Higher Ground's New Clinical Manager

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Higher Ground's New Clinical Manager
ISSUE 70 | 2020

Higher
Ground’s
New
Clinical
Manager
                                                                                                          Linda brought goals and plans
                                                                                                          into the role of clinical manager,
Part of the clinical role is to provide an environment where clients feel                                 but they were more about
a level of gratitude, says Higher Ground’s new clinical manager.                                          strengthening what Higher
                                                                                                          Ground already did well than
                                                                                                          changing it. “I’m actually re-
Higher Ground’s new clinical      and happily living in southern      and their potential for growth.     implementing rather than adding
manager Linda Thompson-Shaw       England. Linda had no plans         If you have an understanding        to the programme.”
is not new to Higher Ground:      to return to New Zealand until      of the client group then you   Phase progression interviews
she was a counsellor at Higher    retirement. But she had very        can see the person behind the  have been brought back. Clients
Ground in Parnell over 20 years   positive memories of “incredible”   behaviour. I’m in recovery myself
                                                                                                     get immediate feedback from
ago and loved it.                 therapeutic work done in her        so I understand the behaviour  peers as well as from staff. She
Linda was approached In           two years on Higher Ground’s        because I’ve done it myself.”  says the process promotes
England by a recruiter on         clinical staff. She applied, was  It took four months before Linda self-efficacy – that is, confidence
behalf of Higher Ground who       interviewed remotely by video     was back in Auckland. Her New in the ability to exert control
suggested her skill-set and       link and got the job.             Zealand family had booked to     over motivation, behavior, and
experience were a match for the In private practice after nearly 20 visit, and she had a practice to social environment, which may
advertised position of Higher   years in different roles in alcohol wind up. She started work again be damaged or lost in active
Ground clinical manager. “I     and other drugs services and the at Higher Ground last November, addiction.
thought initially ‘no’ then     wider community, she missed         no longer in the grand old house “Clients feel they have a say in
because it was Higher Ground I working in a professional team       in Parnell but now in much       their own process, they
thought ‘yes’.”                 and she missed the client group. bigger new premises on Te Atatu
Married to an Englishman        “I respect their vulnerability      Peninsula.
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Higher Ground's New Clinical Manager
Breaking the
family cycle of
addiction
As a child, she felt no one was listening. That finally changed when                                            of them watching through the
                                                                                                                window, and when I followed her
she came to Higher Ground. After a lifetime of addiction, this graduate                                         gaze she was watching her Dad
is no longer running from herself. Now over two years free of alcohol                                           and her uncles laughing together
                                                                                                                and using drugs.
and other drugs, this is her anonymous story.
                                                                                                                She smiled, and my heart broke.
                                                                                                                I realised then that my boys had
“Que Sera Sera, whatever will      own issues. She tried to send         streets who I felt could protect       watched me and were now living
be, will be. I never knew how      me home for a few weeks a year        me. At least no one wanted             out my story. I have reflected
much impact those lyrics would     to my Nana up North who spoke         to touch me like that. That’s          on this memory many times
have on me. Over the years I       only Maori. So at home although       when I was introduced to my            and though it brings sadness
put up with a lot, even though I   I didn’t live in a Maori culture I    first drugs (glue and methylated       I am grateful for it. Because
hated it.                          knew what it was.                     spirits) and I felt an instant         that was the start of the rest of
Que Sera Sera, whatever will       After the loss of my brother to       sense of nothingness. It took          my life. I knew I had to change
be, will be. They were words       terminal illness Mum got busier       away the hurt and I forgot. I          my story and show my family
Mum would sing to me when          and Dad got reckless. More            became an everyday user from           another way. And that tsunami
she was going to say something     drinking and gambling and it fell     the beginning, and although the        of emotion led me to find Higher
she knew I wouldn’t like. I        to my older brother to take care      drugs changed over the years           Ground.
didn’t notice the sadness in her   of me. Eventually the cracks got      the behaviour didn’t.
                                                                                                                Although I was ready, I was
voice as she sang. She was         bigger and Mum left when I was        I was 11 when I was taken away         still fighting on the inside. I was
emotionally distant and kept       eight. My Dad drank more and          from my parents and sent to a          scared and I was angry. I always
herself busy with work.            when my brother could take no         girls’ home. I got discharged          knew why I needed drugs, but
You see Mum had been trying to more of the violence from Dad             as a state ward when I was 15          never had the courage to face
escape from her own story long he left home. So it was just Dad          because I was pregnant. By             it. At Higher Ground I resisted
before we kids came along. She and me.                                   the time my children were born         every way I could but they didn’t
left the small East Coast town     I got used to spending                I was an addict. I liked to use        give up on me. They heard me.
she grew up in and the ghosts      weekends away from home with          a cocktail of substances and I         They heard me. And for the first
that it held as soon as she could. whoever would take me in the          didn’t care what I used as long        time in my life I knew I was safe.
Landing in the South Island, she extended family. I knew what            as I found total annihilation. I       It took time for the shell to break,
and Dad married young. Dad         was right and wrong and when          paid the price for this annihilation   and Multiple Family Group really
was a hard worker, but he had a things I didn’t like would happen        many times in my life and this         helped with that. My Mum came
problem with the drink and was I would try to tell someone. But          only fed into the ongoing cycle.       to a few family groups, driving up
a compulsive gambler. I would      no one would listen. I felt scared,
                                                                     I did unsavoury things with                from the East Coast and staying
see Dad in the morning for         alone and helpless. No one        unsavoury people and put                   the night. I had blamed my Mum
breakfast and not see him again heard me. I didn’t know what I       myself in harms way frequently             a lot of my life for not hearing me
till the next day. Mum would       was trying to tell my parents.    to support my drug habit. I                and not being there for me. We
work and my brother would take One uncle was inappropriate           lost everything and everyone               had one-on-one counselling and
me to school and look after me which lead to abuse. When             who had ever mattered to me.               things started to change.
till Mum got home.                 he took over looking after me     But it was my children who                 My big brother in Christchurch
My childhood wasn’t an             I knew something was wrong.       paid the ultimate price for my             sent an impact letter that took
unhappy one, at least in the       But it was the 80s and no one     addiction. They were innocent              him three weeks to write and me
beginning. My mum came from        wanted to hear.                   casualties, whose lives had                three weeks to get over, after it
a big family and she had moved                                       been continuously affected by              was read out in Multiple Family
                                   I experienced some trauma then
to Christchurch with her three                                       a mother running from her own              Group by a counsellor who
                                   that would change the way I
younger sisters. I remember                                          story.                                     looked like my brother. It was
                                   saw the world and my place in it.
weekend camping trips,             Que Sera Sera, whatever will be On a sunny ‘fish and chip’ Friday            certainly the hardest thing I had
holidays, traditions and family    will be...                        three years ago, I watched                 to hear. He remembered what
celebrations. There were lots of                                     as my grandchildren played                 I was like as a child and as an
                                   It was like everyone was saying                                              adult. He wanted his relationship
parties.                                                             outside. They were laughing and
                                   I lied. I was unsafe so I started                                            back with his sister. It was hard
Mum tried to bring Maori values                                      squealing as they chased each
                                   running away from the age of                                                 for me to take in.
into our family but she had her                                      other. I smiled. I noticed one
                                   nine. I found people on the
Higher Ground Locks Down
      Keeping residents and staff safe and the programme
      running.
      The coronavirus pandemic presented Higher Ground with one      The therapeutic programme continued. Says clinical manager
      of its biggest challenges.                                     Linda Thompson-Shaw: “I tried to make sure that residents
      “The staff and residents worked exceptionally well together to weren’t going to miss out on anything, as much as I could. I
      keep the place very, very safe during the Covid-19 lockdown,” had to restructure the programme, trying to provide as good a
      says director Johnny Dow. That meant the house stayed          service as they would have got if we weren’t in lockdown.”
      infection-free through level four.                             Big weekly Multiple Family Groups stopped but families still
      “I’m very pleased with how Higher Ground has handled this – sent in their impact letters which were processed with peers.
      so far. Yes, I was exhausted but pleased. It’s been very, very Clients have the opportunity to follow up any issues with
      busy,” says Johnny.                                            family in After Care.
      The outbreak management team reviewed weekly what                   Higher Ground implemented daily phone and Facetime for
      Higher Ground was doing and any new issues, changes in              the residents so they could stay in contact with their families
      conditions and concerns that had arisen.                            during a worrying time.
      Higher Ground closed to visitors even before the                    While in Level 4 lockdown outside contractors were put on
      announcement of the national lockdown. Some residents               hold which meant no yoga, zumba, tai chi or singing groups.
      decided they wanted to return home and were supported in            Residents did not leave the premises except to go for walks.
      that with Higher Ground’s community team staying in contact.        They stopped going out to evening 12-Step meetings or on
      Many would be coming back to Higher Ground at the place in          outings. Residents set up their own Alcoholics Anonymous,
      the programme that they left.                                       Narcotics Anonymous and other fellowship meetings, some
      During level four outside contact stopped apart from staff          inviting staff in recovery as guest speakers. As well as three
      coming in to work.                                                  in-house meetings they joined in on three fellowship video
                                                                          meetings per week.
      Staff were rostered at different times so that social distancing
      could occur. All staff had their temperature taken when they        New admissions have started again, but things have remained
      arrived, and shared work spaces were sanitised between              pretty restricted as infection control is important, says Johnny.
      shifts.

But real change came by way of       was surprised when my brother      While going into treatment was       recovery support group.. Today
a simple teddy bear. As part of      came up for my graduation from     an important step in my life and     I have an amazing job where I
my inner child therapy, I had to     Higher Ground and we have an       taught me to look at myself,         am able to support others as
care for and nurture that teddy      amazing relationship today.        it is the 12-Step programme          they discover their own path of
bear ‘child’. I got off to a rocky   At Higher Ground I learned how of Narcotics Anonymous that              recovery, and am studying for
start and had her removed from       to build healthy relationships and teaches me how to live with          a qualification. I thought I had
my custody, but I began to           how to stay in them. I learned     myself on a daily basis. This is     wasted my whole life on drugs,
embrace the experience. When         that my whole life I was trying to the foundation of the new life I     but it turns out I have a wealth of
the teddy bear was returned to       be heard, I made such a noise      am creating and I still need to do   experience that I can draw from.
me, I looked after and protected     making sure I was heard.           the work.                            Today I can say that I’m a good
her.                                                                     I go to regular 12-Step meetings    Mum, and that to me is my
                                     I reconnected with my Maori
And when I wasn’t looking            culture and today I wear my         and do service where I can. I       greatest achievement. I have a
we began to grow up. From            Hineora (bone carving) with great   work the Steps and have a great     program to deal with emotions
there I was able to rebuild my       pride. A taonga and a reminder      relationship with my sponsor        and whatever life brings me. Que
relationship with Mum, then          of the time I spent learning who    who I talk to regularly. I work     Sera Sera...”
with my big brother, my three        I was.                              with my Higher Ground Aftercare
sons, and finally with myself. I                                         counsellor, and attend a weekly
can see they are representing      “It’s said that 85-95% of our       at Higher Ground on placement       with severe trauma who required
themselves, they’re part of the    client group have had trauma,       as a psychotherapy student from     longer-term therapy.
process. They get immediate,       I think it’s probably the 95%.”     AUT University, and finished her    She travelled overseas, drawn
one-to-one feedback about          Clinical work is about creating a   Post Graduate degree while a        back to England and a variety
how we see they’re going. Also     therapeutic environment where       counsellor on staff.                of roles managing counselling
they can reflect on how they’re    clients feel safe enough to bring   She got into recovery herself in    services and alcohol and other
doing.”                            those experiences and know          1991 after starting her studies. “I drugs services. She spent
Gender groups - that is men’s      they will be met with respect.      was trying to heal, trying to grow eight years as a Co-ordinator/
and women’s groups – are back “I have this analogy I use with          and they could see that in my       Supervisor/ Therapist/ Trainer
weekly. Affirmations are again       clients. If you have a wound      application. By the time I started with the Change Grow Live
a daily part of the programme.       on your hand and you pour         my course I had recognised          organisation which ran AOD
“It means people get the             anaesthetic on it, that is, use   what was wrong. So I did my         services for the whole of
challenging feedback but they        drugs, it doesn’t just numb the   early training in early recovery, I Hampshire.
also get affirmed for the progress wound it numbs the whole hand. don’t recommend that, it’s really She had thought she’d get over
they are making, because it’s        When you anaesthetise from        painful.                            the UK within about four years,
very hard to keep going if all you trauma, sadness, pain, grief you “But it also helped me in my           but 15 years later she was still
are met with is the negative.”       also anaesthetise from love,      work ever since. I have an          there and enjoying it, until the
She sees client behaviour as a       happiness, joy, relationship. So  understanding of what it feels      approach regarding the job at
symptom of what is underlying. when you start to stop putting          like to be in early recovery        Higher Ground. “It feels like I’ve
“So if someone’s acting out I        the anaesthetic on, you get the and trying to do intensive,           got England out of my system
want to know what’s going on         pain coming up but you also       therapeutic work.”                  now, making the decision to
for them, in a therapeutic way.      have the other feelings as well.
                                                                       After two years at Higher Ground come back here I don’t have
I always say to people, ‘take it     “It’s about the client being able she moved on to gain more out- that yearning any more.”
to group, take it to your case       to hold their sadness and pain    patient experience. She became
manager, process it’. If you’re      and because of that being able clinical supervisor of the triage
reacting to being challenged         to have love and joy as well.”    team at Community Alcohol
what’s happening for you, what Linda specialises in integrative        and Drug Services central. As a
does this remind you of?             gestalt therapy with a Jungian    comprehensive assessor there
“I try to keep things light hearted, aspect, and Cognitive             she worked with people with
but it’s a balance,” says Linda.     Behavioural Therapy. She started complex needs, such as clients

Referrals                                                               Trustees
Higher Ground welcomes self-referrals.                                  Janet Colby              Counsellor & Chairperson of the Trust
Health, social and legal professionals wishing to make a referral       Antonia Fisher QC        Barrister
to Higher Ground should note that our admission criteria require        Fiona Howard             Psychologist
residents to be over 18 years and over, have a primary diagnosis of     Janine Parsons           Public Sector Area Manager
alcohol or other drug dependence, an interest in 12 Step recovery       Karl Robinson            Consultant & Honorary Trustee
and a drug-free status on admission.                                    Marino Te Moana          Minister
                                                                        Paula Parsonage          Consultant
Referrals or self referrals can be made by telephoning
                                                                        Paul O’Sullivan          Company Director
09-834 0042 for a pre-admission assessment appointment
                                                                        Shane Hussey             Chartered Accountant
on weekdays between 8.30am and 4.00pm.
                                                                        William Rainger          Public Health Physician
Assessments in detox facilities or hospital can be arranged.
Applicants who have outstanding legal charges are considered on
a case by case basis. If required, Higher Ground can organise a         Contact
medical detox through referral to the Auckland Regional Alcohol         Address         118 Beach Road, Te Atatu Peninsula, Waitakere,
and Drug Services.                                                                      Auckland 0610
                                                                        Mail            PO Box 45-192, Te Atatu Peninsula, Waitakere,
Donations                                                                               Auckland 0651
Higher Ground is a registered Charitable Trust. Donations over          Telephone       Office                   09-834 0017
$5.00 are tax deductible and may be sent direct to Higher Ground.                       After Care               09-834 0076
Higher Ground is dependent on charitable donations for the
                                                                                        Admissions               09-834 0042
continuation of its programme.
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