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KI M - Gulf Coast Adoptions
KIM
KI M - Gulf Coast Adoptions
I CONSIDER MYSELF                                  I have always been intrigued by
                                                                                                                                                       EXTREMELY FORTUNATE TO                     cultures different from my own, which
                                                                                             H I!                                                                                                 is what inspired me to see as much of
                                                                                                                                 A little                GROW UP IN A DIVERSE
                                                                                                                                                            AND FAMILY-ORIENTED                   the world possible in my 20s and 30s.

                                                                                My name                                    ABOUT                             COMMUNITY. San
                                                                                                                                                             Diego is a melting pot               One of my personal goals in life is to travel to a

                                                                                 is Kim                                     ME                              of ethnicities, cultures,
                                                                                                                                                         and beliefs - and a place
                                                                                                                                                                                                  new country each year, and so far I’ve visited 35
                                                                                                                                                                                                  countries. I have studied abroad in Singapore and
                                                                                                                                                       where differences are valued               Mexico, and had the opportunity to work and live in
                                                                                                                                                     and celebrated. Growing up, my               France, Germany, Canada and the United Kingdom.
                                                                                            AND
                                                                                                                                                   friends have always included people            My favorite destination for food is Singapore, where
                                                                                                                                                   from all walks of life and shades of           the cuisine is a fusion of Indian, Malaysian, and

                                                                                         I LIVE IN                                                 brown.                                         Chinese food. After living there for six months, my
                                                                                                                                                                                                  tolerance for spicy food was at a 10! Today, I’m back
                                                                                    SUNNY SAN DIEGO,                                                                                              down to a spice level of 5. Tapatio and Sriracha are
                                                                                     CALIFORNIA                                                      GREAT VIEWS ON A HIKING TRAIL                my favorite condiments to put on chips, pizza, pasta,
                                                                                                                        CARMELA IS MY
                                                                                                                      ADVENTURE BUDDY!                                                            and pretty much anything.

                                                                              PADDLE BOARDING WITH MY PUPPY CARMELA

      I admire your               I AM EXCITED ABOUT
incredible courage                THE POSSIBILITY OF
and brave decision                MEETING YOU AND
to consider an                    LEARNING MORE
adoption plan for                 ABOUT YOUR HOPES
you and your baby.                AND DREAMS FOR
                                  YOUR CHILD. To give
you a sneak peek into my life, I’d like to share a little about
where I grew up, who has impacted my life, what my life is
like today, and what inspired my adoption journey.                                                                        A TREAT IN HAWAII

                                                                                          I’m excited to meet                                                                                        YOU MAY BE SURPRISED
                                                        HIKING IN PATAGONIA
                                                                                            you and learn all
                                                                                                                              TRAVELING IN JAPAN
                                                                                                                                                                            5 things                  TO LEARN ABOUT ME
                                                                                          ALL ABOUT YOU

                                                                                                                                                                                I was born in a          I have gone             I was the first in my
                                                                                                                                                                                REFUGEE               SKYDIVING                 family to attend and
                                                                                                                                                                                 CAMP                   TWICE                     GRADUATE
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   COLLEGE
                                                                                                                                                                                I have traveled       My name means
                                                                                                                                                                                        to 35       “PHOENIX” in
                                                                                                                                                                              COUNTRIES                    Chinese
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VISITING BRIAN
         WE’RE A CLOSE, TIGHT-KNIT FAMILY
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     ADOPTION IS NOT NEW
                                                    E E T MY                                                                                                                            ADOPTION IN MY                               TO MY FAMILY, IT HAS
                                                M                        Some say “boys run in my family” because I have

                                                                                                                                                                                              family
                                                                            three younger brothers who are also fathers to                                                                                                         TOUCHED OUR LIVES IN
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 MANY WAYS. Several years
                                               LOVED                        a total of five boys. I was the only daughter in
                                                                            a long line of boys and that meant that I got to                                                                                                  ago, my youngest brother adopted

                                                ONES                     fill in as “mom” by default when our mother was                                                                                                his son who was born in Uganda and is
                                                                                                                                                                                                               now 16-years-old. He recently became a proud
                                                                       not around. I was responsible for making sure my
                                                                     brothers did their homework, chores, finished their                                                                        cadet and is looking forward to college in a couple years. When

                                                                    meals, took their baths/showers, and brushed their                                                                          I was in high school, my best friend’s family adopted a newborn

                                                                  teeth before bed.                                                                                                             from foster care. She is 22-years-old today and works as a
                                                                                                                                                                                                security professional at a bank in West Virginia. Both of these
                                                           I come from a multi-racial family that is                                                                                            adoptions were transracial and they have grown up to become
                                                      warm, loving, and accepting.                                                                                                              loving, healthy, and outgoing individuals.

                                                COOKIES WITH MY NEPHEWS                          WITH BRIAN IN JAPAN
My immediate family is Chinese,
                                                                                                                                       I am blessed to be
Cambodian, Vietnamese, and Polynesian,                                                                                                                                               FUN
                                                                                                                                 surrounded by so many
and my three brothers are married to                                                                                                                                             BAKING WITH
                                                                                                                                 loving children.
partners who are French-Canadian, Mexican                                                                                                                                         MY FAMILY
American, and Filipino American. AS YOU                                                                                          MY CLOSEST FRIENDS HAVE
CAN IMAGINE, THAT ALSO MEANS                                                                                                     CHILDREN, MY BROTHERS HAVE
ALL MY RAMBUNCTIOUS NEPHEWS                                                                                                      AN ARMY OF SONS, AND I HAVE A
ARE MULTI-RACIAL AND ABSOLUTELY                                                                                                  SMART, SASSY, AND WONDERFUL
BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. Taking a                                                                                               9-YEAR-OLD GODDAUGHTER
family photo is a huge undertaking. To get                                                                                       NAMED LILAH WHO LIVES IN
one decent shot where everyone’s eyes are                                                                                        VIRGINIA. Her mother passed away a
open requires at least 20 takes if not more.                                                                                     couple years ago, so I have been visiting
Thank goodness for digital cameras!                                                                                              Lilah 4-5 times a year.

                                                                                                                                                                                 The children                              IN MY LIFE

                                                                                                                                                                             When I visit her, we enjoy roller skating, riding bikes, dancing, singing, cooking,
                                                                                                                                                                             playing Guess Who and Jenga, going to Sweet Frog for frozen yogurt,
                                                     SEAWORLD WITH FAMILY                                                                                                    trampoline parks, bowling, and pretending to be American Ninja Warriors at the
                                                                               My family                                                                                     neighborhood playground. As you can imagine, we are extremely pooped at the
                                                                              and friends                                                                                    end of our action-packed days. When I told Lilah about my plans to adopt, she
                                                                                                                                                                             was very excited and happy for me because she knew how much I wanted to be a
                                                          are amazing, and they are so                                         DISNEYLAND
                                                                                                                                                                             mom. She has been extremely supportive with my decision and looks forward to

                                                           supportive of this journey.                                         WITH LILAH                                    being a “big sister” someday.
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M E E T MY
HIKING CHALLENGE ON
 THE FOURTH OF JULY                                                         MY HOME
                                                                                                                                                                                             DOG,
                                                                            and
                                                                         community
                                                                                                                                                                                 Carmela                               HIKING WITH CARMELA

                                                           I live in a family-friendly neighborhood!
                                                                                                                                                                                       The most recent addition to my family is my
                                                           My kitchen, dining room and living room is an                                                                               dog, Carmela! I adopted her a year ago when
                                                           open floor plan, which means there are no walls                                                                       she was about 2-years-old.
                                                           that divide the rooms. This makes it easy to
                                                                                                                                                                                 I take her almost everywhere I go. She is a terrier poodle mix and loves
                                                           entertain, which I often do because I love cooking
                                                                                                                                                                                 to remove sqeakers from stuffed animals, lay in the sun while I work
                                                           for my friends and family and having them judge
                                                                                                                                                                                 on the computer from home, and play fetch with other dogs. She is
                                                           my latest recipes. My crowd pleaser dishes so
                                                                                                                                                                                 the world’s sweetest dog who has won the hearts of many. My parents
                                                           far include caprese salad, fettuccine alfredo with
                                                                                                                                                                                 love to spoil Carmela with human food when we visit them at their
                                                           jumbo shrimp, and banoffee pie. BELIEVE IT OR
                                                                                                                                                                                 home, and my nephews all love to walk her and play fetch with her at
                                                           NOT, I’VE BEEN ABLE TO TURN A FEW ANTI-
                                                                                                                                                                                 the park.
                                                           BRUSSEL SPROUTS PEOPLE INTO BRUSSEL
                                                           SPROUT LOVERS THANKS TO MY SECRET
                                                           INGREDIENT - BACON!                                                                                                   I’M CONVINCED SHE LOVES BEING FASHIONABLE BECAUSE SHE
                                                                                                                                                                                 DOESN’T EVER COMPLAIN WHEN I PUT ON A MATCHING BOW ON
  MY CUTE BEDROOM           MY COZY LIVING ROOM                                                                                                                                  HER WHEN SHE IS MODELING HER HOLIDAY OUTFITS.

                                                                                                                                                                                                     CARMELA
                                                                                                                                                                                                     AND MAUI

 I LOVE LIVING

  CLOSE TO                                                                     KAYAKING IN BIG BEAR
THE OCEAN
                            I love what I do because making a positive impact in the world is
                            important to me. Growing up in a low-income family household taught
                                                                                                                                                            MEETING NEW FRIENDS AT
                            me a lot about the importance of having good work ethics and adapting                                                          THE CORONADO DOG BEACH
                      to changes that are out of your control.

WORKING FROM HOME
                                                  FOR WORK, I LEAD A TEAM THAT HELPS PEOPLE
                                                                                                                                    My promise                         TO YOU!
                                                    ACCESS HEALTHCARE, FINANCIAL, AND
                                                     GOVERNMENT SERVICES. My parents came up                    I PROMISE THAT MY HOME WILL BE FILLED WITH LOVE, COMPASSION AND
                           learn about                 from poverty and taught me the importance of             LAUGHTER. I will provide the best possible care and love your child unconditionally.

                        MY CAREER                       government programs. And now I get to help others       I promise to support your child’s hopes and dreams and do everything in my power to
                                                       access the same programs. Having access to those         provide them with the best education and future possible. I will nurture and coach them
                                                     services helped my family break the cycle of poverty,      to be the best person that they can be. Your child will always know where they came from
                                                    and achieve the “American Dream”. This is why I am          and that your decision was made out of love. I will always stand by your child, and help them
                                                  very passionate about what I do for a living.                 embrace their identity as they grow into adulthood.
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C LO SI N

                                                                                 IN

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                                                                      Thank you!
                                                                  FOR               TAKING THE TIME

                                                                                  TO READ
                                                                           MY PROFILE!

                                                                 FOR MANY YEARS, I HAVE KNOWN IN MY
                                                                 HEART THAT I WANTED TO ADOPT. I have been
                                                                 paving the path to make my dream of having a
                                                                 family come true. If I am honored with the privilege
                                                                 of adopting your child, I will ensure that your family
                                                                 is always honored and respected for your difficult
                                                                 and loving decision.

Thank you for taking the time to learn about me as you begin
                                                                              Now that you know
your search for the right family for your child. I imagine you
                                                                       a little about me and my
have many difficult decisions ahead of you. I look forward to
                                                                       journey, I’d love to learn
developing a supportive relationship with you in whatever way
                                                                       more about you and yours.
you feel most comfortable.
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