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SERVICE OF MEMORIES In Bedhampton, a service of Memorial was held at St Thomas’ at the beginning of November in memory of those who have died during the year. The small socially distanced congregation listened to hymns, including Dear Lord and Father of mankind, The Lord’s My Shepherd, Be still for the presence of the Lord and Lord of all hopefulness. Prayers were said for all those that we love but see no longer. If you were unable to attend, you were not forgotten. Candles were lit and a Memory board created. Come and join us for . . . . . . on-‐line www. Bedhampton.church FOODBANK contributions can be made at Asda, Tesco, and Waitrose, or in the black box at the Rectory in Bidbury Lane. 2 www.Bedhampton.church
The Christmas Experience When thinking about this year’s festive season for some reason I keep hearing the brilliant late Alan Rickman as the Sheriff of Nottingham in the film Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves shouting ... ‘and call off Christmas!’ I realize in one way that’s not possible because celebrating the birth of Jesus will happen whatever we do, on the other hand it looks most likely that the Christmas services to which we look forward such as: The Family Crib Service, Carols by Candlelight and Christingle, probably cannot take place this year. This could make us feel as if the coronavirus has cancelled Christmas. At the time of writing this article even the Midnight celebration looks difficult – and probably impossible for the numbers of people who usually come along to St Thomas’. With these likely restrictions in mind we have come up with an idea which should enable many adults and children to share in a Christmas Experience. A number of painted figures, many of them life size, will illustrate the Christmas story in a journey around the outside of St Thomas’ church. Near to each figure or group scene will be a QR (Quick Response) code which, when scanned with a smart phone, will link the user to a website where that part of the Christmas story will be told and a suitable Christmas Carol will play! If you didn’t understand a word of that last sentence, go with a younger person with a smart phone to St Thomas’ between 12th -‐ 24th December 3pm – 6pm and experience the Christmas story. Just in case you don’t have a smart phone or a smart youngster with you, there will be story boards alongside each scene with the same story as the audio file. Make sure you wrap up warm, socially distance, stay safe and follow government guidelines. This is an event to which you can encourage family and friends to come in their own time and grouping – there will be invitation leaflets to pass on. Christmas hasn’t been ‘called off’ it’s just going to be very different this year. Roger Matthews Churchwarden Two of the painted figure groups currently in production which will be around the outside of St Thomas Church. www.Bedhampton.church 3
Christmas c an’t c ome too early ( from Revd Peter Crumpler, St Albans, Herts) Every year it happens. We hear Christians lamenting how ‘Christmas comes earlier every year.’ Since this September (or before!) supermarkets, shops and garden centres have been selling Christmas jumpers, socks and pyjamas and all kinds of other seasonal merchandise. Should we be annoyed or exasperated? Should we have gone around reminding people that it’s much too early for tinsel and mistletoe? This year, of all years, the answer from churches and Christians of all denominations must surely be a resounding ‘NO.’ As people began looking to Christmas for some light in the gloom of the pandemic, it sounds a woefully wrong note if the Church is saying ‘hold back, it’s not time yet…’ Because Christmas is that time of year when increasing numbers of people want to come to church services and share in the story of the new-‐born King. It is when carols are played in shopping centres, and there are openings to speak of the meaning of the season. Churches m ight not be able to host big indoor carol services this year, but the challenge is how we take the Christmas m essage out into the streets and neighbourhoods around our buildings. This year has been one like no other for millions of people, with little prospect of better news into the New Year. So we need to be declaring the Christmas message of hope and light and joy in the darkness. But also, we need to be doing so with sensitivity and care, for the m any who will find it hard to be celebrating this pandemic year, and with the prospect of large family gatherings in doubt because of Covid 19 regulations. We will especially remember families who have been affected by the virus, so our mission is to bring a message of hope, and to do so with love, humility and sensitivity to a hurting disorientated world – one that’s eager for light in the gloom. For many people who have lost loved ones and livelihoods during this traumatic year, Christmas will not be easy. (Archbishop of York, Stephen Cottrell) The Archbishops’ call to prayer Archbishops Justin Welby and Stephen Cottrell call us to prayer. Bearing in m ind our primary vocation as the Church of Jesus Christ to pray and to serve, we call upon the Church of England to make this month of lockdown a month of prayer. More than anything else, whatever the nation thinks, we know that we are in the faithful hands of the risen Christ who knows our weaknesses, tiredness and struggles and whose steadfast love endures for ever. During this time, we invite you to fast in an appropriate way and to pray for our nation, its leaders, its health and essential services and all those who suffer. In his letter to the Romans, St Paul asks the people to serve the Lord, to rejoice in hope, be patient in suffering, persevere in prayer and to extend hospitality to strangers. (Romans 12, 9-‐12.) None of this is easy, especially not at the moment. But it is our calling. 4 www.Bedhampton.church
Journeys or lockdown this Christmas? Christmas is a busy time for travel, as many of us venture a great distance to see family or friends again. But this year coronavirus has put an end to all that. Seeing all our loved ones this Christmas will be difficult, if not impossible. Soon we may not be travelling anywhere very m uch at all. Have you noticed that the Christmas story is about journeys? It begins with Mary and Joseph travelling from Nazareth to Bethlehem. Then, some shepherds receive news from an angel about a special birth. They travel through the night, across dark fields and down unlit streets to search for the baby Jesus. After this, in an eastern country some wise m en see a new star, one that heralds a new king. They leave home and set out with only the star to guide them, and their faith to reassure them that Someone special is waiting at the end of their journey. All these travellers must have wondered what really lay ahead. Nothing was fully understood, carefully planned for, or safe. They all travelled with questions and uncertainties. These travellers’ tales tell us that God may suddenly enter into our familiar, or this year, unfamiliar circumstances. If our response is anything like Joseph, Mary, the shepherds and wise men – to be obedient to His call in serving, witnessing and worshipping, we shall be greatly blessed and rewarded. We are all on life’s journey. If we travel with God, He will be faithful and lead us to His heavenly Home. Ways to avoid stress this Christmas Change your expectations this Christmas. Don’t waste time lamenting what should have been. Instead, try and enjoy whatever is possible this year. Make a list. Include sending cards, buying presents and organising food for the big day. Having a list helps keep you in control of your life. Set a reduced budget. With a pandemic raging, this no time to take on Christmas debt. Don’t overindulge. Too much alcohol and rich food won’t improve your life. Keep calm and keep kind – urge your family members to try and avoid any flare up of family tensions. If you need to cry, cry, but then, keep on keeping on. Exercise each day -‐ it releases happiness-‐inducing serotonin. That will help you to keep calm and positive over the festive period. Entertain the children: plan ahead various films, games and whatever it takes to give them a memorable Christmas. Make the most of Zoom this year with far-‐flung relatives and friends. Most of all, include God in your Christmas! This is His Son’s birthday -‐ include Bible readings and carols in your family routine over the festive period. www.Bedhampton.church 5
Next planned Physical Services th Sunday 6 December 9am, St Nicholas’ Church, Holy Communion th Sunday 6 December 11am, St Thomas’ Church, Holy Communion th Wednesday 9 December 9.30am, St Thomas’ Church, Holy Communion Christmas Unwrapped (Zoom Meeting) 2nd, 9th, 16th & 23rd December 7.30pm – 8.30pm. A video and discussion based journey through Advent. Contact the parish to sign up. Zoom meeting software is available for Microsoft, Apple or Android. You can also call 0203 481 5240 and enter the meeting ID when asked. The Christmas Experience: 12th – 24th December (see page 3 ). Christmas Day Services, Covid19 restrictions permitting. 8am Holy Communion; 10am Family Service, both at St Thomas. See page 17. On-‐line service also available. January 12th, 2021 : Christingle Service at St Nicholas. The Alpha Course – Late January 2021 – An open and informal dialogue about faith. Who a re you going to invite? On-‐line services are available on Facebook and on the Parish Website. Please note that the above was prepared before the latest Government update. FAMILY NEWS We send our good wishes to those who celebrate birthdays and anniversaries this month including Peter Coe, Sandra Matthews, Chris Davis and Chris Tambling. HELP NEEDED The Magazine Team is seeking someone who is a Bedhampton resident (not compulsory) who is good at gathering interesting local news which could be included in this magazine. You would be invited to either attend the magazine meetings which are usually held once a month, or to keep in touch by email which is what we have been doing during these past few months of lockdown and restrictions. Please contact Max if you are interested or if you would like m ore information. Email: Hello@Bedhampton.church 6 www.Bedhampton.church
SAMARITANS’ PURSE SHOEBOX APPEAL The Amazing Journey of a Simple Shoebox Gift .... The boxes are on their way THANK YOU again to everyone who has supported this appeal, another chance to help meet the needs of victims of war, poverty, famine disease and natural disaster around the world while sharing the Good news of Jesus and showing that we care. Thank you, Kim, Sally and Cathy If you can, follow the story and the journey of the boxes by going to Samaritan’s website. www.samaritans-‐purse.org.uk The Rowans Hospice At Christmas, in recent years, we have been supporting the work of the Rowans Hospice in Waterlooville, which depends heavily on fundraising for most of its funding to keep it running. Last year, the Hospice commemorated its 25 years of existence with fundraising in order to continue the good work carried out. This year it is hoped to contribute. www.rowanshospice.co.uk The Children’s Society With the sale of Christmas cards not possible in church this year, we will be supporting the work of The Children’s Society at the Christingle Service planned for Sunday 12th January at St Nicholas Church at 4pm, virus restrictions permitting. www.childrenssociety.org.uk There are of course other well deserving charities in need of support. How many Christmas carols do you really know? Here is a challenge: why not spend some time learning the words to traditional carols this year? Polls have found that too m any of us know the title of a carol and the tune and the opening line or so, but then we have to m ake it up. This year you probably have more time at home, so get going! Sadly we may not be singing carols together much this year but there is nothing to stop you from turning on the radio or finding your CDs and singing along at home. The BBC will be broadcasting Carols from Kings on Christmas Eve on BBC 2 and on BBC Radio 4 , in the afternoon, and on Radio 3 on Christmas Day at 2pm. It is pre-‐recorded. www.Bedhampton.church 7
HOW REMEMBRANCE DAY WAS OBSERVED in 2020 Lockdown 2 The second lockdown of 2020 began a few days before Remembrance Day so arrangements had to be quickly changed. Churches were closed and no congregation was permitted to attend a service. Hastily, Max organized a small group to perform and observe the annual event a few days before and then broadcast it on the website for Remembrance Sunday. Meanwhile in London, proceedings were very much scaled down for the ceremony at the Cenotaph. Present were Commander Nigel Langhorn, RN retired, Commander John Prime, RN retired, CPO Bridget Main, CPO Alec Matthews retired, Catherine Langhorn, Sandra Matthews, Warden, Ann Partridge Churchwarden and Rev Captain Max Cross CF. the wreath was laid on the War Memorial by John Prime and the two minute silence observed. Nigel Langhorn and Bridget Main read the lessons and Max Cross gave an address. Recorded music was played throughout. The recording is still available to watch on the website. WHAT DID YOU DO DURING THE LOCKDOWNS IN 2020? The first lockdown lasted from March and eased in June. How did you pass your time? Did you take up a new hobby? Knitting, gardening, DIY? Were you able to help others? We are now in the midst of a further 4 weeks lockdown so there is time to be spent on another project. Tell us your stories. Either send by email to Hello@Bedhampton.church or send in writing to The Rectory. Please m ark your envelope “Magazine”. 8 www.Bedhampton.church
‘In Flanders Fields the poppies blow’ Part 31 of a monthly series on the men of Bedhampton who lost their lives in World War 2 and whose names appear on the War Memorial in St. Thomas’ or in the graveyard. Leslie Pearce (1921-‐1943) Gunner 1462822, 80th Anti-‐Tank Regiment, Royal Artillery Leslie was born in Bedhampton in 1921, the second son of Christopher and Lilian Pearce. By the time of the 1939 Nation Register the family were living at 76, Park Lane, Bedhampton. The oldest son also called Christopher (born 1914) was married and lived elsewhere. Three other sons, Leslie born 1921, Cecil 1925 and Leonard 1928 were all living at home. Christopher his father worked as a Laundry Motor Van Driver. With the outbreak of war, Leslie joined the 80th Anti-‐Tank Regiment, Royal A rtillery, Service No: 1462822. In Nov 1941 the 80th arrived in Singapore as part of the Malaya Command. They were soon heavily engaged with the Japanese army as they advanced rapidly down the Malay Peninsular towards the British stronghold of Singapore. They took part in the Battle of Jitra, 11th-‐13th December, 1941 when the army suffered huge losses against a much more prepared and mobile Japanese army. All the Commonwealth forces were recalled for the defence of Singapore but it fell on 15th February, 1942 after a week of fierce fighting and 80,000 allied soldiers were taken prisoner. W inston Churchill called it the “worst disaster” in British m ilitary history. Leslie was either taken prisoner in the battles before or was one of those who was imprisoned after the surrender of Singapore. With thousands of other commonwealth soldiers in captivity he was forced to work on the infamous ‘Burma Railway’ or ‘Death Railway’. 180,000 civilian labourers and 60,000 allied POWs were used to construct the railway. 12,621 of the allied POWs died in the construction of the railway through disease, maltreatment and accidents. Leslie, aged just 22, died on 18th July, 1943 and was buried in the Kanchanaburi War Cemetery, not far from one of the bridges that the POWs constructed, an event immortalised in the film The Bridge on the River Kwai (1957). Rev David Proud www.Bedhampton.church 9
A tribute to . . . Denise Deacon By Matthew Deacon (Son) Mum loved her garden, she would get me cutting the grass twice a week even when it didn't need doing. She would text me, "are you popping over today?" which would mean, ‘Please come over, I have some things I want you to do.’ Mum was a bit of a free spirit where she would spend all day every day out in her car and that is where she got the nickname from me and Katie Anne, driver Miss Daisy. She lived for her Sundays when she could spend it with her sister Pat, where, depending on the weather, they would go down to the beach where they would spend the day at the bandstand, or go to the Hot Walls and catch some sun rays, followed by a roast dinner at Lady Hamilton’s. Or if it was raining cold and miserable, they would go shopping, it didn't matter what they did as long as she was with her best friend, sister Pat. She loved animals and last summer she found a hedgehog in her garden one evening and she fed it. This hedgehog kept coming back night after night and it started staying in the shed overnight. She asked me to m ake a wooden box for this hedgehog and it made itself at home for weeks and weeks. She started to worry about it outside so she would shut the shed door at night to look after it. I would say, “Mum you can't keep it locked up, it’s a wild animal.” She would say, “I'm not letting it get run over or something.” She would buy it hedgehog food and it would come out of its box and eat it right in front of her, even in daylight. She fell in love with it and one night she left the shed door open and it must have left, but it didn't come back. She was quite upset. She was also very much fond of all our dogs, Bella, Yogi, Willow and recently passed Boo. Mum and her sister Pat would go to Turkey every year where they would stay at the same hotel and just spend the day at the pool or beach. Mum loved her 2 weeks away with Pat where it would just be them two and no one else. www.Bedhampton.church 10
Mum worked at the chip shop in Bedhampton for 37 years. In that time, it had changed ownership several times but she was the life and soul of the chippy where she would play mummy and nanny with all the staff. And only this year she went out for a birthday meal with some of the girls at the chippy and I got a phone call around midnight asking me to come and pick her up in a road in Havant. I thought, ‘Hang on, isn't this suppose to be the other way round where the parent comes to get the child?’ But that was my Mum all over. She loved a family Christmas where we would all be together having dinner and opening presents. W hen we were kids she would take us to theme parks during summer holidays so that every day of one week we would go somewhere different and then later when me and Donna were a little older, she started taking us abroad. Our first foreign holiday was Minorca and we had the best time. She met my Dad, Chris, 48 years ago where he was in a pub with his mates and my Mum went over to him and sat on his lap and asked for a drink. My Dad couldn't believe his luck and they ended up having 4 children, A aron, Richard, Matthew, and Donna, together, although one of them wasn't his own, Dad brought him up as his own. She had 9 grandchildren, Lee, Jack, Harry, A lfie, Rhys, Caitlin, Max, Albie and Jake, and she loved them all very much. She was also very close to her sister Pat’s kids, Vanessa, Mark and Gary, and Pat’s grandchildren, Sonny, Candy and Junior. A Parish Tribute On Monday 12th October, at 1:45pm, we, as her own family and her church family, said our good-‐ byes to Denise. Her cortège passed by the Deep Blue chip shop, where Denise had worked for 37 years, allowing her colleagues to say a final goodbye, on the way to St Thomas’ Church. Her funeral service, led by Rev Max Cross, was packed with her family and friends, all following the Covid rules. The only church family allowed was Christine Hirsch, who read a beautiful goodbye poem; Sally Tritton, who read the 23rd Psalm; and Janice Stott and myself who were honoured to be Vergers. We heard some lovely stories about Denise’s life with lots of reflective m usic and prayers. After the service, our church family had a chance to wave goodbye from the roadside as the cortège left for Portchester Crematorium. She will be sadly missed by us all, particularly for her membership of the Fun Club and her loving, bubbly nature. Denise had been watching and joining in with our online services during lockdown. Goodbye dear friend. Alec Matthews www.Bedhampton.church 11
Bidbury Mead WI The Bidbury Mead Women’s Institute needed to keep their m embers in touch with one W another, so we started our Bidbury Belles Bulletin. The first edition was at Easter. Members input included articles, stories, recipes, puzzles, photos and ‘useful to know’ sections. The Bulletin also kept us up to date with the Hampshire Federation News. Thank you to Kathy and Shelagh for putting the Bulletin together. Ruth asked me if I would like to come over to sit on her front lawn for the VE Day 2 minute silence, we sat there talking to a couple of neighbours for a while and saying hello to passers by. There is a photo of us, social distancing of course. Aline m ade knitted hearts for QA and St. Richard’s Hospital, some members made masks and scrub bags, which were given to the hospitals and local surgeries. Members had the opportunity to view a virtual Spring Council Meeting in September, with the inspiring guest speaker Ben Fogle. The book club was resumed recently. We have met on Bidbury Mead and have also done some Litter Picks on the Mead, as seen pictured by the spider bin we donated a few years ago. Jane Tandy Here’s wishing that everyone stays safe in the m onths ahead. Bidbury Mead WI President 12 www.Bedhampton.church
1st Bedhampton Scout Group www.1stbedhampton.co.uk This is the second month I’ve been pleased to report we have returned to face to face Scouting. This is in line with national guidelines and supported by a number of additional mitigations including being outside only and limited numbers. There was a small rumour going round that the Church was preventing us from m eeting indoors. This is completely not true and we are very grateful for the way the Church has supported us throughout the Pandemic. Unfortunately the Prime Minister announced last night a month long lockdown. As I write this we wait to see if there is any impact on m eeting face to face. If there is, we th will return to online Scouting and remember the 5 Scout Promise “A Scout has courage in all difficulties” (that includes Beavers, Cubs, Scouts, Explorers and Adults). During October the Beavers have been exploring space and building volcanoes. The Cubs have been playing Pooh sticks and learning about the old St Thomas’ Church (Thank you Alec). They have also been scavenging on Hayling Beach and building shelters (and testing them) – happy to report that after buckets of water were thrown on their shelters, almost all the cubs stayed dry. We are still looking for help in the Cub section on Tuesday evenings as I have now fully moved into the Scout section. The Explorers have been running the Scout and Explorer programme and we have been treated to some well planned evenings involving a Quiz night and an international theme involving creating of a lot of international monuments out of cardboard boxes form. We will also be creating our own Parliament without the in-‐fighting, politics and scandal of the UK one I hope! We m ay have some budding young Politicians in our midst! Our Covid-‐ delayed AGM will take place at 7.30pm on 30th November 2020 via Zoom (NB Most modern web browsers play Zoom – you don’t need “the App”). We have sent the invite around the Scout Group members but everyone please feel free to email nigeljvosper@sky.com for a direct invite. Until next month keep smiling, look after yourselves and each other. Nigel Vosper Group Administrator www.Bedhampton.church 13
Winter Solstice – 21st December A Midwinter festival has been a part of life since pre-‐Christian times. When the hours of daylight are fewest, the warmth of the sun weakest, and life itself seemingly at a standstill, our ancestors, the pagan peoples of Europe and Western Asia, kept festival by lighting bonfires and decorating their buildings with evergreens. With the advent of Christianity, the Spring gods became identified with Christ, and the birthday of the sun with the birthday of the Light of the World. The early church father Tertullian did not approve of Christmas decorations. “Let those who have no light in themselves light candles!... You are the light of the world, you are the tree ever green....” Four centuries later, this had changed. Pope Gregory instructed Augustine not to worry about harmless outward customs, as long as the right God be worshipped through them. And so many A nglo-‐Saxon customs were never discarded, but simply endowed with a new significance. By 1600, homes and parish churches were decked with “holme, ivie, bayes” and other things green. Christmas Eve – 24th December Christmas Eve has its own customs, the most popular of which is going to Midnight Mass, or the Christ-‐Mas. This is the only Mass of the year that is allowed to start after sunset. In Catholic countries such as Spain, Italy and Poland, Midnight Mass is in fact the most important church service of the entire Christmas season, and m any people traditionally fast beforehand. In other countries, such as Belgium and Denmark, people dine during the evening, and then go on to the Midnight Service. Christmas throughout the Christian world -‐ 25th December For nearly four weeks leading up to Christmas, Christians recognise a period called Advent. It means ‘coming’. It is a time of spiritual preparation. 'Coming' refers to Jesus’ first coming as a baby, but it also looks forward to a day when Jesus is expected to return in triumph at His ‘second coming’ to establish perfect justice and a new order of peace. Advent marked a time of refraining from excessive eating. Then Christmas Day reintroduced them to the joys of feasting. Christmas celebrations lasted for 12 days, with gifts exchanged as a climax at Epiphany (6th January). Christmas Day is celebrated as the anniversary of Jesus’ birth, although the actual date is not known. Most Christians celebrate it on 25th December. Christians make a point of taking communion on Christmas Day. Many make it the first thing they do as the clock strikes midnight. On 6th January the Christmas festival continues with a celebration of Epiphany, which m eans ‘the appearance’. Christians remember the visit of wise m en (magi) to Jesus, bringing gifts of gold, frankincense and m yrrh. 14 www.Bedhampton.church
Children's Christmas Carols as misunderstood by children… Deck the Halls with Buddy Holly We three kings of porridge and tar On the first day of Christmas my tulip gave to me Later on we'll perspire, as we dream by the fire. He's makin a list, chicken and rice. Noel, Noel, Barney's the king of Israel. With the jelly toast proclaim Olive, the other reindeer Frosty the Snowman is a ferret elf, I say Sleep in heavenly peas. In the meadow we can build a snowman, “Nice idea, Amelia, but I don’t think that the then pretend that he is sparse and Angel of the Lord Zooming with the shepherds brown. would have the same dramatic effect.” O come, froggy faithful. Christmas to Me Christmas to me is nativity Christmas t o m e i s t he M agi And the sound of carol-‐singing; i n Who p ut a ll o f t heir f aith a s tar, But to others it is revelry And i n s earch o f t he l ittle C hrist c hild And the sound of shop tills ringing. They willingly travelled so far. Christmas to me is shepherds Christmas t o m e i s w orship On a hillside attending their sheep; Giving thanks for the Saviour’s birth; And the sound of angelic voices But t o m any o f t he f olk I k now Over a town bathed in sleep. Christmas has no real worth. So what will YOU see this Christmas? Will you think of that baby so small? And recognise that the love of God Came to earth that first Christmas of all? by Colin Hammacott www.Bedhampton.church 15
BEDHAMPTON CALENDAR 2021 BEDHAMPTON CARDS We are pleased to announce the arrival A selection of printed and hand of a P arish C alendar for 2 021, f eaturing crafted Christmas and all pictures o f B edhampton i n y ears g one occasion cards are available for sale in St Thomas' by. or contact Jean O'Farrell We thank Ralph Cousins on 023 9283 3284.. and the Bedhampton Proceeds to the church. Historical Collection for permission to include t hese p ictures. BEDH AM PTON PARISH CALENDAR Priced a t £ 5 e ach, 2021 Why not take some local photos the c alendar is a vailable for next year’s Bedhampton calendar ? from our churches or Send t o t he P arish Office contact the Parish Office. • Tree removal • Crown reductions & thinning • Deadwood removal • Pollarding • Tree bracing • Hedge maintenance • Stump grinding • Seasoned firewood • Tpo/Conservation areas • Site clearance • £5 Million public liability insurance 24 HOUR EMERGENCY CALL OUT, GREAT CUSTOMER SERVICE, FRIENDLY ADVICE & FREE NO OBLIGATION QUOTES Mob • 07805 044 717 Tel • 02392 466 255 Email • info@fellwoodtreesurgeons.co.uk Website • www.fellwoodtreesurgeons.co.uk 16 www.Bedhampton.church
Wordsearch for December 2020 Silent Night This m uch-‐loved c arol c omes f rom A ustria, w here it was first sung as Stille Nacht, heilige Nacht o n C hristmas Eve, 1 818. It was w ritten by Father Joseph Mohr, a young priest at St Nicholas parish church, in the village of Oberndorf bei Salzburg. As Christmas 1818 approached, he asked the local schoolmaster, Franz Xaver Gruber, to compose a m elody for his carol. Gruber was organist in the nearby village of Arnsdorf, and so was happy to oblige. On Christmas Eve they presented the carol to the church during the midnight mass. The carol went on to become loved world-‐wide; and the version sung by Bing Crosby is the third best-‐selling single of all time. Silent Christmas Night Eve Loved Father Carol Joseph Austria Mohr First Young Sung Priest Stille Organist Nacht Midnight Heilige Mass Melody Version Single Third Bing NOVEMBER WORDSEARCH SOLUTION Answers next month on 023 9248 3013 www.Bedhampton.church 17
SPECIAL ANNIVERSARIES IN 2020 During 2020, quite a number of special anniversaries were due to be commemorated or celebrated. Due to the virus restrictions, many plans had to be changed, scaled down or abandoned completely. Below are listed a number of people or events that are remembered. 800 The foundation stone of SALISBURY CATHEDRAL was laid in 1220. When complete the building had the tallest spire; it also houses the Magna Carta. 400 MAYFLOWER. The Pilgrim Fathers set sail in the Mayflower from Plymouth on 16th September 1620 and headed to the New World, landing at Cape Cod. 300 Birth of GILBERT WHITE in July, in Selbourne, Hampshire a pioneering English naturalist. 250 WILLIAM WORDSWORTH, poet, born in April, 1770. 250 Ludwig Van BEETHOVEN, composer, born in December, 1770. 250 Anniversary of the BIRTH OF TOURISM in Britain in the Wye Valley, Herefordshire. 200 FLORENCE NIGHTINGALE born in May, 1820. To cope with extra NHS beds needed during the Covid19 pandemic this year, Nightgale Hospitals were constructed. 150 Anniversary of CHARLES DICKENS's death in 1870. 125 NATIONAL TRUST founded in January 1895, one of the largest charities in the UK. 125 BBC PROMENADE CONCERTS founded in 1895. This year, there were no audiences and concert recordings were broadcast from previous years. 100 WESTMINSTER ABBEY: TOMB of the UNKNOWN WARRIOR. The body of the Unknown Warrior was carried through London and laid to rest in the Abbey, 11 November. On the day of her wedding in 1923, the future Queen Mother, Elizabeth Bowes-‐Lyon, laid her bouquet at the Tomb on her way into the A bbey, out of respect to her late brother Fergus who died at the Battle of Loos in 1915. In the decades since, royal brides have carried on the tradition and their bouquets have been laid at the Tomb on their wedding days. TV viewers m ay have seen our Queen lay a bouquet resembling her own wedding bouquet in the week before Remembrance Sunday. 100 The first complete public performance of The Planets by Gustav Holst, 15 November. 75 VE Day, MAY 8-‐10, Nationwide. This year events were held in our front gardens, socially distanced. 75 Death of Anne Frank in 1945 aged just 15; famous for her diary about World W ar II. 50 GLASTONBURY FESTIVAL 50 years Saturday 19th September; that same night, the American musician, singer, songwriter and guitarist, Jimi Hendrix died. 40 BBC CHILDREN IN NEED began in 1980 and has since raised more than one billion pounds. Sir Terry Wogan was one of the first presenters, continuing until 2014. 10 The Rickshaw Challenge started in 2010 led by Matt Baker as part of Children in Need. To date, over £25 m illion has been raised by this event alone. Read more at https://bitaboutbritain.com/anniversaries-‐2020 www.Bedhampton.church 18
ANNOUNCEMENTS From the Parish Registers Planned e vents for December There were no Thanksgivings or Weddings. Covid19 restrictions permitting th SUNDAY 13 , ( Advent 2,3,4 ) BAPTISM We welcome into Christmas Day 8am Holy Communion the church family 10am Family Service both at St Thomas Isla Prothero SUNDAY REST IN PEACE The Christmas Experience at St Thomas We pray for the families th th 12 – 24 December, 3pm – 6pm of those who have recently died. Regretfully, no Carol Service this year. Barbara Johnson No Midnight Communion Service Public services Services will follow the on-‐line pattern JANUARY 2021 with Messy Church on the first Sunday. Magazine www.bedhamptonparish/worship For information about advertising and the ‘Magazine by mail’ service, contact the Parish We ask that you inform us if you are going Office (see below) to attend one of the services. You can do We warmly welcome advertisers to our magazine this on-‐line at Bedhampton.church/book but the Parish does not accept responsibility for or by phone on 023 9245 0955. the quality of work carried out. We thank Max, Suzy and all the team for All material for the next issue should be sent to the Parish Office, St Nicholas Church, Belmont continuing to produce on-‐line services. Grove, Bedhampton, PO9 3PU by We wish all our readers a happy and 10 am on Friday 4 th December peaceful Christmas. Rector : Rev Max Cross 023 9248 3013 Email : Max@Bedhampton.church Day off: Thursday Churchwardens : Roger Matthews 023 9248 6175 Ann Partridge 023 9247 2180 Deputy Churchwardens : Sandra Matthews 023 9248 4669 Tracey Smith Parish Administrator : vacant 023 9248 3013 Parish Office open 9 am – 1.00 pm on Monday to Friday Enquiries for Weddings, Baptisms Email: www.Bedhampton.church 19
Services from SEPTEMBER 2020 onwards A new pattern of services started in September, with one service in each church on each Sunday. The pattern will look something like this, shown below. The on-‐line service will also still be available every Sunday for the time being. Sunday one -‐ Online -‐ 8am Sunday Worship Online. Sunday one -‐ Online -‐ 8am Sunday Messy Church. Sunday one -‐ St Nicholas’ -‐ 9am Morning Worship. Sunday one -‐ St Thomas’ -‐ 11am Morning Prayer. Wednesday one -‐ St Nicholas’ -‐ 9:30am MU Holy Communion. Sunday two -‐ Online -‐ 8am Sunday Worship Online. Sunday two -‐ St Nicholas’ -‐ 9am Morning Worship. Sunday two -‐ St Thomas’ -‐ 11am Holy Communion. Wednesday two -‐ St Thomas’ -‐ 9:30am Holy Communion. Sunday three -‐ Online -‐ 8am Sunday Worship Online. Sunday three -‐ St Nicholas’ -‐ 9am Holy Communion. Sunday three -‐ St Thomas’ -‐ 11am Morning Prayer. Wednesday three -‐ St Nicholas’ -‐ 9:30am Holy Communion. Sunday four -‐ Online -‐ 8am Sunday Worship Online. Sunday four -‐ St Nicholas’ -‐ 9am Morning Worship. Sunday four -‐ St Thomas’ -‐ 11am Holy Communion. Wednesday four -‐ St Thomas’ -‐ 9:30am Holy Communion. When a m onth has five Sundays or Wednesdays. Sunday five -‐ Online -‐ 8am Sunday Worship Online. Sunday five -‐ St Nicholas’ -‐ 9am Morning Worship. Sunday five -‐ St Thomas’ -‐ 11am Morning Prayer. Wednesday five -‐ St Thomas’ -‐ 9:30am Holy Communion. We ask that you inform us if you are going to attend one of the services. You can do this at Bedhampton.church/book or by phoning the office on 023 9245 0955. We hope the need to warn us will be removed shortly. If you have any questions contact the church office or Rev Max Cross. Edited and produced by the Churches of St Thomas and St Nicholas 20 www.Bedhampton.church
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