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the Friend INDEPENDENT QUAKER JOURNALISM SINCE 1843 12 March 2021 | Volume 179, No 11 www.thefriend.org News 4 YMG, Woodbrooke and more Rebecca Hardy Letters 6 Still life 8 A foundational element David L Saunders Thought for the week 9 Watching this space Pat Carney-Ceccarelli Meeting the challenge 10 Thinking about the future Mary Aiston Something to give 12 Remembering David Firth Harry Albright & David Firth Review 14 The Life That Never Ends Patsy Freeman Review 15 The Glorious Journey Frank Regan Review 16 Breathtaking Nick Wilde Q Eye 17 The lighter side of Quaker life Elinor Smallman Friends & Meetings 18 ‘In a meeting rightly held a new way may be discovered which none present had alone perceived and which transcends the differences of the opinions expressed. This is an experience of creative insight, leading to a sense of the meeting which a clerk is often led in a remarkable way to record. Those who have shared this experience will not doubt its reality and the certainty it brings of the immediate rightness of the way for the meeting to take.’ From Quaker faith & practice 3.06
News ‘I have volunteered to help the new Penn Club committee at St news@thefriend.org Katharine’s and hope to attend future member events just as a way of keeping in touch.’ Julia Hargreaves Staff say goodbye as final day. We all got made The club was due to The Penn Club finds redundant this morning.’ celebrate its centenary last new home ‘We had the idea of year. It was opened by the The entire staff team at continuing as a virtual Friends Ambulance Unit the Quaker-founded guest club but I am not sure in 1920. how that would have The citation for the house The Penn Club worked in practice. At Quaker wins award for award reads: ‘The idea was made redundant last least now the club has a that not only scientific week, only days after the scientific modelling physical location,’ he said. results from geoscientific club revealed that it had A Quaker from Settle According to a models should be found a new home. Meeting has won an press release from published, but also The historic award for her contribution The Penn Club, The that the development Bloomsbury club towards science. Royal Foundation of St and source code of announced last month Julia Hargreaves was Katharine dates back to those models should be that, due to the awarded the 2021 Union the twelfth century and reviewed, very much devastating effect of the Service Award of the shares a lot of values with stems from Hargreaves. pandemic on its finances, European Geosciences the Club. ‘It provides a Before GMD there was it would be forced to close Union (EGU) for her safe, comfortable place to no space for geoscientific its doors at Bedford Place scientific modeling. The stay, set in lovely gardens models to receive the by the end of March. No Yorkshire Friend edited the and with good transport necessary level of peer- agreement could be found EGU journal Geoscientific links to central London.’ review scrutiny that with the landlords. Model Development The Penn Club board delivers open, transparent Fergal Crossan, former (GMD) from 2008-19. is recommending that science, and model general manager, told Julia Hargreaves told the members move to developers received little the Friend that he was Friend that ‘a big driving house membership at St to no credit for their delighted that The force’ for her work was the Katharine’s. A Penn Social work. Now, such a place Royal Foundation of St ‘necessity to make climate Committee will be formed, exists with GMD, and the Katharine had ‘extended science more open’. She to continue organising geosciences have hugely the hand of friendship’ said: ‘It is easy to be too members’ events and benefited from this by providing a new home far ahead of your time provide a link between the endeavour.’ for the club. He added: and get ignored, and ‘Sadly the news does old and new. It is planned even ridiculed. However, not change the position to install a special long if you can take small BYM announces for any of the staff here. table in the dining room steps always towards the Yearly Meeting dates St Katharine’s are fully for shared conversations. goal, and take enough Britain Yearly Meeting staffed. Like here, most of Membership benefits of people with you at each (BYM) has announced their staff are furloughed St Katharine’s include step, then years later the dates for the 2021 at the moment. They have discount on room you can look back and Yearly Meeting Gathering promised to keep in touch rates, food, room hire, see a revolution has, (YMG) which will be held if anything opens up so I and opportunities to in fact, occurred. The online due to the Covid- can pass the information participate in courses and surrounding structures 19 pandemic. on to the Penn Club team. retreats. are important too. The The event will be Technically today is my Fergal Crossan said: EGU is determined spread over three weeks in its “bottom-up” instead of one. Main attitude, always ready business and worship will WORDS to experiment with new happen Friday to Sunday, approaches. Despite all 30 July to 1 August, and Friday 6 to Sunday 8 ‘The carbon footprint that, I had been feeling unappreciated, and it August. There will be has restored my faith sessions for children will be lower.’ in human nature to see my contribution so and young people from Monday to Friday, 2 to Britain Yearly Meeting on the online clearly perceived by my 6 August. During the 2021 Yearly Meeting Gathering. colleagues.’ three weeks beginning 4 the Friend 12 March 2021
in mid-July there will be this really developed in NUMBERS opportunities to get used 2020. We have seen a lot 18,000+ to online platforms, and more people coming on meet together in online courses for the first time, community spaces, from including people who reading and craft groups, found Quakers during to singing. the pandemic and our ‘This year, Covid-19 online worship. Feedback Total attendance for Woodbrooke’s online worship in 2020. presents a challenge and suggests much greater an opportunity. With diversity in general, assistant head, Outreach is hosted on the Quaker less travel and fewer particularly age.’ and Co-curricular, and Meetings Network, which documents, the carbon Woobrooke also ran I offer my heartfelt was launched in October footprint will be lower. And a series specifically for congratulations to 2019 following the 2017 some may join online who Friends in New Zealand her and all colleagues Yearly Meeting Gathering would not be physically and a second for all involved in this area. We in Warwick. Keith able to attend in person’, Friends across the Asia are hugely proud of what Walton, co-founder of the BYM said in a statement. and West Pacific Friends has been achieved.’ initiative and member of Clare Scott Booth, clerk World Committee for The award also Wandsworth Meeting, said for YMG, said: ‘In this Consultation (FWCC) recognises other outreach that a group of volunteers very challenging time, Section, as part of work the school does from all over the UK looked how are we to live our Woodbrooke Where with local education at many existing websites testimonies to equality You Are. The statement settings. These include a to gather ideas. Edwina and truth? Join us at says that Woodbrooke partnership with Foundry Hughes from the steering Yearly Meeting Gathering continues to face ‘huge College Pupil Referral group said: ‘Experiment 2021 as Quakers seek financial challenges’. Unit in Wokingham, with Light is a Quaker to determine what love in which school practice which is based on requires of us.’ Leighton Park School members have delivered early Friends’ discoveries. recognised for weekly drumming and It was devised in 1966 by Big increase in outreach work parkour sessions to KS2 Quaker and theologian Rex attenders, says The Quaker school students excluded from Ambler following his study Woodbrooke Leighton Park has been mainstream education of early Friends’ writings. The numbers of awarded the 2020 Award and provided work He wanted to discover what people signing up for for Outstanding Local experience placements it was that made them so Woodbrooke courses Community Involvement. for KS4 students sure, so centred, so willing increased by over a third The prize from the interested in grounds and to suffer privations to in 2020, the Quaker Independent Schools’ maintenance pathways. keep alive their faith. He centre has reported.Total Association is in ‘During lockdown, LP discovered a process by attendance for its online recognition of the school’s staff visited Foundry with which the Light may be worship in 2020 was also outreach work, particularly weekly donations of Lego, accessed.’ more than 18,000. during the pandemic. books, garden equipment, The meditations app ‘We have been really Last Easter, the refreshments and paint has been designed and encouraged by the school founded a hub for vulnerable students developed by a Friend engagement from Friends’, partnership producing attending school during from Godalming Meeting, it said. ‘Many new Friends, free PPE for frontline the pandemic.’ Alain Foussat. ‘After Friends from across the key workers from almost seven years of trying to world, and the Quaker- 500 organisations across ‘Experiment with get this project going, curious are experiencing Berkshire. The ‘Safer Light’ launches website we contacted Alain and Woodbrooke for the first Vision’ initiative brought The steering group of the a few months later our time.’ together eighteen partner Quaker ‘Experiment with app was released on Jon Martin, schools, three commercial Light’ has launched a new Apple App Store and the communications manager organisations and one website and app. Google Play Store,’ said from Woodbrooke, told university to create and The free app can Edwina Hughes. ‘We are the Friend that course dispatch over 39,000 be downloaded onto delighted with the result: participation increased by face shields. £28,000 phones, and enables a beautiful, simple-to-use thirty-seven per cent, with was raised through the users to discover what and practical app (it works attenders coming from GoFundMe crowd- Experiment with Light without internet access). twenty-nine countries. funding site is, where it comes from, You can download it by ‘Woodbrooke has always Head Matthew Judd and how to join a group, typing in “Experiment been an internationally- said: ‘The area has been as well as accessing the with Light” into either minded institution, but led by Natasha Coccia, meditations. The website store.’ the Friend 12 March 2021 5
the Friend Letters participating. There have been many inspiring fundraising 173 Euston Road stories, not least from the school’s London, NW1 2BJ Quaker trustees, generously 020 7663 1010 providing a $10,000 ‘BHS Gives’ www.thefriend.org matching gift, several UK Quaker The Friend welcomes your views, schools responding to the call for Subscriptions to letters@thefriend.org. Please help as well as fundraising by the UK £95 per year by all payment keep letters short. We particularly current BHS Student Council, types including annual direct welcome contributions from whose president Franchesco debit; monthly payment by children, written or illustrated. Jarjoura was voted in on the back direct debit £8; online only £74 Please include your full postal of his commitment to financial per year. Contact Penny Dunn: address, even when sending aid. Perhaps one of the most 020 7663 1178 emails, along with your Meeting enchanting stories has come subs@thefriend.org name or other Quaker affiliation. from the UK and from a British Friend, Sarah Barrett, whose In essentials unity, Advertising great-grandfather was among the in non-essentials liberty, Contact George Penaluna: earliest pupils at BHS. Sarah was in all things charity. 01535 630230 able to raise over £2,000 through ads@thefriend.org her cycling fundraising efforts in A beacon of light the UK, travelling by bike many Editorial Last year David Gray, principal of hundreds of miles across the east Articles, images, correspondence Brummana High School (BHS) in of England. should be emailed to Beirut, and Sami Cortas, clerk of Due to the continuing multiple editorial@thefriend.org Brummana Meeting, appealed to crises in the country, there is little or sent to the address above. Friends for support for families at doubt the school is going to need the school affected by the terrible more generous support in the Editor explosion in the summer, and the coming months and years. Joseph Jones wider economic problems this As the principal David Journalist country is facing. Gray consistently reminds the Rebecca Hardy We are really grateful that many community: ‘We live in hope, Friends did respond, along with however, and shall not give up. Production and office manager other donors in Lebanon and Elinor Smallman Lebanon is in a state of collapse: throughout the world, to support our job as educators is to provide Sub-editor the school families directly a beacon of light and rebuild.’ George Osgerby affected by the devastating 4 Thank you very much for so Arts correspondent August Beirut port explosion, generously supporting Brummana Rowena Loverance who tragically lost either their High School families during such Environment correspondent homes or their businesses. desperate times. Laurie Michaelis Thanks to you and the other Will Haire Clerk of trustees many donors those families can Convenor, Fundraising Committee, Lis Birch now be assured that their children Quaker International Educational can continue their quality Trust ISSN: 0016-1268 education at BHS. Since the beginning of August Environmentally friendly The Friend Publications Limited 2020, over $130,000 for the Beirut The 12 February edition of the is a registered charity, fund as well as the bursary and Friend has just reached me, and I number 211649 capital funds has been raised have read the report about those from 175 donors across the world objecting to HS2. As someone through our three donations who for a period worked for the Printed by platforms in Lebanon, the UK and Warners rail industry, and is still involved the US. with TravelWatch NorthWest, I Midlands Plc, This campaign has been a truly The Maltings, suppose I am biased. remarkable community activity A big part of the problem with Manor Lane, with students, staff, parents, old Bourne, HS2 is its name: many people scholars, trustees, governors think the project is about getting Lincolnshire and friends of the school all PE10 9PH from London to points north 6 the Friend 12 March 2021
more quickly – we can get there differently based on some personal that late date. Irenaeus was a most- quickly enough already they say. characteristic, as opposed to their respected authority whose teacher, But the greatest benefit of the expertise or experience. That Polycarp, was a disciple of the project is creating more capacity characteristic might be skin colour author, John Mark. John certainly on the railways, particularly for or religious faith. claimed to be have been loved freight trains, and, moreover, ones It might equally be physical personally by Jesus in life. with electric locomotives hauling ability, sexual orientation, status, I would not claim that John them. Is it not a good thing to wealth, age, regional language (and Mark was better informed on all get diesel-engined heavy goods plenty more). Part of our biological of Jesus’ life, only the last three vehicles (HGVs) replaced by programming is to react against years in Jerusalem. John’s Greek is electric trains? anything different. Therefore it is not ‘sophisticated’; it is plain, good Living in Carlisle I often see the difficult to train ourselves not to classical Greek. daily ‘Tesco train’ come through. discriminate. He certainly does not present This one train takes forty HGVs We may believe that we are all Jesus as the incarnation of the off the M6. Once the first part of born equal, children of God, but Greek logos. Rather he recognised HS2 is completed there will be until we see every person just as a that the reverence of the Ephesians many more opportunities for such person, we have not mastered our for the doctrine of their great rail movements. instinct to discriminate. Putting forebear, Heraclitus, who called Do the objectors to HS2 really our belief into practice is not easy. the origin of all things in the world disapprove of the transfer of freight So our prayers and support ho logos, bore resemblance to the from road to rail, and from diesel should go to all at Friends House Jewish reverence for Yahweh (not power to electricity? involved in this breakdown of Jesus) as Creator. Great preachers Ian K Watson relationships. May they heal what begin by finding common ground Cumberland Area Meeting can be healed and learn from the with their congregation. experience. John had lived long enough in Friends House accused Geoff Pilliner Ephesus to recognise the need to I was saddened to read of the Alton Meeting, Hampshire do so. breakdown of relationships and Elaine Miles accusations of discrimination by Question of racism Jordans Meeting, Buckinghamshire race and religion at Friends House I think we are starting to have (26 February). too much of ‘a sinner that I am’ Sheep and goats But I was also concerned over attitude on the question of racism. Whenever the ‘overseer, episkopos, how to react to this report. Should Hoonie Feltham (22 January) bishop, crook, shepherd, pastor’ I be pleased at the openness that wrote: ‘A question struck me “Am sequence comes up, I’m reminded led to the publishing of this news, I a racist?” The inescapable answer of my upbringing on a sheep farm angry that we are ‘washing our was “Yes”.’ in County Durham. dirty linen in public’, or curious So what is the definition of a The main function of a about the motivation behind racist that we Quakers mostly shepherd’s crook is to catch the leg publishing this news item? One accept? The Cambridge dictionary or neck of a sheep that’s running thing is clear: the Society of says ‘someone who believes that away from you. Friends is potentially no better their race makes them better, more Of course, good shepherds do than anyone else in dealing with intelligent, more moral, etcetera care greatly for their flocks, but we discrimination. than people of other races and should bear in mind that the point We should not make judgements who does or says unfair or harmful of a flock of sheep is wool, and based on the report. We were not things as a result’. milk, and leather, and meat. involved. We can ask whether the According to that, Hoonie is not Terry Pratchett considered the line managers would have treated a racist. shepherding metaphor for religion a white person the same as the Eric Walker in his novel Small Gods. What if, person of colour. Ipswich Meeting, Suffolk he asks, the central metaphor was Equally, we can ask whether the instead goat herding? Sheep, he claimant would have responded John’s gospel suggests, are stupid and must be in the same way to a line manager The fourth gospel was written near driven (that’s something of a slur of colour as she responded to a the end of the first century, but its on sheep), but goats are intelligent white line manager. If the answer author had been just a youth at the and must be led. to both questions is no, then no time of the crucifixion, which he Keith Braithwaite discrimination is evident. alone of the disciples witnessed, Marple Meeting, Greater Discrimination is treating people and he lived, as Irenaeus tells us, to Manchester the Friend 12 March 2021 7
I Still life: David ’m always disappointed when I hear the emphasis in descriptions of our worship put on ‘silence’; I am always encouraged when I hear the L Saunders on a emphasis put on ‘stillness’. The one is essentially negative: the absence of words. The other is foundational element positive: it is about presence and being. Silence is the easy bit, it’s about what isn’t there. Stillness is the hard bit, it’s about what is there. Silence is an acoustic condition; stillness is about our state of ‘Silence is an acoustic being. The former is the means but the latter is the end. Our contemporary culture is so noisy that silence can be a blessing in itself, but spiritually it only gets us part way. condition; stillness is True stillness takes us beyond silence, below words, to our deepest centre. Early Friends knew this. Of the fourteen about our state of being.’ references to stillness in Quaker faith & practice, several are from our early days. ‘Be still and cool in thy own mind… Stand still and cease from thine own working’, said George Fox; ‘Sit down in pure stillness’, Alexander Parker; William Penn wrote of the ‘Still, small voice that speaks to us in this day’; James Naylor cautioned us to ‘stand still and act not’. So stillness was a central, foundational element in Quaker worship and experience. Jesus models the balance between full-on action and engagement with times of retreat. We too need to make space in our lives to recharge our batteries. We can learn to do this, to create space to hear that ‘Still small voice’. Small acts of kindness and compassion reveal the eternal is here present among us. Those ‘thin’ places, where the ‘now’ and the ‘beyond’ meet are not just on mountain tops but can be all around us if we cultivate the eye to discern them. Over the centuries, contemplatives and mystics have known, and sought to attain, a state of stillness. Do we still know and experience this? And how do we move from silence to stillness? Perhaps the clue is in that time-worn phrase ‘The practice of the presence of God’. Many of our achievements in life come about through hard work and practice. Athletic prowess involves the discipline of regular exercise. Musical and artistic excellence is built on hours of repetitive practice. The same applies to the things of the spirit. So perhaps what we need is the spiritual equivalent of the athlete’s workout routine. Making a regular space in our lives to put our busy minds on hold, giving priority to being. This may seem a self-indulgent luxury when there is so much to do – so many needs to be met; so many injustices to be confronted. Our Protestant heritage leans more towards ‘doing’ than ‘being; perhaps the Catholic heritage makes more room for the latter. The one is outward, and a necessary part of our social witness, but the other is inward and provides the engine power for action. Photo by serge vorobets on Unsplash Many Friends find inspiration in the teachings of Richard Rohr and the institution he founded, the Centre for Action and Contemplation. Action and contemplation are not alternatives but complementary – it’s not a case of either/or, it’s both/and. During a retreat a priest once summarised for me the Jesuit pattern of prayer: ‘I’m here, you’re here, thank you, sorry, help.’ So prayer starts with ‘being’, with a sense of presence. So let us ‘mind’ the stillness, seek the place of being, the place of encounter, the place of power. n David is from Norfolk & Waveney Area Meeting. 8 the Friend 12 March 2021
O Thought for the week: ur spirituality and our mental health are equally rooted in our personal experience. Pat Carney-Ceccarelli During times of personal and collective upheaval, can we watches this space make space for each other in our Quaker practice? Space that might transcend ordinary conversations into ‘Today we are graced truly compassionate ones? Space for humbly sharing experiences like grief, shame, anger, pettiness and irritation, as well as the supreme grace of compassion with new tools to and gratitude? This matters so much when feelings of unworthiness upend us, or when great losses shake our access in each other foundations. Struggling for meaning can leave us barren and dry. the potential for shared Perhaps like George Fox we feel that only Jesus can speak to our condition, and we can find comfort in our direct access to Spirit. But others may be in need, and can healing and growth.’ find connections in sharing, if we reach out. Or perhaps we affirm that we can have direct access to a transforming experience of Divine revelation. As Quakers living today we might experience a dynamic faith and practice that is moving and transformative. Our ways of accessing each other have evolved since those days in the seventeenth century when authoritarian ‘We are learning systems were challenged by those seeking authentic about trauma, spiritual experience. Today and finding we are graced with new tools to access in each other the ways to healing potential for shared healing and wholeness.’ and growth. The ‘I and Thou’ of relational willingness to share and patiently stand with each other can increase the spaces for spiritual growth as we move on. We have tools from psychology and psychotherapy, plus the mindfulness techniques so embraced in Buddhism, as well as ways of finding our embodiment of wholeness in movement: dance, yoga, qigong and other body work. We have increasing sharing of sacred practices and knowledge of indigenous cultures that we might draw upon. Quakers are no longer excluded from creative expressions like painting, drawing, photography, poetry, and the performing arts. These are all an unfolding of the creative life force. We grow in awareness through our work on white privilege, recognising the arrogances of the white middle class, through the challenging work of Quaker Peace & Social Witness. We understand more about our Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash contributions to the environment, and seek together better ways to safeguard it. We are learning about trauma, and finding ways together towards healing and wholeness. The Covid-19 pandemic and volatile political and economic eruptions have forced us into time for reflection and urged us towards solutions. Perhaps time is ripe for us to embrace more fully the opening of our tender hearts and share what love requires of us. n Pat is a member of Jesus Lane Meeting, Cambridge. the Friend 12 March 2021 9
Meeting the challenge: All Friends in an Area Meeting need to think about its future, says Mary Aiston ‘I hope we will not just leave these issues to our trustees – we should all be taking an interest.’ I s your Area Meeting (AM) a vibrant and other charity. The exception from registration was due thriving spiritual community? What will to run out on 31 March 2021, but this deadline has been your AM look like in five years’ time? Ten extended to 31 March 2031. This extension is intended years’, twenty? What proportion of your AM’s to give excepted charities time to prepare for registration energy, money and capacity is spent running and to allow the Charity Commission time to register all the AM itself? Is it easy to find Friends to excepted organisations in a coordinated way. serve as trustees? It would be understandable if trustees of excepted If you were already thinking about these AMs breathed a sigh of relief at this point, and questions then read on. If you were not, now prioritised other work. But I hope they won’t do that, would be a good time to start. Why not begin by asking or at least not just yet. Instead, I hope all Friends in to see your AM’s most recent trustees’ annual report and excepted Area Meetings will take the opportunity for accounts, or speak to one of your AM trustees? prayerful consideration of how they operate, because if Our trustees do an important job, ensuring: that our Friends want to make any changes to their structures it resources are properly stewarded; that risks are identified is easier to do that before the AM has to register. and managed; that we understand our financial position; It is important to remember that, while thinking and that we plan for the future. We are lucky to have so about how AMs work raises lots of practical issues, many Friends willing to take on this role. As a member for Friends this is always a spiritual exercise requiring of Quaker Stewardship Committee, which reports to prayer and discernment. Yearly Meeting and provides support and advice to It can be difficult to know where to start but these trustees, I have met some fantastic Friends who give may be useful prompts: their time in these roles, but I hope we will not just leave these issues to our trustees – we should all be taking an • Is your AM a vibrant and thriving spiritual interest. community? What follows is primarily of interest to Friends in • What will your AM look like in five years’ time, in England and Wales because the rules are different in ten years, in twenty years? Scotland. Nineteen AMs have been excepted from having to register with the Charity Commission. That • What proportion of your AM’s energy, money and is because the government has extended the deadline capacity is spent on running the AM itself? for excepted charities to register, and we have a choice • Is it easy to find Friends willing to serve as trustees about how we use that breathing space. for your AM? In England and Wales, an Area Meeting is an excepted charity if its income is £100,000 or less. It must comply Once you have considered those questions you with charity law but does not need to register with the may be ready to focus on how your AM is organised; Charity Commission or submit annual returns there. Its • Are there other options for organising your AM trustees have the same responsibilities as trustees of any that would make it easier to run? 10 the Friend 12 March 2021
Photo by Hannah Busing on Unsplash • Are there other options that would make it easier to thinking about it. Briefly, the benefits include limiting find Friends to serve as trustees? the legal liability on individual trustees, which might make it easier to find Friends willing to serve as trustees. If you are not sure what options might be available to The drawbacks are the work involved in becoming you, the good news is that other Friends are already incorporated, which is likely to require legal advice and thinking about these issues and identifying different changes to bank accounts. AMs that have converted to ways forward. CIOs have found that it has made little difference to Meetings have much more permission to do things their ongoing administration or governance. differently than people sometimes think. For example, Of course, not all excepted AMs will decide they the centrally-run Simpler Meetings Project aims to find want to change their structures. But if you do then it ways to reduce the burden on key role holders and its is easier to do that before registering with the Charity webpage (www.quaker.org. Commission, so now is a good time to be thinking about this. ‘The good news uk/simplermeetings) is a great And if your excepted AM decides not to make any place to look for ideas. is that other Friends in Wales are changes then I would still recommend that you keep a focus on the work needed to register with the Charity Friends are exploring the scope for a Commission. single trustee body and already thinking single charity for Meeting of Most of what is needed is good practice for all about these Friends in Wales. charities – in particular, agreeing a schedule of the Friends in London property your AM owns, and documenting your issues.’ recognise that their structure relationship with any linked charities. Your successors of nine charities involves a will be very grateful you kept this work moving! lot of work. It means that, out of around 1,300 London If this all sounds rather daunting then the good news Friends, they have to find sixty-seven trustees and forty- is that there is help available. The Quakers in Britain seven treasurers. website has lots of information (including more on One option is a single charity with one set of trustees CIOs). Go to www.quaker.org.uk/trustees. The model for the whole of London while keeping the seven Area documents referred to are available from Neil Jarvis at Meetings. But that is not the only option, others are qsc@quaker.org.uk. being considered too. In other parts of the country You can also get help from your Quaker Stewardship neighbouring AMs are exploring different ways to Committee Link Friend. Clerks to AM trustees should collaborate, or merging altogether. know who this is, and Neil Jarvis can help put you in Another big question to think about is whether touch. Members of Quaker Stewardship Committee your AM wants to become a Charitable Incorporated look forward to hearing from you. n Organisation or CIO (SCIOs in Scotland). Some AMs have already gone down this route and others are Mary is from Quaker Stewardship Committee. the Friend 12 March 2021 11
David Firth, former editor of the Friend, died last month. Harry Albright, one of his successors, remembers some of David’s fine commentaries ‘You do not need to be an expert, or a bishop, or a journalist, to write in the Friend, but its readers do expect you to speak directly of what you have seen.’ ‘A I was very sad to learn of the death of David Firth, n interesting suggestion came one of my predecessors at the Friend. from a reader a few weeks David was always very supportive of me as a young ago, that we might regularly editor. He lived not far from Friends House and publish short pieces of more or would often visit. He was always very kind, and he less verbatim ministry which was aware of how the job had changed since his time, had been heard in a Friends as Britain Yearly Meeting became more diverse in Meeting and found particularly matters of theology (or lack thereof!). He appreciated valuable. It was a pity, he felt, the challenge for his successors in trying to balance that such things should not be the various views in a (forlorn) attempt to please more widely shared. everyone! I must confess that my frivolous mind conjured up the He would often greet me by saying something like: heading ‘Gems of Ministry’, somewhat in the Reader’s ‘Amongst the many excellent items in the Friend Digest style, perhaps with a decorative border. But in my recently…å’ and go on to highlight something that reply I agreed that many fine utterances can be heard in he felt was particularly good. Sometimes (I blush to Meeting; and indeed we do occasionally receive short say) it was one of my commentaries. I took this as the pieces which the writers say arose from ministry, and highest praise, because in fact it was David who was which it seems right to print. the master of the commentary in the Friend. In his Many Friends might share my hesitations over sixteen years of service, he honed the editor’s encouraging a flow of such pieces, however. It is partly commentary into a fine art, and a collection of some a matter of keeping in proportion the whole idea of of his best, Familiar Friend, was published in book spoken ministry. Even if it is inspiring and speaks to our form in 1982. condition it is only a part of what Quaker Meetings are Here is some of his work, containing many principles about. We do not go to meeting ‘to hear the ministry’ to which the Friend still tries to adhere. The issues are in the way that (I hope) many chapelgoers go in familiar even now. The last two extracts are from his anticipation of a good sermon. Much of the ministry in final commentaries as editor. They reveal an openness Meeting cannot be heard at all. and generosity of spirit that was a gift to the reader Then there is our conviction that a true piece of and a model for those of us who tried to step meekly ministry is something given – given indeed by God. It into his footsteps. is given to a particular group of people on a particular David was a kind, gentle man and an excellent occasion. Such ministry is sui generis, and it might not journalist. I was proud to call him a colleague and be right to take it and use the words in another context. a friend, with both a small and capital F. I will miss My final hesitation will be understood by other editors him. of religious journals, as we have all at times received contributions – usually verse – which the writers tell Harry was editor of the Friend 1997–2004. us was dictated to them by a Voice. The Voice has also 12 the Friend 12 March 2021
Image courtesy of Hugh Dennis told the writer to send it to our particular journal and ‘You do not need to be an expert, or a bishop, or a for that reason he or she expects us to publish it in journalist, to write in the Friend, but its readers do the next issue. Such divine arm-twisting is just not expect you to speak directly of what you have seen, fair, and at the risk of committing a considerable sin, done, found, felt. And therefore believe. Most valued we treat such offerings according to normal editorial of all, after we have looked abroad and at our national criteria. affairs, are those personal revelations of religious In spite of all these hesitations, I am sure that doubts, discoveries, hesitations and leaps forward. many of our most valuable articles – especially those “Return home to within,” said Francis Howgill, “sweep of a ‘devotional’ nature – do have their origin in your houses all, the groat is there, the little leaven is the thoughts of a Friend there, the grain of mustard-seed you will see, which ‘I see no sitting in Meeting. We the Kingdom of God is like.” Amid all our willing cherish the story of the coverage of Quaker business and busyness it will likely betrayal of the Quaker who over Sunday be some simple, sincerely shared “opening”, in letter or old good in lunch remarked, ‘I was just article or poem, that pierces our dullness with a shaft thinking in Meeting…’ only of Truth.’ striving for the to be admonished by an new good.’ elder, ‘Friend, thee should not have been thinking in ‘I write these last words with a full heart. Working Meeting!’ Though the story has a point, thought is not for the Friend has been for me a spiritual enrichment. simply to be banished like this from our weekly hour This enrichment has come partly from a modest together. Surely God speaks to us there in thoughts, broadening of my religious understanding; but mainly which are not always for sharing on the spot. Seeds are it is what I have learned from those who make up the sown, which may after a lot more thinking come to present body of Quakers. I never felt hesitant in giving fruit in the written word. space to the most diverse views, if I could sense that Those articles are a wonder to me. We never get these Friends were writing from the heart. many of that kind, but one always seems to float in at In my second Commentary, feeling a need to the right moment, unbidden. In fact one cannot ask introduce myself, I wrote: “I am equally at home with even the most practised Friend to sit down and ‘write the speakers of God-language (of which I myself speak us a “devotional”’ – their finest thoughts tend to turn a remote dialect) and with those who must use other to ashes and they resort to ‘conned and gathered stuff ’. terms. I see no betrayal of the old good in striving Better to wait. Time after time someone or other feels for the new good. And I expect Friends to love one a strong impulse to share their thoughts with us all, another.” After sixteen years, I still feel that way; above often very personal searchings, and often from an all the last bit’. n individual who has never written for us before and may never contribute again. Bless them for doing so.’ David was editor of the Friend 1974–1990. the Friend 12 March 2021 13
T his is a delightful anthology of The Life That Never Ends: An Friends’ experiences. For ease of anthology of Quaker spiritual/ reading, it is arranged under different headings: ‘As Death Approaches’, psychic experience, by Quaker ‘After Death Communications’, ‘Near Death Experiences’, ‘Animals and Fellowship for Afterlife Studies Afterlife’, and there are also some miscellaneous experiences. In ‘As Death Approaches’, Doreen Review by Patsy Varley tells us about her husband Joe, who was coming towards the end of his life. Adopting a state of mindfulness, Doreen began tuning into him, and found she could tell Freeman whether or not Joe needed her. She sensed a glowing presence around his feet. This glow continued until his entire body was a ‘Being of Light’. He died very peacefully. There are also a number of interesting after-death communications. Sylvia Izzard tells us about the occasion after the death of her husband Jim, when a friend of his visited. As they were talking about Jim, all the lights fused. Problems with the lighting continued. One evening in desperation, Sylvia and a friend lit a candle and spoke to Jim, asking him not to worry and to please solve the lighting problems. From then on there were no issues. John Philps recounts an occasion after his wife died. He was driving to Kent when he felt himself lifting up, surrounded and embraced by love. He knew it was his wife. At the end of the lane was a crossroads – the exact place he and his wife had visited on their last day out. He describes it as ‘mind-blowing’; it showed him that love is never lost. In the section on near-death experiences, Rosalind Smith gives an interesting account of a lady who, whenever she hears an ambulance, sends up a mental prayer, or thought, for the person involved. It goes something like: ‘If this person is not going to recover, then please let their passing be pain-free, gentle and peaceful – and if they are going to recover then let their recovery be full and complete, and may they have no debilitating after effects.’ One day she was passing a road accident and she sent up her usual prayer. Sometime later, at a gathering, a stranger came up to her and said that she had been looking for her. ‘I almost died in a road accident, but what saved me was you being there, and receiving the thoughts you sent up for me.’ Four months after she died, my daughter Jasmine began communicating with me telepathically. She made her presence felt in any number of different ways; one occasion was when a heavy brass lamp that hangs from the ceiling, began to swing backwards and forwards. My grandson, Harry, was staying at the time. They were both very close. I’m sure she did this to show him that Auntie Jasmine’s presence was with us. The signs she sent enabled me to return to life with renewed enthusiasm. My own sense after reading this anthology is that it will serve to open hearts and minds – enough to at least remain open to the great mystery that surrounds death; and the possibilities of there being a Spirit form after the body dies. May this anthology also instil new confidence in those wanting to share their own insights, but who may have felt reluctant because of their fears of ridicule or rejection. n Patsy is the author of In Search of You: Letters to a daughter. 14 the Friend 12 March 2021
I The Glorious did not have the good fortune to see the film on which this book is based. Its principal characters are Joseph Aloisius Ratzinger, then Journey, by Liam pope, and Jorge Bergoglio, the current pope (then cardinal). It starred Anthony Hopkins as Kelly Ratzinger and Jonathan Pryce as Bergoglio. The plot is simply a visit to Ratzinger by Bergoglio to discuss the latter’s retirement. The visit is fictitious. It gives the writer the possibility Review by Frank of blending artistic license, fact, fiction and imagination on the basis of actual events and concrete personalities. The film is a rare piece of work. It is not often that Regan theological discussion and spiritual experience find a place in popular entertainment. The conversations are far from arcane theological discourse – the themes are at the heart of being human: forgiveness, mercy, loneliness, suffering. The film is pro-Bergoglio, but we are not viewing a verbal joust between good pope and bad pope. The opinions expressed are not outlandishly conservative or progressive. There is no theological sparring. It is a dialogue between two leaders from two different worlds, two different pastoral experiences, two different points of departure, being of the same generation and faith tradition. The book is very practical, a manual for discussion alongside the film. Each chapter starts with a viewing of a short segment, followed by a quotation; then comes an exploration of the theme, ending with a prayer. The first chapter is entitled ‘The Journey’. This is a favourite of mine, perhaps because I am near the end of mine and am in need of a few pointers. Our author refers to Jeremiah who heard God say to him, ‘Before I formed you in the womb I knew you’. God and I go back a long time. There is a bit of Abraham too: ‘Leave your country, your kindred and your father’s house for a country I shall show you’. On my journey I acted from time to time like the prodigal son, but God was prodigal of mercy and compassion. Bergoglio says ‘We have to keep journeying… Don’t spend your life sitting on a couch’. There is more than one way to journey nowadays, via memory and prayer. And the couch will serve as wheelless chariot. Another favourite chapter is the one on loneliness. We are millions of people here in the UK who live on our own. We spend our days teetering between the sadness of loneliness and the joy of solitude. Are we alone or are we lonely? Life is cruel in taking away those we love. It leaves us wondering how it will be, waiting each day for the final consummation. Loneliness is the inability to experience the presence of God. In his memoirs, Jean-Paul Sartre wrote that there is a God-shaped hole in the heart of each one of us. Blaise Pascal said that within each one of us is a space only God can fill. Psalm 42 connects to our downcast soul and invites us within to plumb to where ‘Deep speaks unto deep’. Other chapters talk about love, change, mercy and listening. This is not a book for our Vaticanologists. There is no curial gossip or prelates’ backstabbing. Two human beings meet in a mode of ‘I and Thou’. It is good to listen and then to ruminate and meditate. n Frank is from Newton Abbot Meeting. the Friend 12 March 2021 15
T Breathtaking: Inside his book is about faith. Not faith in God, but faith in medicine, and faith in one’s fellow professionals. the NHS in a time of ‘You have to promise me something… you’ll make sure you pandemic, by Rachel Clark won’t catch it. You, the nurses, all of you here.’ This is from one of two sons watching their father die. It is a poignant start to this story of the Review by Nick Wilde coronavirus by Rachel Clarke, who writes in the night when she can’t sleep. She chronicles the development of the pandemic from its start in China, where the alarm was raised and suppressed, to its rapid spread across the world, fuelled by international travel and connectivity. Her husband is an airline pilot, and the link is not lost; indeed Rachel succumbs to the virus and is very ill. Those who have read Dear Life will know that Rachel believes in a good death. One patient, Steve, was able to watch one last Chelsea match on television, with his son, on New Year’s Day. Then there’s the man assiduous about handwashing and mask-wearing, unwittingly shaking hands with an old friend who reveals after the visit that he hasn’t felt well. Within days Ken is in intensive care. As the virus progresses across Europe to the UK the government response is ‘breathtakingly’ too little and too late. The NHS responds to the changing circumstances despite the austerity-imposed reductions in beds and staff. The inability to accompany relatives on what may be their last journey is tragic. There are many sitting in their cars watching the hospital they cannot enter. For the very best of reasons the very worst is happening. To read about the medical procedures brings it all home. When Rachel gets home she does not greet the children but rushes up stairs to ‘scrub every speck of infection away’. Her daughter is upset. “‘Work-life balance” doesn’t come close to capturing the forcefulness with which medicine clashes with parenthood.’ When the first doctor dies we learn about the staggering number of deaths among the medical profession, and the equally-staggering lack of proper PPE. A daughter sits at the kitchen table writing a diary of her father’s treatment so he can read it when he comes home – as she has to believe he will. It is an act of faith. He, a man of deep faith, has the church community supporting his family. Rachel notices the spontaneous willingness to help of so many people who give their time to helping others; the innate ability with which a young student nurse communicates with the daughter of a patient critical on a ventilator. A few weeks later Rachel is sitting with father and daughter in the garden. A marvellous outcome compared with what nearly was. Her honesty is in contrast to the politicians who bamboozle us with pseudoscientific statistics and what has been called ‘number theatre’. A lot of this makes grim reading but the quality of the writing carries you along. Rachel Clarke is an excellent writer and communicator. n Nick is from Hampshire and Islands Area Meeting. 16 the Friend 12 March 2021
Q Eye stitching strength, love mainly textile, panels. and hope and says: “We The panels were eye@thefriend.org are the makers of our ‘influenced by the beauty own future.” of nature, the horrors of ‘Creating through the Holocaust, the need hope allows us to for clean air, protection work on ourselves as of pollinators… we work for a better [and] will be joined A pop of pep Craftivism in world. We reflected together while we An episode of BBC1’s constrained times on what most touched ourselves wait to Bargain Hunt, which A recent all-age Meeting our hearts in terms of gather in person to aired on 19 February, for Worship inspired positive changes we explore our ideas saw a former student of Friends in Winchester would like to see in the further and consider a Quaker school snap to flex their creative muscles. world and how how we might become up a bottle of pop with Clarissa Palmer, those ideas could be crafty activists’. Friendly associations at Oswestry Showground. from Winchester transformed into clear Clarissa reflected: Bargain Hunt sees Meeting’s Children messages using craft ‘During these difficult pairs of contestants and Young People’s forms.’ times making something challenged to buy three Committee, told Eye Friends were inspired: by hand, generated by objects in an hour and about the session, held some drew, some positive thoughts, was then make a profit by via Zoom. looked through their uplifting. Craftivism selling them at auction. ‘Inspired by Craftivism recycling for materials, is a form of activism that Ten minutes into the and the Loving Earth one created a creature seems particularly suited show, with only twenty Project we considered from an abandoned to these constrained minutes of shopping the words of Betsy Greer, glove found during a times when gathering en time left, a bottle of “godmother” to activist lockdown walk, while masse to seek to effect ‘Quaker Pep’ was spied crafters, who sees in others fashioned small, change is not possible.’ by one team’s expert. The label shows a miner in a flat cap quenching his thirst with a refreshing, non-intoxicating, swig. Auctioned by Charles Hansen in Staffordshire, the pep pocketed the team a £4 profit. The quirky Quaker find was produced by Howell Davies & Co, based in Abercynon in Wales, in the 1920s, and reflects efforts by the Temperance Movement to urge people to turn away from alcohol. How flavourful this particular pop was is anyone’s guess, as the label is less than specific: Photo: Pendella Buchanan. ‘An imperial beverage blending nature’s aids to health.’ However, Friends can be reassured that it proudly boasts ‘a well-known analyst’s report’ determined the drink to be ‘a perfectly wholesome beverage’. the Friend 12 March 2021 17
For details of placing a notice email Friends&Meetings ads@thefriend.org or call George Penaluna on 01535 630230. Deaths One of the In 1989 the advertisement pages were already done on a desktop Bill (James William Croan) CHADKIRK 25 February. Husband of Deirdre Morris, father of Matthew “quiet heroes” computer with an early version of Pagemaker, but the editorial pages George Penaluna shares some were still typeset by the printer, and Ralph. Member of Seaford Meeting and formerly of QISP and personal reflections on working Headley Brothers in Ashford. QPAC. Aged 70. Celebration of Bill’s with David Firth, and his early As editor, David would travel to life when allowed. Enquiries: days at the Friend. Ashford by train every Tuesday deirdremorris88@gmail.com morning to layout the galley proofs Many Friends will have their own and proofread the final artwork. Kathleen HAINES 25 February, memories of David; previous Headley’s provided a small ‘cubby- peacefully. Member of Abingdon contributors, former trustees, other hole’ office for the Friend, a tiny Meeting, formerly Colchester. colleagues and obviously members oasis of calm in the busy printworks. of Friends House Meeting. I can’t Mary SHEPPARD 2 March, peace- After David’s final sign-off, the imagine anyone not liking and fully. Widow of Kenneth, mother Friend went to print on Tuesday of Richard, Melanie and Dianne. respecting him. night to be mailed to subscribers Member of Beverley Meeting and I remember David fondly from my early days at the Friend. My and distributed to wholesalers on attendee at Scarborough, previously Wednesday morning. of Bridlington, Bradford and Halifax. job interview in 1989 was held in Aged 98. Donations: Quaker Peace & his room, but with David more Another routine was David’s Social Witness. host than interviewer. In Drayton monthly trip to the hairdresser, House, the offices had been likened I believe at Horne Brothers Memorial meetings to a ‘private detective’s office in a menswear on Regent Street. David 1930s B-movie’. The telephone dials seemed to like a regulated life, or Joyce Isabel CROSFIELD widow still carried the number EUSton maybe he just accepted the yoke; of Edward Chorley. A memorial his daily lunch at The Penn Club, 7549, a format superseded in 1958! meeting will be held by Zoom on David exuded an air of calm the weekly routine of the Friend, Saturday March 20 at 6pm GMT. Unless you already have, please competence and had a quiet, the monthly round of Meeting for contact johnecrosfield@gmail.com sensitive spirituality. He had come Sufferings (and his barber), and if you wish to attend. to the Friend in 1974 after working the annual event of Yearly Meeting. with George Gorman in the He was a gentle man with a wide Diary Outreach section of Quaker Home range of knowledge and a sense Service. The previous editor was of whimsy. I was surprised by the ABOUT TIME TO BE QUIET wanting to retire and the trustees colourful clothes he was wearing at North West Regional Gathering, of the Friend ‘arm-twisted’ David Saturday 27 March, 9.30-12.45. his retirement tea party at Friends (if Quakers ever do such a thing) House, his office attire having been Speakers and Workshops including into taking the helm. Before QHS almost always a uniform beige. for parents of children, and on social media. Details: andrew.backhouse@ he had been a copywriter at an Obviously he didn’t just get his phonecoop.coop or 01625 537087. advertising agency, where he met hair cut on his trips to Horne Bros! his wife Jill. In retirement he was looking BUILDING PEACE FROM THE My first eight months at the forward to indulging his passion GROUND UP Saturday 13 March Friend were David’s last, but I online conference. Fellowship of for languages by studying Russian. benefitted greatly from his Reconciliation and Church and Peace. experience and wisdom. He had Our paths didn’t cross much Talks and workshops: responding perfected the art of declining after he retired, but whenever we to hate, tackling racism, creating unsuitable manuscripts, still typed bumped into each other at Friends prayers for peace and more. Register House it was always a delight. He double-spaced in those days, by now: http://bit.ly/3pnSfDB and Jill always placed a Christmas returning them to the author with SIDCOT SCHOOL QUAKER a headed postcard on which he’d greeting in the Friend, which gave GENERAL MEETING Wednesday write simply, “Not one for the us the chance to share notes and afternoon 24 March. This will be Friend I’m afraid. Love David”. greetings. Despite our short an electronic meeting from 1pm to This is a tactic I’ve adopted overlap, my eight months working 4.30pm. For details of how to join whenever I’ve had to decline an with David set the tone for all my the meeting please contact the clerks advertisement, luckily this is a very time at the Friend ever since. at ssqgm2021@fastmail.fm rare event. God bless David, and his wife Jill. 18 the Friend 12 March 2021
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