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St. C CHRISTMAS AND NEW YEAR. NOLLAIG AGUS ATHBHLIAIN - Newbridge Parish
NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

                         Parish Team Phone Numbers                                                                 Parish Office
 Fr. Paul Dempsey, P.P.               Fr. Michael Cudzilo C.C.             Sr. Eileen, Parish Sister               Parish Office
 Tel. 045 431741                      Tel. 045 438036                      Tel. 045 431939                         Tel. 045 431394
                                                                           Margarita Bedding
 Fr. J. McDermott, P.E.C.C.           Fr. Eugen Dragos Tamas               Parish Pastoral Minister                Pastoral Office
 Tel. 045 903889                      Tel. 045 433979                      Tel. 087 6107528                        Fax: 045 486171
 Fr. Paul Lawlor, O.P.                Rev. Deacon Jim Stowe                Donal Mahon
                                                                           Parish Administrator                    Parish Centre
 Tel. 045 487200                      Tel. 045 431394                      Tel. 087 2124515                        Tel. 045 431121
                                    Emergency Number: Priest on call 087-2554908
                          M A S S                   T I M E S
                                                                                                                      BAPTISMS
      ST CONLETH’S            CILL MHUIRE                            DOMINICAN CHURCH
 Saturday: Vigil Mass     Saturday: Vigil Mass                   Saturday:     Vigil Mass                        Ruby Cooke – Robertstown
           6.00pm                                                              8.00pm
                                    7.00pm                                                             Nevaeh Eve Walsh McEnroe – Millfield Manor
 Sunday:   8.30am 11.00am                                        Sunday:       9.30am 10.30am           Erin Antoinette Kavanagh – Athgarvan Road
           12.30pm 7.00pm Sunday:   10.30am                                    12 noon 5.30pm                 Theo Graham Slattery – Suncroft
                                                                                                                Elija Matulyte – Páirc Mhuire
                       St. Conleth’s Parish                                                                  Donnacha Brennan – College Park
                                                                                                                James Keogh – Páirc Mhuire
                Social Evening in Hotel Keadeen                                                          Ruth Elizabeth Hosback – Kilbelin Abbey
                                                                                                            Robyn Ashleigh Finnegan – The Elms
                      Friday January 31st at 8.15pm                                                     Remy-Alexa Tammy Fitzpatrick Kavanagh –
                      If a group wishes to reserve a table please inform                                                Páirc Mhuire
              the Parish Centre Receptionist of same when purchasing tickets.                               Klaudia Klimczak – College Orchard
                       Tickets €25 (includes 3 Course Meal and Band)                                        Alannah Gloria Poole – College Farm
                         Available from the Parish Centre 045 431121                                          Aria Kate Poole – College Farm
                                                                                                          Anna Catherine Healy – Belmont Green
                   Raffle on the night for Newbridge Parish Lourdes Fund                                  Tallie Suzanne Moran – Millfield Manor
                                                                                                        Lewis James Whitworth – Wellesley Manor
                      Immaculate Conception December 8th                                                    Maya Doran Jervis – Cedarwood Park
                   The Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception, 2019,                                   Mollie Mae McLoughlin Mulpeter – Standhouse
                          Not a Holyday of Obligation this Year.                                                            Rise
    The Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception is normally a holyday of obligation.
    But as 8th December is the Second Sunday of Advent, the solemnity is transferred                                    DEATHS
     to Monday 9th December, and is NOT a holyday of obligation. Masses will be at
        the usual times: 9.30am in St. Conleth’s Church and 10am in Cill Mhuire.                               Mary (Molly) Conroy – Moorefield Park
                                                                                                                     Séan Garrett – Páirc Mhuire
We welcome two new members to the Parish Team                                                                       Martha O’Donnell – Piercetown
                                                                                                       Catherine F (Kay) Cullen (née Nolan – Curragh Grange
                      Charlotte Vard                                 Fr. Piotr Jakubiak                                      & Rathangan
                      Charlotte is originally                        Piotr hails from Lublin in            Kenneth (Francis) Mulhall – St. Joseph’s Ave &
                      from Limerick but has                          South East Poland and has                             Wiltshire, England
                      lived in Newbridge for the                     recently come to live in New-                  Bob Duggan – Highfield Estate
                      past 19 years. A past pupil                    bridge. Having had a mirac-       Laurence (Larry) Kearns – Old Connell & Rathmines,
                                                                                                                                 Dublin
                      of Scoil Mhuire and Holy                       ulous recovery from a very
                                                                                                          Michael Lambe – Lumville House, The Curragh
Family Secondary School she has studied             serious illness, he entered the seminary in                      Alex Whelan – Páirc Mhuire
Psychology and Catechetics and is skilled in        2001 and was ordained in 2008. He worked            RSM Retd. Edward (Mossie) Whelan – Langton Park
IT. She has been leading Confirmation Re-           in three parishes before coming to Ireland                       Rose Armstrong – Roseberry
treats for the past five years and was a founder    and was Chairperson of the New Evangelisa-          Patrick (Paddy) O’Brien – Mount Carmel & formerly
member of the Amadeus Youth Group and               tion School in his diocese as well as running                              of Caragh
Youth Choir. Most recently she has devel-           retreats with young people. He will be serving             Sally Cormack – Goresbridge, Kilkenny
oped our new Parish App. She is currently a         as the Polish Chaplain in our diocese as well        Sr. Claire Marie O’Connell – Holy Family Convent
member of the Diocesan Safeguarding Com-            as working as part of our Parish Team and is                        Kitty Cox – Piercetown
                                                                                                                  Conleth (Con) Farrell – Piercetown
mittee. Charlotte enjoys spending time with         living in the Presbytery in Ballymany. He en-
                                                                                                       Margaret O’Meara (nee Ryan) – England & formerly of
her beloved dog Suzy and is an avid rugby fan       joys learning new languages and is currently                              the Crescent
supporting Munster!! !                              studying English with impressive results.                 Patrick Dowling Jnr – Allenview Heights
                                                                                                                Ann Nolan Dempsey – Kilbelin Cross
     REPUBLIC OF IRELAND SUPPORTERS CLUB NEWBRIDGE                                                              Patrick (Peadar) Brennan – Ryansfield
               MASS FOR DECEASED MEMBERS                                                                           Margaret Cullen – Langton Park
                                                                                                        Michael Fleming – Fengrove & formerly of Dunlavin
             ON SATURDAY 7th OF DECEMBER 2019                                                                         Frank Malone – Rathangan
                          at 7pm in                                                                              Frank (Frankie) Keogh – Blessington
                   CILL MHUIRE CHURCH,                                                                             Patsy (Patrick) Clarke – Kilcullen
                                                                                                         Patricia (Pattie) Rafter – The Grange & formerly of
                  BALLYMANY, NEWBRIDGE                                                                                      Dublin & Mayo
                     ALL ARE WELCOME                                                                             Ann Campbell – St. Dominic’s Park

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St. C CHRISTMAS AND NEW YEAR. NOLLAIG AGUS ATHBHLIAIN - Newbridge Parish
NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

 EDITORIAL                                                                                                                       Breda Reid
                                                                           And so, folks, to my farewell. This is my last issue News & Views.
  May the Spirit of Christmas bring you peace                              I have decided to retire and let a new pair of hands take over at the
                                                                           helm. Believe it or not it is ten years since Sadie Barlow asked me
  May the Gladness of Christmas bring you hope                             to take over the reins from herself. I have really enjoyed editing
  May the warmth of Christmas bring you love                               News &Views and learned so much in the process. But I always
                                                                           said that once I stopped getting the same level of enjoyment out of
              Merry Christmas                                              it, I would stop. I think I have taken it as far as I can. A new editor
                                                                           with new ideas will be able to take it to bigger and better heights.
This time last year I was preparing to travel to Rovaniemi Finland
                                                                           And that new editor is Brenda Drumm.
to visit the great man himself. The trip was a gift from my daughter
                                                                                                      Brenda lives in Newbridge with her
Emma and her husband Carlos. I accompanied them, their two
                                                                                                      husband Bryan and two children, Emma
daughters, Isabella and Natalia and Carlos’ mum, Maria. Believe
                                                                                                      and Cathal. She is Communications
it or not we were actually praying for snow in Finland before we
                                                                                                      Officer and Digital Media Manager with
left! Seemingly, global warming had delayed the onset of snow
                                                                                                      the Irish Catholic Bishops’ Conference
and it didn’t arrive till the first week in December, two months
                                                                                                      in Maynooth, a job she had held for
late! Luckily it arrived in time for us. Finland is a beautiful
                                                                                                      the past 19 years. She was media and
country but the lack of daylight in winter months would not suit
                                                                                                      communications manager for the World
me at all. While we were there, the sun rose around 10.00 am and
                                                                                                      Meeting of Families 2018 and the papal
set at 1.30pm. I’d be eating Vitamin D by the bucketload if I lived
                                                                           visit. She is currently chair of Newbridge Parish Pastoral Council
there.
                                                                           and a member of In Caelo Choir. She presents a monthly podcast
We visited Santa’s underground workshop the day after we arrived.
                                                                           called Faithcast and writes a digital media column for Intercom
I thought the first thing we would do was visit Santa, but no, the
                                                                           magazine. She presented Religion Matters on Kfm Radio from
girls were happy-out making Christmas decorations, going to Elf
                                                                           2010-2017.
school and decorating cookies. We were about three hours there
                                                                           A cancer survivor, Brenda is a busy bee most of the time. She
before they decided to go to Santa’s cabin! I was astonished. I had
                                                                           likes walking and swimming and is an avid photographer! She
been certain it was the first thing we would do. Anyway, when we
                                                                           is really looking forward to being involved in News & Views. I
eventually entered his living room tears sprung to my eyes. Yep,
                                                                           am content in the knowledge that the magazine is in very safe and
at 65 years of age I finally got to meet the legend and was totally
                                                                           capable hands.
overcome. There wasn’t a bother on the girls!
                                                                           At this point I wish to thank Fr Joe and Fr. Paul for trusting and
While we were there, we also got an opportunity to step into the
                                                                           allowing me a free rein over the years, thanks also to the staff in
Arctic Circle; so, two items were knocked off the bucket list.
                                                                           the Parish Centre and Parish Office for their support. Thank you
Unfortunately, the aurora borealis made no appearance but a jaunt
                                                                           to the News & Views committee, Margarita, Vincent, Lorcán and
in a reindeer sled made up for the disappointment.
                                                                           Raphael, to Citizens Information and Accord for supplying me with
                                                                           input for each issue, to Sr. Catherine for her unwavering, reliable
                                                                           and thoughtful column each month and to all our contributors
                                                                           down through the years. To our local photographers who were so
                                                                           generous with their photographs, thank you. Thanks to Donovan
                                                                           Printing and latterly Mochua Printers for their professionalism and
                                                                           skill, thanks also to our advertisers without whose support News &
                                                                           Views would not survive. To our distributors, those who come to
                                                                           the parish centre to help sort the 7000 copies into groups and those
                                                                           who go door to door on a regular basis, I cannot fully express our
                                                                           gratitude for your service. And finally, thanks to you our readers.
                                                                           Just remember News & Views is your parish and community
                                                                           magazine. Please bear it in mind when your group, or club or
                                                                           organisation is planning an event or celebrating achievements. It
                                                                           is a wonderful instrument to communicate your news to our town
                                                                           and its inhabitants. And so, with that final message, I will finish.
                                                                           Slán agus Beannacht dhiaibh go leir. God bless you all.

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NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

       LIVING AND EXPRESSING OUR FAITH IN A CHANGING WORLD
                                “And the Word became flesh and lived among us.”(John 1:14)

                    One of the most              their suffering, so I have come down to                         beliefs to an adult personal faith. We can
                    challenging documents        rescue them.” God heard this cry again and                      constantly find newness in old stories. Could
                    which we have been           this time responded in a unique way, in the                     we not, once again, be part of a movement
                    invited to study and         person of Jesus. “God so loved the world                        to take the Church into new territory?
                    respond to is ‘Laudato Si’   that He gave His only Son.”                                     Advent is a time of waiting. But, for what
                    – the Pope’s encyclical      Advent is a season of hope. We have a                           or for whom are we waiting? The early part
                    letter reminding us          lovely way of expressing hope in the Irish                      of the Bible is full of great people who knew
                    of our sacred duty to        language: ‘Tá súil agam’ – we are already                       how to wait for the long-expected Messiah.
                    care for the earth, our      visualising what we are anticipating. After                     In the words of Archbishop Clarke, “we are
                    common home. The title,      the death of Jesus, the two disciples on the                    a pilgrim people together – all of us pilgrims
‘Laudato Si’ is taken from the canticle of       Road to Damascus expressed their distress:                      on a journey towards greater truth and
St. Francis of Assisi who tells us that ‘our     “We had been hoping he would be the one                         greater understanding and greater love.” Fr.
common home is like a sister with whom           to redeem Israel.”                                              P.B. Noailles, founder of the Holy Family
we share our life and a beautiful mother         The Incarnation is the core of Christian faith.                 Association, reminds us that changing
who opens her arms to embrace us.’ The big       Perhaps we are still seeing faith as fidelity                   times require new ways of being apostles.
challenge for us is “How do we care for and      to the ritual and the rules laid down by the                    He encouraged his followers to go often in
cherish this lovely gift of God’s creation’?     Church for our observance – keeping God                         spirit to Nazareth.”
God came to earth in a unique way: St.           at a distance somewhere in the skies. Yet,                         “The God of the Incarnation is
John, the Evangelist wrote that “God loved       St. Paul says that it is in God that we live                    extraordinarily ordinary. He is present and
the world so much that He sent His only          and move and exist. St. Augustine searched                      recognisable among unimportant persons
Son.” God entered history in the person of       for God outside himself. He finally came                        and insignificant events – even profane
Jesus of Nazareth: this is what we prepare       home to himself. “O Beauty ever ancient.                        places!” The final question is: Have we
for and celebrate as we journey through          O Beauty ever new – late have I loved you!”                     the vision and the desire to address today’s
Advent when we are invited to listen again       Even as adults we sometimes need to let                         issues and challenges? God never takes
to the voice of the prophets                     go of certainties of the first part of life. We                 back His gifts: “Lord, let this coming
The sight of human misery was the                need to express our faith in the context of                     Advent be gift again !”
motivation for God’s action. “I have seen        a changing world. St. Paul’s whole life fell
the misery of my people in Egypt. I have         apart on the Road to Damascus. Our faith                        Sr. Catherine Moran
heard them crying. I am concerned about          journey will take us, too, from traditional

    Gina Lavelle Walshe Memorial Fund
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NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

  Newbridge Parish wants to whet the APPetite for faith as they launch the first
              parish app in the Diocese of Kildare and Leighlin
                                                                           much part and parcel of what it is to be a modern parish in the
                                                                           always connected world that we are all part of. My hope is that the
                                                                           Newbridge Parish App will help us to reach out more to people
                                                                           with news and information about the life of the parish but also to
                                                                           offer them something of what it is to be a person of faith. I am very
                                                                           grateful to Charlotte Vard for her work on the App.

                                                                           “We have also become increasingly conscious of our need to be
                                                                           more sustainable as a parish and the new App will make us less
                                                                           reliant on paper resources as we can now send our notifications
                                                                           through the App.”

                                                                           Commenting on the uptake of the App, Father Dempsey said, “We
                                                                           have been really encouraged by the interest and uptake of the App.
                                                                           We recently launched this year’s programme for those preparing
                                                                           for First Holy Communion and Confirmation in the parish and we
                                                                           invited the parents to download the App. They have taken to it very
                                                                           well and it has been downloaded hundreds of times already.
  Fr Paul Dempsey PP, Charlotte Vard, designer of the App and Bishop
                            Denis Nulty
                                                                           “Pope Francis has cited the digital spaces as places to be present as
Saint Conleth’s Parish Newbridge has decided to whet the faith             Church and as people of faith. The Newbridge Parish App is about
APPetite of the local community by launching a new parish APP.             putting out into the deep of the internet with something user-friendly
                                                                           and accessible. My hope is that people will engage with the App to
The ‘Newbridge Parish’ App, which was designed by local                    find out more about the day-to-day life of the parish and to maybe
parishioner Charlotte Vard, was launched recently by Bishop Denis          whet their appetite about their faith.”
Nulty, Bishop of Kildare and Leighlin. It is the first Parish App in
the diocese.                                                               The App is free and available to download as ‘Newbridge Parish’ on
                                                                           the Apple and Android stores.
Father Paul Dempsey, P.P. Newbridge Parish explained the
background to the App. He said, “The creation of an App is very

Students from the Holy Family Secondary & the Patrician Secondary who received their Pope John Paul II Award from Bishop Denis in
Cill Mhuire Church on Friday, the 22nd of November. Congratulations from us all in the Parish.

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NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

                                              IRISH DONKEY SOCIETY
                                               and several donkey sanctuaries around           At the end of WW2 there were 128,000
                                               the country to alleviate suffering of these     working donkeys in Ireland. Estimated
                                               noble animals. Happily, there is a greater      figures in 2016 suggest that there are less
                                               awareness of the donkey and its needs,          than 5,000 donkeys in Ireland. As a pet,
                                               thanks to many owners who are now               the donkey is much more at risk in reces-
                                               bringing their donkeys to shows at venues       sionary times than is a working animal.
                                               all over the country. Despite their exotic      Cruelty by neglect is now a sad factor in
                                               origins, donkeys are ‘more Irish than the       the life of the donkey.
                                               Irish’ as the saying goes and are associ-
                                               ated with Ireland and the countryside in        In short, within the next 50 years the
The cross upon his back conferred no
                                               popular literature, art and music. Let us       donkey is in great threat of extinction. The
sacred status, more a reminder of a burden
                                               continue to cherish them and bestow on          key MISSION of the Irish Donkey Society
carried, nor did it guarantee the paring of
                                               them the affection and care that they richly    to show what this wonderful animal can
his hooves.
                                               deserve. Today, it is estimated that there      do if one is prepared to put some time into
Pres. Michael D Higgins
                                               are approx. 350,000, horses, donkeys and        their training. If you want to know more
                                               mules in Ireland used mainly for sport,         about this national organization, whose
The Irish Donkey Society, an all-Ireland
                                               social and pleasure purposes. The donkeys       present Hon Secretary Mary F McAteer
organisation, cooperates with and supports
                                               are as popular in Ireland as Guinness, The      is based locally in Ballyteague, please
the great work done by the established
                                               Leprechaun, The Harp and the Shamrock -         contact irishdonkeysociety@gmail.com
welfare organisations such as the ISPCA
                                               national icons.

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NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

        VTOS Newbridge celebrates 30 years of providing adult education and training opportunities
To celebrate the wonderful achievements of all the students, who attended VTOS over the past three decades, we
            would like to invite them to join us at: Ryston Social Club Friday 17th January, 2020 @7.30
      for a night of celebration with music, refreshments, fun and the opportunity to catch up with friends.
                                                     All welcome!
                          Please RSVP @ 0871889291 or VTOS Newbridge Facebook page

Newbridge Educate Together Fundraiser
for Jack and Jill Children’s Foundation
Thank you.
As many of you may know, we raised an amazing €290 for the Jack
and Jill Foundation on our Halloween dress-up day. We would just
like to say a huge thank you to all the parents and children who
donated money. Your contributions to the Jack and Jill Foundation
mean that families with very sick children can access nursing
care and give parents the time to care for their children and also
themselves.
Once again we would like to thank you all for your support and
generosity. It helped a lot of people all over Ireland.
Thanks,
Robbie and Isabelle
On behalf of NETNS Student Council

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NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

      CHRISTMAS
CHRISTMAS
CHRISTMAS SERVICES IN
          SERVICES    SERVICES
                   IN OUR
                      OUR PARISH  2019
                          PARISH 2019
                                 2019
                           PARISH CHURCH                                                         DOMINICAN CHURCH
                          PARISH CHURCH                                                         DOMINICAN CHURCH
  Penitential Service:   Monday 23rd December @ 7.30pm                        Confessions: Sunday 22nd December: Confessions
 Penitential Service:   Monday 23rd December @ 7.30pm                        Confessions: Sunday       22nd December: Confessions
                                                                                               during Masses.
  Confessions:           Sat 21st Dec 10.00am – 12 noon &                                     during Masses.
                                                                                               Tuesday   24th December: 9.30am – 6.00pm
 Confessions:           Sat 21st
                         after 6pmDec 10.00am – 12 noon &
                                   Mass                                                       Tuesday
                                                                                               Saturday24th
                                                                                                          28thDecember:
                                                                                                                December:9.30am
                                                                                                                             9.30am–-10.00am
                                                                                                                                       6.00pm
                        after 6pm Mass                                                        Saturday 28th December: 9.30am -10.00am
  Monday 23rd Dec:       Usual 9.30am Mass                                    Christmas Eve Morning: 7.30am, 10.00am
 Monday 23rd Dec:       Usual 9.30am Mass                                    Christmas Eve Morning: 7.30am, 10.00am
  Christmas Eve Morning: Usual 9.30am Mass                                    CHRISTMAS MASSES:
 Christmas Eve Morning: Usual 9.30am Mass                                    CHRISTMAS MASSES:
  CHRISTMAS MASSES:                                                           Christmas Eve: Carols at 9.30pm followed by First
 CHRISTMAS MASSES:                                                           Christmas Eve: Carols
                                                                                               Mass at
                                                                                                     of 9.30pm   followed
                                                                                                         Christmas         by First
                                                                                                                     at 10.00pm
  Christmas Eve:         5.00pm, 7.00pm & 9.00pm                                              Mass of Christmas at 10.00pm
 Christmas Eve:         5.00pm, 7.00pm & 9.00pm
                                                                              Christmas Day: 9.30am, 10.30am & 12noon.
  Christmas Day:         8.30am, 11.00am & 12.30pm                           Christmas Day: 9.30am,     10.30am    & 12noon.
 Christmas Day:         8.30am,  11.00am
                         Polish Mass       & 12.30pm
                                      at 2.00pm                                                Christmas   afternoon:  Devotions with Rosary,
                        Polish Mass at 2.00pm                                                 Christmas  afternoon:
                                                                                               Evening Prayer         Devotionsatwith
                                                                                                                 & Benediction        Rosary,
                                                                                                                                    4pm
                         No Evening  Mass
                        No Evening Mass                                                       Evening Prayer & Benediction at 4pm
                                                                              No Evening Mass on Christmas Day
                                                                             No Evening Mass on Christmas Day
         MASS TIMES FOR CHRISTMAS WEEK & NEW YEAR                               MASS TIMES FOR CHRISTMAS WEEK & NEW YEAR
       MASS TIMES FOR CHRISTMAS WEEK & NEW YEAR                                MASS TIMES FOR CHRISTMAS WEEK & NEW YEAR
  Thurs 26th & Fri 27th Dec: 11.00am                                          Thursday 26th to Tuesday 31st Dec. Mass at 10.00am only
 Thurs
  Sat 28 26thth & Fri 27th Dec: 11.00am
                 Dec:            11.00am & 6.00pm (Vigil)                    Thursday 26th to Tuesday 31st Dec. Mass at 10.00am only
 Sat
  Sun28    th
         29th  Dec:
                 Dec:           11.00am
                                 Masses & as6.00pm
                                             usual (Vigil)                    Saturday 28th December:
 Sun 29th Dec:                  Masses as usual                              Saturday 28th December:
                                                                              Masses: 10.00am   & 8.00 pm (Vigil)
  Mon 30th & Tues 31st Dec: 11.00am                                          Masses:
                                                                              Sunday10.00am    & 8.00 pm (Vigil)
                                                                                      29th December:
 Mon 30th & Tues 31st Dec: 11.00am                                           Sunday
                                                                              Masses29th  December:
                                                                                     as usual: 9.30am. 10.30am. 12 noon and 5.30pm.
  Wed 1st Jan:                   Bank Holiday 11.00am Mass                   Masses as usual:
                                                                              New Year’s  Day 9.30am.  10.30am.
                                                                                               Wednesday,          12 noon 2020:
                                                                                                              1st January   and 5.30pm.
 Wed
  Thurs 1st2Jan:
              nd
                 Jan:           Bank  Holiday 11.00am Mass
                                  9.30am                                     New  Year’s
                                                                              10.00am    DayONLY.
                                                                                       Mass   Wednesday, 1st January 2020:
 Thurs         Jan:
  Fri 3rd2ndJan:                 9.30am
                                  9.30am & 7.30pm (1st Friday)               10.00am Mass ONLY.
 Fri
  Sat3rd4thJan:
             Jan:                9.30am
                                  9.30am&&7.30pm
                                             6.00pm(1(Vigil)
                                                      st
                                                         Friday)              Thursday 2nd January normal schedule resumes: 7.30am,
 Sat
  Sun 4th5Jan:
           th
              Jan:               9.30am & 6.00pm (Vigil)
                                  8.30am,11.00am,   12.30pm,                 Thursday
                                                                              10.00am &2nd  January normal schedule resumes: 7.30am,
                                                                                         6.00pm
 Sun 5th Jan:                    8.30am,11.00am,
                                  2.00pm Polish and12.30pm,
                                                      7.00pm                 10.00am & 6.00pm
                                 2.00pm Polish and 7.00pm
  Mon 6th Jan:
 Mon 6th Jan:
                                  Feast of Epiphany: 8.30am,
                                 Feast of Epiphany:
                                  11.00am    & 7.00pm8.30am,
                                                                                                CHRISTMAS
                                 11.00am & 7.00pm                                              Carol Concert
                           CILL MHUIRE                                                      Sun. 22nd December 2019
                          CILL MHUIRE
                                                                                          4pm Parish Church, Newbridge
  Confessions:                 Thurs 19th & Fri 20th Dec: after
 Confessions:                 Thurs 19thMass
                               10.00am   & Fri 20th Dec: after                       This is the Ninth year of the Concert –
                               Sat 21stMass
                              10.00am   Dec: 11.00am – 12noon.                       Featuring Six local choirs and surprise
                              Sat 21st Dec: 11.00am – 12noon.                                        soloists!
  CHRISTMAS MASSES:
 CHRISTMAS MASSES:
                                                                                                    All are welcome
  Christmas Eve:                   5.30pm & 7.30pm. See our website for
 Christmas Eve:                    time of &Polish
                                 5.30pm            MassSee our website for
                                             7.30pm.                          A relaxing afternoon of beautiful music hosted
                                 time of Polish Mass                                            by the very
  Christmas Day:                   10.30am Mass                                            Rev Fr Paul Dempsey
 Christmas Day:                  10.30am Mass                                               MC Brenda Drumm
      MASS TIMES FOR CHRISTMAS WEEK & NEW YEAR
     MASS TIMES FOR CHRISTMAS WEEK & NEW YEAR
                                                                                              MD Cora Coffey
  Thurs 26th & Fri 27th:           10.00am Mass                                               St Patrick’s Church
  Sat 28
 Thurs 26thth
             Dec:
              & Fri 27th:            7.00pmMass
                                 10.00am     Vigil                                           St Patrick’s
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                                                                                                 No entrance offee
                                                                                                                Parishes
  Sun
 Sat   th th Dec:
     2829 Dec:                     10.30am   Mass
                                   7.00pm Vigil                                          Newbridge Union of Parishes
 Sun    th th Dec - Fri 3rd Jan: 10.00am Mass
  Mon2930   Dec:                 10.30am Mass                                                 CAROL SERVICE
  Saturday
 Mon  30th Dec4th -Jan:              7.00pmMass
                    Fri 3rd Jan: 10.00am     Vigil                                           CAROL
                                                                                          SUNDAY        SERVICE
                                                                                                      15th DECEMBER
  Sunday 54th Jan:
 Saturday                          10.30am
                                   7.00pm Vigil                                          SUNDAY      15th DECEMBER
                                                                                  St. Patrick’s Church, Newbridge,   at 7.30pm.
 Sunday 5th Jan:                10.30am
  Monday 6th Jan:                  Feast of Epiphany – 10.30am                   St. Patrick’s Church,
                                                                                                All are Newbridge,
                                                                                                         welcome. at 7.30pm.
 Monday 6th Jan:                 Feast of Epiphany – 10.30am                                    All are welcome.
                                                                                    Basket collection for St. Vincent De Paul local centre

      The Parish Office will close on Mon 23rd December 2019 at 4.00pm and the
     The Parish Office willParish
                            close on  Mon will
                                   Centre 23rdclose
                                                  December  2019 at 4.00pm and the
                                                     at 9.00pm.
                         Parish Centre will close at 9.00pm.
             Parish Centre will reopen Thurs 2nd nd
                                                    Jan 2020 10am – 10pm.
            Parish Centre  will reopen Thurs   2 ndJan 2020 10am – 10pm.
             Parish Office will reopen Thurs 2nd Jan 2020 10am – 4pm.
            Parish
  We wish everyone Office
                     a verywill reopen
                             Happy     Thurs
                                     & Holy    2 Jan 2020
                                            Christmas         10am&–healthy
                                                         & a joyful    4pm. New Year.
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  We wish everyone a very Happy & Holy Christmas & a joyful & healthy New Year.
St. C CHRISTMAS AND NEW YEAR. NOLLAIG AGUS ATHBHLIAIN - Newbridge Parish
NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

 THE GAZE OF LOVE…
                   A number years ago when I was chaplain to a secondary             Apple and Android devices for free, just search for “Newbridge Parish.”)
                   school, one of the students, a young girl, gave birth to          I remember in a particular way those who are ill and those who have
                   a baby boy just before Christmas. One of the religion             been bereaved during the year, this will be a difficult Christmas. My
                   teachers and I decided to visit her. When we arrived at           special thoughts and prayers are with you.
                   the house, the girl opened the door holding her baby.              I thank our parish staff, volunteers and all the parishioners who are so
                   We received a warm welcome, but it was obvious there              actively involved in the life of the parish. Thank you to the parishioners
                   were a lot of social problems. We sat together in the             who are so generous with their financial support of the parish and the
sitting room chatting, when out of the blue the girl asked if I would like           priests. Your generosity allows the work of the parish to continue and
to hold her baby. It was something I wasn’t expecting but replied that I             is very much appreciated. I extend warm wishes to the Dominican
would be delighted to do so. She placed the baby in my arms and I held               Community and our brothers and sisters in the Church of Ireland
her beautiful little baby boy. As I held him, I could see his mother, his            Community.
very young mother, gazing upon him with great love. One could sense                  I am particularly conscious of the residents in the Direct Provision
the bond of love between them. As I sat there, it suddenly dawned on me              Centre in the Eyre Powell Hotel. The issue of Direct Provision has been
how similar this experience was to the first Christmas and now here it               to the forefront of the headlines in recent weeks. I pray that the residents
was happening before my very eyes! In somewhat similar circumstances,                in the Eyre Powell will continue to feel welcome here in our parish and
two thousand years ago, another young mother gave birth to her                       wish them every blessing this Christmas.
little son. In that stable she gazed upon her son with great love and                May I take this opportunity to wish you and your loved ones a very
tenderness. “The Word became flesh and dwelt among us.” The reality of               happy Christmas and just as Mary gazed with love upon her child that
the incarnation is all around us, Christ is present in the “bits ‘n pieces” of       first Christmas, may she gaze upon you and your family with that same
our everyday lives.                                                                  love this Christmas and throughout 2020.
As we look back over 2019, Christ has been present in the reality of our             Since this is the last edition of News & Views which Breda will edit, may
lives in so many ways. With this in mind, I congratulate all those from              I take this opportunity to thank her on behalf of us all for her dedication,
the parish who were married during the year and those who welcomed                   commitment and hard work over the past ten years. It is very much
a new and unique life into the family! I extend warm wishes to those                 appreciated and I wish her every blessing for the future.
away from home, perhaps they could join us through our parish webcam
system which broadcasts all our Masses from St. Conleth’s Church (see                With warm wishes,
www.newbridgeparish.ie) or download our new parish app (available on                 Fr. Paul Dempsey P.P.

  CHRISTMAS IS COMING                                                                GOD IN CHRIST JESUS IS
                 Christmas is coming. Our towns and shopping centres
                                                                                     TOUCHING YOUR LIFE
                 are extremely busy and there are thousands of extra                                   One of my favorite passages in the Gospels is the story
                 cars on our streets. Everyone is getting ready for that                               of Jesus meeting a leper who calls out asking Jesus to
                 most wonderful time of the year. It is easy to forget                                 heal him. The Gospel relates that “Jesus stretched out his
                 amongst everything that is going on the reason for our                                hand and touched him and said “of course I want to; be
                 celebrations.                                                                         well”. This touch of Jesus is so important. A man no one
 Sometimes we get things the wrong way round. I have lost count of the                                 wanted to touch is touched by God who has no fear of
times that parents have told me that they cannot bring their children                                  him. A man isolated in his suffering is touched by God
to church at Christmas because it would spoil their day having to                    who is close to him. Jesus is afraid or ashamed of no one. He comes to
drag them away from their presents. That is why in our Christmas                     touch and heal everyone. We believe that in Jesus God fully touched our
Day services we encourage the children to bring a present to church                  human reality and saved it. When we say in the Creed that God became
(livestock excluded!). As Christians we give presents to remind us of                man we are saying that Jesus is the touch of the divine in our world. At
God’s greatest gift to us. At Christmas Christians remember that God                 Christmas we celebrate this real human touch of God for our world.
out of his love for us sent his Son into the world, not to condemn it but            This touch of God was not simply a moment over 2000 years ago in the
                                                                                     manger of Bethlehem. The truest meaning of the Church is the continuing
to save. Often we get things the wrong way around. We think that we
                                                                                     presence of Jesus among us particularly in the sacraments and the fruits
can do favours for God, that he owes us something and that church is
                                                                                     of the sacraments in the way we care for each other.
for our benefit rather than the worship of God.                                      Pope Benedict XVI once said: “Everything in the ecclesial community
The birth of the Babe at Bethlehem turned the world upside down.                     should be aimed at making people feel tangibly the infinite charity of
God came among us, as one of us so that we could know forgiveness                    God”. This Christmas as we celebrate the events in which Jesus brings
and have a restored relationship with him.                                           tangibly the infinite charity of God into our world let us reflect on how
Amongst all the preparations and celebrations we should endeavour to                 we can be the instruments of this tangible touch in our world, by bringing
keep Christ at the centre of Christmas and like the angels in the carol,             others to Jesus through the sacraments and by loving them in a properly
‘come and adore him’.                                                                Christian way.
Tim Wright                                                                           On behalf of the Dominican Community in Newbridge I wish you and
Very Revd                                                                            your families a blessed Christmas. May we all experience in the Church
Dean of Kildare                                                                      the touch of the infinite love of God this Christmas and throughout 2020.
Incumbent of Kildare and Newbridge Union                                             Fr. John Harris OP (Prior)
                    St. Patrick’s Church
                 Newbridge Union of Parishes
                  CAROL SERVICE
               SUNDAY 15th DECEMBER
        St. Patrick’s Church, Newbridge, at 7.30pm.
                       All are welcome.
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St. C CHRISTMAS AND NEW YEAR. NOLLAIG AGUS ATHBHLIAIN - Newbridge Parish
NEWS & VIEWS DECEMBER 2019

Worldwide Rosary on the Coast – and at Our Lady’s Grotto, Newbridge
                                          Sunday 13 October, the feast of Our Lady of         keeps her promises. And her greatest promise
                                          Fatima, was a very significant day in St. Con-      is: ‘in the end, my Immaculate Heart will
                                          leth’s Parish when approximately 70 people, lay     triumph!’
                                          and religious, prayed the Rosary, sang hymns
                                          and listened to scripture readings at Our Lady’s    Quotes promoting Rosary on the Coast:
                                          grotto at the rear of the parish church.            “We are being called upon to help turn our
                                          Ours was one of some 250 groups across Ireland      country back towards God. We must acknowl-
                                          and thousands of groups in 30 other countries       edge as a people that we have turned away from
                                          joined in public prayer as part of a worldwide      God; we’ve allowed the kingdom of Satan to
                                          ‘Rosary on the Coast’.                              assault us, we must confess our errors, turn away
                                          This movement started in Poland in 2017 and         from the darkness.
                                          what Jesus said to St Faustina about Poland is      “We will accomplish this through prayer which
                                          very relevant:                                      will change hearts, change families, our com-
                                          “I bear a special love for Poland, and if she       munities, our country and change the world.
                                          will be obedient to My will, I will exalt her in    St. Padre Pio and St. Maximillian Kolbe agree
                                          might and holiness. From her will come forth        that there is no stronger weapon in this spiritual
                                          the spark that will prepare the world for My        battle than the Rosary.”
                                          final coming” — Jesus to St Faustina Kowalska       The Rosary on the Coast defends the “dig-
                                          (Diary, 1732).                                      nity of the Human person — Life, Marriage,
                                          In 2017, the Church in Poland gathered around       Family, and Religious Liberty … we are calling
                                          the borders of their country to light a spiritual   upon God, through the powerful intercession
                                          flame which quickly engulfed the nation in          of Our Lady of the Rosary, to heal our coun-
                                          prayer and reparation. The sparks from this con-    tries and return them to holiness.
                                          flagration of the Holy Spirit spread to Ireland,    “If we hold firm to the conviction that Our Lady
                                          the British Isles, the United States and many       will aid those who are faithful, and if we do our
                                          other countries in a WORLDWIDE EFFORT               part to fight the good fight, God will magnify
                                          to combat the Powers of Darkness—the Powers         our efforts beyond anything we can expect.”
                                          that seek to stifle the Light.
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                                                              The Changing Face of Parish
                 The issue of the fall in vocations to the Priesthood             cultures, brings great richness to our parishes and also reminds us
                 has been discussed for years. In many ways it has                of the universal nature of our Church. We are also very fortunate
                 been a somewhat academic discussion as people                    to have priests who are beyond retirement age, but continue to
                 continue, at this point in time, to have priests                 serve so generously. The Dominican Community have kindly
                 available for Masses, Funerals, Weddings, Com-                   provided a curate in the Parish since the early 1980s, something
                 munions, Confirmations and so on. Therefore,                     we are very grateful for.
the situation of the fall in numbers of priests hasn’t fully become
a reality for many. Indeed, for those who are not regular Mass                    However, the changing landscape also points to the need of
goers, there is a certain expectation that priests will be there when             entering a time of serious prayer and reflection as we attempt to
they need them. This is changing.                                                 “respond to the signs of the times,” as the Second Vatican Council
                                                                                  put it. The way we have experienced our Church in the past and
With the fall in numbers of priests, parish boundaries are extend-                to a certain extent experience it today, will be different in the near
ing. Priests are being asked to take on more responsibility. New-                 future as the age profile of priests increases. What we may have
bridge is a very good example. Not so long ago the parish had its                 taken for granted in the past, will no longer be the case. None
two churches, St. Conleth’s and Cill Mhuire, with seven Catholic                  of us knows how this will play out. What we do know is that the
Primary Schools under the Patronage of the Bishop of Kildare &                    future of parish life in Ireland, if it is to survive, will involve more
Leighlin. At one point, in the 1980s, it was felt that Newbridge                  and more leadership and participation of people. We have been
was getting so big that it would need to be divided into two                      blessed with so many people on the Parish Team, staff and at vol-
parishes to cope with the population! Today the reality is very                   untary level who provide this leadership, but this will need to be
different. When I was appointed Parish Priest of Newbridge in                     developed into the future, which will involve time, commitment
2015, I was asked to take on further responsibility for Caragh and                and financial resources.
Prosperous, with two extra churches and primary schools. Bring-
ing the total population to well over 30,000 parishioners.                        Further to this we must continue to pray for vocations to the
                                                                                  priesthood, religious life and permanent diaconate. The Eucha-
In the past, Ireland had the strong tradition of sending priests and              rist is the “source and summit” of the Church’s life, without it the
religious as missionaries to the four corners of the world. How-                  Church cannot exist. We need the priesthood in order to have the
ever, this has now come full circle as we welcome missionaries to                 Eucharist! However, despite these challenges we can be assured
Ireland. Our own Parish Team in Newbridge, Caragh & Prosper-                      that the Church is in the Lord’s hands. It is His Church, He is in
ous reflects this with priests from Poland, Romania and Sri Lanka.                charge! With faith and trust we ask His guidance as we look to
I would imagine that our parents and grandparents’ generation                     an uncertain future knowing, as St. Oscar Romero put it, we are
never would have imagined missionaries coming to Newbridge,                       “messengers, not messiahs.”
Caragh and Prosperous! This missionary presence and mix of                        Fr. Paul Dempsey P.P.

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                                                                        ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
                    Kevin Barry                                                                                 Betty Cummins                         Jimmy Martin, Piercetown
    The Crescent Newbridge/Beechpark                                                         Ballymany, Newbridge                                            Piercetown, Newbridge
     Nursing Home Died 7 June 2019                                                             Died 11 July 2018                                             Died 13th January 2019

Kevin’s sister Carmel, nieces Marie and Adrienne,                                                 The family of the late Betty                    We, the family of the late Jimmy Martin, his wife
nephews, nieces, grandnephews/nieces and extended                                                 Cummins, her husband John, her                  Collette, son James, daughter Lisa, daughter-in-law
family wish to express their sincere thanks to all                                                children Paul, Owen, Neil and                   Orla and grandchildren Kelli, Adam, Katelynn and
those who sympathised with them following the                                                     Avril, daughters-in-law, son-in-                Jamie would like to express our deepest heartfelt
death of Kevin. Thank you to everyone who attended                                                law, grandchildren, her brothers                gratitude to everyone who supported us through the
the funeral home, Mass and burial, sent Mass cards/                                               and sister wish to express their                sudden passing of our beloved Jimmy, a devoted
flowers. Our thanks to the Management and Staff deepest gratitude to all who sympathised with them.                                               husband, father, grandfather, brother and uncle.
of Beechpark Nursing Home for their kindness and To those who attended the wake, rosary and funeral                                               We are eternally grateful for the kindness shown
care of Kevin during his illness. Thanks to Liam Mass,                            your support was very much appreciated.                         to us from our families, neighbours, friends, work
                                                                           Betty Cummins
O’Keefe for prayers at Beechpark Nursing home We are truly grateful to all who sent Mass cards                                                    colleagues and the greater community.
and to Fr. Joe McDermott and Fr. Eugene Dragos and                     Ballymany,
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                                                                                        of sympathy. To our extended family,                      We would like to extend our particular thanks to
Tamas for the funeral prayers and Mass. Thanks to friends                          and   neighbours, thank you for your support
                                                                          Died 11 July 2018                                                       those that attended the wake, the rosary, the funeral
Cora Coffey-Maher, St. Conleth’s Parish Choir, for during Betty’s illness. We would also like to express                                          Mass and burial and those who so generously went
                            The family of the late Betty Cummins, her husband John, her children Paul, Owen, Neil and Avril,
the lovely music and hymns        at Mass and Michael our thanks to those who cared for Betty during her
                            daughters-in-law, son-in- law, grandchildren, her brothers and sister wish to express their deepest
                                                                                                                                                  to the trouble of bringing food to the house. We
and Daniel Leahy of Andersongratitudeand
                                       to all Leahy     Funeral
                                              who sympathised         illness, in particular the staff at Beechpark Nursing
                                                                 with them.                                                                       would also like to thank those who travelled long
Directors for their professionalism and care. We trust Home. Thank you to Fr. Paul Dempsey P.P. and Fr.                                           distances to be with us.
                            To those who attended the wake, rosary and funeral Mass, your support was very much
you will accept this as a appreciated.
                            token of our         appreciation Willie Byrne, P.P. Allen Parish for celebrating Betty’s
                                           We are truly grateful to all who sent Mass cards and letters of sympathy.
                                                                                                                                                  Thank you to Fr. James Kelly P.P. and Fr. Paul
and gratitude. The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass will be funeral Mass and delivering a beautiful and heartfelt                                       Lawlor who presided over the beautiful ceremony.
offered for your intentions.To our extended family, friends and neighbours,
                                                                      ceremony.   thankThank
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                                                                                                                       Betty’s illness.
                                                                                                                                 who provided     Thanks to our neighbours Vicki and Colm Cahill for
                            We would also like to express our thanks to those who cared for Betty during her illness, in particular
                                                                      the     wonderful         music       and     singing        and Reilly’s   the wonderful music.
                            the staff at Beechpark Nursing Home.
                Noel MThank  cHugh                                    Undertakers for the dignified way they carried out                          A special thanks to Anderson & Leahy Funeral
                                   you to Fr. Paul Dempsey P.P. andthe  Fr. Willie
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                                    Mass and delivering a beautiful and heartfelt ceremony. Thank you to Owen Lynch who
                                                                                                                                                  Leahy who handled everything with care and
                                                                      special thank you to Betty’s friends and members of
                 Died 8 June 2019
                            provided  the  wonderful   music  and singing  and Reilly’s Undertakers   for the dignified
                                                                      Moorefield GAA who were involved with the Guard
                                                                                                                        way they    carried
                                                                                                                                                  empathy. To the Irish Defence Forces for supplying
                            out the funeral arrangements.
                                                                      of Honour. Finally, thank you to all who knew and                           the bearer party and to all of Jimmy’s former work
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                                                              thank you to Betty’s friends and members of Moorefield GAA who
                                                                      loved Betty. As it is impossible to thank everyone                          colleagues in the army who sympathised with us. To
                   McHugh,  were
                               hisinvolved   with the daughter
                                    wife Mary,         Guard of Honour. Finally, thank you to all who knew and loved Betty. As it is
                                                                      individually, please accept this acknowledgement as
                            impossible to thank everyone individually, please accept this acknowledgement as a token of our
                                                                                                                                                  all his colleagues in Newbridge golf club especially
                   Bernie, appreciation.
                              sons Michael,              Noely,
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                                                                         token     of our
                                                                             has been       appreciation.
                                                                                        offered                 The Holy Sacrifice of the
                                                                                                for your intentions.                              those that provided the guard of honour. This was
                   Aidan and Karl, his son-in-law, Mass has been offered for your intentions.                                                     a tribute that was extremely fitting and one that
                   daughters-in-law,grandchildren,                                                                                                Jimmy would have been extremely proud of. From
                   greatgrandchildren and all his                                           Pearse Whyte                                          the bottom of our hearts we thank you. Jimmy was
                   family would like to express our                   Pearse’s      wife   Barbara,      his sons Jeff, Rory, Philip and
                                                                                                                                                  so proud to call you his friends.
gratitude to all who attended Noel’s wake and funeral John would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to                                      Thanks to Ryston for their hospitality and food after
Mass, and those who sent Mass cards and who called all those who sympathised with them on their very sad                                          the burial. We would like to acknowledge the staff
to the house. Thanks to Glennons Undertakers for loss. We would like to thank the Whyte and Costello                                              of the emergency services, the ambulance crew
their love and care in handling Noel’s funeral. Thank families for the emotional and practical support they                                       and staff of Naas hospital for their caring support
you to Fr. Eugen Dragos Tamas for the lovely funeral gave us. Thanks to our fantastic neighbours who gave                                         and to the lady who answered the 999 call, thank
service, and to Margaret Roche and Davie Usher for us such great support – they are one in a million. A                                           you for your patience and understanding; your
the lovely music. Thanks to Dr. McGoldrick and all very special thanks to Dr Healy and all the staff in                                           professionalism will never be forgotten.
the staff at the Moate Ward in Naas Hospital who Naas Hospital who took great care of Pearse during his                                           Finally, thank you to everyone who knew and loved
cared so well for Noel, and to his home carers who illness. A big thank you to Fr Eugen for the beautiful                                         Jimmy. Thanking you all individually would be
looked after Noel so well at home. Please accept this Mass and for coming to Mount Jerome Crematorium                                             impossible so please accept this acknowledgement
acknowledgement as a token of our appreciation. to say the funeral prayers. A special thank you to John,                                          as an expression of our heartfelt gratitude. The Holy
The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass has been offered for Ian and Jim from Glennons Funeral Directors for their                                         Sacrifice of the Mass has been offered for your
your intentions.                                                      kindness and sensitivity throughout. To all who knew
                                                                                                                                                  intentions as a token of our appreciation.
                                                                      Pearse, please accept this as an expression of our
                                                                      heartfelt gratitude. The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass has
                                                                      been offered for your intentions.
                                                                                                                          Thanks to Richie Whyte for collecting with me and to Richie Leonard and
                    THANK YOU                                                                                             David Herbert, K.C.C. Caretakers. Recently we purchased a new Ride-on
                                                                                                                          Mower and a 3-in-1 trimmer. Special thanks to all who cut grass and tidy
 St. Conleth’s Cemetery collections and maintenance.                                                                      beyond their own plots. New volunteers and suggestions for further im-
 So much gratitude is due to the people of Newbridge and surrounding areas                                                provements always welcome. Year-end accounts will be available as usual.
 for their generosity and support of our two graveyard collections in 2019.                                               Kind Regards, Eamonn Nolan.

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