1981-2021 YEARS and GROWING STRONG - Sudbury Women's Centre
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TABLE OF CONTENTS 4 Grow with Us 5 Messages from Sudbury Women’s Centre 6 THROUGH THE YEARS 12 - Community Contributions 14 - Building My Sister’s Closet 15 - Timeline 18 PROGRAMS 19 - Sisters Offering Support 20 - Collective Kitchen 21 - SWC Sewing Circle 22 - COVID-19 Basic Needs Support 24 EVENTS 26 - Angels on The Rock Gala 27 - Each for Equal Luncheon 28 - SWC at Sudbury Pride 29 A Message from Sudbury MPP Jamie West 30 STORIES 37 Messages of Support 38 With Gratitude 40 Years and Growing Strong 3
40 YEARS • 40 DAYS • $40 K MESSAGES FROM SWC Grow with us! In this incredibly special year, The Sudbury Women’s Centre is celebrating its 40th anniversary - a happy and important We take stock as we celebrate this milestone anniversary and recognize that our success and our growth over 40 years occasion for the organization. have been the result of contributions by many individuals, Sudbury Women’s Centre (SWC) provides support services to women This is an opportunity to honour the past, while also projecting partners, funders and supporters. We would not be where who have been impacted by difficult life situations. our future. we are today without the passion and investment of the people in our community! Our growth is indeed to be celebrated, but it also illustrates our responsibilities, now and in the future, to those that It is amazing to see how we started in 1981 with a handful hope and struggle for a better life. of women looking for support to where we are today. SWC clients regain their their commitment to growing indicating an increased need The amount of women that we have assisted throughout self-confidence and a better life for themselves. We among Sudbury women and Being a part of the SWC Board of Directors, the past 5 years the 40 years has been astonishing! address concerns through are celebrating to acknowledge families. has been a challenging and rewarding experience. It has been access to basic needs items, their efforts, and also to inform my honour to serve as Chair of the Board for the last four years Communities play an important role in every aspect of our lives. SWC has already raised peer support, and/or the community about the and a privilege to witness the growth of the organization. It is important for every person to have a sense of community. approximately $80,000, and our programming to make the life-changing aspects of the A strong community can greatly benefit families and goal for Phase 1 is $500,000. To I would like to take this opportunity to express my sincere most of their lives. Sudbury Women’s Centre. businesses in a variety of ways. Sudbury Women’s Centre plan to work together is what appreciation to our incredible staff who work tirelessly for provides that sense of community here in Sudbury; it is an SWC is proud to celebrate We are a part of Sudbury our community needs, and we our clients. As well, the Board of Directors for its commitment important place for many women in our community. 40 years in 2021! As part of the women’s lives, supporting them thank you for your contribution to mapping the Centre’s strategic direction. Together we will celebration, we have been to thrive! SWC is campaigning and involvement in supporting help clients thrive for years to come. They feel comfortable coming through our doors knowing promoting 40 Years, 40 Days, those who need it most. Our that whatever is happening outside they are safe here $40K. This commemorative to grow our capital and operational funds, and community needs your support. DANIELLE AUDET _______ • and we will make sure they are taken care of. book, 40 Years and Growing Strong, is one element of this sustainable support for the future. We have been Please grow with us! Chair _______ GIULIA CARPENTER • Sudbury Women’s Centre - Board of Directors 40/40/40 campaign. We hope considering a “hub” model for Executive Director Contact: you appreciate its contents, the benefit of clients shared Sudbury Women’s Centre and the care that went into its between our community GIULIA CARPENTER creation! agencies. We also recognize Executive Director Sudbury Women’s Centre We are grateful for this the need to continue to deliver 705-673-1916 ext. 103 opportunity to celebrate our highly accessed programs and gcarpenter@sudburywc.ca 40 years with past Members services to women in of the Centre, Board of our community. We want to Directors, Clients, Volunteers, offer a safe place to support ERIN MEDAKOVIC and Supporters. March 8th is women in their journey in Development Officer International Women’s Day, getting from where they are Sudbury Women’s Centre and this is the perfect time to now to where they want to be. 705-673-1916 ext. 104 celebrate the achievements of SWC has seen unprecedented erin@sudburywc.ca women in our community and growth in the last few years, 4 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 5
THROUGH THE YE AR S THROUGH THE YEARS ‘‘ It HELPS A LOT with hygiene and clothing that I cannot purchase at retail cost. Also with FAXING and using the COMPUTER. Everyone here is EXCELLENT! 1 2 7 8 ‘‘forI have been coming here 5+ YEARS and to my daughters and I, it is essential. WE LOVE THE PROGRAMS especially My Sister’s Closet. For a single mom, this is a TRUE BLESSING. 3 9 10 4 5 6 11 12 1 Celebrating 40 years of teamwork 2 SWC banner proudly displayed in the former centre 3 SWC 10th Anniversary celebration 4 Hi, come on in! 7 Together we stand 8 Standing up for pay equity 9 UNITY 10 SWC community joining together in song 11 SWC marching for justice Everyone is family at SWC 5 International Women’s Day 1992 6 40 years of women coming together 12 Take Back the Night March 6 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 7
THROUGH THE YE AR S THROUGH THE YE AR S ‘and‘ The staff treat us with respect are always kind to us on each visit. We are deeply grateful for the food drive. GOD BLESS THE CENTRE. 13 14 19 20 15 16 3 21 22 23 ‘‘ THE WOMEN’S CENTRE SAVED MY SANITY. I suffered a traumatic experience in 2017. A friend told me about this cool place for women and this place has always made me feel like family! 17 18 24 13 Not even the cold will stop us! Women Standing Strong in Sudbury 14 In the spotlight - together 15 Celebrating 40 years of speaking up for 19 Getting together, nothing could be better! Women gathering for an event 20 Come in, we’re open! 21 SISTERS 22 Trails of Broken Hearts - A plea women! 16 You’re always welcome at our table 17 Women Helping Women - banner proudly displayed at the former SWC 18 Gathering to share for sufficient family support to government 23 Feminism is here to stay! Rallying outside of what was once the “Funky Parrot”, 93 Durham Street a love of song - Women’s Choir 24 A woman’s place is in her union - 1990 8 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 9
THROUGH THE YE AR S THROUGH THE YE AR S ‘‘ MY GIRLS AND ME has HELPED The Sudbury Women’s Centre immensely by providing us monthly personal hygiene products. WE WERE ALSO BLESSED to get clothing items, underwear, socks and slippers. 25 26 31 ‘‘ I was homeless and although the facility was by appointment only the Women’s Centre allowed me to look for clothes and shoes, because all I had was tattered and worn. I love how WELCOMING all the staff are and am looking forward to taking programming. 27 28 32 33 ‘‘ I’m a senior with lowered pension cooking FOR MYSELF AND A FRIEND. I love the closet! It helps a lot. I LOVE THIS PLACE. 29 30 34 35 There’s nothing sweeter than celebrating “us” except maybe cake! 26 All smiles outside the former SWC 27 Gathered to watch a tap dancing 25 31 Generous donations from these young ladies 32 SWC women march in support of Ontario Nurses Association (ONA) 33 SWC - A place to come performance at the Women in Science and Engineering event 28 Self-defense at SWC 29 Teamwork! SWC renovations 30 Media cameras setting together. Then, now, and always 34 Sharing is caring 35 ”Every Woman has a Sister” t-shirts on display up at Women’s March in Sudbury 10 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 11
THROUGH THE YE AR S THROUGH THE YE AR S COMMUNITY CONTRIBUTIONS These photos reflect some of the many generous contributions from our community. Whether they are cash or in-kind, these donations ensure that essential items are available for those who need them the most. Thanks to all of our donors – you are a big part of what makes our work possible! And a special thanks to our young donors for warming our hearts and helping families in our community! ‘‘ GREAT. ABSOLUTELY This Centre is When my family moved North, I got something for everyone for the winter plus toiletries. I hope that I will be able to give back someday so that other families can experience the warmth here. THANK YOU ALL FOR EVERYTHING. 1 2 8 9 ‘been very HELPFUL and has‘ THE SUDBURY WOMEN’S CENTRE wonderful to my family and I. Always responsive and ready to help. Thanks so much for being there. 3 4 5 10 11 6 7 12 13 14 1 Brighten’s community contribution 2 Community contribution with Giulia 3 Community contribution with Tracy 4 Our supporters make us feel 8 Through the support of our SWC community, we can! 9 Baby Diaper Donation 10 Community contribution with Tracy 11 Giulia accepting like we’ve won the jackpot! 5 Pharmacie Health Care Pharmacy’s donation makes us feel all bubbly inside! 6 Network Marketing Masterminds raises generous donation 12 Keeping warm with the support of the SWC! 13 GENEROSITY 14 Staff and students hold a gift $495 for SWC - Oct 2015 7 Iron Sirens donate to the SWC - August 2014 12 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 13
THROUGH THE YE AR S 202120112001199119811 BUILDING “MY SISTER’S CLOSET” These photos reflect the renovation of our community closet, also known as “My Sister’s Closet.” From humble beginnings, these renovations have made it what it is today – a full shopping experience without any of those pesky price tags! It is through the generous donations of SWC community members that we are able to provide this service to our clients. Thank you! THROUGH THE 1 2 YEARS ‘‘ My experience with the Women’s Centre has been amazing. This Timeline touches on significant periods within SWC’s forty-year history. We thank our student volunteers for their I have used the closet efforts in researching points for this Timeline. For SWC’s 50th celebration, we welcome additions to what we have here. MANY TIMES for clothing for Please direct submissions to: erin@sudburywc.ca myself and my children. I also come monthly to get hygiene products. 3 4 5 6 7 1Building My Sister’s Closet 2 Teamwork! 3 It’s painting time 4 Piece from My Sister’s Closet 5 Before renos 6 How it all started 7 Painting My Sister’s Closet 14 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 15
1994 119811991200120112021 Continued to work on the workplace harassment study 202120112001199119811 Started a meditation group Started a “Sharing and Caring” Circle 2000 1999 Engaged in the concepts of unity 58.9% of women aged 15 and older were part of the Canadian labour force and diversity UFCW Canada women members participate in the United Food and Commercial Workers Union “Women’s World March” in Ottawa and New York 1993 (UFCW Canada) holds its first “Independent Women’s Conference” Centre undertook a research study to stop 2001 workplace harassment The Canadian Human Rights Commission recommends to Parliament that Custody and Access workshop a proactive pay equity system be established so that employees proactively Centre undertook the recording of “Her Story” 1996 get equal pay, without needing to file a complaint to receive it The Canadian Human Rights Act was amended to prohibit discrimination on the grounds 2007 of sexual orientation Sheila Watt-Cloutier, the longtime Inuit leader, activist, and 1991 environmentalist was nominated for the 2007 Nobel Peace Prize SWC’s ten-year milestone had celebrations 1992 1995 2012 such as International Midwifery Day, Women’s Centres Day, and Volunteer Recognition Night Campaign to keep the Centre open Started three-year strategic plan, focusing on finance, 2010 Canada adopted the Beijing Declaration and program review, collaboration, education, and bigger building Bill 94 was introduced, which challenged the Women’s Health and Research Steering Committee’s Health minister Murray Elston’s recommendation the Platform for Action citizenship rights of niqab-wearing Muslim women that midwifery becomes a recognized part of the where we committed to Partners Calendar assessment on women’s health is completed health care system was finally implemented advance the goals of equality, development Sexual health nurse visits Labour support to OPSEU laboratory technicians Full Moon Dance and peace for all women Weekly legal clinics “Take Back the Night” March WENDO workshop and girls 2011 Community Action Coalition formed Received funding from Ontario 1988 Sudbury Coalition to End Violence Against Women Women’s Directorate Another move (Victoria Street) October became Women’s History Month Monthly newsletter created Bilingual pamphlet 1990 2013 “Soup’s On” Luncheon, made sweaters for Reached out to multicultural and First Nation Rebirth communities for representatives on the fashion show to support women in Africa SWC Board of Directors Ethnic potluck supper Participated in first “Walk Around the World” Participated in “Separate Paths,” an informative series on women’s rights during divorce Co-sponsored first intensive two-day self-defense workshop 2015 1986 Launched accounting, legal, 2020 Strike support to unionized workers at The Sudbury Star and counselling support services First free legal clinic SWC banner flies at Parliament Hill Volunteer base increased by 15% Kamala Harris has become the first woman and first Published resource book, No More Roses: woman of colour to be elected Vice President of the Handbook for Battered Women in Sudbury Media presence developed to share SWC’s knowledge on women’s issues United States Strike support for clerical workers at Laurentian University 1987 2016 Successful “Each for Equal” Luncheon on International Women’s Day First women’s art exhibit organized Creation of SWC Calendar IODE Yardsale (portion of door sales went to SWC) Participated in Coalition mall set up with other Centre moved to Minto Street Event of the year: production of “Nellie’s Cabaret” women’s organizations within Sudbury Created a social media presence through facebook, twitter and LinkedIn Another event: “Words and Wine” Year of COVID-19, but we kept growing and Connected with Business students at Cambrian (Human Resources work) 1983 helping our clients to the best of our ability Fashion show at Art Gallery Created more partnerships within the community Lobbied for abortion rights and rights of women, in general 1984 Refreshed the Centre with colour from Barrydowne Paint based on current needs Speaker Bureau created to discuss topics such as New funding during COVID-19: sexual harassment, pro choice, and pay equity Conferences for teens and teen moms - United Way Emergency Grants - Community Response (activities focused on families) funding for “Grocery Giveaway and Deliveries” SWC is the region’s largest feminist women’s organization (directly to client’s home during lockdown) Co-sponsored four-part series on wife battery 2018 - United Way (UWCNEO) Horizons for Seniors Program Pornography Action Group fought against pornography The overall goal of the Women’s Centre was to provide education and to funding, provided by the Government of Canada, for grocery delivery to Seniors advocate for women’s equality. In 1984 the Women’s Centre started to dream Ontario enacts laws providing leave for survivors - United Way (UWCNEO) ECSF funding for “Basic Needs about creating a Family Resource Centre to meet the needs of their families. of domestic violence Curbside Pickup.” The launch and oversight of “My 1981 In approximately 1988, the Playcentre/Joujoutheque of the Women’s Centre Website for Sudbury Women’s Centre went live Sister’s Closet - Online” by a temporary staff is another way the Centre has adapted through the pandemic 2017 rented the Ukrainian Cultural Centre basement. The two organizations Sudbury’s first Women’s Centre established decided to pool their resources and envisioned a centre that would house - RBC funding for the “Full Circle” (mask-making) Program, Increase in partnerships with other community partners where “Sewing Circle” participants and community both a Play Centre and a Daycare Centre. They approached the Ministry volunteers used their sewing skills to make masks for our Participated in International Women’s Week More than 5 million people globally participate in over of Community and Social Services for funding to purchase and renovate 380 Women’s Marches and rallies to call for a more “Collective Kitchen” Program began clients and others within the community. Our goal was Facilitated Laurentian University the existing Cultural Centre. The dream became reality in 1992 when les inclusive, equitable, and just society for all 300 masks and we ended up with 1,200. We shared the placements for student work resources familiales Jubilee Heritage Family Resources opened “My Sister’s Closet” provided 38,000 items surplus of youth masks with elementary schools in the its doors to the public. jhfr.ca/about/our-history/ The #MeToo movement – which seeks to raise awareness of clothing at no charge for our clients Centre’s surrounding area Host to Rape Crisis Centre of the longstanding and widespread prevalence of sexual - Second Harvest, partnered with Agriculture & Agri-Food harassment and assault, particularly in the workplace – 27,000 household items (such as sheets, blankets, Canada to offer emergency funding streams to support Created the Rosebud logo, symbolic of goes viral plates, glasses, utensils etc.) were given out at no cost registered charities and non-profits across Canada during COVID-19, directed $19,613.88 funding for 1982 women’s potential to grow and flower Moved locations in August (Beech Street) Centre was seeing 250-300 women per week “Grocery Giveaway” and “Food Basics Grocery Gift Card” Programs as part of our Basic Needs assistance Supported striking clerical workers Facilitated workshops on violence against women New “LGBTQ2S+” Support Group and - Sudbury Community Foundation ECSF funding to hire “Kin Guardianship” Support Group temporary Client Services Worker to assist clients in Joined NAC (National Action Committee Started section in newsletter to encourage women to accessing our services in a new reality, with COVID-19 on the Status of Women) express their voices through letter writing campaigns Grant from Sudbury Community Foundation safety precautions top of mind to create electronic client intake system Joined national movement during Sudbury’s first NOHFC funding for two internships: “Take Back the Night March” Ministry of Status of Women - Capital Grant Marketing and Finance 16 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 17
PROGR AMS PROGR AMS SISTERS OFFERING SUPPORT (S.O.S.) We’re all about women supporting women! Sisters Offering Support (S.O.S.) is a weekly drop-in and socialize program at the SWC. Women and their children enjoy recreational and social activities in a safe, fun, and welcoming environment. 1 2 3 ‘‘ Sudbury Women’s Centre has GREAT PROGRAMS to help with socialization CLOTHING 1 2 3 education and jobs . 4 ‘‘ My experience WITH THE WOMEN’S CENTRE is the staff are always welcoming and very nice. LOVE IT! Great Job! Keep up the good work! :) 4 5 6 7 5 6 1 Brushing up on our skills at the SWC paint social 2 Adopt-A-Family Gifts Underneath the Tree - Christmas 2018 3 Making dreamcatchers in 1 Beaded bracelets 2 Healing stones made at “get crafty” event – July 11, 2014 3 Nail polish art mugs 4 Movie night 5 S.O.S. event July 17, 2015 Sisters Offering Support (S.O.S) programming 4 Educating the public on SWC’s programs, services, and workshops 5 Educating the public on SWC’s 6 Pumpkin painting at SWC “Sew Eco” project 6 Brushing up on our skills at the SWC paint social 7 SWC clients participating in our programming 18 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 19
PROGR AMS PROGR AMS COLLECTIVE KITCHEN SWC SEWING CIRCLE What’s cooking this week? Collective Kitchen is a program where women get together Our clients are “sew” wonderful! Every Monday and Thursday, women are invited to participate in small sewing projects to encourage to cook healthy and economical meals they take home to share with their families. development and strengthening of both skills and relationships. Attendees enhance their creativity and sewing skills with support from a volunteer instructor and access to a large assortment of materials. 1 2 3 1 2 3 ‘‘ Sudbury Women’s Centre has amazing COMMUNITY PROGRAMS for FAMILIES and women in need. 4 5 6 ‘‘I am so grateful for this organization, and MY SISTER’S CLOSET clothing for my kids. 4 5 6 7 8 1 Collective Kitchen Baking 2 Collective Kitchen program October 2019 3 Cutting and Peeling at Collective Kitchen May 2018 4 The start of 1 A fun Sewing Circle purse 2 Making reusable pads, September 2017 3 Sewing Circle, July 2017 4 Sewing Machine Winner 2019 5 Pumpkins something good. 5 Caramel apples at Collective Kitchen 6 Collective Kitchen May 2018 6 Book pillowcases 7 A special bear 8 Sewing Circle, September 2017 20 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 21
PROGR AMS PROGR AMS COVID-19 BASIC NEEDS SUPPORT SWC’s Grocery Program was one way we helped our clients during the pandemic. Through various successful funding applications, the Centre was able to help clients with approximately $30,000 in groceries, grocery deliveries, and grocery gift cards in 2020 helping approx 600 families! 1 2 3 9 10 ‘‘ They help me with CLOTHES and FOOD. Also, this is a nice group, and I think this group is good for all women and families. 4 5 6 11 12 ‘‘ Sudbury Women’s Centre HAS BEEN THE BEST to help me with all my needs. Especially during COVID. 7 8 13 14 15 1 Baby necessities - Grocery Giveaway Day 2020 2 Grocery bags lined up - Grocery Giveaway Day 2020 3 Groceries in a reusable tote 9 Sami packing groceries 10 Group outside our centre 11 Packing groceries for Grocery Giveaway Day 12 Hailee packing groceries for Grocery 4 Sami and Hailee prepare outside the Centre 5 Sami and Mel – all smiles! 6 Grocery Giveaway Day 7 Our new normal...Zoom meetings! Giveaway Day 13 Grocery Giveaway Day bags 14 Hailee and Sami – all smiles and two thumbs up! 15 Preparing for our Grocery Giveaway in the 8 Sami and Spencer – two thumbs up! workshop room 22 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 23
E VENT S E VENT S 1 2 3 10 11 12 ‘‘ of support, journey IT’S BEEN A WONDERFUL inspiration and encouragement, HOPE for the future. And a sense of belonging to a loving community of love and family. 4 12 13 ‘‘SWC offers great friendly service for people who need help AT TIMES LIKE THIS. 5 6 7 14 15 8 9 16 17 18 1 MPP Jamie West stops by the Centre to visit 2 PEACE 3 Grilling for the girls - SWC Barbeque 4 Angels on the Rock Gala 5 Volunteers give more 10 Lisa, Giulia, Tracy at the YWCA Women of Distinction Awards 11 YWCA Women of Distinction Awards 12 Grilling for the girls - SWC Barbeque than just time, they give hope! 6 Under the B, we have the BEST volunteers at SWC! 7 Female accomplishment messages for IWD 8 Don’t forget outside of the Centre 13 Angels on the Rock Gala 14 IWD 2018 Women Wine Chocolate event 15 Celebrating International Women’s Day! to SMILE! 9 SWC celebrating volunteer week - 2019 16 YWCA Women of Distinction Awards 17 IWD 2018 Women Wine Chocolate event 18 The “Downtown Sudbury Witches Walk” was pure magic 24 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 25
E VENT S E VENT S INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY 2019 INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY 2020 Angels on the Rock Each for Equal Luncheon The Angels on the Rock Gala, held on International Women’s Day in 2019, raised over $22,000 for SWC. These photos reflect “Each for Equal” calls to action from SWC supporters in our community. Local artists, all within Ontario, volunteered their time to make all of this possible. We have to say, it rocked! From Board Members to Staff, Volunteers to Community Members, these photos taken by Helga at Helga Himer Photography show that although there is a way to go, we are in this together. Thanks to all who shared in this special day! ‘‘ The Women’s Centre has been great for my mental health. 1 1 2 2 3 4 3 4 5 ‘‘I’m on Old Age and getting small cheques. THIS REALLY HELPS OUT. 5 6 7 8 1 A few words 2 Giulia and Danielle – taking care of the details 3 In honour of International Women’s Day, we are celebrating female 1 Mayor Brian Bigger 2 Each for Equal 3 Mera, Gloria, and Olivia at the 2020 IWD Luncheon 4 SWC Board of Directors 5 40 years of respect for accomplishment! 4 All smiles at the 2019 Angels on the Rock Gala 5 A full house! women 6 40 years of women supporting women 7 Giulia and Tracy 8 Each for Equal 26 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 27
E VENT S SWC AT SUDBURY PRIDE A MESSAGE FROM MPP OF SUDBURY The Sudbury Women’s Centre takes great pride in community involvement, and is proud to show its support for Sudbury Pride year after year. Love is love, and we love our community! – JAMIE WEST – ‘‘ Sudbury Women Centre helps me in getting basic needs to keep me standing, and HELPS MY FAMILY ‘‘ I’m writing this on behalf of my mom, Beverly Holmes (Bev West), who regularly brought my sister and I to drawn because the people were nice. We knew each other’s children and could bring our children to the to meet some of their needs. Women’s Centre meetings when I was meetings. We would learn from each a kid. My mom described the Sudbury other and talk about issues.” I really appreciate every bit of it. Women’s Centre as “a place where As a way to exchange information Thank you. women could be strong; where we and respond to the needs of the wanted each other to be strong.” community, my mom, and friends like In those early days, not all the Joan Kuyek and Mercedes Steedman, meetings happened at one location. created a booklet called “Alternatives Meetings were often held at the to Hysteria”. It was about the size of homes of different members. Most a comic book. 15,000 copies were of my memories are of playing with printed and distributed to women other kids who came with their moms. across Sudbury. Three films, based We were a hodgepodge of different on the book, were also produced. ages, but we’d all play together until The booklet addressed topics such as one of the moms let us know it was hygiene products, poverty, nutrition, time to eat. harassment and physical and sexual _______ JAMIE WEST • The meals were always pot-luck; violence against women. My mom’s an experience that seems to happen section was usually about alcoholism MPP for Sudbury less and less often. One of the joys of and addictions (my grandfather was (Bev’s kid) pot-luck is that it’s essentially a way an alcoholic). She would read books to share with each other. To this day, from the library, and get pamphlets 1 2 3 I still believe that people tend to work from support groups. Then she’d better when they share a meal summarize and share the information together – probably even more so in their booklet. when everyone brings a part to share. My mom is very proud of those In hindsight, I’m fascinated that my booklets. She said, “Sometimes people mom found the time to participate at have strict ideas about what being a all. As an MPP, whenever I speak about feminist is. I think it’s about fairness – the need to eliminate poverty, or being treated equally. Education and income-inequality, I speak from a awareness are the key to that.” place of lived-experience. My mom My mom is in her 70’s now. When worked full-time at the Canadian I asked her about moving on, she said, Revenue Centre, we lived in “We always wanted each other to be geared-to-income housing, and strong. Good leadership should make we still lived under the poverty line. room for new leaders, and there were Recently, I asked, “How does a single strong leaders coming up. It was just mom, raising two kids and working time to move on. I always loved art, 4 5 full-time, find the time to volunteer?” so I enrolled at Cambrian; volunteered Her response was relatively simple: with LUMAC and the NLFB. Then, I 1 Show us your pride 2 SWC Pride at the Park 2018 3 Pride March Sudbury Pride 2018 4 SWC at Pride on the Park 2018 5 We take PRIDE in all “I liked to do volunteer work. I was started my own business.” that we do at SWC 28 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 29
S TORIES STORIES ‘‘ My healing began at the Sudbury Women’s Centre! In 2017, I had a very difficult year, I lost all my program for young children! How come I have never heard about this place? I’ve lived in Centre, and I am certain that the stranger who became my friend was one of God’s amazing angels worldly possessions including Sudbury for 60 years! I guess sent to Earth to help broken my mind! I was on a mad quest it took a major tragedy to spirits like myself! The courage it takes to share your story might be the very thing for a place to live when I met a become enlightened! Thank you to my friend, for total stranger. I was viewing her It is now 2020 and the Women’s introducing me to the Sudbury someone else needs to open their heart to hope. flat when suddenly, this lovely Centre is still a huge part of my Women’s Centre, and a very special - Unknown lady asked me “Are you ok?” life. When I find myself feeling thank you to all the staff and I burst into tears and briefly told blue, I visit the centre and volunteers who invest their time ‘‘ her why I was so upset. She magic happens! Their staff is and energy guiding women to a immediately made me feel at amazing and seem to breathe better, healthier, happier journey I was a member from 2004 to ease and began talking about life into my broken spirit. on this planet I call Boot Camp! 2009 and president from 2006 this amazing place that could to 2009. Under my presidency, possibly help me with ‘‘ we established My Sister’s my present situation. When I leave the centre, I feel serene, focused, and ready to tackle Closet to assist women, initially, to go to job interviews. It grew I began volunteering with the I met a lovely lady at the front any challenge this planet has to throw at me. to include children’s and men’s SWC in September 2018 as a desk who instantly made me clothing, as many women general program volunteer, feel at home. She went on to In 2017, my tragedy turned I recommend visiting the Sudbury had young male children most often coming in for explain the many programs into a happier journey that I Women’s Centre to all the women or teenagers. As someone S.O.S. nights. I have also they had to offer, including a did not think could be possible. out there who may be experiencing who has always been in volunteered with the sewing circle that met once a A lot of special human angels a difficult time, perhaps you may non-traditional female roles, Collective Kitchen program week, and a creative arts work at the Sudbury Women’s experience a miracle too! such as the first elected female for about one year. My Mayor of Greater Sudbury, experiences at the SWC have we have still a long way to go. been nothing but positive. One example is the gender I love being able to see wage gap that is still prevalent familiar faces week after and is not closing. Women must week and to connect with support each other so we close women and their families. the gap. It is unacceptable in Most importantly, I have this day and age to be this far been fortunate enough to behind. listen to countless stories Empowering change ‘‘ _______ MARIANNE MATICHUK • about the clients’ triumphs and struggles. I have learned Before coming to the Women’s Centre, I had immensely about how one’s life circumstances can impact no sense of self or belonging. I didn’t know their ability to maintain good who was or how to be loving and respecting ‘‘ health, and how the amazing towards myself. There are many who are ‘‘ team at the SWC provides not as fortunate to have support to women and I was first introduced to the Women’s Centre I first heard of the Sudbury Women’s Centre families who are struggling. while I was completing a 28 day treatment a “happy family,” be it for when a business associate asked if I would Interacting with clients at the program. I was clean and sober but still very lost. food, clothing, and a come and help on the Board of Directors. SWC has fostered my interest loving partner. in women’s health and has I participated in a workshop called Empowering My wife and I had 52 good years of WHAT A made me consider pursuing Change which shifted my perspective and REWARDING all these. She has passed away, and a career in obstetrics and empowered me to protect myself. I have passed on her clothing to gynaecology. There is such experience! others less fortunate. a special bond that exists Once I went to the actual Centre, and between the SWC and participated in Self-Compassion, I felt my soul I am pleased the Sudbury Women’s I learned what a valuable resource the SWC its community members; Centre is there for them. open up. It happened to be the creation of was to so many in our community. I was so something I hope to provide inspired by the work done by the staff and for my future patients as a a toolkit which I still use and carry around with They come to you for comfort, volunteers of the centre. When I was no healthcare provider. me. I learned skills I needed to help me make longer available to sit on the board, I began You wipe away their tears. volunteering at bingo to help raise funds wholehearted decisions and to take care of that are needed for this work to continue. my whole wellbeing. _______ BARB YOUNG • As a client I was given support, strength, sisterhood, sense of self and belonging which has allowed me to grow. 30 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 31
S TORIES S TORIES To the Supporters of the Sudbury Women’s Centre ‘‘ Itolikesew,andplaygogames to the Women’s Centre to learn, get clothing, express compassion, ‘‘ There I was, a 44 year-old widow, with my husband dying unexpectedly, in debt with my leggings, dresses, pajamas... everything! I had art to sell, and started to volunteer and like bingo, warm my heart, and fulfill my soul, too! My family and I endured hardship, kids. At the beginning, everyone Self-Compassion and Collective house taxes and very confused, promote a local art and thrift lost all keepsakes and mementos sews like this. Just try your best, Kitchen are some of their other but determined. I worked as a store. I had a chance to wear my from my previous life in Hong use your heart with concentration good programs. cleaning lady and dishwasher beautiful clothes. I looked and Kong. This was a very painful time and it will be beautiful.” Thanks to The former Centre Director is to pay back my taxes. I had yard felt wonderful. I was even on the for me. Steph so much for her nice and a nice friend, caring for people sales and sold my art, and my news! As guests and customers friends rallied support to save came in, I could present myself I was struggling with being a skillful teaching. Learning to sew and always giving a warm smile. my house. Of course I miss my in such a classy and professional newcomer in a place, where is very important and helps the I felt comfortable around her and husband, but life is a lot more way. I was so confident about I had only a small family here and family to fix or alter clothing, knew she was all the time doing expensive with one person my appearance! no friends. When I first saw the so women can keep what they different kinds of work. She was instead of two. I was determined Centre, I was interested to open like. Sewing is also a way to working for the other young people I am now a personal care assistant to get healthier, and in the last the door and learn more. I learned reuse, which makes us more and teaching, all good things. and I couldn’t be happier with five years I have lost over a that there is programming for environmentally friendly. my job. At night, I slide into my good karma has come back To all the donators, thank you. Present Centre Director Giulia is hundred pounds. Taxes, food beautiful pajamas and my to me! Humans are most I am a working woman, unable also very nice and hardworking and shelter took all of my income wonderful nightgown. There comfortable around people to afford these things, but for the Centre. She teaches her (not to mention cat food) and is no way that I could afford to who present themselves now I can have these beautiful sons to be very polite. I wrote with my shoes wearing out, I have the beautiful wardrobe well. Thanks to the wonderful clothes that give me a song for her and the Centre, felt like a bag lady. Then, I found that I have now. All of my life donations, I can walk down confidence in my appearance. to share my appreciation and out about My Sister’s Closet. (when I can), I have been a the street proud of what I look God bless you, your donations encourage their hard and As I had lost so much weight, donator. In college, I used to like, and thus people are more are greatly appreciated! excellent work in empowering it was amazing to find shoes, gather old clothes, give them comfortable interacting with women. They also need support. Thank you! boots, and beautiful clothes. to my friends, and donate the me. I now have the confidence Thanks to Tracy, Erin, Kaylyn, I got a beautiful skirt, suit, rest. Twenty years later, my about what I look like. and all the other staff and volunteers. They are a nice family. They give a beautiful, women, like Sisters Offering In fact, it can be hard to learn to warm smile even when they are busy working. They are ‘‘ Support (S.O.S.) nights where sew but it is wonderful to have a ‘‘ children were welcome too. They good place to learn at the Centre. hard-working. The Women’s In June 2015 I was approached to be a have different kinds of clothing, Centre is a working, good To participate as A beautiful and nice former lady member of the new Board of Directors clothing for four seasons, shoes, organization. I enjoy and a board member at the Centre, Lisa, taught us of the Sudbury Women’s Centre. handbags, jewellery, coats, appreciate these friends, their different kinds of beautiful art that for the Sudbury scarves, hygiene items, and words, and programs like making It was so rewarding to work with a everyone, including little kids, can Women’s Centre more. But most importantly, the art and playing bingo. It is always great team of women to help move do. I always said to her, “you could was an honour. Centre gives women a lot of help full of people at the Centre, many the Centre forward to enable more open an art shop. Women come To contribute to and support that can release or times not enough room or chairs. women to get the support they need. here, learn a lot, and could open the Centre’s growth, reduce women’s anxiety, Many people come to the Centre. which will service • _______ CATHERINE MUIR depression, and stress. Through a decoration gift shop.” She was also nice and patient to teach us They need support, too. Without sharing their hard and difficult, supporters, we never can have Sudbury women in a how to do the crafts. Once we painful time to heal unhappiness, success. We see results and are ‘‘ diverse and inclusive had knitting coaching and yarn to they can have a happy, normal successful only when working environment, was a take home and knit for people at When I joined the SWC Board of than being a part of women life. It is hard to find a place like together to make Sudbury a Great privilege. the Centre. Overall, going to the Directors I thought I was the one supporting each other. For me this this Women’s Centre! Sudbury, not just the name. But Centre is a happy and great To empower women who was helping others. Little did was best illustrated in our S.O.S. Their Sewing Circle program is activity. Learning and sharing a real Great Sudbury! Hope more living in our community I realize that it was I who was going fashion show at the art gallery. very good. Steph is very good at cooking and sewing makes me support will help more people makes us richer. True to be helped. Every woman I met There was a vibe in that room that teaching and helping us learn feel like I belong, and even who need it, to brighten Sudbury! investment in women at the Centre, fellow board I haven’t experienced since. It was how to use the machine. She is makes me feel like a member I am making a donation to support creates a return that members, staff, volunteers and the belief that when we support very encouraging and helps make the Sudbury Women’s Centre and of this family. clients taught me valuable life women, we support ourselves. old clothes new and beautiful. give back to the community. flows through I enjoyed the tea, coffee and When I was not sewing too well, I hope it will help more women generations. lessons that I will carry within me. There is nothing more powerful • _______ ANGELE POITRAS she said, “practice makes perfect.” different snacks like fruitcakes and encourage more supporters. _______ LAURA HALLORAN • Then I said, “you are really good to have patience to teach us.” they served during S.O.S. They were very busy with this Thank you to all! Wishing everyone all the best everyday, to be safe, She said, “I always say this to my program every Wednesday. healthy, and happy in life! 32 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 33
S TORIES S TORIES Still Standing and Strong ‘‘ For me, being a member of the Board of Directors Self Compassion ‘‘ at the Sudbury Women’s rience violence, and the Centre (SWC) is personal. long-term impact these Since my involvement with the Sudbury Women’s Centre, I have grown in many ways through my It allows me to be an experiences have on not attendance in workshops and the many networking advocate for women’s only these women, but ‘‘ opportunities that came with it. rights and self-worth, their children, as well. I started out by looking for ways to improve knowledge and to let them know I have been a client of the Sudbury that I don’t have to be everything My goal would be to stop of overcoming abuse and the everlasting impact that they are never Women’s Centre for approximately to everybody at my own expense, the cycle and let women that it leaves on not only yourself, but the individuals alone in their journey. three years. During this time, I have that it’s not necessary for me to be immediately surrounding you. Taking these workshops know they deserve to be accessed the library, the computer blindly obedient to others. I have My voice on the Board provided me with tools to help manage and learn helps ensure the treated with dignity and lab, and made clothing purchases learned it’s okay to be kind to myself, healthier ways to deal with the impact of abuse, as SWC has adequate respect. I want to ensure at the closet. I have received peer and that looking after myself is not well as enhance my knowledge and ability to deal every woman in our support, and have also attended selfish. I’ve learned that I don’t have services and resources with current and past abusive situations. some of the special events put on to accept abusive treatment, and my that bring awareness to community knows about While my confidence grew, I wanted to learn more by the Women’s Centre, such as the mantra no longer has to be “Suck it the systemic issues fac- the services the SWC up, Buttercup.” about myself and why I would deal with certain annual Christmas celebration. I feel ing women who expe- has to offer and how to fortunate to have been able to make situations the way I did. As such, I felt a hunger to I am learning how to take care of access them. use of these resources. My greatest help others and it became a passion of mine. I just myself, both physically and needed to find a way to feed the urge. _______ • benefit however, has come from my participation in the Self Compassion emotionally. I’m learning to forgive myself for being imperfect. The I soon became part of an advisory group, with a NATALIE PARENT Workshops. I experienced a very workshops are teaching me how to bunch of wonderful women with similar stories. Due Current Board Member traumatic childhood, filled with accept myself. The effects from the to these similarities, I found a great sense of belonging. extreme abuse and neglect. As an years of abuse and neglect I We all had different thoughts and opinions on how to adult, I have endured two abusive experienced as a child and young come together as a group, which made us stronger relationships. Words cannot properly ‘‘ together. This led us to the first step of becoming a adult have been devastating to describe the positive impact that me, and the healing process will be team and working on our first project. Serving on the Sudbury Women’s Centre Board has been an attending the workshops has had on lengthy. It will take years for me to The project was coming up with a resource pamphlet honour. This small nonprofit fills a critical role in our me, after undergoing all of that. learn and practice the new life skills that would suit individuals dealing with a wide community for women and their children. What the SWC My participation in the Self I need to replace the survival skills variety of different crises in finding the right agency has done in 40 years, from tiny offices, with skeleton staff and Compassion Workshops began in I developed in the past. I’m hoping to call, all at your fingertips. Once the pamphlet was a shoestring budget, is nothing short of astonishing. unhealthy coping mechanisms the early summer of 2017. I was that someday I will be able to enjoy done, we had such a great feeling of accomplishment, I had developed as a child, trying The SWC team is now taking the agency to the next level, feeling very lost and unable to cope. my life, instead of just existing. both as individuals, and as a team. to survive my upbringing. and will one day soon, with the help of our community, By chance, I learned that the Women’s I am now beginning my third year provide more, desperately needed women’s services, from Centre was putting on a series of I was tired of living this life, and was of attending the Self Compassion As a woman who has been abused a new place...a new home. Self Compassion Workshops. Having secretly wishing that I would be Workshops, and my participation in every way, shape and form, being nowhere to turn to and desperate diagnosed with a terminal illness. continues to have a positive effect part of Sudbury Women’s Centre _______ GISÈLE GUÉNARD • for help, I decided to see if the I saw cancer as a way out that on my life. I am grateful for the wouldn’t create another reason for support provided by the workshops. has had a great impact in my life Current Board Member workshops might provide me with people to look down on me with I am very aware, however, that if the support I needed. At the time, in the most positive ways. I was quite literally exhausted from disgust and disapproval. On the day I was no longer able to attend, 60 years of always doing exactly that I attended my very first Self I would quickly revert to using many There is a starting point for everyone who has been Compassion Workshop I was afraid what I was told to do. I believed that of the unhealthy coping mechanisms victimized by any type of abuse. Finding your self- to be noticed, afraid to speak, afraid subservience was my purpose in life, that I learned as a child. I need worth is the greatest gift you can give yourself. of everyone around me. My greatest and the effort involved in continuing steady encouragement to help me The Sudbury Women’s Centre was a great starting point to live like that had become desire was to remain invisible. I felt avoid sliding backwards to where for me to begin my healing process. I have grown in unbearable. I had even taken my so exposed that I didn’t even want I was 3 years ago. I anticipate that my self-esteem as a woman of abuse and continue to obedient behavior to such an extreme to share my name. Thankfully, the I will continue to rely on the Self do so. I will always carry the wounds the abuse has left, that I was trying to always anticipate program facilitator allowed me to Compassion Workshops for several however, I will not let it consume my life. The more I what might be expected of me next, provide my first name only, which years to come. Attending the weekly educate myself, the better a person I become. I am now so that I could do whatever anybody gave me some semblance that I workshops provides me with a part of so many other agencies and boards within our wanted me to do before they had could remain anonymous. regular reminder that I am worth the community and I am happy that I took the first leap in to tell me. This was my way of trying Since I started attending the Self effort of this difficult and lengthy helping myself. I never thought I could have come this to avoid getting into trouble for not Compassion Workshops, I have healing process. It’s like I’m getting far, but, here I am stronger than ever. obeying quickly enough. Sadly, that learned life skills that I was not the gentle push from a loving parent Still Standing and Strong. is just one example of the many taught as a child. I have learned that I never knew as a child. This is the story of a Beautiful Woman, Mind, Body, and Soul. I thank you for giving me your time and hearing my voice. 34 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 35
S TORIES THANK YOU SUDBURY WOMEN’S CENTRE ‘‘ ‘‘ MESSAGES OF SUPPORT ‘‘ I started to volunteer at the I have been involved with the Sudbury Women’s Center in the Centre since 2018. I started off year 2009 to help women. I was as a client. I was homeless and going through such a horrible in need of a lot of help, as my time in my life, and I wanted to spouse and I were sleeping in help other women. our car. My social worker recommended ‘‘ Our first encounter was with their services, and now I’ve been Tracy, her smile was warm and a volunteer for 11 years... volunteering is my passion! I have been a volunteer with SWC On behalf of the Client Centered Governance team, we thank you Thank you to the hardworking and dedicated volunteers of the trusting. She put me on the right for supporting the Sudbury Women’s Centre. You are helping Sudbury Women’s Centre. The help and guidance that you bring track for finding shelter and Getting an award from the YWCA for about one year, providing support during S.O.S. nights. This women and families get through some of the most difficult times to so many women in our community cannot be measured. assisted with clothing, was a real honor, as helping allowed me to learn from and form in their lives and thrive! Miigwetch Merci Kiitos Thank you! Keep up the good work! blankets, and warm coats. women and girls LGBTQ+ connections with clients and their - GISELE GUENARD, CEO VISIONAREASE & ASSOCIATES - DEB SLYWCHUK, CO-OPERATORS I believe in the ladies at the community is my calling. Some women and girls face uncertain children. It is amazing to hear the Women’s Centre and have stories of how the SWC has helped gained many friendships. I am circumstances. It is important Congratulations to the Sudbury Women’s Centre on their 40th Thank you to the Sudbury Women’s Centre for being a place to call for action and be a voice women in the community. presently a volunteer at the Anniversary. Wishing you all the best as you continue to provide much of hope to so many in our community. Congratulations on making Centre, and have enjoyed the for those who can’t speak for My experience working with the needed support and services to the Women in our Community. a positive impact on the women and children of our community. many programs offered there - themselves, for example, if they community through SWC has - LISA BRAY, PRESENT SIMPLE - JASMINE FINDLAY MORTGAGES Collective Kitchen, S.O.S., first aid, have a disability and are in a taught me about the importance budget preparation, and I truly group home facing violence, of women supporting one another. or any uncertain situation. It is During one S.O.S. night activity, Congratulations on 40 years of Service to our community Jubilee would like to thank the Sudbury Women’s Centre enjoy Self Compassion as well as our call to fill those gaps to be the clients created worry stones. and for your valued contribution as a member of the for their community partnership while supporting our staff the Sewing Circle. I have grown a voice for them and give them I remember one of the women Greater Sudbury Coalition to End Violence Against Women. and families. and learned a lot about myself a new start to life. Let’s end sharing her life story with me, and - CEVAW - JUBILEE HERITAGE FAMILY RESOURCES since becoming involved with the Sudbury Women’s Centre violence against women and how she overcame so many barriers and the beautiful and empowering girls together! to get where she is today. She gave In celebration of 40 years of service, we want to The members of BPW Greater Sudbury are proud to women that work there. the stone she created which said congratulate and thank the Sudbury Women’s Centre support the Sudbury Women’s Centre and we appreciate “good life” to me, and I look at it for actively working to support women everything that is being done to help women in our daily as a reminder to be positive and advocate for social justice. community! Congratulations on your 40th anniversary. and continue to live a good life - YWCA SUDBURY - BUSINESS & PROFESSIONAL WOMEN - GREATER SUDBURY where I can help others. The resilience and strength exemplified by the clients is On behalf of Baker Tilly SNT, we are proud to support the Canadian Mental Health Association – Sudbury/Manitoulin inspiring. I am thankful that we Sudbury Women’s Centre and all that they do to make our is happy to support the hard work of our local Sudbury ‘‘ have services like SWC that can provide much needed support to women in the community! I became a board member with the Sudbury Women’s Centre in 1995/96. At the time, I was considering returning to school to complete my Masters in Social Work. I was interested in volunteering for an organization that provided referral and support services to women. The Sudbury community a better place. The support they give to women and families does not go unnoticed. We are so grateful to be a part of that. Thank you! - BAKER TILLY SNT Félicitations au Sudbury Women’s Centre pour 40 ans de service auprès des femmes du Grand Sudbury! Nous sommes fières de travailler en solidarité avec nos consœurs. Nous souhaitons bonne continuation à toute l’équipe du SWC et nous disons merci pour leurs efforts continus pour ressourcer et aiguiller les femmes en besoin. To our sister agency, sincere thanks and best wishes! - CENTRE VICTORIA POUR FEMMES The Women’s Centre offers support and a voice for those women in our community who have experienced domestic challenges. 40 Days, $40 K campaign. ‘ Women’s Centre. We congratulate them for 40 years of service, and wish them all the best in the 40 Years, ‘ - CANADIAN MENTAL HEALTH ASSOCIATION – SUDBURY/MANITOULIN When we were looking for our charity of choice, we called the Women’s Centre. During our first visit, we immediately connected with the staff. They make it their mission to support women to reclaim their self-worth which is an affirmation we can champion. We were particularly interested in supporting My Sister’s Closet as we felt that we could rally our community of mamas for gently used items. We hope to continue our partnership for many years to come. Congratulations ladies on 40 years of service to our community and a job well done! Women’s Centre focused on empowering and supporting women in the City Of Sudbury. I was - JUMP! THE BABY STORE A woman’s voice is her strength. It is only when a woman finds amazed at the work women can accomplish when everyone works together. I formed life long her voice can she truly take back her life. Giulia and the team friendships and I gained so much knowledge on the responsibility board members have. at the Women’s Centre plays a huge role in our community, _______ • offering a safe place for women to make changes in their lives. SHARON CLARKE - KAREN HOURTOVENKO, LIFE ZONE INC. 36 Sudbury Women’s Centre 40 Years and Growing Strong 37
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