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The Parish Magazine of St Wilfrid’s Brayton
Includes news from the Local Ecumenical Partnership
at the Church of St Francis Thorpe Willoughby,
and the Methodist churches at Brayton and Burn
March 2022 75p The Parish Magazine of St Wilfrid's Brayton Includes news from the Local Ecumenical Partnership at the Church of St Francis Thorpe ...
Welcome
to the March 2022 edition                        The Brayton Parish Website                  75p from any of the Churches
of Connected.                                    sends out notices of Services               mentioned within these pages.
  This month Jackie Jackman                      and events in St Francis                    Subscriptions run from June
writes the Dear Friends piece,                   and St Wilfrid’s, but only                  each year.
and notes that our friendships                   to subscribers. It is easy to                 Connected may be
should extend to Jesus.                          subscribe on the website                    downloaded free from the St
  Jill Clarke reports on a                       (http://www.StWilfridsParish.               Wilfrid’s website
recent the Mothers Union                         com/LatestNews, look for the                www.StWilfridsParish.com.
meeting, and Pat Jarvis asks us                  Subscribe link) so why not use                Articles for Connected are
to support the renewal of the                    this method of staying up-to-               always gratefully received, by the
St Wilfrid’s sound system.                       date on news in the Parish? It is           11th of the month please.
  The rest of the magazine                       of course free.
was made up in varying                              Printed copies of Connected                 John Clarke
degrees, or copied from                          delivered to your door cost £5
others, by me. So you know                       a year (£4 for pensioners), or                 01757 708646
who to blame...                                  you can pick up a single copy for              js_clarke@btinternet.com

Inside This Month
#TheParishThisMonth.................................. 3               Sydney Smith................................................ 16
Racial Justice Sunday.................................... 6           Methodist Clergy........................................ 17
Grandad!......................................................... 7   From the Registers..................................... 17
Lockdown Lessons........................................ 8            St Wilfrid’s Clergy...................................... 18
Here Comes the Bride................................ 9                St Francis’ Clergy........................................ 18
Thought for the Day.................................... 9             Service Roster............................................. 19
Ash Wednesday........................................... 10           The Directory..............................................20
Zzzzzzzzzzzz!.............................................. 11        Press Cuttings..............................................22
MU Prayer.................................................... 12      St Francis Notices.......................................22
Lent Giving................................................... 13     St Wilfrid’s Notices....................................22
The Potato Planters................................... 14             When We Were Young............................23
A Sense of the Transcendent................... 15

     A Rector took his young daughters to buy the week’s shopping.
     They returned with everything plus Hobnobs. The Rector’s wife
     noticed the addition, but the Rector said quickly “It’s okay, they
     have only half of the calories than usual.”
     “And why is that?”
     “Because we ate half of them on the way home”, he replied.

Cover image: Snowdrops at St Wilfrid’s

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Mrs Clarke surveys the tree damaged by storm Eunice in
the St Wilfrid’s Churchyard. Fortunately the fallen branch
missed the doggy water bowl, and, using only her Girl
Guide penknife, Mrs Clarke soon made the area safe...
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Art produced during the Open Church afternoons at St Wilfrid’s (16th &
23rd March, 2pm to 4pm). The wonderful watercolour (next page) of the
east window was painted by Julie Harrand. The original is approximately
A4 in size and Julie has agree to sell the painting in aid of Church funds.
Email me if you are interested.
March 2022 75p The Parish Magazine of St Wilfrid's Brayton Includes news from the Local Ecumenical Partnership at the Church of St Francis Thorpe ...
March 2022 75p The Parish Magazine of St Wilfrid's Brayton Includes news from the Local Ecumenical Partnership at the Church of St Francis Thorpe ...
Dear Friends
When I was seven we went to         a door at the back of the class,     Jesus is such a good friend of
look after my grandparents,         there was a desk at which sat        mine he says I can call him Jee!”
which initially was to be for       a girl, and beside her was an        And why not! Without wishing
a few weeks while they got          empty seat. She tapped the seat,     to sound irreverent, this is the
back on their feet after illness.   I slipped in next to her, and thus   kind of friendship we could and
Because my parents thought it       began a close friendship that        should be having with Jesus. As
would be easier for me to fit       continues to this day. We now        close as that, if not a little more
into a small school for a short     live a couple of hundred miles       mature….possibly. He knows
time, rather than a larger one,     apart, but as it is with a close     everything about us and yet will
they chose one which had only       friend, we know each other so        never diminish us.
two classes. From the start I       well, warts and all, when we do        I have a book in which I
was bullied, and being shy I just   meet we just pick up where we        write down things which seem
didn’t make any friends. Having     left off.                            important to me at the time.

Nathan Dumlao

been a teacher, I now know that     The lovely thing about a really      I’d written this a long time ago:
an established class sometimes      close friend is that we can simply   “A friend is one to whom one
resents a newcomer.                 be ourselves, even when we           may pour out all the contents
   When it eventually became        aren’t being our best selves,        of one’s heart, chaff and grain
clear that my grandparents          without the fear of becoming         together, knowing that the
were never going to be able to      diminished in their eyes. Perhaps    gentlest of hands will take
manage on their own again, it       the friend will give guidance        and sift it; keep what is worth
was decided that we’d move in       when needed, but with kindness       keeping, and with the breath
permanently. At this point it       not judgment. They always want       of kindness blow the rest
was felt that I would be better     the best for us. Which of course,    away.” On that basis I’m more
off in a larger school and so,      brings me on to the best kind of     than happy to keep chatting to
in the September of that year,      friendship we can have with God      Jesus. (Jee!)
having been first registered by     through Jesus.
the secretary, I was taken along       I knew a family who brought
to what was to be my class. In      their children up knowing about        Jackie Jackman
those days, it was a long time      Jesus and one day their four
ago, all the desks were set out     year old son rushed in from the
in rows, and as we entered by       garden and shouted, “Mummy!
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The computer swallowed Grandad!
                     Yes! Honestly! It’s true!
                     He pressed Control and Enter -
                     And disappeared from view!

                     It devoured him completely
Grandad!
                     The thought just makes me squirm!
                     He must have caught a virus
                     Or been swallowed by a worm!

                     I’ve searched through the recycle bin
                     And files of every kind;
                     I’ve even searched the internet
                     But nothing did I find.

                     I went to Mr Google
                     My searches to refine
                     His reply was in the negative,
                     ‘Nothing found’ was Google’s line.

                     So, if inside your inbox
                     My Grandad you should see -
                     Please copy, scan, and paste him
                     And send him back to me!

                   By Nigel Beeton

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What did the lockdown Teach Us?
What did your church learn         local caring charities and, later, at   Churches chose their priorities.
during lockdown?                   vaccination centres.                    During lockdown, many churches
   This month marks two years         Churches reached new people          asked themselves, what really
since the UK’s first Covid         by going online. Overnight, many        matters? What are our priorities
lockdown. Churches closed their    churches threw open their doors         now? Disputes around issues of
doors for worship as infection     to people on their doorstep, and        church governance or practices
levels, hospital admissions and,   further afield. Suddenly, distance      were put on the back-burner
tragically, deaths rose.           did not matter – and people             and congregations focussed on
   Even today, some worshippers    were ‘attending’ online services        providing services of worship
are reluctant to return to ‘in     at churches around the world.           and supporting those in need.
person’ worship, and churches      Worshippers with disabilities             These are just my ‘top four’
are still taking care to limit     welcomed the online services            suggestions – and of course they
Covid risks.                       – and gently asked why it had           will not apply to all churches.

Sarah Kilian

What did we learn in the 24        taken the wider Church so long          Perhaps I have painted too rosy
months since the pandemic          to acknowledge their needs.             a picture?
became part of our everyday           Churchgoers learnt to be                Why not ask yourself, what
lives? I have picked out four      grateful for all the things they        your church learnt during
learning points:                   had taken for granted. Suddenly,        lockdown – and how far those
   Churches built stronger links   singing hymns or worship songs          lessons could help you plan for
with their local communities.      together, receiving communion           the future?
Church services may have been      with bread and wine, and
suspended, or moved online,        responding to a sermon
but many churches set up           together, all became a memory             Revd. Peter Crumpler
networks of support for people     from an earlier time. We realised
within their congregations and     how much we needed each
across their areas. Churches       other and appreciated each
supported or set up ways of        other’s fellowship and presence.
helping the most vulnerable in     Home-based fellowship
their communities, and many        groups, now online, thrived at
churchgoers volunteered to help    many churches.

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In keeping with National             Barbara thanked members             As usual non-members are
Marriage Week in the second          for paying their subscriptions      welcome to attend our meetings.
week in February, Rita               on time and said that
Braithwaite’s talk on the 10th       Brayton branch now has 27
was about flowers at weddings.       members. In March there are           Jill Clarke
Her talk was both informative        several significant dates for
and humorous. Rita explained         our members:                          On behalf of Brayton
that she had arranged flowers           Friday 4th March, 2pm              Mothers Union
at weddings since 1973 and at        Women’s World Day of Prayer
a recent family wedding had          at St James
arranged the flowers for 13             Thursday 10th March 2pm
bridesmaids and 13 groomsmen         Rev Paul Finlinson will tell us
as well as the bride. Rita asked     about his career, Parish Hall
how many of us had been                 Saturday 12th March
married in white dresses (almost     members provide refreshments
all) and then read this rhyme:       at Rev Pete’s marriage
  Marry in white, you’ve             preparation day
    chosen right                        Saturday 19th March
  Marry in blue, you’ll always       between 10am and 12noon
    be true                          open day at the Diocese
  Marry in pearl, you’ll live in a   caravan at Filey
    whirl.                              Saturday 26th March
  Marry in grey, you will go far     12noon Lady Day/
    away.                            Commissioning Service
  Marry in black, you will wish      at York Minster
    yourself back.                      Sunday 27th March
  Marry in red, you’ll wish          Mothering Sunday
    yourself dead.
  Marry in green, ashamed to be
    seen.
  Marry in yellow, ashamed of
    the fellow.
  Marry in brown, you’ll live out
    of town.
  Marry in pink, your spirits
    will sink.

Thought for the Day
   •   A bird in the hand is safer than                   •   We need to save the earth: it’s the only
       two over your head.                                    planet with chocolate.
   •   A narrow mind and a wide mouth usually             •   Only prudes say that they “are not a prude”.
       go together.                                       •   Some people have a way with words,
   •   No woman ever killed a man while                       others way image not biscuit have.
       he was washing up.                                 •   Desperate magazine editors actively seek
   •   A penny saved is a ridiculous waste of time.           out lists such as ‘Thought for the Day’

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The Ashing Service
Lent begins with Ash Wednesday, for the first time, and mourning           The Bible readings for today are
on 2nd March in 2022. But why          their sins. But soon many other     often Joel 2:1-2, 12–18, Matthew
‘Ash’ Wednesday? The reason            Christians wanted to take part in   6: 1-6,16 – 21 and Paul’s moving
has to do with getting things          the custom, and to do so at the     catalogue of suffering, “as having
right between you and God, and very start of Lent. They heeded             nothing and yet possessing
the tradition goes right back to       Joel’s call to ‘rend your hearts    everything.” (2 Corinthians 5:20b
the Old Testament.                     and not your garments’ (Joel        - 6:10)
   In the Old Testament, the           2:12-19). Ash Wednesday became         The actual custom of
Israelites often sinned. When          known as either the ‘beginning of   ‘ashing’ was abolished at the
they finally came to their senses, the fast’ or ‘the day of the ashes’.    Reformation, though the old
and saw their evil ways as                                                      name for the day remained.
God saw them, they could                                                        Today, throughout the
do nothing but repent in                                                        Church of England, receiving
sorrow. They mourned for                                                        the mark of ashes on
the damage and evil they                                                        one’s forehead is optional.
had done. As part of this                                                       Certainly the mark of ashes
repentance, they covered                                                        on the forehead reminds
their heads with ashes. For                                                     people of their mortality:
the Israelites, putting ashes                                                   “Remember that you are
on your head, and even                                                          dust and to dust you will
rending your clothes, was                                                       return...” (Genesis 3:19)
an outward sign of their                                                          The late medieval custom
heart-felt repentance and                                                       was to burn the branches
acknowledgement of sin.           Mrs Clarke after Ashing
                                                                                used on Palm Sunday in the
(See Genesis 18:27; 2 Samuel                                                    previous year in order to
13:19; Job 2:8, 30:19; Isaiah 58:5;    The collect for today goes back     create the ashes for today.
Jeremiah 6:26; Jonah 3:6)              to the Prayer Book, and stresses
   In the very early Christian         the penitential character of
Church, the yearly ‘class’ of          the day. It encourages us with        Parish Pump
penitents had ashes sprinkled          the reminder of the readiness
over them at the beginning of          of God to forgive us and to
Lent. They were turning to God         renew us.

   Collect for Ash Wednesday
   Almighty and everlasting God, you hate nothing that
   you have made and forgive the sins of all those who are
   penitent: Create and make in us new and contrite hearts
   that we, worthily lamenting our sins and acknowledging
   our wretchedness, may receive from you, the God of all
   mercy, perfect remission and forgiveness; through Jesus
   Christ your Son our Lord, who is alive and reigns with
   you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God,
   now and for ever.

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Pillow Talk
March is National Bed Month,         Technology has a big role to          to try it out – and not just in
the time of year when we are         play in our lives – but not at        the showroom. That’s where
encouraged to talk and think         bedtime. It’s well known that         a sleep guarantee that gives an
about sleep. For millions of         digital distractions can play havoc   opportunity to sleep on the new
people this year it is more          with our sleeping routines, so        mattress for 30 days is helpful.
relevant than ever because           why not take the opportunity          Wool mattresses can also help
many people are stressed about       to kick the tech out of your          because they are chemical-
what has happened, and is            bedroom in March and see how          free, for a healthier, natural
still happening, because of the      it improves your sleep, and that      sleeping environment.
Covid pandemic.                      of your family.                       Upgrade your bedding
   This annual focus                                                                    When it comes
on beds and sleeping                                                                    to creating your
began in 1990, and                                                                      optimal sleeping
is organised by                                                                         environment, it’s not
the National Sleep                                                                      just about the bed
Council, a voluntary                                                                    itself. While your
advisory board                                                                          bed and mattress
that aim to ‘shape                                                                      are vital to a healthy,
the future of sleep                                                                     rested night’s sleep,
support nationally                                                                      it’s important to
and plays a vital role                                                                  combine them
around providing                                                                        with bedding that
advice, challenge                                                                       performs. So, if
and scrutiny on                                                                         you’ve completed
key issues’.                                                                            your bed MOT and
   The main purpose                                                                     are happy with your
of Bed Month is to                                                                      existing mattress,
create awareness of                                                                     it’s time to turn
the importance of getting a good     Start a sleep diary                   your attention to your bedding.
night’s sleep by exploring sleep     What’s really causing your sleep      And what better way to treat
habits and searching for ways to     problems? Keeping a sleep             yourself than with some luxury
improve the quantity and quality     diary allows you to record your       bedding? For maximum comfort,
of sleep which impact on health      sleeping routine and identify         look for natural fibres encased in
and productivity issues caused by    potential problems. One of the        cotton covers are recommended
inadequate amounts.                  things the Sleep Council has          to provide the perfect sleep-
   This year the campaign is         learned is that what you think is     enhancing combination.
focussing on five key points:        disturbing your sleep and what is
MOT your bed!                        actually disturbing it can be two
You sleep in it for eight hours a    completely different things.            John Clarke
night, 365 nights a year. In fact,      A sleep diary is a smart way to
you may well spend more time in      spot patterns and potential bad            More information:
your bed than in any other place     habits. Once you know what’s
in your home. But when was the       keeping you awake, you can
last time your bed had an MOT?       begin to change it.
Do a digital detox                   Try out a new mattress
Frequently find yourself falling     National Bed Month is the
asleep with the TV playing away      perfect time to buy your new
in the background? Choose to         mattress. But to be completely
snooze with your phone under         confident that you’ve found the
your pillow?                         right mattress for you, you need

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In every family there are seasons
s                  of joys and challenges:
                 Seasons of laughter
                   and seasons of sadness.
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                 Times of unexpected joy
                   and times of unwanted trauma.
                 Circumstances to cherish
                   and circumstances to overcome.
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                 Seasons of harmony
                   and seasons of discord.
                 Times of resilience
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                   and times of weakness.
                 Moments to look forward with hope
                   and moments to look back with
                   thanksgiving.
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                 God in every circumstance and
                   season we bring you our worship
                   and praise.
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                 Amen
                 With thanks to the Mothers’ Union - a reflective prayer for
                 Mothering Sunday. As you join with others across the country in
                 this prayer, take a moment after every section to bring your own
                 response to God and to remember those you know for whom it
S

                 is particularly relevant.

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Now Hear This!
Lent Giving - an Appeal for         for grants, we will need to raise      If a miracle occurs and we
a New Sound System for              some of the money ourselves. A       raise more money in grants and
St Wilfrid’s                        sound system is not part of the      donations than needed, we will
Many of us attending services,      fabric of the church therefore       use the money for our general
or following the live-streamed      the Fabric Fund cannot be used,      running costs.
services at home, will be aware     and is very much needed for            Any queries regarding payment
of the limitations of the sound     work on the tower and a future       methods etc. may be sent to Jill
system in St Wilfrid’s. The static  new heating system.                  Clarke (jill.clarke7@btinternet.
                                      Therefore, for our Lent Giving     com or telephone 01757
                                    this year, we are setting up An      708646 ).
                                    Appeal for a New Sound
                                    System for St Wilfrid’s which
                                    we hope you will support. You
                                    can contribute to this in several
                                    ways …
                                      • By cash onto the plate at
                                           the back of church (ideally
                                           in an envelope saying it is
                                           for the Sound System and
                                           whether this can be gift
                                           aided, so that we can claim   We will be asking the
microphones and speakers often             an additional 25%)            wider congregation at
fail to carry sound to all areas of   • By contactless payment           St Wilfrid’s to donate at
church, the lapel microphones              using the Goodbox at the      baptisms, weddings etc.
no longer work, and the loop               back of church
system is inadequate. As people       • By direct giving into our
at home have experienced,                  bank account (sort code         Pat Jarvis
our livestreaming has been                 05-07-62, account number
beset with technical problems              25126061) using reference
because we need more up to                 ‘Sound System’
date equipment.                       • By using the online giving
   As I reported in the February           via the A Church Near
edition of Connected the PCC has           You/St Wilfrid’s website by
decided to replace our current             using this link:
system and install one that
meets the needs of our worship
today and in future decades too.
However, we need your help.
An up-to-date and integrated
audio-visual system will cost in
the region of £8,000 to £10,000
and whilst we will be applying

    To discover a sense of purpose, and to act on that
    purpose with good intentions and a kind heart, free from
    expectations, is to live a happy and contented life.

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God in the Arts

Jean-Francois Millet: The Potato Planters
Enter my rest                               has certainly portrayed the hard     going slowly through the world,
At this time of the year, we are            toil of their work, digging in the   and the preciousness of tender
planning our gardens for the                earth from sunrise to sunset         friendship between humans and
Spring and Summer ahead. The                to eke out a living. Millet was      animals. They are all caught up in
book of Genesis opens with                  the son of a farm labourer and       the little donkey in this painting.
a glorious account of God’s                 many of his paintings convey the        The man and woman in the
work of creation, and it also               severe realism of peasant life.      foreground may reflect our
tells us that God rested on the             We can sympathise with the           own lives with the duties, the
seventh day.                                couple working on the land, and      expectations and the demands
   We all need to find that                 our eyes focus on them as they       called of us at work. Take time
balance of work and rest, of                dominate the canvas.                 to focus on the donkey, enjoying
activity and slowing down in our               But in the corner under the       his rest. Take time this Spring
lives. And we are not always                shade of a tree there is a donkey    and Summer to find relaxation
good at that because our world              and a sleeping child. The donkey     and recreation. The world may
seems to be in the fast lane. We            knows only too well the reality      carry on spinning around us, but
rush everywhere, we rush out                of toil and work, but here he        we can stand apart, and enter
of habit, and we rush because               is resting, enjoying the peace       into the rest that God enjoyed
everyone around us is rushing.              and the shade. Andy Merrifield,      after His work of creation.
   This month’s painting, ‘The              an American philosopher, has
Potato Planters’ by Jean–                   just published an account of his
Francois Millet, a 19th century             travels with a donkey, Gribouille.     Revd. Michael Burgess
French artist, portrays two                 As they journey together, the
peasants at work. They don’t                donkey teaches him the value
seem to be rushing, but Millet              of patience, the importance of

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God in the Sciences
Science and a sense of
the Transcendent
What is the difference between
a cathedral and a physics lab? Are
they not both saying: ‘Hello’? -
Annie Dillard
   Scientists often speak of a
reality beyond the objects they
are studying, and for some this
is encountered in powerful – if
rare – episodes of wonder and
awe. The Christian writer J.W.
Sire quotes this line from Annie
Dillard in his book Echoes of a
Voice, which explores spiritual
or ‘transcendent’ experiences.
   In his analysis of these
experiences Sire describes
moments that are “emotional,
intellectual, highly charged,
usually sudden, unannounced,
often odd, some weird, others
glorious”, and places them on
three different levels:
   A material object that points
beyond the material reality.
                                     Kyler Boone
For example, someone might
develop a sense of what is good      carried a particular meaning,      of discovering something not
and evil, based on the actions of    others simply sparked curiosity.   previously known by man, there
others.                                 The famous geneticist           is a special kind of joy associated
   Experience of “something          Francis Collins described          with such flashes of insight.”
personal…just behind the             several significant moments           Most of us are not scientists,
surface of what we are directly      when he was young: “being          but we may well have had
experiencing, often something        transported by the experience      experiences like this in different
with which one feels at peace        of looking through a telescope”,   contexts. How can we, in our
or even at one, or, perhaps, as      or “a Christmas Eve where          engagement with scientifically
dangerous or threatening.”           the descant on a particularly      minded individuals, make
   A felt presence that has a        beautiful Christmas carol…left     connections through our shared
specific character or presence,      me with a sense of unexpected      experience of the transcendent?
e.g., holiness, or inspiring         awe and a longing for something    Can we listen as well as explain,
humility, fearful awe or wonder.     I could not name”.                 finding some common points
   According to Sire, level 1-2         These experiences meant that    of connection?
experiences are fairly common        when Collins was faced with the
but level 3 is rare. He gives        question of belief in God, “all
a wide range of examples,            [his] arguments seemed very          Dr Ruth M
including scientists. Some of        thin”. Now, as a fully-fledged       Bancewicz
these people are religious or        scientist and a believer in God,
interested in spirituality, others   he is able to say that “for a
are atheists. Some of their          scientist who occasionally is
moments of transcendence             given the remarkable privilege

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Twelve Miles from a Lemon
One of the joys of editing                 after my own heart) and he               areas of North Yorkshire where
Connected is the accidental                helped to change public opinion          that remains true today!
discovery of writers, thinkers             regarding Roman Catholic                    By repute, a local Squire,
or artists previously unknown              emancipation, attacking what             beaten by Smith in an argument,
to me.                                     he saw as Protestant ignorance           said, “If I had a son who was
   And so it was that I stumbled           and bigotry.                             an idiot, by Jove, I would make
recently upon a clergyman                     But it is Smith’s wit that            him a parson,” To which Smith
called Sydney Smith. The Revd.             drew me in. He was Rector at             replied, “Very likely, but I
Smith was a campaigner, wit,               Foston-le-Clay, near Thornton,           see that your father was of a
and writer; born in Woodford,              North Yorkshire, from 1806 to            different mind.”
Essex, on 3rd June 1771. He was            1829. He obviously loved living             I wonder what his Dear Friends
one of the most prominent                  in Yorkshire, but he found his           piece would address in the
preachers of his day. Educated             parish somewhat remote. “My              Parish Magazine!
at Oxford, he was one of the               living in Yorkshire,” he once said,
founders of the The Edinburgh              “was so far out of the way that it
Review. He championed                      was actually twelve miles from a           John Clarke
parliamentary reform (a man                lemon.” Of course, there are still

Sydney was an avid letter writer, and I want to share his advice to his friend Georgiana the Viscount of
Morpeth. Georgiana suffered from depression, and Sydney wrote this letter to her as means for helping
her get out of the slough of despondency.

  Dear Georgiana,

Nobody has suffered more from low spirits than I
have — so I feel for you. Here are my prescriptions;
  1st Live as well as you dare.                                     12th Avoid poetry, dramatic representations
  2nd Go into the shower-bath with a small                            (except comedy), music, serious novels,
    quantity of water at a temperature low enough                     melancholy sentimental people, and every
    to give you a slight sensation of cold.                           thing likely to excite feeling or emotion not
  3rd Read amusing books.                                             ending in active benevolence.
  4th Take short views of human life—not further                    13th Do good, and endeavour to please
    than dinner or tea.                                               everybody of every degree.
  5 Be as busy as you can.
   th
                                                                    14th Be as much as you can in the open air
  6th See as much as you can of those friends who                     without fatigue.
    respect and like you.                                           15th Make the room where you commonly sit,
  7th And of those acquaintances who amuse you.                       gay and pleasant.
  8th Make no secret of low spirits to your friends,                16th Struggle little by little against idleness.
    but talk of them freely — they are always                       17th Don’t be too severe upon yourself, or
    worse for dignified concealment.                                  underrate yourself, but do yourself justice.
  9th Attend to the effects tea and coffee produce                  18th Keep good blazing fires.
    upon you.                                                       19th Be firm and constant in the exercise of
  10th Compare your lot with that of                                  rational religion.
    other people.                                                   20th Believe me, dear Georgiana,
  11th Don’t expect too much from human life — a                    your devoted servant,
    sorry business at the best.
                                                                    Sydney Smith
Letter from Sydney Smith to Lady Georgiana Morpeth, 16 February 1820

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From the Parish Registers
      Church Floodlights                                    Funerals
     St Wilfrid’s Church was, or will be,                   We offer our love and sympathy to the
     illuminated on:                                        relatives of:
     12th February                                          14th February
     In loving Birthday Memories of Helen E.                Jean Stoker (89) at St Wilfrid’s
     Dean-Dragunas
     14th February
     In Loving Birthday Memories of Michael
     Austerfield
     28th February
     In loving memory of Steve Dunn and the
     nine other young men who lost their lives
                                                            Baptisms
     in the Great Heck Train Disaster                       We welcome into the Christian family:
                                                            30th January
                                                            Jude James Halliwell
      If you would like the church illuminated to           6th February
      celebrate a birth, baptism, birthday marriage,        Oliva Louise Stoko
      anniversary, or the life of a loved one please
      contact Pat Griffiths on 01757 705793

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   Methodist Clergy
  Brayton and Burn Methodist Ministers
  Revd. Philip Macdonald 1 Olive Grove, Goole, DN14 5AD              philipmacdonald@tiscali.co.uk (01405 765154)
  Revd. Peter Barnett    5 Lynwith Close, Carlton, Goole, DN14 5RR   revpb@revpb.karoo.co.uk       (01405 869701)

    A Cautionary Observation
    The membership of most congregations yields a wide range
    of skills and knowledge that can benefit the collective.
    Churches often, however, encourage people to leave aspects
    of themselves and their identities at the door. Jo Sadgrove

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St Wilfrid’s, Clergy & Officers
    Clergy
    Revd. Pete Watson                    The Rectory, Doncaster Road, Brayton,YO8 9HE                                    (01757 704707)
    Revd. Roy Shaw                       revroyshaw@protonmail.com
    Revd. Paul Finlinson                 p.finlinson@outlook.com
    Reader
    Jackie Jackman                       porgles.pogs@icloud.com		                                                       (01757 706475)
    Church Warden
    Pat Jarvis                           churchwarden@stwilfridsparish.com		                                             (01757 708881)
    Ministry Team
    Mel Allan                            (01757 706068)                            Electoral Roll Officer
    Lynn Allan                           (01757 706068)                            Margaret Seager         (07840 817005)
    Sue Beevers                          (01757 229515)                            Junior Church
    Pat Griffiths                        (01757 705793)                            Martha Harrold          (01757 291254)
    Joan Howden                          (01757 700942)                            Friday Fun Club
    Sheila Newsome                       (01757 705497)                            Cathy Rodgers           (01757 704303)
    Carol Sowden                         (01757 703590)                            Parish Safeguarding Representative
    Gordon Tute                          (01757 707123)                            Cathy Rodgers           (01757 704303)
    Sacristan                                                                      Pastoral Care
    Sheila Newsome                       (01757 705497)                            Sue Beevers             (01757 229515)
    Officers                                                                       Craft Group
    PCC Secretary                                                                  Linda Crackles          (01757 704944)
    Ruth Breeze                          (01757 701911)                            Mothers Union
                                         ruthie5611@hotmail.com                    Lynn Allan              (01757 706068)
    Treasurer                                                                      Book Club
    Jill Clarke                          (01757 708646)                            Rosalind Wilson         (01757 708856)
                                                                                   Wellbeing Cafe
                                                                                   Carol Sowden            (01757 703590)

    St Francis’ Clergy & Officers
    Clergy.Thorpe Willoughby Methodist/Anglican Church
    Revd. Christine Gillespie 24 Tomlinson Way, Sherburn in Elmet LS25 6EQ gillespiec39@gmail.com (01977 682695)
    Revd. Pete Watson         The Rectory, Doncaster Road, Brayton,YO8 9HE                      (01757 704707)
    Revd. Roy Shaw            revroyshaw@protonmail.com
    Revd. Paul Finlinson      p.finlinson@outlook.com
    (The Revds. Roy Shaw and Paul Finlinson have the Archbishop’s permission to officiate and we are very grateful for their help in the parish)
    Reader
    Jackie Jackman                       (01757 706475)                             porgles.pogs@icloud.com

    Officers
    ECC Secretary                                                                     Child Protection Representative
    Jan Tetley                            (01757 707987)                              Jan Tetley              (01757 707987)
                                          tetleyjan@gmail.com                                                 tetleyjan@gmail.com
    Treasurer                                                                         Church Coordinator
    Reginold George                       regi-george@hotmail.co.uk                   Shirley Croft           (01757 707380)
    Electoral Roll Officer                                                            Rosemary Finlinson
    Shirley Croft                         (01757 707380)

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Service Roster
  You are more than welcome to join us in any
  of the Services in March below
  St Wilfrid’s       St Francis  Methodists
  Tuesday 1st                                   Thursday 3rd                        Brayton
  10:30am Holy Communion at Fernbank            10:00am Holy Communion              Sunday 6th
  Wednesday 2nd Ash Wednesday                   Sunday 6th                          10:30am Holy Communion
  7:30pm Holy Communion with ashing             10:30am Holy Communion with         Sunday 13th
  Sunday 6th First Sunday in Lent                Prayer and Anointing for Healing   10:30am Morning Worship
  10:30am Lay-led Morning Prayer                Thursday 10th                       Sunday 20th
  12:30pm Baptisms                              10:00am Holy Communion              10:30am Morning Worship
  5pm Alive@5 at St Wilfrid’s Hall              Sunday 13th                         Sunday 27th
  Wednesday 9th                                 10:30am Morning Worship or Holy     10:30am Morning Worship
  9:30am Holy Communion                          Communion
  Sunday 13th Second Sunday in Lent             Thursday 17th                       Burn
  8:00am Holy Communion                         10:00am Holy Communion              Sunday 6th
  10:30am Family Communion                      Sunday 20th                         10:00am Morning Worship
  Monday 14th                                   10:30am Joint Parish Celtic         Sunday 13th
  10:30am Holy Communion at St Wilfrid’s         Communion at St Wilfrid’s          10:00am Morning Worship
   Court                                        Thursday 24th                       Sunday 20th
  Wednesday 16th                                10:00am Holy Communion              10:30am At Hambleton
  9:30am Holy Communion                         Sunday 27th Mothering Sunday         Methodist Church
  Sunday 20th Third Sunday in Lent              10:30am Lay-led Morning Worship     Sunday 27th
  10:30am Joint Parish Celtic Communion at St   Thursday 31st                       10:00am Holy Communion
   Wilfrid’s                                    10:00am Holy Communion
  12:30pm Baptisms                                                                  Thorpe Willoughby
  5pm Alive@5 at St Wilfrid’s Hall                                                  Sunday 13th
  Wednesday 23rd                                                                    10:30am Morning Worship
  9:30am Holy Communion
  Sunday 27th Mothering Sunday
  8:00am Holy Communion
  10:30am Holy Communion with Prayer and
   Anointing for Healing
  5pm Inspire at St Wilfrid’s Hall
  Wednesday 30th
  9:30am Holy Communion

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The Directory                                                                         Wellbeing
 Gentle Movement                        Wellbeing Cafe                      Soup and a Song
 Every Monday                           Monday 14th & 28th March            Friday 25th March
 2:00pm–3:45pm                          10:00am–12noon                      10:30am–1pm
 St Francis’ Church                     St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall            St Francis Church

 Sitting down exercises for all ages;   Come and join us in a safe and      Last Friday in the Month
 free but donations accepted for        friendly place for cake, a cuppa,   Memory letting you down? Caring
 Church funds. We are a warm            a chat and mutual support to        for someone with memory
 friendly group, so why not come        build a kind community! More        problems? Do you enjoy a good
 and join us; or come for company,      information? Call me on 01757       sing-song? Why not join our
 coffee and cake! More information      703590 Carol                        happy group for an hour of
 from me on 07821 257923. Jean                                              song & fun, then share a meal
                                                                            of soup, butties and cake. For
                                                                            more information contact me on
                                                                            07921255988. Rosemary

One Lump or Two?
 Community Lunch                        Coffee Corner                       Coffee Morning

 Wednesday 2nd March                    Saturday 5th March                  Saturday 19th March
 12noon-1:30pm                          10:00am-11:15am                     10:00am-11:30am
 St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall               St Francis Church                   St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall

 Come along for a chat with a           Beverages, books, cakes &           We are looking forward to the
 simple lunch of soup & dessert for     companionship! All welcome!         next Coffee Morning when we
 only £4. Pat                           Pat                                 shall again include the sale of
                                                                            our 2022 Easter gifts. We look
                                                                            forward to seeing you all again!
                                                                            Linda

 Coffeemates                            Coffee for All                      Churchyard Tidying

 Wednesday 30th March                   Tuesdays                            Saturday 26th March
 10:00am - 12noon                       10:00am–11:30am                     9:30am–12noon
 St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall               St Francis Church                   St Wilfrid’s Churchyard

 Why not come along for coffee,         Come along for coffee, tea and      Come and help maintain the
 tea, and homemade cakes, and           a chat. Everyone is welcome.        flower borders, cut back the
 great company in March! Lynn           Pauline                             brambles, and empty the rubbish
                                                                            bins! You might even get to climb a
                                                                            ladder! Sense of humour essential.
                                                                            John

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Crafty Folks
 St Wilfrid’s Craft                  St Francis Crafters                  Open Church
 Group
 Tuesday 8th & 29th March            Every Wednesday                      Wednesday 16th & 23rd March
 1:30pm–4:00pm                       2:00pm-4:00pm                        2:00pm-4:00pm
 St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall            St Francis Church                    St Wilfrid’s Church

 If anyone wants to join us they     We meet every Wednesday to           St Wilfrid’s will be open for
 are welcome to come along with      knit, sew, crochet, craft and        sketching, painting, stitching,
 their latest project, join in the   natter. Everyone is welcome!         writing, taking photographs or just
 chatter and enjoy a cuppa from      Or come along if you just want       soaking up the atmosphere. Martin
 1:30pm. No need to contact me       to chat! Contact me for more         & Karl
 beforehand. Linda                   information on 01757 703892.
                                     Margaret

Women Matters
 Mothers’ Union                      Brayton WI                           Thorpe WI

 Thursday 10th March                 Monday 14th March                    Thursday 10th March
 2:00pm                              2:00pm                               7:30pm
 St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall            St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall             St Francis Church

 This month we are looking           At our next meeting Barbara          At our next meeting North
 to hearing from Revd. Paul          Hirst-McGlone will give a            Yorkshire Rotters will give an
 Finlinson. Everyone welcome to      demonstration of Spring Flower       ecological talk “The Three R’s:
 come along. Barbara                 arranging                            Reduce, Reuse & Recycle”. –
                                     Contact me for more
                                     information 01757 702209. Jean

Sunday Evening Services
 Alive@5                             Inspire!

 Sunday 6th & 20th March             Sunday 27th March
 5:00pm–6:00pm                       5:00pm–6:00pm
 St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall            St Wilfrid’s Parish Hall

 C0mmunity! G@m3s! Cr@fts!,          Contemporary informal Christian
 Fri3ndly! Fun! A short relaxed      fellowship and relaxed café style
 worship time for all the family.    worship. It would be lovely to see
 Everyone is welcome! Pete           you there! Pete

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St Francis’ Notices
 Fabulous Quiz Night & Supper @ St Francis!
 Saturday 19th March @ 7pm. Teams of up to six people. Tickets £8 per person. Booking is essential -
 call Joan (01757 708128) or Shirley (01757 707380) to reserve a place. Pat

 St Francis Spring Fair 2nd April 10am to 12noon.
 At last - the much delayed 2020 St Francis Spring Fair! We will be showcasing lots of great Easter
 treats! And of course refreshments including cake! And a raffle, probably... Pat

 Fashion Show 21st April 7pm
 A note for next month’s diary - the St Francis Fashion Show. To be held in St Francis Church. More
 details next month. Lucille

St Wilfrid’s Notices
 St Wilfrid’s Spring Fair 14th May.
 Like buses we don’t have any fairs, fayres, or whatever, for two years, then along come two at once!
 St Wilfrid’s Spring Fair will be held in Church on the afternoon of Saturday 14th May between 2pm
 and 4pm It will feature all of the usual stalls including Craft Stall, tombola etc., with refreshments
 served in the Hall. If anyone would like a stall in the church or Rectory gardens, or if you would like
 to help out on the day, please contact me on 0777 0440214. Lis

Press Cuttings
A round up of true press cuttings from British newspapers.

 Commenting on a complaint from a Mr Arthur Purdey about a large gas bill, a spokesman for North
 West Gas said: “We agree it was rather high for the time of year. It’s possible Mr Purdey has been
 charged for the gas used up during the explosion that destroyed his house”. (Daily Telegraph)

 Police are being handicapped in a search for a stolen van because they cannot issue a description. It’s a
 Special Branch vehicle and they don’t want the public to know what it looks like. (The Guardian)

 A young girl who was blown out to sea on a set of inflatable teeth was rescued by a man on an
 inflatable lobster. A coastguard spokesman commented: “This sort of thing is all too common”.
 (The Times)

 At the height of the gale, the harbour master radioed a coastguard on the spot and asked him to
 estimate the wind speed. He replied he was sorry, but he didn’t have a gauge. However, if it was any
 help, the wind had just blown his Land Rover off the cliff. (Aberdeen Evening Express)

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When We Were Very Young
This month I though that I would share some of                      again, now that Covid is becoming normalised.
the pictures that I have taken on various Parish                    Butties and orange squash always taste better on
Walks. It’s about time that we did one of these                     damp grass...

Walk around Drax Nature Reserve 11th November 2012

Walk along the Selby Canal and Brayton Barff 23rd March 2014

Walk around St Aidan’s RSPB Reserve 13th May 2018

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Newly refurbished, with an accessible toilet, kitchen
 and parking, the hall can accommodate 32 people.

For more information about booking contact
     parish.hall@stwilfridsparish.com
        or via stwilfridsparish.com
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