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bringing you this christmas season... Read more on page 7 HOPE’S MESSENGER WINTER 2021 COLUMBUS EDITION
GREETINGS Mark Tripodi - CEO & Founder TABLE OF CONTENTS
“Thank you” doesn’t begin to express Page 2-3 News and Updates
the gratitude that the clients and the
staff of Cornerstone feel for your support Page 4 Services for Grievers
this year. To say that 2020 has been an
unprecedented year due to the pandemic
Page 5 From the Grieving Heart
would be a drastic understatement; to
assume when the calendar turns to 2021
that all of the challenges will be behind Page 6 In-School Support Groups
us would be unrealistic. The pandemic
has impacted all of us both personally Page 7 Programs & Events
and professionally at some level. Like many non-profit
organizations throughout Ohio, Cornerstone of Hope relies Page 8 Ways to Give Hope
heavily on the generosity of individuals, companies and local
foundations. Historically, our Central Ohio office receives
Page 9 Kodi Pride’s Story
60% of its annual operating income through in-person
fundraising events. As many of our supporters know, we had
to cancel some events and reschedule others to a virtual Page 10-11 Development News
platform. As a result, the amount of financial gifts received
from events decreased, which ultimately led us to having to
make some difficult expense reduction decisions.
However, we have increased our funding from community
foundations and corporate grants when compared to 2019
and have plans to increase program income by transitioning each of these appeals was incredible, and your kindness
from a flat-rate model to insurance reimbursement. These allows us to move forward with greater confidence during
changes will result in a renewed focus and commitment to these unpredictable times. We will continue to adapt our
providing clinical services desperately needed in central Ohio. services to safely provide comprehensive bereavement
The need for philanthropic support will be as vital as ever support and care during this time when it is needed most.
since a majority of our professionally led services are offered
at no charge to the community. When comparing our 2020 At Cornerstone, we have great HOPE!
data, during the pandemic, to our actual 2019 services
Sincerely,
numbers, we find that we have experienced an increased
demand for the following: traumatic loss support groups,
school support groups to serve grieving students, grief
counseling, and incoming calls from families affected by
suicide or overdose deaths.
Please know that we are committed to providing an ever-
expanding scope of clinical and spiritual care for years to
come and every decision is focused on our client’s needs.
We remain committed to the mission and ministry of serving
those who seek support after the death of a loved one and
are increasing our program staff to meet the increased
demand for services.
Finally, we are grateful for the resilience and generosity of our
donors. We announced a special COVID appeal, hosted our
signature event virtually, and recently requested support for
our upcoming online Christmas Concert. Your response to
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SIGNATURE
EVENT RECAP
Similar to most other major events in 2020, Cornerstone of inspiring. Those who donated at least $100 to Cornerstone
Hope’s 9th Annual Signature Event looked a little bit different of Hope also received a copy of Coach Ryan’s book,
this year. On September 26, 2020, Cornerstone of Hope’s Chosen Suffering. We are grateful to all donors and hope
transformed Signature Event, Open Your Home, Open Your you are enjoying your copy of this inspirational book.
Heart premiered on Facebook, YouTube, and IGTV. Although
In addition to those who shared words of support, wisdom,
we were unable to gather as a large group in person, several
and encouragement, the Silent Auction and 50/50 Raffle
small groups gathered to view the premier together. Whether were large pieces of the event. The Silent Auction still
it was around the fire pit, in a church pavilion, while wading allowed for some friendly competition, with over 220 bids
in the pool, or relaxing comfortably on a couch, hundreds on the items. In addition to the other donations, the
have viewed the event and shared their support for proceeds from both the Silent Auction and 50/50 Raffle
Cornerstone of Hope! benefited our Compassionate Care Fund, which provides
financial assistance for those seeking support after the loss
Although virtual, Cornerstone provided the same of a loved one.
components of the in-person event. Taylor Tripodi, daughter
of Cornerstone of Hope founders, Mark and Christi Tripodi, The event was successful, managing to bring in over
opened and closed the event with her beautiful music. Her $145,000 for Cornerstone of Hope! The Board of
original song, “We are Alive”, was featured. Matt Palmer, a Directors, Host Committee, sponsors, individual donors,
loyal supporter of Cornerstone of Hope, guided us through clients, and supporters are all responsible for helping us
the evening with his vibrant personality. Clients Cory, David, reach this amount. We are tremendously grateful to all of
and Kari shared their experiences of receiving services from our supporters for their personal commitment to the
success of this event. You have been instrumental in
Cornerstone of Hope and the impact those services had on
bringing together members of the community who have a
their grief and their lives. We were honored to have the op-
passion for supporting those who grieve.
portunity to also memorialize the loved ones of our sponsors
and supporters, sharing their names and photos during the If you did not get a chance to view the event in September,
event. you have not missed out! The event can still be viewed on
our YouTube Channel.
Tom Ryan, wrestling coach at The Ohio State University,
secured the attention of our viewers, while sharing his There is no saying what our 2021 Signature Event will look
family’s story of the unexpected death of his five-year-old like, but we hope to be able to connect with you in our
son, Teague. His faith and testimony about the process he shared mission of Creating A World Where No Grieving
went through, the enduring pain, and living out his grief was Person Journeys Alone. Thank you!
Many thanks to our generous
PRESENTING SPONSORS
Lori & Joe Hamrock
Andrea & Kevin McNamara Barbara Fohl
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Services For Grievers
QUARTERLY FEATURE
GRIEF MATTERS
EDUCATIONAL SERIES
This fall, Cornerstone of Hope was Mindfulness webinar, attendees learned accompany grief. Attendees learned
pleased to continue offering Grief how being aware in the present moment about the “science of smell” and took
Matters, a monthly education series can be supportive in their grief work. home their own essential oil roller along
designed to help clients explore and From the comfort of their own homes, with suggestions for using natural oils to
manage their grief in new ways. While participants were led through multiple manage grief.
core services like individual counseling mindfulness and breathing exercises to
and peer-based groups continue to be explore if this practice might be helpful Cornerstone of Hope is excited to
immensely helpful, Grief Matters provides for them. present new topics and activities to
additional support for those striving to start the New Year as well. Interested
learn, grow, connect, and heal. In October, Essential Oils & Grief in the return of a previous program or a
introduced participants to the many topic that has not been offered just yet?
Recent Grief Matters topics have benefits that natural smells can have on Please let us know! We are currently
focused on connecting with grief through their physical, mental, and emotional planning programs for the 2021 calendar
sensory exercises and emotional health, especially those emotions and your suggestions are welcome…
expression. During an Introduction to such as worry and anxiety that often because your grief matters!
COUNSELING
SERVICES
Clients meet with a licensed clinician to
discuss their grief, learn more about the
grieving process, find helpful ways to
cope and meaningful ways to remember
their loved one, while receiving support
in a safe and confidential setting.
• Individual Sessions For
Children, Teens & Adults UPCOMING 2021 SUPPORT GROUPS
• Couples & Family Sessions
• ADULT HOPE IN HEALING
• YOUNG ADULT HOPE IN HEALING
SUPPORT GROUP REGISTRATION
• Pre-registration & a one-time intake required • HOPE AFTER OVERDOSE
• Call 614.824.4285 to schedule an intake
or for further questions.
SESSION START DATES
Visit cornerstoneofhope.org to learn more about Winter Session Begins Spring Session Begins
our support groups and our 2020 schedule. Week of January 11, 2021 Week of March 29, 2021
Register By Register By
January 4, 2021 March 22, 2021
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FROM THE
Grieving Heart
Dear Jasmine Jade Jordan,
God gave you your wings before we were ready,
It brings us peace knowing, with God, you are with already.
From the moment we found out who you were,
A blessing from God, to us, you will always be,
Great parents we would be, this we were sure.
There will never be a day we will not remember thee.
We got the news that told us the sex,
We were told you were diagnosed with Monosomy X.
Just remember, of Life, God is always the author,
We love you so much our beautiful, courageous daughter.
Overwhelmed and scared of what to expect,
Watch over your mom and I until we see you again,
That did not matter to us, you were perfect.
In Our Lords name we pray, Amen!
Tears filled our eyes, your future we started to plan,
The smallest little gift, that felt so grand.
Love, Mommy & Daddy
You were 1 in 2000, special from the rest,
This poem was written by Nycki and Brian Jordan
Your mom and I stayed strong, praying for the best.
following the loss of their baby, Jasmine Jade Jordan,
Embracing each other for the difficult road ahead, of Monosomy X. Nycki and Brian wanted to share their
You were in God's hands, on His path He led! story in order to help other parents and families who have
also experienced in utero loss. We thank Nycki and Brian
for sharing this beautiful poem.
As your father, I wish there was more that I could do,
Though, out of my control, still excited for your debut.
Your mom gave it her all, while changing for the best,
She never gave up hope, how you fought, she was impressed.
20 weeks in we got the news no parent wants to hear,
Our biggest fear came true, your heartbeat would disappear.
Devastated in disbelief, confused as to why,
God called you home before we could hear you cry.
I held your moms hand while your birth was still,
Your fight has come to an end, this was God's will.
You brought us so much joy in such a small amount of time,
Us knowing the stairway to Heaven, alone, you had to climb.
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CORNERSTONE OF HOPE’S
in-school WHAT MAY COME
SUPPORT GROUPS WITH GRIEF
42% 31%
Cornerstone of Hope’s in-school grief support groups are back.
As schools have navigated this COVID-era school year, so has
Cornerstone of Hope. In an effort to maintain safety of all and
attend to the needs of the specific schools and students, both
virtual and in-person opportunities are currently available. Experience Inability
Depression to Sleep
Cornerstone of Hope’s in-school grief support groups are
5%
available to students who have experienced the death of a loved
29%
one. This grief support group is designed to allow students
to come together and receive age appropriate grief support
amongst the familiarity of their schoolmates. Students will gain
a better understanding of the grief process and learn healthy Experience Experience
ways to cope with their feelings of grief. Suicidal Anger
Participants of all school ages are encouraged to attend.
Thoughts
School group facilitators are trained to help grieving children,
as well as young adults. Expressive arts, games, stories, and Statistics provided by eterneva.com
discussion are used to help the students heal. This is a safe
way to share feelings, find ways to cope with loss, and build
friendships.
If you are a school support personal, please reach out to learn CONTACT US TODAY
more about having an in-school grief support group for your
students. If you are a parent/guardian who feels that your Call Cornerstone of Hope to learn
student and other students could benefit from this service,
please share this information with your student’s school, so
how to bring this program to your
they can follow up. community’s schools
614.824.4285
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Programs & Events
GRIEF MATTERS
MONTHLY EDUCATION SERIES
Join us for our next monthly series at our facility to learn new ways of exploring and managing personal grief. Each month
we present a topic or activity that can help improve coping through education, self-care or expression.
2021 SCHEDULE
New Year, New Style Love Never Ends Introduction to
January 27, 2021 February 24, 2021 Walking Meditation
March 31, 2021
Learn about the benefits and limitations Join us for an evening of reflection
of various coping styles to determine and explore ways to find an enduring Learn more about the positive impact
if they might be a good fit for you. connection with your loved one. that walking meditation can have on
your physical body, mental health, and
Time: 6PM Cost: FREE Time: 6PM Cost: $10 overall well-being.
Register online at cornerstoneofhope.org/columbus or call 614.824.4285 Time: 6PM Cost: FREE
grieve w i t h
virtual christmas concert
Fill Your Home with the joy & peace
of Christmas Music performed
by Artists from across The Nation
DECEMBER 20, 2020 | 7PM
CLEVELAND • COLUMBUS
WAYS TO GIVE HOPE
THIS CHRISTMAS SEASON
As you enter into this upcoming Christmas Season, we kindly ask that you remember Cornerstone of
Hope, whether it is donating an item from our Wish List, inspiring others by submitting your story of
Hope, or most importantly, keeping us close in your prayers.
SHARE YOUR STORY 2020 CHRISTMAS WISH LIST
Participate in Cornerstone of Hope’s Share Your Story • Gift Cards to local grocery or department
Program and share your personal grief journey. Your stores or local restaurants
words may become a source of hope to someone who
• Postage Stamps
is struggling in their grief.
• Cleaning Supplies
Visit our Share Your Story page at
cornerstoneofhope.org. • Large Clear Plastic Storage Bins
• Bottled Water (12-16 oz) for Events
YOUR GOOGLE • White Copier Paper (8.5 x 11 sheets)
REVIEW REQUESTED • White Laser Labels (sizes 1”x 2 5/8” or 2”x4”)
For grieving individuals in our area looking for assistance, • Hand Soaps (pump bottles)
online reviews can be very important. We are constantly
striving to provide professional, compassionate service • Paper Products
for our clients. Your input helps us to define that • K-Cups of Coffee, Tea or Hot Chocolate
experience. That being said, your reviews are so
meaningful to Cornerstone and to other grievers looking
for help. If you would take the time to post a review of
Cornerstone of Hope on Google, we would appreciate it
so much.
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Love
A MOTHER’S
Tr a n s f or m e d
Read Kodi Pride’s Story of Hope...
Our daughter Lorelle Faith was a beautiful gift we were Cornerstone was founded, I knew it was the place for us to
blessed to unwrap for 6 and a half years. She was a gentle get counseling. When I saw “Creating a World Where no
soul who fought to live with a grace that could only be Grieving Person Journeys Alone” on the website, I knew I
bestowed by God. From conception, we learned she was wanted to be part of that world.
afflicted with Trisomy 13. She was given less than a 1%
My experience in individual counseling was life changing. I
chance of survival at birth, and a month to live, but she beat
found that I had been grieving multiple areas of my life with
the odds.
Lorelle. I had never grieved that she was not able to say
Lorelle’s diagnoses seemed to never end, but neither did “I love you”, called me mom, had disabilities that mommy
her joy! She was full of smiles as she lived with Trisomy 13, and medicine could not fix, and that when she died, so did my
including related conditions including microcephaly, plans with her...
blindness, epilepsy, and many more. No matter what her
plight, she taught us to never stop smiling. She became Read the full story at: cornerstoneofhope.org/AF.
our living testimony of God’s ability to heal what seems to
be impossible.
To describe Lorelle is to try to articulate my faith. There are
not enough words to accurately share the journey of
birthing, caring, and loving a child who was impaired in
every area but love. Simply, she was the epitome of life
imperfectly perfect in my eyes. Lorelle was born with what
ANNUAL FUND
seemed to be a broken body but an undeniably strong spirit.
Even though we had quite a journey during her life, I was not
prepared for her sudden death.
When Lorelle died, I went through a plethora of emotions, CAMPAIGN 2020-2021
anger, sadness, despair, numbness, depression, guilt, and
failure as her mom. I could not understand why God would
not heal her and let her live a long healthy life. I do not have all
the answers, but God’s grace has been sufficient for me, even
in grief. What I have learned to do is not focus on the fact
Give HOPE to families
that she died but to celebrate that she lived. Her dying could like the Pride Family by
never overshadow the life she lived. Lorelle Faith taught me
how to live, and that was to cherish every moment as a gift supporting our End of Year
and not a guarantee.
Annual Fund Campaign
My family and I were blessed to find Cornerstone of Hope.
When I read the story of Mark and Christi and why cornerstoneofhope.org/AF
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Development News GRANT AWARDS
The Columbus Foundation has granted Special thanks to Encova Insurance for their The State of Ohio Office of Faith-Based
$20,000 to Cornerstone of Hope for all grant of $2,500 for all of our Bereavement and Community Initiatives has granted
of our Bereavement Support Services Support Programs. We truly appreciate the Cornerstone of Hope $25,000 for Mental
for children, teens, and adults including continued partnership of Encova Insurance, Health Stigma Reduction work in Cleveland,
Counseling, Support Groups, In-School whose grant support has enabled us to Columbus, and Lima. These funds will enable
Groups, and Camps. The generous grant provide critical grief services to individuals in us to provide grief education and our Grief
support of The Columbus Foundation Central Ohio. Matters series.
has made a big impact in the lives of
individuals who are grieving.
SPECIAL THANKS
STOLLY INSURANCE
Thank you to Stolly Insurance Group for including Cornerstone of
Hope in their recent Operation Give Back competition. Throughout
the month of August, individuals were invited to vote for their
favorite local non-profit charity organization. Special thanks to
those who voted for Cornerstone of Hope, helping the organization
receive $500 from Operation Give Back. We are sincerely grateful
for this opportunity and generous contribution.
10 cornerstone of hope | a center for grieving children, teens and adultsCOMMUNITY SUPPORT Development News
Community Support for Cornerstone of Hope can include events that raise awareness, professional and community group
meetings, and fundraisers. If you are interested in having an event to support Cornerstone of Hope, please contact
JoAnn Borer at 614.824.4285 or JoAnn@cornerstoneofhope.org.
SWENSONS
Take a break from your Christmas shopping and order
a Galley boy, shake, or any other delicious menu items
from Swensons.
THURSDAY • 4PM – 9PM
DECEMBER 10, 2020
Present this page to your curb server, so that
15% of the food and beverage sales will go
back to Cornerstone of Hope.
Available at any of their Columbus locations in
Dublin, Polaris, Hilliard, and New Albany. We all know
somebody who loves Swensons, so please encourage
your friends and families to drive in to donate too!
KENDRA SCOTT GIVES BACK
Are you just getting started on your Christmas shopping
but don’t know where to begin? Check two items off your
to-do list, by purchasing jewelry from Kendra Scott, while
supporting Cornerstone of Hope.
SATURDAY & SUNDAY
DECEMBER 12-13, 2020
20% of your purchase will be donated to Cornerstone
of Hope. Use promo code GIVEBACK-0ECO either in-
store or online.
Look for Cornerstone of Hope staff at the Kendra Scott store at
the Easton Town Center on Saturday, December 12, 2020 from
2PM-5PM, for a chance to enter into a raffle to win a prize.
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Hope’s MESSENGER Winter 2021 COLUMBUS STAFF
Mark Tripodi
To learn more about upcoming programs or to register, CEO/Founder
please visit cornerstoneofhope.org or contact our office at 614.824.4285.
Deana Thatcher, LISW-S
Clinical Director
SAVE THE DATE - COLUMBUS JoAnn Borer, LSW
• 12/10/20 Swensons Fundraiser Molly O’Driscoll, LPC, GC-C
• 12/12/20 Kendra Gives Back Fundraiser Elizabeth Kraska, LISW-S
Bruce Benzing, MDiv, LMin
• 12/13/20 Kendra Gives Back Fundraiser
Courtney Smoot, M.ed, CT
• 12/20/20 Grieve With Hope Virtual Christmas Concert
Katy Denner, M.ed
• 1/11/21 Winter Groups Start Stacy Sieberth, M.ed
• 1/27/21 Grief Matters: New Year, New Style
• 2/24/21 Grief Matters: Love Never Ends
• 3/31/21 Grief Matters: Introduction to Walking Meditation
COLUMBUS BOARD OF DIRECTORS
Becky Bandelaria John Howenstine
Jerry Bennett K.P. Kelly
Erik Brown Gary McNutt
Allan Dinsmore Leanne Ebert Murphy
Barbara Fohl David O’Reilly
Matt Gardner Shannan Ritchie
Charlie Green Scott Shively
Steve Gross Michelle Slawinski
Volunteer Opportunities Available
COLUMBUS
1550 Old Henderson Rd, Suite E-262
Cornerstone is looking for volunteers! Opportunities include baking, office
Columbus, Ohio 43220
work and fundraising. Service hours are available for students, too. If
614.824.4285
you are interested in learning more, please reach out to JoAnn Borer by
calling 614.824.4285 or JoAnn@cornerstoneofhope.org.
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