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THE LIFESTYLE MAGAZINE OF DLF GARDENCITY OASIS JUNE - JULY 2021 HOME & HEARTH A HOLISTIC HOME WELLNESS HEART HEALTHY FITNESS THE SKIPPING CHALLENGE Hope SPECIAL
WELCOME first word OASIS THE LIFESTYLE MAGAZINE OF DLF GARDENCITY GM- Marketing Gaurav Singh E: singh-gaurav2@dlf.in M: + 91 9818624356 AM- Marketing Sreeya Bhattacharya E: Bhattacharya-sreeya@dlf.in M: +91 9650028912 Chief Editor Parineeta Sethi parineeta@pinnacleconnect.in Editor-at-Large Ranojoy Mukerji ranojoy@pinnacleconnect.in EDITORIAL Assistant Editor Dear Residents, Rainy skies often call for lazy days, Vidhi Gupta T but whether you are working out vidhi@pinnacleconnect.in he season of fresh earth is a full regime or a simple practice, finally upon us. With hours of staying fit can come in simple forms. rainy days and windy nights, Features Writer Research reveals how skipping at the monsoon has arrived like a home and eating healthy for your Vrinda Rastogi breath of fresh air in our lives. The heart are a few. Glimpse through fun vrinda@pinnacleconnect.in tiny droplets of hope and joy bring activities you can enjoy with your clear skies and clarity ahead. With little ones indoors and make the most ART this issue, we urge our readers to of both, the season and the learning. Design: Creative Zone find their light of hope as we strive to Keeping in mind the wellbeing of grafiks.skd@gmail.com live life mindfully. everyone, there are yoga asanas proven therapeutic for the mind, Nothing sweeter than home, turn body, and soul. PINNACLE CONNECT your abode into a positive space CORPORATE with our guide to ancient Chinese It is no denying - when it rains; it Chief Executive Officer home tradition, Feng Shui. To pours–but there will be clear skies Abhinav Kaushal make sure you swap away your after every pouring rain. Until then, abhinav@pinnacleconnect.in beauty essentials for monsoon’s we wish the rain washes over you like must-haves, you can flip through a refreshing breeze this year. To our our beauty sections for long-lasting loving readers, happy monsoon-ing! DLF Oasis is published by recommendations. Of course, with Pinnacle Connect beauty goes fashion hand-in-hand, on behalf of DLF Warm regards so we bring to you the easiest way to Pinnacle Connect LLP detox your wardrobe and some DIY 325 Star Towers, sector-30, fashion from experimenting on one’s Gurgaon, Haryana, 122002 style to finding one’s own way of KARAN KUMAR Tel: +91 124 464 8592 expressions. CHIEF MARKETING OFFICER, DLF LIMITED OASIS OASIS 1
CONTENTS CONTENTS 20 22 30 30 COVER STORY: National Doctors Day 4 34 FAMILY: In Togetherness We Learn 38 RECIPES: Monsoon Treats 4 HOME & HEARTH: 12 42 WELLNESS: Stop Chasing Happiness 40 A Holistic Home 46 WATCH: 56 Movie Marathon 8 WELLNESS: Be Well, Stay Happy 48 WELLNESS: Self-Love in Resonance 10 BEAUTY: Your Monsoon Skincare Bible 50 READ: Savour the Words 12 BEAUTY: Monsoon Mane 52 WHEELS: New to Drive 14 FASHION: 22 WELLNESS: Closet (Un)Chaos Stretch it Out 54 WHEELS: Resetting the Indian Automotive 16 FASHION: 26 FITNESS: Industry 16 From Chic to Home-Chic The Skipping Challenge 58 FITNESS FOCUS: 20 CULTURE: 28 WELLNESS: The Flip Side of Remote Lifestyle: Play Your Song Heart Healthy Burnout 2 OASIS OASIS 3
HOME & HEARTH A HOLISTIC HOME Feng Shui is a traditional ancient practice to F bring positivity in your life. or your life to be harmonious and dreams realised to its BY SHRADHA SALLA fullest, it is vital to have a good flow of life-force energy in your home. And it is the practice of Feng Shui that teaches many ways to improve this energy flow in one of the most effective ways. Even the Chinese characters of the words ‘Feng Shui’ represent ‘wind’ and ‘water’, the symbols which create a gentle flow of energy. This natural flow creates positive effects in our lives, along with good luck. Working on the five elements - Earth, Metal, Water, Wood, and Fire, the first and most important rule of Feng Shui is to keep your house clean. The more clean and neat you keep it, the more easily the energy will flow. Think of it like you are sending a bow and arrow from one side to the other. If there is an obstruction in the middle, it will get dropped. But if you can see the target point clearly, the arrow will reach the bullseye. It is just like the saying ‘Cleanliness is next to Godliness’. If you keep your surroundings clean, good energies will come into it. Next is to keep your windows clean. Any kind of significance of water, keeping a Feng If any vase, glass, or an utensil is energy that has to come into the Shui fountain is a major aspect for chipped, it must be thrown away. house, whether it is sunlight or one to keep in the house. It can be It is recommended to always keep the effect of a planetary position, placed in the north-east direction something on the dining table, it comes through the windows. For or at the entrance. Coming to the whether eating or not, to make it your entrance, the front gate or your furniture, less furniture is preferred seem inviting. Fresh flowers always main door should always be well lit. because it helps the flow of positive do the magic. Having artwork Even at night, a small light must be energy in empty spaces. The heavy around is considered beneficial in there. furniture should go to the south and Feng Shui, but it should be positive. light ones to the north. There must Say a big no to artwork representing LIVING ROOM be enough sunlight in the living lonely women, crying, faces, or Plants also play an important room, so curtains should always be anything broken. There should role in Feng Shui, as water is an kept open. not be any pictures of knives, dead element that makes life grow and animals or dead plants. To keep watering your plants is something DINING ROOM yourself mindful of what you are you will do every day. They promote The dining table is where eating and improving the digestion a lot of luck, especially those smaller your family sits together, eats of your food, it is advised to not keep bamboo plants. Continuing with the food, and shares conversations. a television in the dining area. 4 OASIS OASIS 5
HOME & HEARTH KITCHEN Natural elements work wonders vase, Feng Shui magnets, or an shape elements represent Fire. And Air is Kitchen should basically be when kept in the bedroom. This is aquarium. There are Chinese coins inculcated through Wind Chimes. more towards the central area. The why we should hang a wind chime or which attract money where there Feng Shui is about correct energy stove should be in the north-east a dream catcher with little bells as are three coins tied together with a flow which applies to your health, work, corner, which is known as the fire they give out relaxing energy. Some red ribbon. Even Feng Shui crystals relationships, as well as your everyday corner. Again, cleaning the kitchen people use a lot of Feng Shui crystals you can get in bunches of three, five, interactions. It believes in Chi energy, where is a priority. Remember to clean in the bedroom to hang it near seven, and eleven, tied with a red it says that energy needs to flow and cannot your kitchen’s windows as well, as the window so that when they hit ribbon when hung, is profitable. be stuck in one place. And this energy starts stains minimise sunlight which is against each other, they make a little Feng Shui uses a lot of animals as from human beings. It is all within us and important for having energy. sound. They are also known to be well. They use a turtle for prosperity, we give it out into the universe. Things given positive flow around the room. horses for strength and energy, and which you do for yourself, like sleeping BEDROOM If you think of colours, always Feng Shui cats, which are used in early, waking up fresh, eating light food, and In Feng Shui, the bed should be have a neutral scheme. Never shops and work areas for good luck wearing comfy clothes, the same principle positioned in such a way that you anything too bright or too dull. and money. You must have seen goes into your house as well. can see your main door while laying If you have a squeaky door, fix it these Feng Shui cats as they are These two little words conjure up a big on it and avoid facing head in the immediately. Also, never keep your used all over China, Singapore, and approach to living, yet, at its core, Feng Shui north direction. The headboard gym equipment in the bedroom, let Thailand. is simply about feeling good and prospering must be a stable one because it them be in the common area. If you We try to include all the Feng in your life. provides stability, and avoid using have a bathroom attached, always Shui elements in some way or the About the writer: Shradha Salla is a it while working from bed, instead keep its door closed and drains other. We include Earth by keeping renowned numerologist, tarot reader, Vastu shift to a table when you want covered. our surroundings clean and using consultant, and has her own brand creation to work. If you keep a TV in your earthy colours like yellow and called ‘I & Me’. She suggests possible bedroom, you must conceal it when ROLE OF COLOURS AND brown. For Metal, we use Feng structural changes, energy enhancements not in use as it disrupts the energy of ANIMALS Shui coins. To include Water, we in and around the surroundings, design your space. You can conceal it with In terms of Colours, Red and have a Feng Shui fountain or an solutions, and even Vastu remedies a little curtain, piece of cloth, or a Gold attract money in Feng Shui. aquarium, and plants. Colours like according to persons date of birth and pull-down sheet. Other ways are to have a Feng Shui Red and Gold, and the triangular business partners.
WELLNESS BE WELL, STAY HAPPY Feeling grey? Focus on your own self during this pause mode that the pandemic brings along and define your own state of wellbeing. I t is not uncommon for people to video calls, telecoms or physical munchies, might just be the answer. experience seasonal fluctuation meetings. s in moods. The monsoons might TEACH ‘EM make some of you feel gloomy and REACH OUT, You might feel you are an average irritated, but there are ways to CONNECT Joe even in your area of expertise. overcome it. Of course, you would rather catch up Fret not. Train the juniors, give back for coffee with your friends or meet what you have learnt. Share what The present is a boon in disguise up for drinks in the evening. Do that you know with others. Groom and as you are at home with the two virtually. Yet, there are those special train your pet. Teach your kids, most valuable currencies in your friends whom you always thought cousins, neighbours, nieces a skill hand— love and time. Make the you would make time for and yet did that you possess. most of these to bring in self-love, not get around to doing so. Pick up “VERY LITTLE care for your family, and enjoy the the phone and call. MOVE IT IS NEEDED TO inner healing. Discover new ways to Remember, home chores make MAKE A HAPPY develop a different rhythm to your LEARN A SKILL up activity, not focused exercise. LIFE; day and enjoy the well-being that It is not a productivity challenge, Add a challenge to an activity to morph it into a calorie-burning flows in naturally. Here are 5 superb but learning something new always IT IS ALL WITHIN ways to help you find your groove… gets those happy hormones flowing. exercise: Make use of free sessions YOURSELF, IN The burst of online courses and on Instagram (follow fitness experts) YOUR WAY OF I, ME, MYSELF workshops promising to hone up in boot camps, Zumba, power yoga, pilates, boxercise….this helps in THINKING “. Focus on self-care, as you deserve your proficiency in everything — creating and sustaining a routine so it. Figure out ways of fulfilling your ranging from Photoshop skills, that you do not slip into a state of social nutrition: whether through to breathing right, to making -MARCUS AURELIUS limbo. OASIS 9
BEAUTY YOUR MONSOON SKINCARE BIBLE Y GET MASKED ou may romanticise the rain, but the downpour brings Ban the dust and oil by applying with it new challenges in ubtan (gram flour, honey, lime) with sticky skin and often, acne. Breathe a dot of yogurt. Clay based masks Tweak your glowing transition from summer to monsoon fresh vigour into your pore and including Fuller’s Earth (Multani shine bright, as the sun takes on skincare as the rain rolls in. a watery smile this season. Equip mitti) comes in as an absolute skin saviour. Make use of rosewater, BY SHLIPI MADANN your vanity caddy with seasonal aloe vera, and milk to dilute the essentials and get the glam glow…. preparations to keep acne away and usher in the radiance. SKIN SAVIOURS Exfoliate your skin to slough off the HYDRATE RIGHT dead cells and grime. Use a foam or a Honey based formulations work gel cleanser for mild cleaning, and a beautifully as the humectant gentle scrub to work on the oil prone hydrates your skin optimally. areas of your face, especially in the Make a shift to light, gel-based T-zone. Unclogged pores gift your moisturisers as these mattify your skin unbeatable freshness. skin and at the same time, keep it supple and shining. Use water-based moisturisers to feed dryness and get that glow in place. SUNNY WAY The sunscreen is your best friend, even when it rains. Safeguard your skin against the harmful rays of the sun, and from the harmful blue light in. A gel-based water proof sunscreen leaves your skin beautifully moist, without feeling sticky. Make use of body, and face sunscreen to guard yourself against photoaging. Apply twice every day for best results. MAKE IT UP Revamp your cosmetics wardrobe with non-comedogenic and water-resistant products for light applications. Blot away the moisture and sweat before putting on makeup. It is a good idea to make use of light dusting powder to ease away the sweat and stickiness from the neck, inner elbow, thighs… to keep bacterial infections at bay. 10 OASIS OASIS 11
BEAUTY MONSOON MANE W ith the downpour wing in droopy, mousy locks. Spruce up your haircare guide to sport a voluminous, silken, smooth mane, and do away with the frizz and roughness. Cue Pour a vitamin cocktail into your tresses to in for the essential must-haves during the flaunt a magic mane this season. monsoon. BY SHLIPI MADANN LATHER UP Bring in the organic shampoos to keep chemical scalp fodder at bay. Choose products in keeping with your hair type. The trick lies in keeping your scalp squeaky clean. Shampoo your hair regularly to remove grime, left behind even by rain water that lands on your head. Avoid using leave- in conditioners and serums as they tend to weigh down the locks, leaving them limp. COOL CONDITION Bring in a light conditioner as opposed to a creamy, heavier concoction. Then begin by applying a coin sized amount of the product, starting at an inch away from the scalp, along the strands. Tipping the strands also keeps split ends at bay and gifts you a cool crop. FOB OFF THE FRIZZ If you must apply oil, go for serum pods and scalp oils that can be gently massaged in. You must also avoid using creamy hair packs and butters. Pack away your hair straightening tools, as the heat builds up the unruly frizz. Instead, bring on the anti-frizz serum after you wash and towel blot your hair to calm your mane. UV ALERT The sunshine impacts the natural colour and the texture of your locks, especially if you have colored your hair. Guard the life of your hair colour and quality against the rain and the sun. Make use of products formulated for chemically treated hair, bring in an umbrella when it rains, and a scarf or a hat when the sun shines. LAST WORD Avoid using warm water to wash your hair, as it robs the scalp of the natural oils. Remember to perform the last rinse with a mug of water with a tablespoon of vinegar mixed in for that fabulous shine. Flipping your mane forward and then back lends instant volume. OASIS 13
FASHION CLOSET (UN)CHAOS Do you sometimes feel yourself being stressed out with a messy and untidy wardrobe that screams “I have so many clothes but nothing to wear”? This is how you can fix it. BY VRINDA RASTOGI W e have all found ourselves standing in front of our closets, dissecting the very mess that we stand in front of but never really getting to untangling it. If you are struggling make sure you are tossing the right with your style, lifestyle, or simply clothes out of your way. Off-season have an extra hour at your hand, clothing, unworn outfits, and a size- how about a little detour to your own too-big could very well come in handy closet? for the future. You can also focus on Simpler said than done, here are keeping clothes that can be layered seven of the easiest ways you can throughout seasons or worn with detox your wardrobe for a better other outfits. and organised closet. After all, your clothes deserve love and care too! 6. HAVE FUN Ever been on a treadmill and 1. TAKE PICTURES realised music made it a lot more In an era led by visuals, the enjoyable and less tiring? Well, that foremost step to motivating yourself is the power of music and you must is by taking pictures of the “before” take its full advantage as you set out and “after” of your detox process. If to clean your closet. Turn up the you are feeling bold, you could even volume and get yourself excited to post the difference on your social de-clutter the very house of your media and who knows, someone just expression! You could even pull out might get inspired and get on with your favourite snacks to munch in their own closet detox journey! 3. DETACH TO DETOX 4. DONATE, RECYCLE, OR between the process. Now does it Emotional hoarding is a real REUSE sound doable? 2. BE PRACTICAL thing, and it only gets stronger Want to feel better about going on To keep your detox as efficient and when it comes to our clothes. While your detox? You can always recycle or 7. STAY ORGANISED easy as possible, stick to only those it is alright to keep close your most donate your clothes! Organisations So you have spent an hour or two outfits that fit your current body and sentimental pieces of clothing, it is all across the world today accept segregating your clothes in different lifestyle. Key word: Current. If you also okay to set yourself free from donations and are running recycling sections and even the drawers are find yourself debating whether you extreme attachments. That one dress campaigns for unused/undamaged tidier than you have ever seen before, would wear a particular clothing at your friend thought you would love clothes. but that is what it looks like right some other point of time, try to talk but you do not and never plan on after. What about next week? Or next yourself down and think practically. wearing is a prime example of why 5. DON’T GO COLD TURKEY month? The true root of staying as Do you really really really need that emotionally hoarding items would Less is more, but your regrets stylish and seamless as you are meant piece of clothing for a time you might not do anyone any good. The golden should not be. Where you try to keep to be is staying on top of your detox - feel different about when it comes? rule is to detach and just let go. track of how minimal you could go, be it every week, month, or even day! 14 OASIS OASIS 15
FASHION From Chic to Patch my Love Local craftsmanship is an eye-catching addition to your wardrobe. A simple and almost meditative way, bring Home-Chic in your grandmother’s needles and your cloth of choice as you patch through designs of your selection! Bring in quaint embroidered patches and that needle box: Stitch them on, from dainty flowers bobbing in clusters to vivid landscapes to bold lettering, or even fine miniature details...to give your clothes a fresh spin. It is time to let out your inner fashion designer as we bring you simple and trendy DIY ideas to ramp up your wardrobe. Say hello to your self-curated wardrobe of unique home-chic pieces! BY VRINDA RASTOGI F rom experimenting on one’s style to finding one’s own way of expression, we have let out Pin it In our fashion instincts to the max. Staying chic is no longer confined to the outside, and home-chic has become the new style statement. Fashion always comes full circle. Cue into a few expert tips to skilfully reinvent your fashion essentials for this season! Big bold, visible safety pins work wonderfully as natty accessories in ‘lifting’ an outfit. From lining couture trousers and sleeves with big bold pins to accentuating accessories with a plain old pin, you can use safety pins of all different sizes for your shirts, jackets, denims, trousers, bags, and even jewellery! Iridescent and out of the box, try ingenious ways of using safety pins and liven up your closet. Belt In The world is going gaga over belts, and so should you. But skimp on the basics and go ahead with something else - a necktie! Yes, you read it right.Repurpose your dad’s neckties. If they are vintage, target your boyfriend’s fix. Pair your pair of jeans, trousers, or even shorts with neckties as belts to add that slice of boho chic to your appearance. Choose more than one tie to bring in an extra silhouette to your outfit. Girdle up fancy at the waist, below your chest or above your hips for a cool swing. 16 OASIS OASIS 17
FASHION Tie & Dye Layer On Even Zara is aflush with this color run. All you need is a tie- Who says layers are not for summers? Ban the blues. dye ink kit (or you could make your own dye at home!), a Create your own fresh summer outfit by pairing few rubber bands, and your cloth of choice. Voila! You have t-shirts (graphic works best!) with either your string the most cost effective stole, dupatta, knot top... ready in dresses or short-sleeved ones. Either way, you are a few hours. Tie-dyes are definitely the upcoming trend of bound to make a statement with this new look that the year, so you can already get used to creating your own has been gaining love all around the globe! cost-effective fashionable piece of style, right at home! Scarf Up If you are Insta savvy, you know the deal. The simplest way to sass up your appearance is to drape a scarf in innovative ways. Shape into a Oddities Match Mismatched colors and details rock, even in hair crop top, an off-shoulder special, a scarf dress, a accessories and shoes. Try asymmetrical cuts, bandana, a chic turban, or a bag accessory. Pull bias trims, scalloping with your pair of scissors your hair back into a smooth knot, slip on casual for bringing in interesting details. You can even blaze and look smashing! mismatch your tie-dyes for a spot of fun! Shirts to Skirts Sequin Sneakers Repurpose your old t-shirts and shirts to flouncy skirts effortlessly with this simple trick. With your waist and All about expressing yourself, let these fashion Sequins on sneakers rock. The only things you will preferred length in mind, cut the top alternatives become your need are an E-6000 glue and metallic sequins to and bottom half of the t-shirt, measure next big obsession to creating bedazzle your pair of shoes. Going bold or minimal, the wide flare you want your skirt to the perfectly minimal and sequinning can be such a fun activity for you have, and cut the fabric to size before exciting closet of your and yours to indulge in. You could even include you fine-stitch it to perfection. You can dreams. Get fashion savvy metallic spikes for more spunk on your freshly further add numerous elements and and strut tall this sequined dream shoes. silhouettes to your newfound obsession! season! 18 OASIS OASIS 19
CULTURE PLAY YOUR SONG “ A hobby that will go a long way to help you in different aspects of your life, this World Music Day marks the perfect beginning to pick a musical instrument and learn online. IT HAS BEEN PROVED THAT MUSIC IS A THERAPEUTIC TOOL. IT HELPS IMPROVE CONCENTRATION, BODY MOVEMENT, CAN FIGHT FATIGUE AND REDUCES DEPRESSION.” U 1 4 pon research while observing the human 3. UKULELE brain, neuroscientists found out that Easy to hold and lightweight makes the Ukulele a while doing activities like solving a math great instrument to pick. With only four strings, it is problem, making a list etc. made certain areas of much more approachable and easy to play songs. If the brain light up. But while listening to music, you are someone who is interested in learning bass the brain lit up like fireworks and when playing or violin, starting with Ukulele is the best option. an instrument, the fireworks became a jubilee! It Since the chords are easy to read, it can be the perfect turns out that playing a musical instrument is a instrument for children to begin their journey in full-body workout for our brain. music. It has been proved that music is a therapeutic WHY YOU SHOULD LEARN: Not heavy at all tool. It helps improve concentration, body and plays melodious folk music movement, can fight fatigue and reduces WHERE YOU CAN LEARN: Udemy depression. And learning an instrument 4. TABLA 2 5 furthermore adds skills to your learning ability with better social skills and confidence level. So Tabla is an instrument in Hindustani classical pick up an instrument to tick another hobby off music played by hitting the fingers on the drum head your list for better executive skills, creativity, and sliding the palm to create a sound. A lot of sounds memory, problem solving and overall brain can be created from the tabla by changing how you function, regardless of how old you are. use your hands. This movement of hand drumming increases your physical stamina along with other 1. GUITAR common benefits of playing an instrument. Tabla has Whether you are picking up the guitar for the a rich cultural background and you will be honouring first time or you just want to brush up on your this tradition by learning how to play it. skills, there are plenty of courses available which WHY YOU SHOULD LEARN: Famous Indian will help you master the instrument. Not only is it percussion instrument easy to carry and you can bring it anywhere, it also WHERE YOU CAN LEARN: Takelessons makes you versatile as you can sing and write your own songs. Guitar will also enhance your ability 5. SITAR to play music because you will listen and identify Both for beginners and professionals, a Sitar is a 3 notes pretty easily. traditional Indian instrument. It is played by sitting WHY YOU SHOULD LEARN: Sociable on the floor in a comfortable position, with the and adaptable to any kind of music instrument held on your lap. Pluck the strings with a WHERE YOU CAN LEARN: Plenty of wire plectrum worn on the right forefinger while the YouTube videos the sounds you make and hear. Unlike any other left hand manipulates the strings with subtle pressure instrument, the piano is unique because you play on or between the frets and with sideways pulls of 2. PIANO different keys with both hands and use your feet the strings. A little tough to play in the beginning, Piano is an instrument which increases your too - which trains your brain to focus on several but with determination it can mesmerise you with its focusing ability on rhythm, volume, melody and things at once. enchanting music. harmony all at once. At the same time, it also WHY YOU SHOULD LEARN: Beautiful WHY YOU SHOULD LEARN: A dominant helps you focus on finger positions and body and easy musical notes musical instrument in Hindustani music posture. While learning the piano, you develop a WHERE YOU CAN LEARN: Plenty of WHERE YOU CAN LEARN: The Pink Lotus musical ear, so you have a keen understanding of YouTube videos Academia 20 OASIS OASIS 21
WELLNESS STRETCH IT OUT On this World Yoga Day, immerse in the many benefits OF PRACTISING yoga and commit to making it a part of your lifestyle. T he practice of yoga traces its origin to the Indus-Saraswati civilization in northern India over 5000 years ago and has been spread, over the years, to various countries across the world. From being a sacred practice that was only taught orally, so much has been written, portrayed, presented and represented about yoga till date. Even 30 minutes of practising every morning can improve your mental, physical and spiritual energies. YOGA ASANAS Every type of yoga has its benefits and changes your life. “Hatha yoga is a type of yoga that involves holding specific body postures, called asanas. Its aim is to strengthen your muscles and create a mindful connection to your body,” explains Samiksha Shetty, a yoga practitioner. “Ashtanga Yoga synchronizes breath and movement by inhaling while in the pose and exhaling as you transition to the next pose. Vinyasa Yoga is referred to as flow yoga, a one-per- movement yoga. It helps to develop a more balanced body as well as prevent repetitive motion injuries that can happen if you are always doing the same thing every day.” She further delineates a few asanas for bringing in the vital body balance for overall well being below: TADASANA (Mountain Pose) The foundation of all standing poses, it improves your posture, brings body awareness and lets you align 22 OASIS OASIS 23
WELLNESS feet apart. Lift and extend your hands up in line with your shoulder. Turn your right foot to the right (90 degree) and turn your left foot inwards 45 degree. Now turn your whole body to the right and square the hips. Exhale hinge from the hip down towards your right foot. Place your left hand next to the right foot and twist from the waist completely to the right side. Extend your right hand straight up without overextending your arm. Hold here for 5 to 9 breaths. If you cannot reach your foot, place your hand against your chin. You can add variations to the hand to make it tougher like joining the hands in Namaskara mudra and hooking the elbow against the leg. VIRABHADRASANA (Warrior Pose) This group of related lunging asanas strengthens your limbs and improves stability. GET IT RIGHT: Warrior I: Start by placing your feet 3 to 4 feet apart. Turn your right foot completely to the right (90 degree) and left foot 45 degree inwards. Gradually turn your entire body towards the right, squaring the hips. The body faces the front of the mat. Coming into a lunge, bend your your spine and balance your weight UTKATA KONASANA (Goddess Pose) GET IT RIGHT: Start by sitting front knee and thigh, keeping the equally from front to back and side This hip opener strengthens your on your mat with the legs bent at weight in the front heel and big toe and to side. calves, glutes and core, making you the knees. Slowly lift the legs up the back foot is pressing from the outer GET IT RIGHT: Start by standing feel more confident and strong. straight in the air and simultaneously heel. Square the hips and ensure the up straight with your feet together. GET IT RIGHT: Start by placing straighten the hands in line with the knee is directly above the ankle. Keep your toes comfortably spread on your feet 3-4 feet apart. Now turn knees parallel to the floor. Balance on Inhale, lift the arms up straight the floor to create a wide solid base. your toes outwards about 45 -90 your hip joint. Lengthen your spine in line with your ears and extend Engage your quadriceps, causing your degrees depending on your flexibility. and relax your shoulders. Hold your the trunk. Stay here for 5-10 breaths. kneecaps to rise. Rotate your thighs Inhale, lengthen the spine. Exhale, legs and torso up at 45 degrees from Repeat on the other side. “ inwards. Draw your belly in slightly. bend your knees and lower your hip the floor. Hold for 30 to 60 seconds Warrior II: Start by standing at Stack your shoulders over your pelvis. down into a wide squat. Bring your and then lower our legs down straight the top of the mat with your feet Let your arms hang naturally. Now palms together in front of your chest in front of you. Repeat three times. together. Inhale, raise your hands up gently rock back and forth and side to in Namaskar mudra (balance on your If you are unable to straighten your to the ceiling and join your palms in side. Gradually reduce this swaying toes for a tougher variation). Hold legs, you can practise with bent knees Namaskara mudra. As you exhale, to a standstill, with your weight here for 9 to 12 breaths and repeat until you get stronger. Raise your legs balance and shift all the weight onto HATHA YOGA IS A TYPE OF YOGA THAT balanced evenly on the feet. Balance a few rounds of this. For an easier straight and place your hands behind the left leg and lift the right leg up INVOLVES HOLDING SPECIFIC BODY the crown of your head directly over variation, you could stand facing the your hips for support. backwards. Simultaneously hinge POSTURES, CALLED ASANAS. ITS AIM IS TO the centre of your pelvis and maintain wall for support. forward from the hip and lower the your chin parallel to the floor. Once PARIVRTTA TRIKONASANA (Revolved arms and torso downwards parallel STRENGTHEN YOUR MUSCLES AND CREATE you get comfortable in Tadasana, NAVASANA (Boat Pose) Side Angle Pose) to the floor. Look down at the floor A MINDFUL CONNECTION TO YOUR BODY.” shift your weight onto your left foot Building a strong core will help This strengthens and stretches and stare at one unmoving point for and lift your right knee up, keeping you feel centered and encourage you your legs, hips and spine, bettering balance. Hold this pose for 9 to 12 your thigh parallel to the floor. Keep to stand tall. The Navasana creates your sense of balance. breaths. For an easier variation, place your belly tucked in and balance on a balance mentally and physically, GET IT RIGHT: Start by standing your palms in front of your chest in the left leg. Repeat on the right leg. releasing stress and anxiety. upright and spread your feet 3 to 4 Namaskara mudra. 24 OASIS OASIS 25
FITNESS THE SKIPPING L ooking for a concise exercise format to stay fit? Learn CHALLENGE the ropes. Bring out that forgotten skipping rope from the recesses of your drawer and get moving on the calorie crunch. Even a minute a day of doing the Make your moves with the rope to pump up your leaps gets your lungs pumping. lungs, the fun way. SHRUG THE FLAB Shape up easily. You can crunch up to 300 calories in half an hour of skipping, shrugging off 400 gm each week. Set the time aside each day and let your body slip into the rhythm as you scale up the minutes on the rope. TONE UP Work on your calves and abdominal muscles as you build on your form. Be prepared for a few days of soreness owing to the lactic acid build up in your body, especially if you have stayed inactive for a long time. Stay consistent and get in sync! GET THE GLOW Better your blood circulation as you bring in this form of cardio YOUR SKIPPING and watch your skin shine bright. GUIDE The sweat you build up flushes Stay low to the ground, knees out the toxins from your body and soft. Stay light on your feet gifts you that unbeatable glow. to reduce the impact. Rotate from your wrists rather than FAIR DRIVE the shoulders. Keep your core engaged Improve your bone density as throughout. you age. Women post 35 years of age experience a decrease in bone mass, more so as they wing towards menopause. Jumping ropes stimulates and strengthens bones. AGILE & ADROIT The key lies in the perfect balance HAPPY HORMONES of stamina, strength and stellar co- You can draw in your family ordination Celebrities like Justin members and have fun in this Bieber, Kevin Hart, Dwayne Johnson full-body workout. Your limbs are and Kate Hudson have integrated in constant motion, your posture skipping ropes in their workout regime firm and your senses alert as you to improve upon flexibility, focus and jump rope. functional movement 26 OASIS OASIS 27
WELLNESS HEART HEALTHY Pour a vitamin cocktail into your tresses to flaunt a magic mane this season. Y our heart is a regular working machine. When you need to “ keep it running for longer, it is essential to give your heart the fuel it needs. being overweight; the lack of physical guide of Heartfulness Institute, activity is a further contributor.” promotes Heartfulness meditation. He In his book ‘Heart: A history’, Dr. However, simple alterations in your explains that the heartfulness method Sandeep Jauhar says that the lifestyle can help in keeping your is a modified form of Patanjali’s heart’s vital importance to our self- heart healthy and pumping. A PERSON Ashtanga Yoga which crystallized understanding is no accident, “If the INFLUENCES THE into its present form in the mid-20th heart is the last major organ to stop DIET & NUTRITION CONDITION OF THEIR century, “we bring our attention to working, it is also the first to develop- It is advised by the experts that you the heart and meditate upon the starting to beat approximately three should promote intake of foods that HEART, BUT IT IS divine presence within. There are four weeks into fetal life, even before there come straight from the ground and ONE’S LIFESTYLE techniques in the Heartfulness Way: is blood to pump. From birth until are not really hampered in the process THAT BECOMES THE Relaxation, a guided tool that helps death, it beats nearly three billion of processing and adulteration. REAL TRIGGER. relax the body prior to meditation– times. The amount of work it performs Tofu mixed with fresh veggies Meditation; during which we meditate is mind-boggling.” Which just makes provides vitamins and minerals on the Source of Light in our heart; it even more important to make sure with antioxidant properties which cocoa content. Prefer unsaturated soft Cleaning; an active technique that that we take care of our heart. directly support the heart. Fishes margarine and oils such as sunflower, helps to remove thoughts and like tuna, trout etc. have omega-3 corn, rapeseed and olive oil while impressions that have built up over No doubt that the genetic make-up fatty acids which are prominently restricting the salt and sugar intake. time; and Prayer; which allows us to of a person influences the condition known for their heart health benefits. create a stronger connection to our of their heart, but it is one’s lifestyle Antioxidants present in tomatoes FITNESS inner Source.” that becomes the real trigger. Dr. help neutralize harmful free radicals, It is important to have a balance Vasundhra Atre, Medical Director, preventing oxidative damage and between calories burned with calories AVOID TOBACCO Fortis Hospital, Bangalore says, inflammation, both of which can consumed. Regular exercise plays Tobacco use is one of the most “Diabetes, high blood pressure, contribute to heart disease. For an equally important role in slowing important risk factors that need to be abnormal lipid profiles, tobacco, snacks, nuts like walnuts and almonds down the narrowing of the arteries to controlled. Quitting tobacco lowers lack of physical activity, unhealthy reduce bad cholesterol, and give the heart and brain. A combination of the “bad” cholesterol levels, reduces nutrition, obesity, heavy alcohol monounsaturated fats and fibre, aerobic, strengthening, and stretching blood clotting and the chance of a intake, stress, and family history two crucial components to reduce exercises are advised. For adults, at sudden blockage of an artery. One continue to be the major risk factors heart risks. Rich in antioxidants least thirty minutes of exercise a day must know that passive smoking also for developing heart disease. It is no like flavonoids, Dark Chocolate can and for children an hour a day will increases the risk of coronary heart longer considered a problem for the promote heart health. Heart risks are help reduce risk factors, maintain disease by 25 to 30 percent. The best elderly. Even children are at increased lower by simply eating chocolate twice cardiovascular fitness and a healthy way to stop is exercising. Smokers who risk with an increasing number a week. Just make sure the quality is weight. Yoga and meditation are exercise are twice as successful in their indulging in tobacco smoking, and good and for it to have at least 70% always beneficial. Kamlesh Patel, attempts to stop smoking. 28 OASIS OASIS 29
COVER STORY MEDICAL JUGGERNAUTS Cherishing our braveheart doctors who have been an invaluable resource during the pandemic. “…IT (HOPE) IS A CHOICE AND A FORCE; HOPING FOR SOMETHING TAKES MORE THAN CASTING OUT A WISH TO THE UNIVERSE AND WAITING FOR IT TO OCCUR. HOPE SHOULD INSPIRE ACTION. AND WHEN IT DOES INSPIRE ACTION IN MEDICINE AND SCIENCE, THAT HOPE CAN BECOME A REALITY, BEYOND OUR WILDEST DREAMS.” -DAVID FAJGENBAUM, IN HIS BOOK CHASING MY CURE: A DOCTOR’S RACE TO TURN HOPE INTO ACTION; A MEMOIR S ince the pandemic began, all of us have wished for it to get over soon. We express our hopes for a future in really uncertain times. We seek out a light at the end of the tunnel and work to show, to each other, that we all stand together. While on one hand we are largely confined to our homes with businesses and educational institutions all shut down in an attempt to contain the virus, on the other hand doctors, health-care workers, and medical staff members are leading the battle against COVID-19 from the front. Every day, the selfless warriors are giving in their all towards health-care settings while wearing masks and PPE kits for hours. While we practise social distancing, sit at home and do what we can in our capacities, they wake up every day to look after the patients in long duty hours. 30 OASIS OASIS 31
COVER STORY KNOW YOUR HEROES…. D r. Singh was born to smile on their faces, reflecting be in this honourable pure happiness – that is my occupation, “I always moment of pure pride, a time wanted to be a doctor. Even when I am honoured to wear my parents were doctors, the white coat with dignity, which inspired me to develop and privileged to be able to a passion towards this noble take care of others.” To meet profession.” He is a Consultant, the challenges of his stressful Internal Medicine at Medanta, profession, Dr. Singh takes Gurugram, and specialises in care of himself with family Infectious Diseases, Lifestyle and friends. He spends time Diseases, and Geriatric with his family members, close Diseases. What gives him friends, and colleagues. He also immense joy at work? “ It is all meditates regularly to destress about treating and curing my himself. At the end of long patients. The feeling of joy is working hours, he treasures unbeatable, when you treat the quality time with his near your critically ill patients with and dear ones. “I take out some sincerity and commitment to ‘me-time’ by listening to music, DR. HATINDER JEET make them recover from their watching the sports channel on SINGH SETHI illness. When they meet their the television, reading articles, DLF Primus Resident family members with a wide or going for a walk.” F or Dr. Alok Chopra, level, detecting the cause the medical profession of the disease and finding resides in his DNA. “After methods to twist biochemistry, the partition of the country, diet, nutrition, lifestyles, However, being isolated at home our family came from Pakistan environment platitudes to heal did not stop the people from coming where one of my uncles had diseases. It gives me immense together and helping the medical trained to be a doctor and my pleasure to be able to do this, professionals in this fight. When father, a dental surgeon. As all maybe for the rest of my life,” the second wave of the pandemic the young men in my family he says. To unwind, he spends hit, people did their bit in every grew up to become doctors, time with his wife, children and way possible. They delivered I too plunged headlong into grandchildren, a joy which he home-cooked meals, searched for the profession.” Emerging is unable to express in words. oxygen cylinders and refills, verified from the second wave of He also likes to spend time with availability of leads on various the pandemic, Dr. Chopra people who are friendly and medicines, became friends with is immensely happy that he do not sap his energy, “I read strangers on social media to update was able to reach out to help a lot of books, not necessarily information required minute by people in need, in ways he restricted to medicine. I do minute, and the list goes on. Without We are collectively experiencing numerous patients, being at their could have never imagined. meditation, and exercise by For him, this is not an ego swimming, running, cycling, ignoring the realities people face, it is the same emotions as we cope with beck and call in the wee hours of enhancer, but a celebration and practising pranayama,” clear that the world is reaching for a the COVID-19 pandemic, providers the night, providing nursing care to positive message. These words were are on the front lines caring for the patients- proving that it takes DR. ALOK CHOPRA of using his knowledge and he shares. “Cooking is a fresh resources to help others, “I addition to my hobbies, echoed by UN Secretary-General our loved ones and protecting a lot of effort to keep the country Founder of Daivam Wellness and went ahead and changed as nutrition is a crucial António Guterres to world leaders, as our communities. Our medical safe. The sacrifice that they are Aashlok Hospital the way I practise. Using component of my new way of he emphasized the need for solidarity professionals have always been the making for the safety and welfare of the same biochemistry of practising medicine. I have and global cooperation during these paragons of patience, graciousness, humanity is priceless and deserves modern medicine, I started to actually trained to be a chef,” he unprecedented times. and compassion. Dealing with lifelong gratitude on our end. heal people at the grassroot reveals. 32 OASIS OASIS 33
FAMILY IN TOGETHERNESS WE LEARN Know Your Have fun with your kids as you engage together in simple experiments at home. Wind G By making their own wind vane, et your little people moving and busying themselves in immersive experiments to take their minds off the puddles children learn from which direction they could have leapt around in, otherwise during the downpour. Make learning fun with the interactive exercises the monsoon wind approaches. as you put your heads together to come up with great inferences! MATERIALS: Cardboard piece Pair of scissors Glue Pencil with an eraser on its back Geometry Box Straw · Thumb pin METHOD: Tornado In 1. Take the cardboard piece and make a big circle with a compass. Cut the circle A Jar 2. Mark all the directions (NSEW) and angles (30°, 60°, 120°, 150°, 210°, This activity will help your child see “ 240°, 300°, 330°) formed in between clearly what a tornado looks like. them on the circle by using a scale, The mini tornado formed inside the pencil, and a protractor jar will demonstrate how centripetal 3. To make your arrow, cut a triangle force works to bring all the elements using the cardboard. Pick a straw, (here, glitter) to the center of the jar. slice it vertically for a centimetre from one end, and stick the MATERIALS: THIS IS A triangular cut out in between the A transparent jar WEATHER slit with the help of glue. Mark a Glitter EXPERIMENT point on the straw at around 6.5 Dish soap Water TO SHOW HOW centimeters 4. Insert a thumb pin on that mark WARM AIR and place it on the eraser part of METHOD: RISES TO MAKE the pencil 1. Fill the jar with water till the top WAY FOR COLD 5. Take that same pencil and insert 2. Add little drops of dish soap. Do AIR, JUST HOW it in the middle of the circular not add too much as it will prevent cardboard, till midway clarity in seeing the tornada MONSOON 3. Add glitter to the jar WINDS WORK.” Get the children to take the wind vane 4. Close the jar with a lid, tightly outside the window, or balcony, and track the wind direction. Hold the Just swirl your jar vigorously. Put vane out in the wind and observe the the jar down and watch. Although it way the arrow is pointing. Note that is easy to set up, the shaking might the arrow is moving in the direction cloud the vision of the mini tornado of the wind, even when you rotate the formed, so you have to be mindful of pencil. the amount of soap you put. OASIS 35
FAMILY Cloud In A Cup This experiment will show your kid how clouds enlarge with droplets of water and how rain takes place, by making a cloud in a cup! It will help your little one understand the precipitation part of the water cycle, by demonstrating it. MATERIALS: Transparent cup Shaving Cream Dropper Food colouring Water Bowl METHOD: 1. Take the cup and fill it with water by leaving a little space at the top 2. Put shaving cream at the top – this is our cloud 3. Add drops of food colouring in the cup The shaving cream acts as a cloud, and the coloured droplets as rain. The more drops you add, the denser the foam gets. Eventually, it rains. This activity enhances the understanding of how Warm Air & 2. In an ice tray, fill water and add clouds can hold water until they can no longer contain the enlarged droplets of water, and eventually release rain. Cold Air drops of food colouring in each cube. Freeze 3. Take the small bottle and add hot Rainy Day water droplets on it 2. Ask your kid to paint the tray with blue colour and paint This is a weather experiment to show how warm air rises to make way for water. In the bottle, add a few drops of another colour 4. After the coloured ice cubes are Art brushes on the tray 3. Once the tray has a sufficient amount of blue colour water cold air, just how monsoon winds A fun way for your kids to identify frozen, take them out and put one droplets pick the white paper work. the amount and types of rain we by one in the glass container and place it right on top of the 5. Now put the bottle with warm have! They get to paint with their tray MATERIALS: water inside the same container paint brush, whichever stroke they 4. Flatten it down on the tray with a Glass container want in a direction of their choice. gentle hand. Small bottle in the size of sample You see that the ice cube sinks to the 5. Lift the paper, and your art is bottle or essential oil bottom of the container, and the warm MATERIALS: ready Water bottle is floating on the surface. The Baking tray Food colouring- 2 colours (can take different colours will help distinguish Water Repeat this process with different paint colours as well) that the cold air (ice cube) is at the White paper amounts of water droplets sprinkled Ice bottom, and the warm air (the bottle) Paintbrush on the tray. After the paintings dry is rising. The coloured layer will help Blue paint up, you can help your kid identify METHOD: identify the cold and warm air. This the types of rain we see, like drizzle, 1. Take a glass container and fill it is similar to how air works in our METHOD: downpour, sprinkle… by the amount with water at room temperature environment. 1. Pick the baking tray and sprinkle of blue paint on the paintings. 36 OASIS OASIS 37
RECIPES Watermelon MONSOON INGREDIENTS METHOD 1. Arrange diced seedless & Feta Cheese Seedless Watermelon cubes watermelon on a plate and Feta Cheese crumble the feta cheese over Salad with Pine TREATS Pesto dressing 2. Scatter the pine nuts on it Pine nuts 3. Dress the entire salad with pesto Nuts Mint Sprig dressing 4. Mix everything. Top it up with mint sprig By Chef Azad Hussain With slow monsoon evenings, coiled around the couch, sipping from The Ultima your favourite hot drink, all you need is a perfect comfort dish to complete your mood. Packed with flavours and the perfect crunch, here are some delicious recipes to try at home. Pomegranate & INGREDIENTS Fresh pomegranate Seeds METHOD 1. Tear up the basil leaves and Basil Dream Fresh Basil Leaves Lemon Juice place them in a tall glass 2. Use a wooden spoon or Dash of Pomegranate Juice “muddler” to gently crush the By Chef Azad Hussain from The Ultima Topped with Sprite basil. This releases the flavor Berries for garnish from the leaves 3. Add pomegranate juice and lemon juice to the glass 4. Stir to blend all the ingredients 5. Add sprite to the glass 6. Garnish with a sprig of basil, few pomegranate seeds, and berries
RECIPES Chocolate Whiskey Cake with a Milk Chocolate Frosting By Archit Agarwal Food Blogger @architlost INGREDIENTS For the cake ¾ cup vegetable oil, plus more for pan 1⅓ cup all-purpose flour 1 cup granulated sugar 1¾ teaspoon baking powder ¼ teaspoon baking soda 1 teaspoon salt ½ cup unsweetened cocoa powder (preferably Dutched cocoa) 1 tablespoon instant coffee 3 medium eggs (to make it eggless: swap the eggs for 1/3 cup of Greek yogurt or hung curd) 1 cup milk vanilla extract in a medium bowl or until a toothpick inserted in 60 ml whiskey 1 tsp. vanilla extract until well combined and creamy, for about 30 seconds. Using the centre of the cake comes out clean Almond INGREDIENTS 500 gm pumpkin casserole pan and sauté ginger For the frosting 170 grams of semisweet a spatula, mix egg mixture into dry ingredients until fully incorporated. It will be thick and 5. For the frosting: Melt chocolate and butter in the microwave or in a double boiler until Pumpkin 1½ tablespoon green chilies, chopped 2 tablespoon garlic and ginger, and garlic, green chilies, cumin seeds and all the spices 3. Add the pumpkin. Cook for 15- Kabab chocolate (or compound pasty, which is okay! completely melted. Using a chopped 20 minutes till the pumpkin is chocolate) 3. Warm 1 cup milk in a small hand mixer, whip the chocolate 1 tablespoon cumin seeds cooked, and the water has dried ¼ cup icing sugar saucepan over medium heat mixture, slowly adding milk 1 tablespoon cracked coriander out By Chef Manish Mehrotra 60 ml whole milk until it comes to just a bare and icing sugar (sifted). Mix 1 tablespoon red chili powder 4. Add the chopped almonds and 150 grams unsalted butter simmer—make sure it does not all the ingredients and place 1/8 tablespoon nutmeg powder cook for another 5 minutes. ¾ teaspoon vanilla extract come to a boil. Whisk warmed the mixture in the fridge for 1 tablespoon chat masala Let the mixture cool down. Cut milk into batter until lump-free 30 minutes. Remove and whip 1 tablespoon dry mango powder them into rough, thin patties of METHOD and just combined; do not over- again for 5 minutes. Place in 40 gram Desi Ghee 30 grams each. Coat them with 1. Whisk all your dry ingredients mix the fridge and follow the same 20 grams of almonds, silvered slivered almonds together in a large dry bowl: 4. Immediately transfer batter to process again until you create a 40 grams of almonds chopped 5. Heat Desi Ghee in a pan and flour, cocoa, salt, instant coffee, the prepared pan. Tap the pan a glossy thick frosting (I repeated place the patties in medium baking powder and soda along few times on the work surface to the process twice. The more you METHOD hot oil. Cook till the bottom with all the granulated sugar encourage some of the bubbles whip, the more air would build 1. Peel, deseed and grate the caramelizes and then carefully 2. For your wet ingredients: add to escape. Bake cake in an oven into the frosting and the lighter pumpkin turn the patties. Cook them till your eggs, oil, whiskey, and at 160 celsius for 40-50 minutes the color would get) 2. Heat desi ghee in a thick bottom they are crisp from outside. 40 OASIS OASIS 41
WELLNESS STOP CHASING HAPPINESS - INSTEAD BUILD A VIBRANT CASTE OF TRUE HAPPINESS Even if the world may be sapped of all vibrancy, learn how to rejoice here in the hues of hope, faith, and joy. BY LOVINA JHA I n this pandemic-stricken world, to ecstasy. And sometimes our on outside events, but was instead we are experiencing more sadness, challenges seem so huge, twisting our dependent on “forging a strong spirit”. anxiety and hopelessness than ever hearts so tightly, that it feels as though This was possibly also the secret of before. With lockdowns, economic all the hope has been simply wrung people, who always seemed happy! upheavals, loss of human life, fragile out. This, to me, was an absolutely mental health, elevated stress and a Yet, I have seen in my life and also empowering concept. It meant that very uncertain future–it feels like the read real life stories about how some I had the sole power to prepare world is sapped of all its vibrancy. people despite severe challenges and and create endless moments of As a young boy, John Lennon - one continued hardships, with great ease joy. Of course, it needed taking of the founders of The Beatles, learnt ‘always continue to look on the bright responsibility, of a continuous from his mother that happiness side’. What is the secret that helps creation of transformative inner is the key to a fulfilling life. So, in them achieve this seemingly elusive experiences that would challenge all elementary school, when children state? my fears, my human weaknesses and were given the task of writing what Being a wellness professional, gently nudge me towards a state of they want to become when they a student of human psychology, deep exhilaration. grow up, John wrote just one word: and having dealt with a fair share To someone, who had wasted a lot “Happy.” The teachers said, “You of low phases in my life, I found of time thinking, “I will be truly happy do not understand the task!” and myself naturally inclined to unravel when I get my dream project; I will without blinking an eyelid, the future this elusive phenomenon. I started be truly happy when my relationship great musician replied, “You do not researching happiness, by reading with my husband changes; I will understand life!”. numerous positive psychology be truly happy when I buy my new And he was right. Everyone dreams books, interviewing many people home;” I can admit that this way of of happiness. across the globe, and trying many instead tapping on true happiness by spiritual modalities - all in the “forging a strong spirit” was not easy. But, what exactly is happiness? pursuit to discover and preserve more But, despite fulfilling some of my Does happiness merely mean happiness. After many years, what I biggest desires, I was devastated to constantly smiling? Or does “discovered” is encapsulated in these discover how every other stressful happiness mean to laugh with your words of Dr. Daisaku Ikeda, who is experience still had the power to friends? Is happiness dancing in the a Japanese Buddhist philosopher, completely knock me over, making rain? Or is happiness sunshine on a educator, author, and nuclear me feel completely bereft of all hope bright summer day? Happiness could disarmament advocate. He says, “True and joy. be all of the above. Happiness can be happiness means forging a strong Did I want to live my life this way? found in the smallest of things. spirit that is undefeated, no matter Most definitely not. On any given day, we experience how trying our circumstances are.” It was time for some serious a spectrum of emotions and moods, Whoa! I was wrong in searching inner change. So, deeply reflecting from bored to bubbling enthusiasm, for happiness. This seemingly elusive on Dr. Daisaku Ikeda’s words, I took from anxiety to calm, from anger state of happiness did not depend the challenge of building my very
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