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                                                                                                                    and having the opportunity to take part in the
                                                                                                                    decision-making and implementation process-
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   the spring, bigger and better than before. And
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   watch for an announcement about Christmas
                                                                                                                    es of programs and services to improve and                                                                     trees and poinsettias.
    Sharyn Grayson joining                             vices,” an AP Inc. press release noted.                      empower the lives of transgender women of                                                                                                       — David Taffet
                                                          According to the press release, Grayson                   color here, is my perfect dream job.”
    AP Inc. staff                                      began her transition in Dallas in 1964, later                    AP Inc. CEO Kirk Myers said the agency is
                                                       moving to Los Angeles where she started her                  “excited to have Ms. Grayson join our family at
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   Wichita Falls trans woman
                                                       career in the nonprofit sector and “committed                this exciting time of growth and development in                                                                running for Congress
                                                       her life to improving standards of healthcare,               our history. I am certain that Sharyn’s presence                                                                   Two Wichita Falls Republicans have an-
                                                       education and overall equality for the black                 will assist in elevating our transgender-focused                                                               nounced their candidacies for Texas’ District
                                                       LGBT community but most of all, for her fellow               initiatives to the forefront of our community,                                                                 13 seat in the U.S. House, and one of those
                                                       black transgender women.”                                    providing much needed benefits to local trans-                                                                 two is a transgender woman, according to
                                                          Grayson has received numerous awards and                  women of color.”                                                                                               TexomasHomepage.com. Monique Worthy
                                                       commendations through the years celebrating                                                    — Tammye Nash                                                                and Kevin McInturff have both said they will be
                                                       her pioneering work in the transgender move-                                                                                                                                running to replace Rep. Mac Thornberry, the
                                                       ment aimed at creating jobs, finding funding                                                                                                                                Republican who has held the seat for 24 years.
                                                       and finding other opportunities for organiza-
                                                                                                                    North Haven Gardens holding                                                                                        Worthy — whose campaign website includes
                                                       tions supporting equity and empowerment for                  ‘Survivor Sale’                                                                                                a plea for help in either raising the money to
                                                       the community.                                                  Our friends at North Haven Gardens are                                                                      pay the filing fee or to get the 500 signatures
                                                          In 1986, while living Oakland, Calif., Grayson            having a survivor sale, and you can help them                                                                  necessary to file without paying the fee — told
                                                       started her own consulting firm, the Nonprofit               recover. North Haven Gardens has been                                                                          TexomasHomepage.com that her campaign
                                                       & Consumer Services Network, which she                       digging through the rubble in the wake of the                                                                  slogan is “Make Congress Great Again,” and
                                                       currently operates on a limited basis out of                 Oct. 22 tornadoes, and a number of plants                                                                      that she is the “outspoken, openly conservative
       Abounding Prosperity Inc. announced Thurs-
                                                       her home office in Little Rock, Ark. Her client              and ornamental items survived. So, from 9                                                                      candidate the 13th district needs.” She said,
    day, Oct. 31, that “legendary advocate and
                                                       base has grown steadily through the years and                a.m.-3 p.m. on Nov. 8-10, they’re having a                                                                     “Black people are mostly Christian, and we
    community icon Sharyn Grayson” has joined
                                                       now stretches throughout the United States,                  sale.                                                                                                          mostly believe in things that the bible teaches.
    the API staff as director of development and
                                                       putting her in the small but prestigious group of               The sale is cash only with no holds or                                                                          Worthy also said she wants to make sure all
    transgender programs/services.
                                                       minority transgender women in the U.S. who                   deliveries.                                                                                                    immigrants that enter the country do so legally,
       “Affectionately known to hundreds in the
                                                       have owned and operated businesses for more                     The street, which was completely blocked                                                                    while adding that she doesn’t agree that immi-
    LGBTQ+ community as ‘G-Mama’ or ‘Auntie
                                                       than 10 years!                                               by downed power lines and trees following                                                                      grants are doing the job U.S. citizens won’t do.
    Sharyn,’ Ms. Grayson brings a wealth of knowl-
                                                          Grayson described her new job as a director               the tornadoes, is now cleared and open.                                                                        “I know plenty of Americans who will get out
    edge and experience that will serve AP Inc.
                                                       with Abounding Prosperity as “a tremendous                      North Haven is planning to rebuild its facili-                                                              there and work some construction and stuff like
    well as we continue to advance our community
                                                       opportunity and extremely humbling situation                 ties at 7700 Northaven Road, which were de-                                                                    that if you paid them the right dollar,” she said.
    through innovative programming and ser-
                                                       for me, personally. Dallas is my hometown …                  stroyed by the storm and hopes to be back in                                                                                                      — Tammye Nash

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                                               • Nov. 6: Estate Planning Seminar
                                               Kent C. Weimer, senior charitable
                                               advisor for Parkland Foundation, leads
                                                                                               • Nov. 10: Prime Timers
                                                                                               Games at 2 p.m. in Carrollton hosted by
                                                                                               Brian. Call 214-218-0912 for address and
                                                                                                                                               Help steer Oak Lawn development if
                                                                                                                                               you live or work in the area at 6:30 p.m.
                                                                                                                                               at Melrose Hotel, 3015 Oak Lawn Ave.
or Senior Staff Writer David Taffet at         a discussion on estate planning from            directions. chapters.theprimetimersww.
taffet@dallasvoice.com by Wednesday at         5:30-7 p.m. at Resource Center,                 com/dallasfortworth.                            • Nov. 12: Preston Hollow
5 p.m. for that week’s issue.                  5750 Cedar Springs Road.                                                                        Democrats Meeting
                                                                                               • Nov. 11: Creating Change Host                 Join the Preston Hollow Democrats
NOVEMBER                                       • Nov. 7: Brewing Up Business                   Committee Meeting                               in their monthly meeting, this month
• Nov. 1-2: De Los Muertos                     Develop new business relationships by           The Task Force needs volunteers to              featuring candidates for congressional
Verdigris Ensemble presents swirling           giving your 30-second elevator speech,          plan the January 15-19 Creating Change          and Local races; US House of
skirts, painted faces, decorated altars        exchange business cards and learn more          Conference in Dallas. Committees                Representatives, US Senate, and Dallas
and thoughtful remembrances in De Los          about this month’s sponsor at 8:30 a.m.         include fundraising, special events,            County Democratic Party Chair.
Muertos at 7 p.m. at Arts Mission Oak          at Crickles and Co., 4000 Cedar Springs         hospitality, recruitment. Dinner at             The meeting starts at 6:30 p.m. at
Cliff, 410 S. Windomere.                       Road Suite E. $10 in advance. $20 at the        7 p.m. and meeting from 7:30-9 p.m. at          Walnut Hill Recreation Center. For more
VerdigrisMusic.org.                            door. Free to LGBT Chamber members.             Resource Center, 5750 Cedar Springs             information visit ThePHD.org.
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• Nov. 2: Glory Holellujah                     • Nov. 7: Sequins & Saddles                     CreatingChange.org.                             • Nov. 12: Oak Lawn
Not your grandma’s gospel presented            Toast to Life mixer from 5:30-7 p.m. at                                                         Committee meeting
by the United Court of the Lone Star           Billy Can Can, 2386 Victory Park Lane.          • Nov. 12: Grief group                          Meetings of the organization that
Empire from 6-10 p.m. at Dallas Eagle,                                                         Grief group for persons who have lost a         weighs in on development in Oak Lawn
5740 Maple Ave. DallasCourt.org.               • Nov. 9: Family Zoo Day                        same-sex spouse meets the second and            are open to the public at 6:30 p.m. at
                                               The Dallas City Council’s LGBT Caucus           fourth Tuesdays each month from                 Melrose Hotel, 3015 Oak Lawn Ave.
• Nov. 5: Election Day                         — Adam Medrano, Omar Narvaez                    6:45-8 p.m. at Resource Center,
                                               and Chad West — present free tickets            5750 Cedar Springs Road.                        • Nov. 12: Prime Timers
• Nov. 5: Last Day to receive ballot           to the Dallas Zoo. They’ll have a table         For more information visit                      Dinner at 7 p.m. at Asian Mint,
by mail                                        at the front gate with tickets from             MyResourceCenter.org.                           11617 N. Central Expressway.
                                               9 a.m.-noon at Dallas Zoo,                                                                      chapters.theprimetimersww.com/
• Nov. 5: Prime Timers                         650 S. RL Thornton Freeway.                     • Nov. 9: Pathfinders                           dallasfortworth.
First Tuesday lunch at 11:30 a.m.                                                              Pathfinders group is a community
at Golden Corral, 3312 Forest Lane.            • Nov. 9: Prime Timers                          resource for trans masculine individuals        • Nov. 14: TPIF Grant Presentation
chapters.theprimetimersww.com/                 Brunch at 11 a.m. at Barbec’s,                  (including non-binary trans masculine           Texas Pride Impact Funds presents
dallasfortworth.                               8949 Garland Road. RSVP 214-218-0912.           people and binary trans men), age 18+           grants to three DFW recipients, free
                                                                                               in the North Texas/DFW area. Meets the          cocktails, hors d’oevres and free valet
• Nov. 5: Classic Chassis Car Club             • Nov. 9-11: Arboretum                          second Tuesday of every month from              from 6-8 p.m. in The Turtle Room,
LGBT car enthusiasts meet                      Complimentary admission for active              6:30-8 p.m. in the Oak Lawn Library             3525 Turtle Creek Blvd.
from 6:30-8:30 p.m. at Ojeda’s,                duty and retired military from 9 a.m.-          Auditorium, 4100 Cedar Springs Road.
4617 Maple Ave. For more information           5 p.m. at Dallas Arboretum and                                                                  • Nov. 14: DIFFA Wreath Collection
visit ClassicChassis.com.                      Botanical Garden, 8525 Garland Road.            • Nov. 9: Oak Lawn Committee                    The 24th annual DIFFA Wreath
                                                                                               meeting                                         Collection: Naughty+Nice silent

   Weekly: Lambda Weekly at 1 p.m. on          and Friday at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday            a walk or run at Oak Lawn Park, near the        details; LGBT Sex Addicts Anonymous
Sunday on 89.3 KNON-FM with David Taffet,      at 11:30 a.m. at Resource Center, 2701          intersection of Turtle Creek and Hall Street,   meets at 6 p.m. every Friday at 1919
Lerone Landis and the late Patti Fink. This    Reagan St.; Core Group Meeting every 1st        every Wednesday at 7:15 p.m. and every          Independence St., Room 19, Plano. 972-
week’s guest is counselor Candy Marcum;        and 3rd Tuesday of the month at 7 p.m.;         Saturday at 8:30 a.m.; Leadership Lambda        316-9188 for details; Leadership Lambda
Silver Pride Project Coffee and Convo for      Fuse game night every Monday evening            Toastmasters practices and develops             Toastmasters gay-identified Toastmasters
LGBTQ+ seniors meets Mondays from 11           except the last of the month at 8 p.m. at the   speaking and leadership skills from 6:30–8      group meets from 6:30-8 p.m. every
a.m.- 1 p.m. at Oak Lawn Library, 4100 Cedar   Fuse space in the 3918 Harry Hines Blvd.;       p.m. on Mondays at First Unitarian Church,      Monday at the First Unitarian Church, 4015
Springs Road, Tuesdays from 10 a.m.-1          FuseConnect every Wednesday from 7 p.m.         third floor of the Hallman Building, 4012       Normandy Road (does not meet on Mondays
p.m. at Grauwyler Park Branch Library, 2146    For more information call or e-mail Jalenzski   St. Andrews; Thrive, program of Resource        that are holidays); United Black Ellument
Gilford St. Wednesdays for Breakfast Club      at 214-760-9718 ext. 3 or Jalenzski@            Center for LGBTQ adults 50+ support group       hosts discussion on HIV/AIDS in the black
from 10 a.m.-noon at Reverchon Recreation      myresourcecenter.org; LGBT square dancing       every Monday from 11:30 a.m.-1 p.m.             community (UBE Connected) at 7 p.m.
Center, 3505 Maple Ave. and Thursdays for      group Pegasus Squares meets the second          followed by free lunch at Resource Center,      every fourth Tuesday of the month at 3918
Rainbow Rec from 10 am.-noon at Reverchon      and fourth Sunday from 2–4 p.m. at Grace        5750 Cedar Springs Road; Lambda AA              Harry Hines Blvd.; DVtv in Spayse, news
Recreation Center, 3505 Maple Ave.; Unwired    United Methodist Church, 4105 Junius St.        meets at noon, 6:30 p.m., 7:45 p.m. and         and entertainment discussion live streaming
Group of Crystal Meth Anonymous meets          For more info, email pegasussquares@            11 p.m. at St. Thomas the Apostle Church,       every Friday, 4–5 p.m., on the Spayse Station
Sunday at 5:30 p.m., Monday, Wednesday         gmail.com; Dallas Frontrunners meet for         6525 Inwood Road. Call 214-267-0222 for         YouTube channel.

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• Nov. 18: Stonewall Democrats                                   Center, 5750 Cedar Springs Road. Free.

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• Nov. 19: Stonewall Democrats
of Dallas
Largest Democratic club in Texas meets
at 6:30 p.m. at Mattito’s, 3102 Oak
Lawn Ave. For more information visit
StonewallDemocratsofDallas.org.
                                                                 • Nov. 21: GALA Happy Hour
                                                                 Free appetizers, game tables, for
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                                                                 from 5-8:30 p.m. at Henry’s,
                                                                 5741 Legacy Drive, Suite 100, Plano.
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                                                                                                             This year’s beneficiaries:             • Lambda Legal Defense and
                                                                                                                                                      Education Fund

Black Tie Dinner
                                                                                                             • AIDS Outreach Center                 • Legacy Counseling Center
                                                                                                             • AIDS Services of Dallas              • Northaven Church
                                                                                                             • Big Brothers Big Sisters Lone Star   • Planned Parenthood
                                                                                                             • Cathedral of Hope United             • Promise House
                                                                                                               Church of Christ                     • Rainbow Roundup
                                                                                                             • Celebration Community Church         • Resource Center
                                                                                                             • Equality Texas Foundation            • Trans Kids and Families of Texas
                                                                                                             • Human Rights Campaign                • Turtle Creek Chorale
                                                                                                               Foundation                           • Uptown Players

Kuchling Humanitarian Award                                                                                  said, noting that Mai-       for dancing together at the Village Sta-
recipient Don Maison won’t                                                                                   son has been on Black        tion.
be able to attend after                                                                                      Tie Dinner’s radar for          Maison will not be able to attend the
                                                                                                             years for everything         dinner because he is in rehab after re-
suffering stroke                                                                                             from his legal battles       cently suffering a stroke that left him
                                                                                                             to his work housing          partially paralyzed. He is expected to
DAVID TAFFET | Senior Staff Writer                                                                           people living with           make a full recovery, and those who
taffet@dallasvoice.com                                                                                       HIV.                         know and love him agree he’s too ornery
                                                                                                               At the time of his         not to fully recover.
                   mmy      and      Tony                                                                    retirement,    Maison           Maison said this week he is very hon-
                   Award-winner       Billy                                                                  was the longest-serv-        ored to receive the recognition he’s got-
                   Porter headlines this                                                                     ing CEO of an AIDS           ten this year from the city and the county
                   weekend’s Black Tie                                                                       organization in the          and now from Black Tie Dinner.
                   Dinner at the Sheraton                                                                    country.                        “Sorry I can’t be there,” Maison added.
                   Hotel in downtown                                                                           AIDS Services of           “Shit happens.”
                   Dallas. The sold-out                                                                      Dallas, a Black Tie             Robbins wished Maison a speedy re-
                   event is the largest                                                                      Dinner      beneficiary,     covery on behalf of the Black Tie board
seated dinner in the Southwest.                                                                              provides housing for         of directors.
   Porter, who originated the role of Lola
in the Broadway hit Kinky Boots and cur-                                                                                                                 Alphonso David
rently stars in the FX smash hit series
Pose, will receive the Elizabeth Birch                                                                                                                      Scheduled to speak at
Equality Award at Black Tie Dinner.                                                                                                                       the dinner on Saturday
   Porter has also appeared on Broadway                                                                                                                   night is Human Rights
in Miss Saigon and a revival of Grease. On                                                                                                                Campaign’s new presi-
film, he can be seen in First Wives Club                                                                                                                  dent, Alphonso David.
and The Broken Hearts Club, and he was                                                                                                                      David joined Lambda
recently announced as the fairy god-                                                                                                                      Legal as a litigation attor-
mother in the upcoming movie Cinder-                                                                                                                      ney in 2004, and he was
ella.                                                                                                                                                     appointed special advisor
   Black Tie Dinner Co-chair Nathan                                                                                                                       to the New York Division
Robbins said, “Billy Porter represents to                                                                                                                 for Human Rights in 2007.
me someone who’s made a bold stamp                                                                                                                        The following year, he was
for the LGBT community. He’s broken                                                                                                                       named special deputy at-
down barriers and shown how broad the                                                                                                                     torney general for civil
LGBT community is.”                                                                                                                                       rights cases in New York,
   Robbins called Porter a powerful fig-                                                                                                                  and Gov. Andrew Cuomo
ure, adding, “We’re glad to honor him                                                                        people living with           tapped him to fill the newly-created po-
for the work he’s done and continuing                                                                        HIV. Before Maison           sition of deputy secretary and counsel
to do.”                                                                                                      retired, ASD had just        for civil rights and later as chief counsel
                                                                                                             acquired        another      to the governor.
The Kuchling Award                                                                                           property that is being          David is the first person of color to
                                                                                                             renovated to become          head HRC. Earlier this week, he testi-
  Each year, Black Tie Dinner honors a                                                                       housing for people.          fied before the House Financial Services
member of the Dallas LGBT and allied                                                                           Before heading the         Committee’s Oversight and Investiga-
community with the Kuchling Humani-                                                                          AIDS service organi-         tions Subcommittee about anti-LGBT
tarian Award. This year’s honoree is Don                                                                     zation, Maison was a         discrimination in housing and lending,
Maison, a civil rights attorney and the                                                                      civil right attorney. In     including the attacks on transgender
recently-retired CEO of AIDS Services                                                                        his most famous civil        people by HUD Secretary Ben Carson.
Dallas.                                                                                                      rights case, he defend-         This will be the first dinner in Dallas
  “With his retirement this year, it was                                                                     ed men who were ar-          where David will speak. Robbins said
a perfect time to honor him,” Robbins         Billy Porter, top, Don Maison, above and Shea Diamond, right   rested in a police raid                              BLACK TIE, Page 18

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nance. The group has been demanding          years, Willis said, adding, “The city has
the changes for a year after a lesbian       always been and remains an equal op-
teacher was put on administrative leave      portunity employer.”
following a parent’s complaint she was          But the city’s current ordinance does
promoting the “homosexual agenda” by         not protect LGBTQ people, according to
showing photographs of her fiancé.           Rafael McDonnell, communications and
   That teacher, Stacy Bailey, sued and      advocacy manager for Resource Center.
was reinstated.                              That’s why he reached out to Everhart
   The Rev. Katie Hays of Galileo            this summer, requesting a meeting to
Church, who leads Mansfield Equali-          make the case for protections.
ty, told trustees the city recently added       She was happy to meet, he recalled, af-
similar protections.                         ter the city finished the budget process and
   Or so she thought, based on language      open enrollment ended for employees.
appearing on the city’s website.                He called Everhart in early October
   The city of Mansfield personnel direc-    but did not hear back. He did notice,
tor, Shelley Everhart, called Hays on the    however, that the requested language
following day, and disputed Hays’ state-     appeared on the website.
ment. The language had not changed,             “We were happy,” McDonnell said.
Everhart said.                               While the center does not have a
   According to Belinda Willis, the city’s   presence in Mansfield, he credits ac-
director of communications and market-       tivists in the city for taking the lead.
ing, the language was included on the        The situation worsened on Friday,
new website, which launched Oct. 17, in      Oct. 25, when the Mansfield Chamber
error.                                       of Commerce tweeted a link to a post
   “During the redesign of the website,      on the American Family Association
content for the Human Resource Depart-       website calling for a boycott of Target
ment that had not yet been approved or       because of its support of LGBT youth
finalized as policy was mistakenly add-      programs. The social conservative or-
ed to the HR department pages of the         ganization is designated as a hate group
website by the HR director. Once the         by The Southern Poverty Law Center
error was discovered the current poli-       for its anti-LGBT positions.
cy was placed onto the HR department                               MANSFIELD, Page 17

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With Billy Porter headlines Black Tie Dinner by David Taffet, Dallas Voice
Grapevine HS teacher                                                                     literacy. He started working at Grape-          them stoked and ready for the “huge”

fighting termination
                                                                                         vine High School as the oral interpre-          debate tournament Grapevine High was
                                                                                         tation teacher/coach and professional           hosting, beginning the next day. The stu-
                                                                                         communication instructor in August              dents, he said, weren’t prepared for the
                                                                                         2017, beginning with a team of eight            tournament, and he was trying to moti-
                                                                                         freshman that later became seven.               vate them.
                                                                                            “Those seven have been with me since           “I told them, ‘We’ve all been through
                                                                                         the beginning,” Hamilton said. “My first        this before, and you know you can do it. I
Josh Hamilton says district fired            district’s executive director of communi-   day at Grapevine High School was their          mean, look at me. You guys watched me
him for telling students he is gay           cations, provided Dallas Voice with this    first day there. They are juniors now.”         last year have the worst year of my life,
                                             written statement:                             Those seven plus one senior, the team        and you’ve seen me come out the other
                                                “To be clear, Mr. Hamilton’s sexual      captain, comprise the Grapevine High            side as a happy, functioning gay man.’
TAMMYE NASH | Managing Editor                orientation has absolutely nothing to do    School team that last year continued the          “It was a big hype session, and it
nash@dallasvoice.com                         with the reason Mr. Hamilton has been       school’s winning tradition by claiming          worked. They told, ‘Yeah Hamilton!
                                             proposed for termination. Mr. Hamilton      state and national championships. That,         You’re right!’”
              Fort Worth man who says        has been proposed for termination for       Hamilton said, is what he was hired to do.        Hamilton said he spent the afternoon
                he is being fired from       good cause due to violations of the dis-       “My very first day of training, the super-   on the phone with parents, working to
                  his position as a teach-   trict’s electronic communications policy,   intendent came in and asked what I was          secure the final details for the coming
                    er with the Grape-       violations of student privacy, failure to   teaching. I told him and he said, ‘Ooooh,       tournament. He also met with a couple
                     vine-Colleyville ISD    follow written directives, and violations   that’s a big program, a lot of pressure.’ He    of students who were, he said, strug-
                      because he is gay      of the Texas Educator’s Code of Ethics.     was telling me coming in that the expecta-      gling before finally leaving for home
                        has filed com-       In GCISD, we hold all employees to high     tion was ‘Coach these kids and win, just        about 5 p.m.
                         plaints with both   standards for their interactions with our   like we’ve done for years.’”                      “That was it,” he said. “A normal day.”
the EEOC and the Office of Civil Rights      most important people, our students.           But Hamilton’s place in that winning           But the next morning, about 6 a.m.,
challenging his firing.                      His conduct is not acceptable for an edu-   tradition ended in September, the day af-       Hamilton received a text from the GHS
  The Grapevine-Colleyville Indepen-         cator in GCISD.”                            ter he mentioned to his team that he was        principal, Dave Denning, asking him to
dent School District has denied Josh            Hamilton has a bachelor’s degree in      gay.                                            come to Denning’s office at 8. Hamil-
Hamilton’s claim that he is being fired      communications, a master’s degree in           It was a Thursday, and Hamilton was          ton said he assumed that he had missed
because he is gay. Kristin Snively, the      education and a Ph.D. in language and       giving his team a pep talk, trying to get       some detail. But when he walked in, he

10    dallasvoice.com   █   11.01.19
found himself facing not just Denning,                                                                                                     back together,” Hamilton said, adding
but two representatives from the dis-                                                                                                      that the HR representative expressed
trict’s HR office, too.                                                                                                                    concern about where he would go and
   “I was like, what the hell?” Hamilton                                                                                                   what he would do when he left the office,
said.                                                                                                                                      and that the principal offered to drive
   The three began questioning Hamilton                                                                                                    him home.
on whether he had taken the district’s train-                                                                                                 But Hamilton declined, telling the
ing on communications with students and                                                                                                    principal he would be ok to get home
texting, asking if he had ever texted stu-                                                                                                 and that he was going to turn his phone
dents and, when he said yes, asking which                                                                                                  off to give himself time to process what
students he had texted and why.                                                                                                            had happened. He gave the principal his
   Hamilton said he told them that it was                                                                                                  ex-wife’s phone number so they could
the eight students on his competition                                                                                                      reach him that way if necessary.
team that he texted about competition                                                                                                         Hamilton said Denning instructed
and debate information. “I traveled with                                                                                                   him to respond to the allegations in writ-
those kids. I spent 46 days and nights,                                                                                                    ing by the end of the day, something he
total, with them,” Hamilton said. “I was                                                                                                   found difficult to do because he wasn’t
their caregiver, the adult who looked af-       Josh Hamilton                                 know I’m gay?’ and she said, ‘Do they?’”     clear on what it was he did wrong, espe-
ter them. I took them to the doctor when                                                      Hamilton recalled. “I told her yes, sure     cially since they wouldn’t tell him what
they got sick; I held them when their           anything for them.”                           they do. Just like they know I was mar-      texts in particular were problematic.
mother died when they were out of town             Hamilton said he even handed over his      ried. Just like they know I have kids. And      Finding himself in “a pressure situa-
for a competition.                              phone and let the principal go through        immediately, the paperwork came out.”        tion,” Hamilton said, he wrote a state-
   “That was me, taking care of them.           all the texts before, about 45 minutes into      Hamilton said the HR representatives      ment in which he acknowledged having
They were like my own children. In              the meeting, he finally asked outright.       said he was under investigation for shar-    texted students, apologized for doing
fact, for every hour I spent with my own           “I said, what are we getting at here?      ing too much personal information with       so and pledged to be more circumspect
children, I spent six with those kids,” he      And the HR lady — I’ll never forget it        students and that he was on leave effec-     moving forward.
said. “I’m not talking about Little Suzy        — she says, ‘Have you told the kids any-      tive immediately.                               “I didn’t have an attorney then, and I
that I might see in class every other day.      thing about your personal life changes?’         “She tells me I’m on leave, and I just    didn’t think anything was really wrong.
These are my own children. I would do           I said, ‘Are you asking me if the kids        break. I start crying, and I can’t get it
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                                              Dallas couple starting nonprofit
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                                              nash@dallasvoice.com

                                                                  verybody needs some-
                                                                  where they can go and
                                                                  know they are among
                                                                  friends. Somewhere
                                                                  they know they can
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            Gender affirmation                family and friends and at work, I started     family to care for them as they age.
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                                              somewhere that they can be themselves         head said that he and Avenzino that
                                              and not be afraid,” he continued. “There      they raised the money to pay for it the
                                              is a need for housing for homeless LGBT       way they’ve raised all the organization’s
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                                                                                                 In my mind, they’d be like, ‘Hey, don’t        low written directives.”
                                                                                                 text the kids. Use this app instead.’ And         Hamilton said he immediately con-
                                                                                                 I would be back at work, no problem,”          tacted a friend, Seth Phillips, to be his
                                                                                                 he said.                                       attorney, and that he and his attorney
                                                                                                    Hamilton had also been directed not         just recently received copies of the texts
                                                                                                 to communicate with any of the Grape-          that apparently prompted his termina-
                                                                                                 vine High School faculty or any of the         tion. There were, he said, eight texts. In
                                                                                                 students while the situation was under         one instance, which Hamilton asked the
                                                                                                 investigation, unless he had a familial or     student to babysit, and when the student
                                                                                                 social relationship with that student and      asked why, Hamilton told him he had an
                                                                                                 the student’s family.                          appointment with a counselor. In anoth-
                                                                                                    The following Monday, Hamilton re-          er, Hamilton was explaining to the stu-
                                                                                                 ceived a text from the principal, Den-         dent that he and his wife were separat-
            Put your health in the hands                                                         ning, instructing him to be at the dis-
                                                                                                 trict’s HR office at 3:30 that day. “I still
                                                                                                                                                ing because Hamilton was gay. And in a
                                                                                                                                                third instance, Hamilton was discussing
                     of one of the most trusted physicians with
                                                                                                 wasn’t sweating it,” he said. “I figured if    a “problematic” team member with the
                                                                                                 there was something seriously wrong, I         team captain.
                                                                                                 would have gotten something from the              In addition to school officials having
                                                                                                 HR department. I figured I would get           “proposed [him] for termination,” giv-
                                                                                                 written up then sent back to work. I even      ing him 15 days to appeal, Hamilton said
                                                                                                 went dressed to go to Meet the Parent          the district also sent a notice to the Texas

                  Concierge Medicine                                                             Night afterwards.”
                                                                                                    He arrived early then at 3:30 was called
                                                                                                 in to the office. “Their first words were,
                                                                                                                                                Education Agency, although no state or
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                                                                                                                                                instance. As a result, he said, TEA has
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                                                                                                 no idea what had just happened.”               iation,” he said. “That’s why the EEOC
                                                                                                    Hamilton said when he asked to see          took our claim.”
                                                                                                 the texts in question, the HR represen-           Hamilton said that he and his attorney
                                                                                                 tative refused, saying they were protect-      filed complaints with the EEOC and the
                                                                                                 ing the student. Even when he pointed          ORC primarily on the basis of “lack of
                                                                                                 out that the texts were his own texts,         accommodation for mental health re-
                                                                                                 they refused. “I knew immediately that         quests,” because that even though he
                                                                                                 I would be getting an attorney, so when        asked Denning, the GHS principal, on
                                                                                                 they refused to show me the texts, I said,     three separate occasions to either reas-
                                                                                                 ‘Ok, then you’ll have to give them to my       sign him or provide him with help on
                                                                                                 attorney.’ And that’s when she stopped         an issue causing him problems, Denning
                                                                                                 talking. They took my keys; they took          did nothing.
                                                                                                 my badge, and they told me I was done.”           Hamilton said that the district re-
                                                                                                    Hamilton said that as far as he under-      ceived notice of those complaints on
                                                                                                 stood, the investigation was over, and         Monday, and that afternoon, he has been
                                                                                                 he was no longer an employee, which            told, Denning began calling his former
                                                                                                 meant directives about not communicat-         students into the office, “trying to dig up
                                                                                                 ing with students or faculty were no lon-      dirt on me.”
                                                                                                 ger applicable. So when the debate team           Hamilton said he intends to continue
                                                                                                 captain, the student that had babysat his      fighting what he sees as GCISD’s an-
                                                                                                 children, called him that night asking         ti-LGBT prejudice, and he adamantly
                                                                                                 what was wrong, Hamilton responded,            disputes the district’s claim that his sex-
                                                                                                 saying he didn’t know and giving the           ual orientation is not at the root of him
                                                                                                 student some instructions on wrapping          being fired.
                                                                                                 up loose ends from the debate tourna-             “We just won the state and national
                                                                                                 ment that had just taken place.                championships last year. The kids find
                                                                                                    Hamilton later discovered that was the      out I’m gay, and now I’m gone,” Ham-
                                                                                                 student whose parents had complained,          ilton said. “Thursday the kids heard the
                                                                                                 prompting the investigation, even              word ‘gay.’ Friday, I am on leave. Mon-
                                                                                                 though the student wasn’t aware. And it        day I am gone. For the district to say me
                                                                                                 was that communication that prompted           being gay has nothing to do with it is
                                                                                                 the charge against of him “failure to fol-     bullshit.”			                             █

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11.01.19   █   dallasvoice   15
Renoir in
                                      perspective
                                      The Kimbell Art Museum exhibit                                                                    nudes by Corot and Reubens, artists of
                                      focuses on the artist’s nudes by                                                                  an earlier generation whose work influ-
                                                                                                                                        enced Renoir’s earliest paintings.
                                      comparing and contrasting                                                                            Renoir grew up in Paris blocks from
                                                                                                                                        the Louvre. “Diana Leaving Her Bath”
                                      DAVID TAFFET | Senior Staff Writer                                                                by Francois Boucher, on loan from the
                                      taffet@dallasvoice.com                                                                            Louvre, is a painting that, Renoir said,
                                                                                                                                        “was the first painting that grabbed hold
                                                                         hat could                                                      of me, and I have continued to love it all
                                                                        the Kim-                                                        my life, as one does his first love.”
                                                                       bell     Art                                                        Next are works by Renoir’s friends
                                                                      Museum do                                                         and contemporaries, such as Degas and
                                                                     to follow its                                                      Cezanne, hung side by side with his can-
                                                                    blockbuster                                                         vasses. Similarities and how they influ-
                                                                   Monet exhibi-                                                        enced each other are evident, as are each
                                                                  tion that drew                                                        artist’s distinctive style.
                                      record attendance and unprecedented                                                                  Finally displayed are nudes by young-
                                      new memberships? Renoir.                                                                          er artists such as Matisse and Picasso
                                        But this exhibit isn’t just “same genre,                                                        who were fans of Renoir and influenced
                                      different artist.” This is an entirely differ-                                                    by him. One Renoir canvas, “Bather
                                      ent look at one facet of Renoir’s work.                                                           Seated in a Landscape, Called Eurydice,”
                                        The exhibit is entitled Renoir: The Body,                                                       was purchased by Picasso in 1920 and is
                                      The Senses. While the artist painted land-       larger and well defined.                         included in this exhibition on loan from
                                      scapes, cityscapes and family portraits,            Interesting about “The Bathers” is that       the Picasso Museum in Barcelona. It is
                                      this exhibit focuses on the woman’s              two nude women are lying in a field              one of seven Renoirs that were part of
                                      body, mostly nudes. Renoir was, Kimbell          painted in a very Impressionistic style.         Picasso’s personal collection.
                                      Art Museum Director Eric Lee said, “the          Three women are bathing in a pond be-               Another surprise in this exhibit are
                                      greatest painter of the nude of his time.”       hind them. Obviously, the scene is an            bronze sculptures by Renoir. Created
                                        The entry gallery includes the first           exterior. But maybe not. The front nude          with an assistant later in life when he was
                                      painting by Renoir accepted into the Sa-         lies on a pillow, and the women behind           stricken with arthritis, he directed every
                                      lon. In the next is the only nude by the         her props her up on her elbow leaning            stroke of the creations even if his hands
                                      artist entered in the Impressionist ex-          on something that blends into the land-          weren’t directly molding the bronze.
                                      hibitions. And in the final room hangs           scape.                                              A note about judging the beauty of the
                                      “The Bathers,” finished in 1919, the year           The main women in “The Bathers”               figures in Renoir’s works: While his mod-
                                      of Renoir’s death. George Shackelford,           were painted on a sofa in Renoir’s studio        els may have been thin, Renoir painted
                                      Kimbell deputy director and co-curator           while the exterior was from a different          his own idealized vision of beauty at that
                                      of the exhibit, called this work Renoir’s        view or maybe from memory. But the               time. Breasts were uniformly rounded
                                      masterpiece and a “glorious last move-           blending of interior and exterior in one         and firm. Heads were often smaller than
                                      ment of a symphony.”                             of his final, if not his last work, is a bril-   what might have been accurate and hips
                                        “The Bathers” also serves as an inter-         liant piece that I kept returning to during      were always wide.
                                      esting contrast to the previous Monet            my visit to the collection.                         On the hundredth anniversary of the
                                      exhibition, which focused on the last               While expecting comparisons between           artist’s death, we have a vision of what
                                      years of that artist’s life. With dimming        the recent Monet: The Late Years exhib-          beauty was a century ago and an exhibit
                                      eyesight, Monet’s canvasses got darker           it and Renoir, I kept finding contrasts.         that amazes and wows any lover of Im-
                                      and more abstract. Renoir’s “The Bath-           The Monet exhibit focused entirely on            pressionism.
                                      ers” was brighter. Shackelford describes         that artist. One Monet after another,               While the Monet exhibit was about a
                                      the color as “too saturated.”                    most from collections I’d never seen be-         lot of the Monet you wanted to see, this
                                        Although Renoir suffered from se-              fore. The current Renoir exhibition puts         exhibit is about a Renoir you didn’t ex-
                                      vere arthritis, an assistant would place         the artist in context. His nudes are jux-        pect to encounter. 		                    █

                                      a brush in his hand, and his movements           taposed with similar and contrasting                Renoir: The Body, The Senses on view at
                                      came from his arm rather than his fin-           works by other artists.                          the Kimbell Art Museum, 3333 Camp Bowie
                                      gers to produce nude figures are that               In the opening galleries of Renoir are        Blvd, Fort Worth through Jan. 26. $18.

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         SAFE, From Page 13                            MANSFIELD, From Page 9                                                                       a store or employees in the city, he said.
                                                                                                                                                       “It’s pretty likely some employees live
mit,” Whitehead said, Avenzino noted            The chamber’s Twitter account has                  crimination protections based on sexual          in Mansfield,” McDonnell said. “And
that “We will certainly be inclusive of      since been removed, but screenshots of                orientation, gender identity and expres-         there are companies not based in Mans-
introverts, especially with trans folk. We   the tweet shared with Dallas Voice verify             sion. When presenting cities with mate-          field but that have significance presence
want them to be comfortable living in        that it did appear. The post also appeared            rial about what the language should be           there, like Target, Starbucks and other
their true, authentic gender, to be com-     on the personal Facebook page of cham-                included, he includes materials from the         national retailers.”
fortable with who they are.”                 ber President and CEO Lori Williams. It               Human Rights Campaign’s Corporate                   McDonnell chided Mansfield’s elected
   And, Whitehead added, “We want            has also been removed from that site or               Equality Index, which rates companies            officials and chamber leader, who owe
to give them a chance to celebrate who       is at least no longer visible publicly there.         on a scale from 0 to 100 for their commit-       the public an explanation.
they are.”                                      McDonnell has worked with multiple                 ment to LGBT equality. The chamber’s                “There is something wrong in Mans-
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he expects to hear an incredible speech      ist and singer/songwriter, known for                                                     H
in which David will outline his vision for   her bluesy, soulful music and voice. In
HRC’s future.                                February 2019, she was nominated for                                                     a
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dinner will be African-American coun-
try music artist Mickey Guyton, an Ar-
                                             ing Music Artist.
                                                Diamond tells her powerful story
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lington, Texas native who was, in 2016,      through her music.                                                                       A
nominated as new female vocalist of the         “Many people have heard her sing,”                                                    D
year by the Academy of Country Music.        Robbins said. “I’m anxious to hear her                                                   P
   This year’s Visibility Award recipient    speech. It will be powerful to hear her                                                  C
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is Shea Diamond, a transgender activ-        tell her story in words.”
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                                                                                       will include actor Dyllón Burnside, who        B
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                                                                                       plays dancer Ricky Evangelista along           I
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                                                                                       NBC’s Peter Pan Live.
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                                                                                       to the stage as the luxury auctioneer.         S
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                                                                                       has appeared at Black Tie a number of          R
                                                                                       times and has been one of the most suc-        a
                                                                                       cessful live auctioneers in the history of     K
                                                                                       the annual event.                              S
                                                                                          “We’re excited as always to welcome         m
                                                                                       her back,” Robbins said. “She energizes        S
                                                                                       the audience. She’s inspiring and funny.”      B
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                                                                                       tioning from the stage are packages to         B
                                                                                       the Grammys and tickets to the Demo-           R
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                                                                                       Milwaukee.
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                                                                                       Tie Dinner will also present B4Black, a        f
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                                                                                       free event kicking off the weekend at the
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                                                                                       ish singer/songwriter Georgia Ku.              C
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                                                                                       vided by New York-based DJ Ty Sunder-
                                                                                       land.
                                                                                          Black Tie Dinner was founded in 1982
                                                                                       and the first dinner was held at the Fair-
                                                                                       mount Hotel and attended by 140 peo-
                                                                                       ple. That event raised $6,000 for HRC.
                                                                                          Since its inception, Black Tie has dis-
                                                                                       tributed $23 million to local beneficiaries
                                                                                       and HRC. About 50 dinners that benefit
                                                                                       HRC are held around the country, but
                                                                                       the Dallas dinner is the only one that
                                                                                       splits its proceeds between local groups
                                                                                       and the national organization.
                                                                                          This will be Robbins’ final year
                                                                                       co-chairing Black Tie. He said this was
                                                                                       the first time in a number of years that the
                                                                                       dinner completely sold out. He also said
                                                                                       to expect a surprise celebrity guest.      █

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