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                            January 23 - February 5, 2020 • Issue 27.02

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                                                                                       as far as I made it. Since my last                sundae?” As long as my dad could                contributors
                                                                                       article, my family experienced the                talk, right up to the end, he made
                                                                                       5-year mark of my dad’s passing.                  cringe-worthy jokes that always
                                                                                       He died on New Year’s Eve 2014                    had me laughing.
                                                                                       after suffering from a long-term                     I may not think about him                                       Beneva
                                                                                       illness. His death was slow and my                every day, but every day he lives                                  Fruitville
                                                                                       mom and I were by his side when                   on through me as I carry on his                             has been honored
                                                                                       he took his last breath.                          terribly funny sense of humor. It’s                         for her theatrical
                                                                                           I relate so much to the words                 not just me either. It’s rubbed off                         roles and
                                                                                       James Blunt puts together:                        on my roommate, my fiancé and                               volunteerism. She
                                                                                       acknowledging the imperfections                   certainly my brother’s kids. I’m       has performed onstage from New York

                                Publisher’s                                            of himself and his father as the                  sure if my Puggle, Amber Atkins,
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                                                                                       “goodbye,” took me right back to                  Blunt for the trip down memory
                                                                                       the moment I said goodbye to my                   lane, and thank you dad for the
                                                                                       dad. There was great sadness in                   continuing laughter. I love you                                    Alec
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                                                                                           I can’t say that a day goes by                day, but every                         on behalf of inclusivity and equality in
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     went to a small, Southern                                                         that I don’t think of him. Sadly too
                                                                                       many do. I don’t say that in shame,               day he lives on
    Baptist college in Mars Hill, North Carolina.                                      but just the reality of life. With
                                                                                                                                         through me as
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    It was definitely a culture shock. I considered                                    boards, running two companies                     I carry on his                                                     Korpar is
myself a religion-wary, big city boy from Central                                      and trying to plan a wedding,                                                                             a journalism
Florida. Is that even an accurate statement for
                                                                                       it’s easy to lose track of the past.              terribly funny                                          student at the
                                                                                       Luckily life has a way of jogging my                                                                      University of
Orlando in 1993? There were still orange groves                                        memory of what is important.                      sense of humor.                        Central Florida and a former
                                                                                           In honor of my dad, I’m going
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                                                                                       1985 and my parents and I were                    we continue our series of
Although, we had Blockbuster which was more than                                       heading home from a little league                 discrimination within the LGBTQ
Mars Hill could boast. Mars Hill was a two-stoplight                                   game when we passed my 10                         community, focusing on the
                                                                                       year-old self’s favorite place in                 treatment of our transgender and
kind of town.                                                                          the world — Taco Bell. This was                   non-binary family. Our arts and
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    I didn’t hate it though, in           music has on us. It can take over            the year Taco Bell introduced the                 entertainment features introduce
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retrospect I loved it. College            any situation. Music can pull you                                                                                                       Bruce Hardin, Jamarqus Mosley,
is where I gained my passion              out of a funk in an instant, and it          I want a Pizzazz!” To which my                    in a bottle from “Aladdin” and          Chris Stephenson, Lee Vandergrift
for musical theater. I had the            can tear at your soul when you               dad exclaimed, “You want a piece                  Gulfport’s ReadOut. In Central
opportunity to stage manage a             least expect it. The latter being the        of what?!?”                                       Florida news we follow Juleigh
musical called “American Beauty.”         case for me most recently.                       I feel like we laughed for ten                Amanda Mayfield’s battle to have
It was a spoof on beauty pageants,            I was scrolling through my               minutes. That’s who my dad was,                   her birth certificate reflect her                distribution
but it made my sappy, young, gay          Facebook feed when I saw several             and that’s the moment I developed                 gender, and in Tampa Bay news the
                                                                                       my sense of humor. He was the                     Tampa Bay Diversity Chamber gets       LVNLIF2 Distributing, Ken Carraway,
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LGBTQ workshop to help heal
trauma coming to Winter Park
Samantha Neely

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          RLANDO | The sting of rejection within the LGBTQ
          community is something therapists Lindsay
          Kincaide and Marcie Cramer have seen show up in
many forms for years, both professionally and personally.
     “When you look at what people think of trauma and
about sexual abuse, being beaten or being neglected, at the                                                                                                               Intersex
core of all of those is a rejection,” Cramer says. “From my                                                                                                               advocate:
perspective, the community is rejected, so it’s multifaceted
                                                                                                                                                                          Juleigh Amanda
and you’ll see it’s really like a gem. Wherever you turn,
                                                                                                                                                                          Mayfield speaks
you’ll see a different facet but at the core of this is: ‘Do
                                                                                                                                                                          with the press
I have a right to be here?’ ‘Do I have a right to exist?’ ‘What
                                                                                                                                                                          outside the Osceola
is my worth?’ … that all comes from rejection.”
     Kincaide says after finding out Cramer ran LGBTQ                                                                                                                     County Courthouse
workshops in the late 90s to 00s, she wanted to collaborate                                                                                                               Jan. 15. Photo by
on a workshop for the community that she loved. After                                                                                                                     Jeremy Williams

weeks of planning, they created “Healing Trauma in the

                                                                         Updating Her Life
LGBTQ Community,” deciding that focusing on rejection                                                                                                    you had transitional surgery to get
and the internalized shame it causes was the most                                                                                                        the gender change.’ I didn’t have to
meaningful approach.                                                                                                                                     do that because I was born both.”
     “What makes the group therapy and workshops so                                                                                                          Pons and her class began creating
powerful is you get that message that you are wanted,                                                                                                    the documentation Mayfield would
accepted and you’re allowed to speak your truth,”
Kincaide says.
                                                                         Central Florida intersex woman asks                                             need to ask a Central Florida judge to
                                                                                                                                                         grant an order for a gender change
     Kincaide and Cramer, who both work at Center for the
Healing Arts, agree that workshops are a great way to heal
                                                                         judge for gender change on birth                                                on all her legal documents, including
                                                                                                                                                         her birth certificate.
old wounds. After years of not facilitating sessions and
noticing that there are very few LGBTQ specific workshops,
                                                                         certificate                                                                         Pons and Mayfield hoped that
                                                                                                                                                         on Jan. 15, the judge would sign off
Cramer says she is excited to create a safe space for the                                                                                                on the request which, according
community she’s been an ally of since her teens.                         Jeremy Williams                         copious amounts of estrogen. This is    to Pons, means Alabama should
     “Workshops use the opportunity to drill down to the                                                         when Mayfield began her journey to      have to recognize it. However, the

                                                                        K
cause instead of just trying to deal with the symptoms,”                                                         becoming Juleigh.                       judge postponed his ruling, asking
she says. “We heal down and we grow up – so we can really                        ISSIMMEE, Fla. | A Central         “I travel a lot for work, as an      for a week to review the case
drill down to where the trauma is.”                                              Florida intersex woman asked    actress and an advocate for the         including information on a similar
     While planning the activities and discussions for the                       an Osceola County judge for a   XXY community,” Mayfield says,          case from Indiana Pons submitted
workshop, the duo made sure to cater it to each person to                gender marker change on her birth       “and I was traveling as Juleigh but     to the courts.
fit their agenda.                                                        certificate Jan. 15.                    showing up with James’ ID. I would          “The Indiana case is specifically
     “It’s very experiential, they are really going to                       Juleigh Amanda Mayfield was         have to give TSA a piece of paper       on point,” Pons said after the
experience healing and then confront the feelings,”                      born 47XXY, meaning she was             that says ‘I’m in the process of        hearing. “I also have 109 cases to
Kincaide says. “We’re going to have a variety of different               born with an extra copy of the X        transitioning, please don’t make an     look through and I’m going to bolster
types of activities and techniques to use, so there is really            chromosome. This left Mayfield          issue about it. My paperwork will all   her position as much as I can based
going to be something that’s going to fit everyone with all              neither completely biologically male    say male.’ That’s very scary because    on the authority that I find. Then we
sorts of different processes.”                                           or female, but both. At birth, her      you don’t know how people are           wait for his decision.”
     However, they say they are aware that this is an intense,           parents began raising her as male.      going to react.”                            If granted, this would be the first
immersive process and it can be challenging for some.                        “Information just wasn’t readily       Along with her class, Dr. Irene      case in the Ninth Judicial Circuit
     “We are conscious that there will be some people that               available in 1975,” Mayfield says.      Pons – a University of Central          Court where an intersex person is
come in with a lot of anxiety,” Cramer says. “They are the               “XXY wasn’t even discovered until       Florida associate lecturer and          allowed a gender marker change to
warriors because they’re doing it in spite of how anxious                the early 1950s, so it’s safe to say    an old friend of Mayfield’s since       be applied to another state.
they feel.”                                                              doctors in Alabama in 1975 had no       their days of working at Disney             “It’s hard to understand that just
     The main idea that they want participants to leave with             knowledge about it.”                    – assisted Mayfield in getting her      a piece of paper weighs so heavy on
is that they are loved and deserve love.                                     At age 17, Mayfield moved to        name changed on her ID to reflect       everything we do and what so many
     “The more everyone is in touch with the best part of                Orlando and was diagnosed with          her correct name. They found that       people take for granted in society,”
themselves, the better the planet will be,” Cramer says.                 XXY. She was given testosterone and     changing its gender marker was          Mayfield says. “It’s not just about me
                                                                         would take it for five years before     not as simple.                          getting my birth certificate, it’s about
“Healing Trauma in the LGBTQ Community” will be held Feb. 22 from        she was advised by doctors to stop         “I contacted Alabama to see          me sharing my story.”
9:30 a.m.-6 p.m. For more information and to reserve a space, visit      due to health issues. For 20 years      what I had to do to change my birth         Pons had until Jan. 22 to submit
CenterForTheHealingArts.com.                                             Mayfield was on no hormones.            certificate from male to female,”       the amended case, at which time
                                                                         In 2018, again due to serious           Mayfield says. “The person on the       the judge will review and make a
                                                                         health-related issues, doctors          phone said, ‘You are going to have to   decision.
                                                                         told Mayfield she needed to be on       prove to the state of Alabama that

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Sarasota Pride marks 30 years
with first January outing
Ryan Williams-Jent

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      ARASOTA | Sarasota Pride will be held Jan. 25
      from 11 a.m. – 4 p.m. at J.D. Hamel Park, the first
      January outing in the celebration’s 30-year history.
    Sarasota Pride, Inc., its organizing nonprofit, exists
to encourage visibility for members of the LGBTQ                                                                                                                             A NEW DAY:
community living in Sarasota and throughout Florida.                                                                                                                         (L-R) Mayor Jane
It promotes the elimination of prejudice through                                                                                                                             Castor, LGBT Chamber
community activities like this year’s Pride in the Park.                                                                                                                     of Commerce President
    An estimated 6,000 participants attended Sarasota                                                                                                                        Justice Gennari and
Pride’s last gathering on Oct. 20, 2018, Sarasota Pride,                                                                                                                     Mayor Rick Kriseman
Inc. Chair Cindy Barnes says. In August of last year, the                                                                                                                    unveil the chamber’s
organization announced it would skip its traditional                                                                                                                         new name Jan. 17.
October festival, and thus 2019 altogether, citing                                                                                                                           PHOTO BY DYLAN TODD
scheduling conflicts with the city.
    Barnes now sees the conflict as a blessing. Sarasota
Oktoberfest, held at J.D. Hamel Park in lieu of Sarasota

                                                                        State of the Bay
Pride 2019, was shuttered due to inclement weather.                                                                                                    and this event highlights the
“We would have had to cancel the thing,” she says.                                                                                                     milestones we have achieved.”
    She also sees the move as benefiting the organization                                                                                                  Gennari subsequently unveiled
and Pride attendees in other ways. “October is one of                                                                                                  the chamber’s new name and
the busiest months of the year,” Barnes says. “When we                                                                                                 branding, sharing its updated
had Pride in 2018 there were seven events going on in
town that day. It’s hard to get tents, tables and chairs.”
                                                                        Tampa Bay LGBT Chamber of                                                      logo designed by Tampa’s BKN
                                                                                                                                                       Creative. The LGBTBE-certified firm
    Barnes also cites the weather. “I don’t think it’s ever
going to be cool in October again,” she says. “I think the
                                                                        Commerce unveils new name                                                      worked diligently on the design to
                                                                                                                                                       ensure it matched the chamber’s
weather’s going to be much better.”                                                                                                                    strategic plan.
    More than 40 new and returning vendors are                          Ryan Williams-Jent                      leadership, members and Trulieve,          The new branding incorporates
expected to fill J.D. Hamel Park for Sarasota Pride this                                                        the event’s presenting sponsor.        the colors of the rainbow and

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year, showcasing an impressive assortment of goods                                                                 The State of the Chamber            seven hexagons, representing the
and services. “We have a lot of vendors who have never                          AMPA | The Tampa Bay            exists to recognize community          chamber’s seven core values and
been here before,” Barnes says, “they’ve just come out                          LGBT Chamber of Commerce,       leaders, discuss the chamber’s         the Tampa Bay counties its serves.
of the woodwork. We also have our repeat offenders,                             formerly the Tampa Bay          vision for the future and detail its   “We worked with BKN Creative
as I call them; they always come back. We have a big                    Diversity Chamber of Commerce,          accomplishments of the previous        to ensure that the new branding
variety this year.”                                                     unveiled its new name and               year. Tampa Bay LGBT Chamber of        truly represented our chamber,”
    That includes a wide range of food and beverages,                   branding Jan. 17 at the Centre          Commerce President Justice Gennari     Gennari said.
with Barnes touting “the cheapest alcohol of any festival               Club during its annual State of the     used the opportunity to reveal             “The transition will take place
in Sarasota.” Attendees can expect a plethora of fan                    Chamber luncheon.                       that membership had an overall         over the next few weeks as we
favorite entertainment as well.                                            The chamber has served               growth of 830% in 2019, with event     continue to execute our strategic
    The St. Petersburg-based pop/rock duo Halcyon                       Tampa Bay’s LGBTQ community             attendance growing by 166%.            plan for 2020,” he continued. “The
perform from 11:30 a.m. – 1:30 p.m., followed by the                    since 1983, representing businesses,       “We are kicking off 2020 with       rebrand will not change the way
Sarasota-based rock group Divine AF from 2 – 4 p.m.                     groups and individuals throughout       our members, past and current          the Chamber advocates for current
Between performances, emcee Lindsay Carlton-Cline                       Hernando, Hillsborough, Manatee,        board members, elected leaders         members and it will continue to
will be joined by fellow drag entertainers Anita Cox,                   Pasco, Pinellas, Polk and Sarasota      and corporate partners to showcase     support its members throughout the
Savannah Lynn and Grandma Pearl for performances                        counties. As an affiliate of the        our 35 plus years in the Tampa Bay     seven-county region.”
throughout the festival.                                                National LGBT Chamber of                Region and our vision for the next         “BKN Creative is incredibly
    Sarasota Pride isn’t likely to return to an October                 Commerce (NGLCC), it provides           35,” Gennari shared.                   honored to have worked with the
outing, Barnes says, but says the organization’s                        LGBT Business Enterprise (LGBTE)           “Last year we hosted the            Tampa Bay LGBT Chamber on their
six-member board will consider feedback from the                        certification to LGBT-owned             NGLCC International Business and       recent rebrand and logo design,”
community. “It will depend on how this turns out,” she                  businesses and promotes equality.       Leadership Conference in Tampa Bay     BKN CEO Kevin Tydlaska-Dziedzic
says, “but I think we will probably stay in January.                       More than 175 supporters             and this year we look to match         added. “We look forward to seeing
    “Everyone can’t have Pride in June and October,”                    attended the annual luncheon,           the excitement with seven new          this chamber continue to excel
Barnes adds. “We’ll have to evaluate after it’s over, see               including St. Petersburg Mayor Rick     educational programs, networking       and impact our Tampa Bay LGBTQ
how everyone feels and go from there. Just come out                     Kriseman and Tampa Mayor Jane           socials, events and so much more,”     community.”
and have a good time.”                                                  Castor. The longstanding chamber        he continued. “We truly are the
                                                                        members discussed the state of          only resource in Tampa Bay Area        For more information about the Tampa Bay LGBT
Sarasota Pride 2020 will be held Jan. 25 from 11 a.m.-4 p.m. at J.D.    equality in Tampa Bay, detailing        advocating for the LGBT business       Chamber of Commerce, its LGBTBE certification
Hamel Park. For more information, visit SarasotaPride.org.              their dedication to diversity and       community and dedicated to             and future events, visit DiversityTampaBay.com.
                                                                        inclusion for all. They were flanked    expanding economic development         To view a full photo gallery of the luncheon, visit
                                                                        by presentations from chamber           for the LGBT business community        WatermarkOnline.com.

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state news

                                                                   Florida Republicans introduce 4 anti-LGBTQ bills
Bondi named part of                                                Samantha Neely                          repeal the protections that are            Equality Act, banning conversion

Trump’s legal team                                                                                         currently in place for employers           therapy nationwide and ensuring

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                                                                                                           to not discriminate against people         that every LGBTQ+ person gets
                                                                           ours before the 2020            for their sexual orientation or            the gender-affirming health care
                                                                           legislative deadline,           gender identity.                           they need.”
Samantha Neely                                                             seven Florida Republican            HCR 309, or “Equal Rights for             Florida isn’t the only state that
                                                                   lawmakers submitted four                Men and Women” – and HB 537,               has recently put forth anti-LGBTQ

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                                                                   anti-LGBTQ bills on Jan. 13.            “Home Based Business” – could              legislation. South Dakota, Missouri
      ormer Florida Attorney General Pam Bondi on Jan. 17
                                                                      The lawmakers, which include         legalize conversion therapy where          and South Carolina all have bills that
      was named a part of President Donald Trump’s legal
                                                                   Rep. Anthony Sabatini, Sen. Dennis      it has previously been banned. It          would ban transgender-related care.
      team for his impeachment trial.
                                                                   Baxley, Rep. Byron Donalds, Rep.        would also allow it to be performed           These bills have caught the
   Bondi will join the likes of former O.J. Simpson attorney
                                                                   Michael Grant, Sen. Joe Gruters,        within homes.                              attention of several local advocacy
Alan Dershowitz and Ken Starr, the former independent
                                                                   Rep. Bob Rommel and Sen. Keith              “It’s hard to believe that this is     groups and many have released
counsel whose investigation of President Bill Clinton led to
                                                                   Perry, introduced the bills that each   a legislature where three LGBTQ            statements on the bill.
his impeachment.
                                                                   included a companion bill in the        members are proudly and openly                “This is the most overtly
   Critics were quick to point out that Bondi, who is a
                                                                   House and Senate.                       serving, but it is,” State Rep. Carlos     anti-LGBTQ agenda from the Florida
longtime ally of Trump, is a highly controversial choice for
                                                                      HB 1365, the “Vulnerable Child       Guillermo Smith said in a tweet.           Legislature in recent memory,”
his legal team considering the history the two share.
                                                                   Protection Act,” would make it a        “This is what it feels like to be kicked   Equality Florida Public Policy
   Bondi has an extensive anti-LGBTQ record as attorney
                                                                   second-degree felony to provide         in the gut by your colleagues. I am so     Director Jon Harris Maurer said in
general. She filed a 40-page emergency petition with
                                                                   certain medical care or treatments to   utterly offended and disappointed.”        a press release. “It runs the gamut
the Supreme Court to stop same-sex marriage in Florida
                                                                   transgender children.                       Democratic presidential                from openly hostile legislation that
and made several comments about the community,
                                                                      According to Sabatini’s Facebook     candidate Sen. Elizabeth Warren            would arrest and imprison doctors
such as saying that marriage is “a union between a man
                                                                   post regarding the bill, he said,       retweeted Smith’s commentary.              for providing medically necessary
and a woman.”
                                                                   “No parent should be allowed to             “These bills would cause               care, to legislation that would
   Bondi has said that she believes Trump didn’t do
                                                                   sterilize, castrate or permanently      immense harm to LGBTQ+ Floridians          carelessly erase critical local LGBTQ
anything wrong and Trump himself has called the
                                                                   disfigure a child.”                     – especially children,” Warren             protections.”
impeachment “totally partisan … a hoax.”
                                                                      HB 305, or “Preemptions of           wrote. “I’ll fight to protect LGBTQ+
                                                                   Conditions of Employment,” would        youth, including by passing the

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                                                                                                                                                   in other news
White House, LGBTQ groups clash over regulations                                                                                 Bills seek to end kentucky
Chris Johnson of The                      Agriculture, the Labor Dept., Dept.           If one measure of determining            conversion therapy
                                          of Homeland Security, the Dept. of        whether or not a religious freedom           Bills aimed at ending conversion therapy, which
Washington Blade,                         Veterans Affairs, the U.S. Agency for     measure is anti-LGBTQ is testing out         seeks change a person’s sexual orientation or
Courtesy of the National                  International Development, the Dept.      it pleases anti-LGBTQ groups, the            gender identity, have been introduced in Kentucky’s
                                          of Health & Human Services, the           results would come out as a “yes.”
LGBT Media Association                    Dept. of Education and the Dept. of           Tony Perkins, president of the
                                                                                                                                 Republican-dominated House and Senate. The proposals
                                                                                                                                 would ban mental health professionals from engaging in
                                                                                    anti-LGBTQ Family Research Council,

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                                          Housing & Urban Development.
                                                                                                                                 conversion therapy with people under age 18. It would
       ollowing the release of new            The Human Rights Campaign             said Trump is “taking on the bullies”
                                                                                                                                 also apply for adults who are under guardianship or those
       regulations from the Trump         (HRC) asserted in a statement that        in a statement largely focused on the
                                          the new regulations would “roll back      new regulation ensuring teachers and         who are wards of the state. Republican Sen. Alice Forgy
       administration with the stated
                                          existing protections for LGBTQ and        parents can pray in schools.                 Kerr of Lexington, lead sponsor of the Senate measure,
intent of protecting the religious
                                          other people seeking government               Also hailing the measure was             called the practice “conversion torture.” Democratic Rep.
freedom of federal grantees, LGBTQ
                                          services and benefits.”                   Alliance Defending Freedom CEO               Lisa Willner of Louisville, lead sponsor of the House bill,
groups and the White House are
locked in a dispute over whether they         “The right to believe and to          Michael Farris. He said the new              denounced it as a “discredited and dangerous” practice.
enable anti-LGBTQ discrimination.         exercise one’s faith is a core American   regulations were based in part on the
    President Trump unveiled the          value. The right to discriminate          anti-LGBTQ legal firm’s victory in the       Uganda imam suspended
                                          with taxpayer dollars is not,” HRC        Trinity Lutheran case.
new regulations Jan. 16 at an event
                                          President Alphonso David said.                Rea Carey, executive director
                                                                                                                                 for same-sex marriage
in observance of National Religious
                                              White House Deputy Press              of the National LGBTQ Task Force,            Frank Mugisha, an LGBTQ rights activist who runs the
Freedom Day. The triage of measures
                                          Secretary Judd Deere denied               condemned the regulations at the             group Sexual Minorities Uganda, says criticism of a local
are 1) Regulations from nine federal
agencies lifting regulations requiring    the latest regulations enabled            same time her organization was               imam who unknowingly married a man in a Muslim
religious-affiliated federal grantees     discrimination in a statement. “Are       hosting its annual Creating Change           ceremony highlights intolerance in the East African
to inform individuals seeking their       these the same groups who function        conference in Dallas, Texas.                 country. The imam, who says he did not know his partner
service of secular alternatives; 2)       more like a campaign arm of the               “The stated reason for the new           was male, has been suspended from clerical duty and his
Guidance affirming First Amendment        Democratic Party and have refused         rules is to ‘remove burdens’ on              partner has been charged with committing an “unnatural”
protections for prayer in schools;        to credit the president with any          providers, but serving women,                offense. Mugisha said it was not clear whether the imam’s
and 3) An Office of Management &          action he’s taken to protect LGBTQ        people of color, religious minorities        partner is transgender, one reason his group had decided
Budget memo ensuring religious            Americans?” Deere asked.                  and LGBTQ people is not a burden,”           not to release a statement regarding the case. Uganda has
organizations are eligible for grants.        “The president believes in human      Carey said. “Our communities                 attempted to enact life-threatening penalties targeting
    It’s the first measure that has       dignity for all and that no one           no longer expect better from                 homosexuals, including death by hanging.
invoked the ire of LGBTQ rights           should be discriminated against,          this administration, yet every
                                          including religious organizations         time Trump attempts to remove
advocates. The nine agencies from
which the regulations came down           and the LGBTQ community,” the             support from those who need them             anti-LGBTQ adoption bill
are the Justice Dept., the Dept. of       statement continued.                      most, it causes both tangible and            passes in tennessee
                                                                                    psychological harm.”                         In its first bill of the year, the Tennessee Senate approved
                                                                                                                                 HB 836, which would allow adoption agencies to refuse

Belize Court of Appeal upholds sodomy law ruling
                                                                                                                                 placement into LGBTQ homes on the basis of religious
                                                                                                                                 objections. The Senate passed the bill 20-6. The bill,
                                                                                                                                 sponsored by Sen. Paul Rose, prohibits requiring private
                                                                                                                                 licensing child-placement agencies to participate in
Michael K. Lavers of The                  that any alienated section of society     countries’ sodomy laws in court.             child placement “that would violate the agency’s written
                                          can stand on principle and can go         The government of Trinidad and
Washington Blade,                                                                                                                religious or moral convictions.” The Tennessee House
                                          to court and use the fundamental          Tobago has appealed a 2018 ruling
                                                                                                                                 approved the legislation in April 2019 and following the
Courtesy of the National                  rights to ensure that the state leaves    that declared the country’s sodomy
                                                                                                                                 Senate bill’s passage, Gov. Bill Lee announced he would
                                          no one behind,” said Orozco in a          law unconstitutional.
LGBT Media Association                    statement after the Court of Appeal           The Inter-American Commission            sign the measure into law.
                                          issued its ruling.                        on Human Rights last fall held a
    Belize’s Court of Appeal has              “Today is a renewal of hope in        hearing in D.C. that focused on              Brazil Supreme Court OKs
upheld a ruling that said the             the substance of the chief justice’s      challenges to Jamaica’s sodomy law.          Netflix’s gay Jesus film
country’s colonial-era sodomy law         decision in 2016, which still stands,”        The three LGBTQ Barbadians
                                                                                                                                 The president of Brazil’s Supreme Court issued an order
is unconstitutional.                      added Orozco.                             who have challenged their country’s
                                                                                                                                 Jan. 9 allowing Netflix to continue streaming “The First
    Belize Supreme Court Chief Justice        OutRight Action International         colonial-era statute brought their
                                                                                                                                 Temptation of Christ,” a comedy depicting Jesus as a gay
Kenneth Benjamin in 2016 issued           Deputy Executive Director Maria           case to the commission. A decision
                                          Sjodin noted to the Washington            in their favor could have sweeping           man. The special was produced by the Rio-based group
his ruling in a case against Section 53
                                          Blade the Belize Supreme Court is the     implications throughout the                  Porta dos Fundos, whose headquarters was bombed.
of the country’s Criminal Code that
                                          first court in the English-speaking       Caribbean, especially in countries           “It is not to be assumed that a humorous satire has the
Caleb Orozco, a prominent LGBTQ
                                          Caribbean to strike down a                that continue to criminalize                 magic power to undermine the values of the Christian
activist in the Central American
country, brought. The Belizean            colonial-era sodomy law. Activists        consensual same-sex relations.               faith, whose existence goes back more than two thousand
government challenged portions of         throughout the region have said               “We urge authorities in Belize to        years,” Supreme Court President Jose Antonio Dias
Benjamin’s ruling, but the Court of       Orozco’s case continues to resonate       embrace and fully implement the              Toffoli wrote in his decision. Porta dos Fundos said in a
Appeal upheld it.                         in their countries.                       ruling, and to work with civil society       statement that it stands “against any act of censorship,
    “I have proven as a citizen that          LGBTQ people in Jamaica,              to promote genuine equality for its          violence, illegality, authoritarianism and all the things we
our fundamental rights have value         Dominica, Barbados and St. Vincent        LGBTIQ inhabitants,” Sjodin told             no longer expected to have to repudiate in 2020.”
and can be upheld by our courts, and      and the Grenadines in recent years        the Blade.
                                          have challenged their respective

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                                                          to be whoever I wanted           44-year-old, trans woman             She talked me through        and notating them. Metro,
                                                          to be in my bedroom              who has never felt more           the basics of Metro’s           praise God, also works on
                                                          while “I Dreamed A               alive and more comfortable        services, treated me with       a sliding fee schedule – so
                                                          Dream” onstage.                  in her own skin than being        respect and care and we         what you pay is based on
                                                              As my career progressed,     able to say those words. So,      are proceeding at my pace.      what you make.
                                                          I started making a name for      what does a girl do when she      Now, let me tell you, I want
                                                          myself and was able to pick      realizes that she needs to        my Hormone Replacement              So this is my journey.
                                                          the roles I wanted. It was       put her mental health first?      Therapy (HRT) and I want it     I choose to be open, honest
                                                          about this time I was picked     Quit her day job and make         now! I also want my boobies     and transparent because for
              Beneva Fruitville                           to perform in an AIDS
                                                          benefit in drag, something
                                                                                            I had finally found my true self: a 44-year-old, trans
     Picking Berry
                                                          I had only done onstage in
                                                          a musical. I was also asked
                                                          to pick a name for this           woman who has never felt more alive and more
                                                          performance.
                                                              At the time, I was hired
                                                                                            comfortable in her own skin.
                                                          for the musical “Chicago”
                                                          in Sarasota. The rehearsals      drag a full-time career!          and I want them now! But,       the first time I can pick who
    All My World was a Stage                              were at a dance studio               I clearly didn’t think that   I am literally just beginning   I really am – and this time,
                                                          located at the intersection      out thoroughly. Jobs give         my journey; just beginning      I am Picking Berry.

I
                                                          of Beneva and Fruitville         health insurance. No health       the process of getting my
     love musicals. In fact,                              Roads. Upon hearing that,
                                                          I said “Beneva Fruitville
                                                                                           insurance, no therapist. A
                                                                                           little lost and wondering
                                                                                                                             letter of support so that
                                                                                                                             I can begin HRT.                Berry Ayers, aka Beneva Fruitville,
    musical theater has been my                           … that sounds like a drag        what my next step would               In order to get approved    has been honored for her
                                                          name!” My friends laughed        be, friends told me to call       for HRT you must have a         theatrical roles and volunteerism.
    hobby and lifelong career, a path                     and I suddenly had a             Metro Inclusive Health.           letter from your therapist      She has performed onstage from
I chose after I saw the musical “A                        new nickname. Beneva             I made an appointment             explaining your dysphoria       New York to Fiji and can be seen
                                                                                                                                                             on screen via Amazon Prime and
                                                          Fruitville it was!               for an assessment and             and we are working on that
Chorus Line” at 13 years old. In that                         Drag opened so many          in December, I met my             process now. Going through      Sarasota’s Suncoast View.

one evening of music, dance, comedy                       doors for me, beginning          new therapist.                    my past, defining examples
                                                          with guest performance                                             of my specific dysphoria
and drama, I learned that performing                      spots. Within six months,
was not only a viable career – but                        I was hosting my own show.
                                                          I have since created the
one that I, Berry Ayers, absolutely                       longest-running theatrical
had to have.                                              production in Sarasota
                                                          and occasionally co-host a
   I grew up in church and sang my first solo at the      daytime talk show for our
age of four with dreams of becoming the next Sandy        ABC affiliate. It has also
Patti. That “Chorus Line” performance still hung in my    been wonderful having
memory like the first time I saw Dorothy step out into    a modicum of notoriety,
the colorful world of Oz, however; there were people      something I dreamed about
on that stage talking about abuse, sex, hurt, anger,      when I first sang that Sandy
power and ultimately, love.                               Patti song in church so
   My life went from Sandi Patti to Patti Lupone,         many years ago.
Bernadette Peters and Mandy Patinkin. I studied,              Somewhere in the middle
worked hard, went to a performing arts high school        of this journey, something
and I walked out of the Cincinnati Conservatory of        changed in me. For so long
Music with an agent and a career. Performances            I had chosen to be someone
Off-Broadway, in national tours, on cruise ships and in   else – but intrinsically,
regional theater followed.                                without the Beneva persona
   At first, the work I was getting was in the            of being sexy, sassy and
ensemble; the townsfolk in River City or the dancing      salacious – who was Berry?
waiters at the Harmonia Gardens. As a highly trained          I tried self-medicating
and very serious actor, when I was dancing on the         with drugs and alcohol.
“West Side Story” fire escapes of New York City, I was    I played with the concept
asked to determine who my character was, what             of gender fluidity. I also
his home life was like and what he wanted. Acting         tried non-prescribed and
meant that you go on stage and become someone             illegal hormones. Things
else. I didn’t have to be me; I could pick whoever        got very dark, suicidal dark,
I wanted to be.                                           and I resumed therapy.
   At the age of nine, I was diagnosed with Manic         I discovered that I was
Depressive Disorder with Suicidal Ideations. Other        experiencing something
diagnoses through the years have been Bipolar             called dysphoria, adding it
Disorder, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Severe            to my previously stated list
Depression, PTSD, Anorexia, Bulimia and Body              of diagnoses.
Dysmorphia. I am also an addict. Being me, all the            In any case, I had finally
time, was not easy. Musical theater allowed me            found my true self: a

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talking points

   40%
                                                                               Why are we celebrating her body?
                                                                               Why does it matter? Why aren’t we
                                                                            celebrating her music? ‘Cause it isn’t gonna
                                                                            be awesome if she gets diabetes.
                                                                            —Jillian Michaels talking about Lizzo on BuzzFeed News’ “AM to DM” Jan. 8

                                                       Taylor Swift, Janet Mock to be honored by

 of those who                                          GLAAD

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identify
                                                               aylor Swift and writer-director-producer Janet Mock will
                                                               be honored at the 31st Annual GLAAD Media Awards for their advocacy on
                                                               LGBTQ issues. Swift will receive the Vanguard Award, which is presented
                                                       to allies who have made a significant difference in promoting acceptance of
                                                       LGBTQ people. Mock will receive the Stephen F. Kolzak Award, presented to an
                                                       LGBTQ media professional. Swift has become an outspoken proponent for the
                                                       Equality Act. Her “You Need To Calm Down” video also featured prominent LGBTQ

as male
                                                       celebrities. Mock, who wrote a book about her life as a transgender woman, is a
                                                       writer and director for Ryan Murphy’s “Pose,” about 1980s ballroom culture with
                                                       a large LGBTQ cast. She also signed a deal with Netflix in 2019 to produce content

   50%
                                                       for the streaming service. They will be honored at the GLAAD Media Awards in Los
                   and                                 Angeles on April 16.

                                                    Jake Gyllenhaal to                          Sundance aims for                            ‘Modern Family’ to
                                                   produce, star in film                         more movie critic                          bid farewell in April
                                                   version of ‘Fun Home’                            diversity                                    series finale

 of those who                                      “B                                         A                                         a
                                                              rokeback Mountain”                      Sundance Film Festival                   bc’s “Modern Family”
                                                              star Jake Gyllenhaal                    program designed to                      will air its finale

identify
                                                              will produce and star in                increase diversity among                 after 11 seasons on April 8,
                                                   a film adaptation of “Fun Home,”           media members covering the                and there are no spin-offs in the
                                                   the Broadway musical based on              annual event in Park City boomed          works involving its large cast. Eric
                                                   Alison Bechdel’s graphic novel of          in popularity in the initiative’s         Stonestreet jokingly pitched one
                                                   the same name. Winner of the 2015          second year. For this year’s festival,    featuring Cam and Mitch, the gay
                                                   Tony Award for Best Musical, “Fun          51 journalists were selected out of       couple played by him and Jesse
                                                   Home” depicts Bechdel onstage at           a pool of 319 applicants to receive       Tyler Ferguson, after executive

 as female
                                                   three different ages as she delves         travel stipends provided in the           producer Steven Levitan told a
                                                   into memories of her dysfunctional         program. The chosen writers are           TV critics meeting on Jan. 8 that
                                                   upbringing, especially those               women (61%), LGBTQ (49%),                 nothing is planned. The show was
 say they see gender                               surrounding her closeted father,           minorities (84%) and people with          an immediate hit and holds the
   on a spectrum.                                  in a home that also served as the
                                                   location for the family’s mortuary
                                                                                              disabilities (25%). The festival runs
                                                                                              Jan. 23–Feb. 2. Sundance officials
                                                                                                                                        record with “Frasier” of five straight
                                                                                                                                        Emmy Awards as television’s best
   55% between ages 25-34                          business. Gyllenhaal will take on the      created the Press Inclusion Program       comedy. Before the finale, ABC is
                                                   role of Bechdel’s father, Bruce. The       in 2018 after a study by USC              presenting a fan-curated tribute on
  and 84% of LGBTQ people                          show’s original director, Sam Gold,        Annenberg’s Inclusion Initiative          March 11. The network will kick
                                                   is on board to direct the film version     showed that two-thirds of movie           off the night in prime time with the
  see gender on a spectrum.                        as well. Gyllenhaal will produce           critics were white men. Netflix and       series’ very first episode, followed
—Ipsos, a North American market research company   through his company, Nine Stories          the movie review website Rotten           by favorite episodes that fans get to
                                                   Productions.                               Tomatoes are among organizations          vote on next month.
                                                                                              backing the initiative.

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           he LGBTQ community
       celebrated a milestone in 2019, the 50th
       anniversary of the Stonewall Riots. It was
an uprising born of exhaustion and fury over the
NYPD’s incessant raids on the LGBTQ bar.
   Almost nightly, officers harassed and arrested Stonewall Inn patrons
simply for gathering at the Greenwich Village locale. Until June 28,
1969. That’s when LGBTQ patrons stood up and fought back, led by two
transgender women of color: Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera.
    Not only were the riots intrepid but the protests served as a forceful
sign of activism yet to come; a catalyst for the civil rights we enjoy
today. The LGBTQ community now attends family-friendly parades
led by mayors proudly marching through their city streets and Bank
of America floats carrying LGBTQ and ally employees. Participants are
adorned in rainbow boas and glitter and follow routes protected by local
police departments.
    LGBTQ and ally establishments are pridefully packed day and night
throughout the month, celebrating our identities and the benchmarks in
our social progression. While we still face oppression and discrimination
in today’s political climate, acceptance for LGB people is the new
overall norm.
    Lesbian, gay and bisexual couples can marry across the nation, from
the expansive New York City to the tiniest town in blood red Texas. A gay
man can take his boyfriend to a work function and perform as a drag
queen on a Saturday night, all while serving in the U.S. military, and Ellen
DeGeneres is one of television’s biggest stars and a household name. For
many, it’s a beautiful time to be LGB – but what about the T?

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