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FOUR COUNTY

             CATHOLIC
Volume 34 • Number 1 • JANUARY 2022 • SERVING THE COUNTIES OF MIDDLESEX • NEW LONDON • TOLLAND • WINDHAM, CT & FISHERS ISLAND, NY

                                                            May the Lord work
                                                       through you to bring those
                                                           who walk in darkness
                                                               out into the bright
                                                                light and hope of
                                                                  the risen Christ.
                                                                                             Bishop Michael R. Cote
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THE MOST REVEREND
                                      MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.                                            BISHOP OF NORWICH

                         “What the world needs now...”
                         My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,      media as well as on radio and television.   Pope Saint John Paul II once voiced,
LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

                                                                      The countercultural command to “love        “Every vocation to the priestly ministry
                         Those of you who were around in the your neighbor as yourself ” that Christ              is an extraordinary gift of God’s love.”
                         1960s may recognize the above as the taught and generation after generation              We rejoice that the Lord has graced us
                         opening line of a popular song and of Christians have put into action, is                with this wonderful gift of a new priest
                         may easily be able to complete the lyric. beginning to be lost in the dissenting         who over time has responded to God’s
                         “What the world needs now is love, voices that look to divide us.                        call.
                         sweet love. It’s the only thing that there’s
                         just too little of ”                         We must not lose hope. The healing,       We know that vocations do not fall out
                                                                      uplifting, overarching message of Christ  of the blue. They arise out of God’s deep
                         Like today, the 1960s was a turbulent is the ultimate course correction of what        and abiding love for each of us, touching
                         time in America’s history. The ‘world ails our nation at this tumultuous time.         the hearts of those whom God has placed
                         needs love’ sentiment is not new.            It is wise to remember that we are all    in our path. By way of illustration Father
                         “If I speak in human and angelic tongues children of the same Father. He calls         Barile shared the following, “through the
                         but do not have love, I am a resounding us to live as brothers and sisters. Our        many good examples of my parents, my

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                         gong or a clashing cymbal.” This familiar personal interaction with others is our      siblings and I were taught the important
                         sentence begins one of the most popular chance to live out the love that Saint         value of helping others in their time of
                         readings proclaimed at weddings. While Paul describes.                                 need. These early lessons helped me to
                         it can be very valuable for couples Are our interactions with others Christ- realize that there is greater joy in giving
                         embarking on a lifelong commitment like? Do we take time to hear people out, of oneself.” I pray that Father Larry
                         together this was not the initial intent giving them the benefit of the doubt? continues to find and share this joy.
                         of Saint Paul when he penned his first Do we “pile-on” or do we instead offer As I write this and as you read this, it is
                         letter to the church of Corinth. He forgiveness?                                       still the Christmas season. May you carry
                         was writing to a group of people who,                                                  the Christmas spirit into 2022 as a year-
                         much like today’s society, were struggling When an old timer was asked if he was long/life-long way of life, because “What
                         with social division – class, gender, race, a Christian he responded, “I don’t know, the world needs now is love, sweet love.
                         wealth.                                     you’ll have to ask my neighbor.” How No not just for some, but for everyone.”
                                                                     might each of us score if our neighbors
                         What Saint Paul wrote is as were to grade us?
                         countercultural now as it was 2000 years
                         ago. As he outlined in 1 Corinthians So much of society today is focused Happy New Year to you and your family.
                         13:4-6 –– “Love is patient, love is kind”. on instant gratification and self-
                         He then describes all the things that love centeredness. Living a life of loving self-
                         is not, concluding with “[Love] does not sacrifice for the good of others must be Sincerely yours in Christ,
                         rejoice over wrongdoing, but rejoices acknowledged and celebrated.
                         with the truth.”
                                                                     On December 8th, the Feast of the
                         If news reports and opinion pieces are a Immaculate Conception, I had the
                         correct indicator, it appears that we have pleasure of ordaining Deacon Larry
                         once again lost faith in the goodness of Barile to the order of the priesthood. Most Reverend Michael R. Cote
                         our fellow Americans. The persistent What a blessing to experience once again Bishop of Norwich
                         vitriol of hurtful interchanges can be seen God’s tenderness to the local church of
                         playing out in newspapers and online Norwich.
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THE MOST REVEREND
                                                                                                MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.                                       BISHOP OF NORWICH

                                                                                    “Lo que el Mundo Necesita Ahora…”
                                                           LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

                                                                                    My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,        hirientes en los periódicos y los medios en    El Papa San Juan Pablo II dijo una vez:
                                                                                                                                   línea, así como en la radio y la televisión.   “Toda vocación al ministerio sacerdotal es
                                                                                    Aquellos de ustedes que vivieron en la El mandamiento contracultural de “amar a               un don extraordinario del amor de Dios.”
                                                                                    década de 1960 pueden reconocer el título su prójimo como a si mismo” que Cristo              Nos regocijamos de que el Señor nos haya
                                                                                    anterior como la línea de apertura de una enseñó y que generación tras generación de          agraciado con este maravilloso regalo de
                                                                                    canción popular y fácilmente pueden cristianos ha puesto en práctica, comienza                un nuevo sacerdote que con el tiempo ha
                                                                                    completar la letra. “Lo que el mundo a perderse en las voces opositoras que                   respondido al llamado de Dios.
                                                                                    necesita ahora es amor, amor bondadoso. buscan dividirnos.
                                                                                    Es lo que más escasea.                                                                        Sabemos que las vocaciones no aparecen
                                                                                                                                   No debemos perder la Esperanza. El             de la nada. Surgen del amor profundo
                                                                                    La década de 1960 como hoy, fue una mensaje sanador, edificante y general de                  y permanente de Dios por cada uno de
                                                                                    epoca turbulenta en la historia de Estados Cristo es la corrección final del curso de lo      nosotros, tocando los corazones de aquellos
                                                                                    Unidos. El sentimiento de “el mundo que aflije a nuestra nación en este momento               a quienes Dios ha puesto en nuestro
                                                                                    necesita amor” no es nuevo.                    tumultuoso. Es aconsejable recordar que        camino. A modo de ilustración, Padre
                                                                                    “Si hablo en lenguas humanas y angélicas, todos somos hijos del mismo Padre. Él               Barile compartió lo siguiente: “a través de
                                                                                    pero no tengo amor, soy como una campana nos llama a vivir como hermanos. Nuestra             los muchos buenos ejemplos de mis padres,
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                                                                                    que toca o unos platillos que resuenan.” interacción personal con los demás es                a mis hermanos y a mi se nos enseñó el
                                                                                    Esta frase familiar inicia una de las lecturas nuestra oportunidad de vivir el amor que       importante valor de ayudar a los demás en
                                                                                    más populares que se proclaman en las describe San Pablo.                                     su momento de necesidad. Estas primeras
                                                                                    bodas. Si bien puede ser muy valioso para                                                     lecciones me ayudaron a darme cuenta
                                                                                                                                  ¿Nuestras iteracciones con los demás son        de que hay un mayor gozo en entregarse
                                                                                    las parejas que se embarcan juntos en un      semejantes a las de Cristo? ¿Tomamos
                                                                                    compromiso de por vida, esta no fue la                                                        a uno mismo.” Oro para que Padre Larry
                                                                                                                                  tiempo para escuchar a los demás, dándoles      continúe encontrando y compartiendo esta
                                                                                    intención inicial de San Pablo cuando         el beneficio de la duda? ¿Acumulamos
                                                                                    escribió su primera carta a la Iglesia de                                                     alegría.
                                                                                                                                  ofensas o en cambio ofrecemos perdón?
                                                                                    Corinto. Él estaba escribiendo a un grupo                                                     Mientras escribo esto y usted lo lee, aún
                                                                                    de personas que, al igual que la sociedad     Cuando le preguntaron a un anciano si era       es temporada navideña. Que usted pueda
                                                                                    actual, estaban luchando con la división      Cristiano, respondió: “No sé, tendrá que        llevar el espíritu navideño al 2022 como
                                                                                    social: clase, género, raza, riqueza.         preguntarle a mi vecino.” ¿Que puntaje          una forma de vida de un año/ toda la vida,
                                                                                                                                  tendríamos cada uno de nosotros si              porque “lo que el mundo necesita ahora
                                                                                    Lo que San Pablo escribió es tan              nuestros vecinos nos calificaran?
                                                                                    contracultural ahora como lo fue hace 2000                                                    es amor, amor bondadoso. No solo para
                                                                                    años. Como lo describe en 1 Corintios         Gran parte de la sociedad actual se             algunos, sino para todos.”
                                                                                    13: 4-6- “El amor es paciente, el amor es     centra en la gratificación instantánea
                                                                                    bondadoso.” Luego describe todas las cosas    y el egocentrismo. Debe reconocerse y
                                                                                    que el amor no es, concluyendo con” (el       celebrarse vivir una vida de abnegación por
                                                                                    amor) no se regocija por malas acciones,      el bien de los demás.
                                                                                    sino que se regocija con la verdad.”                                                          Feliz año nuevo para usted y su familia,
                                                                                                                                  El 8 de diciembre, fiesta de la Inmaculada
                                                                                    Si las noticias y los artículos de opinión    Concepción, tuve el placer de ordenar
                                                                                    son un indicador correcto, parece que una     al Diácono Larry Barile a la orden del          Sincerely yours in Christ,
                                                                                    vez más hemos perdido la fe en la bondad      sacerdocio. Que bendición experimentar
                                                                                    de nuestros conciudadanos. Se puede ver la    una vez más la ternura de Dios hacia la
                                                                                    hostilidad persistente de los intercambios    iglesia local de Norwich.

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Vocations Corner
                            How great is it that we have a new priest? Father Larry            difficult to see God’s hand in the present moment, but looking
                            Barile, ordained to the priesthood by Bishop Cote on               back allows one to more easily see the gentle nudges of the           Alexander Pandolfe
Deacon Jacob Ramos                                                                                                                                                       2nd Theology
      4th Theology          December 8 at the Cathedral of St. Patrick on the                  Holy Spirit. These nudges truly were more like gentle taps          Mount Saint Mary Seminary
Mount Saint Mary Seminary   Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception. It’s wonderful.            than awe-inspiring epiphanies; however, as I mentioned to              Emmitsburg, MD
   Emmitsburg, MD
                                                                                               the retreatants, God uses whatever you are willing to give
                             Check out the video recording of the Ordination Mass              Him in prayer no matter how small.
                            on the Diocesan website if you haven’t watched it already.
                            It was beautiful. I was also blessed to concelebrate Father        In my recent work as a sports chaplain for the women’s rugby
                            Larry’s first Mass of Thanksgiving at St. Mary’s Church            team at Mount St. Mary’s University, some players asked
                            in Coventry the following evening with several priests of          questions about why I chose to give up a potential career in
                            our diocese. That was splendid too. Praise God! I couldn’t         chemistry for the priesthood. I was not able to explain it in a
                            be happier for Fr. Larry Barile and the people he is now           way that made sense to them. They unknowingly picked up on
                            called to serve.                                                   a very important instinct: without God, a vocation does not
                                                                                               make sense. God has to be the one who initiates this journey
                            In other news, our seminarians successfully completed              by the gentle acceptance of His grace. On the part of each               Julian Cuervo
   Dharen Brochero          another fall semester of seminary studies. As they gear            person, one has to pray to be open to those divine promptings             2nd Theology
      3rd Theology                                                                                                                                                 Mount Saint Mary Seminary
Mount Saint Mary Seminary   up to return to the seminary for the start of the spring           that draw one towards one’s vocation on earth and sanctity             Emmitsburg, MD
   Emmitsburg, MD           semester, I would like to highlight one of our seminarians,        in heaven.
                            Mark Johnson, who received admission to Candidacy to
                            Holy Orders with his classmates in November of 2021.               “…bring it to fulfillment.” By these words, it is important
                            In early December of 2020, I asked Mark to reflect on              to understand that this journey towards sanctity is not yet
                            his experience of receiving admission to Candidacy for             finished. Although I may have taken another step towards the
                            all of you. Here is what he had to say:                            priesthood, I must still recognize that it is one step of many.
                                                                                               I have been deemed worthy enough to express my resolve to
                            On November 19th, I received admission to Candidacy for            become a priest, but there is still much that needs to be done
                            Holy Orders. The significance of candidacy can be described by     before I am ready to accept priestly ministry: years of study,
                            this nice image: if priesthood is like marriage to the Church,     years of prayer, years of growing in virtue, years of ministerial
                            candidacy is the engagement whereby the candidate formally         practice, and especially years of patience. However, it is
                                                                                                                                                                         Eric Hosmer

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Ruben Garcia Sanchez        and publicly expresses to the Church his resolve to finish his     ultimately not my own work or my own resolve that will                    2nd Theology
      3rd Theology          formation and become a priest (this is done, interestingly
Mount Saint Mary Seminary                                                                      make my time at the seminary worth it, it is God’s work. Just       Mount Saint Mary Seminary
   Emmitsburg, MD           enough, by actually saying “I do” during the ritual). The peak     as the Lord has worked in several ways throughout my life in           Emmitsburg, MD
                            of the ceremony is the words the bishop speaks to the new          bringing me to this point, He will continue to work (and He
                            candidates, saying, “May God who has begun this good work          certainly has been working throughout this semester) in His
                            in you bring it to fulfillment.” I would like to meditate on the   gentle and loving way to bring this journey to completion if
                            significance of this phrase.                                       He so wills.
                            “May God who has begun this good work in you…” The                 Please pray for God’s will to be done in the lives of all of
                            day after I had received candidacy, I was asked to share my        our seminarians and all those God is calling to start this
                            vocation story as the beginning of a Confirmation retreat          journey to priesthood for our diocese.
                            at Blessed Sacrament Parish. This opportunity brought to
                            the forefront God’s actions throughout my life, particularly
                            in drawing me from the world of chemistry to the world                                                                                     Mark Johnson
                            of future ministry. As I mentioned to the retreatants, it is       - Father Jonathan Ficara, Director of Vocations                           1st Theology
                                                                                                                                                                   Mount Saint Mary Seminary
                                                                                                                                                                      Emmitsburg, MD

                                                                                                                                MONTHLY
                                                                                Holy Hour                                               for Vocations
                                                                                                        January 20, 6:00 p.m. – Sacred Heart, Groton
                                                                                                       Febraury 17, 6:00 p.m. – St. Colman, Middlefield

                                                                                                      The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D.,
                                                                                                       Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour
                                                                                                                    God-Calls.com
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ACA Reaches Goal for First
                       By Mary Ellen Mahoney
                                                                                                 Time Since 2007
                           We begin 2022 thankful for our      side, taking each step with us.                                           worries upon him because he of our ACA supported ministries
                           many blessings, taking account      When faced with the many                                                  cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7. is great.
                           of all that God has given us. Each  challenges of the past two years,
                           new year brings new resolutions     we take comfort in many passages                                          The Annual Catholic Appeal,          As always, we end our Annual
                           and goals. Whether it be improved   of the Bible. One of my favorites is                                      “One Faith, One Family,” gives       Catholic Appeal year with great
                           fitness, reaching out to loved ones,Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord                                        us an opportunity to do the          gratitude for our many generous
                           or becoming financially secure, we  with all your heart and on your                                           work of Jesus daily by enabling      donors. We know many have
                           all have our list.                  own intelligence do not rely. In all                                      our diocesan ministries to           faced challenges this past year and
                                                               your ways, be mindful of Him, and                                         provide spiritual, physical and      nevertheless dug deep into their
                           Of course, the most important and He will make straight your paths.”                                          educational support to many in       pockets to continue to make their
                           lasting resolution we can make is                                                                             our community. Whether it be         donations to the ACA.
                           to forge a closer relationship with While we do not know what 2022                                            receiving meals from St. Vincent
                           God, to continue to work toward has in store, we do know that                                                 de Paul Place, Norwich, and St.      We cannot express how much
                           becoming a better person and together, each of us, with the help                                              Vincent de Paul, Middletown          your kindness means to our
                           living the word of Jesus each day. of God, will face the challenges                                           or groceries and diapers from        ministries and the people they
                           Part of our journey is predicated with a renewed sense of hope                                                Catholic Charities, with locations   serve. We are very happy to report
                           on having faith that while we and confidence. We will yet again                                               throughout the diocese; comfort      that the 2021 ACA reached its goal
                           persevere, God is right by our remind ourselves to “Cast all your                                             from our Ministry to the Sick;       for the first time since 2007. This
                                                                                                                                         spiritual support from the           is truly a testament to the many
                                                                                                                                                                              parishioners who have chosen to
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                                                                                                                                         outreach programs of our Office
                                                                                                                                         of Faith Events or the educational   share some of their hard-earned
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                                                                     SAINT MARY &
                                                                                  Cemeteries                                             opportunities provided to our        money to enrich the lives of others.
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                                                                                 815 Boswell Ave., Norwich - 860-887-1019
                                                                                                                                                                              in gifts and pledges have been
                                                                                        SACRED HEART CEMETERY                                                                 made to the ACA, with 23 of our
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                                                                                      SACRED HEART CEMETERY                                                                   Annual Catholic Appeal, which we
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                                                                                       ALL HALLOWS CEMETERY                                                                   will see fit to renew your generous
                                                                               Green Hallow Road, Moosup - 860-887-1019                                                       commitment to the ACA. In
                                                           The Church, through its Funeral Rites:                                                                             the meantime, if you have not
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                                                           • Expresses the Church’s belief in the Communion of Saints
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                                                           • Recognizes the spiritual bond that exists between the living and the dead
                                                           • Brings hope and consolation to the bereaved
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                                                           • Reminds faithful to turn to God in time of need and crisis
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                                                                                                                                                                              or (860) 886-1928 to do so. Thank
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Outreach to Haiti Celebrates
     35 Years of Walking with Our Haitian
              Brothers and Sisters

By Susan Wallace

M
          any of our friends and                                                                                            actively involved and with board
          supporters helped us                                                                                              member Tom Campbell, contin-
          honor the work of sev-                                                                                            ues their bicycle “Ride to Rebuild”
eral of God’s servants in our di-                                                                                           each fall. Dan related, “Seeing [the
ocesan ministry. This anniversary                                                                                           Haitian people] carry on in the
milestone was held at Mercy High                                                                                            face of adversity and seeing the
School in November.                                                                                                         strength of their faith is very up-
                                                                                                                            lifting. It has permanently affected
Special honorees were the Most                                                                                              my outlook on life.”
Reverend Bishop Michael R. Cote,
D.D., Sister Ellen Flynn, RSM,         2021 Honorees (left to right) Mr. Daniel E. O’Sullivan, Ms. Julie Fitts Ritter,        The Padre Pio Foundation of
Reverend Gerald S. Kirby, Daniel       Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Reverend Gerald S. Kirby, Sister                America, under the leadership

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E. O’Sullivan and the Inaugural        Ellen Flynn, RSM                                                                     of Julie Fitts Ritter, is a special
Works of Mercy Award was pre-         ister to the people of Haiti. “After         shared the following: “I discovered      friend and supporter. The Foun-
sented to the Director of The Padre   returning home from my first trip            years ago that Haiti is completely       dation continues Saint Padre Pio’s
Pio Foundation of America, Julie      to Haiti in the early 80s, I knew            indescribable. No words can cap-         legacy of love and caring for those
Fitts Ritter.                         this little Island and its people were       ture the depth of its poverty or the     less fortunate and assists organiza-
                                      going to be very important in my             wealth of its beauty and richness        tions like Outreach to Haiti as they
We have been blessed by the wis-      life.” When her three years were             of the people. Most Haitians lack        serve the very people Padre Pio
dom, foresight, and leadership of     almost over Sister Ann Weller in-            life’s necessities yet possess eternal   loved and cared for so deeply. Julie
Bishop Cote who had the vision        vited her back to Haiti. She said            values.” Father Kirby spent many         shared, “What we do is for God’s
to merge the two wonderful min-       it was the best decision she ever            years serving in Haiti, where he         glory, His Church and in honor of
istries working in Port-au-Prince     made. “We started a school pro-              initiated many programs including        Padre Pio.”
into one.                             gram, a small clinic, and programs           our Parish Twinning Program. He
                                      for women. Twelve years later on             is a constant and ardent supporter.      We are thankful to Alissa DeJonge,
Under Bishop Cote’s leadership        sabbatical, I realized Haiti was still                                                President of Mercy High School,
the Diocese of Norwich twins with     calling me; I spent my last years in         Daniel E. O’Sullivan, immediate          for hosting our event.
the Archdiocese of Port-au-Prince.    Fon de Blan [where] we were able             past Director of Outreach, shared
He is a dedicated supporter and       to start a much-needed program               his many gifts and talents to move       Many people with varied and dif-
advocate of our work, which has       for those living with HIV. Haiti             our ministry forward and upward.         ferent gifts have come together to
allowed us to grow our programs       will always be a part of me.” Sister         He was instrumental in helping to        support our work as evidenced
and complete our new building to      Ellen continues to serve the people          raise funds for our new building,        by those who were honored and
replace the two that were destroyed   of Haiti as a member of our Board            which is now up and operation-           those who walk with us to serve
in the 2010 earthquake.               of Directors.                                al. He continues to serve on the         our brothers and sisters, especially
                                                                                   building committee and is dedicat-       in Haiti. We are inspired by their
Sister Ellen Flynn followed the       Reverend Gerald S. Kirby, who                ed to seeing Phase II, outfitting the    commitment. We hope you will
inner voice that called her to min-   spent many years serving in Haiti,           building, completed. He remains          join us and support our work.

To read more about the event or discover how you can be a part of this ministry, visit OutreachToHaiti.org.                                                                          7
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In Memoriam
                                                                                                  Forever Grateful for Your Service
                                                                                                                       Reverend Monsignor
                                                                                                                      Michael Thomas Donohue
                                                                                                                 May 1, 1947 ~ December 12, 2021

                                                           On December 12, 2021, Monsignor Donahue was called from us to eternal        In the spring of 1996, the then Father Donohue initiated a program of
                                                           rest with the Lord. He was ordained June 29, 1975, in Rome by Saint Pope     stewardship to take the steps necessary to build a new church. His lifelong
                                                           Paul VI. His funeral Mass was celebrated December 17 at Saint Matthias       interest in art and architecture made it possible for him to envision what
                                                           Church in East Lyme.                                                         became an octagonal Romanesque red brick building designed around the
                                                                                                                                        stained-glass windows installed in the original church in 1939, blending
                                                           Monsignor Donohue was the second of five children born to the late John      the legacy of the past with an eye toward the future.
                                                           J. Donohue and Catherine Keegan Donohue. He was raised in Pawcatuck,
                                                           attended St. Michael School, graduating from Stonington High in 1965.        Monsignor Donahue’s classmate, the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote,
                                                                                                                                        celebrated the funeral Mass on Friday, December 17. Archbishop Leonard
                                                           He began his religious vocation at St. Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield, CT     Blair, also a classmate, concelebrated the Mass. The homilist, Reverend
                                                           continued it at Our Lady of the Angels in Albany, NY, and was chosen to      Joseph Bell, of Spokane, Washington shared many stories illustrating the
                                                           complete his studies at the Pontifical North American College in Rome,       humor and generosity of his close friend, Monsignor Donahue.
                                                           Italy where he was ordained in 1975 by Pope Paul VI, who, in 2018, was
                                                           canonized into sainthood by Pope Francis.                                    Bishop Cote read remarks from fellow classmates who could not be in
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                                                                                                                                        attendance. Cardinal Burke had this to say: “The death of Monsignor
                                                           Following his ordination and returning to the United States, he trained as   Donahue is certainly a great loss for the class of 1975 of the Pontifical
                                                           an officer and a chaplain in the U.S. Navy in Newport, RI and he began his   North American College . . . I remember how he faithfully organized class
                                                           ministry in the Diocese of Norwich.                                          reunions and communicated important news about classmates.” Bishop
                                                                                                                                        Cote spoke to a fellow classmate from Louisiana, who put it very well saying
                                                           His 45-year career throughout the diocese included Sacred Heart parish       that Monsignor Donahue “was the glue of our class.”
                                                           (Vernon), St. John (Uncasville), St. Joseph (Willimantic), Sacred Heart
                                                           (Norwichtown) and in 1993 he became pastor of Saint Matthias Parish in       Monsignor Donahue is survived by his brother, Joseph S. Donohue (Debbie
                                                           East Lyme, where he oversaw the design and construction of a new church      Burlingame), of Pawcatuck, and Christopher Donohue, of Westerly. He
                                                           that was first planned in 1988 to accommodate a growing congregation and     is also survived by his five nephews, John, Patrick (Erin), Sean (Kelly),
                                                           ensure the continuation of the Catholic community in the Flanders village    Timothy (Colleen), and Benjamin (Lauren), and his three nieces, Tricia
                                                           of East Lyme.                                                                Detterman (David), Anne Wang (Roger), and Emily Donohue (Tom Studt).

                                                                                               Sunday, February 6 at 10:30 a.m.
                                                                                                Cathedral of Saint Patrick                . Norwich

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Sister Mary Jude Lazarus, SCMC Receives
Willard M. McRae Community Diversity Award
 By Liberty Bank

A
       t     its      Corporate
       Headquarters,         on
       December 6th, Liberty
Bank presented Sister Mary Jude
Lazarus of Willimantic with the
Bank’s 2021 Willard M. McRae
Community Diversity Award.
Sister Mary Jude, who is the
Director of the Office for Hispanic
Ministry for the Diocese of
Norwich, received the award at a
presentation attended by Liberty
Bank teammates, Board members
and her friends and family.
 “In choosing the recipient of the
award, we look not just for people
who have given their time in service
to community organizations, but
for those who have made it their       First Row: Catina Caban Owen, Liberty Bank Foundation; Marie Hakmiller, Holy Family Home & Shelter; Sister Mary Jude
mission to promote diversity,          Lazarus, Sisters of Charity; Sheila Hauschild, Liberty Bank Willimantic Branch Operations Supervisor; Angela Smart, Liberty

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equity and inclusion,” said David      Bank Willimantic Branch Manager; Susan Johnson, CT State Representative; David Glidden, Liberty Bank President and CEO.
W. Glidden, President and CEO          Back Row: Father Larry LaPointe; Mark Gingras, Liberty Bank Board Chairman; and Father. Robert Washabaugh
of Liberty Bank. “Sister Mary Jude
                                       recognizing Sister Mary Jude, a           single day with the conviction that       but it gives us the opportunity to
has devoted her life to promoting
                                       group of Liberty Bank teammates           kindness, mercy and welcoming             publicly recognize someone like
and protecting human rights,
                                       volunteered at Holy Family Home           a stranger is the strength of our         her who shares our same values
seeking social justice and equal
                                       and Shelter on Friday, December           nation and our mission as human           and has done so much in the
opportunities for all.”
                                       10 and donated items to the Shelter       beings.”                                  communities where we operate.”
Introduced in 2001 as the Liberty      for its residents.                        Glidden reiterated those sentiments       Sister Mary Judeis the twenty-first
Bank      Community       Diversity
                                       Sister Mary Jude was nominated            in his own remarks, saying,               recipient of Liberty Bank’s Willard
Award, this award was renamed
                                       by Catina Caban Owen, Liberty             “Honoring Sister Mary Jude today          M. McRae Community Diversity
in 2009 in honor of Willard M.
                                       Bank Foundation director, who             not only puts an exclamation point        Award.
McRae, a past chairman and
                                       said, “She shows up in life every         on all that we’re doing at Liberty
board member of Liberty Bank.
It is designed to recognize an
individual who has been a leader
in the communities served by
Liberty Bank in connecting people
who are different—whether those
differences are of religion, race,
ethnicity, economic status, age, or
any other aspect of diversity.
As this year’s award recipient,
the Liberty Bank team is making
a $5,000 charitable donation to
a nonprofit organization of her
choice. She selected Holy Family
Home and Shelter in Willimantic.
                                                      ~ EB ~
As another way of giving back and                                                                                                                                                      9
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“Viva la Virgen de Guadalupe”

                                                           On Sunday, December 12, 2021, faithful from across our Diocese gathered at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick to celebrate The Annual Feast of
                                                           Our Lady of Guadalupe. Very Reverend Laurence LaPointe celebrated the Mass. Reverend Luis Henry Agudelo delivered a stirring Homily
                                                           bookended by the words “Viva la Virgen de Guadalupe!” Upbeat mariachi music and a beautiful rendition of “Ave Maria” were among the
                                                           many musical highlights. View the video of the celebration at NorwichDiocese.org/Masses.
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                                                             Experience
                                                             The Creamery Brook                                                                             CLERGY APPOINTMENTS
                                                             Difference                                                                                      The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the
                                                                                                                                                               following clergy and diocesan appointments in the Diocese of Norwich.
                                                             Call 860-779-8700 today for more
                                                             information or to schedule a                                                                  Reverend Lawrence J. Barile, newly ordained, to Parochial Vicar,
                                                             personal tour to experience the                                                                           Blessed Sacrament Parish-Rockville and Tolland.
                                                             Creamery Brook Difference for yourself.                                                                            Effective: December 17, 2021.

                                                                                                                                                           Reverend George Busto, from Parochial Vicar, Blessed Sacrament
                                                             Peace of mind. At Creamery Brook, we know there’s nothing else like it. With over 20 years
                                                                                                                                                             Parish- Rockville and Tolland, to Parochial Vicar, Our Lady Queen of
                                                             under our belts, our residents know they can sit back and relax – we’re here for them.                            Peace Parish-Coventry and Storrs.
                                                             From hanging their favorite pictures on the wall to weekly housekeeping, we take care of
                                                                                                                                                                                  Effective: January 10, 2022.
                                                             it all. When they want to socialize, we’ll give them interesting options while keeping them
                                                             safe. When they sleep at night they can rest easy with 24/7 security. Whether independent
                                                             or assisted living, we have the knowledgeable staff and record of integrity that puts their    Reverend Jeffrey Ellis, from Full-time Studies in Canon Law, to
                                                             minds, and their family’s minds, at ease each and every day.                                  Defender of the Bond for the Diocesan Tribunal and Parochial Vicar, Saint
                                                                                                                                                                  Michael Parish-Pawcatuck, North Stonington, Stonington.
                                                                                                                                                                                 Effective: January 10, 2022.
                                                                                                                    36 Vina Lane, Brooklyn, CT
                                                                                                                    www.piercecare.org                                 Reverend Peter Langevin, Chancellor
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Catholic Charities Achieves
             Re-accreditation
By Sally Velcofsky

T
      he team at Catholic             meet best practice standards.      industry standards and best
      Charities, Diocese of           Achieving re-accreditation was     practices; containing costs, and
      Norwich has achieved            not easy; it took the agency       practicing quality performance
national accreditation through        over a year to complete this       improvement.
the New York-based Council on         challenging process. During that
Accreditation (COA).                  time, COA reviewed all aspectsCatholic Charities offers Case
                                      of our agency.                Management/Emergency
A letter received from Jody                                         Basic Needs to New London,
Levinson-Johnson,      president So why get reaccredited?           Windham, Middlesex, and
and CEO of the Council                                              Tolland counties in Connecticut.
on     Accreditation       stated, Accreditation      demonstrates  Catholic Charities has been             To find out more about Catholic
“Congratulations! On behalf of Catholic Charities’ commitment providing services to individuals             Charities, visit ccfsn.org.
the Council on Accreditation to quality. Accreditation is and families since 1921.
(COA), I am delighted to inform regarded as one of the key
you that Catholic Charities, benchmarks for measuring

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Diocese of Norwich, Inc. has been the quality of an organization.
reaccredited.    Reaccreditation Preparing for re-accreditation
is a tremendous achievement allowed Catholic Charities to
                                                                           Catholic Charities, Providing
that demonstrates that your review and identify its strengths
organization is recognized as and areas for improvement
                                                                            Help & Creating Hope for
a provider that continues to across all aspects of our business
successfully implement high- and more importantly within                            100 Years!
performance standards and, as our client-facing program.
such, is delivering the highest Accreditation creates distinction
quality services to all of its among competition. Catholic
stakeholders.”                     Charities’ re-accreditation will
The Catholic Charities staff was      set the agency apart from other
thanked for their hard work,          social service providers when
dedication, and efforts over          competing for grant funding.
the last year. This achievement       It demonstrates the agency’s
demonstrates       the     staff ’s   commitment and dedication to
commitment to provide the             improving outcomes and safety
highest quality of care to those      for those they serve.
we serve.                      The most important reason
                                                                                  Visit ccfsn.org to
COA accreditation means that for Catholic Charities to retain
Catholic Charities’ programs, accreditation is that accreditation                 see how you can
services,      administration, drives continuous improvement.
and management have been Accreditation             demonstrates                   help a neighbor
                          and the agency’s commitment to
rigorously  evaluated
                               remaining     compliant       with                      in need
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CATHOLIC CHARITIES
                                                           CELEBRATES 100 YEARS
                                                           Providing Help and Creating Hope to Families
                                                           of All Faiths in Eastern Connecticut

                                                           Our History Continues ...
                                                           By Jacqueline Keller

                                                           2010                                                                                            The emergency food, clothing, shelter, heat,

                                                           Catholic Charities established a diocesan       2013                                            rent and utility assistance programs served
                                                                                                                                                           3,567 adults and children. Case management
                                                           connection with Catholic Legal Immigration      James Maffuid, LMFT, was named Executive        services provided help to 128 households.
                                                           Network, Inc., an entity established by         Director.                                       Some 935 individuals received 8,100 units
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                                                           the United States Conference of Catholic        Catholic Charities website was initiated with   of direct service from the Behavioral Health
                                                           Bishops.                                        Development Coordinator Anna DeBiasi            Program and 456 families were assisted with
                                                           New office space was dedicated June 3 in        coordinating the site.                          services from the Parenting Education and
                                                           New London. Bishop Cote blessed the new         The first Flames of Charity Gala was held at    Pregnancy Services programs. The Adoption
                                                           office. He gave commemorative plaques           the Mystic Marriott in Groton to increase       Program placed two babies in pre-adoptive
                                                           of appreciation to Mrs. Kay McGuire and         funding. It began with a silent auction,        homes, completed six adoption searches,
                                                           volunteers who served the needs of people       followed by dinner. Kevin Hogan, WFSB-TV        serving 127 persons through pre-and
                                                           coming to Catholic Charities in the early       New London Bureau Chief and parishioner         post-adoption        communication/adoption
                                                           years.                                          of Christ the King Church, Old Lyme, was        inquiries. The Immigration Assistance
                                                                                                           master of ceremonies. The first recognitions    Program provided consultation and legal
                                                                                                                                                           services for 50 foreign-born immigrants
                                                           2011                                            were awarded for service to Catholic
                                                                                                           Charities. The event raised $20,000.            or refugees wishing to become permanent
                                                           The Annual Employees Appreciation Day                                                           citizens of the U.S.
                                                           was held at Immaculata Retreat Center in
                                                           Willimantic.                                    2014                                            James Maffuid resigned as Executive
                                                                                                                                                           Director. Raymond P. Lamy served as Interim
                                                           Bishop Cote celebrated the noon Mass,           Middletown Christmas Open House took            Executive Director.
                                                           September 2.                                    place December 3.
                                                           The 2011 Catholic Charities Campaign                                                            2016
                                                           received $144,764 in gifts from 1,849 donors.   2015                            Edward J. Tessman, MS, was appointed
                                                                                               Second annual Flames of Charity Gala was Executive Director January 16.
                                                           2012                                held at the Mystic Marriott in Groton, with
                                                                                                                                           The 95th Annual Gala was held at the Mystic
                                                           Marek Kukulka resigned as Executive Kevin Hogan again master of ceremonies. Marriott in Groton April 9.
                                                           Director.                           The event raised $22,000.

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Ed Tessman, Catholic Charities,                  “Flames of Charity Gala” Master of Ceremonies, Kevin Hogan Anna DiBiasi, Development Coordinator and            Ken Capano, Board Member Emeritus
         Executive Director, 2016-2020.                                                                             Faith Chatterton, Emergency Basic Needs

Bishop Cote acknowledges Jaquelyn Keller’s establishment of the                                                                     James Maffuid, Catholic Charities Executive Director, 2013-2015, and the Most
Margaret L. Keller endowment.                                                                                                       Reverend Michael R. Cote, gratefully accept a very generous contribution from
                                                                                                                                    the proceeds of the annual layette fundraiser. Anne King, Norwich Diocesan

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                                                                                                                                    Council of Catholic Women presents the check along with Eva O’Connell, Saint
                                                                                                                                    Andrews Guild, Colchester.

 The Margaret L. Keller Catholic Charities                               the purchase of a van to collect food and                          of voluntary service, be awarded Emeritus
 Endowment Fund, maintained by the                                       other necessary items for distribution to                          status.
 Catholic Foundation of the Diocese of                                   people in need. Refrigerators and freezers                         The 2019 Gala was held at the Mystic
 Norwich, was established to provide                                     were purchased for each of the four offices.                       Yachting Center April 13.
 financial aid to single mothers to attend
 educational institutions and gain skills that                                                                       Catholic Charities sponsored a fundraiser by
 will ensure their ability to break the cycle of                         2018                                        ticket sales for a baseball game at Norwich’s
 dependence.                                                             The Council on Accreditation (COA) Dodd Stadium between the Connecticut
 Mr. Tessman began an extensive financial                                announced it had Accredited Catholic Tigers (Detroit Tigers) and the Lowell
 evaluation of the services offered by Catholic                          Charities Diocese of Norwich, Inc., Spinners (Boston Red Sox).
 Charities in relationship with social services                          after a detailed review and analysis of its The Annual Financial Report was presented
 offered by similar agencies. Since 2007,                                organization’s administrative operations at the December Board meeting. The
 when the Behavioral Health Program                                      – including financial practices – and its Board decided that Catholic Charities did
 began, other behavioral health programs                                 service delivery practices.                 not have the financial means to continue
 that focus strictly on mental health, some                                                                          the Behavioral Health program and it was
 with hospital affiliations, had come into                               2019                                        decided to close the program over the next
                                                                                                                     months while helping clients to transition to
 existence in a highly regulated environment.
                                                                         Bishop Cote recommended an Emeritus other behavioral health programs.
 An intensive annual analysis was prepared
                                                                         status for Board Members who had served
 for examination by the Board.
                                                                         with distinction and excellence over the
                                                                         years. The Board agreed and recommended
 2017                                                                    that Kenneth Capano, who recently
                                                                         resigned from the Board after several years
 A Walmart grant of $40,000 provided for
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Marriage
                                                       Enrichment
                                                      Celebrates the
                                                       Joy of Love
                                                              By Mary-Jo McLaughlin

                                                   F
                                                                   or Valentine’s Day this year,   Joy of Love.” Celebrate the joy of   practical insights from Pope             address, telephone number,
                                                                   give your spouse the gift of    your love by focusing on the most    Francis’ wisdom on marriage and          e-mail address and check made
                                                                   your time and re-energize       important person in your life –      family life.                             payable to Annual Catholic
                                                             your marriage by attending a          your spouse.                         This enrichment is for married           Appeal to Mary-Jo McLaughlin,
                                                             virtual marriage enrichment           The enrichment is based on           couples of all ages and years            Catholic Family Services, 199
                                                             entitled The Joy of Love from 10      Chapter 4 of Pope Francis’           married. It takes place online           Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360, or
                                                             a.m. to 2 p.m. on Saturday, Feb.      Amoris Laetitia: The Joy of Love     and requires participants to have        call her at 860-848-2237, Ext. 312
                                                             12.                                   and will feature four talks by       an internet connection. There is         or email her at mmclaughlin@
                                                             This enrichment will coincide         four couples about Daily Love,       a $15 fee that covers workbooks          norwichdiocese.net.
                                                             with National Marriage Week,          Conjugal Love, Passionate Love       for each couple. Registration and
                                                             celebrated Feb. 7-14, and its         and Transformation of Love.          payment are due by Feb. 1.
                                                             theme “Marriage: Called to the        It will deepen your faith with       To register, send your names,
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Outreach to Haiti Generously Helps
    Haitians Help Haitians for 35 Years

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By Gina Foster

W
            inter is upon us, and    Generous can be defined as    about their personal experiences    to a medical clinic, healthcare
            we hope you had          showing readiness to give morein Haiti, and Outreach to Haiti’s   services, a food and nutritional
            the opportunity to       of something, such as money orgreat progress over the years and   supplement      program,        an
 enjoy special holiday activities,                                 all their current good works. The
                                     time, than is strictly necessary                                  education sponsorship program,
 attend Christmas Mass, spend                                      Diocese of Norwich Outreach to
                                     or expected. We are so grateful                                   a parish twinning program, and
 time with friends and family and    for your generosity this year Haiti continues the important       to provide hospitality to visitors.
 enjoy Christmas traditions.         and your support of the Annualwork of helping Haitians help
                                     Catholic Appeal.              Haitians in the impoverished        The        diocese’s        35-year
 A fun family tradition of ours                                    neighborhood of Christ Roi,         commitment in Haiti continues
 is to play Santa Claus bingo on Recently, my daughter Lilly and I Port-au-Prince, Haiti.              to be an inspiration to the people
 Christmas night with my whole attended the anniversary dinner                                         of Haiti and to all of us. As Susan
 family. We laugh and enjoy each for our ACA supported ministry This ACA supported ministry            Wallace, the executive director,
 others’ company while sipping Outreach to Haiti to help it is working hard to put the                 said, “We are all God’s children
 coffee and hot cocoa. As the celebrate 35 years of helping finishing touches on its new               throughout the world and God
 holidays come to an end, I reflect Haitians help Haitians.        building, which replaces two        meant for us to help one another.
 on my friendships old and new,                                    buildings destroyed by the          We are thankful to the Diocese of
 and how appreciative I am to I had the opportunity to briefly 2010 earthquake. This new               Norwich for its commitment to
 have such a loving, generous and visit Haiti many years ago, and building will unite services         our brothers and sisters in Haiti.”
 healthy family.                    it was so wonderful to hear provided to give Haitians access
                                    firsthand from the honorees

         Donations of any amount are always gratefully received. May God bless you.
                        To donate or for more info, visit OutreachtoHaiti.org
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Called to say ‘yes’
                                                             Lawrence J. Barile Ordained to Holy Priesthood
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                                                           Article By Ryan Blessing
                                                           Photos by Catherine Hoffman

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                                                                   ocations do not fall out of the blue.          Another formative example of God’s grace that       bishop likened Barile’s ordination to how Mary
                                                                   “They arrive out of God’s grace, which         moved Barile toward the priesthood was his          was “enriched by God with gifts” that enabled her
                                                                   touches hearts and which we experience         grandfather, a man who, Barile remembers, would     to assume “this awesome role.”
                                                           through those whom God has placed in life’s path,”     always kiss the crucifix in the hallway of his      “Mary’s prompt ‘yes’ to the divine invitation is a
                                                           The Most Rev. Michael R. Cote, D.D. observed in        apartment every time he left home and upon his      model of faith for all believers,” Bishop Cote said.
                                                           his homily during Deacon Lawrence J. Barile’s          return.                                             “Mary believed God’s promises, even when they
                                                           ordination to the priesthood on Dec. 8, 2021.          “One can never underestimate the good examples      seemed utterly impossible.”
                                                           Using Barile’s own words, Bishop Cote noted that       in the early years of our faith,” Bishop Cote       Like Mary, Deacon Barile was called to voice his
                                                           the deacon’s parents provided an example to Barile     remarked. “They stay with us.”                      ‘yes,’ and to invite others into trust. To proclaim
                                                           and his siblings of the importance of helping others   The Ritual Mass for the Conferral of Holy           the good news of salvation, to heal, to forgive sin,
                                                           in their time of need. “‘These early lessons helped    Orders took place at the Cathedral of St. Patrick   to comfort and above all, bring hope.
                                                           me to realize that there is greater joy in giving of   in Norwich, with Bishop Cote as the ordaining       “What a marvelous ministry it is, to follow in the
                                                           one’s self,’” Bishop Cote quoted Barile.               celebrant. Drawing from the Gospel reading          footsteps of Christ,” Bishop Cote said.
                                                                                                                  on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception, the
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A gathering of invited congregants, fellow            “Relying on the help of the Lord God and our Savior    This was followed by the recitation of the prayer of
diocesan priests, and deacons were at the cathedral   Jesus Christ, we choose Lawrence John Barile, our      ordination.
to witness Barile’s ordination. The Mass also was     brother, for the Order of the Priesthood,” Bishop      Father Barile then was vested in the stole and
live-streamed.                                        Cote said.                                             chasuble by the Reverend Raymond D. Introvigne,
Among the attendees were members of Barile’s          All present stood and applauded to show their          Director of Spiritual Renewal Services.
family, including his sister, Sr. Karen Barile, who   consent.                                               Father Barile imparted his blessing on Bishop Cote
performed the first reading, and brother Steven       As the litany of supplication was chanted, the elect   and extended his blessing to members of his family.
and cousin James Barile.                              prostrated himself before the altar as all present,    After the ordination, the new priest gave his
The Rite of Ordination began with the Presentation    through the intercession of the saints, asked for      blessing to the invited guests, who waited in a line
of the Elect by Reverend Jonathan Ficara, the         God’s grace to be upon the new priest.                 inside the cathedral.
vocations director for the diocese. Father Ficara     Bishop Cote then laid his hands upon the head of
proclaimed that the elect was found worthy of         the elect. It was through this laying on of hands
priesthood.                                           that the sacrament of Holy Orders was conferred.
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Annual Tree Festival
                                                                                      Includes Two Diocesan Entries
                                                           By Andrea D. Hoisl

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                                                               t took nearly two years, a                                                                                                             acceptance, hope, equality, joy and
                                                               pandemic, global vaccinations                                                                                                          the tree’s theme, Room for All.
                                                               and follow-up booster shots,                                                                                                           The tree was designed by its
                                                           but the Festival of Trees 2021                                                                                                             founding member Dina Bienvenu,
                                                           took place at the Wadsworth                                                                                                                who also helped craft many of
                                                           Athenaeum in Hartford this                                                                                                                 the tree’s ornaments including a
                                                           December. Hallelujah!                                                                                                                      tri-heart tree topper and hand-
                                                           The Diocese of Norwich, through                                                                                                            knit tree skirt. The tree also had
                                                           the auspices of the Office of Faith                                                                                                        decoupaged recycled wood that
                                                           Events, entered two trees for this                                                                                                         included quotes such as, “There
                                                           year’s festival: The Nativity Tree and                                                                                                     is no greater disability in society
                                                           the One Heart Ministry Tree. After                                                                                                         than the inability to see a person as
                                                           attending the festival two years ago,                                                                                                      more,” by Robert M. Hensel, and
                                                           I was struck by the absence of any                                                                                                         the anonymous quote, “Labels are
                                                           religious trees. I thought entering                                                                                                        for jars not people.”
                                                           two religious-themed trees for this                                                                                                        We would like to thank everyone
                                                           year’s festival would be a positive      Andrea Hoisl, director of the Diocesan           The Nativity Tree stands in the Wadsworth        that contributed trees, ornaments,
                                                           way to infuse spirituality into the      Office of Faith Events, far right, stands next   Athenaeum’s Great Hall. It includes over 100     time and talent in helping to
                                                           secular celebration of Christmas.        to the One-Heart Ministry tree entered in        ornaments of the nativity, each donated or       make both trees so beautiful. It
                                                           Originally the trees were slated         the Festival of Trees 2021 at the Wadsworth      hand-crafted by people throughout the diocese.   was difficult donating them to the
                                                                                                    Athenaeum in Hartford. Joining her, left
                                                           for last year’s festival that was                                                                                                          festival after having them up in
                                                                                                    to right, are members of the One Heart
                                                           canceled because of Covid-19             Ministry group, Randy Bouley and Dina
                                                                                                                                                                                                      our office for nearly two years. Our
                                                           precautions. For those of us that                                                                                                          hope is that those purchasing the
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                                                                                                    Bienvenu.
                                                           attended this year’s festival, it was                                                                                                      trees will enjoy them as much as
                                                           well worth the wait. The variety                                                                                                           we did.
                                                           of trees and wreaths included in         Christmas evening.                               and was placed in the Athenaeum’s
                                                                                                                                                     Great Hall, which houses a large                 The Office of Faith Events will
                                                           the festival, all donated this year      The assortment included painted                                                                   participate again next year with an
                                                           by schools, agencies, companies          ornaments by local artists as well               collection of the Athenaeum’s most
                                                                                                                                                     famous religious artwork.                        entry of two trees. The theme for
                                                           and individuals, was a beautiful         as hand-crafted ornaments made                                                                    the Diocesan tree will be, “Angels
                                                           reminder of the joy of Christmas.        by past and present staff members                The One Heart Ministry Tree was a                Among Us,” which will include
                                                           The Nativity Tree is a five-foot         of the Diocesan Bishop Flanagan                  seven-foot tree donated by Randy                 different types of angels.
                                                           tree adorned with white lights           Ministry Center.                                 and Bruce Bouley, with ornaments
                                                                                                                                                     made by members of the One Heart                 The theme for the One Heart
                                                           and more than 100 ornaments              Lenox and crystal ornaments                                                                       Ministry Tree will be, “Reach
                                                           made and donated by parishes             as well as various hand-crafted                  Ministry. One Heart Ministry is
                                                                                                                                                     a diocesan initiative that works                 for the Stars.” It will include
                                                           and individuals from across the          ornaments that were either                                                                        different star ornaments made by
                                                           Diocese. Each ornament depicted          quilted, cross stitched, knit or                 as a partnership with people with
                                                                                                                                                     disabilities and their caregivers.               people with disabilities and their
                                                           the nativity scene with Jesus,           hand-sewn also adorned the tree.                                                                  caregivers. If you have a Christmas
                                                           Mary and Joseph in the stable on         It was a beautiful witness of faith              The group’s activities include
                                                                                                                                                     disability awareness programs and                tree or ornaments you would like
                                                                                                                                                     outreach that extends to schools                 to donate for next year’s festival,
                                                                                                                                                     and parishes in the diocese. The                 please contact our office at 860-

                                                                TELEVISION MASS                                                                      tree included more than 300 red                  848-2237, ext. 304.
                                                                                                                                                     heart lights as reminders that
                                                                                                                                                     love is the key to happiness and
                                                                                                                                                     success. The ornaments on the tree
                                                                                                                                                     included words like kindness, love,

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                                                                                                                                                        Love rejoices in seeing others grow and suffers when others are anguished,
                                                               Channel 11, WCCT • Channel 20, WTXX • Channel 59, WCTX                                   lonely, sick, homeless, despised or in need. Love makes the heart leap; it brings
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