The Parish Magazine St. Oswald's Church Croxley Green - of - April/May 2020
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Because of the Covid-19 virus pandemic, services and church events are suspended until further notice. Please see St Oswald's website stoswaldschurch.org.uk and Facebook page for announcements. St Oswald's Church, 17 Malvern Way, Croxley Green, Rickmansworth, Herts. WD3 3QL Contacts Vicar: Revd. Robert Riley-Braley tel:01923 332244 email: vicar@stoswaldschurch.org.uk Lay-Reader: Tony Barton tel: 01923 897256 email: tony.barton@stoswaldschurch.org.uk Lay-Reader: Magdalena Pletsch email: magdalena.pletsch@stoswaldschurch.org.uk Church Warden: Maurice Lisley email:maurice.lisley@stoswaldschurch.org.uk Church Warden: Steve Carpenter email: steve.carpenter@stoswaldschurch.org.uk Treasurer: Karen Pryse email:karen.pryse@stoswaldschurch.org.uk PCC Secretary: Brian Thomson email: secretary@stoswaldschurch.org.uk Hall Bookings: email hall-bookings@stoswaldschurch.org.uk General Enquiries email: info@stoswaldschurch.org.uk 2
Dear friends, We are certainly living in unprecedented times. Like you I am struggling to come to terms with daily developments and their implications and, as you can imagine, there has been a stream of communications from church authorities as to how we should respond to the Covid-19 pandemic. The Church of England has already instructed that all regular church services should be suspended and the latest Government directive is that churches should now remain completely closed. That doesn’t mean that the life of St. Oswald’s is in abeyance - our church is its people. However, it does mean that, as our Archbishops have said, we shall need to become a “different sort of church” in the coming months. I am writing this letter to begin to spell out what that might mean for us. In talking to people from the congregation and out and about in the village, I’ve observed a fair bit of understandable anxiety and some regrettable denial of the seriousness of the situation, but I have also been struck by a tremendous positive spirit, good humour and generosity. People I thought of as “on their own” have spoken of the support of good neighbours and that is most encouraging. MU p8, Marylebone Project visit p9, Hymn of the month p11, Blessed are the meek p13, Croxley Rambler p16, Bible readings and prayers p20, Memories of growing up in Croxley Green p23, Hope for the Future? p27, Eco-Tips p29, Intercessions p30, Poem p33, In Memory p34, Puzzles p35 3
The Parish Council have taken the excellent initiative of setting up a volunteer scheme to provide help to those who need it. I had initially thought to set up a scheme for church members but, bearing in mind the safeguarding and logistical issues, I would instead urge anyone in a position to do so to contact the Parish Council (email: info@croxleygreen-pc.gov.uk; tel: 01923 710250) and get involved with their scheme. Please do continue to support one another informally. If you or anyone you are aware of is sick or having to self-isolate, please let me know (332244) or, if I am unavailable, Tony Barton (897256), Margaret Cox (460183) or Lynn Williamson (442759). Because of the need to maintain social distance much of our ministry will need to be conducted by telephone or over the internet. On Sunday mornings, I am hoping to put out a short prayer service on Youtube. Please do check for announcements on the St Oswald's website and Facebook page, also my Rev Robert Facebook page – and repost if appropriate to spread the word. We are using our Churchsuite software to keep in touch with as many people as possible. If you are not already and would like to be included, please email Jane Brading (janebrading@hotmail.com). Radio and TV are a good source of worship opportunities. The BBC will be broadcasting a new Sunday morning worship Easter Saturday Taizé service 2019 programme on BBC One as 4
well as Songs of Praise and the regular Sunday Worship services on BBC Radio 4. Premier Christian Radio (MW 1305, 1332, 1413 & 1566 in London and Surrey, DAB nationally, Freeview 725) also has a full Sunday morning programme. More resources will be becoming available in due course. For daily prayer, why not explore the Daily Prayer page on the Church of England website (www.churchofengland.org/prayer-and-worship/join- us-service-daily-prayer) or use the Daily Prayer app? There are resources specifically for this time, including ideas for children, at www.churchofengland.org/more/media-centre/coronavirus-covid-19- liturgy-and-prayer-resources. In your prayers, as well as remembering the sick, the frail and the anxious, health and emergency service workers, medical researchers and national and local governments, please also pray for our 10% mission giving agencies, especially those which serve the most vulnerable in our society: ASCEND in South Oxhey, the Church Army Marylebone Project for homeless women and Alternatives East London. On a local and practical level, we can donate to the Foodbanks either through the bins at Rickmansworth Waitrose and Tesco or at the Baptist Church between 1 and 3pm on Mondays. I have been thinking a lot over the last few days about the Lenten subject of Jesus’ temptations in the wilderness. Our current situation could be seen as a time of trial or temptation. Will we give in to fear, selfishness and suspicion or embrace courage, hope and caring? No doubt there will be times when we fail. Thank God that we have a Saviour who triumphed over temptation and shares his grace with us! Here’s my mini-sermon based on his responses in the temptation story in Matthew 4: “One does not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God” - so let someone else have that can of beans! And now is an ideal opportunity to dust down your Bible. The readings for Sundays in April and May are given on pages 20 and 21 so that you can follow them: use the Bible contents page to find the passage. 5
“Do not put the Lord your God to the test” - so don’t take unnecessary risks: observe hand hygiene; stay at home except for essentials; observe social distancing. You are protecting not just yourself but others too. “Worship the Lord your God, and serve only him” – remember you can worship God anywhere. Try to maintain “holy habits”. You could use some of the prayers provided on pages 21 and 22. See also the suggestions for broadcast worship above. And, as appropriate, serve God by serving your neighbour. With my prayers for you, for our church and for our world, Yours sincerely, Robert St Oswald's flower cross Easter 2019 6
St Oswald’s Church – who are we? We are part of the Church of England in the St. Alban’s Diocese. Our Vision is . . . to be a joyful, prayerful and caring church; alive to the Holy Spirit; welcoming and accessible to all; building relationships with God and the community we serve You will find us at Malvern Way, Croxley Green, WD3 3QL, just off Baldwins Lane. There is a direct footpath link from Baldwins Lane into the rear of the church grounds and car park access from Malvern Way. The office entrance is at the back of the church hall 7
St.Oswald’s Diocesan Mothers’ Union Group For our February meeting we were entertained by Julie Carpenter with Magic, Rabbits and Handcuffs. Julie was born in Watford, educated at Yorke Mead School and moved on to Durrants School. Whilst in the Sixth Form she was inspired by her Drama Teacher and enjoyed singing, participating in several school productions and Chanticleers productions. She followed in her brother's footsteps joining the Police Force but the experiences were not the most enjoyable and she left after 7 years. Julie enjoyed entertaining people and having fun and set up “Just Games” for Children’s Parties with Dave Muskett and their reputation increased greatly by word of mouth. This developed into her interest in magic, becoming a member of the Watford Association of Magicians, attending Blackpool Magicians' Conventions and International Magicians' Conventions. Her claims to fame have been the “Dick and Dom in a Bungalow” and “Celebrity Scissor Hands” on television. During the afternoon she had our rapt attention performing magic tricks with cards, ropes, balloons, a treasure box, bandana, rabbits and a teddy bear. Julie had many of us participate in her tricks. It is easy to see why both children and adults are enthralled by her shows – we can thoroughly recommend seeing her perform should you get the chance. We thank Julie for entertaining us with her suitcase of tricks. 8
During our tea and cake break we celebrated a very special occasion presenting Eileen with a birthday cake (with candles!), card and present from us all. In February Eileen celebrated her 90 Birthday. th Congratulations to you on this very special occasion! Dates to note: September 6 – Cake Sale in the Church Hall after the Family Service. th Organised by MU members to raise funds for St. Oswald’s. More information later. Janet A Visit to the Church Army's Marylebone Project Stef Robinson reports on an Open Day at one of St Oswald's 10% charity projects The Marylebone Project is one of projects are more aimed at men. the charities St Oswald’s gives regularly to. I had heard a little bit The group taking the train to Baker about this Church Army project Street on 25 January consisted of when Des Scott talked to us on a Maurice and Anne Lisley, Robert Sunday morning, but I was keen to and myself. We made our way to know more when Robert asked for one of the two buildings and were volunteers to welcomed with drinks and biscuits. visit an open People who came to the Open Day day in London. mostly came from churches who I knew the supported the project, but there project was were also those who were aimed at interested in volunteering or even homeless applying for a job. women, which makes it less usual as homelessness amongst women During the day we heard from a is much more hidden and most client and a volunteer, and we had a 9
guided tour of the two buildings in which there were living accommodation; communal kitchens reminiscent of student accommodation (not as messy); job interviews, and there is also rooms for therapy, socialising and collaboration with an international courses; catering facilities and bank, where employees give some rooms that are rented out for time, for example to do renovations. meetings to generate income. The project has 112 beds and supported At lunchtime we were treated to a 46 women into independent living buffet prepared by the women who last year. are being trained in the catering business, and we really enjoyed it. Women who come to the project The second house we were shown have to be referred, and there is is aimed at those women who do funding from the Council, but there not need as much support anymore, are also a few places that do not so the staff-client ratio is different. depend on Council funding in order This is a preparation for to help women who otherwise could independent living. not be helped. There is a drop-in café with opportunities to talk, rest With state-funded support being cut and feel safe. So far it is only open all the time, the project really needs to the early afternoon and the our help, and we all thought that it project would really like to extend was very worth-while. opening hours to times where their services may be needed even more. Women who stay with the Project can have therapy, and the courses (like crafts, music, gardening, learning catering and IT skills) are aimed at boosting confidence, helping to deal with trauma, and helping with finding and keeping a job. There is training for interviews, a clothes store to equip women for 10
Much associated with Holy Week is this hymn: O sacred head, surrounded by crown of piercing thorn! O bleeding head, so wounded, so shamed and put to scorn! Death’s pallid hue comes o’er thee, the glow of life decays; Yet angel-hosts adore thee, and tremble as they gaze. This powerful Passiontide hymn comes from a Latin original via the German, and is now found in several distinct English translations as well as several hybrid versions. It is the last part of a long medieval poem which addresses the various parts of Christ’s body on the Cross, believed to have been written in the fourteenth century. In the mid seventeenth century this part of the poem was translated into German by Paul Gerhardt (1607-76), a Lutheran pastor who wrote over a hundred hymns. The first translation into English was published in 1752. The version quoted above is by Henry Williams Baker (1821-1877) and dates from 1861. Baker was vicar of Monkland, near Leominster, where the light duties allowed him to devote time to writing hymns (including O praise ye the Lord and The king of love my shepherd is) and to be much involved in the early editions of Hymns Ancient & Modern, where his version first appeared. The version we had in the New English Hymnal was made by Robert Bridges in 1899 and opens with the words O sacred head sore wounded, defiled and put to scorn, which may be more familiar. The last verse seeks Christ’s compassion: In this thy bitter passion, good Shepherd, think of me With thy most sweet compassion, unworthy though I be: Beneath thy cross abiding for ever would I rest, In thy dear love confiding, and with thy presence blest. continued p.12 11
The English versions, as well as Gerhardt’s German, are all sung to the tune Passion Chorale which was composed around 1600 by Hans Leo Hassler (1564-1612), not for this purpose at all but for a love song. The tune was a favourite of J S Bach who used it five times in his St Matthew Passion and once in his Christmas Oratorio. Bach was adept at borrowing other composers’ tunes and supplying his own intricate harmonies – two arrangements are given in the New English Hymnal but only one in Ancient & Modern. Quentin Phillips Dawes Common, Sarratt - Brian Thomson 12
Beatitude: “Blessed are the meek“ by Margaret Cowlard Without warning, an arrow was shot among the assembled gathering and we recoiled from our half- dazed state. The arrow was tipped with the ‘wake-up’ message: "if you had been there in the Temple and seen the two men praying, where would you be sitting? Picture yourself in that situation and think about it - one man outwardly displaying good deeds and the other a sinner.” Having read the passage from the Bible describing the two men praying in the Temple (Luke 18, v10), the Preacher then fired this question at us. A startling question – a searching question. The Pharisee had faithfully embraced the dictates of the law and assumed it meant that he was a good and honest citizen. So why shouldn’t he take pride in such an achievement? As for the man at the back of the room, he was a much despised Tax Collector – a real scoundrel. Something must have touched him, for he felt a need to pray. Was it possible he could be attempting to mend his ways? Well, here was the situation and to me, it didn’t need much thinking. With the self-assurance of a youth and one only lapping the Christian ‘crumbs’, I returned home knowing the answer. Of course as a Christian, I would be sitting about halfway up the room and near the front. I was as good as the Pharisee, wasn’t I? And surely I was far better than the Tax Collector. I imagined I had reached the right conclusion and would soon be climbing lofty spiritual heights. Recently (could it have been that same arrow!) I was pierced by a shot and I remembered. Oh yes, it was my turn to recoil when I saw my younger self claiming near spiritual perfection and was horrified. What arrogance! Who on earth did I think I was? continued p.15 13
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from p.13 I felt quite meek and humbled. It was not for me to judge myself. That was God’s prerogative. I wonder what he must have thought. But what of the expression “inherit the earth”? I don’t see this message as forecasting a literal outcome - I shall not be an heir to riches untold. Rather, I feel that when Jesus spoke these words, it is possible he was referring to the coming of the heavenly kingdom: “a new heaven and a new earth” (Revelation 21, v1). So in a way, perhaps it is irrelevant as to where I am on the spiritual ladder as long as my feet are firmly planted on one of the rungs and my eyes clearly focused on God. The sense of competition and achievement seems to occupy an important place in our modern culture, but does it fit comfortably within my Christian faith, I wonder. Being humbled in the sight of God has enabled me to be more prepared to fit into his new kingdom. He has blessed me with the ability to think more widely and understand many other points of view to which I wouldn’t have given a second thought in earlier times. To live ‘outside the box’ is nothing of which to be proud, but simply a blessing. Dear God our Shield and our Defender, guide and protect my neighbour in this time of health emergency; deliver them from all harm and may your love and care ever grow in this place. Through Jesus Christ, Our Lord, Amen. 15
A CROXLEY RAMBLER'S DIARY 13th March 2020 Brian Thomson wanders from Chorleywood to Sarratt via Chenies After all the wind and rain of recent weeks it was good to get outside in fine, if cloudy, weather. There was a cool breeze and the magnolias were out in the gardens as I made my way for the train. The Metro newspaper stands were still half full at 9.40 a.m., suggesting that plenty of people were working from home because of the coronavirus rather than taking the underground as usual. At Chorleywood I walked down the steps to Lower Road and followed the valley through the shops to Whitelands Avenue and the entrance to Carpenters’ Wood. Stepping from the suburban street into the wood is almost like entering a different world. I stood for a while listening to the birds - robins, blue tits, great tits, a blackbird in the distance and a crow and some jackdaws in the background. The wood’s name suggests that it might have been a place where bodgers fashioned chair legs for the Chiltern furniture industry. Even though the day was cloudy there was plenty of light through the bare branches of the tall trees illuminating celandines and violets on the woodland floor. The leaves of smaller trees such as elder and hawthorn were already showing bright green. Some children had been busy making bivouacs from fallen branches. I followed the path into the wood and scared a jay which made off into the trees. Under foot the ground was less muddy than I had expected after all the rain. However, on the other side of the railway embankment it was a different story. Water must have rushed down the track scouring the slope and then turned the flatter areas into a glutinous swamp. I picked my way through as best I could and walked up through Halsey’s wood noticing the ancient banks on both sides of the track. Beyond the wood, I heard my first skylarks of the year and stopped to search for them. At length, I caught sight of one high above, a black dot against the grey clouds, while a red kite quartered the ground below. Approaching the Amersham road, several dappled donkeys, which were not doing very much, gazed lugubriously in my direction. It is easy to see how A A Milne got the idea for mournful 16
Eeyore. Across the main road, on the corner of the lane, I was pleased to see that someone had planted daffodils on the verge. They made an attractive show. Hidden behind the hedge is a pond which may well date from the days when drovers needed refreshment for their animals while taking them to market. But it is badly overgrown now. I walked around the edge, looking in vain for frog spawn. Chenies Manor and St Michael's Church I took the avenue leading from the main road to the stables at the back of Chenies Manor and noticed that a number of small businesses are using the buildings there. My aim was to look over the Chess valley from the track leading to Stony Walk wood and Little Chalfont. There is a delightful view across 'Queen Elizabeth's Oak' at Chenies Manor - the gentle hillside to Brian Thomson the clustered houses of Latimer and the trees beyond. I made my way back to the Manor and walked around the perimeter of the garden, stopping to look at the wonderfully gnarled and stunted ‘Elizabeth’ oak (beneath whose shade the Queen is supposed to have sat) and the neatly clipped hedges beyond. All was quiet at Chenies School which advertises itself as ‘a caring place to learn’. Hopefully there was lots of learning going on indoors. I turned up towards the front entrance of the Manor beside the deep shade of the ancient yews in St Michael’s churchyard. Leaving my muddy boots in the porch, I spent a few minutes inside the peaceful 17
church. The building dates from the 12th century and was substantially rebuilt at the end of the 15th century. Superficially it is similar to many other small Chiltern churches but there is an unusual feature. The north aisle, constructed in the 16th century, forms the Bedford chapel, described by Pevsner as ‘the richest single storehouse of funeral monuments in any parish church of England’. It is almost as large as the rest of the building and, sadly from my point of view, is not accessible. However, I peered through a window in the screen which separates the chapel from the nave. The sun illuminated the stained glass Russell family coats of arms and silhouetted a monument to a long dead Duke. At the bottom of the Manor House drive, near the Green, there is a substantial house labelled with a blue plaque. The front garden was bright with daffodils. In 1947 it was the home of the Marquess of Tavistock. I don’t know if he would qualify for the blue plaque scheme anywhere else but, as the 13th Duke of Bedford, he was responsible for opening Woburn Abbey to the public as a way of generating enough income to keep it going. Chenies’ red brick houses around the Green make a harmonious picture with their gables and tall chimneys. Mount Wood and the River Chess I crossed the grass and headed along the lane which leads to Mountwood Farm. A footpath leads around the farm buildings, including the elegant Georgian-style farmhouse, and across a meadow towards Mount Wood. As I turned the corner two small shapes darted along the woodland margin - a pair of roe deer, heads and small antlers erect, unfortunately soon out of sight. You are much less likely to see roe deer in this area than the dog-like muntjaks, so I felt uplifted. Bluebell leaves were out in profusion under the trees as I made my way down the hillside and out onto Holloway Lane. The lane leads to a ford across the Chess with a small footbridge. The river was full and flowing fast. I paused on the bridge and noticed a figure in waders standing in the stream with some kind of device on a tall pole. He said he was measuring the flow for the Environment Agency. It was around a cubic metre per second (i.e. 1,000 litres per second) which compares with dry weather flows that can drop to as 18
little as 150 litres per second. (The average UK household uses about a third of a cublic metre per day.) I asked him about the water quality. He said that someone else had the responsibility to measure quality but he thought it was pretty The Chess by the ford at Holloway Lane - good. However, I have Brian Thomson since checked the River Chess Association website and discovered that there are serious concerns about the discharge of untreated sewage from the works at Chesham. There have been a number of incidents over the winter, caused by the wet weather, which has led to groundwater entering the sewers, and inadequate capacity at the treatment works. Thames Water need to invest more to stop this happening. I walked on past the watercress farm and noticed that the beds were flooded but empty of cress. Hopefully that doesn’t mean there won’t be a crop this year. The meadows alongside the lane show ample signs of high groundwater levels in new ponds amongst the pasture. I paused by a large oak blown down in the winter gales while some alpacas grazed nearby - their eccentric ‘Afro’ hairstyles almost covering their eyes. I continued along Sarratt Bottom, past a cottage with the delightful name of ‘Cakebread’. Sheep and Canada geese grazed the meadows on the other side of the stream. Opposite Sarratt Mill I climbed the hill towards the 18th century manor house of Goldingtons. Its whitewashed walls make it a prominent landmark at Church End, Sarratt. Just beyond is the parish church and my objective today, the Cock Inn, for brief lunch by the fire with daughter and grandson. Writing this on 24 March, the day after the Government’s instruction to stay at home because of Corvid-19, I hope it won’t be too long before my next carefree ramble will be possible. 19
EDITOR'S NOTE There is no Diary in this issue because all of St Oswald's services and meetings have been suspended for the time being because of the Covid-19 emergency. We will let you know as soon as they resume. The latest information will be posted on the church website www.stoswaldschurch.org.uk and the church's Facebook page. PLANNED FUTURE EVENTS - A Musical Evening with Cherith and John Malcolm June 12th - Café O at the Revels June 20th - Cake Sale Sunday Sept 6th - Jumble Sale October 17th - Quiz October 24th - Beetle Drive November 7th - a 1940s themed Dance November 14th - Christmas Puddings & Craft 29 November 29th The next edition of the magazine will be published in June. Please send items for the next edition by Sunday May 17th to magazine@stoswaldschurch.org.uk BIBLE READINGS FOR APRIL SUN 5 PALM SUNDAY Isaiah 50. 4-9; Matthew 27. 11-54 Thu. 9 MAUNDY THURSDAY Exodus 12. 1-14; 1 Corinthians 11. 23-26; John 13. 1-17, 31-35 Fri. 10 GOOD FRIDAY Isaiah 52.13 - 53.12; Hebrews 10. 16-25; John 18.1 - 19.42 Sat. 11 EASTER EVE Job 14. 1-14; Matthew 27. 57-66 20
SUN. 12 EASTER DAY Acts 10. 34-43; Matthew 28. 1-10 SUN 19 SECOND SUNDAY OF EASTER Acts 2. 14a, 22-32; John 20. 19-31 SUN. 26 THIRD SUNDAY OF EASTER Acts 2. 14a, 36-41; Luke 24. 13-35 BIBLE READINGS FOR MAY SUN. 3 FOURTH SUNDAY OF EASTER Acts 2. 42-47; John 10. 1-10 SUN. 10 FIFTH SUNDAY OF EASTER Acts 7. 55-60; John 14. 1-14 SUN. 17 SIXTH SUNDAY OF EASTER Acts 17. 22-34; John 14. 15-21 Thu. 21 ASCENSION DAY Daniel 7. 9-14; Luke 24. 44-53 SUN. 24 SEVENTH SUNDAY OF EASTER (SUNDAY AFTER ASCENSION DAY) Acts 1. 6-14; John 17. 1-11 SUN. 31 PENTECOST SUNDAY Acts 2. 1-21; John 20. 19-23 A prayer about the Coronavirus outbreak Keep us, good Lord, under the shadow of your mercy in this time of uncertainty and distress. Sustain and support the anxious and fearful, and lift up all who are brought low; that we may rejoice in your comfort knowing that nothing can separate us from your love in Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen. continued on p. 22 21
from p. 21 For those in isolation God of compassion, be close to those who are ill, afraid or in isolation. In their loneliness, be their consolation; in their anxiety, be their hope; in their darkness, be their light; through him who suffered alone on the cross, but reigns with you in glory, Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. For those who are worried and for social cohesion Loving Jesus, you are compassionate to those in need and heal the sick in body and mind. Look kindly on those who are fearful at this time. Help us all to put away all thoughts and actions that separate us from you and from one another. Give us grace to live our lives confident in your promise that you are with us always. Amen. Lord Jesus Christ, you taught us to love our neighbour, and to care for those in need as if we were caring for you. In this time of anxiety, give us strength to comfort the fearful, to care for the sick, and to assure the isolated of our love, and your love, for your name’s sake. Amen. For those who are ill Merciful God, we entrust to your unfailing and tender care, those who are ill or in pain, knowing that, whenever danger threatens, your everlasting arms are there to hold us safe. Comfort and heal them, and restore them to health and strength; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. For hospital staff and medical researchers Gracious God, give skill, sympathy and resilience to all who are caring for the sick, and your wisdom to those searching for a cure. Strengthen them with your Spirit, that through their work many will be restored to health; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. From one who is ill or isolated O God, help me to trust you, help me to know that you are with me, help me to believe that nothing can separate me from your love revealed in Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. 22
MEMORIES OF GROWING UP IN CROXLEY GREEN - PART TWO Janet Staerck continues her story of secondary school, shopping, Guides, Cubs and the dreaded dentist. I moved on to Rickmansworth Grammar School, as it was then, so I never had far to travel!! At all three schools I went home for dinner, and only very rarely had to sample the school dinners. I was in Mrs Riddle’s form until Year 11 and then Mr Packford’s for the Sixth Form. Again I was into sports and was in all the teams. Money was also being raised for a Swimming Pool, but this time it was not completed until after I had left. However, my son, Rob, also went to the School, many years later, so we did get some use out of the pool. He had Mr Parker as form tutor who shared Rob’s love of rugby. Later I joined Rickmansworth School as a member of staff so, as a family, we have had a long association with the school. I was involved with the celebrations of the 50th Anniversary and contributed to the wall hanging celebrating this. People connected with Ricky over the years were invited to make a design depicting their memories of the school. It was a brilliant piece of work which took hours to make, showed much creativity and hung in the Long Gallery for all to see. I hope the hanging is still in pride of place as it shows important aspects of the School’s life. I always came home for lunch and would often go across the road to the bakery (opposite All Saints Church) to buy the milk loaves we always had which were less than a shilling each (5p!). Whenever we had a netball or hockey match on a Saturday, we always had cream or iced buns for refreshments from the bakery. That was always a highlight. When I was young we did not have a freezer so shopping was a regular activity. There was a butcher's in the parade of shops on the opposite side of the road to the Met Station. They always had sawdust on the 23
floor. A corner shop was at the top of Yorke Road and New Road and I would often go on my own to fetch items. There was also Mr Hunt’s shop at the top of Scots Hill, opposite the School, where we would buy groceries. The Co-op was where it is now but was divided into a food section on the left hand side and a haberdashery section on the right. The lady and gentleman who served in there used to live in Watford Road. The assistants would fetch the items you requested. In the haberdashery department I was always fascinated by the wooden drawer units that seemed very tall but had glass fronts so you could see what was in the drawers. Most school uniform could be purchased there. In the food department I remember sitting on a very tall stool waiting for the shopping to be completed. Some foods would be weighed out by the assistant and wrapped in greaseproof type paper, for example butter and bacon - not like today’s prepacked items from supermarkets. There was Busy Bees along New Road with the jars full of sweets, and Wright’s, the shoe shop which was double fronted, possibly where Carrs now is. When I was little my shoes were always purchased there and the lady serving seemed to be very old, always wearing black, with her long grey hair wrapped round her head with a coloured band interwoven in her hair. She was a proper lady and we as children had to keep quiet and still. Wade’s, the newsagents, was opposite the Co-op and the Library used to be in Watford Road next door to what was Penney’s Carpet and Furniture Shop. The Library had wooden shelves round the wall and down the centre but they seemed so tall to little me! On Sundays, after our roast dinner we always had a walk, perhaps around Croxley Woods, or along the Chess Valley towards Loudwater. Sometimes we would walk along the canal past all the barges, either to Ricky or to Watford past the Dickinson Mills, where Byewaters has been built. We would walk miles but would always come back to tea round the open fire watching the Sunday early evening serial – the one that comes 24
to mind is The Count of Monte Christo - we would toast crumpets with the brass toasting fork over the fire and sometimes chestnuts and then of course a fancy cake especially for Sunday. It was always a highlight of the week! I remember one week on our Sunday walk there had been a tremendous snowfall, and the snow was so deep it came up to the window sill. We walked on the Green and had a snowball fight and walked back by All Saints Vicarage where the snow had been piled high. Me being me, I climbed the heap only to find it was not solid and I fell into it right up to my neck. It took a while to get me out! We had Harvest Festival Services up at Killingdown Farm and it always seemed such an adventure. I remember Anne Oke taking part in the service when our sons were young. We all enjoyed sitting on the sweet smelling bales of hay. I was a Brownie at St Oswalds with Mrs Kingham and Sue Middleton, and was taught the Maypole Dances by Miss Newman (whose family had the flower shop along New Road towards the Met Station) in the hall at the Dickinson’s Guild Hall on the corner of Dickinson Square and New Road where the flats now are. Then, on Revels Day, we would perform the routines we had learnt. On Sunday 3rd October 1965 Dickinson’s Guild Hall burnt down – we could see all the flames and smoke from the 25
back bedroom window. It was burnt to the ground, but it was such a shock to the community of Croxley Green. It was a popular place, with lots of groups meeting there – shows were often put on, the one I remember was the Wizard of Oz. Then I progressed to Guides at All Saints with Mrs Dutton, and I loved it – the camping, camp fires and sing songs and the cooking over the open fires. I can almost hear Miss Nash saying ‘make a chain, make a chain’ as this was the easiest and quickest way to get all the gear from the van to the camp site. I can clearly remember having to clean our shoes till they shone and cleaning the Brownie and Guide Badge with Brasso and that had to shine too – if not points were deducted! This led me on to becoming a Cub Leader for many many years at the Scout Hut in Watford Road, passing all the knowledge onto others. The fun we had come rain or shine. Once, at Chorleywood Camp Site we had so much rain that we wore black sacks over our shoulders and we had to dig a moat round our site. We got so wet – the things we do when young! I like a few home comforts now though, not least my bed! Whilst I was part of the Cub unit the building at the back was built by many of the Dads – quite a feat. As children we went to the Dentist on the Green – it was the White House beside the entrance to the Tennis and Bowls Clubs. We always had to take a letter to school to be excused lessons to go for the dental appointment. It was not a place I enjoyed going. It always had a funny smell and Mr Howe had fat sausage-like fingers and always seemed to try to get them all in my mouth at once! It was a far cry from the dentists today, and the fear I had then has stayed with me all these years! 26
Hope For The Future? Magdalena Pletsch asks where our hope comes from in these days of Climate Change and Covid-19 emergency. In our Spotlight Service in January we asked ourselves this question: is there hope for the future? News looked bleak at the beginning of the year: devastating wildfires in Australia, climate change urgency, more US troops deployed in the Middle East. And since then, COVID 19 has become a threat and is keeping our streets empty. The panic shows in stockpiling and empty supermarket shelves. Do we have hope for the future? For Christians, hope is rooted in the present: it is rooted in God who simply loves us, who never stops looking for us. God wants to be in a relationship with us and wants to use us to bring his Kingdom about. Every time when we say the Lord’s prayer, we remind ourselves of this: Your Kingdom come. Jesus promised to those who believed in him, life in fullness (John 10:10). He, the good shepherd would care for them, protect them so they could make good choices for their lives. After his Ascension his followers were sent on a journey to become agents of hope. Wherever they went around the Mediterranean new communities sprang up, communities where members of different social and racial background, where men and women could live together. They made the Kingdom of God visible in their lifestyle. We can all show in our in our actions that we have hope for a different world, a world not threatened by disaster, war, division and pandemic. How can we be agents of hope now? A lot of the discussion that followed picked up environmental issues. We need to educate ourselves about the threats to life on earth in the future and train ourselves to see opportunities for putting the 5 Rs into 27
action: recycle, reuse, reduce, repurpose, refuse. (Follow the regular tips about this on the pew sheet.) Flying – can we/should we avoid it? Is offsetting our carbon footprint enough? Do we need a culture change, a complete rethink about our economic system? Do companies need to grow continuously and encourage us to consume ever more? Other voices called us to think about our relationships: sometimes a friendly smile is all the is needed to encourage hope in others. How do we see the homeless, the refugees? Are we making an effort to see people as individuals rather than as a problem? How can we be good neighbours in the time of COVID 19? There are many issues we can’t influence directly but we can pray for inspiration for ourselves and for politicians. We live in a democracy where politicians only do what people ask for. We need to let our politicians know that we are concerned about the disadvantaged, climate change, people suffering because of war. In this way too, we can be agents of hope. Spring hazel catkins 28
ECO-TIPS At the January Spotlight service on ‘hope for the future’ we thought about things we can do to help with some of the challenges our world is facing, including our environment. Here are some suggestions for when life is back to normal: Reduce waste • Take a plastic bottle to the hardware store at the bottom of Baldwins Lane to refill with washing up liquid, laundry liquid, conditioner and other cleaning products. • Pass the Party (Croxley) is a community project to help reduce waste created at children's parties. If you are holding a children's party book through their Facebook page to borrow re- usable cups, plates and serving bowls. • Visit the greengrocer at the top of Baldwin's Lane to buy fruit and veg in the quantity you need without any packaging. • Look out for the Green Store, a zero waste shop due to open in April at 125 New Road, selling a range of package-free food, detergent refills & household products. • Buy loose tea or biodegradable teabags e.g. Clipper or PG Tips. Re-use, recycle • Crisp packets, toothpaste products, clean pouches from baby food and dog food: bring to church for Mim to recycle through Terracycle. • Contact lens waste: recycle at Watford Boots opticians counter. • Milk bottle tops: recycle at Lush Cosmetics in Watford. • Padded envelopes: re-use if possible; if not, tear open and remove inner padding so paper part can be recycled even if padding can’t. • Junk mail: if printed only on one side use blank side for notes or shopping lists before recycling. More eco-tips to follow in the next issue. Please give suggestions to Jane Brading. 29
Intercessions for each week The following suggestions for prayer week by week are by no means exhaustive. They are intended as prompts to encourage our prayers for: the life of our church; the charities with which we are connected; the roads of our parish; the village and the wider community. Sunday 29 March to Saturday 4 April Parish Magazine The Marylebone Project (Church Army Women’s Hostel) Girton Way, Malvern Way, Sherborne Way, Winchester Way All Saints’ Church Sunday 5 to Saturday 11 April Baptism preparation and follow-up Christian Solidarity Worldwide Claremont Crescent, Lancing Way, Winton Crescent, Winton Drive Parliament and our MP Gagan Mohindra Sunday 12 to Saturday 18 April Café O and First Friday New Hope Trust Dulwich Way, Lincoln Drive, Lincoln Way, Little Green Lane Shaftesbury Court Sunday 19 to Saturday 25 April Home Group, Prayer Fellowship and Prayer Ministry Team Church Urban Fund Baldwins Lane, Kenilworth Drive, Manor Way, Rochester Way Churches Together in Croxley Green Sunday 26 April to Saturday 2 May Sunday School and Creche Christian Aid Durrants Drive, Hastings Way, Lewes Way, Norwich Way Our Parish Nurse 30
Sunday 3 to Saturday 9 May Our Mission Action Plan Watford Schools Trust Merchant Taylors Place, Appleby Drive, Gloucester Court, Hertford Cl, Pevensey Way, St Mawes Cl, Scarborough Drive, Scotney Cl The Queen and Royal Family Sunday 10 to Saturday 16 May Choir and church musicians The Children’s Society Dover Way, Ludlow Way, Richmond Way, Warwick Way Archbishop Justin, the Church of England and the Anglican Communion Sunday 17 to Saturday 23 May The Vicar and Readers USPG Canterbury Way, Gade Bank, Links Way, Rousebarn Lane Parish, District and County Councillors Sunday 24 to Saturday 30 May Mothers’ Union and Men’s Breakfast Watford and Three Rivers Refugee Partnership Dorrofield Cl, Hazelwood Road, Mayfare, Sansom Cl, Watford Road Our Diocesan Bishops, Alan, Richard and Michael Sunday 31 May to Saturday 6 June Companions and Junior Youth Club A Rocha Beechcroft Ave, Oakleigh Drive, Sycamore App, Sycamore Road, Valley Walk Our local shops and businesses Prayer List (end of March) We pray for Paula Timmins, Fr. Philip Cross, Jean Langston, Alan Clifford, Tony Furr, Joan Morris, Myra Banks, Debbie Clifford and Angela Sedgwick; also for our 10% mission giving recipients - USPG, CMS, Christian Solidarity Worldwide, ASCEND, Church Army Marylebone Project, Alternatives Newham, Watford Schools Trust and A Rocha. 31
Jesus Christ He brought a message of love and peace. Many disagreed with his teachings and his influence. To make him cease they nailed him way up high, left for three days dead to lie. Even now we remember His sacrifice, His victory! David Hunsberger (a remote relative of Quentin Phillips, by permission) 32
IN MEMORY Please remember in prayer the families of those listed in our Remembrance Book for April and May John HAMBLIN ~ 17th Jan 1938 to 1st April 1998 Bessie TUCK ~ 15th Aug 1906 to 3rd April 2002 Raymond John CHALKLEY - 13th November 1931 to 3rd April 2019 George Edward CULLEN ~ 9th May 1921 to 8th April 1978 Ann Elizabeth WALTON - 14th May 1933 to 11th April 2013 Muriel Christine Edith CHURCHILL ~ 27th Dec 1915 to 19th April 2006 Stanley John CHILD ~ 18th Nov 1905 to 12th April 1989 Sidney James MADGWICK ~ 11th Sep 1904 to 12th April 1989 Marion Rose PARR ~ 15th March 1946 to 14th April 1984 Mary BISHOP ~ 23rd Aug 1926 to 25th April 1998 Robert Stephen WILSON - 9th April 1940 to 29th April 2018 Doreen Constance BARNES - 30th Apr 1922 to 2nd May 2015 Peter GIBBENS ~ 25th Sep 1927 to 6th May 2012 Richard SMITH ~ 14th March 1913 to 6th May 1994 Gladys Patricia BALDWIN ~ 17th March 1903 to 8th May 1990 Martin STRANZ ~ 5th Sep 1890 to 13th May 1976 Norman Roy SCOTT ~ 6th May 1931 to 15th May 1994 Courtenay George TILLEY ~ 18th Sep 1945 to 16th May 2006 Harry Leonard CURNOW - 18th March 1930 to 16th May 2014 Francis George William WOODHOUSE - 5th June 1920 to 18th May 2013 John Graham THOMSON - 12th Feb 1913 to 30th May 1998 Pamela Doris PRATT ~ 25th Nov 1936 to 31st May 2011 33
Cryptic Crossword By Richard Lee 21 Stick to where the little poster should be placed we hear (6) 22 Is in the procession to reach nirvana (8) 23 Bills when I mix with novices (8) 24 Give life to by mode management (6) Down 1 Neat boy to fix a sharp blade (7) 2 Flowery way to create a tenor (6) 3 Rush in an uncontrolled way to a chosen Across occupation (6) 6 Nag a carnivore (6) 4 Roughly sketch it, being solidly 7 In a way, each dive was attained built (8) (8) 5 Beaten around having hard finish 8 Deal with the subject of a at a lower level (7) number of years or rate of 9 Exist even when moved and spread (8) wide ranging (9) 10 Company member of 11 Redeem and adapt differently parliament the Spanish force having moved aimlessly (9) to act (6) 15 Force to live once, 12 An urgent letter contained outrageously (8) something soft and mild ((6) 16 Having a disposition for looking 13 Begin again to give the after (7) paintings a break it seems 17 Disease mutates to the beach (7) (7) 14 Plotted a course to get a divan 19 Uncover and make vulnerable somehow (9) (6) 18 Energy poised to become a 20 Distorted to exclude prawns serial part (7) from the menu that’s held up (6) 20 Keeper of the battle shelter perhaps? (6) 34
Suguru Puzzles by Richard Lee Each grid below has tiles of between 1 and 5 cells each and the cells of each of these tiles are filled with digits from 1 up to the number of cells in that tile with no digits being repeated. Thus a tile made up of 5 cells would contain one each of the digits 1 to 5. In addition, within the whole grid no two similar digits are adjacent horizontally, vertically or diagonally. Can you fill all the cells of the box? 1. 2. ? WILDLIFE QUIZ ? 1 What is the fastest land 8 A group of hedgehogs are animal in the world? known as what? 2 What is the uk's only 9 Which animal never sleeps? poisonous reptile? 10 How many legs does a 3 How long do stag beetles lobster have? spend most of their life underground 11 Which farmyard animal as larvae; 1, 4 or 7 years? came out top in intelligence tests? 4 How fast can the Peregrine 12 Which animal's name means falcons fly; 242, 360 or 180 mph? 'river horse' in ancient Greek? 5 Which bird will not land at all 13 What animal is the closest on its annual journey to and from its living relative to the T-Rex winter-quarters in Africa? dinosaur? 6 A snail can sleep for how 14 How many tentacles does a many years; 1, 5 or 3? squid have? 7 A mandrill is what type of 15 What sort of animal is a creature? fennec? 35
Puzzle Answers 1. 2. WILDLIFE QUIZ 1. Cheetah. 2. Adder. 3. 7. 4. 242 mph. 5. Swift. 6. 3. 7. Monkey. 8. An array. 9. Bullfrog. 10. 10. 11. Pig. 12. Hippopotamus. 13. Chicken. 14. 10. 15. Desert fox. Some African Proverbs The sun does not forget a village just because it is small. The child of an elephant will not be a dwarf. If you know something can swallow you, don't let it lick you. A wise man shuts his mouth, but not his door. 36
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