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The Listening MARCH 2020 ISSUE POST ANZAC DAY 2020: The Mateship Issue RSLWA State President: From Long Tan to a brighter future for Veterans The Official Journal of The Returned & Services League of Australia WA Branch Incorporated
LETTERS CONTACT DIRECTORY Chief Executive Officer John McCourt JP, MBA, FAIM, MPRIA (08) 9287 3799. admin@rslwa.org.au to the Executive Assistant to the State President and Chief Executive Officer Nola Keen (08) 9287 3799. admin@rslwa.org.au Veteran Services Manager Editor Milton Brooks (08) 9287 3799. miltonb@rslwa.org.au Advocate David Faithfull/Andrew Endrey/ Ian Jones/ /Markus Gaschk/Vanessa Smith (08) 9287 3799. advocacy@rslwa.org.au State Welfare Officer Rosalind Howat (08) 9287 3799/0417 905 742. welfare@rslwa.org.au Welfare Officer/Financial Counsellor Nicky Sligo Dear Editor (08) 9287 3799. nicoles@rslwa.org.au State Membership Officer During the last few days I have received the membership renewal notice Andrea Hunt (08) 9287 3705. membership@rslwa.org.au for my husband, Eric Nidd. Unfortunately, he passed away on 4 April. Staff Support Officer While he had never served in the Australian Defence Forces, he wore his Ryley Hawkins membership pin with great pride. (08) 9287 3799. reception@rslwa.org.au Chief Financial Officer He had served in the Royal Navy in the 1950s. He served in the Peter McGlade Londonderry flotilla in Ireland at the height of the IRA skirmishes. Then in (08) 9287 3718. cfo@rslwa.org.au Financial Services Manager 1956 on board HMS Superb, he served in the far east India fleet on the Karen Cleverly Suez crisis. He used to call it Gun Barrell diplomacy. He was away for 12 (08) 9287 3703. accounts@rslwa.org.au months on this trip. Financial Services Officer Hayley Barclay When his funeral was held on 12 April, our local RSL President Ric Evans (08) 9287 3741. hayley.barclay@rslwa.org.au gave ‘The Ode’’ and we had a Union Jack on his coffin. Unfortunately, the Property & Corporate Services Officer Matthew Holyday British Government never acknowledged servicemen, very much not like (08) 9287 3714. ahmanager@rslwa.org.au you great Aussies, which we became one of in 1979. Director of Marketing & Strategic Partnership Laura Yau Now as the years have rolled on, we have a grandson who is serving in (08) 9287 3799. marketing@rslwa.org.au the Australian Defence Forces. He has been serving for 16 years now. He Events Officer Lauren Murdoch did a stint in Afghanistan and wears his medals with great pride. (08) 9287 3701. events@rslwa.org.au My own father was invalided home from Flanders with shrapnel wounds Communications & Engagement Officer Maxine Brown to his face. In 2011, my youngest granddaughter laid a wreath in (08) 9287 3799. comms@rslwa.org.au remembrance of three uncles I never knew at the Mennen Gate in Europe. Marketing & Development Officer Krithika Ramnarayan I have now covered a century of four generations in one family. My 9287 3799. mardev@rslwa,org.au husband and I grew up on the edge of London during the war years. We Grants & Information Officer used to sleep in Anderson air-raid shelters. We remember going to school Orla Hassett (08) 9287 3799. grants@rslwa.org.au with our gas masks in a brown cardboard box with a string round our Board necks. Certainly nothing fancy. Chairman/State President: Peter Aspinall AM State Vice President: Donna Prytulak OAM So ends another Remembrance Day with a bit of nostalgia. Bill Collidge RFD, Ken Morris, Royce Spencer, Duncan Anderson, Chris Mayfield OAM, Yours sincerely Robyn Steenbach. Trustees Gwendoline Nidd (Donnybrook) Don Blair OAM RFD Wayne Tarr RFD ED You can email you Letters to the Editor to Maxine via comms@rslwa.org.au Philip Orchard AM, AFNI CMDR RAN (Ret’d) If you prefer more traditional means, please post to: Letters to the Editor PO Box 3023, rslwa.org.au EAST PERTH 6892 rslwahq The best of your submissions will be published in the July edition of The Listening Post. rslwa PS: Nothing makes us happier than receiving all your emailed story and letter submissions. But company/returned-and-services- please ensure all The Listening Post email submissions are provided on a Word Document. Also, league-of-australia-wa-branch/ all photos must be over 1MB and in JPEG form, sent as an attachment.
RSL STATEMENT OF PURPOSE The RSL was founded in 1916 to provide comradeship and support to Australia’s Veterans and their families. That core mission has never changed but has continued to evolve to meet the needs of each generation of servicemen and women. We have a branch network that covers Australia and any Veteran who needs help will get it – every serving ADF member and Veteran will be warmly welcomed at their local RSL Sub-Branch or club. We advocate for the best possible conditions for Inside our serving men and women and for those who have served the nation in the past. We foster respect and thanks from the nation for all those who have made sacrifices in Australia’s name and we will provide a strong voice on issues Regular of national unity and security. Book Review - South Africa to Afghanistan 30 PREVIOUS EDITIONS Copies of The Listening Post published are available on our website: Features Unit And Kindred listing 34 www.rslwa.org.au The shaping of Peter Aspinall 4 Last Post 35 PUBLISHING ANZAC Day 2020: Embracing Publishing of The Listening Post: Published the spirit of mateship 10 Events/News three times a year with a readership of over 25,000. To all Sub-Branch Presidents and Secretaries: Two ears for listening 12 Send photographs (1Mb plus) and a short article (in a Word Document) on special activities at your Of mates and mateship 14 Sub-Branch Remembrance Sub-Branch to The Listening Post. Veterans, Jen Riches Day services 24-27 DEADLINE FOR NEXT EDITION: has your six 18 Wealth of RSLWA talent 29 MAY 2020 recognised in honours list 29 The preferred method of receiving submissions is via email. Photographs should be attached Vale Cyril Allender 32 separately and a minimum of 1Mb. This is your magazine and contributions and letters are welcome Community Address to: Building for a better future 8 The Listening Post PO Box 3023 Military family ties run EAST PERTH WA 6892 Email: comms@rslwa.org.au generations deep 20 Opinions expressed by contributors in articles and 2020 Australia Day & reproduced articles are the individuals’ opinions or the authors of such reproduced articles and are not Cadet of the Year Awards 22 necessarily those of the RSL. Reproduction of articles (or extracts) contained Veteran John Parker is a Lego in The Listening Post are welcomed, provided the wizard at 91 28 source is acknowledged. The writers reserve the right to accept, reject, sub-edit and re-arrange material submitted for publication. Infringement of Copyright Laws: We cannot accept newspaper clippings for publication without express approval from the Newspaper Editor as we may infringe on copyright laws. Cover Photo State President Peter CONTACT DETAILS Aspinall flanked by The Returned & Services League of Australia WA Branch Incorporated contemporary Veterans. Level 3/66 St Georges Terrace, Perth WA 6000 Photo: Ross Swanborough PO Box 3023, East Perth WA 6892 | T: 08 9287 3799 | F: 08 9287 3732 E: admin@rslwa.org.au | W: www.rslwa.org.au | FB: www.facebook.com/rslwa Writing and Advertising Information: marketing@rslwa.org.au Graphic Design: Kore Design | Printer: Vanguard Press WA Country Callers: 1800 259 799 (Landline only)
The shaping of Peter Aspinall FROM Long Tan to Tan rubber plantation in blinding Importantly, Veteran Central will monsoonal rain. It was here they deliver programs that directly a long-term vision encountered the final attacking respond to the great challenges of how to better force of Viet Cong determined of our times, including the tragic support Veterans, to overrun the severely suicide rate among serving outnumbered D Company. and ex-service personnel, the it’s been quite the demands of transitioning from journey for RSLWA While that legendary battle military life to civilian work, Veteran continues to live with Peter, State President Peter he’s on a new mission - having homelessness and more. Aspinall AM, as he dedicated himself, as President The leadership shown by Peter explains to Maxine of the pre-eminent ex-service is reflected in a stable and organisation in WA, to secure successful organisation that is Brown. better outcomes for Veterans firmly focused on the future, while THEY say history is a great and their families. commemorating the past. Safe teacher. It taught Peter Aspinall hands and a vision are hallmarks He is overseeing much- resilience in times of adversity for success and RSLWA is leading needed change for our Veteran and fuelled a drive to make his the charge. community in the form of the world a better place. game-changing ANZAC House Not much for personal promotion, Peter’s role in Vietnam as an Veteran Central facility - and Peter says any leader needs solid in-demand artillery forward the roll-out of smaller Veteran support and is proud to have a observer was career defining. Hubs in the Greater Perth metro great team behind him, with a He was part of the infantry relief area and in regional centres Board of Directors comprising force sent in during the Battle throughout the State. contemporary Veterans as well as of Long Tan to rescue mates specialist expertise. Veteran Central will be a one- from D Company, who’d been stop shop for Veterans seeking While his counsel is sought after outnumbered 20-to-one by Viet help and support – providing a by many who come knocking, Cong in what could have been a home also to other Ex-Service Peter handles each phone call complete annihilation. Organisations, along with or approach with grace and an Peter was aboard one of the government and corporate unwavering focus on a position Armoured Personnel Carriers of Veteran Service Providers. It’s that requires a mix of diplomacy, 3 Troop, 1 APC Squadron, which an absolute game-changer and tact and strategic thinking. were perilously swum across the a project that is being closely With the advent of new swift-flowing Suoi Da Bang River, watched by other States (see full technologies and improvements before being driven into the Long article on P11-12). 4 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
in the tyranny of distance, Peter made by those left behind when intense with my FO party, and is able to still call Albany home deployments called. me, constantly out with either a while spending considerable platoon or the whole company. “I was not there for the birth of time in Perth and visiting Sub- In this early period, contact with any of my three children,’’ Peter Branches around the State. the Viet Cong was almost daily. says. “In January of ’66, Noelene For the time I was there, my As a boy, Peter has called Albany and I had a son and I think I party and I spent almost three- home since 1951, growing up saw him for a total of about five quarters of our time out on patrol in a small family headed by weeks before being posted to with the infantry. a somewhat imposing WWII Vietnam at the beginning of May Veteran father. With fire in the that year. “I arrived on the 4th of May, ‘66 belly and a desire to serve his and was immediately detached “In our first year of marriage we country, Peter enlisted early and to 161 Field Battery RNZA, which had a reasonable amount of time was commissioned as a Second was allocated in direct support together but basically from the Lieutenant, Royal Regiment of of 6RAR. Amongst the first to birth of my son onwards there Australian Artillery in 1961, aged go into Nui Dat, when there was was Vietnam, major exercises, just 19. nothing there, we would be in major activities and things, I continual contact with the Viet Then followed nearly 30 years’ could be away for up to three Cong as they probed the extent military service in a variety of months at a time. That went on of our position in the Nui Dat postings here and overseas, for another 10-12 years. rubber and around the TAOR. including operational service “I was not there for the birth of in South Vietnam in 1966/67, “One time during an operation any of my children or for major having married in 1964 to his first out of Nui Dat, I came close to events in their early lives. For love, Noelene Rutherford in 1964 being blown up by a wayward example, I was uncontactable for – a self-assured, resilient and “friendly” artillery shell which three days on a jungle-training extremely independent nurse landed between my company course when my son fell ill with he met in service. Their journey Commander, Peter Smeaton, peritonitis, a condition of which together was anything but easy, and myself while we were only can be, and was, very dire. I was marked by his long absences, around 20m apart. With a lethal just never around.’’ the Vietnam War, and the loss radius of around 50m, we were of their second-born at just four “With no mobile phones or email incredibly lucky to survive, months. back then we were reliant on although he was seriously the good old mail system and wounded. Other incidents Peter resigned his commission turnaround time was about three included a near-miss from a, in 1988 to take up an executive months,’’ Peter said. fortunately, ill-sited VC claymore position with the AMP Society in mine; and numerous episodes its head office in Sydney for nine “Communication was very of small arms fire when my party years, after which he took up difficult. This was compounded and I were sent on section- a marketing role with the IMIA, by my posting as a forward level patrols, which, of course, an academic and consulting observer, which meant my role were the everyday tasks of the organisation that advised a was to go out with the infantry, great Diggers in the infantry number of major Australian responsible for calling in artillery battalions.” corporations. fire and airstrikes. The problem was there was an insufficient When asked if his experiences After the sad death of his wife number of forward observers in Vietnam had made him in 2001 after a brave battle with so that relief from the constant philosophical, Peter replied with cancer, Peter returned to Albany patrolling was not possible. a simple ‘’Yep!” However, those in retirement, where he now lives Consequently, I had no R&R the experiences also fuelled his with his friend and wife, Carolyn. whole time in country and only firm belief – then and now – that RSLWA’s current banner slogan, two overnight R&Cs.” mental health and associated Putting Veterans and Families post-service challenges are key “The frequency of platoon and priorities. RSLWA Veteran Central First, is testament to his own company patrolling was very is now being able to house no experiences and the sacrifices less than three specialist mental 6 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
health services, including the Open Arms Veterans & Families Counselling Service. “Over the years after I came home from Vietnam, I drifted into a pretty basic philosophical view of life, which is that the most important element in life is your mental and physical health. Other than that, I think most of the other stuff is quite trivial by comparison. It is hard when we live in such a material world; how can you feel that way? But I do. I don’t get uptight about it too much because it’s not worth it. I also work hard at the importance of relationship health. I guess the best way of summing it up is why worry yourself to death over something you can’t control, so why waste your life sweating about it? A young Peter Aspinall at a parade in Sydney. He is second from the right. “At my stage in life, what’s important to me is my family, my be self-recognition that there are Peter is also keen to address the wife Carolyn and our wellbeing. I problems. And it’s no different naysayers who believe this new now realise that, after my return today as young men in particular facility may be a waste of money. from Vietnam and back in the are not good, in my opinion, “Yes, it’s going to be a building peacetime Army, I was suffering at self-diagnosis. And that, of with architectural merit, but PTSD. Looking back, I see course, is one of the problems it’s what happens inside that now I did some pretty stupid with individuals leading with building that counts. The money things, made inappropriate precursors to suicide. ‘’ is being spent to house, and decisions that I don’t believe “I think one of the ways is being make available, a whole range I would normally have done able to get in contact with the of services and programs for and that’s what led me to now men and women as they are Veterans and their families and, acknowledging I then had PTSD. getting out of the services and critically, to serve as the base for “I didn’t seek help for PTSD even if they don’t need the the extension of these services and that is still a problem for assistance right then, at least to regional Veterans and their Veterans today. We tend to if you’re there and they know families.” think ‘I’m tough, I don’t need you’re there, to provide whatever It is the mission of Peter Clive any help’, and I guess, in my assistance when they need it. Aspinall to now see through this defence, I didn’t really know “If we can show Veterans and great change in how RSLWA what PTSD was. People knew their families that we have repositions itself to be as about shellshock and battle a range of services and are relevant to new, contemporary fatigue from WWI and II, but we there to help, efficiently and (and much younger) Veterans, didn’t look in the mirror and self- professionally, and with all the who will need the support that diagnose ourselves with it. humanity that is required and their military forebears were “I believe there is still that deserved, they may well then say provided. strong element of denial or an down the track that they will, in “That’s our job. It always will be. unwillingness to recognise that turn, come and join in helping And to lead a great team is not something is wrong; there has to their fellow Veterans.’’ only an honour, but a privilege.’’ The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au 7
Building for a better future in Perth and throughout WA THE opening of the new ANZAC House Veteran Central building is just six months away and will mark a new era in services to Veterans and their families. THE facility - a one-stop shop for The software will allow for the weight loss, exercise, drug Veterans - will not only be home sharing of information and better awareness, diabetes and health for RSLWA, but a host of other collaboration. For the most part, management planning. Ex-Service Organisations, as services provided at Veteran Mental Health well as government and private Central and Veteran Hubs will be Dedicated in-house professional Veteran Service Providers. free of charge to Veterans and mental health services. This will their immediate family. Services Ahead of the completion of be achieved by a collaborative at Veteran Central will include: Veteran Central, RSLWA has union of expert service providers been progressing plans for Medical ranging from initial counselling metropolitan and regional General Practice support to one-to-one psychological Veteran Hubs to create a through day surgery procedures support and/or psychiatric network of care, services and and specialist consultancies. support. support Statewide. Allied Health and Wellness Employment Advice and To enable for improved services, Programs Placement State Branch is working with To include physiotherapy, A collaborative approach by a local software company to occupational therapy, exercise Veteran Service Providers develop and implement a ‘virtual’ physiology and a range of other and Ex-Service Organisations client-centred, customised services to support a healthier, in providing assistance with technology-enabled environment happier cohort of Veterans and transition from military to civilian to capture the Veteran’s journey their families. employment in the government, from initial transition through to private and community sectors. Skin Cancer Checks eventual retirement in order to Physical examination with a Financial Counselling better serve their needs. thorough check of skin lesions RSLWA will combine its existing RSLWA believes this IT-based and moles performed onsite. financial counselling capability system is vital in our aim of with other professionals to Health Education and Training ensuring that Veterans will have support those in need of To assist in minimising health a streamlined and practical way financial guidance, especially in and wellness issues, including to access services and support. the post-transition phase. advice on nutrition and 8 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
Hearing Fifth Floor Veteran Hubs will be operated One of WA’s largest hearing Ex-Service Organisation function in liaison with Veteran Central providers offering a full range of area and facilities and they will combine to provide services. a comprehensive service to Sixth Floor Veterans and their families. Banking Facilities Meeting/Board rooms for Negotiations with a provider of a Ex-Service Organisations and The design and services comprehensive range of banking Veteran Service providers. available in Veteran Hubs services, including home loans will differ for each location, and investment opportunities. Seventh Floor depending on the ownership Defence Force Ceremonial area arrangement and services Department of Veterans’ available in the area. Affairs VETERAN HUBS Ability to lodge claims and For example, some Veteran Up to 11 Veteran Hubs will be obtain details on entitlements. Hubs may be established on rolled out in the greater Perth RSLWA-owned land through Home Care and Aged Care metropolitan area and regional joint-venture arrangements for One of WA’s largest providers of WA to house localised Veteran the redevelopment of the site. home care and aged care will be support services. Others may be established co-located to provide advice and through lease arrangements. assistance. FLOOR BY FLOOR Here is a floor-by-floor snapshot of occupancy of Veteran Central: Ground Floor ANZAC House Veteran Central will have generous space for Veterans and families, including a family friendly ‘mess’ facility on the ground floor, with a small coffee shop and a dedicated memorial courtyard. First Floor Once again, the new ANZAC House will have an ANZAC Club, with food-and-beverage facilities and generous seating areas. Second Floor Ex-Service Organisation and Veteran Service Provider offices and co-working areas. Third Floor Medical facilities including GP rooms, specialist consulting rooms, day surgery and allied health. Fourth Floor RSLWA State Branch The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au 9
MATESHIP, it’s a uniquely Australian characteristic that helped give rise to our proud legend of ANZAC. That legend - born on 25 April, 1915, a date stained in the blood of our troops as they made a morning landing on an incredibly hostile shore along the Gallipoli peninsula in Turkey – is deeply etched in history. And due to the actions of our Aussie Diggers in wars and conflicts since, that legend has only grown. Mateship - along with endurance, courage, ingenuity and a larrikin humour – make up the heart and soul of what keeps our ANZAC spirit kicking. It’s why this year, we choose to honour that spirit on the most sacred of Aussie commemorations, ANZAC Day. We honour our fallen, and all those who served and still serve, with our theme ANZAC Day ANZAC 2020: Embracing the Spirit of Mateship – dedicating this edition to a theme that unites us all. Day 2020: This edition features the inside stories of what mateship means to leaders who bring a mix of humility, dedication to service and Embracing vision. We speak with RSLWA President Peter Aspinall AM (cover story) on reflection of the the spirit of Battle of Long Tan, as he today uses his life’s experience to drive groundbreaking change to supporting Veterans and their mateship families. (Also see our ANZAC House Veteran Central feature on P8). There’s an exclusive chat with RAAF Airbase Pearce WOFF AND A LEGEND IS BORN: WWI Digger and stretcher bearer Corporal Leslie (Bull) Allen MM carries an unconscious US soldier to safety. Photo: AWM Jen Riches – a courageous, yet 10 The Listening Post NOVEMBER 2019 rslwa.org.au
humble woman whose actions in serving current and ex-Defence personnel do the speaking for her. WOFF Riches was honoured with an RSLWA Australia Day Medallion in recognition of her voluntary efforts in helping RSLWA improve the lives of Veterans. Then there is proud Bardi man and Royal Australian Navy Veteran Ron Bradfield Jnr, who shares his powerful and intensely moving tribute to the colour-blindness of service, enduring mateship, and solidarity in the Veteran cause for this special issue. Last but not least, we feature a special-guest post from the man who leads WA’s biggest Sub- Branch, Port Kennedy, taking it from the brink of collapse to be one of the most successful Sub- Branches in WA. President and Australian Army Veteran Steve Elliott was quick to share his beliefs on what mateship means today. Despite holding down a high- profile, fulltime job in local government, he’s dedicated huge voluntary hours to making his Sub-Branch the very best it can be. It’s for this reason that Steve was also honoured with an RSLWA Australia Day Medallion for his tireless contributions to the Veteran cause. These inspirational people, and all others who appear within this edition, are a true measure of mateship during challenging Staunch mateship is part of the Veteran code. times. thin. It’s the Aussie fair go. It’s binds us. It’s owning mistakes Dictionaries describe ‘mateship’ the banter that comes into play and forgiving those mates who as an Australian cultural idiom to help lift a friend from a dark make them. In essence, it’s that embodies equality, loyalty head space. It’s standing united signing up and being prepared and friendship. It’s sticking by in resilience against a common to make the ultimate sacrifice if your mates through thick or foe. It’s sticking up for that which required. The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au 11
Two ears for listening A MATE is more than just a friend, writes Port Kennedy Sub-Branch President Steve Elliott. I OVERHEARD an interesting chat between a Veteran and a young country boy in Lake Grace a few months ago. They were sharing a beer at the local pub and looked like they’d been there a while, given the number of empties on the table. The young cockie was telling stories of farm life – seeding, harvesting, shooting – and from where I sat, it sounded ideal. 12 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
The Veteran, who must have Was it the mates they shared hell PTSD, or otherwise damaged, lived in the bush at one stage, with who enabled the floodgates sitting at home – usually alone was jousting back with his to open? Did they have a special and perhaps in pain - may version of similar tales. That key to open them up? Was it start to drink to excess, abuse was until he went a bit quiet. His the environment, surrounded by prescription drugs and, before talk shifted from country life to mates, memorabilia, uniforms, they know it, they have that big deployment – and how he’d then hats and the bugle playing Black Dog chasing them and taken up residence in the city. the Last Post? I think a bit of unfortunately become a statistic. everything – everything that “I have to live in the city now,’’ Kevin Costner, in the movie changed their lives forever. says the Veteran, “…….. need to A Field of Dreams, said build be close to the psych.’’ You know, I don’t really think it is it and they will come. I have just one thing but a combination not heard better advice. Let’s With that, the young country of many - maybe the strongest of turn our ESOs into places that boy spun around and asked all being the olfactory memory, are open and inviting, while what that was. A pretty straight- certain smells ripping the communicating with as many forward response came from the Veteran out of his relaxed lounge members of our community as Vet: he’s a bloke, like a Doctor, chair and instantly back into their possible (remember, Veterans that you talk to about your own living hell. are also community members). problems, issues, feelings and such. What I see is that it is our And most importantly: be that responsibility to supply the mate, use your assets in the Full of innocence, the country environment and create a safe right proportion – two ears for lad looked at the Vet and simply haven for those who gave so listening and one mouth for asked: “Don’t you have any much for us. talking. Listen and embrace your mates?’’ mate, make him/her want to get One of the hardest things to out of the house – let them make A mate is more than just do is to reverse the instance more friends who share those a friend and is a term that of social isolation. A sufferer of experiences. implies a sense of shared experience, mutual respect and unconditional assistance. It got me thinking about how we appear to have done a complete turnaround in our ability to talk and listen ….. when it counts. How many times have we heard: “My Dad was in the war, but I don’t know what he did ‘cos he never talked about it…”? I remember going down to the RSL with my uncle as a kid. All they talked about was combat, mates who were no longer alive, and they laughed about what I thought were silly little things! It was almost like a valve, releasing the pressure until it was bearable – and that would be it for 12 months. The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au 13
black was to white and Western Australia was to Victoria and they became firm mates! As the next few years passed, they served on several warships together and became well known for the close ‘stepping oppos’ they’d both firmly become. These two were inseparable. They visited each other’s homes and met each other’s family. As wrong as it might seem to say it, there were times where you weren’t sure which one was the other person’s shadow. One early December day in 1966, both men were preparing to go on leave. This was going to be one of only a handful of times they had ever spent some time apart from each other. The Veteran Ron Bradfield Jnr is well-known for his ability to tell a great yarn. Photo: Supplied Victorian put his mate on a bus and they wished each other Of mates and well - re-checking their New Year plans - looking forward to their pub-crawl through Fremantle. mateship On Boxing Day, just after lunch, the Victorian got a sombre phone call from the Kimberley. His best mate had died on By Ron Bradfield Jnr (RAN Veteran and proud Christmas Day, in a freak Bardi man) accident at home. His ‘oppo’s’ big brother wanted to be the IN the early 1960s a young man took himself one to tell him this sad news off to join the Royal Australian Navy. He was a personally. He had known how close these men had become big, strapping young fella – strong-jawed, with to each other and knew how a clear head and shoulders above the rest. much this man would now be mourning. HE had what I can only describe as a cheeky personality, one that would have been well-placed in an Australian Navy in those days, one That same day, the Victorian that would see him through to the passing of Australia’s involvement in made arrangements to return the Vietnam War. back to their ship. Cutting his leave short, he set about Recruit School was a breeze. Nothing at HMAS Cerberus shocked clearing his best mate’s locker or fazed him. There was one surprise though, he befriended an and packing up his personal Aboriginal man from the Kimberley, in Western Australia. They were effects for the return home to as different to each other in many ways as chalk was to cheese, the family. An emotional, cultural 14 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
fella’s served on some of the same ships you have!” As I step out into the arvo light and grasp this old man’s hand in greeting, two things become immediately clear to me: he’s strong and upright; and he’s been doing it tough and I can see, he’s hurting inside! We exchanged our G’days, laughed about the fact that two ex-Navy men found themselves having a yarn in sun-shiney Leonora and immediately began to establish credentials among each other. He commissioned ships that I’d served on and repaired. He was on the bridge most times and I was on – or below – the gundeck. He was a hard working ‘watch-keeper’ and I was just a loafing ‘day-hand’. The friendly banter ran back funeral and a posting later, the I looked up and out to see a and forth between us freely, as if Victorian found himself on the tall, bearded old man, building we’d known each other for years. beginning edge of several Navy himself up for a conversation I watched the years fall off him postings that would see him over a tailor-made cigarette with right there and then, as a decent through to the end of Australia’s an older redheaded lady, who smile finally began to form on engagement in the Vietnam was largely responsible for my his face and he started to tell War. Hurting deeply inside, being in town. me about his best mate who he continued on – there was was an Aboriginal man from the nothing else he could do. As smokers have done for ages past, they ‘gurped-on’ socially Kimberley. Over 50 years later, I found through their introductions, The redhead left us to it, she too myself packing up a small passing the one cigarette had sensed a deep sadness in exhibition in a renovated space, lighter back and forth between the man and her wont to call me off the ‘bustle’ that is down-town themselves as they mumbled out that day was largely to try Leonora. around their multiple durries, and see if that might shift some setting the groundwork for one for him. It had and she moved An old Toyota Hilux 4WD pulled hell of a yarn! on. up noisily outside. Inside the space it takes for a car door to Next thing I know, the redhead He looked at me deeply then – close and boot heels to clack leans in through the doorway, right through me – gauging me across the sidewalk, I hear where I’m packing away the last up on the spot as he prepared a clear, strong voice outside of the artwork and says: to share. I beat him to the punch asking: though: asking him outright “Hey, Ron! You might want to “Can I get a light?” come out here. I reckon this whether he actually wanted to wake up that day? The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au 15
That sad smile came back. couldn’t possibly see a way that mine. A man I’d heard so much He shook his head in answer he could ever overcome it. about but had died during a and proceeded to tell me how freak accident during Christmas Then his face changed. He he’d tried to end his life that about two years before I was stopped right where he was – his morning but just couldn’t finish born. mind tripping quite suddenly the bloody job off! He was a on an idea and he’d gone The man before me was the man Vietnam Veteran who lived on immediately into pause mode, that my other cousin brothers the outskirts of town in a bush as his brainbox brought that used to speak about. This was camp that he simply shifted idea towards some sense of his gadia bubbili – his white around, to avoid locals and solidity. brother from another mother. tourists who got nosey. He’d been there for over 20 years. His They’d spoken highly of him “You can help me!” he declared wife and family lived in Victoria when I was growing up. Often loudly and his face split into but he saw nothing of his boys when talking of their own brother, such a big grin, I thought the and allowed only two visits a they’d speak of a tall white man top of his head was going to fall year for his wife, where she who used to come home with clean off his body! would fly into Kalgoorlie and join him sometimes. They were him for 2 weeks, twice a year – in “You’re Aboriginal and from the proud of their brother and what the place he now found himself, Kimberley” he blurted out, “You he’d been able to do and here deep in the Goldfields of WA. might know his family.” I was, sharing ‘space’ with the man who had been his best It was a lonely life. He had With that – he spun on his heel mate and feeling this man’s demons. He couldn’t go home. and tore back to his car, digging pain. The bush made him feel the out a scrap piece of paper and most peace he was ever truly a pencil, he began to scribble He burst into tears then. I was able to feel and his wife’s visit down the name of his mate right on the verge also and we simply reminded him that he and how I might find this man’s held each other until we calmed had connections back to a place family. Done, he handed the note down. We both couldn’t believe that had once been his home. to me. what fate had delivered to us But he didn’t want to be alive. and right then, we didn’t know And it’s here, that my world on what do about it. He missed his best mate and that day, fell clean away! – on saying this – his face fell He ran back to the car again completely. He was a broken The name of the man who was and rummaged in the glovebox man who was so deep into his his best friend for all that time, some more – coming out with an mourning on that sad day, I was actually a cousin/brother of old tobacco tin. He was holding 16 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
it with such care and reverence should have it!”, and with that he And that was that. that I felt I was about to be tapered off. handed the Body of Christ. We went our separate ways. He In an instant I saw what he was had my number and my details “I want you to have this,” he doing. He was closing shop. with instructions to contact me if said, passing it over. Finalising business and getting I didn’t get back to Leonora and ready to say goodbye. He was we could take care of business I opened it and inside it was passing on his business to me, at a later date. a folder newsagency bag – a so that he could finally pull the small one – the kind you would As life would have it, I never got pin and go to sleep forever. have wrapped a pack of cards back to Leonora. in. It’d spent some time in that I wrapped it back up. Put it back tin, taking on some of the colour in its little paper bag, folded the The Victorian held up to his end of the leftover tobacco and the item up carefully and tucked it of the deal and sent me a letter edge of rust around the lip of the back into the tobacco tin in much from Victoria. In it was a small lid. It looked well-worn too – like the same way that I found it. I parcel. He’d mailed me the it’d been handled a lot and was then took his hand and placed tobacco tin and some photos malleable, but with care and the tin back in it, closing his big and, in the letter, explained what precision. It has fold creases fingers about it as I did so. had happened. He’d developed that had a life all of their own and cancer and, like it or not now, the paper had become soft and “No” I said, “You take it. It’s the choice had been taken from supple. yours and I’ll come back for it.” him. He was in a respite hospital and he was dying. There was no Inside this was a little parcel He smiled a sad smile. He knew coming back from his diagnosis, wrapped in toilet paper. Like any what I was doing, see. I wasn’t it was pretty clear he wasn’t military-issue dunny paper, it letting him say goodbye just yet. expected to live much past the was the kind that did the job with I wasn’t allowing him to step end of the year. Call me, it said. no frills, plain and simple. As I away from life, quite that easily. unfolded this package, I found And I did. He nodded then. Accepted the at its core the most carefully responsibility once more and put We never spoke again. wrapped, three-quarter-smoked, that tin in his pocket. hand-rolled cigarette I had ever seen! It still smelled as if it had been rolled that morning and it felt dry and crisp – ready for a new flame. I held it in the cup on my hand, where I’d gently tipped it and marvelled at this thing – this object – still in such pristine condition, like I’d pulled it out of his locker myself. The Victorian said: “It’s all I’ve got left. You can have it... smoke it, throw it out – do whatever you want with it – but it’s all I’ve got. You should have it – he’s your family – you… you The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au 17
Veterans, models, mentor is a description she is now proud to own. “In the cook’s trade, I didn’t have female mentors,” she says. “… Jen Riches my bosses were all males and some were very good mentors. I guess, by default I became a bit of a role model to others as has your six I started to make my way up through the ranks, especially once I became an instructor at recruit training. “ By Maxine Brown Recruit training instructor? Indeed! Early on in her journey from cook to Warrant Officer, Jen had learnt she had to have AUSTRALIA Day RAAF Base Pearce’s resident an instructor’s background to WOD (Warrant Officer Medallion recipient Disciplinary) packs a steely become a WOD. So in January Jen Riches is the resolve honed over a lifetime of ’94, she was posted to No.1 Recruit Training Unit as a definition of a good of setting her personal bar sky Corporal Recruit Instructor. high. Today, following 30-plus mate, ready to assist years in service, it means she Jen says: “I look back on that when RSLWA needs is well regarded for her can-do as one of my most satisfying a helping hand. Here, attitude, respect for uniform/ postings, you get a group of she talks mentoring, position, knowledge and individuals one day and 10 generosity. weeks later you’re graduating supporting women This is a woman who, as a 17yo young airmen whom you have to flourish in the assisted in developing their Air Force recruit, declared to her RAAF and the Corporal her ambition to become level of self-confidence and one nightmarish the first female WOD in the challenged their resilience.” deployment that RAAF, an unthinkable aspiration While Jen’s dedication to back in what was a different service plays out daily, never fuels her belief in the era for women. Fired up by her has her steadfast commitment Veteran cause. superior’s bemusement, Jen to her military family been strategically set about achieving more apparent than during TRUE to her family’s strong her goal. While she didn’t make a particularly challenging Australian military bloodline, it there first, the then-Corporal deployment to the Middle WOFF Jen Riches embodies the cook saw her path opened up by Eastern Region in 2010. spirit of ANZAC. In Jen’s world, her predecessor and, as a result, Coalition casualties were no challenge is insurmountable, is still just the fourth woman particularly high that year and no mate left to fall behind. WOD that the RAAF has ever part of her role was to take In fact, she’s the first to stop had. part in nine ramp ceremonies and offer an encouraging word, invest time in getting a Any talk of breaking through to return fallen Australian and subordinate over the finish line, glass ceilings does not sit Coalition soldiers home to loved or roll up her shirtsleeves in her comfortably with Jen. However, ones. downtime giving back to those as a woman who got to where “We had various numbers of who served. she is without many female role ramp ceremonies and when 18 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
you lose someone when you’re away on operations, you don’t necessarily know the person as an individual, but they are still part of that Defence family. When you’re in a role where you are looked to for support, putting together the memorial service, and you’re training and assisting to train, and putting together the ramp ceremony, you see people dealing with grief. And you need to be able to support people through that, you need to help Jen stretches her legs on the beach during the Long Ride for Prostate Cancer. them understand that it’s OK to Charity motorcycle runs, specially the longer ones, bring Jen pure joy. not be OK with that. “After a memorial service, the back into perspective. When on sooner rather than later,” she next day they might also be part operations, it’s challenging (to says. “I am passionate about of the ramp ceremony and they seek out someone I can trust). If support being there for Veterans. are so proud, because they want you’ve got that rapport with your I just want to be able to say, as a to farewell that soldier and send commander, that’s fine because Veteran of a new era, that I want them home to their family. These you debrief with each other, as to give back to those who may experiences were extremely well as your coalition peers. So struggle in the future as a result moving for all concerned and yes, I’ve had some emotionally of their service whether having everyone reacted differently in tough times on deployment but served on operations or not. “ that moment of time and when that comes with the position.’’ Speaking of strong and decisive they come away from that, But there are other vital tools in leadership, what is her advice you’re the one who makes sure her mental health kit. A close-knit to leaders of the future, whether they are OK. group of very good friends who in-service, or out in the Veteran “So you’ll sit around and have are her strength, a love of sport community? a quiet chat with them, that’s and a passion for getting out on her custom Triumph is another. “You’ve got to make time for when you start to realise that you people,” Jen says. “It builds yourself are not OK (long pause). However, on mental health respect and trust. Respect And I think that’s why I want to challenges, Jen has enormous the uniform you are wearing, be a part of helping Veterans, empathy – understanding first- whether it be an ADF uniform or I have seen how people do so hand that some people struggle civilian. Always respect those many different tasks that I think with the challenge of nurturing you are there to support. To me, will affect them in the future.” their headspace, specifically respect is everything. Respect, So as someone who has after loss and trauma. “Some trust and inclusiveness!” repeatedly had to be that tower people don’t understand how mental and physical health We agree wholeheartedly, of strength, who does Jen lean conditions affect people, there which is why respect, trust and on? is a stigma, still, with regards inclusiveness will be part of “My sister, Karen, and I are to people putting their hand up the new Veteran Central facility really close! But I have a friend, because they’ve got a mental business model, a concept Jen who lives in Sydney, I can ring health issue. Not in all areas, is supportive of. and say anything, any time and but in some. I want to try and Thank you for your service, she just helps me put things encourage people to seek help Ma’am! The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au 19
Military family ties run generations deep By Maxine Brown THEY say you should Bernard Caunce To follow brothers, my eldest sister joined in my families footsteps. Where airforce and transferred to Army aspire to “be the every generation, each side of entertainment unit then after I person you want your the family. Had worn a uniform left nursing decided it was what I children to be’’ and for Australia. also wanted to do. Unfortunately nowhere does this Damian Ranson My because after four years I wanted to get married had to be seem to ring as true grandfather, dad’s dad, served discharged. in the navy in ww2 so I wanted to as within the military. serve in the navy too. Trish N Richard Murdoch PROOF of this was strong when, Family history and I wanted Judy Welch I wanted to follow in a recent Facebook Discussion something different to do. Mum into the WRAAF. Dad was a of the Week, we asked our serving Army Officer... suggested David Browne Grandfather followers to tell us why they I did 12 mths of CMF and then fought the Boxers in 1900 and joined the armed forces. if I was still wanting to ‘join up’ ze Germans during WW1. Other A very strong pattern quickly he’d willingly sign my papers. grandfather fought in France, emerged and, you guessed it, Remembering, we had to have also. Dad fought in WW2. Family folks had joined up because a parent sign until we were 21...I members have served in the they wanted to follow admired took his advice...loved it, stayed Royal Marines since 1664. So, family into service. Here’s a in it for 4yrs, and still have those yeah, big shoes to fill.... My sample of some of the answers, mates! My full-time wish still youngest is in the British Army as which have not been edited: came true..,hubby joined the we speak. Hazel Donald I grew up RAAF .. so 23 yrs as a RAAF Greg Buckenara My father during WW2, surrounded by wife.. best job in the Air Force! was in the Naval Reserve at military uniforms. Father, 2 Linda Fennell My uncles HMAS Leeuwin,my Uncle brothers, brother in law, sister in were in WW2 Army & RAAF pilot, served on the Patrol Boats law and her two sisters. Obvious my cousin was RAAF one of the in Darwin WW2.I joined the choice when the Women’s first two pilots to bring back the ‘’Rockies’’ in 1968,before services started up,again in F111’s and he trained pilots on joining the ‘’ Perms’’as a Recruit 1951. I joined at the age of them, I suppose it was that and at HMAS Cerberus in 1969 18 for 4 years. All my friends a sense of challenge. Loved Waller Division(HMAS Swan) thought I was Mad! Little did I every minute of it and would do it LTO Robinson,discharged know the my service would last all again in a heart beat.. with Bronchitis 5 weeks later. for 24 years. Oh yes, I married a Rejoined 1971,drafted HMAS Wendy Mahoney My dad soldier! Diamantina,Discharged 1972.I was a career Gunner (apart from Tim Moore Great Uncles, being seconded to Z Special believe distant family members Uncles, Father either served in Unit for 9 months) so that’s why on my mothers (Harry Family) the Army, Merchant Marines or I was an Arty sig in 7 Fd Bty & side served in the Royal Navy Air Force. So I went Air Force. am an ongoing (12+ years) onboard HMS Prince Of Wales Committee member of the RAA and HMS Repulse WW2. Rob Bradley Wanted to follow in a tradition going back to my Assoc of WA Inc. Bruce Woods Great Uncles, grandfather at Gallipoli, Uncle Keren Lynch Cos my Dad , Grand Father, Uncles, Father RAF WW2, father RAAF WW2 brother and sister did! either served in the Army, or Air Pacific Islands, Myself and my Force. So I went NAVY. Daughter JoJo Carolyn both Thelma Gunzburg My Join the discussion! Navy. father served in France with 2 20 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
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PHOTO: Steve Toon RSLWA’S 2020 AUSTRALIA DAY & CADET OF YEAR AWARDS PASSION, humility and a THE annual awards, held at the City of Belmont RSL Sub- Branch, also included the Cadet of the Year Awards. CEO willingness to help their John McCourt was MC, while Vice-President Donna Prytulak fellow Veterans has seen OAM – herself recently honoured with an Order of Australia four shining lights of our Medal for her many years’ service to Veterans and their community honoured with families – presented the recipients with their 2020 Australia Day Council Medallions. RSLWA Australia Day Awards. Here they are: STEVE ELLIOTT WOFF JENNINE RICHES Steve Elliott is a man of vision, persistence and Warrant Officer Jen Riches, currently based at Royal integrity – and one who just gets on with business Australian Air Force Base Pearce, has been an of doing things for the betterment of his Port outstanding supporter of RSLWA. Kennedy RSL Sub-Branch. WOFF Riches has often been the first to put up her Port Kennedy President Steve Elliott has steered his hand to assist RSLWA, especially in ceremonial Sub-Branch into much smoother financial waters. and in supporting Veterans through RSLWA’s Steve became President of the Port Kennedy Sub- fundraising efforts. Branch some seven years ago after the Sub-Branch Last year, WOFF Riches provided invaluable had been in a period of administration. assistance in advising the staff on the new RSLWA His leadership and management has led the Ceremonial and Protocol Manual. CEO John Sub-Branch to a membership of 1800, including McCourt said that in his military career, he had seen 700 Service Members, 220 Affiliates and a large none better. contingent of supportive Social Members. He has Jen Riches has also been a tower of support in the literally steered the Sub-Branch to have greater planning for RSLWA’s running of ANZAC Day and relevance to the defence community in the region, Remembrance Day services, especially Catafalque including a close association with HMAS Ballarat, Party protocols. welcoming and farewelling deployed naval personnel. Her military career includes operational deployments in the Middle East and East Timor, Steve has also ensured the Sub-Branch’s continued and her military medals include the Australian liaison with local schools. Through his motivation Active Service Medal, the Australian Operational and good governance, Steve’s efforts were in no Service Medal the Afghanistan Medal and Long short measure the reason why the Sub-Branch won Service medal. the Ken Bladen Recruiting Shield at State Congress. This award recognises the most outstanding Sub- Jen Riches recently travelled to East Timor to mark Branch for the recruitment of new members the 20th Anniversary of her service with in proportion to existing memberships. INTERFET. 22 The Listening Post MARCH 2020 rslwa.org.au
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