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Quarterly Magazine of The Order of the Daughters of the King® “And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.” Galatians 6:9 Volume 87, Issue 1 | Spring 2020
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Table Of Contents How To Contact the FROM THE PRESIDENT Let Us Not Grow Weary 3 National Office By Krisita Jackson Learning Not To Grow Weary Life At Large 4 5 Phone (770) 517-8552 Let Us Not Grow Weary What Will You Have Me Do? 6-7 A nd let us Assembly. She prepared an inspiring This is the Year! 7-8 Fax not grow devotion for every meeting and a What the Triennial Means to Me 9 weary blessing for our lunch. The other Dot (770) 517-8066 The 1893 Direct Mail Campaign 10-11 while became the first diocesan Outreach doing Chair of our Diocesan Assembly, Looking for a Good Read? 12-13 Email good, for in blazing a hard path for her successors #dokthrowbackthursday 13-14 DOK1885@doknational.org due season to follow. This Dot is a diminutive lady Spring: A Time of New Growth 15 we shall reap and at the time drove a canary-yellow if we do not souped-up Mustang GT. During those Technology During the Pandemic 16-17 Website lose heart. years, there was not a meeting or Shared History, Shared Future 18-20 www.doknational.org Galatians 6:9. event I attended in the diocese where In Memoriam: Cynthia Matthews 21 she was not present. Her leadership as Let Us Pray 22-23 Submitting News It is easy to lose heart with all the challenges Outreach Chair led to a record number The best way to submit news life puts in our paths. Most of us face of donations in support of that year’s A New Day 24 about your chapter, diocesan issues in more than one facet of our project. International Daughters assembly, or province is online at: lives, including in our church families. So, following the example they set, Uncertainty for Daughters Everywhere 25 http://www.doknational. Our own biological families sometimes weariness is not an option. My Dots, Eighth National Triennial of the org/?page=RoyalCross offer the biggest challenges. after what I’m sure are decades of Daughters of the King in Brazil 26-27 Fill in the form and at the bottom Sometimes, even in our chapters, service to our Lord, continue to serve. of the form you are requested to we strive to answer the call, “Lord, The benefits they reap are as much for Admission of new Daughters in Rome 28 upload your JPG picture. Make what would you have me do?” There the rest of us as themselves. If, in their The Order is Growing in Spain 28 sure you submit a high resolution are challenges to doing good without senior years, they are still giving and New Daughters in Chihuahua 29 (largest file) version of your digital growing weary. serving and doing with a joyful spirit, Diocesan Retreat in Mexico 29 color picture. We request JPG files Whenever I think of being weary, I I cannot be a wimp. So, when I think between 200KB and 3MB in size. easily recall women who, though they I don’t have the strength to travel to Daughters in Piedras Negras, Mexico 30 another meeting, or I don’t have the time You may want to write your article probably even now don’t know it, have All Saints Day in Guatemala 30 mentored me as Daughters. They to work on that project with my chapter, in a word processing program and or I cannot attend another Quiet Day, Junior Daughters then copy and paste it into the have been examples to me of how we must and can continue to do good – to or I cannot cook another potluck dish, We All Grow Weary Sometimes 31-32 “article text” section of the online or I am too tired to say my prayers – or form. serve – as long as we are able. Two Questions for Reflection 32 whatever, I think of my two Dots. women in particular encouraged me Juniors Visit Platoon Members 33 Next deadline: July 1, 2020 with their “doing good.” Both named I take heart and thank God for Candle Lighting Ceremony Conducted 33 for the Fall 2020 issue. Dorothy, they are my “Dots.” When, them – and many others who have led Service of Institution Held 33 as diocesan assembly president, I and still lead me by their example. formed a board, each Dot individually Galatians 6 continues in verse 10, Diaper Drive Held in DeLand, Florida 34 ON THE COVER approached me to say, “I want to do “Therefore, as we have opportunity, Word Search 35 Design by Mandy Wheeler something.” These sisters were both let us do good to all people, especially Around the Provinces ON THE INSIDE COVER in or approaching their 80s. Together, to those who belong to the family of The Prayer of The Order we invented jobs for them on the believers.” That is who we are as Spotlight Province VIII Assembly 36 spot. The first Dot became our first Daughters and who we should strive Around the Provinces 37-43 Devotions Chair of the Diocesan daily to be. 2 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 3
FROM THE NATIONAL CHAPLAIN FROM THE STRATEGIC PLAN COMMITTEE The Right Reverend Gregory O. Brewer By Carolyn Dustin Hoffman Learning Not to Grow Weary Life at Large: Reaching out to While Doing Good Daughters at Large Nationwide A L LIFE means being prepared ahead of time, IFE touch. Consider this … GROUNDED knowing that weariness will be inevitable HAS You continue to be a vital part of The IN without the right preparation. ITS Order and are surrounded by women ACTION So, how does one be prepared? HIGHS who need spiritual companionship, who with little and lows, 1. Pray through each task. Pray look forward to seeing your loving face, prayer always literally. about recruiting. Do you have the right to touching another heart that longs for results in Do you people? Pray for each person involved, more God. How do you continue to grow weariness. find including who should or should not spiritually and strengthen yourself for Weariness is yourself a symptom be on your team to accomplish what prayer and service? living at a of a life out is needed. Pray for God to provide You could write or email the National of balance. It whatever is necessary to get the job Office of The Order to mail you the crossroads on top of a mountain or at doesn’t mean done. This is God’s task, so ask for the newly printed booklet, “The Strategic the end of a valley? Been there, done we aren’t tired some of the time. But strength from God to do it. Plan Companion,” just completed in that. It’s beautiful there surrounded there is a distinctive difference between 2. Think through the task ahead of by nature, clean air. Your spirit gets Fall 2019. Its purpose is to “Reignite the good sort of tired when we know we time. Go through all the details. Make renewed by the beauty daily. Do you the Flame of The Order,” and it offers are accomplishing the mental space drive (if you still a shared vision of something and the necessary to can) 30 miles our Order. It takes sort of tired when we are just feeling Make the mental anticipate well. Encourage. Be to church? Are You are a member the Prayer of The you a country Order and spells out overwhelmed. space necessary to a fun person to Daughter at of The Order of the how we can live that work with. If you anticipate being well. Often the Large? prayer. prescription for feeling are operating under God’s Or do you live Daughters of the King® I urge you densely packed wherever you are overwhelmed is to analyze our “work/life balance.” Are you authority, then there is always space for a smile. God’s in a city, perhaps and you yearn for the to grow in wisdom, an apartment spirit and more sweet companionship getting enough rest? Are you building in got this! dweller? It’s so deeply into our space for “me time”? While these aren’t 3. Keep praying: before, after and much easier to Order. bad questions in and of themselves, I don’t believe they get to the heart of the during. Thank God for what you see that is positive. In everything by prayer go to the store of other Daughters. Also, I welcome there. You also your stories of Life matter. Unless you are ill, weariness does not come from mere physical and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. have libraries and churches close by. What are they at Large so our understanding of up to now? activity. The source of weariness is an Philippians 4:6 Still lonely? your situations might emotional weight, not a physical weight. Daughters are hard workers. It is way You are a grow and we can Weariness should be telling you too easy to grow weary in our work. member of more easily hold you something: telling you that you are Prayer provides strength and wisdom The Order of the Daughters of the in our hearts and prayers. Share them carrying too much on your own that allows us to work hard but in the King® and you yearn for the sweet by email to strategicplan@doknational. shoulders. To choose to “not grow strength that God provides. God’s got companionship of other Daughters. org or mail your written story to the weary while doing good” (Galatians 6:9), this! What are they up to now? You’re out of National Office. 4 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 5
FROM THE NATIONAL ENRICHMENT CHAIR nice it would be if our members with limited visual acuity could listen to The By Susan Keith Royal Cross being read to them. What Will You Have Me Do? Speaking of our literature, the Literature Committee needs Anglican, ELCA and Roman Catholic Daughters I DON’T to review our literature in order to KNOW make it more accessible to all our ABOUT denominations. We need prayers from century geek to step forward to help YOU, these denominations to use alongside us develop one or more APPs for our but I ask that the prayers from the Episcopal Book cellphones. The NEP has ideas for question every of Common Prayer that we most often a Daughters Prayer APP, a Triennial time I put on my use now. APP and more. If you would like to cross. I walk These are projects the National see a Daughters APP, but are not in a out the door Enrichment Program is working on position to help develop it, will you every morning currently. We are also exploring please inform the National Enrichment not knowing the possibility of producing our own Committee what you would like where I will be devotional literature, such as an included on that APP? called or what Advent or Lenten devotional booklet. Please email NationalEnrichment@ I will be asked to do. Today, I am called Would those of you who already write doknational.org to share your to share with you some of the many devotionals for other publications offer willingness to help or your ideas and ways The Order is calling Daughters and Read any good books lately? Please your talents to The Order? suggestions on any of the above- waiting for Daughters to respond. share that information via the NEP on the Daughter’s website. The NEP is also asking for a 21st- discussed items. Let me start with some of the easier calls. Are you a Spiritual Director? or enlightened you? Share that FROM THE WORSHIP AND DEVOTIONS CHAIR If so, then please visit the National information with other Daughters by By Denise Rox Enrichment Program’s (NEP) page on visiting the NEP page and submitting a the National website and register as a Spiritual Director. Share your gift of listening with recommendation of that book. If we get multiple recommendations of the same This is the Year! book, that’s even A your sisters. Have you The Order is calling better. Now on to some ND LET US NOT Every year we get all pumped up to do things like lose weight, stop bad habits, lead retreats, quiet days, or Daughters and waiting of the harder calls. Are you bilingual? GROW WEARY help others, or maybe jump on board learning something new. I know it is easy workshops? Are you interested in for Daughters Can you read and write in more than while doing good, for in due for me to tell myself, “This is the year!” Then something happens, life doing one? Then please visit the to respond. one language? Are you a linguist? We season we shall reap if we do happens, and I get pulled into too many NEP webpage directions. I begin to feel like I’m not need people to help not lose heart. doing good for anyone or anything. Or, and register as a us translate our literature. We could Galatians 6:9 leader/speaker. Tell us what topics if I’m not careful, the newness wears off use a couple of linguists to serve on the you are interested in presenting to The book and I become complacent or weary. I translation committee to help guide the Daughters and the distance you are of Galatians was written by Paul. In begin to lose heart and think, “what am translation process. willing to travel to do so. this book of letters, Paul proclaims the I doing?” While we are on the subject of reality of our liberty in Christ, freedom Have you read a good book lately It is discouraging to continue to do right translating our literature, are you from the law and the power of sin, and or taken part in a book study in and see no tangible results or receive any experienced in reading books for the freedom to serve our living God. your chapter that has moved you word of thanks. But Paul challenges us to blind or are you willing to learn? How 6 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 7
FROM THE WORSHIP AND DEVOTIONS CHAIR CONTINUED FROM THE TRIENNIAL CHAIR By Janet Papa keep doing good and to trust God for the results. In due time (in God’s time) we will What the Triennial Theme Means to Me receive a harvest of blessings. Oh, I refuse O There is a song written by Josh NE DAY God’s grace gives everyone a right to Wilson called “I Refuse.” I encourage you to watch the video on YouTube. to sit around and wait WHILE praying, a place at God’s table. If we truly grasp the significance of the covenant of Josh uses scripture from Matthew 25: 31-40 as inspiration for this song. The for someone else the words “Come to grace, we won’t hesitate to come to God’s table. We have a covenant, so we must verses are about the “Final Judgment,” where Jesus tells the righteous that to do what God has the table” kept popping into stop thinking about being unworthy and take a heaping helping of the grace my mind as that belongs to us. God has prepared a called me to do myself when they fed, clothed, gave drink to someone, or visited those in prison, the theme for banquet full of abundant blessings for Triennial 2021. us at His table. However, those blessings Oh, I could choose they were doing it to Him. To me, Matthew’s scripture is related to Then one day won’t just fall in our laps. We must be I heard a song titled “Come to the Table” willing – as well as obedient – if we’re to Galatians in that, if we take care of each other and do the next right thing, our Not to move by the Sidewalk Prophets. I took this as a sign that, yes, “Come to the Table” should savor the best from God’s table. blessings will come in God’s time. Josh Whatever the demand or difficulty we sings about “losing heart” and “acting BUT I REFUSE be the Triennial 2021 theme. There are many references in the face today, we can come, feast freely at God’s table and experience His strength, like everyone’s alright.” We are always called to prayer, but weary prayer can Bible about “table,” but the one reference provision and victory over every that kept speaking to me while reading circumstance. He invites us to come and cause us to have empty prayer. So, as Scripture was Luke 13:29. “And people dine with Him at the table He’s prepared the song rings out, one day I told myself, “Stop today and will come from east and west, and from just for us. Remember that grace, healing, But I refuse, talk to him.” So of course, he’s on the north and south, and recline at table in peace and abundance are also offered to other side of the street that day. I’m the kingdom of God.” Every three years us at God’s table. Cause I don’t wanna live like I don’t sorry to say I said to myself, “Oh well, Daughters are invited to come together Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, care I’ll just stop tomorrow,” and I did not from all over the world, to come together today and forever, and He always serves I don’t wanna say another empty turn around. He wasn’t there the next for worship, praise, teachings, healing a blessing to anyone who takes her seat prayer two days, and I thought, “I should have and fellowship; but best of all, we come at His table and receives from His faithful Oh, I refuse turned around that day. Shame on me!” together to partake of communion at love. “Blessed is the one who will eat at Finally, on the third day, he was back the Lord’s table. I want to share the feast the feast in the kingdom of God.” Luke to sit around and wait for someone else now with all of you, so I invite you all at his spot. I stopped. He was happy to 14:15. His desire for us is to partake of all to do what God has called me to do have the scarf. I learned his name was to come to the table. Remember, we all that He has set before us. It’s time to take myself Butch and that he’s really nice. I tell you have a place at God’s table and now you our place at the table. this story to show just how easy it is to know you’re invited, you can take your Oh, I could choose Not to move seat with me and feast on the banquet of He also invites us to come and dine grow weary, to think what you do won’t with Him at our Triennial 2021. At that BUT I REFUSE blessings He has set before us. matter; it takes no time at all. My prayer table, a place will be set for each of us. As a personal service project, I’ve for each of you is that your passion for What’s on the menu at God’s table? Daughters will come from the east and made scarves to give to someone who our Lord keeps you strong and that We’ll find an answer to every need, the west, north and south to take their places looks in need of it. I attach a little money you never grow weary. If you should, fulfillment of every desire, and a helping at the table. Come, join us as we discover remember to put your trust in Jesus of every good thing – in short, we’ll find the pleasures found in the presence of to the scarf – just enough to buy a burger the blessing of the Lord. When we take God that leaves us not only satisfied but or something to drink. Now, every Christ, because YOU have been set free. our places at the table of God, His menu also changed, renewed and refreshed. day on my way home from work, I see You are free to serve Him as he desires. includes helpings of grace, healing, peace Come to Baltimore June 23-27, 2021, at the same homeless gentleman. Every He delights in His people’s deeds. And and abundance – all for us to “taste and day he stands in the same place. So, all the people said, AMEN! the Hyatt Regency Baltimore Hotel for a see that the Lord is good.” Psalm 34:8 celebration at God’s table. 8 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 9
FROM THE ARCHIVES CHAIR Townsend Birney, of Washington D.C., who had been a member since 1891. (See By Grace Sears “Lift High the Cross,” our Centennial The 1893 Direct Mail Campaign History.) The issue includes the program, the preachers, the reports and the Council members in 1925. Miss Ryerson, whose address is listed at the end of the appeal, was a member of the Alpha Chapter, and served as National Secretary and Royal Cross editor for about 15 years. She would have known how The Order chose its name and probably wrote the text of the postcard. She summarizes The Order as “religious, distinctively Churchly [what does that mean?], loyal to the Rector, and intended to give the best expression of the Christian life.” At the bottom, the wording of the first rule of The Order is close to the vow we take today. The original second rule, however, is a bit shocking to our At the bottom, the Reverse of the postcard: Notice the cross on this 1893 postcard – recognizably the O wording of the first rule N King’s Daughters and Sons), announces earliest style. Each bar has sharp points, SEPTEMBER the forthcoming convention, and asks the letters “FHS” are straight up and 5, 1892 or 1893, the Reverend Pendleton to consider forming a chapter in his church. of The Order is close down, and the Latin letters are arranged horizontally, without sweeping up into the to the vow we take vertical bar. Daughters of the We are indebted to the Reverend King mailed a sensibilities. Which of us even tries to today. The original Brother (Dom.) Thomas, OSB, of postcard about the Benedictine House of Initia bring an unchurched girl or woman to The Order to the second rule, however, Nova, Genesis Abbey, New York, for church every month, let alone every Reverend R.E. discovering this postcard and a 1925 week? Yet this was the Daughters’ Pendleton, rector of St. Clement’s Handbook, both advertised online. Brother Thomas gifted both the postcard is a bit shocking to our original commitment to evangelism, very similar to that of the Brotherhood in Brooklyn, New York. That postcard is now part of a and the handbook to Nancy Shouse, a Daughter of the King who is also a sensibilities. Which of of St. Andrew. Our second vow did not survive in this form, but we still us even tries to bring wall display in the Victoria Scott Gary Benedictine of Initia Nova. To our commit ourselves to Prayer, Service, Archives Room at the National Office. delight, she chose to pass on both of and Evangelism. Each of these spiritual Since the postcard was printed, not handwritten or typed, it is fair to assume these archival items to the Margaret J. Franklin Center, where our Archives are an unchurched girl or disciplines can connect to and reinforce the others in a continuous loop, with the that the Daughters printed many of these postcards for a direct mail campaign housed. woman to church every goal of spreading Christ’s kingdom. That goal was set by the Alpha Chapter and targeting clergy. The card describes The Order, distinguishes it from the The fragile 1925 Handbook describes the 17th Convention of The Order, month, let alone the first Council, even before the first Convention—and this postcard is the non-denominational “King’s Daughters” (which became the International Order of held in New Orleans, October 6-12. It was led by our fifth president, Helen every week? proof! 10 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 11
FROM THE BYLAWS CHAIR Bylaws. The Bylaws forum on the By Jane Searcy The Handbook is the national website is open for questions, concerns and proposals. A review of the largest part of the Looking for a Good Read? questions, concerns and proposals will take place during the National Council publication. It contains Meeting in November 2020. The forum will continue to be open even after that the practices and M AY I amendments: date. During Spring 2021 proposed RECOMMEND • After the National Convention of instructions for how The amendments will be recommended by “The The Order (Triennial), the Bylaws the Bylaws Committee and passed on Order works – the who, National Committee submits the newly to the Executive Board and National Handbook and approved Bylaws for publication. Council for final approval. Bylaws of The Order of the • Throughout the subsequent what, when, where and Final proposed amendments to the National Bylaws will be published via why. The smaller section Daughters of the triennium, questions and/or King®,” particularly concerns regarding the operation of Cross+Links and The Royal Cross in of the book contains the the section on The Order and its rules are brought Spring 2021. Amendments will be voted Bylaws. You won’t to the attention of National Council on and approved, or not, by delegates to find this one on the “Best-Seller List,” on e-books, or even on the shelf at your local members and forwarded to the Bylaws Committee for review. Any Bylaws - the operating the National Convention (Triennial 2021). Then, for the next three years, those will bookstore. It’s not a particularly exciting Daughter in good standing may bring a concern or proposed change rules by which The be the rules by which we operate. read – no page-turner – and it’s not So, take a little time now. Read that short guaranteed to keep you up late at night to National Council members for Order is regulated. book. And be an informed participant in because you can’t put it down. It’s, more consideration. An open forum is making the rules of our Order. or less, a reference book that’s issued to available online via The Order of the each Daughter upon her admission to Daughters of the King® website. A The Order. It is very informative. On letter can also be mailed, or emailed, A LOOK BACK AT HISTORY your bookshelf look for the book whose to the Bylaws Committee in care of cover is blue in color, with silver writing the National Office. on the front, back and spine. The emblem of The Order appears on both the front • All questions and proposals are reviewed and responded to by the #dokthrowbackthursday and back of the book. The current edition Bylaws Committee. The Committee N includes the Bylaws approved in 2018 at decides which proposals should be OTE: EVERY WEEK an inspiring tidbit of The Order’s history is being shared the National Convention (Triennial) in forwarded to the Executive Board of on our social media accounts at #dokthrowbackthursday. Knowing that not all Austin, Texas. the National Council for the Board’s Daughters have access to social media, the favorite tidbits will also be shared in The book is divided into two sections approval to refer the proposal to the this recurring column of The Royal Cross. – the Handbook and the Bylaws. The National Council for a final decision A historical video from 1955 Handbook is the largest part of the on which amendments to the Bylaws shows the work and ministry publication. It contains the practices should be brought for consideration of the chapter at St. Thaddeus and instructions for how The Order at the National Convention Church in Aiken, South Carolina. works – the who, what, when, where and (Triennial 2021) in Baltimore. The The video was originally on 16mm why. The smaller section of the book elected delegates at the National film with magnetic sound and contains the Bylaws - the operating rules Convention will vote on, to approve could be played on a No. 202 Bell by which The Order is regulated. For this or reject, the proposed amendments. and Howell Projector. Now, it is recommended read, just concentrate on Then the process begins again for available to us on YouTube. This the Bylaws. the next triennium. is a fascinating look into our past! This is the process by which the The Bylaws Committee for Triennium https://www.youtube.com/ Bylaws are adopted and reviewed for 2018-2021 is currently reviewing the watch?v=HzUXnjPs-5c 12 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 13
A LOOK BACK AT HISTORY CONTINUED FROM THE MEMBERSHIP CHAIR By Kathy Paulo Next, we take a look at a special poem, “For His Sake,” written by J.M. in 1894, printed in Trinity Tide, and dedicated to Daughters in the Diocesan Assembly of New York. Spring: A Time of New Growth S JESUS CHRIST, my King and Saviour, Bless the Daughters of the King, PRING IS on ways to invite new members to your I would bear Thy cross; One in heart and mind; IN THE chapter. The class for preparation for Spread abroad its rays of glory, Bless our Order, grant Thy peace AIR! The membership can also provide a renewal Circulate its blessed story; In our parish may not cease; bears and for Daughters who wish to go through For Thy sake. For Thy sake. those of the study again. We sometimes see us in colder things missed the first time and the Thou hast brought me life and favor, Upon him Thou hast ordained climates are review reinforces our knowledge and Dare I selfish be? O’er our souls to watch, coming out of commitment to The Order. I have found Nay, I gladly offer Thee, May Thy Holy Spirit lighten, hibernation. the best classes are the ones attended Hearty service, earnest, free: All his work and hopes to brighten: by seasoned members as well as For Thy sake. For Thy sake. Most of my life has been prospective members. These Daughters spent in a part are able to share their faith journey and Many of Thy flock are straying May all faithful ones who serve Thee of the country sometimes answer unspoken questions. Far beyond the fold; In Thy Church below; where the seasons change dramatically. Some chapters go through the study May I strive to win them back, When they see Thy throne above, Winter seems to linger way too long, together during their regular chapter Pointing out the homeward track: Reap the fruits of constant love: and there are times when I wonder if my meetings but most hold classes outside For Thy sake. For Thy sake. favorite season, spring, will ever come. If the regular chapter meeting. The study Day by day my prayers arise I were a poet, I could dwell on the many sessions are meant to be done in a group With untiring zeal; metaphors of winter and the promise of setting to facilitate sharing, answer Not a sentence lost will be spring. What I do know is the promise questions, and develop community. No As I lift them up to Thee: of spring is always kept. Life in nature is prospective member should be given a For Thy sake. renewed as flowers and new leaves begin book and left to study alone. to grow. The study is not to be rushed and a New growth is essential to the prospective member should be given The first photo published in The continuation of life in nature, in our lives, ample time to develop her Rule of Life Royal Cross magazine is of the Na- and learn the duties and responsibilities tional President at that time, Mrs. and in our chapters. that come with membership in The E. A Bradley. It appeared in 1897, in In our lives and in nature, the old Order. Only after the required three- Volume II, Issue VII. becomes tired, worn-out; some dry up and month period of discernment and die. We cannot wait for someone to bring completion of the study should a woman us new flowers; we must plant our own. be asked to decide whether or not to take Like new flowers in our lives, the her vows. addition of new members can also We must remember the growth is refresh our chapter life. When we add God’s but we are to scatter the seeds … new members to our chapters, not only the Good News. are we enjoying the fresh flowers now, but we are planting for tomorrow. Some Let your roots grow down into him, and long-established chapters become very let your lives be built on him. Then your comfortable with “how it has always been faith will grow strong in the truth you done” and thus become stagnant and were taught, and you will overflow with closed to any new ideas. Bringing in new thankfulness. Colossians 2:7 members helps us see chapter life through Make your tent larger, stretch your fresh eyes and provides a pool from which tent curtains farther out! Spare no effort, to develop and grow new leaders. lengthen your ropes, and pound your The Chapter Manual has suggestions stakes deep. Isaiah 54:2 14 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 15
FROM A GUEST AUTHOR By Dona Ace, President, Diocesan Assembly of the Rio Grande Technology During the Pandemic D URING MY RECENT staycation, Cathy Conn, chapter president (St. among other worthwhile Chad’s Episcopal Church, Albuquerque, activities, I worshiped at the New Mexico) scheduled their chapter Washington National Cathedral meeting using a software app that online and noticed the organist had allows users to meet online in a live placed his cell phone nearby on the setting, with video as well as audio organ. I smiled when I saw it. It’s always capabilities. Cathy was the host and been my hope that our digital tools all other participants joined the host would create connections, not cause as interactive participants just like a us to be apart from each other in our regular meeting. All participants could own little world. Today’s tenuous time see and hear each other as Cathy led has provided a chance to make that the discussions needed for the business happen. As technology has evolved, we have spent years using those gadgets and programs that mostly seemed to push us apart; however, the coronavirus crisis is showing us that the Internet and modern technology are capable of pulling us all together to meet, to see, and to hear each other in a most meaningful way! Thanks to technology, Daughters from around the country have been able to stay We are seeing an explosion of connected and worship together. creativity as people use technology as a bridge across physical distances. There is no need for physical social distancing meeting, the daily prayer list, and future if a software application is being used to organize Daughters meetings, to service projects. “Our Daughters were all missing each other, so this was How fortunate we support those who are alone, and to bring a glimmer of familiarity, hope and such a meaningful way to keep us all connected and not feel so isolated!” are that people are love to our lives. Cathy exclaimed. Daughters who were apprehensive about this tool before the finding ways to move their real-world support Two of the The Order’s chapters meeting praised it afterwards. in our diocese recently did just that! Candace Fitch, chapter president, (St. How fortunate we are that people Andrew’s Episcopal Church, Las Cruces, are finding ways to move their real- world support systems online during systems online during New Mexico) organized their monthly meeting through email attachments. this period of social isolation. The fact that I had the opportunity to converse this period of social Then she held the meeting at the usual time using group texting. Daughters who and view the Daughters live at our recent meeting and worship live at the isolation. Having the weren’t able to text were encouraged to email Candace. Candace said everyone National Cathedral is amazing! And I am glad the organist laid his cell phone opportunity to converse proceeded through the agenda items easily. She added, “We’ll hold the next Cathy Conn, chapter president scheduled their chapter meeting using a software on the organ so I could be reminded of how wonderful it has been to have and view the Daughters meeting the same way; we will not even know that we’ve been apart.” app that allows users to meet online in a live setting. technology as my friend during the COVID-19 crisis. live is amazing. 16 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 17
The Order of The dwindling membership. In recent years, the Brotherhood of St. Andrew and The Order of the Daughters Daughters of the King® of the King® have worked on revitalizing their respective ministries. Now they are renewing their relationship with and The Brotherhood each other as well. Jeff Butcher, national president of the of St. Andrew Renew Brotherhood of St. Andrew, says that after achieving financial stability and working on their vision and mission for 100-Year-Old Partnership the future, the Brotherhood is relevant to men and the church once again. “We are ready to tackle the challenges we have before us, working side by side with our sisters in the Daughters of the King, and we are ready to take our place in the Jesus Movement full throttle,” Butcher says. Jeff Butcher serves as the national Krisita Jackson, national president of president of the Brotherhood of St. The Order of the Daughters of the King®, Shared History, Shared Future Andrew. says the rekindled friendship came about after The Order’s Strategic Plan, A unveiled at the 2018 Triennial, came As Presiding Bishop Michael King® was founded just two years to the attention of the Brotherhood’s Curry encourages Episcopalians later, with the mission of spreading the senior vice president, Jack Hanstein, to follow the Way of Love, two Kingdom of Christ among women and whose wife is a Daughter. of the oldest organizations girls. Members of The Order follow in the Episcopal Church are a Rule of Life to support a lifelong The two organizations are looking working together program of prayer, forward to working together on two initiatives over the next few months. With similar missions to renew the spirit service, and in The Episcopal evangelism. One is the Brotherhood’s National Church, Anglican Day of Service. Butcher and Jackson Communion, and and similar histories, it With similar missions and envision neighboring chapters working beyond. together with clergy to decide on a is no surprise that they similar histories service project to carry out that day, and Founded in 1883, (both started as gathering together to pray and reflect on the Brotherhood Sunday School of St. Andrew’s had a close relationship classes), it is no the experience afterward. The second is the National Day of Prayer on May mission is to surprise that for more than a century. 7, where they plan to collaborate on bring men and they had a close shared liturgies and prayer vigils. youth to Jesus relationship Christ. Members for more than a The Brotherhood and The Order of the Brotherhood follow a threefold century. At the beginning of the 21st are also envisioning shared regional discipline of prayer, study, and service. century, they drifted apart, as both Krisita Jackson is the national president of workshops and service projects. There organizations—like the wider church— The Order of the Daughters of the King®. are plans for a shared presence at the The Order of the Daughters of the Episcopal Church’s General Convention struggled with aging populations and 18 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 19
in 2021, including a co-sponsored 12- IN MEMORIAM step recovery Eucharist. Both groups are grounded in prayer and dedicated to service. Evangelism is core to both organizations, with Cynthia Matthews their early documents using the same language, stating that members should “make an earnest effort each week N THE After she retired from teaching, she found CLOSING a part-time job as a web-design assistant to bring at least one” man or woman CHAPTER in a friend’s business. Skills developed “within the hearing of the Gospel of OF HER there helped her convert the Province Jesus Christ.” LIFE, Cynthia IV Messenger into an online publication In 1886, the Brotherhood sponsored Matthews and to edit The Order’s monthly online brought her newsletter, Cross+Links. a resolution to General Convention to enthusiasm, When Cynthia and Bill decided to sanction the formation of The Order. skills, intelligence, The two groups often coordinated move to Kentucky, Cynthia obtained a and a gift for teaching scholarship at the University their presence at General Convention, evangelism to of Kentucky on the basis of her research hosting display tables, prayer vigils, The Order of the on “invisible disability.” She herself had and Eucharists together. Leaders Daughters of the such a disability – her lifelong struggle regularly visited each other’s triennial King®, serving first as Lexington Diocesan with asthma, sometimes triggering attacks In celebration of The Order’s 70th Assembly President (2015-2018) and then conventions as well; on the occasion of anniversary, the Brotherhood presented severe enough to put her in the hospital. on the National Council as Communications She had completed all but her dissertation The Order’s 70th birthday in 1955, the this cake to The Order. Oversight Chair and editor of Cross+Links, Brotherhood provided a magnificent when she set her studies aside to care for starting in 2018. her mother. cake! There are also many stories of Monica Burden: mburden@doknational. Cynthia was born in Florida and baptized In Lexington, she and Bill joined Good local chapters working together in in a Disciples of Christ church at age eight, org or Gary Allman: communications@ Shepherd Episcopal Church. As Cynthia ministry together. then confirmed in an Episcopal church. brothersandrew.net became active in church activities In the 1970s, the Brotherhood and She majored in Interior Design at the (including a weekly class in Greek) she The Order of the Daughters of the University of North Carolina and later The Order, along with several other discovered The Order of the Daughters of King® is an order for women and girls worked in interior design both in North the King® and took her vows. Daughters faith groups, gathered together to whose mission is to extend Christ’s Carolina and in New Mexico. When she were there for her when Bill passed away form an umbrella organization called married the love of her life, Bill Matthews, kingdom through prayer, service, and in 2012. Three years later Cynthia was Pewsaction (Prayer – Evangelism – she converted to the Roman Catholic evangelism. Members take a public vow elected Diocesan Assembly President. Witness – Service – Study). The group Church. Their two children, John Matthews to follow a personalized Rule of Life, She noticed that her chapter was about to eventually grew to encompass some 22 and Elizabeth M. Henrich, were raised in celebrate its 50th anniversary, at the same including a commitment to daily prayer the Catholic Church, and Bill and Cynthia organizations and held many successful time the Diocesan Assembly would have its and service. Membership currently became active in the charismatic renewal. evangelism conferences throughout the 40th anniversary. With her leadership, both includes women in the Anglican, While they lived in Roswell, New Mexico, 1970s and ‘80s. milestones were celebrated in grand style Episcopal, Lutheran (ELCA) and Roman Cynthia served as Director of Liturgy at St. at Good Shepherd in the spring of 2017. Both Butcher and Jackson view Catholic churches. www.doknational.org Peter’s Church there. working together as a natural way to After being elected to the National The Brotherhood of St. Andrew has been Her interest in the arts and ability to Council at Triennial 2018, Cynthia was boost their membership and expand organize led her to volunteer with the bringing men and youth to Jesus Christ asked to edit Cross+Links and serve as the impact of their service projects. Albuquerque Opera Association, the New Communications Oversight Chair. She since its founding in 1883. Today, the Mexico Arts and Crafts Fair, the Roswell “The harvest is huge and we need all loved the work and The Order’s mission. Brotherhood is a worldwide ministry with Symphony, the Las Cruces Symphony, the laborers we can get in the fields,” Her death came unexpectedly after a battle chapters in Africa, Japan, the Philippines, and the University of Kentucky Dance says Jackson, “Any way that we can find with severe pneumonia. We give thanks Great Britain, Canada, Haiti, and the Ensemble. As her interests shifted, for the time we shared with her and for her to work together, to serve together, we she acquired an MA in Interpersonal United States. The Brothers follow the joy in spreading Christ’s kingdom. We trust need to be addressing together.” Communication at New Mexico State three key disciplines of prayer, study, and she now dwells in the light of Christ among For additional information, contact service. www.brothersandrew.net University and began teaching courses the saints in glory. in public speaking and communication. 20 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 21
Let Us Pray A Prayer for Compassion A Prayer for a Pandemic by Cameron Bellm Let us pray together Psalm 91 as we safely abide in the presence of God. (NIV Version) O God of compassion, giver of life and May we who are merely inconvenienced health, we pray your healing mercies remember those whose lives are at stake. 1. Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the upon all who are in any way affected Almighty. by the outbreak of the COVID-19 May we who have no risk factors coronavirus. Comfort and sustain those remember those most vulnerable. 2. I will say of the LORD, “He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I who have been stricken; relieve their trust.” May we who have the luxury of working pain, and restore to them your gifts of 3. Surely he will save you from the fowler’s snare and from the deadly from home pestilence. remember those who must choose Comfort and sustain between preserving their health or making their rent. 4. He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. those who have been May we who have the flexibility to care for 5. You will not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day, stricken; relieve their our children when their schools close 6. nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at pain, and restore to remember those children who will go midday. hungry with no school meals. 7. A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will them your gifts of May we who have to cancel our trips not come near you. gladness and strength. remember those with no place to go. 8. You will only observe with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked. 9. If you say, “The LORD is my refuge,” and you make the Most High your May we who are losing our margin money in dwelling, gladness and strength. Grant to all in the tumult of the economic market authority the courage to make wise remember those who have no margin at all. 10. no harm will overtake you, no disaster will come near your tent. decisions that are essential for the 11. For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; May we who settle in for quarantine at home common good, and strengthen them to remember those who have no home. 12. they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against lead institutions that care for those whom a stone. they serve. Watch over all first responders As fear grips our country, let us choose love. and those in the medical professions 13. You will tread on the lion and the cobra; you will trample the great lion and whose duty it is to care for the sick; guard During this time when we cannot the serpent. them from all danger, and keep them safe physically wrap our arms around each 14. “Because he loves me,” says the LORD, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, in the knowledge that it is through their other let us yet find ways to be the loving for he acknowledges my name. sacrifice and service that the health of the embrace of God to our neighbor. 15. He will call on me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will whole community is promoted. Mercifully Through Jesus Christ, whose arms of love deliver him and honor him. accept these our prayers, O God of all comfort, and our only help in time of need. embrace us all. 16. With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.” Amen. Amen. 22 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 23
A New Day ©Susan Keith March 21, 2020 FROM THE INTERNATIONAL CHAIR Uncertainty for Daughters Everywhere By Lindy Krik It is new day. Based on the past few days It could be a very different day. Lately every day has been new and full of anxiety. I know not what today will bring. But whether it be more restrictions or less Whether it bring hurt or fun, Let me face it with head high. Daughters all over the world are suffering under the effects and threat of the new coronavirus. Let me face this day with courage I TALY, travel anywhere on a full airplane and Because I know MEXICO, pass through crowded airports. We are BRAZIL, hoping, and planning, now to meet in That no matter how dark it may seem SPAIN AND October 2020. GUATEMALA Just like us in the United States, There is a light shining through it all. – these are Daughters all over the world are the countries suffering under the effects and threat The Light of Christ cannot be extinguished. featured in the of the new coronavirus. Many of our International overseas sisters do no have what we The Lord God is faithful to us. pages of this have in the way of an adequate food edition. Our supply and potable drinking water; The Great Provider will feed us. International some even cannot get medicine in sisters are spread out across the All we need do is remain faithful in return. world, and you can find them in Asia, this difficult time. Please add our International Daughters to your daily Africa and the Caribbean as well as the May I start this day with peace. countries mentioned here. prayers, Juniors and seniors alike. Pray for and support, if you can, the May I carry light and life into it. Our International Regional Meeting, relief organizations that send caring planned to occur in March 2020 in the Christians, money and water systems May I share love throughout it. Dominican Republic, was postponed around the world. Their charitable work due to circumstances beyond our is even more important now than ever. May I remain faithful to my Saviour. control. It was not postponed because of “Because he loves me,” says the LORD, the new coronavirus but, a week later, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for we were glad that we did not have to he acknowledges my name.” Psalm 91:14 24 The Royal Cross | SPRING 2020 SPRING 2020 | The Royal Cross 25
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