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2/27/2019 Supporting Safe and Healthy Schools for LGBTQ Students Becca Mui, M. Ed. February 27, 2019 Caitlin Clark, PhD Supporting Safe and Healthy Schools for LGBTQ Students 1
2/27/2019 Learning outcomes: After viewing this webinar you should be able to: • Understand how school counselors are being prepared to support LGBTQ students, what their actual practice is, and what barriers they face in implementing these practices. • Explain the importance of LGBTQ-specific mental health supports for students. • Identify strategies and resources for creating safer and more supportive learning environments for LGBTQ students. GLSEN Webinar Team • Caitlin Clark, PhD • Becca Mui, M. Ed. • She/her pronouns • She/her pronouns • Research Associate • Education Manager 2
2/27/2019 Agenda • GLSEN Overview • GLSEN Research – National School Climate Survey – Supporting Safe and Healthy Schools • GLSEN Resources – Best Practices and recommendations – Free Resources • Q&A GLSEN is the leading national education organization focused on ensuring safe schools for all students. Established in 1990, GLSEN envisions a world in which every child learns to respect and accept all people, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity/expression. GLSEN seeks to develop school climates where difference is valued for the positive contribution it makes to creating a more vibrant and diverse community. • Leading Research • Policy Advocacy • Educational Resources & • Public Awareness Professional Development • 40+ State & Local Chapters • Student Leadership 3
2/27/2019 GLSEN Annual Days of Action We provide free planning resources, activity ideas, and support: Day of Silence Ally Week No Name- Calling Week April September January GLSEN Research: 2017 National School Climate Survey 4
2/27/2019 Safety at School 78.9% of students felt unsafe because of at least one personal characteristic. Safety at School In the past month, over a third missed at least one day of school (34.9%). 5
2/27/2019 Biased Language Anti-LGBTQ comments were common among students… Biased Language Anti-LGBTQ comments were not uncommon from educators. 6
2/27/2019 Biased Language School staff and peers rarely intervened in anti-LGBTQ remarks. Biased Language School staff and peers rarely intervened in anti-LGBTQ remarks. 7
2/27/2019 Experiences of Harassment & Assault • Nearly 9 in 10 LGBTQ students were harassed or assaulted at school • Sexual orientation and gender expression were the most commonly targeted characteristics. Reporting Incidents of Harassment & Assault The most common reason for not reporting to school staff was: Doubting that effective intervention would occur. • Over 6 in 10 (68.0%) did not think school staff would do anything. • Over 6 in 10 (61.4%) did not think school staff would be effective in handling the situation. “While my school does have policies against hate speech and harassment, the administration usually takes no action against students reported for such things.” 8
2/27/2019 Reporting Incidents of Harassment & Assault When students did report to staff, the most common response: Staff Did Nothing or Told Student to Ignore It (60.4%) “A few guys have pushed me against the walls and groped me. I’ve only gone to school staff once after this incident and I was questioned if I had done something to provoke this sort of response from my peers.” Effectiveness of Staff Intervention Students reported that staff members’ responses were more likely to be effective when: • Staff took disciplinary action against the perpetrator • Staff educated the perpetrator about bullying • Staff contacted the perpetrator’s parents 9
2/27/2019 School Discipline Effects of a Hostile School Climate Students who experienced high levels of harassment and assault and/or discriminatory practices had poorer educational outcomes. ↓Academic achievement ↓ Educational Victimization aspirations and Discrimination ↓ School belonging ↑ Missing school 10
2/27/2019 Effects of a Hostile School Climate Students who experienced high levels of harassment and assault and/or discriminatory practices had lower psychological well-being. ↑ Depression Victimization and Discrimination ↓ Self-Esteem LGBTQ-Related School Resources and Supports Student Clubs were related to: (GSAs) • Negative school experiences (homophobic remarks, feeling Inclusive Curricular unsafe, victimization) Resources • School staff intervention in biased language Supportive Educators • Positive educational outcomes (less absenteeism, higher Inclusive Policies educational aspirations, greater academic achievement) 11
2/27/2019 GLSEN Research: Supporting LGBTQ Students’ Well- Being and Educational Success: New Survey Findings and Best Practices of School Mental Health Providers Attitudes about Unsafety • Perspectives • 12
2/27/2019 Attitudes towards Work with LGBTQ Students • Majority agree it is their responsibility to provide supportive counseling (87.2%) • A small portion disagree (3.6%). • Some remain neutral. Attitudes regarding LGBTQ School Practices 13
2/27/2019 Attitudes re: LGBTQ School Practices • Majority did not think it is better for students to conform to gender norms (55.5% for males, 57.1% for females) School Mental Health Professionals feel most confident… • Intervening in anti-LGBTQ remarks, bullying, and/or harassment of students (93.1%) • Using culturally sensitive terminology when talking with or about LGB people (89.1%), about transgender people (75.9%) • Creating a safe space for LGBTQ students (86.9%) • Providing counseling and support to an LGBTQ student (82.0%) • Bringing up SOGI issues in conversation with “all” students (74.5%) 14
2/27/2019 School Mental Health Professionals feel least confident… • Conducting support groups specifically for LGBTQ students (47.4%) • Serving as a GSA sponsor/advisor in their school (46.3%) • Addressing the unique health and mental health needs of transgender youth (35.3%) LGBTQ-Related Competency Training in Graduate School • 7 in 10 received little to no training on working with LGB populations • 8 in 10 received little to no training in working with transgender populations • Over 3/4ths received little to no training in working with LGBTQ youth 15
2/27/2019 Counselor Preparation Meeting with LGBTQ Students in their School 16
2/27/2019 Individual-Level Practices School-Level Practices 17
2/27/2019 Counselor Practices Factors Related to LGBTQ-Supportive Practices Specific training to serve LGBTQ students (including pre-service preparation & in-service PD) Confidence in abilities to engage in LGBTQ- supportive practices (i.e., self-efficacy) LGBTQ-supportive practices (individual- and school-level) Familiarity with LGBTQ people (esp. students, coworkers, & parents) Awareness of school climate for LGBTQ students Positive attitudes toward LGBTQ students & school practices 18
2/27/2019 GLSEN Blog: 5 Tips and Best Practices By Kit McCann, LMFT, she/her, a queer/gender therapist in New Hampshire. Advocate with other School Leaders • Display LGBTQ-affirming signs or stickers • Interrupt anti-LGBTQ language and mispronouning/misgendering • Start or support GSAs • Know the school’s policies and, if needed, advocate for LGBTQ- supportive policies 19
2/27/2019 Explore LGBTQ-Community Resources • Research therapists and clinics that are LGBTQ-friendly • Compile a list of referrals for students who are looking for therapy outside of school • Know your limits • Check out CampusPrideIndex.org for LGBTQ- friendly college recommendations Be Transparent About Confidentiality • Research and understand your particular obligations to share information with teachers, administrators, or family members • Read the ACLU’s open letter on Student Right to Privacy • Be transparent with your students that you will have to break confidentiality if you are concerned about their safety either due to potential self- harm or harm from someone else. 20
2/27/2019 Follow Their Lead With “Coming Out” • Read and share GLSEN Coming Out Guide at glsen.org/comingout • Gender and sexual orientation identities are often fluid, especially for students • Students determine when and with whom to share their identities and pronouns • Always ask first and follow their lead Students Are their Own Experts • Keep learning about pronouns and LGBTQ identity • Don’t assume what worked for one student will work for another with the same or similar identities • Hold an open, honest space where each individual student can teach you about their specific experience 21
2/27/2019 GLSEN Resources GLSEN’s 4 Supports to Create Inclusive Schools: • Enumerated Policies Implement comprehensive anti-bullying policy that specifically includes protections based on sexual orientation or gender identity/expression among a list of enumerated categories. See GLSEN’s Trans Model Policy. • Supportive Educators Educators who show their support for LGBTQ students. Educators who have had staff trainings on how to address anti- LGBT bullying. • Student-led Clubs Support for student interventions such as Gender-Sexuality Alliance (GSA) clubs and participation in events such as the Day of Silence. • Inclusive Curriculum Positive representations of LGBTQ people, history, and events in school curriculum. 22
2/27/2019 4 5 Video: Nonbinary Identity 23
2/27/2019 GLSEN Resources www.glsen.org/trans • Trans Model Policy • Gender Visual and Discussion Guide • Pronoun Resource • Identity Videos • Blogs by trans students and trans educators Ready, Set, Respect! • GLSEN’s Ready, Set, Respect! • The lessons focus on name- calling, bullying and bias, LGBT-inclusive family diversity and gender roles and diversity and are designed to be used as either standalone lessons or as part of a school-wide anti-bias or bullying prevention program. 24
2/27/2019 Q&A Contact Us For Research For Educator Resources • glsen.org/research to • glsen.org/educators to subscribe to Research subscribe to Educator Network Newsletter emails • @GLSENResearch on Twitter • @GLSEN_Education on Twitter • Email glsenresearch@glsen.org • Email educators@glsen.org 25
Schools Can Be the Difference for Transgender and Gender Nonconforming Youth Transgender and gender nonconforming (trans/GNC) youth face enormous obstacles to a safe and welcoming school environment, but students who attend supportive schools have better personal mental health and academic outcomes. Trans/GNC youth 83.7% of Over 4 in 10 trans/GNC students transgender face gender-related discrimination at school, including: are experiencing & 69.9% extremely hostile of GNC climates in students 42.1% of trans/GNC 46.5% of trans/ were bullied/harassed students have been GNC students have US schools. at school because of their gender. prevented from using their been required to use the preferred name or pronoun. incorrect bathroom. And too few schools Good news! have supportive policies. Research shows that schools can help trans/GNC students by enacting supportive In fact, only 1 in 10 trans/GNC students and inclusive policies. In fact, trans/GNC students in schools with trans/GNC report their school has policies or student policies are face less discrimination and are more engaged in school. guidelines supporting trans/GNC students. Less likely to be prevented from using Less likely to their preferred name Less likely to be required to miss school or pronouns use the wrong bathrooms (54.7% vs. 67.0%) (22.5% vs. 47.5%) (23.5% vs. 51.9%) Together, we can make our schools safe and inclusive for LGBTQ youth. Here’s how you can help: Advocate for trans/ Create a trans/GNC- Train educators to GNC-inclusive policies inclusive curriculum support trans/GNC youth glsen.org/policy glsen.org/curriculum glsen.org/training Data from the 2017 National School Climate Survey: The Experiences of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer Youth in Our Nation's Schools. Learn more at glsen.org/nscs
Gender Terminology: Discussion Guide Gender studies are for everyone! Gender is much more complex than “boys” and “girls,” but not too complicated for students of any age to learn about. All students have a gender, express that gender each day, and are affected by gender stereotypes. You can use GLSEN’s Gender Terminology Visual to explain these basic gender terms. Gender identity is how you identify and see yourself. Everyone gets to decide their gender identity for themselves. You may identify as a girl or a boy. If you don’t feel like a boy or a girl, you might identify as agender, genderqueer, nonbinary or just as a person. You may choose not to use any specific term to define your gender identity, or you may use a term today that you decide later doesn’t fit. You have a right to identify however you want, and your identity should be respected. Sex assigned at birth is the sex that the medical community labels a person when they are born. If your gender identity matches the sex assigned to you at birth, then you are cisgender. For example, if you identify as a girl and you were assigned female at birth, then you are cisgender. People whose gender identity does not match their sex assigned at birth may be transgender. Regardless of our gender identity and sex assigned at birth, people express their gender in a variety of ways. This includes the way that we talk, our mannerisms, how we interact with others, our clothing, accessories, hairstyles, activities we enjoy, and much more! You should never use a person’s gender expression to guess their gender identity. Gender attribution describes how your gender is perceived by others. This can change depending on the people you’re around, the country you’re in, or even the time period. For example, although we might consider dresses to be stereotypically feminine, ancient Romans wore dresses or “togas” regardless of their gender, and a man wearing one at that time would be perceived as masculine. DISCUSSION TOPICS: example, “girls like pink” or “boys don’t cry.” Take nn a moment to think about your gender These stereotypes can make people feel bad identity. How do you identify today? Is this the for the things they like to do and for being same as the sex you were assigned at birth? who they are. Even though nonbinary people Gender expression can be really fun when we nn aren’t boys or girls, they may still be teased give people the space to explore what feels for breaking stereotypes associated with their good to them. There are so many different sex assigned at birth or the gender they are ways to show off our gender and ourselves. perceived as being. nn What are some ways you are expressing or nn What are some ways that you break gender showing your gender today? stereotypes? nn How might this change on a different day? nn How could you encourage your friends and There are gender stereotypes that try to tell nn classmates to express their gender in a way us that people who identify as girls or boys that feels right to them? should act and dress a certain way. For facebook.com/GLSEN @GLSEN @GLSENofficial GLSEN.tumblr.com 1
Cis-privilege: nn The more all of these identities are aligned, the more cis-privilege you benefit from. For example, if you identify as a boy who was assigned male at birth, and your gender expression stays in what is considered “masculine” in your culture, AND you stay around people who perceive and read your expression as masculine, then your gender is not questioned. You might even get to move through the world without thinking about gender, being misgendered*, or feeling limited by gender stereotypes. nn What ways do you experience cis-privilege? nn What changes can you make to make your classroom or GSA more inclusive of transgender people? GENDER IS MUCH MORE COMPLEX THAN “BOYS” AND “GIRLS.” WHY DO WE NEED SO MANY TERMS? Inuit nn people have 50 different words for that In case you or someone you know are wondering we call “snow.” That’s because it’s important why we have so many terms when talking about to them. We need language to talk about gender, here are some talking points: gender and sexual identities because it helps We nn are a language-based society, and using people feel seen and validated when they fall language is the best way that we learn about outside of people’s assumptions. new things with each other. If you’ve ever In addition, having the language to describe nn seen a paint strip in a hardware store, think one’s gender identity outside of the gender about how many words we use to describe binary is liberating and creates community shades of one color. And that’s just paint, not among people experiencing gender in similar people’s identities! ways. We all have the right to have language to define ourselves. Check out GLSEN’s Gender Terminology Visual. *Misgendering refers to the experience of being labeled by others as a gender other than one that a person identifies with. The essential thing to do after learning someone’s pronouns is remembering to use those pronouns when referring to that person. If you accidentally use the wrong pronoun when identifying someone, please correct yourself in front of that person and begin using the right pronoun. Everyone makes mistakes, and making visible your work to respect and use someone’s pronoun after a mistake is an important moment to take. It is not the responsibility of the transgender or gender nonconforming person to address your feelings after you misgender them. facebook.com/GLSEN @GLSEN @GLSENofficial GLSEN.tumblr.com 2
PRONOUNS: A RESOURCE SUPPORTING TRANSGENDER AND GENDER NONCONFORMING (GNC) EDUCATORS AND STUDENTS Why focus on pronouns? You may have noticed that people are sharing their pronouns in introductions, on nametags, and when GSA meetings begin. This is happening to make spaces more inclusive of transgender, gender nonconforming, and gender non-binary people. Including pronouns is a first step toward respecting people’s gender identity, working against cisnormativity, and creating a more welcoming space for people of all genders. How is this more inclusive? People’s pronouns relate to their gender identity. For example, someone who identifies as a woman may use the pronouns “she/her.” We do not want to assume people’s gender identity based on gender expression (typically shown through clothing, hairstyle, mannerisms, etc.) By providing an opportunity for people to share their pronouns, you're showing that you're not assuming what their gender identity is based on their appearance. If this is the first time you're thinking about your pronoun, you may want to reflect on the privilege of having a gender identity that is the same as the sex assigned to you at birth. Where do I start? Include pronouns on nametags and during introductions. Be cognizant of your audience, and be prepared to use this resource and other resources (listed below) to answer questions about why you are making pronouns visible. If your group of students or educators has never thought about gender-neutral language or pronouns, you can use this resource as an entry point. What if I don’t want to share my pronouns? That’s ok! Providing space and opportunity for people to share their pronouns does not mean that everyone feels comfortable or needs to share their pronouns. Some people may choose not to share their pronouns for a variety of reasons, e.g. they are questioning or transitioning their pronouns, they don’t use or like any pronouns, they don’t feel comfortable sharing them at that moment or in that space, or they fear bullying or harassment after sharing. In the case that someone has left pronouns off the nametag or chosen not to share their pronouns, please refrain from using pronouns for that person and refer to the person by name.
Misgendering Misgendering refers to the experience of being labeled by others as a gender other than one that a person identifies with. The essential thing to do after learning someone’s pronouns is remembering to use those pronouns when referring to that person. If you accidentally use the wrong pronoun when identifying someone, please correct yourself in front of that person and begin using the right pronoun. Everyone makes mistakes, and making visible your work to respect and use someone’s pronoun after a mistake is an important moment to take. It is not the responsibility of the transgender or GNC person to address your feelings after misgendering. What about PGP? There has been a shift away from the term “preferred gender pronoun” or “PGP” to using “pronoun.” This change was made because a person’s pronouns are not just preferred; they're the pronouns that must be used. Make your support visible! • Include “pronoun:” under “name:” in nametags and introductions as an opportunity for participants to make visible their gender pronouns. • Put up a sign or statement like this near the nametags, classrooms, or GSA meeting spaces: • [Your School or Group Name] is including pronouns because we are working to make our spaces more inclusive of transgender, gender nonconforming, and gender non-binary people. • Put up this sign near nametags with pronoun sections: • We encourage you to fill in the pronoun section along with your name, so that we use the correct pronouns with each other from the beginning. We have left the pronoun section blank so that you can fill in any/all pronouns you use. • Wear and distribute pronoun buttons or nametags at school. Tips for Gender-neutral Language: • If you feel comfortable, introduce yourself with your pronouns as a model. For example: “Hi, I’m Anjelique. I use she/her and they/them pronouns” or “I’m Milo, and I use they/them pronouns.” • Practice, practice, practice! Use gender-neutral pronouns such as “they” and “ze” while visualizing the person who uses them. • Whenever possible, take the lead from the transgender and GNC students and educators in your school, especially during the planning stages. • Welcome feedback, and be ready to make adjustments as you continue to make your spaces more inclusive: “If you have any feedback for us on how to make this GSA a more welcoming space for
transgender, gender nonconforming and gender non-binary people, please let us know!” • When addressing groups of people or people whose pronouns you haven’t been told, use gender-neutral language such as, “friends,” “folks,” “all,” or “y’all,” rather than “guys,” “ladies,” “ma’am,” or “sir.” Other resources from GLSEN for supporting Trans/GNC Youth • Webinar for Educators: Supporting Trans and GNC Students • Be a Better Ally to Trans and GNC Youth • Know Your Rights: A Guide for Transgender and GNC Students • Video on genderfluidity by one of GLSEN's National Student Council members • Blogs on nonbinary identity and transgender binary-privilege • Make your GSA more Trans and GNC Inclusive Leading Organizations for Transgender Advocacy: • National Center for Transgender Equality – transequality.org • Transgender Law Center - transgenderlawcenter.org • Trans Student Educational Resources (TSER) - transstudent.org • Trans Women of Color Collective - twocc.us IMPORTANT TERMS: Cisgender: A person whose gender identity and expression are aligned with the gender they were assigned at birth. Cisnormativity: The assumption that cisgender identity is the norm, which plays out in interpersonal interactions and institutional privileges that further the marginalization of transgender people. Gender: A set of cultural identities, expressions and roles – codified as feminine or masculine – that are assigned to people based upon the interpretation of their bodies, and more specifically, their sexual and reproductive anatomy. Since gender is a social construction, it is possible to reject or modify the gender one is assigned at birth, and to develop, live and express a gender that feels truer and just to oneself. Gender Binary: A socially constructed system of viewing gender as consisting solely of two categories, “male” and “female,” in which no other possibilities for gender are believed to exist. The gender binary is a restrictive and inaccurate way to view gender because it does not take into account the diversity of gender identities and gender expressions among all people. The gender binary is oppressive to anyone that does not conform to dominant societal gender norms.
Gender Expression: The multiple ways (e.g., behaviors, dress) in which a person may choose to communicate gender to oneself and/or to others. Gender Identity: A personal conception of oneself as male, female, both, neither and/or another gender. Gender identity can be the same as or different from the gender a person is assigned at birth. Gender identity is a matter of self-identification; no one can tell anyone else how to identify or what terms to use. Gender identity is different from sexual orientation, and everyone has both a gender identity and a sexual orientation. Gender Non-binary: An umbrella term for gender identities used by people whose gender is not exclusively male or female Gender Nonconforming: A descriptive term and/or identity of a person who has a gender identity and/or expression that does not conform to the traditional expectations of the gender they were assigned at birth. People who identify as “gender nonconforming” or “gender variant” may or may not also identify as “transgender.” Pronouns: The pronoun or set of pronouns that a person identifies with and would like to be called when their proper name is not being used. Examples include “she/her/hers,” “he/him/his,” ze/hir/hirs,” and “they/them/theirs.” Some people prefer no pronouns at all. Transgender: An umbrella term describing people whose gender identity does not match the gender they were assigned at birth.
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