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    HAPPY SHAVUOT

   Myrna Morse, Evelyn Gurevitch
   and Jeffrey Stein-Larson
   making blintzes circa 2013
HAPPY SHAVUOT may/JUNE 2021 - Congregation Beth Ami
Congregation Beth Ami                           Office Hours
  4676 Mayette Avenue                             Mon.–Thurs. 10 a.m.–2 p.m.      Fri. 10 a.m.–12 p.m.
  Santa Rosa, CA 95405
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Personnel                             Officers & Board of                   Members at Large
Rabbi Mordecai Miller                 Directors, 2020–21                    Irvin Klein
707-889-6905                          Carolyn Metz, President               707-695-0711, irvin@sonic.net
rabbi@bethamisr.org                   707-481-3390                          Carol Swanson
Elizabeth Jarlsberg,                  mzmetzpresident@gmail.com             707-874-3412, swangirl@comcast.net
Office Manager                        Myrna Morse, VP Administration        Myra Stern Thomas
707-360-3000                          707-539-5457, mrm75@att.net           707-287-0786, myra52@comcast.net
office@bethamisr.org
                                      David Ballo, VP of Facilities         Michelle Zygielbaum
Jessica Joerger and Natalee Pughe,    707-576-0612, klezhead@sonic.net      707-538-6099, mmz@mpzyg.com
Early Education Directors
                                      Bobbie Rosenthal,                     Bob Cooper
707-360-3030
                                      VP of Membership                      707-337‑6244, bcoop@sonic.net
ns@bethamisr.org
                                      415-517-4323                          Richard Kahn
Rick Concoff, JCC Teen Program        robertarosenthal16@gmail.com
707-823-3916                                                                707-217‑5265, earthin4@sonic.net
                                      Barbara McGee, Secretary              Mike Mundell
rickc@jccsoco.org
                                      707-953-2526                          707-291‑3193, mundmike@sonic.net
Volunteers                            barbmcgee@comcast.net
                                                                            Leanne Schy
Bonnie Boren, Gift Shop               Henry Cohn, Treasurer                 707-528-4874, Leanne@sonic.net
707-360-3022                          415-497-2723
bonniegboren@gmail.com                henry.s.cohn@gmail.com
                                                                            Jewish Community Contacts
Leanne Schy, Communications/ Shofar   Members Ex Officio
Leanne@sonic.net                                                            Hillel of Sonoma County
                                      Jessica Joerger 707-360-3030          707-795-5464, sonomahillel.org
                                      nsdirector@bethamisr.org
Deadline for July/ August                                                   JCC, Sonoma County
Shofar is June18th                    Rabbi Mordecai Miller                 707-528-4222, jccsoco.org
                                      707-889-6905, rabbi@bethamisr.org
                                                                            Jewish Community Federation
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Rabbi’s Remarks
                 Rabbi Mordecai Miller
                 Gone, but not forgotten!
   From the moment we enter this world we                                              But what about
engage in celebration. For boys, as members                                          the moment when
of the Jewish faith, it may involve a Brit Mila                                      we depart this
- an “entering into the Covenant of Abraham”                                         world? Does it
through the ceremony of circumcision. For                                            mean, inevitably,
girls, we may celebrate their arrival into the                                       that our lives have
world through the Chanukat Bat: the Dedica-                                          lost all signifi-
tion of a daughter. As members of American,                                          cance? True, we
Western society we celebrate peoples’ birth                                          might no longer
days; in our earlier years typically with “birth-                                    be physically
day parties,” (Cake and presents). However, as        present, but for those of us who have lost a
we mature our overt celebrations may occur at         spouse, a parent, a close relative, or friend, we
five or ten year intervals. They may be limited       discover that beyond the immediate intense
to gatherings of close family and friends and         pain of grieving our loss, those individuals
certainly may include the trimmings, but the          who played a significant role for us can contin-
mood may be a little more thoughtful as we            ue to influence our thoughts, our feelings, and
look back on the years that have passed - and         our behaviors even beyond the grave.
the years that lie ahead!                               While our interactions may take place in a
   If we attempt to gain a deeper understand-         physical realm, the effect they have affects our
ing of this well-established custom, I believe        thoughts and feelings. In fact, the person in-
it is a way of expressing the joy we feel that        volved may not be physically in our presence
this person is part of our lives! After all, we       when this is happening! Such interchange may
are, quite literally, “celebrating their birth!” We   happen on the phone or through a written
all know how important it is - especially for a       communication or even through the transmis-
developing child - to feel appreciated: valued        sion by some other person.
simply for “being.” Birthdays are a profound            We still celebrate the significance of someone
way of communicating that feeling. Just see-          who has “gone the way of all flesh,” through
ing the smile light up on the face of the person      our funeral traditions. When you come right
whose life is being celebrated, is often all the      down to it, it’s no different than celebrating
thanks we need; whether in response to exert-         that person’s birthday! True, they are no longer
ing whatever efforts we may have in planning          physically with us - and we may deeply grieve
and performing the event, or simply taking the        that loss. However, that very feeling of grief is
relatively little effort in sending a card or even    directly tied to the extent we treasured their
greetings by text or email.                           physical presence.
   Expressing the loving quality of “I care about       We are so fortunate that Jewish Tradition
you,” - enough to take a small or extensive           affords us an opportunity to continue to cel-
part of your day, reinvigorates human ties and        ebrate a person’s life in commemorating the
can truly give the person being celebrated a          anniversary of their death. Balancing the day
deep sense of personal value: one reason to           they arrived in this world with the day they
appreciate being alive. Given so many of the          departed this world helps us understand the
other challenges to our sense of happiness,           extent to which life is a journey. It may also
celebrating family and friend’s birthdays takes       help us accept the reality of our own mortality
on significant value.                                 and, at the same time, provide a rich source

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Rabbi’s Remarks
                Continued…

of comfort in knowing that the significance of    continues to have an effect on our own lives -
our brief sojourn in this world is not limited    that they matter - despite the fact that they are
to the time we are physically “in” this world.    no longer in the land of the living.
Celebrating this “day of departure” is referred     In turn, this allows us to realize that life
to in our tradition as “observing that person’s   doesn’t simply end at the grave. We are, in
Yahrzeit.” (The word Yahrzeit - pronounced        fact, capable of joining our souls with all those
“Yahr - tzite” is a Yiddish/German word mean-     whom we love, whether living or departed.
ing “anniversary” - literally “year time.”)         At Congregation Beth Ami, we gather to-
  When we celebrate a birthday, we take time      gether with family and friends to give indi-
out of our routine to express our delight that    viduals the opportunity to say Kaddish. The
this person is a part of our lives. This small    very words of this prayer are an expression of
sacrifice of time gives them a feeling of being   appreciation to God for allowing us the oppor-
significant, that they matter. When we observe    tunity to share our lives with the ones whose
someone’s Yahrzeit, we are also expressing        memory we cherish.
how important they are to us by taking time               Wishing you every blessing,
out of our routine. What is amazing about this                  Mordecai Miller
act, is how we are showing that this person

    Reopening Beth Ami for
    Religious Services June 4,
        Kabbalat Shabbat
  Really exciting news is that as more of                       Please join us!
  our members receive vaccinations, we are
  talking again about reopening Beth Ami                Congregation Beth Ami’s
  for religious services!
  You are invited to join us in person on June
                                                     Annual Membership Meeting
  4, for Kabbalat Shabbat in the Courtyard.             Sunday, June 13, 2021
  Pre-registration will be required and safety                     10:30 a.m.
  protocols shall remain in place: wearing a
  mask, using hand sanitizer before enter-           in the Beth Ami Zoom room
  ing the gate, social distancing once inside.
  But we’ll be able to be together for the             Cast your vote for new and
  first time in more than a year and that
  sounds pretty amazing!!!
                                                      returning Board Members and
  A team of volunteers, along with Rabbi
                                                                 Officers
  Miller and Lisa Iskin, are working together          Approve the 2021-22 Budget
  to create something wonderful. Keep your
  eyes open for details on Cybershul.              Share Highlights and see the inner
  Take care, Carolyn                                 workings of your synagogue

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Events &
                 Announcements
Our Condolences to the Families of:
Florence Metz
Phyllis Morton
Wishing a Speedy Recovery to:
Debi Chapman             Linda Emblen
Judy Dzik                Rob Gitlin
Anna Judd                Etienne Sampiere         Our Courageous Conversations,
Dennis Judd                                       one more meeting:
                                                  Thursday, May 6, 7:30 - 8:30 p.m.
Voices Of Israel May 16, 2021
(Sunday) 10 a.m. PST                              Becoming an Ally
Series of Webinars                                Please join the members of the Beth Ami
on the People Israel                              Committee on Racism and Social Justice as we
and the Land of Isra-                             explore together:
el brought to you by                              • Have time together with your community
the Sonoma County                                     at CBA to share experiences and perhaps
Israel Committee                                      some sensitive discussions.
with co-sponsorship                               • Explore racism and white privilege in the
by Congregation                                       world today and how it has directly and
Beth Ami, Club Z,                                     indirectly been a part of our lives.
and StandWithUs
                                                  • Increase our understanding and learn how
Hear Dr. Paul Liptz                                   racism has molded our perceptions.
teach us about the
                                                  • Discover ways to be antiracist and support
Yemenite Jews jour-
                                                      people of color.
ney to return home.
The Yemenite Jews                                 • Gain tools and resources to initiate and
dreamed of return-                                    build social justice in our community.
ing to Israel through                             You can access our event on the Congregation
the centuries and beginning in the 1880s, small   Beth Ami website. Click on the Events at a
groups arrived. However, in the 1949 Opera-       Glance and Virtual Week Calendar to find the
tion Magic Carpet/On the wings of Eagles, the     link. Pdfs of resources are linked in the Rac-
community almost disappeared with 49,000          ism and Social justice blog on BethAmiSR.org.
being flown to Israel in El Al planes. This im-   For more information contact Carol Swanson
migrant group contributed in many ways to         (swangirl@comcast.net).
Israel’s multi-ethnic society and were seen as    This event is sponsored and created by the
somewhat exotic with ancient customs and a        Committee on Racism and Social Justice at
different Hebrew pronunciation. Although it       Congregation Beth Ami; Carol Swanson, Caro-
included some traumatic events, their integra-    lyn Metz, Lyla Nathan Rabbi Mordecai Miller,
tion was mostly successful.                       Betty Boyd, Myra Thomas, Jerry Newman, Na-
Sign up at https://signup.com/go/LFJUpEX          talee Pughe, Ellen Mundell.

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President’s Page
                Carolyn Metz, President
                Preparing for the Congregation’s Annual Meeting June 13

                              Dear Congregants,    keep everyone safe and it has worked!
                              This will be my        It meant that the children were together ev-
                           last communica-         ery day since last August under the competent
                           tion with you in        guidance of amazing teachers and administra-
                           the Shofar as your      tive staff leading to happy parents who can
                           President. When I       “go to work daily,” happy children who can be
                           stepped into this       with friends, and staff who get to do the work
                           role, I could not       they love and are trained to do. This program
                           have anticipated the    has been an incredible success story amid a
                           life-changing events    sea of isolation and desperation.
                           that were to modify       I recently had a frustrated congregant say to
                           our world forever.      me, “What are we? A large nursery school with
                           I cannot say I’m        a small synagogue attached?” and my short
                           reluctant to step       answer is, “Yes.” That is how our story line has
                           down – the stress       evolved over time. And I know the frustration
                           has been over-          is that the nursery school no longer “serves”
whelming at times.                                 the congregation as it did in the 1980’s and
  Due to COVID-19, changes in our congre-          early 1990’s, by providing members to CBA,
gation demographic that I thought we could         even though 1/3 of the nursery school fami-
navigate and mitigate 5 years down the road,       lies are Jewish. It’s a very different generation;
are taking place now. Changes in the way we        they’re not joining any congregation.
have provided religious services via ZOOM,           We basically serve the 2 most vulnerable
every meeting and all programming taking           populations at Congregation Beth Ami, the
place on ZOOM, staff working virtually – com-      elderly and the very young, with a governance
munity means something different now.              structure whose primary focus has been the
  I am aware that some congregants are eager       congregation. You can see where this is head-
to be back together, attending services, sharing   ing. The needs of each community are differ-
a Shabbat dinner together, meeting in person.      ent and our governance model no longer does
For some of us, ZOOM has provided access to        justice to either.
an array of online communities, professional         What I do believe is that we can come to-
and personal, and we are no longer bound by        gether as a community to successfully navi-
the nuts and bolts of a physical place, as we      gate a transition we are already in. Working
had been in the past – not emotionally, physi-     together we will find the best way forward to
cally or mentally. I wonder how the time apart     maintain the synagogue while continuing to
will affect our numbers as we re-open and we       provide the supervision and operational sup-
begin to welcome members in person back to         port for BACNS.
the synagogue.                                       Please join me and your Board of Directors
  Beth Ami Community Nursery School                at the upcoming Annual Meeting, on ZOOM,
(BACNS) is and has been a different story.         Sunday, June 13, 10:30AM. Be part of the
Raising children continues to best be done in      conversation. Until then, be safe and get the
person! The nursery school’s families and staff    vaccine!
made a commitment to follow strict guidelines        B’Shalom, Carolyn Metz, President
and protocols issued by the State of CA to           (mzmetzpresident@gmail.com)

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Social Action Scoop
                                                  Carol Swanson, Chair of the Commit-
                                                  tee on Racism and Social Justice
                                      Our group of Congregation Beth Ami mem-
                                    bers is a wonderful team of people, who are
                                    committed to learning about Social Justice
                                    issues together. To do this we have attended
                                    several webinars, discussed books, watched
                                    videos, listened to music and have had many,
                                    many conversations. As we share with each
                                    other what we learn, we hope to find a better
                                    way to live. Another one of our goals is to cre-
                                    ate opportunities for all of us at CBA to learn
                                    and become active in the cause of eliminating
                                    Racism and supporting Social Justice.
                                      We have had two presentations by excellent
                                    public speakers in the past, Benjamin Mertz
                                    and Reverend Lee Turner. Most recently we
                                    have created a three-week program for CBA
                                    members to share conversations about Rac-
                                    ism. On Thursday, April 8th we had a Zoom
                                    gathering, where we examined our own past
                                    experiences of Racism. Join us for our second
                                    evening this Thursday, April 22 at 7:30. We
                                    will be learning and sharing ideas about White
                                    Privilege. The third and final evening of con-
                                    versation is on Thursday, May 6 at 7:30. There
                                    is more information available on the website
                                    and in Cybershul.
                                      Our committee hopes to continue on this
                                    journey of learning, growing, bringing more
                                    events for our community and building a
                                    stronger community at CBA.

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The Kitchen Corner
               Janet Stein-Larson
               (Myra Stern-Thomas, Chair of the Kitchen Committee)

What a physical and spiritual journey we have
been on during these days of the pandemic.
We are just beginning to feel like our ‘former’
selves as we are slowly evolving from the na-
dir of the pandemic and are climbing upwards
towards more social livelihood. Spiritually, we
are also traveling from Passover to Shavuot.
We start counting from the second day of
Passover, and in 50 quick days, we celebrate
our journey of leaving Egypt as slaves and
evolving to the chosen people after receiv-
ing the Torah at Mt Sinai. During this time,
as we continue to count the Omer, we also                 Dairy foods were also served during Shavuot.
commemorate Yom Hasho’ah Vehagevurah,                  Milk is symbolic as the breast food for the
and Yom Hazikkaron, and we celebrate Yom               infancy of the Jewish people, and their birth as
Ha’atsma’ut, Pesach Sheni, Yom Yerushalayim,           a nation at Mount Sinai. Chalev, (milk in He-
and Lag Ba’Omer, each with their own special           brew) numerically is 40, which corresponds to
customs of traditions and food.                        the number of days Moses spent on the Mount
                                                       studying Torah so that he could teach it to the
              Shavuot and Food:                        Israelites. Chalev is also an acronym formed
  The Festival of Shavuot, the Feast of the            of Hebrew letters meaning “To declare Your
Weeks, Chag Habikkurim, the Festival of the            lovingkindness in the morning” (Psalms 92:3)
First-fruits; all describe the festival that started   and the entire Torah is lovingkindness. Song
with ancient agricultural origins associated           of Songs verse 4.11: “knowledge of the torah is
with the sweetness of spring bounty that later         like milk and honey under the tongue.”
in history shifted to the Revelation of Torah.            On Erev Shavuot, the evening of Sunday,
  The first fruits of spring (dates, figs, grapes,     May 16, we celebrate the receiving, and with
pomegranates and olives; the last harvest of           that, our beginning of learning the Torah and
barley, and the first harvest of wheat) compose        its laws. After the erev service, there is an in-
the seven species available in this ancient land       tense night study session, the Tikkun Leyl Sha-
of Israel. These comprised the First-fruit offer-      vuot (the Shavuot night watch) that brings on
ings made to the temple during this festival.          the need for food for the body as well as for
The two loaves of bread made from the finest           the soul. Going along with that is the tradition
flour were given from their farms by Jews to           of foods rich in milk during the study. Shavuot
the priests at the temple for wave offerings.          is also the time to celebrate the harvest of the
  In the Bible (Exodus 23:19; 34:26), a refer-         first fruits of the seven species of Eretz Yisroel
ence to bringing the first fruits is made twice,       with decorating with greenery and colorful
“You shall bring the first-fruits of your land         baskets of fruit; and also celebrating the be-
to the house of the Lord your God...,” and it is       ginning of harvesting of the wheat crop with
paired along with the reference to what rabbis         special loaves of Challah.
inferred as a command to separate milk from               During Shavuot, be certain to enjoy your
meat “You shall not cook a kid in its mother’s         festival meals of dairy whether they include
milk”. Eating dairy food on the Festival of the        cheese blintzes, cheese kreplach, or cheese-
First Fruits was drawn from this association.          cake.
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The Kitchen Corner
              Continued…

                   Cooking:                                   Kugel from Barbara Boren:
  It became a CBA tradition making blintzes to       2 packages of extra wide noodles cooked al-
share during the study session and during our        dente
Shabbat Potlucks closest to Shavuot. We have         Left over filling mixture (we had about 6 or 8
been known to make hundreds of them. If you          cups left over). You can always make some if
have made, or have helped make blintzes for          you don’t have.
special occasions, you know this is a laborious
task. Also, there are deep family secrets and        2 eggs
traditions that go along in making this deli-        Enough sour cream
cious specialty dish. What are some of your          1 cup raisins (white preferable).
family traditions?
                                                     Add the 2 eggs to the leftover filling mixture.
  Here are some of ours:
                                                     Fill it out with ‘enough’ sour cream and add
1. A team approach makes things fun, and
                                                     raisins.
    you make more for storing in freezer, for
    later.                                           Mix in noodles and put in 8 x 13 inch pan.
    2. Foamy batter makes lacy leaves, and           Cook at 350 degrees F for about 1 hour (we
    while they are pretty, they don’t hold filling   did 45 minutes with foil covering and removed
    in well.                                         cover for last 15 minutes).
3. Cheese fillings are wonderful and rich
                                                     It was delicious.
    and if you need to keep costs down, you
    can use plain cottage cheese (big or small
                                                     May all the festivals and the days between be a
    curd)—if you drain out as much of the
                                                     time of joy and shalom.
    whey as possible.
                                                       —Janet Stein-Larson
4. It doesn’t have to be just cheese fillings.
    There are a lot of other
    recipes for fillings, includ-
    ing potato and applesauce
    fillings.
5. Family folding techniques
    are a tradition. Mix the tra-
    ditions. They all work.
6. And my final thought, it
    doesn’t have to be blintzes
    for Shavuot. Some make a
    wonderful ‘blintz casserole’.
    Others make kugel. I still
    remember the kugel recipe
    given to me by Barbara
    Boren, when she rescued
    us from our problem of
    what do you do with the
    extra filling, note the lack of
    measurements is a tradition.

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Services at Beth Ami
 We welcome you to join us for services. For additional information or to verify the times, call
                                the office at (707) 360-3000.

Daily Daven: weekdays              May 10 (Mon.) Yom Yerusha-        May 17 (Mon.)—9:30 a.m. Sha-
Sun.–Fri.—7:30 a.m. Torah          layim                             vuot Day One services with 10
Study 8 a.m. morning services      May 12 (Wed.) Rosh Chodesh        Commandments
Sun.–Thurs.—7:00 p.m. eve-         Sivan                             6:30 p.m. Mincha Ma’ariv Yom
ning services                                                        Tov service
                                   May 14 (Fri.)—4:30 p.m. Min-
                                   cha                               May 18 (Tue.)—9:30 a.m. Sha-
May Shabbat/Festival                                                 vuot Day Two services with
Services                           5:50 p.m. Kid’s Corner story
                                   & song 6 p.m. Sing in Shabbat     Yizkor
May 7 (Fri.)—4:30 pm. Mincha       with Lisa Iskin & Rabbi Miller,   6:30 p.m. Mincha Ma’ariv Yom
5:50 p.m. Kid’s Corner story       with Community Kiddush.           Tov service. Yom Tov ends at
& song 6 p.m. Sing in Shab-        7:56 p.m. Candle lighting         9:03 p.m.
bat with Lisa Iskin and Rabbi                                        May 21 (Fri.)—4:30 p.m.
                                   May 15 (Sat.)—9:30 a.m. Shab-
Miller, followed by Commu-                                           Mincha 5:50 p.m. Kid’s Cor-
                                   bat morning service
nity Kiddush                                                         ner story & song 6 p.m. Sing
                                   7:45 p.m. Mincha, story,
7:50 pm. Candle lighting                                             in Shabbat with Lisa Iskin &
                                   Ma’ariv 9:00 p.m. Havdalah
May 8 (Sat.)—9:30 a.m. Shab-                                         Rabbi Miller, with Community
                                   May 16 (Sun.)—8:00 p.m. Erev      Kiddush. 8:02 p.m. Candle
bat morning service
                                   Shavuot Evening Service, Leyl     lighting
7:45 p.m. Mincha, story,
                                   Tikkun Shavuot see below.
Ma’ariv 8:54 p.m. Havdalah

        Revelation and Innovation                                     CUSTOMS OF SHAVUOT:
                                                                     – Aqdamut, the reading of a
        Virtual Tikkun Leil Shavuot                                  liturgical poem during Sha-
     Celebrate the Holiday of Shavuot                  with          vuot morning synagogue
             Torah and Community                                     services
                                                                     – Chalav (milk), the con-
Featuring: 7pm Revelation           11:30 pm-12 am Community         sumption of dairy products
and Innovation - A panel of         Closing and Ten Command-         like milk and cheese
experts reflecting on how the       ments Torah Reading
pandemic has inspired new di-                                        – Ruth, the reading of the
                                    Hosted by Congregations Kol      Book of Ruth at morning
rections and creativity in their
                                    Emeth, Beth Am, Etz Chayim,      services (outside Israel: on the
fields, and what Jewish mes-
                                    and Keddem, together with        second day)
sages inspire them.
                                    Stanford Hillel, Kehillah Jew-
8:20 pm Shavuot evening ser-        ish High School, Gideon          – Yereq (greening), the decora-
vices - multiple options            Hausner Jewish Day School,       tion of homes and synagogues
                                    and the Oshman Family JCC.       with greenery
9-11:30 pm Learning with
teachers from across our com-       Look for the full program,       – Torah, engaging in all-night
munity                              registration, and Zoom links     Torah study.
                                    closer to the holiday.                               —Wikipedia
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Services at Beth Ami                Continued…
We are working on developing some in-person aspects of some services, but all services will be
            available on Zoom. See the Virtual Calendar on www.bethamisr.org.

May 22 (Sat.)—9:30 a.m. Shab-     June 11 (Fri.) Rosh Chodesh       & Rabbi Miller, followed by
bat morning service               Tammuz 2nd day—4:30 p.m.          Community Kiddush
7:45 p.m. Mincha, story,          Mincha 5:50 p.m. Kindershul       8:20 p.m. Candle Lighting
Ma’ariv 9:06 p.m. Havdalah        5:50 p.m. Kid’s Corner story &    June 26 (Sat.)—9:30 a.m. Shab-
                                  song, 6 p.m. Sing in Shabbat      bat morning service
May 28 (Fri.)—4:30 p.m.
                                  with Lisa Iskin & Rabbi Miller,   8:00 p.m. Mincha, story,
Mincha 5:50 p.m. Kid’s Cor-
                                  followed by Community Kid-        Ma’ariv 9:23 p.m. Havdalah
ner story & song 6 p.m. Sing
                                  dush, 8:16 p.m. Candle Light-
in Shabbat with Lisa Iskin                                          June 27 (Sun.) Fast of 17th
                                  ing.
and Rabbi Miller, followed                                          Tammuz: This is a minor fast
by Community Kiddush, 8:08        June 12 (Sat.)—9:30 a.m.          that begins at daybreak,4:07
p.m. Candle Lighting              Shabbat morning service (an-      a.m. and ends at 9:26 p.m.
                                  nounce new month of Tam-
May 29 (Sat.)—9:30 a.m. Shab-
                                  muz) 8:00 p.m. Mincha, story,
bat morning service
                                  Ma’ariv 9:20 p.m. Havdalah
8:00 p.m. Mincha, Ma’ariv
9:12 p.m. Havdalah                June 18 (Fri.)—4:30 p.m.
                                  Mincha 5:50 p.m. Kid’s Cor-
June Shabbat Services             ner story & song 6 p.m. Sing
                                  in Shabbat with Lisa Iskin
June 4 (Fri.)—4:30 p.m. Min-
                                  & Rabbi Miller, followed by
cha, 5:50 p.m. IN PERSON
                                  Community Kiddush
Sing in Shabbat with Lisa
                                  8:19 p.m. Candle Lighting
Iskin and Rabbi Miller, outside
in the courtyard: more infor-     June 19 (Sat.)—9:30 a.m. Shab-
mation to come.                   bat morning service
                                  8:00 p.m. Mincha, story,
June 5 (Sat.)—9:30 a.m. Shab-
                                  Ma’ariv 9:22 p.m. Havdalah
bat morning service
8:00 p.m. Mincha, story,          June 25 (Fri.)—4:30 p.m.
Ma’ariv, 9:16 p.m. Havdalah       Mincha 5:50 p.m. Kid’s Cor-
                                  ner story & song 6 p.m. Sing
June 10 (Thu.) Rosh Chodesh
                                  in Shabbat with Lisa Iskin
Tammuz 1st day

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Beth Ami Gift Shop
Mezuzahs, Jewelry, Candlesticks, Yads and more. Visit the gift
  shop on Wednesdays or call Bonnie Boren at 528-1628
 Please make an appointment with Lizzie before your visit. 360-3000

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Beth Ami Virtual WeekThe Zoom Link to Beth Ami Services and classes:
                          https://us04web.zoom.us/j/862157330?pwd=c2V5dEp6YzA4ZERHL2p2REdFU29uQT09
                          Rabbi Mordecai Miller’s half-hour morning Rashi study now posted on YouTube
                          https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtMLk4BGrEQZzGVlc2vOFiA

                                                                                                                                     Shabbat
      Sunday               Monday               Tuesday            Wednesday             Thursday               Friday

      7:30 am              7:30 am               7:30 am             7:30 am              7:30 am              7:30 am
    Rashi Study          Rashi Study           Rashi Study         Rashi Study          Rashi Study          Rashi Study
  with Rabbi Miller    with Rabbi Miller    with Rabbi Miller    with Rabbi Miller    with Rabbi Miller    with Rabbi Miller

   8:00 - 9:00 am       8:00 - 9:00 am        8:00 - 9:00 am      8:00 - 9:00 am       8:00 - 9:00 am        8:00 - 9:00 am           9:30 am
  Morning Minyan       Morning Minyan        Morning Minyan      Morning Minyan       Morning Minyan,       Morning Minyan        Shabbat Services
                                                                                                                                  with Rabbi Miller
                                                                                                                                  and Congregants

                                              2:00 - 3:00 pm                           2:30 - 3:45 pm
                                               Mishna class                          TaNaCH-Bible class    4:30 p.m. Mincha

                                                                                                          5:50 Sing in Shabbat
                                                                                                           with Lisa Iskin and     Mincha/ Maariv
      7:00 pm              7:00 pm              7:00 pm             7:00 pm              7:00 pm
                                                                                                              Rabbi Miller         approx 1 hour
   Evening Minyan       Evening Minyan       Evening Minyan      Evening Minyan       Evening Minyan      with children’s story   before Havdalah

                                                                                                          6:30 pm Community
                                                                     8:00 pm                              recitation of Kiddush
                                                                   Midrash class

As we study the possibilities of gathering in person at the                 oral: passed down by word of mouth through the generations
Beth Ami building, we continue to provide all kinds of services             until the year 200 of our current era. At the time, the Romans,
using “Zoom.” Using the calendar above, we welcome you to                   who occupied the land of Judea, forbad the study of Torah on
participate in study and prayer, to whatever degree you wish.               pain of death.
You are always welcome to “check it out” and see if the program             Extreme situations called for extreme measures. Rabbi Judah
meets your needs.                                                           haNasi, the leader of the community at the time, took the revo-
1. Rashi Study: Weekday mornings, Sunday - Friday 7:30 - 8:00               lutionary step of committing what had always been kept strictly
a.m. Also streamed on Facebook and recorded on YouTube                      oral and committed it to writing. In this way he and the leaders of
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtMLk4BGrEQZzGVl-                          the people hoped to prevent the Oral Torah from being entirely
c2vOFiA                                                                     forgotten. The result: the Mishna exists even today!
We examine the text of the coming week’s Torah reading using the            4. Midrash Class Wednesday evenings at 8:00 p.m. This is a
original Hebrew text and Rashi’s commentary. A full oral transla-           unusual analysis of the text of the Torah. Every significant word
tion is always provided and there’s ample opportunity for discus-           is analyzed thorough a lively discussion on the page. Disagree-
sion. Rashi’s exposition often gives a novel understanding of the           ments are frequent between these scholars. The result: we all turn
words in the Torah. This is “pitched” intentionally for the person          out a little wiser with a depth of understanding that is a source of
who is just starting out a path of traditional Jewish learning.             joy; sometimes even a smile.
2. Weekday Minyanim: We are fortunate to be able to host a “min-            5. TaNaCH class: Thursdays, 2:30 p.m. We read through the text
yan” at least once a day. We try to make it possible for those saying       in English and pause to take questions and comments. There’s
“Kaddish” to recite it. There are a number of our members who               usually a lively discussion. We have just started the Second Book
have suffered recent losses and are committed to recited Kaddish            of Kings. As you might imagine, there’s plenty of intrigue and
in their loved-ones memory.                                                 political struggle as we read about wise and poor leadership.
Mornings: Sundays - Friday 8:00 a.m. (Average time is about an
hour. Times can vary depending on the “menu” for the day which              Shabbat services:
can include a Torah Reading, Hallel, Musaph, Tachanun (prayers of           Friday evening, Mincha will begin at 4:30 p.m.
supplication)
                                                                            5:50 Family Story with Rabbi Miller; Sing in Shabbat led by
Afternoon - Evening: Sunday through Thursday evenings 7:00                  Lisa Iskin starts at 6:00 pm. We’ll conclude with our commu-
pm. We are fortunate that Lisa Iskin has been providing music for           nal Kiddush, usually 6:30 p.m.
many of our services.
                                                                            Saturday 9:30 am Shabbat Services
3. Mishna Class Tuesday afternoon at 2:00 p.m. Discover the
Oral Torah. Tradition has it that Moses was given two Torahs: one           Saturday evening starting one hour before Havdalah:
written: that is, the words in the Scroll of the Torah, and the other       Mincha, Maariv and Havdalah

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Re-Jew-venation
                Dr. Eli Cohen, Chair, Israel Committee
                Rifts in American Jewish Identity

                  Earlier posts
  Earlier posts from this column explored Jew-        The least observant often choose to shed
ish identity in America and Israel. This post       their parents’ and grandparents’ heritage. Igno-
explores issues surrounding being Jewish in         rance of Judaism leads to anti-Jewish self-hat-
America. It looks particularly at Jewish unity      ing beliefs. Indeed, Rabbi Pesach Lerner writes
vs. Jewish schisms over time.                       that liberal Judaism in the Diaspora is fading.
                                                    One’s grandparents’ strong Jewish identity dies
          My Study of 50 years ago.                 through Assimilation.
  Shortly after the six-day war, I conducted a        Blindness to Antisemitism and Connection.
psychological study of the structure of Jew-        Like us, Canadian Jews often were blind to
ish Identity. My study used advanced statistics     antisemitism. Yet, in 2019 Canada, six antise-
and samples from a variety of groups, from          mitic incidents occurred each day. According
self-declared “Jews against Judaism” to “stom-      to Statistics Canada, there are more Jewish
ach Jews” (like Seinfeld) to secular Jews to        victims of hate crimes than any other religious
observant Jews. It also included Christians as a    group. The Jewish community comprises only
control group.                                      1% of the population yet were targets of 17%
  Not surprisingly, the study found that Jewish     of police-reported hate crimes. The US is only
worship attendance was a strong element in          slightly better. An ADL study found that 63% of
identifying as a Jew. This makes sense. Obser-      US Jews experienced or witnessed antisemitic
vant Jews remember our past, praying three          incidents.
times a day to rebuild Jerusalem and return           This may be why worldwide, 80% of the
to Zion. On Passover, we remember our flight        Diaspora’s Jewish population are unconnected
from Egypt to Israel and declare, “Next Year in     and have no identity as Jews. They, as we,
Jerusalem.” On Purim, we recall the dangers of      live comfortable lives. Until recently, they, as
our Persian exile. On Hanukkah, we commem-          we, ignored the alarming rise in antisemitism
orate the liberation of the Jewish State from       in Europe noted by Human Rights Watch. The
the Greeks. On Yom HaShoah, we remember             rise in targeting Jews drives many European
the perils of living in exile.                      Jews to purchase apartments in Israel where
  But the strongest element of Jewish Identity      they can escape antisemitism.
by far is the sense of commonality of one’s                  IHRA and the Wicked Child.
destiny with that of fellow Jews worldwide.
                                                      International Holocaust Remembrance Alli-
    Recent Study Found College Campuses             ance (IHRA) drafted the now internationally
            Promote Antisemitism.                   accepted definition of antisemitism. Some on
  In a recent study, Profs. Jay P. Greene, Albert   the American left battle against its acceptance
Cheng, and Ian Kingsbury found that while           in the US. Why? Because it points out that
among Christians, more education is associated      treating Israel by different standards is antise-
with less antisemitism, but among Jews, the         mitic. The IHRA definition says that it is okay
more time spent on campus increased hatred          to disagree with the Israeli government’s policy
of Jews. The studies’ authors conclude that         (as do most Israelis), but acting to promote the
highly educated Jews just found more “more          Jewish State’s demise is a form of antisemitism.
sophisticated and socially acceptable ways to       Passover’s Wicked Child calls for the end of
couch” their antisemitism.                          the Jewish State.
            Holy and Unholy Jews.                                Growing Extremism.
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Re-Jew-venation                            Continued…
                                                        and perplexed… Assimilation increased, and
   America has grown ever-increasingly polar-           the urge to flee from Judaism and the Jewish
ized. Anne Applebaum writes, “America’s left            people reached its apex.” When the beloved fi-
and right are radicalizing each other, and the          nally answers, it is too late. Her Lover is gone.
precedents from overseas are deeply unset-              So too, should we not answer, the Jewish
tling.” One thing that the extreme right has in         identity of our parents, their parents, and their
common with the radical left is hatred of Jews          parents’ parents will be no more.
in general and the Jewish State in particular.
   Before It’s Too Late. Let’s act before it is too          Need to Strengthen Jewish Identity.
late. Joseph B. Soloveitchik, z’’ l, wrote Kol            Recognizing this sixth knock on our door, Dr.
Dodi Dofek or Six Knocks in his book “Fate              Laura Shaw Frank, National Director of AJC’s
and Destiny.” A lover knocks on the door of             department on Jewish life, helps us strengthen
his beloved, but she does not answer. He later          our Jewish identity. Without it, the Jewish
knocks again, and she again does not arise. He          people have no future. If we are not for our-
writes, “[the fourth time] the Beloved knocks           selves, who are we.
in the heart of the youth which is assimilated            —Dr. Eli Cohen

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Generous Contributions                      to our        Congregation
                 The next time you are looking for a meaningful way to celebrate a joyous occasion, remem-
                 ber a loved one, or comfort a mourner, please consider a donation to Congregation Beth Ami.
                 When you make a gift, a card is send to the honoree or the family and your donation is proudly
                 acknowledged in the Shofar. The minimum donation for each occasion is $7.50. Congregation
                 Beth Ami truly appreciates your support.

Capital Fund                        In memory of my beloved                A thoughtful donation
                                    friend and confidante,                 —Katherine Derenia
In memory of Florence Metz
                                    Florence Metz to know her              In memory of Florence Metz
—Dr. Russ & Terry Gurevitch
                                    was to love her—Ivan Barta             —Linda Emblen
General Fund                        A generous donation                    Grateful for the Purim bell,
In memory of Florence Metz          —Jayne Rosenberg                       song words...and the mask
—Andrea Gordon                      In memory of Florence Metz             from the HHD—Linda Emblen
In memory of Florence Metz          —Jeffrey & Janet Stein-Larson          Grateful for being able to sit
—Andy & Nancy Fleming               In memory of Florence Metz             in our sanctuary again
In memory of Florence Metz          —Jeffrey Sheff                         —Linda Emblen
—Arnold & Karen Herskovic           In memory of Florence Metz             Thank you to Phil Weil for
Condolences to the family of        —Joan Fishbein                         recycling for us for so many
Beatrice Balaban                    In memory of Donna Thurston            years—Linda Emblen
—Anonymous                          —John Hamilton                         In memory of Florence Metz
Condolences the Metz family         In memory of Florence Metz             —Mitchell & Barbara McGee
upon the passing of Florence        —Joseph & Rita Kagan                   In memory of Florence Metz
Metz—Anonymous                                                             —Leanne Schy & Mark
                                    In memory of Florence Metz
Condolences to the family of        —Judi Hyman                            Stoelting
Phyllis Morton—Anonymous                                                   In honor of Ilana Stoelting’s
                                    In honor of Marilyn & Rad
In honor of of Ilana Stoelting’s    Sommer’s new grandson—                 marriage to SJ
wedding— Ed Harman &                Judith Stern                           —Mitchell & Barbara McGee
Bernice Fox                                                                In memory of Florence Metz
                                    In memory of Nancy
In memory of Florence Metz          Sherman’s mother                       —Nancy Oettinger
— Ed Harman & Bernice Fox           —Judith Stern                          In honor of the weddings of
In memory of my husband,            In honor of Marilyn & Rad              Ilana & Oren Stoelting
Sidney                              Sommer’s new grandson—                 —Ned Hoffman & Robin
—Edee Sternfield-Squires            Judith Stern                           Lowitz
A generous donation                 In honor of the marriage of            In memory of Florence Metz
—Elise Watkins                      Ilana Stoelting and SJ                 —Phil Weil & Bonnie Boren
A thoughtful donation               —Juli Scherer                          In memory of Ben Dzik,
—Etienne Sampiere                   In memory of Florence Metz             brother of Judy Dzik and
In memory of Florence Metz          —Juli Scherer                          uncle of Sam Dzik
—Etienne Sampiere                                                          —Phil Weil & Bonnie Boren
                                    A thoughtful donation
Mazel Tov to Marilyn & Rad          —Katherine Derenia                     In memory of Rayme Shapiro’s
Sommers on the birth of their                                              father—Phil Weil & Bonnie
                                    A thoughtful donation
grandchild—Eleanor Cohen &                                                 Boren
                                    —Katherine Derenia
Evelyn Gurevitch
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Generous Contributions                   to our             Congregation
                      Continued…

In honor of the creativity         Malk Fund                                 In memory of Jerry Lakins,
of Harvey Newman, Ethan            In honor of Phyllis Newman’s              husband of Susan Miller—
Sherman, Avi Ballo & Jeremy        birthday—Barry Sovel & Carol              Mark & Carol Rosen
Lipsin
—Phil Weil & Bonnie Boren
                                   Newman                                    Rabbi’s
                                   In memory of Florence Metz                Discretionary Fund
Mazel Tov to the Schy/             —Nancy Nichols
Stoelting family on the                                                      A thoughtful donation
marriage of Ilana & SJ             Children’s                                —Jeffrey & Janet Stein-Larson
—Phil Weil & Bonnie Boren          Education Fund                            A thoughtful donation
In honor of Avi Ballo &            In memory of Edward Kahn,                 —Mitchell & Barbara McGee
Brittany’s engagement              father of Richard Kahn                    With thanks to Rabbi Miller for
—Phil Weil & Bonnie Boren          —Mark & Carol Rosen                       all his help with the Yahrziet
In memory of Bev Sherman,          In memory of Stephanie                    of Brian
mother of Nancy Sherman            Sweeney’s parents—Mark &                  —Fredrika Gross
—Phil Weil & Bonnie Boren          Carol Rosen                               A thoughtful donation
In memory of Florence Metz         In memory of Joseph Scherer,              —Jay & Lenore Holloway
—Rose Doan                         father of Juli Scherer—Mark &             In honor of being called to the
In honor of monthly webinars       Carol Rosen                               Torah for my father’s Yahrzeit
—Sandy Tate                        In memory of Florence Metz                —Lisa Iskin
In honor Shalach Manot             —Mark & Carol Rosen
—Stephen & Ava Isaacs                                    Robin A. Lowitz, M.D.
In memory of Florence Metz                                            Robin A. Lowitz, M.D.
                                                                    Board Certified, Medical Acupuncture
—Susan Miller                                                      Needle-less
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—Tish Levee
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Nursery School
Donation
In memory of dear Florence
Metz
—Barbara Tomin
In honor of Ilana & SJ’s mar-
riage
—Barbara Tomin

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May Yahrzeits
                 Secular dates correspond to Hebrew date of death.
                 Observance of yahrzeit begins at sundown the previous day.
                 All yahrzeits observed at Beth Ami.

Announced on April 30 & May 1       Announced May 21 & 22
May 1   Nathan Paul,		              May 24 John Hess,
                                                                                 May Birthdays
                                                                                 If you do not wish to have your birthday
        Father of Jane Paul                 Father of Barbara Tomin              listed in the Shofar, please contact the office
May 2   Rabbi Samuel Jones,         May 24 Lena Liverman, Grand
        Grandfather of Ross Jones           mother of Marc Bernstein             2     David Kahn
May 3   William Friedman, Grand		   May 24 Alice Rapkin,                         3     Mark Stoelting
        father of Bill Friedman             Great Aunt of Susan Miller           4     Judith Helman
May 3   Herbert Klapow,             May 24 Ben Rogan,		                          7     Anne Brown
        Father of Larry Klapow              Father of Jane Rogan                 8     Janet Stein-Larson
May 4   Howard Moss,                May 26 Joel Brodsky,		                       10    Iosif Voulfson
        Husband of Adrea Moss               Brother of Karen Brodsky             14    Richard Goldberg
May 4   Dalia Sheff,                May 26 Bertha Schy, Mother of 		             14    Edith Newman
        Wife of Jeff Sheff                  Stuart Schy, Grandmother             15    Evelyn Gurevitch
                                            of Leanne Schy
Announced May 7 & 8                                                              16    Edward Sherman
                                    May 28 Albert Hirschman,
May 8   Lily Zeamans, Grandmoth                                                  16    Marina Voulfson
                                            Grandfather of
        er of Judith Helman                 Abraham Alexander                    20    Graham Cooper
May 9   Kay Simon,		                                                             22    Irvin Klein
        Mother of Lyla Nathan       Announced on May 28 & 29
May 10 Marlene Jones,               May 29 Richard Hyman		                       May Anniversaries
        Wife of Maury Jones, 		             Father of Judi Hyman
                                                                                 2     Annie & Christopher
        Mother of Ross Jones        May 30 Sandor Garam
                                                                                       Press
May 11 Sidney Baba,		                       Father of Rose Batzdorff
                                                                                 12    Barb & Mitchell McGee
        Father of William Cordell   May 30 Robert Shotkin
                                            Father of Alan Shotkin               17    Asher & Lyla Nathan
May 11 Lillian Judd,
        Mother of Dennis Judd       May 31 Thomas Cordill 		                     19    Marge & Dave Ballo
May 11 Robert Paul,		                       Father of Kim Cordell                27    Jon & Rose Batzdorff
        Brother of Jane Paul        May 31 Louis Stein		                         27    Debbie & Tad Shapiro
May 12 Stanley Williams,                    Uncle of Robert Raful                28    Richard Kahn &
        Father of Lenore Hollo-     June 1 Myer Zittin, Father of                      Anne Brown
        way & Bonnie Gee                    Charlene Bornstein                   30    Janet & Jeffrey
May 13 Anna Stein		                 June 3 Mies Rijnveldt		                            Stein-Larson
        Aunt of Bob Raful                   Mother of Mieneke Drake
May 14 Israel Senzer,               June 4 Betty & Oscar Mann
        Father of Adrea Moss                Parents of Marge Ballo

Announced May 14 & 15
May 15 Ann Stern, Mother of Myra                             Simcha Board Tree of Life
        Stern-Thomas
May 16 Sam Keller,		                                     Honor thy mother      Leaf—$360
        Grandfather of Dan Weill           ...also thy aunt, uncle, cousin,    Small Stone—$1000
                                                 child, best friend, teacher   Large Stone—$2500
May 19 Morris Hartzman,		                           with an engraved leaf
        Uncle of Cheryle Miller                                                We also provide the opportunity for
                                                    on our Simcha Board,       you to memorialize loved ones.
                                              commemorating any joyous
                                         occasion, bestowal of an honor,       Yahrzeit Board
                                                or cause for thanksgiving.     Plaque—$450

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June Yahrzeits
                  Secular dates correspond to Hebrew date of death.
                  Observance of yahrzeit begins at sundown the previous day.
                  All yahrzeits observed at Beth Ami.

Announced on June 4 & 5              Announced on June 18 & 19
June 6 Abe Shapiro,		                June 21 Bessie Hartzman, Grand-		     June Birthdays
        Father of Raynore Paule              mother of Cheryle Miller      If you do not wish to have your birthday
                                                                           listed in the Shofar, please contact the office
June 8 Stephen Bernstein,		          June 21 Jean Inman,
        Brother of Marc Bernstein            Mother of Lee Feinstein       2     Roz Frommer
June 9 Barbara Boren,		              June 23 Lillian Cohen,		              8     Linda Emblen
        Mother of Bonnie Boren               Mother of Leonard Cohen       8     Andrea Goodman
June 10 Mortimer Weiss,		            June 23 Ellen Jane Rosenthal, 		      8     Michelle Zygielbaums
        Father of Dan Weiss                  Mother of                     11    Dan Anbar
June 11 Steven Freistadt,		                  Bobbie Rosenthal              15    Joslyn Metzger
        Cousin of Jane Rogan         June 24 Beatrice Adams		              16    Nick Riggio
                                             Mother of Barb McGee
Announced on June 11 & 12                                                  16    Bobbie Rosenthal
June 13 Anna Seldowitz, Grand-		     Announced on June 25 & 26             17    Charlene Bornstein
        mother of Susan Miller       June 26 Barney Abrams		               17    Jeffrey Sternfeld
June 14 Bluma Rudnitskaya		                  Father of Patty Bernstein     21    Marjorie Gordon
        Sister of Iosif Voulfson     June 27 Samuel Weiss		                27    Juli Scherer
June 15 Benny Friedman,		                    Grandfather of Dan Weiss      28    Shirley Klapow
        Father of Bill Friedman &    June 28 Esther Morse, Sister-in-law   30    Jane Paul
        Debra Chapman                        of Myrna Morse
June 15 Irwin Levy,		                June 28 Joseph Robinson,		            June Anniversaries
        Father of Janice Sternfeld           Father of Myrna Morse
June 18 Tom Fleming,
                                                                           4     Lauren Buchsbaum &
        Brother of Andy Fleming                                                  Nick Riggio
                                                                           13    Larry & Shirley Klapow
                                                                           25    Charlene & Art Bornstein
                                                                           26    Nancy & Andy Fleming
                                                                           26    Binese & Earl Goldberg

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May Shabbatot and          June Shabbatot
Shavuot                    June 4 - 5
April 30 - May 1           Sh’lach
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May 7 - 8                  Korach
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May 14 - 15                Chukat
BaMidbar                   Candle Lighting­—8:16 pm
Candle Lighting­—7:47 pm   Havdalah—9:22 pm
Havdalah—8:50 pm           June 25 - 26
May 16, 17, 18             Balak
Shavuot                    Candle Lighting­—8:17 pm
Candle Lighting­—16th      Havdalah—9:23 pm
7:55, 17th 8:59 pm
Havdalah on 19th—9:00
pm
May 21 - 22
Naso
Candle Lighting­—8:00 pm
Havdalah—9:04 pm
May 28 - 29
Beha’alotcha
Candle Lighting­—8:05 pm
Havdalah—9:10 pm
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