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Volume 4, Issue 6 May 2020 Tom Pietrogallo Poverello Tribute to BSO Deputy Better Business Bureau Shannon Bennett Helping Our Small Business Community Care Resource Stacy Ritter A Commitment to LGBTQ+ Healthcare Greater Fort Lauderdale CVB
TABLE OF CONTENTS Steven O. Evans, PhD Publisher and Editor in Chief OutClique@gmail.com Volume 4, Issue 6 | May 2020 Arthur Wood III Cover Story Associate Editor TOM PIETROGALLO Arthur.OutClique@gmail.com 44 POVERELLO Photo by Andrew Armano | www.AndyArmano.com Sach AD Group Director of Graphic Design 7 Travel Mike Ritzi Executive Director of Sales 11 Realtors & Brokers Cindy Curtis 22 Professional Services Irv Scott Sales Managers 50 Churches & Synagogues Connie Evans Chief Copyeditor and Mother of the Publisher 53 Health, Wellness & Fitness Tom (Tomcat) Pence Distribution Manager Rivendell Media National Advertising Gregg Shapiro Senior Entertainment Writer Denny Patterson Senior Lifestyle Writer Contributing Writers Andrew Armano, Rod Davis, Dr. Stephen Fallon, John M. Hayden, Marty Kiar, Dr. Chris Nelson, Kip Reynolds, Stacy Ritter, Patrick Rogers, Eric Noel Roman, Dr. David Webb Distribution Robby Wagenseil & Luis Eduardo, Miami-Dade A publication of OutClique, LLC (954) 998-6429 www.OutClique.com www.Facebook.com/OutClique OutClique@gmail.com OutClique, LLC is not responsible for statements or opinions expressed in advertisements or articles.
Change. Connect. Love. By Steven O. Evans, PhD C hange. That’s one of the scariest words in the English Photo by Michael Murphy Photographic language. But right now, we are all wanting just that, change. A change back to normal. But what is normal? What will normal be? Who would have thought that an airborne virus would have attacked our country and our world so quickly, putting everyone in the physical lockdown. The economic and emotional impact that this has created has been unprecedented. Unlike other pandemics in the past, our digital world has created connections that we have been almost forced to use. We are video conferencing each other. FaceTime™, Zoom™, Facebook Live™, HouseParty™, and so many others. Our digital world has exploded like we never expected. This is now our key to staying connected and to our source of information. I know many (all?) of us are frustrated, unsure, lonely, and maybe even angry. Our expectations of our government, relationships, religious beliefs, medical providers, careers, and maybe even ourselves, are all shaken to the core. I know I have taken much time to reflect on life and what is most important. I do know this. We were built for relationships. At the end of this “mess,” we as people were made for relationships. The current strain on our economy is only exacerbated by our continual and uncertain disconnect from those that mean the most to us. But this will end. Whatever the “new normal” will bring, our relationships can and will sustain us. If I have (re-)learned anything through this personally, it is this, “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.“ So, let happiness abound. Peace to each of you. Steven O. Evans, PhD Publisher & Editor in Chief OutClique.com | 5
WE TRULY ARE GREATER TOGETHER Photo Courtesy of Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau T ourism is the main economic driver in Greater Fort Lauderdale. More than 13 million people visit every year and spend over $8 billion during their visits. Those dollars ripple throughout the community, supporting as many as 180,000 local jobs. Visit Lauderdale, a.k.a. the Greater Fort We are working behind the scenes to Lauderdale Convention and Visitors Bureau connect first responders and other travelers (GFLCVB), develops and manages the categorized as essential lodgers with hotels marketing and promotion of our area as a that remain open throughout the pandemic. visitor and meetings destination. We were On our website and @VisitLauderdale social off to a great start for 2020 with our hotels media, you’ll find our “Eat Local” campaign reporting close to 90% occupancy in February, with lists of restaurants offering takeout, and then the spread of the COVID-19 became drive-thru, curbside, and delivery services. a global pandemic. The impact on the travel To stay engaged with future visitors, industry and the U.S. economy is already we’re also promoting the many virtual enormous, but we know that our tourism experiences offered by our area attractions industry, and our community, is resilient. and museums. This challenge will not define us. Until it is Our travel sales team has turned this safe to invite visitors to return, we all need challenging time period into a great online to support each other and remember that learning experience for kids that teaches even during times of social distancing, our them math, science, history, geography, award-winning Greater Together message of and more using locations and situations welcome applies right here in our community. throughout Greater Fort Lauderdale. Once For the time being the GFLCVB is focusing on they complete all the subjects, they several initiatives that allow us to celebrate become certified Visit Lauderdale Junior and support local businesses and at the same Ambassadors and are encouraged to invite time recognize the people who are emerging their friends and family members to visit as true local heroes. while they play tour guide. I invite you to join your kids for this engaging program found at Every one of you probably knows at least one www.Sunny.org/Junior-Ambassador. person who has done something selfless or amazing during the crisis. Maybe it's an When local, state, and national travel employer that is against all odds keeping industry partners agree it is safe, we’ll be so employees on the payroll, or someone who excited to extend our welcoming message has lost their job, but is volunteering to raise of diversity to visitors. Until then, stay safe, money to deliver food to those who are out be well, and remember, we truly are Greater of work, or someone helping to support our Together. medical workers. We invite you to submit their stories of courage and kindness at Sincerely, www.Sunny.org/Lauderdale-Heroes so we can Stacy Ritter share this news. President / CEO, GFLCVB 6 | OutClique.com
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THE JOY OF LENDING By Kip Reynolds L ending in the United States is happening, but it’s not the easiest process and can be very invasive, stressful, and often exhausting. Photo Courtesy of Kip Reynolds Any Realtor worth their salt should always ask you if you have your pre-qualification(s) or pre-approval letter. Don’t be surprised if a professional agent declines showing you property until you have this letter in hand. Be grateful you’ve aligned yourself with an experienced leader. To acquire this letter, you will need to submit Settlement statement from previous home a minor amount of information, so the lender sale, if applicable can get a general sense of your ability to repay the sum you require. A good lender will help Bear in mind that the above is very general. Some you to understand the fundamental difference loan programs have specific requirements. For between what you can afford and what you example, if you are a veteran you will need to should afford. They will clearly share the terms provide your certificate of eligibility in addition of the mortgages available to you for your to other specialized pieces of information. situation. The lender will collect all documents, review, and The proof is in the pudding, so be prepared provide another list of requested documents. for the standard repeated requests for Often the lender will request the same document information. In addition to things like valid many times. The best way to handle this little identification, some general information joy of lending is to be extremely organized. Use needed will be: the cloud to safely store these documents with clear file names so that you can easily Pay stubs for the last 30 days answer any request quickly without too much anxiety. Letters of Explanation (LOE), often Last two federal tax returns required to “source” funds, are another slightly invasive demand, but necessary and standard Last two W-2s practice, if you want to acquire a mortgage. Proof of any additional income A good realtor will coach you well in advance so you are prepared for these requests and Last two statements on all bank accounts requirements. Having someone in your corner that will help you understand the lay of the Statements for all investment and/or land will minimize many of the hurdles in the retirement accounts home buying process. Kip Reynolds, PA CRS Coldwell Banker Realty 901 E Las Olas Blvd., Ft Lauderdale Direct: 954-854-3048 | kipreynolds.com 12 | OutClique.com
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Photo Courtesy of Marty Kiar’s office 2020 SENIOR EXEMPTIONS R esidents who have applied for communication with our office can the 2020 Low-Income Senior be handled via email, fax, phone, or by Exemption, but have not yet USPS mail. Residents can email any provided the supporting income documentation directly to our Customer documentation, still have plenty of time Service Department at CSEmgmt@BCPA. to do so. Many residents have contacted net or fax to (954) 357-6188. If you prefer our office concerned about having the to mail your information, our mailing necessary paperwork in time as the IRS address is Broward County Property has extended the 2019 tax filing deadline. Appraiser, Attn: Customer Service, 115 Applicants have until September 18, S Andrews Avenue, Room # 111, Fort 2020 to provide our office with a copy of Lauderdale, FL 33301. their 2019 Income Tax Return Form 1040 or SSA-1099, as well as any additional Once it is safe to do so, our office will supporting documentation for their return to our regular schedule of visiting exemption application. communities to assist with filing for exemptions and answering any questions Our office will be mailing Senior residents may have. In the meantime, we Exemption receipts in mid-June to are always here to help. Please do not all residents who have completed hesitate to contact our office directly at their application along with income (954) 357-6830 or email me at verification. Any exemption applications MartyKiar@BCPA.net. approved after this mailing will show on the 2020 TRIM (proposed tax) Notice Take care, mailed by our office in August. During these uncertain times, all Marty Kiar, CFA Marty Kiar is the Broward County Property Appraiser and longtime advocate for LGBTQ equality. The Broward County Property Appraiser’s Office is located at 115 S Andrews Avenue, Room # 111, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33301 Follow our office at: facebook.com/MartyKiarBCPA and twitter.com/MartyKiarBCPA 16 | OutClique.com
RUNNING WITH RATS By Eric Noel Roman T he temperature is typical for a January evening, it is Saturday night, Sunday morning 2:00AM. I just finished working and am sitting in the Aventura Mall parking lot lacing my running shoes. I am the only car in the lot and there is a stillness everywhere. I have to run a minimum of ten miles tonight before bed. Not the safest time to be out running, luckily I chose an affluent area to hit the pavement. I have a goal, in three months I have to be prepared to run a 100 mile endurance race. Aventura mall has become a tourist scurrying alongside me. destination, filled with high-end shopping and opportunity to see a celebrity. Fancy high I finished one lap around and did not see the rises create a three mile circle using the mall eerie cat again. However, I managed to catch a as the main gate. Just behind the mall sits glimpse of what was causing all of the rustling Turnberry Isle Country Club and golf course. of the bushes. As soon as I noticed what was This city is beautiful, by day the hustle and running alongside me I could not help but bustle of commerce act as the heart beat of realize that this city has the same problems the city. At night, the city has many wonderful every city has. Rats, and quite a few of them. restaurants and social spaces to gather. The I have seen these rats all over Miami in the golf course has a walking path circling it past: buildings, homes, businesses, schools. measuring a whopping 2.8 miles. You name it they are there or have been there. This city is gorgeous. I began my run this late Rats, found in every aspect of life, no matter night looking around. To one side I have the how pretty things are, or how well things are lavish lifestyles of some of the more affluent kept. There is always a dark side to things. residents of South Florida. To my other side, Sometimes it is unavoidable to find yourself in I have the golf course sitting quietly, unlit, the dead center of their environment. It does seeming to hide something scary. not take much to run past these rats. Just put a bit more distance from you and them and As I ran along the path with Frank Sinatra in my keep running. Keep the focus on your goals and headphones playing quietly, I noticed a black you will finish with little to no issues. cat perched on a pole of the wooden fence watching me. A few hundred feet later I see That night I managed three laps. I finished at something scurrying along the same fence. I 4:00AM. Only to be nine and a half miles closer changed my running path from along the fence to my training for my 100 mile race. I paid no to the opposite side. I turned the volume down mind to the rats, stayed focused, and met my lower on my headphones and could hear things goal. Eric Noel Roman DJ, obstacle racer, motivational writer from North Miami Beach, living life one day at a time, and making a difference one person at a time. 20 | OutClique.com
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HOME IS WHERE THE HEROES ARE SEND US YOUR STORIES OF LOCAL HEROES W e know that part of the reason why we’re greater in Greater Fort Lauderdale is because of the heroes that call our community home. During these uncertain times, we’re relying on our local heroes more than ever. And while these selfless individuals go above and beyond for our residents without expecting any recognition, we cannot allow them to go unnoticed any longer. Their humility is a virtue, and that’s why we need your help identifying and celebrating our local heroes. The Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau is collecting these stories to share on social media @VisitLauderdale, the CVB website, and with the news media. For example, several local restaurant groups started the Hands for Hospitality (www.GoFundMe.com/F/Hands-For- HospitalityFTL) fund that is raising money going directly to hourly restaurant employees now out of work due to the shutdown of dining room service at local restaurants. What is a Hero? We think it’s a person who exceeds all expectations in order to help others. They’re doctors, nurses, and first responders. They’re bus drivers and airport and seaport workers. They’re restaurant and retail employees just to name a few. They’re our neighbors, our friends, and our family. So, join us in recognizing those who give us hope when we’re hopeless, courage when we’re afraid, and a much- needed reminder that home is where the heroes are. Heroes and heroic acts include, but are not limited to: People spreading kindness Businesses, individuals, or organizations Doctors providing for unemployed and furloughed Nurses workers First responders Hospitality workers going above and beyond County employees helping someone who is a first responder or Bus drivers staying in a hotel during the crisis Airport workers Groups or individuals creating something Seaport workers beautiful like art, music, or entertainment to Restaurant employees make people feel better Retail employees Someone who shopped for a person that Businesses donating to the healthcare is unable to leave their home – delivered industry groceries, picked up medications How to help: Share your nominations, stories, and photos so we can tell the stories of the people doing good in the community. If you have a story of a local hero that you’d like to share, please fill out a submission at www.Sunny.org/Partners/Industry-Updates/Submit-A-Local-Hero or email at GFLMarketing@Broward.org. 26 | OutClique.com
HELPING OUR SMALL BUSINESS COMMUNITY By Rod Davis CEO, BBB Serving Southeast Florida and the Caribbean S mall businesses are the heart of every Ways to Support Small Businesses community. Imagine your town or city Shop Now: If you are able to make a purchase without your favorite restuarant, gift now, contact your local business favorites shop, bar, spa, nursery, dentist, landscaper, and find out what options are available. Most etc. It would not be the same place. businesses are finding ways to continue to operate within the new social distancing According to research from Funding Circle, and safety precaution guidelines. Technology 52% of small businesses contribute to charity permits businesses to engage with and 90% of those dollars go to support local customers, collaborate and share pictures and charities. These same businesses also information whether using SKYPE®, Zoom®, sponsor local events, sports teams, and or other tools. Is it time to give your landscape other community gatherings. A study by Civic a refresh, repaint your home’s exterior, or Economics found that for every $100 you spend power wash your roof? Talk to your favorite with a local business, $68 are spent in our contractor, or request bids at: communities. Only $43 stays in the local market www.SEFlorida.App.BBB.org/Connect. when spending $100 with a national brand. Maybe you have been putting off a purchase Every day we see the negative impact on or know what you want to buy for a birthday employment due to COVID-19. According to or holiday present. Local businesses can the Small Business Administration, small use the revenue now and you will avoid businesses employ over 60 million people last minute buying down the road. Many and half of the non governmental workforce. restaurants and stores are also making gift These business owners employ people in our certificates available. Two national websites communities, live in our communities, and have been set up to help small businesses support our communities. It is time for us promote their services: www.Kabbage.com/ to support them for all they have done and HelpSmallBusiness and www.SupportLocal. continue to do for us. USAToday.com. If your favorite business is not OutClique.com | 31
currently on the site, you may want to reach Support Local Employees: out and encourage them to consider it as The local unemployment rate has increased another way to feature their great products, dramatically over the last few weeks. food, or services. While all industries have been hit hard, the hospitality sector, according to CNBC, has Restaurants and bars/breweries have adapted by far the largest number and percentage to provide food and growlers for pick up and/ of workers now unemployed. Local groups or delivery. Many restaurants offer delivery are creating funding campaigns to help. directly or through apps like GrubHub®, Miami-Dade and Broward Counties have Delivery Dudes®, or UberEats®. If you want GoFundMe® campaigns set up for workers to continue to enjoy dinner out at your favorite in the hospitality sectors:www.GoFundMe. restaurant after COVID-19 is no longer a health com/F/MiamiRestaurantEmployeeReliefFund threat, then we need to continue to support our and www.GoFundMe.com/F/Hands-For- local hospitality sector by picking it up, having HospitalityFTL. food delivered, or buying a gift certificate for future use. There are many other campaigns set up and operating throughout our area for people Creative Ways to Support Business: and groups negatively affected by COVID-19. Under our current Emergency Orders, some Always review any giving options to make sure businesses are unable to provide service to they are established for worthy causes and the public, but many are still hard at work going to those designated in the giving request for us. Letting other family and friends know before you share your hard earned money. how a business is continuing to operate in these trying times might be a lifeline to Supporting Our Front Line Heroes: keep them afloat. A short plug on your social Nurses, doctors, firemen, police officers, media pages with a recommendation might people working in our essential businesses, generate some much needed customers for and those supporting their work behind the the business. scenes are putting their lives on the line to keep our country and communities operating. We all have a few extra minutes on our hands Remember to share your gratitude with them since most of us are not commuting to and every day and in meaningful ways. Contact from work these days. Why not take a few government officials to ensure they have minutes to share a positive review about a needed supplies and equipment, contribute to favorite contractor, spa, dentist, or other local the charities supporting our local heroes, and business you have visited this year that did a send a thank you note or gift basket. A gift will great job for you? You can leave a review at show our appreciation and also help another www.BBB.org/Leave-A-Review. local business! OutClique.com | 33
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PINK SUB & CATERING AND FABSCOUT OUT AND PROVIDING MEALS FOR OUR COMMUNITY By Steven O. Evans, PhD Photo Courtesy of Michael Murphy Photographic T hese times of crisis have brought our community in this time of need. out some of the best in people. Dawn Holloway of Pink Sub & I have been onsite almost every time, Catering and Howard Andrew from FabScout and the joy that they express cannot be Entertainment have been working together described. I went by just this past week. to provide free, hot meals to our community. Their smiles (even behind the masks) Each week at various locations, they and made my day. their teams have distributed hundreds of hot meals. Drive by. No touch. No questions Dawn said, “It really is time to give back to asked. And maybe best of all, cheerful people who have taken care of us. The one smiles. thing we can do is feed people.” I’ve been in touch with Dawn and Howard The next give back (as of this writing) will about this project. They have been so be Friday and dedicated to Roy Rollins who excited about being able to just give back to recently passed. Contact Dawn or Howard on Facebook® about how to participate. OutClique.com | 39
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T TP his series focuses on individuals who We still have our food pantry open give to our community and make a and we are offering safe ways for positive impact on the lives of others. our clients to access nutritious food. Our Often it is through our personal adversities thrift store is closed and we rely heavily on that we discover who we are and transform the income from the thrift store to fund our the challenges into strength. programs, so it is difficult. Tom Pietrogallo, CEO of Poverello, sat with We have had some immediate support from us to talk about the good work Poverello is some of our existing relationships. AHF doing and about his journey personally and (AIDS Healthcare Foundation) has provided professionally. Poverello runs a wildly popular assistance. Target® has come through for thrift store which helps fund its programs, us, and we have looked for ways we can help including its food bank. Tom’s background others. Poverello has space in Pompano that as a social worker with an MBA makes him we realized United Way could use to help food especially qualified to lead Poverello. Tom’s delivery to Veterans. personal story and values are an inspiration, and it's OutClique’s honor to share his wisdom, resilience, and encouragement during the COVID-19 pandemic. AA career? Have you been working with people affected by HIV/AIDS your whole Andrew Armano: As we speak, we are in the midst of the COVID-19 pandemic. All but essential businesses are closed. We are under TP Basically, yes. Before I was at Poverello, I was working at Care Resource, but all the way back in the beginning a “safer at home” guideline. Every aspect of our of my career I was in child protection and many lives has been affected. There is uncertainty of the people I worked with had HIV/AIDS. about the future. Those of us of a certain age They were facing serious issues such as child lived through the worst of the AIDS crisis. custody arrangements or planning for their Are there insights or wisdom our generation kids after they were gone. Of course, as a gay can share with everyone now when we are all man, I also had my own thoughts about my facing this shared COVID-19 pandemic? mortality and future. So, the personal and the professional aspect of the crisis was difficult Tom Pietrogallo: We understand how rich a to navigate. single contribution to someone's life can be. We know what a difference someone who simply leaned into our lives made. Of course, we have to protect ourselves, but that doesn’t AA The face of HIV/AIDS is changing. How does Poverello adapt to meet the different needs of its constituents? mean we can’t find ways to lean in, to help. We have an advantage because we have lived through something that taught us lessons which can be applied now. We have a program TP We have to listen to the people who need our services. Just because I am HIV positive, doesn’t mean I have the same to help people in emergency situations, so life experiences or needs as someone else. individuals, even those who might not be our We have to see the world through their eyes: core constituents, can request assistance at How does it feel for someone to come into Intake@Poverello.org. the food pantry and ask for assistance with food? That's not an easy thing to do for a lot of AA How has the pandemic affected Poverello? people. We want to ensure their reaching out for help is not fraught with barriers and shame. OutClique.com | 45
AA What drew you to social work in the first place? you want to do. TP I was the little kid that was a mess on the playground because if someone AA Were you raised in a religious environment? was hitting someone else, I would cry. It bothered me. I've always had that sense of deep concern and care. It's been there since I TP Yeah. I was raised in an evangelical home. was a small, small kid. AA What was that like for you growing up with that? Some fundamental religions AA I sense you have a spirituality within that innate compassion you have. can be pretty conservative and moralistic. Would you say that is true? TP My family is very loving and accepting. I didn't really experience any of TP Yes. Even as a child I was drawn to the feeling that there is a God who cares about you and wants to have a relationship the judgmental culture until I got to a very conservative Christian college I attended, Grand Rapids Baptist College [now Cornerstone with you. University]. AA How do you nurture that connection? How do you prevent burn-out? AA Was that a big culture shock? TP When I need to take time to recharge from dealing with some really serious problems that people experience all the time, TP It really was. As a young kid, I guess I expected this was going to be kumbaya every day, but it really was something I have to find a way to let all that go. As a very different; a lot darker than that, to be sensitive person I have to do this. honest. For me, I think mainly because I didn't experience that growing up in it, growing up in AA I understand exactly what you're talking about because, actually, I'm like that, too. I noticed that you have a Masters my family and in my church. It didn't shake me to my core or it didn't deter me from faith. My faith came out of that unscathed. in Social Work and an MBA. That's quite an accomplishment! AA Yeah. I was raised to be careful when listening to anyone in a pulpit. TP Nobody really shows you in social work school how to create a yearly budget or how to manage the HR issues that you may It doesn't matter whether they're a spiritual guru, a church leader, a dean of a university, or a boss. The letter of the law that they are have. I did the weekend MBA up at FAU. It was passing down, I look at it to be sure it's fair, an amazing experience learning that aspect of that it's not self-serving, that it's not too rigid. what I think of as caring, the caring business. AA That brings us to the practical side of caring - the business administration. TP Right. Exactly. I agree with you wholeheartedly because the thing that resonates with me is thinking about It’s essential. loving God and then loving your neighbor. The point is to ask yourself how do you best do TP Without that you really aren't enabled to do all of the wonderful things that that? Well, from my perspective, you have to prepare yourself. You have to look at what the 46 | OutClique.com
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needs are. You have to respond appropriately. AA What has Poverello been able to accomplish recently that you are really excited to see come to fruition? TP We have embarked on a project to help people in our system who are not virally suppressed. We needed to help them navigate whatever difficulties that impacted their treatment. We just did our numbers from last year and we are at 90% viral suppression, up from 80%. We're very proud of that. AA That's fantastic. Poverello isn’t a healthcare provider. How did you achieve that? TP I'm very proud of what our team has been able to do. It's not just me sitting in this office that did it. It’s the people at the front at the food pantry who have shown compassion and a willingness to talk with our clients about something that a lot of people find really difficult to talk with others in a non threatening way. When an individual is ready for assistance, he or she then feels safe talking to our staff. AA That's really innovative. Circling back to where we started, the COVID-19 pandemic, you spend so much effort helping others. What can others do to help Poverello? TP We need funds. We need more volunteers that are willing to actually drive and do a no-touch delivery right now. If someone's sick at home with what might be this new virus, they still don't want to infect someone else. We really need people and we need resources. AA Thank you for all that you do for others. It's been inspirational to speak with you. TP Thank you for helping us get the word out about Poverello. 48 | OutClique.com
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ARE WE TAKING A TEST? By Rev. Patrick Rogers, MDiv. L et’s talk about the 2020 COVID-19 pandemic. Are you feeling anxious and restless from staying home and the need to isolate? Do you feel lonely? Do you miss your friends, co-workers, family, and your social circle? Do you feel depressed? Do you feel grief and loss from losing your daily routine? Are you worried about or have you lost your job? Do you miss celebrating Passover or Easter with your spiritual family? Are you an essential worker and undergoing risk and danger from being exposed to the virus? It can feel like the plagues we read about in today that this virus is punishment or a lesson the Old Testament. Yet the water in our Fort from God! How sad! Their theology has not Lauderdale canals haven’t turned to blood, the changed or evolved in the last fifty years since canals also aren’t filled with frogs or flies. But, I was a child myself. What should evolve is our Job’s story did include death and incredibly interpretation of Job’s challenges. challenging times. We can endure all things through strong faith! No The most impactful difference between the matter what the cause, or how bad the situation, time of Job’s plagues and the pandemic of 2020 love does prevail. Job’s love of God prevailed! is how the two different times in history can Just look at the outpour of love that has sprung be perceived by humankind. Many of us were forth regarding the challenges expressed in the taught growing up that Job’s story is about God first paragraph of this article. There are people testing Job’s faith. In the Bible, the plaques concerned about others who never had felt the were actually put on to Job by Satan, not God. So need to help others before. There are multiple often we have reconfigured the story to believe fundraisers for hospitality employees and others that God was intentionally testing Job. It wasn’t out of work. There is food being distributed and God, but it was Satan attempting to prove to meals cooked and given by people who care God that he could break Job’s will, dedication, about people. Being isolated has helped us and faith in God. A totally different story. realize the difference between being connected electronically and in person. A real hug will never We were erroneously taught in Sunday School be the same to me after enduring this pandemic. and by our preachers that God tests us, God’s I will never take that for granted again. I am not children. I don’t believe that God sits around diminishing the struggles and challenges still and is bored and takes a look at your or my life, occurring, but I do know that God is in our midst. and when things are going well decides to test you or me in order for us to prove our “faith” I don’t profess to have all the answers because and “dedication.” What loving parent would do who even knows what the future holds, but I do that to a child? I believe in God as patient, kind, know that my faith in God has always prevailed compassionate, loving, and forgiving! even when I questioned where God was or could not imagine any solution. I believe in God and Some modern-day preachers are professing that is not going to change! Rev. Patrick Rogers, MDiv. – Community Activist and Senior Pastor at United Church of Christ Fort Lauderdale Photo Courtesy of Rev. Patrick Rogers, MDiv. OutClique.com | 51
THAT DREAD YOU FEEL ISN’T COVID-19 By Stephen Fallon, PhD T here’s a hum of fear deep in your mind. Maybe you blame it on the relentless COVID-19 news coverage. The gap between ratings-pumping hysteria and the White House’s “nothing to see here” script doesn’t make you feel confident that the greatest nation has a handle on The Scream by Edvard Munch this pandemic. Compulsively checking the local tally of new COVID-19 cases every single day probably doesn’t make you feel calmer, either. Meanwhile, parades of faceless people in masks everywhere remind you of some apocalyptic movies. If you haven’t acquired COVID-19, and no one close to you has fallen dangerously ill, why are so many of us tossing and turning in bed, and feeling unmotivated all day? Uncertainty is unsettling. We don’t know when that somehow your body senses you’re going this outbreak will pass. New information about to be the next to fall ill? Actually, your mood coronavirus keeps revising what we thought is more a function of evolution than prophecy. was true just weeks before. Self-isolation triggers ancient alarm bells. Our Helplessness is unsettling.Unlike our bodies are screaming (through chemical ancestors, we’re not used to staying on alert imbalances), trying to get our attention, and for invisible enemies that can take people warn us to get back to the group, where we’re down in everyday life. When people die, it’s programmed to feel safest. As the classic supposed to make sense. Heart attack? His R&B song put it: “I’m so tired of being alone. diet was awful. Cancer? Everyone knew he I’m so tired of on my own.” smoked too much. Now we hear of people dying and no one knows why. Maybe the virus Mother Nature actually hard-wired into us an got onto the change they got back at the impulse to gather in close groups for safety. [1] For our ancestors, it was being alone that supermarket. Maybe the package delivery guy coughed. Maybe it was the hand-shaking at put you at risk, not being too close to people. church. Who knows? Alone, you could freeze to death outdoors, or die after a fall because no one was there to COVID-19 upsets our usual answer to the patch you up, or get killed by a predator or rival eternal question: “Why?” It upends our “just tribe. world belief,” the conviction that bad things only happen for predictable reasons. That faith Even today, Mother Nature gives us positive was never really justified; random tragedy reinforcement when we stay close to other happens. It was just a comforting myth, until humans. Partners and close friends who see it mocked its validity. Still, you’re pretty sure each other every day smooth out one another’s that you’re taking the best steps you can emotional spikes through an automatic, to keep yourself safe — maintaining social unnoticed chemical reaction called “limbic distance from other people, and wearing a regulation.”[2] After a loved one dies, surviving face mask when you rush through the store for spouses who maintain strong social circles provisions. So why do you still feel a gnawing double their own survival rates. Even having dread? Does your persistent anxiety mean a dog or a cat helps because all mammals 54 | OutClique.com
unconsciously transmit this emotional tether collapse created helpful coping tools. line to others.[3] Allow yourself to grieve. Denial doesn’t make On the other hand, if we’re alone too much, problems go away; they just fester. Allow we literally risk our health. Men who live alone yourself to note that this situation is crummy without close friends show higher levels and not fair. In your mind (or even on paper), tell of inflammatory chemical markers in their the COVID-19 all the ways that it’s messing bloodstream (C-reactive protein, interleukin-6, with your life. Then take a deep breath, and try and fibrinogen).[4] These chemicals make to reframe to happier thoughts. them feel anxious. Often, solitary men try to quiet the chemical alarms with excessive Celebrate better times. Concentration camp alcohol use and drugs. prisoners would build community and resiliency by describing in great detail the bountiful meals People who are partnered or married typically they’d once enjoyed together. Veterans in war outlive those who are single. Among the zones would fortify hopes for civilian life by elderly, the risk of premature death is three- sharing photos of their sweetheart back home. to-five times higher for those who live Families scraping by during the Depression alone.[5] All ages are impacted. When minor would gather around a last treasured item, diseases swept through orphanages in the seeing it as a talisman to a better future. 13th century[6] and again in the 1940s,[7] they didn’t just cause a few little ones to fall ill. Tell your body that things are normal. If you They wiped out huge numbers of infants who stay up all night binging Netflix®, and eat only shared just one common trait: they were the junk foods, you’ll throw your body on a roller ones not regularly cuddled and touched. coaster of chemical changes. Try to maintain your regular diet and sleep times. If you Loneliness isn’t “just” an emotion. When exercised in a gym, find ways to improvise at people feel a loss of a relationship, the part of home. Select take-out food or groceries that the brain that activates is the same part that are similar to your usual meals. You’ll keep lights up when the body is painfully injured.[8] your daily clock (known as circadian rhythms) Yet today, this innate security impulse for better aligned, and you’ll feel more yourself. grouping together is the very source of our risk of COVID-19. Our wiring hasn’t adapted. Can Even if we can’t be together during this lonely you rewrite these primitive scripts, so that time, you’re not alone in what you’re feeling. you can both stay safe and not feel awful? We’ll make it through these days of anxiety. Survivors of wars, famines, and economic This won’t last forever. Dr. Fallon is the Executive Director of Latinos Salud. www.LatinosSalud.org [1] Diamond J. Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fate of Human Societies. New York: W.W. Norton, 1997. [2] Money, J. Love and Sickness: The Science of Sex, Gender Difference, and Pair-Bonding. 1980, Baltimore: Johns Hopkins University Press. [3] Lewis, Thomas, et al. A General Theory of Love. New York: Random House, 2000. [4] AHA Scientific Sessions 2003: Abstract 3378. Presented Nov. 11, 2003. [5] Ornish D. Love and Survival: The Scientific Basis for the Healing Power of Intimacy. New York: Harper Collins, 1998. [6] Coulton G.G. St. Francis to Dante. London: David Nutt Press, 1906, p. 242-243. Cited in Lewis T, et al. A General Theory of Love. New York: Vintage Books, 2000, p. 68-69. [7] Spitz R. “Hospitalism: An Inquiry into the Genius of Psychiatric Conditions in Early Childhood.” Psychoanalytic Study of the Child 1945; I:53-74. [8] Eisenberger N, Lieberman M, and Williams K. “Does Rejection Hurt? An fMRI Study of Social Exclusion. Science, October 10, 2003, 302: 290-296. OutClique.com | 55
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WHAT HAPPENS AFTER A STROKE A lmost 800,000 Americans suffer impaired limbs and teach compensatory a stroke each year. Approximately strategies to lessen the impact of remaining two-thirds of them survive and need deficits. rehabilitation. Rehabilitation plays a vital role in helping stroke victims regain their ability to Occupational therapy is geared to helping take care of themselves and achieve the best patients relearn skills necessary for daily possible quality of life. living, such as getting dressed, combing hair, preparing meals, or doing housework. The types and degrees of disability experienced Occupational therapists may go to a patient’s after a stroke will depend on the area of the home and suggest ways to make it more brain that is damaged. In general, stroke can safe and accessible. For example, they may cause five different types of disabilities: recommend installing grab bars in the bathroom or removing rugs that could cause a fall. paralysis or difficulty controlling movement Speech therapy is done to re-educate stroke sensory problems patients about all aspects relating to speech, including how to speak, understand, read, write, trouble understanding or using language solve problems, and even swallow. Depending on the extent of the language problem, speech challenges with thinking or memory therapists can use pictures or demonstrate how to perform tasks several times or in a emotional disturbances different way to help the patient communicate. Rehabilitation usually begins within a day or two It is common for patients to become after the stroke. It may start with prompting depressed after having a stroke. Signs of the patient to change positions often while depression include sleep disturbances, change lying in bed and engaging in range-of-motion in eating patterns, fatigue, irritability, lethargy, exercises to strengthen limbs affected by the weight fluctuations, and social withdrawal. stroke. Therapy may then continue in inpatient Treating depression can include increased rehabilitation units (where the patient stays social activity, psychological counseling, or at the facility while undergoing therapy), antidepressant medications. outpatient units (where patients can spend several hours a day, but not stay overnight), The success of a rehabilitation program depends or home-based rehabilitation (where on patient cooperation and commitment. rehabilitation is done in the patient’s home). Although therapy sessions may be scheduled several times a week, it is important to do Rehabilitation typically involves three kinds of therapeutic exercises every day. Because the therapy: physical, occupational, and speech. risk of having a stroke is higher for people Physical therapy is designed to help patients who have already had one, following a healthy deal with motor and sensory impairments. lifestyle is important. Stroke patients should Physical therapists work with patients to eat healthy, be as physically active as possible, improve strength, endurance, range-of-motion, control conditions that contribute to stroke or gait abnormalities, and sensory problems. They recurrent stroke such as high blood pressure, educate survivors how to regain use of stroke- and follow their doctor’s orders. Our physician referral service can provide a wealth of information about our doctors and help you make an appointment. Find a physician now 1-833-764-5452 or visit www.FloridaMedCtr.com for more information. OutClique.com | 59
A COMMITMENT TO LGBTQ+ HEALTHCARE MINDFUL AND COMMITTED TO HOLISTIC HEALTH By Care Resource C are Resource is a nonprofit, Federally Qualified Health Center (FQHC) with locations in Midtown Miami, Little Havana, Miami Beach, and Fort Lauderdale. Since its founding 35 years ago, Care Resource has shown dedication to LGBTQ+ healthcare and the health of South Florida’s underserved communities. The health center is continuously recognized as a leader in LGBTQ+ Healthcare Equality Index (HEI). Care Resource’s best practices in LGBTQ+ care include, but are not limited to: an Equal Employment Opportunity Policy to ensure non-discrimination in management practices and decisions, LGBTQ+ Patient Training for staff, and an LGBTQ-inclusive patient non- discrimination policy. Care Resource chats with one of their own, Robert Goubeaux, DO, Medical Director at Care Resource. In this short interview, Dr. Robert Goubeaux to join Care Resource. After learning about shares lessons and experiences gained from the center’s commitment to the community, working with the LGBTQ+ community. In his I decided to make the change. In April 2016, four years of service with Care Resource, he I accepted the position and began to serve has remained mindful of the overall health as Medical Director of the Miami Beach/ needs of LGBTQ+ patients. Midtown offices in November 2016. Care Resource: Tell us about your professional background. How did you find your way to Care Resource? CR When you first began to practice, what was the general understanding of LGBTQ+ healthcare? Robert Goubeaux, DO: I completed my family practice residency in 1997 and then I joined a group practice where I stayed for about RG At the time, it was still very taboo to speak of LGBTQ+ health issues; the environment for LGBTQ+ healthcare 19 years. During that time I was also the was not positive. Often, people who were Family Practice Program Director and it LGBTQ+ weren’t comfortable going into the just so happened that my chief resident at doctor’s office because they didn’t know the time was Dr. Sheryl Zayas who became whether they would be welcome. Back Care Resource’s Medical Director after she then, because of HIV, people were really graduated from residency! Dr. Zayas had discriminated against. Doctors refused to reached out to me several times to invite me see patients who had HIV and would make 60 | OutClique.com
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