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DECEMBER,2019-JANUARY, 2020/KISLEV-TEVET 5780

  A Very Special Evening Honoring
       a Very Special Cantor!
          Saturday, December 14                                       6-9 PM
 Please join us on December 14th                              The Saturday evening event will be
 from 6pm-9pm as we honor Cantor                              best enjoyed by our members who
 Joan Finn for her many years of                              are B’nai Mitzvah age and older.
 dedicated service to TSTI. We will                           We welcome all ages to join us on
 be treated to a concert with special                         Friday, December 13 for a 6:00 PM
 meaning for Cantor Finn and enjoy                            Shabbat service celebrating Cantor
 a dessert reception in her honor                             Finn.
 with lots of sweets and maybe                                We wish her and her husband, Ron,
 even a few surprises.                                        well on their next chapter as she
 To RSVP, please go to tsti.org and                           begins her retirement.
 click on the calendar. Go to                                 Donations to honor Cantor Finn
 December 14th and click on the                               can be made to the Melvin & Rose
 event to let us know that you will                           Berlow Music Fund at tsti.org
 be there!

                                                Wishing our entire congregation, friends,
                                                family and beyond, a happy Chanukah filled
                                                with light, laughter, and latkes.

                                                The first candle is lit on Sunday evening,
                                                December 22. You can find more about the
                                                history and traditions of Chanukah as well as
                                                the candle blessings at https://reformjudaism.
                                                org/jewish-holidays/hanukkah
           Happy Chanukah
A Very Special Evening Honoring a Very Special Cantor!
Schedule of
   Clergy                                                           Shabbat Services
   Rabbi Daniel M. Cohen, D.Min.
   Rabbi Alexandra Klein
                                                   Friday, December 6                        Friday, January 3
   Cantor Rebecca Moses
   Cantor Joan Finn                                Vayetzei                                  Vayigash
   Rabbi Emeritus, Harvey S. Goldman               Oneg Shabbat, 5:30 PM                     Shabbat Service 7:30 PM
   Cantor Emeritus, Theodore Aronson               Shabbat Service and Scholar, Stephjen     Oneg to follow services
                                                   R. Weisman, “How Judaism Became an        Gellis-Green Chapel
   Congregational Leadership                       American Religion”, 6:00 PM
   Max Weisenfeld, President                       Gellis-Green Chapel                       Saturday, January 4
   Jane Randel VP                                                                            Minyan Service, 9:15 AM
   Amy Giles, VP
                                                   Saturday, December 7
   Elise Joy, VP
   Jeff Cutler, VP                                  Minyan Service, 9:15 AM                   Friday, January 10
   Heather Brochin, VP                                                                       Vayechi
   Marjie Terry, VP                                Friday, December 13                       Oneg Shabbat, 5:30 PM
   Alice Hirsch, VP                                Vayishlach                                Shabbat Service 6:00 PM
   Debbie Green-Taffet, VP                          Oneg Shabbat, 5:30 PM                     Gellis-Green Chapel
   Marni Denenberg, Secretary                      Shabbat Service, 6:00 PM
   Roberta Probber, Treasurer                      Gellis-Green Chapel                       Saturday, January 11
   Sue Wishnow, Immediate Past President
                                                                                             Minyan Service, 9:15 AM
   Beth Blackman, Executive Director               Saturday, December 14                     Bar Mitzvah of Asa Glassman, 10:30 AM
   Carol Paster, Preschool Director                Minyan Service, 9:15 AM
   Mindy Schreff, Religious School Director         Bat Mitzvah of Abigail Farran, 10:15 AM   Friday, January 17
   Tracy Horwitz, LSW, Program Director            Bat Mitzvah of Samantha Kirby, 10:30 AM   Shemot
   Adam Baranker,                                                                            Oneg Shabbat, 5:30 PM
         Youth Engagement Coordinator              Friday, December 20                       Shabbat Service 6:00 PM
   Sunny Seglin, Asst. to the Clergy, Bulletin     Vayeshev                                  Gellis-Green Chapel
                                                   Oneg Shabbat, 5:30 PM
   MEMBER CONGREGATION
   UNION FOR REFORM JUDAISM                        Shabbat Service, 6:00 PM                  Saturday, January 18
                                                   Gellis-Green Chapel                       Minyan Service, 9:15 AM

   ADL Signature                                   Saturday, December 21
                                                   Minyan Service, 9:15 AM
                                                                                             Friday, January 24
                                                                                             Vaera
 Synagogue Speaker                                 Friday, December 27
                                                                                             Oneg Shabbat, 5:30 PM
                                                                                             Shabbat Service 6:00 PM
As part of TSTI’s partnership in the               Miketz                                    Gellis-Green Chapel
                                                   Oneg Shabbat, 5:30 PM
ADL Signature Synagogue program,
                                                   Shabbat Service 6:00 PM                   Saturday, January 25
Evan Bernstein, ADL’s NY/NJ Region-
                                                   Gellis-Green Chapel                       Minyan Service, 9:15 AM
al Director, will be speaking on
                                                                                             Bar Mitzvah of Judah Ratner, 10:30 AM
Thursday, December 12 at 7:00 pm.
                                                   Saturday, December 28
                                                   Minyan Service, 9:15 AM                   Friday, January 31
Mr. Bernstein will discuss local and
                                                                                             Bo
national anti-Semitism -- what does it
                                                                                             Shabbat Service with 4th Grade
look like today vs. in the past -- and                                                       participation, 7:30 PM
delving into the facets of anti-Semitism                                                     Oneg to follow services
introduced at the ADL Never Is Now                                                           Bass Sanctuary Building
Conference.

Mr. Bernstein has been appointed to
the New York City Public Advocate’s                                                  TSTI’s 4th Annual
Hate Crime Task Force and the Gov-
ernor of New York’s Interfaith Council.                                              Cooking Oil Drive
He also sits on the New Jersey Office
of Homeland Security and Prepared-                                                 Cooking oil is one of the most requested
ness Interfaith Advisory Council and                                               grocery items by our food-insecure neigh-
Congressman Andy Kim’s New Jersey                                                  bors. Please bring unopened and unex-
Leadership Council on Combatting                 pired plastic bottles of vegetable or canola oil (preferably 48oz) to TSTI
Anti-Semitism and Hate Speech.                   through Sunday, January 5th. Donated cooking oil will go to the Interfaith
                                                 Food Pantry of the Oranges (www.orangesfoodpantry.org) which is a collabora-
Please RSVP by going to www.tsti.org             tive effort of four faith-based
and clicking the event on the calendar,          congregations including TSTI.
then fill out the form.
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A Very Special Evening Honoring a Very Special Cantor!
From the
                                          Rabbis’ Studies
                         While I will miss her terribly, it
                         seems fitting that we celebrate
                         Cantor Finn’s retirement during the
                         season of Chanukah, the festival of
                         lights...because Cantor Finn is such      Dear Friends,
                         a source of light in our community.
                                                                   I am thrilled to have this oppor-
In the time that I have known her, I have seen her bring           tunity to express my gratitude to Cantor Joan Finn and
light into homes and hospital rooms of those who are ill in        offer my Mazal Tov on her upcoming retirement. The
our community. So many of us have been the recipients of
                                                                   impact Cantor Finn has had on our TSTI community
her compassion and care in dark moments, and know how
loving she is.                                                     cannot be overstated. Her care, compassion, love of
                                                                   Jewish learning have touched the lives of countless
I have seen Cantor Finn light up our bimah with her beauti-        community members. For that, I, and we are eternally
ful voice and warm presence. I’ve particularly had the plea-       grateful.
sure of standing beside her in the chapel, supporting our
b’nai mitzvah students as they celebrate becoming Jewish
adults. It is amazing to see her lead our community in a way       On the wall of Cantor Finn’s study at the temple is a
that makes room for our young adults to be celebrated for          tree. Each leaf on that tree represents a student with
who they are, all the while inviting the congregation to lift up   whom Cantor Finn worked as part of his or her jour-
their voices in joyful song.                                       ney to become a bar/bat mitzvah. The tree was initially
                                                                   small and had just a few leaves. That tree has grown,
Cantor Finn is also a guiding light to so many learners in our
                                                                   and each leaf represents a life she touched and a new
community. Cantor Finn is a beloved teacher to so many
members of our congregation, and she certainly is to me as         tree that has taken root thanks, in part, to her.
well. I have learned so much from the gentle, encouraging
way she interacts with our students, young and old. She            That’s the impact Cantor Finn has had over these many
is learned, wise, and shares her knowledge in a way that           years. Each student with whom she worked touched
empowers learners to take Judaism as their own - nurturing         her life but, equally important, was touched by Cantor’s
generations of students to feel proud of learning another
Hebrew letter, or another verse of Torah.                          love and enthusiasm. Cantor Joan Finn has planted and
                                                                   nourished countless trees. In the process, we, as indi-
I would be remiss if I did not mention one additional source       viduals, as a synagogue, and as a Jewish community,
of light that Cantor Finn offers, which I perhaps appreciate        are far richer.
as much, if not even more than all of the above: her sense
of humor. In tense moments, she can always put a smile
                                                                   I will have much more to say at the Havdalah celebra-
on my face with a perfectly timed, slyly whispered joke. Her
comedic irreverence put me right at ease when I first came          tion on on December 14, but for now, I want to express
to this congregation, and she’s kept me laughing ever since.       my thanks. Yesher Koach. May Cantor Finn go from
                                                                   strength to strength, and may she and Ron enjoy a
For so many years, Cantor Finn has been caretaker,                 well-deserved retirement.
teacher, and leader for our TSTI community. Who we are
is indelibly shaped by the way in which she has shared her
gifts with each of us over her time with the congregation. As      I look forward to seeing you all at the celebration of
we celebrate Cantor Finn on the eve of her retirement, we          Cantor Finn later this month.
can honor her legacy by bringing more light into the world;
by working harder to take care of one another, by deepen-          With respect,
ing our connection to Jewish learning, by singing out with
joy when we worship together, and most of all - by laughing
together as much as we can.

Join me in wishing Cantor Finn the very best as she enters
this new, exciting chapter of her life. Joan - we will really
miss you!

B’Yedidut - in friendship,

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The Iris Family                                                       Linda and Rudy Slucker
                                                                                               Religious School

                                                                     There are so many ways in which Cantor Finn has im-
In preparation for writing this article, I was curious to see
                                                                     pacted me, both personally and professionally! I will try to
how the dictionary defines retirement. I found pretty much
                                                                     capture just a few highlights as we honor her many years of
what I had expected; it is “the time that follows the end of         dedication to our congregation.
somebody’s working life”.
                                                                     It is clear when you walk into Cantor Finn’s 7th grade He-
Another definition, though, seemed a little outdated, in my           brew class how much she cares for each and every student
humble opinion, especially as it relates to Cantor Joan              and shares in every success, no matter how small. Her stu-
Finn. “A state of being withdrawn from the rest of the world         dents not only were in the capable hands of a very talented
or from a former busy life”. Somehow, knowing Cantor Finn            Cantor, they were blessed with unending support, energy
as I do, I doubt that she will be withdrawn from anything.           and enthusiasm that is unmatched. Her smile is contagious
She’s too vibrant, she’s too curious, and she’s too interesed        -- her students can’t help but want to please her! Watching
in things around her to sit and watch inane television shows         her with her students is a gift I will always treasure -- and I
                                                                     know our students will too.
while eating chocolate bon bons. I, on the other hand, could
very easily retreat to my basement, becoming more iso-
                                                                     Cantor Finn brought that same enthusiasm to the entire
lated by the minute. But this is not about me. This is about         Religious School. She was there for every event, both large
a fearless leader, a caring professional, and a kind-hearted         and small, where she would always bring that contagious
human being who has more energy in her little finger than             smile and high energy! She helped welcome new students,
others do in their entire body.                                      said farewell as they moved on, and was with them for ev-
                                                                     erything in between. To say they were lucky to have spent
Retirement scares me. Perhaps it’s because I’m not truly             time with her is an understatement.
ready for that big change in my life. Perhaps it’s because I
fear that without a scheduled routine I will become a slug,          She is a talented baker, and is well-known for her chal-
rarely leaving my house. I’m sure I’ll know when it’s the            lah baking skills! She has been known to bake for spe-
right time. For Joan, I truly believe she is retiring at the right   cial occasions as well as teaching challah-baking to both
                                                                     adults and teens. Several years ago she taught our Senior
time. She is making a great choice for herself while she is
                                                                     Staff….lets say it was due to her diligent preparation that
healthy, in good spirits, and ready to take on new adven-
                                                                     mine came out as delicious as it did!
tures or projects that she wasn’t able to pursue due to her
professional commitments.                                            My husband Steven and I had the distinct honor to travel
                                                                     to Israel several years ago with Cantor Finn, her husband
As a colleague, I will miss Cantor’s presence at weekly staff         Ron and their two granddaughters. There was a lot of walk-
meetings, at life-cycle events, and at services. I will miss         ing, eating, laughing and tears of joy as we all witnessed
her candor, her opinions, and her perspective on life in gen-        their oldest granddaughter becoming Bat Mitzvah on top of
eral. As a friend, I will miss her sense of tolerance, fairness,     Masada. It was a treat to watch their family celebrate and to
and her incredible sense of humor. As a teammate, I know             know that she celebrates that way with every student she
in my heart that Joan will continue to be an integral part of        works with. That trip really cemented our friendship, and I
the TSTI community, just in a different way.                          will be forever grateful.

                                                                     Whatever she does, it is with unbridled enthusiasm! Her
                                           Carol Paster              love of Judaism and learning is contagious, and we have all
                                           Preschool Director        been touched by her many gifts. I will miss all that she has
                                                                     shared with us, but look forward to making more memories
                                                                     together.

                                                                                                            Mindy Schreff
                                                                                                            Religious School Director

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A Very Special Evening Honoring a Very Special Cantor!
The                                          From
                       President’s                                  Cantor Moses’
                       Point of View                                Study

Some exciting events in December, and too few words                 What do I say about Cantor Finn? How do I put into words
here to speak of them all, so just some notes on three of           what it means for me to have her retire? The truth is, I
them.                                                               don’t know. TSTI has always had Cantor Finn for me. She
                                                                    welcomed me on my first day here. Her smile, her constant
From December 5th through 11th two panels from the                  presence, her friendship, and her balance have been a
Names Project’s AIDS Quilt will be on display in the ball-          huge part of my day to day life.
room. We are very excited to be having them here and are
looking forward to the programs we will be running in our           So many of you know of Cantor Finn’s wonderful ways of
school and for the wider community on December 8th to               teaching our students, I don’t need to tell you about that. If
share them with you.                                                you have had her visit you when you are not quite at your
                                                                    best, you know of her amazing capacity to care for those
On the 12th Evan Bernstein, the New York/New Jersey                 who are sick and in need of a little extra TLC. If she has
Regional Director of the ADL, will be with us to continue           been with your family following the death of a loved one,
our close programming relationship that began with over             you know of her great sensitivity. If she has been with you
50 community members attending the ADL’s Never is Now               and your family at the happy moments, then you know that
conference on November 21st. He will be discussing the              she has the great ability to bring such joy with her. And if
fast-developing issues surrounding the growing antisemi-            you have simply come to services, then you couldn’t have
tism in America.                                                    failed to miss her beautiful voice. And all of that is just
                                                                    scratching the surface of the incredible woman that I have
Finally, and most importantly, a word about a retirement            been privileged to work with for these years.
this month. Movies usually have three acts, musical theater
two, but (Shakespeare notwithstanding) it seems to me               I have been the luckiest Cantor in the world to have Cantor
that most of us get five. This is a short article, so I will leave   Finn as my partner in music, in teaching, in crime, for the
it up to you to decide where the intermissions are. But as          past 8 years. She has taught me more than I could ever
someone who is early in the fourth act of my life, there are        have imagined, and the fun we have had while serving this
people I look to as models, as examples of what this part of        congregation is beyond measure. While I am so happy for
our lives should be and look like.                                  her and Ron to embark on this next chapter of their lives,
                                                                    I will miss my friend in the office across the hall, and I will
Cantor Joan Finn is such a model for me.                            miss all the beautiful harmonies that all of you hear and
                                                                    that fill me with joy. But, I look forward to all the stories of
Joan moves through the world with grace. She uses her               the adventures to come.
voice, her manner, and the very way she looks and talks to
people to make lives better with each human interaction,            Later this month we will all have an opportunity to gather
each contact. Although it is hard to visualize an end to her        to highlight the incredible gifts that she has given us dur-
professional role at TSTI, I can hope that her association          ing her time as our Cantor. I look forward to seeing you all
with the congregation will continue to be a long, close, and        there as we wish her well, celebrate her, and most impor-
warm one.                                                           tantly, thank her for her service.

Please join me on December 14 as we celebrate Joan with
a concert and oneg.

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A Very Special Evening Honoring a Very Special Cantor!
Prime Connection                                                     Adult Education
                for TSTIers 67+                                    Wednesday, December 4 at 12:00 PM
        Brush Off Winter’s Chill                                    LUNCH AND LEARN
Partnering with Adult Education, we invite members to a            ISRAELI MYTHOLOGY VS. REALITY
Wednesday, December 4, Lunch and Learn when Rabbi
Cohen will discuss “Israeli Mythology versus Reality”, as          Instructor: Rabbi Cohen
he tries to dispel some of the myths related to Israel and her
neighbors and gain a better understanding of the Jewish            Co-sponsored with Prime Connection
state and the region.                                              Free for members, $10 for guests
                                                                   Registration required by Wednesday, Nov. 27
Along with the entire congregation, we close out the old
year on Saturday, December 14, as we celebrate the re-             The establishment of the State of Israel in 1948 was
tirement of Cantor Joan Finn, whose inspirational journey          nothing short of miraculous. After almost 2000 years,
from congregant to choir member to cantorial soloist ended,        the Jewish people once again enjoyed the right of self-
after years of study, with her investiture as Cantor. We have      determination. The events at the time often take on mythic
all followed Joan throughout the years as she pursued her          proportions. This is true for both Israel’s supporters and its
dream, and though we will miss her beautiful voice from the        detractors. But where do the myths end and actual history
bima, fortunately, she remains a dedicated member of our           begin? What were the facts that led up to the establish-
congregation.                                                      ment of the State? What are the competing narratives that
                                                                   are in current use and how true or false are they? In this
Welcoming the new year of 2020 is our annual 11:30 a.m.            class we will try to dispel some of the myths related to
New Year’s Day Brunch, held at the clubhouse in the High-          Israel and her neighbors and, in the process, gain a better
lands complex off Eagle Rock Ave. in West Orange. Once              understanding of the complexity of the Jewish State and
again we have Sunny Seglin and Hilda Silverman to thank            the region.
for this “first-of-the-year” get-together. RSVP by going to tsti.
org and clicking on the calendar, then go to January 1 and         To register go to tsti.org, click on the event on the calen-
click the PrimeConnection event. Send your check for $15           dar. For questions, email thorwitz@tstinj.org
pp to Danny Goldberg, 404 Barringer Ct., West Orange, NJ

As the year ends, PrimeConnection would like to thank our
liaison,Tracy Horowitz, for her guidance and support of our        Thursday, January 23 at 7:00 PM
group throughout the year. And many, many good wishes to
all for a happy and peaceful New Year.
                                                                   DEATH OVER DINNER:
                                            Janet Perlman          A NEW APPROACH TO ADDRESSING
                                                                   TOUGH TOPICS
   Young Family Chanukah                                           Instructor: Rabbi Klein
   Celebration and Dinner                                          $5 dinner fee. Register by Thursday, January 16.
   Friday, December 13, 2019                                       Members Only

   5:00-6:00pm                                                     The feedback from those who attended this class last year
   For Preschool-2nd graders                                       was so positive that we decided to offer it once again.
                                                                   Over dinner, we will tap into age-old Jewish wisdom
   and Families                                                    around grieving and ritual, living, dying, and what comes
                                                                   after death. For more information on this conversation,
   Bring friends and family to our Festival of Lights Chanukah     going on nationwide, check out www.deathoverdinner.org.
   party. We will have fun and meaningful Chanukah activities
   along with a pizza dinner and dessert, Gluten/Dairy free        To register go to tsti.org, click on the event on the calen-
   options upon request available. Afterwards, share in our        dar. For questions, email thorwitz@tstinj.org
   exciting intergenerational Chanukah Shabbat Service. To
   register go to tsti.org, click on the event on the calendar.
   For questions, email sfantacone@ts nj.org

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A Very Special Evening Honoring a Very Special Cantor!
Our B’nai Mitzvah                                       Shabbat Scholar
    Justin Hayden Goldberg
                                                        and Supper
    November 2, 2019
    Justin is the son of Heidi and Brian Goldberg,                                   Friday, December 6
    brother of Ella, and grandson of Irene and Barry
    Gilbert and Ginny and the late Conrad Gold-                                       Steven R. Weisman
    berg.
    Terumah Project: Justin participated in the Twin
                                                                                     “How Judaism Became
    with a Holocuast Survivor program. He visited                                    an American Religion”
    with a Holocaust survivor to learn about the
    Holocaust and fulfilling the mitzvah of honoring                                 Steven R. Weisman will draw
    your elders and becoming a witness to those
    who experienced the Holocaust.
                                                                                    from his book The Chosen
                                                                                    Wars: How Judaism Became an
                                                                                    American Religion and pres-
    Abigail Ruth Farran
    December 14, 2019                                   ent the dramatic history of how Judaism redefined itself in
    Abby is the daughter of Mindi and Brian Farran,     America in the 18th and 19th centuries as Jews sought to
    sister of Sam, and granddaughter of Sherryl         adjust their ancient doctrines, beliefs and practices to the
    Burman and the late Stan Burman, Madeline           modern world.
    Farran, and Elaine and Bill Farran.
    Terumah Project: Abby started “Rescue Me” col-
    lecting blankets and sheets in association with     Currently vice president for publications and communica-
    St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Center. She also        tions at the Peterson Institute for International Economics
    traveled to Israel with her family to plant trees   (PIIE), he previously served as a correspondent, editor,
    and learn about the importance of this tradition.   and editorial board member at The New York Times,
                                                        where he worked for 40 years. He was awarded the Ed-
                                                        ward Weintal Prize in 2004 from Georgetown University for
    Samantha Paige Kirby
                                                        his reporting on the run-up to the Iraqi war.
    December 14, 2019
    Sam is the daughter of Elaine and Todd Kirby,
    sister of Nate, granddaughter of Sheryl and         Join the congregation as we hear from Shabbat scholars
    Craig Kirby and Arthur Miller, and great grand-     at our 6:00 pm worship services.Continue learning at the
    daughter of Dolores Kirby.                          Shabbat dinner following services.
    Terumah Project: Sam collected 50 boxes of
    dancewear, costumes and shoes for children
    who cannot afford supplies. She also partici-        All are welcome to attend services; Registration and fee
    pated at Pantry Packers, an Israeli food outlet     required for dinners. To register go to tsti.org. For ques-
    for the less fortunate.                             tions, email thorwitz@tstinj.org

    Asa Taku Glassman
    January 11, 2020
    Asa is the son of Satoko Hoshino and Irvin
    Glassman, brother of Aaron, and grandson of
                                                          Young Family Tu B‛shevat
    Arthur Glassman, Hiroaki Hoshino and Yoko             Celebration and Dinner
    Hoshino.
    Terumah Project: Asa made a number of visits          Friday January 24, 2020
    to Lester Senior Housing where he entertained          5:00pm-6:00pm
    small groups of residents playing piano and
    including them in games and conversation.             For Preschool-2nd graders
                                                          and Families
    Judah Max Ratner
    January 25, 2020                                      Together we will explore the significance of trees through
    Judah is the son of Jennifer Greenberg and            creative projects, as we celebrate Tu B’Shevat, the “birth-
    Scott Ratner, brother of Abby, Samson, Jonah
                                                          day” of all fruit trees. A pizza dinner and dessert will be
    and Mason, and grandson of Marty Greenberg,
    Ginger Provost, and Malcolm Ratner.                   served. Gluten/Dairy free options available upon re-
    Terumah Project: Judah is collecting children’s       quest. Afterwards, join us for a Come as You Are Shabbat
    books for Bridge of Books Foundation to support       services at 6:00pm. To register go to tsti.org, click on the
    the development of literacy skills and to encour-     event on the calendar. For questions, email sfantacone@
    age a love of reading.                                ts nj.org

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A Very Special Evening Honoring a Very Special Cantor!
Loved Ones
         Remembered                                              TRIBUTES
                                                   TEMPLE FUND                            IN HONOR OF
Manuel Miller            Bertha Peckman            IN MEMORY OF                           Ann Merin’s daughter, Sara’s marriage
Remembered by                Remembered by         Steven Sheldon, father of                  Annette Littman
    Gail Amsterdam           Mildred Peckman       Oliver Sheldon
Irving Bayer             Paul Abrams                   Marjorie & Harley Gantwood         IN APPRECIATION
    Remembered by            Remembered by                                                Of the streaming services for Yom Kip-
    Jesse Bayer              William Perlman       IN APPRECIATION                        pur
Ida Turetsky             Charles Rose              High Holy Days Services                    Annette Littman
    Remembered by            Remembered by             Judith Weinstein
    Leslie Bayer             Lois Rose                                                    POMERANTZ FUND FOR ADULT
Irwin Jordan             Stuart Rosenthal          SPEEDY RECOVERY                        JEWISH ENRICHMENT
    Remembered by            Remembered by         Sylvia Pfeffer
    Arlene Brafman           Beth Rosenthal            TSTI Table & Talk                  IN MEMORY OF
Ernest Rosen             Joseph Handelsman                                                Sid Stoller, father of David Stoller
    Remembered by        Edith Scharf              RABBI COHEN’S                              Hope Pomerantz
    Amy Rosen Connelly       Remembered by         DISCRETIONARY FUND                         Steven Pomerantz
Anne Cutler                  Joel & Linda Scharf   IN MEMORY OF
    Remembered by        Elsa Sobo                 Barbara Glickman, mother of            IN HONOR OF
    Jacqueliine Cutler       Remembered by         Helene Sorin                           Matty & Dan Goldberg’s 70th wedding
Elias Segal                  Joel Sobo                  William & Elysse Greenbaum        anniversary
    Remembered by        Louise Ackerman           Eric Fink, husband of Marni Fink            Steven Pomerantz
    Enid Friedman        Elaine Sommer                  Jessica & Todd Marvel             Sara Merin, daughter of Ann Merin mar-
Charles Lyons            Laurence Sommer                                                  riage to Tom Stein, Jr.
    Remembered by        Susan Sommer              IN HONOR OF                                 Steven Pomerantz
    Miriam Frolow            Remembered by         Jordan Fink’s Bar Mitzvah              Birth of Connor Quinn Moloughney,
Raul Galer                   Elliot Sommer             Bonnie & Joel Jarman               grandson of Phil & Sue Hoch
    Remembered by        Robert Braitman           Remy Frolow’s Rosh Hashanah                 Steven Pomerantz
    Diana Galer Jaffe         Remembered by         Torah reading
Hellen Gellis                Renée Spelman             Judy Lyons                         IN APPRECIATION
    Remembered by        Selma Yagoda                                                     Beth Blackman
    Howard Gellis            Remembered by         RABBI KLEIN’S                              Steven Pomerantz
Nathalie Gross-Denburg       Leslie Sporn          DISCRETIONARY FUND
Rose Gross               Hy Starr                                                         SPEEDY RECOVERY
    Remembered by            Remembered by         IN HONOR OF                            Sylvia Pfeffer
    Sheldon Gross            Jerry Starr           The birth of Eleanor and Grace             Steven Pomerantz
Jane Koch                Louis Turen                   Katherine & Jeffrey Feld
    Remembered by            Remembered by             Rita Marshall                      PRAYER BOOK FUND
    Richard Koch             Elaine Turen              Susan & Jules Nissim
Leo Caplan               Eve Gerstl                Matty & Dan Goldberg’s milestone       IN MEMORY OF
    Remembered by            Remembered by         anniversary                            Albert Samuels
    Harriet Lainer           Joan Turk                 Sandy & Harriet Lainer                 Sheila Slutsker
Marvin Mesnick           Diana Umansky
    Remembered by            Remembered by         CANTOR ARONSON’S                       SUSAN ACKERMAN SOMMER FUND
    Wendy Lazarus            Joseph Umansky        DISCRETIONARY FUND                     FOR SOCIAL JUSTICE
Arthur Levitt            Gerald Weisberger
    Remembered by            Remembered by         IN HONOR OF                            IN MEMORY OF
    Daniel Levitt            Joel Weisberger       Cantor Aronson                         Sid Stoller, father of David Stoller
Harold Littman           Alice Whitty                  Clark & Francine Miller                Daniel & Deborah Duane
    Remembered by            Remembered by
    Annette Littman          Stephen Whitty        GELLIS FAMILY FUND FOR
Robert Lowell
    Remembered by
                         Joseph Godman
                             Remembered by
                                                   SENIOR PROGRAMMING
                                                                                                 In Memoriam
    Barbara Lowell           Laura Woolfson        IN MEMORY OF                                     GLORIA GANG
Diana Mankowitz                                    Barbara Glickman, mother of
Gloria Mankowitz                                                                              Mother of Bethany Rabinowitz
                                                   Helene Sorin
    Remembered by                                      Debbie & Mark Taffet
    Murray Mankowitz                                                                            JEROME NACKENSON
                                                   JOSH LITTMAN VIDEO FUND                     Father of Steve Nackenson

                                                   IN MEMORY OF                                  ABE TROKENHEIM
                                                   Sid Stoller, father of David Stoller      Father of Matthew Trokenheim
                                                       Annette Littman
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A Very Special Evening Honoring a Very Special Cantor!
(RE)Connection                                        (for TSTIers 45-65)
                                       First The Quilt; Then Quesadillas
                                       Sunday, December 8 beginning at 1:00 PM

                                                                      We invite you to break bread – or dip chips – with
                                                                      us at Millburn’s new Mariachi Restaurant at 291
                                                                      Essex Street on December 8 at 6pm. The vibe
Pot-luck Dinner &                                                     will be relaxed; the food’s great, and it’ll be a fun
                                                                      time to catch up with old friends or meet new
NFC Championship                                                      ones. If you’ve just joined temple and are a fairly
Football                                                              recent empty nester, please come to what’s sure
                                                                      to be a “spicy” get together.
Sunday, January 19 at 6:15 pm
                                                                        Our dinner will follow an exciting learning pro-
Join us in Short Hills for an after-                                    gram about the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial
noon of fun, food & NFL playoff         Quilt with panels to be displayed at TSTI December 8 between 1-5 in the after-
football!                              noon. The quilt exhibition and educational program come to TSTI on the heels
                                       of last February’s Civil Rights Trip, where temple members viewed portions of
RSVP by January 10 to                  The NAMES Quilt in Atlanta.
AndreaBaum@me.com and let
us know what specific food you’d       You can BYOB at Mariachi, and those of us lucky enough to attend the after-
like to bring ---- appetizer, entree   noon event will keep the conversation (as
or side dish (we will provide des-     well as the beverages) flowing. RSVP to Mi-
serts).                                chelle Langsam at lottalangs@gmail.com or
                                       Elissa Caterfino Mandel at caterfino@gmail.
                                       com if you’d like to be part of this Mariachi
                                       meet up. No payment in advance required.
                                       Just RSVP. Don’t miss this one….

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A Very Special Evening Honoring a Very Special Cantor!
Addition to the
                                                                  Book of Remembrance:
                                                                  Raye and Harry Haiet
                                                                  Mary and Meyer Usdin
                                                                  Rebecca and Jacob Haiet
                                                                  Beatrice and Samuel Usdin
                                                                  Lisa Merrrill Goldman
                                                                          Remembered by
                                                                          Beth Haiet Meyer

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    The Interfaith
      FoodBank
Cold days and icy nights come with
the March winds. Those who are hun-
gry in towns near to us will be depend-
ing on food banks more than ever.
Please bring canned goods to temple
whenever you are here.
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