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2020-2021
    EXECUTIVE BOARD
     DANIEL WEINGER                                                               Table of Contents
       TEMPLE PRESIDENT
      RICHARD BREIT                Rabbi Reflections�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������3
VICE PRESIDENT OF ADMINISTRATION
                                   Cantor’s Corner���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 4
    ROBERTO BOLONA                 Lunch & Learn������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 5
        VP WAYS & MEANS
                                   Lunch & Learn������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 6
       DAVIA MAZUR
          VP OF RITUAL             From Our President���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������7
    BRITTANY MOHLER                TKAE Member Spotlight �������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������8
         VP MEMBERSHIP             Temple Sustaining Member�������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 9
    RICHARD GENDLER                New Members���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 10
     VP EDUCATION & YOUTH          Family Happenings�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 10
       JESSE LUBAR                 Rabbi Emeritus���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 11
           TREASURER               Religious School�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 12
   ADRIENNE KALTMAN                TKAE Hanukkah Scavenger Hunt��������������������������������������������������������������������� 13
      FINANCIAL SECRETARY
                                   Religious School Cookbook������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 13
        ERIN DERNIS                Youth Program�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 14
     RECORDING SECRETARY
                                   Kafty Social Action�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 15
                                   Women of Reform Judaism������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 16
 BOARD OF DIRECTORS                WRJ Events���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 17
  SETH SCHNEIDERMAN                Temple Friends���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 18
   LAURA ZATKOWSKY                 Temple Friends Events���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 19
    CARRIE BEST-LARY               Wine Tasting�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 20
       GABBY GUTT                  TKAE Hanukkah Online Celebration���������������������������������������������������������������� 20
     JUSTIN SCHMIDT                Life & Legacy������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 21
 JONATHAN STREISFELD               Bring TKAE Home for Hanukkah������������������������������������������������������������������������ 22
   JEFFREY WEINSTEIN               TKAE Pet Shabbat Service�������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 23
    EVAN GREENFIELD                Our B’Nai Mitzvah Kids�������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 23
     NEESA WARLEN
       STACY GOLD                  Contributions������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 24
        SUE SABAT                  In Memoriam������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 25
     JON AUERBACH                  Advertisers���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 26
       ROD FEINER                  Advertisers���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 27
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       SENIOR STAFF                Events Calendar������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������������ 30
   HOWARD NEEDLEMAN                Please Support Them ���������������������������������������������������������������������������������������� 30
          SENIOR RABBI
     rabbihowie@tkae.org
      MARK GOLDMAN
            CANTOR
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          DVIR WEISS
      EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
       dweiss@tkae.org
         STACEY KATZ
   EARLY CHILDHOOD DIRECTOR
        skatz@tkae.org
      VALERIA MICHANIE
   RELIGIOUS SCHOOL DIRECTOR
      vmichanie@tkae.org
         JOSH SIMON
        YOUTH DIRECTOR
       jsimon@tkae.org
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 RABBI DR. SHELDON J. HARR
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RABBI DR. EDWARD MALINE Z”L                                           2
 RABBI EMERITUS TEMPLE EMANU-EL
CHESHVAN/KISLEV 5781 - NOV/DEC 2020 - Temple Kol Ami ...
RABBI REFLECTIONS
A LITTLE LIGHT CAN DISPEL THE DARKNESS.
For everything there is a season—a time to die and a time to be born. With the arrival of winter’s
low dark sky, communities around the world look to the miracle of light as a sign of rebirth and a
source of hope. We celebrate Hannukah and the promise of new life, new miracles and hope as it
radiates from our homes into the world.

It is no coincidence that our festival of light comes during the darkest time of the year, when the
sun is the least visible and shining in the sky. It is during these days of darkness that we illumine
our homes with the lights of the hanukkiah, the 9 branched menorah. Our tradition tells us that
we light these lights as a reminder of the miracle of oil. As the temple was reconstituted by the
victorious Hasmonaeans, there was only enough consecrated oil to last for one day, but it lasted for
eight. Today we recall their miraculous victory over the Greeks, the blessing of Jewish sovereignty
and our faith with these lights.

However, we also know that with these lights we are called to rededicate ourselves and to be
reborn anew. The reconstituting of the temple and the lights of the Hannukah menorah that are
a symbol of this rededication of the temple, should be our call to action for each one of us. The
tradition is clear: everyone should light their own menorah as each one of us should find the hope
and promise of a personal rededication.

The time for rededication should not wait for redemption to come to us, we must pursue it. When
we glaze into the flames of the menorah candles, watching them burn, the beauty of the flames
dancing is a simple beauty. Just a flickering flame struggling to illumine a darkened world.
However, to make ourselves anew, to rededicate ourselves, isn’t so complicated. It just takes a little
light to dispel the darkness

To make light something has to be burned and transformed in the process. Let the brightness of
the Hannukah menorah illumine your soul so that you see through the darkness and see the world
and yourself more clearly. Then decide what and how we will use that eternal/internal light within
each of us to shine forever brightly.

Senior Rabbi

Rabbi Howard Needleman

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CANTOR’S CORNER

                  A PERSONAL NOTE WITH
                                    A UNIVERSAL MESSAGE.
                  The Babylonian Talmud discusses at great length the number of candles, order of lighting and
                  related customs of Hannukah. One opinion states that we start with eight candles and take
                  away one each night symbolizing the depreciating amount of oil left to burn in the eternal light
                  of the ancient Temple. Of course, the prevailing opinion is the tradition we follow today as
                  we increase one candle each night. Rather than dwelling on what we lack, we emphasize our
                  optimism, gratitude and joy! Essentially, this is the Jewish version of half full/half empty.

                  Personally 2020 has been a very challenging year. Moving on from a 24 year relationship has
                  taught me much and required me to grow exponentially rather than steadily. The same may be
                  said by the profound effects of the pandemic on our lives, both personally and professionally.
                  Overnight we transitioned to a virtual reality both in the workplace, school and our everyday
                  lives. Regardless of age or where we are in life, we’ve been catapulted into a new reality. We’ve
                  grown. We’ve adapted and found the silver lining.

                  This sense of optimism that characterizes the story of Hannukah is essential to our wellbeing
                  and future. Seeking happiness even in the face of life’s vicissitudes attracts others to our
                  energy, helps us grow, helps us turn the corner and embrace the best within us just as we
                  embrace better chapters, better times and appreciate our many blessings.

                  Cantor Mark Goldman
                  Co-Senior Clergy

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CHESHVAN/KISLEV 5781 - NOV/DEC 2020 - Temple Kol Ami ...
NOVEMBER

            THURSDAYS AT 1PM VIA ZOOM MEETING

NOV 5TH
 “LECH LECHA” A FOREIGNER IN A STRANGE LAND
 A PERSONAL REFLECTION:
 WHAT IT MEANS TO BE AN IMMIGRANT IN A FOREIGN LAND

 WITH VALERIA MICHANIE

NOV 12TH
  “SAMUEL 613” MOVIE AND DISCUSSION
  THE STORY OF SHMULI, A HASIDIC JEW IN CRISIS,
  TORN BETWEEN HIS COMMUNITY AND
  THE ROMANTIC POSSIBILITIES OF TRENDY
  EAST LONDON.
  NOMINEE: BAFTA 2016 BEST BRITISH SHORT FILM

  WITH CANTOR MARK GOLDMAN

NOV 19TH
  “THANKSGIVING”
  COME LEARN ABOUT THE JEWISH ROOTS OF
  THANKSGIVING AS WE CELEBRATE THIS
  AMERICAN HOLIDAY IN LIGHT OF CURRENT NEEDS
  TO BE PHYSICALLY DISTANT.

  WITH RABBI HOWIE NEEDLEMAN

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L e o n
                                          WITHRab bi

  Thursday December 3, 10, 17 At 1:00pm

   Chanukah: discerning between facts and folklore
Three sessions exploring the historical accuracy of the Chanukah account.
Take the opportunity to explore the historicity of the 2nd century BCE Chanukah
account and how it has evolved over the millennium to the story we observe in
the 21st century CE. Hear elements of the Book of Maccabees that you have never
heard or read before that describes the actual events that we have been
commemorating these past 2,185 years.

    Meeting ID: 861 9828 9610                           Click here to Join
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       Password: 6udH5X

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HOPE IS A GOOD THING...

                                                                                                                 FROM OUR PRESIDENT
                    Menorahs, latkes, dreidels, chocolate gelt, and presents. For many of us, these
                    are the first things that come to mind (not necessarily in that order) when thinking
                    about Hannukah. Yet the message of Hannukah goes much deeper. Hannukah not
                    only celebrates the miracle of the oil lasting eight days, but it is also, at its essence,
                    a celebration of resilience, faith, and hope. Judaism teaches us that even in the
                    darkest of times, there is always reason for hope.

                    This speaks to our resilience as a people. In times when so much was unraveling
                    before our eyes, hope was often the only thing keeping us going. It is something
                    deep inside us that tells us to look for better times around the corner. One of my
                    favorite movies is The Shawshank Redemption, which contains a line of dialogue that
Daniel S. Weinger   perhaps sums it up best: “Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things, and no
TEMPLE PRESIDENT    good thing ever dies.”

                    As fall turns to winter and we rapidly approach the festival of lights, this year, more
                    than any other I can recall, hope is at the forefront of my mind. I hope that by the
                    time you are reading this, we have a vaccine for COVID-19 or, at the least, know
                    for certain that one is just around the corner. I hope my family and friends stay safe
                    and healthy. I hope that we can stay united as a Jewish community despite outside
                    influences that are constantly threatening to tear us apart. Finally, at the risk of
                    sounding like a broken record, I hope that during these strange times we are living
                    through, you know that Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El is here for you and your families. I
                    hope. Happy Hannukah!

                    Dan
                    Daniel S. Weinger
                    President
                    Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El

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TKAE MEMBER SPOTLIGHT
GOLD FAMILY
Members of the Temple: 13 years
Stacy and Dave first joined the temple when their oldest
daughter, Morgan, was two years old and ready to start
preschool. Judaism had always been an important part of
Stacy and Dave’s lives and they wanted to instill the same
strong Jewish values in their daughter. Morgan graduated
from the early childhood program in 2010, the same year
that her twin sisters, Taylor and Kailey, were born. Morgan
continued her Judaic studies in the temple’s religious school
program and is currently an active member of the temple’s
KAFTY youth group.

Taylor and Kailey followed in Morgan’s footsteps by starting in the early childhood program
when they were two years old. They graduated from the early childhood program in 2015 and
are currently attending the temple’s religious school program and participating in youth group
activities. Taylor and Kailey are looking forward to attending Camp Coleman for the first time this
upcoming summer.

Stacy is a Penn State graduate and currently works for the Public Company Accounting Oversight
Board (PCAOB). In the Summer of 2018, she had the opportunity to travel with the temple on
the JWRP Israel Trip. In her opinion, there was no better way to experience Israel for the first
time! Stacy has been active in many temple committees throughout the years and was recently
appointed to the Board of Directors.
Dave is a University of Miami graduate. He is the co-owner of a Physical Therapy practice (Select
Therapy and Rehabilitation Services) in Tamarac.

Over the years, the Gold Family has built strong friendships with other temple members. They
celebrated Morgan’s Bat Mitzvah at the temple in 2018 and are looking forward to celebrating
many more important milestones in the upcoming years.

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Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El Sustaining Members
RABBI’S CIRCLE                                                                     Bruce & Marta Cole
Bill & Susan Matz                         Kenneth & Mara Wurtenberger              Dale & Elaine Farkas
Barry & Irene Stark                       Martin & Cindy Zackowitz                 John & Dori Fuller
                                          BENEFACTOR                               Joseph & Shelly Goldberg
COVENANT CLUB                             Gregg & Cindy Bibliowicz                 David & GiGi Greene
Louis & Melanie Glazer                    Leon Cohn                                Isidoro & Josefina Gun
Stanley & Pearl Goodman                   Glenn Davis & Meri Barash                Andrew Guttman
Lee & Claire Hager                        Gil & Lea Epstein                        Robert & Jenna Hague
Walter & Cheryl Katz                      Billy & Michelle Fischer                 Jordan Kaltman & Molly Ryan
Danny & Jodi Katz                         Richard & Harriet Greene                 Moises & Adela Katz
Steve & Diane Michaels                    Steven & Adrienne Kaltman                Robert & Bevly Kempler
Martin & Gail Press                       Norman & Diane Kronstadt                 Matt & Elise Lerner
                                          Brett & Mariel Landsman                  Richard & Shelley Lundy
TZEDAKAH CIRCLE                           Stewart & Michele Lapayowker             Jim & Davia Mazur
Saul & Beth Kravec                        Craig & Shari Packer                     Steven & Leah Nachman
Adele Stone & Jesse Diner                 Adam Rabinowitz & Sheryl Moore           Charlie & Joyce Pearlman
Ira & Penny Vernon                        Jose & Sue Sabat                         Joey & Debra Princz
Gregg & Abby Wilentz                      Seth & Terri Schneiderman                Robert Rivard & Alyse Gilbert
                                          Matthew Sherman & Heidi Finkelstein      Alan & Dora Lee Rosendorf
GOLDEN CHAI                               Ronald & Eva Weissberger                 Paul & Fern Schneider
Beverly Bachrach                                                                   Ronald Schwartz
Matt & Paula Carr                                                                  Robert & Susan Segaul
Matthew & Erin Dernis                     PATRON                                   Sheldon & Carmen Seltzer
James & Stacy Gale                        David & Sandra Farkas                    Bruce & Joann Silk
Jay & Shirley Gottlieb                    Warren & Laura Greenberg                 Joe & Risha Stern
Rabbi Sheldon, Fern, Bryan & Brenda Harr Jeffrey & Phyllis Kay                     Richard & Susan Warren
Calvin & Lori Helitzer                    Charles & Beth Lieber                    Daniel & Ashley Weinger
Andrew & Carrie Lary                      Jerold & Neddie Lynn                     Stephen & Melanie Weschler
Barry & Kim Lerner                        Rabbi Howie Needleman                    Walter & Susan Witte
Jesse & Jennifer Lubar                    Wayne & Jennifer Pollak                  Danny & Madelyn Zelman
Justin & Rachel Schmidt                   David & Molly Siegel
Bob & Susan Schneider
John & Karen Shiekman                     GUARDIAN
Herb & Norma Sonnenklar                    Abel & Amy Aronovitz
Howard & Julie Talenfeld                  Neal & Pamela Bodner
Denis & Linda Trupkin                     Roberto Bolona & Natalie Goshen
Robert & Marlene Uchin                    Richard & Marcia Breit
                                          Jeffrey Brezner & Sandra Block-Brezner
                                          Gary & Allison Burwick

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NEW MEMBERS
 Thank You For Joining The Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El Family
 Mel & Joann Krohn
 Lior, Margalit, Ariel & Daniel Hazan
 Aaron Krause
 Ryan, Chelsea, Natalie & Jack Scarnecchia

FAMILY HAPPENINGS
                                                         Please send births, engagement and wedding
                                                                                        Jan/Feb 8200
                                                             to swurtenberger@tkae.org by Dec 1, 2020

BIRTHS
Charlotte Rose Berger
Born September 10, 2020
7.7 pounds
20 inches
8:36am

    TKAE Unity Shabbat Services
                      Fridays at 6:30pm
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                             Passcode: 5VsWX6

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TURN, TURN, TURN.

                                                                                                     RABBI EMERITUS
                     As the seasons change, we prepare to mark our South Florida Winter – an
                     oxymoron to be sure. Preparing to celebrate Thanksgiving, then Chanukah,
                     to be followed by our secular New Year, we have this additional opportunity
                     to look back on the year 2020, in some manner with the same intentionality of
                     Rosh HaShanah and Yom Kippur.

                    In tune with that, I am reminded of a most favored Number One on “The
                    Billboard Hot 100” song from 1965 by The Bryds, entitled “Turn, Turn, Turn.”
                    The author of the lyrics of this song is attributed to King Solomon! What
                    commission the King must have collected! Look for the verses of this song in
DR. SHELDON J. HARR
                    the Bible: The Book of Leviticus (Ecclesiastes) Chapter Three. “To everything
   FOUNDING RABBI   there is a season and a time and place for every purpose under heaven.”
     EMERITUS
                     We can hope and pray that the coming season is an improvement over the
                     preceding 52 months. We pray for a season of health and well-being. We
                     give thanks on Thanksgiving for the times of goodness in the past. We give
                     thanks on Chanukah for the many blessings with which we have been blessed.
                     On the secular New Year in 2021 we give thanks that 2020 is behind us and
                     hopefuly a new and better and healthier day will dawn…Turn, Turn, Turn..

                     Dr. Sheldon J. Harr
                     Founding Rabbi Emeritus

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RELIGIOUS SCHOOL
                   PART OF THIS COMMUNITY
                                      My students often ask me if I pray... My answer is: I do, but not always in the same way
                                      or place.
                                      When I was young, I thought there was only one way to pray, fixed Prayer, and only one
                                      place where I could pray, my Shul.
                                      It took me several years to understand I can pray words from my heart (Blessings She
                                      V’ Lev) anywhere I am...
                                      Still, when praying as a community I enjoy reciting and chanting words together... it’s a
                                      powerful feeling that unites us.

                                      Nisim B’chol Yom is a morning daily prayer that thanks God for the daily miracles.
                                      I can assure you that reciting this prayer in my hometown is very different than reciting
                                      this prayer in Poland while visiting concentration camps. The power of the words
                   VALERIA MICHANIE   change based on the context we are in. I do thank God for waking up every morning,
                   RELIGIOUS SCHOOL   but imagine what it feels to recite this prayer in a place where people were hopeless
                       DIRECTOR       to see light.... where people needed miracles to survive...
                                      I remember the feeling of reciting this prayer in Israel. It was a powerful feeling to
                                      see all the miracles of the land and how this small country endures despite the many
                                      challenges it faces daily. Israel is a daily miracle.

                                      During these hard times when we are all trying to learn how to live in a pandemic, I
                                      do feel Nisim B’chol Yom is the Prayer that resonates with me the most... there are so
                                      many miracles we ignore because we are trapped in our realities, but praying brings
                                      relief to the soul and gives us a time to stop and appreciate our surroundings.

                                      As Hanukkah approaches, I invite you to reflect on the many daily miracles around
                                      us. May this be a time where we appreciate that we can still come together as a
                                      community to learn, pray, and be with friends.

                                      Chag Hanukkah Sameach,

                                      Valeria
                                      Valeria Michanie
                                      Religious School Director

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r TKAE Hanukkah Scavenger Hunt
             Sunday Dec. 6th at 9:00AM
         Open to all Youth Groupers, Gesher & Religious School Students
                               Pre K - 6th Grade
                     Your Adventure will start at TKAE,
                       where you will receive your
                          Scavenger Hunt Packet.
                        • Safe social distancing
                          • Each family will be in their own car

                    From More Info Contact Valeria or Josh

                                       5781

                                                         The TKAE religious school is creating our very
                                                         own cookbook and we would like all of you to
                                                         participate in making a delicious, delectable
                                                         family cookbook. It is easy to do. Pick out one,
                                                         two or even three of your favorite recipes that
                                                         your family enjoys and you would like to share
                                                         with the community.

                                                         Even a recipe passed down to you would be
                                                         amazing. L’dor v’dor. Feel free to share the story
                                                         behind the food. Please join in creating this
                                                         culinary delight that you and your family will
                                                         have for years to come! It is easy to do.

                                                         We are excited to try out your recipes!
                                                         For more info email: vmichanie@tkae.org

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YOUTH PROGRAM
                NEW OPPORTUNITIES
                       It’s hard to believe but Chanukah is almost here. Pretty soon we will be
                       lighting our Chanukiyot. One of our traditions is to light the candles using
                       a Shamash or a “helper” candle. We use that candle to be the light that
                       helps us to light all the rest of the candles.

                       As we looked for ways to keep our teens involved and connected despite
                       the current situation we created a new program. KAFTY’s Choose Your
                       Own Adventure was a way for our teens to choose ways that they felt
                       were important to them. Some of the choices include a creative arts
                       group, the ability to be mentored or have an internship with a member
                       of our congregation, a small group text study with the clergy and a group
                       focusing on Israel and battling Anti-Semitism. Another choice they have
                       is join a group focusing on Social Action. This group has become that
                       “Shamash” the helper(s) working to create light even in some of our
                       darkest days.

                       While the social action group is just getting started they have already
                       made a difference in our community and have plans for even more
                       projects that will do even more. They plan to have a collection for different
                       groups running throughout the year. We started the year with a collection
                       for Conine’s Clubhouse at Joe DiMaggio Hospital. Blake and Charli
                       Greenfield chaired the collection and recently dropped off the items that
                       were collected to help the families who stay there while a child is in the
                       hospital.

                       Currently under the leadership of Lola and Sophie Tabb we are collecting
                       gently used shoes to donate to In Jacob’s Shoes. They provide shoes
                       to South Florida Children in need. If you have any gently used shoes
                       specifically tennis shoes and cleats please drop them off at the Temple by
                       November 15th. This group is also working currently on organizing a park
                       cleanup and creating a program to connect teens with holocaust survivors
                       who are feeling especially isolated during the pandemic. I am so proud to
                       work with a group of teens that are giving back and truly creating light in a
                       world that so badly needs it.

                       Josh
                       Josh Simon
                       Youth Director

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HOPE, RESILIENCE & PERSERVERANCE
WOMEN OF REFORM JUDAISM
                                           The High Holidays are behind us and we now look forward to Hanukkah. It
                                           comes at a time when the days are shorter and the night skies are darker.
                                           Although the winter may seem bleak, the lights of Hanukkah shine as a
                                           beacon of hope, miracles and renewal.

                                           We all know the story of Hanukkah and the miracle of the oil lasting for eight
                                           days. It is also a miracle of the steadfastness of the Jewish people. We did
                                           not bow down to the Greeks and assimilate as they would like. Just a small
                                           band of Jewish warriors were able to defeat the Syrian Greek army and won
                                           the ability to freely practice their religion.

                                           So today’s Jews celebrate this victory and miracle by lighting the menorah
                                           for eight days. The purpose of the menorah is not to provide light during the
                          ELISE LERNER     dark days of winter, but to purely enjoy it for the light it sheds on us. But there
                           PRESIDENT OF    is one candle that stands out above all the other candles on the menorah,
                          WRJ/SISTERHOOD   the shamash. This candle has a purpose. It is the helper candle that guides
                                           us and helps provide the light to enjoy.

                                           Like the shamash, we need to provide light to those who cannot provide it
                                           for themselves. Especially now when so many of our friends are struggling
                                           with our “new normal”. Reach out to a friend, just to say hello. Be the light in
                                           someone’s life, to provide an ear to listen to if needed, or to give hope when
                                           all seems hopeless.

                                           The days are shorter and the nights are darker, but the lights of the menorah
                                           continue to shine. Enjoy them and remember our story of hope, resilience
                                           and perserverance.

                                           Elise
                                           Elise Lerner
                                           TKAE WRJ President

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TEMPLE FRIENDS   THE MENORAH'S SHAMASH REMINDS US TO SHARE
                 THE LIGHT WHERE IT IS MOST NEEDED
                                  Why is it our custom to use a “Shamash” candle to light the Hanukkah lights, but
                                  we don’t use a “servant candle” to light the Shabbat lights every week?

                                  And the short answer is that the Shamash, the ninth candle on a full Hanukkah
                                  Menorah, was created by the Rabbis to benefit the poor.

                                  As we light our Hanukkah Menorahs, passing the flame of the Shamash onto the
                                  increasingly numerous candles as the festival takes its course, we are urged to
                                  consider ourselves to be such a light. We are pressed by the flames to keep in
                                  mind the needs of the poor, the vulnerable, the needy, and the lonely in our midst.
                                  Whenever we share our own resources - our light - with those in need, we live up to
                                  the ideal expressed through the wisdom of our sages. That need and impulse are
                                  as vital today as they have been over the past 2,000 years.
                 Mark Horowitz
                 TEMPLE FRIENDS   So this year, let us be the “servant candle”. We can be the source of light shared in
                   PRESIDENT      places and with people where it is needed most, especially during the COVID-19
                                  pandemic.

                                  Happy Hanukkah to all of our community!

                                  Mark Horowitz						Jeffrey Weinstein
                                  President, Temple Friends				                         Immediate Past President

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Temple Friends Presents:

   “The Four of Us”
    Sunday, November 8th
                       at 10:30am
       This program will be presented virtually via Zoom.
                     there will be no charge.
           Please call Temple office at (954) 472-1988

 Click Here to Join Zoom Meeting
 Zoom Meeting ID: 821 3774 1007
 Passcode: 3ASdGR

Temple Friends
                          HANUKKAH PARTY

Sunday, December 6th at 12 Noon
   This will be a zoom event . There will be no charge.
       Please call Temple office at (954) 472-1988          Click Here to Join Zoom Meeting
                                                            Zoom Meeting ID: 821 3774 1007
                                                            Passcode: 3ASdGR

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Beginning December 10th
Join TKAE Virtually as we light a candle each night.
Each night’s candle lighting will be led by different members of our TKAE family

Friday Night December 11th Shabbat Hanukkah.
Thursday Night December 17th Movie Drive In and last night Hanukkah candle lighting

                                                              ...Stay tuned for more details!

 Virtual Wine Tasting
 Thursday, December 3rd
 7pm – 8pm

 Check the TKAE Connect
 for more details
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L’dor Vador

              From Generation to Generation
Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El is the center of our Jewish community where we celebrate the cycles and
seasons of our lives and the rhythms of the Jewish year. Together we have built meaningful and
enduring relationships with one another and the community around us. As a temple family, our
Jewish souls are nurtured at Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El, it is where we share our joys and find strength
and comfort in lives of holiness.

We are a welcoming Jewish community that has many doorways that welcome families and individuals
into their spiritual home. We are committed to life-long learning, tikkun olum – repairing our world
and the spiritual values that guide us and bind us together.

We are deeply committed to the perpetuation of the land and the people of Israel. In Israel we see our
ancestral homeland that once again is the living embodiment of our prophetic vision of a state that is a
light unto the nations of the world.

Our Legacy donors are members, like you, who are making a promise to our children, grandchildren
and generations to come that they will have a thriving Jewish community to embrace and enrich their
lives as Jews. They acknowledge the value, importance and centrality of our synagogue in the lives of
our congregants and choose to join in creating a legacy to ensure its future.

Demonstrate your love, devotion and connection to our congregation, our community and our future
by making a Legacy gift today!
          Please contact Rabbi Needleman at 954-472-1988 or rabbihowie@tkae.org ,
      or Life and Legacy Chair Saul Kravec at saulkravec12@gmail.com or 786-229-3718
                    to discuss becoming a Life21and Legacy Society member.
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           for Hanukkah
     Sunday, December 6th 9-11am

Hanukkah Survival Kit
Pick up your Hanukkah Survival Kit which includes:
   Hanukkah Chocolate gelt, candles, blessings,
     a how-to sheet, dreidels and much more!

        Complimentary to all members.

        Just drive by the main entrance
    Drop off Canned/Non Perishable Foods
        and/or toys for Kids in Distress

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OUR B’NAI MITZVAH KIDS
REID MICHAELSON - NOV 21ST, 10:15AM
Reid is in the 7th Grade at Brentwood Middle School in Brentwood, TN. Even though we moved away
from South Florida he is still connected to TKAE and his friends from South Florida. Reid loves baseball
and plays catcher.

His mitzvah project is South Florida Wildlife Center. Reid loves all animals, especially reptiles. The wildlife
center specializes in helping all wildlife so it’s an important cause for Reid.

LANDON MAX SMALLMAN - DEC 12TH, 10:15AM
Landon Max Smallman is a 7th grader at Indian Ridge Middle School in Davie, FL. He began his Jewish
education in the TKAE Early Childhood program at age 2. Landon LOVES the Miami Hurricanes, flag
football, and attending Camp Blue Ridge each summer.

For his mitzvah project, Landon and 9 other kids from Indian Ridge Middle raised money to put
together PPE baskets for the teachers, staff, and bus drivers at their school. These baskets included
masks, face shields, gloves, hand sanitizer, and gift cards. The kids wanted to put a smile on their
teachers’ faces for a safe return to school during the pandemic.

Landon is the great nephew of Fern Harr and Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El’s Founding Rabbi and Rabbi
Emeritus Sheldon Harr. His family is so proud of him!

JESSIE MADISON GROSS & KAYLA GILLIAN GROSS – DEC 19TH, 5:30PM
Jessie is in 8th grade and Kayla is in 7th grade at University School in Davie. They both began their
religious education at Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El in the early childhood program before their 2nd
birthdays.

Jessie is a former competitive gymnast who is now focusing on tennis. Kayla has been dancing since
she was 3 performing in many recitals as well as competitions. Both girls attend Camp Laurel South in
Maine and are looking forward to going back this coming summer.

PET SHABBAT (SHABARK SHALOM)
Friday night November 20 at 6:30 pm
      Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El invites all animal lovers
  to join us fur a special event! Shabbat is a special day for
the entire family- including our pets! Bring your furry (or scaly)
         friends to zoom as we celebrate Shabbat and
                    our beloved companions
                                Meeting ID: 832 9646 0008
                                Passcode: 5VsWX6

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WE ACKNOWLEDGE WITH THANKS
                                       YOUR THOUGHTFUL CONTRIBUTIONS

CANTOR’S DISCRETIONARY MUSIC FUND                                                                                        KOL AMI EMANU-EL HUNGER RELIEF FUND
Steven & Leah Nachman....................................................in memory of Rose Nachman                       Jeff Brezner & Sandra Block-Brezner............................. in memory of Lawrence Brezner
Nancy Cohen.......................................................................... in memory of Minnie Heller         Jeff Brezner & Sandra Block-Brezner..........................in memory of Bernice M. Susskind
Arlene Solomon...................................................................... in memory of Mel Solomon            Joann Krohn............................................................................in memory of Lillian Lerner
Dan & Ashley Weinger...................................... in honor of Hailey’s beautiful Bat Mitzvah                    Shelly & Joe Goldberg.......................................................in memory of Bessie Goldberg
Nancy & Stuart Feiner...............................................................in memory of Ronald Helf             Cookie & Lynn Davis........................................ in honor of Hailey Weinger’s Bat Mitzvah
Nancy & Stuart Feiner............................................................... in memory of Marvin Helf            Cookie & Lynn Davis..................................................................in memory of Sara Davis
Nancy & Stuart Feiner.................................................................in memory of Laura Helf            The Berman Family............................................................... in memory of Gary Antonoff
Nancy & Stuart Feiner................................................................... in memory of Joni Helf          Carole Friedman..............................................................in memory of Charles Friedman
Joyce & Charlie Pearlman................................ in honor of Denis Trupkin’s 75th Birthday                       Janet Redlo...........................................in wishing a speedy recovery to James Sterman
Jill & Rob Rickel.................................................................... in memory of Donald Hersh          Janet Redlo.................................................................. in honor of Nathan’s engagement
Betsy & Steven Kimmish......................................................in memory of Evelyn Meister                  Janet Redlo.............................................................................. in memory of Harry Redlo
Richard & Marcia Breit.........................................................in memory of Evelyn Meister
                                                                                                                         MARTIN & CORALIE B. HAGER EARLY LEARNING FUND
DARRELL SCOTT FAGELSON RELIGIOUS SCHOOL FUND                                                                             Stephen Levine.............................................. in memory of Harry Levine & Louis Tenner
Tara & Scott Slavin.................................................................. in memory of Larry Graber          Rob & Jill Rickel............................................... in memory of Abraham “Papa” Goldsmith
Ronald Shnider...................................................................... in memory of Arline Shnider         Rob & Jill Rickel......................................................................in memory of Morris Rickel
Heather Van Beber................................................................ in memory of Arline Shnider            Rob & Jill Rickel.............................................................. in memory of Marion Goldsmith
                                                                                                                         Stacey & Louis Katz......................................... in honor of Hailey Weinger’s Bat Mitzvah
ELIZABETH SHOSHANNA HARR YOUTH SCHOLARSHIP FUND
Cindy & Stephen Jacobs......................................................... in memory of Yetta Rowan                 MORTY & MONA ALBERT EARLY CHILDHOOD SCHOLARSHIP FUND
Robin & Marc Lurie.............................................................. in memory of Irene Reinstein            Francine Wiener......................................................................... in memory of Laura Katz
Delores Levy............................................................... in memory of Andrea Jill Konowitz
Anonymous...................................................... in honor of Denis Trupkin’s 75th Birthday                PRAYER BOOK DEDICATION FUND
Anonymous...................................................... in honor of Hailey Weinger’s Bar Mitzvah                 Renee & Stephen Goldenberg....................................................in memory of Morton Mattel
Anonymous........................................................in honor of Jordan Tolchin’s Bar Mitzvah
                                                                                                                         RABBI HARR DISCRETIONARY FUND
GENERAL FUND                                                                                                             Sandy Landers..................................................... in memory of Dr. Abraham Shechtman
David & Judy Herman.............................................................. in memory of Herbert Brill             Bernard Landers.............................................................. in memory of Sharlene Landers
Saul & Beth Kravec....................................................... in memory of Harriet Wiederhorn                Saul & Beth Kravec...................................................in honor of the birth of Aaron Linder
Dr. Stanley & Pearl Goodman............................................ in memory of Betty Goodman
Miriam Geller..............................................................in memory of Jeanette Greenbaum               RABBI NEEDLEMAN’S DISCRETIONARY FUND
Abby & Gregg Wilentz.......................................................... in memory of Frances Stiller              Steven & Leah Nachman...................................................... in memory of Joe Nachman
David & Sandra Farkas............................................................in memory of June Farkas                Dan & Ashley Weinger...................................... in honor of Hailey’s beautiful Bat Mitzvah
MIndy Siegel..................................................................in memory of Barbara Lieberman             Saul & Beth Kravec.......................................................in memory of Hyman Needleman
Rick & Shelley Lundy....................................................in memory of Barbara Lieberman                   Alan & Harriet Sherman........................................................in memory of Mitchell Redlo
Irwin Meister.........................................................................in memory of Evelyn Meister        Richard & Robin Abramowitz..............................................in memory of Dr. Peter Maslin
Richard & Marcia Breit.................................................... in memory of Arlene Navalance                 Cookie & Lynn Davis.....................................................in memory of Hyman Needleman
Roberta & Barry Schussel.................................................. in honor of the Weider Family                 Richard & Harriet Greene................................. in honor of Denis Trupkin’s 75th Birthday
Roberta & Barry Schussel......................................in honor of Jacquelyn starting college                     Linda S. Pevar........................................................................... in memory of Ira J. Pevar
Helene Keslinger............................................... in memory of Renee Seymour Keslinger                     Anthony & Joanne Pampena.........................................in memory of Hyman Needleman
Helen R. Spinrad.......................................................... in memory of Lorraine Moskowitz
Estelle Bitkower.............................................................in memory of Hyman Needleman                YOUTH GROUP FUND
Helen Cohen................................................................ in honor of a good doctor’s report           Linda Kurtz................................................................................ in memory of her parents
Ted & Ellen Sobo....................................................in honor of Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El                  Barry & Cheree Liebowitz...................................................... in memory of Rita Ginsburg
Pam & Michael Eisenberg.......................................................in memory of Edward Levy                   Jane & Lewis Fishman.................................................. in memory of Bernard Deutscher
Jeff & Susan Zaslow.............................................................in memory of Evelyn Meister
Lee & Misty Weinger................................................................in memory of Mark Stelnik
Harlan Kuritzky......................................................................in memory of Linda Kuritzky

HANNAH “HONEY” SCHWARTZ SENIOR FUND
Lawrence Posner.................................................................. in memory of Milton Posner

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IN MEMORIAM
         Sincere Condolences Are Extended To Our Bereaved Congregants
                           And Families Of The Late:
     Rita Ginsburg                             Wife of Edwin Ginsburg             Marvin Premer                Father of Cheryl Katz (Walter)
      Mother of Donald Ginsburg (Jennifer), Lynn Culbreath (Lee) and                                                Grandfather of Hannah
                                                Susan Morrison (Larry)
                      Grandmother of Bradley, Adam, Brian and Jay
                         Sister of Linda Brickman and Stanley Kaplan

     Barbara Lieberman                           Wife of Sidney Z’L
      Mother of Cheri-Lynn Diamond (Evan), Adrienne Maisel (James)
                                        and Scott Lieberman (Kim)
           Grandmother of Melissa, Adam (Cristina), Brian, Jonathan,
                                            Alexander and Zachary
                                     Great Grandmother of Sydney

                                                                                                                       AS OF OCT 16TH, 2020

REMEMBER & HONOR

      YOUR LOVED ONES
                   ZAYCHER TZADDIK LIVRAHCHAH
Jewish tradition impels us to especially remember our loved ones during
           special and significant times throughout the year.

The erection of a permanent Memorial Yahrzeit Plaque in the Sanctuary is a
                                                                                       RIGHT NOW IS A BETTER TIME
 most appropriate way to perpetuate their memory within the community.
                                                                                               TO MAKE PLANS
                              TREE OF LIFE
    Temple Kol Ami Emanu-El has commissioned a special "Tree of Life,"                     THAN WHEN IT HAPPENS...
   in order to give persons an opportunity to share special occasions in
                    their lives with their Temple Family.                            It’s important to select cemetery property that is
   It may be a Bar or Bat Mitzvah, Confirmation, or a Special Birthday or
        Anniversary. It may, as well, be a memorial to a loved one.                     right for you and your loved ones. Permanent
The magnificent Kol Ami Tree of Life, displayed in the main entranceway to           memorialization of your life and legacy is a lasting
 the Temple, is an appropriate way in which to mark whatever occasion is
                           meaningful to you.                                                   heritage for your descendants.

                                                                                    Temple Kol Ami Emanu-el is here for you to provide
                                                                                      discounted cemetery plots located at Menorah
                                                                                           Gardens in Southwest Ranches, FL.
                                                                                             For more information - please contact
                                                                                    Dvir Weiss at 954-472-1988 ext. 101 or dweiss@tkae.org

               For further information, please contact the
          Temple Office at 954-472-1988 or lpearlman@tkae.org
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