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Voice Inspiring Sharing true Newlife MAGAZINE MAGAZINE stories Life Stories ‘Why we are a very grateful family’ Page 6 Life in the fast lane - but how?
More about your Voice magazine The best For more than 50 years, this pocket-sized magazine has news of been distributed around the world in many languages. In each issue, we share my life inspirational stories of Clive Addison, right, ordinary people who share a former Chief Officer in their own story in their own Local Government and an words. international expert in Each story tells how the writer came to a living faith horticulture, shares his in Jesus Christ, who uplifting story promised an abundant life to all who would trust in Him. Jesus asked his followers: I was surprised, even shocked, during a discussion group at the home “Are you tired? Worn out? of my neighbour, Peter, when Burned out on religion? a senior Local Government Come to me. Get away with official shared his story – and me and you’ll recover your mentioned that he had a life. heartfelt personal relationship with Jesus Christ. “I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and The speaker, Don Latham, said work with me - watch how I he ‘involved Jesus in every do it . . .I won’t lay anything business decision.’ But what on earth did he mean? I’d never heavy or ill-fitting on you. met anyone who included God Keep company with me and in his professional career! you’ll learn how to live freely and lightly.” As I recall my childhood at Lymington, on the South - An extract from Matthew 11:28 in the Bible, using the Coast, I’d found church popular ‘Message’ translation. services incredibly boring. On Sundays, our family also went 2
work and studied hard for further qualifications – I wanted to be a Chief Officer in Local Government. I began with parks management in Swindon. Later, I became deputy parks manager for the city of Bath. Finally, after 15 years as a Director in a number of other Local Authorities, I took early retirement and became a worker with the Royal Horticultural Society as a judge for the ‘Britain in Bloom’ competition, where villages, towns and cities compete for the best environ- mental and landscape practices. For six years I represented the UK as a judge in the European sailing in the Solent and I much competition called ‘Entente preferred that. Florale’ – and became chairman of their international jury as we When I grew up and left home, I travelled to 12 countries. It stopped attending church. Yet seemed to me that I’d come a the strange story of the man in long way from early days as an the same profession as me, and assistant gardener to reaching who heard from God, made me the top of my profession. curious. So I’ll share more later about the impact of that in a Today, looking back, I vividly moment. recall that day I first heard Don Latham tell us how he daily I’ll mention here that I qualified sought God’s guidance in making in horticulture and met my wife, important decisions. It set me Heather, at college. We had two thinking - and with some children, Lorna and Duncan. My curiosity I accepted an invitation family attended the local village to attend a dinner evening of a church, but on Sundays I often Christian businessmen’s found other things to do around fellowship at a local hotel. the house and garden, instead! The speaker was a professional I was also ambitious in my marketing executive, who also 3
involved Jesus in everything he it’s here now, when the did! At the end of his talk, he [spiritually] dead will hear my invited non-Christian visitors to voice - the voice of the Son of receive Jesus into their lives – God. And those who listen will to receive ‘new life.’ The Bible live.” calls this being ‘born again’ Deep down, I knew I was spiritually, and in that way we spiritually ‘dead’, but if I ‘heard also receive eternal life, he said. His voice’ and accepted Christ Now I realised I definitely as my Saviour, then this would didn’t know this Jesus. I made be life-changing. I couldn’t no response to his appeal, resist this God-given invitation, perhaps through pride. Yet I and confessed my long time was aware that this series of indifference to God’s love. Then ‘God-encounters’ were no I asked Jesus to be Lord of my accident. I remembered that life. A simple step, but it has discussion group, when some- truly proven to be a one said, ‘if anyone wants to life-changing decision. get serious with God, they should read John’s Gospel in the Bible.’ N ow, years later, that precious moment is still fresh in my mind. My new life So, back home, I found a Bible as a believer in Jesus has been which opened at that very spot. so much better than anything I As my eyes flew across the could have dreamt. It was the pages of John’s Gospel, the best news ever – even my words at the top of the page professional career ‘took off’ in stood out: ‘Jesus said: “I tell a miraculous way. For you the truth, those who hear example, I didn’t have the right my message and believe in qualifications but I was God who sent me, have eternal accepted for a MSc university life. They will never be course. Within two years, at the condemned for their sins, but age of only 36, I gained my first they have already passed from position as a Chief Officer of a death to life.” ’ (John 5:24). large multi-disciplined department in Local I was amazed as I re-read those Government. words – I felt God was speaking directly to my heart. The next I found fellowship with other verse promised: “I assure you believers and was involved in that the time is coming, indeed exciting challenges – I’ve 4
always loved foreign travel. So in my new joy as a Christian I was involved in smuggling Bibles into ‘closed’ countries. We saw miraculous answers to prayer as we trusted the Holy Spirit to guide us. Life can of course be tough for all of us, but Jesus promises never, ever to leave us. This is true, even in devastating times. Heather and Jesus our Lord.’ (Romans 8). I were heartbroken when our Despite our tears, there was joy 16-year-old son, Duncan, who ahead: six months later, our was once so wonderfully full of daughter, Lorna, now married life, became seriously ill with to Stephen, told us they were leukaemia. He died, aged 19. expecting their first baby - and We faced agonising questions – our first grandson arrived why hadn’t God healed safely. Today, Heather and I Duncan? Yet in our confusion have five healthy and active we knew many people were grandsons, pictured above. praying for our family, and we The family lives and works in were strengthened by the Holy Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia and Spirit who is also called ‘the we regularly visit them. Comforter’. We don’t know what the future We know that death is not the holds, but God will see us end of the story – and Duncan through. There’s a little verse is in Heaven right now, because that says, “taste and see that the the Bible promises us that Lord is good, blessed are those ‘nothing can ever separate us who take refuge in from God’s love . . . neither Him.” (Psalm 34:8). death nor life . . . no power in That has been our experience – the sky above or in the earth why don’t you make it yours? below will ever be able to separate us from the love of Clive’s email address is: God that is revealed in Christ cliveheather7@gmail.com 5
Why we’re a very grateful family Our cover story: Aubrey Morris, teacher, musician, singer and author, shares a journey of faith that has taken him from South Africa to Ireland I grew up among a family of 12 awarded to me and I went to children in South Africa – we university - I felt it must be ‘a were hardworking but gift from God’ although I desperately poor. In our wasn’t a Christian. “Someone up two-room home, it was difficult there must be looking after me,” to even find a place to ‘put your I thought. head down’ at night. At 17, I was drawn with other As children, we made our own young people into drink, drugs toys and sometimes went and discos - despite the advice hungry, yet despite abject of my dear Granny who was the poverty, I remained quite only Christian in our family. optimistic that life would one She loved me a lot and we were day get better. Then, at very close. But if you had said secondary school, the very kind ‘Jesus’ to me, I wouldn’t have secretary, Mrs Goss, asked me known much about him. what I was going to do next – One of my younger brothers, and advised me to apply for a still at secondary school, study grant. Amazingly, this was attended a Christian fellowship, 6
led by my former maths teacher, music industry - as well as Mr Wayne Thring. Some of the writing plays. This continued members of this ‘strange’ but even when I was a teacher, as I happy group visited our home ran a children’s choir and and I had to admit that there launched a Christian club in a was something genuine and secular school where hundreds magnetic about them – they of kids came to faith in Jesus were happy - and I wanted what Christ. They would share their they had. But how? joy with their families, so that T hree months later, I went some parents got linked up with back to that school, met my the local church, too. It was former maths teacher in the such a buzz – I really enjoyed it. foyer, and said: “I want Jesus in I met my future wife, Auriol, in my life.” And right there, as 1998, and we were married two Wayne prayed for me with his years later. In due course we hand on my shoulder, I was had two sons, Dillon and Levi. ‘born again.’ It was that simple In my work, I knew God was - suddenly the awful emptiness calling me to minister into the left me and God’s love filled my lives of young people, and for life for the first time. four years I headed up the As the bad things fell away from Sports Department at a my life, sceptical friends Christian school. thought it a was joke that I had become a Christian, but I had flushed away all the drugs, declaring “no more!” It was a B y then, three of my brothers were living in Ireland – and I woke up one morning with a day of release and deliverance. strong impression that Auriol and I would be moving there, I’ve always loved sport, too. Four months later it especially football and athletics. happened! And for nine years I At University, talent scouts worked at a Christian School in came to the Freshman’s Ball, Dundalk, the county town of looking for people who they felt County Louth, Ireland – about ‘had the edge’ to work in TV ads, half way between Dublin and catalogue and fashion model- Belfast! ling. They invited me to a free modelling course and soon I was I graduated from Bible School at working with producers and Grace Fellowship church. We making money. It was a thrill also felt led to serve with Newry for me, because I’ve always been Christian Centre, where I was fascinated by the media, the Youth Pastor for two years. 7
Newry, in Northern Ireland, is was a mess. I remember driving an historic town on the border away from home in tears, of Counties Down and Armagh. feeling far away from God. I now teach at Newry Christian Then, at my lowest moment, I Centre Bible School. I also heard God whisper in my heart: assist with the worship team “I can fix your marriage.” and preach occasionally. In I turned the car around and 2011, I took a mission team to drove back home. With God’s South Africa. help, Auriol and I rebuilt our marriage, as I learned to sort I discovered early on as Christian that life isn’t always ‘a bed of roses’. I have out my priorities as a husband. God has truly blessed us as a also known great sadness – family - we have so much to be having lost four members of my grateful for! I know first-hand family, including my dear the freedom that is ours brother Leon, who was a because of the restorative love Christian, too. However, I of God. Whatever challenges know from the Bible that he is you may face, please don’t give ‘with the Lord’ and one day I’ll up – because God does not give see him again. up on you. I’ve also learned that even as a believer, our lives are very much ‘a work in progress’. God I ’ve discovered, too, that the Holy Spirit enables us to discover our God-given destiny is so merciful – when we turn to bring hope and blessing to back to him there is always a others. For example, I’ve always fresh start with the help of the dreamed of becoming an Holy Spirit. author, so with my wife’s In my early years of poverty, I encouragement, I’ve written often felt I was ‘fighting to catch two books to help people to up’ – I was overly competitive, ‘dream again’ - to seek those always busy with this and that - things that God has for them as and for years I struggled with they pursue their goals and frustration and anger issues. visions. Sadly, I brought this problem My first book is called into my marriage. Ten years “Wisdom for Life 101 – ago, despite much counselling, Life-changing Principles.” we faced the prospect of our …………………………………………………………………………………. marriage breaking down. Aubrey’s email address is: Frankly, at that point, my life morrisaubs@yahoo.ie 8
Staying strong in tough times Businessman Gordon Bambridge, right, shares a story 0f recovery in the face of great loss successful as a salesman with managerial positions, and O ne simple family event on well-regarded in my company. a Sunday morning in May After the guests left the was a life-changer for my wife, christening party, Jacqui and I Jacqueline and I. talked beyond midnight about Like many families, we had the impact of the service – and decided to have our two young eventually we both joined the daughters christened in the local church! As we steadily local Church of England – not grew in our new faith, we led so much for faith reasons, but Bible studies, taught in Sunday really as an excuse for a big school and I even became a lay preacher in various denomina- family party – which we did! tions. However, we hadn’t reckoned on a ‘God-encounter’ in that More surprises were in store for service because, through it, we us: our church life was rocked both became aware of our by some members who claimed they had been ‘filled with the need for personal salvation. Holy Spirit’ and even spoke in a Up to that point I’d say I was a new prayer language, called normal chap with no real faith, ‘speaking in tongues.’ but with a general belief in God. In my work I was reasonably Well, I ‘knew better’ ! So I 9
took it upon myself to call on them, and ‘set them straight’ about what the Bible says about this phenomenon. The outcome was quite different, as I too was soon baptised in the Holy Spirit in a church meeting in After their visit to a Royal Garden Party at a neighbouring Buckingham Palace: Councillor Gordon village. Bambridge and his wfe, Jacqueline I, too, spoke in tongues - an experience I had Norwich, part of a worldwide once struggled to ignore. I fellowship of Christian laymen. realised that God is very good to his reluctant followers. I had even distributed their ‘Voice’ magazines, like the This experience of knowing the one you are reading now. presence and power of the Holy Spirit led us to a much Up to then I thought that this closer walk with God – we fellowship was mainly in started seeing miracles in so America, without realising they many areas of our lives. For had a local Chapter a mile from example, trusting God to meet my home in Norfolk! our material needs, even in the I was really too ill to attend, midst of a sudden business due to a slipped disc in my disaster when we lost lower back. During the early everything through fraud. part of the evening, whilst There were healings, too – we people were singing a worship prayed for a friend who faced a song, my back was totally cancer operation but who was healed, although no-one was fully healed. praying for me. I shared my story after the meeting and Around that time I was invited became an instant FGB to a dinner of the Full Gospel member. Businessmen (FGB) in Since I was filled with the Holy 10
Spirit 37 years ago, it has been we never drew benefits. my privilege to speak at church Eventually we won permission and FGB events all over the to build our small home on this UK, as well as in Europe and field, thanks to low rates North America. I’ve seen provided by builders. hundreds respond to the message of Jesus, but I’ve also Amazingly, I also paid all my learned that being a Christian trade creditors without falling can bring testing and trials. out with any of them. My biggest creditor, when he was As our wholesale business told of my bankruptcy, said: “I prospered, we were able to also know you are a man of honour, promote the Gospel - I was so place my account on the able to take time out to travel bottom of the pile and forget it and share the message of till you can pay.” Jesus at home and abroad. In due time, I was discharged T hen, in the 1990s, whilst from bankruptcy and I remain visiting friends, FGB self-employed. I was also chapters and local churches in elected to a District Council in America, my business suffered 2003, serving in many a large fraud. Deals collapsed capacities, and being re-elected and we lost most of our stock, three times with an increased leaving us with massive debts majority each time. – we also lost our savings, our I know that my story of home and pension rights. “trusting in God” is truly the In sharing my story, I had way He has led us. We have always emphasised our “trust learned that God really is the in God for all things, including Great Restorer, who heals the our substance.” Now we had a broken hearted. I also know new baby - but had lost our that whatever trials I face, I home and everything else, can remain strong because of except for about £11 in cash. the victory that Christ has won for us on the Cross. If you are Somehow we managed to keep facing tough times, remember our faith in Jesus to see us that Jesus is only a prayer through, even as we moved away. He longs to help you - all into a 70-year-old wooden we need to do is ask. caravan on a field we owned. We had no electricity, no Gordon’s email address is: phone, no mains water – and sgbjays@aol.com 11
My journey days, it seemed that God was looking after me, though I had no idea why. I wasn’t religious, from conflict although our family was nominally Methodist. You might say I was a ‘gentle to peace sinner’ – perhaps rather self- righteous because I didn’t live Civil engineer Daniel an excessive life-style. Nquot shares his In 1988, two friends invited me remarkable story to a New Generation Church where the speaker clearly M ore than a million people died in the three-year Civil War in Nigeria. I was a presented the radical message that ‘God loved the world so much that he gave his one and child when my family fled from only Son, so that everyone – our remote village and we including me - who believes in became refugees. Jesus will not perish but have eternal life,’ (John 3: 16). Up to that point I was a happy-go-lucky 10-year-old The speaker said that Jesus who loved playing football in had opened the way for me to our village of Mbiabong in have an exchanged life – a new south-east Nigeria. My father life, lovingly empowered by my died of sickness during the Father in Heaven, in exchange conflict. for my old self-centred, self-righteous life. After the war, we moved back I to our village. I was so realized that this was my fortunate to prosper after the moment of decision, but I terrible war: I was a keen had an academic mindset, student and became the only always trying to analyse one in my immediate family everything. Now God was who eventually went to speaking to my heart – so in University where I studied civil simple trust I responded to the engineering and also gained a ‘altar call’ to go forward as an master’s degree in structural outward sign that I truly engineering. I later became accepted the salvation offered Chief Engineer with the by Jesus, who had paid a great Highways Department. price for me by dying publicly Looking back to those early on a cruel Cross. 12
neighbour, a lawyer, who collapsed at home after an epileptic fit. I heard shouts and rushed in to find him on the floor. A doctor said it was a ‘hopeless’ situation. Suddenly, I felt the urge to pray for the lawyer. I put my hands on his head, and as I prayed, Daniel and his wife, Kate his eyes opened. People were shocked, As I stepped out in faith that then the family broke day, I was ‘born again’ – and I into celebration as the lawyer, became spiritually alive. It was now alive, was taken to hospital a landmark moment as a for a confirmation check-up. Christian counsellor led me in a Two years later, when Kate, my simple prayer to accept Christ English-born wife and I were as my personal Saviour. I also visiting relatives, we heard a welcomed the Holy Spirit into tremendous commotion as a my life as my Helper, Guide six-year-old boy lay still after and Friend, just as Jesus choking on something. His promised, (see John 14:16). family were crying helplessly, as others ran around in a panic. T his was all very new to me, but as the months passed by I experienced a new freedom So my wife and I laid hands on the boy and, as we prayed, he suddenly sneezed and opened as the ‘gentle craving for sin’ his eyes! I was amazed. subsided. Prayer became real, Many times we have seen God the Bible came alive – and I answer a prayer for healing. was living a daily spiritual For example, an older relative adventure. I discovered I could of mine who was very highly even pray with people and see regarded - he worked in the their lives changed, too. Some Diplomatic Service – became ill who were sick were healed! with a serious allergy. His face On two occasions, we appeared had swollen up, but when we to see the dead return to life. prayed for him he rapidly The first instance was a recovered. 13
In Nigeria, I became a member groups set up at Liverpool of FGB – the Full Gospel University and in the city, Businessmen’s Fellowship – where Kate and I and our three where I became president of a children were happily settled local FGB ‘chapter.’ We have for 14 years. more than 3,100 of these I loved reaching out to our chapters across Nigeria, where neighbours with the Gospel our national conventions can message, and gave away attract over 20,000 people. thousands of Voice magazines, I n my journey of faith, I have been inspired by many Christians, especially the life of like the one you are reading today. Nowadays I teach civil engineering at a college in Mary Slessor, (1848- 1915). Welwyn Garden City in She was a hard working Hertfordshire; my wife Kate is Scottish mill girl and an a health visitor. unorthodox Sunday School We attend an FGB Fellowship teacher, who, inspired by David in the city of St Alban’s and we Livingstone, became a mission- are setting up a new FGB ary in Calabar, Nigeria, an area chapter in the London Borough where no European had set foot of Enfield. before. Despite illness and constant danger, she lived with the I thank God for the day I first heard the Good News about an amazing New Life with tribes, learned their language, Jesus. I’d like to leave you with and traditions, earning their the words of the Apostle Paul, respect and putting an end to in the New Testament, who some barbaric practises, such said: “I’m glad in God . . . I am as the killing of twins. She just as happy with as little as adopted many Nigerian much . . . whatever I have, children (particularly twins) wherever I am, I can make it who had been left to die. through anything in the power Mary died in 1915, aged 67, of Jesus who makes me who I with great mourning among the am,” (extract from Philippians tribes to whom she had chapter four, in ‘The Message’ dedicated her whole life. translation). In 2002 I came to the UK to do ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. a doctorate degree in Civil Daniel Nquot is on email Engineering, and also saw FGB at: dperfecter@yahoo.co.uk 14
make. Here is a prayer you can Your response? pray - if you can find a quiet A s you have read the true-life stories in this magazine, you may also place to quietly pray this aloud: “Lord Jesus, I believe you are the Son of God. I believe you want to ask God into your died on the Cross for me. I am life. There are three simple sorry for my sins and I truly steps to do this: want to turn away from them. A real Christian is someone who I ask you to forgive me and has a personal relationship with cleanse my heart.” (Pause here God by inviting Jesus to become to mention anything on your their Lord and personal Saviour. conscience. Then continue . . .) STEP 1: Admit that you have “I want to trust you with my sinned by falling short of God’s life, starting right now. Please standard - admit that you need be my Lord and Saviour. I invite a Saviour to deal with your past you into my life. Please help me and assure your future. to live by the power of the Holy STEP 2: Believe that Jesus is Spirit, to guide and to teach me. the Son of God who died on the “I now believe your promise in Cross to pay the penalty for the Bible that I am born again. I your sins. am a true child of God. Help me STEP 3: Receive Jesus as to trust you with all my heart. Saviour and Lord of your life by Thank you, Lord Jesus. Amen.” personal invitation and ask His forgiveness for your sins. Contact us: post off the coupon below, right away, and Your decision to receive Christ we will send you a free guide as Saviour and Lord is the most on how to grow as a Christian. important decision you will ever An opportunity to accept Jesus Christ as your personal Saviour Tick here to request a free booklet ‘Finding God’ Today I have accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour Please send me details about FGB My name_________________________________________________ Address__________________________________________________ ________________________________ Post code______________ Post to: FGB Voice, PO Box 11, Knutsford, Cheshire, WA16 6QP
True stories in this issue . . . Clive Addison Aubrey Morris Gordon Daniel Nquot The best news Why I am so Bambridge From conflict of my life grateful to God A story of hope to peace T his magazine is produced by the Full Gospel Businessmen in the UK and Men of all backgrounds are welcome, whether working, retired or unemployed, no-one Ireland — or FGB for short. is excluded. FGB is an ‘arm of This fellowship began through the church’ endorsed by many the vision of a Christian Christian leaders, including the businessman. Today, there are Archbishop of York, Dr John thousands of Local Chapters Sentamu who says, “We need meeting in more than 100 more men like them!” countries. FGB is in many towns To contact us, email: and cities across the UK and we office@fgbuk.org welcome newcomers to our Tel. 01565 632 667 regular events, usually dinner See our website for more true evenings with a guest speaker. life stories: www.fgbuk.org For your local contact: Check our website for events in your region - see www.fgbuk.org
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