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NOVEMBER 2021 VOLUME 45 • NUMBER 4

        Kathleen M. Miller, Esquire
        Delaware State Bar Association
        President, 2021-2022
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DSBA LEADERSHIP!

The Delaware State Bar Association is looking
for a number of talented members to join the                                        The Nominating Committee
                                                                                           consists of:
2022-2023 Executive Committee and lead the                                             William P. Brady, Chair
DSBA to continued success.                                                         Michael F. McTaggart, Vice-Chair

                                                                                         New Castle County

The following positions on the Executive Committee of the                             P. Clarkson Collins, Jr. (2022)
                                                                                          Kyle Evans Gay (2022)
Association must be filled for the year 2022-2023:
                                                                                        Jeffrey S. Goddess (2022)
Vice President-at-Large; Vice President, New Castle County;                                Loren Holland (2022)
Secretary; Assistant Secretary; Treasurer; Assistant Treasurer;                       Shannon D. Humiston (2022)
Six Members-at-Large                                                                        Julia B. Klein (2022)
                                                                                     Antoinette D. Hubbard (2022)
Note: The Vice President, Kent County and the Vice President, Sussex County will        Aaron R. Goldstein (2023)
be those persons selected by, respectively, the Kent County Bar Association and          Achille C. Scache (2023)
the Sussex County Bar Association.
                                                                                           Kelley M. Huff (2023)
                                                                                         Wilson A. Gualpa (2023)
The following positions must be filled for the term as noted:                         Christofer C. Johnson (2023)
                                                                                     Brenda James-Roberts (2023)
One (1) DSBA Representative to the Delaware Bar Foundation Board:
                                                                                     Emily A. Bryant-Álvarez (2024)
Four-year term                                                                       Constance A. Dorsney (2024)
One (1) DSBA Delegate to the ABA House of Delegates:                               LaKresha Roberts Moultrie (2024)
                                                                                      Jacqueline A. Rogers (2024)
Two-year term
                                                                                   Eric Scott Klinger-Wilensky (2024)
                                                                                          Srinivas M. Raju (2024)
 The Nominating Committee wants to consider all interested candidates. If               Brandon R. Harper (2024)
 you are interested in serving on the Executive Committee or would like to
 recommend a candidate, please send your name or the candidate’s name                        Kent County
                                                                                       Laura A. Yiengst (2022)
 along with a CV and at least one letter of nomination to Mark S. Vavala,
                                                                                        Melissa L. Dill (2023)
 Executive Director, by email at: mvavala@dsba.org or by mail at: Delaware
                                                                                       Keith E. Donovan (2024)
 State Bar Association, 405 North King Street, Suite 100, Wilmington, DE
 19801 by February 11, 2022.                                                                Sussex County
                                                                                      Chase T. Brockstedt (2022)
                                                                                      Stephanie A. Tsantes (2023)
          WE NEED YOUR HELP TO FIND                                                      Etta R. Mayers (2024)

        STRONG LEADERS FOR THE FUTURE!

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DSBA BAR JOURNAL
NOVEMBER 2021 | VOLUME 45 • NUMBER 4

PRESIDENT
Kathleen M. Miller

EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
Mark S. Vavala

EDITORIAL BOARD
Laina M. Herbert
Jason C. Powell
Kristen S. Swift
Seth L. Thompson

EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE LIAISON
Kate Harmon
                                                   FEATURES
EDITORIAL ADVISORY COMMITTEE
Valerie A. Caras
Denise Del Giorno Nordheimer                       2      Call for Executive Committee Nominations
Adria B. Martinelli
Victoria R. Sweeney
Holly O. Vaughn Wagner
                                                   19 Delaware’s Southern Charm: Celebrating Law Practice
PUBLICATIONS EDITOR
Rebecca Baird                                         and Life in Sussex County
PUBLICATION ASSISTANT
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PRESIDENT’S CORNER | BY KATHLEEN M. MILLER, ESQUIRE

                                                         T
                                                                   his month we are celebrating Sussex
                                                                   County.
                                                                      My first experience in Sussex County
                                                                   was over 31 years ago when I drove to
                                                         Georgetown to interview with then-Vice Chancel-
                                                         lor Chandler. I parked on Market Street, several
                                                         blocks away from the Courthouse. As I got out
                                                         of my car — I’m sure looking pretty nervous — a
                                                         man walking down the street said to me: “You’re
                                                         not from here. What brings you to Georgetown?”
                                                         Not understanding the tight-knit community of
                                                         Georgetown, I panicked a bit, worrying that I really
                                                         stood out — and not in a good way. I explained the
                                                         reason for my visit and the man kindly wished me
                                                         luck with the interview.
                                                             I didn’t get the clerkship in Georgetown but I
                                                         was hired as then-Vice Chancellor Harnett’s clerk
                                                         in Kent County which led to another opportunity
                                                         to learn more about Sussex County. I joined a
                                                         group of lawyers in renting a house the following
                                                         summer in Rehoboth Beach. As a kid I grew up
                                                         going to Ocean City, New Jersey, which we called
                                                         the “shore.” This was one of the first things I had
                                                         to learn about towns along the ocean in Delaware; I
                                                         was now at the “beach.” After being corrected several
                                                         times, I finally got the lingo down!
                                                             I’ve spent a lot of time in Sussex County since
                                                         that first summer, mostly in Lewes. I love the
                                                         beaches, the people, the local businesses, and of
                                                         course, the great restaurants. Apparently I am not
                                                         the only one who has come to love spending time
                                                         in Sussex County. In 2020, the population of the
                                                         county reached 235,000, a 20 percent increase from
                                                         just 10 years prior.1 The legal community has con-
                                                         tributed to this growth: some in retirement moved
                                                         south; some took advantage of working remotely
                                                         during the pandemic and set up a home office in the
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                                                         southern most county; some others, like me, spend
                                                         weekends (and any other chance we get) at the beach;
                                                         and some changed geography and practice areas to
                                                         move to Sussex County, like Etta R. Mayers, Esquire,
                                                         of Tunnell & Raysor, P.A.2 Etta was a bankruptcy
                                                         practioner in Wilmington, working on complex
                                                         Chapter 11 cases when she moved to Sussex County

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political parties ceremonially “bury the
                                                                                          hatchet” in a tub of sand.4 Whether it’s
   Whether it ’s the history, the beaches, the                                            the history, the beaches, the festivals, the
 festivals, the shopping, the outdoor ac tivities,                                        shopping, the outdoor activities, or the
                                                                                          restaurants, Sussex County has some-
     or the restaurants, Sussex County has                                                thing to offer everyone. For me, it’s time
          something to of fer everyone.                                                   away from the routine of Wilmington
                                                                                          to spend time with family and friends.
                                                                                          If you haven’t explored Sussex County
                                                                                          yet, I strongly recommend you give it
to concentrate her practice on real estate,   Brewery opening in Milton in 1995;
                                                                                          a try.
estate planning, and litigation. For Etta,    Milton’s own Bryan Stevenson, who
originally from the Eastern Shore, living     published his memoir Just Mercy: A
                                                                                          Notes:
and working in Sussex County “feels           Story of Justice and Redemption in 2014     1. “History of Sussex County,” History of Sussex County
like home.” In contrast to New Castle         and which became a critically acclaimed        | Sussex County, accessed October 18, 2021, https://
County, where lawyers commute to                                                             sussexcountyde.gov/history.
                                              New York Times bestseller and eventu-       2. “Etta R. Mayers: Tunnell & Raysor, P.A.: Lewes,
Wilmington from Pennsylvania, New Jer-        ally a big-screen movie; and that Sussex       Delaware.” Tunnell & Raysor, P.A. Accessed October
sey, and Middletown, in Sussex County,        County is the birthplace of the modern         18, 2021. https://www.tunnellraysor.com/attorney/
                                                                                             etta-r-mayers/.
“your co-workers are your neighbors,”         broiler chicken industry and leading        3. Id.
Etta observed. The feeling of being in a      county producer (starting in 1923 when      4. Id.

close-knit community that I experienced       due to a shipping error Cecile Steele
over 30 years ago still rings true today.     received 500 chicks for her egg-laying
Etta enjoys that “no matter what the          business instead of the 50 she had or-      Kathy Miller is the current President of
issue may be…there is always someone          dered).3 It is rich in history and tradi-   the Delaware State Bar Association. She
who has [the relevant] experience and can                                                 is a partner at Smith, Katzenstein & Jen-
                                              tion, such as observing Return Day since    kins LLP where she focuses her practice
point you in the right direction.”            1791 where two days after an election,      on corporate and commercial litigation
   Sussex County is known for many            the winners parade around the town          and corporate bankruptcy matters. She
things, like the original Dogfish Head        circle in Georgetown and the county’s       can be reached at kmiller@skjlaw.com.

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EDITOR’S PERSPECTIVE | BY SETH L. THOMPSON, ESQUIRE

Cooler Fall Breezes, Dogfish,
Nacho Cheeses1

“I
               bet they save ‘Send Me on
               my Way’ for the encore.
               After that, do you want
               to head out?” asked my
high school classmate while surveying
the denim-and-plaid-clad crowd at the
Allentown Fairgrounds in 1995. “Nah,
let’s stick around for at least a little of
the headliner,” I responded. “By the
way, is that guy using a telephone as an
instrument?”
   Rusted Root was the opening band
— and reason my buddy and I spent
some paper route money on the tickets.
We stayed for the remainder of the show
because, unbeknownst to us before that
day,2 The Allman Brothers Band is quite
good.
    Fast-forward almost a decade, to
when I signed up for a year-long clerk-
ship in Georgetown largely for a summer
at the beach before planning to reunite
with my pals in Philadelphia. Come to         Punkin Chunkin.4 Notwithstanding              literally open, and local attorneys and
find out, Sussex County is quite good.3       Pennsylvania’s Lebanon Bologna Fest,          other members of the community chat-
    A couple of my now-close friends,         if any assembled meat is deserving of         ted and laughed inside. Those conversa-
then acquaintances, from summer beach         its own celebration, surely it is scrapple,   tions, coupled with observations on how
houses in college had already come to         courtesy of Bridgeville’s Apple Scrapple      the lawyers interacted in the courthouse,
that realization by 2004. I soon learned      Festival. The winter then provided            provided infinitely more insight than
what they meant when they said the            captivating fields of snow geese on my        on-campus interviews and buzz-worded
off-season was more enjoyable than the        commute — and my first Oyster Eat in          websites. And so I traded a chunk of that
crowded streets and beaches of summer.        Georgetown.5                                  planned single summer for time inside
It was easy to balance peaceful walks             My first fall in Sussex also happened     with the Delaware Bar review materials
among Cape Henlopen State Park’s              to be a presidential election year, and       and a chance to join the ranks.
pines and dunes with more lively various      so I was treated to my first Return Day          That open-door mindset showed
events, like the Rehoboth Jazz Festival,      on The Circle. (With its simplicity and       up in practice. A Bar ID felt like less
that seemed aimed to extend the visitors’     definite article, there is not better top-    of a license and more of a privilege
season. More entertaining still were the      onymic terminology to convey the area’s       and a responsibility to steward. Inter-
unique fall festivities like Sea Witch and    quaint centrality.) Firms’ doors were         nally, becoming associated with a firm

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“partner” and senior attorneys acted
accordingly, providing a resource, not a
pecking order. Externally, disagreement
seemed to rarely cross over into being
disagreeable.
    The days were long, but the years
were short.6 Thirteen of them went by,
twice as long as anywhere else I have
lived. Over that time, my appreciation
for the people and places of our south-
ernmost county somehow outpaced the
population growth. I hope new residents
and visitors alike discover all of the
county’s charm and feel the commu-
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the Terry-Carey American Inn of Court,
as well as serving as the Sussex County
Bar Association President. He may be
reached at sthompson@pgslegal.com.

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    Join the online DSBA               instances to prove the point:

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                                           Defense Attorney Donald West began his opening statement in the trial of the man
                                           who killed Trayvon Martin with a knock-knock joke which made light of the fact that
                                           jurors who were selected for the case could not know who George Zimmerman was.
      Opting in is simple and              Many critics blasted West for his insensitivity and the fact he maligned the jury for
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                                       2   Roe v. Wade (US)
                                           In defending the Texas abortion laws before the US Supreme Court, attorney Jay Floyd
                                           opened oral argument against his female colleagues with “when a man argues against
                                           two beautiful ladies like this, they are going to have the last word.” After it was deliv-
                                           ered, the Court sat for three seconds in total silence. Chief Justice Burger was said to
                                           have glared at Floyd as if he was going to come down off the bench to confront him.

                                       3    Glickman v. Wileman Brothers & Elliot (US)
                                            Attorney Thomas Campagne argued that the government should not be permitted
                                            to force companies to pay for ad campaigns by telling Justice Scalia not to buy green
                                            plums so he wouldn’t want to give his “wife diarrhea.” Many credit Campagne’s “bath-
                                            room humor” as being the reason he lost this close (5-4) decision. His client sued him
                                            for malpractice saying the oral argument was “my worst nightmare.”

                                       4    People v. Davis Andre Davis (California)
                                            The defendant saw a juror in the restroom during a court session break and joked, “vote
                                            for me!” The juror reported this to the judge and the defendant was charged with a
                                            new charge “attempting to influence a juror.” The appeals court affirmed the resulting
                                            conviction which resulted in jail time.

                                       5    State v. North West (Delaware)
                                            Here in Delaware, a defendant with the unusual name “North E. West,” was sentenced
                                            by the legendary Superior Court President Judge Albert J. Stiftel who pronounced
                                            at sentencing, “North E. West, I’m sending you South,” which is where the prison was
                                            located in the state. The Supreme Court required the sentencing be vacated and a
                                            new, less humorous sentence be imposed.

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OF NOTE

Condolences to G. Kevin Fasic, Es-
quire, on the death of his father, George               Quick-Look
Wilson Fasic, who died on September
29, 2021.                                               ETHICS                             Q&A

If you have an item you would like to submit for
                                                    A BI-MONTHLY CONTRIBUTION
the Of Note section, please contact Rebecca Baird    BY LUKE W. METTE, ESQUIRE
at rbaird@dsba.org.

                                                    “Who is the organizational client and what communications
                                                    are privileged?”

MEMBER NEWS                                         When a lawyer represents an             provides when there is adversity
                                                    individual, there is usually no         between and organization and its
               C ongrat u lat ions to               question who the client is. When        constituent, “discussions between
               Nicholas D. Mozal,                   a lawyer represents an organiza-        the lawyer for the organization
               E squ i re , of Pot ter              tion (say, a corporation, a partner-    and the individual may not be
               Anderson & Corroon                   ship, or a government body), Rule       privileged.” (Emphasis added.)
               L L P, a nd h i s w i f e            1.13(a) of the Delaware Lawyers’
               Chantel on the birth                                                         In the highly publicized criminal
                                                    Rules of Professional Conduct
               of their daughter, Julia                                                     fraud trial of former Theranos
                                                    (the “Rules”) states the lawyer
               Elizabeth Mozal, born                                                        CEO Elizabeth Holmes, a magis-
                                                    “represents the organization act-
September 5, 2021.                                                                          trate judge determined Holmes,
                                                    ing through its duly authorized
                                                                                            individually, could not assert
                                                    constituents.”
                C ongrat u lat ions to                                                      the attorney-client privilege
                The Honorable Kath-                 An organization acts, speaks, and       with respect to certain commu-
                le en M . Jen n i ng s,             consents through human beings           nications between Holmes and
                Delawa re At tor ne y               (constituents). But outside counsel     Theranos’s counsel, Boies Schiller.
                General, Delaware De-               often refer to corporate constitu-      The magistrate held the privilege
                partment of Justice,                ents as their “clients,” and corpo-     belonged to the organization,
                and David A. White,                 rate constituents often refer to        not Ms. Holmes personally, and
                Esquire, Chief Disci-               corporate counsel as “my lawyer.”       Theranos’s assignee had waived
plinary Counsel, Office of Disciplinary             Neither of those descriptors is         the privilege. The magistrate also
Counsel, who were married on October                really accurate, and if an organi-      refused to apply the common
17, 2021.                                           zation’s lawyers and constituents       interest privilege. Regardless
                                                    actually think of, and treat, each      of whether one agrees with the
                                                    other that way, they may be un-         magistrate’s decision, an or-
                                                    pleasantly surprised when com-          ganization’s lawyers and con-
                                                    munications they thought were           stituents would be wise not to

 Open Call                                          privileged turn out not to be.          simply assume all of their legal
                                                                                            communications will be deemed
 for Articles!                                      Comment [2] to Rule 1.13 provides
                                                    an organization’s lawyer “may
                                                                                            privileged.

                                                    not disclose to such constituents
 Do you have                                        information relating to the repre-
 a great idea?                                      sentation except for disclosures        Luke W. Mette is a partner at Arm-
                                                    explicitly or implied authorized        strong Teasdale LLP. He has been
 For information on submitting                      by the organizational client …
                                                                                            a Delaware lawyer for 33 years and
 articles for publication in the Bar                                                        was Chief Disciplinary Counsel in
                                                    as permitted by Rule 1.6.” (Em-         Delaware from 2019-2021. He can
 Journal, please contact Rebecca
 Baird at rbaird@dsba.org.                          phasis added.) And Comment [7]          be reached at LMette@atllp.com.

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS
         Professional
     Guidance Committee
                                                    November 2021
     This committee provides peer counseling        Thursday, November 4, 2021 • 2:00 p.m. – 3:30 p.m.
     and support to lawyers overburdened by         Unions, Strikes, and Labor Law Issues
     personal or practice-related problems. It      1.5 hours CLE credit
     offers help to lawyers who, during difficult
                                                    Live Seminar at DSBA with Zoom Option
     times, may need assistance in meeting law
     practice demands. The members of this          Wednesday, November 10, 2021 • 9:00 a.m. – 4:15 p.m.
     committee, individually or as a team, will     Fundamentals of Criminal Law and Procedure
     help with the time and energy needed to        6.0 hours CLE credit
     keep a law practice operating smoothly and     Live Seminar at DSBA with Zoom Option
     to protect clients. Call a member if you or
     someone you know needs assistance.             Tuesday, November 16, 2021 • 9:00 a.m. – 11:15 a.m.
                                                    Office and Trial Practice
               New Castle County                    2.0 hours CLE credit
                                                    Live Seminar at DSBA with Zoom Option
     Karen Ann Jacobs, Esquire, Chair*
           Dawn L. Becker, Esquire                  December 2021
           John P. Deckers, Esquire
                                                    Wednesday, December 1, 2021
       David J.J. Facciolo, Jr., Esquire            Drafting Arbitration Clauses: What You Do and Don’t Want
          David J. Ferry, Jr., Esquire              in Your Next Arbitration Clause and How to Proceed with an
         Robert D. Goldberg, Esquire                Arbitration Clause
       Laura Nastase Najemy, Esquire                Live Seminar at DSBA with Zoom Option
       Denise D. Nordheimer, Esquire                Saturday, December 4, 2021 • 9:00 a.m. – 11:00 a.m.
        Kuhu Parasrampuria, Esquire                 Breakfast with Santa
       Kenneth M. Roseman, Esquire*
                                                    Live at DSBA
     Yvonne Takvorian Saville, Esquire              Tuesday, December 7, 2021 • 12:00 p.m. – 2:00 p.m.
       R. Judson Scaggs, Jr., Esquire*
                                                    Awards Luncheon
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         Victoria R. Sweeney, Esquire
                                                    Friday, December 10, 2021
       Gregory Brian Williams, Esquire
                                                    Family Law Update
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           Kent and Sussex County
                                                    Tuesday, December 14, 2021 • 12:00 p.m. – 1:00 p.m.
                                                    Eviction Crisis
     Candace E. Holmes, Esquire, Chair
                                                    Live Seminar at DSBA with Zoom Option
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                                                    Wednesday, December 15, 2021 • 9:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.
            Edward Curley, Esquire
                                                    Recent Developments in Data Security and E-Discovery
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EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE
    SECTION & COMMITTEE MEETINGS
                                                                                   Kathleen M. Miller
                                                                                   President
November 2021
                                                                                   Charles J. Durante
Friday, November 5, 2021 • 12:00 p.m.                                              President-Elect
Workers’ Compensation Section Meeting
Zoom Meeting, see Section listserv message for link and password                   Kate Harmon
                                                                                   Vice President-at-Large
Tuesday, November 9, 2021 • 12:00 p.m.
Litigation Section Meeting                                                         Mary Frances Dugan
Delaware State Bar Association, 405 North King Street, Suite 100, Wilmington, DE   Vice President, New Castle County
Wednesday, November 17, 2021 • 9:00 a.m.                                           Anthony V. Panicola
ADR Section Meeting                                                                Vice President, Kent County
Zoom Meeting, see Section listserv message for link and password
                                                                                   Ashley M. Bickel
Thursday, November 18, 2021 • 12:00 p.m.
                                                                                   Vice President, Sussex County
Executive Committee Meeting
Delaware State Bar Association, 405 North King Street, Suite 100, Wilmington, DE   Samuel D. Pratcher III
Tuesday, November 30, 2021 • 12:00 p.m.                                            Vice President, Solo & Small Firms,
Multicultural Judges and Lawyers Section Meeting                                   New Castle County
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                                                                                   Jessie R. Benavides
                                                                                   Vice President, Solo & Small Firms,
December 2021                                                                      Kent County
Wednesday, December 1, 2021 • 12:30 p.m.
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                                                                                   Sussex County
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TIPS ON TECHNOLOGY

                                                                                            of these assignments during a summer
                                                                                            or two spent working in Delaware and
                                                                                            completed any outstanding assignments
                                                                                            once they began working after the Bar
                                                                                            exam. But what do you do when faced
                                                                                            with a global pandemic that has kept
                                                                                            people home, closed court buildings to
                                                                                            the public, and suspended jury trials for
                                                                                            over a year?
                                                                                               On August 18, 2021, the Delaware
                                                                                            Board of Bar Examiners made an an-
                                                                                            nouncement modifying the clerkship
                                                                                            requirements in an effort “to balance the
                                                                                            goals of the clerkship process with the
                                                                                            need for flexibility and fairness during
                                                                                            the pandemic.”3 From May 1, 2020 to
                                                                                            December 31, 2021, applicants can attend
                                                                                            proceedings on the clerkship checklist by

Navigating the
                                                                                            video or audio conference.
                                                                                                As we have worked through the
                                                                                            clerkship assignments in a mostly virtual

Delaware Clerkship
                                                                                            environment, we have some thoughts on
                                                                                            using technology to make the most of the
                                                                                            experience, some technology etiquette

Requirement During                                                                          refreshers, and some thoughts on where
                                                                                            technology has made access to justice

the Pandemic
                                                                                            easier and where technology can pose
                                                                                            challenges.

                                                                                            Zoom Court Etiquette
BY SARAH M. HAND AND TAYLOR E. HALLOWELL
                                                                                                    This goes without saying, but do
                                                                                             ✔

                                  T
                                                                                                    not be late. Some judges set a time
                                                                                            at which you must be present in the Zoom
                                             he Delaware clerkship requirement is a         courtroom, often fifteen minutes before
                                             long-standing and respected tradition that     the scheduled start time. We went to one
                                             can trace its roots back to the legal system   pretrial conference in which individuals
                                             of England and the mentoring system es-        kept appearing in the waiting room after
                                  tablished in the English Inns of Court in London.1        that time and the judge remarked that this
                                  During the typical five-month clerkship, applicants       was not what she expected of Delaware
Sarah M. Hand and Taylor          must complete a list of legal activities related to the   lawyers. With the ease of logging on to a
E. Hallowell are law clerks                                                                 Zoom hearing almost instantaneously, it
                                  practice of law in Delaware that is furnished by the
                                                                                                                                          © istockphoto.com/ UnitoneVector

at Young Conaway Stargatt
& Taylor, LLP.                    Delaware Board of Bar Examiners.2 As we are sure          can become too easy to wait until the last
                                  you all remember well, the Schedule of Clerkship Le-      second to join the meeting. However, it
                                  gal Assignments consists of many tasks (presently 26),    can be very distracting to the judges and
                                  the vast majority of which require being present in       the parties if people join late. Sneaking
                                  a courtroom during a particular proceeding. Before        into a meeting is unlikely when your ar-
                                  2020, many Bar applicants completed the majority          rival prompts a new box on the screen that

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We do not know what the future holds, but it                                              and allows participants to then choose
                                                                                          an audio channel in their preferred lan-
seems likely that Delaware courts will continue                                           guage. This function was helpful in a
                                                                                          Family Court proceeding that we ob-
to evolve and some remote proceedings might                                               served.
be here to stay.
                                                                                          Technological Challenges

                                                                                           ✔     One trial that we tried to attend
shifts other boxes or a sound signaling
                                              ✔ Some judges and mediators have                   by Zoom was postponed because
that a new participant has joined.                  taken the time to connect with bar    a party had a hearing impediment and
                                             applicants before and after proceedings      relied on reading lips. The Zoom format
      Most judges will send instructions     to provide context and answer questions.
✔                                                                                         proved to be a barrier for this individual
      on how they want you to appear         It can be easier to have these conversa-     because the video was too small and the
on Zoom — usually “Bar Applicant —           tions virtually — before and after parties   quality was not high enough to permit
[Your Name]” and with the request that       are admitted into the virtual room. We       him to use his usual accommodation of
you appear with your camera off and          particularly appreciated Yvonne Takvori-     reading lips. The trial had to be delayed
muted. Do not forget to mute! We have        an Saville, Esquire, giving an hour-long     while an alternative was identified.
heard people talking over the judge by       overview of mediation and arbitrations
accident and it is pretty awkward.           before an arbitration and then debriefing
                                             with us afterwards.
Do Not Forget the Phone!                                                                     We are seeking to join the Delaware
                                             Technology Aiding Access to                  Bar during an unprecedented time and
       In our increasingly email-driven
✔                                            Justice                                      we appreciate the Delaware Supreme
       world, it becomes easy to forget
                                                                                          Court and the Delaware Board of Bar
that we have phones and can connect                 In some instances, we have wit-
                                             ✔                                            Examiner’s flexibility when it comes to
with busy court staff. We have found                nessed how technology has helped      completing the clerkship requirements
that when all else fails, the phone is the   pro se litigants connect to the justice      during the pandemic. Attending all of
best way to connect and get quick an-        system.                                      the proceedings on the Clerkship Sched-
swers. For example, the calendars on the
                                                    We watched a civil trial in the       ule of Assignments has still been a very
court websites may only extend a week        ✔
                                                    Justice of the Peace Court via        meaningful experience and a great oppor-
or so into the future, but an employee
                                             Zoom where the defendants had moved          tunity to learn from Delaware judges and
working in the courthouse can provide
                                             to a different state after a short-term      lawyers. We do not know what the future
you with dates for proceedings farther
                                             rental experience in Delaware, and they      holds, but it seems likely that Delaware
out.
                                             were able to connect to the hearing from     courts will continue to evolve and some
Technology as a Way of                       their new home several states away in-       remote proceedings might be here to stay.
Connecting Delaware                          stead of making the trip to Delaware,        Given that reality, we wanted to share
                                             which would have been a big expense and      our experiences and tips on completing
       You can join Zoom hearings and                                                     the clerkship requirements during a pan-
✔                                            necessitated taking time off from work.
       audio conferences in courts in                                                     demic, while also reflecting on access to
different counties that you might not              In one hearing, a pro se party had     the Delaware courts in our increasingly
                                             ✔
have had time to drive to if you could             not realized that the hearing was      technology-reliant world.
only attend in person. This can be a great   that day and was able to Zoom in from
opportunity to see how different courts      her phone as soon as the Court contacted     Notes:
operate and to see judges you would not      her.                                         1. Hon. Randy J. Holland, The Delaware Clerkship
                                                                                             Requirement: A Long-Standing Tradition, 78 BAR
ordinarily see.                                                                              EXAMINER 28, 28 (2009).
                                                    The Language Interpretation
                                             ✔                                            2. Id.
 ✔ If one location of a court is expe-              function in Zoom allows inter-        3. Del. Bd. of Bar Examiners, Clerkship Checklist An-
     riencing long hold times on the         preters to create an audio channel for the      nouncement (Aug. 18, 2021), https://www.courts.
                                                                                             delaware.gov/bbe/docs/2021ClerkshipChecklist
phone, try calling another location.         language to which they are translating          Requirements.pdf.

                                                                                                 DSBA Bar Journal | November 2021          13
ETHICALLY SPEAKING | BY CHARLES SLANINA, ESQUIRE

Babel: ABA Formal Opinion 500

T
           he Standing Committee on           comprehending and accurately explaining        is unable and the attorney unwilling to
           Ethics and Professional Re-        the legal concepts involved. The inter-        pay the additional costs associated with
           sponsibility of the American       preter must also assent to maintain the        the translation or interpretation services
           Bar Association chose to cel-      client confidences.                            required. In an attempt to protect the
ebrate its 500th formal opinion issued            In reaching these conclusions, the         public by a no-exception application
since 1924 by issuing one of my least         Committee all but ruled out the use of         of the Professional Conduct Rules, the
favorite opinions. On October 6, 2021,        friends and family of the clients or mem-      unintended consequence may be to deny
the Committee issued Formal Opinion           bers of the community who are capable          segments of the public access to legal
500 titled, “Language Access in the           of speaking both the language of the           services and justice.
Client-Lawyer Relationship.” The ABA          client and of the attorney. Instead, the           The Committee offers guidance on
concluded that lawyers’ duty of com-          Committee recommends use of trained,           determining the qualifications of the
munication under Model Rule 1.4 and           professional translators or interpreters or    person providing translation and interpre-
competence under Rule 1.1 of the Model        the use of technological substitutes. The      tive services. First, they suggest that the
Rules of Professional Conduct dictate         Opinion references the American Transla-       attorney somehow evaluate the translator’s
the steps lawyers should consider when        tor’s Association as well as services such     proficiency in the language of the client.
faced with communication challenges           as closed captioning, live transcriptioning,   Then, they direct that the attorney evalu-
due to language differences or health         screen readers, refreshable displays, speech   ate the expertise of the translator in the
conditions. The Committee opined that         recognition software, and voice-to-text        legal concepts and terminology employed
a lawyer’s affirmative responsibility is to   assistive technologies.                        by the attorney in the communications
ensure that the client understands the            The ABA also gives short shrift to the     with the client. However, while the stated
lawyer’s communications and that the          practical and economic realities that many     requirement that the attorney perform
lawyer understands the client governed        non-English-speaking clients may not be        these evaluations, they offer no guidance
by these Rules. The Committee went            able to afford the cost of these services.     as to how those determinations are to be
on to remind that Rule 5.3 also applies       The Committee cautions that they do            made.
to communications with clients with           not recognize this potential hardship or
cognitive disabilities.                                                                          Finally, the Committee cautions that
                                              limitation of language barriers as an exi-     interpreters (and ultimately the attorney,
    In offering the Opinion, the ABA          gent circumstance excusing the attorney        as well) are tasked with not only ensuring
concluded that a lawyer should arrange        from full compliance with the applicable       the technical proficiencies of the transla-
for communications with affected clients      professional conduct rules. Instead, the       tion but also competency to appreciate the
through an impartial interpreter or trans-    ABA recommends that attorneys de-              cultural differences between the attorney
lator, whom the attorney has carefully        cline representation of clients with these     and client, including but not limited to
selected and determined to be capable of      communication challenges if the client         ethnicity, religion, or national origin.
                                                                                             Attorneys are cautioned that the repre-
  In an attempt to protec t the public by a                                                  sentation and the choices entailed in the
  no - exception application of the Professional                                             course of that representation be filtered
                                                                                             through the lens of cultural and social
  Conduc t Rules, the unintended consequence                                                 perspectives that may differ between the
  may be to deny segments of the public access                                               attorney and client.
  to legal ser vices and justice.                                                               The Committee could have offered
                                                                                             best-practices guidance on how attorneys

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might make the best of a difficult situa-
tion. The ABA could have recognized the
client’s role in contacting a lawyer who
does not speak their language or the prac-
                                                                                          It’s okay to ask for help.
tical reality that there may not be a lawyer
available in a jurisdiction who speaks their
language. The Committee could also have
recognized that the client elected to bring
a family member, friend or neighbor as a
translator and that not all lawyers have
resources to have translators or interpreters
on staff or otherwise available to com-
municate with whatever language with
which the prospective clients presents. It is                               Asking for help can be dif ficult.
unfortunate that the Committee chose to                              Knowing help is available makes it a little easier.
only offer the choice between disciplinary
liability or declining the client as options.                 DE-LAP’S NEW                    DELAWARE’S                PROFESSIONAL
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                                                                                     Get Noticed!
requirements. Unaddressed is the issue of
video signings on platforms such as Zoom
and FaceTime.
   Recently, the Superior Court issued
Standing Order No. 8 titled, “Use of                                                 Take advantage of the target audience of the
Unsworn Declarations.” This October                                                  DSBA Bar Journal and initiate new business
6, 2021, Standing Order states that                                                  through referrals and building your brand. Placing
any requirements for sworn statements,
                                                                                     an ad is easy!
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in filings with the Superior Court are                                               For more information, contact Rebecca Baird at
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    “Ethically Speaking” is intended to stimulate
awareness of ethical issues. It is not intended as legal
advice nor does it necessarily represent the opinion of
the Delaware State Bar Association.
    “Ethically Speaking” is available online. Col-
umns from the past five years are available on www.
dsba.org.

Cha rles Sla ni na is a par tner in the
firm of Finger & Slanina, LLC. His prac-
tice areas include disciplinary defense
and consultations on professional re-
sponsibility issues. Additional informa-
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www.delawgroup.com.

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DE-LAP ZONE | CAROL P. WALDHAUSER, EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

Ready Or Not – The Holiday
Season Is Here!

A
             re you ready for the holiday season? Or is your life
             starting to feel like a holiday circus? For many,        TEN TIPS
             the holiday season may bring about feelings of           FOR THE HOLIDAY OFFICE PARTY
             joy and great expectations; while for others, the
holidays may bring about feelings of being overwhelmed,               10. Do practice safe gathering guidelines and be mindful
                                                                          of your state’s guidelines for gathering. If masks are
unmet expectations, and sadness. DE-LAP is offering tips to
                                                                          required, be sure to let your guests know they will be
everyone who wants to enjoy a less stressful holiday season and           required at the function — or provide a few as a gift.
even a simpler life. Hopefully, the collection of tips below will
                                                                      9.   Be mindful and sensitive to different religious affiliations.
help you meet your holiday expectations while re-charging
                                                                      8.   Do encourage attendance (even virtually). Use the
your operating system with simple suggestions for taming                   par t y as an oppor tunit y to meet people you don’t
that circus around you.                                                    already know. Pay people compliments, ask about holi-
                                                                           day plans, brush up on faces and names, and arm yourself
The Holiday Party                                                          with conversation starters.
Stress Less, Don’t Panic and Stay Mindful                             7.   Don’t explicitly conduct business, and look like you are
                                                                           having fun.
   The holiday party can be a complex situation during the
best of times. During the post-COVID-19 timeframe, it is              6.   Don’t go over budget. While generosity is a virtue of
more complex, but doable. As the host, try to plan an event                the holiday season, do your best to stick to your budget.

that appeals to the majority. Remember, the point of a holi-          5.   Ask about the dress code ahead of time and dress for
                                                                           the occasion. And, bring a mask!
day party is to celebrate during a difficult time. There is no
debate that the past couple of years were a difficult time for        4.   Remember to say “thank you.” Be sure to thank your
                                                                           boss and the organization before you leave. The next
most of us. So, we all need a little celebration and moments of            day send separate notes or emails thanking them again.
gratitude. Likewise, we need to stick to the “do’s” and avoid
                                                                      3.   Be aware that bad behavior can be documented and
the “don’ts” for partying more than ever.
                                                                           shared in real time on social media. It can and will dam-
    As an attendee — in person or virtually — we are sup-                  age your reputation. Be vigilant.
posed to hang out with our coworkers, have fun, and let loose.        2.   Don’t miss work due to partying the night before,
On the other hand, we should not drink too much in the                     Have an exit strategy.
way of spirits, nor act too loose. Why? Because unlike Vegas,         1.   Know your drinking limit. If you are not driving, you need
what happens at the office holiday party may not stay at the               to prepare yourself ahead of time by setting guidelines,
                                                                           whether that is a one or two drink maximum. Have a desig-
party. More specifically, you need to keep balance so you do
                                                                           nated driver or Uber and/or Lyft apps ready. If you are
not become the next day’s gossip. But, there are ways that you             driving, just say no. Do not drink and drive.
can plan, prepare, and implement strategies that will keep you
safe and can even help you shine — rather than crash — at
the holiday office party in this post-COVID-19 environment.         For some, the holidays are an emotional trap for family issues
                                                                    such as: relationships (many love their brothers, sisters, and
Wellness for a Healthy & Happy Holiday Season                       extended family, but do not necessarily like spending the day
   Let’s face it, many of us fantasize that our holiday cel-        with them); weight gain (from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Day,
ebrations will be a photocopy of a Norman Rockwell print.           the average American gains six pounds); and contemplating for
While some individuals succeed in this vision, many do not.         hours about that perfect gift.

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In the real world, you cannot totally
relieve yourself of all the stress in your     DE-LAP’S HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE
preparations for the holiday season, but
you can keep your stress under control.        In the real world, you cannot totally relieve yourself of all the stress in your
    To recharge your operating system          preparations for the holiday season, but you can keep your stress under control.
remember to have compassion for your-          Here are a collection of do’s and don’ts for your holiday survival:
self during the holidays. This holiday         ▪   Don’t cling to visions of a Norman Rockwell family moment. That happens only
season, remember self-accountability               in paintings. (In other words – ditch the perfectionism.)
and self-love. Recognize that you are
                                               ▪   Do be flexible with your partner. Some traditions are definitely worth fighting for
responsible for your health and wellbe-            while others you may be able to let go.
ing. Take charge of your own life and
health. Take hold of your holiday stress       ▪   Do consider family problems when planning celebratory gatherings. If your
and the emotional traps before it takes            brother drinks too much, avoid a dinner party and throw a dry holiday brunch instead.
hold of you.                                   ▪   Don’t travel out of guilt. Have an honest conversation with your family about how
    If you’re not in a celebratory mood —          difficult it is for you to make a trip during the holidays. Suggest visiting say, in Febru-
you’re not the only one. Some causes of            ary, when you’ll have more time to really see one another.
holiday depression are loneliness; recent      ▪   Don’t isolate yourself. Seek out kindred souls and spend time with them. If you’re
loss of a loved one; financial strain or           newly divorced, join a support group, volunteer at a homeless shelter, or shop for
money worries; social anxiety; stress; un-         elderly neighbors so you have some human contact.
realistic expectations; and being around       ▪   Don’t spend randomly. Set a limit for gifts and stick to it.
those who engage in, or have engaged
in, physical, mental, and emotional            ▪   Do talk with your children. Have a conversation before the season begins about
abuse. In addition, the past couple of             realistic expectations.
years have been a period of monumental         ▪   Don’t hesitate to buy the same gift for several people on your list. As long as
change, uncertainties, and isolation. The          they don’t know one another, who cares?
Delaware Lawyers Assistance Program
                                               ▪   Do take one vacation day early in the holiday season to get all your shopping
understands that it is often difficult             finished. You can avoid the crowds and 11th hour pressure.
to ask for help. At DE-LAP, we focus,
confidentially, on both the professional,      ▪   Don’t play the comparison game. Try not to compare this holiday to those in the
                                                   past or to the holidays of people you know.
as well as the human being.
                                               ▪   Do remind yourself that the holidays may have been so wonderful in childhood
   The Delaware Lawyers Assistance
                                                   because you had no responsibility for making the magic. If you have grown-up
Program, together with The Delaware
                                                   expectations, you won’t be so disappointed.
Lawyers Assistance Fund (DELAF),
has developed a free, confidential call-in     ▪   Don’t feel sorry for yourself if you have no parties to go to. Throw your own, and
service for Delaware’s legal professionals         feel good inviting others who may not have invitations themselves.
to discuss your own anxieties with DE-         ▪   Do try returning to your old church, synagogue, or mosque if you are feeling spiri-
LAP’S core team of licensed, health-care           tually disconnected. If that does not work, go with friends to their place of worship.
professionals.
                                               ▪   Don’t feel pressured to make a spiritual connection during this holiday. Set it
    Especially during this holiday season,         as a goal to work on next year. Knowing you have a plan will help you feel better
if you, or someone you know, need to               immediately.
talk, please take advantage of our team
of licensed health-care professionals. For
more information, call DE-LAP at (302)
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                                                                       INTRODUCTION BY
                                                            DENISE DEL GIORNO NORDHEIMER, ESQUIRE

                                                 F
                                                         rom the screenplay by Horton Foote for the film adaptation
                                                         of Harper Lee’s novel To Kill a Mockingbird:

                                                         “Maycomb was a tired old town, even in 1932 when I first knew
                                                   it. Somehow, it was hotter then. Men’s stiff collars wilted by nine in
                                                   the morning. Ladies bathed before noon after their three o’clock naps.
                                                   And by nightfall were like soft teacakes with frosting from sweating
                                                   and sweet talcum. The day was twenty-four hours long, but it seemed
                                                   longer. There’s no hurry …”
                                                     Three years ago, I expanded my practice to include a Sussex County
                                                 location and I have come to discover the many joys of a downstate
                                                 lifestyle. My professional and personal life in Milton remind me of
                                                 the small town in the opening of the film To Kill a Mockingbird.
                                                 Like much of Sussex County, it seems removed from the pressures of
                                                 daily life that I have come to accept in my northerly existence. The
                                                 clients, the Court staff, my neighbors, the clerks at the grocery store,
                                                 all seem to choose to resist the more toxic pace of modern life in favor
                                                 of longer chats, civil pleasantries, and concern about the wellbeing of
                                                 you and your dog.
                                                     In this issue, we have asked some long-standing judges and attor-
                                                 neys from Kent and Sussex County to share their thoughts on living
                                                 and working in this alternate universe. I would encourage anyone
                                                 who has not had the opportunity to practice downstate to take a case
                                                 that brings you into its orbit; you will find that the pace of life, col-
                                                 legiality, and sunsets spoken of here are not exaggerated. If you are
                                                 ever in Milton, please come up on my porch and allow me to show
                                                 you some downstate hospitality because, there, I do miraculously have
                                                 time for everything.

                                                 Denise D. Nordheimer practices estate administration, estate planning,
                                                 adult guardianships, and fiduciary litigation at Nordheimer Law. She
                                                 loves small dogs, baking, knitting, and walking and can be reached at
                                                 denise@nordheimerlaw.com.

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                    d K. Herrmann
                                    , Es quire
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   Sussex County                                                    e wanted to hear from our
                                                                    members who practice in
                                                                                                  colleagues at the Department of Justice
                                                                                                  went out on a maternity leave and I was
    Contributors                                                    Sussex County to gain         asked to spend the spring and summer
                                                                    insight as to the joys and    in Sussex. I fell in love with Sussex and
                                                       challenges of practicing “down state.”     after three months of being back in
                 The Honorable                         We are so grateful to our contribu-        Wilmington, I asked to be reassigned
                 Karen L. Valihura
                                                       tors to this issue and appreciate the      to Sussex County. As a former Navy
                 Justice, Supreme Court
                 of the State of Delaware              reminder that although Delaware may        brat, I always had sand between my
                                                       be small, the experiences here are vast    toes, so this area was a natural fit for
“I just began my eighth year as a Justice on the
                                                       and our history rich.                      me. It was a bonus that the Sussex bar
Delaware Supreme Court. How time flies.”
                                                                                                  welcomed me into their fold with such
                                                       How long have you been in                  warmth. I like to say that I moved
                                                       Sussex County?                             down here to live and work before all
                 The Honorable                             “My primary residence is in Wilm-      the upstate attorneys even dreamed of
                 Craig A. Karsnitz                     ington, but I have had a presence in       opening an office and working here in
                 Judge, Superior Court                 Lewes for about twenty years. Particu-     Sussex County.” – Stephanie Tsantes
                 of the State of Delaware
                                                       larly since the onset of the pandemic,        “With the exception of the time I
“I am a Resident Judge, Superior Court, Sussex         and my curtailment of most travel, I       spent in college and law school, I have
County for nearly three years. Prior to joining the
Court, I practiced with Young, Conaway, Stargatt
                                                       have tried to spend most weekends in       been in Sussex County since I was two
& Taylor.”                                             Lewes. I have a home office there which    years old. I actually live in the same
                                                       allows me to work remotely fairly          home. #Sussex4Life” – Tasha Stevens
                                                       seamlessly. I have found the change of
                                                                                                     “Since June 1972.” – Denni s
                 Kathi A. Karsnitz, Esquire            scenery to be healthy and uplifting.”
                                                                                                  Schrader
                 Kathi A. Karsnitz,                    – Justice Valihura
                 Attorney at Law                                                                     “We purchased our home here in
                                                           “We first came to Sussex County
                                                                                                  March of 2021, and moved here in
                                                       in 1977 shortly after Craig graduated
“I am a solo practitioner. My area of practice for                                                April 2021. Jay has been a member of
the last ten or so years concentrated on alternative   from Villanova Law School. Craig
                                                                                                  the Delaware Bar since 1993, when he
dispute resolution. Most recently, I served as         clerked for then Justice of the Su-
counsel to the Delaware House of Representatives
                                                                                                  was an associate attorney at Connolly,
                                                       preme Court, John J. McNeilly. Kathi
majority caucus.”                                                                                 Bove, Lodge & Hutz in Wilmington,
                                                       worked as a title searcher at what was
                                                                                                  Delaware.” – Judge Moore and
                                                       then Dunlap, Holland & Eberly in
                                                                                                  Judge Petravick
                 Ross C. Karsnitz, Esquire
                                                       Georgetown. In 1978, Craig accepted
                                                       an associate position at Young, Con-           “While my parents have lived in
                 Morris James LLP
                                                       away in Wilmington. In 1985, a year        Sussex County for nearly three decades,
                                                       after Ross was born, we returned to        my family only recently purchased a
“I am an associate in Morris James’ Georgetown         Sussex County to open the Georgetown       home in Sussex approximately three
office. My area of practice is personal injury                                                    years ago and, ironically, live right
litigation.”                                           office of Young, Conaway.” – Judge
                                                       Karsnitz and Kathi Karsnitz                next door to my parents. We split time
                                                                                                  between Wilmington, Delaware, and
                                                           “I grew up in Sussex County. After     Lewes, Delaware. For the pandemic,
                                                       law school, I worked in Wilmington         however, we spent the majority of our
                 Stephanie A. Tsantes,                 for several years but returned to Sussex   time in Sussex County. When we are
                 Esquire                               County in 2017 to join Morris James’       not in Sussex County, we really miss it
                 Office of Conflicts Counsel           Georgetown office.” – Ross Karsnitz        all: the restaurants, the beaches, Cape
“I work for the Office of Conflicts Counsel               “I have lived and practiced law in      Henlopen State Park, the bike paths,
which is part of the umbrella organization of          Sussex County for the last 26 years. I     and our neighbors and the commu-
the Office of Defense Services. I manage the
conflicts program in Sussex County.”
                                                       came to Sussex when one of my work         nity.” – Jason Powell

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