2020 Bridal Guide for the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula
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I Bliss f you’ve noticed a lot of engagement pics or changes in rela- tionship status in your social media feeds lately, it’s because it’s officially proposal season. And wedding season is just around the corner. Time to start planning the big day by finding a location for that Features Bridal Guide for the Northern Neck and Middle Peninsula • 2020 perfect wedding, and saying “yes to the dress.” Our reporters will help with both. Inside this edition of Bliss, we’ve highlighted wedding dress trends, including what’s in and what’s out for the 2020 bride. We’ve also featured a rustic farm wedding. Barnyard nuptials are growing more and more popular. Find out how one young couple turned a farm into a beautiful backdrop for their special day. But before the invitations go out, the save-the-date postcards are mailed or the planning begins, there has to be a proposal. Some are simple gestures, some are grand displays of affection. All are sappy and romantic. We asked couples to share their sweet proposal sto- A Rustic Fairy Tale ries that led to an “I do.” We hope you enjoy our wedding guide, find it a useful planning Matthew & Lori . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 tool and support the advertisers that make this publication possible. Bliss On the cover: Bride Remmie Dominguez Pittman at Bewdley in Lancaster. Getting to Yes 2020 Bridal Guide Northern Neck for the and Middle Penins ula Photo courtesty of Finding the dress of your dreams. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Ashley Hall Photography Bliss is a supplement published annually by the Rappahannock Record, P.O. Box 400, Kilmarnock, Va. 22482, (804) 435-1701 and the Southside Sentinel, P.O. Box 549, Urbanna, Va. 23175, (804) 758-2328. Proposals to Remember Readers share their stories. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 News Tom Hardin and Robert D. Mason Jr., editors; Lisa Hinton-Valdrighi, Megan Schiffres and Jackie Nunnery Advertising Hannah Abbott and Jessica Bell, managers; Marilyn Bryant, Susan Graves and Gloria Abbott Engagement photos . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8 Production Stephanie Feria, Joseph Gaskins, Ray Rose, Amy DeWolf, Susan Simmons and K.C. Troise Wedding etiquette and social media . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Publications Coordinator Susan Simmons Treating your guests in special ways . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Editorial Director Lisa Hinton-Valdrighi Account Managers Geanie Longest and Lisa Donant Wedding terminology . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 Publishers Fred and Bettie Lee Gaskins January 30, 2020 • Bliss • 3
A rustic fairy tale wedding A by Megan Schiffres crowd of 200 are gathered at the edge of a picturesque field, encircled by a lush forest and facing a mighty tree whose leaves are just beginning to signal the fall. A hush falls over the group as they seem to hold their collective breath, straining in their seats and squinting into the distance with eyes full of hope- ful expectation. Then, almost too softly to discern, the sound of hooves clomping and ancient wheels turning reaches the crowd and breaks the expect- ant tension that kept them still and quiet. The bride and her father come slowly into view, car- ried along in a magnificent white carriage pulled by two snowy white horses, as their family cheers and the husband-to-be smiles from under the alter. The carriage, the horses, and the royal entrance combine to create the feeling of a fairy tale come to life. But even though she made a beautiful prin- cess and her father a stoic, regal king, this wasn’t really Lori Smith’s vision when she began planning her wedding to Matthew Harris. It was the vision of her soon-to-be mother-in-law, Katie Harris, who has a special place in her heart for horses and wanted them to be a part of her son’s wedding day. “She asked me about it for like, nine months, and I kept telling her no. And then I kind of hinted it was okay and she ran with it. That was all she needed,” said Lori. The rest of their wedding, however, was truly a reflection of the couple who were married. On October 12, Lori and Matthew became husband and wife following a simple but moving ceremony. They were joined by their dearest friends and family and were surrounded by the natural splen- Matthew & Lori Paynefield Farm, Tappahannock October 12, 2019 4 • Bliss • January 30, 2020
A three-tiered wedding cake adorned with the same foliage in Lori’s wedding bouquet was made by her mother, Christy Smith. Roger Smith walks his dor of the area when they took each other’s hand daughter down the aisle and vowed to spend their lives loving each other. and prepares to give her Lori and Matthew are both Northern Neck away. natives, and spent their entire childhoods grow- ing up only a county away from each other. Lori, who attended Lancaster High School, would see Matthew at football games or other events where her school overlapped with Northumberland High School, but the two never spoke. It wasn’t until their freshman year at Virginia Tech that they actu- ally met and formed a friendship that would one day become a partnership. The carriage, the horses, and the royal entrance combine to create the feeling of a fairy tale come to life. But even though she made a beautiful princess and her father a stoic, regal king, this wasn’t really Lori Smith’s The wooden archway constructed by Lori’s father Roger Smith formed the aisle that his daughter walked down to vision when she began planning her wedding to Matthew Harris. meet her husband-to-be. January 30, 2020 • Bliss • 5
“I was walking across the parking lot with one of my friends and he was by himself,” Lori said. “He asked if we could give him our number so that he would have someone to hang out with.” A year of friendship went by until the pair started dating and soon found themselves 23 years old, Lori working as a structural engineer, Matthew working at his family farm, and both about to marry their best friend. After descending from the horse-drawn carriage, Lori’s father, Roger Smith, led her down an aisle of pointed wooden archways he constructed himself for the occasion, which were draped with plant life and from which hung soft, glowing lanterns. Together they made their way to the front of the crowd where Matthew waited under another archway constructed by Lori’s father. The curved wooden structure elegantly framed the couple as they smiled at each other and prepared to be married. “I was kind of weirdly calm. Luckily our pastor did a great job, Lori grins sheepishly as she and her father Roger Smith arrive to the wedding ceremony in it was quick and detailed and so I didn’t have a lot of built up a horse-drawn carriage. pressure,” Matthew said. Following a short ceremony which took place at Paynefield Farm near Tappahannock, the reception was moved to a rustic barn on the property that the couple’s family transformed into a picturesque event space with some creativity and about 400 yards of fabric. A three-tiered wedding cake, made by Lori’s mother Christy Smith and topped with the same white roses and ornate vines that Lori carried in her bouquet down the aisle, was proudly displayed and enjoyed at the reception. Lori, whose mother and father are neither carpenters nor bakers, says her parents supported them in many surprising ways throughout the wedding day. Lori and Matthew have their first dance as a married couple in the “I think it’s just such a stressful day though, it revitalized, rustic barn on Paynefield Farm. kind of all just goes by super quickly and you don’t even really realize what all is happening because you’re just waiting for something to go wrong,” Lori said. “It wasn’t until the reception, after the ceremony and after the pictures and everything, you actually get to just sit there and Heather Smith Lori relax.” and Savannah Harris perform a rap instead of a more traditional wedding toast. 6 • Bliss • January 30, 2020
Lori and Matthew gaze into each others eyes on a horse-drawn carriage following their wedding ceremony. VEndors Venue: Paynefield Farm, 5695 Mt. Landing Road, Tappahannock Caterer and florist: Bobby Davis, owner of Four Seasons Flowers and Gifts, 16279 Richmond Road, Callao Photographer: Katelyn Cash Photography, Lottsburg, katelyncashphotography.com Invitations: Papeterie, 18 N. Main Street, Kilmarnock Bridesmaid shirts and souvenirs: Willow Stitch, 179 Main Street, Warsaw Horse and carriage: Hundley Carriages, 8300 Hopkins Road, Richmond Van rental: Davis Auto Sales, 382 North Main Street, Kilmarnock. DJ: Signature DJs, Toano “My parents are both very capable with things that are not nec- essarily part of their job description,” said Lori. After their first dance as a married couple, Lori and Matthew were ready to relax and enjoy the event they and their family had worked so hard to put together. For Lori, this was the first time she had time to think since the day before. “I think it’s just such a stressful day though, it kind of all just goes by super quickly and you don’t even really realize what all is happening because you’re just waiting for something to go wrong,” she said. “It wasn’t until the reception, after the cere- mony and after the pictures and everything, you actually get to just sit there and relax.” Lori and Matthew expected the rest of their evening to be pre- dictable and simple, but instead of a more traditional toast, the couple was shocked and delighted when their sisters, Heather Smith and Savannah Harris, launched into a five-minute rap about their lives together set to the tune of “Don’t Stop Believ- ing”, “Old Town Road” and “Ice Ice Baby.” “It was something I’ll never forget. Hilarious and funny and they’re absolutely insane for doing that,” said Lori. Despite beginning their wedding in a horse-drawn carriage, the couple’s first evening as man and wife ended in a manner much closer to their own laid back style—sharing an order of Chick-fil- A with their friends and family. Matthew dips his new wife as sparklers held aloft by their friends and family members shower the couple with burning light. January 30, 2020 • Bliss • 7
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Getting to yes finding the dress of your dreams by Jackie Nunnery I f you’ve opened a magazine, searched online, or walked into a bridal store looking for a wedding dress, you are immedi- ately struck by the overwhelming amount of choices. Since no one has enough time or energy to try them all, there are a few ways to narrow down your choices, find the perfect fit, and walk down the aisle in the dress of your dreams. Wedding dress trends for 2020 If your style is less than traditional and you’re daring just as well as the demure bride. always looking for the latest trends, what you • Off the shoulder romance. While a wear on your wedding day doesn’t have to be number of off the shoulder styles are now tra- any different. Though bridal wear is not as ditional in bridal design, a newer silhouette is trendy as other types of fashion, there are still showing up. Fuller sleeves, in contrast with trends. the bareness of the shoulders, give this roman- Here a few of the latest: tic look a dramatic, modern twist and comes • It’s all about the back. Given that straight off of the red carpet and runways. so much of the ceremony sees the bride from • Luscious layers. From full, frothy ruffles behind, it only makes sense that designers are of tulle to airy, delicate tiers of lace, layers are adding dramatic touches to the back of the a weightless way to add volume in skirts that gown. From plunging backs and graceful sweep- make a statement as you walk down the aisle. ing cowls, to interesting cutouts, buttons and The detailing is also striking in wedding photos. bows, the details will allow you and your dress • Brides of a feather. Layers of light and to garner attention both coming and going. wispy ostrich feathers are another way to add • A blushing bride. If you want to stray movement and a bit of whimsy to your dress. from basic bridal white, blush might be the While voluminous feathers have shown up in option for you. This is not the first bridal season previous seasons, this year, it’s a more delicate to offer the color, so it appears that dresses in touch, mostly at the hems of skirts, but also at this pink-kissed color might be here to stay. The sleeves and necklines. wonderful thing about gowns in this color—or • A little cover-up. While jackets and its close cousin buff—is that it suits so many shawls have been wedding mainstays, if you’re skin tones and is anything but basic. planning on walking down the aisle in cooler • Lingerie comes out. Corset inspired months, long capes and blazers are a fresher bodices, complete with exposed boning and approach for winter weddings. The cape dra- lace and once limited to lingerie, can be found matically drapes like a train and the menswear- topping a variety of dress styles. Depending inspired blazer is a stylish juxtaposition to the on fabric choices, this classic style can fit the femininity of the dress. White, blush and buff are popular gown colors this year. Photo by Ashley Hall Photography 10 • Bliss • January 30, 2020
Finding your fit Saying I Do again Styles to enhance your shape What about a second wedding? It happens to all of us. We fall in love with narrower shoulders than your hips and thighs. While second weddings can be easier in some something on a hanger but fall out of love after You should look for ball gowns that will accen- ways—you know what you like and what you we try it on. Brides come in all shapes and sizes, tuate your waist and include intricate details on don’t—it can be even more stressful choosing what so to streamline the selection process and avoid the bodice. to wear. Fortunately, rules have relaxed for second disappointment, you should match your shape • Apple or inverted triangle. With an weddings. What used to be limited to small civil cer- with the silhouette of the dress. ample bust and wider shoulders than your hips, emonies and luncheons, have now become nearly as First, it’s helpful to know a little gown vocabu- A-line or fit and flare dresses will balance out elaborate as first weddings. Even if it’s your second lary for the most common styles: your figure. Look for interesting necklines—a marriage, it’s your first as a couple, so it’s all up to • Ballgown. This is the classic princess sweetheart, or deep V-neck, or halter—that are you and your budget. So let’s talk about some of the dress with a fitted bodice and a very full skirt. flattering for your body type. rules. • A-line. Similar to a ball gown but with a • Rectangle or straight. A sleek figure Can you wear white? Of course, it’s your day! more subtle flare in the skirt. with little waist definition. You will look and feel Though your comfort level will dictate whether you • Column or sheath. This dress skims the fantastic in the sheath dresses, especially ones choose to wear white or another color, it is no longer body through the hips and falls straight, without that cinch at the waist with a belt detail, This will taboo. If you’re more comfortable wearing traditional a flare. accentuate your waist and emphasize the curves second wedding colors, they’re typically on the softer • Fit and flare, trumpet and mermaid. you have. side. Think blush, buff, or grey. These are the dresses to show off your curves. • Petite. Choose dresses that won’t over- Can I wear a gown? Sure! Again, you need to While all dresses have a similar fitted silhou- power your small frame. Fit and flare dresses be your own guide. Many second brides wear less ette, it's all about where the flare begins and how will elongate your frame without too much formal, shorter dresses or suits, but formal gowns are much. The fit and flare starts just below the hip fabric. You can also try an A-line if you like appropriate too. with a gradual flare, offering the most freedom more of a flare without it being too much. What about a veil? Here’s one rule people seem of movement; the trumpet at mid-thigh; and the Just remember, your wedding dress should split about. While one camp says “wear whatever mermaid at the knee with a very dramatic flare not only make you look good and feel good, but you want,” another says the full veil should be left to to the floor. it should also be suited for the wedding venue. first-timers. A good compromise? Try a blusher veil Second, know your shape: You want to be comfortable whether it’s a grand with a fascinator. You still get the formality and a • Hourglass. As the name implies, an hour- ballroom or casual beach. You also want to be very short veil that says “bride.” glass figure has an ample chest and hips with a able to enjoy time with your friends and family What about mature brides? Are there different narrow waist. This body type can best wear the and not worry about constant adjustments. Even rules if you re-marry at an older age? The short trumpet or mermaid styles, but really any style, though it’s one of the most important garments answer is no. It’s still your day and you deserve to except for the sheath dress, will work for you. you will buy, take your time, have fun and enjoy look and feel special regardless of your age. • Pear or triangle. This means you have the process. Layers are striking in wedding photos. Bows add a dramatic touch to the back of a Jackets and shawls are a must in cooler gown. months. January 30, 2020 • Bliss • 11
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Proposals to remember..... Deep down, the majority of women, and more men than will admit it, are romantics. We all love a good proposal story. There’s something sentimental, sappy and, yes hopeful, about that moment when two people commit to spending the rest of their lives together. Some proposals are over-the-top romantic and others simple and sweet. No matter, we love to hear about the gesture when that life-long commitment is made. We have six couples which have shared their stories about the planning, effort and love that went into that special moment. Curbside offer Banner proposal E ven with five children, three full-time and four part-time jobs between us, Tom White managed to find the time to be romantic. We’d been dating for a few years when I was totally surprised to open my door Christmas Day 1994, to see not only Tom and his boys but his amazing marriage proposal at the curb! We married, with all five children on the alter with us, December 2, 1995, and it continues to be an incredible journey of love. Jill and Tom White, Heathsville First date forever I had been a single parent father for almost five years when I was asked by a co-worker if I was interested in a blind date. During that time I’d only been on two dates, and the re was a constant go-go-go of my lifestyle which included completing two college degrees during this time period, along with working the hard life of shift work at the paper mill in West Point: I had a lot on my plate and I was a desperately lonely man. I was given Jan’s email address and we exchanged emails until, as I found out later from Jan, she was starting to wonder if I was going to get up enough courage to call her! I still have the emails after 20 years of matrimony. I summoned up enough courage to call and ask her if she’d join me for a dinner date, and laughing with Jan when she said, “You don’t even know what I look like.” We agreed to have dinner the following evening. We went to a restaurant in Gloucester Court House and while we dined I have to say I don’t even remember eating really, I only remember her eyes upon me. I was overwhelmed with this stunningly beautiful lady who as Mary Poppins would have said was, “practically perfect in every way!” After dinner we spent the rest of the evening gazing out from her sunroom into the natural beauty of Lagrange Creek. There, on the love set, holding her hand, on the very first date, I asked her to marry me. 366 days later we wed at Lighthouse Worship Center. Jill and Tom White Hallelujah, Jan and Charles ‘Bunny’ Dunlevy, Remlik 14 • Bliss • January 30, 2020
Whitney Lang re-enacts her “most incredible” find. Betsy and Al Douglas Dirt fishing detects a ring Persistence pays off A fter dropping a few hints indicating that I wanted one, my boyfriend gave me a metal detector for my birthday. I’ve always loved finding stuff—interest- A l and I met in high school and dated a little before we went off to college. He headed north. I headed south. During and after college we lived in different states. The phone became ing rocks, arrowheads, anything special or that catches my eye. One October afternoon, a friend called me in a panic. She told me she had been walking at Hughlett Point Nature Preserve with her husband and lost a ring. our primary means of communication. During these conversations Al She knew I had a metal detector and asked me to go see if I could find it for her. asked me to marry him several times. Each time I said “No”. Always up for a good hunt, I made plans to go searching after work that after- He stopped proposing after several more refusals, but the phone calls noon. I called my boyfriend and asked him to meet me there. We searched for continued. And we reconnected when we visited our parents' hometown. about an hour. He had to let me lead the way and couldn’t guide me in any way In January 1970, his parents invited us to dinner. After dinner he and I or it would ruin his plan—If you’ve been there you know it’s not a small area! went to a local restaurant for a drink. During our conversation I told him The sun was starting to set and finally it beeped. He started digging. First, he about the minister who was going to marry us. uncovered a key barely below the surface—to make sure the machine detected Al gulped his drink and asked “Does that mean we’re getting mar- it—and then he kept digging. He pulled out a bag holding a box and a note ried?” To which I replied “Yes”. My future husband gulped again! that said “If you find this, please September 2020 will be our 50th wedding anniversary. And, I am very put it back. I’m proposing to my lucky to say I would marry him again tomorrow. girlfriend tonight.” I looked to Alan and Elizabeth Douglas (Al and Betsy) him, still confused, and found Married September 5, 1970 him on one knee with a diamond ring! It was by far the most incred- ible thing I’ve ever found dirt fishing. Arthur and I will be celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary this June. Whitney and Arthur Lang Kilmarnock Al and Betsy Douglas Whitney and Arthur Lang January 30, 2020 • Bliss • 15
Surprise party Wedding & Gift Registry Free gift to brides when you register! M y husband proposed to me at a Phillip Morris Christmas party. We had been invited by a friend, who worked at Phillip Unique selection of bridal shower Morris, to attend the Christmas party with them. & wedding gifts! There was a band playing and occasionally they would give away door prizes. The man who was the emcee said “and we have one more thing, Shelia will you marry Owen! All of a sudden, Owen was beside me on bended knee and asked me to marry him. The emcee runs over—there was 300 people in attendance—and asks me with mike in hand “will you”? I was crying and said “YES” to which he announces to the crowd, she said YES! The rest of the evening people would come up to us and say congratulations! We were married on June 10, 2006. Mon.-Fri. 10-5 • Sat. 10-4 • Sun. 12-4 Shelia and Owen McGuill, Shelia and Owen McGuill—”I do!” Lancaster 5757 Richmond Rd. Warsaw • 804-333-0581 Sail away L ate in the summer of 1966 at the height of the Vietnam War, I went to work for one of the govern- ment’s euphemistic “alphabet” agencies. My first day on the job, I was introduced to a young naval officer in his summer whites who was crouched down to pull a manual off the bottom of a bookshelf. “And, this is our cute little ensign,” began the introduction. “Ensigns aren’t cute; they’re poor!” was my snotty Army brat retort. Fortunately for me, the cute ensign was more persistent than I was obnoxious, and as time went on, we discovered we had practically nothing in common, but we were both willing to give each other’s oddities a shot. He loved sailing and I loved him, so he bought a boat, but couldn’t afford all of the sails. I surprised him one day with a spinnaker. We joked that we were stuck sailing and racing together, because neither of us owned the whole package. In 1968, when I was thinking about leaving Washington to con- tinue my education and it looked like he might be transferred, he came to me one evening and said, “Well, we could go on like this and keep sailing together, or we could get married.” I was getting older and I am sure my parents were certain they were never going to get rid of me, so I looked at him and said, “I guess that’s about as close to a proposal as I am ever going to get!” The boat is gone. We still have the spinnaker, and I still have that cute naval officer. Sandie and Leigh Doptis, Lottsburg Sandie and Leigh Doptis 16 • Bliss • January 30, 2020
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