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Saint Cecilia P A R I S H Twenty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time 9 September 2018 Streams will burst forth in the desert, and rivers in the steppe. (Today’s First Reading) Gobi Desert
SAINT CECILIA PARISH OUR COMMUNITY NEWS MINISTERS OF THE LITURGY Saturday, September 8 | 5:00 p.m. SPECIAL INTENTIONS Rev. Peter Grover, OMV, celebrant Cynthia Wanner, lector Saturday, September 8 | 5:00 p.m. Betty Botosh, Memorial Sunday, September 9 | 8:00 a.m. Rev. John Unni, celebrant Sunday, September 9 | 9:30 a.m. Jordan Barnes, lector Fran Reynolds, Memorial Sunday, September 9 | 9:30 a.m. Sunday, September 9 | 9:30 a.m. Rev. John Unni, celebrant Daniel Souza, 4th Anniversary Ludovico Rollo, Mary Kane, and Ben DeWinter, lectors Sunday, September 9 | 11:15 a.m. Mary Nichols, Memorial Sunday, September 9 | 11:15 a.m. Rev. John Unni, celebrant Jim English, Zachary Boutin, and Kelly McClintock, lectors Sunday, September 9 | 6:00 p.m. Rev. John Unni, celebrant This week at Michael Lake and Nikko Mendoza, lectors Saint Cecilia • Saturday, September 8 | Morning Prayer 9:00 TODAY'S READINGS • Sunday, September 9 | Farewell Richard Reception | after the 11:15 Mass Isaiah 35:4-7A James 2:1-5 • Sunday, September 9 | 6:00 Mass Mark 7:31-37 resumes • Wednesday, September 12 | Parish NEXT SUNDAY'S READINGS Sharing and Listening Session | 6:30 Isaiah 50:5-9A Parish Hall James 2:14-18 • Thursday, September 13 | Vespers 6:30 Mark 8:27-35 2
SAINT CECILIA PARISH Prayers & Occasions Our Sick Please pray for all our sick and for those who are in need of our prayer, especially Angelo Valente, Eugenia Valente, Jim Mootos, Mary Pickering, and Bill Croke. Weddings at Saint Cecilia Congratulations to Aubrey Hartnett and Jason Haynes who were married here this weekend on September 8. May God PARISH SHARING & LISTENING SESSION bless the happy couple as they start this next phase of their lives together. Please join us this Wednesday, September 12 from 6:30 to 8:00 p.m. in the Parish Hall for a listening/re- flection forum regarding the Pennsylvania grand jury Welcome to Saint Cecilia Parish report on the sexual abuse of children and system- We are pleased to welcome the following new members atic cover-up by Church officials. This will be a time to of our parish who have recently registered: Cara Aiello of come together as a community to share our thoughts Boston, Adam Pisarski of Boston, and Amy Marie Cook of and feelings and to think about a way of moving for- Boston. If you have not previously registered with the par- ward as Catholics. ish, there are forms in the narthex for this purpose or you can register online at www.stceciliaboston.org. ARCHDIOCESE OF BOSTON OFFICE OF Morning and Evening Prayer This Week PASTORAL SUPPORT & CHILD PROTECTION Saturday, September 8 there will be Morning Prayer at 9:00 a.m. in honor of the Feast of the Nativity of Mary. To survivors in the Archdiocese of Boston who strug- On Thursday, September 13 is the memorial of Saint John gle to process their pain and whose wounds are Chrysostom. We will celebrate Vespers at 6:30 p.m. All are opened especially wide with the reports from Penn- welcome. sylvania, please know that Vivian Soper, Director of the Archdiocese's Office of Pastoral Support and Child Protection and her colleagues stand ready to Resumption of the Six o'Clock Mass provide assistance. We encourage you to contact Viv- We are happy to have you celebrate with us at our six ian at 617-746-5985. To the survivors and their loved o'clock liturgy resuming this evening, September 9. ones, we must again apologize and ask forgiveness. While much has been accomplished in the protection of children with the participation of the laity, there Farewell to Richard remains much more to be done. We are committed Join us after the 11:15 a.m. liturgy to celebrate Richard's last to the fulfillment of this responsibility as a continuing weekend with us. We will have a reception in the Parish Hall priority for the work of the Church. to send him off with our love and well wishes. 3
SAINT CECILIA PARISH VIRTUS Training - september 16 Wisdom & Mature Spirituality Group All catechists, lectors, extraordinary ministers of Holy Com- munion, greeters, and members of Saint Cecilia CARES who Due to the flood and postponement of our August meet- have not yet attended a VIRTUS "Protecting God's Children" ing, we will keep "Stumbling Over the Stumbling Stone", the training session are urged to attend the next session sched- fifth chapter of the book, Falling Upward: A Spirituality for uled for Sunday, September 16 following the 9:30 a.m. Mass the Two Halves of Life by Richard Rohr, OFM, as the topic for (10:45 - 12:30 p.m. in classroom 5). Included will be two our meeting on Sunday, September 16. thirty-minute videos, questions and answers, an overview on mandated reporting, and info on how to file a 51A re- There must be at least one situation in our lives that we can- port. Feel free to bring a brown bag lunch. Please RSVP to not fix, control, explain, change, or even understand. Did Leah Bennett (lbennett@stceciliaboston.org) if you plan to you ever stumble over what once sustained you? attend. Our Wisdom Group is a community of adults who meet once a month, journeying in the second half of life and look- ing to build a deeper relationship with our Christian faith through fellowship, trust, sharing and prayer. We welcome new members. Join us next Sunday, September 16 at 10:00 a.m. outside the conference room in the Parish Hall. New Choir Members WELCOME! We are in need of new choir members to sing with us. If you have a musical talent to share with the community, we would love to have you join us. To join one of the Sunday morning choirs, please stop by and see Music Director, Tim- othy Zimmerman after Mass, or email him at timothy.zim- merman@bc.edu. To join the 6:00 p.m. choir please email Rachel Burckardt at rachy.rb2@gmail.com or see her after the 6:00 p.m. Mass. We look forward to hearing from you! All Hail, Saint Cecilia Keep our Doors Open! On Saturday, September 22, Emmanuel Music is presenting The Open Doors ministry began several years ago in the a concert entitled "All Hail St. hopes that we could offer a peaceful sanctuary to the pass- Cecilia". The program features er-by to enjoy quiet time with the Lord. We have found Handel's Ode for St. Cecilia's that while many enter with prayer in mind, others come to Day with soloists Susan Con- take in the beauty of Saint Cecilia, find out more about our soli, Carley DeFranco, Sarah history, or to learn about our vibrant community. As Open Moyer, Kristen Watson, sopra- Door ministers, we have a unique opportunity to meet and nos, and Matthew Anderson, interact with neighbors, visitors, and fellow parishioners. Charles Blandy, and Jonas Bu- We are responsive to the needs of those that walk through dris, tenors. The second piece our doors, whether it be answering questions or providing will be Britten's Hymn to St. Cecilia. If you are interested in a silent, welcoming nod as they enter in to pray. In order to attending, tickets are being offered for free to members of keep our front doors open, we need parishioner help. At this Saint Cecilia Parish. Please send all ticket requests to mu- time, we are looking for anyone who is able to commit to a sic@emmanuelmusic.org. For more information, please couple hours a month to this ministry. If this opportunity is email pat@emmanuelmusic.org or call 617-536-3356. of interest to you, please contact Amy Paulin at amy.pau- lin1@gmail.com. Thank you for helping to keep the beauty and peace of Saint Cecilia open. 4
SAINT CECILIA PARISH FILM CREW VOLUNTEERS NEEDED Walk to end alzheimer's Saint Cecilia is looking for three The Alzheimer's Association of Greater Boston Walk to more volunteers to join the film End Alzheimer's will take place on Sunday, September 23 crew that is working on filming, at 10:00 a.m. in North Point Park, Cambridge (near the editing, and posting the homilies MBTA's Green Line Science Park station). There are short each week. If you have an interest 1.5-mile and longer 3.5-mile scenic flat ground routes. If in learning more about the filming you would like to join parishioner Kathleen Brolly's walk and editing process, please contact team, The Memorables, please visit http://act.alz.org/goto/ Mary Kaye at mkaye@stceciliaboston.org. kathleenbrolly to register. If you have any questions, you can e-mail Kathleen directly at kbrolly@loyola.edu. Kathleen is also looking for volunteer musicians willing to donate their HUNGER & HOMELESSNESS MINISTRY: time and talent to sing/play for walkers along the route. DRIVERS NEEDED Thank you for your support. Together we will #ENDALZ! Each weekend parishioners have the opportunity to pick up donated meat, dairy products, and produce from four local supermarkets and deliver it to either Catholic Chari- ties' Haitian Multi-Service Center in Dorchester or the Pine Street Inn in the South End. This vital ministry takes place at 7:30 a.m. every Saturday and Sunday morning and on Sun- days can be completed in time to attend the 9:30 Mass. We Join the Saint Cecilia Team need drivers for all the Saturdays and Sundays in September. We've got a small but growing team planning to run/walk Please email Mark.Lippolt@gmail.com if you can help out. the Boston 10K for Women on October 8. The cost for reg- istration is $50 per person. If you'd like to run, please email lbennett@stceciliaboston.org for instructions on how to of- ficially join the team. For more information about the race or for suggested training materials, you can visit https:// Prison and After Needs Help boston10kforwomen.com/. Every Monday night for the past six years, a dedicated group of parishioners has been providing a support group and din- ner for men who are returning to the community after serv- ing time in prison. Donations – This ministry has been supported by the gen- erous donations of Saint Cecilia parishioners. Contributions of any amount are appreciated and can be given to Mark Donohoe or Scott MacDonald any Sunday, placed in the col- RODMAN RIDE FOR KIDS! lection basket clearly labeled "Prison and After" or mailed to: Saint Cecilia Parish, 18 Belvidere St., Boston, MA 02115. The Rodman Ride for Kids is taking place on Saturday Sep- Any checks should be made out to Saint Cecilia Parish with tember 22nd. On that day over 1500 riders and 700 volun- Prison and After written in the memo line. teers will work together to raise over $14 million in a non- competitive cycling tour of 25, 50, or 100 miles. Heading Volunteers – The group is looking for one or two parish- out on her 13th Ride is Letitia Howland, one of our parishio- ioners who are interested in volunteering and can make a ners. She will be riding 25 miles to raise money for Robert F. commitment to come every (or most) Monday nights from Kennedy Children’s Action Corps which provides direct care 5:30 – 9:00 p.m. If you would like more information please and educational services to kids across the Commonwealth email Peg at scprisonandafter@gmail.com. and works to improve systems for kids and families across the country. If you’d like to sponsor Letitia, you can find her after mass or email her at LHowland@rfkchildren.org. Thank you for your consideration. 5
SAINT CECILIA PARISH LITURGY OF THE HOURS Wednesday, September 5 @ 6:30 p.m. Evening Prayer – Memorial of St. Teresa of Calcutta Saturday, September 8 @ 9:00 a.m. Morning Prayer – Feast of the Nativity of Mary Thursday, September 13 @ 6:30 p.m. Evening Prayer – Memorial of St. John Chrysostom Monday, September 17 @ 6:30 p.m. Evening Prayer – Memorial of St. Hildegard von Bingen Friday, September 21 @ 6:30 p.m. Evening Prayer – Feast of St. Matthew Saturday, September 29 @ 9:00 a.m. Morning Prayer – Feast of SS. Michael, Gabriel & Raphael Please join us in September for Morning Prayer and Evening Prayer Liturgy lasts approximately half an hour. All are welcome. Young Families September Meeting The Young Families group will hold its September meet- ing on Sunday, 9/16 following the 9:30 mass. At this meet- ing, we'll be sharing some of what was discussed at our recent Advisory Council meeting, and we'll talk about our On Tuesday, September 18, parishioners across the Archdi- fall events and the direction of the group moving forward. ocese of Boston will gather to honor and thank our priests Childcare will be provided on a first-come, first-serve basis. at the Tenth Annual Dinner in Celebration of the Priest- Please join us! hood. This event, held at the Seaport World Trade Center, benefits the Clergy Health and Retirement Trust, which The Young Families ministry is a collaborative effort to bet- helps to ensure the highest level of care and quality of life ter support young families at the parish as we navigate the for our 614 active and senior diocesan priests. This year's daily dyings and risings of family life. If you have a young guest speaker is Mark Wahlberg. If you would like to pur- child or children or are expecting or hoping to grow your chase a ticket or learn more about other sponsorship op- family through adoption, fostering, or any other means, portunities visit www.clergyfunds.org/ celebration. Thank please consider joining us! The best way to get informed you for your generous and prayerful support of our Boston about upcoming events is to join our listserv. Email Erin at priests. sc.youngfamilies@gmail.com to learn more and sign up. 6
SAINT CECILIA PARISH The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults "Go and make disciples" — Matthew 28:19 Last Easter we were blessed to initiate fifteen adults into the life of the Church. These men and women participated in the par- ish's RCIA process — a process designed specifically for non-Catholics and uncatechized Catholics who wish to explore a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ in the context of the Catholic Church. RCIA is offered each year for the following people: • Individuals who have never been baptized and who wish to be baptized, confirmed, and receive Eucharist. • Individuals who have been baptized in another Christian tradition and who wish to enter into full communion with the Catholic Church through the sacraments of confirmation and Eucharist. • Individuals who were baptized in the Catholic Church but never received first Eucharist. The next season of RCIA will begin on Tuesday, October 2. The first eleven weeks are an "inquiry period" and anyone is welcome to attend without obligation or commitment. On the Third Sunday of Advent (December 16, 2018), those who feel called to be baptized next Easter will be received into the Order of Catechumens and then are counted among those who will receive the Easter sacraments of baptism, confirmation, and Eucharist at the Easter Vigil in 2019. Others will continue preparing for recep- tion into full communion with the Catholic Church, and, in the case of uncatechized Catholics, to complete their initiation by being confirmed and receiving Eucharist. RCIA entails participation in 90-minute weekly sessions that take place on Tuesday evenings from 6:30 to 8:00. These sessions will go from October 2, 2018 until May 21, 2019. There is also an expectation that participants attend the Sunday 11:15 liturgy together. It is at this liturgy that the RCIA community is dismissed following the homily to go downstairs to our Parish Pastoral Center to reflect together on the Sunday scripture readings. WISDOM FROM THE ANCIENT CHURCH — St. Basil the Great (AD 329–379) "Love of God does not spring from study. It is not from others, after all, that we learn to enjoy the light, to yearn for life, and to love our parents and those who nourish us. Much less, then, does love of God arise from external teach- ing. Rather, as soon as people exist they have the germ of reason, and this contains the power and impulse to love. In the school of divine instruction, therefore, we but cultivate this power and wisely nourish it; thus, with God's help, it is brought to full development. For our part, we shall endeavor here, as far as the Holy Spirit enables us, to fan into flame this spark of love for God that is hidden within you." This is a wonderful summary of what is at the heart of Christian formation. The RCIA is not a program or a class in Catholicism, but rather a process of discerning and ritualizing stages of gradual conversion that take place within the parish community. The process is about growing in relationship with Jesus and being accompanied and supported by both the RCIA and the wider par- ish communities. If this sounds like something you might like to pursue, all that is needed is an open heart and a sincere desire to grow in relation- ship with Jesus. To learn more or to sign-up for our 2018/19 season, please e-mail Scott MacDonald (smacdonald@stceciliabos- ton.org). We would be privileged to walk with you and help "fan into flame this spark of love for God that is hidden within you." 7
SAINT CECILIA PARISH MARRIAGE MINISTRY KICKING OFF! The Saint Cecilia Marriage Ministry is an inclusive community that promotes growth in faith and marriage. Through service in our community, fellowship activities, and spiritual development, we hope to deepen existing marriages and provide wisdom to those discerning the sacrament. A strong marriage does not happen on its own; nurturing a couple’s relationship with God, with each other and with the larger community, as well as having tools that promote communication and understanding and hospitality can be helpful in going from good to great! And knowing that you’re not alone in the challenges you may face can be helpful. The ministry will include a range of activities like: • A Marriage Prep Program • A Book Discussion Group that will meet at 5:00 p.m. nearly every Sunday • Eventually there will be other social opportunities to meet other couples, service opportunities that offer shared experiences to deepen a couple’s relationship together as well as with the community, and opportuni- ties to reflect on expanding God’s role in shaping us as individuals and together as couples. Join us on Sunday, September 16 after the 11:15 Mass in Classroom 1 to learn more about this ministry's plans! We will meet from 12:45 – 2:00 p.m., with refreshments provided. Sign up for our mailing list by visiting one of our representa- tives after Sunday Masses in the narthex, or emailing stc.marriage@gmail.com. WELCOMING THE STRANGER For the past two years, our parish has provided ongoing support to Catholic Charities’ Refugee and Immigration Services, heeding Pope Francis’ words, “With regard to mi- grants, displaced persons and refugees, a common commit- Join the BOSTON HOLY LAND ment is needed, one focused on offering them a dignified welcome.” CHRISTIAN FORUM Sundays Sept. 9, Oct. 14, and Nov. 4 | 4:00 p.m. At this point in time, the parish has offered to provide refu- Saint Ignatius of Loyola Church in Chestnut Hill gee families with supermarket gift cards so that they will have food while their applications for political asylum are The Boston Holy Land Christian Ecumenical processed. If you would like to purchase gift cards to Mar- Foundation is sponsoring a discussion series using ket Basket specifically—and no more than $25 per card— Catholic Social Teaching and Ignatian Priciples please feel free to drop them in the offertory basket. You of Discernment to examine the challenges and can also contribute by check, noting “Refugee Families” in opportunities concering the future of the Holy Land. the memo line of your check made payable to “Saint Cecilia For more information, please contact Jeanne Bruno Parish.” (jbruno@stceciliaboston.org). A Weekend Retreat: Nourish Your Relationship with God Spend a quiet weekend away, September 28–30, to nour- ish your relationship with God at the Notre Dame Spiri- tual Life Center in Ipswich, MA. Presenters include Sr. Peggy Cummins, SNDdN, Gloria Hayes, Mary MacGillivray, and Bryn Walsh. The cost of this retreat is $175. Spiritual Direction is included. To register call: 978-380-1574 or email: ndscips@sndden.org. 8
SAINT CECILIA PARISH The Women’s Table Welcomes You! The Women’s Table of the Sisters of St. Joseph of Boston, offers hospitality, welcome and compassion to women from all walks of life. Programs range from monthly circles of support for mothers of children with special needs, to retreats and enrichment series that encourage women to THE WOMEN'S LUNCH PLACE ANNUAL explore the meaning and wisdom of their lives. Check out FUNDRAISER our website at: www.thewomenstable.org. All programs are free, though goodwill donations are always welcome. This The annual Spaghetti Dinner gala to benefit the day shel- fall The Women’s Table will host monthly circles of support ter on Newbury Street will be held on Friday, October 19th for mothers on the third Monday of each month, beginning at the Fairmont Copley Plaza with a cocktail reception at on September 17th. Time: 10:30 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. A four- 6:00 p.m., followed by dinner and a live auction at 7:00 p.m. week series entitled, “Crossroads and Thresholds: Embrac- If you would like to join the Saint Cecilia table at the event, ing the Second Half of Life,” will begin on October 17th and please email Mark Lippolt at mark.lippolt@gmail.com. Tick- meet for four consecutive Wednesday mornings from 10:00 ets are $250 each. The WLP is also looking for folks who a.m. to 11:30 a.m. Six-week writing workshops provide a would like to purchase full tables or serve as a table captain. balance of thought-provoking writing prompts and oppor- tunities for participants to share their writing, as they wish. This series begins on Thursday, October 11th, and runs for A REMINDER TO PARENTS six consecutive Thursdays, from 10:00 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. All programs are held at the Sisters of St. Joseph residence at While at Saint Cecilia, children should never go to the rest- 637 Cambridge St., Brighton (beside St. Joseph Preparatory room alone. We are happy that you feel so safe here, but High School). For more information, please call Mary Rita at please remember that we are in a building that is wide open 617.746.2056 or email: maryrita.weschler@csjboston.org. and has multiple entrances. For the safety of our children, please do not allow them to wander around unsupervised and please do not ever allow them to go to the restroom Pie Sellers Needed! unaccompanied by a parent. As part of our on-going relationship with Community Serv- ings, we are looking for parishioners willing to assist with their annual Pie in the Sky fundraiser. Every Thanksgiving pie sold for $30 feeds a Community Servings client in East- ern Massachusetts suffering with a life-threatening illness for one week. The delicious pies—apple, pecan, pumpkin, and sweet potato—are baked by some of the most gener- BHCHP Fall Soiree ous local restaurant chefs and caterers and are the perfect dessert for your Thanksgiving table. If you are willing to help On Thursday, October 18, Boston Health Care for the Home- sell pies at Saint Cecilia liturgies as well as to your friends less Program will host its third annual Emerging Leaders and colleagues, please email Mark Lippolt at mark.lippolt@ Gala, the 2018 Fall Soiree. The Soiree is our main event gmail.com. where we raise critical funds to support the care of over 12,000 under-served and high-risk patients served by BH- LOW-GLUTEN ALTAR BREAD AVAILABLE CHP each year, while celebrating Boston’s young profession- als and their commitment to service. The Soiree will feature If you have celiac disease, please let us know. We have a sup- an award ceremony, live band, passed hors-d'oeuvres, com- ply of low-gluten altar bread available for those who cannot plimentary beer and wine, and even a cocktail hour with the tolerate gluten. These hosts are prepared by the Benedic- penguins at the New England Aquarium! tine Sisters of Perpetual Adoration in Clyde, Missouri. Tickets are $125 and you can find more information about individual tickets and corporate sponsorship opportunities at this link: https://www.bhchp.org/events/2018-fall-soi- rée. 9
SAINT CECILIA PARISH Adult Faith Formation Events Social and Racial BOSTON COLLEGE EVENTS Justice Ministry For further details or to register for these events, please check the School of Theology and Ministry website: https://www.bc.edu/bc-web/schools/stm/continuing- To find out more about this ministry, visit https://bit. education/campus-events.html ly/2JLWWYa The First Annual Daniel J. Harrington, S.J., Lecture Register to Vote! Celebrating the 10th Anniversary of the School of The- Sunday, September 16 | After all Masses | Narthex ology and Ministry Presenter: James Martin, S.J. Representatives from the Social and Racial Justice Minis- Thursday, September 20, 2018 | 5:30 – 8:30 p.m. try and Vote Remote will be in the narthex after all Mass- Robsham Theater, Chestnut Hill Campus | Registration es to help you register to vote, sign up for absentee bal- confirmation required for admission to the lecture lots, and set up election reminders. Being away from your Free of charge home state during elections doesn’t prevent you from voting. You can register with us in any state! The Brien O'Brien and Mary Hasten Lecture in Interreli- gious Dialogue Interested in registering others to vote? To get started Signs of Hope in Muslim-Christian Relations email sc.socialracialjustice@gmail.com. Panel Discussion Presenters: Daniel A. Madigan, S.J., Klaus Von Stosch and Joshua Ralston Stand in Solidarity with Our Transgender Neighbors Thursday, September 27, 2018 | 5:00 p.m. | Robsham September 27 | 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. | Temple Israel Theater, Chestnut Hill Campus | No Registration In collaboration with JALSA (Jewish Alliance for Law and ONLINE COURSES Social Action) and other faith groups, we will be attending an evening of conversation and organizing for action in For further details or to register for these events, please response to Ballot Question 3. check the STM Online: Crossroads website: www. bc.edu/bc-web/schools/stm/sites/crossroads.html On Election Day, Massachusetts voters will face the first- ever statewide popular vote on protections for transgen- Catholic Social Teaching: Living Faith in Our Social der people from discrimination. The referendum would Context repeal our state law that protects transgender people September 19 - October 24, 2018 | 5-Week Online from discrimination in public places, including restau- Course Registration Required| $50.00 rants, stores, and doctors’ offices. A “YES” vote on Ques- tion 3 keeps the current law as it is, protecting transgen- Liturgy Committee der persons from discrimination. For more information, September 19 - October 17, 2018 | 4-Week Online see freedommassachusetts.org Course | Registration Required| $25.00 To RSVP for the inter-faith event or to express interest in New Testament Visions of Faith further action to protect transgender rights please email September 26 - November 6, 2018 | 6-Week Online sc.socialracialjustice@gmail.com. You can also pledge Course | Registration Required| $50.00 your vote at bit.ly/Yeson3 Spirituality Matters September 26 – October 30, 2018 | 5-Week Online Course | Registration Required| $50.00 10
SAINT CECILIA PARISH AS THE CHURCH FACES ANOTHER CRISIS, LOOK TO WOMEN FOR HELP By VALERIE SCHULTZ So you are a Catholic mother bringing up daughters, and along with the by-now-familiar cover-up of criminal as soon as they are old enough, you have some explain- behavior by the church hierarchy, perhaps even more ing to do. sickened than I was in the past by similar reports from Boston or from Ireland or from Los Angeles—the Because even though Jesus wasn’t sexist, the institutional archdiocese I contribute to—or from Chile or from church is, right? It is a given for women. When an entire any other Catholic diocese, because it is a cumulative sacrament is denied you solely because of your gender, illness. Most infuriating, it is a preventable illness. that is textbook sexism. I say this with love, as a Catholic mother who is not leaving, as a faithful dissenter, as an It is high time for us to understand how this keeps imperfect follower of Jesus. happening and to stop it. But as long as we continue to treat clergymen as though they are somehow more I was recently chafing on Jesus’ behalf at the inher- angelic than us inferior lay people, as long as we expect ent sexism lurking behind some dress code notes in a them to be asexual super-humans, as long as we do not parish bulletin. The text implied that women and girls monitor them as we do any adults who interact with who come to Mass in skimpy clothing—and we have all our children, we will suffer sexual predation. As long as seen them—are responsible for causing sinful thoughts we shy away from any honest discussions of sexuality in the minds of “others” (meaning: men). Apparently, and cloak sexuality in shame-filled secrecy, as long as men cannot ever grow up or be trusted to treat women we refuse to allow women to occupy positions of real like fellow human beings. I am not a fan of cleavage in authority within the church, we will bring these revolt- church, but it occurred to me that female rape victims ing abuses and subsequent headlines on ourselves. are the only victims of crime who are ever asked, “What were you wearing?” Jesus relied on women to get it right. From his own mother to the women who questioned or challenged Jesus doesn’t ask, “What are you wearing?” him to the women who befriended him to the wom- en who braved the crucifixion to the women who Why didn’t the pastor’s notes admonish men not to wear proclaimed the resurrection, Jesus treated women tight T-shirts, the kind that might outline a pair of broad as equals and as holy. We have been there with him. shoulders and a righteous six-pack of abs, thereby caus- That is our historical and spiritual birthright. Over the ing impure thoughts in many an ovulating woman? That centuries, we have tended to the sick and fed the hun- sounds ridiculous only because we unthinkingly accept gry and taught the children and laundered the linens the rut of sexism into which our human church has fall- and staffed the offices and offered our envelopes and en. witnessed our faith and kept the church’s home fires burning, but we have not been in power. We have not This example of small-scale sexism in the Sunday bul- been empowered. And maybe that is partly on us. We letin cannot, of course, compare to the deeper pit of the allowed generations of societal norms to obscure Je- sex abuse scandals in which the church currently sprawls. sus’ example. I am sickened to the depths of my soul by the recent grand jury report in Pennsylvania, detailing episodes of Jesus talked to men and women about loving God and pedophilia, sexual assault and rape committed by 301 loving your neighbor and not being afraid to follow members of the Catholic clergy on over 1,000 victims, God’s will. Jesus also taught us to love our enemies and 11
SAINT CECILIA PARISH do good to those who persecute us. These predators hiding in priestly vestments among us are surely our enemies. They surely persecute our children. While we mothers might like to strangle these monstrous ma- nipulators ourselves, we are called to forgive them. Just as certainly, however, we are not called to enable them. They and the official protocols that protected them have lost our trust. We women are being called to shake things up, to rede- sign and repurpose this church of Jesus, our beloved one, holy, catholic, apostolic church. It is hard to think of the Holy Spirit in the same thought as sex offend- ers, but we are experiencing a radical call to get our act together. The male-centric church and its ordained ministers may only truly heal when women—lay and religious—apply the salve. It is sometimes our ten- dency as women to let the professionals—the men in charge—sort out the problems, but that is obviously not working. We can choose to leave this corrupt and stinking edifice and find another house of worship, but that is not helping. We can withhold our time, tal- ent and treasure, but that mostly hurts us. What are we to do? What would Jesus do? Maybe Je- sus would agree with Mr. Rogers’s mother, who ad- vised Mr. Rogers, in times of confusion and tragedy, to “look for the helpers.” We are the helpers. We women, the proven and time-honored helpers, must stand for the littlest ones, the injured ones, the vulnerable ones. Regarding church personnel and practices, we must keep the best and throw out the rest, the sexism, the clericalism, the dishonesty, the hypocrisy. We must welcome the fresh and feminine breath of the Holy Spirit. That is exactly what Jesus did. So what might Jesus hashtag? Maybe, in lay terms: #timesup. ~ Valerie Schultz is a freelance writer, a columnist for The Ba- kersfield Californian and the author of "Closer: Musings on In- timacy, Marriage, and God." She and her husband Randy have four daughters. First News (Of The Resurrection) Rose Datoc Dall (1968) 12
SAINT CECILIA PARISH PARISH RESOURCES Parish Office & Mailing Address Marriage 18 Belvidere Street, Boston, MA 02115 Couples who wish to prepare for marriage should contact Mark Hours | Monday–Friday, 9:00 a.m.–6:00 p.m. Donohoe in the Parish Office at least six months in advance. Phone | 617 536 4548 Care of the Sick Fax | 617 536 1781 To arrange for the Sacrament of the Sick, for Holy Communion to be E-mail | info@stceciliaparish.org brought to those unable to attend the Sunday celebration, or for Website | www.stceciliaboston.org Viaticum for the Dying (Holy Communion for those in danger of death), please contact the Parish Office. It is always possible to anoint the Parish Staff sick during regularly scheduled liturgies. Rev. John J. Unni, Pastor Mary Kaye, Pastoral Director of Operations, Order of Christian Funerals mkaye@stceciliaboston.org The parish is prepared to celebrate the Vigil (wake) in the church. Colleen Melaugh, Finance Director, Please contact the Parish Office for more information. cmelaugh@stceciliaboston.org Mark Donohoe, Pastoral Associate for Administration, Child Abuse Prevention (CAP) Team mdonohoe@stceciliaboston.org The CAP Team is responsible for training all parish staff and volunteers Scott J. MacDonald, Director of Faith Formation and Parish Visibility, in mandated reporting laws and the Protecting God’s Children program smacdonald@stceciliaboston.org (VIRTUS). They also provide consultation and support to anyone in John Glynn, Director of College and Youth Ministry, the parish who has concerns about reporting child abuse and neglect. jglynn@stceciliaboston.org, Please contact Lois Flaherty (loisflaherty@gmail.com), Maria Roche Jeanne Bruno, Chaplain, Pastoral Associate, (maria.roche15@gmail.com), Letitia Howland (l_howland@hotmail. Coordinator of Pastoral Outreach, com), or Erin Young (erin.t.young@gmail.com) if you have any ques- jbruno@stceciliaboston.org tions or concerns. Richard J. Clark, Director of Music and Organist, rclark@stceciliaboston.org The Archdiocese of Boston has in place a vigorous program to protect Lisa Pickering, Events and Facilities Manager, children from harm and to educate its ministers and faithful about the lpickering@stceciliaboston.org nature of abuse, with a goal of increasing knowledge, creating a safe Leah Bennett,Communications and Operations Coordinator, environment for children, and recognizing and reporting potentially lbennett@stceciliaboston.org dangerous situations. The full text of the policy is also available in the narthex and Parish Office, as well as on our website. Assisting Clergy Rev. Erick Berrelleza, SJ For Those with Celiac Disease Rev. Peter Grover, OMV If you have celiac disease, please let us know. We have a supply of Rev. Peter Gyves, SJ low-gluten altar bread available for those who cannot tolerate gluten. Rev. James Shaughnessy, SJ Hearing Assistance in Church Schedule for Liturgy The church is equipped with an FM listening device. Small receivers Wednesday, Thursday, & Friday | 8:00 a.m. are available for anyone who may have trouble hearing the sound Lord’s Day | Sat 5:00 p.m.; Sun 8:00, 9:30, 11:15, and 6:00 p.m. system. Simply request a receiver from any one of our greeters Holy Days | 8:00 a.m. and 6:30 p.m. before Mass. Reconciliation Access for the Disabled The sacrament of reconciliation is available by appointment. Please Both the church and Parish Pastoral Center are accessible by elevator. call the Parish Office. Parking Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults (RCIA) There is reduced rate parking for $11.00 at the Hynes Auditorium The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults is the communal process Garage located on Dalton Street on Sundays until 3:00 p.m. and every through which non-baptized men and women become members of the evening after 4:00 p.m. Please be sure to ask one of our greeters for Catholic Church. It is also suitable for those baptized in different faith a parking validation ticket before leaving the church. There is also traditions who are interested in becoming Catholic, or, for those who reduced rate parking on Sundays only at the Prudential Center South were baptized Catholic, but have yet to receive the sacraments of Garage (enter at Huntington Avenue or Dalton Street); up to 4 hours: Eucharist and confirmation. $14.00, up to 5 hours: $20.00. Baptism for Infants Joining Our Community Infant baptism is celebrated on the first Sunday of the month. For We’re happy that you’re with us! Our community offers a warm, more information, please contact Mark Donohoe in the Parish Office. spiritual home for a diverse group of Catholics. We come from many neighborhoods in and around Boston but also have parishioners Faith Formation for Children from as far afield as Marlborough, Newburyport, and Stow. Please To register your child for our Faith Formation Program, please contact introduce yourself to a staff member, drop in for coffee on Sunday, Scott MacDonald in the Parish Office. or fill out a new parishioner form in the narthex.. No matter what your background, please know that you are always welcome at Saint Cecilia. 13
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