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Issue 8 | Winter 2020 in the community with Funeral Partners Plane sailing for fearless Funeral Arranger PAGE 16 Caring Lisa donates her hair PAGE 9 In this issue... Funeral Partners invests in Northern Ireland and Horses fan PAGE 4 PAGE 6
Sam Kershaw Two hundred funeral homes and growing across UK Chief Executive Officer Two years ago, Sam Kershaw took over as Chief Executive Funeral Partners has established a Officer of Funeral Partners, having joined the business in new Northern Ireland region with professionalism and personal 2016 as Chief Operating Officer. Sam has over 35 years’ its most significant acquisition for care to their communities.” experience in the funeral profession, having worked his way four years bringing its total number Funeral Partners now has more up from Trainee Funeral Director to senior management. of funeral homes across the UK to than 50 funeral homes in Greater “ more than 200. London, 23 in Birmingham, 12 in Manchester and over 50 funeral “ Eighteen respected funeral homes in homes across Kent, Surrey, In late 2019 we were delighted to and have excellent reputations for Northern Ireland joined the Funeral Berkshire and Hampshire. welcome a number of Northern Ireland’s oldest and most respected serving their local communities. Funeral Partners has Partners network in November, as it In the last two years, it has also expanded beyond the UK mainland for family funeral businesses into the Growth through acquisition remains continued to invest in its the first time. established a new Merseyside region and grown its presence businesses, protecting their Funeral Partners network. one of our key priorities and, as many In December, two established family in Scotland, North East England of the relationships with potential heritage and traditions of businesses in Berkshire and Merseyside and Yorkshire. The acquisition of the 18 funeral partners exist locally, any of our funeral also chose to join Funeral Partners, which homes within Funeral Services professionals can contact their manager, high -quality service. In Merseyside, the newest Northern Ireland (FSNI) was our our Mergers and Acquisitions team or now maintains the heritage of more than 100 different family businesses. member of the Funeral Partners family, How Funeral Partners largest acquisition for over four years indeed myself about any reputable firms Frank Dooley & Son has seen three invests in its businesses and enabled us to establish our new that may be interested in talking to us. Miles and Daughters, established 20 generations of the Dooley family building Northern Ireland region. support local causes. You can read years ago by experienced Funeral up its enviable reputation for high-quality Two years after 50-year-old Yorkshire Despite a challenging year for the about their work in this issue of Life Director Adam Miles, operates six funeral service. Kieron Dooley and his sisters family funeral business John Blenkiron & Further investment will be required profession, Funeral Partners has in the community. I would also like to homes in Reading, Wokingham. Twyford, Karen and Fiona will remain with the Sons joined Funeral Partners, founder’s including a review of marketing and continued to invest in its businesses, say a special thank you to colleagues Bracknell, Crowthorne and Maidenhead. business, helping it to grow as part of son James Blenkiron is proud that local Funeral Partners. families receive the same trusted service. a series of branch refurbishments as protecting their heritage and traditions who were on standby and had to work Frank Dooley & Son, established in 1910, we look to grow and enhance these of high-quality service. over the Christmas break, taking them James said: “Families don’t see any has been run by three generations of the In Berkshire, Miles & Daughters Funeral successful businesses and strengthen away from their own families at such a difference. Our family is still seen as the Dooley family and operates four funeral Directors has chosen Funeral Partners to the excellent service they provide to This tradition of serving the community special time. continue Adam Miles’ legacy, after he sadly face of the business. The people who have homes in St Helens, Haydock and Widnes. families. and maintaining key contacts was died in 2018. built up trust within the community are very much in evidence in the run up to This magazine also highlights some Chief Executive Officer Sam Kershaw still here.” Although FSNI has been in corporate Christmas as our branches organised of the changing traditions and said: “I am proud that these businesses Adam was raised in Wokingham, with his family’s businesses serving the town Funeral Partners’ investment has been ownership for many years, a number Memorial Services, collected and supplied innovations in funerals, particularly with such excellent reputations for high for three generations. He worked in the positive, he said. “Soon after acquisition, of former owners and family members hampers, Christmas trees and Advent the level of personalisation and standards, caring for the bereaved and funeral profession for more than 30 years. they invested in our mortuary facilities remain within the businesses and we calendars for those in need in their greater participation of family supporting the local community have and we’ve recently received a new Jaguar are talking to others about returning communities, as well as supporting a wide members and friends. However, the chosen to join us. Sarah White, who had previously worked hearse and limousine. to serve their communities once again. range of festive and fundraising events. heart of what we do remains the same, “Families can be assured they will in caring roles, continues to manage the providing care and professionalism“ continue to deliver the same efficiency, business. “It has been a huge benefit, enabling us to “ As well as becoming the largest I am extremely grateful to our teams while offering the full range of continue our excellent service to families.” funeral services provider in Northern who consistently go the extra mile to services our families require. Families can be assured they will continue to deliver the same James said he is also discussing Ireland, we passed the landmark of providing 200 funeral homes across efficiency, professionalism and personal care to their communities. opportunities to open new branches. the UK, with more than 100 family businesses in our network. In this issue... Walker & Morrell Funeral Directors in Tyne and Wear also became part of 04 Funeral Partners invests in Northern Ireland Funeral Partners two years ago. Co- In December, we also welcomed founder John Morrell’s son, Martin, Berkshire-based Miles & Daughters enthused about Funeral Partners’ Funeral Directors and Frank Dooley 06 The changing face of funerals investment in new mortuary, refrigeration and embalming suite facilities at their & Son of Merseyside to our network. Both high-quality family businesses Washington funeral home. operate a number of funeral homes 08 Community pinboard “This has helped to improved our care of the deceased, Funeral Partners are really committed to high standards of care,” he said. The UK’s third largest funeral business – www.funeralpartners.co.uk 3
H ouston & Williamson was founded in Belfast in 1900 by Archie 1900 - EST - Houston & Williamson Funeral Partners invests Funeral Directors, Belfast Houston, with David (Davy) Williamson joining the business in 1923. David’s son Archie Williamson followed in his father’s footsteps, joining the in Northern Ireland business in 1947 and working there for more than 40 years. Archie remained with the business as a consultant when it was sold into corporate ownership and Funeral Arranger June McCandless, who joined Houston & Williamson 30 years ago, said his father also used to keep in touch. June is committed to local organisations and has helped children in local schools with their reading for 15 years. Eighteen respected funeral She said she was 100% looking forward to working as part of Funeral homes in Northern Ireland have Partners. “It will be like being family run again. Everybody I’ve met has Laura Neill and June become part of the high-quality McCandless at Houston made me feel very comfortable, they are listening to the staff and are & Williamson very friendly.” ■ Funeral Partners’ network as the business expands beyond the UK 1890 - EST - Bairds of Antrim Adair & Neely of - EST - 1870 mainland for the first time. Derry/Londonderry F ourth generation Funeral Jon has never looked back since Director Jon Baird, whose great joining his father in the business. “My A Chief Executive Officer Sam Kershaw said: aim is to uphold the name above the dair & Neely was formed by “These 18 businesses have excellent d grandfather James founded Bairds an door,” he said, “to support and advise the merger of two century-old Irel of Antrim, has worked in the funeral reputations in their local communities and N. people at a difficult time and help to we look forward to working with the local business for more than 35 years. family funeral businesses more than steer them in the right direction." teams and investing in the businesses 25 years ago. The merged business to ensure they continue to provide a caring and Established in the late nineteenth He welcomes becoming part of was managed by Wayne Glenn’s professional service to local families in Belfast and century, the business was originally Funeral Partners: “I feel it’s a very father Jack until his retirement. across Northern Ireland.” a wine and spirit merchants positive step because Funeral For more information about Funeral Partners Northern Ireland, contact: providing undertaking services. Jon’s Partners share our core values, Wayne joined his father over 20 Funeral Partners becomes the leading funeral julian.hodgkinson@funeralpartners.co.uk grandfather William Baird took over they understand that the families years ago, explaining: “I grew up with provider in Northern Ireland. The funeral homes the funeral business with his brother we work with are the foundation the funeral business and saw the include respected businesses in Antrim, Bangor, Any Funeral Directors considering selling their businesses should Francis, and Jon’s father James (Jim) of all funeral businesses and they caring nature of it. It’s so rewarding Belfast, Carrickfergus, Derry/Londonderry, contact Funeral Partners Chief Executive Officer Sam Kershaw, email: Baird became the third generation to understand the importance of being that families are entrusting you to Donaghadee, Dungannon, Glengormley, Holywood, sam.kershaw@funeralpartners.co.uk. serve the community of Antrim. part of the community.” ■ help them make important decisions Larne, Newtownards and Portadown. at their lowest time.” Wayne has welcomed becoming part Joseph Poots & Son, Portadown - EST - 1933 James Brown & Sons, Belfast 1904 - EST - of the Funeral Partners network as “like a breath of fresh air”. He T hird generation Funeral Director James Brown MBE, in East Belfast led to him being awarded the MBE in 2010. In addition to its four funeral homes in East Belfast and Dundonald, two additional branches – in Dunmurry and J oseph Poots opened his first funeral home in Lurgan in 1933. Originally he worked for the Belfast Funeral Arranger Sharon Sloan joined Joseph Poots & Son 15 years ago. Sharon, who had been a youth leader at continues working for Adair & Neely and is enthusiastic about Funeral Partners’ investment which includes whose grandfather founded James James has welcomed becoming part of her church for many years, explained: “I refurbishing their offices. Knockbreda - have become part of the Omnibus Company before establishing Brown & Sons in 1904, has worked Funeral Partners, explaining: “I have been James Brown & Sons business. ■ really enjoy my job. Sometimes I’ve been his own bus business in Lurgan. in tears with a family, but I know that Wayne said: “Funeral Partners are in the profession for nearly 60 greatly encouraged I’ve been able to help them through a dedicated funeral people and their by Funeral Partners’ years and intends to continue. After the Government nationalised bus management team understands willingness to engage difficult time. routes, he opened a funeral home which the importance of traditional family His grandfather initially worked for a with staff in Northern quickly flourished. He added premises “I’m delighted we have become part of funerals. coal merchant, saving up and working Ireland and to listen in Portadown before also acquiring Funeral Partners, I already feel a rapport his way up, buying a taxi, a wedding car to their views. “Funeral Partners have encouraged TJ Hadden and Son undertakers. with them and they have been very good and eventually a hearse. From there his “I have every at explaining everything to us.” ■ us to be fully involved with the funeral business began, with his four Joseph’s son Sam and daughter Maisie local community and local people, sons – including James’ father – joining confidence that the followed in his footsteps, with Sam to support the people who have him in the business. already excellent working there for over 60 years. supported us. We want to be back at service which our the heart of the community.” James has always found the funeral staff provide to After more than 50 years in family business fascinating and enjoys bereaved people will ownership, the business was sold in Wayne is heavily involved in local be enhanced as a James Brown MBE (right) working with and supporting so many 1987. Sam Poots continued to play an football, as Chairman of the North with Sam Kershaw, Funeral different people. His Chairmanship of result of the change Partners' CEO active role and his daughter’s husband Sharon Sloan West Junior League. ■ two major urban regeneration projects of ownership.” worked for the business for 38 years. 4 5
INNOVATION AND INSPIRATION: THE CHANGING FACE OF FUNERALS The Manor Barn near Stonehenge can be used as a funeral venue Funerals were once steeped in tradition and formality, but many conventions have changed in recent times. From transport and coffins to where services take place, the industry has seen plenty ▶ Becky Perry, Funeral Director at Chris White Funeral Directors, often has to innovate when of innovation to give personalised send-offs to loved ones. planning funerals in her branch’s rural area around Salisbury. She explained: “There aren’t many venues to choose from, and restrictions on music and decorations in religious buildings make some ▶ Wendy Tolley, Funeral Arranger families desperate for alternatives.” The Chris White team in alternative suits to the traditional black livery at Roy Quinton Funeral Directors in Walsall, West Midlands, got Becky arranges wakes in The Dog Using barns like The Dog and Gun Inn White, said: “Our newly-developed service the idea to use a three-wheeled and Gun Inn in the centre of town. and the Manor Barn, near Stonehenge, chapel has enriched the facilities we can Reliant Robin as a hearse when Its adjacent barn makes it a popular as funeral venues is rising in popularity. offer families. asking a family about their loved choice. She went a step further when a Becky said: “Word got around quickly, one’s personality. She said: “It family asked for an accessible funeral and people often go away saying ‘I want a “We were finding more families didn’t want turned out the lady was a big that wasn’t in a church. service like that’.” to attend cremation or burial services but still fan of the TV show Only Fools wanted a formal ceremony to say goodbye.” and Horses, in which the main Becky said: “We know the owner well After recently arranging a beautiful characters famously drove around so I thought, why not hold the funeral candle-lit service, the branch has also Chris White’s chapel usually serves in a bright yellow Reliant Robin.” in the barn?” been offering early-evening funerals. as separate arrangement and viewing Wendy Chris White can also offer intimate and rooms, but can be seamlessly combined, It clearly wasn’t far-fetched, as Wendy described: The barn has plenty of space and as innovative funerals in their own chapel accommodating 20 people. found a company called Only Fools and “Guests a private venue, few restrictions. of rest. Hearses that did exactly what its name said how apt the Becky described: “We’ve had bunting, Amy said: “We have received very positive suggests. She said: “Their vehicles even hearse was and even message boards, drinks from the inn’s Their chapel of rest in Salisbury has feedback. Facilitating a farewell to loved had the show’s ‘Trotters’ logo on the when making our way into the bar, all sorts of ideas to personalise recently been refurbished because of its ones in a familiar and relaxing environment side. They were fantastic.” service, they couldn’t stop giggling. send-offs.” growing popularity as a funeral venue. is something very special, and I am proud to a wheeler dealer, so I mentioned the It’s just what the family wanted.” Amy Newman, Funeral Director at Chris offer our community that opportunity.” The family didn’t tell their guests about Reliant Robin hearse and they were over the plan, so when a Reliant Robin The hearse was such a hit that Wendy the moon about it. wobbled up the road to the service suggested it again to another family. “Again, they didn’t tell their guests on ▶ Payne & Sons Funeral Directors in Eastbourne also everyone started laughing. She said: “Their loved one was a bit of arranges services regularly in its chapels of rest. the day and the reaction was superb.” The building used to be a cinema dating back before World War Two, so it generates a lot of interest. ▶ Coffin manufacturer JC Atkinson, friends can write their own which supplies Funeral Partners, messages straight onto it?” Lee Howard, Area Development Manager described: “They’re noticed many people interact with incredibly intimate services and can really be tailored to the coffins to pay their final respects, This spawned the Pathway Coffin, families’ desires. We invite the families to an in-depth tour of the such as by touching and laying featuring a whiteboard, blackboard or chapel of rest ahead of the funeral. objects on them. This made them both for families and guests to write or consider how coffins could be draw on. The idea was presented at the "We create custom presentations with their photos to be projected designed to accommodate such National Funeral Exhibition and proved during the service, which families enjoy watching." a connection. Marketing manager very popular, as Jamie explained: Jamie Luckley explained: “We “Lots of people were walking up to The option has become so popular that Payne & Sons now sees 40% ultimately wanted to give the the coffin, touching it and writing of its funerals carried out in their chapels of rest. Lee described: “No opportunity for friends and family messages on it.” other local funeral directors have the facilities to hold these services, to collaborate in the so we get a lot of interest.” coffin’s design.” The Pathway Coffin is now one of JC Atkinson’s best-selling picture coffins. Despite the demand, Payne & Sons ensures every service feels unique JC Atkinson already offered picture Jamie said: “One family member told us and runs smoothly. Lee said: “There’s no time limit for families and we coffins, on which families could have a ‘People are sometimes too scared to go make sure that other grieving families have their privacy and space to theme or design printed and received up to the coffin at a funeral, but everyone say their farewells.” numerous requests for words to be went up to look at the photos and write While many families still choose a traditional funeral, those who wish included. Jamie said: “We thought, why messages on top. It made it so much to create a unique event which is personalised to reflect their loved not create a surface where families and easier to be close to dad.’” one’s character can speak to their Funeral Partners funeral director to discuss their ideas and needs. 6 7
Caring Lisa donates her golden hair Community pinboard Lisa Lurring of C & T Radmall Funeral Service, West Sussex, had her golden wigs for young people up to the age of 24 who have lost their hair through cancer or hair cut off to make wigs for young girls other conditions. dealing with hair loss. Lisa paid for the haircut herself Lisa was apprehensive as the hairdresser and raised £440 for Little Princess tied and clipped her thick locks, but she Trust’s funding of childhood quickly took to her new hairstyle after cancer research. Pinks brings cheers to thinking about the impact it will have. She said: “The thought of some little girl Lisa said: “I hope I have brought a lot of awareness for this charity care home residents getting to play with her own hair like I did helped me through. and that more people donate their hair to make little girls’ dreams A Surrey care home had its communal room transformed into come true.” “Once all the bunches were clipped off a bar with help from Pinks Funeral Directors, South Croydon, I felt so much better for what I Wendy Tarplee-Morris, a co-founder giving residents with dementia the feeling of going out again. was doing.” from The Little Princess Trust, said: Supported by Regional Development Manager Jamie Groves, "As a charity who rely solely on Lisa donated her 10-inch locks to the the kindness of our donors, we are Funeral Director Karen Rattigan donated £250 and a bar sign Little Princess Trust, which makes real made from four light boxes to complete Elizabeth Court Care incredibly grateful to Lisa.” Home’s very own local, which was built from furniture donated by the closing Golden Lion pub. Karen said: “No residents should have to miss going out with family and friends from fear of being far from support, so when Elizabeth Court suggested bringing the pub to them, we were delighted to help.” Pinks has supported a number of care homes including Elizabeth Court for over four years, helping establish a tearoom, sweet shop and ongoing coffee morning on their premises. Funeral director to film director HAVEN Funeral Services turned its Hillingdon branch into a film set for local students entering the European Victory at Starting the Student Film Festival. Darcey s conversation Funeral Director Brian Hartland and Area Development Manager Steve Thomas helped the pupils from Dream Awards about organ ACS International School shoot their drama, named Destination Funeral, after closing hours. Daren Persson Funeral Services in North Tyneside donation Defibrillator donation Brian said: “The British stiff upper lip means many won The Most Supportive Funeral Director Award at Darcey’s Dream Ball and Awards. Henry Ison & Sons Funeral Directors encouraged staff members across its supports children people tend not to talk about funerals, and we want to break that mindset by helping the community in five branches in Coventry, Kenilworth and Leamington Spa to register as exciting ways like this.” Seventy funeral directors were nominated by organ and blood donors. Children taking part in a popular weekly run in County Durham will bereaved families across the country, which were have the back-up of a special child-sized defibrillator, thanks to 'Destination Funeral' director Inny Smith approached New legislation later this year will consider every adult in England an organ shortlisted to six by a panel of judges. Daren Walker & Morrell Funeral Directors. Brian after settling on the script, the finale of which donor upon death unless they opt out, but Henry Ison & Sons encourages Persson then took joint gold for going above and takes place in a funeral home, and was ecstatic to get families to have the conversation now to potentially help the thousands The Riverside junior parkrun appealed for donations to replace their beyond what’s expected of a funeral director. the go-ahead. currently awaiting a life-saving transplant. borrowed adult defibrillator and Funeral Director Martin Morrell Suzanne Bremner, Funeral Administrator at stepped up to cover the cost. Brian and Steve then invited the students and their Funeral Arranger Paul Atkinson said: “No staff member hesitated when we Daren Persson, said: “We are humbled and headteacher to their branch after closing hours, recommended joining the NHS Organ Donor Register before the law changes Martin said: “Running can be a strenuous activity for children and honoured that the families who nominated us supervising them over four hours as they shot the in 2020. There’s no reason why we shouldn’t make this decision now.” when many of them gather to take part in exercise, it’s only right took the time to do this during such a sad time in final scenes. they have the correct first aid equipment. their lives." All ten Henry Ison & Sons staff members went a step further by registering 'Destination Funeral' will premiere at the European as blood donors as well. With the help of NHS Blood and Transplant, pink “Adult defibrillators must be applied differently to children under Petra Williams, Student Film Festival in Amsterdam, which brings window displays were erected in every branch to encourage passers-by to do eight years’ old, which can cause confusion and increase the risk founder of together young filmmakers from across the continent. the same. of errors.” Darcey’s Dream, said: “The families Karen Healy, Senior Case Studies and Communications Officer at NHS Blood Martin paid £750 for the defibrillator, which replaces the one that nominated and Transplant, said: “Every day thousands of people’s lives are saved or borrowed from the adult parkrun. Daren Persson improved thanks to the generosity of both blood and organ donors like the The Riverside junior parkrun sees over 100 children and parents run told judges the staff at Henry Ison & Son Funeral Directors.” 2 km across Riverside Park in Chester-le-Street every Sunday morning, branch would often including Martin and his family. do anything they could for a family. Martin said: “My wife and I regularly take our kids and because They felt they had it’s run by volunteers it’s all self-funded. We knew if we a friend for life.” To find your local branch visit didn’t step in, getting a new defibrillator wouldn’t be easy.” www.funeralpartners.co.uk 8 9
Online our specialist care to our patients and their families across North West Surrey.” Understanding probate HAVEN Funeral Services, West London, has funeral Online funeral also raised £100,000 for local and national charities through MuchLoved, making it the third biggest contributor in the Funeral When a loved one dies, families face dealing donations donations Partners family. Steve Thomas, Business Principal at not only with the emotional impact, but HAVEN Funeral Services, said: “Charities also the potential minefield of legal and reach £1.5m are in constant need of donations and MuchLoved provides families with a way to administrative processes. meet the demand.” reach £1.5m Probate is the legal process of gaining the right to deal with their money, All HAVEN branches in Acton, Hayes, property and possessions. Before you can start this process, you need to Hillingdon and Northwood Hills have put register the death as you will need original copies of the death certificate displays in their windows and on their when dealing with institutions such as banks and insurance companies. If your loved one left a will, the Grant of Probate gives the Executor of From left: Funeral Director Douglas the will the authority to distribute their assets in accordance with the Goddard, former Owner Christopher wishes in the will. The Executor is likely to be named in the will and is Wickenden, Funeral Director Brian usually a close relative, friend or a professional such as a solicitor. Hartland and Funeral Arrangers Micah and Anna, from across HAVEN's four branches The application for a Grant of Probate must be made by, or on behalf of, Charities have benefited from online donations totalling £1.5m, the Executor (or one of the Executors if there are more than one) The probate application form PA1P can be completed online or posted to the thanks to Funeral Partners’ partnership with the MuchLoved funeral Probate Registry. notice, tribute and donations service. If there is no will, the process is more complicated and there are strict The free MuchLoved service allows which means branches are helping them rules about who can become the Administrator of the estate. This will families to create online tribute pages make a big impact directly linked to the usually be the closest relative, who will apply to be granted Letters of for their loved ones and share memories memory of their loved ones.” Administration using form PA1A. The Administrator essentially performs such as music and videos. It also lets a similar role to an Executor but has no will to act on. (If you are in doubt them raise money for charity in the James Ray, Funeral Director of Woking about who has the right to act as administrator, you can refer to the deceased’s memory. Funeral Service, Surrey, noticed families Rules of Intestacy.) received less traditional donations like Jonathan Davies, Trustee and founder of flowers and preferred donations to Probate is the same for residents of England, Wales and Northern websites with the information families need Ireland, but in Scotland it's called 'confirmation'. The Executor/ MuchLoved, said: “The amazing amount charities, often with a connection to their to use MuchLoved. Administrator must provide an inventory of all the deceased’s property of money already raised through Funeral loved one. This inspired James to offer Partners' clients will help a whole range bereaved families the opportunity to ask at the time of death when applying to the Sheriff Court for confirmation. Steve said: “It’s important to be as of charities across the country, both big friends and relatives for online donations accessible as possible. Families don’t want Woking Hospice's Phil Wormley The Executor/Administrator needs to notify banks and government and small. to Woking & Sam Beare Hospices via a to be overwhelmed with details, especially (left) thanks Funeral Partners’ Area departments of the person’s death and ensure any outstanding bills and MuchLoved donation page. Development Manager James Ray during such a difficult time, and MuchLoved “Importantly, all the recipient charities debts are paid. The Government’s ‘Tell Us Once’ service simplifies the for helping to raise £148,000 is easy to explain and use.” process of informing the Department for Work and Pensions, HMRC, the have been specifically chosen by clients, James said: “We’ve seen donations go from around £100 in a collection box DVLA, the Passport Office and the local council. Steve believes part of MuchLoved’s appeal “ at the end of a funeral service to and send the link for families to distribute is its funeral notice features, making it a A relatively new UK-wide service called the Death Notification Service £1,000 online.” to those who can’t attend the funeral. very personalised way to honour the life of works in a similar way to ‘Tell Us Once’ and covers the major banks, The amazing Woking Funeral Service has helped “I’ve seen Woking & Sam Beare Hospices the deceased. He explained: “Celebrating many building societies and other financial institutions. Set up by trade amount of money already someone’s life can be done not just through association UK Finance and major banks, it reports the death to multiple families raise over £250,000 for a range work relentlessly to improve the quality the tribute page – where users can share organisations by filling in one online form. of charities since the scheme was adopted of life of those with life-limiting illnesses. raised through Funeral by Funeral Partners five years ago, making It’s easy to see why we and so many of music, photos and videos to remember a loved one – but also through the ability to For free practical, independent guidance about probate, or any other Partners' clients will help up 15% of the Funeral Partners’ total – our families choose to support them.” donate in their memory.” support required following the loss of a loved one, contact the National the highest of any branch. £148,000 of Bereavement Service on 0808 164 2239. a whole range of charities this has gone to support Woking & Sam Phil Wormley, Director of Fundraising The benefits of MuchLoved to both Beare Hospices. at Woking & Sam Beare Hospices, said: A spokesperson for the National Bereavement Service explained: “We funeral directors and families are extensive. across the country, both James said: “We always make sure “It is an incredible amount of money Woking Funeral Service has helped us Jonathan concluded: “It’s a great way of want to ensure everyone has someone to turn to when they need it most. big and small. providing practical funeral support, sharing We recognise that it’s not always easy to get practical help and support at families are aware of the MuchLoved raise. Without support like this from local memories and breaking down some of the such an overwhelming time and we are on hand when it matters most.” service and many decide to use it. We businesses and the community we simply barriers to conversation in the wake of promote it in the funeral order of service would not be able to continue to provide a death.” For free impartial guidance and support after losing a loved one, contact the National Bereavement Service Helpline on 0808 164 2239 (Monday to Friday 9am-5pm, Saturday 9am-2pm) 11 10
Your Choice, your peace your peace of of mind mind We all know there are a number of companies offering Prepaid What’s your choice? Funeral Plans, all with varying options, prices and often lots of Managing A loved small print. So how do you choose which company to entrust this very important personal decision with, and one's digital footprint be confident your wishes and money will be safe When someone close to you dies, their social media presence may be the last thing on your and secure? mind. But, in the digital age, this is something to consider, both from a data security point of Whilst we can’t speak for all these other companies view and to avoid their contacts getting untimely birthday reminders or a LinkedIn invitation to we can tell you about the significant benefits of congratulate them on a work anniversary. purchasing a Choice Prepaid Funeral Plan. While the executor of the will is likely to family member to provide date and and proof of death through its ‘Report Our aim is always to help you plan in as much, or as little, detail as you wish. We don’t have rigid plan Life Magazine be dealing with your loved one’s bank documentation of death. If the deceased a deceased person's account’ form, account, including their internet banking, selected the option requesting deletion which can be submitted by friends or types to choose from, instead we take a flexible Discount of £300 off there are other elements of their online of their account upon passing away, approach, as we believe every funeral is unique and family members. our experienced staff are always happy to advise is available until presence to consider. They may have their profile will be removed once the and provide ideas and options. used an online system to leave their form is accepted. However, Instagram doesn’t change the 30 April 2020. appearance of a memorialised profile social media profiles in your care but, if Your loved one may have chosen or allow anyone to manage it. Instead, it • We have a large network of local funeral director branches • Your personal wishes can be Quote: LIFE2020 not, access can be gained in other ways. another Facebook user to serve as a throughout the UK, most of whom have been established for added to or amended at any time prevents the profile from being publicly decades in their local community Facebook gives users the option to Legacy contact, who would be able to promoted on the site. • If you move house, your plan turn their loved one’s profile into a write a pinned post for their profile, • We are more than happy to discuss your plan in branch or we moves with you memorial page. This adds the word decide who can post tributes, respond With social media a common place to can visit you in the comfort of your own home which many of ‘Remembering’ next to their name, to friend requests and update the find out about friends and family across our customers prefer • We are always here to offer support and advice to you and your allows friends and family to leave profile and cover photos. If not, the page the world, Memorialisation can be a family whether this is on the phone, in person, in the branch or via good way to let them share memories tributes and prevents the profile being can still become memorialised without • Our plan covers all the Funeral Director costs at today’s prices our independent free bereavement helpline. and pay their respects. Another option so however much those costs go up over time, you secure and suggested to others under ‘People you these features. may know’ or birthday reminders. is Funeral Partners’ free online tribute fix the price at the time of purchase As a business we pride ourselves on our services, so we try to keep the Many other social media sites use and donation service, MuchLoved. For rules of our plans simple. There are no upper age limits, health screening • Your invested funds are held independently with UK-based life and no financial credit checks and we offer a number of flexible ways This can be activated through a similar memorialisation request more information about MuchLoved, assurance companies regulated by the Prudential Regulation to pay for your plan that include cash, cheque, credit card or monthly Facebook’s Memorialisation request process, often detailed in their FAQ and see our article on page 10-11 or speak Authority (PRA) so are completely secure instalments calculated from 12 to 60 months to suit your budget. form, which requires an immediate help centres. 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Pop in to branch or call the Choice team on became available in England in July 2019, in England who die before their 18th 01803 298 243 or email us at info@choiceplan.co.uk allowing grieving parents to lay their birthday, and stillborn babies born after the 24th week of pregnancy, the Fund has The new arrangements followed a child to rest without incurring costs. been welcomed by funeral directors. campaign by Swansea Labour MP Carolyn Harris who lost her eight- choiceplan.co.uk year-old son in an accident in 1989 and The Fund has been established by the The National Association of Funeral Government to cover burial and cremation Directors has expressed concern that had to borrow money for his funeral. fees, the cost of a coffin (up to £300) and existing schemes in Scotland and Wales Government figures suggest some the cost of a receptacle for cremated do not include a contribution to the cost of 3,800 children die under the age of 18 remains. However, the cost of an officiant a coffin and, as yet, no provision has been each year in England (with a further to lead the funeral service is not included. announced for families in Northern Ireland. 2,700 stillbirths). 12 13
Our teams regularly receive messages of thanks from families they Our teams also regularly receive Ian Brown Funeral Director, Lanark, Scotland y o u have helped. Here is a five-star Google Wonderful service from a very professional provider. Staff excellent and smooth ank recent selection. s organisation of everything from start to finish. reviews for their Th Le t t e r Anita’s five-star service service, here are some recent ones. Wm. Dodgson & Son Funeral Services, Leeds We couldn’t thank this amazing company enough for the delivery and service Funeral Arranger Anita Smithers has been regarding my dad’s funeral. Nancy in the Middleton branch has been absolutely amazing, overwhelmed by families sending flowers, wine we can’t thank her enough for her time, patience and all-round loving nature. At such a and chocolates to thank her for her kindness, hard time, she managed to make us smile and feel so very welcome. professionalism and personal service. Douglas Mercer My dad had a perfect send off and it’s all thanks to these amazing people, it wouldn’t have Anita, from James and Thomas Funeral Directors in & Son Funeral happened without them. Merrow, Guildford, received gifts and thanks from five families in a ten-day period – and overall has achieved Directors, St Leonards-on- 44 five-star Google reviews. One thank-you card said: Sea, East Sussex Douglas Mercer and Son’s team of Trevor, Nick and Jane provided what can only be described as an Sterry Funeral Drakes of Torbay Funeral Service, Hythe, Service, Devon James and Thomas Funeral extremely high calibre service during such a challenging and difficult time. Kent Stuart Drake has now looked after three of my Directors, Guildford They were extremely professional, kind, supportive and helpful from Absolutely 5-stars. I could not have asked for a better service. family. The service you provided was second to none, thank you Stuart for ensuring this last the initial telephone call to the Wendy and Ian were wonderful. treasured moment went with absolute perfection. Dear Anita I cannot express my heartfelt thanks collection of my Mother’s ashes and They were kind, considerate and n, and gratitude for all that you did for us. Everything was planned to precisio throughout the entire process which showed compassion at a time your patience never failed although I was always popping in to check things. included a logistical and resource when I desperately needed it. L W il liams Fu neral The order of service and remembrance cards were out of this world. You were very professional at all times, even little things like stopping at the commu nity challenge for them in the form of the Wendy beautifully arranged my M centre with the coffin, where my husband socialised. Even when the coffin provision of seven limousines. mother's funeral and all the little A Yeatman & Sons Funeral Directors, Ayr, My mother’s funeral was out of this extras I asked for and kept me quite a arrived at the house, you didn't just get out and do a few steps, you walked world, it would not have gone to plan informed throughout. On the day, Directors, West Norwood, London Scotland way in front of the coffin. had it not been for the wonderful Ian was so kind and supportive! Angela and the team from Yeatman & Sons really more. teamwork and high standard of Many thanks to you both. The whole day went perfectly and we as a family could not have asked for helped me through one of the most difficult times ice at a service provided by Mercer and Son. oo d an d co nsiderate serv I could not give you more than 5 stars, I would have to give you 100+, you are an of my life after losing my mum. They were very G rned. ti m e for all conce asset to James and Thomas. understanding, helpful and helped me through all very di fficu lt pects are no CK of es si on al help and all as the procedures from church to cars to florist. Great Pr aff. RN service. I can’t thank the team enough. ry attentive st trouble to a ve Wythenshawe Funeral Services, Manchester So you’re planning a funeral, you have no idea what you are doing and you feel overwhelmed? After speaking to David at John Nodes Funeral Service, North London Wythenshawe Funeral Services that feeling just disappeared. Hemming & Peace Funeral Services, Gillman Funeral My husband was a sociable From beginning to end, David and the team made the whole process Alcester, Warwickshire Service, South London and much-loved man, but much more manageable. The respect and compassion shown to my Thank you so much Emma, you are a credit to your company. he was not religious and wanted very little fuss when it came to his cremation. family and my late uncle was incredible. I don't feel the need to review Yourself and all people involved in dad’s funeral made an cient. Very kind, sympathetic and effi John Nodes Funeral Servic very often but honestly, if you need to trust anybody with the send-off emotional sad time easier to deal with. e are our local funeral direct e of ors, and Hayley was very of your loved one let it be this team who will give them the dignity they Michelle and the team took car sensitive to what my husba nd had requested. They ma You were totally understanding, kind, considerate, nothing support. de a difficult time for the so lovingly deserve. Thank you for a beautiful day that ran so smoothly. everything. So grateful for the family much less difficult. I am grateful for their help was too much trouble. The funeral day was so well planned, RS and professionalism. although very sad a memorable day we will cherish forever. GC R 14 15
Plane sailing for fearless Funeral Arranger The sky was the limit for fearless Funeral Arranger Justin Hydes as he braved a 13,000-feet skydive to raise £1,500 for St Michael's Hospice in Hereford. Justin, from Dawe Brothers Funeral Directors in Ledbury, joined the fundraising Hospice Flying Angels skydiving group for the tandem jump. Strapped to an experienced instructor, Justin remained calm as they prepared to jump. Justin (right) with Hospice Angels “I was taking in the view, it was phenomenal. The instructor took me through a cloud that fundraiser Mike Pullin was like a sauna, I didn’t realise how warm a cloud is!” Investment in Ross-on- Wye funeral business Two Ross-on-Wye funeral businesses have combined their teams and facilities to work from one newly- refurbished funeral home in the town. The established teams from Abbotsfield Funeral Directors and Dawe Brothers Funeral Directors are continuing to serve local families from the Cantilupe Road funeral home, which is re-named Glittering ball celebrates Mayor Stuart Davis 150 years serving Solihull with Royal British Abbotsfield and Dawe Brothers Funeral Legion personnel Directors. Area Development Manger Gill Hedley Thomas Bragg & Sons Funeral I want to thank Thomas Bragg & Sons says: “Both Abbotsfield and Dawe Directors celebrated its 150th year for raising £1,250 towards our work for Brothers are established names with serving Solihull by hosting a dress- respite holidays." strong reputations in Ross-on-Wye. to-impress ball, raising thousands of Cllr Davis said: “Thomas Bragg & Sons pounds for local charities. “The same funeral team will continue to is a well-established and well-known provide the same exemplary levels of care Attendees including Solihull Mayor, company in the borough, it’s no wonder and commitment to local families and the Councillor Stuart Davis and Mayoress they’ve been going for 150 years. I’m community." Sarah Walker, raised £2,500 for the The proud to recognise their long service to Royal British Legion and Dream Makers, our town.” Investment in the business has included the children’s charity. refurbishing the arranging room, an Thomas Bragg & Sons was run by five external facelift for the building and Juney Walsh-Cooper, founder of Dream generations of the Bragg family before replacing its fleet of funeral vehicles. Makers, said: "If I had one word to sum becoming part of Funeral Partners. up the evening it would be 'brilliant'. New Teignmouth funeral home Funeral Director Caz Mayor of Teignmouth Cllr Robert Phipps cheques from Funeral Partners to the Denning at JH Way's officially opened the town’s new branch of Mayor’s three charities: Alice Cross new Teignmouth branch established firm JH Way Funeral Services. Centre for the elderly, arts charity The Helen Foundation and Homeless in With a sister branch in Dawlish, the modern Teignbridge Support (HITS). and welcoming Teignmouth funeral home provides local families with sympathetic Sandra Murphy, Funeral Partners’ Area funeral arranging facilities and a chapel of rest Development Manager for the South where intimate funeral services can be held. West said: “Opening this new branch sends a very positive message about The opening was attended by former owners how we are investing in developing our John and Wendy Way and saw Funeral businesses in Devon and creating new Director Caz Denning presenting £100 opportunities for local people.” For more information about all the funeral homes in the Funeral Partners family visit www.funeralpartners.co.uk or contact Head of Marketing Kelly Hailou: Kelly.Hailou@funeralpartners.co.uk We welcome your feedback and comments about this issue of Life magazine, or if you would like to contribute, please get in touch with Gemma Taylor, Community & Communications Manager: Gemma.Taylor@funeralpartners.co.uk
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