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Volume 31, No. 9                                                                 December 2019-January 2020

                      CM Goes Viibrant!
                   (Yes, that’s Viibrant with two i’s)                       Residents might also download
                                                                             apps to their tablets or
     CM’s world is about to change.   with staff this year. Eleven TVs ac-   smartphones to register for events,
Enter Viibrant, a software compa-     cessible to staff have been placed     get a confirmation, have the event
ny that bills itself as a “resident   in break rooms across campus. The      added to their digital calendar and
engagement platform for senior        messages will inform staff of such     get a reminder.
living communities.” It came to the   things as dates for Benefits Open           Finally, there is always Alexa.
attention of CM administrators as     Enrollment, flu shots and training     Using voice recognition, residents
they sought a means to improve        dates. They will also recognize        could query Alexa about the day’s
communication through such            staff (with photos) who have re-       menu, including the day’s specials;
means as digital signage in the       ceived Exceptional Service cards       the day’s events; and, of course,
Club Center. Such signage current-    completed by residents.                the weather forecast.
ly exists in the Marketplace, but          Potential to improve commu-            The ultimate goal is more
the software behind it is complex     nication with residents could be       timely, effective and customized
and time-consuming to manage.         more far-reaching. However, that       communication with staff and resi-
The goal was software that would      effort will not begin until 2020 and   dents, something essential in a
simplify the constant updating and    only after planning by a team of       community of approximately 750
duplicate postings of notices of      staff and residents to determine       on-campus residents.
importance to residents and staff.    what would most benefit residents                              - Judith Pulley
     As they became acquainted        and how the system would inter-
with the many applications offered    face with MeadowLife.                     Employee Fund
by Viibrant, CM leadership realized
that the product’s potential went
beyond mere digital signage,
providing user-friendly software
along with complex solutions. For
example, our information system
contains a vast store of resident
data that is used for multiple pur-
poses in administration. Being able
to “pull” needed information from
the system automatically, instead                                             Ann McCutchan and Patsy
of re-entering it, would improve                                              Hancock
staff efficiency. And, instead of      Information Kiosk
sending out notices welcoming              Among the possibilities: a        We are blessed with many caring,
new residents through separate        large TV in the Club Center Lobby,     hardworking and friendly employ-
emails, as is done now, the list      scrolling events, menus, etc.; a       ees who make Carolina Meadows
could be pulled from the system       touchtone screen near bulletin         a great place to live. Donate to
and broadcast to residents auto-      boards, allowing residents to          the Employee Fund in apprecia-
matically.                            search for events, menus and other     tion for all they do. Drop your do-
     Implementation of some of        information. Technophobes need         nation in the mailroom box by
the software solutions is beginning   not worry; the posters will remain.    Friday, December 5.
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                President’s Message                                                 THE MEADOWLARK
                                                                               Published nine times a year
                                                                               by the Residents Association
           We Are a Caring Community                                               of Carolina Meadows,
                                                                                       Chapel Hill, NC
      Throughout the year, we help   behind the scenes, but they are all                     —
many outside Carolina Meadows        important in enhancing our life at            President: Sam Ligon
through our fund raisers for Unit-   Carolina Meadows. All employees        Co-Editors: Mary Jo Doherty and
ed Way, UNC- TV and the Cora         benefit from the Employee Fund.                    Judith Pulley
Food Pantry. We also show our               Donations to the Employee              Layout: Judith Pulley
care by volunteering in many out-    Fund make a real difference to             Proofreaders for this issue:
reach efforts in the community.      our wonderful employees. Make           Jody Hite, Martha Hutt, Kathryn
One of our longstanding traditions   sure you donate to the extent you      Moss, Roy Milton, Dorothy Samitz
is to donate to the Employee Fund.   are able. Only a few days remain          Photographer: John Haynes
      By donating to the Employ-     as donations must be received          Distribution: Roy and Bev Milton
ee Fund, you can show in a tan-      by December 5. Checks will be
gible way how much you care          distributed after the December
for our employees for all they       13th Employee Party.                          February Issue
do for us throughout the year.            I hope you have a wonderful                Deadline
If you are in the Fairways, you      holiday season as we welcome           Copy for the February Meadow-
have a terrific home and special     2020. We will have many opportu-       lark must be submitted by Sun-
care graciously offered by the em-   nities in December to celebrate        day, January 12, to Judith Pulley
ployees there. In the Pines, you     with parties, family gatherings,       . Articles
experience care our employees        worship services and more. Let’s       should be submitted as email at-
provide every hour of the day. If    be sure to reach out to residents
                                                                            tachments in MS Word format.
you are in independent living, you   we may not know or someone go-
                                                                            Images should be sent in JPG for-
enjoy many services by helpful       ing through a difficult transition.
                                                                            mat and should not be embedded
and caring employees delivered       Caring about someone in our com-
                                                                            in articles. Please call Judith at
with a positive attitude and a       munity of employees and residents
smile. How fortunate we are!         is what makes Carolina Meadows a       (919) 967-5487 if you have any
      We have many employees you     great place to live.                   questions.
do not know because they work                                 - Sam Ligon

                                                                                 Carolina Meadows Census
                        New Residents                                             As of October 31, 2019
                                                                             Number of Residents   Occupancy Level
Claire and Henry Castner, V-332      Dorothy Miller, F-120
                                                                            Independent Living:
Former Residence: Pittsboro, NC      Former Residence: Chapel Hill, NC
                                                                                    623                      97%

Margaret and Norman Dean, EA         Lucy Oliver, F-206                      Assisted Living
                                                                                    62                      77%
Current Residence: Chapel Hill,      Former Residence: Raleigh, NC
                                                                            The Pines*:
NC
                                     Arlene Richmond, F-115                         65                       88%*
                                                                            Total on campus:
Kaylan Ghosh, 2-307                  Former Residence: Raleigh, NC                  750                      93%
Former Residence: Chapel Hill,
                                     Virginia & William Ives, 4-301         EA Program:
NC
                                                                                   101
                                     Former Residence: Chapel Hill, NC
                                                                            Total Residents: 851
George and Karen Hitler, V-325       Complete bios of new residents can
Former Residence: Chapel Hill,       be found in the Residents Pictorial    *Includes temporary admission of
NC                                   Directory on MeadowLife.               IL and AL residents.
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                                                    TALK
             Carolina Meadows University                                        Men’s Breakfast Group
     December Program                      Bonnie has a Masters Degree               The Men’s Breakfast Group
                                      in the History of Decorative Arts        meets at 8:30 am in the Private
      Carolina Meadows University     from the Smithsonian’s Cooper            Dining Room on the third
(CMU) winds up the Fall Semester      Hewitt (NYC) Program. She lec-           Wednesday of each month except
with a continuing look at history     tures on these subjects widely and       in July, August and December. Fol-
through furniture which reflects      is particularly popular as an OLLI       lowing a buffet breakfast, a speak-
the period.                           speaker.                                 er, either a Carolina Meadows resi-
       Carolina Meadows’ own Bon-                                              dent or an outside expert, speaks
nie Fuchs will extend her reflec-             January Program                  for about 45 minutes followed by
tions on American History. Bonnie                                              questions. Please wear your
is a highly recognized speaker             CMU will return on January          name tag.
around The Triangle on the sub-       27 with a look at the history of               Our next meeting is on Janu-
ject of her expertise and passion,    modern North Carolina politics.          ary 15. Our speaker will be Donald
letting furniture teach us the his-   Who better to teach this course          Stanger, a Durham resident who is
tory of the period. In her three-     than Rob Christensen, who regaled        a consultant active in Durham,
part History of Furniture in Ameri-   and educated us for over 45 years        Chapel Hill and Carrboro affairs.
ca survey course, Bonnie will walk    as a political reporter and              His topic is "Doing Business with
us through the 17th, 18th and         columnist (now retired) for The          the Peoples’ Republic of China."
19th centuries as preserved in        News and Observer. Rob will              For 10 years prior to retiring Don
their furniture.                      present a three-part look at key         was Director of International Mar-
      On December 2, Bonnie will      20th century NC political figures        keting and Business Development
explore the burgeoning and rapid-     and implications for NC politics in      at IBM. He was responsible for the
ly changing world of furniture in     the 21st century. Rob has recently       company securing a business plat-
the 18th century and on Decem-        published The Rise and Fall of the       form in China, giving him a ring-
ber 9, the19th century.               Branchhead Boys, which will be the       side seat watching how China took
      In the 18th Century, America    subject of his first lecture on          calculated steps to develop com-
prospers and wins liberty. New        January 27. Copies of the book           mercial outreach to the world. Don
money builds homes and furniture      will be available for purchase and       will tell us how IBM dealt with the
to equal stylish new status. You      Rob has indicated he will be             many restrictions imposed and
already know some of the big          available to autograph them. Don’t       enforced by both the US and PRC
names and their influence: Queen      miss this important review of the        governments, most of which still
Anne, Chippendale, Adams, Shera-      rise and fall of the impressive Scott    exist today and affect current tariff
ton and Hepplewhite.                  family in NC politics.                   negotiations. To hear this interest-
      In the 19th Century, America         On February 3, Rob will exa-        ing presentation, sign up for the
embraces railroads and steam          mine the context of the upcoming         Breakfast in the Sign-up Book op-
power. The Industrial Revolution      2020 NC election and on Fe-              posite the CM Gift Shop.
speeds furniture manufacturing.       bruary 10, he will discuss the Da-                            - Michael Cotter
Steam power aids the repetitive       niels Family and The News & Ob-
production of furniture parts. Lo-    server, the subject of his next
cations on rivers and railroads
                                                                                     IN MEMORIAM
                                      book.
expand. Distribution centers are           All CMU course lectures are         Gerald Unks
established in Jamestown, NY,         held in the Auditorium on Mon-           P-223 November 9, 2019
Grand Rapids, MI, and High Point,     days at 1 pm.                            Rufus Lupton
NC. And furniture styles reflect                               - Hugh Tilson   V-393 November 11, 2019
America’s evolving global reach.                                               Grace Lazovik
                                                                               P-232 November 17, 2019
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                           World Affairs                                                Bjorn Lomborg is a Danish
                                                                                 author and President of his think
      World Affairs meets on Fri-           January 10: Judith Pulley:           tank, Copenhagen Consensus Cen-
days at 10:30 am in the Audito-        “Immigration: Assimilation” (Part         ter. He is a former director of the
rium (unless otherwise noted).         2).                                       Danish Government’s Environmen-
The programs for December and               Do immigrants, representing a        tal Assessment Institute. Lomborg
January are:                           diversity of cultures, pose a threat      has been named one of Time Maga-
      December 6: Judith Pulley:       to our national identity? How well        zine’s 100 most influential people
“Immigration: Why Don’t They Get       do they assimilate? Can our cur-          in the world. Two of his numerous
in Line and Come in Legal-             rent immigration system be im-            books include How to Spend $75
ly?” (Part 1)                          proved?                                   Billion to Make the World a Better
      A majority of Americans               January 17: John Staddon:            Place and The Nobel Laureates’
agree that immigrants strengthen       “Meritocracy: Beware Those Unin-          Guide to the Smartest Targets for
our country but are opposed to         tended Consequences”                      the World 2016-2030.
illegal immigration and open bor-            Dr. Staddon is the James B.               January 31: Robert Shibley:
ders. A common refrain is some-        Duke Professor Emeritus of Psy-           “Is There a Free Speech Crisis on
thing like this: “My ancestors were    chology and Neuroscience at Duke          Campus?”
immigrants, but they came in le-       University. Recent years have seen              Robert Shibley is the Executive
gally. Why can’t immigrants today      a flood of articles deploring ine-        Director of FIRE, the Foundation
just follow the law like my fami-      quality and blaming meritocracy           for Individual Rights in Education,
ly?” In this lecture, we will exam-    for the death of the middle class.        a non-profit group that focuses on
ine our nation’s immigration laws,     How should society be organized?          protecting free speech rights on
looking at how they have changed       Why does social mobility seem to          college campuses. He is a nationally
(and why) over time. We will also      be declining? Dr. Staddon offers          recognized author and radio and
examine the changing composi-          some thoughts on these and other          television personality. He will dis-
tion of immigrants (legal and ille-    questions.                                cuss previous, current and antici-
gal) in our population. Are immi-           January 24: Bjorn Lomborg:           pated First Amendment hot issues:
grants a burden or a benefit?          “A Cost-Benefit Approach to Cli-          is there an evolutionary trend?
                                       mate Change” (video)                                         - Dorothy Samitz

             Women’s Luncheon: Quilts Speak
                                                                                 blessings by shamans, sloth-
     On Tuesday, January 14 at               To sign up for the luncheon,        spotting, piranha fishing and visits
noon, Diana Bell-Kite will be          call Jody Hite after January 1.           to villages. If we have time, we’ll
speaking to the Women’s Lunch-                                   - Judy Tilson   take a quick peek at Machu Picchu.
eon group on the topic of “Quilts
Speak.” Diana is the Curator of Cul-        Amazon? What?
tural History at the NC Museum of             January 24, 7:30 pm
History. She graduated from Da-                   Auditorium
vidson and received a masters
from William and Mary. She curat-           What do you think of when
ed “Everyday Artistry,” which spot-    you hear “Amazon”? No, not that
lighted Tar Heel quilting, and cur-    Amazon. Do you think of snakes,
rently “Quilt Speak.”                  insects, oppressive heat? Nope,
     Quilts speak and reveal voices    that’s North Carolina this past
from the past – specifically wom-      summer. Travel with me on my
en’s voices. We will learn what        two trips on the Amazon River in
quilts can tell us about their mak-    Peru. Yes, there will be snakes and
ers and even what they tell us         pink-toed tarantulas, but there will
about ourselves.                                                                                       - Dixie Spiegel
                                       also be over 200 bird species,
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                                                       ARTS
                    Music at the Meadows                                             Meadowsingers
                           In the Auditorium                                         Holiday Concert
                           UNC Chamber Singers
                                                                                     Once again the Meadow-
                           December 2, 7:30 pm
                                                                                singers bring you a joyful holiday
     The UNC Chamber Singers is an ensemble of 25 voices whose reper-
                                                                                concert which celebrates Hanuk-
toire encompasses vocal chamber music of all periods and styles with em-
                                                                                kah and Kwanzaa as well as
phasis on Renaissance, Baroque and 20th and 21st century music. They are
                                                                                Christmas.
led by Professor of Music and Director of Choral Activities Susan
                                                                                     Our songs, both familiar and
Klebanow.
                                                                                unfamiliar, come from various
     Professor Klebanow earned a BA from Brandeis University and a
                                                                                countries and include some sing-a
Masters in Choral Conducting from the New England Conservatory of Mu-
                                                                                -longs. Among others, we'll offer
sic before joining the UNC Music Department faculty. She has received
                                                                                again the "Dance of the Sugar
awards for excellence in teaching and led choral festivals, clinics and
                                                                                Plum Fairy" and "Christmas...In
workshops throughout the US and internationally.
                                                                                About Three Minutes," as well as
                            Bluegrass Battleship
                                                                                the new humorous "I Want to
                            January 10, 7:30 pm
                                                                                Stare at My Phone With You.” We
     Bluegrass Battleship had its origins with Terry Baker and Scott
                                                                                end with a Swedish song remem-
Provan strumming banjo/guitar duets decades ago. With five instrumen-
                                                                                bering the "Wonderful Peace" that
talists added to the crew, the group provides a rompin’ stompin’ rendition
                                                                                comes at this season.
of bluegrass like you have never experienced before.
                                                                                     See you in the Auditorium
                         Nicole and Andrew Manea
                                                                                for a music-filled hour on
                            January 23, 7:30 pm
                                                                                Wednesday, December 11 at 4
     Nicole and Andrew Manea, highly successful classical singers, will
                                                                                pm.
treat us to light opera. Nicole has won several competitions throughout
                                                                                                        - Rex Tucker
the country, studied under opera stars Denyce Graves and Marilyn Home
and performed under the baton of composer John Williams. Andrew has                       Pollyfonix
won several competitions throughout the US and Spain and played lead                     4 pm, Auditorium
roles in China, Europe and the Middle East. This year he will debut at the            Tuesday, December 17
Palm Beach Opera singing the title role in The Barber of Seville and return          Carolyn Gelderman (CM resi-
to the Lyric Opera in Chicago for Wagner’s Ring Cycle.                          dent) and Pamela Stewart founded
                                                                - Norm Miller   the Pollyfonix A Cappella Singers
                                                                                of Fearington in 2007. They spe-
                          The Village Band                                      cialize in unaccompanied early
                          7:30 pm, Auditorium                                   music from the Renaissance Era, as
                          Monday, December 9                                    well as Romantic and 20th Century
                                                                                selections that are suitable to the
     The band has a long history of providing musical entertainment at          group.
such venues as the Carrboro Town Center, University Mall, Southern Vil-              Their vocal literature spans
lage and retirement communities such as Carolina Meadows and Carol              songs in English, Latin, German,
Woods. Its repertoire ranges from classic community band music                  French, Hungarian and He-
(marches and military/patriotic music, classic and contemporary pieces),        brew. All concerts include brief
reductions of orchestral and opera pieces, and show tunes and holiday           introductions to each song with
music                                                                           anecdotal material to inform and
     The members of the Village Band are dedicated to bringing quality          amuse the audience, so there is
performances of a broad range of music to diverse venues in Chapel Hill,        often laughter to help make an au-
Carrboro and nearby communities; and they simply love playing for audi-         dience feel more at home in what
ences of all types and all ages.                                                might be a new or different musi-
                                                                                cal experience.
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        Eno River Trio                         MET Opera on Demand               the terrors of the French Revolu-
      7:30 pm, Auditorium                      1 pm, Auditorium                  tion. The exceptional cast also fea-
       Friday, January 17                      Wednesday, December 18            tures sopranos Erin Morley and
                                               2 hrs, 22 min                     Adrianne Pieczonka and mezzo-
     The Eno River Trio, based in              Adriana Lecouvreure               soprano Karen Cargill as some of
Durham, NC, is made up of flute,               (from Jan 2019)                   Blanche’s fellow sisters, with tenor
oboe and piano. Formed in June,                 A gem of the verismo reper-      David Portillo as the protective
they perform the chamber music            toire, Cilea’s Adriana Lecouvreur      Chevalier de la Force. Maestro
written for their instruments.            has only been performed a handful      Nezet-Seguin leads a gripping per-
     Some of the repertoire in-           of times on the Met stage. When it     formance throughout—from the
cludes Baroque trio sonatas as            has, however, it has often show-       opera’s chaotic first bars to the
well as music from other eras.            cased some of opera’s greatest di-     chilling death scene of Madame de
Members include Helena Ma, pi-            vas in the commanding title role,      Croissy (sung by the incomparable
ano; Joshua Powell, oboe; and Le-         including Renata Tebaldi, Montser-     Karita Mattila) to the work’s har-
norah McKee, flute.                       rat Caballe, and Renata Scotto.        rowing final moments.
     Helena is a PhD student in           During the 2018–19 season, super-
Biomedical Engineering at Duke            star soprano Anna Netrebko
                                                                                 Piano/Voice Recital featuring
University, where she studies how         joined the ranks of these incompa-
                                                                                 students of Elena Marinina
bacteria respond to antibiotic            rable artists, starring opposite
                                                                                 2 pm, Auditorium
treatment, especially how antibi-         mezzo-soprano Anita Rachvelish-
                                                                                 Saturday, December 14
otic-resistant bacteria became            vili, as the fearsome Princess of
more widespread.                          Bouillon, and tenor Piotr Beczała,
                                                                                 Music Recital featuring students
     Joshua works as an environ-          as her ardent lover, Maurizio. In
                                                                                 from da Capo al Coda Music Stu-
mental engineer for McKim &               this performance, recorded as part
                                                                                 dio
Creed Inc. where he is responsible        of the Met’s Live in HD series,
                                                                                 4 pm, Auditorium
for the design of water and               Gianandrea Noseda conducts Sir
                                                                                 Sunday, December 15
wastewater treatment facilities.          David McVicar’s new staging,
He plays in the Duke Medical Or-          which teems with lurid backstage
                                                                                 Old North State Band
chestra.                                  intrigue and political maneuver-
                                                                                 7:30 pm, Auditorium
     Lenorah is a veteran of the US       ing.
                                                                                 Monday, December 16
Army and US Air Force where she
                                                                                 Old North State Brass repertoire
served as a military musician.                Wednesday, January 22
                                                                                 includes classical, jazz, sacred and
                                              2 hrs, 53 min
                                                                                 popular styles. It is a registered
                                              Dialogues de Carmélites
     Holiday Singalong                                                           non-profit 501(c)(3) directed by
                                              (from March 2019)
                                                                                 Peter Boor.
                                              Ever since John Dexter’s strik-
      On Monday, December 16              ing production marked the compa-
at 3 pm, please join us in the Club                                              Piano Recital featuring students
                                          ny premiere of Dialogues des Car-
Center Lobby for our annual holi-                                                of Alice Tien
                                          mélites in 1977, Poulenc’s devas-
day singalong with our talented                                                  2 pm, Auditorium
                                          tating masterpiece has been a fa-
pianist, Diane Archer (Senior Ac-                                                Sunday, January 19
                                          vorite of Met audiences. To close
tivities Specialist in the Pines).        out the 2018–19 season, Music
      We will sing traditional            Director Yannick Nezet-Seguin led
Christmas and Hanukkah songs              a starry revival of the opera, which
                                                                                   Voices 2020 Deadline
around the piano. Lyric books will                                                      Articles and poetry
                                          was also included as part of the
be available, and we will have                                                        must be submitted by
                                          Live in HD series of cinema trans-
cookies and hot chocolate to                                                           December 20, 2019
                                          missions. Mezzo-soprano Isabel
warm us up. Wear something fes-                                                  Guidelines for submissions are on
                                          Leonard is the fearful Blanche de
tive!                                                                                         the table
                                          la Force, who joins a convent of
                        - Kris and Jody                                                outside the mailroom
                                          Carmelite nuns in order to escape
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         Book Group                         Her book tells the story of her
                                                                                    New Library Books
                                       assimilation into American culture
                                                                                    Check the New Book Acquisi-
      At our next meeting, we will     while trying to maintain her Mus-
                                                                                tions on a Library sidebar on
be discussing Threading My Prayer      lim identity. She wrote the book
                                                                                MeadowLife for a complete listing
Rug: One Woman’s Journey from          because she wanted to change the
                                                                                of new books added to the Library
Pakistani Muslim to American Mus-      image of Islam in America, particu-
                                                                                each week.
lim by Sabeeha Rehman. Rehman,         larly after 9/11, and to show what
                                                                                Fiction
who came to America as a recent        Muslims are really like. Rehman’s
                                                                                Running in the Field, John le Carre
college graduate and new bride in      memoir is often amusing as she
                                                                                The Family Upstairs, Lisa Jewell
197l, intended to stay for only two    relates hilarious personal experi-
                                                                                Red at the Bone, Jacqueline Wood-
years. She is still here. When her     ences while attempting to foster a
                                                                                son
sons started grade school, she         deeper understanding of Muslims
                                                                                Marilou Is Everywhere, Sarah
started grad school. She has a         in America. The book has been
                                                                                Elaine Smith
Masters in Health Administration       called “funny and frank, acute, and
                                                                                The Guardians, John Grisham
and worked for 25 years as a hos-      compassionate” and also “warm,
                                                                                Olive, Again, Elizabeth Strout
pital administrator. When her          wise, and wonderful.”
                                                                                The Man Who Saw Everything,
grandson was diagnosed as autis-             Join us on Wednesday, Janu-
                                                                                Deborah Levy
tic, she stopped working to co-        ary 15 at 2 pm in the Lecture
                                                                                Giver of Stars, Jojo Moyes
found the National Autism Associ-      Hall. All residents are welcome.
                                                                                Large Print
ation’s New York Metro Chapter.        Please wear your name tag.
                                                                                Nine Perfect Strangers, Liane Mori-
                                                           - Christine Flora
                                                                                arty
        Author Event                                                            Before and Again, Barbara Delin-
                                              Display Cabinet                   sky
     Resident Bob Huddleston's                                                  Leverage in Death, J.D. Robb
                                             In December the display            Mystery
long-awaited novel Love and War         will feature an inanimate menag-
is targeted for release by the Eng-                                             Blue Moon, Lee Child
                                        erie collected by Di Hutchison: a       A Cruel Deception, Charles Todd
lish publisher Austin-McCauley in
                                        bronze, a French black leopard,         The Night Fire, Michael Connelly
December or early January.
                                        an elephant step stool, a rocking       A Bitter Feast, Deborah Crombie
     Love and War is an historical      horse, Baccarat pumas, a fox and
novel that covers the first half of                                             The Long Call, Ann Cleves
                                        a bunny – just a part of her collec-    Biography/Biography Collection
the 20th century, the most deadly
                                        tion to be exhibited.                   Finding Chika, Mitch Albom
and destructive of recorded histo-           The January display will
ry: The Great War of 1914-18, the                                               Non-Fiction
                                        show souvenirs collected by Alice       No Stopping Us Now, Gail Collins
rise of Adolf Hitler and the Third      and John Haynes during their
Reich, the Second World War and
                                        many trips through the years.                     Art Gallery
the defeat of Nazi Germany.             This collection is a happy remind-                 Exchange
Caught up in these historic events      er of their travels together.                Artists, please mark your cal-
are Fred Brown, an American hero                                                endars. The Art Guild’s Gallery
                                                              - Betty Lindsay
of the Great War, his son Ernest, a                                             Exchange of resident’s artwork in
hero of World War II, and their                                                 the Club Center will take place on
European wives.                                                                 Saturday, February 1. We wel-
     Copies will be available in the          Holiday Books                     come anyone who wishes to ex-
Gift Shop with all proceeds donat-          An assortment of holiday            hibit their original work – no mat-
ed to the Residents Association. A     books will be available in the Li-       ter when it was created. Bring
reading by the author is scheduled     brary around Thanksgiving. They          your art pieces to the Board Room
for Tuesday, January 7 at 10:30        will be shelved on the back of the       between 10 am and 2 pm on
am in the Lecture Hall.                bookcase closest to the windows.         February 1. Call me, Bev Milton
     Refreshments will be served,           Happy holidays and happy            (919) 967-1254, or Susan Durfee
and books signed.                      reading!                                 (919) 942-6655, if you have any
                    - Bob Huddleston                                            questions.
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    Art In the Meadows                  New DVDs                              •    Finding Nemo, 2003, G, animat-
                                        Purchased DVDs:                            ed, heartwarming tale of an
                                        • Blinded by the Light, 2019, PG           underwater world.
                                           about a Pakistani family who       •    Four Musicals: Gigi, Can-Can,
                                           immigrates to England.                  Oliver and Show Boat
                                        • The Sentence, 2018 Documen-                               - Andrea Miller
                                           tary about the long-term diffi-
                                           culties one family encounters          Films for December
Artists of the Month Exhibits in           after a minor crime results in a       2019 – January 2020
Art Studio                                 minimum 15-year mandatory              Shows start at 7:15 pm in the
November 16-December 31                    sentence for one of its mem-                   Auditorium
“All in the Family” show. Art by           bers.                              December 7 Hopscotch
parents, siblings, children, grand-     • The Peanut Butter Falcon,
                                                                              (1980)
children, other relatives of Caroli-       2019, a comedy about a young       1 hr, 46 min –Rated R
na Meadows’ residents.                     man with Down’s Syndrome           Walter Matthau, Glenda Jackson
January - Palette Knife Painting           who runs away from his resi-            One of the CIA's top interna-
Class                                      dential home to pursue his         tional operatives, Miles Kendig is
February – Staff Art Show                  dream of becoming a profes-        suddenly relegated to a desk job in
                                           sional wrestler.                   an agency power play. Unwilling to
Impressionistic Painting Class –        • The Farewell, 2019, PG, a well-
                                                                              go quietly, Kendig begins writing a
Five Wednesdays, January 15–               acted drama/comedy, set            memoir that exposes the secrets of
February 12, 10:30 am–                     mostly in China (some subti-       every intelligence agency in the
12:30pm. Taught by Karin Neu-              tles, but mostly in English),      world.
rith. Skill level: advanced begin-         about a series of complicated      December 14 The Lion King
ners and above; acrylics or pastels;       and touching family interac-       (2019)
cost $100. Learn several tech-             tions.                             1 hr, 58 min – Rated PG
niques to create impressionistic        • 8th Grade, 2019, R, a well-acted
                                                                                   Disney's The Lion King jour-
paintings. Students will work on           and perceptive movie about         neys to the African savanna, where
abstracting the details of the scene,      the troubles of an eighth-grade    a future king overcomes betrayal
using broken color and capturing           girl that may bring back happy     and tragedy to assume his rightful
the light. For more details and sign       and/or “cringe-worthy” memo-       place on Pride Rock.
up, see the Signup Book in Club            ries.                              December 21 Welcome to
Center Lobby or contact Margaret        • The Catcher Was a Spy, 2018, R,
                                                                              Marwen (1992)
Zircher (919) 967-1102.                    a suspenseful thriller based on    1 hr, 56 min – Rated PG 13
                                           the true story of the profes-      Steve Carrell, Leslie Mann
Watercolor “Seminar”- Thurs-               sional baseball player Moe              When a devastating attack
days, 10 am-noon, Art Studio.              Berg who became a World War        leaves Mark Hogancamp shattered
Bring paintings you have finished          II spy.                            and without his memory, no one
or are working on to share with         • Toy Story 4, 2019, G, the latest
                                                                              expected recovery. But by putting
the group for comments and                 movie in this popular, well-       together pieces from his old and
shared learning.                           reviewed animated series.          new life, Mark meticulously cre-
                                        Donated DVDs:                         ates a wondrous fantasy world,
Art Studio Schedule - Come paint        • Big Chill, 1998, R, the iconic
                                                                              where he draws strength to tri-
and create when room is not in             film about a group of college      umph in the real one.
use. The Art Studio calendar can           friends who reunite at a funer-    December 28 Never Look
be found on the Art Studio bulletin        al.                                Away (2018)
board calendar, and on .                     novel with Julian Moore and
                - Margaret Zircher         Ralph Fiennes.
                                                                              (Continued on p. 9, “Films”)
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(Continued from p. 8, “Films”)         to mend the broken relationship          Tuesday at the Movies
                                       with his wife and daughters. In so               2 pm, Auditorium
In this absorbing drama based          doing, he is ruthlessly forced to             Tuesday, December 10
loosely on the life of visual artist   examine his own failings as a hus-            The Mouse that Roared
Gerhard Richter, an art student        band and father.                        1959 – Not Rated – 1 hr, 23 min
trying to get past the trauma of       January 25 A Star is Born                    The world's smallest country
growing up in Nazi Germany, falls      (2018)                                  stays afloat by exporting wine to
for a fellow student. But her father   2 hrs, 16 min – Rated R                 America. But when California bot-
– an ex-Nazi – is bent on keeping      Bradley Cooper, Lady Gaga, Sam          tles a cheaper version, bankruptcy
them apart.                            Elliot                                  looms. So, they take matters into
January 4 Steel Magnolias                   Seasoned musician Jackson          their own hands by waging war
(1989)                                 Maine (Bradley Cooper) discov-          against America.
1 hr, 59 min – Rated PG                ers—and falls in love with—                    Tuesday, January 14
Sally Field, Olympia Dukakis, Dolly    struggling artist Ally (Lady Gaga).      The Importance of Being Earnest
Parton, Shirley MacLaine               She has just about given up on her      1952 – 1 hr, 35 minutes – Not Rat-
     This bittersweet drama fol-       dream to make it big as a singer        ed
lows the abiding friendship among      until Jack coaxes her into the spot-         Oscar Wilde's turn-of-the-
five tight-knit women who congre-      light. But even as Ally's career        century social satire is a delightful,
gate at a beauty parlor in a small     takes off, the personal side of their   charming story of words and mis-
Louisiana town to laugh, cry and       relationship is breaking down, as       understandings. Two men escape
discuss their lives.                   Jack fights an ongoing battle with      social obligations by pretending to
January 11 Conspiracy                  his own internal demons.                be someone they're not.
(2001)
Collin Firth, Kenneth Branaugh
      At the height of World War II,
15 government officials and SS
Commanders attended a confer-
ence on the outskirts of Berlin. It
was a simple meeting which. by
the end, would decide the fate of
six million lives.
      This BBC movie is based on
the only surviving record of that
meeting, which would stand as the
blueprint for Hitler's final solu-
tion.
January 18
All is True (2018)
1 hr, 41 min – Rated PG
Kenneth Branaugh, Judi Dench, Ian
McKellen
     The year is 1613 and William
Shakespeare is acknowledged as
the greatest writer of the age. But
disaster strikes when his re-
nowned Globe Theatre burns to
the ground.
     Devastated, Shakespeare re-
turns to Stratford, where he must
face a troubled past and a neglect-
ed family. Haunted by the death of
his only son, Hamnet, he struggles
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                                             ACTIVITIES
               Two Bird Walks in December                                              Game Club
                                                                                  Let’s get together! Try a new
Winter Visitors Bird Walk                   Both bird walks will take
                                                                             game or enjoy an old favorite with
8 am, Saturday, December 7            about two hours. Participate as
                                                                             friends and neighbors. We’ll play
     This fall, birds have been mi-   long as you like. Gather in the
                                                                             every Thursday in the Game
grating from further north or pass-   Club Center Lobby at 8 am. No
                                                                             Room from 11 am-noon begin-
ing through to their southern win-    experience required. Bring binoc-
                                                                             ning on January 9. We’ll start off
tering grounds. Tom Driscoll, past    ulars if you have them. Golf carts
                                                                             with a mentally challenging classic,
president of New Hope Audubon         are welcome.
                                                                             Trivial Pursuit on the 9th, then on
Society, will lead a bird walk on           Please contact Margaret Scott
                                                                             the 16th I’ll introduce you to Ba-
the Carolina Meadows campus to        (919) 929-1281 or
                                                                             nanagrams (most similar to Scrab-
look for our winter visitors. Tom      to
                                                                             ble, but has a faster pace), on the
will help us learn about the birds    sign up for the bird walks so we
                                                                             23rd the popular and easy card
in our neighborhood at this inter-    know to expect you or can notify
                                                                             game UNO, then on the 30th let’s
esting time of the migration cycle    you of any changes.
                                                                             play Charades! Hope to see you
and prepare for the CBC.                    Bonus! Residents can also
                                                                             there.
Christmas Bird Count (CBC)            count birds at feeders on Decem-
                                                                                 - Kris Snyder, Activities Director
8 am, Sunday, December 22             ber 22. Contact Margaret Scott to
     Steve Graves, the leader the     register and receive the instruc-           Genealogy Group
annual CBC bird walk, will identify   tions. Completed forms are due to               January
the birds, collect the data and       Margaret Scott by end of day on             Sunny Morton, a renowned
share his vast knowledge about        December 23.                           American genealogist, gave this
the birds of Carolina Meadows.        For more information, visit Bird-      presentation, “Comparing the Ge-
Steve began counting birds in this    ers @ CM in the Hobbies section        nealogy Giants: Ancestry, Family
area before Carolina Meadows ex-      of the Activities Tab on Meadow-       Search, Find My Past and My Herit-
isted.                                Life.                                  age” in London, England on Octo-
                                                          - Margaret Scott   ber 25, 2019 at the now famous
                                                                             Rootstech Conference.
     Genealogy Group                  phreys, in Korea. Her subsequent            This 46-minute video com-
        December                      positions were work in newspa-         pares some of the most important
                                      per editing, educational publish-      current genealogy resources avail-
Find A Grave: Tips and Tricks         ing, community and media rela-         able. If you are considering obtain-
                                      tions as well as marketing.            ing access to one of these “giants”,
      Mary Ann Loss, our guest             She has spent the past eight      then this presentation may just be
speaker, will present a very inter-   years dedicated to                     what you need. Please come and
esting and informative program on      primarily add-        join us in the Board Room on
locating our ancestors’ gravesites    ing records for extended family,       Tuesday, January 7 at 2 pm!
on Tuesday, December 3 at 2 pm        veterans, friends and local ceme-           Sunny Morton is an interna-
in the Board Room. The program        teries. At the conclusion of her       tionally-known genealogy educa-
will include the basics and the ad-   presentation, Mary Ann will ask        tor: a Contributing Editor for Fami-
vanced possibilities of helping       participants what they need to         ly Tree Magazine, an official Fami-
with the search of the gravesites.    know about researching in New          lySearch blogger, the NGS-award-
      Mary Ann has a very impres-     York.                                  winning editor for Ohio Genealogy
sive background of service in the           The meeting is open to all       News and a past Contributing Edi-
Army and Army Reserve for 25          residents.                             tor at Lisa Louise Cooke’s Genealo-
years, including her work at the US                          - Ruth Muller   gy Gems Podcast.
Army Field Station, Camp Hum-                                                                        - Ruth Muller
December 2019-January 2020                                                                                     Page 11
                                                                                       Activities Expo
               Community Outreach Corner                                               January means it is time again
                                                                                 for our annual Activities Expo! Set
    Are you looking for ways to               Learning Trail (right across       up very much like our very popular
give this season? There are so          the street from Carolina Meadows)        Wellness Fair, the Activities Expo
many ways that we can share our         needs volunteer tutors. Contact          gives everyone an opportunity to
good fortune to be living at Caroli-     for           speak to a representative from
na Meadows!                             more info or email President Su-         each of our committees and activi-
                                        san Morris at                            ty groups. Residents Association
Through Donations:                      .          groups as well as your Activities
     Warm clothing drive: During              Habitat for Humanity: Con-         Department’s offerings will be rep-
the months of December and Janu-        tact Rachel Horowitz at (919) 542-       resented.
ary, there will be a container in the   0794, ext. 228 or                              If you have been wondering
Residents Business Center to ac-         or          what the Community Outreach
cept your donations of CLEAN and        visit .       committee has been up to or would
gently used coats, jackets, vests,            CORA Food Pantry in Pittsbo-       like to know what “Knit and Stitch”
sweaters, hats, scarves, gloves, etc.   ro: Go to the following website to       is all about, come by on Wednes-
Your generous donations will go to      sign up for volunteering. A staff        day, January 15 from 10 am-
PACE (Program of All-Inclusive          member will contact you and help         noon in the Auditorium. Some
Care for the Elderly) in Pittsboro.     you arrange training. Contact Lyd-       groups may be looking for a new
PACE provides comprehensive             ia Berrong at (919) 240-7577 for         leader, while others are interested
health care and services that allow     further information. .                great time to fulfill that New Year’s
who qualify for nursing level care                                               resolution to join in on more fun
to remain in the community with         Exciting upcoming event!                 and interesting endeavors.
their family and friends. Contact            Cheer on Chef Jody and Sup-              - Kris Snyder, Activities Director
Marie Lauria for further infor-         port a Good Cause!
mation.                                      Carolina Meadows is thrilled               Improv Classes?
     The Chatham Cares Commu-           to be participating in the 2020
                                                                                       Ever been curious to try an
nity Pharmacy in Siler City always      Share to Care Gala on Saturday,          improv class? Keep a lookout for
welcomes donations of any items         February 22 at the Fairview in Ra-       upcoming classes in 2020. Our in-
you might find in a pharmacy.           leigh.
                                                                                 structor will be Jane Allen Wilson,
Faith Hairston in the Carolina               Consider joining in on the          who is a member of the Transac-
Meadows Clinic accepts donations.       night of casino fun and entertain-       tors Improv Co. She has performed
Also, you can contact Lynn Ogden        ment. Our own Chef Jody McLeod           in improv assemblages at Come-
at (919) 968-6910 for information       will be competing in the Chef Chal-      dyWorx and Common Ground The-
or for pick-up of larger items.         lenge that evening! The audience         ater. Some will remember her oc-
                                        votes on their favorite and a team       casional performances in plays
Through Volunteering:                   of judges awards the Golden              with The ArtsCenter Performs,
    Literacy Tutors – Contact Pat       Fork. It is a wonderful opportunity      Denning Seven, Shakespeare &
DeTitta or Carol Fox for more in-       to highlight the talents of our din-     Originals, and the Dog and Pony
formation about tutoring adults         ing team and to also benefit Tran-       Show for Manbites Dog Theater,
who are learning English and/or         sitions Guiding Lights, a caregiver      among others. Jane Allen also per-
earning citizenship.                    support charitable organization.         forms interactive improv for
    Chatham County Schools:                  To purchase tickets or learn        teaching purposes for Duke Hospi-
                                  Contact Judy Jones if you need      with an experimental music group,
    Chapel Hill-Carrboro Schools:       more information.                        Quisp!
December 2019-January 2020                                                                                   Page 12
 Community Gardening                      CM Estate/Tag Sale                    will be announced at a later date.
      We are in the beginning stag-      Find a Bargain and Help the            A comprehensive list of acceptable
es of rebuilding the raised garden      Community on St. Paddy’s Day!           donations can be reached from a
plots. When the garden area was                                                 sidebar link on the Residents Asso-
relocated in 2012 and new raised             On March 17 and 18, 2020,          ciation page of MeadowLife, or by
beds built, an unfortunate choice       CM residents, staff, families and       using this link:.
sides of the 72 beds. As early as       trove of gently recycled items in            Lots of volunteers will be
2016 these timbers were seriously       the Auditorium during a commu-          needed to make the sale go
rotting, and we already have had        nity-wide Estate/Tag Sale. Exam-        smoothly. If you would like to be a
to replace six beds.                    ples of items available for sale at     part of this exciting and challeng-
      Over the next three years all     bargain prices are: jewelry, furni-     ing event, or if you have questions
of the remaining 66 beds will have      ture, household furniture and fur-      about donating or any other aspect
to be rebuilt, using six-by-six-inch    nishings, art, small appliances, mu-    of the sale, contact Carol Coile at
timbers, along with a plastic liner.    sical instruments, luggage and golf      or (919)
These new raised beds should last       clubs. All items are being donated      889-4221; Barbara Walburn at
well over 10 years. Our goal is to      by CM residents. Proceeds will be        or
do no less than 20 beds over the        used as follows: 1/3 to benefit         (919) 967-6853; or Anita Hennis
winter/early spring season of           employees, such as with scholar-        at  or
2019-20. So far, one raised garden      ships; 1/3 to Chatham County            (919) 942-4549.
has been rebuilt this fall. Another     charities; and 1/3 for campus-               Watch your neighborhood
19 or so remain to be done over         wide projects.                          mail kiosks, bulletin boards, Club
the next few months.                         Donations will be accepted,        Center and Fairways mailboxes, as
      Now is the time of year when      beginning in early January 2020, at     well as MeadowLife and Meadow-
we gather requests for gardening        a specially designated mobile stor-     lark for more details as we ap-
space from prospective new gar-         age unit. The location of the unit      proach St. Patrick’s Day 2020!
deners (gardeners from this year
will be asked whether they want
to renew sometime in the month                                      MeadowMinds
of December). A potential new
gardener can obtain a 2020 raised            This brain fitness class is        tator will be Sarah Blake, a Chapel
bed application by emailing Alan        interactive and fun! It is for those    Hill native, who has worked in the
Tom .           who have a pretty good mind and         field of cognitive care for over
A resident can also request garden      want to keep it that way. We do         eight years. Prior to coming to Car-
space any time during the year.         activities that exercise different      olina Meadows in 2016, she ran a
      Next summer we will contin-       parts of your brain, such as lan-       business that specialized in the
ue the shared herb garden (plot #       guage, problem solving, logic, at-      support of individuals experienc-
59) and we are starting a cut-          tention and visual spatial skills.      ing cognitive changes while aging
flower space (plot yet to be select-    There are five areas of total brain     in place. She is passionate about
ed). Any resident can harvest           health. This class addresses Men-       brain fitness, neuroscience and
herbs or flowers from these two         tal Stimulation, and we will dis-       maintaining cognitive function as
community plots.                        cuss the others, which are Nutri-       we age. Sarah is certified as a
      We also hope to explore how       tion, Physical Activity, Spirituality   CARES Dementia Specialist and
composting can be done on a             and Socialization.                      currently provides dementia train-
shared basis, but that will require          Class meets on Tuesdays            ing for volunteers at Carolina
finding space for a community           from 11 am-noon in the Activi-          Meadows. Space is limited to seven
compost pile or two. It may be          ties Building Conference Room,          participants. Please sign up in the
possible to collaborate with dining     January 7 through February 25,          Activities Sign-Up Book.
facilities. More on this topic later.   a total of eight weeks. Your facili-                             - Kris Snyder
          - Alan Tom and Margy King
December 2019-January 2020                                                                                Page 13
                                          MLK Diversity Program                  Speed Friending – A
    Recycling and                                                                 New Way to Meet
  Conservation News                           The committee for Diversity         People at Carolina
                                         and Inclusion will sponsor a pro-           Meadows
      Egg cartons: You may have          gram in the Auditorium on Janu-               2 pm, Game Room
noticed that foam egg crates are         ary 20 at 3 pm to celebrate and       Friday, December 6 & January 3
piling up in the Residents Business      honor Dr. Martin Luther King.              Please note that Speed Friend-
Center. That’s because the farm-              The program will feature the    ing has been changed to the first
ers that used to accept them for         MLK chorus composed of residents     Friday of each month.
reuse don’t want them anymore            and staff under the leadership of          Whether you have been at CM
because they are not recyclable.         Angela Lee who also conducted        for many years or only a few
They would take paper and plastic,       last year’s program. There will be   months, it can be difficult to meet
but we don’t have to go to the           a rehearsal for the chorus on Mon-   people unless someone introduces
Farmers Market for that – we can         day, January 13 at 3 pm. Those       you. You may want to get to know
recycle those at Carolina Meadows        interested in participating in the   someone better whom you have
because Vice President for Dining        chorus should sign up in the note-   seen in one of your classes or vol-
Todd Ohle sells eggs and he reuses       book outside Jody’s office.          unteer activities or find some folks
them. So, if you buy eggs with                                                with common interests.
                                             December-January                       Try this enjoyable “getting-to-
Home Shopping, you may see your                  Activities
paper or plastic egg cartons again.                                           know-you game” yourself or bring
                                            Sign up in the sign-up book       a friend or neighbor so you can
And again. But please stop bring-        Southern Supreme Tour & Shop-
ing foam egg crates to the RBC.                                               both expand your connections
                                         ping / Lunch at Pittsboro Road-      here in our Carolina Meadows
Feel free to tell your supermarket       house
that you don’t want the foam ones                                             home. Please sign up in the Activi-
                                         Thursday, December 5                 ties Sign-up Book.
anymore. Or tell them and then           Deadline: Monday, December 2
switch markets.                          Cost: $12.50 per person/lunch
      Plastic: How to worry less         Dutch treat    Load: 10:30 pm
about China’s not taking our recy-
                                                                                        Golf Report
                                                                                   The annual Carolina Meadows
cled plastic: There’s good news          Funky Lunch Bus!                     Championship Tournament was
about local companies taking recy-
                                         Wednesday, December 18               held on October 16 and 17. The
cled plastic in order to ready it for    Carolina Inn                         Men’s repeat champion was James
re-manufacturing. We know of             Deadline: Monday, December 16        King with a two-day total of 62. In
four in North Carolina and at least
                                         Load: 11 am                          second with 63 was Dick Muirhead
nine in other states. It’s part of a
                                                                              and third was Gus Conley with 64.
national movement to remanufac-          Funky Lunch Bus!                     The Net Champion is Dwayne
ture locally, which mean less fossil     Wednesday, January 15          TBD   Campbell, who had a net 50; sec-
fuel dredged up to make it and           Deadline: Monday, January 13         ond was Len Strobel at 51; and
burned to haul it around.                Cost: approx. - $8.00 per perso-     third was Gene Guido with 53.
      Alkaline batteries: We have        Load: 11 am                          Winners were recognized at the
said no-yes-no-yes on alkaline bat-
                                                                              golf awards luncheon on October
teries this year. Sorry for the con-     Chamber Orchestra of the Trian-      18.
fusion. We and Carolina Meadows
                                         gle – Rebels with a Cause                 The commentary during lunch
Plant Operations have been ex-           Sunday, January 12                   concerned what great shape the
ploring various options for places       Deadline: Wednesday, January 8       greens are in this year after the
that accept and recycle them. We         Cost: approx. $44 per person         conversion to zoysia this summer.
will let you know as soon as we          Load: 2 pm                                We will continue to have Sat-
have what we hope will be a long-
                                                                              urday play days as long as the
term solution.                           Sacred Threads Quilts Travel         weather permits. The signup sheet
                      - Judith Ferster   Exhibit Date TBD in January –        will be in the sports book by noon
                                         keep an eye on the signup book!      on Monday.             - Gus Conley
December 2019-January 2020                                                                                   Page 14
       New Workshop                         African Drum Circle                 chocolate, reindeer cookies and
   The Gift of Written Memories          Class with Diali Cissokho              shared recipes!
      On January 7 (10 am, Audi-            3–4 pm           Board Room
torium), Carolyn Holt will begin             NO CLASSES IN DECEMBER                 Parkinson’s Wellness Recov-
offering a ten-meeting workshop,             Fridays, January 10 & 24           ery Moves, offered by Certified
The Gift of Written Memories.                        $15 per class              Instructors Nancy Alton and
Triggered by weekly assigned top-             Join Senegalese musician Diali    Michelle Marino. Tuesdays 1:30-
ics, participants will reflect on        Cissokho for a lively five-week be-    2:15 pm beginning January 14.
memories and begin writing them          ginner djembe drumming class!          Located in the Exercise Studio.
down, thus exploring the meaning         Diali is from a “griot” family, the    Cost is $7 per session billed to
of their lives. Stories will be          musicians of West Africa tasked        your CM account. This Parkinson-
shared in the workshop with a            with passing down the history of       specific exercise class will teach
small group of fellow residents.         their communities through song.        you how to move bigger and faster
      The workshop will provide          Diali relocated to the US in 2010      in everyday life and counteract PD
questions designed to evoke mem-         and brought with him a vast            symptoms! As you learn these PD-
ories. A small library of books on       knowledge of traditional and con-      specific skills, you will be chal-
writing autobiography and mem-           temporary West African music,          lenged physically and cognitively
oir will be available for borrowing.     which he loves to share with           to do more than you think you can
      As Kierkegaard said, while life    groups of all ages and experience      in a fun, supportive environment.
“must be lived forwards, it can on-      levels. No experience necessary.           A Matter of Balance Eight-
ly be understood backwards.”             Drums provided.                        Week Series, Thursdays, Janu-
Writing done for the workshop                                                   ary 9-February 27, 10:30-11:45
will make wonderful gifts for loved          Wellness Corner                    am in the Auditorium. Many old-
ones, as well as potential submis-                                              er adults experience a fear of fall-
sions to Voices.                             Holiday Hustle: Chair aero-
                                                                                ing. People who develop this fear
      Workshop sign-up begins on         bic dance event! Led by Kim Con-
                                                                                often limit their activities, which
Tuesday, December 3. If you              way. Tap your toes and swing your
                                                                                can result in physical weakness,
would like to attend, send an e-         arms to your favorite holiday
                                                                                making the risk of falling even
mail on December 3 to                    tunes, all while sitting in a chair!
                                                                                greater. A Matter of Balance: Man-
 that 1)            This fun and energetic workout is
                                                                                aging Concerns About Falls is a
gives your name, e-mail address          sure to increase your heart rate
                                                                                program designed to reduce the
and phone number; 2) includes a          and put you in the holiday mood!
                                                                                fear of falling and increase activity
brief statement on why you are           A great workout for all levels of
                                                                                levels among older adults. No cost,
interested in the workshop; and 3)       fitness. Thursday, December 12
                                                                                but space is limited. Register in the
indicates how many of the ten            at 4 pm in Exercise Studio.
                                                                                Wellness Book.
workshop meetings you can at-
tend.                   - Carolyn Holt       12 Days of Fitness Challenge,          Soul Collage is a creative and
                                         December 1-12. Packets will be         satisfying process. The activity is a
                                         available in the Exercise Room and     tool to intuitively discover or de-
 Jewelry Design and Repair
                                         Meadow Life Fitness and Health         liberately intention a story using
       1–4 pm, Art Studio
                                         page. Complete the challenge and       word pictures. You make your own
    Monday, December 2 and
                                         return the journal to the Wellness     collage from magazine pictures.
              January 6
                                         Department by December 17 to           The result may represent an as-
    For all experienced jewelry
                                         be entered to win an Alexa!            pect of your personality or your
makers; open classes are $10 per
                                                                                self-discovery that becomes your
afternoon. Jewelry repairs may be
                                             Annual Reindeer Romp,              unique message in a creative me-
dropped off at any time between 1
                                         Wednesday, December 18. Meet           dium. Please join us in the CC Lob-
-3 pm on the scheduled monthly
                                         in the CC Lobby at 3 pm for either     by on Wednesday, January 22
open classes. If you would like to
                                         a one-half or one-mile community       anytime between 11 am and 1
have a beginner’s session, please
                                         walk, followed with cider, hot         pm.
contact Eva directly at (919) 797-
0289.
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       DIGITAL SUPPLEMENT
                   Halloween 2019: Photographic Memories
    Having already celebrated Thanksgiving and preparing for the rush of the holiday season, Halloween may
be a distant memory. But we celebrated it at Carolina Meadows just a month ago, and fond memories remain of
the decorated pumpkins and costumed participants in the Halloween Party.
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                                 Autumn Festival in the Park
     They say that “three’s a charm,” and so it was for the twice-postponed “Autumn Festival in the Park.” It finally
took place on Sunday, November 3. If it had been delayed any longer, it might have had to be renamed “Winter
Festival in the Park.”
     Over 100 people, including residents, staff and members of the Webb family, attended the festival and dedi-
cation ceremony honoring Markus. Plans are to remember others in the future, the first of whom is the late John
McWhirter.
                                                                                                     - Judith Pulley

                                                                         The chimes

Members of the Webb family

                                                At left, Bev
                                                Milton and
                                                Clarence
                                                Whitefield,
                                                ready to en-
                                                tertain with
                                                his famous
                                                harmonica
                                                                        John Haynes and Eleanor Morris
December 2019-January 2020                                                                                    Page 17

              The Dining Services Committee Goes on the Road
     We all are justifiably proud of    fortunate.” US Foods’ strategy is        storage area, with enormous food
the high quality of the food served     based on three commitments:              lockers held at the optimum tem-
at Carolina Meadows. This is a          Great Food, Made Easy, Delivered         peratures for the types of foods
tribute to our outstanding Dining       with Excellence. Great Food en-          stored therein. Donning safety
Services management and our             compasses Great Brands, Best in          vests and steel-toed shoes, we ex-
amazing Chef Jody, who brings out       Fresh, Local and Sustainable, and        perienced temperatures ranging
the best in his staff. However, as      Product Innovation.                      from 45 degrees to 17 degrees be-
any experienced cook will tell you,                                              low zero. Parkas would have been
great food requires quality ingre-                                               appreciated!
dients.

                                        District Manager Randy Wilder

     And so, nine members of the             Many of their exclusive brands
Dining Services Committee (DSC)         promise “no unpronounceable in-
joined seven members of our Din-        gredients,” such as artificial flavors
ing Services staff to visit our major   and colors, hydrogenated oils, etc.
food supplier, US Foods in                   The most recent initiative,
Zebulon. On the way we were             product innovation, is called
served hot homemade chocolate           Scoops. Consulting famed chefs           Jordain Willis, Chef Jody McLeod
and spiced tea prepared by our          throughout the country, US Foods         and DSC Chair Judy Bauman
chefs.                                  introduces 30 innovative products
                                        three times a year, seeking to en-            If a company can be judged by
                                        sure that their clients can offer        the quality and commitment of its
                                        their diners the latest in culinary      650 employees, US foods seems to
                                        trends.                                  be a success.
                                             The Carolina Meadows team                All of those who interacted
                                        was treated to a taste of some of        with us spoke of the company and
                                        these products at lunch and can          their fellow employees with genu-
                                        attest to their excellence.              ine enthusiasm and affection. Most
                                             Carolina Meadows is a “high         are long-time employees. Promo-
                                        value” customer and has a repre-         tion from within is the usual rule.
     We were greeted with a digi-       sentative from US Foods who can          And all employees hold shares in
tal welcome in the foyer.               speak the language of our very ex-       the company, making for a loyal
     Randy Wilder, District Manag-      perienced chef. Jimmy Reale, who         workforce.
er, gave us an overview of US           was Executive Chef at the Carolina            The Dining Services Commit-
Foods, which has distribution cen-      Inn for seven years, fills this role     tee members are grateful to our
ters throughout the country.            and is on our campus twice a week,       Dining Services staff for providing
     He began by stating that Caro-     consulting and ensuring that our         us with exposure to another criti-
lina Meadows, with Todd Ohle and        needs are being met.                     cal component of our dining expe-
Chef Jody, is blessed with a                 Next the CM visitors got “up        rience.
“staggeringly talented culinary         close and personal” with the food                               - Judith Pulley
team. Not every restaurant is that      by entering the 450,000-foot food
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                       From the Archives: Four-Day Power Outage
     Most of us have forgotten the     40s during the night. (True neigh-       and TV-watching. A larger than
few hours without power that ac-       borliness was expressed by some          usual crowd attended the Saturday
companied last December’s snow-        kindly folks in Governor’s Club and      evening movie in the auditorium.
storm. A minor disruption. On the      Southern Village who offered to          CEO Rob Boening quipped, “I know
other hand, seventeen years ago,       house residents.)                        we had a big crowd. I swept up the
in December 2002, Carolina Mead-            Vice President of Dining Ser-       popcorn afterwards.”
ows was without power for four         vices Mark Maxwell and his staff              The Auditorium was put to
days. A severe ice storm cut off       “did an amazing job of feeding the       more practical use as well. Caroli-
power and heat for more than two       hordes of residents who descend-         na Meadows had stocked a supply
million people in the Carolinas. A     ed on the Dining Room each noon-         of foam mattresses and on three
lengthy article in the Chapel Hill     time.” Residents were encouraged         nights, when the outside tempera-
News, with the headline “Retirees      to take home a sandwich for their        ture dropped into the teens, up to
pulled together to weather the ice     evening meal and not to venture          50 residents slept in the Auditori-
storm,” described the experience.      out after dark.                          um or on Lobby armchairs and
     Although a few residents               Some did not heed that advice       sofas.
spent the time with relatives liv-     and “the Club Center became a                 The full article, as well as
ing nearby or in area motels, most     gathering place, as many residents       many other historical documents,
stayed put in their villas and         fled their cold and darkened villas      can be read in the archives, located
apartments even though house           and apartments.” Club Center             in the lower level of the Club Cen-
temperatures dropped into the          rooms were put to use for reading        ter.
                                                                                                          - Bill Powers

                                   In Case You Missed It . . . .
                    Summaries of some lectures presented during the past month
        Locating the                   study exoplanets has to do with          can figure out the size, the mass
         Exoplanets                    the question of whether there is         and the distance from the star of
      On November 2, Professor         life elsewhere in the galaxy. Stud-      these planets. They can then focus
Brand Fortner delighted us with        ies are very difficult to carry out.     on those planets that may be hab-
another Astronomy lecture at Ser-      Nobody has ever seen an exoplan-         itable, not too close (too hot) or
endipitous Saturday. This time         et with a telescope. Most exoplan-       too distant (too cold). Further, the
the subject was exoplanets – that      ets were detected because, when          quality of the light coming from
is to say planets around stars oth-    they pass in front of their host star,   there lets scientists know what
er than our sun. Only a generation     they dim its luminosity ever so          elements are present. Given the
ago scientists did not know if such    slightly. A giant planet the size of     properties of the various elements
things existed, and many thought       Jupiter might reduce luminosity by       and the complex chemistry of liv-
that even if they did, they would      1%, one the size of Earth by as lit-     ing forms – it is thought impossi-
be rare. Recent observations not       tle as 0.01%. The reason these mi-       ble for life to occur in the absence
only show that exoplanets exist,       nuscule changes can be detected is       of carbon (C) and water (H2O) –
but also suggest that practically      because, if they are caused by a         this then allows one to further
every star in the Milky Way proba-     planet, they repeat in a very peri-      narrow down planets that may be
bly has several planets in orbit.      odic way.                                habitable. Some 4,000 exoplanets
The study of exoplanets provides             Another process used to de-        have been detected. Several doz-
information that helps astrono-        tect exoplanets is that by rotating      ens of them might be habitable.
mers deduce the formation and          around their star, they cause the             These very accurate observa-
evolution of stars.                    star itself to wobble in its position.   tions require orbiting telescopes,
      In addition to such basic sci-   From the reduction in luminosity
ence goals, much of the impetus to     and wobble, these clever fellows         (Continued on p. 18, “Exoplanets”
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