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AUTUMN/WINTER 2020 Caring Enabling Supporting WOBURN HOME’S WONDERFUL WEARABLE MAPPING ARTS! WELLNESS WITH THE HEART OF ENLIVEN THE MATTER NON-VIOLENC E NEW RETIREMENT PROGRAMME COMMUNITY FOR THE WAIRARAPA AN HOLISTIC APPROACH CENTRAL HAPPENINGS TO DEMENTIA CARE NEWS FROM AROUND THE REGION SUPPORTING CHILDREN TO THRIVE SOCIAL WORKERS IN SCHOOLS VOLUNTEER SPOTLIGHT – Millie and Sharon SUMMER PICNIC AT DUDDINGS LAKE
CONTENTS 3 Real people doing real things 18 Summer picnic – Chief Executive Pat Waite – Inter-home picnic at Duddings Lake 4 New retirement community for Wairarapa 19 Volunteer Spotlight – Work starts on retirement village at Kandahar – Introducing Millie and Sharon 6 Service spotlight 20 Getting to the heart of the matter – Family Works Resolution Service – Family Works non-violence programme 10 Mapping wellness 22 Woburn Home’s wonderful Wearable Arts – How Enliven is meeting the cultural needs – Enliven hosts a fashion parade like no other of its residents 24 Central happenings 12 An holistic approach to dementia care – News from around the region – An Enliven feature 30 Just for fun 15 Celebrating our nurses – Puzzles – Year of the Nurse and Midwife 31 Reader recipe 16 Supporting children to thrive – Baked Stuffed Courgetts – Social Workers in Schools
CEO REAL PEOPLEDOING REAL THINGS A word from PSC chief executive Pat Waite Last November I was invited to facilitate a workshop at How will the value of our days be measured? the Aged Care Association’s annual conference on the It seems to me that what will matter is not what we buy concept of Leadership. but what we build, not what we got but what we gave. In preparing for the session I was reminded of the What will matter is not our success but our significance. journey and the lessons that I have been fortunate to have had through numerous experiences both personal What will matter is not what we have learned but what and from a range of work environments. we have taught. Our son and daughter-in-law gave us a book to What will matter is not what we think we have complete some years ago which they wanted my wife accomplished but what example we have given to others. and I to record our stories which could be handed on to What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, their children to have. courage or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or Well this is a work in progress as each time we pick encouraged others. up the book we find a reason to put it down again for What will matter is not our competence but our character. another day! Not a good excuse to have is it? What will matter is not how many people we know but We all have stories and lessons to pass on to others. how many will feel an everlasting loss when we are gone. As I visit our rest homes and chat to residents and our Enliven and Family Works teams I find the most What will matter is not our memories, but the memories amazing stories about lives well lived. of those who loved us. There is a tapestry that our lives cross through and What will matter is not our success but our significance. interesting people we meet on the way. I hope you find What will matter is not what we have learned but what this second edition of Central Focus of interest. It tells we have taught. stories of real people doing real things that I find so interesting. What will matter is not what we think we have accomplished but what example we have given to others. What are your stories? Have you written them down so that future generations can learn of your life well What will matter is how long we are remembered, by lived? It is my regret that I didn’t do what my family whom and for what. have done to me – asked my parents to write down Food for thought isn’t it? their history! In the theme of lives well lived can I leave you with the following quotation from my presentation? Pat Waite Chief Executive Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 3
DEVELOPMENT NEW RETIREMENT COMMUNITY FOR WAIRARAPA Work has started on Enliven’s newest retirement village. An artist’s impression of one of the villas to be built at the new Kandahar development. 4 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
Earthworks began in February at the site adjacent to “Wairarapa has experienced significant growth and Kandahar Home in Lansdowne, Masterton. development in the last few years; we’re excited to be Up to 52, two-bedroom retirement villas will be built offering retirees another lifestyle option.” on the property, with the first 12 villas expected to be The village is being built by Devon Homes, who were completed by October. also the contractors for Enliven’s Kowhainui Village Prior to the earthworks starting, residents and iwi in Whanganui. representatives attended an on-site blessing. “The Kandahar development is very similar to the PSC Chief Executive Pat Waite says it’s an exciting townhouses we have at Kowhainui Village, which are time for Enliven and the Kandahar community. very popular,” says Pat. “For Enliven this is much more than just building a The development will also include a village few houses, we have a strong emphasis on creating community centre, which will be available for a caring, supportive and stylish community for use by village residents and the wider Wairarapa Wairarapa retirees. community. The site is blessed before work begins. From left: Ngati Kahungunu ki Wairarapa representative Henare Manaea, Enliven chaplain Merv Jones, Kandahar Home Manager Peter Newman, PSC Cultural Director Jim Berry and PSC Chief Executive Pat Waite.
SERVICE SPOTLIGHT “Mediation is about empowering people and giving them the tools and responsibility to make their own decisions” – Family Mediator Sue Hurst 6 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
FAMILY WORKS RESOLUTION SERVICE HELPING FAMILIES MAKE TOUGH DECISIONS Family Works is contracted by the Ministry of Justice to provide a full range of family dispute resolution services. Central Focus takes a look at what the service does. Families come to the mediation FWRS Manager Michelle Baker says service, also known as Family Works taking these cases to the court can Resolution Services (FWRS), when create significant cost, lengthy delays they are going through a separation or and stress for families. divorce and are stuck on agreeing on Since the Family Court reforms in parenting arrangements. 2014, families that need a dispute “Mediation is about empowering resolved have to try out of court people and giving them the tools mediation in the first instance. If risk and responsibility to make their own issues exist mediation may not be decisions,” says Family Mediator suitable and parties can apply to the Sue Hurst. family court. FWRS is focused on the needs of the “We’re getting a lot of referrals family, in particular the children. from lawyers now,” Michelle says. “People can be caught up in their “It’s definitely encouraged as a own needs so mediation is finding a way forward.” way for parents to move forward in a That means the Family Court system hopeful way.” is freed up to deal with serious and Family mediation provides a complex cases, like those involving supportive environment so parents family violence, where mediation is and/or carers can sort out their not suitable. children’s day-to-day care and contact arrangements themselves without needing to go to Family Court. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 7
Help available Hearing the important voices Families that are seeking mediation assistance can Family Works has been contracted to provide this call FWRS free of charge to speak to the Wellington- service since 2014 and quickly realised something based support staff. very important was missing from the process – the voice of the child. After completing a registration process, the parents and/or carers talk one-to-one with a qualified With funding from the Todd Foundation, Family member of the team about their situation and Works worked with mediators, the Ministry of whether it’s suitable for mediation. Justice, UNICEF, the Children’s Commission and others to develop a ‘Voice of the Child’ policy If that is the case, a mediator will be assigned in the and process. area where the family lives. Family Works has about 30 mediators across the region that are responsible Today that sees a specially-trained children’s for the Lower North Island and the South Island. voice practitioner available to meet with a family’s Presbyterian Support North covers the Upper North children in a neutral and safe space so they can Island. In the year to 30 June 2019, FWRS supported share their thoughts and feelings on important 180 families through mediation. topics related to their childcare and new family situation. The whole service is subsidised and families can access different subsidy levels depending on their The practitioner and the child will agree on what financial circumstances. the child wants shared with their parents during the mediation process. Parents/carers can also choose to take the free Parenting through Separation course before or This process enables the children to be truly and during the mediation process, which is offered by consistently heard during mediation, Sue says. Family Works in partnership with Community Law “We really encourage the child to have their voice in Taranaki, Greater Wellington and Wairarapa. heard at the table. They often have powerful This becomes a mandatory requirement should they messages for their parents.” wish to go through the Family Court system. Tough decisions Sue says families that come to mediation are sometimes surprised, and perhaps a little relieved to learn they are not going to have their parenting decisions made by someone else. “A lot of what we do is empowering and supporting decision making. It’s about them learning to work this out themselves. “The parents need to be able to build a bridge between their two households so the children can go between them easily. When that bridge is damaged the children really bear the brunt of it.” Sometimes a couple just needs to spend some time in a neutral and supportive space together so they can come to an agreement. Other times there may be years of mistrust and resentment built up, Sue says. “The hardest thing for them is to get below the pain and for them to see it in each other. “Thankfully the process of mediation is very clear and that helps to move it along in a good direction.” 8 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
Residents at Willard Home enjoy the community garden. He Rongoa a Whānau Tohetohe Kaupapa Māori In August 2018 Family Works Central received funding from the Tindall Foundation to develop Tikanga training for FWRS mediators Called He Rongoa a Whānau Tohetohe Kaupapa Māori, the aim of the project is to enable mediators to better support whānau Māori and further demonstrates the value Family Works places on the special status of Māori as Tangata Whenua. The first Tikanga workshop was delivered in October 2019 at Papawai Marae near Greytown in Wairarapa. This location was chosen due to its mana, proximity to local iwi partners and its links to Family Works Central staff members. FWRS mediators attend the first Tikanga workshop at Papawai Marae. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 9
ENLIVEN MAPPING WELLNESS Enliven has developed a resource to help gather information about residents’ cultural, emotional and spiritual needs. The Oranga Kaumatua Wellness Map is a booklet “The resource was initially intended to be for Enliven that has been designed to gather information about residents who identify as Māori, but then we realised activities, routines and practices that are important to that it could work for everybody,” says Nicola. the individual. “We then tested it with residents from a range of It has been co-designed with iwi and tangata whenua cultural backgrounds and the feedback we received representatives, as well as staff and residents from was positive.” many different cultural backgrounds. Nicola explains that the more information known about a residents’ needs, the more likely rest home staff can provide the support to help them thrive. a naumatua “The more we know about peoples’ beliefs and rangil ss Map Taha aOm h W a Kau y syst em s customs, the more we can cater to them.” F d s an ellne p rou ial g W er s oc Implementation wid s s to t of par nes ection are ctedhave conn by /through ... idu als n e Ind iv a – Cono you maeyis ... ns are made ong nd w mily tr onnecti . h o Following initial testing of the concept at some e Honto understhakapapoan/fships anbde/caste oiswn.. by... a a c like w ri My g relati lan/t ty is sh ... We wou ld tan ga/d e velo pin iwi/ rae /c ali ma / hospit ome fr My itanga a is/ I c om of Enliven’s rest homes in 2019, a booklet has nga a k hen u been designed for residents and their whānau to nau na wha Ma My w aka Wh complete. This information needs to be translated an d la ugh ter? into goals and instructions for staff in each resident joy oy fo r care plan. This process is currently being tested a–J s nitie Ko e op tu por enjoy li . fe e ar laugh an m with at Enliven’s Reevedon Home and Levin Home for d .. her re t akes me when I ses ... a s u ake ……. m tented surp ri em How ca nw I fe el c on I lik e/d on’t like War Veterans. Nicola says questions in the book range from asking 19 about cultural and spiritual traditions or practices to what makes people laugh, how they like to dress a when they go out and what makes them feel like part Po utam 1 Tapu wae of the community. a Ta n garo t in g u or anuk Supp a Eke P ling Enab The aim is to introduce the resource across all of mōw g anga Te Āhu rut Carin Enliven’s rest homes in the next few months. Once completed, all the information will then be loaded into Enliven’s resident information system and included in the residents’ overall support plan. “What we’re trying to establish is what’s critical for each individual to maintain their overall wellbeing,” explains Enliven General Manager Nicola Turner. Recognition Residents and their whānau can respond to questions This work by Enliven was recognised by the Health, in the resource to help staff at Enliven homes Quality and Safety Commission when it was in its understand their different needs. early stages last year. Nicola says the project came from the need to update The Commission ran a feature on the project on its Enliven’s Māori health plan. website as part of a series of profiles on positive work being done in the sector. 10 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
Levin Home for War Veterans resident David Clark and Health Care Assistant Alicia Morgan look through the Oranga Kaumatua Wellness Map together. A merger of models The Wellness Map integrates two key models: and addresses issues of loneliness, helplessness the Enliven philosophy of care and Te and boredom. Whare Tapa Whā. Meanwhile Te Whare Tapa Whā is a Māori health Enliven’s care philosophy is based on the model developed by psychiatrist Sir Mason internationally-recognised Eden Alternative®. Durie. The model describes the cornerstones The holistic approach goes much deeper than of Māori health and it is believed people will healthcare and physical needs. It recognises the have optimal health when all needs are met ingredients for a healthy, happy life at any age under them. 11 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 11
ENLIVEN Enliven Trainer and Recreation Advisor Davina Solomon. “Music therapy works because a person may not be able to converse as well as they used to but they can remember songs or tunes that they loved when they were younger and sing along. ” – Enliven’s Davina Solomon 12 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
AN HOLISTICAPPROACH TO DEMENTIA CARE Caring for people who have dementia so they can retain a sense of self, feel valued and enjoy fun and spontaneity is something Enliven works hard to achieve. Dementia care Dementia is one of New Zealand’s most “The way we ask those significant and growing healthcare questions not only shows challenges. Almost 70,000 New Zealanders have dementia and that respect, it helps to boost number is expected to almost triple by a resident’s self-esteem,” 2050. Davina says. There are residents at all Enliven homes who have varying degrees of dementia. Several homes also offer secure dementia living for those with advanced dementia, “We also have to be aware of our body in particular those who explore often. language, facial expression and tone of voice when communicating.” Enliven Trainer and Recreation Advisor Davina Solomon (pictured) explains Planned activity Enliven staff use an holistic approach to ensuring all residents who have dementia and special therapy feel safe, comfortable, and enjoy where Late afternoon and early evening can they live. be a time of day where people with These approaches can range from dementia can experience anxiety, the way staff members communicate become unsettled and request to go with residents, to creating familiar home – a phenomenon known as environments to special equipment ‘sun downing’. that can be used to assist a resident to To ease the feelings of anxiety or feel calm. confusion at this time, activities are “We’ll use specific wording to enable usually planned to meet the needs of a resident to understand a question,” having purpose and belonging. Social Davina says. “For example we’ll ask ‘may I activities such as pre-dinner drinks offer you a hot drink?’ rather than ‘Would and nibbles are popular, while familiar you like a hot drink?’ activities of folding washing, setting dinner tables and closing curtains She says the slight change of wording orientate residents to feelings of usually invites a resident to consider their homemaking. response to the question, rather than immediately saying no. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 13
Music can be a very effective way of bringing instant joy, calming an agitated elder and even sparking memories. Music therapy sessions are run at some of Enliven’s rest homes and many of the homes organise and host balls and special social dance events. Enliven also sells special headphones that can be loaded with a personal playlist of favourite songs. These are strong ways to connect. Homely homes Another key aspect of Enliven’s holistic approach is Kandahar Court’s kitchen area is homely and welcoming. ensuring its homes are warm, welcoming and homely places to live. “People often think of rest homes, in particular Technology and equipment dementia or hospital units, as cold clinical places but In other cases, some more advanced technology can Enliven homes are proof that it doesn’t have to be this help residents with dementia feel contented. way,” says Davina. Enliven’s Coombrae Home in Feilding, Brightwater Enliven homes include cosy lounges and family-style Home in Palmerston North and Kowhainui Home in kitchens that residents will be used to. Whanganui are believed to be the first rest homes in “We’re investigating how much further we can take New Zealand to invest in Nordic Wellness Chairs. The that in our homes, particularly those catering for purchase was made possible thanks to funding from people with dementia,” Davina explains. AR & TI Harper Charitable Trust and McAuley Trust. “We are looking at using ‘true doors’ to recreate the The chair’s state-of-the-art technology uses soothing entrance to the resident’s family home. Techniques music, gentle movement, tactile stimulation and a like this help residents to feel at home, therefore safe, weighted blanket to relax, calm and soothe residents. comfortable and connected.” Enliven is also investigating the use of other Enliven homes also welcome the companionship of technology, such as a therapeutic robot baby harp family pets with many residents choosing to care for seal, named Paro. their own pets in the home. Paro mimics a real seal and is highly responsive to “This enhances overall health benefits and adds to touch and sound so it interacts with residents and the sense of belonging, identity and connectedness the environment. Paro is designed to have a calming gained from caring for others,” Davina says. effect and elicit emotional responses in people with dementia. Enliven vans and outings encourage residents to continue to be actively involved in their community, attending events and interacting with all generations. Funding Funding for providing holistic care is not easy. Government funding for aged care covers the basics of care and medical treatment. But Enliven wants to provide much more than that for the older generation. Fundraising efforts, philanthropists, community partnerships, investments and dedicated staff are the reasons Enliven is able to offer unique, holistic care and therapy to those living with dementia. TO MAKE A DONATION TO SUPPORT THIS WORK, CALL 0508 TO HELP. 14 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
Celebrating Enliven nurses The World Health Organisation has declared 2020 the International Year of the Nurse and Midwife Every day we see well-trained Enliven nurses providing high quality care with empathy and compassion. www.enlivencentral.org.nz
SWiS THRIVE SUPPORTING CHILDREN TO The Social Workers in Schools (SWiS) programme focuses on children to ensure they are supported to do and be the best they can. It sees trained Family Works social workers or family- whānau workers, based in schools, working alongside the students, their whānau and teachers to encourage children to grow, learn and thrive. Teachers, principals, community members, children and families can make referrals to SWiS, but it is a voluntary service so it is up to the children and families concerned to choose to be involved. There are 13 schools in Wellington and Porirua where Family Works social workers are based. In 2019 they worked with more than 120 students. Here are some of their stories. 16 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
Enabling connections A young mum and her daughter, Bonnie*, were both A year later, Mum has anxious and struggling to talk to each other let alone grown her confidence; she’s bond before they met with a SWiS worker following a managing her anxiety and referral from Bonnie’s teacher. feels she can speak her mind instead of hiding away. Her SWiS initially established a relationship with Mum, relationship with her daughter has improved talking to her weekly via home visits and phone calls. dramatically. The SWiS worker was able to organise ACC sensitive Bonnie has also made huge improvements, which claims therapy for Mum to deal with past trauma. have been noticed by her Mum and teachers. She Meanwhile, a trusting relationship was also being is more confident, has developed better and more developed between Bonnie and the SWiS worker. The positive friendships at school and is connecting more pair worked one-on-one around self care, self esteem with her Mum and wider whānau. and developing more positive relationships, they even had some fun! Stories through art In 2019 Nate’s* life was turned upside down. The boy became so engaged in the activities that He’d been through many changes. Mostly he was he began to open up to his SWiS worker about his struggling with not being able to see his Dad. He was struggles and feelings. shutting down. SWiS has helped Nate to accept his Dad could not be In this instance, Nate’s SWiS worker got in his life but was still in his heart. At times when he’s creative, using art and tactile materials to engage struggling he now visualises fishing with his Dad and with the boy. talking to him in his heart. Nate and his SWiS worker worked together to create After working with SWiS, Nate’s attendance at school art projects: a clay figure of Nate and his Dad, and a increased and he even started receiving regular diorama of them fishing together. achievement awards for his academics and behaviour. Breakfast Club Imagine sitting in class with your tummy rumbling from hunger and being able to think of nothing except how you could get your hands on some food. Imagine then being forced to concentrate on … maths. Not all students at this school have the opportunity to sit down for breakfast in the morning. But a new Breakfast Club organised by SWiS in conjunction with Arise Church, has given everyone that chance. “Each club sees a number of children, whānau and staff participating, which creates a positive and healthy start to the day,” says SWiS team leader Robern Austin. Over the duration of the initiative, the organisers have seen more and more different children come along each week, alongside the regulars. SWiS say the feedback from the community and school has been very positive and supportive, and plans are to continue the initiative long-term. * Names and details have been changed to protect the privacy of the children SWiS works with. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 17
summer picnic ENLIVEN RESIDENTS GATHER FOR Colourful hats helped to brighten up a grey day at Enliven’s annual inter-home picnic at Duddings Lake in January. The event was organised by Coombrae Home The winners were awarded in Feilding and attended by residents, staff and a certificate and received volunteers from Willard Home in Palmerston North, a small prize made by and Levin’s Reevedon Home and Levin Home for Coombrae Home staff and War Veterans. residents. Given the drizzly and overcast weather, the festivities For Coombrae Home were largely kept inside the hall at Duddings Lake, but resident Errol Fairbairn everyone made the most of it, says Coombrae Home it was the perfect Recreation Officer Rachael Trembath. opportunity to wear his hat adorned with a multi- “Some residents stood at the door and sang songs as coloured giraffe. vans from the other homes pulled up.” The unique headpiece won him the Many of the attendees wore colourful hats – some of award for the tallest hat. them had been decorated by staff or the residents. This was the second year running Coombrae Home A small awards ceremony was held to recognise the hosted other Enliven homes for the event. best hats from six different categories: most elegant, colourful, tallest, most outrageous, most original and “We established the idea of inter-home events to smallest hat. build connections among Enliven residents, as well as having lots of fun and spontaneity,” explains Enliven Recreation Advisor Davina Solomon.
OUR PEOPLE VOLUNTEER SPOTLIGHT INTRODUCING MILLIE AND SHARON As part of a regular feature, we profile two volunteers who love going the extra mile in their roles at our Enliven rest homes. Volunteers come from all age brackets and walks of life. Enliven is always on the lookout for more people who can use their skills to enrich the lives of elders. Volunteering with Enliven can range from helping out in the garden to spending quality one-to-one time with a resident. Empowering residents Sharon Thompson has a unique go around and talk to them on a Sharon will meet with Kandahar role at Enliven’s Kandahar Home. one-on-one basis and see if there’s Home Manager Peter Newman She has become an advocate for anything they want mentioned before each meeting to talk about the residents at the Masterton anonymously,” Sharon explains. anything that has been brought up. rest home since she started “In a group situation at the meeting Peter says Sharon’s advocacy role is volunteering there about two some of the residents might not another way to empower Kandahar years ago. feel comfortable about speaking Home’s residents to provide ideas “There is a residents’ meeting every up so it’s important they have this on what they want in their home. three months and beforehand I opportunity.” Sharing stories a highlight Millie Roy has been volunteering at teen world and come here and listen “What’s really lovely here is I Enliven’s Huntleigh Home in Karori to the amazing stories.” can interact with the residents for just over a year since moving to and make really good friends,” In Auckland Millie worked at a the capital from Auckland. she says. “It’s enjoyable and retirement village, but the role The Wellington Girls’ College didn’t provide an opportunity for something I really look forward to student and two of her classmates her to get to know the residents. every week.” visit the home every week and run an activity called ‘The Unforgettables’, where residents Huntleigh Home resident can join them for a hot drink Helen Macandrew and and a chat. volunteer Millie Roy. “I really love hearing about the adventures they’ve had,” Millie says. “It’s really mind-opening and refreshing to take a break from the Bronwyn Kendrick
FAMILY WORKS “We’re creating that safe space where one person can hold hope.” – Debbie Green, Family Works Taranaki Social Worker 20 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
HEART GETTING TO THE OF THE MATTER Social workers at Taranaki Family Works’ non-violence programmes work hard to ensure their referrals can successfully move through the programme. But what if some of them need to deal with issues or trauma before being able to complete it? “An important part of the process is hearing Debbie says Michael’s trauma caused him to about their journey,” explains Family Works have vivid dreams and frequently be on edge, Social Worker Debbie Green. especially around his own children. “Part of that is supporting people so we can Eventually Michael violently attacked another identify their needs.” man, unleashing all of his anger that had been bottled up for so long. Taranaki Family Works provides the non- violence programme to people who are Following his arrest, Debbie says Michael’s referred to them from the courts. mum was his main support person, but then she tragically fell ill and died just before The programmes are mainly for men who Christmas. are going through the court system due to family violence. Losing his support base was unbearable for Michael, who breached bail conditions and Michael’s story took an attempt on his own life after his mother passed away. When Michael* was referred to Taranaki Family Works from the Department of “I caught up with Michael on probation and Corrections in late 2019, Debbie says he there was this collaboration between myself, was holding onto a lot of trauma he hadn’t his probation officer and psychiatrist to come dealt with. up with his support plan,” Debbie says. “In the initial stages of the programme “That’s the strength of the social worker – Michael shared with me that he’d never that they have a deep understanding of the told anyone he had been sexually abused resources in their community and working by a family member for 10 years from the with a person to reach their goal.” age of five. She says while it will be some time before “We had created an environment that Michael can complete the non-violence made him feel safe enough to share that programme he was initially referred to her information,” she says. for, it is because he is spending time working through deep-set trauma. “We know that if someone’s essential needs are not being looked after then we can’t do the “We have to ensure that we’re not just ticking work that needs to be done.” the box,” Debbie explains. “We’re heavily solutions-focused but when you’re dealing As Michael got older he turned to drinking with someone who has experienced trauma and taking drugs. it’s a whole different approach. “Drinking was his thing,” Debbie says. “He told “We’re creating that safe space where one me he drank to suppress and not remember. person can hold hope.” So he drank after work and on the weekends. This would lead to poor choices and a lot of acts of violence.” * Names and details have been changed to protect the privacy of the clients of Family Works. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 21
WOW W BURN’S WONDERFUL WEARABLE ARTS Enliven’s Woburn Home in Lower The theme was ‘life’s memorable All of the attendees were encouraged Hutt is becoming known for its moments’, and the creations ranged to vote for their favourite dress annual Wearable Arts show, timed to from remembering school days, old and the outfit ‘ladies, bring a plate’, coincide with the popular Wellington dances, shared meals, leaving home modelled by Woburn Home resident event of a similar name. and wedding days. June Farrar, was a winner. Residents and staff from Enliven “All of the outfit ideas came from our The outfit included a frame with homes across the wider Wellington lovely residents, who then helped us two arms coming out of it, carrying region gathered at Woburn Home in draw up the ideas and come up with sandwiches and cakes made out of October last year for a fashion parade a plan for each outfit,” says Woburn crafting materials. More cakes and like no other. Home manager Sue Wood. treats adorned June’s dress, made to resemble a table cloth.
Woburn Home resident Joy Payne, helped by a recreation officer, modelled this ‘first dance’ gown. rn b y Wobu made worn , was ies, o u tfit, Farrer e ‘lad ng ne ras Cas w inni dent Ju old ph Jos hmere Th e resi t the wed ie Lan Heigh Home epresen e’. din t t g d caster s Hom to r g a pla res e bri n s-t model resi hem den ed s a t out fit. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 23
HAPPENINGS HAPPENINGS PSC has services spread across the lower North Island. It has been a busy period for the organisation with office moves, new contracts and important work being recognised. We also have many residents in our Enliven homes and villages with interesting stories to tell. Love of race horses continues at Chalmers Home Chalmers Home resident Ian Gundesen “She [the horse] was looking terrific and has a long history of owning race horses, the staff there gave us a guided tour of ever since his days farming in Kaponga the 40 horses in training,” Ian says. in South Taranaki. Chalmers Home staff supported Ian to The move to Enliven’s New Plymouth make the trip from New Plymouth to rest home in July last year didn’t signal Matamata. The journey was a big one for the end of that lifelong passion. Ian, who is in a wheelchair. Ian currently owns a fifth share of the “I feel very fortunate to have a horse in horse Image of You, located at the Te their care and hopefully this young filly Akau stud near Matamata. Recently will provide us with our moments of Enliven staff jumped at the opportunity glory when she races,” Ian says. to take Ian to visit the horse. Ian Gundesen and daughter Christine Richards visiting racehorse Image of You at the Te Akau Stud near Matamata. 24 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
HELPING CONNECT CHILDREN WITH COUNSELLING Every December Family Works Philanthropy Manager Jacqui “The change in these children, fundraises for its services Ritchie says prior to the appeal after receiving counselling, was by sending a letter out to its Family Works staff had shared astounding. One little boy’s supporters. heart-breaking stories of school teacher reported that until two children, from different he received counselling, he hadn’t The most recent Christmas families, who had been living in been seen smiling or playing. fundraising appeal was to raise unimaginable situations. money to provide counselling and After the counselling, he social work services for children Once removed from that had ‘found his smile’ and who had been living in traumatic environment, they required was enjoying his childhood,” situations. intensive counselling to process says Jacqui. what they had experienced. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 25
Whānau resilience contract Paper published Building strong, resilient communities where whānau Family Works Whanganui counsellor are safe, strong and connected is the focus of a new Lisa Chaplow had a paper published in partnership between Family Works and Te Hauora the New Zealand Journal of Counselling Runanga o Wairarapa. in late 2019. In 2019 the pairing was successful in gaining a five-year Titled ‘School-based mindfulness Ministry of Social Development Whānau Resilience programmes – are they effective or contract for Wairarapa. developmentally inappropriate?’, the paper analyses studies of national The vision is to build strong communities where whānau and international mindfulness-based are supported to live violence-free and eliminate violence programmes for children aged from five for the next generation. to 12 who are experiencing anxiety. The first year will see the two organisations working with Lisa says she became interested in the groups of providers to co-design services. The remaining topic during her time as a teacher in four years will focus on delivery. Alaska where she met children who struggled with anxiety, especially Business Development Manager Cheri Ratapu-Foster around academic testing times. says Family Works is enjoying working with Te Hauora Runanga o Wairarapa, which was established in 1985 “Mindfulness and yoga were some of the as a community support service for Māori health in the ways I tried working with my students.” region. Lisa completed the paper in 2016 as part “The runanga has extensive networks, both with Māori of a Masters of Counselling through and non-Māori providers, and adopts a Kaupapa Māori Massey University. approach to support. “I was delighted to get an A+ for my research, and the suggestion from my “Their way of working nicely aligns with Family Works’ markers to look to publish it.” Te Ara Whānau, family solutions approach,” says Cheri. The published paper can be found in Vol. 39 of the NZ Journal of Counselling. A link is available on the news page of the Family Works website www.familyworkscentral.org.nz. 26 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
Maureen and her medals on the move When Maureen Fox moved from relocated to Manawatu from “You can’t turn a school around Invercargill to Coombrae Home Southland. in five minutes,” she reflects. in Feilding in 2018 there were Maureen and her husband Pat Her career saw her teach in some very precious memories introduced a breakfast in school Dunedin, South Otago and that came too. programme and she was also Invercargill before taking The retired principal was made up a position at Kingswell instrumental in establishing a Member of the British Empire High School in South a youth support trust focused for her services to education Invercargill in 1979. on involving Māori parents to as part of the 1995 Queen’s help improve their children’s When she was appointed as attendance rates and educational Birthday Honours. the Principal at Kingswell, she achievement. Kingswell also Maureen moved north after worked to improve the school’s established the first bilingual her son Aaron and his family image within the community. unit in the South Island. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 27
Greg Christensen (standing) and old friend David Clark. Rocker rolls out the hits at Levin Home for War Veterans When Greg Christensen played David, now a resident at Levin “I just called him up and asked a gig at Levin Home for War Home, used to manage a if he would play,” David says of Veterans in October last year it was Wellington bar where Creation organising the concert which the first time David Clark had seen played gigs in its heyday. marked World Stroke Day on him in more than three decades. 29 October. More than 60 members of the Greg is the former front man public and Levin Home residents David had a stroke 11 years of the band Creation, which gathered in the home’s Veterans ago and has been in a had chart-topping hits Carolina Arms lounge to hear Greg play hits wheelchair since. He now sits and Tell Laura I Love Her in the by Elvis, John Denver, Engelbert on the committee of the Levin early 1970s. Humperdinck, and Creation. Stroke Club. 28 Central Focus – Autumn/Winter
Office moves You can’t miss Family Works Works has been offering services She says while the time has come Wairarapa’s new base. in the Wairarapa for more than 30 to make Masterton its permanent years. base, Family Works will continue The striking green signage has to work across the region. caught the attention of many “We were already operating many people since Family Works of our services out of Masterton, The move to Masterton also opened the doors of its new particularly our family violence coincided with the appointment offices in central Masterton in safety support programmes of Dianne Te Tau as Family Works February. An increasing number and restorative justice which is Wairarapa’s Team Leader of Masterton-based clients provided from Masterton District Family Works Taranaki also moved prompted Family Works to move Court,” explains regional manager into more modern premises in Bell from its Featherston hub at Turret Dee Dahlberg. Block in October last year. House to Masterton. Family Left to right: Ngati Kahungunu kaumatua Nelson Rangi, Patrick Waite, Lyn Patterson and Dianne Te Tau at the blessing of Family Works on Chapel Street. PHOTO/KAREN COLTMAN Sustainability efforts rolled out at Cashmere Cashmere Home and Cashmere The homes have also introduced Heights Home are on a journey more recycling initiatives, which to reduce, reuse and recycle. Karen says the residents have helped to support. Manager Karen Rhind says staff and residents are taking “The residents come to the front small steps towards being desk specifically to put their more sustainable in their day- newspapers and bottles into the to-day tasks. recycling – which is great.” The first focus was on reducing A group of residents recently the number of single-use items joined staff to visit the in the homes, such as disposable Wellington SPCA and drop off cups and single-use pill used newspapers. dispensers. The homes have also stopped Families with loved ones at the using plastic bin liners where homes have provided support, in possible and rubbish collection the form of a donation of coffee has reduced significantly. cups to use in the tea and coffee making area. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 29
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READER RECIPE SHARE YOUR RECIPES! Got a great recipe? We’d love to share it with our readers. Email: support@psc.org.nz Baked Stuffed Courgettes The staff and residents from Cashmere Heights Home in Johnsonville share their favourite recipes for courgettes grown in the home’s vege garden. INGREDIENTS METHOD 6 medium courgettes 1. Preheat the oven to 190 degrees. Trim the ends ¼ cup olive oil off the courgettes and slice them lengthways. Scoop out the seeds to create room for the filling. 1 red onion, peeled and sliced 2 tsp crushed garlic 2. Heat the olive oil in a medium-sized fry pan and sauté onion, garlic, pine nuts, courgette ¼ cup pine nuts seeds, and capsicum until soft and fragrant. 1 red capsicum, diced 3. Add the breadcrumbs and parmesan, mix well 1 cup fresh breadcrumbs to combine and season to taste. Fill the courgette ¼ cup parmesan cheese, plus extra cavities with the stuffing. for sprinkling Salt and pepper 4. Sprinkle the extra parmesan on top and bake for 10-15 minutes. Serves six Quick alternative – Basil Pesto Courgettes! Cut thick slices of courgettes on the angle and cook on the barbecue until browned. Put on a serving platter and put a dob of basil pesto on each slice. Central Focus – Autumn/Winter 31
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