Higher Ground's New Clinical Manager
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ISSUE 70 | 2020 Higher Ground’s New Clinical Manager Linda brought goals and plans into the role of clinical manager, Part of the clinical role is to provide an environment where clients feel but they were more about a level of gratitude, says Higher Ground’s new clinical manager. strengthening what Higher Ground already did well than changing it. “I’m actually re- Higher Ground’s new clinical and happily living in southern and their potential for growth. implementing rather than adding manager Linda Thompson-Shaw England. Linda had no plans If you have an understanding to the programme.” is not new to Higher Ground: to return to New Zealand until of the client group then you Phase progression interviews she was a counsellor at Higher retirement. But she had very can see the person behind the have been brought back. Clients Ground in Parnell over 20 years positive memories of “incredible” behaviour. I’m in recovery myself get immediate feedback from ago and loved it. therapeutic work done in her so I understand the behaviour peers as well as from staff. She Linda was approached In two years on Higher Ground’s because I’ve done it myself.” says the process promotes England by a recruiter on clinical staff. She applied, was It took four months before Linda self-efficacy – that is, confidence behalf of Higher Ground who interviewed remotely by video was back in Auckland. Her New in the ability to exert control suggested her skill-set and link and got the job. Zealand family had booked to over motivation, behavior, and experience were a match for the In private practice after nearly 20 visit, and she had a practice to social environment, which may advertised position of Higher years in different roles in alcohol wind up. She started work again be damaged or lost in active Ground clinical manager. “I and other drugs services and the at Higher Ground last November, addiction. thought initially ‘no’ then wider community, she missed no longer in the grand old house “Clients feel they have a say in because it was Higher Ground I working in a professional team in Parnell but now in much their own process, they thought ‘yes’.” and she missed the client group. bigger new premises on Te Atatu Married to an Englishman “I respect their vulnerability Peninsula. CONTINUED ON BACK PAGE
Breaking the family cycle of addiction As a child, she felt no one was listening. That finally changed when of them watching through the window, and when I followed her she came to Higher Ground. After a lifetime of addiction, this graduate gaze she was watching her Dad is no longer running from herself. Now over two years free of alcohol and her uncles laughing together and using drugs. and other drugs, this is her anonymous story. She smiled, and my heart broke. I realised then that my boys had “Que Sera Sera, whatever will own issues. She tried to send streets who I felt could protect watched me and were now living be, will be. I never knew how me home for a few weeks a year me. At least no one wanted out my story. I have reflected much impact those lyrics would to my Nana up North who spoke to touch me like that. That’s on this memory many times have on me. Over the years I only Maori. So at home although when I was introduced to my and though it brings sadness put up with a lot, even though I I didn’t live in a Maori culture I first drugs (glue and methylated I am grateful for it. Because hated it. knew what it was. spirits) and I felt an instant that was the start of the rest of Que Sera Sera, whatever will After the loss of my brother to sense of nothingness. It took my life. I knew I had to change be, will be. They were words terminal illness Mum got busier away the hurt and I forgot. I my story and show my family Mum would sing to me when and Dad got reckless. More became an everyday user from another way. And that tsunami she was going to say something drinking and gambling and it fell the beginning, and although the of emotion led me to find Higher she knew I wouldn’t like. I to my older brother to take care drugs changed over the years Ground. didn’t notice the sadness in her of me. Eventually the cracks got the behaviour didn’t. Although I was ready, I was voice as she sang. She was bigger and Mum left when I was I was 11 when I was taken away still fighting on the inside. I was emotionally distant and kept eight. My Dad drank more and from my parents and sent to a scared and I was angry. I always herself busy with work. when my brother could take no girls’ home. I got discharged knew why I needed drugs, but You see Mum had been trying to more of the violence from Dad as a state ward when I was 15 never had the courage to face escape from her own story long he left home. So it was just Dad because I was pregnant. By it. At Higher Ground I resisted before we kids came along. She and me. the time my children were born every way I could but they didn’t left the small East Coast town I got used to spending I was an addict. I liked to use give up on me. They heard me. she grew up in and the ghosts weekends away from home with a cocktail of substances and I They heard me. And for the first that it held as soon as she could. whoever would take me in the didn’t care what I used as long time in my life I knew I was safe. Landing in the South Island, she extended family. I knew what as I found total annihilation. I It took time for the shell to break, and Dad married young. Dad was right and wrong and when paid the price for this annihilation and Multiple Family Group really was a hard worker, but he had a things I didn’t like would happen many times in my life and this helped with that. My Mum came problem with the drink and was I would try to tell someone. But only fed into the ongoing cycle. to a few family groups, driving up a compulsive gambler. I would no one would listen. I felt scared, I did unsavoury things with from the East Coast and staying see Dad in the morning for alone and helpless. No one unsavoury people and put the night. I had blamed my Mum breakfast and not see him again heard me. I didn’t know what I myself in harms way frequently a lot of my life for not hearing me till the next day. Mum would was trying to tell my parents. to support my drug habit. I and not being there for me. We work and my brother would take One uncle was inappropriate lost everything and everyone had one-on-one counselling and me to school and look after me which lead to abuse. When who had ever mattered to me. things started to change. till Mum got home. he took over looking after me But it was my children who My big brother in Christchurch My childhood wasn’t an I knew something was wrong. paid the ultimate price for my sent an impact letter that took unhappy one, at least in the But it was the 80s and no one addiction. They were innocent him three weeks to write and me beginning. My mum came from wanted to hear. casualties, whose lives had three weeks to get over, after it a big family and she had moved been continuously affected by was read out in Multiple Family I experienced some trauma then to Christchurch with her three a mother running from her own Group by a counsellor who that would change the way I younger sisters. I remember story. looked like my brother. It was saw the world and my place in it. weekend camping trips, Que Sera Sera, whatever will be On a sunny ‘fish and chip’ Friday certainly the hardest thing I had holidays, traditions and family will be... three years ago, I watched to hear. He remembered what celebrations. There were lots of as my grandchildren played I was like as a child and as an It was like everyone was saying adult. He wanted his relationship parties. outside. They were laughing and I lied. I was unsafe so I started back with his sister. It was hard Mum tried to bring Maori values squealing as they chased each running away from the age of for me to take in. into our family but she had her other. I smiled. I noticed one nine. I found people on the
Higher Ground Locks Down Keeping residents and staff safe and the programme running. The coronavirus pandemic presented Higher Ground with one The therapeutic programme continued. Says clinical manager of its biggest challenges. Linda Thompson-Shaw: “I tried to make sure that residents “The staff and residents worked exceptionally well together to weren’t going to miss out on anything, as much as I could. I keep the place very, very safe during the Covid-19 lockdown,” had to restructure the programme, trying to provide as good a says director Johnny Dow. That meant the house stayed service as they would have got if we weren’t in lockdown.” infection-free through level four. Big weekly Multiple Family Groups stopped but families still “I’m very pleased with how Higher Ground has handled this – sent in their impact letters which were processed with peers. so far. Yes, I was exhausted but pleased. It’s been very, very Clients have the opportunity to follow up any issues with busy,” says Johnny. family in After Care. The outbreak management team reviewed weekly what Higher Ground implemented daily phone and Facetime for Higher Ground was doing and any new issues, changes in the residents so they could stay in contact with their families conditions and concerns that had arisen. during a worrying time. Higher Ground closed to visitors even before the While in Level 4 lockdown outside contractors were put on announcement of the national lockdown. Some residents hold which meant no yoga, zumba, tai chi or singing groups. decided they wanted to return home and were supported in Residents did not leave the premises except to go for walks. that with Higher Ground’s community team staying in contact. They stopped going out to evening 12-Step meetings or on Many would be coming back to Higher Ground at the place in outings. Residents set up their own Alcoholics Anonymous, the programme that they left. Narcotics Anonymous and other fellowship meetings, some During level four outside contact stopped apart from staff inviting staff in recovery as guest speakers. As well as three coming in to work. in-house meetings they joined in on three fellowship video meetings per week. Staff were rostered at different times so that social distancing could occur. All staff had their temperature taken when they New admissions have started again, but things have remained arrived, and shared work spaces were sanitised between pretty restricted as infection control is important, says Johnny. shifts. But real change came by way of was surprised when my brother While going into treatment was recovery support group.. Today a simple teddy bear. As part of came up for my graduation from an important step in my life and I have an amazing job where I my inner child therapy, I had to Higher Ground and we have an taught me to look at myself, am able to support others as care for and nurture that teddy amazing relationship today. it is the 12-Step programme they discover their own path of bear ‘child’. I got off to a rocky At Higher Ground I learned how of Narcotics Anonymous that recovery, and am studying for start and had her removed from to build healthy relationships and teaches me how to live with a qualification. I thought I had my custody, but I began to how to stay in them. I learned myself on a daily basis. This is wasted my whole life on drugs, embrace the experience. When that my whole life I was trying to the foundation of the new life I but it turns out I have a wealth of the teddy bear was returned to be heard, I made such a noise am creating and I still need to do experience that I can draw from. me, I looked after and protected making sure I was heard. the work. Today I can say that I’m a good her. I go to regular 12-Step meetings Mum, and that to me is my I reconnected with my Maori And when I wasn’t looking culture and today I wear my and do service where I can. I greatest achievement. I have a we began to grow up. From Hineora (bone carving) with great work the Steps and have a great program to deal with emotions there I was able to rebuild my pride. A taonga and a reminder relationship with my sponsor and whatever life brings me. Que relationship with Mum, then of the time I spent learning who who I talk to regularly. I work Sera Sera...” with my big brother, my three I was. with my Higher Ground Aftercare sons, and finally with myself. I counsellor, and attend a weekly
can see they are representing “It’s said that 85-95% of our at Higher Ground on placement with severe trauma who required themselves, they’re part of the client group have had trauma, as a psychotherapy student from longer-term therapy. process. They get immediate, I think it’s probably the 95%.” AUT University, and finished her She travelled overseas, drawn one-to-one feedback about Clinical work is about creating a Post Graduate degree while a back to England and a variety how we see they’re going. Also therapeutic environment where counsellor on staff. of roles managing counselling they can reflect on how they’re clients feel safe enough to bring She got into recovery herself in services and alcohol and other doing.” those experiences and know 1991 after starting her studies. “I drugs services. She spent Gender groups - that is men’s they will be met with respect. was trying to heal, trying to grow eight years as a Co-ordinator/ and women’s groups – are back “I have this analogy I use with and they could see that in my Supervisor/ Therapist/ Trainer weekly. Affirmations are again clients. If you have a wound application. By the time I started with the Change Grow Live a daily part of the programme. on your hand and you pour my course I had recognised organisation which ran AOD “It means people get the anaesthetic on it, that is, use what was wrong. So I did my services for the whole of challenging feedback but they drugs, it doesn’t just numb the early training in early recovery, I Hampshire. also get affirmed for the progress wound it numbs the whole hand. don’t recommend that, it’s really She had thought she’d get over they are making, because it’s When you anaesthetise from painful. the UK within about four years, very hard to keep going if all you trauma, sadness, pain, grief you “But it also helped me in my but 15 years later she was still are met with is the negative.” also anaesthetise from love, work ever since. I have an there and enjoying it, until the She sees client behaviour as a happiness, joy, relationship. So understanding of what it feels approach regarding the job at symptom of what is underlying. when you start to stop putting like to be in early recovery Higher Ground. “It feels like I’ve “So if someone’s acting out I the anaesthetic on, you get the and trying to do intensive, got England out of my system want to know what’s going on pain coming up but you also therapeutic work.” now, making the decision to for them, in a therapeutic way. have the other feelings as well. After two years at Higher Ground come back here I don’t have I always say to people, ‘take it “It’s about the client being able she moved on to gain more out- that yearning any more.” to group, take it to your case to hold their sadness and pain patient experience. She became manager, process it’. If you’re and because of that being able clinical supervisor of the triage reacting to being challenged to have love and joy as well.” team at Community Alcohol what’s happening for you, what Linda specialises in integrative and Drug Services central. As a does this remind you of? gestalt therapy with a Jungian comprehensive assessor there “I try to keep things light hearted, aspect, and Cognitive she worked with people with but it’s a balance,” says Linda. Behavioural Therapy. She started complex needs, such as clients Referrals Trustees Higher Ground welcomes self-referrals. Janet Colby Counsellor & Chairperson of the Trust Health, social and legal professionals wishing to make a referral Antonia Fisher QC Barrister to Higher Ground should note that our admission criteria require Fiona Howard Psychologist residents to be over 18 years and over, have a primary diagnosis of Janine Parsons Public Sector Area Manager alcohol or other drug dependence, an interest in 12 Step recovery Karl Robinson Consultant & Honorary Trustee and a drug-free status on admission. Marino Te Moana Minister Paula Parsonage Consultant Referrals or self referrals can be made by telephoning Paul O’Sullivan Company Director 09-834 0042 for a pre-admission assessment appointment Shane Hussey Chartered Accountant on weekdays between 8.30am and 4.00pm. William Rainger Public Health Physician Assessments in detox facilities or hospital can be arranged. Applicants who have outstanding legal charges are considered on a case by case basis. If required, Higher Ground can organise a Contact medical detox through referral to the Auckland Regional Alcohol Address 118 Beach Road, Te Atatu Peninsula, Waitakere, and Drug Services. Auckland 0610 Mail PO Box 45-192, Te Atatu Peninsula, Waitakere, Donations Auckland 0651 Higher Ground is a registered Charitable Trust. Donations over Telephone Office 09-834 0017 $5.00 are tax deductible and may be sent direct to Higher Ground. After Care 09-834 0076 Higher Ground is dependent on charitable donations for the Admissions 09-834 0042 continuation of its programme. Residents 09-834 3700 We hope you have enjoyed this issue of the Higher Ground News. If you do not wish to remain on our mailing list, or are incorrectly listed, please write to HGDRT, PO Box 45 192, Te Atatu Peninsula, Waitakere, 0651. For further information about the Higher www.higherground.org.nz Ground rehabilitation programme phone Programme Director, Johnny Dow 09-834 0017 or email admin@higherground.org.nz
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