbyterian Church
How can your church partner with Thrive? Let’s talk                Plymouth Park Baptist Church
about it! Vinekeepers.org/church-partner                           Redeemer Bible Church
                                                                   Reunion Church
                                                                   Scofield Memorial Church
                                                                   Trinity Fellowship Church

 NOTE: Photos from MacArthur Boulevard Baptist Church before the
                                           COVID-19 pandemic.
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WHY I GIVE

     Dr. Mayra Thompson shares the
     pressures she faces as a prolife ObGyn
     A
              s a doctor of obstetrics and gynecology          in this field.
              for 37 years, I have a first-hand view of the      I am happy to tell you, that has not been the case.
              impact of abortion on women’s health. From       I have, however, been challenged and attacked for
     the very beginning, I’ve had to take a stance that        my views. The argument presented is that if we are
     impacted my career.                                       against abortion, we are against women. In fact,
        I graduated from medical school in 1980, a few         the opposite is actually the case. I am definitely pro
     years after Roe V. Wade legalized abortion in the U.S.    woman, in her entirety. Throughout my career, I have
     Throughout my college years, young men and women          seen the effects of abortion on those women who
     were immediately divided. As a Christian, my view on      have had one. The regret and inability to forget that
     the subject was clear. There was no choice but pro-       action has often led to depression and unhappiness.
     life. My studies in basic biology and embryology in       Although the “benefits” are always publicized, the
     medicine further enhanced and confirmed my belief         problems associated with surgical and medical
     that the miracle of life begins at conception.            terminations are downplayed by abortion advocates
        My first serious challenge to my beliefs came at the   to the detriment of women.
     time of choosing a residency position for training. I       I have been asked many times if I am afraid of
     was courted by a well-respected program. To my            outwardly stating my belief. I have been afraid, however,
     dismay, I was expected to perform abortions in            my personal conviction AND my medical training have
     both the first and second trimesters. That means I        both taught me that I must speak the truth. It took
     would be performing abortions up to 26 weeks                       courage for me to testify in Austin to add
     after conception. The hospital had a                                     medical regulations to abortion clinics in
     ward just for the second trimester                                         2017 under House Bill 2. We need your
     terminations. There was no                                                   prayers so that we do not cower.
     question in my mind that the                                                     For the past 11 years, my
     program was not for me. But                                                     husband and I have financially
     walking away would be a                                                         supported Thrive because those
     big sacrifice. As a Hispanic                                                     of us in the health profession
     female, they courted me                                                           need a strong pro-life voice
     with a generous salary. As                                                        in our culture. We need Thrive
     an immigrant who grew                                                             to speak truth to women who
     up in a blue-collar family,                                                       may not be hearing that voice
     people would say I was                                                           from their own OBGYNs. I know
     crazy to turn this down. But                                                    Thrive is making a difference on
     I couldn’t do it. I explained to                                               the frontlines. Will you join me
     the program why I could not                                                       in supporting Thrive Women’s
     participate. I was told that my                                                       Clinic?
     stance would never allow
     me to be truly successful
                                                                                         To give, visit
                                                                                         Vinekeepers.org/donate.

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Your support in bloom at Festa
T   hanks for joining
    us at the Dallas
Arboretum on April 1
                                                    Special thanks to these Festa sponsors:
                                                    Guardians of Life               Grant & Amy Smith
for our annual womens’                              Lisa & Kenny Troutt
                                                                                    Life-Saving Story On Film
brunch! Watch the full                              Defenders of Life               Sponsors
program here, or skip                               Anonymous (2)                   Anonymous (1)
chapters to watch the         https://qr1.be/TZ0K   Gateway Church                  Denman Family Foundation
highlights:                                         Caroline Hunt
                                                                                    Door Prize Sponsors
• Sheila Walsh’s story of her own pregnancy         Morning Star Family
                                                                                    Anonymous (1)
• A pro-life doctor’s testimony                       Foundation
                                                                                    Lexie Graben
• A client family who chose life at Thrive          Kyle Renard, M.D.
• A ministry update                                 Martye Simmons                  Patron Sponsors
                                                    Mayra Thompson, M.D.            Julie Darnell
                                                                                    Michelle de Klerk
                                                    Sustainers of Life
                                                                                    Christine & Jeffrey Forbes
                                                    Anonymous (2)
                                                                                    Catherine Lundberg
                                                    Michael & Andrea Barger
                                                                                    Charlotte Medley
                                                    Ryan & Julie Frakes
                                                                                    Cindy Pardue
                                                    Matt & Amy Levy
                                                                                    Julie & Gary Smith
                                                    Becky McCamey
                                                                                    Weber Foundation
                                                    Paula McLeod
                                                                                    Special Thanks to:
                                                    Preservers of Life
                                                                                    Sound Ideas Productions, Inc.
                                                    Anonymous (1)
                                                                                    The Dallas Arboretum &
                                                    Mary Jayne Fogerty
                                                                                       Botanical Garden
                                                    JoAnne Mastor
                                                                                    Gil’s Elegant Catering
                                                    Natalie Perry
                                                                                    Designs by Danette,
                                                    Karen Rooker
                                                                                    Graphics & Décor

A special gift gives Jenny LIFE
                          A fter supporting Thrive
                            Women’s Clinic regularly
                       for years, Ed and Regina
                                                               “That gave me hope,” Summey said. “Her sonogram
                                                            that day was inconclusive, so we had to invite her to
                                                            another appointment. I was frustrated, but I know
                       Griego wanted to send extra          God sometimes keeps them coming back to give
                       funds specifically for special       them more time to change their minds.”
                       Christmas gifts to bless                At the next appointment, Summey could measure
                       clients who chose life.              the baby and decipher the father. Jenny changed her
                         Jenny* was in need of some         mind and chose life. Summey gifted her a Christmas
                       Christmas cheer. She came to         basket with baby items, funded by Ed and Regina.
Thrive and told Nurse Vivian Summey all the reasons            “She was like a completely different person with
why she wanted an abortion: She was planning to             the peace in her spirit,” Summey said.
go to dental school. She didn’t know which boyfriend           Jenny came back to thank the staff. “Everybody was
might be the father. Her last pregnancy ended in            so kind to me through this whole thing.” Jenny said,
a tragic miscarriage. However, she believed in God.         “I’m truly blessed and so happy to have this baby.”
                                                                               *Name changed to protect privacy
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