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   Ohef Sholom Temple's Monthly News Publication
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                                       Established 1844 • Volume 61, Issue 7 • April 2021

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In this Issue:

                                                                                   WORSHIP
Worship........................... 2
Clergy Corner.................. 3
Presidential Address........ 4                                                                                               TORAH PORTIONS
Announcements.............. 5
EcoJudaism..................... 6
Sisterhood....................... 7
Men's Club...................... 7                      APril
Programming................... 8                        April 1 | 19 Nisan                                      April 15 | 3 Iyyar
Religious School............ 10                         Torah Study - 4:00 pm                                   Torah Study - 4:00 pm
Adult Education............. 12                         April 3 | 21 Nisan                                      April 17 | 5 Iyyar
Donations...................... 14                      Pesach VII                                              Torah Study - 9:00 am
LIFE & LEGACY............. 15                           Torah Study - 9:00 am                                   Parashat Tazria-Metzora
                                                        Parashat Pesach VII                                     Leviticus 12:1 - 15:33
Yahrzeits........................ 18                    Exodus 13:17 - 15:26                                    Haftarah: II Kings 7:3 - 7:20
Calendar & Birthdays..... 19                            maf: Numbers 28:19 - 28:25
pOST Bulletin Board...... 20                            Haftarah: II Samuel 22:1 - 51                           April 22 | 10 Iyyar
                                                                                                                Torah Study - 4:00 pm
                                                        April 4 | 22 Nisan
                                                        Pesach VIII                                             April 24 | 12 Iyyar
                                                        Parashat Pesach VIII                                    Torah Study - 9:00 am
                                                        Deuteronomy 15:19 - 16:17                               Parashat Achrei Mot-Kedoshim
                                                        maf: Numbers 28:19 - 28:25                              Leviticus 16:1 - 20:27
                                                        Haftarah: Isaiah 10:32 - 12:6                           Haftarah: Amos 9:7 - 9:15

                                                        April 8 | 26 Nisan                                      April 29 | 17 Iyyar
                                                        Torah Study - 4:00 pm                                   Torah Study - 4:00 pm
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Norfolk, VA 23507                                       April 10 | 28 Nisan
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ohefsholom.org                                          Leviticus 9:1 - 11:47
                                                        Haftarah: II Samuel 6:1 - 7:17

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LEADERSHIP&StaFf
                                                            EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE           BOARD OF DIRECTORS         PAST PRESIDENTS            HONORARY DIRECTORS
                                                            President:                    Carol Brum                 Minette Cooper             Tom Bachman
                                                            Terri Denison Budman,         Matthew Fine               Karen Fine                 Terri Budman
CLERGY                                                      president@ohefsholom.org      Tammi Foer                 Kim Simon Fink             Allan Donn
Senior Rabbi                   Engagement and               Vice President:               Andrew Fox                 Linda Fox-Jarvis           Morris Fine
Rosalin Mandelberg             Programming Associate        John Cooper                   David Hirschler, II        Robert C. Goodman, Jr.     Sandra Forte-Nickenig
rabbi@ohefsholom.org           Nina Kruger                  Secretary:                    David Kushner              Steven Kayer               Jay M. Friedman
                               membership@ohefsholom.org    Barbara U. Dudley             Robert Levinson            Edward G. Kaufman          Leslie Friedman
Cantor                                                      Treasurer: Mike Jaffe         Amy Metzger                Dr. Howard Kesser          Mark Friedman
Jennifer Rueben                Office Manager               Member-at-Large:              Alyson Morrissey           Edward A. Kramer           Mark Hecht
cantorjen@ohefsholom.org       Shelley Stephens             Charlie Nusbaum               Dr. Bert Newfield          Cathi M. Laderberg         Andrew C. Kline
                               shelley@ohefsholom.org       Engagement Committee Chair:   Sharon Nusbaum             Charles S. Nusbaum         Steve Kocen
Rabbi Emeritus                                              Marsha Moody                  Ethan Ostroff              William L. Nusbaum         Jay Legum
Lawrence A. Forman             Clergy Assistant
                               Elizabeth Vincent            Education Committee Chair:    Dr. Abbey Pachter          Dr. Robert M. Rubin        Dr. Rachelle Luna
rabbiforman@ohefsholom.org                                  Barb Gelb                     Nicole Rosenblum           Henry M. Schwan            Robin Mancoll
                               liz@ohefsholom.org
                                                            Worship Committee Chair:      Paula Russel               Linda Spindel              Dr. David Metzger
STAFF
                               Controller                   Margaret Sawyer               Joashua Schulman           Alan D. Stein              Alyssa Muhlendorf
Executive Director
                               Anna Rivera                  Finance & Development         Frank Scott                                           Alex Pincus
Linda Peck
                               bookkeeper@ohefsholom.org    Committee Chair:              Leslie Shroyer                                        Dr. Meredith Rose
linda@ohefsholom.org
                                                            Neal Schulwolf                Tom Snyder                                            June Saks
Music Director                 Graphic & Web Design         Immediate Past President:     Lawrence Steingold                                    Miriam Seeherman
Charles Woodward               Linette Bond                 Karen Fine                    Valeria Williamson                                    The Honorable Louis Sherman
chuck@ohefsholom.org           graphics@ohefsholom.org                                                                                          Louis D. Snyder

Director of Religious School

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Clergy Corner                                           WITH RABBI & CANTOR

Counting Our Blessings: May They Be Many

D
                                                         So many in our OST
                                                         family have tapped
    ear OST Family,                                      into their creativity
                                                         and resourcefulness
Talmud (Menachot 43b) teaches that we should say         to help people
100 blessings every day, no matter what challenges       who are struggling.
that day presents. While we would have never             Volunteers with our
wished the hardship and heartbreak of the pandemic       Love Thy Neighbor
on our community or our world, this concept in           initiative have
our tradition teaches us that there are blessings to     delivered meals to
find within it. The justification for this practice is   frontline workers,              Contact Clergy
that it helps to connect us to the Divine and live a     built furniture for        Rabbi  Roz & Cantor Jen
life of gratitude. On a more practical level, finding    families in need, and       rabbi@ohefsholom.org
the blessings in our challenges helps us to grow so      run a vaccine clinic     cantorjen@ohefsholom.org
we can face the next challenge with optimism and         for our immigrant
strength.                                                community. Our Soup Kitchen and NEST heroes
                                                         have found ways to safely serve our homeless
And so, let us consider just a few of the blessings
                                                         guests despite the challenges of social distancing.
that the past year has brought to our OST
                                                         Members of our Caring Committee regularly call
community.
                                                         people who are lonely, sick, or grieving, ensuring
In our time apart, we have found countless new           that they know that their community cares for their
ways to connect with each other. From the thriving,      wellbeing. Most recently, OST has developed a
constant conversation in our Ohef Sholom Friends         grassroots vaccination effort. A dedicated group of
Facebook group to the use of Zoom and Facebook           volunteers has helped find vaccine appointments for
Live allowing far-away family and friends to celebrate   well over 100 people and counting. We will never
and mourn together to the many who have re-              know how many lives this effort has saved, but we
discovered the value of regular Shabbat practice         do know that each person who is vaccinated is a
through our livestreamed services, we have learned       step toward a solution to this pandemic. Pirkei Avot
to expand our perception of what it means to live        teaches, “Mitzvah goreret mitzvah,” one mitzvah
our Judaism beyond the walls of our synagogue.           leads to another. We are so proud of how our
Soon, we will begin to slowly gather again, but these    community has stepped up to make the world a little
new modes of connection will forever be a part of        safer and brighter for everyone we touch, and we
our Jewish life. This is a blessing.                     know that these efforts create a ripple of blessings
                                                         which spread to make the world a better place.
Being forced by circumstances to develop our
online presence has also enabled us to welcome           As we begin to contemplate a return to a more
new people into our folds. Many people from              normal way of life, may we each consider the
near and far have begun regularly attending our          blessings we have discovered along the way and
services and programming. This came at a time            carry them with us, emerging from this experience
when all evidence pointed to a trend of declining        with awareness, strength, and gratitude. Keyn yehi
interest and participation in religious practice. This   ratson -- may it be so.
period of isolation has been an opportunity to re-
evaluate priorities and our needs, and so many
are discovering that we need spiritual connection        L’Shalom,
to each other and to God. We cherish the people
who have found their way to us in the midst of this
pandemic, and we hope that they will stay with us
well into the future. They are a blessing.               Rabbi Roz and Cantor Jen

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Presidential Address
                                It's Time for Hope

                                P
                                     assover              And, since the days are getting warmer, as well
                                     generally signals    as brighter, we are planning a couple of outdoor
                                     the arrival of       gatherings for next month. You’ll hear more about
                                spring, a season of       them soon.
                                renewal and hope,
                                of looking forward        Still, like the Israelites’ time in the desert, all is not
                                to brighter days –        easy, as we must navigate the journey of managing
                                both literally and        our financial house. Lawrence Steingold leads a
                                figuratively.             budget committee that methodically examines
                                                          our finances, seeking new sources for revenue and
                                At Ohef Sholom, I         like with a surgeon’s scalpel, produces a balanced
   Terri Denison Budman         see plenty of bright      budget year after year. All of these number-oriented
          President             light ahead as we         minds deserve our appreciation for wading through
 president@ohefsholom.org       begin to emerge           spreadsheet after spreadsheet. This is no easy
                                from this dreadful        task, and a balanced budget really can only be
                                pandemic.                 accomplished when we all contribute, and whenever
                                                          possible, more than our fair share.
One bright example is the Nominating Committee’s
slate presented at last month’s board meeting. The        In addition to Passover, this month we celebrate
committee’s chair, Charlie Nusbaum, and those who         Yom Ha’atzmaut, Israel Independence Day, which
served with him, produced a solid, experienced,           reminds me of the Jewish state’s national anthem,
and creative slate of officers to carry us forward,       Hatikvah – The Hope.
with John Cooper as our next president and Sharon
Nusbaum as first vice president.                          Hope, coupled with our dedication and
                                                          determination, will help propel us to even better
But it’s not only the officers that are cause for         and brighter days ahead.
celebration – it’s the welcoming of new members
to the board of directors, including Frank Campion,
Byron Harrell, Deb Higgins, and Eliot Weinstein.
With this group, in addition to returning board           L’Shalom,
members and the other officers – Barb Gelb as
second vice president, Mike Jaffe as treasurer,
and Steve Kocen as secretary – Ohef Sholom’s
leadership reflects tremendous stability and hope.        Terri Denison Budman
Another bright spot for OST is the number of our
congregants who have received the vaccination,
coupled with the outreach and networking through
Ohef Sholom that has taken place to enable some
to get the shot. Certainly, the more who are ‘proud
carriers’ of the vaccine card, the sooner we’ll be able
to gather again.

Both a visual and audio bright spot, the technology
to stream our services and events from our Temple’s
sacred spaces – our chapel and sanctuary, are finally
nearing completion. My personal hope is that by
the time you read this, we’re in tune, so that you can
tune in.

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JEWISH LIFE                                APRIL

Mazel Tov!
                              Congratulations to Sydney Halpern on her upcoming
                              Bat Mitzvah on April 24!
                              Sydney is the daughter of Michelle & Steve Halpern, the granddaughter
                              of Sally & Steve Kocen and Marcia & Stanley Halpern* (*both of blessed
                              memory), and sister of Gavi, Eva, Ahna and Jillian.

Announcements
Mazel Tov to Arlene & Jack Rephan on the birth of their great-grandson, Walker James Smith, son of Sarah
Thalhimer-Smith & Trent Smith of Alexandria, VA, born on February 19, 2021, weighing 7 lbs, 9 oz. Proud
grandparents are Amy & Richard Thalhimer of Richmond, VA.

Mazel Tov to Matthew Fine for his invaluable service these last 20 years as he steps down from being a
board member for the HOPE HOUSE FOUNDATION, helping adults with developmental disabilities to live
independently in their own homes.

Mazel Tov to Amy Metzger for being Atkinson Realty's February Listing Agent of the Month!

Condolences           Ohef Sholom offers heartfelt condolences to the following members & friends:
Heather Beloff (David) on the loss of her father, Ron Dean Kelley.
Eddie Waitzer (Kathy) and Brad Waitzer (Terry) on the loss of their mother, Leah Waitzer.
Erin Balaban (Jody) on the loss of her grandmother, Evelyn McGrattan.
Dr. Jon Crockford (Patty) on the loss of his father, Jon E. "Jack" Crockford.
Elyse Stedman (Stephen) on the loss of her mother, Rosalind Pincus.

Vaccinate Virginia: COVID-19 Vaccine Statewide Pre-Registration
                       To register for the vaccine or to check if you're already registered:
                       https://vaccinate.virginia.gov/preregister.html

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Ecojudaism
Rejoice, It Is Spring

D
     uring the spring, the hymn “Behold It Is the         Seder. A more notorious parsley relative is in the
     Springtime of the Year” comes to mind. The           Bible. This plant is found in HOSEA 10:2,3-4.
     lyrics are by the British Jewish poet and scholar
Alice Lucas. Those lyrics celebrate the incredible          They swear falsely, they make covenants ; thus
and joyful changes that are happening every second        judgement springeth up as hemlock in the furrows
during this season as well as the creator of those                           of the field.
changes. For those who look and observe carefully
there is a lot to behold.                                 You may think of Socrates and poison when you
                                                          think of hemlock. Hemlock is a poisonous plant in
One plant that announces the arrival of spring is the     the Apiaceae family. Its relative the giant hogweed
daffodil (also called narcissus). These sunny cheery      has made an appearance in our state. Hogweed
flowers on their tall stems do not seem care about        is not only poisonous if ingested but touching it
the weather once they are up and growing. Many            can cause major skin burns. Hogweed can grow
varieties of daffodils have been developed by plant       to be 15 to 20 feet tall. This is an invasive and
breeders giving us a large variety of cup and petal       dangerous plant that needs to be carefully and
shapes, sizes, and color variations. This plant is also   quickly removed. It also is a painful example of why
one that can be found in the Bible in Isiah 35:1,2.       it is important to be careful about what we plant and
                                                          where we plant it.
The wilderness and the parched land shall be glad:
 and the desert shall rejoice and blossom as the          All plants in Apiaceae family have a large taproot.
                       rose.                              Many of them are ones that we eat such as carrot,
                                                          parsnip, dill, and celery. Most are hosts plants for
How did we get from a narcissus to a “rose?” The          swallowtail butterflies. The blossoms in this group of
flower referred to in the passage is from a plant         plants are composed of flat clusters of flowers called
with a bulbous root structure which roses do not          umbels. These plants are good for pollinators and
have. Based on old Hebrew writings and texts,             are insect friendly.
scholars have determined that the plant referred
to is Narcsissus tazetta which grows naturally in         In Alice Lucas’s lyrics she writes about the joy of
Israel and in the                                         spring and reminds us to rejoice in our heritage and
Mediterranean                                             the freedom that we have been given from God. In
area. The bright                                          this month, that includes Earth Day on April 22, our
yellow flowers                                            thoughts and actions need to include everyday care
brighten the hills                                        of the natural environment through our choices and
and landscape in                                          actions. During this special month we can and must
late winter and                                           do more.
early spring.

Another plant that
we associate with                                                               Jackie Haywood
spring is parsley,                                                              EcoJudaism Chair
which is part of                                                                jackiewoh2@yahoo.com | 757-588-7687
the Apiaceae
famly. Parsley is
not a plant that
is included in
the Bible but it is
  traditionally used    Curley Parsley and Fennel are
      in our Passover   both members is the Apiaceae
                                    family.

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Sisterhood
W      e hope you joined us as we celebrated
       Passover by learning how to cook Matzah the
       traditional way. Thank you to Abbey Pachter
and Nina Kruger for their leadership and help with
                                                          Our mission, as stated
                                                          on the website:
                                                          “OST Sisterhood is a
                                                          community of welcoming
this. By the time you read this, we should already be     women from all walks of life
celebrating Passover. Maybe, just maybe, we will all      who meet for spiritual,
be having a little more freedom, which this holiday
                                                          educational, and social growth                 Gail W. Bachman
                                                          through Judaism. Our diverse                   Sisterhood President
observes.                                                 members are all ages and come                  sisterhood@ohefsholom.org
                                                          from varying backgrounds, allowing
I have had some inquiries about more crafts so we         us to join together to serve the needs of our congregation
will try and make this happen. We are also planning       and community, while cultivating life-long friendships."
another Book Club so watch for details for this and
other events coming your way in the near future.
                                                        As we continue to look for ways to engage the
Since our Sisterhood was a founding member of our       women of Ohef Sholom, we welcome your ideas
national organization in 1913, we have re-joined the    and hope you will join us. If you have not yet
WRJ, Women of Reform Judaism. They also have            officially updated your membership, please look for
articles and activities which may be of interest to     the link in the As the Temple Turns or just check the
you. Please visit their website at WRJ.org or signup    Temple’s website. New Temple members get a free
for the WRJ Mid-Atlantic District newsletter, The       membership for their first year.
Candle, at
                                                        Yours in Sisterhood,
https://wrj.org/newsletter. I will also be glad to
forward it to you if you would like. Just email me at   Gail
sisterhood@ohefsholom.org.                              Cell: (757) 646-2281 | sisterhood@ohefsholom.org

Men's Club
T
    his past March, we had a very productive zoom       UPCOMING
    meeting. We discussed some key issues dealing       MEETINGS:
    with financial assistance for the Temple. We
were told the chairs on the Bimah in the sanctuary      April 7
needed repairing and re-covering. The request for       May 5
Men’s Club helping with funding this project was        June 2                                               Tom Bachman
unanimously approved.                                                                                        Men's Club President
                                                                                                             mensclub@ohefsholom.org
A project near and dear to my heart is the Purim
Carnival. The Men’s Club has helped with this for
many decades because we want to be sure our                Become A
youth groups - OSTY/JOSTY - are well taken care of.
Since this event did not happen, I am pleased and          Member online:
proud to say that we voted to donate $500 to assist        ohefsholom.org/mens-club/
our kids with attending future Kallahs.

Please come to our next meeting, on April 7
at 7 o’clock. We can use your ideas and input.

Sincerely,

Tom
Cell: 757-635-0682 | mensclub@ohefsholom.org
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UPCOMING PROGRAMMING APRIL
                          April 8 | 6:45 pm
                          Yom Hashoah 2021 featuring Holocaust Survivor Marian
                          Weinzwig
                          Ohef Sholom Temple is proud to host the Holocaust
                          Commission of the UJFT's livestream event featuring
                          Holocaust Survivor, Marion Weinzwig of Arizona, where
                          we will HONOR AND REMEMBER all those involved in the
                          Holocaust. Tune in for the livestream on our Facebook
                          page at https://www.facebook.com/ohefsholomtemple/

                          April 9 | 6:30 pm
                          Men's Club Shabbat Service: Holocaust Remembrance
                          featuring guest speaker ODU Professor Annette Finley-
                          Croswhite
                          Please join us for a special Shabbat Service hosted by the
                          Ohef Sholom Temple Men's Club. Our guest speaker will
                          be ODU History Professor Annette Finley-Croswhite, who
                          will speak on her forthcoming book, Esther’s Shadow:
                          French Memory of the Shoah and Why it Matters. Tune in
                          for the livestream of services on our Facebook page at
                          https://www.facebook.com/ohefsholomtemple/

                          April 11 | 10:30 am
                          Wiggles & Giggles: Yom Ha'atzmaut
                          Book: Grover Goes to Israel
                          Specifically for young children, age three months (or
                          younger) to four years and their families. Wiggles & Giggles
                          uses play, stories, crafts, music and movement to introduce
                          very young children to their Jewish world.

                          Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87410205578

                          April 13 & 20 | 7 - 9 pm
                          theatre dybbuk: one community many stories: Israel
                          In this special series of events, theatre dybbuk will help us
                          uncover our own narratives connected to our relationships
                          to Israel. The company’s team of professional actors will
                          then read a selection of these narratives, sharing our stories
                          with the community. This program is made possible by a
                          grant from the Helen G. Gifford Foundation and brought to
                          you by Ohef Sholom Temple's Adult Education Committee.

                          RSVP REQUIRED to: reservations@ohefsholom.org

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April 13 & 27 | 9 pm
D'Bar Torah
For young adults, ages 21-42. Please join us for our virtual
D'Bar Torah every other Tuesday evening. Eliot Weinstein
and Nina Kruger invite you to grab a beverage and join
them on Zoom for Torah study and adult conversation.

To join D'Bar Torah, call Nina at 757-625-4295 or email her
at membership@ohefsholom.org for the Zoom link and
password.

April 14 | 7 pm
Sisterhood Presents: Yoga Can be Done Here, There
AND in a Chair with Carol Dalton
All are invited to join Sisterhood for a participatory chair
yoga program with yoga teacher, Carol Dalton, that will
focus on breathing, movement and meditation, tools that
can be used everyday to provide calm and confidence,
particularly during these uncertain times. RSVP to
reservations@ohefsholom.org or call 757-625-4295.

April 17 & May 15 | 7 - 9 pm
Havdalah Hootenanny with Jeanne & Bob Zentz
On the third Saturday of the month from 7-9 pm, join
Jeanne and Bob Zentz on Zoom for a "Zing-along." Bring
your own song, request a song, read a poem, tell a story,
play an instrument, share some pictures... whatever you
like! Everyone takes a turn and participates as they wish, in
the style of good ol' community singing and sharing.
All ages and all folks are welcome!

Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86705155820

April 26 | 10:30 am - 1 pm
Soup Kitchen
Our Soup Kitchen offers so much to guests and volunteers
alike, yet we need volunteers to continue these good
deeds every month. Spend a few hours helping to feed
and provide basic clothing and toiletry items to 75-80 very
appreciative folks in need. All COVID-19 precautions will be
followed. Are you available to fulfill this mitzvah?

If so, please contact Dorianne Villani at 757-617-8624
or dvillani@cox.net.

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Education
Religious School Update
Our Weird But Wonderful Religious School Year!

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     s our Religious School year is drawing              Last year, right after our Purim Carnival, we closed
     to a close and we look back on this very            our doors to in-person education and opened the
     challenging time, I am pleased to report that       door to online (Virtual) learning … and learning in a
in spite of all the challenges, our Sunday Learning      scary crisis.
has been quite successful. We have had wonderful
cooperation with everyone working together. We           Since we had to resort to a distance – almost
are so grateful to the Religious School Committee,       detached – approach, we needed to learn new
chaired by Tammi Foer and Alyson Morrissey, and          ways to reach our students and teach them virtually,
our wonderful teachers and staff for the very hard       completely reconstructing all of our classes to do
work, dedication and creativity that made this year      so. It looked like we could be virtually educating for
a great experience for all. And we especially want       a long while, so we needed more than a quick fix.
to thank all our families for their continued support,   We needed to plan for the next year.
participation and encouragement.

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Our major option was to offer school on Zoom.              The curriculum called for a box of study and arts &
Because of the length of time and number of                crafts materials for each of four 5-week sessions to
classes, we had to purchase the Educational Zoom           be distributed to each student. We didn’t want to
program. All of our teachers needed and received           over burden parents who were already overwhelmed
special Zoom training. We are so grateful to the           with the changes in regular school so we set up four
United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and the              drive-through dates when families could come and
Tidewater Jewish Foundation for their grants that          get their box of complete supplies. This has been
made it possible to purchase the Zoom Educational          our only in-person contact, and of course, it is with
Program and provide Zoom training and other virtual        socially distancing and masks on everyone, but
enhancements to enrich our classes. As our in-             still nice for the teachers to greet each student in
school curriculum simply was not suited to distance        person, even at a distance.
learning, we had to develop a new curriculum.
                                                           Our teachers added many interesting interactive
We were lucky to find a group of other Jewish              learning activities and the classes play games and
educators that also needed a new curriculum.               do crafts together to help alleviate the screen time.
Working together with the Jewish Education Council
of Cleveland, who received a grant to write it,            Our virtual family holiday programs have been as
we helped to develop La Bri’ut, which is Hebrew            exciting as we could make them.
for To Our Health and Welfare, a curriculum that
specifically deals with the problems of isolation, fear,   All in all it has been a good year thanks to all of you
and illness that a pandemic brings.                        who participated. We are looking forward to the
                                                           time we can all be together again in person. Next
Our teachers participated in online training               year in Ohef Sholom Temple!
for teaching the new curriculum. And we had a lot of
new technology to figure out. These things took up         For more information on Ohef Sholom Temple's
much of our summer.                                        Religious School program, please contact Kitty
                                                           Wolf at 757-625-4295 or kitty@ohefsholom.org.

                                                                                        APRIL 2021           11
Education
UPCOMING Religious School DATES
APR. 4             APR. 11                APR. 18                 APR. 25
No                 9:00 am                9:00 am                 9:00 am
Religious          Hebrew                 Hebrew                  Hebrew
School             10:30 am               10:30 am                10:30 am
                   Religious              Religious               Religious
                   School                 School                  School
                   Wiggles &
                   Giggles

ADULT EDUCATION

                                                                                             Specifically for young families and children,
                                                                                             birth through four years, Wiggles & Giggles
                                                                                             introduces young children to their Jewish
                                                                                             World. For more info call 757-625-4295 or
April 13 & 20 at 7:00 pm                                                                     contact Kitty Wolf at kitty@ohefsholom.
                                                                                             org or Allena Anglen at
about the program                                                                            allenahurwitz@gmail.com.
one community, many stories                                                                  Zoom Meeting ID: 874 1020 5578 |
At a One Community, Many Stories event,                                                      Passcode: 469923
theatre dybbuk creates a communal experience
through creative writing, personal storytelling, and
performance. The event personalizes and illuminates
a theme, lifting up diverse voices within the                               The company’s team of professional actors will then
community and bringing together all who attend.                             read a selection of these narratives, sharing our
                                                                            stories with the community.
about
theatre dybbuk                                                              1st Session: April 13 | 7:00 pm
theatre dybbuk creates provocative new works that                           Story workshop – In this session, all participants will
blend physical theatre with dance, poetry, and music                        have an opportunity to write their stories, digging
for exciting, utterly singular live experiences. The                        into their own histories and feelings.
company explores the rich world of Jewish folklore,
rituals, and history, building lyrical performances                         2nd Session: April 20 | 7:00 pm
that illuminate universal human experience for
contemporary audiences.                                                     Presentation – At this virtual event, theatre dybbuk
https://www.theatredybbuk.org/                                              actors will read a selection of the stories that were
                                                                            created in the story workshop for any community
one community, many stories: Israel                                         members who care to join us!
In this special series of events, theatre dybbuk will
                                                                            RSVPs are REQUIRED for this event!
 help us uncover our own narratives connected to                            Please email reservations@ohefsholom.org to
    our relationships to Israel.                                            secure your spot today!
        – This program is sponsored by OST's Adult Education Committee and is made possible by a grant from the Helen G. Gifford Foundation. –

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ADULT EDUCATION CONTINUED

                     with Rabbi Roz, Cantor Jen and Janice Kaplan

As we emerge from quarantine, how will we live differently? What
can Judaism teach us about living a life of happiness? What is the
role of gratitude in happiness? What are some meaningful ways
to move forward? Join us for a three-part series on “Finding
Happiness” with Rabbi Roz, Cantor Jen, and Author Janice Kaplan.

This event is brought to Ohef Sholom Temple through the
United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and the Simon Family
JCC’s Lee and Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival, held in
coordination with the Jewish Book Council, the only organization in
the organized American Jewish community whose sole purpose is
the promotion of Jewish books.

Save the Dates!
Tuesday, May 11 at 7 pm
Part 1 with Rabbi Roz
Happiness: The Jewish Way

Tuesday, June 8 at 7 pm                                                 Author Janice Kaplan
Part 2 with Janice Kaplan
The Gratitude Diaries: How Gratitude Works

Tuesday, July 13 at 7 pm                               Please be on the lookout for more
Part 3 with Cantor Jen                                 information and registration details
The Way Forward                                        coming soon!

                                                                            APRIL 2021         13
Donations
We appreciate the thoughtfulness of those who support OST
                             by remembering and honoring their friends and loved ones through their generous contributions.
                   Donations can be submitted to Temple via mail, over the phone, or online at https://ohefsholom.org/donations/

MOLLIE AND                   CARING                      *Jane & Lenny Frieden      *Barbara & Bill Hearst     *Phyllis Chernitzer         *Faith Fuhrman              REGINA S. KATZ
GEORGE RADIN                 COMMITTEE FUND              Ellen & Jon Harris         *Jay Legum                 *Susan & Andrew Cohen       *Anne & James Gildea        *Marsha & Lewis
ARCHIVES FUND                - SOUP KITCHEN              Lyn Horowitz               *Arlene & Jack Rephan      *Robin Cowherd              *Helene & Bernie              Hirschler
In Honor of:                 In Memory of:               *Linda & Morty Kaplan      *Nancy & Alvin Wall        *Esther & Glenn Diskin         Grablowsky               HELEN KOLTUN
ALICE TITUS                  YVONNE COOK                 Ida & Bill Kittner         *Gerald Zeno, Rebecca      Barbara Dudley              Ellen & Jon Harris          *Marilyn & Stuart
Debbie & Mark Friedman       Marilyn Levy                *Bonnie & Jeff Laibstain   Smith & Luke Smith         *Jane & Frederick           *Carol & David Hirschler      Buxbaum
In Memory of:                MARTY EINHORN               Roslyn & Barney Michael    Wishing a                    Dantonio                  *Angelita & Raul Ilagan     *June & Bo Saks
MARTY EINHORN                *Ellen & Richard Hundley    *Jeanne, Julius & Bessie   Happy Birthday to:         *Beverly & Alan Frieden     Wendy & Albert Konikoff     ROSE ROSENBACH
*Ruth & Edward Legum         *Lynn & Jeff Sachs            Miller                   RABBI ROZ                  *Jane & Lenny Frieden       Emmy Lou & Arthur           *Blanche B. Nusbaum
DR. CHARLES FISH             DR. CHARLES FISH            *Susan & Alan                MANDELBERG               *Greta Gustavson               Kruger                   *Marilyn & Stuart
Barbara Pributsky            Shelley & Jeff Loeb           Nordlinger               *Debbie & Larry Kurtz      *Joyce & Harry Graber       *Aline & Neil Landy           Buxbaum
ARLENE ZENO                  MARTY FREEDMAN              *Ann                                                  *Susan & Paul Hirschbiel    Irene Mazel                 LEAH WAITZER
Ruth & Edward Legum          Ilene & Mark Snyder         *Sharon, Bill & Leigh      OHEF SHOLOM                *Carol & David Hirschler    Ilene Putterman             *Elayne Axel
*Karen Plotnick              ROBIN KATZ                                             FOUNDATION                 *Janet & Billy Kass         *Brenda Rountree            *Marilyn & Stuart
                             Ilene & Mark Snyder         *Becky & Jim Owens         UNRESTRICTED               *Jodi & Jay Klebanoff       *Madeleine & Alan             Buxbaum
BONK-RIVIN                   SUSAN KATZ                  *Paula Russel              FUNDS                        & Family                     Samuels                  *Martha & Rob
HOLOCAUST                    Ilene & Mark Snyder         *June & Bo Saks            In Memory of:              Sharon Leach                *Viky L. Wood & James         Goodman
LIBRARY FUND                 HELEN KOLTUN                Betsy & Andy Saslawsky     DR. TED ADLER              Brenda & Sheal Lisner          Sellers                  Ruth Schepper
Speedy Recovery to:          Shelley & Jeff Loeb         *Lynn & Bob Seltzer        *Minette & Charles         *Carol & David Pariser      *Bobby & Mimi Stein         ARLENE ZENO
MARION WEINZWIG              NORMAN                      *Carol & Lou Sherman         Cooper                   Barbara Pributsky           *The Center for Arthritis   *Susan & Jim Eilberg
Marilyn Levy                    MANDELBERG               *Mary Soule                *Arthur, Beth, & Richard   *Judith Rachels                & Rheumatic Diseases     *Blanche B. Nusbaum
                             Shelley & Jeff Loeb           & Amy Camp                 Diamonstein and          Arlene & Jack Rephan        *Ruth Weinberg              *Nancy & Charlie
CANTOR                       GERALD PRIBUTSKY            *Nancy & Alvin Wall          Anne & Lawrence          Lisa & Murray Rosenbach     Speedy Recovery to:           Nusbaum
JENNIFER                     Shelley & Jeff Loeb         Dorothy Zimmerman            Fleder                   *Sara Jo & Joel Rubin       GERALD ADELMAN
RUEBEN'S                     ROSE ROSENBACH                                         MARTY EINHORN              *Paula Russel               *Connie & David             LOUIS H. & ANNE
DISCRETIONARY                *Lillian & Richard Cooper   LIBRARY FUND               Sally Adler                *Margaret & Bill Sawyer        Adelman                  K. FRIEDMAN
FUND                         *Judith & Donald Hurwitz    In Honor of:               *Sally & Steve Kocen       *Patti & Paul Seeman        VIVIAN MARGULIES            TREASURER'S FUND
Speedy Recovery to:                                      DAVID TITUS                ROSE ROSENBACH             *Carol & Lou Sherman        *Elise Berkowitz            In Honor of the Birth of
CANTOR JEN RUEBEN            BEATRICE L. BERLIN          Debbie & Mark Friedman     Sally Adler                *Leslie & Michael Shroyer   With Appreciation to:       Celia & Jay Friedman's
*Carol Rosenblatt            ELDERLY NEEDS                                          *Minette & Charles         *Bradley Waitzer            RABBI ROZ                   grandson:
With Appreciation to:        FUND                        LOVE THY                     Cooper                   *Nancy & Alvin Wall            MANDELBERG &             ADEN ROTENBERG
CANTOR JEN RUEBEN            In Honor of Receiving       NEIGHBOR FUND              *Jodie & Jack Frieden      Barb Gelb & Kenny              CANTOR JEN RUEBEN        Debbie, Mark & Bradley
Sandy & Marty                the VCIC Humanitarian       In Memory of:              *Sally & Steve Kocen         Weinstein                 *Janet & Billy Kass           Friedman
  Mendelsohn                 Award:                      EVAN DARROW                Sharon Leach               JOSEPH GOLDMAN              With Appreciation:          In Memory of:
*Paula Russel                LAWRENCE STEINGOLD          *Beth & Richard            *Jay Legum                 *Suzanne Barr               *Elizabeth & Tom Murphy     ROSE ROSENBACH
*Carol & Lou Sherman         *Carol Rosenblatt             Diamonstein              *Judy & Bob Rubin          *Susan Clayman                                          Celia & Jay Friedman
                             In Memory of:               MARTY EINHORN              ARLENE ZENO                LONA S. GRUBER              CHUCK
CARING                       DR. TED ADLER               *Terri & Lonny Sarfan      Sally Adler                *Jane & Lenny Frieden       WOODWARD                    LESLIE
COMMITTEE FUND               *Carol Rosenblatt           *Nash Tillotson            *Minette & Charles         NAOMI HECHT                 MUSIC FUND                  LEGUM CAMP
In Honor of Receiving        MARTY EINHORN               HELEN KOLTUN                 Cooper                   Emmy Lou & Arthur           In Honor of Receiving       SCHOLARSHIP
the VCIC Humanitarian        *Carol Rosenblatt           *Terri & Lonny Sarfan                                   Kreger                    the VCIC Humanitarian       FUND
Award:                       HELEN KOLTUN                                           GAIL WASSERMAN             MARILYN KIRSCHNER           Award:                      In Honor of
LAWRENCE STEINGOLD           *Carol Rosenblatt           MEN'S CLUB                 BACHMAN                    Brenda & Sheal Lisner       LAWRENCE STEINGOLD          the Bar Mitzvah of:
Nancy & Steve                ROSE & KURT                 In Memory of:              EDUCATIONAL                HELEN KOLTUN                Elayne Axel                 LEVI FIROVED
  Rosenberg                  ROSENBACH                   MARTY EINHORN              FUND                       *Suzanne Barr               *Marilyn & Stuart           Sandy & Marty
In Memory of:                *Carol Rosenblatt           *Mark Hecht                In Memory of:              *Marc, Mary Ann & Kate        Buxbaum                     Mendelsohn
MARTY EINHORN                ARLENE ZENO                                            JUDY EICHELBAUM              Caplan                    In Memory of:               In Memory of:
*The Kyle Family             *Carol Rosenblatt           RABBI ROSALIN              *Gail & Tom Bachman        *Marilyn Goldman            MARTY EINHORN               HELEN KOLTUN
*Sharon, Bill                                            MANDELBERG’S               MARTY EINHORN              Jody & David Laibstain      *Marge & Harold Anten       *Betsy & Erik Cooper
  & Leigh Nusbaum            FINE ARTS FUND              DISCRETIONARY              *Gail & Tom Bachman        Arlene & Jack Rephan        *Cantor Jennifer Bern-      L. DAVID LEGUM
HELEN KOLTUN                 In Memory of:               FUND                       ROSE ROSENBACH             *Sue Ellen & Seymour        Vogel & Ira L. Vogel        *Jay Legum
*Ellen & Bill Wagner         ROSE & KURT                 In Honor of the            *Gail & Tom Bachman          Teach                     *Terri & Steve Budman       PAULINE ROTHSCHILD
ARLENE ZENO                    ROSENBACH                 Anniversary of:            ARLENE ZENO                JEROME PERLMAN              *Marilyn & Start              LEGUM
*Larry & Cathay              Lorraine Fink               RABBI ROZ & MARTY          *Gail & Tom Bachman        *Sally Adler                  Buxbaum                   *Jay Legum
  Crockin Kinzler            LEAH WAITZER                  MANDELBERG                                          *Terri Lea Bayless          *Arleen Cohen
Speedy Recovery to:          Sally Adler                 Sandy & Marty              SISTERHOOD                   & Children                Susan & Jim Eilberg
LOU SHERMAN                  *Arlene & Jack Rephan         Mendelsohn               In Memory of:              *Carol & David Pariser      *Claire & Marvin
Nancy & Steve                                            In Memory of:              MARILYN KIRSCHNER          GERALD PRIBUTSKY              Friedberg
  Rosenberg                  EDWARD J. KESSER            MARTY EINHORN              Harriet & Gerry Bloom      *Marsha & Lewis             *Martha & Rob
                             RELIGIOUS SCHOOL            *Suzanne Barr              ROSE ROSENBACH               Hirschler                   Goodman
CARING                       FUND                        *Jodie & Jack Frieden      *Marsha & Marty Moody      ROSE ROSENBACH              *Barbara & Bill Hearst
COMMITTEE                    In Memory of:               Betty Hecht                                           Joyce & Harry Graber        *Joyce & Jay Kossman
FUND - NEST                  DR. TED ADLER               *Jane & Dan Laibstain      SISTERHOOD                 *Laurie & Neil Halpert      *Ted Kruger
In Honor of:                 *Howard Kesser              *Jay Legum                 FLORAL FUND                  & Family                  Debbie & Larry Kurtz
SHARON ROSS                  JEROME PERLMAN              CLEMENT HAROLD             In Memory of:              *Beth & Nathan Jaffe        *Bonnie & Jeff Laibstain
*Prue & Michael Salasky      *Howard Kesser                GOLDEN                   LEE J. HOFHEIMER           *Jodi & Jay Klebanoff       *Jeanne & Julius Miller
In Memory of:                JUDY PETOCK                 Connie & Gerald Golden     *Marcia Hofheimer            & Family                  *Marsha & Marty Moody
HELEN KOLTUN                 Marilyn Levy                JOSEPH GOLDMAN             DR. ROLAND KOSLICK         Carol & Leonard             *Ann
Dianne Epplein               ROSE ROSENBACH              *June Goldman              Gabriele Jiannas             Laibstain                 *Nancy & Charlie
BARBARA & WILLIAM            *Howard Kesser              Roslyn & Barney Michael    BETH STEPHANIE             *Cat & Charlie Lineberry      Nusbaum and
  LUBAR                      ARLENE ZENO                 ALVIN MARGOLIUS              KRAKOWER                 Arlene & Jack Rephan          Beth Curtiss
*Debbie & Paul Moore         *Howard Kesser              Suzanne Barr               Sheila & Matthew           *Margaret & Bill Sawyer     *Randy & Irving Pike
ARLENE ZENO                    & Sharon Laderberg        ROSE ROSENBACH               Krakower                 PEARL SCHERR                *Ann & Paul Rudd
*Carol & Robert Laibstain                                *Suzanne Barr                                         *Margaret & Bill Sawyer     *Ruth Schepper
                             KURT'S CLUB                 *The Buckman Family        TEMPLE FUND                ARLENE ZENO                 *Pam & Dan Snyder
                             In Memory of:               Betty Hecht                In Memory of:              *Elise Berkowitz            *Baila & Bruce Waldholtz
                             ROSE ROSENBACH              *Jane & Dan Laibstain      TED ADLER                  *Charlotte Corey & Alice    *Beth & Rolf Williams
                             Harriet & Gerry Bloom       LEAH WAITZER               *Suzanne Barr              Cooper Goodman              DR. HARLEY ELLMAN
                             *Wendy Brodsky              Betty Hecht                Betty Hecht                Inez & Lloyd Cox            *Blanche B. Nusbaum
                             Barbara Dudley              *Buzzy Schulwolf           Judy & Mannie Smith        *Sarah Deaver & Ben         JOSEPH GOLDMAN
                             Lois & Barry Einhorn        ARLENE ZENO                MARTY EINHORN                Towle                     *Marilyn & Stuart
                                                         *Suzanne Barr              Jeffrey Chernitzer         *Jane & Lenny Frieden         Buxbaum

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Life&Legacy                                                                 *denotes gifts of $25 or more

Investing in the Future, Investing the 175th Funds

O
      ne of the most important aspects of                   short term needs and
      development or fundraising is donor                   will allow us to take
      stewardship. It is vital to create and cultivate      advantage of higher
relationships with donors that, when done with              interest rates when they
proper care and intention, grow stronger and more           move higher.”
meaningful over time. Fostering these relationships
is a vital component in creating a culture of gratitude     The Investment
and philanthropy.                                           Task Force’s
                                                            recommendation was
We continue to express our sincere gratitude to all         approved by the F&D
who made the 175th Anniversary Campaign such a              Committee and then the Temple Board in February.
success. We want to keep you, our donors, informed          This investment strategy, along with the Capital
and engaged with how your gift is being strategically       Replacement Allocation Plan created several years
invested and managed and its continued impact on            ago, will allow us to expertly manage and maximize
our OST community. Our hope is that by sharing this         the funds raised over the next decade and beyond.
information with you, you can rest assured your gift        We hope both these plans together give you, our
is being used to its maximum potential.                     donors, a solid sense of comfort and faith that
                                                            your dollars are being used wisely and with careful
The campaign raised $1,756,000. To date, we have            consideration. Trust is built by acts of trustworthiness
collected $1,243,146, which have been deposited at          and is the foundation of any healthy and meaningful
TowneBank as they have been received. In order to           relationship.
financially secure the funds as well as maximize the
potential of these funds, an Ad Hoc Investment Task         Together we have created a strong foundation
Force was created to explore how best to achieve            for our community for today and tomorrow. We
these goals. Under the leadership of long standing          truly have worked hard to foster a culture that
OST member Jay Legum who currently serves on                understands the value of giving back, and paying it
the Finance and Development Committee, the                  forward, of caring and providing for all. As always,
Investment Task Force developed a strategic plan of         our sincere gratitude to, and for, you!
investment for the funds.

Byron Harrell, a member of the Investment Task
Force, offered this explanation of the investment           For more information, please contact Matthew
strategy, which primarily aims to minimize risk while       Fine, Ohef Sholom Foundation President, at
staying true to our fiduciary responsibility:               matthewfine@cox.net or 757-407-1368.

“We collectively decided that we wanted to have a
conservative posture with a time frame of 6 months
to 10 years while avoiding investing in equities,”                                             Rachael Nusbaum
explains Byron. “We decided to invest the money                                                LIFE & LEGACY
in three tranches while keeping under $50,000 in                                               lifeandlegacy@ohefsholom.org
TowneBank. The first tranche will be invested in
several money markets with the idea of short term
liquidity. The second tranche is invested in laddered
Certificate of Deposits at several financial institutions
at different maturities. The third tranche is invested
in a short term duration core bond managed by
Lord Abbett. This fund is managed for income by
investing in broad range high-quality, short duration
bonds, limiting credit risk and interest rate risk.
Collectively this will give the temple access for

                                                                                         APRIL 2021                 15
Life&Legacy

LIFE & LEGACY: Year 4 Summary Report
W
      e are pleased to share the following LIFE & LEGACY: Year 4 Summary and Report, which details
      Ohef Sholom’s successes throughout the program. When we partnered with the Harold Grinspoon
      and the Tidewater Jewish Foundation at the start of this program, we couldn’t have predicted what a
wild success it would be. Together, we created a strong foundation for the future for our Jewish Community.

Year 4 Ohef Sholom Highlights:
    • In 4 years, Ohef Sholom Temple secured 81 new commitments totaling an estimated $3,557,148 in
      current and future endowed gifts.

    • Of those 81 commitments, 65 (85% - goal achieved) have been formalized, deferred, or lost.

    • 8 new commitments were secured in 2020 (goal achieved).

    • Ohef Sholom Temple has done an exceptional job achieving the annual program goals. The
      organization is leading the community in total number of commitments secured. In 2020, the team
      achieved both the base and stretch goals earning a total of $10,000 in incentive grants for their
      organization.

Gift Stage Details:

                                        OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE

        Formalized                                                          65 (80.3%)

        Committed                                                           12 (14.8%)
        Deferred (to be formalized at a later date)                         3 (3.7%)
        Lost (donor declined to formalize)                                  1 (1.2%)
                                                                TOTAL: 81 (100%)

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Type of Asset to be Gifted (lost gifts excluded):

                                       OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE

              Asset Type                # of       % of        Estimated              % of Total
                                        Gifts      Total         Dollars                Dollars
                                                   Gifts       Committed              Committed
      Bequest/Trust                    11        13.6%       $491,001             14%
      Residual from DAF                5         6.2%        $177,502             5%
      Life Insurance                   10        12.4%       $1,797,760           51%
      Cash / Current Assets            31        38.3%       $479,245             13%
      Retirement Assets                16        19.8%       $457,510             13%
      To Be Determined                 4         4.9%        $80,003              7.6%
      Real Estate                      2         2.5%        $50,002              1%
      Other                            2         2.5%        $24,125              0.6%
                           TOTAL: 81                 –       $3,557,148                       –

Donor Age Range (55/81 donors provided birthdate information):

                                        OHEF SHOLOM TEMPLE

      90 & Up                               9              51-60                              10
      81-90                                 11             41-50                              2
      71-80                                 9              31-40                              0
      61-79                                 14             30 & Under                         0
Thank you for your support of this effort and our community. We look forward to this becoming
an ongoing effort, instilling in our culture the value of caring for our future now. Let’s keep the
momentum going together!

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Yahrzeits                                APRIL                                    *denotes memorial plaque

Mar 28 - Apr 3      Beatrice Shapiro    Lillian D. Mervis*   Pauline D. Golub    Gerald Bloom         Apr 25 - May 1
Daniel Abramson     Jean Sherman        Marion Radin         John M. Gordon*     Esta Bodner*         Esther Alcalay
Donald Allison      Rose Zins Siegel*     Mirmelstein*       Zalman Graber       Phillip Brenner      Barney Barr
Louis Belkov        Sadie Sobelman      Ruth Orleans         Anthony Maurice     Lea Brooke           Annie F. Baydush*
Lottie Berk         Sara Sterns         Rae Perlman            Graves            Abraham              Sidney Berg
Bessie Bernstein    Elizabeth           Emilio Posada        Franklin Eugene       Chernitzer         Charlie A. Bland
Rachel Grossman       Waldman           Joseph Postove*        Green             Jon Cohen            Maysie Braudrick
  Blachman          Virginia M.         Ann Prisco           Ruth E. Gutherz     Ben Cooper*          Elizabeth Bress
Rebecca               Wallace           George Radin*        Mabel Hirschbiel    Lawrence A.          Ira Cantin*
  Bohrman*          Abe Wilks*          Allen Reisner        Aline Fies            Crockin*           Eric Cash
Abraham             Maria Zapatero      Edward Ring            Hofheimer*        M. Dan Dalis*        Harold Cinamon
  Brotman           Esther              Annie Rosen*         Ben Jaffe           Rebecca              Lillian Judith
Annie Cash            Zimmerman         Louis Roth           Mollie Javinsky       Davidson             Egermann
Bessie Liebman                          Ruth Golub Roth*     Mina H. Levine*     J. Edward Eller      A. Luie Fass*
  Codd*             Apr 4 - 10          Miriam Russ          Dr. Edward Levy*    Ralph Fass*          Herman Feldman
Mervin Cooper*      Leo Ahearn          Burton Schepper      Kenneth             Julia Feldstein*     Lawrence S.
Hershel Coplon      Izzy Albinder       Louis A.               McMillan          Emanuel C.             Fisher
Rabbi Arnold Fink   Eli Baer              Schulman           Hannah Melville*      Friedman           Maurice Frank*
Patricia            Sallie Brown*       Rose Shiffrin        Jennie              Rose Frances         Bessie Goldrich*
  Finkelstein       Dr. Morton A.       Louis Walter           Mendelsohn          Glasser*           Pauline Goodman
Lenore                Brownstein          Small              Robert D.           Judith Green         Lila Green
  Finkelstein       Adele Finkleman     Rita Smith             Mervis*           Dr. Jerome Gross     Stanley Samuel
Albert Fox            Carl              Bernard Snyder       Helen W. Mervis     Joseph C. Hecht        Gross*
Herbert             Louis Chanin*       Rabbi Samuel         Anne Miller*        Carlyn Herman        Mary Grossman*
  Friedman*         Georgia Cohen         Sobel*             Dr. Solomon Baer    Gus Hermes           Fannie Grossman
Diane Getzen        Bennie Cooper       Arthur Steinberg       Mizroch*          Helen Isay           Herbert Hainer
Naomi Giat          Renee G.            Ben Steingold*       Jack Moon           Isaac Jacobs*        Sondra Hanberry
Helene Gilbert        Diamonstein       Shelia               Sarah Moss          Robert Katz          Mary Nelle
Sidney Golding      Nina Douglas          Wasserman*         Justine             Arlene B. Kesser       Hankins
Estelle B.          William B. Ein      Rose Wax               Lowenberg         Mary                 Jeffrey Haspel
  Goldman*          Irwin "Jerry"       Sam Weinberg           Nusbaum*            Koenigsberg        Estelle K.
Augusta S.            Epstein           Herbert              Etta H. Plant*      Dr. Robert Kraus       Hornstein*
  Goodman*          Lois Troy             Weitsman           Joseph              Margaret Kraus       Howard A.
Leroy M.              Feldman           Seymour I. Wilks       Raymond*          Joseph H.              Jameson
  Goodman           Maxine              Yetta Hier           Mildred F.            Liverman           Sidney Leon Katz
Jessie Greenberg      Friedman*           Yanofsky             Rephan            Edward Loeb          Martha C. Kirby
Leo Hermann         Morris Friedman     Jerome A. Zentz      Barbara Rice        Helen Loeb*          Jeanette G.
Samuel              Samuel J.                                Ida Rosenberg       Alvin D. London        Lapidus
  Himmelstein         Garfinkel*        Apr 11 - 17          Frances Sallmaier   Gussie Smith         Joseph Lazier
Rose S.             Simon Gutterman     Owen                 Charles Schwartz      Milrod             Maurice
  Jacobson*         James Guy             Adams, Jr.*        Sarah Seiderman*    Doris Morrison         Livingston
Stanley Jason       Max Haber           Francis G. Berger    Sayde Sher*         Ethel Myers          Harry Markoff
Celia Kaufman*      Mary Haverty        Dr. Maxwell          Martin T. Siegel    Charles Nickenig     Norman Mesh
Joyce Klein         Hannah Hoffer*        Berman*            Phyllis Sondra      Henry Norment        Rose K.
Albert Kupferman    Sara Jacobs         William Bernstein      Silverstein       Robert                 Nordlinger*
Hilda R. Lazaron    Pauline Kaplan      Bernard Beskin       Ann R. Singer         Oestreicher        Beverly Rostov
Estelle Lefkowitz   Harris Kawalick*    Abraham              Nettie Soble        Harry Pincus, Jr.*   Jane Sagen
Hedy Lenz           Sean Keville          Chernitzer         Annette             Ruth Mae Rose*       Dr. Milton Salasky
Alden H. Lerner*    Rose Klein          Elias Codd*            Soldinger         Hans Rosenbach       Charles S.
Sparks W.           Aline Lansburgh*    Sarah S. Cogen       Eleanor Sommers     Lois Rothschild        Silberman*
  Melton*           Margaret            Bernard Cohen        Jeffrey B.          George M. Sears*     David William
Florence              Lasakow           Arthur Cooper*         Spindel*          Martin A.              Silverstein
  Mendoza*          Arthur Eugene       John Cross           Milford Stein*        Thompson*          Jean M. Snyder
Florence F.           Lasko             Miriam Cross         Jefferson           Lillian E. Twining   Jean Spearans*
  Meyerson*         Max Lefkowitz       Lillian Dauer          Steinhart         Alice P. Vaughn      Sally Taubman
Maurice Minskoff    Gilbert E. Levin    Nissim David         Elinor Summers      Jack I.              Michael
Ellura C. Porter    Irene Levitin*      Robert L. Dorsk      Bessie Tavss          Wagenheim*           Terkeltaub
Elmer H. Rager*     Ida Levy            Nina Douglas         Stanley H.          Shirley Waitzer*     Taylor J. Watkins
Lena Raymond*       Daniel Levy*        Harvey Dunn            Warmund           Nettie Walker*       Stephen Yellin
Bernard Rivin       Lulee Ries          Arlene Feinman       Reba Weinberg       Sheila               Lewis Zeno*
Louise Rovner         Lowenberg         E. Allan Fine        Bee Zabner            Wasserman*
Morris              Rose Lowenthal      Lillie Garrett                           Bertha G. Wilkoff
  Salomonsky*       Lillian Lutzin      Louis                Apr 18 - 24         Robert Wingfield
Henry Salzberger    Charles               Goldspinner*       Ethel Altschul*     Lena Zenovitz
   David Samler*      Mansbach*         Sol Goldstein        Mary Bass

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Calendar&BIrthdays
    April Events VIA ZOOM                      (UNLESS OTHERWISE INDICATED)
    Thursday                       SATURDAY                          Friday                             SATURDAY
1   4:00 pm
    Torah Study
                              10   9:00 am
                                   Torah Study
                                                                16   6:30 pm
                                                                     Shabbat Services*
                                                                                                  24    9:00 am
                                                                                                        Torah Study
    5:00 pm                        10:30 am                          & Conversion of                    10:30 am
    Executive Committee            Shabbat Services*                 Karyn Beach                        Shabbat Services*
    Meeting                                                          followed by Oneg                   & Bat Mitzvah
                                   SUnDAY                                                               of Sydney Halpern
2   Friday                    11   9:00 am
                                                                17   SATURDAY
    6:30 pm                                                          9:00 am                            Sunday
    Shabbat Services*
                                   Hebrew School
                                   10:30 am                          Torah Study                  25    9:00 am
    followed by Oneg               Religious School                  10:30 am                           Hebrew School
                                   10:30 am                          Shabbtat Services*                 10:30 am
    SATURDAY                       Wiggles & Giggles                 7:00 pm                            Religious School
3   9:00 am                                                          Havdalah Hootenanny                Lag B'Omer Celebration
                                   Tuesday
    Torah Study
    10:30 am                  13   7:00 pm
                                                                     with Jeanne & Bob Zentz
                                                                                                  26    Monday
                                                                     Sunday                             10:30 am
    Shabbat Services*              theatre dybbuk
                                   Session 1 of 2               18   9:00 am                            Soup Kitchen
    TUESday                        9:00 pm
6   4:00 pm
                                                                     Hebrew School
                                                                     10:30 am                           Tuesday
    House Committee
                                   D'Bar Torah
                                                                     Religious School             27    9:00 pm
                                   WEDesday
    Meeting
                              14   6:00 pm                           TuEsday
                                                                                                        D'Bar Torah

7   Wednesday                                                   20   7:00 pm                            THuRsday
    7:00 pm
                                   Sisterhood Meeting
                                   7:00 pm                           theatre dybbuk               29    4:00 pm
    Men's Club Meeting             Sisterhood Presents:              Session 2 of 2                     Torah Study
                                   Yoga Can Be Done Here,
    Thursday                                                         Thursday                           Friday
8   4:00 pm
                                   There AND in a Chair with
                                   Carol Dalton                 22   4:00 pm                      30    6:30 pm
    Torah Study                                                      Torah Study                        Shabbat Services*
    6:45 pm                        Thursday                          7:00 pm
    Yom Hashoah featuring     15   4:00 pm                           Anti-Racism Class
                                                                                                        followed by Oneg

    Holocaust Survivor             Torah Study                       with Rabbi Roz                     *denotes live stream event
    Marion Weinzwig                7:00 pm
                                   Board Meeting                     Friday
9   Friday                                                      23   6:30 pm
    6:30 pm                                                          Shabbat Services*              To add an event to the Temple
    Men's Club                                                       followed by Oneg
    Shabbat Services*                                                                               calendar, please email
    followed by Oneg                                                                                reservations@ohefsholom.org.

    April BIRTHDAYs                   April 8
                                      Michael Darr
                                      Glenn Diskin
                                                          April 12
                                                          Terry Dorfman
                                                          Karen Gershman
                                                                             April 17
                                                                             Alyssa
                                                                               Muhlendorf
                                                                                               April 21
                                                                                               Lisa Chacon
                                                                                               Ben Orloff
                                                                                                                   April 26
                                                                                                                   Susan Donn
                                                                                                                   Leslie Friedman
    April 1          Dorothy          Gabriele Jiannas    Dylan Reilly       Joel Zaba         Lillie Whitehurst   Neil Landy
    Jack Glaser        Jacobson-                                             Pete Zubof                            Pam Snyder
    Susan Hirschbiel   Wetsel         April 9             April 13                             April 22
    Sandra Leon                       Debbie Friedman     Tyler Caskill      April 18          Patti Seeman        April 27
                     April 4          Yekaterina Gotkis   Judith Freedman    Ronda Bazar       Robyn Weiner        Gene Hubbard
    Marilyn          Ruth Pano
      Mendelson                       Linda Scheimberg    Helene Frost       Beth Darrow       April 23            Ellen Wagner
    Amy Metzger      April 5          April 10            Jean Swartz        Kathy Greenhood   Brian Friedman      Bill Williams
    Cynthia          Jefferson Cooper Sandy Forte-        April 14           Jason Ritzmann    Andrea Helms        April 28
      Spoolman       Alan Stein         Nickenig          Michelle Halpern   Jeff Sachs        Alana Hollings      Todd Aftel
                                                                             Joe Wolsh
    John Stein       April 6          Paula Fox           Jeffrey Loeb                         Joel Jacobson       Marcie Blum
    Edward           Sandra Fraim     Brenda Klar         Karl Spoolman      April 19          April 24            Bill Hearst
      Whiteman       Sarah Friedman   Sharon Perlman      April 15           Erin Balaban      Jessica Hoffman-    April 29
    April 2          Jan Goldrich     Jack Shanker        Nathan Elkin       Carol Cohen         Schmitz           Jim Schloss
    John Harris      Elsie Hirsch     Lisa Stern          Robert Mero        Barbara Gross     Barbara Nachman
                     Louis Snyder                                            John Mancoll                          April 30
    April 3                           April 11            April 16                             Helen Rosenberg     Linda Kaufman
                     Alice Titus      Mark Dreyfus                           Marty
    Anna Baber       Bill Wagner                          Ken Bates            Mandelberg      April 25            Edward Weisberg
    LeShay Bernstein                  Jim Dunn            Mark Goldberg                        Alyson Morrissey
                                                                             Evelyn Munden
    Kristina         April 7          Bruce Gilbert       Daniel
      Cartwright     Tammi Foer       Michael Hubbard       Salomonsky       April 20
    Jo Ann           Chris Lagow      Beth Kinnear        Louis Snyder       Jeanne Goodman
      Hofheimer                       Debra Moore                            Mark Metzger
                                      Dan Villani

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Non-Profit Org.
                                                               US Postage
530 Raleigh Avenue, Norfolk, VA 23507
(P) 757•625•4295 (F) 757•625•3762
                                                                 PAID
www.ohefsholom.org                                             Norfolk, VA
                                                              Permit No. 230
Rosalin Mandelberg, Senior Rabbi
Jennifer Rueben, Cantor
Lawrence A. Forman, Rabbi Emeritus

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  Our 10 Sanctuary Bima chairs have served us well
  for many hundreds of services and life cycle events
  over the past 20+ years. Now, they are in need of
  some carpentry repairs and new upholstery. We
  hope that one of our congregants is interested in
  funding this project, since it will help to brighten
  all our spirits, once we can worship together in
  person.
  Please contact Linda Peck at 757-625-4295 or
  linda@ohefsholom.org, if you would like to be the
  angel who gives our Bima the quality of refreshed
  furniture that befits its grandeur. Plus, our rabbi
  and cantor will be grateful for making their chairs
  comfortable again!
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