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C O R P O R A T E I N F O R M A T I O N A N D D E T A I L S Marymount Centre was registered under the Charities Act on 09 May 1984. On 20 January 2014, Marymount Centre was registered as a Company Limited by Guarantee and obtained Charity and Institute of Public Character (IPC) status on 01 October 2015. By a special resolution Marymount Centre Limited changed its name to Marymount Centre on 30 November 2015. Marymount Centre manages the social services under Ahuva Good Shepherd, Ahuva Good Shepherd - Interim Placement and Assessment Centre (IPAC), Good Shepherd Centre, and Good Shepherd Student Care. Unique Entity Number (UEN) 201402049Z Registered Address 9 Lorong 8 Toa Payoh, Singapore 319253 Bankers Development Bank of Singapore Auditors Ardent Associates LLP Website www.marymountctr.org.sg
C O N T E N T S GENERAL O B J E CT I V E , M I S S I O N , V I S I O N , C O R E VA LU E S 2 AND POLICIES Funding Sources Volunteers CHAIRPERSON’S MESSAGE 3 B O A R D O F D I R E C TO R S & K E Y S TA F F 4 KEY MILESTONES 5 PROGRAMMES H I G H L I G H T - I PA C 8 A H U VA G O O D S H E P H E R D 11 GOOD SHEPHERD CENTRE 18 GOOD SHEPHERD STUDENT CARE 23 OTHERS OUR POLICIES, FINANCIALS & FUTURE PLANS 29 ACKNOWLEDGEMENT 30 Volunteers Appreciation Night 1
O U R O B J E C T I V E Marymount Centre is set up by the Good Shepherd Sisters to reach out to marginalized women and children in society. Under Marymount Centre, there are two 24-hour Residential Homes for Children (Ahuva Good Shepherd, and Ahuva Good Shepherd - Interim Placement and Assessment Centre), one 24-hour Crisis Shelter for abused women and their children (Good Shepherd Centre), and a Student Care Centre (Good Shepherd Student Care). We are committed in our mission to reach out with compassion and respect to women and children who are experiencing injustices or problems that are too heavy to face alone. We will journey with them in the healing of their personhood and empower them to rebuild their lives, so that they can restore their sense of dignity and worth. O U R M I S S I O N Empowering lives, restoring rights, upholding dignity. O U R V I S I O N Touching Lives, Building Hope. 2 O U R C O R E V A L U E S Compassion, Integrity, Empowerment, Professionalism, and Teamwork. P O L I C I E S F UNDI NG SOURCES Our social services receive funding from the Ministry of Social and Family Development (MSF), Good Shepherd Sisters and public donations. For their stay in our residential services, residents pay nominal fees, which are based on their family background and ability to pay. Marymount Centre aims to keep in reserves up to five times of total operating expenses. To ensure that there are sufficient funds to fulfil its obligations and mission, the Board of Directors regularly reviews the financial status of Marymount Centre. VO LUNTE ERS Marymount Centre welcomes volunteers to share in their mission of “Empowering lives, restoring rights, upholding dignity”.
CHAIRPERSON’S MESSAGE B U I L D I N G T R U ST A N D H O P E In 2016, we had many things to be thankful for, two of which I am especially excited to share with you. Firstly, Marymount Centre was successful in its bid to run Ahuva Good Shepherd - Pilot Small Group Care (PSGC) under the auspices of the Ministry of Social and Family Development (MSF). PSGC will care for girls between the ages of 7 and 12, who have experienced an inordinate amount of stress and even trauma in their lives. As I write, finishing touches are being put to the premises and staff are being trained to receive the first child in June 2017. Ms Cecilia Ee Chairperson, Marymount Centre Secondly, Good Shepherd Student Care (GSSC) which was operating out of a holding school in Toa Payoh from 2015, moved to its new premises in the grounds of Marymount Convent School in December 2016. Programme participants and their parents are delighted with the new facility, especially the additional space for the growth and development of the children. Study areas have been expanded and activities such 3 as dance and music can be conducted in comfort. The above, as well as the smooth operation of Ahuva Good Shepherd, Ahuva Good Shepherd - Interim Placement and Assessment Centre and Good Shepherd Centre are all made possible by the commitment and dedication of our staff and volunteers. It is gratifying to see them live out our mission of “empowering lives, restoring rights, upholding dignity” when the programme participants blossom, and beam with confidence as they feel safe and loved. It brought tears to my eyes when I watched them sing and dance on stage during Volunteers Appreciation Night to express their appreciation for the care they received. I would like to thank our Board of Directors, management and staff for their support, dedication and commitment. You are the pillars of Marymount Centre. We, at Marymount Centre are also very grateful for the continued support from our benefactors, volunteers and stakeholders. Thank you for making it possible for our programme participants to learn to build trust and walk into the future with renewed hope. May God shower you and your family with His special blessing. Ms Cecilia Ee Chairperson
B O A R D O F D I R E C T O R S & K E Y S T A F F B OA R D O F D I R E CTO R S ( 2 0 1 6 ) NAME TITLE APPOINTMENT DATE Sr Joan Marie Lopez Director / Province Leader 20/01/2014 Ms Cecilia Ee Beng Neo Director / Chairperson 20/01/2014 Mr Tang Edmund Koon Kay Director / Treasurer 20/01/2014 Dr Oon Chong-Jin Gabriel Director 20/01/2014 Dr Anne Magdaline Netto Director 20/01/2014 Mr Kiang Lai Kuong Neville Director 11/05/2015 Ms Jane Marie Ng Yin Gek Director 11/05/2015 Ms Joycelyn Ong Yueh Ling Director 30/09/2016 Mr Ho Teik Tiong Director 30/09/2016 4 K E Y STA F F Social Services Marymount Centre Sr Cecilia Liew Mr Ong Kwee Hong Executive Director Operations Manager Ahuva Good Shepherd Ahuva Good Shepherd Ahuva Good Shepherd Ms Michelle Anne Koh Yiak Lee IPAC IPAC Residential Manager Ms Jessica Koh Hong Wue Ms Ng Yiam Hua Dionne Principal Case Manager Asst Residential Manager Good Shepherd Centre Good Shepherd Student Care Ms Koh Siew Wah Margaret Ms Chaung Lu Lu Residential Manager Programme Supervisor
K E Y M I L E S T O N E S 1 9 3 9 - 2 0 1 6 1 9 3 9 1 9 3 9 - 1 9 4 0 The history of the Good Shepherd Sisters in Singapore began with four young Irish Sisters 1 9 4 0 from Ceylon (Sri Lanka) and Burma (Myanmar) accepting the Bishop of Malacca, Rt Rev A Devals’ invitation to carry out their mission in Singapore. Mother Mary Ligouri Bourke, Sr 1 9 4 1 Mary of St Alphonsus Mooney, Sr Mary of St Dympna Brady and Sr Mary Columba Canon arrived between December 1939 and January 1940. They established the first convent in 1 9 4 2 Punggol and opened their doors to women and girls who were troubled or abused, in need of healing and reconciliation. In the first year they took care of 21 girls. Their plans to move 1 9 4 3 to a bigger house in MacPherson to accommodate more girls in need was, however, 1 9 4 4 disrupted by the war in 1941. 1 9 4 5 1 9 4 1 - 1 9 4 5 1 9 4 6 The Sisters continued to persevere in their mission during the war years. In 1942, after taking in girls from the Po Leung Kok Home for homeless children, the total number of girls 1 9 4 7 cared by the Sisters rose to 220. In 1943, the Sisters and the girls moved into safer abodes in the jungle of Bahau in Negri Sembilan, Malaya, where they faced several challenges 1 9 4 8 including malaria. After the war, they returned to Singapore in 1945 and established a new 5 convent in Kampong Java. They also started a kindergarten with just 6 pupils. 1 9 4 9 1 9 5 0 1 9 4 7 - 1 9 5 0 1 9 5 1 In Oct 1947, the Sisters acquired a plot of land at 790 Thomson Road. In gratitude to their 1 9 5 2 answered prayers to Our Lady, the Sisters named the place "Marymount". 140 girls from 1 9 5 3 Kampong Java and the Sisters moved to Marymount three years later, on 18 October 1 9 5 4 1950. 1 9 5 5 1 9 5 4 1 9 5 6 In 1954, the Sisters set up Good Shepherd Convent Kindergarten at Nallur Road to provide quality pre-school education to the children in Singapore. On 26 November 1 9 5 7 1954, Marymount Vocational School was gazetted as a place of safety under Section 162 1 9 5 8 of the Women's Charter. 1 9 5 9 1 9 6 3 1 9 6 0 In 1963, the Sisters established Marymount Kindergarten at Thomson Road. Both Good Shepherd Convent Kindergarten and Marymount Kindergarten were set up as a social 1 9 6 1 enterprise to fund the social work of the Sisters. 1 9 6 2 1 9 6 3
1 9 6 4 1 9 6 5 1 9 6 6 1 9 6 5 1 9 6 7 In 1965, the Good Shepherd Sisters set up Rose Villa at Marymount to provide residential care for teenage girls and single women in pregnancy crisis. 1 9 6 8 1 9 6 9 1 9 6 9 On 21 February 1969, Marymount Vocational School was re-gazetted as "Marymount 1 9 7 0 Vocational Centre". 1 9 7 1 1 9 7 2 1 9 8 2 In the early 80s, as women joined the workforce, more children were left without proper 1 9 7 3 supervision after school. In response to the changing social situation and to support working mothers, the Sisters set up a before and after school care, called Marian Centre 1 9 7 4 in 1982. The centre, presently known as Good Shepherd Student Care, cared for children who needed adult supervision, as well as those who came from single-parent and low- 1 9 7 5 income families. 1 9 7 6 1 9 8 6 - 1 9 8 8 1 9 7 7 In 1986, in collaboration with Catholic Welfare Services, the Sisters set up a Crisis Shelter in Sembawang to provide a safe haven for women and children who had to leave home 1 9 7 8 for protection and safety. Some women who faced difficulties after they were released 6 from prison were also cared for there. In 1988 the Crisis Shelter moved to bigger premises 1 9 7 9 in the northern region of Singapore to cater to growing demand for help. 1 9 8 0 1 9 8 8 1 9 8 1 In keeping with changing form of ministries, Marymount Vocational Centre was renamed Marymount Centre on 08 September 1988 and gazetted accordingly. The Sisters invited 1 9 8 2 lay partners who shared their zeal in mission to join them in reaching out to women and children who were marginalised and neglected. Today, Marymount Centre is managed by 1 9 8 3 a Board of Directors, the Sisters and a team of dedicated staff and volunteers. 1 9 8 4 1 9 8 5 2 0 0 3 In 2003, Rose Villa transferred its residency to Good Shepherd Centre. 1 9 8 6 1 9 8 7 2 0 0 6 In 2006, Ahuva Good Shepherd was set up to provide a safe and nurturing residential 1 9 8 8 environment for young girls, from 4 to 16 years old who come from single-parent families or from families in which parents are unable to cope with them due to financial or 1 9 8 9 relationship crisis. 1 9 9 0 1 9 9 1 1 9 9 2
1 9 9 3 1 9 9 4 1 9 9 5 2 0 1 1 1 9 9 6 On 19 January 2011, a large portion of the Good Shepherd Sisters’ land at Thomson Road was acquired by the Singapore Land Authority (SLA) for the construction of the new 1 9 9 7 North-South Expressway. As the Land Acquisition affected the Good Shepherd Convent and some of Marymount Centre’s services, the Sisters had to relocate their Convent and 1 9 9 8 services to another site. 1 9 9 9 2 0 1 2 After several rounds of negotiation with SLA, a suitable site was finally found at Lorong 8 2 0 0 0 Toa Payoh. A Blessing cum Ground Breaking Ceremony was held on 24 April 2012, Feast of St. Mary Euphrasia, to commence the development of the new premises, named Good 2 0 0 1 Shepherd Place. 2 0 0 2 2 0 0 3 2 0 1 4 On 20 January 2014, Marymount Centre was registered as a Company Limited by Guaran- 2 0 0 4 tee. Marymount Centre Limited took over the management of the social services namely, Ahuva Good Shepherd, Ahuva Good Shepherd-IPAC, Good Shepherd Centre and Good 2 0 0 5 Shepherd Student Care. 2 0 0 6 After 2 years, Good Shepherd Place successfully obtained its Temporary Occupation Permit (TOP) on 23 April 2014, which is the eve of Foundress Day. The blessing of Good 2 0 0 7 Shepherd Place was conducted on 01 May 2014. 7 2 0 0 8 The relocation from Marymount to Good Shepherd Place was carried out in phases to minimise disruption to the services. The Sisters moved into their new convent on 13 May 2 0 0 9 2014, followed by Marymount Centre and its services on 30 May 2014 and 05 June 2014. 2 0 1 0 2 0 1 5 2 0 1 1 On 02 May 2015, Good Shepherd Place was officially opened by Singapore's 2 0 1 2 Prime Minister, Mr. Lee Hsien Loong. 2 0 1 3 On 12 May 2015, Ahuva Good Shepherd - Interim Placement and Assessment 2 0 1 4 Centre was set up as an extension of our residential service, to provide a temporary 2 0 1 5 safe environment for vulnerable children 2 0 1 6 while plans are being made for their future care. By a special resolution, Marymount Centre Limited changed its name to Marymount Centre on 30 November 2015.
A H U V A G O O D S H E P H E R D I N T E R I M P L A C E M E N T A N D A S S E S S M E N T C E N T R E ( I PA C ) BUILDING A SAFE HAVEN FOR CHILDREN IN TRANSITION Ahuva Good Shepherd - Interim Placement and Assessment Centre (IPAC) received our first child in June 2015. By 31 Dec 2016, 160 children, ranging from 4 to 12 years old had come under our care. Most, if not all of these children arrived at IPAC with minimal belongings and much sorrows on their backs. They have experienced abuse in one form or another, and oftentimes the abuse have taken place within their own homes. 8 Ideally, the family unit is the safe and nurturing environment for children to grow into unique individuals that they are. However, for these children, this essential place of safety has become the very source of their pains, as multiple stressors in the family have resulted in domestic violence and/or abuse within the home. Such acts rupture the child’s sense of safety resulting in the child’s experience of trauma. With concerns and threats to their safety and wellbeing, these children are then placed in IPAC while investigations and assessments take place, making way for their long-term placement arrangements to be made. Many of these children arrive at IPAC in a state of anxiety, with some of them displaying signs of trauma. At IPAC, we have recognized the distress and needs of these children, and we have sought to build a safe and nurturing haven for these children in transition.
9 “IT IS NOT ENOUGH THAT YOU LOVE THEM, THEY MUST KNOW THAT YOU LOVE THEM.” Despite the abuse or threat to safety that has taken place within their homes, these children ultimately still long to return to their families. Hence being away from home becomes a difficult experience for the children to negotiate. Some may even feel guilt and/or self-blame for causing the separation from their families. This destabilisation, along with heightened emotions due to the experience of abuse may cause the children to feel overwhelmed, and dysregulation may take place. Caring for these children meant journeying with them through their ups-and-downs. There are days when skies are clear and the waters are calm, but there are also days when raging storms seems endless. We have learnt the importance of sitting through and surviving the raging storms with the children. We have also learnt that it is having gone through these storms and seeing the carers still present by their side that helps these children feel safe again. Here, we are reminded of Mother Foundress, St Mary Euphrasia’s words, “It is not enough that you love them, they must know that you love them.” We do not often receive updates about the children after they leave IPAC. There were a few occasions when the children called us to share how they were doing. They were also keen to find out how the IPAC team and their friends were doing. Such calls warm our hearts. We believe the children had fond memories of IPAC, and on a deeper level, recognized it as a safe haven.
IT TAKES A WHOLE VILLAGE TO RAISE A CHILD One can imagine the challenges of sitting through and surviving a raging storm. The behaviours of traumatized children can sometimes push the carer’s capacity to care, love, and accept to its limits. We are truly blessed that the team at IPAC has patiently persevered and rode through storm after storm with each child. When one carer was tired and spent, another would step in to take over and stay by the side of the child. The team was also able to always put the children’s needs first despite the harsh words or aggression that was thrown their way. We are also blessed with committed volunteers who would lovingly come week after week to befriend and spend time with the children. They are an integral part of our IPAC team. The presence of these volunteers, especially during festive occasions, helps to distract the children from the pain of separation from their families. As the saying goes, it takes a whole village to raise a child. Indeed, we are truly grateful to the IPAC staff team, the volunteers, and our partners, who have made it possible for these children to feel safe again despite the hurts that have arisen from the complexities of their home and familial environment. P R O G R A M M E S PHYSICAL � Water play 10 � Playground activities � Trampoline � Badminton � Ball games � Dance � Walks EMOTIO NAL � Sand play therapy � Art therapy � Singing & music � Counselling EDUCATIO NAL � Study time � Fun learning � Daily living skills, e.g. baking and cooking SOCIAL � Teambuilding games � Celebration of festive events � Social interaction through art & craft
A H U V A G O O D S H E P H E R D Set up in 2006, Ahuva Good Shepherd provides a safe and nurturing residential environment for young girls, aged 4 to 16. They had experienced challenges in their families, such as medical conditions, financial difficulties, domestic violence, marital discords, parents’ incarceration and abuse. We welcome each girl into our warm homely environment with respect and dignity, and care for her with unconditional love and compassion. We journey with each one in her healing process and develop a care plan that recognizes her uniqueness. We constantly seek to understand their needs in order to better care, protect and nurture them while supporting them in their pursuit of their dreams, which may include reintegrating with their families. When reintegration is not yet possible, we facilitate alternative care 11 arrangements by helping them to establish the best support network that every child rightly deserves. In 2016 Ahuva Good Shepherd served a total of 22 girls; as at 31 Dec 2016, there were 18 girls under our shelter and care. P R O G R A M M E S As we journey with the young girls who come into our care and protection, we discover their immense pain, brokenness and fragility. We strive to salve their physical, psychological and emotional wounds through various programmes and activities. The girls find their inner strengths, build self-confidence, self-esteem and dignity, resilience, and learn to trust and hope again. Very often, they develop new interests through our support in education, sports and social activities. We aim to reintegrate them into society healed, and prepared to be contributing global citizens.
With the help of individual and corporate volunteers, we were able to roll out the following programmes in 2016:- EMOTIO NAL L I F E & � Art therapy S O CI A L S KI L L S � Birthday celebrations � Baking � Individual counselling � Budgeting & grocery shopping � Music therapy � Cooking � Staff mentorship � Household chores & area cleaning � Touch therapy � Internships & part-time work � Self-care � Sewing ED U CATIONAL � Social interaction � Individual / Group tuition � Learning journeys � Library visits CO MMUNI T Y � Study time S E RV I CE � Visits to St Theresa’s Home (Nursing Home) PHYSICAL & � Volunteering at Red SchoolHouse RECREATIO NAL (Childcare Centre) 12 � Art & craft � Waste recycling � Dance � Dragon boating � EQUAL-ARK S P I R I T UA L (Equine-assisted learning � Bible study & therapy programme) � Church attendance � Guitar & piano lessons � Individual quiet / prayer time � Indoor games � Movie / TV / Multi-media � Nature walks � Outdoor play in playgrounds S T R E NG T H E NI N G and water facilities FA M I LY T I E S � Self-defence � Counselling for parents � Singing � Family befriending � Sports and games � Home leave � Outings / visits by parents & relatives � Weekend fostering � Weekend outings with volunteers
T E ST I M O N I A L S F R O M R E S I D E N TS Through staff mentoring, counselling and touch therapy, I have learnt to manage my stress level. I am able to concentrate in school and improve in my studies. From failing all school subjects, I am now getting As! I used to think that Math was terribly difficult and avoided doing my homework. After my super nice tutor explained to me, I love Math. One of my favourite activities is dancing. My friends and I were surprised, yet happy that we could choreograph a dance for Volunteers Appreciation Night. Sports became fun when I learnt to control my stamina. I have grown so much taller. I have found cooking to be relaxing; I can now make spicy Myanmar salad and fish sambal besides different types of curry. I know that no matter what happens in school, the staff always welcomes me home. I may face consequences for things I have done wrong, however I always feel safe and loved. Now I enjoy studying; believe me, I used to hate to study. I am more confident and dare to pursue my dream to be a teacher. Stella*, 12 years old 5 years in Ahuva Good Shepherd 13 The best thing that has happened to me after I came to Ahuva Good Shepherd is that I can go to school regularly. My tutor makes me feel special; she comes to teach me even when she is not well. I am very grateful that I now have A’s and B’s for all my subjects. I enjoy school and doing homework. I like sports and games because I can make friends with the other girls, and I am stronger and have grown much taller. Being tall helps me play basketball better in school. Doing household chores made me more independent and I can now make scrambled eggs. When I went to visit the elderly in a home, I was very sad when they said that their children left them there and didn’t visit them. This made me help my own grandparents more. When I grow up I would volunteer in the old folks’ home. I enjoy my stay in Ahuva Good Shepherd. The staff are understanding and make me feel very safe. Even though sometimes I miss the food cooked by my family, I know that in Ahuva Good Shepherd I will never be left hungry. I cannot make up my mind whether to be a dancer or teacher when I grow up. For now I just enjoy the freedom to play music and dance with my friends in our free time. Mimi*, 9 years old 2 years in Ahuva Good Shepherd * Names have been changed to protect the identity of the residents.
I want to be a singer and I am grateful that AGS is helping me by giving me singing lessons. I am not always the easiest person; sometimes I am moody and think that the world revolves around me. The staff are always understanding; they arrange for me to see a counsellor and I have touch therapy and music therapy to help me to let go of my negative thoughts. I sometimes think that life is so unfair and feel unloved. But such thoughts disappear when I am comforted by friends and staff in AGS. As part of community outreach, I volunteered at an old folks’ home. It was scary to think that one day I will also be old and need others to help me, but it also made me want to help others. I have learnt to pray to God and I feel peaceful going to church. I have also learnt to look beyond my problems and enjoy things like visiting museums, kickboxing and even my studies. I realize that I still need an education to be a singer. Regina*, 13 years old 4 years in Ahuva Good Shepherd Like many teenagers, I have moods and sometimes I cannot help feeling angry and disappointed. I’m not sure with who though; is it God? Staff are understanding; they mentor me and my counsellor patiently hears me out. I usually feel better and I have learnt to control my emotions. When I passed PSLE, even I couldn’t believe it, because I had never passed a single test or exam before that. I am grateful to staff of 14 Ahuva Good Shepherd who are always encouraging and they arranged for a very dedicated tutor to help me. I am trying to improve on my studies; I take responsibility for my learning. Training in sports has helped me to be more disciplined. My stamina has improved and I am more confident. I hope to join the Navy. I love interacting with people and I spend time on Facebook too. When we went to churches to sell concert tickets, I learnt that some adults were very kind and generous but many others were grouchy and brushed us off. I hope that with the values that Ahuva Good Shepherd instils in me I will grow up to be a good and caring person. The staff work very hard and we kids can really test their patience. Thank you for loving us, no matter what, and giving us a safe home. Chelsea*, 13 years old 3 years in Ahuva Good Shepherd I am very talkative so I am happy that my counsellor lets me talk and she comforts me when I am sad. I also talk to God in prayer every night. I get healing massages in Touch Therapy, and outings with a staff mentor is fun. My school teachers said that I am now more responsible and I am nicer to my mummy. In Ahuva Good Shepherd I have learnt that I should treat everyone well, even if they are not nice to me; just ignore them. One person I really like is my tutor. She is awesome; her teaching is fun and she cheers me up when I am sad. I like playing outdoor games and kickboxing, which helps me to be more confident of taking care of myself. The sports activities help me have better appetite and I have gained weight. Staff said that I am capable of getting 200 plus for PSLE, and they will buy 10-year-series for me to practise. With their encouragement and my tutor’s help, maybe I can get A-stars. Poppy*, 11 years old 2 years in Ahuva Good Shepherd * Names have been changed to protect the identity of the residents.
CA L E N DA R O F E V E N TS 1 January � “I Am Made For More” workshop for Secondary School grils � Kite Making, Games & Lunch � Chinese New Year Bazaar in Chinatown 2 � Chinese New Year High Tea & Lo Hei � Movie “Long Long Time Ago”& shopping in Plaza Singapura � Picnic @ Punggol Promenade � Chinese New Year Dinner & Lion Dance � Flower Arrangement Tips � Movie “Zootopia” & lunch at Swenson’s, Nex February 3 � Day trip to Pulau Ubin � Archery at Singapore Management University � Movie “Kung Fu Panda 3” & lunch at Eighteen Chefs March � Crabbing at Sembawang Park 4 � Bubble Bump Soccer � Musical “Hanuman” 15 April 5 6 � STEM Workshop – Cosmetic Chemistry Lab � Bowling � Visit to ArtScience Museum � Career Talk � Vesak Day cum Birthday Dinner � Camp Concordia � Chinese Culture Programme � Camp Global � Cycling on car-free Sunday � Circus workshop May � � Fun at Kaboodle Kids Awake LOVE Orchestra � Movie “Minion” June � Indian Heritage Tour � Visit to Jurong Fishery Port � Dim Sum breakfast in Chinatown � musi/care: festival beyond borders � Ramadan Disbursement Ceremony cum Iftar � Discovering Museums – Singapore Arts Museum, National Museum & Natural History Museum
7 � “Being a Happy Teen” seminar � Hari Raya Barbeque � Doodling Programme � YOUTHphoria 2016 � � STEM Workshop – Global Waste Fun Fair at Church of St Ignatius July 8 � Bowling � Movie “Transformers” � Art & Craft – drawing � Krav Maga � Cartoon drawing workshop August � Dragon boat – Paddle Fest 9 � Movie “Storks” � Mooncake making � Playeum Children’s Centre for Creativity � Sentosa Experience with Sentosa Gives 2016 � Visit to simpleshow production house September � Art & Craft – Pop-up cards � IDA Lab on Wheels 16 10 October � KidZania � Kids Amaze � Cycling at East Coast Park 11 � Halloween party � Paddle For Life – dragon boat � Trampoline Park � Christmas Light-up tug-of-war � A Capella performance � Bowling Christmas Party � Jacob Ballas � Seeds of Hope Programme Children’s Garden & � Volunteers Appreciation Night Terrarium workshop November � � � � � Christmas party at Fairmont Singapore AGS Camp at Downtown East Christmas shopping at Plaza Singapura Musical “Monkey Goes West” Christmas party at SICC 12 December � Hope, A Christmas Concert � Toy making workshop � Movie “Moana” & Dinner � Kite flying at Marina Barrage
ACTIVITIES/PROGRAMMES/EVENTS F O R A H U VA G O O D S H E P H E R D Available to all residents, based on needs and interests, some facilitated by volunteers X ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~~ X~~~~~ Daily X~~~~~~ X~~~~~~ Weekly � Study time � Exposure to Mother Tongue � Art Therapy � Staff mentoring � Touch Therapy � Indoor games � Music Therapy � Art & Craft � Individual/Group tuition � TV, Movies, Computer time � Sports & running � Outdoor play � Household chores & Area cleaning � Self-defence � Recycling � Singing sessions � Quiet Time/Reflection/Relaxation � Dance lessons � Church activity 17 X ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~~ ~~~~~~ Monthly X~~~~~~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~~ ~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~ Fortnightly ~~~~~~~ Monthly � Individual counselling � Visit to public library � Birthday celebrations � Cooking/baking � Visit to St Theresa’s Home � Budgeting/marketing � Bible study/values formation � Sessions with parents/relatives/ other stakeholders ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~~ ~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~ Ad-hoc/Seasonal/Projects ~~~~~~~~ � Sewing � Internship/part-time work � Projects with other Homes/charity groups � Home leave/Visits/Outings with parents/relatives/befrienders � Guitar/piano lessons � Kickboxing � Zumba � Dragon boating
G O O D S H E P H E R D C E N T R E Good Shepherd Centre (GSC) started out in 1986 as a refuge for women who faced difficulties after their time in prison and others who were battling drug addiction. Soon, there was outreach to abused women and single unwed mothers. Today, GSC provides a peaceful and safe sanctuary for women, local and foreign who have been abused, to work through their trauma and crisis. Through care and compassion these women experience healing and are empowered to tap on their inner strength and resources to rebuild their lives and plan a future for themselves and their children. Good Shepherd Centre served 117 residents in 2016; as at 31 December 2016, there were 34 residents under our shelter and care. P R O G R A M M E S Good Shepherd Centre supports its residents who are going through crisis and trauma to rebuild their lives through the following programmes and activities, run by its staff and/or with the help of volunteers. C OUNSELL ING & T HE R A P Y � Individual and group counselling � Trauma informed therapy � Music, art & sand play therapy 18 EDUCATION SUP P O RT � Tuition for children � Learning journeys SP IRITUAL SU P P O RT � Reflection time � Bible sharing for Christian residents � Prayer time & sharing during Ramadan � Other religious observation & celebrations LIFE & SOCIAL SKIL L S � Elementary English & Mandarin � Cooking, baking & desserts making � Sewing � Personal grooming � Flower arrangement PH YSICAL & R ECREATIO N � Outing to parks, cycling � Festive/cultural celebrations
T E ST I M O N I A L S F R O M R E S I D E N TS I was very sad and scared when I first came to the Centre. I often cried and wanted to go back home badly, but couldn’t because of my case. As the days went by I made friends with the other residents, and staff also taught me how to cook and encouraged me to attend various activities. I’m very happy that my cooking has improved. I also never thought I can bake such nice cookies. Juliana* 19 Foreign Domestic Worker Victim of abuse I’m very thankful that the centre gives me a place to stay after I decided to leave my violent husband. I had been living in fear under my husband’s bullying for many years… Now, I feel safe… I see hope once again. Mdm Felicia* Victim of family violence I don’t know why these bad things had to happen to me… I tried to forget them but sometimes it is really so hard… thanks to the staff and volunteers who had helped and supported me during the most trying times. Kavitha* Victim of human trafficking * Names have been changed to protect the identity of the residents.
T H E U L T I M A T E C O O K I N G C H A L L E N G E There was palpable excitement in the air as residents of Good Shepherd Centre got together to choose names for their teams. They were gearing up for The Ultimate Cooking Challenge 2016! Restaurant SPIMI, made up of residents from Sri Lanka, Philippines, Indonesia, Myanmar and India showed off their tenacity and cooking skills in Round One held on 01 June 2016. With only 2 weeks to familiarize themselves with recipes and prepare decorations, they wowed the audience with their creativeness, such as crafting roses from The third and final team consisted of residents who crepe paper. did not have experience participating in a cooking competition. They took the ubiquitous name, Good The atmosphere of friendly competitiveness was Shepherd Café. What they lacked in experience, evident as Hagar Restaurant strutted their culinary this gutsy team made up with careful planning and 20 and decorative skills in Round Two. It was poignant strategy. They searched the Internet for videos on that the team chose the name, Hagar who is how to make paper flowers and soon their initial described in the Bible as the Egyptian slave of anxiety melted into quiet confidence. It was amazing Sarah, given to Abraham and bore his first-born, for staff to watch this transformation, and bolstered Ishmael. When Sarah had her own son, Isaac, their own belief that with care and compassion, Hagar and Ishmael were sent away (Genesis these women will rise above their troubles to rebuild 21:8-21). Team Hagar went to great lengths to their lives with hope. design their menu, name tags, buy matching clothes and on the day, they decorated the tables Hagar Restaurant and Good Shepherd Café emerged with fresh flowers. The pride, smiles and joy on their as contenders in the finals held on 29 June 2016. faces belied the tremendous pain and problems Given 3 hours to whip up 7 dishes, including desserts they were struggling with in their personal lives. naturally sent every one of the 14 competitors into a frenzy. Nerves frayed and tears flowed here and there. However, when it was time to make their presentations to the friendly judges, it was all bright smiles even if a few competitors did not have time to do their hair and put on a spot of make-up. Team Hagar’s leader and another member were discharged to return to their home countries so they were left with only 5 and without a leader. A new leader was unanimously chosen and 2 new members joined the jittery team which did not have a common language. Guided by dedicated staff and encouraged by other residents, Team Hagar concentrated on their individual tasks while focused on their collective goal.
Being the final team in the preliminary rounds, Team Asked how their experience in the cooking challenge Good Shepherd Café had a shorter time to prepare may be useful to them in the future, Tania* said that for the finals. To add to their challenges, they had to with the budgeting and cooking skills she learnt, she prepare their food in a tighter space with a smaller would like to open a 30-50 seat restaurant in her stove. Their leader, who had survived horrific hometown serving Singapore fried rice, and tom yum violence, reminded her team that this was a friendly fried bee hoon among other yummy recipes she has competition; it was not about winning but teamwork picked up. Betty* said that she appreciated team- and having some fun. Sure enough, anxieties gave work more and would like to work in a clothing retail- way to laughter and respect, even when a nervous er back in her hometown. Mandy*, on the other hand, team member mistakenly threw away an essential stock. was grateful for the opportunity given her to lead a diversified team. She had never been to school, but The judges were very impressed by the teams’ is now conversant in English, thanks to regular creativeness and camaraderie. Good Shepherd lessons at Good Shepherd Centre. Mandy’s dream is Café was declared winner of The Ultimate Cooking to return to her hometown to work in a beauty salon Challenge 2016, which was made possible through so that her younger sisters would have an education the staff in partnership with supportive volunteers and break out of their poverty cycle. who contributed their time, money and their unwavering encouragement for the staff and residents. Through the competition some residents forged new friendships while others deepened existing ones. They discovered hidden talents, inner strengths and leadership qualities * Names have been changed to protect the identity of the residents. they were not aware of. It was truly an empowering 21 experience for everyone.
CA L E N DA R O F E V E N TS 1 � Visit by Good Shepherd Sisters of Angola � Chinese New Year celebration � Visit by Pro-Bono Services Office of the Law Society of Singapore January � Visit by MSF Social Service Office 2 � Chinese New Year celebration � Visit by staff of Mapletree � Karaoke at Changi Beach Club 3 5 February � Hand in Hand Greeting Card Project � Outing to Gardens by the Bay � Gardenia Bakery Tour � Outing to East Coast Park � Mother’s Day celebration 4 6 March May � Outing – Night Safari � Easter celebration � Bowling � Outing – River Safari � Basic Manicure April � The Ultimate Cooking Challenge June 7 22 � Pizza making � Hair band craft � Hari Raya celebration 9 � National Day celebration � Flower arrangement workshop July � Hydroponics Farm Tour at Oh’ Farms � Singapore Garden Festival 2016 � Carnival at Church of St Ignatius 8 � Art – portraits & self-expression September � Karaoke � Dance workshops � Health awareness programmes � Visit by Good Shepherd Sister’s 11 � Visit to Fairmont Hotel Congregational Leader August � Zumba � Budgeting skills workshop 10 � Volunteers Appreciation Night November � Dream Beyond Concert & visit to Merlion Park � Visit to Tai Hua Sauce Factory � Cycling & Barbeque at East Coast Park � Financial skills workshop � Deepavali celebration October 12 December � � � � Christmas party at Thomson Reuters Christmas celebrations Caroling New Year celebration
G O O D S H E P H E R D S T U D E N T C A R E Good Shepherd Student Care (GSSC) was set up in 1982 to serve children aged between 7 and 14 years old, in need of adult supervision beyond school hours and/or come from single-parent and low-income families. Good Shepherd Student Care provides a holistic and formative environment for the child’s development which aims to:- � Inculcate respect, love and tolerance in the child towards self and others � Build emotional resilience in the child to face future challenges � Instill self-acceptance and understanding towards oneself No. of children served in 2016: 141; as at 31 Dec 2016: 120 23
P R O G R A M M E S Good Shepherd Student Care engages the children through the following programmes and activities to support them in their academics, growth and development:- EM O TIONA L � Individual counselling � Group counselling � Art Therapy EDUCATIO N A L � Supervised study time � Enrichment classes for P1 & P2 � Current affairs assembly � Excursions and learning journeys SPIRITUAL � Spiritual & values formation � Cultural & religious celebrations 24 LIFE & SO CIAL SKI L L S � Character building & formation � Social interaction � Budgeting & grocery shopping � Baking & cooking � Grooming & social skills PHYSICAL & R EC R EAT I O N � Indoor & outdoor play � Singing � Speech & drama � Music & movement � Art & craft � Sports & teambuilding games � Movies STRENGTHENING FA M I LY T I ES � Home visits � Counselling for parents CO MMUNIT Y S E RV I CE � Recycling of waste � Community outreach
T E ST I M O N I A L S F R O M PA R E N TS I am grateful to the teachers in Good Shepherd Student Care, who are always positive, welcoming, caring and trustworthy. Through their feedbacks, I know more about my children, their stressors in school and I have forged better relationships with both of them. The teachers have been very supportive to me as a parent, for example the transition from kindergarten to primary school. Their advice was very valuable. My elder daughter is shy and quiet and was struggling with school work. Teachers of Good Shepherd Student Care patiently guided her and rewarded her for putting in effort to do better. This has made an unforgettable impression on her and she has been keeping up with her good work. From the good experience I had, I strongly recommended Good Shepherd Student Care to my sister who has also enrolled her daughter in the centre. Ms Rosa Lim Mother of 2 students, P1 & P3 25 I have two daughters who have been in student care for 4 and 5 years respectively. I am glad I chose to send them to Good Shepherd Student Care. Their meals after school and homework are taken care of. Each level being allocated a teacher to teach has been a good guide. The children are in good hands and safe. GSSC has a good track record and the premises are kept very clean. During holidays both girls refuse to take time away from activities like excursions and carnivals. In fact, my older child loves to cook more because of the holiday cooking lessons and made French toast at home! It was through an ex-colleague’s recommendation that I chose to send both girls to Marymount Convent as there is a student care. The staff give a lot of support to parents and I have not regretted sending the girls there. Ms Pamela Sandanasamy Mother of 2 students, P4 & P5
T E ST I M O N I A L S F R O M ST U D E N T S “ The daily study time is good because my teachers help me with my school homework.” Claire, P1 “ I like prayer time because I am given the opportunity to learn about God.” Drisana, P2 “ I have learnt to be disciplined in completing my homework and revising for my examinations.” Shillpa, P3 “ Care and Connect is full of fun. We can bond with our teach- 26 ers and friends by doing interesting activities together and expressing our concerns. It is the best way for everyone to play and learn together. ” Tara, P3 “ The adventure in Megazip, Sentosa made me brave as I overcame my fear of heights. I also learnt teamwork as I cooperated with my friends during the December Holiday Programmes.” Danita, P4 “ Good Shepherd Student Care is cool and awesome! The excursion to Sentosa last December Holiday was very fun. Initially I was afraid to attempt Megazip but my teachers encouraged me to be brave and I overcame my fear of heights. I will not be afraid of more adventures.” Ashley, P5 “ The food in Good Shepherd Student Care is very delicious. My favourites are Ee Fu Noodles, Spaghetti, Seaweed Soup and Minced Chicken Tofu. I cannot resist going for second helpings.” Xue Ping, P5
TESTIMONIALS FROM VOLUNTEERS Volunteering at GSSC had been a meaningful and extremely rewarding experience for me. Though it was physically tiring to go to GSSC after school to meet the children, the emotional reward was beyond my imagination. It was such an enjoyable experience, one that I would treasure for many years to come. Both staff and students were very accommodating and friendly, and this helped us connect with them better. Though the students became hyperactive at times, making it difficult to continue the activities, seeing them respond with such vigour gave us the motivation to continue, and make each session a success. Ultimately, I was very glad that our team managed to help them and bring happiness to them too. Clarice Low Hwa Chong Institution The three days we spent at GSSC were enjoyable and fulfilling. The opportunity to plan for and work with the children honed our skills and dispositions as educators, and also provided us with a deeper understanding and appreciation of what constitutes meaningful service learning. We were especially impressed with the 27 children’s creativity, such as in making beautiful bottled gardens, designing costumes using recycled materials, and devising innovative solutions for environmental problems. The experiences enabled us to understand children more, and in particular, to leverage on children’s interests in bringing about impactful learning. Most importantly, it was greatly satisfying to be able to bond with children at GSSC and see them enjoying themselves. It made our efforts worthwhile! Goh Si Hui National Institute of Education I volunteered at GSSC multiple times in December 2016. It was an extremely memorable experience, as I got the chance to plan and interact with the children. Throughout the sessions, I learnt how to be a better leader and to respect other’s opinions and ideas. Although it was not always easy handling and getting the attention of young children, it was still a good experience as I learnt more about patience and the value of teamwork. It was very comforting to see the children enjoying themselves while playing the games that we had planned. Au Jun Wen Nicole Singapore Polytechnic
Being an only child, I did not have a lot of experience in mixing with children younger than me. This experience in volunteering with GSSC really helped me to cultivate imperative skills such as discipline, responsibility and patience. When we played games with the children, getting them to respond to our instructions was sometimes difficult because there were so many of them, but over time, we learnt how to grab their attention and keep them interested. The kids were really an interesting bunch and most of them were quite lovely, often offering to share food with us and asking us questions. Overall, this experience was enriching and invaluable to my growth as a useful member of society, and it is one I will never forget. Erica Leong Singapore Polytechnic Through volunteering at GSSC, I have gained many insights that I could not have gained in school. It allowed me to better understand the needs of primary school students, enabling me to communicate and teach them more effectively. This is vastly different from the way I interact with older people, making the experience highly valuable and unique. It also taught me how to be more patient and I am deeply thankful that the students there are very approachable, friendly and receptive. 28 Rachael Chan Raffles Institution Volunteering at GSSC has been an enriching experience for me. The children there are friendly and lively, and I always look forward to tutoring them. Volunteering has taught me that social service is not merely providing service to others but to go the extra mile to understand who you are serving. It is the little things like getting to know the children and interacting with them that makes volunteering meaningful and enjoyable, and I am grateful for the experience. Seo Shin Tien Raffles Institution
O U R P O L I C I E S , F I N A N C I A L S A N D F U T U R E P L A N S REVIEW AND CHANGES IN THE POLICY Following the restructuring of Marymount Centre in 2015, UEN No. S84CC0054G was de-registered in May 2016. All assets and liabilities, as well as services were transferred to Marymount Centre Limited. By a special resolution Marymount Centre Limited changed its name to Marymount Centre on 30 November 2015. Marymount Centre, which manages the social services under Ahuva Good Shepherd, Ahuva Good Shepherd - Interim Placement and Assessment Centre, Good Shepherd Centre, and Good Shepherd Student Care, now operates under UEN No. 201402049Z . FINANCIALS E X PL A N AT IO N O F TH E PU RPO SES FOR WHIC H THE C HARIT Y ’ S ASSETS ARE H EL D The purpose of Marymount Centre’s assets is to ensure continuity of quality service delivery to the women and children that we are serving in the various Centres. STAT E M E N T OF ACCO U N TS 29 A full statement of accounts for the financial year that ended on 31 December 2016 is available on our website. FUTURE PLANS AND COMMITMENTS In 2016, Marymount Centre won a bid to operate a Pilot Small Group Care (PSGC) facility to provide mid-term professional small group care for girls aged 7 to 12 years with higher care needs. We strongly believe in filling in a service gap and leveraged on our wide experience of serving the girls in Ahuva Good Shepherd and Ahuva Good Shepherd - Interim Placement and Assessment Centre. PSGC is scheduled to receive girls from 01 June 2017; with its opening we are poised to provide a continuum of care in interim, mid-term and long-term placements. Our Mission to serve vulnerable and abused women and children is robustly shared by the Board of Directors and committed staff. Our purpose-built premises, up-to-date facilities and other resources ensure that the children will benefit considerably from their stay at Marymount Centre.
A C K N O W L E D G E M E N T “Gratitude is the Memory of the Heart” We are deeply thankful and grateful to all our donors, volunteers, friends and benefactors. Their unwavering support, commitment and contributions to our services throughout the year was instrumental in helping us reach out to the community and to meet the needs of our programme participants. We are grateful for the guidance and support from the Ministry of Social and Family Development. To our Board of Directors and members of our staff, we thank them for their dedication and support in ensuring quality care and high standards in the delivery of our services. 30
A C K N O W L E D G E M E N T VOLUNTEERS APPRECIATION NIGHT We have been very blessed to have dedicated volunteers who come alongside our staff to bring comfort, healing, growth and development to our residents in Ahuva Good Shepherd, Ahuva Good Shepherd - Interim Placement and Assessment Centre, Good Shepherd Centre and the students in Good Shepherd Student Care. Some volunteers and benefactors have been quietly helping us for several years, while others have joined us recently. Every year, we set aside one evening to honour and thank these generous people, our Mission Partners. On 26 November 2016, more than 100 guests turned up at Good Shepherd Place to attend Volunteers Appreciation Night, fondly referred by staff and residents simply as VAN. So who are our volunteers and benefactors? How and what do they contribute? In July, staff from Ahuva Good Shepherd and Good Rain or shine, tutors make their way to Ahuva Good Shepherd Centre formed a committee to plan and 31 Shepherd, most of them after a hard day’s work, to execute VAN. Besides an impressive array of help the children with their school work. They are home-cooked food, VAN always showcase a elated when the children make progress. Some of concert by the residents. The biggest challenge was the children under our care had not passed a single that some residents were discharged before VAN. test or examination in their entire school life. Stories New residents had to be quickly taught dance steps abound of how tears of joy flow when the children and songs, some of which in a language they had pass an exam for the first time or make it to never heard of. As the Homes are sited in different honour rolls. Successes, no matter how small are locations, residents had to practice separately and acknowledged and celebrated. Occasionally, the met only 3 times for combined rehearsals. child is rewarded with a small bar of chocolate or On-the-spot changes had to be made. Change, a stationery item. change, change. And why not? Counsellors, therapists, musicians, language and In a departure from past practice, the committee dance teachers give their professional services boldly decided to invite family members of volunteers willingly. Art and craft, baking, cooking, flower and parents of the children to VAN 2016. They arrangement, sewing and other life skills are crossed their fingers that the response would be patiently taught. Some volunteers prefer to help as good. As replies for attendance were tallied, they a group; they organize regular outings and events realized that they had to scrap their plans to provide for the enjoyment and relaxation of the children and entirely home cooked food. Caterers were called, women under our shelter and care. Some who are prices haggled and the menu was quickly settled. unable to commit to regular schedules volunteer to Then their attention was turned to making gifts for accompany residents to medical and other volunteers, get costumes for the concert, thank-you appointments on an ad hoc basis. As our services cards made and gift-bags sewn. As the date neared, expand in response to growing needs, we are excitement grew and everyone gave their best in grateful for such support from volunteers, as well spite of their personal challenges. as donations in cash and kind.
At the start of the evening, the spunky 10-year-old For the finale, the audience enthusiastically joined emcee cheerfully announced, “As a token of our the residents in singing “Our Father” before filing appreciation for your love and support, we have out to partake the sumptuous food, some lovingly organized this night specially for you.” Loud applause prepared by residents of Good Shepherd Centre. broke out as guests enjoyed one performance after Everyone mingled freely, and the buzz in the room another. An item, “Break The Chain” by residents of and corridor was music to the ears. Parents were Good Shepherd Centre demonstrated how, in the heard remarking on how they were surprised that process of learning the dance, they grew in self- their daughters were so talented. Volunteers beamed while they chatted with the residents, confidence, determination and the belief that they probably pleased that their effort made a difference had the power within them to break the chain of in someone else’s life. Residents, in their beautiful violence. Another notable performance was an costumes and lovely clothes, with great smiles Indian dance, “Nagada Sang Dhol” choreographed flitted from one place to another, serving food and and performed by six young girls from Ahuva Good drinks to volunteers. The mood was infectiously Shepherd. The dance was one of celebration to happy. As the crowd drifted away into the night express their joy and gratitude for the blessings in bidding fond farewells and calling out thanks to one their lives. Songs, Zumba and emotional sharing by another, staff and residents packed away leftover residents followed. The sincerity of the emcee oozed food, cleared and cleaned the premises. That night, through the mike as she thanked volunteers for every resident went to bed, very tired but with a planting seeds of love, peace and joy in the hearts of heart full of thanksgiving that her life had been the residents, and promised that they will take these touched by the kindness of a volunteer or benefactor values everywhere they go and make the volunteers who gave of his/her time and gifting without proud. Aww… expecting anything in return. 32
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