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Vol 8.. Issue 5 WALKING IN THE WAY AT CCSJ Fall 2020 Pastor’s Ponderings Dear friends, In my Thanksgiving Letter to the parish I referenced my visit to the emergency department and meeting a nurse who ended up knowing one of my very best friends from New Brunswick. Her spontaneous burst of gratitude in thinking about our mutual friend was such a perfect expression of thanks I had to write about it. While I was writing my letter, I knew what I had to do as soon as I was finished. I had to call my friends Albert and his wife Wandlyn. It was such a joy to speak with them. They have always been so kind to me. I have always felt like I could put my whole trust in them. I could trust them to be a lot of fun and very hospitable. Whenever, Esther and I dropped by their home they would welcome us with open arms and smiles and we would inevitably be laughing together. When Albert was my father’s curate (training priest) he and Wandlyn would often unannounced come by the house with a pizza and stay for hours into the night. We loved it. I could trust Albert to pray for me. In my first week at Wycliffe College I received a letter in the mail from him let- ting me know he was praying for me as I began my studies to be a priest. It meant a lot to me. I could trust Albert with my deepest concerns. One night I was driving home from a long day and I was very upset by a pastoral error I had made. I knew I needed to talk someone but I did not know who. Then I simply pulled over to the side of the road and called Albert. He listened to me and helped me get through my anxiety. I could trust Albert to speak clearly about God’s love and comfort in the worst moments. He preached at both my moth- ers and fathers funerals three weeks apart. Albert’s words brought comfort and hope to us. You may remember a long time ago there was a commercial for Canadian Tire trying to sell hockey equipment. It starred a boy named Albert. I can’t remember all of the details but the ending had all of the other kids yelling we want Albert, we want Albert. Well it was and is great to have Albert on my team. I have been so blessed to have a friend like Albert. In my preaching and teaching times lately, it seems that I have been emphasizing that Jesus is the King of the Kingdom of God and that as followers of Jesus we are loyal servants of this King and members of this Kingdom. If memory serves me correctly Bruce in his excellent sermon series on Mark’s Gospel, referencing Mark 1: 14-15 reminded us that the first message Jesus offered in his ministry was,” the time is fulfilled and the kingdom of God has come near, repent and believe in the good news”. I find it exhilarating to belong to a kingdom where love is the rule and peace will win out. But I think it is wonderful to remember that our king is also our friend. Yes, we belong to a phenomenal kingdom which will attain unimaginable glory in the end. But we as individuals will never be lost in the scope of the kingdom. Jesus the king is also Jesus our friend. On the night he was betrayed unto death Jesus said to them 1
that as the Father loved him so he for us, to the point where he would followers of Jesus. This is a kind and loved them. That is an amazing love lay down his life for us. This kind of forgiving friend. to say the least. And he called them friendship brings a deep and pro- As I have been writing this article, it to abide in him, to abide in him as a found joy to which St. Paul says re- has occurred to me that this has all friend,” I have called you friends be- joice in the Lord always and again I been said before or more accurately cause I have made known to you say rejoice. sung before, many times. What a everything that I have heard from my We trust in Jesus because he prays friend we have in Jesus with an father” for us. Awhile back I led a study on exclamation mark is such wonderful I think it is fair to say that the word Hebrews. I remember the delight I news. The King is our Friend. faith often means for us trust in Je- had relaying a key message of this Perhaps just a happy ironic sus. We can trust because Jesus is letter. We have a great high priest coincidence but as I was writing this our friend. If Albert could read this who has shared our sorrows, and article I received a call from a dear letter he would be embarrassed to temptations, and can therefore sym- friend in Napanne who wanted to no end and rightfully so because pathize with us but who also was simply say hi. We have not talked for human friendship can never com- blameless, holy and undefiled and a couple of months at least but it pare to Christ’s friendship but still so always lives to make intercession was good to connect and it like my friend Albert, there are many for us. confirmed to me that writing about reasons for this trust. We can trust We can trust Jesus when we have our friend Jesus was the right Jesus our friend to be there for us. erred and strayed away or have a message. We trust in him because he brings broken heart in times of personal My prayer for you is that you will be us joy. He kept the dancing and sing- failure or sadness. Jesus forgives us able in prayer, Scripture reading, ing going by turning the water into and gives us a clean slate entrusting worship, service for others or in wine at a wedding feast, and by eat- us with ministry of some sort. A fellowship with others be able to ing with folks in their homes. Jesus poignant moment in the Gospel sto- connect and give thanks for your referred to himself as the Good ry reflecting this kindness is when trusted friend Jesus. Perhaps the Shepherd and gatekeeper who Jesus asked Peter three times if he best way to thank Jesus is for us to knows the names and voices of the loved him. I am sure that Peter was be friends for others, sharing joy, sheep. That would be you and me. In devastated because he had denied prayers, forgiveness and comparison to a hired hand who even knowing Jesus three times. But compassion. could not care less and more specifi- in this act of compassion Jesus God bless cally to the thief who comes to steal, gives Peter the opportunity to say David kill and destroy Jesus came to give three times that he loved him and us life abundantly. He really cares entrusted him to care for the What a friend we have in Jesus All our sins and griefs to bear And what a privilege to carry Everything to God in prayer Oh, what peace we often forfeit Oh, what needless pain we bear All because we do not carry Everything to God in prayer Have we trials and temptations? Is there trouble anywhere? We should never be discouraged Take it to the Lord in prayer Can we find a friend so faithful Who will all our sorrows share? Jesus knows our every weakness Take it to the Lord in prayer 2
While we have ‘re-opened, we’ve never been closed’. Bruce Smith But now, as of September 20th, the actual doors It certainly wasn’t the year we anticipated. Life is full of CCSJ opened again for Sunday morning of surprises. And while we didn’t see this coming, we worship, with various limitations and covid-19 also knew that while congregations may be ‘locked precautions securely in place. As with the out’, the Gospel cannot be contained. foodbank, we have oodles of people to thank for making this a reality. Much work has gone into So the Bible Studies, the teaching programs, the this, and much prayer and reflection. prayer meetings, the Café Church, TNT, the youth and children’s ministries, Refugee meetings, Stonegate Meanwhile, we will continue this ‘mixed Circle of Friends Gathering and the actual morning economy’ approach to Sunday morning worship, worship services all continued, online. both in person and online. And the study programs will continue online for the time being, Additionally, while we could not actually go into the due to the understandable restrictions and Keele Correctional Center as per usual for ministry, concerns due to the pandemic. we could still send in meals and clothing and words of hope and affirmation via the Chaplain. Likewise with In all of this, it may encourage us to remember our efforts with The Dale Ministries: hundreds and that when Paul was imprisoned in Rome, the hundreds and hundreds of muffins were delivered church continued to grow and flourish. He simply from CCSJ members, along with oodles of excellent had to find a new way to minister. He did it clothing for people in need. And support for the through letter-writing (what we know as epistles). children being sponsored by World Vision and 2000 years later, we continue to be ministered Compassion Canada through Café Church continued, to by Paul through those letters. Every crisis is a thanks to a little jar in the actual Café. People from all gospel-opportunity. This one is no exception. walks of life have contributed towards helping care for these little ones in Kenya and Columbia. And what can be said about the FoodBank: it never skipped a beat. Some ministries simply cannot be done ‘online’. How can we ever begin to thank each and every volunteer who has helped to keep these wheels turning? Words do not come close. 3
A Prayer for Joy and Hope Father, please restore to me the joy of Your salvation. Remove the spirit of heaviness from me, and refresh me with a spirit hope. Please grant me joy and peace, and renew my strength. Protect me and my family from trouble, Lord. And give us a song of praise for You. Amen. Let your unfailing love surround us, Lord, for our hope is in you alone. 4
Remembering Roy Bulgin On Aug 31st 2020 Christ Church St. James lost a true friend and in particular he shared a very large portion of my life. I met Roy when our family first joined what was St. James at the time. He rolled into the camping weekend in his small Boler (small camping trailer) along with his wife Nancy, daughter Leslee and his yellow lab Nugget. From that day forward we developed a very strong bond. Roy was originally from Cornerbrook Newfoundland and one of his first jobs was that he and his father installed awnings. During his working years in Toronto he was the Chief Financial Officer of Toronto Western Hospital and served also at Riverdale Hospital. One of his passions was his love of animals. It started off with horses and in his younger years Roy could be found in many rodeos. He was very proficient in roping. He entered many com- petitions in the duo calf roping event. His partner would have to rope the head and Roy’s challenge was to rope the back feet. He never did make a living out of that. He kept his saddle right up to a couple of years ago. The highlight of our relationship was putting on hundreds of kilometers in his canoe in all types of weather. Here we experienced the true beauty of God’s creation and were blessed in seeing all kinds of wild life including Moose, Beaver, Otter , Bear and Great Horned Owls. He was very difficult to stump in naming a bird. One fond memory was sitting in the canoe and watching, very quietly ,a cow Moose and her baby, less than a week old, just grazing in front of us, less than five metres away. Not all trips went smoothly as I remember one time waiting on shore for five hours because the wind was so strong it actually pushed you in reverse. Roy had a keen sense of humour. If he was complimented on having come up with a good idea he would say” I am an endless source of useless information”. If he was lifting something that was particularly heavy he would say I am strong like bull, dumb like street car. He would look at you and out of the blue would say “Do you know Gord , if your nose runs and your feet smell you were probably built wrong”. You could always see Roy around the church but rarely in the church proper. Ever since I have known him he always put others first. From helping out with numerous church projects to being a fixture in volunteering at the food bank he was always there with a smile on his face and never wanting anything in return. He was the same in his neighbourhood as well. There have been hundreds of times when I would phone him up an say can you give me a hand with this or that and 100% of the time his reply was “Sure Enough”. If you could create a friend by using a mold you would use his mold. I am sure that he is being taken care of very well now and the wind will always be at his back. With great respect Gord Glandfield 5
BABIES R US...and more! Yetka Catherine Elizabeth Amparo Dionisio Eloise Mei Dykeman 4 Oct 2020 4 Sept 2020 5 Sept 2020 Peyman, Mehrhoush and Sammy Max, Anne, Ru Jon, Yenny, Eden Food Bank Birthdays Marg and John Jim and Elma LaForce 72nd Wedding Anniversary 6
Studio CCSJ: the beat goes on ...and on, and on, and…. Friends, 7 months ago we never considered creating a little weekly worship video online. But then along came the pandemic, and in a flash Jeff Coatsworth grabbed a camera, Pastor David grabbed a Bible and Bruce grabbed a guitar. We dived in, having no idea where it may lead. But what has resulted? We have been honored to welcome and connect with many new friends, some who have had a living faith in Christ for quite some time, and others who just kindly joined us like looking through a window. Our hearts desire is to truly ‘be there’ with each and every person who has taken the time to ‘be there’ with us in this way. We believe, with all our hearts, that Jesus is inviting people to come and follow him, even through this little weekly video. And we believe people are hearing Jesus’s call to follow. As of Sept 20th, we are blessed with an additional weekly offering online, as the morning service is broadcast live. Please pray that the ‘seed falls upon good ground’ each week. May those who share a living faith in Christ be encouraged to ‘keep close’. And for those who are simply curious or won- dering, may seekers become finders and outsiders become in- siders. May the Good Shepherd find the lost sheep, and bring them home rejoicing. Amen. 7
CCSJ joins in the mission During the summer, we held a TNT online (Tuesday Night Together). It proved to be the best attended gathering we had online thus far. Our guest for the evening was EMILY SLOTEGRAAF. Emily is working with ‘Fight4Freedom’. A glance at the work: PURPOSE: Their purpose is to fight sex trafficking in our cities, nations, and world MISSION: To seek out individuals affected by sex trafficking and connect them with support, premised on biblical principles of love, patience, and compassion To protect the rights and dignity of individuals who are impacted by sex trafficking To collaborate, engage in dialogue and partner with other national stake- holders and agencies that directly or indirectly have a passion to help indi- viduals affected by sex trafficking To advocate for changes and support upcoming policies that directly or indirectly have an impact on seeing sex trafficking eradicated in the world To provide preventative measures that will help individuals understand their identity, value, and self worth as well as provide that support for those who are still in situations of trafficking/exploitation Following the meeting, a number of parishioners expressed interest in helping with this courageous work by creating ‘gift bags’ for women who are ensnared as street workers, massage parlors and/or strip clubs. Under the leadership of SIEW WONG, a team is now preparing gift bags to be used by volunteers as a means of opening conversations and relationships with some of the women involved. We are reminded that it only takes the slightest opening for light to shine through. We pray that through these kind and courageous efforts to connect with women, freedom will be sought and found. For more information about the role of CCSJ in this ministry, please contact Siew Wong directly at swwong44@yahoo.ca. do not fear, for I am with you, do not be afraid, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand. Isaiah 41:10 8
CCSJ and Restorative Justice Housing, Ontario (RJHO) Our part began a few years ago through the monthly men’s break- fast program. 12 men volunteered to help bring meals into the Keele Correctional Center and to befriend the men inside. During this pandemic, we have not been able to actually take in meals. However, monthly “Pizza Extravaganza Nights” have be- come the norm, as the men and other parishioners have fi- nanced an amazing ‘all you can eat’ pizza night for the residents and the staff. A most recent response to such a night: K: “thanks so much for the awesome pizza dinner – there was more than enough for everybody” L: – “yum, thanks!!” G: – “thanks to the chaplain and the church, very kind” F: – “we appreciate everything that the church does for us” “we don’t get many treats here – just from you” S: (staff worker). – “thanks so much, what a great help” And at the time of writing this article, an October meal plan is begin- ning to take shape for Thanksgiving. All this is very good, and we are thankful. But the news is even better: a home for men being released from prison is now up and operating in our neighbourhood. An open house is on the horizon for our volunteers. They have also requested we dedicate the building in the near future. “He comes to set the captives free”. We give God praise for each and every opportunity to be involved as a parish in Restorative Justice. 9
CAFÉ CHURCH Challenge: how to maintain a Café Church community without a Café. As with most of our programs since March, CCSJ has resorted to ‘Zoom’ for online ministry and teaching. The Café Church has been no exception. The joy is to welcome men and women to share in the teaching aspect of the Café Church each month, including Jon Dykeman (Chaplain to Dental and Medical Students), Jonathan Clarke (Threshold Ministries), Andrew Ironside (with Youth Unlimited in our area) and Pete Nojd (with The Dale Ministries, Parkdale). We gather for fellowship, sharing in Scipture, music from Ellen and Philip Shilton and Arthur Clark, teaching, thanksgiving and prayer. Additionally, the Café’s commitment to continue to support two little children in Columbia and Kenya is holding steady, thanks to a jar at Big Guy’s Little Coffee Shop set aside for this purpose, and the generosity of many others. A letter from one of those children is below. Where do we go from here with Café Church, in a pandemic? And for how long? We don’t know. For the immediate future, it looks like we will not be able to gather in person due to the necessary restrictions on numbers. We are concerned for those members who are not comfortable with computers and are not joining in for Café Church online as a result. We deeply appreciate your prayers concerning the challenges ahead. Join us (on zoom) for An Evening with Jane Anne @ Café Church on the Lakeshore. Thursday October 22nd 7pm Watch for Link information in ‘Plugged In’, or contact Bruce Smith directly (rbsmith055@gmail.com) 10
A THOUGHT from Darryl Dash (our friend at Liberty Grace, Liberty Village) Sitting in a prison cell in Rome, about to die, Paul asked his friend Timothy for a care package. “Do your best to come to me soon … Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is very useful to me for ministry … When you come, bring the cloak that I left with Carpus at Troas, also the books, and above all the parchments.” 2 Timothy 4:9, 11, 13) Paul was ready to die, but he knew what would bring him comfort: friends a cloak for warmth Books Not a bad care package. We’re called to suffer, but thank God that he sends us gifts to comfort us on the way. Our friends, warm clothes, and good books are blessings from God. Praise God for his gifts like these in challenging times. A QUOTE “He is inspired, and yet he wants books! He has been preaching at least for thirty years, and yet he wants books! He had seen the Lord, and yet he wants books! He had had a wider experience than most men, and yet he wants books! He had been caught up into the third heaven, and had heard things which it was unlawful for a man to utter, yet he wants books! He had written the major part of the New Testament, and yet he wants books! … Paul cries, ‘Bring the books’—join in the cry.” (C. H. Spurgeon) Editor’s Note: all the more reason to make full use of our library at CCSJ and our Right Now Media resource of over 20,000 videos. The Dale Ministries We have appreciated trying to find a way to ‘be there’ with our friends at The Dale Ministries all summer long. This has meant regular ‘Muffin Patrol’ runs (as a great team from the parish has provided oodles of muffins to help supplement a breakfast program). It has also meant car-loads of clothing at times. This is a delicate work in Parkdale…a ministry without an actual building to operate from on a daily basis. The Anglican Church of Epiphany and St. Mark has kind- ly provided much-needed space to prepare meals and offer assistance on a weekly basis in the area. But as with many street-based outreach ministries at this time, the challenges are increasing. As winter approaches, we can only imagine the needs ahead. CCSJ takes this relationship seriously with The Dale Min- istries. We will continue to ask them how we might best assist them in their ongoing mission. Please watch this space over the coming weeks and months. 11
Helping Mongolia’s Children During the Pandemic Peter Patterson World Vision, the largest Christian NGO in the world, They are delighted with their new country of Canada, has been active in providing assistance for children in but most have friends and family back in Mongolia, Mongolia for several decades – and as one would some of whom in rural parts still live in tent-like yurts – expect, the Covid 19 pandemic has simply made this an example of which you can see in the accompanying more challenging. photographs, being built in the CCSJ back-forty! Mongolia is located between China and Russia, two Although Mongolia does not have a strong public health countries greatly affected by the pandemic – Mon- system, with few ventilators, and a hospital capacity golia’s quite porous border with China extends for that could quickly be overwhelmed, quick action to con- 4,600 kilometres, and was closed to travel very early trol spread of the virus has kept the pandemic under in the pandemic timeline. control. As is the case in other similar countries, these Mongolia’s population of slightly more than 3 million very actions of closing schools, limiting travel, etc. have people has very distinct rural and urban areas, with a created collateral consequences that negatively affect movement toward urbanization creating larger districts the most vulnerable children – an inability to dispense with vulnerable populations near Ulaanbaatar the usual vaccines for prevention of other fatal infec- (the major city) and other urban areas. tious diseases, the inability to make available through the school system meals that sustain the health of At CCSJ we are blessed with many members from children in vulnerable families, loss of educational op- Mongolian with differing backgrounds of having lived in portunity for girls and young women, etc. rural and in urban settings. Many people in this community relocated from rural areas and cannot afford to register in Ulaanbaatar. As a result they are ineligible for social services and benefits. Almost 40% of families in Khan Uul live in extreme poverty, often on as little as $5 a month, creating challenging conditions for children's healthy development. In response to the pandemic, World Vision is working in 15 provinces and 9 districts of Mongolia with the poorest households in both rural and urban areas to counter these consequences, and has distributed cash support, emergency food, and hygiene kits to more than 7,000 families. To lessen the risk of family violence, World Vision has also developed and distributed positive parenting and stress management materials to these families. Our own Mongolian members, fired up by the Good News of Christ’s love, have worked with evangelistic fervor to assist other newcomers to Canada from many different countries, as well as providing humanitarian support to those back in Mongolia. Just as we have accelerated our CCSJ Food Bank offerings to assist local Toronto vulnerable families during the pandemic, we all want to do the same for God’s children living in even less acceptable circumstances – and here we have an opportunity to achieve that through World Vision in Mongolia. 12
Thursday Morning Bible Study….a faithful joyful bunch! Neither rain nor snow, sleet or hail ….or even a pandemic! This bus has kept rolling all the way along, even through the summer months. The Thursday morning Bible Study is a joy for the 10-15 people signing on each week. And here is the great news: like most of our groups (if not all) the door is wide open for those who may wish to link in for the first time. All the is required: one hour of your day and a Bible. We hope many more of our parishioners may be able to take the time to join in with David at 11am each Thursday morning. ReLaunching: The following groups have started up again after a short hiatus. Jump on Zoom, via laptop, ipad or telephone and join in God Coffee and me Matthew and Me Watch For The current Pilgrim course just finished, but watch for updates on the start of a new session Wise Words from Mother Teresa Every time you smile at someone, it is a gift to that person. Some enter your life as blessings, others as lessons. If we want to love we must learn to forgive. If you cannot feed 100 people, then feed one. If you judge people you have no time to love them. If you want to change the world, love your family. Peace begins with a smile. 13
The Pilgrim Course – My Experience Saiyona Ghosh My parents were successful in bringing me up with a secular environment at home and till 10th grade, I also attended a convent school. Although growing up, I have been familiar with Jesus Christ, the prayers and hymns but have always been alien to a lot of the granular concepts. Almost a year and a half back when I married my husband who is a Christian, I was made to feel by many that religion would be the biggest bone of contention between the both of us, given our different religious upbringings. To have a social ceremony at my husband’s Church, I also had to go through a certain process in the name of God, but I felt rather conflicted since I did not have the correct understanding of it. For me, the basic understanding was that God brings us together and not divide. A lot of open discussions with Jaison (my husband) made me realize that our practices, our concepts of God, love, hope, and religion are all essentially the same. The interpretation was just flavored differently. I first chanced upon Christ Church St. James when I first moved to Toronto in September 2018. I used to live in the next lane and found myself walking past the Church every day while on my way to work at the nearby Starbucks. During one of those walks, on my way back from work, Jaison and I walked into the Church on a Saturday afternoon and met the Reverend David Smith for the first time. Thus, began a few relationships – one with David and one with Christ Church St. James. From there on, every interaction with David has only made me feel positive and accepting of Christianity. The way he talks about Jesus is so relatable that I feel less of an alien now. I took up the Pilgrim Course this year as suggested by David and experience has made me only more positive. The course has helped in removing the conflict that was there in me and helped to view Christianity in a positive light. I also benefitted from the interactions with the others who also participated in the course. The experiences that Ellen and Ann shared made me feel that I was no different in some of my thoughts around life in general. The occasional quirky one-liners from Rob and Pete taught me that one can have a sense of humor while being in a religious setting – it does not always have to be all so serious. The most important realization of it all – the people who we allow to surround us can make or break our concept of God, religion, love and hope and I am grateful to have found the right kind through Christ Church St. James. 14
International Justice Seminar Registering for Jesus & Justice: The Relentless Pursuit of Justice. We are living at a time when there is a great need to grow deeper in the understanding of what Jesus has to say about justice. We believe that this online experience will help all of us come closer to the message of justice that Jesus proclaimed and lived. Here are a few things you should know about this year’s conference: First of all, we encourage you to prepare for the conference by reading the scripture passage that is foundational for this year’s theme. In Luke 18:1-8, Jesus tells the story of a widow who is seeking justice and the relentless attitude she has in that pursuit. Read the passage and think about what Jesus is emphasizing. We want to connect with you as much as possible leading up to, during and after this year’s event. We have a Facebook group where you can meet other participants, share reflections on the Luke 18 passage and post questions for the presenters of the confer- ence. Questions directed to the presenters will be asked by the emcee on October 17 during a live Zoom panel discussion. The pre-recorded video sessions will be available on our IJM Canada website from October 15-17, 2020. You can watch them in any order at your own pace. You will receive an email reminder with an exclusive link in October where you can watch the videos. You will also receive an email in October with a Zoom link to watch and participate in the live panel discussion with our presenters on October 17. Please share about the conference. Register at IJM.ca/Jesus-Justice using the hashtag #JesusandJustice2020. We look forward to being virtually with you on October 15-17. With relentless hope, The IJM Canada team 15
Our Library and Right Now Media: - what I have been learning By Quilene Reyes and Muriel Henderson As I was glowing about a video conference on Right Now Media, a question came up I thought I would like to share in the next issue of Walking in the Way. Here goes: the passage is Romans 8:1-11 but we are to focus on this one verse, namely Romans 8:1 "There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." The question: “What it would look like if you truly believed Romans 8:1?” My answer: the very same thing I've always wanted, namely to live each day in Peace, Joy, Love, Happiness; - basically to consciously live in the Kingdom of Heaven on Earth. Another question the video conference asked: “How does the World see us (Christ Followers}?” I think the Holy Spirit is shouting in my head this truth: yes, we are broken; we are vulnerable. And the only one that can save us is Christ Jesus. Our call is to speak and show our devotion to Christ, in honesty, humility and with grace. Quilene Reyes Editor’s Note: close to 70 of our parishioners have now taken hold of this free resource with Right Now Media. If you are interested, please open our CCSJ website, go to our Library page, and follow this to the Right Now Media link. If you would like to borrow a library book here is the process for this. Borrowing -email your request to Sandra on the CCSJ email -your requests will be forwarded to Muriel -Muriel will pick the items requested, sign out to you and deliver to Sandra -Sandra will let you know the items are ready for pick up at the church. -We will need contact information name, phone #, email, street address on pick up Sandra is in the office Tuesday to Friday. As the church is locked most of the time please arrange with her approximately when you will come for pick up. Email address is:christchurchstjames194@gmail.com phone # 416-251-8711 Returning Please keep in mind the usual limit of 4 weeks on borrowing books and return on time! Books can be returned by drop off to the church office or church mailbox. Please leave a message at the church phone # if there is a drop off so it can be retrieved quickly. There will be a 5 days hold on all returned books before re-shelving or signing out again to someone else, as a COVID protection strategy. A final note: We are working at having online browsing access very soon to our library data! We will let you all know via a Plugged In email once this is functional!!! 16
CCSJ LIBRARY UPDATE Muriel Henderson Last issue I mentioned that we have a number of books donated by Adele Hartman's family. I have added what we can use to our library collection and have some books still remaining. I want to give CCSJ members who would like to have some of these books to make a choice of any that you would be interested in having. Due to COVID we can't display for browsing and taking at church in person so here are photos of the books & titles for you to see. If you are interested please let Sandra (at the office) know and she will arrange to have the librarian connect with you. 17
For many of us the limits we have had placed on us lately have given us extra time and the possibility of discovering a different pace. I have picked a few books that we have in the library that might be helpful in discovering some new ways of being and growing as Christians that we can take with us for the long term as well as just in this COVID time. I have enjoyed other books by Alan Fadling and this books seems to be relevant to us now whether we are in the fast lane still or disoriented by too much time and not knowing how to function in a new set of circumstances. (from the back cover)The 2014 Christianity Today Book Award of Merit Winner (Spirituality) “I am a recovering speed addict.” Beginning with this confession, pastor and spiritual director Alan Fadling goes on to describe his journey out of the fast lane and into the rhythms of Jesus. Following the framework of Jesus’ earthly life, Fadling shows how the work of “unhurrying” ourselves is central to our spiritual development in such pivotal areas as resisting temptation, caring for others, praying and making disciples. Here is a book that affirms that we are called to work and to do work. Productivity is not a sin―it is the attitudes behind our work that can be our undoing. So how do we find balance between our sense of calling and the call to rest? An Unhurried Life offers a way. (from the back cover) CCSJ library has Growing Strong in the Seasons of Life by Chuck Swindoll as one volume or as 4 large print volumes each dealing with one Season. Each 3 month section of 12 readings can be read in any order relevant to you. Easy to pick up and read short sections as needed, this is a very helpful book. What season of life are you in? Are you experiencing a winter of discouragement blowing like an icy wind through your soul? Or do you feel the exuberance of spring renewal, the lazy warmth of summer rest? Perhaps the winds of change have brought an autumn of reflection in your heart. Chuck Swindoll offers 144 devotional readings that take you through each season of the year, challenging and encouraging you to discover what's truly important in your own life. Take time to deepen your roots in the soil of God's love and grace. Growing Strong in the Seasons of Life is a devotional companion that helps you grow closer to God through every season of life, in every condition of the heart. (from good reads online review) 18
Spiritual Rhythm: Being with Jesus in Every Season of your Soul by Mark Buchanan, a highly regarded Canadian author also uses the idea of “seasons” in discussing spiritual growth. It is quite different in it's format. Here is the online review from Good Reads “Abide in me,” Jesus tells us, “and you will bear much fruit.” Yet too often we forget that fruit needs different seasons in order to grow. We measure our spiritual maturity by how much we do rather than how we are responding to our current spiritual season. In Spiritual Rhythm, Mark Buchanan replaces our spirituality of busyness with a spirituality of abiding. Sometimes we are busy, sometimes still, sometimes pushing with all we’ve got, sometimes waiting. This model of the spiritual life measures and produces growth by asking: Are we living in rhythm with the season we are in? With the lyrical writing for which he is known, Mark invites us to respond to every season of the heart, whether we are flourishing and fruitful, stark and dismal, or cool and windy. In comparing spiritual rhythms to the seasons of the year, he shows us what to expect from each season and how embracing the seasons causes our spiritual lives to prosper. As he draws on the powerful words of Scripture, Mark explores what activities are suitable or necessary in each season—and what activities are useless or even harmful in that season. Throughout the book, Mark weaves together stories of young and old, men and women, families, couples, and individuals who are in or have been through a particular season of the heart. As Mark writes, “I pray that this book meets you in whatever season you’re in, and prepares you for whatever seasons await. I pray that it helps you find your voice, your stride, your rhythm, in season or out. Mostly, I pray that you, with or without my help, find Christ wherever you are. And that, even more, you discover that wherever you are, he’s found you.” ( from the online Good Reads review) Another book by Mark Buchanan I'd suggest is The Rest of God: Restoring Your Soul by Restoring Sabbath. This is worthwhile considering what Sabbath could look like in the midst of our COVID circumstances. Widely acclaimed author Mark Buchanan states that what we've really lost is "the rest of God-the rest God bestows and, with it, that part of himself we can know only through stillness." Stillness as a virtue is a foreign concept in our society, but there is wisdom in God's own rhythm of work and rest. Sabbath is elixir and antidote. It is a gift for our sanity and wholeness--to prolong our lives, to enrich our relationships, to increase our fruitfulness, to make our joy complete. Jesus practised Sabbath among those who had turned it into a dismal thing, a day for murmuring and finger-wagging, and he reminded them of the day's true purpose: liberation-to heal, to feed, to rescue, to celebrate, to lavish and relish life abundant. The gift of Sabbath is essential to our full humanity and faith, says Buchanan. Far from being some starched and dour day only to be endured, Sabbath is a day wide and bright, brimming with laughter, enough to lend beauty to all our other days. Readers will be changed forever by this pivotal book. (from Good Reads' online site) 19
Over 70? 12 Tips to Consider. - a person reflects on aging I asked one of my friends who has crossed 70 & is heading to 80 what sort of changes he is feeling in himself? He sent me the following very interesting lines, which I would like to share with you .... #1. After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children, my friends, now I have started taking care myself as well. #2. I just realized that I am not “Atlas”. The world does not rest on my shoulders. #3. I now stopped bargaining with vegetables & fruits vendors. A few pennies more is not going to burn a hole in my pocket but it might help the poor fellow save for his daughter’s school fees. #4. I pay my waitress a big tip. The extra money might bring a smile to her face. She is toiling much harder for a living than me #5. I stopped telling the elderly that they've already narrated that story many times. The story makes them walk down the memory lane & relive the past. #6. I have learned not to correct people even when I know they are wrong. The onus of making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection. #7. I give compliments freely & generously. #8. I have learned not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt. Personality speaks louder than appearances. #9. I remain cool when someone plays dirty to outrun me in the rat race. I am not a rat & neither am I in any race. #10. I have learned that it's better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. My ego will keep me aloof, whereas with relationships I will never be alone. #11. I have learned to live each day as if it's the last. After all, it might be the last. #12. I am doing what makes life meaningful. I am responsible for making the most of each day. Gratitude is a choice. You can be thankful at any time; just choose to be! Why do we have to wait to be 60 or 70 or 80, why can't we practice this at any stage and age.... 20
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Jane Anne Murray: a pillar of cloud by day My parents John and Sheila Murray came to CCSJ I had settled into High Park living. When my mother around 1990 after our home church- The Church of the couldn’t get up my front stairs to my house in 2012, I Epiphany - amalgamated with Saint Mark’s to become sold and moved into the area - Mystic Pointe. Lo and Epiphany Saint Mark’s in Parkdale. behold I could walk to church again. As a baby in a bassinet, I attended The Church of the For the last three years I’ve been saying to myself that I Epiphany from age 1 week...Church was our life and still moved into the area to be with my parents. Since they is. We worshipped together as a total family, including have not lived or been in the area for the last seven the grandparents, up until 1981 when three out of four years, I started to position myself to move closer to my passed away at the same time. family and two nephews. I started looking three years ago. Finally in March I found the condo and town I We were used to driving a distance into church and wanted to retire to: Elora! My brother moved into that other activities all week long. There was no youth group area three years ago from Oakville and has been at church the Epiphany when I was a teenager, so we attending Saint Johns Anglican. I may consider formed a youth singing group called Solid Foundation. auditioning for the choir there. We sang our way around the province at various Anglican churches. While my dad is still in Kipling acres (until we move him to Wellington Terrace in Fergus) I will be back-and-forth In 1990 after living in the states for a number of years to the city frequently. and attending Spring Garden Baptist Church upon my return in 1981, we all decided to worship as a fami- I have rebuilt my 42 year practice of Marriage and Family ly together again. We chose Christ Church Saint James. Therapy using my new postal code and focussing on Kitchener, Cambridge, Elora, Fergus, Orangeville and the I remember telling the pastor at the time (Merv Mercer) surrounding smaller towns. I’m so excited to be able to that I just wanted to attend, take it all in, and reacquaint continue to help people change their lives and rescript myself with the Anglican Church. I was invited into a their stories. fellowship study known as “the Salt Group”. I’ve attend- ed since in 1991. I am very grateful for the support, Family is always family. CCSJ is family and will remain so fellowship, learning and meetings that we have had over in my heart. Thank you! the years, sharing our spiritual journeys and growing together....and eating! Highlights of 30 years: * Easter vigils in the middle of the night on Saturday: “Could you not just watch and wait for one hour?” During my one hour one Easter in a storm, a tree fell on my property and would’ve completely crashed my car had I not been in the sacristy praying during my one hour vigil...3-4 a.m. * putting on a fundraiser and raising the money for making and furnishing the Fellowship Room, which is now the International Room. * prayers of the people and serving communion...prayers at the back. * parish committee… it was a privilege to contribute an opinion on various and many projects the church might undertake. * It was a growing experience and privilege to serve on the Refugee Committee and to help set up a home for Peyman and Mehrnoush when they first arrived to Canada. Grabbing donations, raising the money required for them to live for the year and following their journey to Canada on the committee was a learning time for all. * Doing my ‘every other month sandwich-stint’ for the food bank always gives me time to reflect and pray as I made and delivered them for the volunteers. I think I’m known as “the salmon sandwich Queen“ * My trip to the holy land with some other parishioners from CCSJ was a dream come true, after so many years of belief in Jesus. Walking where He walked and reliving the history was mind blowing. It has totally affected my Chris- tian life since. * Fellowship with the ladies who lunch and meet on Tuesdays has been a treasure. I love the input, the fun, the sharing, and of course the lunch. That group has blessed me beyond measure and provided relief in the middle of my working day. * Cafe Church! I do love Cafe Church. Baking, praying and contributing to this unique community has blessed me beyond belief. I learned that I’m better praying for others than asking for prayer. * As my parents have continued to age and required more and more help and could not attend church, CCSJ has been my backbone and family. Your support of my mom and dad has been incredible - over the top actually - with notes and prayers and visits. I give thanks for all the support I have had during this last 13 years. You are the best! 25
The Oyster There once was an oyster Whose story I tell, Who found that some sand Had got into his shell. It was only a grain, But it gave him great pain. For oysters have feelings Although they’re so plain. Now, did he berate The harsh working of fate That had brought him To such a deplorable state? Did he curse at the government, Our Mongolian Congregation worshipping at Cry for election, Camp Konionia And claim that the sea should Have given him protection? No – he said to himself As he lay on a shell, Since I cannot remove it, I shall try to improve it. Now the years have rolled around, As the years always do, And he came to his ultimate Destiny – stew. And the small grain of sand That had bothered him so Was a beautiful pearl All richly aglow. Now the tale has a moral; For isn’t it grand What an oyster can do With a morsel of sand? What couldn’t we do If we’d only begin With some of the things That get under our skin. Author: Unknown CCSJ Children’s Ministry sharing God’s Love with chil- dren of FoodBank via Summer Activity Bags 26
A Day at the Beach (submitted by Quilene Reyes) Thank you Father, Son Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit for being here with us this day, each day, and always Such a Beautiful Creation it is here by the waterfront beach, with sails sailing far away and sounds of many little children's chatter and laughter in front of me. Admiring, you are beautiful. A little one is in awe the hot sand under their tiny feet as he slowly steps through towards their siblings where others are all scattered in little packs with their mom close by And there I See You....Bless Be My Lord!" Where 2 or 3 are gathered…. 27
Its Apple time again CRABAPPLE JELLY All proceeds to the CCSJ Camp Fund Get your Jar now!! Limited quantities!! $6.00 per jar Contact Bruce @ rbsmith055@gmail.com Or the office “MASKS For GOOD“ NEED YOU!!!!!! “MASKS For GOOD”: A collaborative campaign between Martin Luther Church, Re- deemer Church, and Stonegate Ministry to produce and distribute face masks for our neighbors, especially for those most vulnerable “MASKS FOR GOOD”: will produce and distribute masks to foodbanks, shelters, and other key locations allowing us to hear the voices of those we meet, and learn more about the needs of our communities If you are able to donate or cut fabric, sew masks, or bike around town to transport materials, We Need You! NEEDED: PEOPLE TO SEW MASKS Please contact Ariane @ ariane.oelkrug@me.com. or Samantha Coelho @ Samantha@stonegateministry.ca 28
Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday *Sunday Morning All programs, 1 2 3 Worship As Permitted except Morning Worship and Food Worship opportunities also Bank via Zoom. available on CCSJ Facebook See ‘Plugged In’ or page and YouTube contact office for connection info 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Noon Prayer SG Circle of Noon Prayer Bible Study Noon Prayer Food Bank 10:30 12:00pm Friends 12:00pm 12:00pm 11:00am 12:00pm God, Coffee Noon Prayer and Me 3:00pm 12:00pm 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 Thanksgiving Noon Prayer Noon Prayer Noon Prayer * Harvest Sunday Dinner for 12:00pm 12:00pm Bible Study 12:00pm Morning Worship 9:00 ‘The Keele’ SG Circle of 11:00am and 11:00am Friends 12:00pm Noon Prayer God, Coffee 12:00pm and Me 3:00pm 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 * Morning Worship Noon Prayer Noon Prayer Bible Study 9:00 and 11:00am Noon Prayer 12:00pm 12:00pm 11:00am Noon Prayer 12:00pm Food Bank Noon Prayer 12:00pm SG Circle of 1:00pm 12:00pm Matthew and Friends 12:00pm Me 1:00-3:00pm Café Church God, Coffee 7:00pm and Me 3:00pm OCTOBER Bishop’s Teaching Series 7:30 Prayer: What, Why, How? 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 * Morning Worship Noon Prayer Noon Prayer Noon Prayer Bible Study Noon Prayer 9:00 and 11:00am 12:00pm Noon Prayer 12:00pm 11:00am 12:00pm 12:00pm Matthew and Food Bank Noon Prayer SG Circle of 1:00pm 12:00pm Me 1:00-3:00pm Friends 12:00pm Bishop’s Teaching God, Coffee Series 7:30 29 and Me 3:00pm Prayer: What, Why, How?
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