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Table Of Contents                                   How To Contact the                                             FROM THE PRESIDENT
Let Us Not Grow Weary                     3           National Office                                                       By Krisita Jackson

Learning Not To Grow Weary
Life At Large
                                          4
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                                                            Phone
                                                        (770) 517-8552
                                                                                                         Let Us Not Grow Weary
What Will You Have Me Do?               6-7

                                                                                                                 A
                                                                                                                        nd let us      Assembly. She prepared an inspiring
This is the Year!                       7-8
                                                              Fax                                                       not grow       devotion for every meeting and a
What the Triennial Means to Me            9                                                                             weary          blessing for our lunch. The other Dot
                                                        (770) 517-8066
The 1893 Direct Mail Campaign          10-11                                                                            while          became the first diocesan Outreach
                                                                                                                        doing          Chair of our Diocesan Assembly,
Looking for a Good Read?              12-13            Email                                                     good, for in          blazing a hard path for her successors
#dokthrowbackthursday                 13-14
                                                DOK1885@doknational.org                                          due season            to follow. This Dot is a diminutive lady
Spring: A Time of New Growth             15                                                                      we shall reap         and at the time drove a canary-yellow
                                                                                                                 if we do not          souped-up Mustang GT. During those
Technology During the Pandemic        16-17             Website
                                                                                                                 lose heart.           years, there was not a meeting or
Shared History, Shared Future         18-20         www.doknational.org                                          Galatians 6:9.        event I attended in the diocese where
In Memoriam: Cynthia Matthews            21                                                                                            she was not present. Her leadership as
Let Us Pray                           22-23        Submitting News                                                   It is easy
                                                                                         to lose heart with all the challenges         Outreach Chair led to a record number
                                                   The best way to submit news           life puts in our paths. Most of us face       of donations in support of that year’s
A New Day                                24
                                                  about your chapter, diocesan           issues in more than one facet of our          project.
International Daughters
                                               assembly, or province is online at:       lives, including in our church families.         So, following the example they set,
   Uncertainty for Daughters Everywhere 25             http://www.doknational.           Our own biological families sometimes         weariness is not an option. My Dots,
   Eighth National Triennial of the                     org/?page=RoyalCross             offer the biggest challenges.                 after what I’m sure are decades of
   Daughters of the King in Brazil 26-27         Fill in the form and at the bottom      Sometimes, even in our chapters,              service to our Lord, continue to serve.
                                                 of the form you are requested to        we strive to answer the call, “Lord,          The benefits they reap are as much for
   Admission of new Daughters in Rome 28
                                                   upload your JPG picture. Make         what would you have me do?” There             the rest of us as themselves. If, in their
   The Order is Growing in Spain         28     sure you submit a high resolution        are challenges to doing good without          senior years, they are still giving and
   New Daughters in Chihuahua            29     (largest file) version of your digital   growing weary.                                serving and doing with a joyful spirit,
   Diocesan Retreat in Mexico            29    color picture. We request JPG files         Whenever I think of being weary, I          I cannot be a wimp. So, when I think
                                                 between 200KB and 3MB in size.          easily recall women who, though they          I don’t have the strength to travel to
   Daughters in Piedras Negras, Mexico 30                                                                                              another meeting, or I don’t have the time
                                                You may want to write your article       probably even now don’t know it, have
   All Saints Day in Guatemala           30                                              mentored me as Daughters. They                to work on that project with my chapter,
                                                in a word processing program and                                                       or I cannot attend another Quiet Day,
Junior Daughters                                   then copy and paste it into the       have been examples to me of how we
                                                                                         must and can continue to do good – to         or I cannot cook another potluck dish,
   We All Grow Weary Sometimes 31-32             “article text” section of the online                                                  or I am too tired to say my prayers – or
                                                                 form.                   serve – as long as we are able. Two
   Questions for Reflection              32                                                                                            whatever, I think of my two Dots.
                                                                                         women in particular encouraged me
   Juniors Visit Platoon Members         33          Next deadline: July 1, 2020         with their “doing good.” Both named              I take heart and thank God for
   Candle Lighting Ceremony Conducted 33              for the Fall 2020 issue.           Dorothy, they are my “Dots.” When,            them – and many others who have led
   Service of Institution Held           33                                              as diocesan assembly president, I             and still lead me by their example.
                                                                                         formed a board, each Dot individually         Galatians 6 continues in verse 10,
   Diaper Drive Held in DeLand, Florida 34                ON THE COVER
                                                                                         approached me to say, “I want to do           “Therefore, as we have opportunity,
   Word Search                           35            Design by Mandy Wheeler           something.” These sisters were both           let us do good to all people, especially
Around the Provinces                                 ON THE INSIDE COVER                 in or approaching their 80s. Together,        to those who belong to the family of
                                                        The Prayer of The Order          we invented jobs for them on the              believers.” That is who we are as
   Spotlight Province VIII Assembly      36
                                                                                         spot. The first Dot became our first          Daughters and who we should strive
   Around the Provinces               37-43                                              Devotions Chair of the Diocesan               daily to be.

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FROM THE NATIONAL CHAPLAIN                                                              FROM THE STRATEGIC PLAN COMMITTEE
                              The Right Reverend Gregory O. Brewer                                                             By Carolyn Dustin Hoffman

           Learning Not to Grow Weary                                                                  Life at Large: Reaching out to
               While Doing Good                                                                        Daughters at Large Nationwide
                           A                                                                                                  L
                                   LIFE          means being prepared ahead of time,                                                IFE      touch. Consider this …
                                   GROUNDED      knowing that weariness will be inevitable                                          HAS        You continue to be a vital part of The
                                   IN            without the right preparation.                                                     ITS      Order and are surrounded by women
                                   ACTION           So, how does one be prepared?                                             HIGHS          who need spiritual companionship, who
                            with little                                                                                       and lows,
                                                       1. Pray through each task. Pray                                                       look forward to seeing your loving face,
                            prayer always                                                                                     literally.
                                                    about recruiting. Do you have the right                                                  to touching another heart that longs for
                            results in                                                                                        Do you
                                                    people? Pray for each person involved,                                                   more God. How do you continue to grow
                            weariness.                                                                                        find
                                                    including who should or should not                                                       spiritually and strengthen yourself for
                            Weariness is                                                                                      yourself
                            a symptom               be on your team to accomplish what                                                       prayer and service?
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we aren’t tired some of the time. But               strength from God to do it.                                                              Plan Companion,” just completed in
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there is a distinctive difference between             2. Think through the task ahead of        by nature, clean air. Your spirit gets       Fall 2019. Its purpose is to “Reignite
the good sort of tired when we know we              time. Go through all the details. Make      renewed by the beauty daily. Do you          the Flame of The Order,” and it offers
are accomplishing                                                         the mental space      drive (if you still                                              a shared vision of
something and the                                                         necessary to          can) 30 miles                                                    our Order. It takes
sort of tired when
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                            Make the mental                               anticipate well.
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                                                                                                you a country                                                    Order and spells out
overwhelmed.               space necessary to                             a fun person to       Daughter at            of The Order of the                       how we can live that
                                                                          work with. If you
                          anticipate being well.
  Often the                                                                                     Large?                                                           prayer.
prescription
for feeling
                                                                          are operating
                                                                          under God’s             Or do you live     Daughters of the King®                        I urge you
                                                                                                densely packed                                                   wherever you are
overwhelmed is to
analyze our “work/life balance.” Are you
                                                                          authority, then
                                                    there is always space for a smile. God’s    in a city, perhaps   and you yearn for the                       to grow in wisdom,
                                                                                                an apartment                                                     spirit and more
                                                                                                                      sweet companionship
getting enough rest? Are you building in            got this!
                                                                                                dweller? It’s so                                                 deeply into our
space for “me time”? While these aren’t               3. Keep praying: before, after and        much easier to                                                   Order.
bad questions in and of themselves, I
don’t believe they get to the heart of the
                                                    during. Thank God for what you see
                                                    that is positive. In everything by prayer
                                                                                                go to the store        of other Daughters.                         Also, I welcome
                                                                                                there. You also                                                  your stories of Life
matter. Unless you are ill, weariness
does not come from mere physical
                                                    and supplication with thanksgiving let
                                                    your requests be made known to God.
                                                                                                have libraries and
                                                                                                churches close by.
                                                                                                                          What are they                          at Large so our
                                                                                                                                                                 understanding of
                                                                                                                           up to now?
activity. The source of weariness is an             Philippians 4:6                             Still lonely?                                                    your situations might
emotional weight, not a physical weight.
                                                   Daughters are hard workers. It is way          You are a                                                      grow and we can
  Weariness should be telling you                too easy to grow weary in our work.            member of                                                        more easily hold you
something: telling you that you are              Prayer provides strength and wisdom            The Order of the Daughters of the            in our hearts and prayers. Share them
carrying too much on your own                    that allows us to work hard but in the         King® and you yearn for the sweet            by email to strategicplan@doknational.
shoulders. To choose to “not grow                strength that God provides. God’s got          companionship of other Daughters.            org or mail your written story to the
weary while doing good” (Galatians 6:9),         this!
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FROM THE NATIONAL ENRICHMENT CHAIR                                            nice it would be if our members with
                                                                                           limited visual acuity could listen to The
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                                                                                           Royal Cross being read to them.

            What Will You Have Me Do?                                                        Speaking of our literature, the
                                                                                           Literature Committee needs Anglican,
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                               DON’T                                                       to review our literature in order to
                               KNOW                                                        make it more accessible to all our
                               ABOUT                                                       denominations. We need prayers from            century geek to step forward to help
                               YOU,                                                        these denominations to use alongside           us develop one or more APPs for our
                          but I ask that                                                   the prayers from the Episcopal Book            cellphones. The NEP has ideas for
                          question every                                                   of Common Prayer that we most often            a Daughters Prayer APP, a Triennial
                          time I put on my                                                 use now.                                       APP and more. If you would like to
                          cross. I walk                                                      These are projects the National              see a Daughters APP, but are not in a
                          out the door                                                     Enrichment Program is working on               position to help develop it, will you
                          every morning                                                    currently. We are also exploring               please inform the National Enrichment
                          not knowing                                                      the possibility of producing our own           Committee what you would like
                          where I will be                                                  devotional literature, such as an              included on that APP?
                          called or what                                                   Advent or Lenten devotional booklet.             Please email NationalEnrichment@
I will be asked to do. Today, I am called                                                  Would those of you who already write           doknational.org to share your
to share with you some of the many                                                         devotionals for other publications offer       willingness to help or your ideas and
ways The Order is calling Daughters and       Read any good books lately? Please           your talents to The Order?                     suggestions on any of the above-
waiting for Daughters to respond.             share that information via the NEP on the
                                              Daughter’s website.                            The NEP is also asking for a 21st-           discussed items.
   Let me start with some of the easier
calls. Are you a Spiritual Director?          or enlightened you? Share that                          FROM THE WORSHIP AND DEVOTIONS CHAIR
If so, then please visit the National         information with other Daughters by                                                 By Denise Rox
Enrichment Program’s (NEP) page on            visiting the NEP page and submitting a
the National website and register as
a Spiritual Director. Share your gift
of listening with
                                              recommendation of that book. If we get
                                              multiple recommendations of the same                                 This is the Year!
                                                                  book, that’s even

                                                                                                                    A
your sisters.
  Have you
                         The Order is calling                     better.
                                                                      Now on to some
                                                                                                                          ND LET
                                                                                                                          US NOT
                                                                                                                                            Every year we get all pumped up to do
                                                                                                                                          things like lose weight, stop bad habits,
lead retreats,
quiet days, or
                        Daughters and waiting                       of the harder calls.
                                                                    Are you bilingual?
                                                                                                                          GROW
                                                                                                                          WEARY
                                                                                                                                          help others, or maybe jump on board
                                                                                                                                          learning something new. I know it is easy
workshops? Are
you interested in
                           for Daughters                            Can you read and
                                                                    write in more than
                                                                                                                    while doing
                                                                                                                    good, for in due
                                                                                                                                          for me to tell myself, “This is the year!”
                                                                                                                                             Then something happens, life
doing one? Then
please visit the
                             to respond.                            one language? Are
                                                                    you a linguist? We
                                                                                                                    season we shall
                                                                                                                    reap if we do
                                                                                                                                          happens, and I get pulled into too many
NEP webpage                                                                                                                               directions. I begin to feel like I’m not
                                                                    need people to help                             not lose heart.       doing good for anyone or anything. Or,
and register as a                             us translate our literature. We could                                 Galatians 6:9
leader/speaker. Tell us what topics                                                                                                       if I’m not careful, the newness wears off
                                              use a couple of linguists to serve on the
you are interested in presenting to                                                                                     The book          and I become complacent or weary. I
                                              translation committee to help guide the
Daughters and the distance you are                                                         of Galatians was written by Paul. In           begin to lose heart and think, “what am
                                              translation process.
willing to travel to do so.                                                                this book of letters, Paul proclaims the       I doing?”
                                                While we are on the subject of             reality of our liberty in Christ, freedom
  Have you read a good book lately                                                                                                          It is discouraging to continue to do right
                                              translating our literature, are you          from the law and the power of sin, and
or taken part in a book study in                                                                                                          and see no tangible results or receive any
                                              experienced in reading books for the         freedom to serve our living God.
your chapter that has moved you                                                                                                           word of thanks. But Paul challenges us to
                                              blind or are you willing to learn? How
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FROM THE WORSHIP AND DEVOTIONS CHAIR CONTINUED                                                                     FROM THE TRIENNIAL CHAIR
                                                                                                                                    By Janet Papa

keep doing good and to trust God for the
results. In due time (in God’s time) we will                                                  What the Triennial Theme Means to Me
receive a harvest of blessings.
                                                     Oh, I refuse

                                                                                                                        O
   There is a song written by Josh                                                                                            NE DAY          God’s grace gives everyone a right to
Wilson called “I Refuse.” I encourage
you to watch the video on YouTube.
                                               to sit around and wait                                                         WHILE
                                                                                                                              praying,
                                                                                                                                            a place at God’s table. If we truly grasp
                                                                                                                                            the significance of the covenant of
Josh uses scripture from Matthew 25:
31-40 as inspiration for this song. The
                                                  for someone else                                                            the words
                                                                                                                              “Come to
                                                                                                                                            grace, we won’t hesitate to come to God’s
                                                                                                                                            table. We have a covenant, so we must
verses are about the “Final Judgment,”
where Jesus tells the righteous that            to do what God has                                                      the table” kept
                                                                                                                        popping into
                                                                                                                                            stop thinking about being unworthy
                                                                                                                                            and take a heaping helping of the grace
                                                                                                                        my mind as          that belongs to us. God has prepared a
                                               called me to do myself
when they fed, clothed, gave drink to
someone, or visited those in prison,                                                                                    the theme for       banquet full of abundant blessings for
                                                                                                                        Triennial 2021.     us at His table. However, those blessings
                                                 Oh, I could choose
they were doing it to Him. To me,
Matthew’s scripture is related to                                                                                       Then one day        won’t just fall in our laps. We must be
                                                                                             I heard a song titled “Come to the Table”      willing – as well as obedient – if we’re to
Galatians in that, if we take care of each
other and do the next right thing, our               Not to move                             by the Sidewalk Prophets. I took this as a
                                                                                             sign that, yes, “Come to the Table” should
                                                                                                                                            savor the best from God’s table.
blessings will come in God’s time. Josh                                                                                                       Whatever the demand or difficulty we
sings about “losing heart” and “acting             BUT I REFUSE                              be the Triennial 2021 theme.
                                                                                               There are many references in the
                                                                                                                                            face today, we can come, feast freely at
                                                                                                                                            God’s table and experience His strength,
like everyone’s alright.” We are always
called to prayer, but weary prayer can                                                       Bible about “table,” but the one reference     provision and victory over every
                                                                                             that kept speaking to me while reading         circumstance. He invites us to come and
cause us to have empty prayer. So, as
                                                                                             Scripture was Luke 13:29. “And people          dine with Him at the table He’s prepared
the song rings out,                            one day I told myself, “Stop today and        will come from east and west, and from         just for us. Remember that grace, healing,
  But I refuse,                                talk to him.” So of course, he’s on the       north and south, and recline at table in       peace and abundance are also offered to
                                               other side of the street that day. I’m        the kingdom of God.” Every three years         us at God’s table.
  Cause I don’t wanna live like I don’t
                                               sorry to say I said to myself, “Oh well,      Daughters are invited to come together           Jesus Christ is the same yesterday,
  care
                                               I’ll just stop tomorrow,” and I did not       from all over the world, to come together      today and forever, and He always serves
  I don’t wanna say another empty              turn around. He wasn’t there the next         for worship, praise, teachings, healing        a blessing to anyone who takes her seat
  prayer                                       two days, and I thought, “I should have       and fellowship; but best of all, we come       at His table and receives from His faithful
  Oh, I refuse                                 turned around that day. Shame on me!”         together to partake of communion at            love. “Blessed is the one who will eat at
                                               Finally, on the third day, he was back        the Lord’s table. I want to share the feast    the feast in the kingdom of God.” Luke
  to sit around and wait for someone else                                                    now with all of you, so I invite you all
                                               at his spot. I stopped. He was happy to                                                      14:15. His desire for us is to partake of all
  to do what God has called me to do           have the scarf. I learned his name was        to come to the table. Remember, we all         that He has set before us. It’s time to take
  myself                                       Butch and that he’s really nice. I tell you   have a place at God’s table and now you        our place at the table.
                                               this story to show just how easy it is to     know you’re invited, you can take your
  Oh, I could choose Not to move                                                             seat with me and feast on the banquet of         He also invites us to come and dine
                                               grow weary, to think what you do won’t                                                       with Him at our Triennial 2021. At that
  BUT I REFUSE                                                                               blessings He has set before us.
                                               matter; it takes no time at all. My prayer                                                   table, a place will be set for each of us.
  As a personal service project, I’ve          for each of you is that your passion for        What’s on the menu at God’s table?           Daughters will come from the east and
made scarves to give to someone who            our Lord keeps you strong and that            We’ll find an answer to every need, the        west, north and south to take their places
looks in need of it. I attach a little money   you never grow weary. If you should,          fulfillment of every desire, and a helping     at the table. Come, join us as we discover
                                               remember to put your trust in Jesus           of every good thing – in short, we’ll find     the pleasures found in the presence of
to the scarf – just enough to buy a burger
                                                                                             the blessing of the Lord. When we take         God that leaves us not only satisfied but
or something to drink. Now, every              Christ, because YOU have been set free.
                                                                                             our places at the table of God, His menu       also changed, renewed and refreshed.
day on my way home from work, I see            You are free to serve Him as he desires.
                                                                                             includes helpings of grace, healing, peace     Come to Baltimore June 23-27, 2021, at
the same homeless gentleman. Every             He delights in His people’s deeds. And        and abundance – all for us to “taste and
day he stands in the same place. So,           all the people said, AMEN!                                                                   the Hyatt Regency Baltimore Hotel for a
                                                                                             see that the Lord is good.” Psalm 34:8         celebration at God’s table.
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FROM THE ARCHIVES CHAIR                                       Townsend Birney, of Washington D.C.,
                                                                                       who had been a member since 1891. (See
                                     By Grace Sears
                                                                                       “Lift High the Cross,” our Centennial

       The 1893 Direct Mail Campaign
                                                                                       History.) The issue includes the
                                                                                       program, the preachers, the reports and
                                                                                       the Council members in 1925.
                                                                                         Miss Ryerson, whose address is listed
                                                                                       at the end of the appeal, was a member
                                                                                       of the Alpha Chapter, and served as
                                                                                       National Secretary and Royal Cross
                                                                                       editor for about 15 years. She would
                                                                                       have known how The Order chose its
                                                                                       name and probably wrote the text of the
                                                                                       postcard. She summarizes The Order as
                                                                                       “religious, distinctively Churchly [what
                                                                                       does that mean?], loyal to the Rector, and
                                                                                       intended to give the best expression of
                                                                                       the Christian life.”
                                                                                         At the bottom, the wording of the first
                                                                                       rule of The Order is close to the vow
                                                                                       we take today. The original second
                                                                                       rule, however, is a bit shocking to our

                                                                                          At the bottom, the                        Reverse of the postcard: Notice the cross
                                                                                                                                    on this 1893 postcard – recognizably the

                        O                                                              wording of the first rule
                              N              King’s Daughters and Sons), announces                                                  earliest style. Each bar has sharp points,
                              SEPTEMBER      the forthcoming convention, and asks                                                   the letters “FHS” are straight up and
                              5, 1892 or
                              1893, the
                                             Reverend Pendleton to consider forming
                                             a chapter in his church.
                                                                                        of The Order is close                       down, and the Latin letters are arranged
                                                                                                                                    horizontally, without sweeping up into the

                                                                                          to the vow we take
                                                                                                                                    vertical bar.
                       Daughters of the        We are indebted to the Reverend
                       King mailed a                                                                                                sensibilities. Which of us even tries to
                                                                                         today. The original
                                             Brother (Dom.) Thomas, OSB, of
                       postcard about        the Benedictine House of Initia                                                        bring an unchurched girl or woman to
                       The Order to the
                                                                                        second rule, however,
                                             Nova, Genesis Abbey, New York, for                                                     church every month, let alone every
                       Reverend R.E.         discovering this postcard and a 1925                                                   week? Yet this was the Daughters’
                       Pendleton, rector
                       of St. Clement’s
                                             Handbook, both advertised online.
                                             Brother Thomas gifted both the postcard   is a bit shocking to our                     original commitment to evangelism,
                                                                                                                                    very similar to that of the Brotherhood
                       in Brooklyn, New
York. That postcard is now part of a
                                             and the handbook to Nancy Shouse,
                                             a Daughter of the King who is also a
                                                                                        sensibilities. Which of                     of St. Andrew. Our second vow did
                                                                                                                                    not survive in this form, but we still
                                                                                        us even tries to bring
wall display in the Victoria Scott Gary      Benedictine of Initia Nova. To our                                                     commit ourselves to Prayer, Service,
Archives Room at the National Office.        delight, she chose to pass on both of                                                  and Evangelism. Each of these spiritual
Since the postcard was printed, not
handwritten or typed, it is fair to assume
                                             these archival items to the Margaret J.
                                             Franklin Center, where our Archives are
                                                                                        an unchurched girl or                       disciplines can connect to and reinforce
                                                                                                                                    the others in a continuous loop, with the
that the Daughters printed many of these
postcards for a direct mail campaign
                                             housed.                                   woman to church every                        goal of spreading Christ’s kingdom. That
                                                                                                                                    goal was set by the Alpha Chapter and
targeting clergy. The card describes
The Order, distinguishes it from the
                                               The fragile 1925 Handbook describes
                                             the 17th Convention of The Order,             month, let alone                         the first Council, even before the first
                                                                                                                                    Convention—and this postcard is the
non-denominational “King’s Daughters”
(which became the International Order of
                                             held in New Orleans, October 6-12. It
                                             was led by our fifth president, Helen            every week?                           proof!

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FROM THE BYLAWS CHAIR                                                                                          Bylaws. The Bylaws forum on the
                                       By Jane Searcy                                          The Handbook is the                       national website is open for questions,
                                                                                                                                         concerns and proposals. A review of the
                                                                                                largest part of the
              Looking for a Good Read?
                                                                                                                                         questions, concerns and proposals will
                                                                                                                                         take place during the National Council
                                                                                              publication. It contains                   Meeting in November 2020. The forum
                                                                                                                                         will continue to be open even after that
                                                                                                 the practices and
                       M
                              AY I             amendments:                                                                               date. During Spring 2021 proposed
                              RECOMMEND           • After the National Convention of
                                                                                             instructions for how The
                                                                                                                                         amendments will be recommended by
                              “The                  The Order (Triennial), the Bylaws                                                    the Bylaws Committee and passed on
                                                                                             Order works – the who,
                              National              Committee submits the newly                                                          to the Executive Board and National
                        Handbook and                approved Bylaws for publication.                                                     Council for final approval.
                        Bylaws of The
                        Order of the              • Throughout the subsequent                 what, when, where and                        Final proposed amendments to the
                                                                                                                                         National Bylaws will be published via
                                                                                             why. The smaller section
                        Daughters of the            triennium, questions and/or
                        King®,” particularly        concerns regarding the operation of                                                  Cross+Links and The Royal Cross in

                                                                                             of the book contains the
                        the section on              The Order and its rules are brought                                                  Spring 2021. Amendments will be voted
                        Bylaws. You won’t           to the attention of National Council                                                 on and approved, or not, by delegates to
find this one on the “Best-Seller List,” on
e-books, or even on the shelf at your local
                                                    members and forwarded to the
                                                    Bylaws Committee for review. Any
                                                                                              Bylaws - the operating                     the National Convention (Triennial 2021).
                                                                                                                                         Then, for the next three years, those will
bookstore. It’s not a particularly exciting         Daughter in good standing may
                                                    bring a concern or proposed change
                                                                                                rules by which The                       be the rules by which we operate.
read – no page-turner – and it’s not                                                                                                       So, take a little time now. Read that short
guaranteed to keep you up late at night             to National Council members for             Order is regulated.                      book. And be an informed participant in
because you can’t put it down. It’s, more           consideration. An open forum is                                                      making the rules of our Order.
or less, a reference book that’s issued to          available online via The Order of the
each Daughter upon her admission to                 Daughters of the King® website. A
The Order. It is very informative. On               letter can also be mailed, or emailed,                          A LOOK BACK AT HISTORY
your bookshelf look for the book whose              to the Bylaws Committee in care of
cover is blue in color, with silver writing         the National Office.
on the front, back and spine. The emblem
of The Order appears on both the front
                                                  • All questions and proposals are
                                                    reviewed and responded to by the                     #dokthrowbackthursday
and back of the book. The current edition           Bylaws Committee. The Committee

                                                                                             N
includes the Bylaws approved in 2018 at             decides which proposals should be            OTE: EVERY WEEK an inspiring tidbit of The Order’s history is being shared
the National Convention (Triennial) in              forwarded to the Executive Board of          on our social media accounts at #dokthrowbackthursday. Knowing that not all
Austin, Texas.                                      the National Council for the Board’s         Daughters have access to social media, the favorite tidbits will also be shared in
   The book is divided into two sections            approval to refer the proposal to the        this recurring column of The Royal Cross.
– the Handbook and the Bylaws. The                  National Council for a final decision
                                                                                                                                                   A historical video from 1955
Handbook is the largest part of the                 on which amendments to the Bylaws
                                                                                                                                                shows the work and ministry
publication. It contains the practices              should be brought for consideration
                                                                                                                                                of the chapter at St. Thaddeus
and instructions for how The Order                  at the National Convention
                                                                                                                                                Church in Aiken, South Carolina.
works – the who, what, when, where and              (Triennial 2021) in Baltimore. The
                                                                                                                                                The video was originally on 16mm
why. The smaller section of the book                elected delegates at the National
                                                                                                                                                film with magnetic sound and
contains the Bylaws - the operating rules           Convention will vote on, to approve
                                                                                                                                                could be played on a No. 202 Bell
by which The Order is regulated. For this           or reject, the proposed amendments.
                                                                                                                                                and Howell Projector. Now, it is
recommended read, just concentrate on               Then the process begins again for
                                                                                                                                                available to us on YouTube. This
the Bylaws.                                         the next triennium.
                                                                                                                                                is a fascinating look into our past!
  This is the process by which the               The Bylaws Committee for Triennium
                                                                                                                                                https://www.youtube.com/
Bylaws are adopted and reviewed for            2018-2021 is currently reviewing the
                                                                                                                                                watch?v=HzUXnjPs-5c
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A LOOK BACK AT HISTORY CONTINUED                                                           FROM THE MEMBERSHIP CHAIR
                                                                                                                             By Kathy Paulo

  Next, we take a look at a special poem, “For His Sake,” written by J.M. in 1894,
printed in Trinity Tide, and dedicated to Daughters in the Diocesan Assembly of
New York.
                                                                                              Spring: A Time of New Growth
                                                                                                                S
  JESUS CHRIST, my King and Saviour,          Bless the Daughters of the King,                                        PRING IS       on ways to invite new members to your
  I would bear Thy cross;                     One in heart and mind;                                                  IN THE         chapter. The class for preparation for
  Spread abroad its rays of glory,            Bless our Order, grant Thy peace                                        AIR! The       membership can also provide a renewal
  Circulate its blessed story;                In our parish may not cease;                                            bears and      for Daughters who wish to go through
  For Thy sake.                               For Thy sake.                                                           those of       the study again. We sometimes see
                                                                                                                us in colder         things missed the first time and the
  Thou hast brought me life and favor,        Upon him Thou hast ordained                                       climates are         review reinforces our knowledge and
  Dare I selfish be?                          O’er our souls to watch,                                          coming out of        commitment to The Order. I have found
  Nay, I gladly offer Thee,                   May Thy Holy Spirit lighten,                                      hibernation.         the best classes are the ones attended
  Hearty service, earnest, free:              All his work and hopes to brighten:                                                    by seasoned members as well as
  For Thy sake.                               For Thy sake.                                                       Most of my
                                                                                                               life has been         prospective members. These Daughters
                                                                                                               spent in a part       are able to share their faith journey and
  Many of Thy flock are straying              May all faithful ones who serve Thee
                                                                                                               of the country        sometimes answer unspoken questions.
  Far beyond the fold;                        In Thy Church below;
                                                                                     where the seasons change dramatically.          Some chapters go through the study
  May I strive to win them back,              When they see Thy throne above,
                                                                                     Winter seems to linger way too long,            together during their regular chapter
  Pointing out the homeward track:            Reap the fruits of constant love:
                                                                                     and there are times when I wonder if my         meetings but most hold classes outside
  For Thy sake.                               For Thy sake.
                                                                                     favorite season, spring, will ever come. If     the regular chapter meeting. The study
  Day by day my prayers arise                                                        I were a poet, I could dwell on the many        sessions are meant to be done in a group
  With untiring zeal;                                                                metaphors of winter and the promise of          setting to facilitate sharing, answer
  Not a sentence lost will be                                                        spring. What I do know is the promise           questions, and develop community. No
  As I lift them up to Thee:                                                         of spring is always kept. Life in nature is     prospective member should be given a
  For Thy sake.                                                                      renewed as flowers and new leaves begin         book and left to study alone.
                                                                                     to grow.                                          The study is not to be rushed and a
                                                                                       New growth is essential to the                prospective member should be given
  The first photo published in The
                                                                                     continuation of life in nature, in our lives,   ample time to develop her Rule of Life
Royal Cross magazine is of the Na-                                                                                                   and learn the duties and responsibilities
tional President at that time, Mrs.                                                  and in our chapters.
                                                                                                                                     that come with membership in The
E. A Bradley. It appeared in 1897, in                                                  In our lives and in nature, the old           Order. Only after the required three-
Volume II, Issue VII.                                                                becomes tired, worn-out; some dry up and        month period of discernment and
                                                                                     die. We cannot wait for someone to bring        completion of the study should a woman
                                                                                     us new flowers; we must plant our own.          be asked to decide whether or not to take
                                                                                       Like new flowers in our lives, the            her vows.
                                                                                     addition of new members can also                  We must remember the growth is
                                                                                     refresh our chapter life. When we add           God’s but we are to scatter the seeds …
                                                                                     new members to our chapters, not only           the Good News.
                                                                                     are we enjoying the fresh flowers now,
                                                                                     but we are planting for tomorrow. Some            Let your roots grow down into him, and
                                                                                     long-established chapters become very           let your lives be built on him. Then your
                                                                                     comfortable with “how it has always been        faith will grow strong in the truth you
                                                                                     done” and thus become stagnant and              were taught, and you will overflow with
                                                                                     closed to any new ideas. Bringing in new        thankfulness. Colossians 2:7
                                                                                     members helps us see chapter life through         Make your tent larger, stretch your
                                                                                     fresh eyes and provides a pool from which       tent curtains farther out! Spare no effort,
                                                                                     to develop and grow new leaders.                lengthen your ropes, and pound your
                                                                                       The Chapter Manual has suggestions            stakes deep. Isaiah 54:2
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FROM A GUEST AUTHOR
                    By Dona Ace, President, Diocesan Assembly of the Rio Grande

    Technology During the Pandemic
D
      URING MY RECENT staycation,                    Cathy Conn, chapter president (St.
      among other worthwhile                       Chad’s Episcopal Church, Albuquerque,
      activities, I worshiped at the               New Mexico) scheduled their chapter
      Washington National Cathedral                meeting using a software app that
online and noticed the organist had                allows users to meet online in a live
placed his cell phone nearby on the                setting, with video as well as audio
organ. I smiled when I saw it. It’s always         capabilities. Cathy was the host and
been my hope that our digital tools                all other participants joined the host
would create connections, not cause                as interactive participants just like a
us to be apart from each other in our              regular meeting. All participants could
own little world. Today’s tenuous time             see and hear each other as Cathy led
has provided a chance to make that                 the discussions needed for the business
happen. As technology has evolved, we
have spent years using those gadgets
and programs that mostly seemed to
push us apart; however, the coronavirus
crisis is showing us that the Internet
and modern technology are capable
of pulling us all together to meet, to
see, and to hear each other in a most
meaningful way!
                                                                                               Thanks to technology, Daughters from around the country have been able to stay
   We are seeing an explosion of                                                               connected and worship together.
creativity as people use technology as a
bridge across physical distances. There
is no need for physical social distancing                                                      meeting, the daily prayer list, and future
if a software application is being used
to organize Daughters meetings, to
                                                                                               service projects. “Our Daughters were
                                                                                               all missing each other, so this was              How fortunate we
support those who are alone, and to
bring a glimmer of familiarity, hope and
                                                                                               such a meaningful way to keep us all
                                                                                               connected and not feel so isolated!”            are that people are
love to our lives.                                                                             Cathy exclaimed. Daughters who were
                                                                                               apprehensive about this tool before the       finding ways to move
                                                                                                                                            their real-world support
  Two of the The Order’s chapters                                                              meeting praised it afterwards.
in our diocese recently did just that!
Candace Fitch, chapter president, (St.                                                           How fortunate we are that people
Andrew’s Episcopal Church, Las Cruces,                                                         are finding ways to move their real-
                                                                                               world support systems online during
                                                                                                                                             systems online during
New Mexico) organized their monthly
meeting through email attachments.                                                             this period of social isolation. The fact
                                                                                               that I had the opportunity to converse
                                                                                                                                               this period of social
Then she held the meeting at the usual
time using group texting. Daughters who                                                        and view the Daughters live at our
                                                                                               recent meeting and worship live at the
                                                                                                                                              isolation. Having the
weren’t able to text were encouraged to
email Candace. Candace said everyone                                                           National Cathedral is amazing! And I
                                                                                               am glad the organist laid his cell phone
                                                                                                                                            opportunity to converse
proceeded through the agenda items
easily. She added, “We’ll hold the next            Cathy Conn, chapter president scheduled
                                                   their chapter meeting using a software
                                                                                               on the organ so I could be reminded
                                                                                               of how wonderful it has been to have
                                                                                                                                            and view the Daughters
meeting the same way; we will not even
know that we’ve been apart.”                       app that allows users to meet online in a
                                                   live setting.
                                                                                               technology as my friend during the
                                                                                               COVID-19 crisis.
                                                                                                                                                 live is amazing.
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The Order of The                                                                                                                  dwindling membership.
                                                                                                                                        In recent years, the Brotherhood of St.
                                                                                                                                      Andrew and The Order of the Daughters

 Daughters of the King®                                                                                                               of the King® have worked on revitalizing
                                                                                                                                      their respective ministries. Now they
                                                                                                                                      are renewing their relationship with

  and The Brotherhood                                                                                                                 each other as well.
                                                                                                                                        Jeff Butcher, national president of the

   of St. Andrew Renew
                                                                                                                                      Brotherhood of St. Andrew, says that
                                                                                                                                      after achieving financial stability and
                                                                                                                                      working on their vision and mission for

100-Year-Old Partnership                                                                                                              the future, the Brotherhood is relevant
                                                                                                                                      to men and the church once again. “We
                                                                                                                                      are ready to tackle the challenges we
                                                                                                                                      have before us, working side by side
                                                                                                                                      with our sisters in the Daughters of the
                                                                                                                                      King, and we are ready to take our place
                                                                                                                                      in the Jesus Movement full throttle,”
                                                                                                                                      Butcher says.

                                                                                       Jeff Butcher serves as the national              Krisita Jackson, national president of
                                                                                       president of the Brotherhood of St.            The Order of the Daughters of the King®,

        Shared History, Shared Future                                                  Andrew.                                        says the rekindled friendship came
                                                                                                                                      about after The Order’s Strategic Plan,

A
                                                                                                                                      unveiled at the 2018 Triennial, came
        As Presiding Bishop Michael         King® was founded just two years                                                          to the attention of the Brotherhood’s
      Curry encourages Episcopalians        later, with the mission of spreading the                                                  senior vice president, Jack Hanstein,
      to follow the Way of Love, two        Kingdom of Christ among women and                                                         whose wife is a Daughter.
      of the oldest organizations           girls. Members of The Order follow
      in the Episcopal Church are           a Rule of Life to support a lifelong                                                         The two organizations are looking
working together                                                  program of prayer,                                                  forward to working together on two
                                                                                                                                      initiatives over the next few months.
                           With similar missions
to renew the spirit                                               service, and
in The Episcopal                                                  evangelism.                                                         One is the Brotherhood’s National
Church, Anglican                                                                                                                      Day of Service. Butcher and Jackson
Communion, and            and similar histories, it                With similar
                                                                 missions and
                                                                                                                                      envision neighboring chapters working
beyond.                                                                                                                               together with clergy to decide on a
                         is no surprise that they
                                                                 similar histories                                                    service project to carry out that day, and
  Founded in 1883,                                               (both started as                                                     gathering together to pray and reflect on
the Brotherhood                                                  Sunday School
of St. Andrew’s         had a close relationship                 classes), it is no
                                                                                                                                      the experience afterward. The second
                                                                                                                                      is the National Day of Prayer on May
mission is to                                                    surprise that
                        for more than a century.
                                                                                                                                      7, where they plan to collaborate on
bring men and                                                    they had a close                                                     shared liturgies and prayer vigils.
youth to Jesus                                                   relationship
Christ. Members                                                  for more than a                                                        The Brotherhood and The Order
of the Brotherhood follow a threefold       century. At the beginning of the 21st                                                     are also envisioning shared regional
discipline of prayer, study, and service.   century, they drifted apart, as both       Krisita Jackson is the national president of
                                                                                                                                      workshops and service projects. There
                                            organizations—like the wider church—       The Order of the Daughters of the King®.       are plans for a shared presence at the
  The Order of the Daughters of the                                                                                                   Episcopal Church’s General Convention
                                            struggled with aging populations and
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in 2021, including a co-sponsored 12-                                                                                           IN MEMORIAM
step recovery Eucharist.
   Both groups are grounded in prayer
and dedicated to service. Evangelism
is core to both organizations, with
                                                                                                                    Cynthia Matthews
their early documents using the same
language, stating that members should
“make an earnest effort each week                                                                                              N THE          After she retired from teaching, she found
                                                                                                                               CLOSING        a part-time job as a web-design assistant
to bring at least one” man or woman
                                                                                                                            CHAPTER           in a friend’s business. Skills developed
“within the hearing of the Gospel of                                                                                      OF HER              there helped her convert the Province
Jesus Christ.”                                                                                                        LIFE, Cynthia           IV Messenger into an online publication
  In 1886, the Brotherhood sponsored                                                                                  Matthews                and to edit The Order’s monthly online
                                                                                                                      brought her             newsletter, Cross+Links.
a resolution to General Convention to
                                                                                                                      enthusiasm,               When Cynthia and Bill decided to
sanction the formation of The Order.                                                                                  skills, intelligence,
The two groups often coordinated                                                                                                              move to Kentucky, Cynthia obtained a
                                                                                                                      and a gift for          teaching scholarship at the University
their presence at General Convention,                                                                                 evangelism to           of Kentucky on the basis of her research
hosting display tables, prayer vigils,                                                                                The Order of the        on “invisible disability.” She herself had
and Eucharists together. Leaders                                                                                      Daughters of the        such a disability – her lifelong struggle
regularly visited each other’s triennial                                                 King®, serving first as Lexington Diocesan           with asthma, sometimes triggering attacks
                                           In celebration of The Order’s 70th            Assembly President (2015-2018) and then
conventions as well; on the occasion of    anniversary, the Brotherhood presented                                                             severe enough to put her in the hospital.
                                                                                         on the National Council as Communications            She had completed all but her dissertation
The Order’s 70th birthday in 1955, the     this cake to The Order.                       Oversight Chair and editor of Cross+Links,
Brotherhood provided a magnificent                                                                                                            when she set her studies aside to care for
                                                                                         starting in 2018.                                    her mother.
cake! There are also many stories of
                                           Monica Burden: mburden@doknational.             Cynthia was born in Florida and baptized              In Lexington, she and Bill joined Good
local chapters working together in                                                       in a Disciples of Christ church at age eight,
                                           org or Gary Allman: communications@                                                                Shepherd Episcopal Church. As Cynthia
ministry together.                                                                       then confirmed in an Episcopal church.
                                           brothersandrew.net                                                                                 became active in church activities
  In the 1970s, the Brotherhood and                                                      She majored in Interior Design at the                (including a weekly class in Greek) she
                                             The Order of the Daughters of the           University of North Carolina and later
The Order, along with several other                                                                                                           discovered The Order of the Daughters of
                                           King® is an order for women and girls         worked in interior design both in North              the King® and took her vows. Daughters
faith groups, gathered together to
                                           whose mission is to extend Christ’s           Carolina and in New Mexico. When she                 were there for her when Bill passed away
form an umbrella organization called                                                     married the love of her life, Bill Matthews,
                                           kingdom through prayer, service, and                                                               in 2012. Three years later Cynthia was
Pewsaction (Prayer – Evangelism –                                                        she converted to the Roman Catholic
                                           evangelism. Members take a public vow                                                              elected Diocesan Assembly President.
Witness – Service – Study). The group                                                    Church. Their two children, John Matthews
                                           to follow a personalized Rule of Life,                                                             She noticed that her chapter was about to
eventually grew to encompass some 22                                                     and Elizabeth M. Henrich, were raised in             celebrate its 50th anniversary, at the same
                                           including a commitment to daily prayer        the Catholic Church, and Bill and Cynthia
organizations and held many successful                                                                                                        time the Diocesan Assembly would have its
                                           and service. Membership currently             became active in the charismatic renewal.
evangelism conferences throughout the                                                                                                         40th anniversary. With her leadership, both
                                           includes women in the Anglican,               While they lived in Roswell, New Mexico,
1970s and ‘80s.                                                                                                                               milestones were celebrated in grand style
                                           Episcopal, Lutheran (ELCA) and Roman          Cynthia served as Director of Liturgy at St.         at Good Shepherd in the spring of 2017.
  Both Butcher and Jackson view            Catholic churches. www.doknational.org        Peter’s Church there.
working together as a natural way to                                                                                                            After being elected to the National
                                             The Brotherhood of St. Andrew has been        Her interest in the arts and ability to            Council at Triennial 2018, Cynthia was
boost their membership and expand                                                        organize led her to volunteer with the
                                           bringing men and youth to Jesus Christ                                                             asked to edit Cross+Links and serve as
the impact of their service projects.                                                    Albuquerque Opera Association, the New               Communications Oversight Chair. She
                                           since its founding in 1883. Today, the        Mexico Arts and Crafts Fair, the Roswell
“The harvest is huge and we need all                                                                                                          loved the work and The Order’s mission.
                                           Brotherhood is a worldwide ministry with      Symphony, the Las Cruces Symphony,
the laborers we can get in the fields,”                                                                                                       Her death came unexpectedly after a battle
                                           chapters in Africa, Japan, the Philippines,   and the University of Kentucky Dance
says Jackson, “Any way that we can find                                                                                                       with severe pneumonia. We give thanks
                                           Great Britain, Canada, Haiti, and the         Ensemble. As her interests shifted,                  for the time we shared with her and for her
to work together, to serve together, we                                                  she acquired an MA in Interpersonal
                                           United States. The Brothers follow the                                                             joy in spreading Christ’s kingdom. We trust
need to be addressing together.”                                                         Communication at New Mexico State
                                           three key disciplines of prayer, study, and                                                        she now dwells in the light of Christ among
  For additional information, contact      service. www.brothersandrew.net               University and began teaching courses                the saints in glory.
                                                                                         in public speaking and communication.
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Let Us Pray
        A Prayer for
        Compassion
                                                      A Prayer for a
                                                        Pandemic
                                                              by Cameron Bellm
                                                                                                 Let us pray together Psalm 91 as we
                                                                                                 safely abide in the presence of God.                                    (NIV Version)
  O God of compassion, giver of life and         May we who are merely inconvenienced
  health, we pray your healing mercies          remember those whose lives are at stake.         1.   Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the
  upon all who are in any way affected                                                                Almighty.
    by the outbreak of the COVID-19                  May we who have no risk factors
 coronavirus. Comfort and sustain those             remember those most vulnerable.              2.   I will say of the LORD, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I
  who have been stricken; relieve their                                                               trust.”
                                                 May we who have the luxury of working
  pain, and restore to them your gifts of                                                        3.   Surely he will save you from the fowler’s snare and from the deadly
                                                             from home
                                                                                                      pestilence.
                                                  remember those who must choose
   Comfort and sustain                            between preserving their health or
                                                          making their rent.
                                                                                                 4.   He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge;
                                                                                                      his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.
  those who have been                           May we who have the flexibility to care for
                                                                                                 5.   You will not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day,
   stricken; relieve their                       our children when their schools close           6.   nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at

   pain, and restore to
                                                 remember those children who will go                  midday.
                                                     hungry with no school meals.                7.   A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will
    them your gifts of                             May we who have to cancel our trips
                                                                                                      not come near you.

  gladness and strength.                           remember those with no place to go.           8.   You will only observe with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked.
                                                                                                 9.   If you say, “The LORD is my refuge,” and you make the Most High your
                                                May we who are losing our margin money in
                                                                                                      dwelling,
    gladness and strength. Grant to all in         the tumult of the economic market
     authority the courage to make wise         remember those who have no margin at all.        10. no harm will overtake you, no disaster will come near your tent.
     decisions that are essential for the                                                        11. For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways;
                                                May we who settle in for quarantine at home
   common good, and strengthen them to
                                                  remember those who have no home.               12. they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against
lead institutions that care for those whom
                                                                                                     a stone.
they serve. Watch over all first responders     As fear grips our country, let us choose love.
    and those in the medical professions                                                         13. You will tread on the lion and the cobra; you will trample the great lion and
 whose duty it is to care for the sick; guard       During this time when we cannot                  the serpent.
them from all danger, and keep them safe         physically wrap our arms around each            14. “Because he loves me,” says the LORD, “I will rescue him; I will protect him,
  in the knowledge that it is through their     other let us yet find ways to be the loving          for he acknowledges my name.
sacrifice and service that the health of the        embrace of God to our neighbor.
                                                                                                 15. He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will
whole community is promoted. Mercifully
                                                Through Jesus Christ, whose arms of love             deliver him and honor him.
    accept these our prayers, O God of all
comfort, and our only help in time of need.                 embrace us all.                      16. With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.”
                  Amen.                                            Amen.
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A New Day
©Susan Keith March 21, 2020
                                                                       FROM THE INTERNATIONAL CHAIR

                                                     Uncertainty for Daughters Everywhere
                                                                                           By Lindy Krik

It is new day.
Based on the past few days
It could be a very different day.
Lately every day has been new and full of anxiety.
I know not what today will bring.
But whether it be more restrictions or less
Whether it bring hurt or fun,
Let me face it with head high.                       Daughters all over the world are suffering under the effects and threat of the new
                                                     coronavirus.
Let me face this day with courage

                                                                          I
                                                                               TALY,                travel anywhere on a full airplane and
Because I know                                                                 MEXICO,              pass through crowded airports. We are
                                                                               BRAZIL,              hoping, and planning, now to meet in
That no matter how dark it may seem                                            SPAIN AND            October 2020.
                                                                          GUATEMALA                    Just like us in the United States,
There is a light shining through it all.                                  – these are               Daughters all over the world are
                                                                          the countries             suffering under the effects and threat
The Light of Christ cannot be extinguished.                               featured in the           of the new coronavirus. Many of our
                                                                          International             overseas sisters do no have what we
The Lord God is faithful to us.                                           pages of this             have in the way of an adequate food
                                                                          edition. Our              supply and potable drinking water;
The Great Provider will feed us.                                          International             some even cannot get medicine in
                                                     sisters are spread out across the
All we need do is remain faithful in return.         world, and you can find them in Asia,
                                                                                                    this difficult time. Please add our
                                                                                                    International Daughters to your daily
                                                     Africa and the Caribbean as well as the
May I start this day with peace.                     countries mentioned here.
                                                                                                    prayers, Juniors and seniors alike.
                                                                                                    Pray for and support, if you can, the
May I carry light and life into it.                    Our International Regional Meeting,          relief organizations that send caring
                                                     planned to occur in March 2020 in the          Christians, money and water systems
May I share love throughout it.                      Dominican Republic, was postponed              around the world. Their charitable work
                                                     due to circumstances beyond our                is even more important now than ever.
May I remain faithful to my Saviour.                 control. It was not postponed because of          “Because he loves me,” says the LORD,
                                                     the new coronavirus but, a week later,         “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for
                                                     we were glad that we did not have to           he acknowledges my name.” Psalm 91:14
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