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NOVEMBER 2021
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                              Braided Community Trust
                                                        11   WEDDING FEATURE
    Mentoring Magic
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2 What's On

COMING UP THIS MONTH                                           ME THVEN EXHIBITION & FETE                          Sunday 28 November
                                                                                                                   Entries close Zonta Ashburton Female Art
              C OU         NTRY CHALLENGE                                                                          Awards (ZAFAA)
WOODBURY HILL                                                                                                      Ashburton Art Gallery
                                                                                                                   Open to all emerging and mid-career female artists,
                                                                                                                   or those who identify as female artists, residing in
                                                                                                                   Canterbury. Entries: www.ashburtonartgallery.org.
                                                                                                                   nz/exhibition/zafaa22/

                                                                                                                   DATES TO BOOK AHEAD
                                                                                                                   Sunday 1 December, 10am-4pm
                                                         Saturday 27 November, 10am-4pm                            View the magnificent Himalayan lilies at the
                                                         Methven Exhibition and Fete                               Orari Estate
                                                         Methven Trotting Club                                     The giant Himalayan lilies, whose flower spikes can
                                                         Main Road Methven                                         reach 3m in height, will be in full bloom under the
                                                         Great stalls from all over New Zealand. Historical        mature trees surrounding the historic Mt Peel Station
                                                         military exhibitions. Classic and vintage car             homestead and are a magnificent sight. All proceeds
Saturday 6 November                                      collector’s competition. Miss Methven Exhibition          to the Anglican Parish of Geraldine.
Woodbury Hill Country Challenge                          pageant and much more! Tickets: Adult $15, Under
                                                                                                                                                                  IN
                                                                                                                     HIMAL AYAN LILIES - OR ARI DOMA
Orari Gorge Station, Geraldine                           16 free, Family pass $20.
Trail Runs / Mountain Biking / Family fun
run / ride – there’s something for everyone.              Events around our regions may be
Proceeds to Woodbury School Visit
woodburyhillcountrychallenge.co.nz or Facebook.           subject to change at short notice.
Tuesday 16 November, 7.30pm                                  Check Facebook and websites
Tom Sainsbury – Snapchat Dude Live                                to keep up to date.
Ashburton Trust Event Centre
Comedian, snapchat satirist and now unmasked as
the dancing Alien on The Masked Singer NZ, Tom           Sunday 28 November, 11.30am-4pm
Sainsbury is about to add another string to his bow:     Merry Little Christmas Market
Comedian on the loose!                                   Gold Coin Donation
Famous for taking the Mickey out of politicians          Back for another year! The Merry Little Christmas
like Paula Bennett and Simon Bridges, as well as         Market is a great event and runs rain or shine with
his parallel life as Gingerbread the cat, Tom will be    a wide array of stalls. If you would like to be part of
plumbing the depths of our quirky culture. All Tickets   this event, contact casey@ateventcentre.co.nz or
$69 (fees apply)                                         phone 027-292-2601.
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BEHIND THE SCENES
                                                                                                                                         Here we are in November. This issue is our
                                                                                                                                         annual Wedding issue, which normally comes
                                                                                                                                         out in October, but thanks to Covid we’re a
                                                                                                                                         month behind on pretty much everything.
                                                                                                                                         This issue should definitely be a lead-in to
                                                                                                                                         Christmas, which is now only weeks away!
                                                                                                                                         There’s so much going on at the moment I
                                                                                                                                         can’t even begin to comprehend that!

                                                                                                                                         This issue is always one of our favourite
                                                                                                                                         magazines to put together. We not only get to
                                                                                                                                         chat to recently married brides and grooms, but
                                                                                                                                         we also love the opportunity to showcase the
                                                                                                                                         very best of what Mid Canterbury has to offer
                                                                                                                                         to help create these very special days. This
                                                                                                                                         year and last, have been challenging times for
                                                                                                                                         couples wanting to tie the knot. For many, plans
                                                                FOOD 10
                                                                                                                                         have had to be changed, dates re-scheduled,
                                                                                                                                         numbers reduced, and border restrictions
                                                                                                                                         considered. Despite the challenges, as the
                                                                                                                                         saying goes, love recognises no barriers. I
                                                                                                                                         hope you enjoy reading our three local wedding
                                                                                                                                         stories, and if you’re looking for inspiration for
                                                                                                                                         an upcoming wedding, you’ll find it in these
                                                                                                                                         pages.

                                                                                                                                         As this issue arrives
                                                      FAV THINGS 18                                                                      in your letterbox, I’ll
                                                                                                                                         be taking a few days
FRONT COVER: This issue includes our annual Wedding Feature. It’s
                                                                                                                                         off to get married!
full of inspiration and fabulous local wedding stories including this                                                                    Under duress, I have
delightful wedding of Aafke and Tom Baxter on page 14.                                                                                   promised to share a
Photography: Laura Johns Photography                                                                                                     photo on my return.

                                                                                                                                         Enjoy your month
4          EVENTS: Methven Exhibition & Fete
                                                                                                                                         and remember to
                                                                                                                                         support local.
7         TINY TOOSHIES

                                                                                                                                               Judy
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C E L E B R AT E L O C K D O W N L I B E R AT I O N !!!
4    Events

                                                                                        Lock it in your diary now!
                                                                                      fabulous food and much, much more.          The Methven Racecourse is a perfect
                                                                                      The perfect opportunity to get that         spot to enjoy the stunning views and
                                                                                      Christmas list ticked off early!!           with its shady spots under the trees,
                                                                                                                                  the ideal place for easy parking and to
                                                                                      This is a great day out for all the
                                                                                                                                  stretch out and relax as you soak up
                                                                                      family with designated kids’ areas,
                                                                                                                                  the atmosphere.
                                                                                      and a licensed area for the adults with
                                                                                      awesome entertainment and delicious
                                                                                      food and drink.                                Why not make a plan to
                                                                                      Enjoy the relaxed, festival atmosphere,        stay in Methven for the
                                                                                      great venue and stunning scenery in
                                                                                      beautiful Methven as you wander and                   weekend?
                                                                                      enjoy the unique vibe - listening to live
                                                                                      music, browsing the fabulous boutique               Now that would
We’ve all been hanging out for the         Enjoy the competitions and the dancing
freedom to enjoy a fabulous outing         and watch out for the Miss Methven
                                                                                      stalls, and of course the wine tasting,
                                                                                      lunch and shopping!
                                                                                                                                         be a great outing!
– and here it is!                          Exhibition – it’s is sure to draw an
                                           appreciative crowd. The Little Miss and
The Methven Exhibition & Fete is
                                           Mister Pageant is another event not
always a day of pure enjoyment – great
                                           to be missed - if the children are our
entertainment, great food and drink,
                                           future, you’ll see that we’re in really
live music, fantastic displays and
                                           good hands – these kids will amaze
competitions and of course wonderful
                                           you as they share their special talents.
shopping.
                                           The Methven Exhibition & Fete is also
This is the 6th annual event that
                                           a unique shopping spree showcasing
attracts high quality stalls from across
                                           delightful products and gorgeous
New Zealand along with wonderful
                                           wares you will NOT be able to
new additions every year. This year’s
                                           resist - women’s, babies & children’s
event will feature a classic and vintage
                                           original clothing, art, jewellery,
car collector’s competition and a
                                           garden furniture, plants and outdoor
display of historical military items is
                                           accessories, skincare, candles, toys,
well worth taking in.
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Out & About   5

In late October, The Cake Lady, Tharina Nel, opened her
delightful boutique cake shop in Allenton, Ashburton.
Invited guests, locals, well-wishers, cake lovers, coffee lovers and
gift buyers were all very appreciative of the bright space, and of
course the very delicious cakes, cupcakes, brownies and more!
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6    Feature

                       The Magic Of Mentoring
                                                                                                                                                      words: Leanne Gichard | images: Leanne Gichard & supplied
                                           K THE TALK, HE WALKS IT.
   MAHU MAIRERIKI DOESN’T JUST TAL
                                         rd of the state in Australia at
  Having been, in his own words, “A wa                                                                                             How successful has the scheme                                           employ two boys in our business, plus
                                     hard it can be for youth and adults                                                           been so far? “Currently our                                             an adult. One of the boys has been
 age 11”, he knows all too well how
                                       ir dreams, especially when life,                                                            programme is full, but we hope to                                       bullied at school and I am working with
 to reach for the stars and achieve the
                                        ise choices, has left someone in
                                                                                                                                   be able to offer 16 places next year                                    him to help him build up self-esteem
 whether through circumstance or unw                                                                                               and double that the following year.                                     and get confidence. We have placed
                         an unfortunate position.                                                                                  Classes are also provided for those                                     the other applicants on farms, in the
                                                                                                                                   enrolled in our mentoring programme                                     retail sector and also learning welding
                                                                                                                                   for budgeting and financing. We                                         and cutting metal,” Mahu says.
                                                                                                                                   encourage those participants to bring
                                                                                                                                                                                                           Mahu continues, “Some youth don’t
                                                                                                                                   their parents/caregivers along and we
                                                                                                                                                                                                           realise the basic things needed when
                                                                                                                                   provide a light supper afterwards,”
                                                                                                                                                                                                           starting work; like the fact you need to
                                                                                                                                   Mahu replies.
                                                                                                                                                                                                           phone your employer to let them know
                                                                                                                                   Is the scheme targeted at youth                                         if you are unable to come into work or
                                                                                                                                   only? “We employ youth, 14 years                                        are sick; it’s a learning curve, making
                                                                                                                                   and older, but preferably in the 16 -18                                 sure you are on time, learning to sign in
                                                                                                                                   years old age bracket, although having                                  and sign out, having the right attitude.
                                                                                                                                   said that, we do currently employ an                                    That’s what we are here to help with.
                                                                                                                                   adult too. Currently we have six kids                                   We feel that the kids are really blessed
                                                                                                                                   enrolled in the scheme. Lydia and I                                     to have this opportunity in Ashburton.”

After Mahu and his wife Lydia set                             Starfish Enterprise was born and liaises
up local business Kai & Kutz on                               with local businesses and the YMCA
Tancred Street, they felt that they                           to place individuals into a six-month
could make a positive difference,                             mentoring programme, which gives six
particularly for at-risk youth, by                            months of work experience for those
setting up a mentoring programme,                             enrolled in the scheme.
named Starfish Enterprise. “I knew
                                                              So, how does the scheme work?
first-hand how limiting my youth
                                                              “Starfish Enterprise is the employer
was in determining my job choices.
                                                              and we pay a living wage of $22.10
I worked as a labourer until I was 40
                                                              per hour to each person enrolled in
years old and often used to look at 18
                                                              the scheme. We pay a living wage
year olds who not only had a better
                                                              because we feel it is important to
job with more opportunities, but also
                                                              give people dignity and fair pay. We
had confidence in their abilities. Lydia
                                                              then have a mentoring contract with
and I wanted to help encourage others
                                                              businesses who provide on-job training
to broaden their horizons and dare
                                                              and mentoring. The mentoring scheme
to follow their dreams,” Mahu says
                                                              provides six months employment, at
passionately.
                                                              which point it is hoped that the mentor
First, they had to find funding to set                        may offer further employment, or if
up the scheme and after presenting                            not, the participant now has the skills
a business case and training, they                            and confidence necessary to apply for
were successful in their application                          other roles,” Mahu says.
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Health & Living   7

                                                       It all started with
                                                       a CRAPPY NAPPY
                                                Latasha is a bubbly young Ashburton mum with tons of motivation – and a
                                                 great idea! Soon after her son Parker was born, she noticed that any time
                                               she was out and needed to change his nappy, she would attract a gathering
                                               of other mums wanting to know more about her colourful, reusable nappies.
                                                                          Tiny Tooshies was born.

Using reusable nappies might not seem          Tiny Tooshies offers two six-week nappy        more; some will use less. If you have
like a big deal to some, but to today’s        packs, one for new-born and one that fits      a second child, you already have the
Mums, it can be. “When I first made the        most, delivered to your door. Each pack        nappies from the first one. And there’s
decision to go totally reusable, it did all    includes a poo brush, wet bag (great for       the environmentally friendly aspect too.
feel very complicated. Washing seemed          any purpose), pack of five gorgeously          That’s a big incentive - it feels good to be
like a huge job and all of the different       soft reusable wipes and reusable breast        reusable.”
brands and styles of nappy and the             pads, all to keep, as well as a selection
                                                                                              Look for Tiny Tooshies on Facebook;
different inserts was as confusing as          of different nappies to try, and most
                                                                                              visit the website: tinytooshies.co.nz
hell,” Latasha says.                           importantly – a one on one with Latasha
                                                                                              and contact Latasha on 027 318 6048.
                                               teaching you how to get the fit right, about
Tiny Tooshies is a Nappy Hire and
                                               different absorbencies, dealing with stains,
Education service. “We offer hire packs
                                               and even a personalised wash routine
with one-on-one education so you can find
                                               to suit your washer. You also get an info
what works for you and your baby before
                                               booklet explaining the types of nappy and
you spend big dollars. The nappy market
                                               brands and personal support through the
has exploded in the last five years, but I
                                               hire period. “I’ve used them all myself, so
spent hours and hours researching, and
                                               my advice comes from experience.”
I’ve dealt with all the crap so you can just
deal with your baby’s,” she grins.             When your six weeks is up, you’ll know
                                               what brand and style works for you, and
Latasha says that many new mums start
                                               you can confidently buy the right nappy
out intending to go reusable but get put off
                                               for your baby. Latasha works with all the
by leaks and a lack of support. “All nappies
                                               major nappy brands, so when you’re ready
have subtle differences. There are all-in-
                                               to buy, there’s also a discount voucher for
ones, all-in-twos and prefolds. If you get
                                               your first purchase.
a leak, it’s not the end of the world. With
my help, you try a different brand or nappy    “From birth to two-and-a-half years old,
style and gain the confidence to know          I calculate you can save around $2,000
what works.”                                   using reusable nappies. Some will use
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8    Out & About

                                                           BRAIDED RIVERS COMMUNITY TRUST

                                                                             Into the future
  Over the past couple of years, some big decisions
 have been made and undertaken by the (previously)
 Ashburton Licensing Trust (ALT), the most obvious
  change being a change to the BRAIDED RIVERS
           COMMUNITY TRUST (BRCT).
   So, what’s behind the new entity and what other
 changes are happening? Braided Rivers Community
  Trust shares their new focus and new constitution
                 with Spirit Magazine.

        words: Judy McAuliffe | images: supplied

Like all Licensing Trusts around New      began, thereby providing an ongoing      It’s all focused on property            gaming machine proceeds in the
Zealand, the ALT was born out of the      lower risk-higher return model for our   investments.”                           same manner.
Prohibition era, to oversee the sale of   community.
                                                                                   STILL COMMUNITY OWNED                   “The world of work is changing fast,
alcohol and provision of hospitality,
                                          •	April 2016 The Somerset Grocer                                                but we have placed ourselves well
whilst streaming any profits back                                                  BRCT has adopted a Trust Deed
                                             was sold.                                                                     to operate into the future. Our new
to the community. Over the last                                                    which reflects most of the rights and
                                          •	May 2016 Speights Alehouse                                                    logo is a progression from the old
70 years, ALT has supported our                                                    obligations applicable as a Licensing
                                             sold                                                                          and represents our place in the Mid
community with millions of dollars’                                                Trust. Community ownership,
                                                                                                                           Canterbury community,” Rob says.
worth of grants and donations             •	November 2016 Hotel Ashburton         control, public election process,
to sports, art, culture, amenities,          sold                                  geographic boundaries, audit and        WHO GETS THE BENEFIT?
education, health and community           •	September 2017 Tinwald Tavern         public accountability obligations
                                                                                                                           Maxine Hooper, Acting President and
organisations.                               Complex sold.                         remain unchanged. The new name
                                                                                                                           Senior Coach of Riding for Disabled:
                                                                                   and entity better reflect the renewed
But the pressure to change to a more      Work was then undertaken to look                                                 The Trust, in both its previous and
                                                                                   position in the community and the
community supportive, future-facing       at how the ALT would continue to                                                 current entity, has been a long-term
                                                                                   work the Trust currently undertakes
stance had been building for years.       operate into the future, investment                                              supporter of RDA, providing funding
                                                                                   in the community.
Many locals will remember the result      and granting policies were adopted                                               for our tack shed, hay shed, winter
of the 2004 community vote which          taking a long term, 100-year horizon.    GRANTS:                                 jackets – whatever we’ve needed.
allowed local supermarkets to sell                                                                                         Over the years close to 4000 local
                                          PHASE TWO:                               A new granting policy, adopted
beer and wine. As a consequence of                                                                                         riders have benefitted from this
                                                                                   in 2018, has resulted in grants
that, the Trust can own and trade in      With the primary income streams                                                  support.
                                                                                   to a broad range of community
businesses outside its geographical       changing to property rental and          organisations. The initial five-year    Maxine is also Manager of For Senior
boundaries.                               investment rather than hospitality,      transition period which restricted      Citizens Association: The Trust have
FIRST STEPS:                              the Trust no longer fitted comfortably   grants to $100k per year until          always been a huge support to our
                                          within the Licensing Trust model,        March 2023 is drawing closer, so        Senior Citizens, providing funding
To fully achieve a purpose of helping     so it was decided to reconstitute as     the granting pool will soon increase    for wages that allows us to focus
people, the decision was made to          a Community Trust. In the words          significantly.                          on what’s important - home visits,
re-focus away from the selling of         of General Manager, Robert Reid,                                                 activities and outings, picnics in the
alcohol, to investing for the benefit     “BRCT no longer has to sell liquor       BRCT’s relationship with the Lion
                                                                                                                           KFC van – all the things that ensure
of the community. In 2016, the move       to exist, however it is an option. We    Foundation will remain unchanged,
                                                                                                                           our oldies are active and cared for.
to sell most of its hospitality venues    can also own and trade in businesses     with the regional grants committee
to becoming a landlord at these sites     outside our geographical boundaries.     continuing to operate and allocate
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Out & About        9

WHO’S WHO ON THE BRAIDED RIVERS COMMUNITY TRUST

                            Rob Harnett                     Roger Paterson                  Tim Silva                       Rob Reid
                            I am a registered valuer        I have been a part of the        I am a partner at RMF          I have worked in many different
                            and real estate agent, well     Trust for several years         Silva and specialise in         roles with the Trust since I first
                            known in the community          and seen the community          Agribusiness, commercial law    began part time at Tinwald
                            where I live with my            asset trade through some        and succession planning. I      Liquorland back in 2004
                            wife and have raised            challenging times and it is     lifestyle farm near Ashburton   through to my position as CEO
                            three children. With my         a privilege to see it convert   with my wife and twin sons.     now. I live in Ashburton with
                            background knowledge            to a community trust. I         “I am very proud to have        my wife, Mandy and three
Chris Robertson             of property, I have plenty      offer my business skills,       been part of the Trust’s        children.
                            to add to the Trust’ board      governance, leadership and      transformation and believe      I am proud to be implementing
My wife Margaret and        table. “It has been a           being a team player as well     I can continue to add value
I have enjoyed raising                                                                                                      our change to becoming
                            privilege to be able to         as using my professional        from my experience as           Braided Rivers Community
our three children in Mid   deliver faithfully maintained   skills of listening to the      a lawyer and from other
Canterbury with all the                                                                                                     Trust and look forward to
                            assets and cash to              needs of people.                governance roles.               working with community
outstanding benefits        community groups in our
of our remarkable                                                                                                           groups for the good of our
                            district.                                                                                       district.
community. It is truly
a “village that raises a
child”.
                                                             Chantelle Quinn                                                 Kieran Breakwell
I am a Partner in RMF
Silva Lawyers. I have a                                      I have been a member                                            I am in my second term
genuine desire to give                                       of the Trust since 2019                                         on the Trust board and am
back to our community                                        and proudly bring the                                           passionate about ensuring
both personally and                                          perspective of a small                                          the long-term success of
professionally. I see us                                     business owner to the                                           the Trust’s assets. I hold a
as “partners” in our                                         table. As a mum of one                                          number of investments in a
community which has                                          teenage daughter, I                                             variety of sectors including
supported my family and                                      understand the range                                            property, agriculture and
business.                                                    of challenges a small                                           business. My business
                                                             business owner and parent                                       management, decision
I have enjoyed 8 years as
                                                             has in our community                                            making and leadership
a board member, the last
                                                             when juggling life and                                          ability contribute to the
two as the Board Chair.
                                                             work. “I understand the                                         balance of skills around the
“I am fully committed
                                                             responsibility the trust has                                    Trust table. I am proud to
to our change to a
                                                             in our community, and I’m                                       help the Trust move forward
Community Trust and the
                                                             committed to applying the                                       in its new identity as
100-year vision of our
                                                             business and parenting                                          Braided Rivers Community
Trust.
                                                             lens to our decision                                            Trust.
                                                             making”.
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10   Food

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            TOGETHER                                                                   tails
                                                                              Entr y de 31
            Memorable Meals Made Easy                                           page
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            never felt more important to get together         with a simple, achievable menu that can be
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            to appreciate the value and importance of         there’s everything from seasonal feasts to
            getting together and sharing a meal and good      curry nights, brunch parties, laid back feasts,
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Weddings
12    Weddings

                              Celebrants & ceremonies…
                                                                                is right up there with
     When you’re planning a wedding, the importance of choosing your celebrant
                             deciding on your venue, catering and flowers.
                       You can’t have a wedding without a celebrant or a minister.

     How do you find the perfect
     celebrant? Start with Google. If
     you want someone very local
     to you, then you might Google
     “marriage celebrants Ashburton”.
     Alternatively, you can look in the
     Department of Internal Affairs list,
     or the Celebrants Association of
     New Zealand (CANZ).

     Once you’ve decided on a
     celebrant, arrange to meet and
     decide if you’ve found someone
     you really feel connected to. If you
     don’t find that spark, keep looking
     until you do. It’s important you
     have that trust.

     Your celebrant may only be in your                                                   Greer Ricketts                               Jo Taylor
     lives for a very short time, but it’s    Diane Rawlinson                                                                          – Wedding Celebrant
     a very significant time and you’ll
                                              – Celebrant                                 – Wedding Celebrant
     be sharing your personal story                                                                                                    Weddings are all about making
                                                                                          Together you have made the next big
     with them as you work on creating        There are only a handful of moments                                                      memories to last a lifetime, celebrating
                                                                                          decision in your lives. As you join your
     the ceremony that you feel               in life as momentous as your wedding                                                     love and marking the transition from
                                                                                          lives together, remember that this is your
     emotionally connected to. There          day, and I would welcome the                                                             single life into a joint partnership.
                                                                                          day, so let’s make it about that.
     are some legal requirements that         opportunity to work with you to create                                                   I’m organised and professional yet
                                              a unique, relaxing and memorable            As a celebrant, it is my role to take the
     must be met, but then it’s up                                                                                                     creative and fun, often thinking outside
                                              occasion.                                   pressure off you and help you create a
     to you to make your ceremony                                                                                                      of the box to help create one-of-a-kind
                                                                                          truly unique day, giving you the freedom
     everything you want it to be.                                                                                                     events.
                                              My theme is “Your Day Your Way” as          to enjoy a memorable and stress-free
                                              we create your ceremony together.           celebration.                                 I am uniquely qualified to plan your
     Now, if that sounds too hard,                                                                                                     special day as an official Marriage
     don’t worry. While it’s important        I am always available for a chat, prior     Call me for a chat to discuss your vision
                                                                                                                                       and Civil Union Celebrant. Contact
     to remember that your celebrant          to committing to a booking.                 for your special day– it will be my
                                                                                                                                       me today and together, let’s plan an
     is not a wedding planner, a good                                                     privilege to help make it a reality.
                                              Contact me on 03 3087727                                                                 unforgettable celebration.
     celebrant will also have resources                                                   Email: greerandtt130@gmail.com.
                                              or 0210 544 162                                                                          Ph: 03 614 8087 Mob: 027 228 9562
     to help you plan the day; writing                                                    Phone: 03 308 1999
                                              Member of Celebrants Association NZ         or Mobile: 021 171 1633                      jo@tayloredmoments.co.nz
     your vows, a selection of readings
                                                                                                                                       www.tayloredmoments.co.nz
     and poems, and more – it’s their                                                     Member of Celebrants Association NZ
     role to help you on the journey to
     creating your day.

     HERE ARE FIVE IMPORTANT QUESTIONS                  •	How long the ceremony will be?
                                                                                                                    Good Celebrants get booked
     TO ASK A CELEBRANT:
                                                        •	Who writes the ceremony and decides on the                     up very quickly,
                                                                                                                    especially in the busy season
     •	Are they available on your date?                   content?
     •	Are they prepared to travel to your chosen      •	Will you share a draft of our ceremony with us?
        venue?
     •	Cost. What that cost includes?
                                                        •	What is your cancellation policy? (In case you
                                                           need to cancel or postpone your wedding)
                                                                                                                           so book early!
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                                                                                   Aafke & Tom Baxter
                                                                                                             05/03/2021
                                                                                                           Photographer: Laura Johns
                        Phone 027 229 1507
                    13 Queens Drive, Ashburton
                                                                                 Aafke and Tom started their journey on Labour weekend 2015,
                                                                                  after initially meeting at the Methven rodeo, and then again
                                                                                 at the Riccarton Races a few weeks later, when they realised
                                                                                                   they were actually neighbours.

                                                       Five years later, after bonding over Golden   had no idea why Tom wanted her to stand      is so sentimental to us both - it is stored
                                                       Retriever Otto and sharing many special       up, until he suddenly dropped to one         carefully in my jewellery box. We later
                                                       times together, Tom popped the question       knee! It was very romantic and a special     had an engagement ring made through
                                                       in October 2020.                              moment in time.                              Petersens Jewellers Merivale.”
                                                       “Due to the start of mating on the dairy      “Tom proposed with a ring he bought for      Due to having just four months from
                                                       farm, we were staying local for the long      $3 in town. He had removed the pearl         getting engaged to getting married Aafke
                                                       weekend. Tom loves flying in his spare        from the centre and replaced it with a       started dress shopping immediately, trying
                                                       time, so with the weather looking good        blossom he had picked from our tree          50 dresses over three days, before finding
                                                       for the Saturday we planned to go flying      before we left home, and which he had        her one-off dress at To Cherish Bridal
                                                       and enjoy a picnic that afternoon. It was     carefully been storing in a cufflinks box!   Boutique in Christchurch.
                                                       nothing out of the ordinary for us, so I      The idea was to find a “rock” at the river
                                                                                                                                                  The couple chose Trott’s Garden as
                                                       really had no idea of what was to come”       to glue in the centre, and I immediately
                                                                                                                                                  the perfect venue- the chapel for the
                                                                                                     found a massive rock with a flat white
                                                       Heading for the Rangitata gorge, they                                                      ceremony; the lawn by the pond for the
                                                                                                     geometric diamond shape on the top. It
                                                       landed in the riverbed at a favourite                                                      afternoon grazing table and canapes, and
                                                                                                     was perfect, and Tom had even packed
                                                       swimming spot. Relaxing in the sun, Aafke                                                  a marquee from Toni May Silk Estate for
                                                                                                     the glue! The ring was a bit of fun but
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their reception. The location also provided    and green bridal bouquet made by             lighting a candle to acknowledge their     Queenstown. After that Tom flew to
numerous photo opportunities for their         Samantha Rose Flowers, who also created      grandparents passed. Both mothers          Auckland to join a boy’s trip to the
fabulous day.                                  bouquets and buttonholes for the bridal      signed the witness register.               Americas Cup while Aafke stayed on in
                                               party, cake flowers and the head table                                                  Queenstown honeymooning with her
“Given the short turnaround time                                                            Despite guest numbers being limited to
                                               arrangement. Tom’s mother Nic and her                                                   Mum and Dad! It was a bit of a joke that
between getting engaged and organising                                                      100 due to covid restrictions, and one
                                               friends spent hours creating floral arches                                              Tom was taking off to go on a boys’ trip,
a wedding, we decided early on to get                                                       Auckland-based bridesmaid caught in a
                                               for the chapel, large floral arrangements                                               but if it had been the other way round I
married locally which made planning a                                                       last-minute lockdown, everyone enjoyed a
                                               and flowers for the guest tables.                                                       would have gone too!”
lot easier than if it was in another region.                                                day and night of fun and celebration.
Trott’s is a great local treasure, having a    Walking in, arm-in-arm with her Mum                                                     One piece of advice: It’s absolutely
                                                                                            They stayed at Revive on Oakview
garden, chapel and marquee all in one          and Dad and seeing Tom waiting for her                                                  possible to plan and make a wedding
                                                                                            Boutique Accommodation on their
location.”                                     was a special moment. The ceremony,                                                     happen in under four months, why wait a
                                                                                            wedding night, followed by three
                                               conducted by aviator friend, Rev. Mark                                                  summer or two!
Aafke absolutely loved her classic white                                                    days visiting Wanaka, Franz Josef and
                                               Sullivan, began with Tom and Aafke each
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ALSO SUPPLIED BY
Celebrant: Jo Taylor from Taylored Moments
Bridal Party Dresses: Kate Sylvester
Men’s Outfits: Barkers
Catering & Cake: Janine Steinmann
Hair & Makeup: Tara Richards from Be Glammed
& Gemm from Ilu Day Spa

                  Olivia & Dillon                                                        Even though they’d met a year earlier when Dillon was the
                                                                                         new kid in year 11 at Geraldine High School, it wasn’t until
                                 26/02/2021                                              after they had left school that Olivia and Dillon sparked up
                                                                                        conversation at a party, and romance blossomed from there.
                    Photographer: Chris from Focus CS Photography

                                                                                        Moeraki Beach was the spot Dillon         Rustic and vintage was the theme
                                                                                        chose to propose. The couple were         for the day. Olivia really wanted the
                                                                                        spending the weekend at Moeraki,          flowers from Mum Anne at flowers
                                                                                        and after enjoying a beautiful lunch at   Inc, to be a main feature, with the idea
                                                                                        Fleurs, as they wandered along the        of bringing the nature from the forest
                                                                                        beach Dillon dropped onto one knee        into the hall.
                                                                                        and popped the question to a very
                                                                                                                                  Forty-two friends and family
                                                                                        surprised Olivia.
                                                                                                                                  celebrated with the couple as they
                                                                                        Olivia’s beautiful dress, made by         exchanged vows in the lush garden
                                                                                        Melbourne wedding dress designer,         at Waikonini Homestead, before
                                                                                        Gwendolynne, had French lace              adjourning to the Peel Forest Hall for
                                                                                        and beading on the bodice, capped         the reception.
                                                                                        sleeves and even more lace detailing
                                                                                                                                  “We wanted the day to have a very
                                                                                        at the back. “I couldn’t have my Mum
                                                                                                                                  chilled and relaxed vibe. We have
                                                                                        or bridesmaids fly over to Melbourne
                                                                                                                                  been together for a number of years
                                                                                        to help find the perfect dress because
                                                                                                                                  and wanted a small wedding, so we
                                                                                        of Covid restrictions, but I was so
                                                                                                                                  could spend time with all our guests.
                                                                                        lucky to have a good friend come with
                                                                                                                                  It was absolutely perfect.”
                                                                                        me.”

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The couple did a first look before the     the ceremony enjoying each other’s
ceremony, which they say was a great       company and taking in the moment.
way to calm their nerves. They also
                                           Plans for a honeymoon travelling
spent time having a number of stunning
                                           through Sri Lanka have been delayed
photos taken pre-ceremony so that
                                           at the moment but will definitely be
they could spend special time with their
                                           re-scheduled when the world is a safer
guests.
                                           place to travel.
Two highlights of the day were Olivia’s
                                           One piece of advice? Take in very
Dad walking her down the aisle, and
                                           moment and enjoy the day. And try not
spending the time together before
                                           to stress!
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                                                 In Indian culture the bride is not allowed to see her wedding gown until her wedding day

 Red is the traditional colour of choice for                                 The bride and groom with their parents                                    Covered in turmeric paste at the Haldi
 weddings as it is considered to be a lucky colour                                                                                                     ceremony

                                                          Nirvaan & Louisse                                                         When Louisse Anne Gamboa and Nirvaan Prasad
                                                                                                                                    married last year in a colourful celebration, it was
                                                                                                                                           the first of several dazzling events.
                                                                      The Colour of Love
                                                                                                                                    In July this year friends and family gathered again
                                                                                 7/07/2020                                                    to reconfirm their commitment.

                                                     Nirvaan and Louisse met in August 2019.         turmeric paste. A Haldi ceremony is usually        different varieties of food from Indian and
                                                     Love soon bloomed and they began dating.        a fun-filled affair involving lots of laughter     Filipino cultures.
                                                     Nirvaan proposed in a simple way, under the     and dancing. For Nirvaan and Louisse it also
                                                                                                                                                        In July this year, an equally colourful
                                                     moon and the stars – very romantic.             involved a lot of shivering as it was held
                                                                                                                                                        celebration took place for their first
                                                                                                     outside the house, during winter, with both
                                                     Red is the traditional colour of choice                                                            anniversary. “One of the funniest moments
                                                                                                     wearing thin clothes!
                                                     for weddings as it is considered to be a                                                           was when we did our couple dance that too
                                                     lucky colour. Louisse’s wedding gown            Due to COVID-19, family from overseas              much smoke came out from smoke machine
                                                     and Nirvaan’s suit, in matching shades of       were not able to attend. “We decided to do         and no one was able to see our dance and
                                                     red, both came from Yogi’s Indian Wear in       an online wedding, as our pundit “priest,”         we had to perform it again!”
                                                     Christchurch.                                   Nirvaan’s grandfather, was in Fiji and he
                                                                                                                                                        One piece of advice: A great relationship
                                                                                                     had promised Nirvaan that when he got
                                                     The couple had a traditional Indian wedding,                                                       isn’t when a perfect couple comes together,
                                                                                                     married, he’d conduct the ceremony. It
                                                     beginning with a Mehndi party. This is the                                                         but when an imperfect couple learns to
                                                                                                     was important to have the blessings of our
                                                     pre-wedding celebration in Hindu culture                                                           enjoy their differences. Our similarities bring
                                                                                                     elderly and we did a full live coverage so that
                                                     when the bride has the red-orange mehndi                                                           us together, but our differences keep us
                                                                                                     everyone, near and far, could witness our
                                                     (henna) applied to her palms, back of hands,                                                       together. No matter who we are, what our
                                                                                                     hearts become one.”
                                                     and feet.                                                                                          skin colour is, what our religion is or where
                                                                                                     The Mehndi, Haldi and Wedding Ceremony             we come from as long as we love each
                                                     The Haldi ceremony was held the following
                                                                                                     all took place at home in Ashburton. 150           other, that’s all that matters.
                                                     day, the morning before the wedding. This
                                                                                                     guests then gathered at the Senior Citizens’
                                                     is where the bride and groom are covered in
                                                                                                     Hall for the reception, where they enjoyed

                                                     A happy anniversary                      Spirit Magazine’s Nancye Pitt (right) was among the guests at the anniversary celebration

  A change of outfit for the reception
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                           Wedding Wellbeing…
                                                 If ever there’s a time when a bit of TLC is needed, it’s during wedding planning. NZ
                                                 Registered & Accredited Sports Dietitian and recent new bride Cushla Holdaway shares
                                                 her top tips from research and practical experience on how to look and feel your best on
                                                 your wedding day.

                                                 1                                                         4
                                                        You’re engaged - reassess your current health          4 – 6 months out - eat for your skin
                                                        Working on dietary and lifestyle changes               For beautiful glowing skin, include healthy
                                                        should always have a long-term focus.                  fats such as olive oil, avocado, nuts, seeds,
                                                        Your wedding may be a great motivator to               and oily fish (salmon, mackerel, sardines,
                                                        reassess your health and wellbeing goals and           herring). Zinc is also important for our
                                                        an opportunity to continue these after the             skin and can be helpful for acne. It is also
                                                        wedding day.                                           important to keep well hydrated with water
                                                                                                               (your make-up artist will thank you for it).

                                                 2
                                                                                                               In some circumstances, supplements may
                                                        6 – 12 months out - positive movement                  be beneficial for the skin, but always speak
                                                                                                               to a Registered Dietitian first.
                                                        The benefits of regular exercise are endless.
                                                        Exercise is one of the most powerful

                                                                                                           5
                                                        enhancers for mental wellbeing and will
                                                                                                               The week of!
                                                        ensure you maintain and build lean muscle
                                                        mass to look toned, strong and beautiful on            Take a closer look at your intake of sodium
                                                        your special day. The key to sticking to regular       and FODMAP-containing foods in the
                                                        exercise is finding something you enjoy. Any           final week. FODMAPs can be found in
Methven-based, Cushla is a NZ Registered                movement is good movement.                             certain carbohydrate-containing foods,
& Accredited Sports Dietitian working with                                                                     that can lead to bloating if consumed in

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people all over NZ and abroad. Special                                                                         excess, or in people suffering from irritable
interests include endurance athletes, coeliac           6-months out - ditch diets                             bowel syndrome. Sodium can also make
disease, disordered eating, sustainable weight                                                                 us bloated, but as it’s mostly found in
                                                        Stay away from any restrictive diet. They will
management, and RED-S.                                                                                         processed foods, focussing on nutritious
                                                        do more harm than good and if they are too
                                                                                                               wholefoods will naturally reduce your
                                                        restrictive you may end up fatigued, sick,
                                                                                                               sodium intake. Remember, keep hydrated
www.holdawaydietitian.com                               and feeling less than at your best when your
                                                                                                               with plenty of water this week!
                                                        special day arrives.
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                                                             Jo Metcalf                                          Juan Gray                                      Wendy
             David Rush
     OWNER AND DIRECTOR,                            When you meet Jo Metcalf, owner of                 EXPERIENCED LOCAL VET AND OWNER                         Robertson
     VISION INSURANCE (S.I.) LTD                    Memory Funerals, there’s a feeling of              OF EVOLUTION VETS                              With an impressive career in the
     In October Vision Insurance celebrated         instant relief. She’s calm, unhurried.             Juan heads a professional, friendly            UK behind her, founder of Personnel
     its 20th year in business in Ashburton. I      She’s a listener, and when you’ve                  team who pride themselves on providing         Placements, Wendy was inspired to
     have been indulging in some reflection         lost a loved one, a listener is exactly            exceptional veterinary care for animals        provide Mid and South Canterbury with
     of what I have been involved with over         what you want to guide you through                 of all sizes and caring for their owners.      a professional recruitment agency that
     the years.                                     the options and create a personalised                                                             provided the same, if not better, quality
     From starting as a one man band in             tribute.
                                                                                                       How do your mating results stack               of service and professionalism as a
     2001 in an office in the Heartland                                                                up?                                            national brand. Putting good people into
                                                    We often hear comments from people who
     building we now number 9 staff and             have been misinformed about Memory                 Most of you will be well into mating by        great jobs, every day, is their passion.
     occupy offices in Burnett Street (in the       Funerals and the services that we can              now, and I’m sure you have all been
     religious quarter, as we are flanked by        provide.                                           monitoring submission rate and non-            Q: I make a Job Offer and get
     the Anglican, Presbyterian and Catholic        Below are some of those common                     return rates closely. You can find this info
     churches), and also in Victoria Street in      misconceptions clarified;                          in Minda Live under the Repro Tab.             rejected, what can I do?
     Christchurch.                                  “Memory Funerals doesn’t offer embalming or        The clinic average 3-week submission           A: PPL see companies missing out on
     Also looking back over some of the             cremation services”                                rate is 84% which is good; data published      ideal candidates because key areas
     things I have been involved in, apart          While we don’t carry out embalming and             by LIC quoted a 3 week SR of 86% in the        are neglected. Job Seekers are in hot
     from the Chch quakes which was a               cremations on-site, we can still arrange this,     top 25% of farmers.                            demand, it’s common for people to
     huge learning curve for the industry, I        just as we can arrange interments - we don’t       We know the industry target is 90% and         receive multiple job offers in one day,
     have had unfortunate claims involving          have our own cemetery, but we can still bury
                                                                                                       it is great to see farmers achieving this.     try keeping your process timely.
     fatal house fires, and motor accidents,        people.
                                                                                                       Heat detection and cows cycling are            1.	Are you paying current market
     clients who have burnt down their              While our cremations are performed out of          the two factors driving submission rate,
     house for the insurance money                  town, families often find this to be of more                                                          rates? Pay rates are changing
                                                                                                       with many things contributing to these,
     (more than one and it involved court           comfort, telling us it is a relief to know that                                                       quickly, what you offered six
                                                    their loved one is still being professionally      particularly the latter.
     appearances – very LA Law), however                                                                                                                  months ago may already be
     there have been the lighter moments,           cared for without the distress of thinking         What does your NRR mean?                           superseded.
                                                    about what might be happening to them next
     with the lady who claimed on stolen                                                               Conception rate is the other key driver
                                                    door.                                                                                             2.	Update your Employment Contract,
     lingerie, she had prices from Peaches                                                             to a successful 6 week in-calf rate, the
                                                    “You can’t hold a funeral at Memory Funerals”      industry target for CR is 60%.                     Job Description and offer letter
     and Cream (the adult shop) to confirm
     the value and also supplied photos of          Memory Funerals has an on-site chapel, which                                                          drafts, so you will only need to
                                                                                                       Non return rate is often used to estimate
     her wearing the garments to prove              is available for small or private services, and                                                       include the specifics of your offer.
                                                    can seat up to 50 people. We are also able         the conception rate of your herd. It tells
     she had them !! Also we have the idiot         to arrange a funeral service at any other          you the percentage of cows which were          3.	Prepare a robust interview process
     award where one chap had a genuine             location, be it a dedicated indoor venue,          mated more than 24 days ago and have               and rating system that clearly
     fire loss but got carried away with his        outdoors or even a private residence.              not been detected on heat/mated since.             identifies an individual’s skills,
     contents claim and by the time he’d            “Funerals are all so expensive”                    Conception rate and non return rate are            strength/weakness, opportunities
     finished his list of items lost in the fire,                                                      not the same thing, the true conception            etc against your non-negotiable
     there was no way all the goods could           Memory Funerals offer funeral services
                                                    for all budgets, with our cremation options        rate can only be confirmed with                    needs for the positions success.
     have fitted in his house (by the way he        starting in price from $2995. We can also offer    pregnancy testing.
     said he paid cash for everything and                                                                                                             4.	Have a clear plan of “what’s in
                                                    interment options from $5395.                      We generally expect conception rates
     he was also on a benefit) – the last we                                                                                                              it for them”, what the role entails
                                                    “You shouldn’t pre-pay your funeral because        to be 10 – 15% lower than the non return
     saw if him, he was storming out of our                                                                                                               and explain your company culture
                                                    the funeral director might run off with your       rate. A low non return rate indicates that
     offices threatening legal action. As he        money”                                                                                                and the opportunities for career or
                                                                                                       many cows have been detected back on
     lied about his claim his total claim was                                                                                                             personal growth, your company is
                                                    At Memory Funerals, any money that you             heat after a previous mating - possibly a
     declined.                                                                                                                                            offering.
                                                    pre-pay towards your funeral is securely held      poor conception rate.
     I’ve insured against Yoga Swamis not           in trust until it is needed. If you have already                                                  5.	Advise the Job Seeker of your
                                                    pre-planned and pre-paid your service with
                                                                                                       A high non return rate indicates that
     showing up for a yoga seminar, as                                                                                                                    decision-making process i.e.
                                                    another provider, you always have the option       a large proportion of the herd has not
     well as holes in one, cars being sent                                                                                                                second interviews, assessments
                                                    to change your mind. Memory Funerals can           been detected on heat within the 24 days
     overseas and cars being imported from
                                                    conduct your funeral and then claim your           following a previous mating. This could            and timeframes for making an offer
     overseas, but been declined to insure
                                                    funds that are held in trust elsewhere.            mean that cows have been missed on heat            to the successful person. This
     massage parlours, but insured pole
                                                    As this is only a snapshot of what we can          or have become phantom cows (haven’t               will ensure if they like what they
     dancers….
                                                    provide, we welcome any other questions that       continued to cycle despite not being               see of your company and the role,
     We get involved in a multitude of              people may have and are only too happy to sit      pregnant).                                         they may delay accepting an offer
     different scenarios and it has been an         down and discuss things further.
     interesting and rewarding career. We                                                              If you have questions about how your               elsewhere.
                                                    Memory Funerals, your only locally owned
     thank Mid Canterbury for the support           funeral home. Now you have real choice.            mating is going give us a call or email
     we have been shown, and hopefully will                                                            office@evolutionvets.co.nz
     continue to be shown.

               73 Burnett Street                    18 - 22 Moore Street, Ashburton.                                                                           155 Moore Street,
                  Ashburton                               Phone 0800 2 MEMORY                             26 Tancred Street, Ashburton                            Ashburton
              Phone: 03 307 1990                                                                                  03-307 6644                                   Ph: 03 308 9675
                                                           Mobile: 027 637 1229
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      Christmas is just around the corner and the team at Ruralco
           have thought of everything, so you don’t have to.
                      Shop our fabulous range of pre-made gift hampers with
                      something for everyone. Select from the Entertainers
                      Hamper, the popular Games Night Hamper, the Gardeners
                      Hamper, and the Ladies Hamper. Or, if you’re after
                      something in particular, our gifting experts can craft your
                      hamper to suit any budget in one of our elegant gift boxes.
                      The perfect gift to send by post as a corporate gift or a
                      treat for someone special.
                      Keep an eye out for our latest Christmas Gift Guide in your
                      mailbox soon. Choose from a range of high-quality gifts
                      from our timeless range in store or online, delivered direct
                      to you or your loved one with free shipping within New
                      Zealand. We’ve got everything from kids toys and books
                      to presents for the kiwi bloke and gifts to treat the ladies
                      in your life.
                      Our Christmas trees are up in our stores so come in and
                      take a look at our stunning range of classic Christmas
                      decorations ready to adorn your home and create that
                      festive feel.

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                                            Phone 03 693 8802                                                                                              We also have a large range of specialty cake pans
                                                                                                                                                           available to hire and all the decorating tools and
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