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WAR WIDOWS’ GUILD From the CEO OF AUSTRALIA NSW LIMITED ABN 24 083 075 914 FOR YOUR DIARY ✍ Our vision is to be the go-to We will have a broader offering that attracts www.warwidowsnsw.com.au “We all belong to each other. Honouring Women United NOTICE OF MEETING organisation for women and their and meets the needs of both current and We all need each other. It is in serving by Defence Service The Annual General Meeting families united by defence service, future war widows, as well as use technology to each other and in sacrificing for Last Post Ceremony of the War Widows’ Guild of and our mission is to improve the communicate with our members. We will create our common good that we are Australia NSW Ltd will be held on 4.45pm, Wednesday, 14 August lives of women and their families opportunities for members to be involved and finding our true life.” Friday, 30 August 2019 at 10am at –King George VI Australian War Memorial, impacted by defence service through engaged, virtually, physically and emotionally, Castlereagh Boutique Hotel, 169 Extract from Christmas message, 1941 Canberra understanding, care and advocacy. Castlereagh St, Sydney. Morning with emphasis on being proactive not reactive. Dinner Our strategic pillars outline the Under the patronage of tea will be available from 9.30am This will include creating a peer-to-peer 7.30pm, Wednesday, 14 August cornerstones to achieving these goals. The Honourable Margaret Beazley and the meeting will be followed by strategy. AO QC, Governor of New South Wales Parliament House, Canberra light refreshments. To allow us to provide catering, please RSVP to We are developing a strong respected brand so STATE PRESIDENT We realise that it is crucial to have strong Ms Rhondda Vanzella OAM Guild AGM head office by Monday, 5 August that other organisations will want to collaborate governance, as well as a diverse, capable and Friday, 30 August 2019 2019 on 9267 6577 or 1800 451 with us. We will also use our point of difference BOARD OF DIRECTORS expert Board with the rights skills to govern. K Arthur, L Boyd, G Cherne, Castlereagh Boutique Hotel, 615 (country). to fill the gap in ex-service organisations with J Collins, B Jeanes, B Morrison, Sydney If required, transport assistance Expert sub-committees will assist and support respect to representing women and their R Vanzella OAM must be requested through the Board and appropriate controls, policies War Widows’ Walk families impacted by defence service. CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER head office no later than Friday, and procedures will be established. Madeline Dermatossian and Picnic 2 August 2019 for large groups Additionally, we will build a national footprint GUILD DIGEST 9.30am, Thursday, 24 October who require a bus and Friday, 16 The key is to have the right people in and establish a program for all States to engage ISSN 1449-3691 Kokoda Track Memorial Walkway, August 2019 for cabs. management functions who are held to account with government. This will ensure that we are PUBLISHER Concord included in State Government reviews and and sufficiently empowered to deliver on the War Widows’ Guild of Australia NSW Ltd roundtable discussions that impact members above goals. HEAD OFFICE entitlements. Level 14, 227 Elizabeth Street Sydney NSW 2000 CONTENTS Our aim is to broaden our membership and MADELINE DERMATOSSIAN EMAIL From the CEO 3 Gwen Cherne’s appointment to 22 engage with new, as well as existing members. CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER guild@warwidowsnsw.com.au The Australian War Memorial Telephone (02) 9267 6577 State President’s Message 4 Facsimile (02) 9267 6601 Women’s Weekly article 23-25 Toll free numbers National President’s Report 5 – The War Within (for country members) Minister for Veterans’ 6 Enquiries and Welfare 1800 451 615 Health News 26-27 Affairs Report Friendship Line 1800 451 615 Arthritis NSW 28 OFFICE HOURS Contemporary Widows’ Report 7 Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm Welfare News 29 Commemoration and Events 8-9 ANNUAL SUBSCRIPTION Transport News 29 $30 due 1 April each year Daphne Dunne’s funeral 10 Guild and Social Club News 30-31 Field of Remembrance 11-17 Donations to War Widows’ Guild Members’ News 32-33 of Australia NSW Ltd are tax deductible Anzac Day 2019 18-19 Friendship Line 34 Honouring Women United 20-21 DISCLAIMER: The material in this Guild Digest has been checked thoroughly by Defence Service Gardening 35 and to the best of our knowledge is correct. However, errors may occur which are beyond our control. If this should FRONT: BACK: OUR COVER happen, we apologise most sincerely. His Excellence General Selection of the Honourable David photos from the Hurley AC DSC (Ret’d) and 68th Field of Mrs Linda Hurley laying a Remembrance in cross at the 68th Field of Sydney and the Remembrance in Sydney Anzac Day March 2 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 3
section name State President’s Message National President’s Report I wish to acknowledge all The Guild must change to meet the very Dear Ladies, Editorial Committee and the Veterans’ MATES members of the Guild, all the different needs of today. We must understand Reference Group until 2021. I have accepted The end of 2018 was extremely work and support each and the end goal which is to be ‘service fit’ to meet both these invitations and I am very pleased to busy. 2019 is also shaping up to be a every one of you has given to the needs of our older members. While at the represent the National Guild and all members busy year. the Guild and each other over same time we need to meet the needs of all at these meetings. the last 12 months. For this woman united by defence service. The Productivity Commission support and the work you have I attended the Prime Minister’s Veterans released their draft report into done so willingly, “I say thank I know we are resilient and recognise that Employment Awards dinner in Canberra on 5 ‘Compensation and Rehabilitation for Veterans’ you.” You are all the heart and soul of the Guild. change is necessary within the Guild. I ask March 2019 and have also attended an ADF on 14th December 2018. These documents Transition Seminar at Bankstown on 20 March all members to move with the times, to stay are available on the Productivity Commissions Like many of you here today, since I can 2019. I attended a Health, Justice and Ageing connected and walk with your board and website. Further submissions were sought remember, my life has been one of service to my symposium at University of Technology, Ultimo. community wherever I have lived. Change has management as we make the changes to make from the Productivity Commission regarding This symposium was run by Relationships been a big part of our everyday lives. I believe our Guild service fit for 2019 and beyond. this report and public hearings were held in Australia mediated by Julie McCrossin, a well the only constant in our lives has been change. each capital city. The National Guild did submit I thank you for all for your service to each other, know Australian broadcaster. The symposium Life changes every day for every person in some a response to the draft report. I attended and the Guild and your community. I know your focused on the issues of legal rights for the way. presented to the Productivity Commission communities and the Guild are better places for elderly and on the significantly increasing issue hearings on 26 February 2019. Transcripts of We have all lost our loved one. We have watched all your services. of elderly abuse in the community. Elder abuse the public hearings are also available on the our children grow up and marry. And we love is not a crime committed by a stranger in most Productivity Commission website. to spend time with them and grandchildren Finally, I ask you all for your ongoing support as cases. Abuse usually happens at the hands of a if we have been blessed with them. Our own we manage this change to the Guild. To do this, The Veterans’ Advocacy Scoping Study release person trusted by the elderly person such as, birthdays keep piling on and on and we know we must be disciplined, as we prepare, equip date was delayed from December 2018 to a partner, a family member a friend or carer. we are growing older. Our wisdom tells us so. and support each other to successfully adopt February 2019 however, it has now been Abuse can take many forms: physical abuse, change in order to drive organisational success released and further submissions have been psychological/emotional abuse, social abuse, So too the Guild must change. I truly believe it sought. and outcomes. financial abuse, sexual abuse and neglect. If is this change in our lives, this love and support you feel that abuse is occurring, there are that we give to each other which is the glue Thank you, I have just returned from the Budget lock-up many places to seek assistance: NSW Elder of the Guild. Many of us have never worn a at the Department of Veterans’ Affairs. There Abuse helpline – telephone: 1800 628 221 and uniform, however we have all served in our own are some positive outcomes from the budget. The most important is that of Partner Service Relationships Australia. way. We have all felt the quiet tears that well up RHONDDA VANZELLA OAM when we remember our loved one, no matter STATE PRESIDENT Pensions – Eligibility Alignment. This removes There is currently a Royal Commission in Aged how many years since they passed. “WE RISE BY LIFTING OTHERS” the inequality between married and de-facto Care underway. I would encourage you to put partners by extending the Partner Service in a submission should you have any issues that Pension (PSP) by 12 months post-separation you may be aware of that are affecting someone to all former partners. This measure will also you know in permanent aged care facilities. The YOU ARE INVITED TO OUR STRATEGY PLAN allow former partners to remain on PSP after Guild has not yet put in a submission however, INFORMATION MORNING TEA the 12-month period where special domestic it is our intention to do so. Submissions close in circumstances, such as domestic violence, June 2019. The Directors of the Guild recently attended a strategic planning day to develop a plan apply. Basically, this provides support for those for the next 3 years. It was agreed that consultative sessions would be conducted to give Take care, separating due to domestic violence. $6.2 members the opportunity to provide feedback, before the final plan is agreed upon. The next million has been allocated for this measure. session will be held on I have been asked to continue on the MEG GREEN Tuesday, 4 June 2019 10am-12pm committees for both the Veterans’ MATES NATIONAL PRESIDENT at the Anzac Memorial in Hyde Park. Meg Green, our National President, along with a number of Board Members will also attend, to bring us up to date on the national agenda. 4 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 5
section name Minister for Veterans’ Affairs Report Contemporary Widows’ section Report name Whenever I speak at public Veterans and Families Counselling support to The War Widows’ Guild of Australia in three contemporary widows and the National functions, I always start with a families and improved consultation through partnership with the NSW War Widows Guild President. It meets each quarter and the simple message to our service the Female Veterans and Families Policy Forum. has created a Contemporary Widows Advisory meetings are held as a teleconference with men and women - ‘thank you Committee reporting to the NSW War Widows More recently we have been working to one face to face meeting in August each year. for your service’. Importantly, Board. provide a way for war widows and their A number of vacancies now exist, and we are I follow this statement families to provide direct policy advice to the calling for replacements. immediately with a thank you to The Terms of Reference are to: Government and in December I launched the families for their support to the Council for Women and Families United 1. Identify and prioritise emerging issues for The NSW War Widows Guild is keen to ensure allow our Australian Defence Force personnel by Defence Service. The Council provides contemporary widows of veterans the membership consists of both metropolitan to provide for the safety and security of our a means for defence women and families to and rural widows across Australia. To this end nation. In many ways, the home front is as 2. Identify current and emerging issues for have a direct voice to me on issues that affect important as the frontline when it comes to war widow’s families and support networks we would like you to consider nominating for them. It is important that the government - providing defence capability. this committee to ensure we hear the voices of regardless of party or leader - is hearing about 3. Provide advice to and recommendations As the families of ADF personnel, you can face issues from those experiencing them. We need for endorsement by the War Widows’ Guild all war widows regardless of where they live. many challenges. There is growing evidence to know how having a serving family member (NSW) Board for improvements in Local, The nomination process involves providing showing that military service can have long impacts on individuals and their families and State and Federal governments’ operational terms effects not just on the serving member how the Government can best offer support. your contact details including email address and policy and service but on their families, both during and following a short couple of paragraphs on your reason for The Council will include representatives 4. Identify opportunities for increased service. The unique demands of military service your nomination by COB 30 June 2019. This from across Australia and will be chaired by engagement with Contemporary Widows means that ADF families must overcome the needs to be sent to the Chair of the Committee, Gabby Costigan, who is the Chief Executive who are geographically or socially isolated challenges of operational deployment, frequent Jennifer Collins at jcol7799@bigpond.net.au Officer of BAE Systems and a former Army through the appropriate media and internet relocation and separation from family. Everyday Officer. Gabby will be joined by a broad range technology delivery decisions like schooling, childcare and partner I look forward to your nomination. If you require of members including veterans, partners, employment can be made even more difficult. 5. Present to Government/s a list of issues any additional information, please email me at mothers, fathers, extended family and widows. You are the supporting network throughout identified and possible solutions for this the above address. For more information, you can contact the DVA military life and beyond. cohort. Engagement team at engagement@dva.gov.au. As Minister for Defence Personnel and The membership consists of the Deputy Chair JENNIFER COLLINS I would also like to update you on recent Veterans’ Affairs, one of my key priorities over of the NSW War Widows Board along with CHAIR OF THE CONTEMPORARY WIDOWS SUB-COMMITTEE changes announced in the Budget that will see the last 12 months in this role has been a focus family violence victims who are former spouses on the wellbeing of ADF personnel and their or de-facto partners of veterans receive families. increased support. The Budget provided $6.2 In my last contribution, I offered my thanks million to ensure former spouses and de-facto from the Australian Government to the War partners can continue receiving the partner Widows’ Guild of Australia for the more than service pension after their relationship has 70-year contribution you have made. The ended and divorce proceedings have finalised. role of the Guild in supporting the widows and This change is about creating equity for all other family members of ADF personnel and former partners of veterans, regardless of their the broader veteran community is an important marital status. one and I again thank you for your contribution There is more to be done, but I am proud of across Australia. what we have achieved so far. Thank you again Last edition I also spoke of some of the work to the Guild and its volunteers for all you do in the Australian Government has been doing in supporting war widows. an effort to improve services for ADF personnel and their families including the Family Support HON DARREN CHESTER MP Package, expansion of the Open Arms – MINISTER FOR VETERANS’ AFFAIRS 6 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 7
section Commemoration name and Events Commemoration and Events 55th Annual Commemoration at the Merchant Navy Memorial Rhondda met James Brown, from RSL NSW, to discuss Younger Members Group Co-ordinator Di Green and war widow, Dianne Vogt, President’s Representative, with John Sidoti, Minister for at Rookwood Cemetery our upcoming Honouring Women event Donnie Sloper met at the Dee Why RSL Fundraiser for the Sport, Multiculturalism, Seniors and Veterans, at the Anzacs of Greece Northern Beaches Veterans’ Centre Annual Luncheon Rhondda with Minister Darren Chester and Dianne Lawrie at the opening Supporting Veteran Mental Health - A Day for Staff of Ex-Service of Thank You For Your Service at the Anzac Memorial Sydney Organisations at the Anzac Memorial Sydney Rhondda Vanzella and Madeline Dermatossian at the The Kokoda Track Roger Selby, The President of the NSW Association of Jewish Service & Memorial Walkway, Concord Ex-Service Men & Women, and Rhondda Vanzella at the Sydney Jewish Communal Anzac Day Commemoration & Wreath Laying Ceremony The Board and past Presidents met in April to discuss Gwen Cherne spoke at the Dee Why Veteran’s Centre the new Strategy Plan for 2019-22 Resilience Luncheon in April Rhondda Vanzella, Meg Green, His Excellency Gil da Costa Monteiro and MERCI AUSTRALIA in honour of the shared remembrance between Mr. Abel Guterres, Ambassador for Timor-Lest, at The Democratic Republic Australia and France at the Sofitel Wentworth on Monday 29 April, of Timor-Leste Wreath Laying Ceremony, at The Anzac Memorial Sydney with the Mayor of Arras and President of Hauts-de-France Tourism, Mr Frederique Leturque, The executive Director of the French First World War Centennial Mission Mr Joseph Zimet, Marie Gittard, The Regional Advisor at Hauts-de-France Tourism and Delegate for the duty of remembrance Mme Mady Dorchies-Brillon, the consul general of France in Sydney Mr Rhondda was a finalist in the NSW Women of the Year Awards Rhondda was the Guest Speaker at the Nicolas Croizer, Rhondda Vanzella, Gwen Cherne, Meg Green and many VIEW Club International Women’s Day Luncheon other distinguished guests. 8 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 9
Daphne Dunne’s Funeral Anzac Field of Remembrance Daphne Dunne’s Funeral Anzac Field of Remembrance dressed to the nines, make up on with a lovely bright pink lippy. On very special occasions she would have matching lippy, nail polish and a pink rinse in her hair. Of more recent years no doubt helped by Michelle and applied with love. I think I could say those days were very special days for Daphne. Those were days when she no doubt thought of her own losses of two husbands, the losses of her friends and the memories of her special community. Photo credit - Daryl Charles Photography Pty. Ltd. Many of us here today, who attend the cenotaph regularly, will recall watching many dignitaries An amazing woman. at these services speaking to Daphne or A beautiful lady. having photos taken with her, whilst Michelle Such a lovely lady and such a character. would take photos. Michelle you must have a wonderful library of your Mums photos…of her Someone very special. treasured community and of her special Prince. Meg Green (National President, War Widows Guild of Australia), David Mehan MP (State Member for The Entrance), Fran Brock (President of The Entrance War Widows Guild Club), Emma McBride (Federal Member for Dobell) and Dianne Vogt (President’s Representative War Widows Guild Of Australia NSW) These were some of the hundreds of words Prince Harry that is. And what a beautiful attended the 2019 Field of Remembrance for The Entrance War Widows Guild Club written on Facebook about Daphne; story that was. It is a story that has been told A day filled with sunshine and a backdrop in every newspaper, on every TV station and in of the glistening Tuggerah Lakes at The Today is a special day for us all. It’s a time when many womens’ magazines. Despite all fuss and Entrance, set the scene for a memorable Field family and friends come together to remember, limelight, Daphne described these times with to shed a tear or two, to laugh and to love while of Remembrance held by The Entrance War her Prince as just like meeting an old friend. I reflecting on Daphne’s life of 99 years. Widows Guild Club on Sunday 14 April 2019. know this story of her prince brought her much This commemoration marked the 14th Field of joy and, might I say, much notoriety. Daphne’s right side was always heavy with Remembrance service held by the Guild Club medals of her two late husbands including Daphne’s life story is a very special one. From a at The Cenotaph Memorial Park, The Entrance, a Victoria Cross. She also always proudly woman’s perspective, one could say she was a and was attended by over 70 people. Janice Lawless, Meg Green, Di Vogt and Frances Brock at The Entrance wore her own medals; War Medal 1939-45, woman before her time. Imagine being a woman Field of Remembrance lunch following the service Australian Service Medal 1939-45 and the signing up in 1942. Fast forward to 2018 where General Service Badge. Daphne was a woman we saw her in her wheelchair being supported united by defence service, united not only by Michelle leading the Anzac March. That by her own service but also that of her two was 76 years after she joined up. What a life of husbands. dedication. Today we celebrate Daphne’s life with the rich Michelle and family, as your extended family we traditions of someone who served her nation understand your loss and we are here to wrap with pride. Daphne lived her latter years with our arms around you all. Daphne was loved her loving daughter Michelle surrounded by a by her community, she was a kind, gentle and fantastic community of wonderful people. humble lady. May the peace that comes from The Entrance Guild Members Janice Lawless (Treasurer), Noreen Kershaw your memories of Mum and Nanna, comfort (Vice President) and Dot Bright (Vice President) were on hand to assist Gulgong RSL Subbranch Field of Remembrance service on 14 April for War After her family, community meant everything Fran Brock, President, with the smooth running of the day. These ladies Widows and Indigenous Service personnel. From the left, Vera Chapman, you now and in the days ahead. collectively have been Guild members for over a total of 35 years and were Kath Arthur, Hazel Miller, Shirley Drysdale (National Treasurer), to Daphne...especially every time she attended instrumental in ensuring the distribution of the correct crosses for those Gail Ratcliff (Indigenous Representative, David Henderson a service at the cenotaph. Daphne was always God Bless you all guests wishing to place crosses in remembrance of their loved ones (President Gulgong RSL Sub-branch) 10 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 11
section Anzacname Field of Remembrance Anzac Field of Remembrance section name 68th Sydney Field of Remembrance Service If you attended this year’s Field of local and international governments, Remembrance service in Sydney, you will know defence service, the church, organisations just how memorable and moving it was. The that support veterans and their families Program was filled with so many wonderful as they placed the wreath and crosses elements that touched the hearts of everyone in honour of our loved ones, and the in the St Andrew’s Cathedral. war widows who participated in various readings of poems and Bible passages The highlight was most certainly Jenny Ware’s outstanding speech – please find it in full • Gwen Cherne did an excellent job as the MC below - she spoke from the heart and melted the hearts of everyone in the cathedral. Other • It was nice to see war widows place floral comments that attendees made included: tributes in recognition of the various conflicts • The display board with the paper crosses from those who could not attend in person • The placing of crosses by war widows and was a lovely touch their families, and other congregation members is always a touching and healing • To see the children’s choir seated in the choir part of the service section of the cathedral was very special; and to have them sing was extremely moving • It was an honour to witness the special farewell given to the Governor of • The Archbishop’s meaningful address tied NSW, David Hurley and his wife Linda together the meaning of everything that Hurley. Rhondda’s speech was superb, and was in the program the choir’s musical tribute to these special • It meant a lot to watch the respectful people was beautiful, including the finale participation of the representatives from ‘You are my Sunshine’. 12 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 13
section Anzacname Field of Remembrance Anzac Field of Remembrance section name Our eldest son also joined the RAN, feel that there was a light at the end of a entering through ADFA and serving for 10 tunnel, and not necessarily that of a fast years before changing over to the merchant approaching train. navy and a life lived all over the world as a ship’s master. Getting to know my fellow members has highlighted for me that many of our brave Our youngest son opted for a very good men and women didn’t die under enemy fire life here on home soil and jumped on the IT at sea, on a battle field or in the air, but as a technology band wagon early in his career. result of military service during an era when Both of our sons are still the source of much the term “OH&S” and “PTS” had not been love and laughter for me. invented and this has created yet another wave of Younger Member Widows. When Col passed away two and a half years ago, I had never heard of The War Widows’ I now understand that many of us go about Guild, but thank goodness a wise retired our everyday lives with the acceptance that Submariner from our Sub Association had, a shimmer of emotion waits silently at our and at Col’s wake made me promise to find shoulder to give us a nudge at the most out the details in Sydney and to join as soon inopportune moments. as possible. Again, this is something we all continue to I would never have considered myself experience no matter how long we are on coming under the banner of a War Widow, our own. Jenny Ware gave the following My late husband Colin proudly served in which conjured up pictures of women address at this year’s Field the Royal Australian Navy for 20 years, knitting and baking scones. How wrong was This is where the joy of being part of our of Remembrance Service 18 of which were spent on Submarines. I … just look at the amazing women filling St wonderful Guild is so important … it tells us Good Morning Honoured Guests, Ladies We met when he was in the first group to Andrew’s today and there is not a knitting there is nothing wrong with tears and we be sent to the UK to undertake submarine needle or scone to be seen amongst them. are normal and there is now an acceptance and Gentlemen, training with the British Navy back in 1963. that although this too won’t pass, it is okay When our NSW President, Rhondda He came back highly trained and with a With much help from Barbara in The Guild to “go with the flow”. Personally, this has Vanzella rang to ask if I would be able to newly acquired but completely untrained office and mentoring phone calls from often meant managing by using the humour speak at today’s Field of Remembrance Rhondda, I signed up and attended my first that played a large part in my life. Pommy missus. Service, I said yes with great pride, although Younger Members’ Meeting in February 2017…two short years ago. The Guild provides not just practical support I initially thought maybe Rhondda had Colin went on to serve his country, not just and advocacy, but more importantly, called the wrong number. in the Royal Australian Navy but also in a I was still very much grieving and don’t emotional support, which is given with public service role until his early retirement. remember how I made it into the room compassion, humour, much needed hugs Perhaps I had better explain here before Our lives were packed with laughter, two alone on that first day…but boy am I glad I and of course, the odd glass of wine shared I introduce myself that I am an emotional amazing sons with a dad totally involved in did. as we get to know more about each other person, can cry at the drop of a hat, not in an their lives, despite months away at sea. on a journey that none of us signed up for. attractive gentle way, but with sobs, much The welcome was overwhelming and yes, sniffing and often red-faced, but this too I We both enjoyed travel and were lucky there were other women who understood We can describe our involvement with the am learning to handle with no apologies and enough to visit most of the countries on exactly how I had been feeling and were Guild as a lake of water, each time we put an endless supply of hankies. Please don’t our bucket list. Even our arguments were each undertaking their own journey. Even our hand in to help each other, no matter give me any sympathy, but in the old Navy legendary in a marriage that lasted for so, these lovely Guild members still took how small the help, the ripple effect touches vernacular, just “cut me some slack” as we go. 51 years. the time to make this new bird on the block all shores of the lake. 14 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 15
section Anzacname Field of Remembrance Anzac Field of Remembrance section name We are so fortunate to be guided by our To me, this is part of belonging to The National President Meg Green, our NSW Guild and illustrates the adage of Women President Rhondda and the rest of the supporting Women. Board, who work extremely hard to ensure our Guild remains very much in discussions My respect for this country’s generation with the relevant government departments. of strong women who literally kept the One of the many aims within the Guild is home fires burning, raised the children and to maintain the successful Friendship Line, waited hopefully for their men to return is brilliantly managed by Sharon. I am sure increasing more and more as I get to know many of you here are either volunteers them. manning the line or recipients of the phone calls, which are made as regularly as we can Likewise, having met Gwen, Bree and some manage with the volunteers available. With of the Contemporary Widows, our Guild is no apologies offered, yes, this is a blatant in safe hands to start to bring us in touch advert calling for more volunteers for the with the more pressing needs of these Friendship Line please. young and intelligent women, many of them Many of the Widows we contact have also juggling grief, the needs of their own young served in the Defence Force themselves families and the necessity to earn a living. and it is a privilege to be able to spend time on the phone and listen to the fascinating In conclusion … If you know a service widow stories and to enjoy the humour still shown who does not belong to The Guild yet, by so many of the Widows. please encourage them to take that first Imagine the pleasure of a good chat step and come along. After all, as members when you are perhaps housebound with of our Guild, we like to believe that not only increasing health problems, and yet our do we talk the talk, but we also walk the Widows still retain a passion for life and for walk. keeping their memories alive … it is a two- way street and we can help each other. Thank you and go proudly in your world. I think Di Green summarised everyone’s Well done, Jenny, for your courage, your thoughts after Jenny’s speech perfectly when strength, and generosity of spirit in sharing she wrote our story. I know your late husband would have been looking down at you yesterday and “Congratulations on the wonderful speech beaming with pride. I know that everyone in that you wrote and beautifully delivered at the the room was proud of you, none more so than I. Field of Remembrance service yesterday. It was I feel blessed to have you as a fellow war widow, truly one of the highlights of the service. Your and to be able to call you my friend.” heartfelt words touched the hearts of everyone in the room. We all share - and are connected - in some ways, by the lived experiences of which you spoke. 16 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 17
section Anzacname Day 2019 Anzac Day 2019 Anzac Day 2019 Rhondda Vanzella OAM laying a wreath at The Cenotaph at the Gwen Cherne gave an emotional address at the Sydney Anzac Dawn Service Dee Why Anzac Dawn Service Di Vogt, Emma McBride MP, Dot Bright, and Meg Green at the Brenda Morrison with Deputy Mayor Susan and War Widows ANZAC commemoration at The Entrance Pittwater House Cadets at their Anzac Service It was a lovely, warm autumnal day on Anzac Without hesitating, my son-in-law Al lifted Day this year. Director Lynn Boyd was one of the 2 extremely heavy grates, took off his Audrey Blood OAM, former National and State President of The the members who marched in Sydney. Following shoes, socks and trousers and climbed into the War Widows’ Guild of Australia NSW, recited the Ode at the Anzac an extremely eventful start to her day, she sent drain. By this time a crowd was forming, and Remembrance Ceremony conducted at the April meeting of the the following story: one man came over to ask what was going on Hawkesbury Combined Probus Club this month. quite aggressively. Quite a few other people Following our first Anzac march under the War Hawkesbury Combined Probus, a club of 200 members, operates took photos, but unfortunately, we were so Widows banner, I decided to have my husband’s under the direction of President, Jim Berrell. distressed at the time, that we did not get any medals remounted. So that my grandchildren copies. The Remembrance Ceremony took place in the Richmond Club could participate, I also purchased 2 miniature sets. As Jack is the eldest (6 years old), he wore which was founded in 1947 by a group of WWII returned servicemen Al couldn’t reach the bottom of the drain, so and has become the leading club and community heart of the Hawkesbury Region. the large medals this year. he had to remove his shirt as well. After quite We were all congregating on the corner of Pitt a bit of fossicking, he thankfully located the The Ceremony was conducted in a most respectful manner. Club members stood as a large St Mall and King St, where there is a drain. It treasured medals. There was loud cheering screen displayed the lowering of the flag and the last post played. After Audrey recited the is somewhat unclear what occurred, but Jack and applause from the crowd as he put his Ode of Remembrance, all joined in the response and observed one minute’s silence before the must have tripped, and the medals went down clothes back on over his wet underwear and Reveille was played with the raising of the flag. the drain. To make matters worse, the drain was we proceeded to the marshalling area where Al helped carry the War Widows banner for the Probus Club members felt privileged to be able to honour and remember our Anzacs on this thigh high with dirty water. Not surprisingly, most significant occasion for all citizens of Australia and New Zealand. Jack was inconsolable. march through Sydney. 18 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 19
section Honouring nameWomen United by Defence Service Honouring Women United by Defence Service Honouring Women United leaders, business leaders, and leaders in the Recognised for their service to this nation veteran space to explore the power of women; Women will be acknowledged and honoured for and how, if we all work together, we can create their sacrifices and contributions for the defence by Defence Service better understanding of the needs of women in uniform, and women on the home front. of their country. They will include: serving and ex-serving women, Wreath laying at Australian widows of partners who made the ultimate War Memorial (AWM) sacrifice for the nation, and all women whose lives Honouring Women United by Defence Service have been affected as a result of loss of a loved 2019 will commence with a Last Post and Wreath one through service, or who have a returned Laying Ceremony at the Australian War Memorial veteran who is wounded, injured or ill. (AWM), where women from every major women’s organisation who have been impacted by service and their guests will be invited to attend the Ceremony. Last year’s ceremony attracted over 400 attendees. Both the Prime Minister and the Leader of the Opposition put differences aside to jointly lay wreaths to honour women. This year the ceremony will again be dedicated to the service and sacrifice of women veterans over the Peace Poppies last 100 years who gave their lives as the ultimate The Peace Poppies will be given to all guests to sacrifice for their country. wear on the night of the HWUDS dinner. The new Governor General, His Excellency Year of Peace is driven by a collaborative Committee comprised Thank you so much to Pamela Howard, Anne General the Honourable David Hurley AC DSC 2019 celebrates the Year of Peace, following the of leaders from major organisations supporting Morley, Nancy Firth, The Glebe Society, Sarah (Ret’d) and Mrs Hurley have confirmed that they centenary of the ANZAC celebrations last year. In female veterans and veterans’ families, including: Sciacca and Fay Ison who have sent us some will attend this year. celebrating peace, we need to honour those who War Widows’ Guild of Australia NSW Ltd, Peace Poppies for this year’s event. have made sacrifices for that peace; and for those Legacy, the Australian Defence Force, Dept of Veterans’ Affairs, Returned and Services League National Dinner Event We still need approximately 400 Peace Poppies who continue to make those sacrifices on a daily (RSL), Women Veterans’ Network of Australia Last year’s National Dinner drew over 500 for the event. If you would like to crochet some, basis. (WVNA), Partners of Veterans Association (PVA), attendees, including political, community, please use the official Peace Poppy pattern Join us in honouring the service and sacrifices of Totally & Permanently Incapacitated Federation business and defence leaders, as well as leaders shown here, with thanks to Elisabeth MacGregor women united by defence service. of Australia (TPI), and Royal Australian Army of the major organisations that support veterans of Leeton: http://tiny.cc/341x5y and post them to Nursing Corps (RAANC). and veterans’ families, and women who are the Guild office. connected to defence by their own service or the Collaborative Project led by the War TIME TO BOOK YOUR TICKET service of a loved one. Widows’ Guild and Legacy Honouring Women United by Defence You can buy tickets and find more The major organisations in the veteran space Service Event This year’s dinner will be held in The Great Hall at information on the new website in Australia identified the need to acknowledge The events commemorates and honours all Parliament House, Canberra on Wednesday, 14 http://honouringwomen.com.au, women united by defence service and joined women whose lives have been impacted as a August 2019. or by contacting The Guild on forces to drive this project to do so. result of their own service or that of a loved one. guild@warwidowsnsw.com.au Guest speakers last year included Dr Brendan or 02 9267 6577. Honouring Women United by Defence Service The goal of the Honouring Women United by Nelson AO, Director of the Australian War It is being held during a Sitting Week, 2019 is a collaborative project led by the War Defence Service event is to bring together Memorial. He has confirmed that he will speak so please book your hotel soon to avoid Widows’ Guild of Australia NSW Ltd and Legacy. It political leaders, community leaders, defence again this year. disappointment. 20 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 21
section Gwenname Cherne’s appointment to The Australian War Memorial Women’s Weekly Article - The War section Within name Media Release Appointment brings unique perspective to efforts in helping educate the Australian public Council of the Australian War Memorial to better understand the sacrifices of our serving men and women and their families, The Council of the Australian War Memorial will benefit from the unique perspectives of its recognising the scars of their service,” Ms latest appointment, Ms Gwen Cherne. Cherne said. Minister for Veterans’ Affairs Darren Chester The Council of the Australian War Memorial today announced that Ms Cherne would serve has oversight of the executive management and on the Council for a period of three years, policies of the Memorial. replacing Rear Admiral Ken Doolan AO RAN Mr Chester thanked outgoing member, Rear (Ret’d). Admiral Doolan for his dedication and hard “Ms Cherne is an active member of the War work in preserving and sharing Australia’s Widows Guild of Australia NSW, and a strong military history as part of the Council. advocate for current serving families and those Open Arms – Veterans and Families who are having difficulty settling into civilian Counselling, provides support for current and life following transition from the defence force,” ex-serving ADF personnel and their families. Mr Chester said. Free and confidential help is available 24/7. “Ms Cherne has a wealth of experience Phone 1800 011 046 working in and with government agencies, (international: +61 1800 011 046 or non-government organisations and the United +61 8 8241 4546) or Nations and, as a war widow herself, will have a visit www.openarms.gov.au unique perspective to offer the Council.” “I have no doubt Ms Cherne will be an asset to the Council and will provide valuable insight as the War Memorial plans its $500 million expansion to proudly tell the stories of veterans from recent conflicts in Afghanistan, Iraq, the Solomon Islands and East Timor.” Acknowledging her new role Ms Cherne said, “I am keen to work in the interests of veterans and the defence community and make them proud.” “It is important to continue the Australian War Memorial’s Photo of Minister Darren Chester, Gwen Cherne and DVA Secretary Liz Cosson 22 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 23
Women’s Weekly Article - The War Within Women’s Weekly Article - The War Within Re-printed with permission from Women’s Weekly. 24 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 25
Health News Health News Going to Hospital? the same type of dementia will be affected in It is important to remember that the symptoms Are you eligible for the Commonwealth the same way. Memory issues and confusion may be the result of a medically controllable Seniors Health Care Card (CHSC)? If you are going to hospital please contact us are expected, but symptoms can also affect disease such as urinary tract infection. If you or on 02 9267 6577 or toll-free 1800 451 615, to War Widows who do not receive the income the senses i.e. changes to vision, hearing, taste, advise us. On your return home, please let us support supplement and are over 60 may smell and touch. know if you feel you need further information be able to apply for this healthcare card. about community services. Can we reduce our risk of dementia or delay its affects? This means you do not have the Pensioner What is dementia? Concession Card (PCC). There is an income No matter what age you are, 30, 40 or 80 years Our brain controls every aspect of us – who we of age, it is not too late to maximise your brain eligibility test. The limit is DIFFERENT to the are, (personality) what we do (behaviour), how health. test for the income support supplement. we think or forget (cognitive), how we move, eat and breath (mobility). Dementia can affect There are 5 simple steps: War Widows currently receive most of the all these functions and senses. NSW State Government concessions thanks to Step 1. Look after your heart. your family notice any changes, seek medical their Gold Card. However many ‘independent Most people think dementia is inevitable. What’s good for your heart is good for your assistance to get a correct diagnosis. Don’t just retirees’ have this card to assist with medical The likelihood will increase as we age but not brain. If left untreated, high blood pressure, high shrug it off that you are getting older. everyone will be diagnosed or show signs of cholesterol and type 2 diabetes can damage the expenses. There have been NSW State dementia and it is not necessarily hereditary. blood vessels in the brain. This affects brain Even if you are diagnosed with dementia there election promises that CHSC card holders The incidence does increase with age, under function and thinking skills. are many support services available for you will now be entitled to an energy concession. 50 years ratio is 1:10,000, 55-60 years 1:500, and your family. You can put in place strategies Step 2. Be physically active. PCC card holders and war widows with a Gold 60-65 1:65. In 2019 there are an estimated that will delay the progress of the disease and 447,115 Australians living with dementia, Exercise gives the brain a healthy boost. maintain your quality of life including staying at Card are already entitled to this concession. including 27,457 people under 65 years of age. Physical activity increases the blood flow to the home. It is anticipated that card holders may obtain brain. Information sourced from Dementia Australia further concessions in the future. Dementia is an umbrella term used to describe a Step 3. Mentally challenge your brain. group of over 100 medical conditions that have www.dementia.org.au, Southern Dementia There are differences in age eligibility for war an impact on cognitive ability and our ability to The brain likes to tackle something it doesn’t Advisory Group www.SouthernDag.org, and know. It helps build new brain cells and widows between Department of Veterans do normal tasks. Although Alzheimer’s disease University of Tasmania Wicking Dementia strengthen connections between the cells. Research Centre www.utas.edu/wicking. Affairs and Centrelink. Contact DVA for Form is the most common condition, other dementia related conditions can be a result of Parkinson’s Step 4. Follow a healthy diet. National Dementia Helpline 1800 100 500. No. 3056. Disease, vascular diseases, Lewi Body Disease What you eat can affect your brain. Follow and 2016 Fronto Temporal Dementia. It is now the National Dietary Guidelines by eating a the second leading cause of death in Australia. variety of foods including vegetables, fruit, fish, grains, nuts, legumes and lean meats, as well as How dementia affects a person can vary with reducing food high in saturated fats and having the type of dementia, although everyone with no more than two standard alcoholic drinks on any day. Step 5. Enjoy a Social Activity. Socialising is also good for the brain. It is mentally stimulating and may contribute to building brain reserves which then contribute to a lower dementia risk. Increasing your cognitive reserves may reduce your risk of developing dementia or delay being diagnosed with dementia. 26 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 27
Arthritis NSW Welfare News Keep Moving in 2019 for many years and found it beneficial for the Pension Increase The additional support for aged care, both osteoarthritis in her knee. However when home care packages and residential care will The onset of arthritis brings physical limitations she added the Strength & Balance program There was a pension increase from March 20, and impacts your ability to work and socialise. proceed. to her exercise regime, she really noticed the 2019. The condition affects 1 in 5 Australians, rising difference and no longer needs to use a walking The War Widows’ Pension is now $941.60 per Also announced was the continuation of the to 1 in 3 over the age of 65. stick. “About halfway through the term I noticed Commonwealth Home Support Program to Arthritis and Osteoporosis NSW (AONSW) fortnight, an increase of $10.10. that I didn’t need to use my stick anymore to works to improve the quality of life of people 30/6/2022 instead of ending on 30/6/2020. walk. I pride myself on that. I have decided to The maximum income support supplement affected by arthritis and promotes the benefits keep on with the classes. I’d do anything to is now $278.50 per fortnight, an increase of This means no changes to community transport of exercise as a way to reduce pain and increase prevent having a knee replacement,” Toni said. $3.10. and Meals on Wheels for another few years. joint flexibility and mobility. For a number of years, ANSW has run warm water exercise The rates will be indexed again in September. The Royal Commission into the aged care Program Choices classes throughout Sydney and recently sector should have been finalised by then and expanded to Wollongong. Both land and water-based programs are Budget Update recommendations implemented. designed to help people reduce pain and regain Members are full of praise for the positive By the time you receive this Digest the outcome movement. The best use of the programs All parties have agreed on income support impact the regular exercise is having on their of the Federal Election will be known. Most of depends on each person’s health, fitness level recipients receiving a one-off energy assistance lives. One of them, Roslyn Large, who has the 2019 Budget requires legislation changes, and goals. osteoarthritis in her knee, began attending the which may or may not happen with the new payment in June 2019. At this stage no further warm water classes at Mowll Village in 2018 1. For those with a lower level of fitness or with government, regardless of who wins. information is available. and recommenced the class this year. ‘The pain that is easily triggered, warm water classes help the mobility of my knee and stop classes may be a gentler introduction to it from stiffening up. I can do more if I keep exercise. The warmth can also help reduce Transport News exercising and it’s easier for me to exercise in pain. We are pleased to inform you that the Guild has • Members will provide the cabcharge water,’ Roslyn said. 2. If people feel the pool exercises are too decided to improve the process for organising vouchers to the taxi driver on the day of The role of the warm water in your exercise easy, their benefits have plateaued or they transport to club meetings and major Guild travel class is two-fold: not only does it soothe and are wanting to improve in more functional tasks, a land-based strength program is events. The intention is to ensure that we support your body, it also offers resistance Letters were sent out in April to those members likely to be a great benefit. better manage social isolation for our members to your movements, acting somewhat like a who regularly utilise the Guild Transport who are not able to attend via transport or weight to help strengthen your muscles while 3. Those with higher fitness levels may find drive. With this change the Guild has budgeted service. Please refer to the Transport Policy you exercise. they can do both. for those members that are eligible to have the on our website to see if you are eligible for this The warm water classes are held in six locations entire cost of the return trip paid for. That is, benefit and for further details. If you did not in Sydney and one in Wollongong, our most eligible members will no longer be required to receive a letter, but think you qualify, please recent venue. make the $15 contribution towards the fare. contact the Guild on 02 9267 6577 or toll-free Walking Unaided As of 1 May 2019, the following process will 1800 451 615. become effective: AONSW has also developed a land-based strength and balance program which is running • Eligible members are to contact the Guild at two Sydney venues after being piloted in and request the number of cabcharge THANK YOU 2018. The classes were developed based on vouchers that they will need to attend We wish to thank our transport research that found a combination of land- Arthritis & Osteoporosis NSW delivers Guild/Social club meetings or major Guild providers who make all of this possible: based and warm water exercises gave optimum supervised warm water classes and Events for the year Premier Hornsby Ku-ring-gai CT results. strength and balance classes in Sydney and Wollongong. Visit arthritisnsw.org.au to • The Guild will mail out the requested St George Cabs Katoomba Radio Cabs Member Toni Fitzpatrick found this to be locate a class near you or call us on 02 9857 number of cabcharge vouchers to the Newcastle Limos Nambucca Taxis true when she attended Strength & Balance 3300 for all the details. We expand our class member Stryder CT Prime Limos classes in Term 4 2018 at the Royal North reach each term so you never know when a Kat Hire Cars Shore Hospital. Toni had been swimming laps, • Members will need to contact a taxi service class will open near you. followed by water exercises four times a week to book the required travel 28 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 29
section Guildname and Social Club News Guild and Social Club News Hornsby Guild Social Club day out in Lavender Bay Campsie WWG ladies celebrated their 65th anniversary Port Macquarie Club Meeting Our CEO, Madeline Dermatossian, was the key speaker at Cronulla Guild Club Meeting Lismore Guild Social Club Meeting Foster-Tuncurry Club are lucky to have two current members who served in WWII: Jean Green (ACW, WAAF, served at Rathmines in the Fabric Section on Catalina aircraft) and Lucy Thompson (Corporal, WAAF. Sydney Younger Members’ Saturday group. The YM’s group Messing Section – Canberra/Nowra/ Sydney/ enjoyed a friendly lunch and catch-up following the monthly Catherine Hill Bay) meeting held on 13 April at City Tattersalls Club 30 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 31
section Members’ nameNews Members’ section News name VALE Yvonne Wisbey. Yvonne was the Parramatta Vice-President 2007-2009 and President 2009-2010, as well as the Treasurer for many years (2010 – 2017). Yvonne only gave up being Treasurer when Parramatta became a Social Club. She also attended many of our events. VALE The following friends will also be sorely missed Anne Thomson, Mosman Lexie Shearstone, Goulburn Anne Colquhoun, Centennial Park Margaret Clancy, Revesby Nancy Allen’s 100th birthday lunch Barbara Ramsay, Glenbrook Margaret Philpott, Batehaven Barbara Greig, Stanhope Gardens Margaret Cox, Bateau Bay New Members Betty Barrett, Balgowlah Marie Geddes, Mosman Betty Johnston, Cherrybrook Marie Wright, Laidley South The Guild warmly welcomes the Betty Gerdes, Eagle Vale following new members: Marion Underwood, Cessnock Betty Mitchell, Chester Hill Mary Hamnett, Dubbo Edith Skues, Beacon Hill Charity Lesnik, Farrer Mary Honner, Yass Margaret Peterson, Mollymook Colleen Hughes, Gosford Mary Smart, Fennell Bay Margaret Brentnall, Long Jetty Dawn Hall, Cronulla Mary Williams, Old Toongabbie Dallas Alderson, Londonderry Dorothy Fleming, Nowra Mary Satchell, Kurnell Dorothy McCarthy, Prestons Jacqui Pobjoy, Queanbeyan East Miriam Davis, Glenfield Park Dorothy Dowling, Miranda Helen Miller, Rankin Park Navelle Hundt, Northbridge Dulcie Boyd, Goulburn Beryl Cross, Gunnedah Norma Hinshaw, Goonellabah Elizabeth Coles, North Parramatta Gladys Williams loved the flowers that the Guild sent Betty Smith, Macquarie Park to her for her 100th birthday Ellen Thomas, Buttaba Norma Barham, Balgownie Carol Tyler, South Penrith Eva Lynch, Glenbrook Olive Houlison, Marrangaroo Denise Wilson, Bateau Bay Evelyn Mulcahy, Kooringal Pat Boissery, Punchbowl Suzanne Heyworth, Tennyson Cove Florence Dent, Tuggerawong Patricia Pritchard, Hawks Nest Happy 100th Birthday Rona Jarrett, Albury Gladys Ashcroft, Belmore Phyllis Phippard, Glenhaven Joan Wren, Plumpton Helena Swain, Gunnedah Renee Allen, Little Bay Mrs Dorothy Davids Yvonne Newmarch, Gerringong Jean Hulme, Copacabana Robina Kinred, Eden Mrs Grace Denholm Helen Wrightson, Junee Joan Curtis, Blacktown Shirley Drew, Menai Central Mrs Rita Slattery Joyce Lawler, Bangor Shirley Naftel, Salamander Bay Mrs Bertha (Betty) Kay Joyce Trevillien, Manly Sylvia Colwill, West Wyalong Mrs Marjorie Chapman Life Members June Finkelde, Kooringal Valda Culley, Naremburn Mrs Valerie Barton Mrs Helen Hughes Kazuko Nelson, Salamander Bay Valerie Mcnabb, Orange Mrs Norma Straney Mrs Patricia Kennedy Mrs Doreen Lane Mrs Erica Mayers Mrs Betty Redfern 32 | GUILD DIGEST | June 2019 June 2019 | GUILD DIGEST | 33
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