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Spring 2021 | Issue 61

     Supporting and empowering ostomates

        From baby,
        to bag and
        beyond –
        Triathlete
        Gillian Castle
        talks about
        life after
        birth trauma
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REAL LIVES

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F R O M T H E E D I TO R I A L T E A M

                                                         Dear readers

 Editorial Team

 Editor, Writer & Researcher
 Richard Biddle
 Creative Editor & General Manager
 Libby Herbert
 Senior Stoma Care Nurse Specialist
 Ambra Bertinara
 Colostomate & Volunteer
 Jackie Dudley                                                                    ‘Caring for a Person with a Stoma’ workshops delivered by Stoma Care Nurse, Joan Garwood
 Colostomate & Volunteer
                                                      It’s normally around this time of year that I get a burst of energy. With those dark,
 Gillian Cowell
                                                      wet mornings and gloomy afternoons receding and the first hints of spring in
 Marketing & Communications Manager
                                                      the air, so my spirits are lifted. It signals the approaching end to winter’s nocturnal
 Lucinda Mitchell
                                                      existence; no more going to and from work in the dark! Instead, it’s time to break the
 Data Analyst & Publishing
                                                      hibernation and get out and about. It’s the moment to start thinking about booking a
 Arvind Anand
                                                      summer holiday. I even have some enthusiasm for doing jobs around the house. This
                                                      year is, of course, very different. As I write this all those signs of spring are here, just not
                                                      my usual verve and excitement.
                                                      2020 was a tough year and I think it’s vital we admit this. I doubt anyone has come out
                                                      of it unscathed. But, to my mind, reflecting on the last 12 months and thinking about all
                                                      we have been through, is the best way of staying strong and moving forward. Covid–19
                                                      is the UK’s 21st Century Blitz, and just like the last one – we will prevail! Hopefully this
                                                      edition of Tidings will help give your mood a well–earned boost. So get the kettle on,
                                                      put your feet up and escape the madness for a few moments!
                                                      As usual we have all the regular features. In particular, I would like to draw your
                                                      attention to the item in Colostomy UK news about Covid–19 vaccines. If you have
                                                      been concerned about their safety in relation to people with stomas, then hopefully
                                                      you will find our statement on the matter reassuring. In Dear nurse our very own Ambra
                                                      Bertinara deals with the issue of blockages and gives plenty of useful advice for people
                                                      with both colostomies and ileostomies. Jennie Burch tackles another common problem:
                                                      rectal discharge. She explains why a retained rectal stump can lead to this and suggests
                                                      a number of ways to manage it. We have two further articles which I hope will be of
                                                      interest. On page 20 you can read about some stoma awareness training we have
                                                      recently delivered. The importance of doing this type of work cannot be underestimated.
 Front cover:                                         On page 18 you will find the preliminary findings of some research conducted by a
 Gillian Castle                                       Masters’ student at Manchester Metropolitan University, around perceptions of body
                                                      image amongst sufferers of IBD. We were pleased to support this work and are very
 Tidings Magazine:
                                                      grateful to members of our private Facebook group who agreed to take part.
 The views expressed by the contributors are not
 necessarily those of Colostomy UK. Great care has    We have six Real Lives stories for you to enjoy. We catch up with Jessica Logan whose story
 been taken to ensure accuracy, but Colostomy         we covered last spring. Gill Castle picks up on a topic we covered last edition, recounting
 UK cannot accept responsibility for errors or
 omissions.
                                                      how a childbirth trauma led to her having a permanent colostomy. As you will see she
                                                      has gone from struggling with what happened to embracing life again. Similar can be said
 Disclaimer:                                          of Lizzie Whitchurch, another truly inspirational woman who hasn’t let years of suffering
 The display, description or demonstration
 of products and services or the inclusion of         chronic illness dent her optimism and love of life. Ken Edwards’ story recounts a very
 advertisements, inserts and samples within Tidings   varied past, including spells as a singer and time in local politics. Since his stoma surgery
 Magazine does not constitute an endorsement or       Ken has been campaigning in his area for stoma–friendly facilities as well as working hard
 recommendation of these products and services by
 Colostomy UK.                                        to develop local support for ostomates. Our
 ©Copyright 2021 Colostomy UK. All rights
                                                      final two stories are a little off–piste… Rachel
 reserved. No part of this publication may be         Dodman explains what it is like living on a
 reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or         narrow boat when one of the family on board
 transmitted, in any form or by any means,
 electronic, mechanical, photocopying, recording      has a stoma, while John Hunter has submitted
 or otherwise, except as permitted by the UK          a collection of poems which capture key                                     Richard Biddle
 Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988, without                                                                                 Editor,
 the prior written permission of the publisher. All   moments in the life of an ostomate.
                                                                                                                                  Writer &
 marks acknowledged.
                                                      Happy reading!                                                              Researcher

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CONTENTS

                                                       Contents

                                                       Colostomy UK news
                                                        7 Colostomy UK: news
 Colostomy UK is a national charity that               17 Colostomy UK: volunteers
 offers support and advice to people living
 with a stoma, their families, carers, and             20 Colostomy UK: campaigns and projects
 friends. We’re here if you have questions,
 need support or just want to talk to
 someone who lives with a stoma.
                                                       Real lives
 We also run projects to EMPOWER
 ostomates to return to sports, hobbies                13 “Never been better…”, I told my doctor: How wrong
 and other interests and give them the                       I was! Ken Edwards
 confidence to take up fresh challenges.
 We are advocates for ostomates’ rights                27    I will not be beaten Lizzie Whitchurch
 and their voice on the bigger issues.
 Our campaigns raise awareness and                     30    From baby, to bag and beyond! Gillian Castle
 encourage organisations to make their
 facilities more inclusive. SUPPORTING                 35    Stoma on Board Rachel Dodman
 and enhancing ostomates’ wellbeing is at
 the core of everything we do.                         47    An ostomy bag…could it be verse? John Hunter
 How to contact us                                     53    My crusade to raise awareness of hidden conditions
 Stoma helpline for:
    Emotional support,
                                                             Jessica Logan
    experience based advice and
    guidance from a volunteer.
    0800 328 4257                                      Wellbeing
    24 hours a day and completely free.                18 Emotion Regulation and Rumination in
 Adminline for:                                              Inflammatory Bowel Disease: Assessing the Effecting of
   Information packs, ID cards,                              Body Image Perceptions Bethany Preece
   RADAR keys, travel certificates and
   literature.                                         24 Colostomy UK: active ostomates®
   0118 939 1537
   If we’re not in, just leave a message.              43 Retained rectal stump & rectal discharge Jennie Burch
   info@ColostomyUK.org
                                                       57 Blocked stoma/bowel obstruction:
 To request (or cancel) your quarterly
 copy of Tidings                                             a simple guide Ambra Bertinara
    0118 939 1537
      info@ColostomyUK.org
                                                       Fundraising
 Editorial Enquiries
    Letters, articles or other submissions             38 Colostomy UK: focus on fundraising
      Colostomy UK
      Enterprise House, 95 London Street
      Reading, Berkshire, RG1 4QA
                                                       Support
      info@ColostomyUK.org                             50    Your letters and e–mails
 Advertising enquiries                                 59    National support organisations
   For a media pack and advertising
   rates: 0118 918 0500                                59    Stoma care open days
                                                       60    Stoma support groups in your county
  Find us on Facebook Badge         CMYK / .eps

      Marketing@ColostomyUK.org
 Social media:

      Join our ‘private’ support group
      today simply put ‘Colostomy UK                   Donating to Colostomy UK
      support group’ into your Facebook
      search bar, click on Group and click             An annual donation of £25 (or whatever you can afford) allows us to produce Tidings
      on ‘Ask to join’ you will be assured             and to continue our vital work, supporting, and empowering ostomates – see page
      of a warm welcome!                               41 for donation form.
                                                       You can also donate via our website www.ColostomyUK.org/donate
                                                       or by calling us on 0118 939 1537

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            Annual Prize Draw
                            R cycle
             gives you the chance to win

                  £2,500!   and Raise
                            Funds
                                                                We’ve teamed up with
                                                                ‘iCollectClothes’ to offer a hassle-
                                                                free way of donating items you
                                                                no longer want. They will collect
                                                                clothing, shoes, linen, bedding,
                                                                towels, curtains, accessories (bags,
                                                                belts, hats, scarves), books, DVDs,
                                                                CDs, soft toys, electronics and small
                                                                domestic appliances and convert
                                                                them into a donation for Colostomy
                                                                UK. Donations allow us to continue
                                                                focusing on the things that matter
                                                                to you - supporting and empowering
                                                                ostomates.

                                                                  If you live in Greater London, the
                                                                  West Midlands or Merseyside you can
                                                                  book a collection. For all other areas
                                                                  give them a call and they will be able
                                                                  to advise when they will be collecting
  Tickets are only £1 each and all money raised from the draw will go towards supporting vital
                                                                  near you. Book your collection by
  Colostomy UK services such as our 24–hour stoma helpline, support literature and Tidings
                                                                  calling 0344 879 4417 or book online
  magazine. A book of 10 raffle tickets is enclosed – if you would like to purchase more please get in
                                                                  at icollectclothes.co.uk/donate/
  touch by calling 0118 939 1537 or e–mail info@Colostomyuk.org. Simply fill in your details on the
                                                                  colostomy-uk
  tear–off slip and post this section back to us along with your payment. Every ticket purchased helps us
  to support and empower ostomates.
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Colostomy UK: news

                   Libby Herbert
                   General Manager
                   E: libby.herbert@ColostomyUK.org

 New Joiner - HR trustee                   Preeti joins Colostomy UK as our Human
                                           Resources (HR) Trustee, bringing with
                                                                                        became aware of Colostomy UK two
                                                                                        years ago, shortly after her twin sister
 Preeti Johal                              her over 20 years of experience in the       was diagnosed with bowel cancer. Both
                                           field gained working in the charity          Preeti and her sister found Colostomy
                                           and healthcare sectors as well as in         UK to be a great source of support and
                                           local government and public services.        information. She was also attracted to
                                           Looking back over her career, Preeti         our mission and values.
                                           says she more or less ‘fell’ into HR while
                                           at university; it was here that the seeds    Preeti, who lives in west London with her
                                           for what she terms her ‘HR passion’          partner, tries to live a plant–based life
                                           germinated. She is now Chartered             and has a love for animals and football.
                                           Institute of Personnel and Development       She is also a firm believer in doing
                                           (MCIPD) qualified and also delivers          everything you can to have a healthy
                                           training in various aspects of HR            body and healthy mind and so takes
                                           practice.                                    part in all sorts of activities, including:
                                                                                        yoga, weight training, running and
                                           Her first professional engagement            football.
                                           with the charity sector was seven
                                           years ago and she hasn’t looked back         She is really excited about joining
                                           since. Being able to make a difference       Colostomy UK’s board of trustees and
                                           supporting charities with her expertise      is particularly grateful that she can use
                                           is something that gives her a great          her expertise for an amazing cause.
                                           deal of job satisfaction! Preeti first

 Caring for a person with                  They provide attendees with practical
                                           advice and guidance on how to care
                                                                                        If you’d like to join a future workshop
                                                                                        please get in touch with us at info@
 a stoma workshops                         for someone with a stoma. Each 90–           colostomyuk.org or by calling 0118
                                           minute session, which is delivered           939 1537
 delivered virtually                       by a stoma care nurse, covers all the
                                           need–to–know topics including:
 Colostomy UK has been delivering
 ‘caring for a person with a stoma’
                                           •   the psychological and emotional
 workshops in the community since
                                               issues connected with living
 2015. When the pandemic hit, we
                                               with a stoma,
 feared that these vital workshops
                                           •   practical stoma
 would not be able to go ahead, but we
                                               management,
 are delighted to share that we will now
                                           •   a guide to
 be delivering these training sessions
                                               different
 online thanks to support from the
                                               appliances,
 Ernest Hecht Charitable Foundation.
                                           •   common concerns,
                                           •   dementia.
 These workshops are aimed at
 professional carers and family
                                           Two initial virtual sessions
 members as well as anyone responsible
                                           took place in February and
 for supporting someone with a stoma.
                                           early March.

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Colostomy UK: news
In partnership with                         surveyed, more toilets will be added to
                                            the guide.
                                                                                         AccessAble on board there is a huge
                                                                                         opportunity to increase the number of
AccessAble                                                                               stoma–friendly toilets across the UK
                                            In order for a toilet to be classified       and raise awareness with organisations
                 In a world where face–     as ‘stoma–friendly’ it must meet the         about the needs people living with a
                 to–face meetings are       following criteria:                          stoma have.”
                 on hold, technology        • Hook on door. To hang clothing,
                 has become a                    handbags and luggage while              To view the AccessAble Guide, visit:
                 critical tool in our            changing stoma bags. This provides      accessable.co.uk/ To find out more
                 arsenal, allowing               more space in the cubicle.              about our Stoma–Friendly Toilets
                 us to continue             • Shelf space. To enable ostomates           campaign visit: colostomyuk.org/
                 in our mission of               to spread out their items easily        campaigns/toilets/
                 raising awareness               and avoid having to use unsanitary
                 and advocating                  surfaces.
                 for ostomates. Our         • Accessible toilet signage. To
                 partnership work has            highlight the right of ostomates
                 not stopped, in fact we         to use the toilet. Reduces risk of
                 have formed additional          hostility when using an accessible         The UK Civil
                 partnerships, and               toilet.
                 we continue to             • Mirror. To enable users to see their          Aviation
                 deliver training to
                 organisations virtually,
                                                 stoma while changing their bag.
                                            • Disposal bin in every cubicle. To
                                                                                            Authority Airport
                 to inform and upskill           avoid embarrassment for men and            Accessibility Report
                 their employees,                women having to dispose of their
                 creating a more ‘stoma          stoma bag in public view.                  Colostomy UK is proud to be
                 aware’ society and                                                         actively working with a number
                 ultimately improving       Gregory Burke, Founder of AccessAble,           of airports across the UK to train
                 the experience of          said of the initiative:                         and support them (virtually) in
                 ostomates.                 “From the moment we met the team                meeting the needs of travellers
                                            at Colostomy UK we could see how                with a stoma and other hidden
We have partnered with AccessAble           working together could make a really            conditions.
as part of our Stoma–Friendly Toilets       big difference to people living with a
campaign. They produce an accessibility stoma. We want to end toilet anxiety,               To monitor airports’ accessibility,
guide, with detailed information            to truly take the chance out of going           the Civil Aviation Authority
about venues all over the country.          out, so that no one faces uncertainty           produce an accessibility
Since we announced                                        about using a toilet              report each year. We have
our partnership on            “With AccessAble outside of their home. As                    been supporting Birmingham,
Thursday 3rd December
                              on board there is a part of this commitment,                  Bournemouth, Cardiff,
(International Day of                                     we are really delighted           Edinburgh, Gatwick, Heathrow,
People with Disabilities      huge opportunity to launch the Stoma–                         London Luton, London Stansted,
2020), every toilet that      to increase the             Friendly Toilet symbol on         and Manchester airports.
they have surveyed has        number of stoma– to the AccessAble website                    For the first time, no airports
been checked to see if                                    and App. We also look             were ranked as poor in terms
it has ‘stoma–friendly’       friendly toilets            forward to promoting the          of accessibility and we are
facilities. If a toilet does across the UK”               importance of Stoma–              delighted to share that all
not meet our criteria,                                    Friendly Toilets and helping      airports have been ranked as
then AccessAble’s surveyors will work       to increase the number available.”              “good” or “very good” in the
with the organisation to make the                                                           UK Civil Aviation Authority’s
necessary changes. Stoma–friendly           Speaking about the partnership Libby            ‘Airports Accessibility Report
toilets will be listed as such in the guide Herbert, General Manager at Colostomy           2019/2020’. This is an excellent
and they will be searchable on the          UK said:                                        step forward for disabled and
AccessAble website and app, so that         “We are delighted to be partnering with         less mobile passengers.
ostomates can see which shops, pubs,        AccessAble to ensure that more toilets
restaurants, cinemas, theatres, railway     across the UK are Stoma Friendly. It has        To read the full report, visit:
stations, hotels, colleges, universities,   been great to work with and train the           http://publicapps.caa.co.uk/
hospitals and more have stoma–friendly AccessAble team of surveyors on what                 docs/33/CAP%201978.pdf
toilets! Over time as more toilets are      makes a stoma–friendly toilet. With

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 Launching ‘GOAL’                          This project has only been made
                                           possible thanks to money from the
 We were excited to launch our new         legacy of Isabel and Derek Jonas which
 Giving Ostomates Active Lifestyles        was gifted to us to help us increase
 (GOAL) project on 1 March. GOAL is an     the support we offer to the ostomate
 eight–week pilot programme designed       community in the north east. As we
 to support people with stomas get back    are a self–funding charity, donations
 into healthy eating and exercise. The     such as legacy gifts are vital to allow
 pilot is focusing on ostomates in the     us to continue supporting ostomates.
 north east of England.                    Many people are put off leaving a gift
                                           in their will, as they think they need to
 We are delighted to be working with       give a substantial amount. This isn’t
 Jo Prance, Personal Trainer and Sophie    the case. Every penny left to us is put to
 Medlin, Consultant Dietitian (with        good use helping ostomates of today
 expertise in gastrointestinal and         and tomorrow. If you leave us a gift,
 colorectal health). The sessions run      we will use it where we feel the need is
 twice weekly on Zoom. Jo uses her         greatest. Alternatively, you can request
 session to focus on exercise while        that you would like it to help ostomates
 Sophie uses hers for a structured group   in a particular part of the country.
 discussion on dietary intervention.
 The aim of these sessions is to support   We hope that GOAL will have positive
 participants in making small steps        outcomes for the individuals involved.
 towards better health.                    If this pilot is successful, we hope to
                                           launch further interventions later in the
 The aims of the project include:          year. Keep an eye out in future issues of
 • increased uptake of exercise;           Tidings, our website, and social media
 • increased confidence with physical      (Facebook, Instagram and Twitter)
     activity;                             accounts
 • increased intake of fruit and
     vegetables;                           Find out more here: colostomyuk.
 • reduction in the consumption of         org/active-ostomates/goal-giving-
     processed foods.                      ostomates-active-lifestyles/

                                           Is the Covid–19 Vaccine                      inflammatory bowel disease and those
                                                                                        receiving chemotherapy has been
                                           Safe for Ostomates?                          issued but we recommend that you
                                                                                        discuss this with your GP, Specialist
                                           The rapid development and roll out of        Nurse or Consultant if you have specific
                                           the Covid–19 vaccine seems to be the         concerns. Ostomates who are pregnant
                                           topic on everyone’s lips at the moment,      will need to see specialist advice about
                                           and we have received questions               the vaccine types”
                                           regarding its safety for ostomates.
                                                                                        For further information
                                           Ian Daniels, Colostomy UK’s president        visit the British Society of
                                           had this to say:                             Gastroenterology: https://www.bsg.
                                                                                        org.uk/covid-19-advice/british-
                                           “On the whole we recommend                   society-of-gastroenterology-
                                           vaccination against Covid–19. There          inflammatory-bowel-disease-
                                           is no evidence that ostomates are            section-and-ibd-clinical-research-
                                           at any increased risk of side–effects        group-position-statement-on-sars-
                                           from the vaccines currently licensed.        cov2-vaccination/n
                                           Specific guidance for those with

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Colostomy UK: news
 Metropolitan Police
 (MET)
 On Thursday 3 December,
 Colostomy UK General Manager, Libby
 Herbert, attended the Metropolitan
 Police Service’s Disability Staff
 Association ‘Day of Disabilities’ virtual
 event on hidden disabilities and               Talking about the virtual event, Libby said:   working. Looking on social media I have
 conditions.                                    “I was honoured to be invited as a guest       seen other ostomates that are in the
                                                to the Met police’s International Day of       blue light services, this made me think
 With 130 members of the police service         Disabilities event to hear Nav share her       why should a stoma stop me from being
 in attendance, Libby was invited as            journey with cancer and life with a stoma.     a police officer? Obviously, life can’t be
 a guest to join an internal panel who          It’s not an easy task to do but she was        exactly the way it was for me but with
 discussed a range of hidden health             brilliant, and I was pleased to be able to     some adjustments and protection, with
 conditions and disabilities including          support her, answering her colleague’s         the right support I know I can still do my
 endometriosis, dyslexia, fibromyalgia          questions and raising awareness of the         job. With my disability I can sometimes
 – and, of course, stomas. As part of           needs of ostomates.”                           have days when I don’t feel great, it’s
 the event Libby held a question–and–                                                          important to use your colleagues, support
 answer session and Colostomy UK                Together Libby and Nav shared the              groups and your family and friends.
 Ambassador and police officer Nav              importance of having stoma–friendly            You need people to hold you back when
 Johal (pictured) shared her story. Nav         toilets, and the changes that the MET          you push too far, whether it’s at work,
 was diagnosed with bowel cancer                could employ to support ostomates.             exercise, activities, or just general life. You
 in February 2019 and now has an                                                               don’t need to stop completely, but pause
 ileostomy. She addressed her colleagues        Nav is now in remission from cancer,           and take a breather, maybe make little
 about living with a stoma, eloquently          awaiting a reversal, and she has returned      adaptations.”
 and clearly explaining the practical           to work: “Importantly for me I have
 needs of ostomates working for the             been able to get back to work full time        To read Nav’s story, visit: colostomyuk.
 MET as well as the emotional impact of         during lockdown. This is something that        org/idpwd-not-all-disabilities-are-
 the surgery.                                   has worried me, having a stoma and             visible-nav-johal/

                                                Have Your Say on the
    Vacancy:                                    Companies Who Deliver
                                                                                               The British
                                                                                               Healthcare Trades
    Clinical Trustee                            Your Stoma Supplies                            Association
                                                                                               say: “We would
    Are you a healthcare professional                                                          welcome and
    actively working with stoma patients        The British Healthcare Trades
                                                                                               value your
    and the stoma community? We are             Association want to set up a patient panel
                                                                                               honest feedback.
    looking for a registered practitioner       to give feedback on the service
                                                                                               Your supplier will
    to join our board of trustees. You          they receive from pharmacies and
                                                                                               not be able to identify your personal
    will enhance Colostomy UK’s                 dispensing appliance contractors. The
                                                                                               responses. All comments you make will
    understanding of the challenges             latter are also sometimes known as DACS
                                                                                               be included in the feedback report, but
    clinicians face on a day–to–day basis       and are the companies who deliver your
                                                                                               all attempts will be made to remove
    and help us to forge productive             supplies.
                                                                                               information that could identify you.”
    relationships with the healthcare
    profession. Your input and guidance will    The panel will consist of approximately
                                                                                               You can register to take part through
    shape our services, helping ostomates       300 patients who have had a stoma
                                                                                               the following web link https://cfep.
    of today and tomorrow thrive and            for at least 12 months. Panel members
                                                                                               net/wKx3LR and once they have
    flourish. This is a voluntary position      must be willing to complete a 10–
                                                                                               the full panel in place, the British
    suitable for a senior clinician. Charity    minute survey four times a year, about
                                                                                               Healthcare Trades Association will
    experience will be beneficial. To enquire   the service they have received around
                                                                                               contact you with further background
    please email: info@Colostomyuk.org          both ordering stoma supplies and
                                                                                               information on the survey objectives
                                                having them delivered.
                                                                                               and process.

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 CAFE – Centre for                         the Expert Working Group to represent
                                           the needs of ostomates.
                                                                                     embarrassing having to explain and
                                                                                     expose their bags in front of other
 Access to Football in                                                               spectators.
                                           The survey revealed that people
 Europe                                    often face barriers due to a lack of      Libby Herbert was delighted to support
                                           consideration of, and provision for,      the project and said “[It is] an extremely
                                           their access requirements. Throughout     well documented report, CAFE should
                                           the survey, respondents repeatedly        be very proud of it.”
                                           gave examples of being challenged
                                           when using accessible services. 72 per    CAFE have made recommendations and
                                           cent of participants stated they have     they will support stadiums to improve
                                           had their eligibility to use accessible   access and inclusion for non–visibly
                                           services questioned at a football match   disabled fans, including ostomates, by
                                           or elsewhere. One fan with a stoma,       creating training on innovative access
                                           described taking crutches to matches      solutions for governing bodies, national
                                           to save ‘the embarrassment each time’     associations, and clubs.
 We have been working with CAFE –          and to reduce ‘the risk of being turned
 Centre for Access to Football in Europe   away’.                                    Check out the full report here:
 to look at inclusion for non–visibly                                                https://www.cafefootball.eu/
 disabled football spectators and          Physical searching was a common           news/cafe-publishes-access-and-
 spectators with long–term health          barrier across differently disabled       inclusion-for-non-visibly-disabled-
 conditions at football matches. Our       participants, with some people with       spectators-and-spectators-with-
 General Manager, Libby Herbert joined     stomas reporting that they found it       long-term-health-conditions-report

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                        “Never been
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                   I told my doctor:
                  How wrong I was!
                                                                Ken Edwards

On Tuesday 30 October 2007, I had a routine appointment               removed (abdominoperineal resection). The extent of these
with my GP for a thyroid check–up. As I was about to leave            procedures meant I needed reconstruction of my perineum
the consulting room, I told him how fit I was feeling. I was          and the creation of a flap to close up the wound (VRAM flap
back in the gym and feeling better than I had been for some           reconstruction of the perineum). It also led to the formation of
time, except…I felt I had a little problem in the rear, piles         two stomas: a colostomy and Mitrofanoff.
or something, or perhaps it was just me getting older. He
immediately called me back and got me on the bed and did an            Mitrofanoff: This surgery avoids the need to wear a urostomy
internal examination. Afterwards he said he would ring me in           pouch. Instead a small stoma is created and a catheter is
the afternoon at my work, as he was not happy. That afternoon          passed into a reservoir (or the natural bladder) to drain the
he phoned to say that he had made an appointment for me                urine. A urinary reservoir is fashioned from bowel, or the
at Salisbury Hospital on Friday 2 November. So off I went on           person’s own bladder may be used as the reservoir. A channel
the Friday, and after some initial tests I was diagnosed with          is created from the appendix, ureter or ileum. The diversion is
suspected bowel cancer. I was told that in the following week I        continent because of the valve arrangement, which prevents
would have a CT scan, barium enema and an MRI scan. At the             urinary leakage (https://urostomyassociation.org.uk/
end of that week, I returned to the hospital for the results. I was    information/mitrofanoff/)
asked to bring the wife.
                                                                      The pouch for the colostomy I coped with well, although it took a
On entering the waiting room I was ushered straight away into a
                                                                      bit of time to adjust. Like many other ostomates, I found joining
consulting room to be confronted by six people and told it was        Colostomy UK and reading Tidings was a great help. But the
not good news. I did indeed have bowel cancer and it had spread       mitrofanoff was a different matter altogether. Prior to the surgery
to the prostate as well. They said they would work as quickly as      I had not even heard the term, let alone what it referred to. Post–
possible and were the team that was going to be treating me:          op, I learned I was not alone in my ignorance and discovered that
a consultant surgeon, consultant colorectal surgeon, consultant       few people (medical people included) were ‘in the know’. As you
urologist surgeon, consultant plastic surgeon, specialist nurse and   can imagine, this had implications in terms of getting support!
a support nurse. They had arranged for me to go to Southampton
Hospital the following week to see a consultant oncologist and        I’ve been active all
start 12 weeks of chemotherapy. Talk about being fast tracked         my life, and I liken
within a month of seeing my GP!                                       it now to having
                                                                      three lives: one in
I started chemo in Southampton but still the news I had cancer        the 60s in the pop
was not really sinking in. The chemo was not at all pleasant in       world; then in the
the first week, but I kept telling myself I must be positive and      70s, 80s and 90s in
keep fit. So, I did still manage to get to the gym once a week. At    local politics; and
the end of chemo I had more scans, then six weeks of intensive        now more recently
radiotherapy every day, which I found tiring and exhausting.          in charity work.
However, because I was having the treatment first thing in the        In my ‘first life’, I
morning, I was managing to get back into work by the afternoon        worked as a singer
most days, and still go the gym as well. I kept telling myself I      and did some
must keep fit. Then it was more scans and back to meeting with        acting. This started
my team in Salisbury. This is when I was told how different my        with me taking up
life would be.                                                        guitar and singing in
I was to come back into hospital the next week for                    skiffle groups.
multiple, major surgeries. I had my whole prostate removed              CONTINUED ON PAGE
                                                                              15, COLUMN 1
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CONTINUED FROM PAGE 13, COLUMN 2                                      all disabilities are visible. I have enjoyed some success with this
In the 60s I was in a group called the Sceptres. This was followed    campaigning, most notably with Salisbury becoming a stoma–
by a solo spell in London, singing in clubs and other venues          friendly city. Having been a member of Colostomy UK since my
under the name of Richard Hudson. In my ‘second life’ I was           surgery, I was thrilled to find that they too, along with Crohn’s
an agent and councillor on both district and county councils. I       and Colitis UK and Changing Places, are campaigning for the
suppose I was an early spin doctor dealing with the press and         same things. I know that collectively great steps forward have
TV when I was running by–elections. I was Mayor of Salisbury in       been made, although there is a lot more work to be done!
1979–80 and later Chairman of the district council.                   Wessex Stoma Support Group has also made great progress;
Then came my ‘third life’… I had been involved in charity work        membership now stands at nearly 100. With regular press
in the past, volunteering for the MS Society and driving their        releases and by working with Colostomy UK it is keeping stoma
ambulance bus (purchased for them as part of my mayoral               awareness to the forefront.
appeal). But, given the circumstances I found myself in, I thought    It has been a busy time since being diagnosed in 2007. Apart
I should do something about finding support for those with a          from a few problems with my Mitrofanoff in the first three
Mitrofanoff and so set about looking for others with a Mitrofanoff.   years, I have been lucky. My surgery has allowed me the
In doing so, I came across Kyla Hooper, as she was then, who          chance to continue living life to the full. I have kept my hand
wanted to do the same. So we joined forces and in 2009 set up         in entertaining, including being a model at a number of the
Mitrofanoff Support (gaining charity status in 2010). I became        Colostomy UK Open Day fashion shows. I have continued to
chairman and Kyla and I travelled the country raising awareness       travel. Since my surgery I have made three long trips to Canada
and attended nurses conferences, etc. And so Mitrofanoff Support      to visit family living over there. I am a firm believer that keeping
was born and is still helping support those with a Mitrofanoff. I     fit has helped. Similarly, I have found too, that getting involved
am now an advisor with the charity and, since setting it up have      and helping others goes a long way. The consultant surgeon told
also joined the local Wessex Stoma Support Group. After a year I      me after my operation: “We gave you six weeks at the start”. But
became their chairman (they must have seen me coming!) and            13 years down the line and I am still here, causing chaos! I am
my wife Pam is Welfare and Membership Secretary.                      greatly indebted to Hugh Bond my GP, who acted immediately
                                                                      upon my symptoms and referred me for urgent invesigations. n
                               If you would like to make your
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found some toilets didn’t have much in the way of facilities
for people with stomas. This prompted me to start writing to
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Colostomy UK: volunteers

                     Emma Howell
                     Volunteers Manager
                     E: volunteer@ColostomyUK.org

Well, what a year we have had! When                   how to spot possible safeguarding            • When a lady I spoke to on the
I think back to January 2020, as we                   concerns) across the charity as                Stoma helpline who was feeling low
planned to deliver face–to–face                       a whole.                                       said: “Thank you for being there, I
volunteer training in Kent and compare            • The launch of our Telephone                      feel better about myself now”, at the
this with what actually happened and                Befriending Service.                             end of the call.
where we are now, I am stunned. I spent                                                            • When someone calls back to say you
                                                  • Managing to move our training to an
time reflecting on this over Christmas,                                                              have made a real difference.
                                                    online format. For a national charity
thinking about the year’s many ‘Highs’
                                                    being able to provide training in this         • Taking part in Colostomy UK’s
and also, I’m sad to say, its ‘Lows’ as well.
                                                    way will be important even once the              Zoom meditation and yoga.
Thankfully, on balance, I think the former
                                                    pandemic is over.                              • Zoom made it possible for me
outweighed the latter. And I know that
the scales settling in this way, had much
to do with the ongoing enthusiasm and           My Lows:                                             to actually ‘meet’ with the rest of
                                                                                                     the Tidings editorial team. As well
support of Colostomy UK’s volunteers.             •   Being forced to cancel the face–to–            as proofreading articles, I have
With everyone’s lives in flux, it would               face training we had planned for               enjoyed being a part of all the lively
have been completely understandable if                March and later in the year. When              discussions that take place when
‘volunteering’ had suffered. But not so at            we first made this decision, it was            we meet to decide on the
Colostomy UK. In fact, quite the opposite             devastating as so much work had                magazine’s contents.
happened as our dedicated team rose                   gone into preparing for it. Thankfully,      • Emma arranging the Zoom meetings
to, and overcame, the many challenges                 we were able to salvage this!                  to keep us volunteers in touch with
Covid–19 posed us. As Volunteers’                 •   Not being able to meet our                     each other and the Colostomy UK
Manager, I will always be proud of the                volunteers in person. Zoom is great,           team and Richard and team for the
fact that we kept supporting ostomates                but it’s not quite the same as being           excellent Tidings which has kept us
in need not despite the pandemic but                  with people in the flesh.                      informed in these uncertain times.
in spite of it! I thought I would share my
                                                  •   Having to suspend many of our
‘Highs’ and ‘Lows’ for year and also the
‘Highs’ and ‘Lows’ of our volunteers.
                                                      volunteering activities, such as          Lows:
                                                      open days.                                   •   Not being able to see and help
My Highs:                                         •   Not managing to always meet the
                                                      expectations of new volunteers and
                                                                                                       ostomates face to face at things like
                                                                                                       open days and support
   •   Seeing a national focus on                     people interested in volunteering                group meetings.
       volunteers and celebrating the                 with us.                                     •   Receiving Stoma helpline calls from
       merits of volunteering and what          And here are some from our volunteers:                 ostomates who have run out of bags
       volunteers can achieve supporting
       people in need.                          Highs:                                                 and then get angry when I’m unable
                                                                                                       to magic them some fresh supplies!!
   •   Connecting with our volunteers via         •   Hearing the immediate change in              •   The pandemic made me realise how
       Zoom/video. Being able to bring                the voice of a caller to the Stoma               vulnerable we all are and how easily
       people together in this way was                helpline, you can hear the tension               the balance of normality can tip in
       completely unexpected.                         in their voice reduce. You may                   the wrong direction.
   •   Getting to know our team of                    not always be able to solve their
       volunteers better (helped by                   problem but just listening to what        So there you have it!
       the above!!).                                  they have to say and pointing them        It has been a real pleasure to work and
   •   Rolling out Colostomy UK’s                     in the right direction to help them       get to know better Colostomy UK’s
       Safeguarding Adults programme,                 help themselves is priceless for me       volunteers and I am looking forward
       with a new policy and online                   as a volunteer.                           to what 2021 brings. If you would like
       training. This has led to greater          •   During the pandemic just being a          to know more about volunteering for
       awareness about safeguarding                   part of Colostomy UK was good, it         Colostomy UK, then please drop me an
       (what it is, why it is important,              is just such a friendly team.             e–mail: volunteer@ColostomyUK.org

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                                                         Emotion Regulation
                                                          and Rumination in
                                                               Inflammatory
                                                             Bowel Disease:
                                                                 Assessing the Effecting
                                                             of Body Image Perceptions
                                                                                                         Bethany Preece
                                                                                               bethany.preece@stu.mmu.ac.uk

What was my                                    reappraisal, within which individuals can
                                               successfully prevent the negative impacts
                                                                                               these processes. It was also interesting to
                                                                                               note that body image can be sub–divided
research?                                      of thought–provoking emotions such
                                               as anger and frustration. This is a more
                                                                                               into satisfaction and dissatisfaction with
                                                                                               one’s own body. Body image is a more
My MSc Health Psychology research              hands–on approach to ensure emotions            complex variable than one might realise,
dissertation involved exploring                are dealt with and accepted rather than         due to a combination of factors including
the extent to which emotion and                bottling them up. On the other hand,            psychology, emotions, and individual
overthinking affected body image               it can be defined as a negative control         behaviour, thereby indicating the
satisfaction within an Inflammatory            of emotions, or expressive suppression,         complexity that arises when beginning to
Bowel Disease (IBD) population. Body           within which individuals hide and push          address this. As a result of IBD becoming
image dissatisfaction can manifest itself      down emotions in particularly emotion–          a global public health challenge, I was
in several ways and can occasionally           eliciting situations, such as during a flare–   curious to shed some light on the
make it difficult to form personal relations   up or whilst having a bad day at work           psychological processes that surround
as well as making social interactions          (Cutili, 2014).                                 body image satisfaction within this
daunting. Depending on the severity of                                                         community.
                                               Overthinking was pinpointed to be
the dissatisfaction, this can lead to social
                                               defined as rumination in this study, which
avoidance and may impact upon an
individual’s psychological health. Emotion
                                               is considered to be repetitive reflection
                                               of emotionally triggering events and
                                                                                               Why did I conduct
was classified as emotion regulation
techniques, which is the way individuals
                                               can develop into a transfixion on these         this research?
                                               thoughts. This can include scenarios such
manage and control their emotions. This                                                        Previously, body image dissatisfaction
                                               as excessively pondering the likelihood
is achieved in a number of ways: it may                                                        has been linked to unfavourable health
                                               of a flare–up on the day of an important
involve confronting emotions head on                                                           outcomes, as well as the worsening of
                                               exam or convincing yourself that your boss
and accepting feelings that accompany                                                          other physical symptoms in illnesses
                                               will not enjoy your presentation before
this in mindful way such as diary entries;                                                     such as IBD (Nayir et al, 2016). As such,
                                               you have even delivered it. Previous
distracting yourself from truly handling                                                       I found it particularly remarkable to note
                                               research has indicated that rumination
emotion by ignoring them; or even being                                                        that body image satisfaction, emotion
                                               is more prominent in individuals who
able to prevent negative emotions from
                                               are living with a chronic illness. I was        regulation and rumination had never been
affecting your outlook altogether. Whilst
                                               particularly interested in understanding        studied collectively within a population of
this is considered similar to the idea of
                                               whether there was any relationship              individuals living with IBD. This is because
emotional coping, they are considered to
                                               between rumination levels and body              IBD is such an unpredictable disease and,
be separate units. It can be described as
                                               image satisfaction in an IBD community,         as readers of Tidings who suffer from it
a positive control of emotion, or cognitive
                                               and how regulating emotion may alter            will know, ongoing self–management

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is often required to manage symptoms          levels of satisfaction with their body         additional stress of coping with a long–
and control emotions. It was hoped that       image overall. To further support this,        term physical illness. The importance
the results from this research could be       when individuals were asked if they felt       of this research indicates that more
used to inform a potential intervention       self–conscious about their appearance,         care is needed to address psychological
within which individuals with IBD feel        only 8.2% (19) of 231 people in the            symptoms within an IBD community.
more readily able to effectively deal with    sample indicated they did not feel at          A screening tool to determine this at
negative emotion, therefore benefiting        all self–conscious. Furthermore, when          diagnosis and at regular intervals following
the course of associated physical and         individuals were asked if they felt less       this may ensure individuals receive the
psychological symptoms. Consequently,         sexually attractive as a result of their IBD   support they need. It is worth noting
due to the large degree of body image         or treatment, 87% (201) of individuals         that previous literature has highlighted
research conducted within an IBD              agreed with this statement to some extent      the degree to which a stoma bag may
community, combined with the fact that        (ranging from a little to very much so).       influence an individual’s body image
living with IBD can deter positive emotion    53.2% of people rating the account, ‘I         ideals, and whilst this is not directly
regulation strategies (Danesh et al, 2015),   control my emotions by not expressing          addressed within this research it is a way
the current research was incredibly           them,’ agreed with the statement to            to expand upon this study. Despite this,
important and necessary.                      varying degrees (whether this be slightly      current research promotes the benefits of
                                              or strongly agreeing). This further            adopting cognitive reappraisal to tackle
What did I do?                                corroborates a statement within the            emotions and body image complexities.
                                                                                             Furthermore, this research may be the
                                              rumination scale, ‘How often do you think:
The results were obtained by presenting       “Why can’t I handle things better?”’ 74.9%     stepping stone to ensuring the mental
individuals with three online measures to     (173) of 231 individuals displayed some        and emotional health of individuals living
complete. This was an anonymous survey,       level of agreement with this statement.        with IBD is both supported, stabilised,
and individuals could not be identified       The most interesting statement however,        and nurtured, particularly during these
through their responses. To be included       alluded that 93.1% (215) of individuals        troubling times. n
in this study, participants were required     felt dissatisfied with their body. This
to have had a diagnosis of IBD for at least   extends the work of other researchers,
three months, be aged 18 or over and          whilst also highlighting that negative
be able to speak fluent English. Everyone     emotion regulation strategies are more
who provided responses did so of their        prominent within the IBD community.
own free will, and thus volunteered to
provide answers for the study. Participants
were recruited through five IBD–based         What is the                                    References
                                                                                             Please contact the author for a full list of
charities sharing the study within their
social media and websites, one of which       importance of this                             references used in this article.

                                              research?
                                                                                             Cutuli, D (2014) Cognitive reappraisal and expressive
was Colostomy UK, who asked eligible
                                                                                                     suppression strategies role in the emotion
members of their private Facebook                                                                    regulation: an overview on their modulatory
group to participate. I also used my own      This research indicates the degree of                  effects and neural correlates. Frontiers in
professional Twitter account. Responses       support required for emotional wellbeing               System Neuroscience, 8(175), 175–181.
were recorded via the completion of           in a long–term condition such as IBD.          Danesh, M, Gholamrezaei, A, Torkzadeh, F, Mirbagher,
the Modified Body Image Scale, the            This is something that could potentially             L, Soluki, R and Emami, MH (2015) Coping
Emotion Regulation Questionnaire,                                                                  with stress in patients with inflammatory
                                              be addressed directly from diagnosis. IBD
                                                                                                   bowel disease and its relationship with disease
and the Ruminative Responses Scale.           is a disease that is already associated              activity, psychological disorders, and Quality
Ethical approval was obtained from the        with a greater developmental risk of                 of life. International Journal of Body, Mind, &
Manchester Metropolitan University Ethics     anxiety and other such mood disorders,               Culture, 2(2), 95–104.
Committee on 2 April 2020, (EthOs ID          highlighting the importance of regulating      Nayir, T, Uskun, E, Yürekli, MV, Devran, H, Çelik, A and
number: 17132) and recruitment spanned        emotions. Interventions to target the                   Okyay, RA (2016) Does body image affect
over a three–month period. Subsequently,      adoption of positive emotion regulation                 quality of life?: A population–based study. PloS
                                                                                                      one, 11(9), e0163290.
231 participants aged between 18–77           have previously proven to be effective, and
years (172 females, 58 males and 1 non–       emotion regulation training has shown
binary individual) completed the survey       continuing success in various settings.
for this project.                             Building upon previous literature, these
                                              findings demonstrate the importance of
What did I find?                              addressing body image concerns. This is
                                              because emotion regulation is influential
The data was analysed on a statistical        in the ability for an individual to deter
software program to assess the degree         negative body image connotations. This
of relationship between body image            supports that of previous researchers, who
satisfaction, emotion regulation and          indicated that body image concerns and
rumination. Overall, it was found that        unhelpful emotion regulation techniques
suppressing emotions was linked to            are more prevalent in individuals living
body image dissatisfaction, as well as        with a long–term physical illness.
greater levels of rumination. Individuals
who are better able to ease the impacts       The symptoms of IBD can produce an
of negative emotions exhibited greater        emotional burden on the individual,
body image satisfaction. However, body        depending on the severity and the nature
image dissatisfaction was a common            of the disease. Although this is still
theme within these findings, showing          prevalent within the general population,
that individuals with IBD displayed lower     it is to a lesser extent and without the

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Colostomy UK: campaigns and projec
                     Libby Herbert
                     General Manager
                     E: libby.herbert@ColostomyUK.org

   #StomaAware
   In the last edition of Tidings I explained how we used World Ostomy Awareness Day in October to launch our new
   #StomaAware campaign. Part of this campaign is to educate and work with organisations to ensure they understand the
   emotional and practical needs of ostomates. In our view, good education is key to making our society more accessible to all.
   With this in mind, it was great to start the ball rolling in early December delivering some #StomaAware training to the team
   at Bolt Burdon Kemp (BBK), who are a firm of solicitors I have worked closely with over the past few years. I was delighted to
   be joined by Ifrah Mohamed who, as an ostomate, was able to highlight to attendees what daily life is like for somebody living
   with a stoma. Our training also looked at why people have stoma surgery and considered the struggles many face afterwards
   such as fears about returning to work and using accessible toilets. Iffy was able to explain how important it is after surgery to
   get back to ‘normal’ and how doing so can aid long–term recovery and ongoing quality of life.
   Our role as a charity is to help reduce the hostility, discrimination and prejudice some ostomates experience. The team at BBK
   asked lots of questions and were keen to get a good understanding from Ifrah about her life with a stoma and the impact her
   surgery had. Below you will find two articles from members of the BBK team, as well as Iffy’s closing thoughts on the training
   session. I hope you enjoy reading them. They show why being #StomaAware is so vital!

                                                                       make the country more stoma–friendly and fight the stigma that
                                                                       has caused so much distress.
                                                                       Last month, therefore, I was delighted to invite Libby Herbert to
                                                                       my firm, Bolt Burdon Kemp to host a ‘Stoma Aware event’.

                              My eyes                                  She attended with Ifrah Mohammed (an ostomate she has met
                                                                       through her work) to educate me and my colleagues about the
                              were opened                              basics of having a stoma and the issues that impact a lot of the
                                                                       people who have one.
                              Tom Lax
My first experience of someone with a stoma (or someone                The feedback I received from all who attended was glowing. We
who I knew had a stoma) was as a trainee solicitor. I attended         learned about the small things that could make a big difference
a conference with her, her son, numerous experts and a                 to ostomates – from stoma–friendly toilets (hook, bin, shelf,
senior barrister. She had suffered an injury due to medical            mirror!) to appropriate conduct at airport security. Mostly though,
negligence and the purpose of the conference was to work out           we were privileged to an honest, open portrayal of life with a
the value of the claim by discussing the impact of the injury on       stoma from several different angles.
her ability to work and care for herself.
                                                                       Libby spoke with the kind but determined enthusiasm I have
My eyes were opened hearing about the mechanics of the                 grown to admire since we connected.
ileostomy operation and the lifesaving impact it had had, but
                                                                       Ifrah’s part of the event was impassioned and inspirational. A
also by the way having a stoma had affected her physically
                                                                       full–on account of the events leading up to her ileostomy and
and emotionally.
                                                                       her life afterwards. Authentic, unscripted and impactful. Perhaps
That case settled for an amount in excess of £500,000, which           the most incredible part was the story of her pregnancy – doctors
meant that the client’s son could work part time and become his        had told her that it would not be safe but she weathered the
mum’s carer. I was inspired to start my career in compensating         pain and the risks to give birth to a boisterous daughter we could
victims of medical negligence and captivated by the physical and       all hear running around in the background as we sat gripped to
emotional plight of ostomates.                                         our Zoom screens.

Years later I got in touch with Colostomy UK to undertake some         After this Rhicha Kapila, a partner at Bolt Burdon Kemp, talked
fundraising for their ‘Fight the Poo Taboo’ campaign. Whilst           about her experiences of caring for her mum who recently
doing that, and in the four years since, I have learned so much        had a stoma sited as a result of a cancer operation. Hearing
about the small things society can do to improve the lives of the      someone we all knew and respected professionally talk about the
thousands of people who have this hidden disability. The biggest       resounding personal, hidden impact of these operations hit home
lesson of all being that educating ourselves is crucial if we are to   how close we all were to someone who had been affected.

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